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March 19, 2025 83 mins

The energy is electric as Taris reveals her debut novel "Live Fast Die Slow," a gritty urban romance crime thriller set in Charlotte's underground. The crew's genuine celebration of her achievement sets the tone for an episode brimming with authentic connections and unfiltered conversations that only No Advisory can deliver.

We dive headfirst into relationship territory with a scenario that has everyone fired up: what would you do if you discovered your partner at your best friend's house after a breakup? The responses range from calculated confrontation to "I'm pulling up without calling" energy, revealing just how deeply betrayal cuts when it comes from those closest to us. This raw exploration of friendship boundaries and relationship loyalty will have you questioning who you can truly trust.

Current events take center stage as we unpack ASAP Rocky beating his criminal assault charges that could have landed him behind bars for 24 years. The conversation shifts to disturbing news about plane crashes and regulatory rollbacks affecting public safety, alongside a Fashion Nova settlement exposing the company's practice of suppressing negative reviews. Throughout these discussions, we highlight how these issues disproportionately impact the Black community while celebrating Black achievement with our history fact about Ella Fitzgerald breaking barriers as the first African-American Grammy winner.

The episode wraps with relationship questions from our focus group, including whether blocking an ex is necessary for moving on and how to approach a partner about their shortcomings without triggering defensiveness. These conversations reveal profound insights about communication, respect, and vulnerability in relationships.

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Oh, ain't with me on the beat.
Traps hit on the beat, buty'all know I ain't no rapper
though.
Yeah, let's get it, me and mygang.
We yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.

Speaker 2 (00:18):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Fuzzy Podcast your boy, coMcClain.

Speaker 1 (00:22):
It's your girl Trap.
See it, it's your girl.
Tears Unscripted.
That was so.
I was not ready, yeah me either.

Speaker 3 (00:27):
That's why I'm looking at him like damn you
just hopped into that

Speaker 2 (00:30):
shit, I said you ready, you ready, you ready, you
ready.

Speaker 1 (00:32):
And this shit for a long time.
Stop talking about TikTok.
We recording.
Hey, fuck y'all for a moment.
We're talking to you.

Speaker 2 (00:47):
The fuck is wrong with you Because TikTok is
TikTok-ing.
We love you, TikTok.

Speaker 1 (00:49):
I love you.
Clock out, clock out.
That's what I be telling myemployees.

Speaker 2 (00:53):
Clock out All right, let's do it again.

Speaker 1 (00:55):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (00:57):
G Charlamagne, d'angelo.

Speaker 1 (01:03):
TikTok McClain.
It's your girl, tess, ascripted nigga.
When did you become TikTokMcClain?
Just now, he viral us Just now.
Tiktok McClain.

Speaker 2 (01:13):
Make sure y'all shit a lot.

Speaker 1 (01:14):
When did you become TikTok McClain, nigga?

Speaker 2 (01:17):
Just now, cause TikTok is loving us Right now.
So TikTok, mcclain, I'mscreaming, I'm TikTok today I'm
TikTok McClain today.

Speaker 1 (01:22):
I thought we were supposed to Let us know we
introduced New alter egos, nigga.

Speaker 2 (01:25):
No, fuck that, I'm TikTok McClain today.
I just let y'all know.

Speaker 1 (01:28):
Lastly, who was you, meta Meta McClain?

Speaker 2 (01:30):
Yep, yep, meta McClain.
I don't got him.
I'm Meta.
Guys, today I only got onealter ego, y'all right now I'm.

Speaker 1 (01:39):
T I already told you what's going on with me, so
don't piss me off.

Speaker 2 (01:42):
I mean that's not a bad name because you are a great
value, so it's not really a badname.

Speaker 1 (01:47):
Hey yo, it's not a really bad name.
Right, right, right, becauseit's not like it's bootleg.

Speaker 2 (01:54):
Nah, I didn't say bootleg, I said great value.
Wait, wait, wait.

Speaker 1 (02:02):
Before we go any further, I can.
She thought she was Travi today.
Huh, she on her Travi shitShout out Travi Tantino.

Speaker 2 (02:09):
Shout out Travi Tantino.

Speaker 1 (02:11):
Before we go any further, I just want to say
y'all my friend wrote amotherfucking book.
My friend wrote a motherfuckingbook.

Speaker 2 (02:20):
Okay, who's that which friend?

Speaker 1 (02:22):
This one.
Oh, this friend, my friendwrote a motherfucking book.
I need y'all signature man formy book.

Speaker 2 (02:31):
Oh See that Listen.
Buy this book, TikTok.
Support my friend.

Speaker 1 (02:43):
You can buy it on Amazon in the paperback for $7,
or you can buy the Kindlee-reader version for $2, or you
can buy both and support myfriend.
Why you do that?
Live East, die slow.
No, live fast die slow.
Wow, oh shit, wow.
You so dyslexic, dyslexic, what?

Speaker 4 (03:06):
did he say it was live east that?

Speaker 1 (03:06):
don't even make sense .
I thought it was an E rightthere.
Oh my god.
So y'all want to know?
This is like.
I order author proofs, but thisis the first time I'm seeing it
like without like.

Speaker 2 (03:15):
Oh my god, this is crazy this is your first time
seeing it like printed paperback.

Speaker 1 (03:19):
All that that's crazy and look and look at my picture
on the back.
Listen, listen, that's crazy.

Speaker 3 (03:25):
And look at my picture on the back wait I can't
?

Speaker 2 (03:31):
I only see your fucking face.
I can't see nothing.
Well, let me say this pictureis definitely.

Speaker 1 (03:35):
I want to say thank you to no, because this is the
picture that I use foreverything.
Now, damn, I wrote a book.
It's a.
So the book is about um, threewomen in charlotte, um, that
live um a hidden life andsomething is going on in their
family and they meet three menfrom charlotte who live a hidden
life.
So it's really it's like bmf.

(03:57):
No, it's like power meets umhitman.
Y'all know the video gamehitman it's like power meets
meets Hitman, meets maybe FBI.
It's really on some urbanromance crime shit.
The paperbacks are $7.
Y'all may not see thepaperbacks on right now because
I got to go through and relinkit.

Speaker 4 (04:17):
I need my book right now.

Speaker 1 (04:18):
You got to order off Amazon.
I don't have copies on hand.

Speaker 4 (04:20):
Order mine for me.
I don't know how to use theinternet.
Okay, have copies on hand.
Order mine for me.

Speaker 1 (04:22):
I don't know how to use the internet.

Speaker 4 (04:25):
I'm about to buy it right now and I need my credit
because one of the guys in thatbook is about me.
I read the book.
I know what's going on.

Speaker 1 (04:30):
You got to ask Amazon .
I'm not sure why she got hersfirst.

Speaker 4 (04:36):
I know what's going on.

Speaker 1 (04:37):
Yeah, for everybody in the room.
I'm going to put the link inthe group chat.
But the paperbacks are $7 forall y'all that's watching us
subscribers they're $7.
The eKindle for people like mewho like to read on their
Kindles and stuff is $2.
I want y'all to know I got sucha great response from the book
and shit.
I'm already in the middle ofpart two.
So if you do like your urbanromances, you like your hood

(05:03):
books, you want some hood niggaswith some sex in it, go ahead
and order this book.
I got you it ain't Hold on.

Speaker 3 (05:09):
No, no, no, no.

Speaker 1 (05:10):
I'm not as nasty as Zayn, but you know.
You know what I'm saying.
Yes, I'm about to make theAmazon purchase.

Speaker 4 (05:16):
Can you tell the?
People that a part of my lifewas depicted in the story.

Speaker 1 (05:28):
Or are we that to be fair, to be fair, to be fair,
I'm gonna be honest.
None of y'all are depicted inthis book, but she started this
book so long ago y'all I did.
I started this book in like2021.
I just revamped it and revised.
But this is for all y'all thatgrew up in charlotte.
This is for you.
Charlotte is the base of this.
Charlotte is the background.
Um, there's a little piece of alot of people that I fuck with
in this book, but mostimportantly, importantly, um, I
put some acknowledgements in theback and I shout out my brother
, for real.

(05:48):
Shout out to the who cheese.
You know, they put this through.
Shout out to Brit and Bree, myeditors.
Um, part two.
I can't I really can't wait forno advisory to read part two.
Y'all going to be so fuckingcrazy.

Speaker 4 (05:59):
I'm about to buy it now.

Speaker 1 (06:05):
I might can do that actually so, but I'm gonna sign
this for you, friend.
I'm gonna sit down and write aheartfelt note because, friend,
I ain't gonna lie you a big partof this too, because I got back
into my creative bag when youput me back into podcasting.
So this is for you, this is foranybody who ever wanted to
write a motherfucking book, andthis is for people that have,
for those people who haveimaginative minds for real, and

(06:25):
you just be sitting downthinking about different
scenarios after you watch yourfavorite tv show and shit like
this is for you, because this isjust me.
I sat down and I put some shiton paper and then I refined it,
I used my english background, Iturned it into a book.
So so thank y'all, thank you,friend, I just want to say I am
so immensely proud of my friendy'all like this is not a life

(06:47):
thing the money go to you.
The money does go to me.
I do get royalties celebrated,admired and acknowledged.
Thank you, thank you, we justmade.

Speaker 2 (06:56):
We just placed an order two more bucks I got y'all
.

Speaker 1 (06:59):
I kept it $10, though , alright um, yeah, I'm to put
the link in the group chat.
Thank y'all for supporting me.
Thank you for everybody who'sbought a book Before the
pre-orders went.
Before the orders went live, Ihad 50 pre-orders and that's off
of Instagram itself.
So I know that's people that Iwent to college with people I
went to high school with peoplethat I've met did not do this to
get on the bestseller list.

(07:22):
I really did this y'all becauseI be needing to release some
shit out of my head because Igot so much shit up here y'all.
It's like a fucking 2B moviewhich I need that 2B Call me
because I think it's going to bea perfect movie.
Yeah, it will be a great movie.

Speaker 4 (07:34):
We'll talk after this .
He's a 2B shooter.

Speaker 1 (07:41):
I want to the nigga on the corner.
I don't got a nigga on thecorner in the book, but I know
what you know it's crazy youwould be a great part.
No, he could be uncle Terrence.
You got to read part two.
I got to let you read part two.
What did uncle Terrence do?
He like the head of theorganization, oh yeah, yeah,
yeah yeah.
Afterwards.
I'll give y'all the synopsisafterwards, but thank y'all for

(08:03):
this.
Thank y'all, all y'allsubscribers.
I'm going to send this link tothe CEO.
He's going to put the link inthe YouTube description.
So make sure y'all click andbuy.
Like I said, if you want a goodurban romance, if you read
anything by Jaquel Ashley,antoinette, omar Tyree, y'all
read all y'all hood books.
I got y'all.
I I'm really thinking aboutstarting a terrorist no advisory
, terrorist book club, so we'lltalk about that more and

(08:25):
everything.
Follow me on TikTok, cause I'mfinna get into book talk.
Y'all is finna be crazy.
Thank y'all for that.
That was, oh my God, y'all.
Just I was super dope.
That was super dope Cause Ididn't know you got your book
yet.
Cause that's crazy, that wassuper dope.
Oh shit, yes, because, well, Iordered a book, so we got a book

(08:46):
, yeah.

Speaker 2 (08:47):
She been had a book.

Speaker 4 (08:48):
She been ordered a book and I think she honestly
ordered a book saying you ain'tget the book yet.

Speaker 1 (08:55):
She haven't got it from Amazon.

Speaker 2 (08:56):
You got to talk to Amazon, amazon fucking up.

Speaker 1 (08:59):
Hey man Amazon.

Speaker 2 (09:00):
Huh.

Speaker 1 (09:03):
Why you been had a book, because I have it.
It's okay, let that man spendhis money Well, to be fair.
To be fair, we got two books.
Swish gave you $10, so that'shis book, or you ordered two I
ordered two books.
Oh well, that's fine, Iappreciate it.

