May 7, 2025 • 47 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:25):
Hey guys, coming to you from the strip Chat Excessive House.
I am Holly Randall and my guest today got her
start in the industry by camming, took some time away
to rediscover herself, and came back with a whole new energy.
She's now making waves as a top strip chat starlet
and as a Vixen contract model. Welcome Stripchat Ambassador Hope Heaven.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
Hi, I'm so happy to be here with you.
Speaker 4 (00:49):
I'm so happy to have you here.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
Thank you.
Speaker 4 (00:51):
You are so beautiful.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
I was kind of joking earlier that we're like we're
twinning like a little bit. You're in all black, I'm
in all pink, but like similar hair going, our old
theme going.
Speaker 4 (01:01):
I love it. Are you ready for the music party tonight?
Speaker 3 (01:04):
I'm still ready. I looking forward to it. Are you ready?
Speaker 2 (01:08):
I don't know if I'm ready to be honest, this
whole thing has been like a lot to plan and
I'm really glad with how amazingly well it's been going.
But I won't lie, it's been it's been a little
stressful as these events are to plan, but I'm really
happy with how it's been going. I feel like last night,
which you know, was our private dinner and our VIP
(01:30):
cocktail party, that was really nice. It was low key
and chill, but it was great. But tonight it's going
to be like the crazy night you know where it's
gonna be.
Speaker 4 (01:39):
This play is gonna be filled with people.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
But you know, I'm just the guest. I didn't plan anything,
so I can just enjoy everything.
Speaker 4 (01:45):
You can enjoy it.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
Yes, I will be walking around being like, don't touch
that art, don't smoke inside, don't burn cigarette holes in
the furniture.
Speaker 3 (01:53):
I will touch everything for you.
Speaker 4 (01:55):
Don't fall in the pool. That pool, oh my god,
it's like, yeah, someone's gonna fall in the pool tonight.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
That wouldn't be funny.
Speaker 4 (02:06):
Yeah, you know, well, as long.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
As I'll have towels on the side. Let's just put
it that way. Lots lots of towels, all right. So
let's start from the beginning. What got you interested in
getting into the adult industry.
Speaker 3 (02:19):
You know, I was traveling a lot, and I always
knew I want to travel and work, like I really
want to have this together or wanted and I saw
a YouTube video about all of this and it was like, hmm,
maybe I should try this. So because of a YouTube video,
I started all of this.
Speaker 4 (02:37):
Really really what was the YouTube video?
Speaker 3 (02:39):
It was like a German one okay, like a porn
star and they also they did just uploaded videos, and
I was like, I will try this. And then after
I just got into camming and all of this. But
the first I just uploaded videos.
Speaker 4 (02:52):
Where are you from?
Speaker 3 (02:52):
I'm from Germany?
Speaker 2 (02:53):
You are from Germany? Okay, so that makes sense. And
so what was the first like adult thing that you did?
The first adult like, what was the first you know,
when you first put your toe in the water?
Speaker 3 (03:05):
You know?
Speaker 4 (03:05):
Actually it was my.
Speaker 5 (03:06):
Toe because oh really yeah literally, yeah really because I
saw a video how to start best, and everyone told
me start with foot content for real, and it was like, okay,
I'm not into foot things, but when this is the
thing that is running.
Speaker 4 (03:23):
I should try it. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:24):
It was horrible. It was horrible. It's not my thing,
you know, so I was just like.
Speaker 4 (03:30):
It was weird. Yeah yeah, but when I.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
Started after this, it got my thing and I liked it.
Speaker 4 (03:36):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
The first toe thing, first dipping your toe, that was
not so good.
Speaker 4 (03:43):
Okay, and then so where did you go from there?
Speaker 2 (03:45):
Like, tell me a little bit about how your adult
career like evolved.
Speaker 3 (03:50):
So I started with the videos, and I started just
on one platform where I could sell videos and pictures.
And at some point after a few months, I realized,
oh wow, I can also stream there, and so I
took the opportunity and started to stream.
Speaker 4 (04:06):
There as well. And I was so nervous. It was.
Speaker 3 (04:10):
I had like a mask on back then, so no
one could see my face. I would rarely talk there
because I was so afraid. And when somebody asked me something,
I wrote it because I don't wanted to talk. And
it took me a few months to get comfortable with
my voice to talk. And I think after a few years,
I bent my mask and I showed my face. It
(04:30):
was the best decision I was I made.
Speaker 4 (04:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
Did you find that your career really started to skyrocket
after you took your mask off?
Speaker 3 (04:38):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (04:38):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (04:38):
And the reason I took my mask off was because
I showed a video a blowjob, and it was planned
that we cut it till here, but this video was
so good, so it was like, okay, we can't cut it.
Speaker 4 (04:54):
We need to.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
Post this like like with my face. Yeah, this was
the moment where I decided to show you.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
Were like, this blowjob video is too good. Everybody the
world needs to see it. I can't hide my face anymore.
This is the moment exactly, the world needs to see
my face.
Speaker 3 (05:09):
It was such a good video.
Speaker 4 (05:10):
Then have you done better blowjob videos since then? Yes?
Speaker 3 (05:15):
It was like my beginning in the first few months
or right, yeah.
Speaker 4 (05:19):
Where I feel like people who are watching this are
gonna be very curious about this blowjob video that literally
changed the trajectory of your career. So where can they
find this blowjob video? It's actually on.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
My only fens Okay, My only fence is the Hope Heaven.
So someone is interested in that video.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
Okay, so they need to go to your only fans
and DM you and ask you for the video that
changed your life exactly.
Speaker 4 (05:41):
Okay, got it? Got it?
Speaker 2 (05:43):
So tell me a little bit about camming. What was
your first cam show?
Speaker 1 (05:46):
Like?
Speaker 3 (05:46):
So, my first camshow was like with the mask and everything.
I was just on my at my kids room, at
my desk and was just sitting there and I did
nothing That's special because I didn't know anything about about it.
So the people were just like asking, yeah, show these
and bed and I was like okay, okay, you know.
And then from time to time I got more comfortable
(06:10):
or not, because at one time I quit everything because
I wasn't feeling good because this platform was just the
people there there was not understanding me.
Speaker 4 (06:21):
They will they.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
Always wanted more and more and more, and I was
so I don't want to say shy, but the people
just they asked and I did it, and that break me. Yeah,
I stopped and.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
They were pushing your boundaries, making you were doing things
you felt uncomfortable with, and it made you feel not
good about what you were doing. Yeah, and so then
you quit and you stopped shooting for a while.
Speaker 3 (06:45):
Yes, I stopped everything, Like I thought, that's my ending
in the adult industry, even when I when I was
not really inside it was just like my little camming thing.
But it was so hard that I really thought I stopped.
And I think I was off for around six months,
okay more or less. And in that time I traveled
(07:06):
and I explored the world and was like, okay, what
do I do with my life? Like what do I want?
What I really want? And then yeah, I just covered
that the adult industry is nice and is something for me.
But I just need to grow more confidence and know
where to stop and know that I need to tell
the people where my limits are.
Speaker 4 (07:27):
Yeah, even when it hurts sometimes.
Speaker 2 (07:30):
Right, what was it about the adult industry that made
it feel like it was the right move for you?
Speaker 3 (07:35):
Like?
Speaker 4 (07:35):
What did you miss about it in those six months?
Speaker 3 (07:38):
So first I was thinking about what could I do else?
And nothing ever fits, you know, what I would study
or what other job? And I love to be in
front of the camera. And it just makes sense. You know,
I love sex and to be in front of the camera.
It just makes sense to be in the adult industry.
And the people are so nice everyone, you know, it's
(07:59):
just like family. Even we met like yesterday and it
feels so familiar to ya.
Speaker 4 (08:06):
It was like the reason I think.
Speaker 2 (08:08):
Yeah, so what makes you choose strip chat over other campsites?
Speaker 3 (08:13):
Like I said, I was on another side before and
after my break, so it was really good. I was
on the first place there. After my break, my score
was so bad that no one came. So after I
came back from my break, I was like, I think
I will stop again because I don't make any money
(08:35):
because you know, everything was so bad. And then I
changed the side to strip chat and it was just
so different. Someone told me, yeah, you have so many viewers,
because back then on the side you just have ten
or something and you maybe have I don't know, a
thousand years. And it was like, oh my god, for real,
thousand people are watching me. So it was such a
(08:57):
weird feeling, but I got used to it and I
love it. It's just the energy and the people and
they're so kind, you know, I love it.
Speaker 2 (09:07):
Yeah, So how many viewers were you averaging on the
other camps? I I mean, if you were coming to
strip chat and you were getting a thousand viewers there,
what were you getting at the other one?
Speaker 3 (09:15):
And the other one it was like they needed to
pay per minute, And that's the concept I don't like
because then someone is like, hey, please do analo or something.
Speaker 4 (09:25):
Yeah I know, and like now and they're like crushing you, yes.
Speaker 3 (09:28):
And do it now, do it now? And okay, okay,
okay stop. And this was also the reason why I
stopped right and on strip chat. At the beginning, I
had like one thousand, and now I have like the
highest thing I ever had was twelve thousand people inside there,
and it's crazy if you just think about how many
people you were in a room or something.
Speaker 4 (09:49):
Yeah, it's crazy. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:51):
What kind of things were outside of your comfort zone
that people were like pushing you to do? And like,
how are you setting boundaries now?
Speaker 3 (09:59):
The people on the other side, they were a strange
They had like I don't know, they wanted to see
such weird things. And on the first place, everyone wanted
to see annals and I don't like it. So I
was forced to do it because I was feeling bad
to say no because they were pairing per minute, right,
(10:20):
and also some weird things like put the dildo in
your mouth and close it then, or just I know,
weird things you know that no one would ever do,
And I felt I need to do this because otherwise
I will lose them.
Speaker 4 (10:34):
Do you feel more comfortable setting boundaries now?
Speaker 3 (10:37):
Yes, way more comfortable, and you.
Speaker 4 (10:39):
Don't feel like people are really like pushing you so much.
Speaker 3 (10:42):
They are trying. But now, I mean, I'm in this
industry for three or four years now, and now I
exactly know what I want and what I don't want.
So I'm telling them, okay, if you don't like me,
and if you're not fine with what I do or
what I don't do.
Speaker 2 (10:57):
Go Do you wish that you had waited, if you
more years to get into the industry or are you
glad that, like you had that earlier experience to like
figure out like what you wanted.
Speaker 3 (11:08):
So I think I think I'm happy to do it
such early because now also in my private life, I
feel more comfortable and like I'm older than I am inside,
you know what I mean. So pushed me in a
right away. Yeah, I grow from it. Yeah, so it
(11:29):
was the right choice.
Speaker 4 (11:30):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (11:31):
I think when I have stopped there, it would be
the bad choice, you know, Yeah, because then I would
be naked on the internet. Maybe I had a normal
job and that it's just not so nice.
Speaker 4 (11:41):
But I'm here.
Speaker 2 (11:42):
And what advice would you give to girls who want
to get into porn, like, considering the experiences that you've
had and what you've been through.
Speaker 3 (11:49):
I would say, it's a nice job, but you need
to be fine with what you do, because I think
we all know when you show yourself on the internet,
they will stay forever.
Speaker 4 (12:02):
Yeah, So if.
Speaker 3 (12:03):
You want to do after a normal job or even
a manager job of something, you will be naked in
the internet forever.
