1010 - BONUS - Love is Blind UK (s2e1) "Eat Sleep Date Repeat" with Keisha

Love is Blind UK is back and we love it! MP and Keisha talk about some of the new cast members of one of our favorite shows. First, we meet Ashleigh (CABIN CREW) and she's vibing with Billy, who has a Michael Buble tattoo. Then we meet Megan, who is a cruise ship dancer. We also meet Sophie, who is gorgeous but very guarded. We also meet Kieran who wants you to know he's a hot nerd. (Sophie and Megan both like Kieran) And we meet Patrick, a human design coach who follows his spleen and he is vibing with Aanu, a singer. Finally we meet Sarover and Kal and they seem to hit it off but are worried that their families won't like each other because he is 1/2 Pakistani and she is Indian.

Timestamp: Recap starts around 7:33

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:13):
Hey, everybody, welcome to Peak Shade Prime. It's Mary Payne here.
I've got Keisha you guys, new show, new season, who
is I know?

Speaker 2 (00:24):
I'm excited Love is Blind about the Brits.

Speaker 3 (00:28):
I don't know what it is about, and maybe it's
because that was my first experience ever with Love is
Blind was UK, so it just has.

Speaker 2 (00:36):
A special place in my heart. Oh yeah, okay, I
get it.

Speaker 1 (00:40):
Well, yeah, this is UK season two and uh so,
like you and I were just saying before we started,
so far we don't hate anybody, which is such a
stuble for Love is Blind, we usually meet an asshole
pretty quickly.

Speaker 2 (00:55):
It'll happen episode three. I'm sure.

Speaker 1 (00:57):
Okay, I haven't gotten there. I don't know how far
ahead you.

Speaker 3 (00:59):
Bought, but I haven't watched episode three. I've only watched
one and two and I've already picked a person who
I think is going to be an asshole.

Speaker 1 (01:09):
Okay, all right, should you tell me now or do
you think to episode two is because I haven't watched
episode two?

Speaker 3 (01:17):
Now, you know I get all the episodes intertwined. I
know I have to rely on you to keep me
on track, so I know what to say and what
will you get to him. I'll say, I think this
is gonna be one of the assholes for the season.

Speaker 1 (01:31):
Okay, dang it, dang it, all right, my daughter is
sending me tiktoks and I don't need that.

Speaker 2 (01:39):
I need to make.

Speaker 3 (01:40):
Sure, Well, did she send them to me too?

Speaker 2 (01:41):
Because you probably the same time? God, probably so funny. No,
she has it, She's hilarious.

Speaker 1 (01:50):
Listen, guys, my phone is set on do not disturb
and airplane mode, but yet the text message has still
come through from my family because they're in my favorites,
and if I put it on airplane mode that should
mean I'm not even getting a signal, So no messages,
but they.

Speaker 2 (02:09):
Do they come through?

Speaker 3 (02:11):
Why?

Speaker 2 (02:12):
Why? Okay, But that's a.

Speaker 1 (02:14):
Problem for another time. For those of you on Fruitfly Watch.
When this episode airs on August thirteenth, I will be
back home in Virginia and my house and Baltad will
have been completely bombed for the fruit flies. They can't
do the bombing while we're here because you've got to
be out of the house for.

Speaker 2 (02:31):
A long time.

Speaker 1 (02:34):
But yeah, so if you see, if you're if you're
new here and you don't know, have a fruitfly problem.
I've got every device known to man, and I told Keisha,
today's the day. We're just going to pour hot water
and bleach down our drains. The guy dropped by some
stuff to pour down the drains. It hasn't helped it all.

Speaker 2 (02:54):
Because they're a hybrid. They're mixed with human or something
like that.

Speaker 3 (02:57):
They've got like borderline human intelligence, Like they have everything
you have done.

Speaker 2 (03:02):
They're like, oh, she's so funny and cute. That's not
going round.

Speaker 3 (03:06):
And I have a feeling when the house gets bombed,
they're gonna have their little gas mask on and that's
not gonna work for them either. They like live there, okay,
They're like, this is our beach house, our time here, like,
let's just share.

Speaker 2 (03:21):
It is very odd.

Speaker 1 (03:22):
It is so and it's just in a couple of spots.
It's here by the computer, and I think because the
computer's warm and I've got lights, and they're kind of
by the window. I just and then there's a couple
in the kitchen, but not really like I wouldn't have
even notice them in the kitchen. Yeah, they're up here

(03:42):
in my bathroom.

Speaker 3 (03:43):
The congregate, like I mean, when we get them, it's
the kitchen area.

Speaker 1 (03:48):
It's insane. It's insane anyway. People are so sick of
hearing about my fruit flies. But I'm just saying, by
the time it's pretty funny. By the time it comes
to your this se your ear holes, my house will
be bombed and hopefully by the time I go back,
they'll all be gone and you won't see me doing
this like swatting my face.

Speaker 3 (04:07):
And well, I don't know if you've noticed a couple
of times when you swat I go back too, because
you're like, what I do?

Speaker 2 (04:13):
Don't hit me? That's past and periods. What's going on?

Speaker 1 (04:18):
Oh my god, Well listen, love is blind uk S.
He's the two episode one. I've got my notes up
and then I've got my little chart up because I
put up a little chart and for the girls at
least sometimes I have a hard time telling them apart initially,
So I've got some notes for each girl, like I've
got Ashley Tall, thin, blonde cabin Crew. If we haven't

(04:39):
said that a million times, Sophie I wrote blonde and gorgeous.
Megan has the red hair. Au is the singer Yolanda Specialist.
Occupational therapists couldn't pick her out of a lineup. Christine
as thirty five. I said, she's a HR operations person

(05:00):
and she had black hair and a kaftan.

Speaker 3 (05:02):
Yeah, we don't even really see her, like, Yeah, I
think some of these are going to be like the
Pod Squad, just like the Pod girls.

Speaker 1 (05:09):
I think that as they were showing them, I was
trying to pause and put them in, but knowing full
well as always, I'll have to end up putting them
at the bottom because we're not going to see them
as much. Yeah, they focus on people. But and sorrow
Over m hm, the Indian girl who I love. I
wrote her name down phonetically and then I just said,

(05:31):
you know what, I'm gonna have to go with sorrow
over because she said the way it's pronounced, but she
also has a British accent. And then the guy she's
talking to just was saying sorrow over, so I said,
I'm just gonna say it that way.

Speaker 2 (05:44):
Very pretty name. You know, I'm a sucker for a
name that starts with the letter is. I did not
do it.

Speaker 1 (05:50):
You didn't a name that starts with an s?

Speaker 2 (05:53):
Is you nevery?

Speaker 3 (05:54):
Now? Then you'll say something and I'm like, does.

Speaker 2 (05:56):
She not know me? At all an s. Yeah, like Skylar.

Speaker 3 (06:02):
I love names that start with the letter S. So
if I had had more kids, all of their names
would have started.

Speaker 2 (06:09):
With the letter S. And now you have Sockey.

Speaker 3 (06:13):
That's why Soke Marvel is Marvel because he was scholar's
dog and came to us with that name. Otherwise their
names would have started with the letter S too. Everything
everything letter S. My vehicles we have summer rain s.
I love names that start with S. And Pete so
like the little the little thing in my car that

(06:36):
does the.

Speaker 2 (06:36):
Beat beep and the alerts when you're about to hit something.
Her name is Phoebe. Okay, yeah, I love names.

Speaker 3 (06:47):
So when I was like doing baby names, all of
the names started with the letter S or the letter P.

Speaker 2 (06:53):
What was a P name that you liked back then?

Speaker 3 (06:56):
I like Peyton, I like Piper. Phoebe was on the list.

Speaker 2 (07:00):
Phoebe was on the list, and.

Speaker 3 (07:03):
Oh geez, I can't remember the rest, but I can
remember writing them all down. All s is all peas.

Speaker 1 (07:10):
That is so funny. I've always loved the name Piper.
Another name that I really like that is probably weird.
I love that Christy Brinkley's daughter's name is sailor. I
love that name.

Speaker 2 (07:20):
Love that name.

Speaker 3 (07:21):
Yeah, I love it, love it. It's so pretty. It
really really is so pretty. So yeah, I thought you
knew that about me.

Speaker 1 (07:27):
I didn't know you were into the s's and the peas.

