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(00:00):
Have you ever found yourself texting a woman non-stop after
an amazing first date, only to have her suddenly pull away and
ghost you? Or maybe you hooked up, but
after showing too much interest she started getting distant and
unavailable? Well, if that's you, you'll want
to tune into this week's episodewhere we talk about how to stop
over pursuing, regain the upper hand, and actually get her to
chase you instead. I'm going to share the story of
(00:20):
my client, Mr. C, we'll call him, who made the classic
mistakes and lost out on some amazing women because of it.
But I'll also walk you through how he's recovering by changing
his approach and using Instagramto spark new interest without
even messaging these girls individually.
This is not an episode for totalnewbies.
If you're struggling to get dates, the strategy might feel a
bit advanced. But if you're already getting
(00:40):
women interested but losing themtoo quickly, you'll learn how to
turn that around and create a life where women chase you.
Instead, you're listening to theInner Confidence podcast, home
to the social Funnel method. My name is Robbie Kramer, I've
been a coach since 2007 and I'vehelped over 1300 digital nomads,
expats and remote workers build an amazing social and dating
life abroad. My mission is simple, to help
(01:02):
you position yourself to meet stunning women and make awesome
friends in route to becoming themost confident and attractive
version you can be. I have an intense hatred for
fluff and useless advice that you can't take action on, so
tune in each week to learn the most effective and implementable
strategies to level up your game.
So stick around, let's go. Let me tell you about Mr. C He's
(01:23):
a great guy, divorced, has a kid, got a lot of charisma, a
very good job and a very high value guy.
And he's really good at getting 1st dates.
But he keeps losing women after they hook up because he over
invests too quickly. He starts texting them
constantly, trying to lock in that next date right away.
And that's where things go wrong.
(01:44):
Women pick up on this over investment quickly.
It kills the mystery and it makes them come across as too
eager. We're going to dive into why
this happens and how you can avoid making the same mistake.
So let's talk about why patienceis really the key.
And here's the thing, you know, most guys, they, they think that
by constantly staying in touch, they're keeping the girls
interest. But the reality, it's the
(02:05):
opposite. Women want to feel like they're
winning a prize and that you're not a guaranteed option.
When you're, you know, you give too much too soon, you kill that
mystery. And that mystery is crucial to
keeping her intrigued. You have to trust that if you've
done a great job on the first date, there's mutual attraction
and she's going to be thinking about you and she'll want to see
you again. But if you push for the second
(02:26):
date right away, you're letting her know that she doesn't need
to work for your attention at all.
And once that happens, you'll notice her interest will start
to fade a lot of the time. Let's talk about the psychology
behind that. In every romance novel, it's the
same plot. You know, 50 Shades of Grey
doesn't matter. It's always the same plot.
There's a very attractive guy, right?
He's super hot, super mysterious.
(02:49):
He's a little bit mentally unavailable and the woman
invests in trying to fix him andwin him over, right?
He's like, he's, he's hot, but he's damaged and she's gonna fix
him. Women are naturally drawn to
challenges. They love the feeling of turning
a guy from aloof to deeply invested.
Now, I'm not saying you need to play mind games or be a jerk,
but what I am saying is that patience, space, and allowing
(03:12):
her to wonder about you is far more effective than bombarding
her with texts and calls. You have to become the man that
she's chasing, not the guy who'schasing her.
If you're texting or non-stop, you're acting like the guy who's
giving away his value for free. Meanwhile, there's some other
guy out there who's less invested and she's thinking
about how to win his attention. Now I want to be clear, being
(03:33):
mysterious doesn't mean being cold or rude.
It means having enough going on in your own life that you're not
obsessing over her. You've got hobbies, goals,
things you're working on that keep you busy.
Women respect a guy who has a full life outside of her.
They respect the guy who's on their purpose.
That's how you maintain that sense of mystery and become the
guy she's trying to figure out. So Mr. C needs to stop
(03:55):
overinvesting. He needs to trust the process.
I told him he needs to try something different to not
pursue after he hooks up with a New Girl and start immediately
bombarding her with second date requests.
I told him he needs to tell me about every date right after it
happens and he's not allowed to follow up until I've given him
the exact playbook. And if this feels like a
(04:15):
burdensome amount of coaching back and forth, don't worry,
I'll explain how I can easily dothat with him in a second.