Speaker 4 (12:11):
So I don't know.
Speaker 3 (12:13):
You really need to think about is that fine for
you or not? And if not, never do it. But
if that's okay, then I would go for it or
even try.
Speaker 2 (12:24):
Did you think about it a lot before you got
into porn the first time or did you kind of
just jump into it?
Speaker 3 (12:28):
No? I thought about a lot, And that was the
reason why I were in the mosque because a lot
of my you know, old friends or family or whatever.
I didn't want that they recognize me. But now it's okay.
Now my family knows what I do, my friends know
what I do, and if someone has a problem for
my past life, that's okay. I mean, they don't need
(12:49):
to like me.
Speaker 2 (12:50):
Are your family like you have a good relationship with
your family now and they're accepting of what you do.
Speaker 4 (12:54):
Yeah, right, that's good. That's really important. That's not the
case for everybody.
Speaker 2 (12:58):
So sadly, So you transitioned to shooting studio porn, which
not every girl who cams does. So tell us about that,
like why you decided to do that and what that
first scene was like.
Speaker 3 (13:10):
So I also do a private porn scene with my boyfriend,
and so I know, like a little bit, but of
course a proborn is just different. And I was really
excited to shoot it. The producer was really kind, so
she was telling everyone, okay, please go, just like the
(13:31):
important people stay and that was so helpful, So I
really was. It was just fun.
Speaker 2 (13:38):
You know, did it help it? Have you said that
a producer was a woman? Sounds like did it help
you think that the producer was a woman that it
makes you feel more comfortable?
Speaker 4 (13:45):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (13:46):
Also the team it was like half man half woman,
And I think it's better than just like everyone is
a man, you know, I feel comfortable more comfortable around
also with women. Of course men also I don't have
a problem, but yeah, when there's at least one woman,
I feel like, yeah.
Speaker 4 (14:02):
It's good to have that diversity. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (14:04):
Yeah, you became a Vixen model last year, So how
was that. Tell me a little bit about your experience
shooting for Vixen, maybe your first time, and just a
little bit about what it's like to work with that brand.
Speaker 3 (14:17):
The brand is actually so nice. The people there are
so kind and they just care about you so good.
You just feel also like a family there, you know,
everyone is there's just so kind, so the experience.
Speaker 4 (14:29):
I loved it.
Speaker 3 (14:30):
And also the other models, the male and female models,
they are just I was new and everyone else know
each other. But I felt like I feel like being
a family. Everyone just tucked me and it was such
a nice feeling. And also to shoot with them, it
was not bad or I heard many bad things about
pro born, many many things, but so it was a
(14:54):
little afraid to try it, but at the end nothing
was true.
Speaker 2 (14:59):
So and then how is that affected your career like
being a Vixen model.
Speaker 3 (15:04):
It affected me in a very very good way because
now I'm like more into this broke worn thing and
more into the American market. And I think it was
a really good decision and I don't regret.
Speaker 4 (15:16):
It at all.
Speaker 2 (15:17):
So if someone was to go and check out some
of your scenes from Vixen, where should they go?
Speaker 4 (15:23):
Like?
Speaker 2 (15:23):
What would you What do you think is the best
scene that you've done for Vixen? That's your favorite?
Speaker 3 (15:28):
My favorite? I think it was the blecked with a
Jason Looth.
Speaker 4 (15:34):
I think that's awesome. I got to oil him up
for a shoot once.
Speaker 3 (15:38):
That must be a dream.
Speaker 4 (15:41):
I shot him from mini VIDs like a long time ago,
and I get to put oil on him. He has
a very nice body. Yeah, and he's also so kind.
He's so nice. It's funny though. I brought it up
to him at Avon on the red carpet and he
like didn't remember it. I was gruy. He was like,
you did, and I was like, oh my god, you
don't remember. It's the pilot of my life. You know,
(16:02):
I don't forgive you. Jason. You need to do that again,
I know, and this time I'll make him remember. Yeah,
I'm gonna oil that boy up.
Speaker 3 (16:10):
Everything the best part. You don't need to get the
best part right.
Speaker 2 (16:16):
So okay, So it was a black scene with Jason
Love tell us a little bit about the scene.
Speaker 3 (16:21):
So it was a scene in the Alps, and it
was just I met him there the first time and
it was just like such a nice connection. And also
like it was it was real, you know, it was
not acted or something. It was just real pleasure and
(16:41):
I don't know, it was just nice. I really enjoyed
everything of it, and also how he acted how like, yeah,
the whole connection and also the team. You know, when
something is not working or even when it's working, they're
so I don't know, everything is just working so good.
Speaker 4 (16:59):
I didn't yeah, you know, yeah, just everything like worked
out that day. All the stars aligned, yeah, so smoothly. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (17:06):
What's your favorite kind of scene to shoot? Like solo
girl girl, boy girl, boy boy girl, orgy like.
Speaker 3 (17:13):
I think boy girl because I think it's like I
would not say the easiest, but I love to do
something nice two men and to film that with two girls, of.
Speaker 4 (17:25):
Course it's nice.
Speaker 3 (17:26):
Or threes like with two boys, everything is nice, but
to be alone with.
Speaker 4 (17:31):
One man it's the nicest, I think, Yeah, more intimate.
Speaker 3 (17:35):
Yeah, you can concentrate on each other instead of you know.
Speaker 4 (17:40):
Yeah, favorite position with a guy I would go for writing,
for writing you on top, I'm on top? Oh wow,
So you like to work? I like that.
Speaker 2 (17:53):
I like to lay on my back. That's also nice,
like go to town. I don't lay her and not
do anything, but you like to put the work.
Speaker 3 (18:01):
Out, Yeah, because you know, I love when guys play
with my boobs.
Speaker 4 (18:06):
That's such a zone for me.
Speaker 3 (18:10):
And when I'm on top and I see how that
makes him horny, that makes me crazy. Yeah, so I
really really love that.
Speaker 2 (18:18):
What is the one thing that a guy can do
to like get you going? Like how does a guy
get you turned on when it comes to foreplay?
Speaker 1 (18:27):
Mm?
Speaker 3 (18:28):
I like these little things. I'm I'm really like a
cuddled person. Of course I like heart sex also, but
those really musculine things, you know, when I just he
don't need to do anything, he just needs to lay
next to me, show his muscles and just lay like
this and I'm looking at him and see his muscles
and maybe tough.
Speaker 4 (18:48):
Oh wow. So it's really just a visual thing for you.
Speaker 3 (18:51):
I am like totally into muscles and it.
Speaker 4 (18:55):
Just drives me crazy. Interesting, what's with you? Hmmm?
Speaker 2 (19:01):
Actually, so the back of my neck and like my
ears in the back of my shoulders, that's my erogenous
now to lick them, yeah, Like if you kiss me
and like lick me back like I just like that
just tend shivers down my spine.
Speaker 4 (19:12):
I can't so for light or know what I should do. Yes, exactly,
now you know? Now you know. Let's actually, let's I'm
gonna ask you one question that that men are always asking.
Penis size. Is it important?
Speaker 3 (19:28):
You know for many girls it is important, but I
would go for it. It's not that important because I'm
like a man can't choose how big histic is as
well as we can't choose how big our boots are, right, well,
and we kind of can, yeah, we can, but racturally yes,
And I think everyone like if he If someone has
(19:52):
a big dick, it's nice, but sometimes I don't know
what it's with you, but sometimes it's hurt myself. Yeah,
So I can't really relax. So this cliche that must
be so big, it's nice. And also for a scene,
for example, it's just so hot, but to have it private,
(20:13):
I can't relax because I'm always so afraid that it's
gonna hurt.
Speaker 4 (20:16):
So right, So I like this average dicks.
Speaker 3 (20:20):
And also if someone has a small lick, I would
not say, like it depends how small, but if it's
like normal small, I would say that's not a bad
thing when you know the technique. Well, okay, if a
man doesn't matter the size, can't bring a woman to come,
that's bad.
Speaker 4 (20:39):
Okay, all right, see you guys, there's hope for you.
All right.
Speaker 2 (20:46):
So it's twenty twenty five now, kind of, you know,
sort of early ish in the year.
Speaker 4 (20:54):
Any big plans for twenty twenty five. I have some
big plans, but I don't want to tell them though, Okay.
Speaker 2 (21:01):
I'm like, are you like one of those things can't
tell what your wishes and then it won't come true.
Speaker 3 (21:05):
I have, Yeah, I have the feeling that when you
tell people something, it will not going to happen. I
don't know, it's just not gonna happen. So I want
to I don't want to tell something and at the
end it's like, oh my.
Speaker 4 (21:17):
God, you did it. Yeah, yeah, I know, I hear you.
Speaker 3 (21:20):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (21:20):
Sometimes it's better to just like wait until the thing
is done and then everybody will be amazed by your
progress rather than sitting around and telling people what you're
gonna do and then.
Speaker 4 (21:30):
It doesn't happen. Yeah exactly, I know exactly what you mean.
Speaker 3 (21:33):
But I don't want to stop this, so I will
just I want to continue and do more and more
and more.
Speaker 2 (21:40):
What are you like your biggest goals? Like, what's your
what's like the one thing that you really want to
achieve in the adult industry.
Speaker 3 (21:46):
So I'm a chem girl and I do poor and
at all of this, but my also biggest dream is
to model. And it doesn't matter for magazines or also
in the adult industry, but also for no things are
for one way or something you know, that's just such
a big dream.
Speaker 4 (22:05):
Yeah. When I was a little so so like some
kind of like magazine like print work like that kind
of thing. Yeah, yeah, okay, I hear you. I know
that's kind of like a dying art.
Speaker 2 (22:14):
I started as a photographer and all I did was
magazine shooting, you know, and it's just like something that
there's not a lot of it anymore.
Speaker 4 (22:21):
Yeah, which is why we came out with Excessive Magazine
because I think it's such a good idea.
Speaker 3 (22:25):
I saw it and it's so nice.
Speaker 4 (22:27):
Thank you, thank you.
Speaker 2 (22:28):
Yeah, no, we it's it's really fun to do so well, Hope,
thank you so much for joining us. It's such a pleasure.
I look forward to hanging out some more at the
party tonight. Can you tell everybody where they can find
you online? Your strip chat user name, all all the
all the good things.
Speaker 3 (22:46):
Of course. My Instagram name is the Hope Heaven, also
my X name and my only fan's name, and on
strip chat Hope Heaven.
Speaker 4 (22:55):
All right, guys, that was Hope Heaven.
Speaker 2 (22:57):
Now you are going to meet our next girl for
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Speaker 4 (24:40):
I have Love Lily.
Speaker 2 (24:41):
She's been camping for almost four years and is one
of strip Chat's top cam models.
Speaker 4 (24:47):
Hi Lily, how you doing today?
Speaker 6 (24:48):
Hi Holly, I'm doing absolutely fantastic. I'm super excited to
talk with you.
Speaker 2 (24:53):
Have you been having fun here at Excessive House? Absolutely?
Speaker 6 (24:57):
Honestly, I have never experienced some thing is exciting and
professional like this, so it's been amazing.
Speaker 4 (25:05):
Oh good, I'm so glad to hear that.
Speaker 2 (25:06):
Well, we have the big music party tonight, so hey,
this place is going to be filled with people one
hundred bucks.