Speaker 2 (07:29):
I just I don't you have a little kirky bird
over here.

Speaker 1 (07:33):
I know you got your you got your things.

Speaker 2 (07:35):
Thanks.

Speaker 1 (07:36):
My things are fruit flies.

Speaker 2 (07:37):
So hey, this is cool. Everyone has a thing, all right, y'all.

Speaker 1 (07:46):
It's summer. I really love to have people over and
I love to get out all of my fun serving dishes.
And I also love a string light and a full
barbecue vibe. I also love an outdoor game like croquet
or cornhole. That would surprise you, but I'm pretty good
at cornhole. And guess what else? You can get all
of that at my go to shop, Wayfair. So for
this beach house, I like to keep kind of a

(08:06):
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nautical vibe, like you know, navy blue. I got the
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(08:28):
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Every style, every home. Okay, So Love is Blind Season two,
Episode one, eat sleep Date Repeat and we open with

(09:11):
Emma and Matt and the usual blah blah blah is
all I could focus on, really was did she chop
all her hair off?

Speaker 2 (09:19):
Or was it like in a clip in the back?

Speaker 3 (09:22):
I was confused as well. Okay, I think it may
be clipped in the back, but I don't it was
it was it was it was something I think she
was going for like a rock and roll kind of
sophisticated look or something.

Speaker 2 (09:38):
I don't know. I didn't.

Speaker 1 (09:40):
I was like, did you forget to take your hair
out of the clip, because what's happening?

Speaker 2 (09:44):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (09:45):
But they're very much like in the camera like hey,
it's love blind and you're like, whoa, Yes they are.

Speaker 3 (09:50):
Well, you know what, he's not as hyped up as
he was season one.

Speaker 2 (09:54):
Season one. I thought.

Speaker 3 (09:55):
I was like, oh man, he just took an eight
ball before they started.

Speaker 1 (10:00):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, you know, I think and
I don't know, and a British person can tell us,
or just a person that likes British music.

Speaker 2 (10:06):
I do believe he's like a former.

Speaker 1 (10:08):
Boy yeah, or a rock and roller or whatever. I
find them delightful, but not a delightful enough to write
down one word they said all they All I wrote
was blah blah blah. Here's if we find out love
is flying the pods are open, okay, Yeah, because in
the past I've written so many notes about like what
the people are saying to end on them like none

(10:29):
of that matters, who cares, let's get And they didn't.

Speaker 2 (10:31):
Say a lot.

Speaker 1 (10:33):
They didn't Yeah, so we have quick cuts, you know,
people and they're going into the pods and everything. So
first we get Ashley. She's a very tall, blonde, beautiful girl,
and she's in cabin crew, which is our way of
saying flight attendant, right, And she meets with a guy
named Charlie who's twenty eight, an electrical engineer, and he says, oh,

(10:55):
you're in cabin crew, I could get discounted flights. And
she goes, why is that the first thing everybody always says.
She says, Charlie, that gives me the ick and he
laughs at us, you're probably gonna get it all day.

Speaker 3 (11:06):
She's I think she probably did, because people just say
that for somemorrow.

Speaker 2 (11:10):
I don't.

Speaker 1 (11:11):
It's just a conversation.

Speaker 3 (11:12):
It is, Yeah, but you never think that person has
had this ninety nine hundred times.

Speaker 2 (11:19):
Oh yeah.

Speaker 1 (11:20):
It's like when people meet me and they think it's
funny to be like, oh, Mary Pain, are you a
pain in the ass? I'm like, oh, I've never heard that.
That's hilarious. I spell the spelled the wrong way, idiot.

Speaker 2 (11:32):
Yeah, did I tell you that.

Speaker 3 (11:35):
This lady that you introduced this to, Like, first, her
and I were corresponding through email, and then I met
her in person and she calling you Mary, so even
on the email. When I responded back, I said Mary
pain And then we met her, she had gone Mary.
I said you mean Mary Paine. She goes, yeah, Mary.
I said no, Mary Payin. She didn't get it. I
said her name is Mary Payne. Her last name is Gilbert,

(11:57):
and she still looked at me confused.

Speaker 2 (11:59):
As the day is right, just get it. Welcome, give
you it, Welcome to my life. Yeah, yep.

Speaker 1 (12:06):
So if you're new here, guys, Southern still name.

Speaker 2 (12:10):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (12:10):
So she tells us that her job does inhibit her
from having relationships. She's been lucky in life, but not
lucky in love. And she says, my sisters and my
friends always tell me, you know, you just need to
believe in yourself more trust yourself and you can do it.
And so that's what I'm doing. I'm trying to do
that here. So now she's telling a guy named Chris.

(12:31):
Chris is thirty three, he's a data analyst, that she's
been single for about four and a half years. She
wants somebody to see her as more than cabin crew.
He makes an emergency exit joke, and so she's like, well, sorry, Chris,
it's nice owing you goodbye.

Speaker 3 (12:48):
What it is about her job that just you would
have sworn that she said she was president of a country?
She waited, ever, what has something to say about her
being cabin I don't know how many times a week
between episode one to two, I cannot tell you how
many times we hear the words cabin crew.

Speaker 1 (13:04):
It was like, god, you guys, she's a flight intendant,
Like have you ever met.

Speaker 2 (13:07):
Well, yeah, Like, I don't know. I didn't get it.

Speaker 1 (13:12):
I remember the Megan, the girl that looked like Megan
Fox was a flight attendant, and nobody mentioned it barely,
not at all.

Speaker 3 (13:19):
So maybe it's something that's a really big deal there
that just I don't know.

Speaker 2 (13:24):
I didn't get it.

Speaker 1 (13:25):
I don't don't I didn't get Okay, So she meets
a guy named Billy.

Speaker 2 (13:28):
Okay, Billy is thirty five.

Speaker 1 (13:30):
He is an Army physical trainer and he's from Bangor
and she's from near Surrey. And she says, oh my god,
I was also in the Army. I was in the cadets.
And she kind of goes up, my name was like
combat Barbie. It's a way to say that she's cute,
and they talk about the military. He's been in sixteen years,
and she says, oh, I work cabin crew and I

(13:52):
do long call flights, and you know, I've seen the world.
It could be a really lonely job. And he says, Oh,
my gosh, I just love your last. He explains he's
very close to his family and his dad is in England,
so I think he might be in Ireland.

Speaker 2 (14:07):
He says his dad he's Irish, Yeah, Irish, but his.

Speaker 1 (14:10):
Dad's in England. But when he needs a dog, set
or his dad's the first person he calls and he says.

Speaker 2 (14:15):
She goes, oh, you have a dog.

Speaker 1 (14:16):
He says, oh, I have a wee Cocker spandel named Ollie. Oh,
And she says she has a springerpoo named Jet Cute.

Speaker 3 (14:27):
Now I have to say something to me. They looked alike, really, yeah,
they looked alike. He also looked like a guy that
I knew when I was in high school that I
went out on like two dates with. But his face,
like I know, he's into physical fitness, but his face
looks like it used to like bodybuild and then it stopped.

Speaker 1 (14:48):
Because it looks a little yeah, like it used to
like pump iron.

Speaker 3 (14:53):
And then one day he said, you know what, I
have had enough of that light, so it just went plant.

Speaker 1 (14:56):
Yeah, okay, I can see that. I could see that.
He asked her about, you know, her dating life, and
she said she's been single over four years now. She said,
you know, I just had a relationship that really knocked me.
I was low and confidence, I lost my trust in men,
and maybe I looked for the wrong values, but I'm
really looking for someone who's honest and respectful. And she

(15:17):
was telling me about your last relationships and he goes, oh, well,
you know, funny story.

Speaker 2 (15:21):
I was married.

Speaker 1 (15:23):
About five years ago, and they he says, we just
fell out of love. We were both in the army
and we were like passing ships in the night. I
never thought it would be divorce divorced, but you know,
you know, divorce doesn't scare me, but I never thought
it would happen to me. So right, they're like, you know,
it's really nice to talk to you. Nice to talk

(15:43):
to you too, And you could tell they like each other, right.

Speaker 3 (15:45):
They like, yeah, they The conversation flowed very easily, like
it was almost like they already knew each other.

Speaker 2 (15:52):
This was really really easy and comfortable. Didn't seem weird
or awkward.

