Ladies Night: Uncensored and Unfiltered

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Trap Seed on the beat .
Trap Seed on the beat.
But y'all know I ain't norapper though.
Yeah, let's get it, me and mygang, we, up in this.

Speaker 2 (00:16):
Yeah, chia you already know who it is it's your
girl, Tia McLean.
What's up?

Speaker 1 (00:21):
y'all, it's your girl .
Trap Seed.

Speaker 2 (00:25):
It's your girl, tess, I just lied.
It's your girl trap c.
It's your girl, dad, I justlied to you.
Actually it's your girlterrence, unscripted, and you
already know this.
It's no bobby podcast and Iknow you used to seeing that
little short ass, nigga, sitright here.
We fired his ass.
We kicked him off his ownfucking platform.
He's gone.
I don't know where he is.
Maybe he'll join other people'splatform, but we keep that
nigga off his own shit.

(00:45):
We took his fucking copyright.
We took his everything Shit.
We took.
We took everything.
We took everything Everything.
This, our shit, now this, howshit roll through.
So y'all already know thisSean's Most Dangerous Podcast.
It's ladies night, thanks, notnigga night.
They had that shit and I knowy'all was watching that shit and

(01:07):
was like what the fuck is that.
So we decided to come back andclass it up a little bit we have
our classy glasses of wineclock it.
Mine's is blue, though oh yeah,what a bling we had this polo
here y'all Cause you know he gotto get right.
Okay, all right, yeah, yeah,yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

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yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,yeah.
40 on there, boot niggas.
It was just real crazy.
They was drinking them light.
40 noms Milwaukee Benz CO.

(01:49):
Drink his shit out of a paperbag every day, any day.
It was just real crazy.
In all honesty, shout out tothe CEO, the big man, the boss.
He decided to let us have ourway tonight, so we're going to
have our way tonight and we gotsome special guests.
Y'all not used to seeing myfriend behind the camera,
because she usually be backthere being messy and shit, and
giggling, be texting us likethis.

Speaker 1 (02:09):
Nigga suck, oh my God .

Speaker 2 (02:11):
Like she be saying y'all be suck.
She say y'all trash music.
She say y'all girl be stayinghere.
She say y'all be staying.
She say y'all friends cominghere with dirty ass shirts.
Y'all don't know she had textme.
I was like damn CO, stupid ashell, like she be texting me,
all that shit.
So introduce yourself, friend.
It's your girl, des, known asGet Boozed With Des.

Speaker 1 (02:30):
So make sure y'all put me up, yes mobile bartender.

Speaker 2 (02:33):
We love mobile bartenders.
Yes, we love a good drink.
Y'all Des be the only normalone, because I can handle my
liquor.
But you know, because see,because y'all, y'all, see, we
got wine right, she done gotmixed some shit this

(02:55):
motherfucker.
We look over.
How the fuck did you turn yourwine blue?
Put some more liquor in it.
What do you think ceo get itfrom?
Jesus turned water wine.
This turned us into liquor.
So there it is.

Speaker 1 (03:07):
We got a special special guest, hey you wanna
because it's my girl, you knowwe gotta so y'all know it's
ladies night and it's only rightthat we bring another fellow
podcaster to the no advisoryplatform, so I'm gonna let her
introduce herself, but of coursewe're going to bring you in the
no Advisory way.

(03:28):
So we got three very specialquestions for you, Ready Chewie
who you are, where you from andwhat the fuck you do.

Speaker 2 (03:39):
All right y'all.
So I'm Derry.
Thank you for having me heretonight.
I am the host of the Ho Busterspodcast um, where I'm from.
I'm actually from Hartford,connecticut.
Okay, been in North Carolinaprobably about 20 years at this
point, though, so I guess thisis home for me.
And what do I do?
I do some of everything yes.
I do it all.
I love it.

(03:59):
So if you like our followersfollowers y'all remember me and
Sid went on their show, hadconversations.
We had such a great time ontheir show and me and Sid were
talking about that shit forweeks and Darri was telling
we've been trying to get her onthe show for the longest, but
the stars have aligned forladies night, so we bring her on
here for her podcast.
Hoe busters busting these hoeass niggas, Okay, period.

Speaker 1 (04:19):
Busting these hoes, y'all.
We're busting these holes.
All these red flags walkingaround.
Okay, it's a lot of red flagsin the studio.

Speaker 3 (04:25):
They don't walk out the door now they did walk out
the door, but it's a lot of redflags and red pills in this
fucking studio every day.

Speaker 2 (04:31):
Yeah, you be seeing what we're dealing with every
Thursday, right, I see it.
And it be worse when CEO behere.

Speaker 3 (04:45):
When CEO be here.
They're not here.
See how they're leaving.
That's crazy.
We'll have to do it anothertime.

Speaker 2 (04:46):
When we got the fellas in here to join us for
the conversation, it'd be likeit'd be a studio full of toxic
ass niggas, Me and Sid beinghere fighting for our life.
For real.
We be here boxing our way out.
It'd be crazy, but weappreciate you joining us for
Ladies Night.
Of course, I gotta do this.
Before you know we do this.
Follow us on TikTok, on Twitch.
We on Instagram, Blue Sky,Twitter, Facebook.

(05:07):
We on Tag Bebo, MySpace.
We on Photobucket, we onXNXXTasted Blacks,
BigBootyBitchescom, Pornhub insome states.
We're on the North CarolinaEducational Lottery.
We got our own Scratch Off.
What else?
Oh, BigBagscom.

(05:28):
We also owe you a McDonald'srewards.
I want it and you know I gottado it.
No, the fuck, you do not.
And you about to piss me offbecause I knew you was gonna do
it.
Don't be like your man, Don't.

Speaker 1 (05:38):
Stand up, stand up, be better than your man.
You finna do it.

Speaker 2 (05:43):
I'm going to let you Go ahead.
I'm going to let you do it, goahead.
We on midgescom.

Speaker 1 (05:46):
And that's our finesse today.
No, let it get out, let it getout, let it get out, because if
not, they're going to text ustalking shit later, so let it
get out, go ahead we on midgesbig booties she said no
correction.
I like the big booties, I don't.
You ain't have to do that nigga, not even here.

Speaker 2 (06:05):
Don't be scared.
Don't be scared that nigga, noteven here.
No, stand up there.
I don't know if you watch ourshows.
Our friend ceo he has anunhealthy obsession with midgets
.
Yes, and they're unhealthy.
You've heard it's just unhealthy.
And it's crazy now because Iknow he do.
On On my Facebook algorithmtoday I kept seeing little clips

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from little people in Atlanta,shit like popping up Midgets
popping up on my clips.
But I know it's because myphone hearing us talking about
this shit every fucking weekbruh, that shit's so fucking
crazy.
That nigga is sick as hell.
I am screaming.
I hate that shit.
Shout out to Polo Polo.
Polo was a little late tonight,y'all.
He was turning the swish.

(06:47):
We thought you was swish for aminute.
But shout out to the fuckniggas who thought they was
going to get over on Polo,because we on your neck after
this show.
Yo, we coming for you.

Speaker 1 (06:56):
Right there.

Speaker 2 (06:56):
Burkey at the transit .
We on your fucking neck.
They got your credit card too.
Oh fuck, yo too, oh fuck, wegotta go to the jail.
Yes, and they had to transit.
They, I'm telling you, polo,they had, they had the park,
they had the berg he ain'tgetting a whopper meal.
I'm gonna lie, they had berg,he ain't getting a whopper meal.
We're gonna dance, though, onmy soul.
Yes, you know it's crazy,pissing me off because polo

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don't do nothing about it, right, like it's always the good
people like if you steal somenigga shit.
Steal some dumb nigga shit.
Still swish it actually.
Yes, will his shit.
I mean male too.
If all it is still they shit,why?
Oh, here we go, stand up.
You know what I need?
Both y'all tonight.
Let's hold this.

(07:41):
Stand up for it.
Yes, I want y'all to stand upfrom these niggas stand up for
these niggas we locked in.
Shout out to the studio audienceladies in the building, shout
out to the studio audience.
And our one love gentleman, ark, is you see how them niggas
slithered out he's the only realman in the building.

(08:01):
Yeah, everybody slithered outArk.
You look like what happened.

Speaker 1 (08:04):
Ark, let yeah, everybody slithered out.
You're like what?

Speaker 2 (08:05):
happened?
He just slithered out.
Now, all right, let me tell you, you slithered out.
I'm going to talk shit.
Nah, I'm not, I'm not All right, that is crazy.
When did he sneak out?
Yeah, oh, oh.
Sleeves Please with Denise.
Please go to every time youready, friend, I've been waiting

(08:28):
for you all week.
No, we haven't been talkingshit.
Why he snitching?

Speaker 3 (08:31):
on her.
Now he got to go Get your assout.
Now you got to go Get out.

Speaker 2 (08:33):
You snitching, you got to go.
That is crazy.
Long like that.
That's crazy.
Whatever, y'all know what it is.
Y'all know what it is.
We got Hot Topics with Trapi.

Speaker 1 (08:45):
Alright, so y'all know I always start off with
celebrity birthdays.
I try to do mostly womenbecause it's girls night, but
that was hard to do, so y'alljust going to get who I got.

Speaker 2 (08:52):
Now hold on.
You might not be CEO, but youprobably don't know some of
these.
Nah, we should know everybody,because CEO not here.
He'd be asking Siri, hey, siri,I, I mean you want to tell him
who it is.
Yeah, we should know everybody,because that's an old-ass nigga
for real.

Speaker 1 (09:03):
Oh, all right y'all ready, we ready, all right.
Ariana Grande Happy birthdayy'all.
Oh, okay, she turned 31.

Speaker 2 (09:10):
No way she did.
Oh Wait, wow Aren't you 31?
I am.
I'm being Jeter with mybaseball bat.
Okay, shannon Sharp turned 56.
Happy birthday.
Nasty ass, there you go.

Speaker 3 (09:30):
I ain't gonna lie, alright.
Alright, we know what you liketo do confession, confession,
confession confession you'lltake them down.

Speaker 1 (09:38):
I'll take them down.
You might take them down that'swhat I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (09:41):
That's what I want to do.
I want to be like Michelle.
Oh Michelle, michelle wasenjoying herself.
You know what I mean.
Michelle was getting that purseone and done though.
Michael Vick he turned 44.
Okay, michael Michael,financier too.

Speaker 1 (10:02):
Iman Sharper used to be married to Tiana Taylor.
He turned 34.

Speaker 2 (10:06):
Hey, I'm quiet.
Okay, well, Alright well, wegonna move on to the hot topics.
What'd you say Sleeves?
Yeah, man, he from the city.
Yo fuck-ass nigga.
He didn't be.
He should've been on Ho Buster.

Speaker 1 (10:19):
Yeah, he should've been on.

Speaker 2 (10:21):
Ho Buster.
He deserve to get busted.
What we not finna do is thatshe liked it, but the end part,
the reason why that marriageended, because he cheated and
brought the women around thekids.
You gonna bring my kids aroundthe women you cheated with.
That's crazy.
That's all he say.
That's how Chicago niggas getdown type shit, type shit, type

(10:44):
shit, type shit.
It Type shit, type shit.
It's crazy.
I told y'all, ladies, it's menthat you need to stay away from.
I didn't know I had to includeChicago men on the list, but
guess what?
I guess we did Northern men.
We got to stay away from thecute all.
Turn your head to the left,stay away from.

Speaker 1 (11:04):
Ball-headed men.
They lie like they.

Speaker 2 (11:06):
Dead is get away ball-headed men do be lying.
Shout out to my brother hey,jeffrey, you lying.
You know my brother bald ashell he be lying.

Speaker 1 (11:15):
Shout out to my brother, all right we gonna go
ahead and get into the hottopics number one.
Remember, last month I toldy'all that rihanna's father
passed away sadly.
Yeah, well, his cause of deathhas officially been announced,
and it is sad, it's a lot.
So he passed away last month atthe age of 71 from
complications of cancer.
Um, the complications on hisdeath certificate include acute

(11:38):
respiratory failure, yeah,pancreaticiration, pneumonia, a
serious bacterial lung infection.
Acute renal failure, acutetubular necrosis, and both of
those reflect significant kidneydamage.
Yeah, so he was reallysuffering.
Yeah, he was.