Speaker 2 (09:17):
That means everybody in, I'll give a book to somebody
.
Yes, and make sure y'all bringthe books as a giveaway, then
that's a great giveaway.

Speaker 3 (09:27):
No no, no.

Speaker 1 (09:29):
Don't y'all do it then, cause I can order author
copies discounted, so don'ty'all buy it.

Speaker 2 (09:35):
I got a book.
Keep that for your bookshelf.
I will order more books myself.

Speaker 1 (09:41):
I appreciate y'all.
Y'all make me feel so lovedwhen I do shit, and it's not
just a good.
When I do shit, I go live andit's not just the book, like
when I do the hosting shit.
Y'all always come out.
When I do shit, y'all alwayssupport me.
So I'm appreciative of thislittle family of ours for real.

Speaker 2 (09:52):
I love y'all.
We gotta support each other.
Man fuck that.

Speaker 1 (10:03):
I love y'all for missions and side quests like
GTA.
I really just be trying to getrich and get us out of this
bitch y'all.
I'm just kidding.

Speaker 2 (10:08):
It's no fact.

Speaker 1 (10:10):
Like literally.
Any way I can do it.
If I got to write books, I'llwrite a motherfucking cookbook,
which might be next.

Speaker 2 (10:14):
To be honest, you know what I'm saying, you know
what I'm going to do.

Speaker 1 (10:20):
I'm going to do that.
I just hope we don't getcanceled.

Speaker 2 (10:24):
I ain't going to get canceled.
It's going to go viral.
I'll be in jail, but I got toget me out.

Speaker 1 (10:28):
You need to get one of Swish's blue shoes, then Get
one of his blue shoes That'llmake it go crazy.

Speaker 2 (10:34):
Blue shoes and butt naked running the street?

Speaker 1 (10:38):
Blue shoes not shoes, oh, not shoes.
Okay, okay, choose I did dropthat link in the group scratch
for everybody.
Um, I dropped that link, butyeah, yes, wow, it's crazy.
Thank y'all but, listen, whileI'm on here and I'm talking,
make sure you subscribe to ourtwitter, our tiktok um.
Subscribe to our youtube.
Subscribe to um, our instagram.
We're on bibo photo bucket.

(11:00):
We're on amazon now we're onamazon, you know.
We're on Amazon.
We're on Fanbase.
We're on Blue Sky.
We're on OnlyFans.
Pornhub Tasty Blacks.

Speaker 2 (11:11):
Oh guess what.

Speaker 1 (11:13):
He's about to piss me off.
He's about to piss me off.

Speaker 2 (11:17):
I see the videos y'all send me with the midgets.
I love the videos, I love thevideos, but I don't like midgets
, no more.

Speaker 1 (11:24):
He gasped, he gasped.
I love the videos.
I love the videos, but I don'tlike midgets no more.
Wow, he gasped.
He gasped.
Batman.
What happened?

Speaker 2 (11:28):
I don't like midgets, no more.

Speaker 1 (11:30):
What happened?
You need a da-da-da-da.

Speaker 2 (11:33):
I don't like them no more.

Speaker 1 (11:34):
What happened Huh?

Speaker 4 (11:35):
No.

Speaker 2 (11:38):
A midget.
Just it doesn't appeal to me,no more.
What so?
What you on?
Now?
I like giantpeoplecom, liketall Amazon Giantpeoplecom,
stallions, yeah, so the stallion, oh my God.
Oh God, giantpeoplecom is mynew shit.

Speaker 1 (11:51):
So, if you like, eight feet and taller, Amazon,
and I can see you just holdingon to her leg like a little kid.
I'm like come here, baby, foryou the other day I was in the
parking lot.

Speaker 4 (12:01):
I looked in my rearview.

Speaker 2 (12:02):
I seen a tall man in a midget walking.

Speaker 3 (12:03):
I said I gotta record for CEO Did you record it.

Speaker 4 (12:07):
I jumped out.
You know your phone the camerawon't pull up.

Speaker 2 (12:10):
She turned around, looked at me.
I had to play it.
Epic, fucking fail.
Epic fucking fail.

Speaker 1 (12:17):
Y'all are so stupid bro.
Okay, let's get into Hot Topicswith Trappi.
Alright, I'm official now.
I got cards.
Oh my God, we really areelevated here we're elevated,
here we love you.
We love you.
Tiktok Celebrity birthdays wegot a few, so let's go ahead and
get through them.

Speaker 2 (12:37):
Oh boy.

Speaker 1 (12:37):
CEO, you might not know these people, so just nod
and wave.
Like they tell the P1s onMadagascar nod and wave Just nod
Like they tell the P1s onMadagascar.
Nod and wave Number one, millieBobby Brown.

Speaker 3 (12:49):
Oh, happy birthday to that white bitch.

Speaker 1 (12:51):
She played 11 on Stranger Things.

Speaker 2 (12:53):
You seen Stranger?
That's one of my favoriteNetflix series.
The white girl 20.
Yes, congratulations, youturned 20, wait when is.
Stranger Things coming back outthis year, right.

Speaker 1 (13:06):
Or next year, no, this spring, it's the last one,
alright.

Speaker 2 (13:09):
Shout out to my son, my son Jade, and my middle son,
who put me on Stranger Things.

Speaker 1 (13:15):
The kids love Stranger Things.
The kids love Stranger Things.
Alright, up next VictoriaJustice.
She turned 31.
What Not victorious?

Speaker 2 (13:23):
She played in Victorious who.
I don't know who that is, who'sthat?

Speaker 1 (13:29):
You got an excuse though?
No, he got an excuse.
He a hood nigga, you just oldnigga.
But no, she played in more likegirly shows, like iCarly, like
Victorious, okay, okay, you know.

Speaker 6 (13:44):
Vict victorious when they was singing.

Speaker 1 (13:46):
They was in the school and they was singing.
Everybody could sing.
Yeah, no, you talking aboutMiranda and Sam.

Speaker 3 (13:55):
We ain't talking about them.

Speaker 1 (13:56):
We talking about Victoria.
Y'all niggas don't know.

Speaker 3 (13:59):
Let's move on.

Speaker 1 (14:01):
Nicola Jokic, oh Jokic.

Speaker 2 (14:04):
The Joker Denver Nuggets 29?
.
Hey, 29 years old.

Speaker 1 (14:08):
Jokic is actually how you say his name, but yes,
jokic, jokic, like Chokic, 29years old.
Nikola Chokic man.
Yeah, chokic, he's 29, bro, Ithought he was older than that.

Speaker 2 (14:20):
I thought he was younger than that yeah, he
busted his dick, his ass, outhere.

Speaker 1 (14:23):
Shout out to him, shout out to him.
He always make my parlays green.

Speaker 2 (14:26):
Right.

Speaker 1 (14:26):
Up next Seal.
I thought you were about to saySeal, seal.
He turned 61.

Speaker 2 (14:32):
Seal, oh the Seal 61.
He still got that shit on hisface.

Speaker 1 (14:35):
Yeah, he gone.

Speaker 2 (14:35):
That's a star.
That's part of his face.

Speaker 1 (14:45):
Yeah, that's part.
Good songs though.
He did what song, he sang what?

Speaker 6 (14:46):
would you really classify him as A singer or like
a pop star?
Got him Because online they hadhim classified as a pop star.

Speaker 1 (14:49):
Seal had some good songs.

Speaker 4 (14:50):
He did he had that no he had that old school.

Speaker 1 (14:55):
It was an old school song and the reason why I know
is because a nigga that I usedto go with that white lady yeah,
you danced with her did you?

Speaker 4 (15:05):
I forgot her name.
What's her name?
Who was that white lady?
He was with White lady.

Speaker 1 (15:08):
Heidi Klum.
Heidi Klum, that's her name.
Heidi was a bad bitch back inthe day.
She was a bad bitch, a badbitch.
My song is Cruisin' Wow 84.
We're cruisin' together, we'regonna make love.

(15:28):
I wanna have love, I love youand we cruisin' together You're
all off and shit.
My bad, but that's my shit.
I ain't gonna lie I ain't gonnalie, sometimes you be in the car
late at night.
You play that shit.
It hit different in the car.
You night you play that shit.
It hit different, it hitdifferent in the car.
You be singing your little lovesong right then the next song

(15:49):
be like a rap song, you be likebounce back D-Long you be like,
damn, that's fucked up.
You gotta put the windows downon that shit too.
That's what's up.
He 84, that's what's young.
Have you seen a picture of him?
Fine as fuck, I see why he wasgetting the hoes Boy.
I would've gave him some civilrights pussy so quick.
You said some civil rightspussy Sure will, pussy full of
fight and equal opportunity.

Speaker 2 (16:11):
No DI Fight and opportunity you hear me my nigga
about to die over here.
He better stop.
That's what a guy.
You know what a nigga about todie over here.

Speaker 1 (16:19):
His eyes get big and shit, I got it.
Non-segregated pussy, he with aguy boy, that's what I got
Shout out to Young Smokey, youngSmokey.
Up next we got Cynthia Baileyfrom the Real Housewives.
She used to be married to Peter.

Speaker 6 (16:31):
Nah, fuck Cynthia and Peter.

Speaker 1 (16:34):
Fuck Cynthia and Peter Sports.
1 be sitting there and I'll seeit every day.
Be pissed off.
Fuck Cynthia and Peter.
Who's that?
Who's that?

Speaker 2 (16:41):
Peter Thomas.
No, no, show me a picture Fromthe Housewives, from the
Housewives of Atlanta.
I don't watch that show, though.

Speaker 1 (16:47):
Yeah, they changed the name.
Oh yeah, they changed the name.
Ain't Peter in?
Jail Ain't you seeing me?

Speaker 2 (16:53):
I still don't know her.

Speaker 1 (16:54):
You look like Peter Loki, I still don't know her, I
don't watch her.
He look like Peter, though.
He look like Peter for real lowkey, without all the gray.

Speaker 2 (17:07):
That's nasty work.

Speaker 1 (17:09):
Without all the gray Peter not ugly, though, but you
look like him.

Speaker 2 (17:14):
Peter used to get the hoes, though Peter used to get
all the hoes.
That's why Swish look likePeter.
Yeah, swish.
You don't look like no, peter,yo Swish.
You trying to say that's agreat value version of Peter
Guns.
Peter, not Peter Guns.

Speaker 1 (17:28):
No, peter Guns.

Speaker 6 (17:30):
I said Peter Guns.

Speaker 4 (17:31):
You so damn, I know Peter, it's Marshall.
I don't like Peter, yeah.

Speaker 2 (17:36):
Listen.
Nah, you don't like Peter Guns.

Speaker 1 (17:37):
Listen, that's so.
That's not Peter Guns.
I know that.
Do you know who Peter Gunz is?
You know who Peter Gunz is?
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (17:44):
What song he sing.

Speaker 1 (17:45):
I don't know nothing.
We wrote him a love of hip hop.
Love of hip hop, New York.
What song.

Speaker 2 (17:50):
Peter.

Speaker 1 (17:50):
Gunz sing.
I'm going to be honest, I neverlisten to Peter Gunz.
Now Corey Gunz, I know CoreyGunz.
I know about him.
Six foot, seven foot, eightfoot one, my mind 6'7", 8'1".
I'm not knitting my mind.
Nah, fuck Peter, though.
Ever since Peter did that videowhere he was like fuck the
people in Charlotte.

(18:11):
People in Charlotte don't haveno culture, no taste.
It was us forever.
Fuck Peter.

Speaker 2 (18:14):
Did he lie?
No, he definitely didn't liebecause the people in Charlotte.

Speaker 1 (18:18):
Let's be fucking clear.
Let's be honest.
Why you hating people inCharlotte?

Speaker 3 (18:22):
Let's be honest People inotte was the reason why
his bar and club was runningfor money he's still money just
about to say he's still all hisworkers from that?

Speaker 1 (18:32):
yeah, because every time I mean, he didn't lie every
time they would get theirpaychecks.
They would go to the bankexactly, or they would give them
their paychecks and say wait aweek before you can, exactly.
So fuck you, peter, because theniggas of charlotte's putting
money in your fucking pocket Ishowed up.
Was that club one?
I was?