Speaker 3 (15:56):
Or anything like that. All of that because they're siblings,
because they look alike.

Speaker 1 (16:02):
Talking to her, Billy goes you know, Actually, I'm an
old fashioned romantic and maybe sometimes I think I was
born in the wrong generation because I'm just that way.
But I want to find the love of my life.

Speaker 2 (16:13):
Now we beat Sophie.

Speaker 1 (16:15):
Sophie might be this season's Meghan from Minnesota.

Speaker 2 (16:22):
No, I don't think so. Not as bad.

Speaker 3 (16:25):
No, nowhere near is bad. She's really pretty. She literally
looks like Barbie and a who had a baby. If
you look at her face, you look at her nose,
it's a little Barbie, it's a little Whoville. I think
she's cute. She Meghan was psychotic. I don't think this
This girl has just been hurt. I think I'd love

(16:47):
to know what has made her this way. Because you're
gonna oh we are okay, all right? Get yeah, So
we beat Sophie. She's twenty eight, she's a senior commercial manager.
She's obviously works for some big company. Twenty eight it's
pretty young to have come of a big job. And
she says in her talking head, she goes with somebody
meets me. They think I'm a little sweet, hot butter.

(17:07):
That wouldn't mount. Oh, they think I'm a cow. British
slang the term cow. This is, this is going to
be a.

Speaker 1 (17:16):
Learning corner, okay. The term cow is primarily used as
an offensive or derogatory term for a woman who is
considered to be unpleasant, rude, unkind, or malicious. So like
our hefa yeah, or like bitch, like you could. The
way it goes on to explain it is you could
say like you're a daft cow, you're a silly cow, whatever,
and that's an insult if you don't know the person.

(17:38):
But if it's like your friend and.

Speaker 2 (17:39):
Be like a silly cow, you'd be like you stupid bitch,
Like it's a joke. Yeah, got it, got it.

Speaker 1 (17:45):
So she says she treats dates as interviews. She says
she has to have somebody with her own place, and
then she goes, look, I know I'm single because of
my own behavior. I'm a very guarded person. I don't
want to give myself to some and then not be enough.
So she says, I'm a hopeless romantic, but I don't
I don't allow anybody in.

Speaker 3 (18:07):
He would not be able to tell at all because
that face is stone faced and just.

Speaker 2 (18:13):
Yeah. She the way she describes herself is.

Speaker 3 (18:16):
Not what we see on episode one at all. What
do you mean like she's saying that, you know, she's
saying that she can be like a sweetheart, but we
don't really see that.

Speaker 2 (18:25):
Oh no, no, no, no no at all.

Speaker 1 (18:27):
No no no, we just see this kind of hardcore.

Speaker 2 (18:29):
Oh yeah.

Speaker 1 (18:31):
So she meets up with some guy and she's like,
dogs are cats and he goes, oh, I have a
cat and she goes, no, no, too hard.

Speaker 2 (18:39):
Which is weird because she seems like she would be
a cat person.

Speaker 1 (18:42):
Immediately she's like no what. He kind of looks like, okay,
well shit. So then she meets Charlie and says, I
need somebody to make me laugh, So give me some
dad jokes.

Speaker 2 (18:52):
I'm obsessed with dad jokes.

Speaker 1 (18:53):
Boy, he does a dad joke, and then she gets
Patrick to give her a dad joke. She literally doesn't
laugh as a crack as my no, no, not even
a little. She didn't even fake the ship. She was
like that was funny, none of that. Then she meets Jordan.
Jordan says he lives at home, just him and his mom.

(19:13):
And she's like, all right, so she's gonna be a
tough nut to.

Speaker 2 (19:18):
Crack, is what we're getting. Okay.

Speaker 1 (19:20):
Yeah, Now Sophie meets Kieren.

Speaker 2 (19:23):
So.

Speaker 1 (19:24):
Kieren is twenty eight. He's a gaming entrepreneur. He's good looking.

Speaker 2 (19:28):
I didn't like his hair. His hair was a little swoopy.

Speaker 3 (19:32):
It looks like a Dragon ball Z character. It was
swoops and back and ford. It was just all over
the place. Yeah, it was like it was pick pick
a direction, like it was thick.

Speaker 2 (19:44):
It was it just it was swoopy. It was swoopy.

Speaker 1 (19:48):
And so she says she this is still Sophie, right, Okay.
Sophie says she's one of five. She has four brothers.
So immediately you're like, okay, so she was always treated
like the pretty, pretty princess, got the four brothers. Yeah,
And he asks has she ever been in love? And
she goes, no, I don't you know. I don't think so.

(20:09):
And he says he just got out of a seven
year relationship that ended the year ago, but he doesn't
know if he's ever been in love or had a
deep emotional connection.

Speaker 4 (20:19):
Like how is that even possible, then you had a
roommate in year seven years. Sometimes I wonder what people's
definitions of being in love are, because I know what
it is for me.

Speaker 2 (20:31):
Why would you be with someone that long?

Speaker 3 (20:34):
I mean that's almost like you could have said you
were married seven years, like yeah, yeah, here, that's common law.

Speaker 2 (20:40):
Mary, but you don't even know you If you were
in love with that, then what were you all doing?
What were you doing? What were you doing?

Speaker 1 (20:47):
And she says she had a five year relationship, but
at the end it felt like a best friend and
not a husband, and he goes, I just want to
be like obsessed with somebody, Like either're just everything to me.
You'll oh me too? Do you want kids? They both
want kids she's He goes, yeah, I mean I think
you know two, but I'd be open to more. And
she goes, no, I'm three, Max, because I don't want

(21:08):
an ugly car Tucket.

Speaker 3 (21:10):
I agree. That's when people start talking about minivans and
shit like that.

Speaker 2 (21:16):
Can't do it. And she was like, not going to
do that.

Speaker 1 (21:20):
So she says the reason that she's doing this experiment
is because she doesn't let people in easily. And with
this experiment, you have to let people in. And she goes,
and this is probably why I've never truly been in love,
and so, you know, they're kind of joking around. He's like, oh,
I'm on a knee right now, and you know, then
it's like hope to see you tomorrow, blah blah blah.
And in the talking head she goes, there's something about him.

(21:40):
It felt very easy. I feel like my dad would
like him. And then she comes out and was like,
maybe my husband, maybe I just have my first date
with my husband, like da, da da, You know all that.

Speaker 2 (21:50):
That's what they do on the show.

Speaker 3 (21:51):
So they sure do you met your husband and within
twenty minutes, But you dated a guy for five.

Speaker 1 (21:57):
Years and what and were't in love with him and
he warn't in love with them? Okay, now Kieren meets
now the talking dad. Kieren tells us he's been single
for a year. He I mean just a year. So
he got out of a seven year relationship.

Speaker 3 (22:12):
Been single for a year, he says.

Speaker 1 (22:17):
Very active, very active on the dating apps, he says,
So I mean he is plugging along dating, you know,
he says, but you can't find any substance or depth
with these women. He helps to find love. He hopes
to find a wife, and uh, now Kieren meets Megan.
Megan is a dancer. Now, my husband walked in the

(22:38):
room while I was watching the first part of this
last night and goes, that girl said she's a dancer.
I go, yeah, He goes, what kind of a dancer?
So she says she danced on cruise ships and stuff.
He's like, oh, okay, but now like a stripper. It's like,
I didn't know where this is going.

Speaker 2 (22:54):
I didn't think he was going to a stripper.

Speaker 3 (22:56):
No, I was strippers on any of the seasons that I've.

Speaker 1 (22:59):
WoT didn't redheaded redheaded from Minnesota? Didn't she say she
administerripper at one point.

Speaker 3 (23:10):
No, she was like a basketball cheerleader or something like that.

Speaker 2 (23:15):
Uh huh, uh huh.

Speaker 1 (23:16):
I can't like it.

Speaker 2 (23:16):
No one has had like a sixty kind of job. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (23:21):
Yeah, So she goes, oh, yeah, I danced on cruise ships.
You know for a lot of time, a lot of years.
I can see a lot of the world. And he says,
what kind of dancing do you like? Sheas well, jazz
is my forte. But when I was younger, I did freestyle, disco, dancing.
I was like, I'm gonna need more information about that.

Speaker 3 (23:37):
That's hilarious freestyle disco dancing.

