NTM 529: How to Stop Becoming Roommates: 3 Keys That Matter Most

Everything you have right now was once a dream — the relationship, the home, the family, the love. But when life becomes a checklist and connection becomes transactional, we forget what we once longed for.

In this episode, we take you inside the three relationship habits we see drop off the most in long-term love — and why they’re the very glue that keeps desire, appreciation, and intimacy alive. This is your reminder that disconnection doesn’t mean you’re broken — it means the relationship is asking to evolve. And it starts with these three simple but powerful shifts.

In this episode we explore:
- Why appreciation is the gateway to desire…and what happens when admiration dies
- How to rewire resentment as a signal you're ready to share the load (instead of shouldering it all)
- Why prioritised time is the oxygen of intimacy; and how to stop waiting for it to appear
- The sneaky way we outsource validation when our partners stop seeing us
- How stagnation in your body becomes stagnation in your relationship
- Why "it's just easier to do it myself" becomes a prophecy of loneliness
- The real reason sex and intimacy start to feel like pressure

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