Speaker 4 (25:13):
Someone's going to fall in the pool. Let's hope it's
not you.
Speaker 6 (25:16):
I almost did already. Yeah, I understand.
Speaker 4 (25:20):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (25:20):
All I was say is heels, stay away from the
edge of that pool.
Speaker 4 (25:24):
Absolutely, maybe free spend most of your time indoors. That
sounds like a game.
Speaker 2 (25:29):
But yeah, I got to say like that pool makes
me so nervous. I'm gonna have a lot of towels
on standby and a eagle eye on that pool. Sounds
like a good idea, but it should be fun. So
let's talk about you. Let's start at the beginning. How
did you first get into camming?
Speaker 6 (25:45):
So, actually, I had a really good friend. She was
already a cam model, and as a twenty first birthday
special stream, she really wanted to bring a girl with her,
you know, got the audience excited, wanted to do a
huge birthday bash, and she asked me if I was
up for it, and I was really reluctant at first.
(26:10):
You know, I had never like, you know, gotten undressed
in front of a camera, in front of a live audience.
I didn't know what to expect. But I was like,
you know what, let's do it. You know, get some cash,
have some fun. It's a new experience, so why not
joined her and decided to do a show of my
own afterwards, and it's been going on ever since.
Speaker 2 (26:32):
No, she must have already thought you were a pretty
adventurous girl to even ask you in the first place.
Speaker 6 (26:37):
Right, Yeah, I mean, yes, of course, I've always been
kind of like the outgoing type, very talkative. And I
was even told, like right when I had gotten on stream,
like you seem like you're kind of meant for this,
you know, like you're unnatural.
Speaker 4 (26:51):
Is really nice.
Speaker 2 (26:53):
So after that session you decided, Okay, I'm going to
give this a shot. So tell me about what like
your next session was like solo.
Speaker 6 (27:01):
So at the time, I was actually doing like part
time job, part time cam model. I would get off
of work and I was like, you know what this
is it, I'm going to try it. I'm going to
go all in literally quit my job that day, went home,
got ready, got dressed up, and it was awesome. It
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was like a giant party.
Speaker 4 (27:23):
Wow. So what does a typical cam day look like
for you? So honestly this is why, like I have
the best job ever.
Speaker 6 (27:33):
You know. I wake up, I work out, put on
a cute little outfit, sexy lingerie, get my phone out,
my laptop out, turn it on, and I go live.
What's it do that for a few hours, get offline,
eat dinner, watch a movie, go to bed.
Speaker 4 (27:49):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (27:50):
Yeah, Now we all have our off days, right, we
have the days that like we just I don't know,
we don't want to talk to people we would like,
you know, get under the covers and cry all day
in bed. I don't know, maybe that's just me, But
what do you do on days like that? Do you
like not log in? Do you just suck it up
and get online? Like how do you handle the days
when you just like don't feel not feeling like it?
Speaker 4 (28:11):
That's the thing.
Speaker 6 (28:12):
It's essential to have like a really good attitude when
you go live to an audience because you want them
to have the best experience just like you. So yeah,
I mean, like, if I'm not feeling it, messy bun
sweats on, put the saffy movie up on TV, I
watch a good movie, watch a comfort show, and snuggle
up under the covers or on the couch and I
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just chill all day.
Speaker 4 (28:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (28:35):
So you don't have like a particular set schedule where
you like have to go online, Like do you have
to like set an update and be like, hey, guys,
not feeling it today or feeling sick or like can
you just be like just not log in that day?
Speaker 6 (28:49):
Consistency is important in order to keep your like audience engaged.
You know, I actually like miss the guys when I'm
not online. So Yeah, I always want to give them
an update, like, hey, you know what, probably not going
to be online on Friday, you know, going.
Speaker 4 (29:04):
To take a day off mental health day.
Speaker 2 (29:06):
Yeah, it sounds to too that, like and from the
other girls that I've talked to that you you know,
you get a lot of like positive reinforcement on camp
and that you know, you you build these personal connections
with your fans, So it almost sounds like too, like
going on cam might even be like a positive mood
boost for you.
Speaker 6 (29:24):
Yeah, it's almost like hanging out with my friends. Yeah,
it's really awesome.
Speaker 4 (29:28):
That's great.
Speaker 2 (29:30):
What is some of the like the most meaningful things
that fans have done for you?
Speaker 6 (29:34):
Got to go with the classics, you know, making their
username like that they're my biggest fan, or you know,
updating their profile to show that like I basically own them.
They're like, you know, love Lily is my main girl,
so that no other cam models like you know, message
them or anything like that.
Speaker 4 (29:52):
But also just like.
Speaker 6 (29:56):
You know, they they kind of understand what it takes
for me to take the day off, and they'll be like,
you know what, you deserve the day off.
Speaker 4 (30:02):
Here's a big tip there.
Speaker 6 (30:05):
You go take care of yourself for the day, buy
yourself dinner tonight, you know. And it's stuff like that
where it's just like it goes beyond. It's not transactional,
you know, it's really a relationship you built with these people.
Speaker 4 (30:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (30:16):
Now I can tell talking from you that you like
have a business acumen. Like it's just like it's coming
across pretty pretty easily.
Speaker 4 (30:24):
Yes, And you view it seems that you.
Speaker 2 (30:27):
Viewed camming like as a sales job, right, But does
that take the pleasure out of it or like how
do you balance you know, being it being a business
but also like you know, having it those personal relationships
you know, like yeah, balancing that.
Speaker 4 (30:43):
Connection with the fans, but not also.
Speaker 6 (30:45):
Like just it's never transactional. Yeah, it's never transactional.
Speaker 4 (30:49):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (30:50):
I take pride and being able to find out what
somebody's desires are. Somebody is dream fantasy, you know. I
always tell them, you know, like this is your show
when we're together, I want your dreams to come true,
and I want to make those dreams come true.
Speaker 4 (31:08):
And it's not just you know.
Speaker 6 (31:12):
It's it's almost like exchanging emotional labor between each other,
you know, And so it's it's a give and take.
There's a balance. It's never like one side takes all.
I always want to leave each experience with you know,
a user just as a positive one when where they
you know, want to come back and they want to
be comfortable with me. What would you say your brand
(31:34):
is probably girl next door, Girlfriend experienced definitely. You know,
I love the glamour and I love you know, the glitter,
But I'm never somebody that's unapproachable.
Speaker 4 (31:49):
Definitely attainable.
Speaker 6 (31:51):
And yeah, you know you whatever you put in, you know,
I give you.
Speaker 2 (31:57):
Do you ever find yourself like I mean, I know
that people think that you know, camming being on only
fans or like any of this, you know, kind of
like online sex work stuff is just all about the sex,
and but I find that a lot of it is
you know, this intimate, these intimate conversations, this connection like
(32:18):
you talked about. Do you ever sometimes find that like
you've become almost someone's therapist.
Speaker 4 (32:23):
It's definitely therapeutic.
Speaker 6 (32:24):
It's even therapeutic for me, Yeah, because you know, you
find out everybody comes from a different walk of life,
and you find out what their story is.
Speaker 4 (32:34):
Sometimes you connect to that on.
Speaker 6 (32:35):
A personal level with them, and yeah, It's definitely therapeutic.
And I want them to feel like they can be
honest with themselves because I do respect them.
Speaker 2 (32:46):
Do you have any favorite fans who like, just have
great stories or just like support you so much, maybe
you want to give them like a little shout out.
Speaker 6 (32:52):
Absolutely, I definitely am all for the like Age is
just a number one of my long guest customers. He's
actually he's seventy six years old.
Speaker 4 (33:05):
Oh wow.
Speaker 6 (33:06):
And you think somebody like that, you know, doesn't know
how to use a computer, They definitely do. And yeah,
you know what, like, just because they come from a
different period of time doesn't mean that you can't connect
with them, you know, emotionally and you can't find something
that you have in common. So yeah, that's definitely really
(33:26):
special to me.
Speaker 2 (33:27):
What do you think are the most important qualities to
be successful as a cam girl?
Speaker 6 (33:31):
Positive attitude, grit, consistency. Honestly, you know, it has to
be something that you enjoy, something that you take pride in,
and something that you can see yourself doing for a
long time.
Speaker 2 (33:47):
What's your favorite thing about camming on strip chat versus
other platforms?
Speaker 6 (33:51):
The interface interface is unmatched, you know for the users
for the models on there.
Speaker 4 (33:57):
It's easy to use.
Speaker 6 (33:59):
And there's just so many different options to browse from.
There's so many models online, you know, I think users
definitely get their pick at the litter.
Speaker 4 (34:10):
What was your longest private session with someone?
Speaker 6 (34:14):
Longest private session as a video call with sixteen hours? What?
Speaker 4 (34:19):
Sixteen hours? Yeah?
Speaker 6 (34:20):
Wow, I know it's take naps during that at all,
I know, you know it really it really just felt
like hanging out with somebody. You know, it wasn't sexual
at all. It was somebody that I had kind of
done like an hour here, an hour there private sessions
with and then we just went all in. We just
basically spent the night and the day together and you know,
(34:45):
ordered food while we were together. We watched a movie
and we just talked.
Speaker 4 (34:50):
It was amazing. Yah. Was that planned or was it
not planned? Oh my god?
Speaker 6 (34:56):
It just kind of the ball just kept rolling. He
was like, you know what, let's have a drink together.
I'm like, yeah, I've got a bottle here, all right,
let's share a drink. And I'm like, you know, I'm
feeling kind of hungry. He's like, here's a tip, go
ahead and door dash yourself something, you know. Yeah, and
I'm like, all right, like, help me order something. We
talk about our favorite movies. It's like, oh, you know,
(35:17):
let's stream that right now, let's watch it together. Would
you watch We watched you know, the movie Her Yes,
Big John, Yes, which is a little like ironic, Yeah, ironic.
So it was it was really awesome and it's it's
like almost like a two hour long movie.
Speaker 4 (35:33):
Yeah, so like it was. It was easy. Yeah, and
it's one of my favorites. Yeah, it's an incredible movie. Yeah,
that's so funny. Whose idea was it to watch that movie?
It's mine, it was yours. I bet you guys probably
had a lot to talk about it after you watched that.
Speaker 1 (35:46):
Oh.
Speaker 2 (35:47):
Absolutely, that's a very like yeah, I mean that's a
trauma yeah, and that's a conversation like starter kind of movie.
Speaker 4 (35:53):
Yeah, for sure.
Speaker 2 (35:54):
You've also said that you've had a lot of calls
with women, Oh yeah, for them to explore themselves sexually
for the first time.
Speaker 4 (36:01):
What's your process for that kind of call.
Speaker 6 (36:03):
Well, it's kind of the same as any other you know, definitely,
first and foremost, I want to make sure they're comfortable.
Just kind of started as a casual conversation. No, pressure situation.
I'm always like extremely surprised. Usually I've noticed like women
(36:24):
they kind of keep it as a secret. I think
they kind of like indulge in the fact, but I'm
surprised that it's you know, a woman and not a man.
And yeah, just kind of like ask them questions about themselves,
and eventually the conversation always leads into you know, like, well,
you know what brings you here with me? You know,
why did you choose me? And it makes me feel
(36:45):
really good knowing that they kind of see me as
somebody that's approachable like that, because you know, not every
woman is comfortable with their sexuality that way.