Speaker 2 (18:47):
too.
Okay, that's what I shoulddrink.
Anybody else birthdays?
Oh yeah I used to drink somerocks.

Speaker 6 (18:51):
We got one last birthday steven ferdick.
He turned 44 who the fuck isthis?
That's the pastor of elevation.
Relax, huh, that's the pastorof elevation church.

Speaker 1 (19:01):
He's the one that made elevation, the church that
it is today.

Speaker 3 (19:04):
I don't care.

Speaker 1 (19:08):
We don't play with God's disciples.
Now Relax, is he?
Yes, he's one of God'smessengers.

Speaker 2 (19:13):
I don't care, I'm going to say this shit.
A lot of y'all motherfuckersthat go to church are
hypocritical as shit.
Y'all motherfuckers are thebiggest hypocrites in the
fucking world.

Speaker 1 (19:21):
When you get in front of the permanent gates, God
playing this back on the bigscreen.

Speaker 2 (19:23):
No, I'm going to tell you look, god knows them
motherfuckers too.
He knows they're hypocrites andshit.

Speaker 1 (19:28):
They're hypocrites.
They're hypocrites, all right,so I got some high time.
Yeah, because we're not playingwith Jesus like this.
I'm not playing with Jesus.
Jesus know the people.

Speaker 2 (19:40):
that's bad and no, come tell them the truth.
No, I'm telling the truth.

Speaker 1 (19:44):
Okay, well, I will say from my experience at
Elevation, pastor Furtick wasn'tlike this.
Now I do know people's aversionto megachurches and pastors
like that.
I do prefer my own church,which is a home church.
It's a big church but it's notlike a megachurch.
But I did go to Elevation.
One thing that I willappreciate about Elevation is
they have have because they knowtheir church is like huge and
there's multiple locations.

(20:04):
They offer a lot of smallgroups that cater to everything.
It caters from anxiety, grief,depression, um loss, um
different groups that, like youknow, single parents.
It caters to everything.
So that's one thing I do likeabout elevation versus the other
mega churches.
Like he knows, like my churchis so big I'm not gonna be able
to preach to all of y'all, solet me get some people and see

(20:24):
y'all can do smaller groups atdifferent locations and stuff
and feel connected.
So that one one thing I do like.
The only other thing I don'tlike about elevation this gospel
pop music I'm not a fan of.
I cannot get.
I need some fred hammond, Ineed some um shears, I need some
kurt franklin.
The gospel pop pisses me off.
So bad, so bad, bad.
I cannot Because it's likeJesus, jesus, jesus.

(20:48):
I want to hear some that's good.
I like that.
No, I don't like that.
I want to do, do.

Speaker 2 (20:53):
So would you rather gospel pop or gospel rap?
Hold on, would you rathergospel pop or gospel rap.

Speaker 1 (21:00):
I would rather listen to gospel rap than gospel pop,
don't be mad Because gospel rapthan gospel pop, don't be mad
because, gospel rap be lit.
It's a fire gospel rap.
I just don't like gospel pop,like if I want to hear somebody.
Okay, because listen rightthere, I'm going to just bag it
up when you said it, okay.
Book of Revelations, chapter 7,verses 16 and 17.
Preach, preacher, they shallhunger no more, neither shall

(21:22):
they thirst anymore, you knowwhat I'm saying when I hear that
I get.

Speaker 2 (21:25):
Wait, you sound like a fucking preacher right there.

Speaker 1 (21:26):
Don't I know.
Thank you Talk to me.
Preacher's preacher Talk to me.
So yeah, but shout out toPastor Furtick.
He is one of the ones that youknow and when that Black Lives
Matter happened, he did a wholesermon on that.
He basically said Black Lives,lives matter.
White people sit in the back.
That's what he told us in theprogram, so shout out to him
shout out to him shout out tohim all right uh, celebrity hot

(21:48):
topics go ahead, see it numberone asap rocky that nigga beat
the car this.
Nigga beat his criminal assaultcriminal assault.
I don't care about nothing, butthe way he leaped across that
damn counter, it was Rihanna'sscream.

(22:09):
For me, she's so ghetto, she'sso ghetto.
Oh my God, that nigga A$APRocky Lee.
And then that shit the whitelord thought he was hugging her.
He dropped her ass off.
I can't believe that nigga beatthe charge because one, all he
did was just off.
I can't believe that nigga beatthe charge because one, all he
did was just.
I'm sorry, I just cannotbelieve that nigga beat the

(22:29):
charge.
Shout out to ASAP.
Asap Rocky was facing 24 yearsin prison if he had been
convicted on both his chargesand his criminal assault trial.
He had two felony counts ofassault with a semi-automatic
firearm, a switch and, if youremember, this whole case
stemmed from a 2021 episodewhere his former associate, a$ap

(22:52):
Ridley, a$ap Telly.
They got into it and he wentand told the police.
Basically, a$ap shot himAllegedly, allegedly left his
knuckles bruised.
Now, a$ap Rocky originally plednot guilty and they offered him
a plea.
He rejected the plea.
His lawyers argued that theweapon was actually not a weapon

(23:16):
but a prop gun or a non-firinggun.
So what he actually got shotwith was flash bullets which,
again, are non-lethal.

Speaker 2 (23:24):
That's not criminal and, yeah, I want to say this,
and I want to say this for allthe black males out here who are
charged with these crimes.
And I say this If you feel thatyou didn't do the crime and you

(23:44):
don't want to do the time, takeit to trial.

Speaker 1 (23:47):
ASAP Rocky said have a strong lawyer though if you're
going to take it to trial, yeah, have a strong lawyer.
Don't be no dummy until you'reat trial.

Speaker 2 (23:53):
You got to have you like a YSL, Brian Steele for
real, because you look at whatthey was offering ASAP Rocky 24
years, no, no, no.
What 24 years?
No, no, no.

Speaker 1 (24:02):
What they was offering him in the plea deal
was like 10 years, right, ohyeah 12, it was over, like his
career is over.

Speaker 2 (24:08):
You know what I'm saying.
Even if he took 12 yeah, 12years, your career over over so
my man said you know what, I'mtaking this to trial, took it to
trial and got acquitted.

Speaker 1 (24:17):
Niggas tried to convince him to take the plea
deal.
They tried to convince he knewhe didn't do nothing wrong,
though right and I'm not gonnalie I think the reason why I'm
surprised is because this is newyork, like yeah, being a gun
charge new york, la, oh this isla.
Oh, I'm just saying, being agun charge anywhere lately is
like non-existent for real.
So this is just yeah, this isjust crazy in this instance the

(24:37):
judicial system worked and hegot away with a prop gun saying
it was a problem.
It was basically a 3D printedgun.
Now, this is what my thing is.
I will say this, I will saythis, and I'm being realistic
Niggas lie right.
So even if it was a real gun,the whole fact of the matter
behind it is and when I readthrough what happened that

(24:58):
incident and what led up to that, I'm not mad at that nigga for
doing that shit to that nigga,because you walling.

Speaker 2 (25:03):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (25:03):
You pulling up on me, asking me to do shit and when I
tell you no, now you said I'm afake and sell out nigga.
You in my face and you youdon't pull it up on where my
people, my family at yeah, yougot this.
Y'all got to learn how to stoppulling up on people and then,

(25:29):
when you get pulled up on you,get your ass beat.
Stop going around and tellingand telling snitching ass niggas
.
Now listen, I'm all forsnitching when it comes to like
kids and murders and stuff, I'mall for that.
But you just getting your assbeat and you're gonna go tell
the cop somebody be mad.
No, get your ass beat and sitdown shit, like your granddaddy
used to all right, sit down,clown yeah I remember a couple
weeks ago I told y'all aboutthis nurse in Virginia that had
got arrested because she wasaccused of harming infants in

(25:49):
the she was breaking arms yeah.
I remember her.
So Virginia just has grantedher bond oh fuck $25,000 what
that's it $25,000.
And I'm saying that's it, likeI got $25,000 laying around,
$25,000?
.
And I'm saying that's it Like Igot $25,000 laying around, but
$25,000?
.

Speaker 2 (26:10):
That's nasty work.

Speaker 1 (26:11):
That's very nasty work.
So if you don't remember ErinStrohman, she is a NICU nurse
out in Virginia.
She was accused of abusingmultiple infants in her care A
judge.
She had a hearing Monday and ajudge determined that she did
not pose a flight risk, nor wasshe a threat to herself.

(26:31):
So she gave her A $25,000 bondwith conditions.
The conditions are she muststay at her parents house Own
24-7 house arrest, she isprohibited from Contacting
children or vulnerable adultsand she can never, ever work
again in healthcare.

Speaker 6 (26:48):
Her next hearing is not set for May.

Speaker 1 (26:51):
She was like figure she.
Her next hearing is set for May, so in May you know she's going
to be sitting in the house andjust festering.
She either going to be ahousewife, not a housewife.
She either going to be um gonnabe a housewife, not a housewife
.
She either gonna be um go on aflight risk, or that bitch might
kill herself.

Speaker 2 (27:06):
I'm not the judge say she don't believe it, but shit
now, would this have beendifferent if it was a black
female?

Speaker 1 (27:11):
yeah, they wouldn't have gave her a bar no fucking
because they would have said.
They would have said oh, she'sa threat to other people.
Yeah, that's they always see usas a threat especially when
kids is involved the mostdisrespected person in the world
is a black woman.
Black woman, all right.
The next one.
This is for all my Fashion Novashoppers.
Hold on, that's me.
I got something in my cartright now.
Fashion Nova has been orderedto pay a $4.2 million settlement

(27:35):
and refund 148,000 customers bythe Federal Trade Commission
for drum roll, suppressing badonline reviews and having
deceptive practices.
So let me tell you what theFederal Trade Commission said.

(27:56):
The Federal Trade Commissionalleges that Fashion Nova
blocked all negative reviews ofits product from being posted on
their website and said thatthey had a system that
suppressed any review that waslower than 4 out of 5 stars.
Oh yeah, they be lying inreviews.
I mean, you gotta they be lying.
Let me tell you I ordered someshit y'all.
I ordered like a little catsuit.
I ordered a little catsuit andthey be lying to girls in the

(28:18):
comments like oh yeah, this fitssnug.
I got that catsuit.
Boy, I look like a little likea little rotisserie chicken
wrapped up.
I said honey.
I said honey, fashion Nova.
That's why I moved over toSheen.
But shit, now Sheen terribletoo now.
I mean, if you look at it,where?

Speaker 2 (28:34):
we gonna go to Rainbow again.
I like Rainbow.
I mean all these.
A lot of these online companies.
Suppresses the reviews.

Speaker 1 (28:39):
I would think so.
They just don't get caught.

Speaker 2 (28:41):
They just don't get caught.

Speaker 1 (28:42):
It's just that.

Speaker 2 (28:43):
Fashion Nova Is such high end In the public eye that
you know they got caught.

Speaker 1 (28:48):
I will say I haven't ordered anything From Fashion
Nova In such a long time andthat's because I was so stuck on
Sheen.
But now I'm back to FashionNova, because Sheen shipping
Don't take how quick it used tobe, remember Sheen.
Now you that shit a month inadvance.
Fashion Nova still gonna bewinning off that two-day
shipping every time.

Speaker 2 (29:04):
But listen, we all know that all this shit comes
from China anyway.

Speaker 1 (29:07):
It all comes from the same fashion.
I like the Chinese.

Speaker 2 (29:09):
Yeah, they all come from the same fucking Chinese.
They do all.
You know what I'm saying.
Shout out to China, man, welove you.
I'm not Asian.

Speaker 1 (29:16):
Alright.
So again, Fashion Nova hasagreed to this settlement order
that also prohibits the companyfrom any no longer suppressing
customer reviews of his product.
So now, if they get a negativereview, they have to post it on
their website.
I'm going to go do one just forthe hell of it.
The settlement includes $2.4million be sent out to customers

(29:36):
.
So now the FTC will be sendingout checks and pay.
Listen to this.
Checks and PayPal paymentsto,148,351 Fashion Nova
customers who filed a validclaim back in 2021.

