The Choice

💔 Abortion. A word that carries weight, controversy, pain, and shame. It’s a topic often whispered about, avoided in conversation, or shrouded in judgment. But what happens when the shame isn't just about the choice—but about who you are? This week, my guest, Tonya Bailey Jones, shares her powerful journey of self-discovery—one that took decades to fully embrace. For much of her life, she struggled with her identity, unable to confidently say the words: I am Tonya Bailey Jones. But today, she not only says them—she knows and loves who she is. From childhood, Tonya felt like an outsider, never truly accepted for who she was. As she moved through adulthood, she became a version of herself shaped by the validation of others—playing the role she thought she was supposed to. The distractions of military service, parenting, and everyday responsibilities allowed her to bury the unease deep inside. But when retirement brought stillness, its weight became undeniable. She could no longer outrun “the feeling.” The mask she had worn for so long began to crumble. Join us as Tonya opens up about the deep shame, the search for identity, and the moment she finally embraced her true self. Her story is one of resilience, self-acceptance, and the courage to face the person in the mirror. 👟 Join me as I walk in Tonya’s shoes.

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