Speaker 1 (23:41):
Mm hmm okay, and he goes, oh my god, I
love dancing. She goes really. He goes, oh yeah. He goes,
my hips don't lie. They're like liquid liquid hips and
it's hilarious. He says he has one brother and they
stay in contact a lot by playing video games, and
she goes, oh, video games. Uh yeah, I'm impressed. Well,

(24:03):
she goes, I'm a I'm a gaming entrepreneur. I market
video games, and then she goes, okay, nerdy, it's both
times with both women. He goes, yeah, I'm like a
secret nerd because I think what he's trying to say
is I'm good looking, so you wouldn't know I was
in there. I don't look nerdy, yep, because they.

Speaker 2 (24:23):
Always throw out little nuggets.

Speaker 3 (24:25):
I'm a secret nerd yes, which means like Clark Kent Superman,
like nerd right day Superman by night.

Speaker 2 (24:33):
Yeah. Yeah, I clocked that too. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (24:37):
So he asked her about her past relationships and she
says she's had short term boyfriends and she's actually fine
on her own, but she knows it would be ten
times better with the partner, and he says, do you
want a family and she says yes, she would always
thought she wouldn't have one child and also adopt, and
he's like, oh wow, I would be open to that.
I never thought about that, and the talking head Megan

(24:59):
goes instant spark with Kieren immediately I liked him.

Speaker 2 (25:06):
All right.

Speaker 1 (25:06):
Back in the living quarters, Megan is telling a new
who we meet more or later about her date with
Kieren and.

Speaker 2 (25:14):
She was like, yeah, we both live in London, Like
I really liked his vibe, and we see Sophie off
to the side.

Speaker 1 (25:19):
Like eyeballing, eyeballing.

Speaker 3 (25:22):
What happened to when they used to not say who
they really liked and to like further along in the episode,
so remember it used to be like super hush hush,
like I'm not gonna say, I'm not gonna say not
so much because she's already.

Speaker 2 (25:36):
Talking about it.

Speaker 1 (25:37):
Well, I don't know if she's telling a new because
they've kind of immediately become friends. As she knows she
and anew we're not going to like the same kind
of guy, so she feels like she could tell her,
you know, sorry, maybe pulling her fruit flat on my
coffee fruit flies over. I can't imagine how many ere
in my system, how many I've just eaten? So girl, okay,

(26:01):
and the talking head Sophie, you know, is kind of eyeball,
and she goes, I can see that Kieran is vibing
with other people, and I don't.

Speaker 2 (26:09):
Like to share. I mean, well, that's kind of this experience.

Speaker 3 (26:13):
You kind of got a share a little bit, yeo,
Like you're going out on other days as well.

Speaker 1 (26:20):
That's right, that's right, all right? Is this talking head?
Now we get Patrick?

Speaker 2 (26:24):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (26:25):
Patrick is thirty three and his job title is human
design coach. Well, I have a lot to say about that, okay,
human design coach.

Speaker 3 (26:37):
So I have a very very very good friend who
actually was my first boyfriend, okay, and he is all
about that life. He has a human design coach. He
is prepared to become one himself.

Speaker 1 (26:52):
Never heard this term in my life, never heard the.

Speaker 2 (26:56):
Term human design.

Speaker 3 (26:58):
When I tell you, when you talk to someone who's
into that, you will get off the phone or get
up from the table and say, what the fuck did
I just hear? It is like speaking a completely totally
different language, and you almost have to set up for me.
I have to set up boundaries. I'm like, Okay, some
of this is really cool, so cool. Unfortunately, you cannot

(27:26):
cure my lupus by human design. So he kind of believes, like,
we don't really have illnesses. It's our mind telling our
bodies that we have something. And I was like, hold up, shorty,
hold on. I think I'm going by my blood work and.

Speaker 2 (27:43):
How I feel.

Speaker 3 (27:44):
Yes, I know.

Speaker 2 (27:46):
It's a lot of.

Speaker 3 (27:47):
Spirituality, lots a fast thing, like they have charts.

Speaker 2 (27:52):
It is like meeting someone from a different planet.

Speaker 1 (27:56):
Sounds a little bit like scientology, like if you have cancer,
that's because your brain allow.

Speaker 3 (28:01):
So I tell him all the time, I say, you
know you're part of a fucking cult, right, I said,
you just refused to call it a cult. But it's
too anyone who's into that. This is just my opinion.
But everything is culty, very culty to me. And I'm like,
He's like, you can't come in, and so I know the.

Speaker 2 (28:16):
Fuck I shouldn't come to that.

Speaker 1 (28:19):
I just I've never heard I've never even heard this term.
So I'm glad that you that you know something about it,
because I know nothing. I mean, it sounds real fucking weird.
But it's your own, you know a lot.

Speaker 3 (28:30):
And then so he actually started dating his human design
coach okay, and she went gorilla plus basshit crazy on him.
I was like, what about all that spirituality and that
calmness and that's zen and all of these Did you
get a crystal? Did you throw a crystal at her
or something like that. I'm like, this is a cult,

(28:51):
I said, and one day you'll figure it out that
it's just very cold. It's it's it seems so pretentious
in a way.

Speaker 2 (29:00):
Uh huh uh huh.

Speaker 3 (29:01):
Yes, and like we're so much.

Speaker 2 (29:02):
We're here.

Speaker 3 (29:03):
You guys are down there, you're eating all these foods
and we're here doing online.

Speaker 2 (29:08):
We'll just put on some goddamn deodorant and let's go.
It's this is fascinating, it's fascinating. Okay.

Speaker 1 (29:17):
I'm so glad that you have this knowledge, because I
have now a clue.

Speaker 2 (29:20):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (29:21):
So he starts talking about the earth and energy and
all these things. And so he's got this big chest
tattoo that you can see above his shirt that's got
the number of the Beasts or something in the middle.

Speaker 2 (29:32):
I don't know what the fuck it is. It's a
trial life, the trio life. It's something.

Speaker 1 (29:36):
Yeah, it's an arrow. My spleen is here, I don't know.

Speaker 3 (29:39):
Yes, And they did that spleen ship.

Speaker 2 (29:43):
You've heard it too. It was it was all too
familiar for me. I'm like, oh my god, here we believe.

Speaker 3 (29:47):
But what the ironic thing is is that when me
and Robert had this conversation and how jokingly said online,
I know black people don't be out there, He's like, no,
not really, and then here we.

Speaker 2 (29:56):
Go we meet Patrick. It's a human.

Speaker 3 (30:00):
He's like, of all the gatherings I've been to, he's like,
I've seen two black people the whole time.

Speaker 2 (30:04):
Well, maybe one of the moments, maybe I should introduce
it to Patrick. I was like, was one of their
nice Patrick?

Speaker 4 (30:09):
Patrick, because he's a good he's a good looking guy,
actually opens his mouth of it starts.

Speaker 2 (30:15):
And then you're like, what he says.

Speaker 1 (30:18):
I want to find my life partner, my soulmate, my
twin flame nib. When you start to say twenty flame,
I start to think cults. There you go, he says,
you don't. I'm very unconventional. I'm not your typical London boy.
I'm very spiritual I'm very into energy. And so he
meets Yolanda first and he tells her, I'm into alignment

(30:42):
and spur of the moment and it's follow your spleen.
It's spollinic energy or what the something. And then he
tells other girls about his spleen and his gut feeling
and they're all like writing notes, gonna say what now?

Speaker 2 (30:56):
So they don't get it, they need to go google
this ship.

Speaker 1 (30:59):
He tells the girl named Christine who's in a caf
dan So I was like, Christine is me?

Speaker 2 (31:02):
I am her? Now?

Speaker 1 (31:05):
Patrick meets Anew and she's the singer and he says
he's a human designed coach. It's like a life coach,
but it uses a spiritual system called human design and
she goes, okay, yeah, and she says, but why why
I love now? Why are you looking for love now?
And he goes, I've done everything I want to do
and I want to find someone to just blow my mind.

Speaker 2 (31:27):
It's just more of a feeling.

Speaker 1 (31:29):
I've got to follow my spleenic awareness, where you trust
your feeling and you trust your spleen and you trust
your instinct in the moment, I will always follow it.

Speaker 2 (31:39):
So it's trust your gut.

Speaker 3 (31:40):
Literally, you just you replaced you switch organs.

Speaker 2 (31:45):
I mean everything you're spleen is in your gut. Your
spleen is a gut. You could just be different.