Speaker 2 (11:58):
I didn't even know he was sick.
When you say he died last, wasthat the other episode that?
Was last month.

Speaker 1 (12:04):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (12:04):
The end of the month.
When you say he died, I didn't.
When I asked, I said has thatbeen confirmed?
Because I hadn't heard anythingabout him being sick or none of
that.

Speaker 1 (12:13):
Every fucking time, bro Sweet.
Alright, so we're going to goahead and remember to continue
to send our prayers to Rihannaand her family as she grieves
the loss of her father andwelcomes baby number three.
His name was not Ronald.

Speaker 3 (12:29):
He died.
His name was Ronald.

Speaker 1 (12:30):
What the hell sis Don't.

Speaker 2 (12:36):
I'm glad he didn't have a mic.

Speaker 1 (12:38):
Prove you wrong.
My bad.
His name was Ronald.

Speaker 2 (12:41):
Oh, that's crazy.
He was right.

Speaker 1 (12:45):
That's why I said I was so ready to poop.

Speaker 2 (12:46):
I'm like wait, no, I'm not saying, we should just
kept on saying.
That's your family, that's yourcousin.
That nigga can't, oh my God.
I hate our cameraman for real,bro.
I swear to God I hate't lookinglike a young R Kelly.

Speaker 1 (13:06):
No for real.
He do, minus I'm Jordan.

Speaker 2 (13:12):
Y'all can't see behind the camera, but I hope.
I hope switch, I hope heinserts a footage right here
Like he edit y'all switch.
Look like he just walked out ofthat damn center.
He over there looking like aremick.
His people over there want tobe out there in that juke joint
for real y'all.

Speaker 1 (13:28):
it's crazy all right up next 60 missing kids who are
recovered in florida.

Speaker 2 (13:33):
Whoa, whoa, whoa whoa you saying florida and 60
missing kids.

Speaker 1 (13:38):
That is absolutely crazy 60 missing kids are
recovered in florida and what isbeing dubbed the most
successful missing childrecovery operation in America
ever Wow, in Florida.

Speaker 2 (13:49):
In Florida.

Speaker 1 (13:50):
So, according to Florida News outlets, federal,
state and local agenciespartnered up to recover 60
critically missing kids in theTampa Bay area.
This operation was calledOperation Dragon Eye and it
focused on finding kids betweenthe ages of 9 and 17 over a
two-week period.
According to the us marshal'swebsite.

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Because I had to look up whatdoes critically missing mean?
Kids are critically missing,kids are defined as those at
risk of crime or violence, orthose with elevated risk factors
, such as substance abuse,sexual exploitation, crime
exposure or domestic violence.
So basically, what they'resaying is kids that are reported

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missing that have a higher riskfor doing drugs, ending up
pregnant, committing othercrimes or dying.
So among the 60 kids that wererecovered, there were several
young girls who were pregnant,and one of the girls was
actually currently carrying thechild of the person that was

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trafficking her.
This operation also led to thearrest of eight suspects facing
an array of charges from humantrafficking, child endangerment,
drug possession and custodialinterference.

Speaker 2 (15:06):
I ain't gonna lie.
From my times of watching LawOrder, I know that the people
that got arrested them not evenlike A fifth A fifth.
They finna use the people tocatch the top people Like them,
not even the people.
That's sick as shit.
That's sick as fuck for real,because it's like run Out of
everything niggas can do.
It's a lot of crime in thisworld and it's a lot of shit

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that niggas do.
Trafficking kids and fuckingwith kids is just For what it's
weird as hell?
It's because they're vulnerable.
It's weird as hell, so this wasin Florida, Tampa 60 kids, 60
kids.
I'm happy to these familiesthat they get reunited, but this
journey back finna be like theygonna need therapy.
Yeah, I don't know.

(15:50):
I just I guess working withkids boy, this shit just be
irritating, Like it do hitdifferent Because it's like bruh
out of everybody, Like nobodyshould be trafficking Nobody but
kids, Kids don't.

Speaker 1 (16:03):
They innocent, they don't deserve none of that.
That's just sick.
Well, this next one is reallygoing to piss you off, is it?
It is An Atlanta couple wasawarded $2 million after a
doctor allegedly shared graphicpictures of their decapitated
baby on social media.

Speaker 2 (16:19):
What the hell?
Is it the black couple?
Yes, you just don't be sharingpictures on Instagram.

Speaker 1 (16:27):
So a Fulton County jury awarded a $2.25 million
settlement to Jessica Ross andTravion Taylor Sr.
After Dr Jackson Gates postedgraphic autopsy pictures and
videos of their unalive newbornon social media without the
parents consent.
So let me take you back to howthe baby got to this point.

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The infant, tragically, wasunalive because it's gonna be on
tiktok back in july 2023.
During childbirth, the infant,who was named travion isaiah
taylor jr, got stuck duringdelivery to shoulder dystocia,
which is a childbirthcomplication where a baby's
shoulder gets stuck behind themother's pelvic bone during

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labor.
So his shoulders basically gotcaught in his mom's pelvis,
which caused a series ofcomplications during birth.
The doctor, according to thislawsuit, allegedly used
excessive force on the baby'shead and neck, which led to the
decapitation.
After hours of antagonizinglabor, ross ultimately ended up

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having a C-section, but thebaby's body and head were
delivered separately.
Ooh, sky is falling thepathologist, dr Jackson Gates,
was hired by the couple for$2,500 to perform a private
autopsy on the child todetermine what happened,

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following the couple not gettinganywhere with the matter being
handled with the hospital.
So they tried to handle thematter with the hospital because
their baby was decapitatedduring birth and the hospital
wasn't saying nothing.
They're like we, we notresponsible for this.
This is what happens, it's justtragic.
Like so they went and hiredthis pathologist, dr Jackson

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Gates.
The pathologist will later goon, in July 2023, to share the
autopsy photos and videos of thebaby, severed head, along with
his body, on his social media.
The judgment package that wasawarded to the couple is $2.25
million in compensatory damages,$250,000 in punitive damages,

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and then the judgment also holdsthe pathologist, dr Gates,
accountable for emotionaldistress and privacy invasion
caused by the decision to postthe autopsy.
Now y'all know I had to go lookand see what this doctor had to
say.

Speaker 3 (18:55):
What are you saying?

Speaker 1 (18:56):
And y'all gonna be shocked.
Dr Gates stressed that he didnot violate any HIPAA laws with
his actions.
He claims that he has beendoing this quote for over 15
years, publishing autopsy casesto explain to the public the
victimization of those peoplewho have died, so he basically

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feel like he not doing nothingwrong because he's using this as
a teaching moment to showpeople this is what happened to
the person, this is what theautopsy said, etc.
Etc.
This is the person that theyhired to do a private autopsy,
meaning these pictures werenever to be leaked.
And he leaked them anyway, andhe's still practicing, and he's
still practicing.
He need to be in jail yeah,white, no, but and that's a

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pathologist black.
That make it worse in addition.
So, mind you, there was threelawsuits because of this botched
delivery.
The first one was him releasingthe pictures on social media.
There are also two otherlawsuits lawsuits still pending
in the case.
One is against the doctor whodelivered the baby right and
another is against the medicalcenter or the hospital due to

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the handling of the delivery.
Now, the reason that they havea lawsuit against the doctor is
because, before they sent thebody to the private autopsy, the
county did autopsy the claytoncounty medical examiner and he
ruled the baby's death as ahomicide, citing a broken neck
and spinal cord from deliverycomplications which can be

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attributed to the excessiveforce that was used to try to
get him out.

Speaker 3 (20:42):
Much as I say right now that's crazy.

Speaker 1 (20:45):
Yeah, it's sad.

Speaker 4 (20:46):
That is you know.

Speaker 1 (20:47):
I told you he was going to piss you off.

Speaker 2 (20:49):
You go to the hospital, you think you're going
to come home with a new baby.
You're thinking about, like youknow, I don't have kids, but
you're probably thinking aboutwhat prom is going to look like
graduation, first birthday.
No one in the history of howmany black women are I mean?
Died during childbirth, andit's just no.
I don't think we even do thatanymore.
I go to the hospital nervousevery time, every time.

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When you go for regularcheckups.
Yeah, like going to the hospital, you know they think that black
people can endure so much pain.
They think that we are just amonolith of strength, and it's
not like that At all.
That's sad for real man, and Ifeel bad, even worse, because
you hire somebody to do aprivate autopsy to help you

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prove that this is not okay andthis is not right, and then they
violate you too.

Speaker 1 (21:38):
So you get violated twice.

Speaker 2 (21:40):
It's like you keep getting violated.
How much more can these peopletake for real?
I hope they run them niggapockets.
I'm telling you.
I'm like that's the one lawsuit, because they still got the
other two pending.

Speaker 1 (21:51):
Right.

Speaker 2 (21:51):
Yeah, I hope they need to walk away by 2030.

Speaker 1 (21:54):
I still got to go to the hospital.

Speaker 2 (21:55):
They going to eat I'm running niggas pockets after
that and they still don't makeup for what happened.

Speaker 1 (22:01):
That shit crazy.
So it's interesting becausebefore I started looking at
these I looked at theseStarbucks like today.
I had some of them bookmarkedbut I looked them like in depth
today but last night I was likescrolling on.
Instagram and I followed thiscreator because she did a get
ready with me talking aboutpostpartum, but she lost her

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baby and she said nobody evertalks about the grief of going
to the hospital expecting toleave to change you and your
baby's diaper, and you're notlike and your body is grieving
too.
Your body's trying to heal froma delivery that resulted in an
unaligned baby like so that wasso interesting.
I was like, are you right?
I've never seen anybody talkabout that and I think it's sad

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because, especially as likeblack women, like you said, we
don't get the care that we need.
I know so many people that saythey literally go to the doctor
and have to look up what theirsymptoms could be just to get
their doctor to run a series oftests.
Why does it have to be likethat?
Like you're the doctor, youfigure this out.
Why do I have to do your jobfor you?

(23:06):
Like that's nuts?
I saw people all the time.

Speaker 2 (23:11):
Like literally I know people think it's like a trend
or something whatever, but Iliterally have an all black
medical team.
I have a black OBGYN, have ablack primary care Shout out to
Dr Rouse and Dr Stiles, likeamazing black women.
It's so crazy.
Dr Stiles her kid in my summercamp, you know what I'm saying,
so she be.
I was talking to her today,like, but when I talked to her

(23:32):
we talked about real things,like, for instance, when I was
looking at birth control options.
You know it was more so to notfor the actual birth control,
but to kind of alleviate likeperiod cramps and stuff, because
my periods used to be likereally, really bad, like when I
was in school getting periods,but it was so bad I was like
low-key, like passing out onbathroom floors and people

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thought I was being dramatic.
I was like like this on thefloor, but I was like I was in
like full cramp mode becauseladies, y'all know when you be
in cramps like these, these mendon't understand.
I know they think cramps is likeit's not them shits is
debilitating, like it used to beso bad when I know like day one

(24:15):
and two is like throwing upcramps.
You sick, you nauseous, youcan't even eat nothing.
For real, that's how bad myperiods used to be.
So I went to Dr Stiles and wasasking like options to alleviate
it, because by that time shehad put me on 800 milligram
ibuprofen.
You can't take a big horse asspills.
You can't keep taking thoselike that to help out with
cramps.
I was talking to her and shewas like look.

(24:37):
She was like there's iud isgoing.
You know, the iud is going toalleviate your cramps and stuff.
However, if you are not, ifyou're scared about the hormones
, I don't want to put shit inyour body that you are not, you
know, aware of.
She broke down every little bitand I know I would not have
gotten that, not even trying tobe funny, I would not have
gotten that from a white womanor a white male doctor.
I would not have gotten that.

(24:58):
They would have just went alongwith what I said without
breaking shit down.
Then you get in stories of nowI'm coming back to you because
maybe the shit, shit in my armnot right or stuff is not
working out, because birthcontrols, every birth control,
don't work for everybody.
So shout out to those blackdoctors and those amazing, um,
black women doctors about maledoctors.
I think we definitely need moreblack male and black women

(25:20):
doctors.
I think we need a lot of themmore, especially in the birthing
places, in the medical centers,when it's time to bring our
children into this world becausenobody care about us.
Like us, I'll be honest, likeblack people.
It's crazy because we pisschildren into this world because
nobody cares about us.
Like us, I'm going to be honest, black people.
It's crazy because we piss eachother off the most but we care
about each other the most.
Nobody cares about us like usfor real.
So has yours ever got lost?
My IUD?
Yeah, I know that thing's stillup there.

