From Green-Eyed Monster to Turned-On Cheerleader: Let's Talk Compersion

What Is Compersion? Jealousy, Love Languages & Relationship Growth | Swinging Lifestyle Education🎤 Hosted by Matt & Bianca | Club SapphireAre you new to the swinging lifestyle and wondering how couples manage feelings like jealousy? Or maybe you're a seasoned swinger looking to deepen your connection with your partner? In this educational and deeply personal video, Matt and Bianca from Club Sapphire take you on an honest exploration of compersion—the beautiful concept of feeling joy for your partner’s pleasure.In the swinging and ethically non-monogamous (ENM) world, compersion is often described as the opposite of jealousy. But it’s more than just a buzzword—it's a mindset shift that can transform your relationship and elevate your lifestyle journey. Matt and Bianca share their personal stories, growth moments, and real talk about the challenges and breakthroughs that come with exploring non-monogamy as a committed couple.Whether you're navigating soft swap vs full swap, discovering your love languages, or figuring out your comfort zone in the club or on a swinger cruise, this video delivers valuable insight into the emotional side of the lifestyle.💡 In this episode, you’ll learn:What is compersion, and how does it apply to swinging couples?The difference between jealousy and envy in open relationshipsHow love languages affect your play preferences and emotional needsWhy clear communication is crucial in ethical non-monogamyReal examples of working through insecurity, mismatched desires, and emotional triggersHow couples grow stronger through shared experiences—even if they’re not shared in the same wayMatt and Bianca, well-known lifestyle educators and hosts of the Club Sapphire community, bring years of relationship experience, honest storytelling, and thoughtful reflection. Their guidance is especially helpful for couples over 40 who are entering or growing within the swinging world.📚 This is a must-watch for anyone interested in:Swinging education for beginnersNavigating feelings in the lifestyleDeveloping emotional intelligence in non-monogamyCreating healthy boundaries with play partnersBuilding trust and intimacy through lifestyle exploration🗨️ Have you experienced compersion in your own journey? What helped you get there? Drop your thoughts in the comments and join the conversation.💬 Subscribe for more real talk about the lifestyle from Matt and Bianca at Club Sapphire—your go-to source for swinger education, relationship insights, and authentic advice on ethical non-monogamy.🍍🍍🍍Club Sapphire: https://clubsapphire.com🍍Join Matt & Bianca on a swinger vacation: https://spicyvacations.com🍍Take a pole class with Bianca: https://biancaboom.com🍍Bianca's OF and Instagram: .css-j9qmi7{display:-webkit-box;display:-webkit-flex;display:-ms-flexbox;display:flex;-webkit-flex-direction:row;-ms-flex-direction:row;flex-direction:row;font-weight:700;margin-bottom:1rem;margin-top:2.8rem;width:100%;-webkit-box-pack:start;-ms-flex-pack:start;-webkit-justify-content:start;justify-content:start;padding-left:5rem;}@media only screen and (max-width: 599px){.css-j9qmi7{padding-left:0;-webkit-box-pack:center;-ms-flex-pack:center;-webkit-justify-content:center;justify-content:center;}}.css-j9qmi7 svg{fill:#27292D;}.css-j9qmi7 .eagfbvw0{-webkit-align-items:center;-webkit-box-align:center;-ms-flex-align:center;align-items:center;color:#27292D;}