And I told him that waiting is going to feel unnatural at
first, but it's the only way forhim to break his pattern real
quick. So I'm excited that you're here
listening to the podcast. But if you're someone who's more
of a visual learner like I am, and he'd benefit from seeing
what you're hearing instead of just listening, then I invite
(04:36):
you to go over and subscribe to my YouTube channel.
I'm back to publishing videos there every week.
And some of the lessons can't befound here in the audio feed
because, well, you need to see them in order to learn.
So if you haven't already, subscribe to the Robbie Kramer
YouTube channel via the link in the show notes and you'll get
more tips, tutorials, lessons, and for better or worse, more of
my face. All right, hope to see you over
(04:57):
on YouTube. Now let's get back to the show.
Let me tell you the story about the girl in San Diego.
Mr. C met this girl through an online dating site might have
been they had a lot of back and forth, a lot of fun banter.
He used all the content in our online dating blueprint
protocol, used all the lines, made him his own.
(05:18):
But, you know, back and forth. They did some video calls and it
was a little bit of, you know, arigmarole to to do the date
because he's from up north. But he drove down and they had
an amazing first date together in her neck of the woods.
They spent the entire day, endedup in the sack hooking up and he
told me it was some of the best sex he's ever had.
She seemed super into it too. But then things took a turn.
(05:40):
Mr. C, being excited and eager to see her again, invited her on
another trip like right away. And when that didn't work out,
he invited her to Burning Man. And he pushed to see her too
quickly. And you know what happened?
She started going cold. He hasn't seen her since, even
though she's told him she's still interested.
She's never available. And we both know why.
(06:01):
He killed the mystery. He over pursued and she lost
that initial spark. Now, for anyone listening who's
been in a similar situation, this is what happens when you
don't let things breathe. When you try to force a
connection, especially after a great first date, you take away
her chance to wonder about you and to miss you.
And that's where Mr. C went wrong.
Let's talk about how to recover.And this is the Instagram
(06:22):
strategy I mentioned. And here's what I told Mr. C The
only way to get a girl like thisback is to stop pushing the
seer. Instead, he needs to go live his
awesome life and showcase it on Instagram.
Why? Because when you throttle back
and you stop pursuing, she's gonna notice that shift.
She'll wonder why you aren't texting anymore.
Couple that with the cool thingsyou're posting on Instagram,
(06:43):
things like hanging out with other beautiful women, going to
events that she's not invited to, or just generally doing fun
and exciting stuff, she's going to start feeling that FOMO.
This doesn't mean that you're directly trying to make her
jealous, but when she sees that you're out living your life and
you've got other attractive women around, she'll start
questioning what's happening. Is he dating them?
Are they just friends? She won't know, but that's where
(07:06):
the magic happens. The uncertainty creates mystery
and that mystery is what's goingto reignite her interest.
So before I share more about thefollow up funnel, I've got
something that can really help you level up your productivity
and that's Magic Mind. It's a mental performance shot
that's been a total game changerfor me.
I just had a shot of this beforefilming.
And whether you're powering through a busy day or you're
(07:28):
trying to get into that perfect flow, Magic Mind combines 12
brain boosting ingredients like L Theanine Ashwagandha, which
will help you stay focused and calm without the crash you get
from drinking coffee or energy drinks.
What really makes it stand out is the benefits only get better
over time. The longer you use it, the more
you'll notice improvements in your focus, mood and stress
(07:49):
management. That's why I decided to
subscribe. It's why I also promote them on
this podcast. I didn't want to disrupt that
daily productivity flow with a subscription.
Magic. Mine gets delivered to my door
every month with free shipping. Plus, if you ever want to
cancel, it's super easy. Just click or send a text no
questions asked. They offer both 15 bottle and 30
bottle cases, so you can tailor it to how much you need.
(08:11):
And I usually drink one every morning, but if you confer, you
can use it every other day. Best part, there's 100% money
back guarantee on your first purchase.
You can try it risk free. You don't even have to return
the stuff if if you, you know, don't like it.
And here's the deal, you can getup to 48% off your subscription
right now. Just head over to
magicmind.com/inner Confidence 20 and use the code Inner
(08:34):
Confidence 20 at checkout. Again, that's
magicmind.com/inner Confidence 20 and use the code
Interconfidence 20 to get up to 48% off.
Trust me, it's going to make a huge difference in your day.
OK, let's talk about the follow up funnel.
Now let's be real for a second. This strategy might not work
with the San Diego girls specifically, but that's OK.