Speaker 1 (25:42):
Because I know somebody that got lost.
It's crazy.

Speaker 2 (25:44):
Ask me if I got kids, I know you ain't got no, kids
Shout out to me and the IUD, I'mABC, listen, the IUD's so lit
boy, so I still have likeperiods, but they're like very
irregular and light, like I'mlike three days.
No, cramps Three days, nocramps, like maybe spot in three

(26:07):
days, and it's irregular, so Ilike it it I like the iud no
birth control had me in thehospital back to back.
Yeah, I had the shot, the devilshot and I had the pills.

Speaker 3 (26:26):
I was in the hospital and I was scared to get the IUD
.
It was a huge hormone.

Speaker 1 (26:30):
I had to patch because it's low hormonal and
because a history of breastcancer runs in my family like I
started.
I got my first mammogram like Ithink I was like 21, 22.
Yeah, I had to start early, so,but I started birth control at
18 because, again, I had suchbad cramps.
Like I'm missing the two daysof school because I literally am

(26:51):
throwing up in the bed like inthe fetal position.
I'm not eating, I'm notdrinking.
I got a fever, my back hurt mystomach hurt, I'm throwing up
and shit and like this shit wasso horrible.
So, mom, when I turned 18, momwas like, do you want to be on
birth control?
And I was like, uh, because Iwasn't having sex.
And in my mind, like all I knewwas you have sex, you be on
birth control.
I'm like right, I don't needthat.

(27:12):
She was like no it's not for sex, it's for your cramps.
Yeah, I feel better, but againbecause, like it ran, hormonal
breast cancer runs in my family.
My options was limited so likeI can't get an iud right, I have
to get like I can.
I had a patch, which is what Iwas on for like 10 years, or I
can get um the implant the nextone, my only two options yeah

(27:34):
you so lucky that you had umyour mom.

Speaker 2 (27:37):
So, like when I was 18, y'all know, I didn't have my
mom to tell me that because mymom was sick by that time.
So at 18 it was not like my momguided me through like
menstruals and stuff, like Imean, yes, she was guiding me
through menstruals before, butlike actually like birth control
and stuff.
So by that time my mom was sick, was not able to speak, so I
had to like I didn't get thatadvice of like why my periods

(27:58):
were like this.
So I didn't really get thatadvice until literally y'all,
age 27 to 28.
Oh wow, going to a black doctor, my black doctor.
My periods have been bad foryears.
And then, like I said when Iwent, my first form of birth
control was the NuvaRing.
I don't know if y'all rememberthe NuvaRing.

Speaker 4 (28:14):
I don't know about that shit.

Speaker 1 (28:14):
That shit crazy as fuck.

Speaker 2 (28:16):
I don't know why I ever tried that shit, but I
think I tried it because of thecommercial.
Never again.
I've been using that for years.

Speaker 3 (28:24):
No that shit got lost , say he got lost.

Speaker 2 (28:27):
Because Y'all know why I got lost that nigga was
them gang shots, them shits gotlost.
So I had to go to the doctor.
So I stopped using that andthen I had stopped using birth
control.
I also wasn't a person I'm nota person that's very, very
sexually active.
I can be sexually active for aperiod and then I'll stop, right

(28:49):
.
So I wasn't worried about birthcontrol for real.
But then the periods keptgetting worse as I got older,
like they kept getting worse.
And it's one thing to missschool, but you can't miss work
because your period, right youknow corporate don't care about
that shit.
Well, I know a lot about a lotof people that be calling out
when they're on their period.
Yeah, I mean now it's easiernow because now, if you think
about it, a lot of jobs willconsider fmla for, because you
can get a lot of those for, butback then you couldn't.

(29:11):
So I had to figure somethingout.
I heard horrible stories aboutdepo and the shot heard horrible
stories because it was like youeither lose a lot of weight,
you gain a lot of weight.
I can't afford to do and Iain't getting nothing.
Then the next one on.
I was looking at that but Ifelt weird because I like, do I
really want like a chip in mefor real?

Speaker 1 (29:30):
Like a chip and no period.

Speaker 2 (29:31):
Yeah, you know what I'm saying.
Like it's crazy, which is?

Speaker 1 (29:33):
why I opted out of that?
Because for me, like I feellike God designed a period for a
reason?

Speaker 2 (29:38):
Yeah, you know.

Speaker 1 (29:39):
And to take that away , you have all that blood, all
them old cells in your body.
Now that shit needs to go.
Oh my God, Exactly the IUDbirth control.
It thins the lining of youruterus so nothing connects to it
.
Eggs don't connect, Sperm don'tconnect Nothing, it's just a

(30:01):
thin lining.

Speaker 2 (30:02):
So I still have periods, it's just not as heavy.
When I didn't have birthcontrol, my periods were so bad.
The actual symptoms was bad,not the actual flow.
The symptoms was bad.
It's still flushing out toxins.
It's still flushing the eggsout.
Symptoms are not as bad as itwas before.
So I still have periods,they're just irregular and

(30:23):
they're just a little bit calmand are there no like natural
birth controls?

Speaker 4 (30:27):
like does it have to be something you gotta switch?
Control you go I mean besides?
Condoms and cover that.
You know what I'm saying.
But like what?

Speaker 2 (30:36):
like what's another way to like I've, I've heard
there is natural birth controlslike herbs and stuff like that.
But also, y'all know me, y'allknow I'm not a person, I, I, I.
I let me just say this Ibelieve in herbs, I believe in
natural, clean eating, all thatstuff, but at the end of the day
, I'm a person that works offscience, right, and at the end

(30:57):
of the day, I know that, yes,herbs work and holistic ideas
work, but I believe in scienceand I think you can mix the two.
At this point in my life, Iwasn't going with the herbs, I
needed science, I needed somescience.
Like, if you was in my shoes,you would go with science too
and buy that bitch up.

Speaker 4 (31:12):
My last question is with the birth control, because
I'm a man, I don't, you know.
I just hear about this stuff.
I learn it at night.
With the birth control, howlong can y'all go before it like
mess up y'all reproductivesystem?
How long can you be on birthcontrol Like will it ever like?
Will it ever like you knowdamage?
Like well, you can't have kids,or what.
It's always just going on.
Once you get off of it, it'sover.

Speaker 2 (31:34):
I mean it's studies, I feel like any it's studies.
Any medicine could have a sideeffect, but the chances are so
low, very low, like a 1% chance,that they still what they tell
about birth control is that theysay if you want to have kids

(31:54):
take it out a year before a yearand a half before.

Speaker 3 (31:55):
No, oh, my fucking God Don't listen to Swish.

Speaker 1 (31:56):
Okay, like, for example, and I don't know nobody
, honestly, that's ever likeagain.
I was on it for 10 years Like.
That's just a long time in mymind, right, exactly A long time
.
I got off off and, no lie, itprobably literally did take a
year and a half for my body toregulate back to normal like.
So that's why they say like, ifyou, birth control is fine, but

(32:18):
also I had low hormonal, somaybe in the long run there are
chances, but I don't even takethat when I tell you I took a
lapse for one month in birthcontrol and got pregnant and got
my daughter and same with myson.

Speaker 2 (32:32):
So I think it just varies On a person.

Speaker 1 (32:35):
So don't think that.

Speaker 3 (32:38):
It'll take a few weeks.

Speaker 2 (32:39):
Don't think about it, don't rely on that.
I think it goes back.
I think it goes back toeverybody's body is different.

Speaker 3 (32:46):
Same with step or shower.

Speaker 2 (32:48):
I ain't going to lie.
I'm scared.
I don't think I'm gonna takemine out because I'm probably
fertile as shit.

Speaker 3 (32:52):
To be honest, I'm like no way, my insurance lapse.

Speaker 2 (32:54):
I couldn't afford the birth control.
I'll be alright till next month.
Next month I'm pregnant, ohshit.
I can't believe this shit and Iwould've been spotted at that
fucking window.

Speaker 3 (33:08):
I love my baby Whenever y'all get off your
period, ain't that when y'allreally fertile, though, Like
when y'all first get off?

Speaker 2 (33:13):
No, it's when you ovulate.
No, it's like your ovulationperiod.

Speaker 1 (33:15):
It's your ovulation period, your ovulation period is
like but while y'all on it,while y'all on it.

Speaker 3 (33:20):
I also heard this Y'all be very hor are low, it's
low, that's what I heard.

Speaker 2 (33:25):
Oh yeah, on your period, I'm definitely horny.
I'm just confirming.

Speaker 3 (33:36):
I'm just confirming.

Speaker 2 (33:38):
I'm very horny.
I'm very horny.
What's up, I'm for the crazy.
Oh yeah, boy.

Speaker 1 (33:49):
Yeah that shit real.
That's why y'all be so mad,that's why y' crib.
Oh yeah, Boy, yeah that shitreal.

Speaker 3 (33:51):
That's why y'all be so mad.
That's why y'all be so goddamnmad.

Speaker 1 (33:54):
Imagine, driving down the road you drop it all of a
sudden.
Ooh Bro, you be mad as shit.

Speaker 2 (34:01):
Literally, Listen y'all.

Speaker 3 (34:04):
The only thing we be talking about these symptoms.
It's bad.

Speaker 2 (34:08):
And don't.

Speaker 3 (34:14):
Like your pelvic, your back, your pelvic like and
the shit is literally worse.

Speaker 2 (34:17):
Yeah, you got the shits.
Your boobs are sore when you'redone bleeding.
Your emotional as fuck.
I be crying like shit me mad asfuck you emotional that's
another question.

Speaker 4 (34:27):
Why, when women have their period, why is it always
an emotional time?
Is it cause y'all just angry?

Speaker 2 (34:34):
so like what's the, what's the happy hormone?
What's it called?
Serotonin serotonin, all thatshit.
The levels be low as fuck ohyeah, mercy Jesus Christ yeah,
so you be crying.
I know that's how I know I,because when I'm about to be on
my period, shit like certainshit makes me upset.
Like I ain't gonna lie, I'mprobably finna be on mine
because that shit with the babyreally like about to.
Normally shit like that wouldfuck with me, but not like this.

(34:56):
But literally I feel like I'mabout to cross.
That's how I know I'm probablyfinna be on my menstrual, but
the symptoms are fucking wild.
You be horny as fuck on yourperiod.
You low-key be like you knowwhat Do a nigga need to run the
red light?
You be horny as fuck.
You be thinking about listen.
You be so fucking like lit onyour period, like you just be

(35:18):
like damn, I wanna fuck.

Speaker 1 (35:19):
I'm not gonna lie, like like for me, like I hate
being on my period but I like ita lot because my boobs be
bigger than you see me, I'mbloating baby, I'm bloating.
I only be bloated the first twodays Before my PMS before.

Speaker 2 (35:37):
I'm bloated, I feel like I'm very sluggish on my
period.
I'm very sluggish, I'm verytired.
It's crazy, for real.
That's why I be trying to tellpeople let's go back to the
other episode Women, our bodiesare amazing.
We, for real.
So that's why we try to tellpeople let's go back to the
other episode Women, our bodiesare amazing.
We be doing so much shit.
Our bodies do so much shit.
We produce a lot of shit.
We whole lot produce humans,like we gotta be appreciated.
So, yeah, that's crazy.

(35:58):
Yeah, that was it for me, mybad.
Yeah, that was Hot Topics withTrapy my bad.
Y'all ready for Terrence'sthoughts.
Yeah, this is to be good.
Oh, happy Thursday y'all.
It's Terrence's thoughts.
Listen, I be thinking about alot of shit and y'all know I be
having a lot of unhinged shit inmy head.
Thought number one In the 2006and 2008 era, we really was

(36:23):
going to the club and businesscasual, right, Right, and I say
that because of my Facebook myfirst club picture when I went
to college and my businesscasual baby.
I had a long blazer on, I hadthem, charlotte Roos heels and I
just bought it at 9 o'clock inthe morning, the wedges and
everything, and we really washaving a good time listening in
a club and business casual.
Why did we do that?

