599: What Men + Women Really Think In Relationships + Dating with Aaron Doughty

Have you been asking yourself lately:

 

What the actual f* is going on in relationships right now?!

 

Because SAME.

 

So I brought back my soul bro, spiritual philosopher, and YouTube king himself—Aaron Doughty—to channel the masculine, while I spoke on behalf of you: The divine feminine, goddess-coded, shadow-integrating, boss babe who just wants a relationship that actually feels good.

 

And let me tell you… we WENT IN.

 

We talk about:

• The three levels of consciousness in dating + relationships (yes, David Deida style)

• The unconscious roles of victim, perpetrator, and rescuer—and how we’re all playing them

• Why you might be confusing love with a full-time healing project

• What to do if your partner isn’t growing with you

• How to stop being your partner’s coach and start being their equal

• And why some relationships are meant for love, joy, and family—not shadow work 24/7
  
  

We also get super real about the fantasy so many spiritual women are holding onto:

 

That someday, someone will come along who’s fully healed, fully conscious, and doesn’t trigger any part of your trauma…

 

Yeah. About that..

 

This episode is your permission slip to stop fixing, stop overanalyzing, and stop trying to spiritually engineer your soulmate into existence.

 

Because the tea is: maybe the healing is in letting go of the need to “do the work” for your partner—and finally trusting yourself to choose peace, clarity, and connection.

 

This one’s for the girlies who are tired of dating emotional projects, want actual polarity, and are ready to understand wtf is really going on between men and women right now—from a high-vibe, grounded, actually-helpful perspective.

 

Become a Certified Dharma Coach  here: https://highestselfinstitute.com/spring-2025

 

Connect with Aaron here: https://www.instagram.com/aarondoughty44/?hl=en

 

Discover Aaron’s youtube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC48MclMZIY_EaOQwatzCpvw

 

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Stream the Intro + Outro Music: Trust Flow by Sahara Rose ft. WillyNoir here and watch the music video here.

 

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