Speaker 2 (36:53):
Have you found that a lot of them are like women,
they're exploring that side of their sexuality. Absolutely, I haven't
really like taken that step there, and they're just feeling
it out. And like online camming feels like a safe
space to do it.
Speaker 6 (37:06):
Yes, because you know, they they don't have to talk
to somebody in real life. They get to talk to
somebody you know, within a screen and just makes everything
much more like easy going. And definitely, yeah, it's about
exploring their sexuality. You know, it's like they kind of
have a crush on me, and I'm like I kind
of have a crush on you too.
Speaker 2 (37:26):
Yeah. What's the most money you've ever made from a customer?
Speaker 6 (37:29):
So in total in like a three month period, like
around eighty thousand dollars?
Speaker 4 (37:37):
Wow?
Speaker 6 (37:38):
Yeah, in like a twenty four hour period as a record,
it was a little bit over ten k my share Wow.
Speaker 4 (37:45):
Amazing, Yeah, it was. It's pretty insane. That's pretty great. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (37:50):
They have you ever had like any big extravagant gift
spot for you by fans?
Speaker 6 (37:54):
Yeah, so you know the whole like Amazon wish list,
thrown wish list, you know, you kind of have those
guys that they want to make a statement. So they're
like it's all done, it's all gonna be sent to
you everything off your list, and you're.
Speaker 4 (38:07):
Like yeah, and they love that. I do have one
fan he like comes and goes.
Speaker 2 (38:14):
I call him like a tipping ninja, this guy Tommy,
and he'll just come and he'll just like tip a
B and he literally does it just to like beat
everybody else.
Speaker 4 (38:23):
Yeah, it's like it's competitive, but yeah, it's competitive.
Speaker 2 (38:26):
He's like I'm just gonna tip more than everyone else.
And then like he doesn't even want anything and then
he like disappears.
Speaker 4 (38:30):
I'm like, okay, truly, that's how they win your heart.
Speaker 2 (38:32):
I'm like thanks to yeah, but I'm like, can I
send you something? And then like I don't hear from
him for like two months.
Speaker 4 (38:38):
He's like, I just wanted to make your day. Yeah,
and I was like, thank you. That really did.
Speaker 2 (38:42):
Do you have any interest in ever doing like studio
porn or anything like that.
Speaker 4 (38:45):
Are you like comfortable staying with the camming?
Speaker 6 (38:47):
Honestly, I love just being a cam model, and it's
just something I think I only see myself doing right now.
Speaker 4 (38:55):
I just love the live.
Speaker 6 (38:56):
One on one or with an audience interaction, and I
just I think that's my niche.
Speaker 2 (39:01):
Now getting into like personal one on one relationships, like
in the bedroom with a man. What are some things
that a guy can do to like really get you going.
Speaker 4 (39:11):
That's a great question.
Speaker 6 (39:13):
It's been a while since I've had to deal with
any anything like that. Probably just taking it slow. I'm
a romantic. You have to win my heart before you can,
you know, experience me physically.
Speaker 4 (39:26):
Four plays starts way before the bedroom. Absolutely, yeah, yes.
Speaker 2 (39:30):
What are some of the things that a guy can
do to get your attention? Like, if you start dating
a guy, what are some of the right moves that
he can make.
Speaker 4 (39:37):
Make me laugh?
Speaker 6 (39:39):
You know, I think that's definitely the way to my
heart and just be somebody that I.
Speaker 4 (39:45):
Can just talk for hours with.
Speaker 2 (39:47):
Absolutely any other characteristics that you look for in somebody.
Speaker 6 (39:54):
Charsma doesn't hurt, Somebody with a great sense of humor,
and just somebody that is mature, you know, somebody that
is looking for you know, going going all the way.
You know, I'm not here for the short term. I
want something long term.
Speaker 4 (40:11):
You're not here for a fuck boy, Absolutely not.
Speaker 6 (40:14):
Yes, and that's why you know I've been single for
so long.
Speaker 2 (40:18):
Yeah, Okay, let's talk about the one question that like
every guy has penis size?
Speaker 4 (40:25):
Is it important do you not to have a monster
cock to be with Lily?
Speaker 6 (40:30):
I'm definitely not a size queen. It's definitely the motion
of the ocean for me. I think I do not
I do not care.
Speaker 4 (40:38):
Yeah, so it can be like any kind of regular size.
Speaker 6 (40:41):
Look, there's enough toys out there, there's enough you know,
fingers mouth. I think they could definitely make up for
another ways if they're lacking in the size department.
Speaker 2 (40:51):
Okay, Yeah, So that is definitely not something that shuts
the door on the relationship.
Speaker 6 (40:55):
Absolutely not, not in my opinion. If anything, I kind
of prefer them. That's I think the big ones. It's like, uh,
that's not going anywhere. Yeah, that's too much.
Speaker 4 (41:06):
I don't want to like yeah.
Speaker 2 (41:08):
Yeah, and that is like, especially as an everyday thing,
can be a little.
Speaker 6 (41:11):
Bit absolutely yeah, but I mean maybe if they're if
they're willing to go nice and slow.
Speaker 2 (41:19):
Yeah, what about like perfect first date? What would be
a perfect first date for you? Perfect first date?
Speaker 6 (41:27):
Goodness, if it's the first time that we're hanging out
together one on one, I want to do something. I
really want to make sure that they're in They're in
it for the long haul. I'm really into like antique shopping.
Speaker 4 (41:40):
Oh cool, there's a lot.
Speaker 6 (41:41):
Of antique malls near where I live. So, like, let's
grab a coffee and I'm going to drag you around
with me so I can explain you know, where everything's from.
What time period? It's like something I'm kind of a
nerd about.
Speaker 4 (41:53):
So you mentioned like time period.
Speaker 2 (41:54):
Do you have like a fascination with history of any
kind and is there any particular time period that you're
more in than others.
Speaker 6 (42:01):
I'm like super into mid century modern fashion and furniture,
so that's like fifty sixties heading into the seventies. Definitely
obsessed with all of that. If you took like one
look in my apartment, it's kind of like a time
capsule in that way.
Speaker 4 (42:15):
Oh I love that. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (42:16):
Do you have any like favorite TV shows or anything
like that that kind of inspire that, Like fashion?
Speaker 4 (42:22):
Oh?
Speaker 6 (42:22):
Absolutely, I mean like a more modern one is definitely
Mad Men. Obsessed with that show. Yeah, it's awesome.
Speaker 2 (42:29):
Yeah, any other like favorite TV shows like forget the
fashion and stuff, like.
Speaker 6 (42:33):
You know what you're watching right now? Right now, I'm
always watching Gilmore Girls. Oh really, Yes, that's like kind
of like my comfort TV show. It's like something to
unwind with, you know, after the day is done, you know,
forget about the drama in real life and just focus
on the one on the screen.
Speaker 2 (42:50):
What are some characteristics that are important to you and
other people? Not necessarily like a guy, but it could
be like a friend, Like, what are like the three
things that you would say are really important to you.
Speaker 6 (43:00):
I'm a girl's girl, so you can't be judgmental here.
You know, everybody comes from a different path of life,
and you know I'm there to be supportive with you
along the way. I've never been the kind of girl
that has like a big group of friends. I just
have like those few close ones I always hold on to.
But I'm always open to making new ones if it
means that they're kind and supportive.
Speaker 4 (43:23):
So like someone who's non judgmental.
Speaker 6 (43:26):
Absolutely, especially if they're going to find out what I
do for work.
Speaker 4 (43:29):
Yeah that's true, that's true. Anything else, I'm probably talkative.
I'm a yapper. Okay.
Speaker 2 (43:35):
You might someone who likes to listen. Absolutely, and then
last one, because that's for three, so you gotta give
you one more.
Speaker 6 (43:41):
Oh, you're right, Okay. Got to be somebody who loves
to shop. Okay, I want to walk around the mall
with you. I want a Windows shop. I want to
try things on, I want to tell you how they look,
and I want to take you to every store with me.
Speaker 4 (43:57):
Okay, let's talk about travel. Have you a lot of traveling?
I've done some? Yeah, Okay. Any places on your bucket
list that you're dying.
Speaker 6 (44:06):
To go to, dying to go to? Probably the Netherlands, Yeah,
beautiful there. Absolutely, I want to go to Amsterdam, and
you know, it's like a European country where like you
can kind of like start there and then go to
a few others. You can go to Denmark, Portugal, Belgium,
it like somewhere to start. But I definitely want to
(44:28):
explore more of Europe.
Speaker 2 (44:29):
Yeah, that's a great thing about Europe. Everything's like a
hop skip away. I know, you know, like here in
La it's like I have to like forty five minute
plan ride will get me to Vegas, like and you know,
when you're in England, forty five minutes, we'll get you
to like Spain or.
Speaker 4 (44:40):
Italy or like you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (44:42):
Yeah, entirely different culture with an entirely different history, different language.
Speaker 4 (44:46):
Like all those things. Yes, exactly. Fear like everything's just
so far. It's such like a.
Speaker 6 (44:51):
Big it's unrealistic to think that you could fit so
much of the US and all of the cool places
in one week.
Speaker 2 (44:57):
Yeah, yeah, no, absolutely, Yeah, Amstream is great.
Speaker 4 (45:01):
I would love to go back there.
Speaker 2 (45:02):
I went there a couple of times when I was young,
but I just I just smoked so much weed that.
Speaker 4 (45:07):
I don't now it's like legal here. It's like uninteresting.
Speaker 2 (45:12):
Well, I mean I'm sober now, so like I would
love to go back and not be completely blasted out
of my mind the entire time and actually like go
and see it for like the incredible time and remember
it exactly, remember it afterwards, for like the beautiful city
that it is. I remember, like I did a boat
tour on the river there, and I think I like
threw up all over myself. Oh pretty sure that was
(45:34):
so you know, like maybe a different experience that would
be good. Yeah, take lots of photos, yes, exactly, exactly. Well,
thank you so much for joining us, Lily. It's been
such a pleasure getting to know you.
Speaker 6 (45:46):
Thank you so much for having me. It is such
a pleasure and an honor. Oh my gosh, really, cous Well,
I hope that you enjoy the party tonight. I'm looking
forward to partying with you and dancing, yes absolutely, and
not falling in the pool.
Speaker 4 (46:01):
No we won't, Yes, we will not. That's the plant.
That's a plan for now, all right.
Speaker 2 (46:04):
Can you tell everybody where they can find you online,
and of course where they can find you on strip chat?
Speaker 4 (46:08):
Yes.
Speaker 6 (46:08):
So my username on strip chat is Lovelily. That's Lily
with two l's and two y's. You can find me
on Instagram at Lovelily one two l's, two y's and
the same username on Twitter and TikTok fantastic.
Speaker 2 (46:25):
And you guys can find me on Instagram and Twitter
at Holly Randall. Go to Holly links dot com to
get access to all of my platforms. Go to excessivemag
dot com to check out our online magazine, which is
of course why this whole thing is happening. X siv
mag dot com And of course we want to give
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a huge thank you to strip Chat for sponsoring Excessive
House for sponsoring this episode. We are so grateful to
you guys and look forward to working with you so
much in the future. And of course, hey guys, go
to xweek dot io to check out the next level
of content creation, the new Creator platform. We're gonna be
(47:10):
bringing you some amazing things in twenty twenty five. Thank
you guys so much for joining us, and I will
see you next week.