(36:45):
We need to bring that back.
Me and my co-worker was justtalking about it.

Speaker 4 (36:48):
I swear to God that was the best time though.

Speaker 2 (36:54):
There was days when you used to go to like Charlotte
Roos or like Baker's at 9o'clock in the morning and find
your outfit and go to the clubby 8 o'clock that night.
We don't have that, no more.
I just got to go to February 21real quick.
You know, ain't no CharlotteRoos stores, like no walk-in
Charlotte Restores.
It's only one room, 21.
It's a Charlotte Restore.
Actually, the closer one hereis Winston.

(37:14):
Yes, winston is the closestshot of restores.
I see all my heels try toreplace you.
Like that.
Two for 22.
Yes, you remember to the hills.
I used to fuck them bitches up,itches.
I gotta find a pitch.
I'm gonna send a picture toswitch so he up.
I was like 6 inches.
I gotta find a picture.
I'm gonna send a picture toswitch so he can post it right
here.
But I used to fuck them heelsup, but I was.

(37:37):
We used to love wearing themlike pencil black skirts white
skirts.
Bitch, why is you in my closetcause?
That was the picture thatpopped up, because listen.

Speaker 1 (37:49):
I spent freshman year at Central, first semester.

Speaker 2 (37:52):
Shout out to North Carolina Central University.

Speaker 1 (37:54):
My refund check was only $79.83.

Speaker 2 (37:57):
Why was your refund check that low?

Speaker 1 (37:59):
I didn't know how to finesse the system.

Speaker 2 (38:01):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (38:01):
All right they didn't get finessed.
The same Like I'm not lying.

Speaker 2 (38:04):
Second semester when I finally I figured that shit
out First semester real quickMade $2,500, came to that real
quick yeah.

Speaker 3 (38:14):
But I spent that whole refund check at.

Speaker 1 (38:15):
Forever 21 for a club fee I bought.
I still got the shirt.
I still actually wear it.
It's like mustard, yellow andcream collared shirt but like
like a lot silky but, but likeit's like business casual shirt
niggas.

Speaker 2 (38:31):
You know what used to be my store?
What dots oh my god, I lovethat shit.
Everything in there, becauseyou know I'm cheap.
12 shoes, because you know Igot a long foot yes, oh my god,
I miss that I'm gonna be likesee y'all, I don't know.

(38:53):
Okay, so that's just like.
That's just like an upgradedrainbow might have taken over
most of them yeah, that's rightyou know crazy.
I drove.
I drove down freedom the otherday and saw city trends and it
brought back so many memoriesbecause niggas used to go in
there get their coochie fits onthe on the apple bottom jeans.
Oh god, go to city trains.

(39:14):
Oh yeah, out of city.
Oh, they got moomoos in citytrains.
Oh, I love moomoos.
I need a moomoos.

Speaker 1 (39:23):
We need a moomoos night listen, a moomoos night
would be be.
I think I can host that.

Speaker 2 (39:29):
I can host a moo moo night.
I gotta do that we could have amoo moo night.
Y'all, I got me one.
You whisper that you say tellmom, they can't know my secrets.
Listen, shout out to thebusiness casual era.
We bringing that shit back.
We about to bring that shitback cause I'm tired of you,

(39:49):
bitches with your ass cheeks outto the business casual era.
We bringing that shit back.
We about to bring that shitback because I'm tired of you,
bitches with your ass cheeks outin the club.

Speaker 1 (39:54):
Your booty coming to your back.

Speaker 2 (39:55):
It's ashy, it's ashy as hell, because how you coming
to the club with ashy, bootycheeks.
I'm tired of that.
Put the business casual back on.
You know what I'm saying?
Thought number two how comeevery time you bitches go to
Miami, y'all don't come backfriends?
What's up with that?
What the fuck be happening inMiami?
Y'all don't come back friends?
Every time I went to Miami, Iwas at Miami, me and my bitches.
They never fall out of Miami.
But I say this because Iliterally got on Facebook,

(40:18):
instagram yesterday and thisgirl I follow she put me on
close friends had a whole storytime about her and four friends
that went to Miami.
Two came back friends, othertwo fall and then the other one
found out they were sleepingwith the boyfriend.
Like it was just crazy.
Oh god, what is up with thewater in miami that y'all not
coming back friends?
And this is why niggas betalking about us.
That's why they talk about usall the time.

Speaker 1 (40:37):
Honestly, miami not even the same vibe.
No more, they didn't shuteverything down like it's not a
spring spring break vacationdestination for young people.
No more, don't go down there,you're gonna waste your money
and your time.

Speaker 2 (40:47):
It's not what you see , no more, I don't know.
Sprint, Speak for yourself.
I have a good time Every time Igo to Miami.

Speaker 1 (40:51):
Shout out to my mama and cousin I mean, yeah but I'm
saying for like the people thatthink they're going to get like
old school Miami.

Speaker 2 (41:01):
All the people on the strip like they don't do that
no more.
I think that's.

Speaker 4 (41:04):
Y'all in Miami looking for the hoochie daddies.

Speaker 2 (41:08):
See, all right, you know what?
Well, I go to Miami, I go downthere.
I go down there and be awholesome.
I go down there and be awholesome to see my family go to
church.
You know what I'm saying?
Yeah, because you know myfamily down there.
Shout out to all my cousins wehaving a family reunion next
year actually.
So I'm excited to go Miami forthe family reunion.
You know I got 10 aunts anduncles, so all them niggas have

(41:30):
like 10 kids a piece Dang.

Speaker 3 (41:33):
There's a bunch of us out there for real.

Speaker 2 (41:34):
You know I'm about to be lit, but every time I go to
Miami I be telling people whenyou go to South Beach, you kind
of limit yourself to South Beach.
Everything out there,overpriced, it's not cool.
But if you go out there withpeople that you know or people
that's familiar with the city,you go outside of south beach
and you have fun.
So, like when I go down there,I stay with my aunts and my
cousins and them.
So I'm in north miami, I'm inhialeah, I'm in opelika, I'm in

(41:56):
the hood and stuff, and in thehood they be having good shit.
For instance, the office.
If you ever been to miami, youain't never been to the office.
The strip club, man, crab andrice and ass and pussy that
that's all you can ask for.
You know they show pussy out inMiami.
You can see the postpartum, youcan see all that.
They show them all.
You just be in there like thisyeah, you gotta go outside South

(42:19):
Beach.
So go outside South Beach, hitup Now.
Don't go everywhere, becauseyou don't ask for yourself.
In North Miami at 1 o'clock inthe morning, you on your own,
because that's where Kodakpeople be at.
So you're on your own afterthat, oh God.
Thought number three, and itgoes back to what we were
talking about today, and it's aquote.
Actually, the most disrespectedperson in the world is the

(42:40):
black woman.
The most neglected person inthe world is the black woman.

Speaker 4 (42:45):
The most unprotected person in the world is the why
do y'all feel that way, though Idon't know why, because why
can't it?
Before you answer like, yeah,why do you feel that way?
But who's to say it's not theMexican woman, the Arab woman?
How do we know it's the blackwoman?

Speaker 2 (42:58):
This is a quote by one of the greats.
Shout out to Malcolm X.
This is a quote by one of thegreats and the reason why he
gave this quote is because atthat time, in that world, in
that time and place, the blackwoman was so disrespected and he
said it was so disrespected byeven people of their own race
Because black women are on thefront lines.
If you think about it now andI'm going to say this and people
may disagree with me Every timeyou see some shit happening on

(43:20):
the front lines, it's always ablack person, a black woman,
headlining and planning it.
It is what it is.
We are planners, black.
It is what it is.
We are planners, black women.
We are naturally planners,we're naturally leaders.
Now, black men y'all arenaturally the strength and
backbone behind anything, and itis a quote that said behind
every gray black man is a grayblack woman that is planning
that shit.
So there's no disrespect to anyblack men or black anything.

(43:41):
I can't speak to other races.
That's not my race, I don'tgive a fuck, so I can't speak to
that, but I do know in thispoint in time, black women are
disrespected.
We are the highest number of sextrafficked women the highest
number of abused women andrapists, and you look this up
anytime black women go, there'sa higher number of missing black
women.
And it's not because I'm notsaying it's because of black men

(44:02):
anything.
It's because we are not caredfor, we're not protected by the
powers that are supposed toprotect us and I I'm going to
blame white men, white men andwomen.
We're not protected.
You know what I'm saying, soshout out to Malcolm X.
That's a quote that resonatesto this day.
You know, now, again, like Ihad to get on CEO the other time
I'm not going to generalize,because not all people like that
we got people that protect us.

Speaker 4 (44:33):
For instance, the black men in this room love us
every week, so I can never sayit's not y'all everybody not
like y'all.

Speaker 2 (44:35):
So I gotta say that too.
But I do get what you're saying, like the, the higher ups don't
see.
I know what you mean, I knowwhat you mean.
I got you.
So here's to protect the blackwoman, here's to loving black
woman, here's to nurturing blackwomen, here's to creating more
black women to make sure that weare good as a whole.
So I've had to put that up.
I don't know.
That quote been sitting on myheart this week.
I gotta get us right.
Quote number four I said thisthe other week Bojangles really

(44:57):
don't fail to fuck off.
Let me tell y'all.

Speaker 1 (44:58):
Why Say that?

Speaker 2 (45:00):
I went to the Bojangles on sunset y'all Sunset
.
Okay, I'm going to meet aSupreme Combo Y'all, supreme
Combo.
It was 4 o'clock in theafternoon.
I just left from work.
I was hot as hell.
The kids done pissed me off.
I wanted me a four-piece with adirty rice pinto mix and a

(45:25):
fresh, light-skinned biscuitY'all.
First of all, the biscuit wasdark and brown and I wasn't
trying to be colorist, but I wascolorist because I wanted a
light skinned biscuit right.
Then the fries.
The fries was the only thingthat probably was hitting, which
was fine.
But then, you know, sometimesyou got the one person at
BoJack's that like to overseason your fries, so I choked
every time I took a fry down.
Then my chicken tenders, boy.
Three was cooked and one waschewy.
Yes, and you know that's howyou feel in your mouth, oh my

(45:49):
God, and I was so pissed off Ithrew that box out the window.
I got my money back, though,but I threw that box out the
window and went to Popeye's, andyou know what?
I had a great meal.
So shout out to fuckingPopeye's.
And I'm writing a letter to MrBob Jangles, Remember?
that I'll tell you this youwasn't going to go no more,
right, yeah, but don't go nomore because they got roaches,
what else?
I said, yeah, I was doingDoorDash that one time and it

(46:11):
was a roach that was crawlingright there.
She was looking at it.
I was like yeah, I need thisorder.
And she was just looking at itand I'm like she's not going to
kill it.
She just stared at it.
She just stared at it and thenshe went to shout out to the
Popeyes cause I've been alright.
You know, when Bojangles felloff, when they let Jake DeLonge

(46:32):
stop being the quarterback cause, when Jake DeLonge was the
ambassador for Bojangles, thatchick was fire they done.

Speaker 1 (46:38):
Went and got them.
The AI people for thedo-it-yourself take the orders,
whatever her name is, bring back.

Speaker 2 (46:43):
Jake DeLonge, damn it , bryce.
Y'all.
You need to go and get yourpeople together, get your
chicken together, cause thatshit is not it.
Quote number five Thoughtnumber five y'all.
Why does Sunday got to be theend of the week, right?
Why can't Monday be the end ofthe week and we just start over
on Tuesday?
Does that make sense to y'all?
I don't know it makes sense tome.
I thought people thoughtfriends Tuesday.

Speaker 1 (47:04):
I really thought Sunday was the beginning.

Speaker 4 (47:05):
I thought Saturday was the week.
Yeah, I thought Sunday was theweek.
Sunday was the first day of theweek.

Speaker 2 (47:11):
I don't think Sunday was the first day of the week.
When you look on a calendar itsays Sunday, monday, tuesday.

Speaker 4 (47:14):
Thursday, sunday, monday.

