S12, Ep 33 Part 1: Tom Patri on Golf’s Discipline Problem: Time to Call Out the Chaos & Tom Wildenhaus Discusses Leadership, Legacy & the Lessons We’re Forgetting

In this episode of Next on the Tee, I’m joined by two outstanding guests who share more than just a first name, Tom, both bring incredible insight and passion to the game.

First up is our resident Director of Instruction, Tom Patri, who’s been on the road working with his young players across Florida and Michigan. Tom and I dive into the highs and lows of what’s happening on the PGA Tour. We celebrate Scottie Scheffler’s win at The Open and debate whether his methodical dominance is “boring” or simply brilliant. While Tom sees predictability, I see a player achieving greatness through precision, consistency, and class. We also discuss some disappointing trends—like Wyndham Clark’s tantrum at Oakmont and the rise of club-throwing and tee marker destruction. Tom and I both believe the Tour needs to start publicly addressing these actions with transparent fines and suspensions to help clean up the game.

Then I welcome back one of the most respected PGA Professionals in the country, Tom Wildenhaus. Wildy is the Director of Golf at Olde Florida Golf Club and a former National PGA Professional of the Year. He’s also a terrific writer with a must-follow Substack, where he recently tackled topics like the hidden costs of employee turnover, how to instill club culture in new hires, and the importance of building real relationships with members. We also talk about the fading presence of empathy in society and what that’s doing to our communities. On the teaching side, Tom shares valuable tips on structuring a more purposeful practice session. It’s a thoughtful and wide-ranging conversation you don’t want to miss.

Come back for Part 2 when Bill Mallon shares some of his favorite player stories including being there when Craig Stadler got the nickname, The Walrus.