You were listening to a pleasure podcast. For more from
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Speaker 2 (00:25):
Hey guys, coming to you from the strip Chat Excessive House.
I am Holly Randall and my guest today got her
start in the industry by camming, took some time away
to rediscover herself, and came back with a whole new energy.
She's now making waves as a top strip chat starlet
and as a Vixen contract model. Welcome Stripchat Ambassador Hope Heaven.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
Hi, I'm so happy to be here with you.
Speaker 4 (00:49):
I'm so happy to have you here.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
Thank you.
Speaker 4 (00:51):
You are so beautiful.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
I was kind of joking earlier that we're like we're
twinning like a little bit. You're in all black, I'm
in all pink, but like similar hair going, our old
theme going.
Speaker 4 (01:01):
I love it. Are you ready for the music party tonight?
Speaker 3 (01:04):
I'm still ready. I looking forward to it. Are you ready?
Speaker 2 (01:08):
I don't know if I'm ready to be honest, this
whole thing has been like a lot to plan and
I'm really glad with how amazingly well it's been going.
But I won't lie, it's been it's been a little
stressful as these events are to plan, but I'm really
happy with how it's been going. I feel like last night,
which you know, was our private dinner and our VIP
(01:30):
cocktail party, that was really nice. It was low key
and chill, but it was great. But tonight it's going
to be like the crazy night you know where it's
gonna be.
Speaker 4 (01:39):
This play is gonna be filled with people.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
But you know, I'm just the guest. I didn't plan anything,
so I can just enjoy everything.
Speaker 4 (01:45):
You can enjoy it.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
Yes, I will be walking around being like, don't touch
that art, don't smoke inside, don't burn cigarette holes in
the furniture.
Speaker 3 (01:53):
I will touch everything for you.
Speaker 4 (01:55):
Don't fall in the pool. That pool, oh my god,
it's like, yeah, someone's gonna fall in the pool tonight.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
That wouldn't be funny.
Speaker 4 (02:06):
Yeah, you know, well, as long.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
As I'll have towels on the side. Let's just put
it that way. Lots lots of towels, all right. So
let's start from the beginning. What got you interested in
getting into the adult industry.
Speaker 3 (02:19):
You know, I was traveling a lot, and I always
knew I want to travel and work, like I really
want to have this together or wanted and I saw
a YouTube video about all of this and it was like, hmm,
maybe I should try this. So because of a YouTube video,
I started all of this.
Speaker 4 (02:37):
Really really what was the YouTube video?
Speaker 3 (02:39):
It was like a German one okay, like a porn
star and they also they did just uploaded videos, and
I was like, I will try this. And then after
I just got into camming and all of this. But
the first I just uploaded videos.
Speaker 4 (02:52):
Where are you from?
Speaker 3 (02:52):
I'm from Germany?
Speaker 2 (02:53):
You are from Germany? Okay, so that makes sense. And
so what was the first like adult thing that you did?
The first adult like, what was the first you know,
when you first put your toe in the water?
Speaker 3 (03:05):
You know?
Speaker 4 (03:05):
Actually it was my.
Speaker 5 (03:06):
Toe because oh really yeah literally, yeah really because I
saw a video how to start best, and everyone told
me start with foot content for real, and it was like, okay,
I'm not into foot things, but when this is the
thing that is running.
Speaker 4 (03:23):
I should try it. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:24):
It was horrible. It was horrible. It's not my thing,
you know, so I was just like.
Speaker 4 (03:30):
It was weird. Yeah yeah, but when I.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
Started after this, it got my thing and I liked it.
Speaker 4 (03:36):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
The first toe thing, first dipping your toe, that was
not so good.
Speaker 4 (03:43):
Okay, and then so where did you go from there?
Speaker 2 (03:45):
Like, tell me a little bit about how your adult
career like evolved.
Speaker 3 (03:50):
So I started with the videos, and I started just
on one platform where I could sell videos and pictures.
And at some point after a few months, I realized,
oh wow, I can also stream there, and so I
took the opportunity and started to stream.
Speaker 4 (04:06):
There as well. And I was so nervous. It was.
Speaker 3 (04:10):
I had like a mask on back then, so no
one could see my face. I would rarely talk there
because I was so afraid. And when somebody asked me something,
I wrote it because I don't wanted to talk. And
it took me a few months to get comfortable with
my voice to talk. And I think after a few years,
I bent my mask and I showed my face. It
(04:30):
was the best decision I was I made.
Speaker 4 (04:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
Did you find that your career really started to skyrocket
after you took your mask off?
Speaker 3 (04:38):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (04:38):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (04:38):
And the reason I took my mask off was because
I showed a video a blowjob, and it was planned
that we cut it till here, but this video was
so good, so it was like, okay, we can't cut it.
Speaker 4 (04:54):
We need to.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
Post this like like with my face. Yeah, this was
the moment where I decided to show you.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
Were like, this blowjob video is too good. Everybody the
world needs to see it. I can't hide my face anymore.
This is the moment exactly, the world needs to see
my face.
Speaker 3 (05:09):
It was such a good video.
Speaker 4 (05:10):
Then have you done better blowjob videos since then? Yes?
Speaker 3 (05:15):
It was like my beginning in the first few months
or right, yeah.
Speaker 4 (05:19):
Where I feel like people who are watching this are
gonna be very curious about this blowjob video that literally
changed the trajectory of your career. So where can they
find this blowjob video? It's actually on.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
My only fens Okay, My only fence is the Hope Heaven.
So someone is interested in that video.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
Okay, so they need to go to your only fans
and DM you and ask you for the video that
changed your life exactly.
Speaker 4 (05:41):
Okay, got it? Got it?
Speaker 2 (05:43):
So tell me a little bit about camming. What was
your first cam show?
Speaker 1 (05:46):
Like?
Speaker 3 (05:46):
So, my first camshow was like with the mask and everything.
I was just on my at my kids room, at
my desk and was just sitting there and I did
nothing That's special because I didn't know anything about about it.
So the people were just like asking, yeah, show these
and bed and I was like okay, okay, you know.
And then from time to time I got more comfortable
(06:10):
or not, because at one time I quit everything because
I wasn't feeling good because this platform was just the
people there there was not understanding me.
Speaker 4 (06:21):
They will they.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
Always wanted more and more and more, and I was
so I don't want to say shy, but the people
just they asked and I did it, and that break me. Yeah,
I stopped and.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
They were pushing your boundaries, making you were doing things
you felt uncomfortable with, and it made you feel not
good about what you were doing. Yeah, and so then
you quit and you stopped shooting for a while.
Speaker 3 (06:45):
Yes, I stopped everything, Like I thought, that's my ending
in the adult industry, even when I when I was
not really inside it was just like my little camming thing.
But it was so hard that I really thought I stopped.
And I think I was off for around six months,
okay more or less. And in that time I traveled
(07:06):
and I explored the world and was like, okay, what
do I do with my life? Like what do I want?
What I really want? And then yeah, I just covered
that the adult industry is nice and is something for me.
But I just need to grow more confidence and know
where to stop and know that I need to tell
the people where my limits are.
Speaker 4 (07:27):
Yeah, even when it hurts sometimes.
Speaker 2 (07:30):
Right, what was it about the adult industry that made
it feel like it was the right move for you?
Speaker 3 (07:35):
Like?
Speaker 4 (07:35):
What did you miss about it in those six months?
Speaker 3 (07:38):
So first I was thinking about what could I do else?
And nothing ever fits, you know, what I would study
or what other job? And I love to be in
front of the camera. And it just makes sense. You know,
I love sex and to be in front of the camera.
It just makes sense to be in the adult industry.
And the people are so nice everyone, you know, it's
(07:59):
just like family. Even we met like yesterday and it
feels so familiar to ya.
Speaker 4 (08:06):
It was like the reason I think.
Speaker 2 (08:08):
Yeah, so what makes you choose strip chat over other campsites?
Speaker 3 (08:13):
Like I said, I was on another side before and
after my break, so it was really good. I was
on the first place there. After my break, my score
was so bad that no one came. So after I
came back from my break, I was like, I think
I will stop again because I don't make any money
(08:35):
because you know, everything was so bad. And then I
changed the side to strip chat and it was just
so different. Someone told me, yeah, you have so many viewers,
because back then on the side you just have ten
or something and you maybe have I don't know, a
thousand years. And it was like, oh my god, for real,
thousand people are watching me. So it was such a
(08:57):
weird feeling, but I got used to it and I
love it. It's just the energy and the people and
they're so kind, you know, I love it.
Speaker 2 (09:07):
Yeah, So how many viewers were you averaging on the
other camps? I I mean, if you were coming to
strip chat and you were getting a thousand viewers there,
what were you getting at the other one?
Speaker 3 (09:15):
And the other one it was like they needed to
pay per minute, And that's the concept I don't like
because then someone is like, hey, please do analo or something.
Speaker 4 (09:25):
Yeah I know, and like now and they're like crushing you, yes.
Speaker 3 (09:28):
And do it now, do it now? And okay, okay,
okay stop. And this was also the reason why I
stopped right and on strip chat. At the beginning, I
had like one thousand, and now I have like the
highest thing I ever had was twelve thousand people inside there,
and it's crazy if you just think about how many
people you were in a room or something.
Speaker 4 (09:49):
Yeah, it's crazy. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:51):
What kind of things were outside of your comfort zone
that people were like pushing you to do? And like,
how are you setting boundaries now?
Speaker 3 (09:59):
The people on the other side, they were a strange
They had like I don't know, they wanted to see
such weird things. And on the first place, everyone wanted
to see annals and I don't like it. So I
was forced to do it because I was feeling bad
to say no because they were pairing per minute, right,
(10:20):
and also some weird things like put the dildo in
your mouth and close it then, or just I know,
weird things you know that no one would ever do,
And I felt I need to do this because otherwise
I will lose them.
Speaker 4 (10:34):
Do you feel more comfortable setting boundaries now?
Speaker 3 (10:37):
Yes, way more comfortable, and you.
Speaker 4 (10:39):
Don't feel like people are really like pushing you so much.
Speaker 3 (10:42):
They are trying. But now, I mean, I'm in this
industry for three or four years now, and now I
exactly know what I want and what I don't want.
So I'm telling them, okay, if you don't like me,
and if you're not fine with what I do or
what I don't do.
Speaker 2 (10:57):
Go Do you wish that you had waited, if you
more years to get into the industry or are you
glad that, like you had that earlier experience to like
figure out like what you wanted.
Speaker 3 (11:08):
So I think I think I'm happy to do it
such early because now also in my private life, I
feel more comfortable and like I'm older than I am inside,
you know what I mean. So pushed me in a
right away. Yeah, I grow from it. Yeah, so it
(11:29):
was the right choice.
Speaker 4 (11:30):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (11:31):
I think when I have stopped there, it would be
the bad choice, you know, Yeah, because then I would
be naked on the internet. Maybe I had a normal
job and that it's just not so nice.
Speaker 4 (11:41):
But I'm here.
Speaker 2 (11:42):
And what advice would you give to girls who want
to get into porn, like, considering the experiences that you've
had and what you've been through.
Speaker 3 (11:49):
I would say, it's a nice job, but you need
to be fine with what you do, because I think
we all know when you show yourself on the internet,
they will stay forever.
Speaker 4 (12:02):
Yeah, So if.
Speaker 3 (12:03):
You want to do after a normal job or even
a manager job of something, you will be naked in
the internet forever.