Speaker 2 (47:16):
I don't be paying attention like that.
On my calendar I think Saturdayis the end of the week and
Sunday is the beginning of theweek, and maybe it's just
because I beef with Sundays sobad.
I hate Sundays.
Hey yo, but you'll be atborderline brunch, Not, not, I
do, but I hate Sundays.
Let me tell you why.
I love God, I love the Lord,but I hate Sundays because I'm
like, damn, it's the end of mybreak, you know, and I it go

(47:46):
back to just.
I don't think we.
If you think about it, Thinkabout it Around five o'clock in
the afternoon you be like fuck.
You be like fuck.
You keep saying fuck like everyhour.
Fuck, you gotta set your alarm.
Sundays are days where youusually go to the grocery store.
You gotta do laundry.
We can hear I'd be sad as hellon Sunday.
It's crazy.

(48:07):
You'd be good when you go tochurch, though.
Get your chicken biscuit beforechurch, but after church you'd
be sad as hell Chicken biscuit.
Chicken biscuit is sick.
Last thought, Terrence'sthought, and this is for all of
y'all Don't take this offense.
Stop sending your kids tosummer camps without any
deodorant on.
Y'all kids be stank and I betrying to help them with baby

(48:31):
wipes and stuff but it don'thelp.
They be musty, Especially y'allolder kids.
Y'all need to teach y'all kidsto put deodorant on.
What happened to the um?
What's the teenager deodorant?
Teen swim or something?
The little pink one?
It's definitely not strongenough.
They need something.
They need that water, notworking teen spirit.

(48:57):
And listen.
Stop teaching y'all boys tojust spray x or cologne on top
of the state, because it's likeyou got to take a shower then
put the cologne on.
You just can't put the cologneover state.
Now you smell like ass and ax.
It's crazy.
Well, that's what the littleboys like to wear.
They like to wear ax and smelllike ass cheeks.

(49:17):
It's crazy.
So I'm just sick of that.
I'm sorry.
Signed the Summer Camp Director.
That's all for Terrace'sthoughts today.
God damn it.
That's what pisses me off,because I smell it in my fucking
nose.
I'm weird.
They be pissing me off for real.
They just be stinking Axe Like.
You get a whiff of smell.
You're like, oh you know, rightbehind it.
It just pisses me off.

(49:38):
So, yeah, yeah, I think Seey'all be wearing Axe, sometimes
he be sitting here.

Speaker 3 (49:43):
I be smelling.

Speaker 2 (49:44):
No, I won't wear acts .
He wear acts.
You ain't got to lie you tryingto lie on camera for your nigga
.

Speaker 3 (49:49):
Yeah, he ain't got to lie, he wear acts yeah he
watching?

Speaker 2 (49:51):
He definitely watching.
The fans watching.
Huh, he watching, yeah, hewatching.

Speaker 3 (49:56):
I know that nigga probably talking shit, but he
don't wear that.

Speaker 2 (49:58):
He flipping back from TikTok to Twitch.
That's what he doing.
I know that, nigga.
Oh, yeah, you good, you safe,it's my turn.
Welcome to your segment.
It's your first segment.
Yeah, you gotta have like anintro because since, like you
know, hot top is with chubby andthen ceo's like what would you

(50:19):
do?
And mine is like, well, mine issoft girl, soft girl hour it's
soft girl yeah, oh, do it again.
Okay, start already, do it again.
No, soft girl hour.
I immediately float into likepillows yes, go ahead, yeah,

(50:42):
yeah, yeah, she was like thisright now, but anyways, so I'm
in my healing journey, you knowI didn't start it.

Speaker 1 (50:48):
Um, you know, I don't really like to say this that
much, but I'm in therapy now.
We should be happy for that.
Yes, we love that.

Speaker 2 (50:57):
Therapy.
More black people need therapy,so we got to take some
accountability to things.
So I want to know we're goingto go around, pass the mic.
What is everybody's toxic trait?
I'm not toxic.

Speaker 3 (51:11):
Everybody has a toxic trait.
That's the point you got totake accountability.

Speaker 2 (51:16):
You got to take accountability.
I am taking accountability.
I'm not toxic Everybody got atoxic trait.
I'm good with me.
I could admit mine.
I think I'm an overthinker andI overcomplicate a lot of shit
and some things can be so simpleif I just like, just do it, you
know.
But I need to break down, Ineed to have a formula, I need
to have an itinerary, a schedule.
I need to outline the budget.

(51:37):
What's that sign?
I'm a Leo.

Speaker 3 (51:39):
Okay, okay, I'm as.

Speaker 2 (51:40):
Leo, yeah, I'm working on it, though, with my
therapist too therapist too.

Speaker 3 (51:46):
Okay, yeah, I ain't got one yes, you do.

Speaker 2 (51:50):
That's as you think.
You think you're right.
That's what it is.

Speaker 1 (51:52):
Yeah.
What the fuck you say backthere, yeah what the fuck you
say?
Oh, yeah, yeah gospel lyrics iscrazy, insane.
Um I can admit, I self-sabotagesometimes.

Speaker 3 (52:07):
You do, I do like if I see a good thing.

Speaker 1 (52:10):
I highly doubt it and I'll be like, oh no, let me cut
this off before I get hurt Allright, I got a toxic trait.

Speaker 2 (52:18):
I knew you did Shut up.
My toxic trait is that I thinkI have to be in control, and the
reason why I have to be incontrol I think it goes back to
I feel like I got to make shitperfect.
It got to work the way I needit to work, because if it don't
work, I feel like it's going tofail, and I said that yesterday
because I'm on this period, I'mabout to be worked up to 100

(52:45):
hours for summer camp, right,and it's because I don't know
how to let go and let myleadership staff handle it.
I trust them and I've trainedthem well.
I've trained them very well.
They know how I like things togo, but I don't know how to let
go of and let it work for me.
So I think that's my toxic traitI don't know how to let things
go and let it work for me, andwhen that of relationships, it's

(53:07):
like I always gotta have myhand in it.
I can't just let it work for me.
So that's my thing, I guess.
Is that really toxic, though?
Yeah, I think I'm still perfect.
Mine is I give a thousand, athousand, a thousand chances.
You too nice I am, I'm a libra.

(53:28):
Boundaries is the word of thesummer, ladies Is that toxic,
though Is that really toxic?
Yeah, okay, I'm going to getanother one.
I give the best advice, but Idon't follow it.
Oh, that's very toxic.

Speaker 3 (53:40):
Yes, it is Because I give advice.

Speaker 2 (53:42):
People have been to me all the time and I give them
the best advice.
You're helping somebody out andI give them the best advice.

Speaker 3 (53:46):
You're helping somebody else.
There's nothing toxic abouthelping somebody else.

Speaker 2 (53:49):
I don't follow it myself.
I go through the same shitmyself but I don't follow it.

Speaker 3 (53:53):
How?

Speaker 2 (53:53):
is that toxic?
It's toxic to her.

Speaker 3 (53:56):
Oh, we're not talking about toxic to our partner.
No, no, no.

Speaker 2 (53:59):
There is not, we know you're toxic to your partner?

Speaker 3 (54:01):
Not at all.

Speaker 2 (54:03):
Toxic is not linear, toxic does not.

Speaker 1 (54:07):
Tune into the Red Flag Playbook on Sunday.
We're going to get all into thedifferent toxic If I jump over
this table.

Speaker 2 (54:13):
how toxic is this going to be If I get over this
table?
Toxic does not just mean beingtoxic to your partner.
You can be toxic to yourself.

Speaker 3 (54:20):
Hers is basically, she does not pour from her own
cup.

Speaker 2 (54:24):
She's always pouring everybody cups but not her own.
That's very toxic to herself.
Toxic is not linear.
Write that down Are y'allwriting that down?

Speaker 3 (54:32):
Yeah, because y'all probably be taking notes today.
Take notes.

Speaker 2 (54:34):
We learning man All right Nigga notes is crazy Polo.

Speaker 3 (54:39):
Nigga notes is all mental.
I like that, though Nigga notes, niggas don't got, you know all
those kids that used to come toschool with one pen and paper
in their paper and they pocketthey hold their notebook them
niggas.

Speaker 2 (54:51):
They have no book bags them niggas.
So, yes, that that is toxic.
Yeah, how did you come up?
How did you?
How did you come up with askingme if I'm toxic?
Why did you ask that I feelattacked?
That's because I'm trying toget out of my toxic ways.
So I want to know everybodyelse toxic ways of how y'all
gonna get out of that andaccomplish.

Speaker 3 (55:10):
So wait let me flip it, let me flip it.

Speaker 2 (55:15):
What's something that ?
What's a toxic way that otherpeople do that y'all don't like.
Like what's a toxic way.
Matter of fact, what's a toxicred flag to you?
Please check out the Red FlagPlaybook on Sundays on Holly
Unique Radio Seven o'clock.
In a person, in a person, justin a person.

Speaker 3 (55:34):
somebody does you a toxic like red flag, don't know
how to communicate.
Don't know how to communicate.

Speaker 2 (55:37):
I'm a very communicator and these niggas do
not know how they don't at all.

Speaker 1 (55:41):
I think mine is taking taking trauma from old
relationships out on me I'm notdoing my own.
I don't think do that don'ttake that out.
I would never do some of thisshit, that some of these people
do so like don like, don't takeit out on me.
That's toxic to me.

Speaker 2 (55:54):
All right.
So it's ladies night, you know.
So I want to know what iseverybody's definition Well, not
everybody's, but the ladies'definition for what is a girl's
girl to you?
I hate that word.
I hate it.
Why do you hate that word?
Because I think we coined thisgirls, girls thing as people do
not be girls, girls, they don'tbe girls girls, they be mean

(56:14):
girls.

Speaker 1 (56:15):
They definitely don't be girls.
Girls, every girl.

Speaker 2 (56:16):
That's why I asked Every girl that you've heard her
say that she's a girls girls.
She's not a girls girls.
She's not, she's not.
I've never said that I'm agirls girls.
But if you look, am I A girl'sgirl?
I love women.
I'm a girl's girl.
I'm always protect women.
Now, I won't hold womenaccountable because sometimes we
be doing some fucked up shitand I know some fucked up
bitches and I will cut your assoff and I will hold you

(56:38):
accountable, but I'm a girl'sgirl.
But most women who say that,yeah, I'm a girl's girl, the
main ones.
Me is hell.
Me is hell.
Passive, aggressive energy,secret animosity.
You're not a girl's girl forreal.
A girl's girl is somebody thatdon't know how to speak that
shit.
You just love your friends, youshow up.
Showing up.

(57:01):
Don't got to be.
I got to be at your birthdaydinner all the time, but I'm
showing up to you in yourhardest time you call me crying.

Speaker 3 (57:07):
I'm here for you.
Yes, your most neediest time,that's a girl's girl.

Speaker 2 (57:08):
I'm here for you, yes , your most needed time.
That's a girl's girl.
That's why I hate that wholeterm, because these bitches
don't be girl's girls for real,nope.

Speaker 3 (57:15):
No, they be mean girls.

Speaker 2 (57:16):
They be mean girls for real, until they meet a real
.
They think that bow in theirhead makes them a girl's girl.
Thank you, they be mean girls.
They be Look, look.

Speaker 1 (57:29):
Yeah, they be just nasty, she mean girl.

Speaker 2 (57:31):
until they meet a real mean girl, then I'm on your
ass oh, you're mean.

Speaker 1 (57:35):
No bitch, I'm real.

Speaker 2 (57:35):
Yeah, I think I classify girls, girls someone
who like is like genuinelycheering you on even when
nobody's looking like supportingyou that doesn't carry that
jealous in like energy I guess,but, um, yeah, somebody that
truly supports you.
Yeah like, even if'all take ayear, two years off, we come
back, we still friends thereain't no lost love.
That's, I think, what I can sayto somebody.

Speaker 1 (57:57):
Even if you're not friends with that person.

Speaker 2 (57:58):
You ain't got to oh, I hope she fall down a well or
some shit, you know.
Congratulate her.
Some of these bitches can falldown a well, but it's not like
you know we just like we doingthat for real, like we not doing
that.
When you said like a friend,that y'all follow up, I thought
about my friend.
Shout out to.

Speaker 3 (58:18):
Alex, that's not a girl's girl.

Speaker 2 (58:19):
That's yeah.
Shout out to my friend Alex.
We've been best friends sincefifth grade.
We like are just that's my bestfriend.
But sometimes we go like like amonth without talking and I
know when it's like that isbecause either I'm busy or she
just really busy.
But when we like get backtogether, like literally,
literally.
I ain't seen her in like amonth.