Speaker 1 (31:51):
It's just to say, I'm following my pancreas. I'm following
I do adenum and so I do a lot about
all those things in there.

Speaker 2 (32:00):
Guys, I don't know.

Speaker 1 (32:00):
I don't know if you know, but I gotta have
him in the problem. So she says, well, I'm Christian,
and she goes, and I pray, and I fast, and
I read my Bible like I get up in the
morning and I pray with my family on the phone.
And I don't know how that would fit in with
like your scientology beliefs spleen system.

Speaker 2 (32:22):
And he goes.

Speaker 1 (32:23):
He goes, I actually grew up Christian, and being Catholic
is a really big part of my life.

Speaker 2 (32:27):
You know.

Speaker 1 (32:27):
It's just affirmations, and I've talked to God in my head.
And she's like, okay, great. So they seem to like
each other. He says, he feels very safe and comfortable
talking to her. And what I want to say is
a new run because you're about to be indoctrinated into
a cult.

Speaker 3 (32:42):
Yeah, I mean it could work, It could does She'll
have to set boundaries.

Speaker 1 (32:50):
Does your friend that's in it only date girls that
are in it?

Speaker 2 (32:54):
Or does he date girls?

Speaker 3 (32:56):
Well? Yes, and know the last few girls have been
in that. But like I said, he and I are close,
and I'm totally not into that shit at all. So
I don't know if it's like it's like a break
of not having it. To me, it is so hard
to be into what they're into. Yeah, you know what

(33:17):
I mean, Whereas I think a lot of the stuff
they do, I just start.

Speaker 2 (33:19):
Laughing when he tells me about it. I'm like, is
it really that serious? It's not that serious. I'm like,
I used to do drugs, you know.

Speaker 1 (33:29):
But he's like, but my spleen cured me, So what
are you talking about?

Speaker 3 (33:32):
Yeah? Cause one day I got like a text from him.
It's like, I need to know your rising sun and
this you're rising this East West swing mood all this,
And I'm like, okay, long as you're not asking me
for money. Yeah cool, here's all that information. Like why
do you need it? He goes, I'm just going through
all my excees to figure out like, why.

Speaker 2 (33:49):
Our relationship didn't work?

Speaker 3 (33:51):
I said, well, you were abusing cocaine when we were dating,
and you were very aggressive and you were an alcoholic.
I didn't even realize those things.

Speaker 2 (34:00):
I was so young.

Speaker 3 (34:01):
I say, so there you go.

Speaker 2 (34:02):
I already solved my our issue. I don't know about
the other girls.

Speaker 1 (34:05):
You don't need to know about my rising my rising
moon sign, because no, you were the problem. You had
a cocaine.

Speaker 3 (34:11):
Yeah, he finally told me. I was like, there was
wrong with me. And I'm like, well, there you go.

Speaker 2 (34:16):
You don't need all this other drawing ship.

Speaker 1 (34:18):
And well listen, it sounds like it gives him something
to do. So and they're talking head and who says,
She goes, he's sweet, He's really deep, and we were
speaking like friends, and I think that's great, Like I
can't wait to see what happens is I talked to
him more so now we meet, Okay, sorrow over now
phonetically she said. And this is also because of her accent.

(34:42):
Surveyor like savior, save ver like no, save, yes, save
I wrote it, save ver, m say, but it's.

Speaker 2 (34:58):
Spelled sorrow over it.

Speaker 1 (35:00):
When she says the favor everybody says are over, but
they don't even know like how to anyway, I'm gonna
call her sorrow over.

Speaker 2 (35:06):
It's just one of those things.

Speaker 1 (35:07):
It's hard for me, and the other people in the
show are saying it's sorrow over, so that's all I'm
gonna say it. So she says, my friends would say
I'm a sweet person, quirky, no common sense sometimes, and
she says, I only it's not good. She says, I
only I only grew up dating only Indian boys, but

(35:27):
I always wanted like an Indian zach Ephron, like a.

Speaker 2 (35:30):
Pretty boy with wispy hair.

Speaker 1 (35:32):
And that's probably why I'm still single. But I'm trying
to now embrace this experience. I feel like my husband
is here.

Speaker 2 (35:39):
She's even undating in a box. Yeah. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (35:43):
She hasn't expanded horizons at all. So she meets Charlie.
She says she's from Buckingham's here and he goes, oh,
and she goes, has nothing to do with Buckingham Palace
and he goes, wow, I could I could tell your
posh and he says, but everyone is posh to me.

Speaker 2 (36:00):
Now.

Speaker 1 (36:00):
She meets Cal okay, Cal is thirty two in a
gym owner now somewhere else it said cod gym owner.

Speaker 2 (36:05):
But his chirn under here says Jim. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (36:07):
When he told her what he did, he said code
Jim on her. But I was so busy naming our
first three children after I saw him. Really can't pay
attention to much else because he's pretty good looking.

Speaker 1 (36:18):
He's good looking, but I don't like his George Clon
haircut from the R Days. That sees her haircut. If
she needs a guy with wispy hair, Cal's not it.

Speaker 2 (36:27):
Now, let me ask you a question.

Speaker 3 (36:28):
I kept going back and forth on his eye color
because sometimes they look really light, uh huh, and then
there were other times where they look dark, and I
was confused he wearing contacts, But I don't think that
he is. But I think they kind of go light
go dark, like his pupils go. Being small.

Speaker 1 (36:48):
I wasn't studying him that closely because I watched the
first part of my TV and then the second part
of my computer. I wasn't studying him, but I will
on the episode too. I look, I'll look closer for you.

Speaker 2 (36:57):
He's good looking, he's really cute.

Speaker 1 (36:59):
He's from Wigan and they laugh about how she's from Buckingham. Sure,
she's from a posh area and they laugh about their ages.
I don't I guess he asked her how old she is.
He's thirty two and she's twenty nine, so that's fine.

Speaker 2 (37:16):
I don't know. I guess that they were. It was
a joke. It was like we got yeah. He was like,
is that too old? Do I can? I know? I
was like, that was cute.

Speaker 1 (37:27):
She says she owns a medical company, and he says
he co owns a gym. She talks about, Oh my god,
I love the gym, like I start off my day
with the fitness and whatever. He's like, up big tick
in my book. Anybody that, like, you know, likes to exercise.
He says he's been single for over a year. He
dated a girl in Dubai and it fell apart and

(37:49):
he learned if it's not right, you just have to
let it go. And he says, I think this experiment
is a great way to date with intention. And he
says he has two older brothers and two younger sisters,
and everybody has kids, and he, you know, he wants
that right.

Speaker 2 (38:04):
She says she's in the same concern a little bit. Okay,
tell me why.

Speaker 3 (38:08):
Because a lot of these people stuck around in relationships
that they were not happy with for years.

Speaker 1 (38:16):
Not cal though, he said he learned if it's not right,
just let it go.

Speaker 3 (38:20):
But he had dated her for a little bit.

Speaker 2 (38:21):
Though, Well, your fruit flies are making me it, and
I got to tell you something.

Speaker 1 (38:26):
I don't want to jinx it, but I feel like
today they're better because they're not as swarming around.

Speaker 2 (38:33):
But maybe they're all in my coffee cup. I don't know.

Speaker 1 (38:36):
They may be on their lunch break. They're just around
the table like you talking about So he talks about
his older brothers. She says she's in the same boat,
and he says, he says, what kind of wife do
you envision you would be? Which is an interesting question,

(38:59):
And she says, well, I work with because you know,
she's obviously owns a company, right right. And she says, well,
I work really hard, but I want to be present
for my children, you know. And he goes, I'm kind
of old school, and I would want to be like
the provider and protect her, and she goes, that's great,
and he says, but I'll also see the appeal of
being with somebody like you, like a force to be

(39:20):
reckoned with you know, they talk about a couple of goals,
which you know how much Kisha and I'd love for
people to talk.

Speaker 2 (39:25):
About power couple goals. We just it is our jam.

Speaker 1 (39:31):
I love it when people talk about being a power
couple and so they're like, this was great. You know,
we should talk again, all right? Talking head Cal says
people might think I'm like a meathead because I own
a gym, but I couldn't be further from the truth.
I like to read, I like to play chess, I
can cook. I'm close with my mother. My grandmother lives
next door to her, so I'm close with my grandma.