The key is that Mister C has made the same mistake with other
(08:56):
women and the same recovery planapplies.
It's a numbers game. What I mean by that is if you
stop pushing and instead let your lifestyle speak for itself
through your Instagram, even if this doesn't work on one
specific girl, it only needs to work on what?
One out of 21 out of 30? That's the difference between
living a life of dating abundance where the hottest
women are chasing you and a lifeof scarcity where you feel
(09:16):
rejected. Trust me, that one out of 21 out
of 10, one out there is going tomake a massive difference over
the long run when you run that scenario out.
If you understand stat, you'll understand.
Every woman Mr. C has made thesemistakes with is now part of his
Instagram funnel. He doesn't have to individually
message any of them. They're all watching his
stories, they're seeing his posts, and the more they see him
thriving, the more they'll startto reconsider.
(09:38):
Maybe he's not that guy who overtexted after all.
Maybe he's someone worth anothershot.
That's when Mr. C gets his second chance and all the hard
work of living his best life andletting his Instagram showcase
that will pay off. Now let me show you 2 case
studies from the last two days of my clients having success
with this exact strategy. The first win yesterday and
(09:58):
today, 2 separate girls that I met in the city I've left out to
protect the innocent have randomly started conversations
with me about mental and physical Wellness stuff.
These girls have not been likingmy stories, but they've been
watching them. This is the powerful moment for
me. I logically knew that I'm
supposed to post stories about my life, but I was mostly taking
it on faith that something will happen as a result.
(10:19):
Here is evidence that my contentis causing ripples, even if
they're not readily apparent. And then this one here in
response to another guy in the community.
Blank. Sure, you already know all this,
but doubling down on Robbie's approach to share an example and
how it paid off? Robbie had me do exactly this
kind of icing with a girl who flaked about a month ago.
And by keeping IG active with Robbie's, let her chase you,
(10:41):
build attraction via stories anddon't ask her out.
This girl is now seriously chasing me.
She went out of her way to work at a cafe across from my
apartment today for reasons and ended up working out of my
apartment for half the day afterthe cafe closed.
I offered. At that point I was at work at
the clinic. So she wrote me a lovey dovey
handwritten note telling me how much she wants to see me and
hang out more. I still can't believe how well
(11:03):
at Robbie's approach works. Fucking black magic.
Now I want to tie this back to the system I've built in my
community. And Mr. CS story is a perfect
example of how guys sabotage their chances by over investing
too early. But with the right feedback and
guidance, you can prevent this from happening in the first
place. In our community, we have a
feature where you can create a private thread about every
(11:25):
single girl in the Discord server and get tailored advice
of every step of the process with that specific girl.
You can share screenshots of your conversations, you can
explain exactly how you met and get help on exactly how to
proceed. Whether it's when to text, what
to say, when to back off. We've even got an AI that's
trained to help you craft witty text responses that can keep her
(11:46):
interested and re engage. For guys like Mr. C, this system
has been totally game changing. It allows them to identify blind
spots, make sure they don't overinvest, and ultimately it helps
them win. The follow up strategy we just
talked about. Using Instagram as a funnel is
something we teach and support through the community.
It's the absolute best way to avoid mistakes and maximize your
chances and build life where women are chasing you.
(12:07):
So at the end of the day, managing your investment levels
is the key to keeping women interested.
It's easy to get caught up in the excitement of a new
connection, but you've got to keep your cool and you got to
let her chase you a little. And if you're like Mr. C,
wondering how to recover from mistakes with women you've
already lost, trust me, living your life fully and letting your
Instagram show that off will do wonders.
Remember, it's a numbers game. It doesn't have to work with
(12:29):
every single woman, even if thisapproach helps you reconnect
with just one out of the 20 women.
That's the difference between having that abundant life where
you're in control versus feelingstuck and rejected.
It's about shifting the dynamic,creating mystery, letting her
wonder what you're up to. So if you're tired of
overinvesting, chasing women, orbeing ghosted, take a step back.
Live your life, make your Instagram as attractive of a
(12:50):
showcase of what you're all about, and watch how women start
coming back in your orbit. And if you want that real time
advice on exactly how to do this, join the IC community.
You'll get tailored support feedback on all your
interactions, strategies like the Instagram follow up that
we've been discussing and in, you know, very specific detail
for your specific sort of content that you need to post.
You don't have to figure this stuff out alone.