Speaker 6 (29:53):
All right, give me that number.

Speaker 1 (29:54):
So you said 2.4 million, right?
So each customer will get $16cash back, $16.
Yeah, I got to be pissed.
Well, shit, y'all can put thatshit.
Put that on the Fashion Novagift card.
Y'all can buy me some earringsand some little socks.
They're going to put that shitright back in the Fashion Nova,
right?
I could use that as a discountcode for all that shit.

Speaker 2 (30:10):
Yo just imagine that shit right, that might honestly
just give y'all a credit.
Hold on Just imagine that shitif they pay out the amount that
they supposed to pay out and andjust say you know what?
I'm just going to buy a fashionoutfit and then get that money
right back.

Speaker 1 (30:23):
That's the plan.
That's the plan for real and tobe fair I will say random.
Before y'all move on, y'all getthose emails talking about all
those settlement shits.
I tell people all the time filethem claims.

Speaker 2 (30:32):
File them, claims I filed a claim.

Speaker 1 (30:34):
I filed a claim for one shit.
I showed me the shit.
Verizon gave her $500.

Speaker 5 (30:46):
There you go.

Speaker 1 (30:48):
Apply for it.
Listen, it don't matter howmuch money you get.

Speaker 2 (30:49):
Wait, is that that?
T-shirt?

Speaker 1 (30:51):
The Verizon stuff oh.

Speaker 2 (30:52):
I thought you said Verizon.
No, the Verizon.
Oh, oh, okay Because.

Speaker 1 (30:55):
Verizon had a settlement too in court, like
these phone companies been spamshit and she applied, she
unfiled and got 500.
So listen y'all.
I don't know.
Emails sound stupid and yougotta fill out this information.
Fill it out fill it out,because you never know that
money gonna come in handy.
Fill it out, listen, okay, allright, I'm tired y'all whoo you

(31:15):
sound?
Tired a delta flight fromminneapolis, st paul,
minneapolis to toronto, canada,ended in a crash while landing
at the toronto InternationalAirport on Monday.
This is flight number what 86.
No, this is the 86th crash inthe last year Since January 1st.
We had 86 plane crashes, 86 inJanuary 1st, 86 since January

(31:37):
1st, and it's only February.

Speaker 6 (31:38):
Yes, this is.

Speaker 1 (31:38):
February.
And we had 87 today becausethere was another plane that
crashed in Arizona and twopeople died.

Speaker 6 (31:43):
Oh yeah, two people died today Yo.

Speaker 1 (31:46):
Yeah, that's crazy.

Speaker 6 (31:47):
So Delta.

Speaker 1 (31:47):
Flight 4819 caught fire after flipping upside down
on the snowy landing ground.
There's video footage thatshows the twin jet aircraft's
rear landing gear given out.
Now let me know.
Y'all know I'm on the flightattendant, so I had to ask her
about this.
She said she has never in herlife seen something like this

(32:13):
ever, and she's been flying 42years.
But she says also weird, howthis is the same model airplane
as the one that blew up in dc.

Speaker 2 (32:18):
That was a 145.
It's like cr ford for the crj900 yeah, okay, crj 900.

Speaker 1 (32:21):
Um, I will say a lot of this shit is.
I hate the people.
I know people coming up withall these conspiracy theories
which I'd be so pissed off atFacebook.
Y'all using these people'sdeath as these weird ass
conspiracy theories.
But the fact of the matter isTrump wrote back all these
regulations and all these thingswhere you know the planes that
we get on have to followregulations for the machine

(32:41):
parts they use, for the type ofmaintenance and aromatics and
stuff.
The reason why that first bigcrash happened and all those
people died on that AmericanAirlines flight is because he
rolled back some regulationswhere now there's not enough
qualified air trafficcontrollers.
Yes, and you gotta rememberthere was already a 10-year.
Yeah, I.
Literally was on, indeed, likelast year, seeing all those job

(33:04):
posts and they were telling youthey were going to teach you how
to do it, but you really got togo to school for that shit,
right?
So Trump is rolling back allthese regulations and shit and
that's why all this shit ishappening.
I'm just being so honest.
We're not regulated anymore.
The same shit with your food.
Your food is not regulatedanymore.
That's why we're getting allthese recalls on meats,
vegetables and shit.
Nothing is regulated anymorebecause he's cheap as fuck and

(33:26):
he's stupid and I feel bad forthese families.
Like I just saw the girl, theblack girl from Charlotte, that
died in a crash.
They had her funeral the otherday, y'all that shit was such
like chest like constricting tosee.
My chest was tightening to seethat because that should not
have happened.
Like it's sick for real manthat, because that should not

(33:47):
have happened.
Like it's sick for real man.

Speaker 2 (33:47):
Yeah, so y'all voted for him.
Oh, y'all motherfuckers thatvoted for trump.

Speaker 1 (33:49):
This is what you get I just want I just every time
this shit happened, I just bringback this whole conversation we
had with blizzy in this fuckingroom when y'all was talking
about kamala was so fuckingunqualified.
Now look at this shit when youknow it is niggas on internet
and adding her like can you comeback?
Nah, nigga, she can't come back.
We told y'all niggas, somebodythat you told for months was not

(34:11):
y'all said she's not black.
Y'all said she's not qualifiedfor free is next matter of fact
switch.
You said that she's not black,she's not.
You said it bring the clip up.
He did yeah.

Speaker 2 (34:23):
Now look, y'all want to I mean but again, and to add
to that, you know I said at thattime, you know the world, I
felt, in my opinion the worldwasn't ready for a female black
president.
And now what?
And now we stuck with Trump.
But again, I was alwaysstanding there.

(34:43):
I was like yo.
When Trump ran the first time,people said I was stupid and
crazy.
I was like he gonna win, he notgonna win, he won.
I was like he ran again.
I was like he gonna win causehe.
This is an agenda, it's a push,this was all ordained, this is
all set in stone.

Speaker 1 (35:01):
It's gonna take us so long to undo all this shit that
he's doing.
That's the matter of fact.

Speaker 2 (35:05):
I just think he does an executive order every three
minutes.
He's signing that black bookyeah.

Speaker 1 (35:10):
Every three minutes.
I bet y'all wish my bitch wasoff in there.
Shout out to Kamala Kamala,kamala.

Speaker 4 (35:15):
Harris is Saudi Arabian and she moved back to
Dubai.
She ain't said nothing elseabout black people.

Speaker 1 (35:21):
She lives in California she don't care about
black people so so, so you thinky'all think this man care about
black people okay you don'tcare about white people either.

Speaker 4 (35:31):
Yeah, let's move on back to my delta flight cause.
I never got to finish thisthing, my bad so.

Speaker 1 (35:36):
I'm gonna tell Ronald about it right wing was torn
off of the plane and caught fire.
After the plane crash landed,it skidded on its back, it
skidded on its belly briefly andthen flipped over.
I know niggas that skidded too.
There were 79 passengers and 4crew members on board.
Everyone was evacuated and 18people were injured.

(35:58):
No fatality.
Thank you, jesus.
There were 3 people in criticalcondition.
One child, one woman in her 40sand a man in his 30s.
But, as of today, the child hasbeen discharged from the
hospital and the woman in her40s is going to be discharged
tomorrow.
Yay, so the airport was shutdown.
The airport was shut down until4.30 pm local time and flights

(36:20):
are redirected to another localairport, but right now, as it
stands, there are at least tworunways still at the Toronto
Pearson International Airportthat will remain closed for the
foreseeable future, and it wassnowing too, wasn't it?
I think I saw a video of anigga recording it from his
point of view.

Speaker 2 (36:35):
Yeah, when it came up the plane, yeah.

Speaker 1 (36:37):
I was like God damn.
So the Transportation SafetyBoard of Canada and the National
Transportation Safety Board inthe United States are still
investigating exactly whatcaused the crash.

Speaker 2 (36:49):
I'll tell you what guys?
They're going to say mechanicalparts.
I don't think it's mechanical.

Speaker 1 (36:55):
If you look at the video, there's a video of a guy
recording it.
He looks like he's standing inthe airport and he's seeing them
landing.
The landing gear buckles.
I think that's seeing themlanding the the landing gear
buckles.
Yeah, and I think that's whatinitially caused the whole like
effect, domino effect we've been.
We've been watching like showsand stuff and these shows they
be depicting real shit and I wasliterally just watching an ncis

(37:16):
episode and the pilot diedbecause of faulty mechanical
parts.
Because the ceo of the umcompany, the aerospace company,
the airspace company admitted togetting cheaper parts from
third world countries and that'swhy we're not regulated no more
.
So we got all these faultymechanical parts.
Shit is not holding up.
It's like you buy a beater offthe, a beater off the um street,

(37:37):
and a nigga done fix it withall these cheap ass parts that's
not supposed to be in that carand stuff.
It's just like that for real.
So I know niggas say they'renot getting on flights and I
hope y'all not, because let metell y'all I'm getting me on the
plane.
These flight tickets are cheaplately boy $32 to go to Miami
right now, Shit.

Speaker 2 (37:52):
Hey, listen man.
If it's your time, it's yourtime.

Speaker 1 (37:59):
That's all.

Speaker 2 (38:00):
I can say Damn nigga.
If it's your time, it's yourtime, I don't know about that
one.

Speaker 1 (38:04):
You know, it ain't my time.

Speaker 2 (38:06):
It could be flight 565.

Speaker 1 (38:08):
Hey, hey, hey that could be your time.
Somebody gonna get you becausewith that's the next flight that
happened, they gonna clip this.
Hey yo, you know what I wasabout to say.
It would be so crazy if, likeAugust or September, that that
disappear in Malaysia justmagically reappears Like 828,

(38:28):
what's that damn manifest, damnmanifest, manifest flight 828.
What was that?
Malaysia flight 58, something56?
That flight been missing forhow many years?
Now 10 years, and then shegonna come back like that's not,
that's not conspiracy, that's.
God Nah but we gotta look atthat, you doomsday fish um um,
no, no, no, it's a dude, it's a,it's a rare black fish.

Speaker 2 (38:46):
No, it's not black, it's long it's no so we're
talking about the same shit.

Speaker 1 (38:51):
Looking up, it's literally called it's a do, it's
an orc fish orc it's not thesame thing.
The fish we're talking about isblack and it looks like a, look
like a lot of niggas.
They'd be walking down babysmall shit.
Damn.

Speaker 2 (39:03):
I just forget what I was going to say Go ahead,
because that's not.

Speaker 1 (39:06):
We're not talking about the same fish thing, All
right, anyway, there's a rarefish that's called orc fish, aka
the doomsday fish that onlyever appears on land when a bad
catastrophe is about to happen.
The last time here was 2011,when um sri lanka had that bad

(39:28):
tsunami and it just magicallythere.
It go right there, it justmagically appeared it's not the
same fish I'm talking about,though that's what I'm talking
about.
He was on the same differentfish all right, well, y'all stay
safe and stay off them flights,so I can get on, no, but it's
crazy that you mentioned that,because there was another fish
that I was referring to.

Speaker 2 (39:40):
It was like a black fish.
It it got like big fuckingteeth and it was a rare sight.
It's only found in the deepdepths of the sea and this is
the first time that this fishactually was in like regular
waters and shit, just casuallyswimming.
So that's why I say it's adifferent fish.

Speaker 1 (39:59):
I never saw this fish before, but the other fish I
was going to talk about wasblack, but it's crazy.
Shout out to UC with the topicstoday.
Oh and my black history fact fortoday.
Woo Shout out to the niggas andonly the niggas Shout out to
Miss Ella Fitzgerald, becauseshe was that girl in 1958.