(39:51):
And he says, I've had some short term relationships, and
I do think true leve will hit you like a
training You won't. You don't even know what's happening. And
that's what I'm looking for. All these people seem to
think that they're just going to be hit with a
comment and it's gonna be boom. This is my person.
That is not quite how it goes.

Speaker 3 (40:08):
And if you remember, on the first season, we had
a guy who was a co gym owner and it
turned out he was pretty fucking broke.

Speaker 1 (40:19):
You're right, and she says she owns a medical company.
Does that mean she owns a medical company?

Speaker 2 (40:26):
Okay?

Speaker 1 (40:27):
So does this mean she sells essential oils out of
her backseat? Like, I mean, it could mean anything, guys.

Speaker 3 (40:32):
I and sometimes I wish they would just explain more
of what their job is, because like that could mean
a lot.

Speaker 2 (40:39):
She could own a METSPA. I mean that's medical.

Speaker 1 (40:43):
She could she could sell botox, but she could also
be selling Amway and they have a vitamin in there.
So she says she owns a medical company. I mean,
you know what I mean, we have.

Speaker 2 (40:54):
No idea at all. And I and I think what
we have found is sometimes when they get to uh,
when they've already gotten engaged and they go on their trip,
some of them are really starting to find out, Okay,
your job is not quite what I thought your job was.
We've seen that happen a lot. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (41:12):
Financially, you're not where I want to be. Yeah yeah, okay,
So end of that day, Well I have an in
a day Okay, So now we're beginning a day too.
So Ashley and Billy going another day. Ashley is the
flight attendant. Billy is the former workout guy that's the

(41:32):
league got yeah, army guy. So she says, do you
have tattoos? And he goes, I do.

Speaker 2 (41:38):
I did.

Speaker 1 (41:39):
I always find it so weird when people who have
not run out of space either tattoo their neck or
their hands. He hasn't run out of space. Yeah, he
hasn't run out of space, but he has a hand tattoo. Anyway,
I didn't. It's not great anyway. He says that on
the inside of Unarmed, he has a musical line, and

(42:04):
it is the musical notes and the words of the
Michael Bouble so on, I just haven't met you.

Speaker 2 (42:10):
Yet, And I immediately would have left the date.

Speaker 1 (42:14):
He has written. It's on there, and what he's doing
is I just haven't met you yet. And then the
next line of whatever it is, and he's waiting to
write the girl's name that is for him underneath, and
that'll be on him forever.

Speaker 2 (42:26):
No, I gotta go. Someone called me.

Speaker 3 (42:30):
I can't something that IDs is going on, like I
would need to leave the.

Speaker 2 (42:35):
Date If he was married for five years? Why did
he put her name there?

Speaker 1 (42:40):
Did he get this tattoo after he got divorced as
a fuck you to the first y?

Speaker 3 (42:46):
And it's just so cheesy. Okay, when he said that
it was music and notes, I'm like, that's really fucking cheesy.
But then when he said it was Michael Boublaz, I lost.
I just I said, you know what, I may need
to close the life up talk for a little bit
because I'm about to lose my mind if this guy
so serious right now, Like I couldn't that's just me.

(43:10):
I'm sure lots of women think that's super super sweet.
Yeah I don't I at all.

Speaker 1 (43:18):
I was in the middle.

Speaker 2 (43:20):
There.

Speaker 1 (43:21):
Here's something you don't hear often on bald Head Island.
It's a sign of a siren. Yeah, it's not often.
So either somebody had an abdominal aneurysm.

Speaker 3 (43:31):
I was about to say, was another to come up
for you knock.

Speaker 2 (43:34):
On wood, or they got bit by a shark, or
there was a golf cart crash. It's it's one of
those things.

Speaker 1 (43:40):
Yeah, the shark is pretty rare, but golf cart crashes
are often.

Speaker 2 (43:43):
But yeah, it's coming right by the house, so.

Speaker 1 (43:45):
I don't know if they're taking somebody to the ferry.

Speaker 2 (43:47):
Anyway.

Speaker 1 (43:47):
That's exciting. So I'll get on the Facebook page later
and find out.

Speaker 2 (43:51):
I know you will.

Speaker 1 (43:55):
Anyway, So I I got was.

Speaker 2 (43:56):
In the middle.

Speaker 1 (43:57):
I was sort of like, I don't think. It doesn't
say I just haven't met you yet. It says the
next line and then he's gonna put the girl. I
like that, but I'd like to know if he got
that in anger two weeks after he got his divorced
to be like, fuck you, ex wife, I'm gonna do this,
and then I'll put the next girl in ink on
me because you don't deserve it or was the girl's

(44:18):
name there? And he got it covered with those musical notes, Oh,
I know more to me.

Speaker 3 (44:25):
Unless you are a pianist a good time, so a
musician of some kind, you should not fucking have sheet
music on your body.

Speaker 2 (44:35):
Well that I don't know.

Speaker 1 (44:37):
I was waiting for him to say, also I'm a
trained pianist or something, you know.

Speaker 2 (44:40):
Nope, he did not say that. It was very cheesy
to me, but okay, I'll know, Yeah, I agree.

Speaker 1 (44:47):
Yeah, I was in the middle. I didn't hate it,
but I also wasn't like, ooh, that's a panty dropper.
I was like, no, god, no, uh huh. And then
they talk about, you know, intimacy and cuddling, and he
says he likes to be little spoon, but in the
morning he likes to turn around to be the big spoon.
And they kind of talk about, you know all that.

Speaker 2 (45:05):
I really gotta go now.

Speaker 3 (45:07):
I I have got I'm about to leave the whole
show right now because of this one guy between the
music notes and now.

Speaker 2 (45:18):
You want to tuttle, you want to touch me too.

Speaker 1 (45:26):
But listen, you know, like I say all the time,
there's a lid for every part.

Speaker 2 (45:29):
She likes it, you know, good for her.

Speaker 1 (45:32):
And so he says, will you go with me to
like a country music concert? He likes country music. They
talk about boots. She says she really loves that he's
military because she was military. And now Ashley goes and
talks to Megan about how great Billy is and Megan's like, oh,
I've got these great vibes with Kieren Kieren.

Speaker 2 (45:52):
Here we go. Yeah, talk.

Speaker 3 (45:53):
Yes, they're talking about it used to be like so
top secret, Yes, who you revivee with? And it I mean,
we're an episode fun I know, and they're already saying it.

Speaker 1 (46:06):
It is interesting because you could see Ashley and Meghan
having the same type. So it's interesting that they're talking
about it because they could have the same type and
then they'd be in competition, but they behave friends. So
in the talking head, Kieren says, navigating the connections is tricky.
You know, I had the first date. Navigating the connections

(46:29):
is tricky? Is that not what you say?

Speaker 2 (46:31):
Navigating the fruit.

Speaker 3 (46:35):
Flies are getting to her brain? Everyone sounding like me navigating,
We're navigating.

Speaker 1 (46:46):
Navigating the connections is tricky.

Speaker 2 (46:49):
And with this first date with Sophie, she ticked all
the boxes.

Speaker 1 (46:53):
But it's also kind of you know, like in Megan.
So now Meghan and Kieren go on a date. And
I remember Megan is the redheaded dancer and here it
is the good looking guy. Kisha doesn't like his swoopy hair.
He asked her what gives you the butterflies? And she goes,
oh my god, if somebody like kisses me on the
ear and also like eye contact, and he goes yeah

(47:15):
before and during and then so they're just really talking
about it, and he's like, oh, I'm getting hot in here.
I'm gonna need to go walk it off. And they
both talk about how they're both like super sweaty people
and like ooh, like it would be like slippery all over.

Speaker 3 (47:28):
I'm like, oh, I needed half a Xanax. Hearing them
talk about sweating and still.

Speaker 1 (47:34):
Cuddling, that was I was a no, no, if you're sweaty,
I need sheets off, everything off, I need a fan
on me. No.

Speaker 3 (47:44):
Now, Mary kay, let me ask you this like he
asked her, like, what gives you butterflies?

Speaker 2 (47:48):
What gives you butterflies? Nothing? My answer would be puppies, babies.

Speaker 1 (47:56):
I mean I told you earlier today. The little girl
was on the deck at the house, so were just.

Speaker 2 (48:00):
Like, can I let your dog what your dog save?

