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August 16, 2021 56 min


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If you’ve ever been betrayed, or been the betrayer in a romantic relationship, you know that the obstacles to restoring trust after infidelity can feel almost insurmountable.

But it can be done.

Today we have a special guest – Ryan Eller – who is one of the beloved men in The Great Man Mastermind community…

…who is here to share his story about how he built back his relationship with the love of his life after years of infidelity culminated in a very painful and public exposure.

Today, Ryan and his wife Kristin have one of the most inspiring, intentional and transparent relationships I’ve ever encountered.

They’ve gotten stronger and the roots of their relationship have grown deeper through traversing the storm together, and now they’re about to share their process with others who are facing infidelity in their relationships.

Actually, this is Ryan’s first time telling his story publicly, which was humbling for both Bryan and I…and hopefully you can feel how special this moment is to be a part of as well.

In This Episode:

  • Why restoring trust is like filling a bathtub one teaspoon at a time
  • 3 crucial early-stage steps to begin the trust-restoration process
  • Why you can’t lone wolf the reconciliation process
  • Why you need trained professionals to help you navigate the disclosure process
  • How to navigate the guilt and shame that come from taking responsibility you’re your transgressions
  • Why you have to first disassemble the old relationship before building back your new one
  • And I want to give a special shout out to Kristin Eller – Ryan’s wife. Kristin, you have graciously not only okayed this conversation, but you’ve given your full blown support to Ryan in having this conversation with us today. The night before this interview you even helped Ryan prep for potential questions he might get asked. Kristin, you’re incredible, thank you, and your support of this conversation is surely going to benefit the lives of many partners for many years to come.

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