REWIND: When She Makes More: How to Lead in Life, Love and Legacy Without Shrinking

"When a woman makes more, it doesn’t break the relationship—unspoken expectations do."

Let’s get uncomfortable—because that’s where the breakthrough lives. In this raw and powerful rewind episode, Dr. Darnyelle Jervey Harmon pulls back the curtain on the truth that too many high-earning women are silently navigating: what happens when you make more than your man. Whether you’re married, dating, or believing God for a partner who won’t flinch at your bank account, this conversation breaks the silence and dismantles the shame around women as primary breadwinners.

We’re talking about role reversals, masculine/feminine energy dynamics, financial resentment, and the unspoken guilt that keeps powerful women playing small at home—even when they dominate in business. And yes, we’re going there: conjugal visits, competition, and the courage it takes to own your success without emasculating your spouse or abandoning your desire for intimacy, harmony, and holy wealth.

If you’ve ever downplayed your revenue at home, hesitated to share your success, or felt like your business growth was becoming a wedge between you and your partner, press play now. Your millions shouldn’t cost you your marriage—and they don’t have to.

You’ll walk away with a new perspective on how money and marriage can magnify each other when rooted in truth, Specific shifts you can make to bring more peace, softness, and power into your relationship and the confidence to stop hiding your success and start letting it be a blessing to your household

Grab your Move to Millions Podcast Notebook, a pen and your favorite beverage and listen in to discover:

✔ How to co-create a vision with your partner that honors both of your contributions

✔How to have aligned money conversations without creating resentment or fear

✔How to lead with feminine power without apologizing for your income or impact

✔And so much more

This episode is a call to elevate the conversation around money, marriage, and million-dollar leadership. It’s not just about making more. It’s about learning how to hold your overflow without crushing your connection or compromising your calling. If you’re tired of tiptoeing around your own greatness in your relationship, this episode will validate your experience and give you a new language for healing, harmony, and higher-level love..

This is your invitation to Stop shrinking in relationships that can’t hold your abundance. Whether you’re navigating a financial power shift in your marriage or manifesting a partner who can honor your anointing, this episode holds sacred space for the conversation no one is having. Grab your journal and your truth—and let’s redefine what it means to be a woman who makes more, leads with grace, and multiplies legacy from the inside out.

Here's the truth: When a woman makes more, it disrupts every system designed to keep her dependent—and that includes emotional, relational, and spiritual conditioning. But it doesn’t have to lead to chaos. It can lead to co-creation. This episode challenges the outdated narrative that your success is a threat and instead positions it as the catalyst for a family legacy built on trust, transparency, and team.

 

Resources Mentioned:

• Move to Millions: The Proven Framework To Become a Million Dollar CEO With Grace & Ease Instead of Hustle & Grind by Dr. Darnyelle Jervey Harmon – Get Your Copy
• Companion Guide for Move to Millions – Download for a detailed overview of the seven systems to seven figures.
• Join the Move to Millions Facebook Group for ongoing support and community engagement – Join Now
• Move to Millions 90-Day Business Growth Planner – Get Your Planner
• Learn more about Move to Millions Live: Move to Millions Live

Five Powerful Quotes from the Episode:

• "When women have more money, the world is a better place."
• "Provision is not just financial—your husband can still be your provider in other powerful ways."
• “Stop trying to clean the house and build the empire. Hire the help and protect your peace.” — Dr. Darnyelle
• “You don’t have to choose between love and legacy. You can have both—if you create it intentionally.” — Dr. Darnyelle
• “Your husband will support what he helps to create. Invite him into the vision.” — Dr. Darnyelle

Questions to Ask Yourself While Listening:

1. Am I shrinking my success to make my partner feel safe?
2. Have I defined provision only through a financial lens?
3. What story am I telling myself about women who earn more?
4. How can I create a safe space for my spouse and my success?
5. What conversations about mon