(58:41):
We went to Boilea brunch, Wasout there lit.
I want to ask, Like we used to.
So that's the type offriendships I like like.
I don't like that you have to.
Some friends make you feel likesome girlfriends make you feel
like you gotta talk to themevery day, and that puts so much
stress on me.
I can't do that.
I can't do that like.
See, I had a friend like that.
I can't do that.

(59:01):
It's stressful for me and Cdon't talk every day, but when
we key like you know what I'msaying.
I don't even talk to y'all everyday, but we come back on
Wednesdays and Thursdays likehow long I've been doing y'all?
My whole entire life for reallike yeah, so yeah, yeah, that

(59:26):
girls, girl thing that's.
I mean listen, I hate that oh,next Wednesday.

Speaker 1 (59:31):
Sorry to cut you off, don't forget, we have another
live show Cookout Style.

Speaker 3 (59:34):
That's not Wednesday, that's.

Speaker 1 (59:35):
Thursday, I mean next Thursday.

Speaker 3 (59:36):
Lord Between you and.
Ceo with the.

Speaker 1 (59:38):
February, it's free.
Bring your own lawn chair oryour blanket, however you want
to sit down.

Speaker 3 (59:44):
Bring your girls' girls.

Speaker 1 (59:45):
Bring your crew.
We're going to have food.
Des is going to be bartending.
Where is it going to be?

Speaker 2 (59:49):
Out here in the backyard, so listen, I don't
know if you can see, but you seeon that screen right there, I
see that.

Speaker 3 (59:55):
The one right in the middle.
The one right in the middle.
Oh, what a white thing.

Speaker 2 (59:59):
Now you see the white thing.
It's a stage back there, ohnice.

Speaker 3 (01:00:06):
So, polo, so graciously, you know, we're
going to have food.
I'm hoping to get a hookahvendor.

Speaker 2 (01:00:11):
I got a lead on a hookah vendor.
We're going to have hookahs outthere.
Probably it's going to be fire.
I done already got it.
I ain't going to lie.
Now, one thing about me and I'mstabbing on this, you're going
to agree.
I keep bad bitches around meEvery time, every time.

Speaker 3 (01:00:27):
I work for them, but she gonna keep a bad bitch
around her.
I vouch.

Speaker 2 (01:00:34):
Oh my God you know me and Swish argue like old people
for real.
But he right though, you knowwhat I'm saying.
I keep a bad bitch around me,so the hoochies popping out I
got the homegirls popping outLike you know what I'm saying.
So, fellas, it's free entry.
Come meet the love of your life.
You never know, terrence mightdo her single train out there.
That would be lit, okay Talkabout it.

Speaker 3 (01:00:53):
We got to bring it back.
Yeah, we got to do it.

Speaker 1 (01:00:55):
We got to bring my single train back.
Yeah, we got to go through ourtwo cents, because if not,
because my man, we being CEO, weis being CEO, oh no.

Speaker 3 (01:01:07):
That's great.

Speaker 4 (01:01:07):
You know what you can't see, fuck.

Speaker 2 (01:01:09):
I feel right, dog, you know how I feel when you see
this chair.
Hey, yeah, it's that chair,though.
It's that chair it ain't got tobe that chair.

Speaker 3 (01:01:19):
You feel it though?
Right, I'm going back, I'mgoing to that chair.
That's why I be looking at you.
That's why I be looking at youevery Thank you.

Speaker 2 (01:01:24):
Go ahead, friend.
Go ahead, I'm weak.
Okay, so this is not like aquestion or nothing, but we got
to start pouring ourselves intolike you know how, nobody else
pours ourselves into ourselves,like doing the smallest things.
That's what my therapist told me.
She told me to start doingsmall things for myself that you

(01:01:47):
expect for a man to do.
So when a man sees you, he'slike, oh, she's doing this.
You know what's your favoritesmall thing to do for yourself?
I used to buy flowers formyself, but I haven't done that
in a while, so I think tomorrowI'm gonna buy myself some
flowers, because you deservethose flowers, friend.
I do what's your favorite smallthings to do for yourselves.
I enjoy a good spa day.
Yeah, professional massage, sothat's something I like to treat

(01:02:11):
myself I have not gotten amassage in so long.
I think I might set that shit up.
I got somebody for you.

Speaker 1 (01:02:17):
I know somebody too.

Speaker 2 (01:02:19):
I know a man he got you butt ass naked, so wait,
wait.

Speaker 3 (01:02:28):
You said a massage, he had you wet butt ass naked
whatever way it's there to be,let me holler at you after the
show Let me holler at you.
Y'all saw that man man CharlieMobile.
I don't know if y'all saw thatman on.

Speaker 2 (01:02:40):
Twitter he be giving massages, but he be like All of
it.
Yeah, we'll talk about it.
That's for real, baby.
Look at you turn around sofucking quick.
What's your favorite smallthings?

Speaker 1 (01:02:56):
friend.
This is my surprise y'all andy'all might think this corny.
Oh God, going to get ice creamfrom Dairy Queen.

Speaker 2 (01:03:03):
I love that for you actually Okay, like a blizzard
or Like just whatever, what'syour Dairy Queen order?
Oh, usually a banana splitblizzard.

Speaker 1 (01:03:09):
Yeah, what's your Dairy Queen order?
Oh, usually a banana split,blizzard.

Speaker 2 (01:03:13):
Yeah, I'll have that for you.

Speaker 1 (01:03:14):
That's like my little treat.
Like if I'm having a good dayor if I feel like I accomplished
a lot or if I'm celebratingsomething, I'm like you know
what?
I'm going to go get me some icecream.
I'm going to go Dairy Queen, Ilike that.
Get a little blizzard.
I might sit outside by myself,eat it.
That's my little treat.
That's some good small things.
I don't think I got one.

Speaker 2 (01:03:31):
Y'all you don't do anything for yourself, Right?
You know what it is.
I really don't do enough formyself.
You cook, I don't.
I do cook, but when I cook, Idon't cook for myself.
Y'all know when I be cooking.
Y'all be seeing me on Instagram.
Cooking is always for otherpeople.
That's two weeks.
I'm tired of Mexican cheese.
I don't be cooking.
You know what it is when I dosmall things for myself, like

(01:03:53):
what you said when you thoughtyou had a good day.
I'm literally on a video game.
I'm playing Call of Duty.
That's probably the small truthmyself, Because any other time
I don't have time to do it.
So I was on there the other day.
One thing about me I one Is thesoft girl era, a rebrand for

(01:04:14):
women who are tired of beinghurt.
Oh shit, when the fuck you getthat question from?
I don't think so, my bestfriend.

Speaker 3 (01:04:24):
That's just what females scream when they're
tired of holding, when they'retired of being that tired.

Speaker 2 (01:04:27):
I don't get that.

Speaker 3 (01:04:29):
I was a whole bus check it out I mean, I didn't go
whole bus so you need to bebusing.
I'm doing this episode withoutyou about to piss us off?

Speaker 2 (01:04:35):
No for real Like shut up, Shut up.

Speaker 1 (01:04:38):
Boom.
I don't think it's a rebrandfor girls that are hurt.
I think it's a rebrand forgirls that are tired of being
strong Talk about it and notbeing because they want to be or
they have to like.
They want to be being strongbecause they have to be like.
They are the ones providing,they are the ones taking care of

(01:04:59):
business.
They have all theseresponsibilities.
So I feel like stepping intotheir soft career is like for
most women they might associateit with a man, some might not,
but whatever that looks like foryou, it's just like you tired
of being looked at as havingthis some say unsay masculine
energy, because you're so strongand independent.

Speaker 2 (01:05:18):
Yeah, I can agree with that.
Yeah, I think soft girl era islucky, like what you said.
I think at first people took itas like a rebrand of a wife air
.
But it's not a wife.
It's like you said, becausesome women don't aspire to be a
wife.
But it's not a wife era.
It's like you said, becausesome women don't aspire to be a
wife.
They want to aspire to have agreat career, successful.
Make sure they're creatingfoundations for themselves.

(01:05:42):
For me, soft girl era I thinkI'm entering in that era because
, like I said, I've establisheda career.
Now I own my house, I own mycar and stuff.
I own things.
The next part, I think think,is the software is a two-parter,
because now the next part is tofinding somebody that matches
that.
That keeps you in that area, towhere you're continuously
building yourself, continuouslylike building a foundation.

(01:06:04):
So I think that's what it means.
I think it's also a differentmeaning to everybody.
So some people's soccer era isa wifey year, you know, and they
feel like they can get takencare of and stuff like that.
Some people's not like that,but it's not for women that are
tired of being hoes, ronald,right fuck Ronald, he be saying
the dumbest shit.

Speaker 3 (01:06:21):
Stupid as hell like he's talking back there that's
funny.

Speaker 2 (01:06:25):
Yeah, wow, are you in soft gray area?
See, I'm getting there, I lovethat for you.

Speaker 3 (01:06:30):
I've been leave me alone, she and her limbo.
What era is this?

Speaker 1 (01:06:38):
she and her slapping nigga, I'm about to slap the
fuck out of you.

Speaker 3 (01:06:41):
I'm just curious we supposed to be learning?

Speaker 2 (01:06:46):
right, I'm trying to learn what era this is so let me
ask you what era are you in?
Swish it's about y'all tonight.

Speaker 3 (01:06:53):
It ain't about me.
It ain't about me tonight, solet me ask you what era are you
in?
Swish, it's about y'all tonight.
It ain't about me.
It ain't about me.

Speaker 2 (01:06:59):
tonight.
I'm on my healing journey,trying to heal from past trauma,
past anger, now anger that I'mtrying to get rid of and, you
know, just trying to be a softgirl instead of being so
masculine, dominant all the time.

Speaker 1 (01:07:07):
Okay, and that's real , though to be a soft girl
instead of being so masculinedominant all the time.

Speaker 2 (01:07:12):
Okay, and that's real , though, for real, that's real.
What's masculine dominant,though?

Speaker 3 (01:07:18):
What is masculine dominant, y'all know what it is.

Speaker 1 (01:07:20):
Okay.
So masculine energy isbasically.
It's not what you think it is.
Everybody's definition isdifferent, but to me, masculine
energy is having to always bestrong, having to do everything.
You depend only on yourself.
You get up every day.
You're not used to somebodyeven getting the bags for you
and taking them upstairs becauseyou're so used to doing it.

(01:07:41):
That's masculine energy.
So soft girl era on the reverseside of that is like now.
Reverse is like now I'm just agirl like you know, like you can
carry my bags.
I can't do this.
It's like taking that.
I don't want to say like genderor sexist rollback, but in a

(01:08:04):
sense like I'm a girl Like you,the man You're supposed to be
the provider, like you'resupposed to, you know.

Speaker 3 (01:08:11):
I don't know how to react to that.
So you have to be in arelationship to be in a soft
girl area, or can you be in asoft girl area I?

Speaker 2 (01:08:16):
don't know necessarily.
That's what we were just saying.
It doesn't necessarily.
Healing is soft girl area, yeahyou don't necessarily got to be
in a relationship, I feel said,when you're in that masculine
energy.
I probably have been in thatsince 16.
My dad died at 16.
At 18 my mom got sick and diedlike seven years after.
But in between that seven yearsI was her main caretaker.

(01:08:39):
She couldn't speak, couldn'tmove out the bed.
It was just me and a nurse,right, and my brother, so I was
getting up taking care of stuff.
This was all at 19, 20, 21, 22,23.
So I didn't have that era whereI could just go to college and
be free and be soft and justlive a life.
I had to get up and pay billsand shit, right.
So now I'm in the era where,yes, I'm still doing that, but

(01:09:00):
I'm comfortable enough to whereI can go sparge myself or I can
go take care of myself.
I can go sit in the park andread a book, I can go be soft
and not having to worry abouttaking care of shit.
And I think different lifeevents put you in that masculine
energy in that era.
That's not that soft career.
So no, it doesn't necessarilyhave to.
Again, like Cyn said, itdoesn't got to base everything.

(01:09:21):
Everything's not based off of aman.
It could just be where you arein life, right as far as that.

