What happens when red pill content leaves the group chat and hits the ballot box? In this episode of We Vote Too, host Leise Winny is joined by filmmaker, writer, host, and educator Nerra Muhammad to break down how red pill ideology has become more than just toxic dating advice—it’s a gateway to misogyny, racism, and far-right politics.
Together, we unpack why young white men are shifting toward Trump, how patriarchy harms everyone, and what it means to love—and fight for—a better future. From TikTok to the voting booth, it’s time to talk about how masculinity became a battlefield.
🎧 Timestamps:
00:00 – Disclosure
00:32 – Intro Music
00:45 – Welcome to Red Pill Content
03:21 – Interview with Nerra Muhammad begins
06:36 – Black men and red pill influence
08:31 – “Pick me” culture and internalized misogyny
11:03 – What causes men to go red pill?
13:03 – Intersectionality & protecting Black men without enabling harm
15:32 – Do women still want to be with men?
17:32 – The fantasy of the “trad life”
19:13 – Do men even like women?
23:23 – What is a feminist?
32:04 – How to communicate with red-pilled men
32:58 – Will we ever see a female president?
37:04 – Why men need to talk to men
38:15 – Nerra’s new doc: Love & the Gender War
40:10 – Final thoughts: “Just love more”
42:40 – Outro
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