(40:20):
She won a Grammy and she madehistory as becoming the first
African-American to win a Grammy.
And, even more interesting fact, she actually didn't win one
Grammy, but she actually won twoGrammys.
She won one album, for EllaFitzgerald sings like live jazz,
and then she won another onefor like like a pop, a pop
Grammy, for Ella Fitzgeraldsings Island Berlin, something,

(40:44):
something.
But yeah, I know she won twoGrammys in 1958.

Speaker 6 (40:47):
Okay, she was that girl Ella Fitz.

Speaker 2 (40:50):
What's her name?
Ella Fitzgerald, ellaFitzgerald.

Speaker 1 (40:53):
You don't know who that is, do you?
I don't know who that is, Ilove her, whoever she is, she's
black.

Speaker 2 (40:57):
So if she's black, I love her, I love you.
What is your woes, my blackbeautiful queen?
I got a black history fact.

Speaker 1 (41:02):
I told my kids the other day.

Speaker 2 (41:04):
What.

Speaker 1 (41:04):
In 1982, a black man Lonnie George or Gerald he
created the Super Soaker.

Speaker 2 (41:12):
Oh yeah, the Super Soaker.
Yeah oh, they stole his patent.
Though he just got paid, theydid steal his patent but he
didn't get it back.

Speaker 1 (41:22):
But I told that to my kids the other day because they
didn't know that they was likewow, they also didn't know that
a black man invented a videogame cartridge.

Speaker 2 (41:26):
Let's be real.
If you look at modern history,not modern history back in the
day history, vintage history, wecall it Black people invented
everything.

Speaker 1 (41:33):
Thank you, we invented every fucking thing A
lot of fucking traffic lights.
Have y'all seen that girl onInstagram and she does a series
of different things trying to dowithout black inventions,
trying to go through a daywithout black inventions, trying
to work out without blackinventions.

Speaker 6 (41:48):
She was like I can't do shit.

Speaker 2 (41:50):
I can't turn on the lights because black people
invent everything.
Can somebody Google what awhite person invented Mustard
Don?
The answer is what did a whiteperson invent that helped the
society?
To help the society.

Speaker 1 (42:05):
Okay.
We'll say you know, whitepeople invented that, helped the
society.
We'll say Lemon bars Okay,because let me tell you about a
motherfucking blueberry lemonbar.

Speaker 2 (42:13):
You know what I'm saying?
Lemon bars, a lemon barblessing what?
Is that.

Speaker 1 (42:16):
A bar of lemons, a bar.
What it's like a pastry.
It's like a pastry.
Yeah, it's a lemon bar pastry.

Speaker 2 (42:22):
An edible, a pastry, something to eat?

Speaker 1 (42:25):
Yeah, so you can eat it.

Speaker 2 (42:26):
I don't give a fuck about that.
That's not going to helpsociety.
You asked a question, weanswered it.

Speaker 1 (42:32):
You did, but we said damn near the same.
Thing.

Speaker 2 (42:35):
But no, that doesn't help.
That gets motherfuckersdiabetes and shit.
Is this sweet?
Is this sweet?

Speaker 1 (42:42):
Yeah, it's good I can make y'all some who invented a
table.

Speaker 2 (42:46):
Who invented a table?
A white man, a white man?
Somebody Google that.
Who invented a table?
I know we got to go, but justwhile we do research A table yes
, while I do my what would youdo see who invented a table?
Because this shit is useful asfuck.

Speaker 1 (43:04):
Yeah, it's useful as fuck.
Yeah, okay, what would?

Speaker 2 (43:06):
you, what would you?
Actually?
The ancient egyptians inventedsome of the earliest tables.
It was black, black, black,black motherfuckers.
That just proved my point.
Okay, so what would you do?
So, my, what would you do's fory'all guys that don't know or do
know, mama, what you do's areaccounts that I, um, personally
went through, or are somebodyelse that I know went through,
or is this an account that Ijust saw and I was like yo, that
shit was dope.
I don't know what you're doing.

(43:26):
So this account is somethingthat I saw online and I was like
yo, but it happened from a realperson that put it online.
So I was like that's dope, whatyou doing.
So this is specifically for myladies, because usually I say I
can switch it, but this one isspecifically for my ladies.
Well, one is specifically formy ladies well, you can reverse

(43:47):
it, but my ladies.
So what you do ladies?
So what you do?
Let's say you've been with thisnigga for, let's say, four or
five years, say five years, beena nigga for five years, and, um
, you have a best friend.
Um, say you've been, you know,you knew this girl for like 12
years, put a number on there,this girl for 12 years and
you've been.
You know, you knew this girlfor like 12 years.
Put a number on there knew thisgirl for 12 years and you made
for five years.
You and your friend y'all been,you know, your best friends are

(44:11):
on the phone every day.
Y'all tell each other's darkest, dirtiest secrets.
Y'all just bfs to the end.
Nothing goes unturned with youguys okay, bestie okay, bestie.
So you got this nigga one of thebest, one of the you know.
So you got this nigga one ofthe best.
One of the ladies got a niggaand she kicks the nigga out.
You know what?
They're going through sometrouble.
They've been together fiveyears.

(44:32):
Nigga, get the fuck out.
You're fucking up.
Get out.

Speaker 6 (44:34):
Right.

Speaker 2 (44:36):
Mind you, nigga got a great job, two great paying
jobs, say.
He's making $65, 70 000 a year.
You know great jobs.
She kicks him out and all right, he goes.
She knows that he's capableenough to get an apartment or
whatever, so she's not worriedabout the nigga right.
So a couple days go by, she'slike you know what, his ipad is

(45:00):
there and his location is there.
So you're like you know what.
Let me check nigga.
You know see where the fuck heat.

Speaker 6 (45:05):
So he's going to check it.

Speaker 2 (45:07):
That's what I would do.

Speaker 1 (45:07):
You know, check his iPad, I'm like oh, I don't care
how broken up we are, that'sthis location looks familiar
Like.

Speaker 2 (45:13):
Oh okay, and it's your best friend's location, he
gasped man.
What would you do at that pointif you saw?

Speaker 6 (45:23):
Have you talked to your best friend and she told
you or you just don't knownothing, you don't know nothing
at that point.

Speaker 2 (45:29):
What would you do at that point?
When you see that yoursignificant other is at your
best friend's location, whatwould you do?

Speaker 1 (45:38):
Logical me.
Logical me would make a phonecall to my best friend and see
how the conversation is andbefore I even like say I know
that nigga's over there, becauseI'm gonna look crazy, because I
looked at your location, Iwould have a conversation and if
that's my best friend, sheimmediately gonna tell me, like
look, girl, just let you know,your nigga pulled up over here.
I don't know what's going on tothe.
If that's what the case wasgoing on, illogical me, the real

(46:01):
me, the terrorist of labor, I'mpulling up to your
motherfucking house withoutcalling because, bitch, you got
me fucked up, because as soon asthat nigga pulled up to your
ring and he was on that ring,you should have called me on the
phone and open that door whileI was on that damn phone.
You didn't.
So now I gotta pull up withoutany warrants.
I'm pulling up without nonotification because now I'm
gonna beat you and him up.
I'm gonna beat both of y'allasses, never talking to that man

(46:22):
again.
And I'm probably gonna talk toyou, but every time I think
about it we just gonna end upfighting.

Speaker 3 (46:26):
So that's what that's like me, like me and my best
friend, like we.

Speaker 1 (46:30):
We've, honestly, we've been friends 21 years, 22
years, this year.
Yeah, we never had a singleargument, like not a single one.
So our conversation, we wouldbe different.
Like I would literally justcall her and be like, why the
fuck is this nigga location atyour house?
And either she's going to tellme or the shit is going to be

(46:52):
weird and I'm going to know.
If it's weird, then I'm pullingup.
I will be there in 18 minutes,right?
Yeah, it's hard trying tofigure this out, cause I, my
friend, my best friends, peoplethat I'm best friends with, I
I'm like you, we have been bestfriends for like 20 plus years.
So it was I would with them, Iwould give them the courtesy of
having a logical conversationfirst.

(47:12):
That's the smart thing to do inany situation.
Y'all have a logicalconversation first.
But I just know the shots witht and me, the shots with t and
me.
I'm pulling up at your fuckinghouse, okay, at your fucking
house, for real.

Speaker 2 (47:25):
So yeah, let's hear it from the studio audience what
would you do?

Speaker 1 (47:29):
uh, uh, I didn't like that laugh.
That laugh was nasty.
It was nasty.

Speaker 6 (47:34):
Well, my friends know I crash out so not a crash out,
real bad ended up in jail, ohgod so the first thing I'm gonna
do is I'm gonna ask my twofriends that live in Atlanta,
hannah and Aisha, your twofriends should I
pull up to this girl's house tosee what's going on, and if they

(47:55):
say, hell yeah, I'm pulling thefuck up, so yeah.
I'm gonna pull the fuck up.
We don't know how to beat thatnigga ass.
Beat the bitch ass, beateverybody ass.
We'll probably beat that niggaass first, even the kids
probably the kids too, I ain'tgonna lie, you would crash out.

Speaker 1 (48:09):
I ain't gonna lie.
Yeah, I might have to.
I might have to whoop a kid asstoo.
That's over there.
Get your ass out of the way andgo straight.
You know cause you knew, yeah,cause you knew too.
You ain't call your, you, yourauntie, so you know I'm
screaming uh-huh, so yeah okay,so what would you do?

Speaker 2 (48:25):
studio?
Guess right, what would you dowithout lana?

Speaker 6 (48:29):
hey dang.
The question is what would I doif I see my boyfriend?

Speaker 2 (48:35):
you just kicked your nigga out.
And yeah, you go on his ipadand you see that your nigga that
you just kicked out is at yourbff's house.
What would you do at that pointwhen you see that your nigga
that you just kicked out is atyour BFF's house?
What would you do at that pointwhen you see that Damn?

Speaker 6 (48:51):
Damn my blood boiling right now.

Speaker 1 (48:53):
My boy, See your blood just immediately blown,
because it's like I want to knowwhy y'all doing something for
me.
Okay, y'all trying to figureout how to get this nigga back
in my house.
You know what I'm saying.
Like what y'all trying tofigure out something with me?

Speaker 6 (49:08):
that's my question.
If if that's not the answer,then we have a problem yeah
because.

Speaker 1 (49:13):
Why are you there?
Yeah, because my friend wouldhave called me as soon as he
would have called me like hey,not even when he there, before
he get there, hey he just calledme and he said he on his way, I
would have already been there.

Speaker 2 (49:23):
What'd you do Okay.

Speaker 6 (49:26):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (49:27):
Lena, do you care to answer?
I know you just walked in.
Okay, the question was whatwould you do If you've been?
You have a best friend, female,of 12 years and you've been
with your man For 5 years youkicked your man out.
You happened to go To his iPadBecause it's been a few days
after he kicked him out and,mind you, he's well off, he has

(49:48):
a, he has two great jobs, hecould take care of himself.
You check his ipad and you seethat he is at your best friend's
house, the ucap.
What would you do?

Speaker 6 (49:58):
I would kill him oh shit there'll be no reason why
you should be over there, likethere's no reason.
What's?

Speaker 3 (50:03):
the reason.

Speaker 6 (50:04):
What's the reason?
What's the reason, steven?
They'll be like oh yeah, wefriends, no, y'all not friends.
So there's no logical reasonwhere did we get that from?

Speaker 1 (50:15):
I'm a killer.
What was our reason why?

Speaker 2 (50:21):
was you over there, louis, so it seems like all of
y'all, in contrast, will beatthe nigga up or, as lena say,
would kill him yeah, like I said, that's the illogical person to
me.

Speaker 1 (50:33):
The logical in me would have had that conversation
first before I pull up and thereason why I say that because I
literally saw a.
The reason why I say that isbecause on facebook, um woody
mclean, the dude that playedbobby brown, he used to do like
parody videos and one of thevideos he did was where the girl
thought he was cheating on himwith the best frank and she saw
them like you little laughs,giggles, talking, stuff come to

(50:56):
find out him and the girl wasplanning the whole proposal
together.
So that's the reason why I sayyou got to have a logical
conversation before going offand that's what.
Anything you think before you.
I tell my students that youthink before you act.
But the unreformed before 30 mewould have pulled up to that
bitch's house with that baseballbat.
I would have pulled a TerrenceJeter on her ass batting 4,000.