Speaker 4 (12:11):
So I don't know.
Speaker 3 (12:13):
You really need to think about is that fine for
you or not? And if not, never do it. But
if that's okay, then I would go for it or
even try.
Speaker 2 (12:24):
Did you think about it a lot before you got
into porn the first time or did you kind of
just jump into it?
Speaker 3 (12:28):
No? I thought about a lot, And that was the
reason why I were in the mosque because a lot
of my you know, old friends or family or whatever.
I didn't want that they recognize me. But now it's okay.
Now my family knows what I do, my friends know
what I do, and if someone has a problem for
my past life, that's okay. I mean, they don't need
(12:49):
to like me.
Speaker 2 (12:50):
Are your family like you have a good relationship with
your family now and they're accepting of what you do.
Speaker 4 (12:54):
Yeah, right, that's good. That's really important. That's not the
case for everybody.
Speaker 2 (12:58):
So sadly, So you transitioned to shooting studio porn, which
not every girl who cams does. So tell us about that,
like why you decided to do that and what that
first scene was like.
Speaker 3 (13:10):
So I also do a private porn scene with my boyfriend,
and so I know, like a little bit, but of
course a proborn is just different. And I was really
excited to shoot it. The producer was really kind, so
she was telling everyone, okay, please go, just like the
(13:31):
important people stay and that was so helpful, So I
really was. It was just fun.
Speaker 2 (13:38):
You know, did it help it? Have you said that
a producer was a woman? Sounds like did it help
you think that the producer was a woman that it
makes you feel more comfortable?
Speaker 4 (13:45):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (13:46):
Also the team it was like half man half woman,
And I think it's better than just like everyone is
a man, you know, I feel comfortable more comfortable around
also with women. Of course men also I don't have
a problem, but yeah, when there's at least one woman,
I feel like, yeah.
Speaker 4 (14:02):
It's good to have that diversity. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (14:04):
Yeah, you became a Vixen model last year, So how
was that. Tell me a little bit about your experience
shooting for Vixen, maybe your first time, and just a
little bit about what it's like to work with that brand.
Speaker 3 (14:17):
The brand is actually so nice. The people there are
so kind and they just care about you so good.
You just feel also like a family there, you know,
everyone is there's just so kind, so the experience.
Speaker 4 (14:29):
I loved it.
Speaker 3 (14:30):
And also the other models, the male and female models,
they are just I was new and everyone else know
each other. But I felt like I feel like being
a family. Everyone just tucked me and it was such
a nice feeling. And also to shoot with them, it
was not bad or I heard many bad things about
pro born, many many things, but so it was a
(14:54):
little afraid to try it, but at the end nothing
was true.
Speaker 2 (14:59):
So and then how is that affected your career like
being a Vixen model.
Speaker 3 (15:04):
It affected me in a very very good way because
now I'm like more into this broke worn thing and
more into the American market. And I think it was
a really good decision and I don't regret.
Speaker 4 (15:16):
It at all.
Speaker 2 (15:17):
So if someone was to go and check out some
of your scenes from Vixen, where should they go?
Speaker 4 (15:23):
Like?
Speaker 2 (15:23):
What would you What do you think is the best
scene that you've done for Vixen? That's your favorite?
Speaker 3 (15:28):
My favorite? I think it was the blecked with a
Jason Looth.
Speaker 4 (15:34):
I think that's awesome. I got to oil him up
for a shoot once.
Speaker 3 (15:38):
That must be a dream.
Speaker 4 (15:41):
I shot him from mini VIDs like a long time ago,
and I get to put oil on him. He has
a very nice body. Yeah, and he's also so kind.
He's so nice. It's funny though. I brought it up
to him at Avon on the red carpet and he
like didn't remember it. I was gruy. He was like,
you did, and I was like, oh my god, you
don't remember. It's the pilot of my life. You know,
(16:02):
I don't forgive you. Jason. You need to do that again,
I know, and this time I'll make him remember. Yeah,
I'm gonna oil that boy up.
Speaker 3 (16:10):
Everything the best part. You don't need to get the
best part right.
Speaker 2 (16:16):
So okay, So it was a black scene with Jason
Love tell us a little bit about the scene.
Speaker 3 (16:21):
So it was a scene in the Alps, and it
was just I met him there the first time and
it was just like such a nice connection. And also
like it was it was real, you know, it was
not acted or something. It was just real pleasure and
(16:41):
I don't know, it was just nice. I really enjoyed
everything of it, and also how he acted how like, yeah,
the whole connection and also the team. You know, when
something is not working or even when it's working, they're
so I don't know, everything is just working so good.
Speaker 4 (16:59):
I didn't yeah, you know, yeah, just everything like worked
out that day. All the stars aligned, yeah, so smoothly. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (17:06):
What's your favorite kind of scene to shoot? Like solo
girl girl, boy girl, boy boy girl, orgy like.
Speaker 3 (17:13):
I think boy girl because I think it's like I
would not say the easiest, but I love to do
something nice two men and to film that with two girls, of.
Speaker 4 (17:25):
Course it's nice.
Speaker 3 (17:26):
Or threes like with two boys, everything is nice, but
to be alone with.
Speaker 4 (17:31):
One man it's the nicest, I think, Yeah, more intimate.
Speaker 3 (17:35):
Yeah, you can concentrate on each other instead of you know.
Speaker 4 (17:40):
Yeah, favorite position with a guy I would go for writing,
for writing you on top, I'm on top? Oh wow,
So you like to work? I like that.
Speaker 2 (17:53):
I like to lay on my back. That's also nice,
like go to town. I don't lay her and not
do anything, but you like to put the work.
Speaker 3 (18:01):
Out, Yeah, because you know, I love when guys play
with my boobs.
Speaker 4 (18:06):
That's such a zone for me.
Speaker 3 (18:10):
And when I'm on top and I see how that
makes him horny, that makes me crazy. Yeah, so I
really really love that.
Speaker 2 (18:18):
What is the one thing that a guy can do
to like get you going? Like how does a guy
get you turned on when it comes to foreplay?
Speaker 1 (18:27):
Mm?
Speaker 3 (18:28):
I like these little things. I'm I'm really like a
cuddled person. Of course I like heart sex also, but
those really musculine things, you know, when I just he
don't need to do anything, he just needs to lay
next to me, show his muscles and just lay like
this and I'm looking at him and see his muscles
and maybe tough.
Speaker 4 (18:48):
Oh wow. So it's really just a visual thing for you.
Speaker 3 (18:51):
I am like totally into muscles and it.
Speaker 4 (18:55):
Just drives me crazy. Interesting, what's with you? Hmmm?
Speaker 2 (19:01):
Actually, so the back of my neck and like my
ears in the back of my shoulders, that's my erogenous
now to lick them, yeah, Like if you kiss me
and like lick me back like I just like that
just tend shivers down my spine.
Speaker 4 (19:12):
I can't so for light or know what I should do. Yes, exactly,
now you know? Now you know. Let's actually, let's I'm
gonna ask you one question that that men are always asking.
Penis size. Is it important?
Speaker 3 (19:28):
You know for many girls it is important, but I
would go for it. It's not that important because I'm
like a man can't choose how big histic is as
well as we can't choose how big our boots are, right, well,
and we kind of can, yeah, we can, but racturally yes,
And I think everyone like if he If someone has
(19:52):
a big dick, it's nice, but sometimes I don't know
what it's with you, but sometimes it's hurt myself. Yeah,
So I can't really relax. So this cliche that must
be so big, it's nice. And also for a scene,
for example, it's just so hot, but to have it private,
(20:13):
I can't relax because I'm always so afraid that it's
gonna hurt.
Speaker 4 (20:16):
So right, So I like this average dicks.
Speaker 3 (20:20):
And also if someone has a small lick, I would
not say, like it depends how small, but if it's
like normal small, I would say that's not a bad
thing when you know the technique. Well, okay, if a
man doesn't matter the size, can't bring a woman to come,
that's bad.
Speaker 4 (20:39):
Okay, all right, see you guys, there's hope for you.
All right.
Speaker 2 (20:46):
So it's twenty twenty five now, kind of, you know,
sort of early ish in the year.
Speaker 4 (20:54):
Any big plans for twenty twenty five. I have some
big plans, but I don't want to tell them though, Okay.
Speaker 2 (21:01):
I'm like, are you like one of those things can't
tell what your wishes and then it won't come true.
Speaker 3 (21:05):
I have, Yeah, I have the feeling that when you
tell people something, it will not going to happen. I
don't know, it's just not gonna happen. So I want
to I don't want to tell something and at the
end it's like, oh my.
Speaker 4 (21:17):
God, you did it. Yeah, yeah, I know, I hear you.
Speaker 3 (21:20):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (21:20):
Sometimes it's better to just like wait until the thing
is done and then everybody will be amazed by your
progress rather than sitting around and telling people what you're
gonna do and then.
Speaker 4 (21:30):
It doesn't happen. Yeah exactly, I know exactly what you mean.
Speaker 3 (21:33):
But I don't want to stop this, so I will
just I want to continue and do more and more
and more.
Speaker 2 (21:40):
What are you like your biggest goals? Like, what's your
what's like the one thing that you really want to
achieve in the adult industry.
Speaker 3 (21:46):
So I'm a chem girl and I do poor and
at all of this, but my also biggest dream is
to model. And it doesn't matter for magazines or also
in the adult industry, but also for no things are
for one way or something you know, that's just such
a big dream.
Speaker 4 (22:05):
Yeah. When I was a little so so like some
kind of like magazine like print work like that kind
of thing. Yeah, yeah, okay, I hear you. I know
that's kind of like a dying art.
Speaker 2 (22:14):
I started as a photographer and all I did was
magazine shooting, you know, and it's just like something that
there's not a lot of it anymore.
Speaker 4 (22:21):
Yeah, which is why we came out with Excessive Magazine
because I think it's such a good idea.
Speaker 3 (22:25):
I saw it and it's so nice.
Speaker 4 (22:27):
Thank you, thank you.
Speaker 2 (22:28):
Yeah, no, we it's it's really fun to do so well, Hope,
thank you so much for joining us. It's such a pleasure.
I look forward to hanging out some more at the
party tonight. Can you tell everybody where they can find
you online? Your strip chat user name, all all the
all the good things.
Speaker 3 (22:46):
Of course. My Instagram name is the Hope Heaven, also
my X name and my only fan's name, and on
strip chat Hope Heaven.
Speaker 4 (22:55):
All right, guys, that was Hope Heaven.
Speaker 2 (22:57):
Now you are going to meet our next girl for
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Speaker 4 (24:40):
I have Love Lily.
Speaker 2 (24:41):
She's been camping for almost four years and is one
of strip Chat's top cam models.
Speaker 4 (24:47):
Hi Lily, how you doing today?
Speaker 6 (24:48):
Hi Holly, I'm doing absolutely fantastic. I'm super excited to
talk with you.
Speaker 2 (24:53):
Have you been having fun here at Excessive House? Absolutely?
Speaker 6 (24:57):
Honestly, I have never experienced some thing is exciting and
professional like this, so it's been amazing.
Speaker 4 (25:05):
Oh good, I'm so glad to hear that.
Speaker 2 (25:06):
Well, we have the big music party tonight, so hey,
this place is going to be filled with people one
hundred bucks.