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Have you ever found yourself texting a woman non-stop after
an amazing first date, only to have her suddenly pull away and
ghost you? Or maybe you hooked up, but
after showing too much interest she started getting distant and
unavailable? Well, if that's you, you'll want
to tune into this week's episodewhere we talk about how to stop
over pursuing, regain the upper hand, and actually get her to
chase you instead. I'm going to share the story of
(00:20):
my client, Mr. C, we'll call him, who made the classic
mistakes and lost out on some amazing women because of it.
But I'll also walk you through how he's recovering by changing
his approach and using Instagramto spark new interest without
even messaging these girls individually.
This is not an episode for totalnewbies.
If you're struggling to get dates, the strategy might feel a
bit advanced. But if you're already getting
(00:40):
women interested but losing themtoo quickly, you'll learn how to
turn that around and create a life where women chase you.
Instead, you're listening to theInner Confidence podcast, home
to the social Funnel method. My name is Robbie Kramer, I've
been a coach since 2007 and I'vehelped over 1300 digital nomads,
expats and remote workers build an amazing social and dating
life abroad. My mission is simple, to help
(01:02):
you position yourself to meet stunning women and make awesome
friends in route to becoming themost confident and attractive
version you can be. I have an intense hatred for
fluff and useless advice that you can't take action on, so
tune in each week to learn the most effective and implementable
strategies to level up your game.
So stick around, let's go. Let me tell you about Mr. C He's
(01:23):
a great guy, divorced, has a kid, got a lot of charisma, a
very good job and a very high value guy.
And he's really good at getting 1st dates.
But he keeps losing women after they hook up because he over
invests too quickly. He starts texting them
constantly, trying to lock in that next date right away.
And that's where things go wrong.
(01:44):
Women pick up on this over investment quickly.
It kills the mystery and it makes them come across as too
eager. We're going to dive into why
this happens and how you can avoid making the same mistake.
So let's talk about why patienceis really the key.
And here's the thing, you know, most guys, they, they think that
by constantly staying in touch, they're keeping the girls
interest. But the reality, it's the
(02:05):
opposite. Women want to feel like they're
winning a prize and that you're not a guaranteed option.
When you're, you know, you give too much too soon, you kill that
mystery. And that mystery is crucial to
keeping her intrigued. You have to trust that if you've
done a great job on the first date, there's mutual attraction
and she's going to be thinking about you and she'll want to see
you again. But if you push for the second
(02:26):
date right away, you're letting her know that she doesn't need
to work for your attention at all.
And once that happens, you'll notice her interest will start
to fade a lot of the time. Let's talk about the psychology
behind that. In every romance novel, it's the
same plot. You know, 50 Shades of Grey
doesn't matter. It's always the same plot.
There's a very attractive guy, right?
He's super hot, super mysterious.
(02:49):
He's a little bit mentally unavailable and the woman
invests in trying to fix him andwin him over, right?
He's like, he's, he's hot, but he's damaged and she's gonna fix
him. Women are naturally drawn to
challenges. They love the feeling of turning
a guy from aloof to deeply invested.
Now, I'm not saying you need to play mind games or be a jerk,
but what I am saying is that patience, space, and allowing
(03:12):
her to wonder about you is far more effective than bombarding
her with texts and calls. You have to become the man that
she's chasing, not the guy who'schasing her.
If you're texting or non-stop, you're acting like the guy who's
giving away his value for free. Meanwhile, there's some other
guy out there who's less invested and she's thinking
about how to win his attention. Now I want to be clear, being
(03:33):
mysterious doesn't mean being cold or rude.
It means having enough going on in your own life that you're not
obsessing over her. You've got hobbies, goals,
things you're working on that keep you busy.
Women respect a guy who has a full life outside of her.
They respect the guy who's on their purpose.
That's how you maintain that sense of mystery and become the
guy she's trying to figure out. So Mr. C needs to stop
(03:55):
overinvesting. He needs to trust the process.
I told him he needs to try something different to not
pursue after he hooks up with a New Girl and start immediately
bombarding her with second date requests.
I told him he needs to tell me about every date right after it
happens and he's not allowed to follow up until I've given him
the exact playbook. And if this feels like a
(04:15):
burdensome amount of coaching back and forth, don't worry,
I'll explain how I can easily dothat with him in a second.