(51:17):
Batting 4,000 is nuts.
I'm beating that hoe ass.
So what was the outcome?

Speaker 2 (51:23):
Okay, so the outcome was as you put it a conversation
was had.

Speaker 5 (51:28):
See she's smart.

Speaker 2 (51:29):
It was like yo, you know, can you explain this?
So the best friend'sexplanation was well, I knew you
guys were going to get backtogether, so I housed them
because I knew y'all was goingto get back together.
Now, granted, mind them becauseI knew y'all was going to get
back together.
Now, granted, mind you, Nah,that's an ass whooping.
Now, mind you, the man and thewoman in her POV.

(51:50):
They never talked, they neverinteracted, she stayed away from
him.
So it was seemingly like youknow, I'm out of it.
You know that's your man, Irespect your space, shit like
that.
So I'm not going to talk to tohim.
So she's like yo, you don'teven talk to the nigga, so why
did he figure he wants he he'sto go over to your house?
Y'all didn't even have noconversations.

(52:10):
And again the young lady saidwell, I knew that y'all was
gonna get back together andy'all was gonna, uh, do what you
do.
So I housed him.
So the, the, the, the sticklerwas.
He was over there for about afew months.

Speaker 6 (52:25):
Oh shit.

Speaker 2 (52:26):
And they talked every single day Like and she was
like, he was over there for howlong?
And we talked every single day.
So when he came over there, youdon't call me no more, you
don't text me, nothing Like.
It just completely went A whole180.

Speaker 1 (52:41):
But they in a relationship, so Honey Honey.

Speaker 2 (52:43):
The outcome was she thinks that the nigga is fucking
her best went a whole 180?
.
They in a relationship, honey.
The outcome was she thinks thatthe nigga is fucking her best
friend.
They was kind of hiding it.

Speaker 1 (52:51):
If he's over there for a few months.
First of all, let me be veryclear.
Let me be very clear.
And we're going to go back tomy definition a few weeks ago of
homosexual.
We're going to go back tohomosexual.
We're going to go back tohomosexual.
Okay, we're gonna go back tothat switch.
Is gonna insert that clip here.
Homosexual, okay, um, we'regonna go back to that because,

(53:11):
first of all, me and that nigganot even close enough me and my
best friend's nigga not evergonna be close enough for him to
stay for a few months.
After a few months, that bitchis fucking him.
She's fucking or sucking.
Something's going on.
Okay, something's going on.
He not paying no rent.
Yeah, you a homosexual.
He too comfortable.
You going in the house, like Isaid you tripping over
Playstations.
His size 13 is by the door.

Speaker 2 (53:32):
Well, in this case, he has two good paying jobs.
He's well off, he has bread.

Speaker 1 (53:38):
So why he stay that so long?
Why he stay?
Because he's fucking her.
You're proving our point he'sfucking her.

Speaker 2 (53:44):
It's mine.
What would you do?

Speaker 1 (53:45):
He's fucking her.
He's fucking her.
Don't shoot the message.
He's fucking her.
He is dicking her down, down,down and she's sick as she a
sick ass bitch because she callher best friend every day.
Okay, that's nasty work.

Speaker 2 (53:57):
So, if you, let's put a twist on it so if you knew,
if you knew that your man, mindyou, it's not even your ex.
You just had an argument.
You just kicked him out like Ineed some space, get the fuck
out y'all didn't even break up.
They didn't even break up youjust kicked the nigga out and
y'all found out.
Y'all know for a thousand andtwo percent that he is fucking

(54:21):
your BFF.
What would you do?
I'm kicking him over the ass soyou gonna crash, y'all gonna go
to jail y'all could be like meand do a tell all episode.

Speaker 1 (54:32):
I'm gonna tell her mama.
If it was my best friend, I'mgonna tell her mama because if
it was my best friend and I'mgoing to tell her mama, you're
going to tell her mama.
If it was my best friend, I'mgoing to tell her mama Because
if it was my best friend and I'mthinking of all my closest, my
circle, all my circle, which isthe Hoochies, plus my other best
friend, alex.
Shout out to Alex.
If it was them, I would telltheir mamas because their mamas
would kill them.
I would tell their mamas.

(54:53):
I'm snitching, yeah, I, I wouldtell they mamas.
I'm snitching.
I'm telling mamas cause I'mlook at your daughter, look at
your daughter, she being alittle whore.
Look at your daughter being awhore, a whore, a little whore a
little whore yeah, so yeah sothat's about what would you do.

Speaker 2 (55:05):
so what would you do that's crazy if you was a female
and your your nigga went toyour BFF house and stayed over
there?

Speaker 1 (55:16):
That's pissing me off .
At this point, thinking aboutmy friends, I'm going to have to
get in a group chat later andlet them know boundaries at this
point.
Alright, man Shout out to thatshit just pissed me off for real
and it's okay, because now I'mgoing to be thinking about this
shit.
Later I'm going to have to hitall my friends up in a mass
group text.
If this scenario ever happened,do not let this nigga in.
Do not let this nigga in Pass goAll the time Call me in, but

(55:40):
y'all already know this.
It's another segment ofX-Terror.
So listen, this week is alittle different, right?
Because me, I got together witha focus group.

Speaker 2 (55:49):
Okay, shout out to the focus group.

Speaker 1 (55:50):
Shout out to the focus.
It's really my employees.
So I got together with a focusgroup and I be telling them they
be watching the podcast y'alland I be so ashamed, but they be
watching it, they love it.
They like to repeat that what Ibe saying when I come to work
the next day and shit, and theywatch the episodes.
But they put together.
They gave me some questions toask y'all, for y'all to answer,
because they like to hear.
What I was told was she besmart for real because she be

(56:15):
thinking about that shit.
But that nigga see, oh, hefunny, because he don't be
thinking, he just be doing thisone.
The next day he got it right,yeah, and I was like I said
they're like yeah, and they'relike boss, you cool and all, but
you know you just be trying to,you be trying to be in the
neutral.
We need you to go outside andwhat would you really be
thinking?
You'd be acting crazy at work.

(56:36):
That's what they told me.
So this is questions that theycame up with for me to ask y'all
.
And it's relationship, questionsabout dating and some of these
questions.
They told me to give adisclaimer.
This may or may not havehappened to them.

Speaker 6 (56:48):
It took a shit, it definitely happened to them.

Speaker 1 (56:51):
It took a shit.
So shout out to them, shout outto their employees.
So one of the questions is um,and this one is a deep question
Would you rather your partnercheat physically or emotionally?
Physically?
Physically, physically, why?
Because emotionally is a deeperlevel.
Um, physically, is that can,that's something that can go

(57:13):
away.
Emotionally, that's anattachment that's going to be
there.
That's time, that's a bond,that's commitment that has, over
time, developed into something.
If it's physical, that's justtwo people having sex.
That's true.

Speaker 6 (57:26):
I think I agree with that and I'm going to break it
down deeper than that.

Speaker 2 (57:31):
So I say so I say physically right, because let's
keep it in the realm of just sex, right.
So if you emotionally involvedin a sexist whack, you may say
you know what the sex is?
Whack I, I, I like this nigga.
I'm gonna keep going, you know,because I like this nigga.

(57:53):
I never like nobody right I'mjust saying you know, I mean, if
you into a nigga you may find away.
Nigga may give some great heador he may compensate, he may
cook great or something.
But you're just emotionallyattached to it.
So you can get over thatPhysically.
That nigga whack.
You're like this nigga suck,it's over.
I'm not going back to the nigga, I don't want to see this nigga
, no more.

(58:13):
So the sex if the nigga fuckyou, emotionally you stay,
physically you leave.

Speaker 1 (58:23):
So that's why I say physically, um, I don't know, I
think I'm, I'm at equal points,or both, I think, physically and
emotionally.
But cheating is fucked up allaround.
But I do agree with theemotional part of it, because
you have really had to spendtime with this bitch for you.
Now you, now you in love withthis bitch and I'm going to show
you love for real.
Now you ain't going to.
If y'all can't have you, nobodycan have you.
I'm going to give you the guy.

(58:44):
So yeah, so shout out to thatone Okay, um, this one is um.
If your partner started anOnlyFans but never told you, is
that, oh well, this happened tome.
So funny thing about, let mefinish it, hold on.
If your partner startedOnlyFans but never told you, is
that breakup material?
And the reason why thisquestion was asked is because

(59:04):
one of the episodes that wewatched together was the one oh,
we're talking about Gerald.
The Gerald expose episode.

Speaker 2 (59:12):
I got a twist to that .
But go ahead, yeah, but goahead.

Speaker 1 (59:13):
Yeah, but go ahead.
Answer the question Is thatbreakup material?
Okay, I'm going to say yes andno.
Okay.

Speaker 4 (59:24):
And hear me out.

Speaker 1 (59:25):
I say no because if your OnlyFans is just you solo,
that's fine, okay, but if it'slike you and multiple partners,
it's a no.
For me it's a problem, yeah,yeah.
And don't hide it Like let itbe known, don't let me stumble
upon it.
I think I'm opposite for real.
If you got OnlyFans, you nevertold me I'm breaking up with you
.
Let me tell you why.
And it's not because of youhaving the OnlyFans for real,

(59:48):
it's because my whole thing is Ihate a motherfucking liar.
You sneaky, so that would makeafter that if I did give you a
chance.
Now I'm thinking everythingyou're saying.
It's always going to be thatshit in the back of my head,
like is he lying about this shit?
So I couldn't even do it.
Just because I'm such a, I feellike I have a PTSD thing about

(01:00:08):
lying for real.
Like, don't lie.
Like tell me you got OnlyFansand give me that choice to break
up with you if I want to dothat.
You know what I'm saying sookay.

Speaker 2 (01:00:18):
So one of the nigga got her only fans right okay I'm
not.
I'll tell you what the only fansis about after I say this.
So you know, yeah, he, he'sbuying you every fucking thing.
You go to the mall.
You're like baby, I want that.
He gives it to you.
Uh, you, you like baby, I wanta house.
He gets you the house.
Like baby, I need a new car.
He gets you the car.

(01:00:38):
He gets you all this shit.
He's getting you.
Whatever the fuck you want,he's there for you.
He cooks, he cleans, he irons.
Hold on, he irons.
Right, I don't need to iron.
He cooks, cleans irons.
He's the model man, everythingyou want.
I just might shut the fuck up.
He just Like you, like Yo, thisnigga's the perfect nigga.
And then you go and you finallygot the only fans and he's
sucking toes and finger poppingbitches.

(01:00:59):
That's how he gets paid.
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:01:02):
That's how he gets paid.
Is that the only thing he doing?
He not penetrating, he notpenetrating.

Speaker 2 (01:01:05):
Nah, he not penetrating, just sucking toes
and finger popping bitches.
But that's how he gets hismoney.

Speaker 1 (01:01:11):
When he finger pops.
She was a good I don't know.

Speaker 2 (01:01:15):
I don't know.
Maybe finger pop, whatever thefuck you do, he's finger popping
, no penetration, no penetration.
He's finger popping bitches andsucking toes and you see his
only fans.
But you know, this nigga givesyou anything.
You fucking want his.

Speaker 1 (01:01:26):
Your whole life is funded by only fans I mean, I
guess the question would be doyou want to cry?
Do you want to cry in beverlyhills or on betas ford, for real
?
I guess that's the question.
Do you want to cry?
What the question is do youwant to cry on betas ford, in
beverly hills?
Because if you want to cry onbeverly hills, then you good,
because you got all that.
But if you want to be back inthe streets on betas ford with

(01:01:48):
these niggas out here, I guessyou know you're not gonna accept
that.
Honestly, for me, though, Idon't know that's a good
question.
I can't say yes or no to that,because finger popping and
sucking toes it's that don'tsound bad.