Speaker 4 (25:13):
Someone's going to fall in the pool. Let's hope it's
not you.
Speaker 6 (25:16):
I almost did already. Yeah, I understand.
Speaker 4 (25:20):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (25:20):
All I was say is heels, stay away from the
edge of that pool.
Speaker 4 (25:24):
Absolutely, maybe free spend most of your time indoors. That
sounds like a game.
Speaker 2 (25:29):
But yeah, I got to say like that pool makes
me so nervous. I'm gonna have a lot of towels
on standby and a eagle eye on that pool. Sounds
like a good idea, but it should be fun. So
let's talk about you. Let's start at the beginning. How
did you first get into camming?
Speaker 6 (25:45):
So, actually, I had a really good friend. She was
already a cam model, and as a twenty first birthday
special stream, she really wanted to bring a girl with her,
you know, got the audience excited, wanted to do a
huge birthday bash, and she asked me if I was
up for it, and I was really reluctant at first.
(26:10):
You know, I had never like, you know, gotten undressed
in front of a camera, in front of a live audience.
I didn't know what to expect. But I was like,
you know what, let's do it. You know, get some cash,
have some fun. It's a new experience, so why not
joined her and decided to do a show of my
own afterwards, and it's been going on ever since.
Speaker 2 (26:32):
No, she must have already thought you were a pretty
adventurous girl to even ask you in the first place.
Speaker 6 (26:37):
Right, Yeah, I mean, yes, of course, I've always been
kind of like the outgoing type, very talkative. And I
was even told, like right when I had gotten on stream,
like you seem like you're kind of meant for this,
you know, like you're unnatural.
Speaker 4 (26:51):
Is really nice.
Speaker 2 (26:53):
So after that session you decided, Okay, I'm going to
give this a shot. So tell me about what like
your next session was like solo.
Speaker 6 (27:01):
So at the time, I was actually doing like part
time job, part time cam model. I would get off
of work and I was like, you know what this
is it, I'm going to try it. I'm going to
go all in literally quit my job that day, went home,
got ready, got dressed up, and it was awesome. It
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was like a giant party.
Speaker 4 (27:23):
Wow. So what does a typical cam day look like
for you? So honestly this is why, like I have
the best job ever.
Speaker 6 (27:33):
You know. I wake up, I work out, put on
a cute little outfit, sexy lingerie, get my phone out,
my laptop out, turn it on, and I go live.
What's it do that for a few hours, get offline,
eat dinner, watch a movie, go to bed.
Speaker 4 (27:49):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (27:50):
Yeah, Now we all have our off days, right, we
have the days that like we just I don't know,
we don't want to talk to people we would like,
you know, get under the covers and cry all day
in bed. I don't know, maybe that's just me, But
what do you do on days like that? Do you
like not log in? Do you just suck it up
and get online? Like how do you handle the days
when you just like don't feel not feeling like it?
Speaker 4 (28:11):
That's the thing.
Speaker 6 (28:12):
It's essential to have like a really good attitude when
you go live to an audience because you want them
to have the best experience just like you. So yeah,
I mean, like, if I'm not feeling it, messy bun
sweats on, put the saffy movie up on TV, I
watch a good movie, watch a comfort show, and snuggle
up under the covers or on the couch and I
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just chill all day.
Speaker 4 (28:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (28:35):
So you don't have like a particular set schedule where
you like have to go online, Like do you have
to like set an update and be like, hey, guys,
not feeling it today or feeling sick or like can
you just be like just not log in that day?
Speaker 6 (28:49):
Consistency is important in order to keep your like audience engaged.
You know, I actually like miss the guys when I'm
not online. So Yeah, I always want to give them
an update, like, hey, you know what, probably not going
to be online on Friday, you know, going.
Speaker 4 (29:04):
To take a day off mental health day.
Speaker 2 (29:06):
Yeah, it sounds to too that, like and from the
other girls that I've talked to that you you know,
you get a lot of like positive reinforcement on camp
and that you know, you you build these personal connections
with your fans, So it almost sounds like too, like
going on cam might even be like a positive mood
boost for you.
Speaker 6 (29:24):
Yeah, it's almost like hanging out with my friends. Yeah,
it's really awesome.
Speaker 4 (29:28):
That's great.
Speaker 2 (29:30):
What is some of the like the most meaningful things
that fans have done for you?
Speaker 6 (29:34):
Got to go with the classics, you know, making their
username like that they're my biggest fan, or you know,
updating their profile to show that like I basically own them.
They're like, you know, love Lily is my main girl,
so that no other cam models like you know, message
them or anything like that.
Speaker 4 (29:52):
But also just like.
Speaker 6 (29:56):
You know, they they kind of understand what it takes
for me to take the day off, and they'll be like,
you know what, you deserve the day off.
Speaker 4 (30:02):
Here's a big tip there.
Speaker 6 (30:05):
You go take care of yourself for the day, buy
yourself dinner tonight, you know. And it's stuff like that
where it's just like it goes beyond. It's not transactional,
you know, it's really a relationship you built with these people.
Speaker 4 (30:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (30:16):
Now I can tell talking from you that you like
have a business acumen. Like it's just like it's coming
across pretty pretty easily.
Speaker 4 (30:24):
Yes, And you view it seems that you.
Speaker 2 (30:27):
Viewed camming like as a sales job, right, But does
that take the pleasure out of it or like how
do you balance you know, being it being a business
but also like you know, having it those personal relationships
you know, like yeah, balancing that.
Speaker 4 (30:43):
Connection with the fans, but not also.
Speaker 6 (30:45):
Like just it's never transactional. Yeah, it's never transactional.
Speaker 4 (30:49):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (30:50):
I take pride and being able to find out what
somebody's desires are. Somebody is dream fantasy, you know. I
always tell them, you know, like this is your show
when we're together, I want your dreams to come true,
and I want to make those dreams come true.
Speaker 4 (31:08):
And it's not just you know.
Speaker 6 (31:12):
It's it's almost like exchanging emotional labor between each other,
you know, And so it's it's a give and take.
There's a balance. It's never like one side takes all.
I always want to leave each experience with you know,
a user just as a positive one when where they
you know, want to come back and they want to
be comfortable with me. What would you say your brand
(31:34):
is probably girl next door, Girlfriend experienced definitely. You know,
I love the glamour and I love you know, the glitter,
But I'm never somebody that's unapproachable.
Speaker 4 (31:49):
Definitely attainable.
Speaker 6 (31:51):
And yeah, you know you whatever you put in, you know,
I give you.
Speaker 2 (31:57):
Do you ever find yourself like I mean, I know
that people think that you know, camming being on only
fans or like any of this, you know, kind of
like online sex work stuff is just all about the sex,
and but I find that a lot of it is
you know, this intimate, these intimate conversations, this connection like
(32:18):
you talked about. Do you ever sometimes find that like
you've become almost someone's therapist.
Speaker 4 (32:23):
It's definitely therapeutic.
Speaker 6 (32:24):
It's even therapeutic for me, Yeah, because you know, you
find out everybody comes from a different walk of life,
and you find out what their story is.
Speaker 4 (32:34):
Sometimes you connect to that on.
Speaker 6 (32:35):
A personal level with them, and yeah, It's definitely therapeutic.
And I want them to feel like they can be
honest with themselves because I do respect them.
Speaker 2 (32:46):
Do you have any favorite fans who like, just have
great stories or just like support you so much, maybe
you want to give them like a little shout out.
Speaker 6 (32:52):
Absolutely, I definitely am all for the like Age is
just a number one of my long guest customers. He's
actually he's seventy six years old.
Speaker 4 (33:05):
Oh wow.
Speaker 6 (33:06):
And you think somebody like that, you know, doesn't know
how to use a computer, They definitely do. And yeah,
you know what, like, just because they come from a
different period of time doesn't mean that you can't connect
with them, you know, emotionally and you can't find something
that you have in common. So yeah, that's definitely really
(33:26):
special to me.
Speaker 2 (33:27):
What do you think are the most important qualities to
be successful as a cam girl?
Speaker 6 (33:31):
Positive attitude, grit, consistency. Honestly, you know, it has to
be something that you enjoy, something that you take pride in,
and something that you can see yourself doing for a
long time.
Speaker 2 (33:47):
What's your favorite thing about camming on strip chat versus
other platforms?
Speaker 6 (33:51):
The interface interface is unmatched, you know for the users
for the models on there.
Speaker 4 (33:57):
It's easy to use.
Speaker 6 (33:59):
And there's just so many different options to browse from.
There's so many models online, you know, I think users
definitely get their pick at the litter.
Speaker 4 (34:10):
What was your longest private session with someone?
Speaker 6 (34:14):
Longest private session as a video call with sixteen hours? What?
Speaker 4 (34:19):
Sixteen hours? Yeah?
Speaker 6 (34:20):
Wow, I know it's take naps during that at all,
I know, you know it really it really just felt
like hanging out with somebody. You know, it wasn't sexual
at all. It was somebody that I had kind of
done like an hour here, an hour there private sessions
with and then we just went all in. We just
basically spent the night and the day together and you know,
(34:45):
ordered food while we were together. We watched a movie
and we just talked.
Speaker 4 (34:50):
It was amazing. Yah. Was that planned or was it
not planned? Oh my god?
Speaker 6 (34:56):
It just kind of the ball just kept rolling. He
was like, you know what, let's have a drink together.
I'm like, yeah, I've got a bottle here, all right,
let's share a drink. And I'm like, you know, I'm
feeling kind of hungry. He's like, here's a tip, go
ahead and door dash yourself something, you know. Yeah, and
I'm like, all right, like, help me order something. We
talk about our favorite movies. It's like, oh, you know,
(35:17):
let's stream that right now, let's watch it together. Would
you watch We watched you know, the movie Her Yes,
Big John, Yes, which is a little like ironic, Yeah, ironic.
So it was it was really awesome and it's it's
like almost like a two hour long movie.
Speaker 4 (35:33):
Yeah, so like it was. It was easy. Yeah, and
it's one of my favorites. Yeah, it's an incredible movie. Yeah,
that's so funny. Whose idea was it to watch that movie?
It's mine, it was yours. I bet you guys probably
had a lot to talk about it after you watched that.
Speaker 1 (35:46):
Oh.
Speaker 2 (35:47):
Absolutely, that's a very like yeah, I mean that's a
trauma yeah, and that's a conversation like starter kind of movie.
Speaker 4 (35:53):
Yeah, for sure.
Speaker 2 (35:54):
You've also said that you've had a lot of calls
with women, Oh yeah, for them to explore themselves sexually
for the first time.
Speaker 4 (36:01):
What's your process for that kind of call.
Speaker 6 (36:03):
Well, it's kind of the same as any other you know, definitely,
first and foremost, I want to make sure they're comfortable.
Just kind of started as a casual conversation. No, pressure situation.
I'm always like extremely surprised. Usually I've noticed like women
(36:24):
they kind of keep it as a secret. I think
they kind of like indulge in the fact, but I'm
surprised that it's you know, a woman and not a man.
And yeah, just kind of like ask them questions about themselves,
and eventually the conversation always leads into you know, like, well,
you know what brings you here with me? You know,
why did you choose me? And it makes me feel
(36:45):
really good knowing that they kind of see me as
somebody that's approachable like that, because you know, not every
woman is comfortable with their sexuality that way.