And I told him that waiting is going to feel unnatural at
first, but it's the only way forhim to break his pattern real
quick. So I'm excited that you're here
listening to the podcast. But if you're someone who's more
of a visual learner like I am, and he'd benefit from seeing
what you're hearing instead of just listening, then I invite
(04:36):
you to go over and subscribe to my YouTube channel.
I'm back to publishing videos there every week.
And some of the lessons can't befound here in the audio feed
because, well, you need to see them in order to learn.
So if you haven't already, subscribe to the Robbie Kramer
YouTube channel via the link in the show notes and you'll get
more tips, tutorials, lessons, and for better or worse, more of
my face. All right, hope to see you over
(04:57):
on YouTube. Now let's get back to the show.
Let me tell you the story about the girl in San Diego.
Mr. C met this girl through an online dating site might have
been they had a lot of back and forth, a lot of fun banter.
He used all the content in our online dating blueprint
protocol, used all the lines, made him his own.
(05:18):
But, you know, back and forth. They did some video calls and it
was a little bit of, you know, arigmarole to to do the date
because he's from up north. But he drove down and they had
an amazing first date together in her neck of the woods.
They spent the entire day, endedup in the sack hooking up and he
told me it was some of the best sex he's ever had.
She seemed super into it too. But then things took a turn.
(05:40):
Mr. C, being excited and eager to see her again, invited her on
another trip like right away. And when that didn't work out,
he invited her to Burning Man. And he pushed to see her too
quickly. And you know what happened?
She started going cold. He hasn't seen her since, even
though she's told him she's still interested.
She's never available. And we both know why.
(06:01):
He killed the mystery. He over pursued and she lost
that initial spark. Now, for anyone listening who's
been in a similar situation, this is what happens when you
don't let things breathe. When you try to force a
connection, especially after a great first date, you take away
her chance to wonder about you and to miss you.
And that's where Mr. C went wrong.
Let's talk about how to recover.And this is the Instagram
(06:22):
strategy I mentioned. And here's what I told Mr. C The
only way to get a girl like thisback is to stop pushing the
seer. Instead, he needs to go live his
awesome life and showcase it on Instagram.
Why? Because when you throttle back
and you stop pursuing, she's gonna notice that shift.
She'll wonder why you aren't texting anymore.
Couple that with the cool thingsyou're posting on Instagram,
(06:43):
things like hanging out with other beautiful women, going to
events that she's not invited to, or just generally doing fun
and exciting stuff, she's going to start feeling that FOMO.
This doesn't mean that you're directly trying to make her
jealous, but when she sees that you're out living your life and
you've got other attractive women around, she'll start
questioning what's happening. Is he dating them?
Are they just friends? She won't know, but that's where
(07:06):
the magic happens. The uncertainty creates mystery
and that mystery is what's goingto reignite her interest.
So before I share more about thefollow up funnel, I've got
something that can really help you level up your productivity
and that's Magic Mind. It's a mental performance shot
that's been a total game changerfor me.
I just had a shot of this beforefilming.
And whether you're powering through a busy day or you're
(07:28):
trying to get into that perfect flow, Magic Mind combines 12
brain boosting ingredients like L Theanine Ashwagandha, which
will help you stay focused and calm without the crash you get
from drinking coffee or energy drinks.
What really makes it stand out is the benefits only get better
over time. The longer you use it, the more
you'll notice improvements in your focus, mood and stress
(07:49):
management. That's why I decided to
subscribe. It's why I also promote them on
this podcast. I didn't want to disrupt that
daily productivity flow with a subscription.
Magic. Mine gets delivered to my door
every month with free shipping. Plus, if you ever want to
cancel, it's super easy. Just click or send a text no
questions asked. They offer both 15 bottle and 30
bottle cases, so you can tailor it to how much you need.
(08:11):
And I usually drink one every morning, but if you confer, you
can use it every other day. Best part, there's 100% money
back guarantee on your first purchase.
You can try it risk free. You don't even have to return
the stuff if if you, you know, don't like it.
And here's the deal, you can getup to 48% off your subscription
right now. Just head over to
magicmind.com/inner Confidence 20 and use the code Inner
(08:34):
Confidence 20 at checkout. Again, that's
magicmind.com/inner Confidence 20 and use the code
Interconfidence 20 to get up to 48% off.
Trust me, it's going to make a huge difference in your day.
OK, let's talk about the follow up funnel.
Now let's be real for a second. This strategy might not work
with the San Diego girls specifically, but that's OK.