Speaker 1 (01:09:27):
Absolutely.

Speaker 2 (01:09:28):
Yeah, and start doing small things for yourself.
Yeah, so Absolutely, and startdoing small dance videos.
So again, now that we'veanswered, what are you in?

Speaker 3 (01:09:36):
Tossy, I'm chilling.

Speaker 2 (01:09:37):
The good dad era.

Speaker 3 (01:09:38):
Just be the good daddy, that's all.

Speaker 2 (01:09:40):
Okay, that sounds good.
That's it.
I'm good daddy.
That's it.
I'm Swish.
Are you a daddy or are you afather?

Speaker 3 (01:09:45):
I'm a father, a daddy a holiday, a granddaddy holiday
granddaddy, granddaddy emphasison the granddaddy with the
clothes.

Speaker 1 (01:09:53):
Nah, for real nigga might be emphasis on
granddaddy's.
So listen, we have again thebeautiful host of hoe busters
podcast busting these hoes oneday at a time.

Speaker 2 (01:10:06):
Copyright that tagline, copyright that tagline.

Speaker 1 (01:10:11):
So for the, viewers that you know may be new to your
platform or never heard of HoBusters.
Can you just kind of give thema brief synopsis of how you even
got into it and what exactly HoBusters podcast is all about?

Speaker 2 (01:10:21):
and I'll wait for you to tell a specific story.
I can't wait for you to tell meeither.
Okay, so I am recently divorced.
I was with my ex-husband for 19years and we met.
I was with my ex-husband for 19years and we met when I was 18.
So it was just a fucked uprelationship, to be honest, I
don't even know a nice way tosay it and in these last few

(01:10:42):
months it's been even worse.
Like trying to co-parent withthis man has been hell, but
anyway.
So my ex was a compulsive liar,compulsive cheater.
It was just impossible after awhile to just get him to be on
the same page.
I felt like I had to doeverything.
I felt like the nigga in therelationship.
I'm the one making the money,I'm carrying responsibilities,
I'm doing everything.

(01:11:02):
That nigga was a homosexual andI didn't even understand until
I stepped out of it like wow, hewas really just here to get the
benefits and I realized a lotof men are doing that.
Relationships too, so when I myex-husband you know I mentioned
to y'all was basically in lovewith his first girlfriend and

(01:11:24):
kept her on the line for aboutthe full length of our
relationship.
So one of the final times Iconfronted him with like you
know here, y'all still dealingwith each other, y'all still
sneaking, y'all still dealingwith each other, y'all still
sneaking around, y'all stilldoing this I'm sick of this shit
.
I want a divorce.
And it was like you know,you're the fucking hoe buster.
I'm sick and tired of you in myface trying to bust me with
these hoes.
Like you know, you need to getout.

(01:11:44):
Get out my business, give mesome privacy.
Like that's what we doing, sure?
Um, so I kind of held on to thename because I've just never
heard anyone use that wordbefore like never, I mean it's.
So it was just funny to me,like this name is hilarious.
I trademarked the name andhonestly, um, you know, I spent
years trying to help him get hisown podcast off the ground.

(01:12:07):
He was into like vintage stuffand sports.
We're real smart into historyand things like that but I just
don't think he had theconfidence to get out and
actually do this, put himselfout there on social media or in
front of the camera and talk topeople, or it just was all me.
So, behind the scenes, I'mdoing everything, I'm running
his little business, I'm runningthe website, I'm doing
everything, and I'm like notdoing shit for myself, wow.

(01:12:28):
But when I finally had thestrength to walk away and leave
him, um, like I told you, mywhole world opened up.
It was just so many things thatstarted happening and since I
still had all the equipment andmacbooks and microphones, I'm
like let me just do something.
Like let me just tell my story,let me talk about what I've
been through, because in thatone year journey I've had the
podcast.
It's amazing how many women hadthe same story.

(01:12:50):
like I feel like you know whatmy shit wasn't even all that
fucking bad because when I hearsome of these other women's
stories and how these men werechoking them out and physically
abusive or like draining theirbank accounts or taking their
cars and wrecking, like justdoing all kinds of off the wall
shit.
I'm like you know my shit wasbad but, wow, there's so many
more women and I'm not gonnaeven like discount the men
who've been through this shittoo, because it's a lot of men

(01:13:12):
who experienced dealing withsome hoes out here too.
Um, but that was just kind oflike you know what it was a wake
up call for me, like find myvoice, work on building up my
confidence, work on, you know,reconnecting with all the people
he tried to separate me from ortriangulate me.
You know, have me in thesesituations.
Um know, it's been awesome,it's been really dope and

(01:13:33):
meeting y'all ladies and havingy'all come on board, share some
of y'all hoe busting stories,because y'all y'all had some
interesting situations and rightI uh listen, hope because let
me tell you something aboutthese niggas.
Okay, y'all not let me tell youabout these.
It's, it's, so many stories, ohGod.

(01:13:54):
That's the reason why me and Ccame up with the Red Flag
Playbook, because we got so manystories.
I think on your podcast wetalked about your whole busting
story.
We didn't even get into yourwhole busting story.

Speaker 3 (01:14:05):
We sure didn't.

Speaker 2 (01:14:06):
We ran out of time, we were supposed to talk about
boot cuts and um boot cuts andjeans and shacks and listen.
And after I left your show Igot into another situation and
we call him pissy ass mattress.
So no, I just listen.
Your show is perfect for womenbut, like you said, because you

(01:14:28):
know, tiktok love to say, I hatemen for real.
It's perfect for men too,because these women be having
fucked up ass stories too.

Speaker 3 (01:14:33):
They do I mean, I've had some these women be fucked
up too.

Speaker 2 (01:14:37):
You might need to invite Ronald on your show.

Speaker 3 (01:14:40):
How many hoes you got ?

Speaker 2 (01:14:42):
I'm going to bust some hoes, hey yo.
I do like to have the maleperspective, though, because
it's really fun and, like I said, I don't think we realize how
much they go through too.
It's not always just us.
We be like, hey niggas, ain'tshit, yeah, but it's a lot of
bitches, ain't shit too.
Really, though, yeah, I meanyeah.

Speaker 3 (01:14:59):
I'm scarred, I'm scarred.
Thanks Now.

Speaker 1 (01:15:02):
I believe it.

Speaker 2 (01:15:09):
Because some of Some of these women.

Speaker 3 (01:15:10):
They treacherous.
I'm ready to tell my story.

Speaker 2 (01:15:12):
What story you?
Got, please tell us a goodwhole busting story.
You got one now.

Speaker 1 (01:15:17):
Yeah, come on, ronald , tell us one now Real quick.
I'm sorry.

Speaker 2 (01:15:23):
So y'all done, met my bro.

Speaker 3 (01:15:24):
Kilo before.

Speaker 2 (01:15:25):
Yes, we have met Kilo .
Yes, we have.

Speaker 3 (01:15:27):
So you know how niggas do you feel me?
When they meet a girl, theylike, they like bragging on
today to their homeboy.
You feel me like yeah, I justmet this joint, we've been
kicking it, uh, uh.
He's like oh word, what's hername?
I tell her, tell her, tell himher name.
And then he like uh, I'm likeyeah.
And then he showed me thefacebook.

(01:15:49):
What.

Speaker 2 (01:15:50):
What's the name?

Speaker 3 (01:15:51):
I ain't even gonna do it like that.
Y'all had to usher in.

Speaker 2 (01:15:56):
What's the same girl?
Y'all had the same girl.

Speaker 3 (01:15:59):
The initials was in B .
The initials was in B.
Wow, that's crazy.
And then, yeah, she was Didy'all ever confront her.
I confronted her that day.

Speaker 2 (01:16:07):
Okay, he gave me the gold he he gave me the gold he
was like Look, I don't even care.
Do your thing.

Speaker 3 (01:16:10):
What you say, i'ma tell you how Dialabolical these
girls, females, is.
I confronted her About it rightwhat you say?
And she talk about something Iain't gonna fuck the nigga.
Oh, she kept it peaked yeahlike she like.
So what, what, what's up, what?

Speaker 2 (01:16:25):
Yeah, I did it.
What what, hey yo.

Speaker 3 (01:16:27):
I took a bag.
I took a bag.
I know you did, I know you didI love that gangster shit.
She can't be gangster.
Three-piece Tinder.
This was years ago, though.
This was years ago, you wereTinder One hoe buster.
That's one of them.
I got plenty more.

Speaker 2 (01:16:42):
I got too many of them.
Yeah, we've all got somestories for sure.

Speaker 1 (01:16:45):
Nah, I definitely got some stories Tell us about a
time you had to bust some hoes.
Talk about the referee.

Speaker 2 (01:16:57):
Why we gotta talk about that nigga.
Yeah, talk about the referee.
I didn't hear that story.
We talked about it on thepodcast it was uh it was what'd
you do Was it the $600.

Speaker 1 (01:17:06):
The referee you got a $600, so you gave your
boyfriend a $600 for the tooth.

Speaker 2 (01:17:12):
That was you.
I never knew.
Look, now I need to at leasthear a quick.
You know a little.
I'm going to do a quick thingbecause I never knew that was
you, you, stupid as hell, goahead Tell her the story.
No, no, stupid.
Oh my God, what you do.
Okay, so the ref.
Where am I at the ref at?

Speaker 3 (01:17:26):
I don't know where I'm at.
I don't remember where I'm at.

Speaker 1 (01:17:29):
I don't remember.
I was talking to this ref guyfor a good three months.

Speaker 2 (01:17:36):
He still lived with his baby mom.
He'll be like are we nottogether?
She's out the state because shea traveling nurse.
Red flag he laughs up.

Speaker 1 (01:17:48):
You know that's bullshit.

Speaker 2 (01:17:51):
Switch TikTok.
Yeah that shit gone.
He laughed because that's someshit he would do for real,
alright so traveling that'scrazy.

Speaker 1 (01:18:02):
So he would ask me, you know, for money and stuff
for like food.

Speaker 2 (01:18:06):
I'm like you ain't got no food in me.
I'm nice, I'm a Libra.
I gave him some money, you know.
So then we went to this.
Y'all know where y'all gambleat the spots the gaming spots.

Speaker 1 (01:18:17):
So, yeah, I went there with my second mom and he
was there.
I had to tell him to come, sowe just started laughing and his
teeth fall out, like he wasjust like that was you, oh my
god, no, 36, oh my god, askingme for me now I'm 24.

Speaker 2 (01:18:41):
That's your fucking problem, these niggas be.

Speaker 3 (01:18:43):
Wait.

Speaker 2 (01:18:49):
Y'all so irritated Anyways.

Speaker 1 (01:18:55):
Y'all lying, but hey, Robin Dang these hoes be not
bothering.

Speaker 2 (01:19:01):
Shut up Swish Anyways .

Speaker 1 (01:19:03):
Okay, okay, the T-fold of that is crazy Okay
what else happened.

Speaker 2 (01:19:06):
So then he was like see.

Speaker 1 (01:19:07):
this is why I need $600 for my T so.

Speaker 2 (01:19:15):
So I'm like dang and I thought my boot cut was crazy.
I was cracking the fuck up andthen, and then I'll be like,
then I'll like uh I'll try to goto his house.

Speaker 1 (01:19:26):
He's like, nah, nah, you can't come to my house
because the baby mama livingright, yeah.
But I was like, but ain't sheout of town?
He's like she just came backlast night, oh God.

Speaker 2 (01:19:35):
She living there with that man that never got no
fucking teeth.

Speaker 1 (01:19:38):
He said she's in the military.
No, no, she said that we ain'tgetting military bro, she making
no money to get that nigga $600.

Speaker 2 (01:19:51):
Yeah yeah, I'm looking at you so different.
Don't do that.
I never knew that was you.
Listen, that was before thetime that I'm in.
Now I'm in a good relationship.

Speaker 3 (01:20:01):
I feel good.

Speaker 2 (01:20:02):
He got his teeth.
You know he got his teeth.
He always cheeses on thefucking camera.

Speaker 3 (01:20:07):
Do we know?

Speaker 2 (01:20:08):
that nigga got all his teeth.
Listen, that's very important.
I remember talking to somebodynot talking to, but had them on
my show and we got the most ofthe interview and didn't realize
that a lot of his top teethwere missing.