Speaker 3 (01:02:00):
But it's just like I just feel like more goes on
behind right, because whatyou're?

Speaker 1 (01:02:03):
not filming is that you go back to that lion shit
finger popping and toe suckingon your page.
But what's on this bitch page?
Who you finger popping and youtalk and why do you suck?
Your toes and bring your toejam home cause hello like and
you tongue kissing this nigga, Idon't even piss me off, piss me
off, yeah, cause you just pissme off.

(01:02:28):
I didn't answer the question soyou gonna let him go?
What you gonna do then?
You answer the question yeah,giggle giggle key key.
Answer the question yeah,giggle, giggle, key key.
Answer the question she ain'tgot.

Speaker 2 (01:02:39):
oh, she got her money , I got her.

Speaker 1 (01:02:41):
I'm gonna leave you still.
Thank you, because, first ofall, I don't do lying shit,
right?

Speaker 6 (01:02:45):
And I feel like you doing some.
I think too much, yeah, so Ifeel like other shit and then we
kissing yeah, so, yeah, soyou're gonna give up that whole?

Speaker 1 (01:02:56):
lifestyle, because I'll come do that shit myself.
I mean to be fair and to betechnical.
Everything you gave me was agift, so I can fight for you in
court against, if I wanted to.
To be fair, so, all right,we're going into our petty and
toxic category okay is blockingyour ex childish, or is it
necessary for you to move on?
Necessary because niggas liketo double back.

(01:03:16):
Ain't no doubling back overhere, fuck you.

Speaker 2 (01:03:21):
I'm in a situation now.

Speaker 4 (01:03:23):
Yeah, I think, and I could talk you cool.

Speaker 1 (01:03:30):
I be forgetting about that every time.
Until you say it.
I be forgetting about that shit.
I'm screaming.
He'll never be included inthose statements.
Forget about that shit.
I'm screaming.
He'll never be included inthose statements.
He's always excluded.
I'm screaming.

Speaker 2 (01:03:43):
For me because I'm in this situation now.
I just think it depends on howthe situation went leading up to
it.

Speaker 1 (01:03:52):
I never asked you.
Are you in your ex-school?
I don't know about thatstatement.
Are you in your ex-school?
Hold on, I never asked.
Y'all don.
I never asked you.
Are you in your ex-school?
Are you in your ex-school?
Hold on, I never asked.
No, no, no, we don't.
Y'all don't speak right?

Speaker 2 (01:03:59):
Nah, we don't speak.
You know, and I and I and I hadher.

Speaker 1 (01:04:02):
I mean, I have some exes on my social media, yeah,
but we don't talk.
So I mean, but Like a lot of myexes.

Speaker 2 (01:04:16):
I'm still cool with.

Speaker 1 (01:04:18):
Go off on a bad note.
Yeah, I don't want to see you,right?

Speaker 2 (01:04:21):
Because I feel like yo, if you was in a relationship
with this person and y'all wascool and y'all ended it on like
you know what, be cool.
You know what I mean.

Speaker 1 (01:04:37):
Why would you block from the plot before I would
agree with y'all before well,not before before I would not
have agreed with y'all, but mylast ex y'all know I talked
about this man me and himjamaican nigga.
Yes, we remember we broke up onnot bad terms.
We just mutually agreed that wewasn't the right time right it
was wrong.
It was a right person, wrongtime, and he actually was a man
that took the initiative andbroke up because he just knew he
was grieving and he couldn'tgive me all of what I wanted,

(01:04:58):
and so he was.
I think he's my only ex that Ihave not blocked only because
it's just, you know, we, we'regonna meet your terms.
Now I say that, and then Iblocked him two months ago only
because I realized, though,although we are cool, we're not
angry at each other.
We're not cool.
We still was talking everything.
It was necessary for me to moveon, because I was always like
holding that string, and Iwasn't able to fully like date

(01:05:22):
people or give, like you know,start to open myself up to other
people, because it was like Iwas like low-key, holding a
candle or, you know, trying tothink like you know what.
I don't want to get too deepinto somebody because maybe
he'll get us up together.
You know what I'm saying.
So I thought I think it isnecessary for and I know we said
situational, but sometimes,even if y'all are cool, it might
be necessary for that situation, so you'll be able to heal and

(01:05:44):
move on, but it doesn't meanbuck forever.
Maybe in a few months or nextyear I can talk to him again
without, like you know,minimizing myself and minimizing
my dating, if that makes sense.
So I do think it's a situationnow that nigga that I used to
date, that nigga that I used todate Neil with the Neil with the

(01:06:04):
shacks and the bootcuts jeans.

Speaker 3 (01:06:06):
I used to date him.
I used to date a nigga.

Speaker 1 (01:06:07):
I used to date a nigga.
Y'all listen, this was 2014,2015.

Speaker 6 (01:06:19):
I was in love with him.

Speaker 1 (01:06:20):
I was in Listen.
So this man, he shot at me.
This was not a nigga, listen,this was not a nigga that I was,
that I would ever Like thinkabout Giving my time to, and he
shot and shot at me.
You know, it be them niggasthat you don't even Think about
pursuing.
They pursue you until they wearyou down.
He wore me down.
Nigga used to wear bootcutjeans and shacks and I don't
know.
This was 2014, 2015, tears.

(01:06:42):
So back then I was young, dumband full of cum, okay, and
that's nasty and y'all y'allthis, this name, y'all this man
used to treat me.
He used to treat me so well,used.
He used to drop money to go getmy hair done for months and
shit Everything, and shout outto Ed and Justo because this is

(01:07:03):
when me and Ed was livingtogether and you know they used
to call this nigga Dale becauseI said his name was Neil, so
he's called Big Dale.
He would come down y'all Idon't know he would come down
and visit me from Raleigh.
I know the nigga that down.
He would come down and visit mefrom raleigh.
I know the nigga.
That's why, yeah, you know,just so, he would come down from
raleigh and visit me and shit.
And he met my whole family.

(01:07:23):
It was a boxing match.
We had a boxing party.
He met my cousins, my, mybrother, everybody met my whole
family.
We was locked in.
I'm gonna show y'all thesesnapchat videos.
We locked in y'all.
This girl reached out to me ontwitter, on dm.
She reached out to me like, canI talk to you?
And I was like, yeah, sure,she's.
Like, can I, can I call you onthe phone?
I was like, okay, yeah, shecalled me.
This was this man'sex-girlfriend.
And she said, yeah, she waslike I know you've been talking

(01:07:45):
to him and stuff, but we've beentogether.
I saw y'all messages.
I'm masters in chicago.
She said I'm dealing with abrain tumor right now.
Brain tumor, shit.
I was like, oh my, oh, my damn.
She said they've been fuckingeach other.
They said it was a concert,some concert in charlotte.
He told me that he was out oftown but he was with her here in

(01:08:06):
charlotte at this concert in mycity, neither one of them from
charlotte in my city.
And I was like, yeah.
I said well, I didn't knowabout you.
You know he had been sending memoney.
She said, yeah, I know he beensending you money.
That's the money that I beensending him to pay his rent and
his car note.
So so she had been sending himmoney and stuff, the money that
he was supposed to be paying hisrent and car note with.

(01:08:27):
He had been giving it to me.

Speaker 4 (01:08:28):
I said well, that nigga not homeless, and so I.
She was so upset.

Speaker 1 (01:08:34):
I felt so bad for her with the brain tumor, I sent
her money to go get her hairdone and her nails done Because
I felt bad for her and we calledher on the phone.
First of all, shout out to Edand Jesso, because them niggas
so unserious in the backgroundand shit.
She called him on the phoneTalking to him and he was just
lying and stuff and I got up offthat mute and to this day, to
this day, this nigga still bebeating down my line every time

(01:08:57):
and be like can we talk?
I'm in Charlotte, I just wantto talk and I know the pussy was
great.
I know it was great, right, Iknow the pussy's phenomenal.

Speaker 2 (01:09:03):
Wait, and what year was this for you?
2014.

Speaker 1 (01:09:06):
And you're still on your line.
Yeah, because I can't Now, Ican't even.
Yeah, I done told the world now, so I can't even go back,
double back.
He do a podcast too, now too,everything he gonna talk about
it.

Speaker 2 (01:09:22):
You know he gonna talk about it.
I can't wait.

Speaker 3 (01:09:24):
I can't wait.

Speaker 1 (01:09:28):
Because now we're going to beef with his podcast,
because I, I don't even know.
I got to find his Instagram.

Speaker 2 (01:09:33):
Oh, fuck your podcast , nigga.
Where is that?

Speaker 1 (01:09:35):
But yeah, so that nigga.
He's blocked and everybody knowon Instagram.
This is a running story on myInstagram about this nigga.
Every time I like change myhair or some hype shit, he comes
from a different text nownumber and texts me Like for
real every time.
She's not lying, I'm lyingEvery time he does post it.
It's a story on my instagram.
My close friends they know likeI post this nigga.

(01:09:56):
He's wild.
So shout out to neo from durham.
I know you can't forgive me.

Speaker 2 (01:10:00):
That's hilarious yeah , but that was that was it?

Speaker 1 (01:10:05):
oh, I have one more question.
Let me get this out.
All right, this is a stupid one, but it was the reason why I
wrote this one down for real,because I feel like this happens
often and I want to know whatpeople think.
If you caught your um bestfriend's partner cheating your,

(01:10:27):
so say, your best friend ischeating your best friend, your
nigga is cheating, would youtell their partner or not?

Speaker 2 (01:10:34):
Nah, it's none of my business.

Speaker 1 (01:10:39):
Yeah, would you tell his partner?
Yeah, you see him out cheating.
Would you tell his partner ornot?
Nah, this is a two-partquestion.

Speaker 2 (01:10:45):
That's a bro code.

Speaker 1 (01:10:45):
I'm going to probably say something to him Like well,
I'm a girl, but I'm going toprobably say something to her.

Speaker 2 (01:10:51):
That's a bro code and the reason why I've been in
this situation.
Before I was married, my manwas married and we was out Shit
nigga doing the do.
I'm not going to tell this.

Speaker 3 (01:11:02):
Who was your man?

Speaker 2 (01:11:03):
I'm not going to put that name on blast.
No, but we was doing the do.

Speaker 1 (01:11:06):
And ladies, this is why you don't trust they best
friends okay.
Now two-part question is wouldyou end your friendship over
that?
No, no, no.
And I ask this because y'allknow some people will argue that
they not cool people who cheat,because I ain't going to lie,
if you cheating, I'm not goingto fuck with that for real,
because I don't condone it.
Well, bye, gina, the fuck.

(01:11:27):
I don't condone it, because whyyou condoning your nigga, your
friend, cheating, though that'snone of my business, I don't say
that that is bad karma.

Speaker 2 (01:11:35):
That's none of my business, I'm not going to tell
her partner.

Speaker 1 (01:11:39):
But I'm sitting my homegirl right now like ho, is
you cool, like get your shittogether.

Speaker 2 (01:11:43):
Let me tell you a quick story.
Right, me and my mans.
Me and my mans.
We went out.
He married.
I wasn't married at the time,but he was married.
He was telling me.
You said your mans, bobby, no,no, I'm not saying no, no, he
was married at the time and hewas like yo this ring is a
magnet.
I never knew the ring was amagnet until I got married.

Speaker 1 (01:12:00):
Maybe you say that when they get married they get
more, they try to get more pussy.

Speaker 2 (01:12:03):
It's a fucking magnet .
So we were out doing this.
Before I got married we was out, you know, he married.
I'm like, yeah, nigga justthink of we pop it, we crib that
night after we did our thing,and his wife cooking us meals
and all that shit.

Speaker 1 (01:12:20):
Niggas ain't shit.
We eating good and shit hiswife.
Niggas ain't shit Like baby,how you doing.

Speaker 2 (01:12:25):
He's like how you doing baby.
You know me going.
Good, I'm sitting there like yo.
This shit is crazy.
Niggas, ain't shit for real.
We just had an escapade and weget a whole cooked meal from his
wife.
That's crazy.