Speaker 1 (48:03):
And I was like, oh, come over here.

Speaker 2 (48:04):
You would have mew, come over here. I was like,
that was cute. Yeah, yeah, those are the things that
give me butterflies. Yeah. I don't even don't so much.
I wouldn't.

Speaker 1 (48:15):
I just wouldn't be telling somebody that I had never
met to be like you know what, I really like.
I like it when you do this or that. That's
just like something that you learn with somebody as you go.

Speaker 2 (48:28):
I don't know. I don't know, but whatever. This is
the show.

Speaker 1 (48:31):
They have nothing else to talk about, they have nothing
else to do. They can't look at the phones, they
can't even read a newspaper, so you know why not.
So in the talking head, Kieren's like whoa, Like that
was great with Megan. I could feel that sexual tension
through the wall. So now I meets with Sophie, who
we know is like super guarded, and he tries to
talk to her about like do you think intimacy is important?

(48:54):
And she goes, we're good, everything's fine, don't worry, You'll
be happy when you see me. And he goes, well,
that's not what I'm talking about. It I'm talking about
like cuddling and intimacy whatever, and she goes, well, we're sorted, Karen,
it's fine. We're all sorted on that, and he goes, okay,
so it's a business decision.

Speaker 2 (49:09):
We should just say.

Speaker 3 (49:10):
Care it really is.

Speaker 2 (49:11):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (49:12):
Yeah, does have a ges, Yeah yeah.

Speaker 2 (49:17):
She even has that look about her a little bit too.
And I really like Jess, but she kind of reminds me.

Speaker 1 (49:23):
Of it's a little bit like she's in same with Megan,
and like, I'm trying to tell you I am gorgeous,
so you're not gonna need to worry about that. But
that's not what he's asking. He's not saying do you
look good? He's saying like, do you like to snuggle?
Do you like to hold hands at the movie, or
And she's just like, don't worry about it, like I'm hot,

(49:44):
you'll be fine. He's like, that's not what I'm asking.

Speaker 2 (49:47):
You know, I'm pretty to hug.

Speaker 3 (49:49):
So yeah, she's just well, he did the same thing.
He threw out a couple of little tibbits, like alluding
to that.

Speaker 2 (49:55):
He's good looking.

Speaker 1 (49:56):
Yeah, oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah yeah. So so
in the talking heads, So if he says, my biggest
fear is falling in love, I don't deal with rejection
very well. So I don't put myself in a position
to be rejected. I think I don't want somebody to
see all the sides of me, because then I if
they reject me, then I could say, ha ha, joke's
on you, because you haven't seen all the sides of me.

(50:17):
And only my father has probably ever seen all the
sides of me. So daddy issues. So now we go
to Sarf and Cal and he asked her how she
feels about change, and she goes, oh, I get a
little like, you know, stressed and flustered, And he goes, well,

(50:38):
I'm really good at dealing with stressful situations, so I
could calm you down, we'd be good for each other.
And he tells us that he's had points in his
life where he almost lost both of his brothers. The
one brother was in the military and was shot when
he was in Afghanistan and they didn't know if he
was going to die.

Speaker 2 (50:57):
And his other.

Speaker 1 (50:57):
Brother has had terrible alcohol and drug addiction problems his
whole life. But when he cow was in Dubai, his
brother checked himself into a rehab has been two years sober.
His met a wife has turned his life around. And
she's like, oh my gosh, like that's so hard, but
that's so amazing, you know. And he's like, it's really

(51:18):
hard for us because we never thought he would do it,
and I could I understand that. And she was like,
I really like kind of like you know what we're
building here. And on day two, Day two, we're building
building and talking head she says he's a sweet, emotional
person and that's kind of rare to find in a guy.
Now we see it. Now we see it talking head,

(51:39):
where Billy says Ashley, the flight attendant, is his strongest
connection and her talking head. Ashley says things are going
great with Billy. I've developed a deep connection with him.
She's a little gives me a little bit of last
season Meg, a little bit of like puppy vibes, like
just like yee, just like so excited, you.

Speaker 2 (51:58):
Know, very very excitable. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (52:02):
So she asked Billy about his big Irish family and
he says, well, my dad was my role model, and
he just starts to tear up. He goes, isn't that weird,
Like you don't think, you just say it out loud
and you tear up. And he says, over the last
few years, my dad's had some injuries and that's been hard.

Speaker 2 (52:17):
Because you know, your dad is like Superman injuries. From
what I wondered, like what kind of injuries.

Speaker 1 (52:22):
Well, it could just be like he had to get
a knee replacement or just like old people's stuff. That's
what I was thinking, Like he fell and now he's
got to get a knee replacement, and that's hard because
you think he's Superman.

Speaker 2 (52:35):
But at the end of the day, you know there's.

Speaker 3 (52:37):
So much practical because I'm thinking, like, is he like
John Wick and he was like in a shootout and
he got shot and he had an injury, like some
details here, but you're probably right.

Speaker 1 (52:49):
No, I think he just slipped going out to get
the paper. And she says, well, her parents split when
she was sixteen, and as the eldest child, she felt
she had to be the provider. She was sixteen, and
she says, so I immediately jumped in. I was the leader.
I was in the supporter role for my mom and
my sisters, and I got to the bills really quickly.

(53:09):
At age sixteen, she started paying the bills at he's sixteen.

Speaker 2 (53:12):
That's crazy.

Speaker 1 (53:13):
He's like wow, and she goes, so, now I'm kind
of at a stage where I want somebody to look
after me because I've always looked after other people. She's
worked as cabin crew for eleven years. And he says,
would you ever consider like another job, and she goes, oh, yeah,
absolutely I would. But it's just been good for me
as a single girl, right to do it. So this

(53:35):
is where you're kind of getting the idea that cabin
crew is not as great as we've been led.

Speaker 2 (53:41):
To believe here in the first time. Yeah, And it's
like yeah.

Speaker 1 (53:45):
It's like it is crazy that they're all like, WHOA
your cabin crew? Because even in the girls. She's like,
she's like tea coffee, gonna get you something the bar,
and they're all like, yeah, cabin crew.

Speaker 2 (53:56):
I don't understand it at all.

Speaker 3 (53:58):
I just it's a great job. I mean I have
you know. And they're like, oh, I love it. I
mean some people who have retired from education they did this.

Speaker 2 (54:07):
And she's like, I love it. I have got freedom,
I can travel, Yeah, come home.

Speaker 3 (54:10):
It's great. So I just this is odd to me
how they're reacting to it, like they've never met someone
who was a flight attendant.

Speaker 2 (54:20):
Yeah, it's wild. I did it.

Speaker 1 (54:23):
So the talking head, he says, Billy says, when we
talk about the future, it just lingers in my mind
that she's cabin crew because she would be gone for
long periods of time. And I've dated a cabin crew
before and you don't see them very often. Now he
does say, I got a perfect relationship to me, and
it sounds great. But he remember, he said his first
wife was also in the army and there were ships

(54:45):
passing in the night. I wonder if she was also
cabin crew.

Speaker 3 (54:49):
I mean, if saw we need him to say that.

Speaker 2 (54:52):
Yeah, it's a little bit of a sk for me.

Speaker 1 (54:54):
Because my first wife and we did see each other
all yeah, so I had I would kind of need
to know that if we're going for or there, would
you be willing to rearrange your schedule, you know that
kind of thing, which.

Speaker 3 (55:05):
I think is a lot to add someone on the
second date right once.

Speaker 1 (55:08):
She but she says she would consider a different job,
but right now it's good for her because she's single,
right all right now? Patrick and anew Patrick the human
design coach and a knew the singer going to date
and she says, paint me a picture of your childhood
and he says, well, I had a Jamaican mother a
Nigerian Nigerian dad, and she goes, wow, that's crazy because

(55:30):
Nigerians are so strict and Jamaicans are so like free.
And he's like, wow, like you just like describe my
whole childhood and she says, we don't. I'm Nigerian. I
don't know if you knew that, and he says, no,
I didn't.

Speaker 2 (55:41):
She said yeah.

Speaker 1 (55:43):
And then they talk about, you know, religion, and he
says both of his parents, the Jamaican and the Nigerian,
are both Christian. He goes with my dad to prostrict.
My mom very free and easy and not strict whatsoever.
A new says her mom came from Nigeria with nothing
as an immigrant, and now she owns a house, she
works for the government, and she has three successful daughters

(56:04):
who you were educated and she really looks up to
Like what her mom says. She never mentions her dad,
So I don't know she came to Nigeria with these
three daughters, or she married somebody and had the three
daughters and their dad left.

