New Life Live with Steve Arterburn

Topics: Counseling, Sexual Integrity, In-laws, Work Issues, Lying Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Milan Yerkovich Caller Questions: Is it appropriate for my new counselor to disclose he is struggling with lust for me?  How can I deal with my covert narcissistic daughter-in-law who is stonewalling us?  Comment: I have been in the same situation as the first caller with a man in

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Topics: Betrayal, Trauma, Self Worth, Alcohol Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Becky Brown Caller Questions: Why doesn't the church uphold Matthew 18:15-20 when someone is betrayed?  As a retired nurse, do I just walk away when my friends reject my advice?  I'm a practicing alcoholic and a Christian; how do I shake the addiction?  Suggested Resources: Rescued Restoration Bible Life

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Topics: Alcohol, Anxiety, Grief, Childhood Trauma, Adult Children, Same-Sex Attraction, Marijuana, Pornography, Teens, Parenting Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions: My husband struggles with drinking and lost his mom recently; what will help him?  Will I ever heal one hundred percent from my abusive childhood?  What does it mean that my son-in-law was watching gay porn and lying to his parents?  What boundari...

Topics: Shame, Pornography, Separation, Christian Walk, Intimacy Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Milan Yerkovich, Chris Williams Caller Questions: How do I heal from shame when both of my parents were emotionally unhealthy?  My husband is a sex addict and lies; what else can I do after separating?  What does God think about plastic surgery? I am considering breast augmentation.  My husband is disconnected and

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Topics: Newlyweds, Lying, Sexual Intimacy, Self Harm, Parenting, Separation Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Special Guest Psychiatrist Dr. Daniel Amen Caller Questions: Should I fight for my new wife who is making accusations against me? My husband lacks sexual desire for me; what should healthy sex look like in a healthy marriage?  Is there help for my 12yo ADD daughter who

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Topics: Separation, Affairs, Alcohol, Schizophrenia, Grandparenting, Christian Walk Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. John Townsend, Dr. Dave Stoop, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions: My wife of 27yrs left me to move in with a man, but she doesn't want to give up on us. How long do I wait?  How do I get past shame to have empathy for my wife after I acted out sexually? 

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Topics: Dating, Christian Walk, Anxiety, Fear, Reconciliation, Alcohol, Narcissists, Sexual Addiction Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Alice Benton, Chris Williams Caller Questions: How do I find someone more compatible after my girlfriend broke up with me over my faith?  I have anxiety and am afraid to go outside; how do I get rid of the spirit of fear?  I divorced my lying alcoholic husband 7yrs

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Topics: Christian Walk, Salvation, Self Worth, Narcissist, Parenting, Lying, Affairs Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Becky Brown Caller Questions: As a new Christian, how do you stay the course when you experience rejection and hate?  I'm in long-term care, feel like I lost my faith, and wonder what I can do with the rest of my life.  What impact does an uninvolved narcissist

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Topics: Self Harm, Forgiveness, Sexual Abuse, Anger, Lying, Affairs Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Special Guest Psychiatrist Dr. Daniel Amen Caller Questions: I know a female struggling with premenstrual moods and self harm; what can she do differently? How do I forgive my friend for lying in court about the man who sexually assaulted me?  Did I do right to separate from

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Topics: Affairs, Mother Issues, Controller, Dating, Autism, Depression, Transgender Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Milan Yerkovich Caller Questions: I feel relieved my unfaithful husband moved out of state; where do I start to heal?  How do I get my 27yo boyfriend into counseling to help him deal with his enmeshed mother?  What could help my 20yo autistic son who is living at home and

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From the New Life Live! archives, this Flashback Friday show originally aired on October 8, 2010 Topics: Drugs, Smoking, Christian Walk, Dating, Parenting, Anger Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Henry Cloud, Dr. Sheri Keffer Caller Questions: I smoke cigarettes and take Vicodin for pain; is that OK with God?  Online dating hasn't worked out for me; how do I meet more men?  After my 6yo

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Topics: Sexual Abuse, Adult Children, Grief, Abandonment, Intimacy Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. John Townsend, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions: How can I help my 32yo son who was recently sexually assaulted?  Comment: What kept me going after my husband and daughter died was believing I would see them again.  I was abandoned by my mom at 9yo; is this why I run from

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Topics: Adult Children, Estrangement, Grief, Forgiveness, Sexual Abuse, Anxiety Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Milan Yerkovich Caller Questions: How do I reconnect with my adult son who won't talk with me or my ex-husband?  After having COVID and emailing my friends on how to prevent getting it, they sent me hate mail.  My friend's 15yo grandson was arrested for touching his 6yo sister;

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Topics: Grief, Anxiety, Bipolar, Self Worth, Codependent, Depression, Alcohol, Forgiveness  Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Milan Yerkovich, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions: I have lost a lot of people and never felt this heaviness before; what can I do?  What medications would help bipolar disorder and my feeling of being a failure?  I am bipolar and have depression; how can I get out from under my mom's

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Topics: Addictions, Autism, Christian Walk, Guilt, Boundaries, Grief Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Special Guest Dr. Ron Archer Caller Questions: Should my bipolar friend put her 20yo son in a program that won't treat his mental health problems?  Do I have autism or ADD if I can't stand sounds like mowing the lawn?  What do I say to friends who lost

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Topics: Pornography, Sexual Addiction, Anger, Trust, Self Worth, Boundaries, Dating Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Milan Yerkovich, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions: Why are guys addicted to porn so angry?  Can I respect and trust my husband after he stopped using porn?  My family is not safe for me; how do I become emotionally independent?  At 66yo I took your dating advice and met a wonderful

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Topics: Autism, Parenting, Grief, Salvation, Affairs, Intimacy, Marijuana Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Special Guest Dr. Ron Archer Caller Questions: Should I tell my 13yo daughter that she has autism?  My 31yo daughter passed away two weeks ago. How can I know she is in Heaven?  How do I love my husband again after discovering his 8yr affair?  I have been clean and

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Topics: PTSD, Counseling, Pornography, Adult Children, Codependency Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. John Townsend, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions: My therapist doesn't think I need meds for my PTSD; what do you think? I am a sexual abuse survivor.  My alcoholic husband has been sober 2yrs, but now he has turned to porn; what can I do?  How do I redirect my 32yo daughter

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