Speaker 1 (01:12:35):
Niggas ain't shit, but you know it's.
And don't ever trust hisfriends, ladies.
His friends are not yourbrothers, his mama is not your
mama, his sister is not yoursister.
Do not trust her.
Nope At all, because I will liefor my friends.

Speaker 2 (01:12:46):
I mean, I'm going to go back to what we talked about
Old men cheat.

Speaker 1 (01:12:59):
Old men and honestly.

Speaker 3 (01:13:00):
Honestly, I would.
That's a different type ofwoman.
That's a different type ofwoman.

Speaker 1 (01:13:04):
That's a different type of woman.
That's a woman you cannot trustwith nothing.
You can't trust that woman andif I ever see my and if I ever,
ever, ever, ever, ever see myHomegirls niggas cheating, I'm
beating you and that bitch causeyou ain't gonna ever play with
my friend like that.

Speaker 2 (01:13:20):
I mean, listen to me, it's none of my business
because you know I don't want tobe the person to intervene and
break it up.
Because what if that situationhappens?
And you know they reconcile andthey be able to grow and grow
for that and I'll be the personto break that up.

(01:13:42):
So that's not none of mybusiness, whatever y'all do.

Speaker 1 (01:13:45):
That's y'all.
I still don't think you shouldhold your friends to a standard,
and I know if my friend ischeating, I'm not.
I'm, I'm not gonna end thefriendship, but I'm definitely
sitting her down and checkingthe fuck out of her because at
some point you got to have somemorals.
That is karma.
That's what I mean to say.
That's karma for real.

Speaker 2 (01:13:59):
Now it depends.
Now, for instance, say, if I'mcool with the lady, I'm going to
say something I'm like yo bro,don't do her like that.

Speaker 1 (01:14:08):
No, you got to say that regardless.

Speaker 2 (01:14:17):
You got to be a standard moral.
It's a difference.

Speaker 1 (01:14:18):
if you know the other person, it's probably worse if
you know them, but it's still amoral.
A nigga that will cheat on hiswife is nine times out of ten, a
nigga that will lie to you.
He will lie to you.
A nigga that will cheat aperson that will cheat on their
spouse nine times out of ten isgoing to lie to you.
I would never trust a bitch,that cheat on her nigga.

Speaker 2 (01:14:38):
Of course the nigga going to lie, but it depends on
what you lie about.
Like, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (01:14:42):
If you're like yo he just don't give a fuck.

Speaker 2 (01:14:44):
Nah, I don't like the nigga if I be like yo, somebody
going out to this party, hey,fuck it, we out.

Speaker 1 (01:14:53):
That's not a difference.
There's levels to lies.
There's levels to lies for real.
That's a white lie, for real.

Speaker 2 (01:15:02):
I mean technically.
What is a nigga going to lie tome about that?
I would give a fuck about.
Maybe, he cheated on his wife.

Speaker 3 (01:15:08):
He's fucking your wife he's fucking your bitch.

Speaker 1 (01:15:12):
He lied about money he owe you.

Speaker 3 (01:15:17):
Or if he can cheat on his wife.

Speaker 1 (01:15:18):
He lying and fucking your bitch, then would you be
ending the friendship.
After that, you can have her.
It's plenty of fish in the sea,ladies, ladies, you hear?

Speaker 2 (01:15:30):
it here.

Speaker 1 (01:15:30):
Do not trust these niggas for real please don't
trust us niggas no.
I had a question I meant tosend this is for the audience to
answer.
Okay, go ahead, let's notdecide.
Go ahead.

Speaker 2 (01:15:41):
Don't trust no niggas .

Speaker 1 (01:15:42):
Ask Terrence and Sid.
I had a conversation with myhood therapist, aka my wee man,
Yo wee man.
We had a very interestingconversation and it left me with
a very interesting question allright, go ahead to the audience
men.
More specifically, how would awoman approach a man to where he

(01:16:06):
is receptive to learning aboutthe areas that she feels like
he's lacking in, without himfeeling attacked?
Oh, that's a good one, that's agood one.
So I need them to answer that Ifeel like there's no way.
Because?
But because?
it's like it's not even likelike you're lacking, it's just
like you know she's saying likeyou know, my, maybe my love

(01:16:30):
language is touch and I, I, Iwant you to be more affectionate
.
How do you take that as hertrying to, you know, get closer
and improve the relationship,versus like an attack against
who you are as a person?

Speaker 5 (01:16:43):
Tone and pitch is majority of everything when it
comes to a man.

Speaker 1 (01:16:47):
Tone and pitch is it's not what you say, it's how
you say it.

Speaker 5 (01:16:50):
Yeah, like I don't know what it is about a male,
but it's just like we pick up onall of that shit Like I don't
know what it is like y'all gotthe ovaries and the sixth sense
and all of that crazy shit I dohave intuition is crazy, but
when it comes to a male, it'sjust like the pickup of energy
is 10 times stronger when it,when it comes to like a person

(01:17:12):
that we really really close, soespecially our female is just
like damn.
I'm already feeling all of thatwhen you coming at me with some
crazy ass goddamn tone and pitch.
Or it's some solid ass,aggressive ass shit.
It ain't even got to be loud orcrazy.
Whatever your tone and pitch isI'm going to pick that shit up.

Speaker 1 (01:17:31):
Yeah, because I feel like I don't know, it's hard
trying to tell a man like stuffthat you like, that you want
them to do differently.
Without trying to come off ascriticizing, but I just, without
attacking, because I'm nevertrying to attack you, because I
love you, but I just want totell you like, alright, you be
touching me here and I won't befeeling nothing, but I be going,
you know, just going with it,because you know you, without
niggas, be like well, I justwant to touch you without you,

(01:17:57):
or it'd be the most famous.
You need to have social media.
Social media ain't like this.
You know it'd be like bro comeon Like you know like so how do
you talk to these niggas likethat?

Speaker 5 (01:18:07):
I'm going to tell y'all something too.
So this is just some real shitwhen I was putting her up on.
But I will put her up on itthrough comedy, like real shit,
like Netflix is and all of thattype of shit.
I will put her up on whateverthe fuck it was that I was
trying to literally put her upon in our relationship.

(01:18:27):
I put it up on her throughtelevision because I know that's
something that we connectedwith.
Like we didn't have too manysimilarities when it came to
outside shit.

Speaker 1 (01:18:36):
That's a reverse Psychology type shit when it
came to like Some inside shit,inside like.
I don't know, don't do thatshit to me, cause I'll be pissed
.
I'll be pissed, so I don't.
I don't do that shit to me Now.
I really gotta Watch this.
It's just conversation gang.

Speaker 3 (01:18:49):
We just gonna, let's, go on here and have this talk.
Cause for me, we grown, likeyou said, though but would you
be open to the conversation?

Speaker 1 (01:18:56):
are you gonna open your ears?

Speaker 3 (01:18:57):
and hear this some shit that I I'm gonna have to
say too, you know what, andthat's why, that's why I don't
want to tell niggas that shitwas nasty.
I told you, don't put that shitin there now because you did,
no, because now see, that's whatwe talking about cause.
Now you attacked, now youattacked.

Speaker 1 (01:19:17):
Now you attacked and I'm just trying to tell you how
are we flipping on me.
How are we flipping on me nowwhat you say, fuck me for.
Like I said, it's justconversation now, because my
thing is this I'm going to bereceptive because I want to know
, I want to know, because I'm anigga, that I hate that tipper
tat shit cause you was nevergoing to mention what I was

(01:19:38):
doing wrong if I had mentionedwhat you did wrong, but then the
thing is it wouldn't have beenthe time.

Speaker 3 (01:19:42):
I'm about timing, so my thing is, at this moment
where the the door open fuck it.
Let me go and step through thislittle hole and this is why
this is what Tell me baby, thatshit crazy.
We can work through thisbecause I want to get to know
you.

Speaker 1 (01:19:55):
That shit crazy.

Speaker 3 (01:19:57):
But you know what?
I'm going to accept it, though,because I love you.

Speaker 1 (01:20:00):
See, it's his question.
I want you to answer it becauseyou have good insight sometimes
.
So finish this off and answerthis.

Speaker 2 (01:20:12):
So, for me, no stories though, no stories, no
stories, no stories.
So for me, communication, asyou were stating, is key.
The tone and how you, becauseat the end of the day, we are
men, right, so we were created.

Speaker 3 (01:20:29):
We are men.

Speaker 2 (01:20:30):
Yeah, we men, we were created to be provider, to be
the provider, to be, you knowright everything.
So I like providers I don'tcare what them bitches say
provide right so, as the woman,when you are coming at us in
that particular way, it's thetone and how you approach us in
that particular way and how wereceive it, because if you come

(01:20:54):
out and you try to poke yourchest out and bitch the fuck
what he's calling, me a bitch ina relationship.

Speaker 5 (01:21:02):
That's why we'd rather call you than text you
Huh.

Speaker 2 (01:21:06):
You can't text and say it like that no, no, yeah,
you gotta call so I can hear thetone.
Yeah, right.

Speaker 1 (01:21:13):
Right right right.

Speaker 2 (01:21:14):
This is y'all.

Speaker 1 (01:21:16):
Mine was a little long time, but I get it.
This is good.
I like the focus I get it.

Speaker 2 (01:21:20):
But yeah, I mean, you know you just got to.
It's how you, you know the tone, but it's great because you got
to be able to communicate.
So yeah, A conversation ofconflict.

Speaker 1 (01:21:31):
Yeah, it is a respect behind it.

Speaker 3 (01:21:36):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:21:40):
Yeah, and that Respectfully, I'm not coming at
you because we communicate.
You don't have a mic Sleeve, sowhat Sleeve says is correct,
though what I will say is youhave to build on conversations,
so this can't be the onlyconversation that y'all are
having.
Y'all should be havingconversations about everything
and it would come across easier.
So I definitely agree.
That goes back to communicationis definitely key.

(01:22:01):
Shout out to the Focus Groupfor the questions this week.
I'm going to hit them up nextweek for more questions.
They are funny.
I will see y'all bright andearly tomorrow.
We have work tomorrow.
We got to go.
Yes, because I am a boss andauthor.

Speaker 2 (01:22:14):
I'm a lot of stuff, make sure you motherfuckers like
, subscribe to the motherfuckingchannel.
No Advisory Podcast, you know?
Listen, we are working on liveevents.
We're a live podcast.

Speaker 6 (01:22:29):
Yes.

Speaker 2 (01:22:31):
In certain venues.
So stay on the lookout for that.
So thank you guys for you know,coming in the studio, but we're
going to work on somethingwhere we could come and have
some drinks and shit and youknow, and vibe out to the
advisory podcast and work onthat.

Speaker 1 (01:22:42):
you know, um, yeah, so now no, it's your boy simon
clay, it's your girl trap, see,oh, wait, wait, I'm sorry before
every time we get to me.

Speaker 2 (01:22:52):
I'm sorry.
I'm sorry.
I gotta say this.
I gotta say this Shout out tomy man, Arca, the Fuck it.
You know we was talking for aminute and trying to get this
done and we finally going to getit done, my guy.
So for all y'all.
Yeah, I'm going to leave it atthat.
We're going to see y'all.

(01:23:13):
Arca, the Fuck it youinterrupted me for that bullshit
.
I'm sorry.
Yeah, they gonna see y'all.
You interrupted me for thatbullshit.
I'm sorry.
I had to make that announcement.

Speaker 1 (01:23:18):
You couldn't even tell the people why you
interrupted me and you justinterrupted me for that shit.

Speaker 2 (01:23:21):
Yes, I did sure did, I did sure did, I did sure did.
Because, you know, shout out mynigga, who has an incredible
platform, and guess who's gonnabe on there?

Speaker 1 (01:23:29):
You, he going on there.
You'll see, you'll find out hegonna be like DJ Khaled, we the
best.
And on that note you shouldgrow trapped.
Goodbye, goodbye, goodbye.
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