The key is that Mister C has made the same mistake with other
(08:56):
women and the same recovery planapplies.
It's a numbers game. What I mean by that is if you
stop pushing and instead let your lifestyle speak for itself
through your Instagram, even if this doesn't work on one
specific girl, it only needs to work on what?
One out of 21 out of 30? That's the difference between
living a life of dating abundance where the hottest
women are chasing you and a lifeof scarcity where you feel
(09:16):
rejected. Trust me, that one out of 21 out
of 10, one out there is going tomake a massive difference over
the long run when you run that scenario out.
If you understand stat, you'll understand.
Every woman Mr. C has made thesemistakes with is now part of his
Instagram funnel. He doesn't have to individually
message any of them. They're all watching his
stories, they're seeing his posts, and the more they see him
thriving, the more they'll startto reconsider.
(09:38):
Maybe he's not that guy who overtexted after all.
Maybe he's someone worth anothershot.
That's when Mr. C gets his second chance and all the hard
work of living his best life andletting his Instagram showcase
that will pay off. Now let me show you 2 case
studies from the last two days of my clients having success
with this exact strategy. The first win yesterday and
(09:58):
today, 2 separate girls that I met in the city I've left out to
protect the innocent have randomly started conversations
with me about mental and physical Wellness stuff.
These girls have not been likingmy stories, but they've been
watching them. This is the powerful moment for
me. I logically knew that I'm
supposed to post stories about my life, but I was mostly taking
it on faith that something will happen as a result.
(10:19):
Here is evidence that my contentis causing ripples, even if
they're not readily apparent. And then this one here in
response to another guy in the community.
Blank. Sure, you already know all this,
but doubling down on Robbie's approach to share an example and
how it paid off? Robbie had me do exactly this
kind of icing with a girl who flaked about a month ago.
And by keeping IG active with Robbie's, let her chase you,
(10:41):
build attraction via stories anddon't ask her out.
This girl is now seriously chasing me.
She went out of her way to work at a cafe across from my
apartment today for reasons and ended up working out of my
apartment for half the day afterthe cafe closed.
I offered. At that point I was at work at
the clinic. So she wrote me a lovey dovey
handwritten note telling me how much she wants to see me and
hang out more. I still can't believe how well
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at Robbie's approach works. Fucking black magic.
Now I want to tie this back to the system I've built in my
community. And Mr. CS story is a perfect
example of how guys sabotage their chances by over investing
too early. But with the right feedback and
guidance, you can prevent this from happening in the first
place. In our community, we have a
feature where you can create a private thread about every
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single girl in the Discord server and get tailored advice
of every step of the process with that specific girl.
You can share screenshots of your conversations, you can
explain exactly how you met and get help on exactly how to
proceed. Whether it's when to text, what
to say, when to back off. We've even got an AI that's
trained to help you craft witty text responses that can keep her
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interested and re engage. For guys like Mr. C, this system
has been totally game changing. It allows them to identify blind
spots, make sure they don't overinvest, and ultimately it helps
them win. The follow up strategy we just
talked about. Using Instagram as a funnel is
something we teach and support through the community.
It's the absolute best way to avoid mistakes and maximize your
chances and build life where women are chasing you.
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So at the end of the day, managing your investment levels
is the key to keeping women interested.
It's easy to get caught up in the excitement of a new
connection, but you've got to keep your cool and you got to
let her chase you a little. And if you're like Mr. C,
wondering how to recover from mistakes with women you've
already lost, trust me, living your life fully and letting your
Instagram show that off will do wonders.
Remember, it's a numbers game. It doesn't have to work with
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every single woman, even if thisapproach helps you reconnect
with just one out of the 20 women.
That's the difference between having that abundant life where
you're in control versus feelingstuck and rejected.
It's about shifting the dynamic,creating mystery, letting her
wonder what you're up to. So if you're tired of
overinvesting, chasing women, orbeing ghosted, take a step back.
Live your life, make your Instagram as attractive of a
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showcase of what you're all about, and watch how women start
coming back in your orbit. And if you want that real time
advice on exactly how to do this, join the IC community.
You'll get tailored support feedback on all your
interactions, strategies like the Instagram follow up that
we've been discussing and in, you know, very specific detail
for your specific sort of content that you need to post.
You don't have to figure this stuff out alone.
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So thanks for tuning in, guys. Be sure to hit that subscribe
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