This Complex Life

In this episode of "This Complex Life," I speak with Dr Lucy, We delve into the profound relationship between our mindset, eating habits, and overall well-being. Dr. Lucy, a dedicated medical practitioner and co-founder of Real Life Medicine, sheds light on the importance of understanding the psychology behind our eating patterns and moving beyond diet-centric approaches to foster a life filled with joy, energy, and health.

Whether ...

In this episode, I address a listener's question on how to support a daughter through the trauma of sexual assault with sensitivity and without adding to her burden. 

Themes:

• Responding to Sexual Assault: Understanding the significance of a supportive response and how it can influence a survivor's recovery journey.
• Practical Tips for Support: I discuss tangible steps and strategies for supporting survivors, emphasising autono...

In today’s episode, I dive deep into the heart of self-growth and relationships with the return of esteemed guest, Dr. Jenny Brown. 

Join us as we explore her work on emotional maturity, based on her book, "Growing Yourself Up. How to Bring Your Best to All of Life's Relationships"

Together, we uncover the nuanced ways our personal development influences and is influenced by our relationships. Dr. Brown shares enlightening insig...

In today's episode, the tables have turned as Jodi Green interviews me, discussing some of the differences between coaching and therapy.

Key Insights:

• Coaching vs. Therapy: We discuss the distinctions between coaching and therapy in supporting folk with ADHD. We explore the differences and similarities
• Impact on Relationships: Addressing the ripple effects of ADHD on personal connections. From executive functioning challenges to t...

In this episode of This Complex Life, I talk with Jodi Green, an ADHD coach about ADHD, the impact it can have on relationships and strategies for managing it.

Key Takeaways:

• Jodi Green emphasises that ADHD coaching is not about forcing someone into doing hard things; it's more about making tasks achievable and finding strategies to make them more interesting or easier.
• Tipping points in life, such as transitions from high school ...

Join me as we explore this common challenge and discover strategies to build better communication.

Key Takeaways:

• Teens want to feel heard, validated, and empathised with. Avoid offering unsolicited advice, as it can disconnect you from your teen. Instead, acknowledge their struggles, give them space, and ask for permission before sharing your advice.
• Chores and responsibilities can strain the parent-teen relationship. Balance out...

 Understanding the Situation:

• School can be a whirlwind of activity, especially for teenagers. Multiple classes, changing environments, social dynamics—it's a lot to handle.
• The transition from school to home can be challenging. Teens may need time to decompress and de-stress.
• When parents bombard them with questions immediately, it can feel overwhelming and irritating.

💡 Tips for Better Communication:

• Give Space...

I speak about some of the unique challenges parents often face as their children transition into their teenage years. This phase can be a time of perceived rejection as teens assert their independence, leaving parents feeling less needed.

Key takeaways:

Understanding the Transition:

• Adolescence marks a significant shift from childhood to the teenage years, accompanied by changes in friendship groups and the move to high school.
• Tee...

In today's episode, we delve into a complex and deeply human emotion: rejection. It's a feeling that touches all of us at some point or another, and it's something that we all need to navigate.

Key Takeaways:

• Rejection is a normal feeling. It's often closely associated with sadness 
• Rejection can show up following a range of situations from not getting a job to the end of a relationship, and it can be emotionally crushing.
• Our...

In this episode, I had the pleasure of speaking with Jenny Brown, who has developed a project aimed at supporting parents in navigating the challenges of parenting adolescents.

I first came across Jenny in my family therapy studies, and her work has left a lasting impression on me. Her dedication to understanding and helping parents in their journey of raising kids and teenagers has been influential in my own work as a family therap...

In this episode, I explore the importance of preparing for therapy and what to expect. This podcast episode emphasises the importance of preparing for therapy by clarifying goals and expectations. It debunks common therapy myths, offers strategies to manage pre-session anxiety, and highlights the significance of building trust and effective communication with a therapist for a successful therapeutic journey.

Before booking your firs...

In this podcast episode, I'm addressing the significance of "R U OK? Day," which falls on September 14th. This day serves as a reminder to discuss mental health and suicide prevention. I talk briefly about the history of R U OK? Day and its transformation into a vital social movement dedicated to preventing suicides.

Throughout the episode, I share some statistics related to suicide in Australia and the importance of sensitive lang...

In this episode of "This Complex Life," I interview Patch Callahan, a clinical psychologist, to explore the concept of values and their importance in therapy, specifically in the context of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). Patch provides insights into the difference between values and goals, as well as practical tips on defining and living your values.

The conversation in this episode delves into the challenges of discoverin...

In today's episode, I talk about complaining and how we address problems.

Complaining is not great for our mental health and wellbeing. It can create a habit in our brain to focus on negative things. It can also impact relationships.

Main Talking Points:

Complaining vs. Stating Facts: Often, we don't realise we're complaining when we think we're just stating facts or observations. This can lead us to believe our complaints are justifi...

Why do some people avoid couples therapy?

In this episode, Belinda and I talk about fears and hesitation surrounding couples therapy. We discuss stigmas and misconceptions that prevent people from seeking the help they need to nurture and grow their relationships.

In this episode 

• Belinda and I discuss the value of couples therapy 
• We talk about how to find the right therapist who can work with the specific challenge...

What is EMDR Therapy

In this episode of This Complex Life, I sit down with Accredited Mental Health Social Worker and EMDR Therapy Trainer Caroline Burrows.

Caroline and I discuss the use of EMDR therapy and how we use it to support folks with traumatic experiences and difficult memories 

Understanding EMDR  Therapy?

EMDR stands for Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing. It's a type of psychological therapy that activ...

In this episode I’ll be talking about Bids for Connection, those small gestures that can make or break a relationship. From couples to parents and teenagers, we'll explore the importance of responding positively to these bids with kindness and love to create stronger connections and build trust.

Research has shown that a healthy relationship can have significant positive effects on our mental and physical health, while unhealthy rel...

In this episode of This Complex Life, I sit down with psychologist Belinda Gibson for a candid conversation about the pressures of perfectionism and the pervasive feeling of not being good enough. We share insights from our client work and personal experiences, discussing how this belief can impact relationships and self-esteem without us even realising it. Join us as we explore ways to recognise and address these feelings, and lea...

In this episode, we dive into the topic of worry with Dr. Lillian Nejad, a clinical psychologist with extensive experience in helping people manage anxiety and stress.

We explore the definition of worry, its relationship with anxiety, and common misconceptions about it. Lillian sheds light on the purpose and function of worry, highlighting situations where it can be helpful and when it becomes unproductive.

Join us as we ...