Speaker 3 (01:20:21):
Wow.
I was like Because he had agood way of like talking and
keeping like that.
It wasn't even like that.

Speaker 2 (01:20:29):
It wasn't even like that and we were talking about
being in a poly relationship.

Speaker 3 (01:20:33):
He be poly with no teeth.
I ain't no teeth, I ain't gonnalie.
We're not even talking aboutpoly relationships.
I hate poly relationships.

Speaker 2 (01:20:40):
It's always the ugly niggas that want to be poly for
you Listen?
I couldn't believe it.
I mean we were talking and hehad a really sad.
He came on, you know, givinghis negative experience dealing
with a narcissistic woman who,like, cheated on him and then
went off with the girlfriend andmoved out you ain't got no
teeth.

Speaker 3 (01:20:57):
Teeth fell out from eating too much pussy.
He's in a party relationship.
Teeth fell out from eating toomuch pussy Back and forth.
I can't.

Speaker 2 (01:21:05):
I can't, I just don't understand at these young ages
how that's my whole thing Wereyou on drugs or what?
Happened how are you missing?
I don't know.
Teeth are very important to me.

Speaker 1 (01:21:17):
Wow, that would have been it for me too, baby.

Speaker 2 (01:21:23):
Honestly, you took the cake because I thought good,
jeans and shacks were crazy,but that, right there, we're not
going to bring up that shit.
That shit still triggers me tothis day.
I kind of want.
That's just crazy.
We're not going to bring uppictures of that shirt Because
that shit still triggers me tothis day, because that nigga
popped up on my phone.
I kind of want to hear, maybelater.
I mean, we talked about it onthe podcast.
I was Come on, man, real quick,real quick, real quick.

Speaker 3 (01:21:42):
You know just a quick little story.

Speaker 2 (01:21:47):
I'm so ashamed dating this guy this after our podcast
with you I started dating thatokay and I I was really liked
him.
It was a weekend where he wasgetting introduced to my friends
and family.
Okay, again did a game nightand people know any of the folks
at my house is full of alcohol.
We get lit.
So that was his test on hangingwith my friends because my
friends the whole day with herokay my brother best friend came

(01:22:09):
.
My big sister came in and she'sa drinker bourbon whiskey and
she started testing him.
She was like, yeah, I drinkthis and that, and he thought he
would keep up with her.
Oh, boy, okay he started takingwhiskey shots and bourbon shots
, knowing that we had tooktequila shots before that.
So he got real drunk and youknow I was like, yeah, just go
ahead and lay down, you knowit's 1 o'clock.
The party was not winding down,but it was like cool, let's go

(01:22:32):
ahead.
And lay down.
He was spending the weekend, solay down, I'm still partying
with my friends until like 2, 3o'clock in the morning.
I go get in the bed, I cleaneverything up, wash my face,
everything.
I go get in the bed.
You know, I know he's asleepbecause he's drunk, so he snores
.
I'm just like laying here right, fall asleep.
It's like 5 in the morning andI don't know why I woke up.

(01:22:53):
I woke up for some reason and Ifelt the bottom of my back wet,
but I thought it was like.
I thought it was me, though.
I thought it was me because onelike we talked about earlier one
of my symptoms when I be likeabout to be on my, I have night
sweats when I'm about to go onmy period.
So I thought it was me.
So I'm like damn, I'm saying tomyself.

(01:23:14):
And then I'm like, let me getup.
So I get up and something, tellme to turn the light on.
Oh my god, I turn the lamp onand I realize it's not me.
I look over this man so drunkhe forgot to get up to go to the
bathroom oh my god and peed inthe bed y'all.
How old again.
That's crazy.
This is a man that is 28, 29.

Speaker 3 (01:23:34):
Oh Lord.

Speaker 2 (01:23:35):
So I look, y'all know me, first of all, everybody
here know me.
I crashed out easy right.
So I'm standing there at thebed like this, hands clasped,
and I'm looking cause I don'tknow if I want to like flip the
mattress with the nigga.
Oh, so I'm like, so as I dothat I don't even like, you know
, I go handle my shit and go tothe bathroom, calm down.

(01:23:57):
I come back, I tap this man, Isay hey, hey, hey, hey, hey.
And he looking at me, I saidlisten, I want you to look at my
fucking mattress.
And he look y'all, I, I kidy'all, not I low-key, felt bad
because that man was low-key intears because he embarrassed my
mattress.
He was in tears, in tears.

(01:24:17):
So he got up and you know howpeople do.
They be trying to fix shit.
They be just doing shit to tryto fix shit.
You know, block here, blockthere.
I'm still standing there likethis.
I'm like, look, don't evenworry about it, just go.
You know he was staying with mebecause he didn't live in
Charlotte, lived in Raleigh.
So I was like, look, just goout there, take a shower in the
bathroom.
Like, let me figure this out.

(01:24:38):
So as he walked out.
I'm looking at my mattress y'all.
I'm looking at my mattress.
I'm like, bro, this is a niceass bed.
I paid a lot for that fuckingmattress.
I'm looking at it so pissedBecause y'all know like with
kids being in bed, you know yougot to get rid of the mattress.

(01:24:58):
There's no keeping that shitout of the way.
No, there's not.
So at this point I'm just likepissed.
The man pissed in the mattress.
He was shamed.
We had to go to a that couldn'teven look at him, and all my
friends and family know it'ssomething wrong because I'm not
even looking at this nigga.
And then you stuck with him forthe weekend.
He had one more day with me.

(01:25:19):
Ah and yo.
We didn't sleep in that PCSmattress.
I slept in a guest bedroom.
He slept on that damn couch andI was worried about my fucking
couch Because you know I don'tknow what.
I was worried about my fuckingcouch Because you know I don't
know what you're saying.
I'm worried about my fuckingcouch, right?
So more.
I mean he did pay for a newmattress.
He sent me $900 to get a newmattress.

Speaker 3 (01:25:39):
He paid $900.

Speaker 2 (01:25:40):
Yeah, yeah, that mattress I had was like I ain't
going to lie, it was like a$1,200 mattress.
Yeah, that was back when Ifirst bought it, but I similar
mattress that was like 900 orwhatever.

Speaker 3 (01:25:54):
So I bought a 900 mattress, because that was about
to be my next question.

Speaker 2 (01:25:55):
He better have a place.
Yeah, he did.
He did send me money for hesent me money for the mattress
on monday.
He left sunday.
He said it monday, um, butafter that I just could never
look at him the same and we juststarted arguing after that like
little shit pissed me off.
Little shit pissed me off andafter that it was just, was just
like but people told me likesome men was like.
You know, you gotta beunderstanding when you drunk

(01:26:16):
like that.
I've never met a person thatcan't hold their liquor, can't
get up and go to the bathroom,right?

Speaker 3 (01:26:21):
I'm gonna at least pee before I go to bed at this
age.

Speaker 2 (01:26:23):
No, I'm gonna pee in the bed.
You think you can pee in thebed?

(01:26:48):
You pee in the bed.
Swish, I pee.
I have never met and I don'tknow about y'all ladies, but I
just ain't never met a man thatcouldn't hold his pee and get up
and go to the bathroom.
I have never, at least peebefore you go in the bed, like
you know what I'm saying, butyou so drunk you couldn't hold
your liquor and that thathonestly, to me that was a some
baggage.
Anyway, he used to watch thepodcast all the time and I think

(01:27:12):
after that episode I talkedabout the first time he was
talking shit on Twitter.
He was talking shit.
He's going to probably talkshit again now that I talked
about it again.

Speaker 4 (01:27:22):
He was known as Pissy McPister.
I had to have a woman peed inmy bed.
She was the same shit, but thewoman.
I was pissed.

Speaker 2 (01:27:30):
That's why I said I'm not mad at it, because, men, if
a woman did that to you too, Istill would be pissed as a human
, pissing in the mattress as agrown ass person, right unless
you got medical conditions yousay yes yeah, like eventually I
kind of brought it up, but Ikind of just faded out.

Speaker 4 (01:27:44):
It was like you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (01:27:48):
But after that, Like everything was nitpicking and I
felt bad.
But after that I just couldn'tlook at him to say like
everything he did pissed me off.
We just kept arguing, I startedbringing up other shit and we
ended up like breaking up, nottalking.
I couldn't admit the realreason was because you pissed at
my bed, because I felt like a.
I got a whole bunch of stories.

(01:28:08):
I ain't even told a story aboutthe Jamaican man that nigga
still got me in a choco.
Y'all remember that.
Remember how the Bullseye Woodsa couple months ago, that nigga
got me in a choco for real.
We love coming on your podcast.
I'm glad it was a greatexperience.
The studio was interesting andgreat.

Speaker 3 (01:28:27):
It's like a treehouse and colorful and fun.
I know right colorful and fun.

Speaker 2 (01:28:34):
I know right, that's the best way I could describe it
as going up the steps and stuff.
It's like a tree house.
It's so fun.
I think the gamer in me.
The secret gamer in me was likeoh my god, this is just too
cool.

Speaker 3 (01:28:40):
And so you remember I walked in, I was like oh yeah,
that's playstation.

Speaker 2 (01:28:46):
I told you we were talking about that podcast like
weeks after that.
That's why we had to try to getyou on here for the longest.

Speaker 3 (01:28:52):
I know it's been rough.

Speaker 2 (01:28:54):
Six months ago it was .
It was quite some time.
Yeah, I think it was January,so that was a while ago.
So I'm so happy you got to joinus tonight, me too.

Speaker 3 (01:29:02):
I enjoy y'all ladies.

Speaker 2 (01:29:05):
I'm so happy you got to go on here and hang out.
Oh yeah, man is here because hejust yeah you got I always like
to see y'all go back and forth,because I feel like you would
shut him down.

Speaker 4 (01:29:21):
Stories too, yeah, he's the original hope bus to
life from 1900 so, oh, lord,shout out to ceo man.

Speaker 2 (01:29:24):
Yes, as we wrap this up, y'all, next thursday, no
advisory podcast, the cookoutedition off the grid, off the
grill.
We are in the studio, but we inthe backyard with it.
It's old family time, feel?
You know, black people, we'regoing to throw a cookout for no
reason at all and we justdecided to do a cookout, all
right, shout out to Polo, theIncredible Polo.

(01:29:45):
We're going to be back there.
Donald Swish, y'all get to meetTrap City.
Y'all get to meet me.
Y'all get to meet CEO.
You get to see Des.
Sleeves will be there.
All the people that you hearbehind the scenes.
We will be there.
You get booze with Des.
We got food by Slim.
Slim's out there bringing food.
We might have a hookah vendor.

(01:30:07):
Come out there and join us.
We got music.
Girls are going to beass-trucking.
We're going to have midgets,clowns oh, you know I'm throwing
ass, the midgets.

Speaker 1 (01:30:15):
No, no, no, she said it.

Speaker 2 (01:30:18):
She don't throw no ass.
I am.
That's her first part.
That's not her first part.
She's not going to throw no ass.
She's going to have her bootson the ground on the ground next
week.
We're not doing that shit, I'mdefinitely bringing my fan?

Speaker 3 (01:30:31):
No, we're not bringing my fan too, girl.
Yes, so listen, y'all come out,y'all join us.

Speaker 2 (01:30:35):
We is a family affair .
We outside, we're going to doour topics, but we're just going
to do them live with crowdinteractions.
We just want to see y'all inperson and appreciate y'all and
celebrate with y'all and off andkeep the summer off right.
We're going to have some moreevents during the summer and
hopefully this can be a regularthing, if it goes well.

Speaker 1 (01:30:53):
So you know we got the baddies and the niggas
coming out.
Baddies and the niggas.
No, no, no the baddies.
Oh I say, save me two niggas.

Speaker 2 (01:31:02):
So, ladies, this is a challenge for you.
Every lady that comes out,bring two niggas with you.
Alright, all you ladies, if youcome out, bring two niggas with
you, not the man in the side.
Yeah, because it's a summertimeterrace, want to be cooked up
by the winter.
So, with that being said, it'syour girl terrace, aka tio
mclean, it's your girl trap, seeit it's your girl death and

(01:31:23):
it's your girl dairy, and that'sno advisory podcast.
y'all's most dangerous podcastand we out peace.
I'm mad, we all did and we outPeace, thank you.

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