Speaker 2 (56:15):
We didn't write that part.

Speaker 1 (56:17):
Yeah, and he says he she goes, you, you talk
to my mother about her going to school in Nigeria
and it was like they had to get their own water,
they had to make their but you know, they were
like boarding school. And he goes, yeah, I spent a
year in Nigeria and did all that.

Speaker 2 (56:31):
She's like, what, like, no way.

Speaker 1 (56:34):
So the talking head he says, a new is abundant.
What of course he would use that word, A new
is abundant? Huh abundant?

Speaker 2 (56:47):
Did you not hear me when I described these people
earlier a lot? They say it's bullshit.

Speaker 1 (56:52):
It's just like it's like that word doesn't abundant. She's
got a bountiful abundance, the bushel of apples. Like what
are you talking about of pay because she doesn't have
a lot of hair.

Speaker 3 (57:06):
Like like I said, it's a lot of words word,
lots of birthplays that I have found with my experience
with it.

Speaker 2 (57:13):
So yeah, he.

Speaker 1 (57:14):
Says, a new is abundant, open minded and spiritual. She
has a fiery energy and there's definitely an emotional connection.
All right, cal and Sorrowver meet up and he comes in.
It's like, oh hello, and she goes, oh, your Wigan
accent gets me every time.

Speaker 2 (57:33):
It all.

Speaker 3 (57:33):
It's always so funny to me how they can point
out the accent.

Speaker 2 (57:37):
They all sound like they went to Hogwarts together.

Speaker 3 (57:40):
But I guess it's the thing like with us, Like
we meet up, you can tell we're from different parts
of you know, the country, but to us they just
sound the same. Unless you're like Irish, then I can like, okay,
that person is clearly Irish.

Speaker 1 (57:53):
But I can usually tell the difference if somebody is
like a super like Posh accent versus more of a
Cockney accent. Or it's funny. I mean, it is funny
that you get a lot of listeners that will write
in and be like, it's so funny that you guys
think everybody in England is fancy, you know, Like we
were covering ninety Dight UK and we're like, I can't

(58:13):
believe this lady that they're like everybody in England is
not fancy just because of our accent.

Speaker 3 (58:17):
Yeah, you know, yeah, that is something that we are
brought up as kids, you know, like if you're from
the UK, because there's a castle there, there's a king,
there's a queen and all these things. That's just but
we know better now, we've seen enough with these guys, we.

Speaker 2 (58:31):
Know, she says.

Speaker 1 (58:36):
Sorrver says she had a great upbringing, but her parents
divorced about five years ago, and splitting up Christmas has
been really hard. They sort of talk about Christmas memories
and she tears up talking about it, and he goes,
but on the plus side, now you'll have like your
own Christmas family dinners to look forward to. He says
he grew up happy and his parents divorced when he

(58:56):
was around eighteen in his first year at UNI, and
so around the same time her parents split up, and
he said, my dad moved away.

Speaker 2 (59:04):
She was were are you close to him?

Speaker 1 (59:05):
He said, well, he lives in Dubai now, so when
I was there, I actually saw him quite a bit
when he I don't know. I don't know if he
moved to Dubai for the girl or he happened to
live in Dubai and met a girl.

Speaker 2 (59:14):
Said, I'm clear because he's a gym owner. So don't
know exactly.

Speaker 1 (59:20):
He said, you know, my mom is English and my
dad is from Pakistan, so I have the Muslim and
the Christian side and my family. And she goes, oh, interesting,
So my heritage is Indian. He goes, oh, really, He said, well,
I'm half Pakistani, so I don't know if your family
who's Indian would accept thee And they joke about it.

(59:43):
He goes, even half Pakistani and they sort of joke
about it, but you could tell it's a serious topic. Serious, yeah,
because apparently Indians and Pakistani people don't like each other.

Speaker 2 (59:53):
I didn't know that.

Speaker 1 (59:54):
I didn't know that either. But she goes back to
the pods and like tells the girls about and again
she's sort of laughing about it, but in her mind
she was like, what would my parents do if I
brought home a guy who's half Pakistani?

Speaker 2 (01:00:07):
You know. That's kind of like when Jane's brought me home.
It did not go over will get.

Speaker 1 (01:00:22):
So then we see Ashley cabin crew talking about how
much she likes Billy, and Billy is talking about her,
and he goes, here's the thing. I just have reservations
about her because she's cabin crew and my head's all
messed up about it, and I don't want.

Speaker 2 (01:00:37):
To hurt her. What you know what hurt her.

Speaker 1 (01:00:43):
So now Billy and Ashley go to the pods to
chat and she's like, oh my god, Billy, she's given
like meg energy whoo you know me time yep. And
they sit down and she goes, oh, it's crazy because
I was thinking about you a lot. I was thinking
about you last I don't know. And he's kind of
quiet and he goes he says, listen, I've loved our dates,

(01:01:03):
but I have to be honest with you, and then
you see the camera grows over to her.

Speaker 2 (01:01:07):
And she's like, oh yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:01:09):
And that's the end of episode one and I haven't
watched episode two, so I don't know what's gonna happen.

Speaker 2 (01:01:15):
But hopefully he's not.

Speaker 1 (01:01:18):
Just gonna ditch her, because because she said she'd be
willing to do another job. Something happened to him. I
think his first wife was kabin crew. That's my prediction.
His first wife was cabin crew, and he's like, I
can't do it again. Okay, that's my prediction, but I
don't know because I didn't want your head. I didn't
want your head now.

Speaker 2 (01:01:35):
Anything.

Speaker 1 (01:01:36):
Okay, So everybody, if you're listening here on the free feed,
Love Is Blind K episodes two through four. Of course,
you're out on the thirteenth when they're out, and then
on the twentieth you'll get five, six, seven, eight, you
get five through eighty. When they drop on Netflix, they
drop here. We pre record them so you'll have them

(01:01:56):
when you're ready, and then I believe it's four four,
two and one with Netflix the way they're putting them out,
and then we'll have a reunion that'll probably be boring,
but that's how you listen, right. So you got the
first episode free here it is pink Shade Prime and
for the rest of them, you got to go over
to the ten dollars level of pink Shade Prime. Because
we work so much work for you guys, so much

(01:02:18):
work from the money. We work hard for the money,
so hard for it, honey. Do listen, Keisha, take care
of your spleen and I will see you and your
spleen when we talk about episode two. And it's already
in your feed, guys. So if you're listening over on Prime,

(01:02:39):
it's already in your feed. If you're listening on Regular,
you're gonna have to go over and subscribe. And also
you can watch it on YouTube and listen. After episode one,
we're gonna have some real fun music.

Speaker 2 (01:02:51):
We just oh Jesus.

Speaker 3 (01:02:54):
All about that, oh my, And I was getting so
excited because you said you can watch it on YouTube.
It like yeah, and when the reunion at a wedding's come,
we love to dress up. Then you just ruin my
whole mood where you were reminded, let's see what she
comes up with this.

Speaker 1 (01:03:12):
I like to do fun music, but you have to
do it. Has to be on Prime to do music
that you're not.

Speaker 2 (01:03:19):
Supposed to use because it's against the rules.

Speaker 1 (01:03:22):
But we can do it on Prime and we do
it over there, So just get ready. You don't even
know what I've gotten.

Speaker 2 (01:03:27):
I don't either.

Speaker 1 (01:03:27):
I just wrote down music question Mark because I got
to get that ready. For the next episode. Okay, Keisha,
I'll see you for episode two, and I'll see you
guys over on the free feed Keisha and I.

Speaker 2 (01:03:37):
By the time this comes.

Speaker 1 (01:03:38):
Out, the valley will be over, but we're still covering
matchm abroad.

Speaker 2 (01:03:42):
We've got platful over.

Speaker 1 (01:03:43):
There, ninety day Aha, ninety day Hunt for Love, all
the things.

Speaker 2 (01:03:47):
So I go over there.

Speaker 1 (01:03:48):
If you want some extra content. And Kisha, I'll see
you for episode two.

Speaker 3 (01:03:52):
Ye bye Cho.