Speaker 2 (36:53):
Have you found that a lot of them are like women,
they're exploring that side of their sexuality. Absolutely, I haven't
really like taken that step there, and they're just feeling
it out. And like online camming feels like a safe
space to do it.
Speaker 6 (37:06):
Yes, because you know, they they don't have to talk
to somebody in real life. They get to talk to
somebody you know, within a screen and just makes everything
much more like easy going. And definitely, yeah, it's about
exploring their sexuality. You know, it's like they kind of
have a crush on me, and I'm like I kind
of have a crush on you too.
Speaker 2 (37:26):
Yeah. What's the most money you've ever made from a customer?
Speaker 6 (37:29):
So in total in like a three month period, like
around eighty thousand dollars?
Speaker 4 (37:37):
Wow?
Speaker 6 (37:38):
Yeah, in like a twenty four hour period as a record,
it was a little bit over ten k my share Wow.
Speaker 4 (37:45):
Amazing, Yeah, it was. It's pretty insane. That's pretty great. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (37:50):
They have you ever had like any big extravagant gift
spot for you by fans?
Speaker 6 (37:54):
Yeah, so you know the whole like Amazon wish list,
thrown wish list, you know, you kind of have those
guys that they want to make a statement. So they're
like it's all done, it's all gonna be sent to
you everything off your list, and you're.
Speaker 4 (38:07):
Like yeah, and they love that. I do have one
fan he like comes and goes.
Speaker 2 (38:14):
I call him like a tipping ninja, this guy Tommy,
and he'll just come and he'll just like tip a
B and he literally does it just to like beat
everybody else.
Speaker 4 (38:23):
Yeah, it's like it's competitive, but yeah, it's competitive.
Speaker 2 (38:26):
He's like I'm just gonna tip more than everyone else.
And then like he doesn't even want anything and then
he like disappears.
Speaker 4 (38:30):
I'm like, okay, truly, that's how they win your heart.
Speaker 2 (38:32):
I'm like thanks to yeah, but I'm like, can I
send you something? And then like I don't hear from
him for like two months.
Speaker 4 (38:38):
He's like, I just wanted to make your day. Yeah,
and I was like, thank you. That really did.
Speaker 2 (38:42):
Do you have any interest in ever doing like studio
porn or anything like that.
Speaker 4 (38:45):
Are you like comfortable staying with the camming?
Speaker 6 (38:47):
Honestly, I love just being a cam model, and it's
just something I think I only see myself doing right now.
Speaker 4 (38:55):
I just love the live.
Speaker 6 (38:56):
One on one or with an audience interaction, and I
just I think that's my niche.
Speaker 2 (39:01):
Now getting into like personal one on one relationships, like
in the bedroom with a man. What are some things
that a guy can do to like really get you going.
Speaker 4 (39:11):
That's a great question.
Speaker 6 (39:13):
It's been a while since I've had to deal with
any anything like that. Probably just taking it slow. I'm
a romantic. You have to win my heart before you can,
you know, experience me physically.
Speaker 4 (39:26):
Four plays starts way before the bedroom. Absolutely, yeah, yes.
Speaker 2 (39:30):
What are some of the things that a guy can
do to get your attention? Like, if you start dating
a guy, what are some of the right moves that
he can make.
Speaker 4 (39:37):
Make me laugh?
Speaker 6 (39:39):
You know, I think that's definitely the way to my
heart and just be somebody that I.
Speaker 4 (39:45):
Can just talk for hours with.
Speaker 2 (39:47):
Absolutely any other characteristics that you look for in somebody.
Speaker 6 (39:54):
Charsma doesn't hurt, Somebody with a great sense of humor,
and just somebody that is mature, you know, somebody that
is looking for you know, going going all the way.
You know, I'm not here for the short term. I
want something long term.
Speaker 4 (40:11):
You're not here for a fuck boy, Absolutely not.
Speaker 6 (40:14):
Yes, and that's why you know I've been single for
so long.
Speaker 2 (40:18):
Yeah, Okay, let's talk about the one question that like
every guy has penis size?
Speaker 4 (40:25):
Is it important do you not to have a monster
cock to be with Lily?
Speaker 6 (40:30):
I'm definitely not a size queen. It's definitely the motion
of the ocean for me. I think I do not
I do not care.
Speaker 4 (40:38):
Yeah, so it can be like any kind of regular size.
Speaker 6 (40:41):
Look, there's enough toys out there, there's enough you know,
fingers mouth. I think they could definitely make up for
another ways if they're lacking in the size department.
Speaker 2 (40:51):
Okay, Yeah, So that is definitely not something that shuts
the door on the relationship.
Speaker 6 (40:55):
Absolutely not, not in my opinion. If anything, I kind
of prefer them. That's I think the big ones. It's like, uh,
that's not going anywhere. Yeah, that's too much.
Speaker 4 (41:06):
I don't want to like yeah.
Speaker 2 (41:08):
Yeah, and that is like, especially as an everyday thing,
can be a little.
Speaker 6 (41:11):
Bit absolutely yeah, but I mean maybe if they're if
they're willing to go nice and slow.
Speaker 2 (41:19):
Yeah, what about like perfect first date? What would be
a perfect first date for you? Perfect first date?
Speaker 6 (41:27):
Goodness, if it's the first time that we're hanging out
together one on one, I want to do something. I
really want to make sure that they're in They're in
it for the long haul. I'm really into like antique shopping.
Speaker 4 (41:40):
Oh cool, there's a lot.
Speaker 6 (41:41):
Of antique malls near where I live. So, like, let's
grab a coffee and I'm going to drag you around
with me so I can explain you know, where everything's from.
What time period? It's like something I'm kind of a
nerd about.
Speaker 4 (41:53):
So you mentioned like time period.
Speaker 2 (41:54):
Do you have like a fascination with history of any
kind and is there any particular time period that you're
more in than others.
Speaker 6 (42:01):
I'm like super into mid century modern fashion and furniture,
so that's like fifty sixties heading into the seventies. Definitely
obsessed with all of that. If you took like one
look in my apartment, it's kind of like a time
capsule in that way.
Speaker 4 (42:15):
Oh I love that. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (42:16):
Do you have any like favorite TV shows or anything
like that that kind of inspire that, Like fashion?
Speaker 4 (42:22):
Oh?
Speaker 6 (42:22):
Absolutely, I mean like a more modern one is definitely
Mad Men. Obsessed with that show. Yeah, it's awesome.
Speaker 2 (42:29):
Yeah, any other like favorite TV shows like forget the
fashion and stuff, like.
Speaker 6 (42:33):
You know what you're watching right now? Right now, I'm
always watching Gilmore Girls. Oh really, Yes, that's like kind
of like my comfort TV show. It's like something to
unwind with, you know, after the day is done, you know,
forget about the drama in real life and just focus
on the one on the screen.
Speaker 2 (42:50):
What are some characteristics that are important to you and
other people? Not necessarily like a guy, but it could
be like a friend, Like, what are like the three
things that you would say are really important to you.
Speaker 6 (43:00):
I'm a girl's girl, so you can't be judgmental here.
You know, everybody comes from a different path of life,
and you know I'm there to be supportive with you
along the way. I've never been the kind of girl
that has like a big group of friends. I just
have like those few close ones I always hold on to.
But I'm always open to making new ones if it
means that they're kind and supportive.
Speaker 4 (43:23):
So like someone who's non judgmental.
Speaker 6 (43:26):
Absolutely, especially if they're going to find out what I
do for work.
Speaker 4 (43:29):
Yeah that's true, that's true. Anything else, I'm probably talkative.
I'm a yapper. Okay.
Speaker 2 (43:35):
You might someone who likes to listen. Absolutely, and then
last one, because that's for three, so you gotta give
you one more.
Speaker 6 (43:41):
Oh, you're right, Okay. Got to be somebody who loves
to shop. Okay, I want to walk around the mall
with you. I want a Windows shop. I want to
try things on, I want to tell you how they look,
and I want to take you to every store with me.
Speaker 4 (43:57):
Okay, let's talk about travel. Have you a lot of traveling?
I've done some? Yeah, Okay. Any places on your bucket
list that you're dying.
Speaker 6 (44:06):
To go to, dying to go to? Probably the Netherlands, Yeah,
beautiful there. Absolutely, I want to go to Amsterdam, and
you know, it's like a European country where like you
can kind of like start there and then go to
a few others. You can go to Denmark, Portugal, Belgium,
it like somewhere to start. But I definitely want to
(44:28):
explore more of Europe.
Speaker 2 (44:29):
Yeah, that's a great thing about Europe. Everything's like a
hop skip away. I know, you know, like here in
La it's like I have to like forty five minute
plan ride will get me to Vegas, like and you know,
when you're in England, forty five minutes, we'll get you
to like Spain or.
Speaker 4 (44:40):
Italy or like you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (44:42):
Yeah, entirely different culture with an entirely different history, different language.
Speaker 4 (44:46):
Like all those things. Yes, exactly. Fear like everything's just
so far. It's such like a.
Speaker 6 (44:51):
Big it's unrealistic to think that you could fit so
much of the US and all of the cool places
in one week.
Speaker 2 (44:57):
Yeah, yeah, no, absolutely, Yeah, Amstream is great.
Speaker 4 (45:01):
I would love to go back there.
Speaker 2 (45:02):
I went there a couple of times when I was young,
but I just I just smoked so much weed that.
Speaker 4 (45:07):
I don't now it's like legal here. It's like uninteresting.
Speaker 2 (45:12):
Well, I mean I'm sober now, so like I would
love to go back and not be completely blasted out
of my mind the entire time and actually like go
and see it for like the incredible time and remember
it exactly, remember it afterwards, for like the beautiful city
that it is. I remember, like I did a boat
tour on the river there, and I think I like
threw up all over myself. Oh pretty sure that was
(45:34):
so you know, like maybe a different experience that would
be good. Yeah, take lots of photos, yes, exactly, exactly. Well,
thank you so much for joining us, Lily. It's been
such a pleasure getting to know you.
Speaker 6 (45:46):
Thank you so much for having me. It is such
a pleasure and an honor. Oh my gosh, really, cous Well,
I hope that you enjoy the party tonight. I'm looking
forward to partying with you and dancing, yes absolutely, and
not falling in the pool.
Speaker 4 (46:01):
No we won't, Yes, we will not. That's the plant.
That's a plan for now, all right.
Speaker 2 (46:04):
Can you tell everybody where they can find you online,
and of course where they can find you on strip chat?
Speaker 4 (46:08):
Yes.
Speaker 6 (46:08):
So my username on strip chat is Lovelily. That's Lily
with two l's and two y's. You can find me
on Instagram at Lovelily one two l's, two y's and
the same username on Twitter and TikTok fantastic.
Speaker 2 (46:25):
And you guys can find me on Instagram and Twitter
at Holly Randall. Go to Holly links dot com to
get access to all of my platforms. Go to excessivemag
dot com to check out our online magazine, which is
of course why this whole thing is happening. X siv
mag dot com And of course we want to give
(46:47):
a huge thank you to strip Chat for sponsoring Excessive
House for sponsoring this episode. We are so grateful to
you guys and look forward to working with you so
much in the future. And of course, hey guys, go
to xweek dot io to check out the next level
of content creation, the new Creator platform. We're gonna be
(47:10):
bringing you some amazing things in twenty twenty five. Thank
you guys so much for joining us, and I will
see you next week.
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