Cosmic Whispers: When the Universe Says No

What does it mean when you're chasing a goal and you keep hitting obstacles and closed doors? Could this be the Universe's way of protecting you or redirecting you to something better? Join us for a look at the subtle yet powerful ways the Universe is trying to keep you on your spiritual path. Learn how to recognize a cosmic yes and a cosmic no with our tips, techniques and exercises.

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:18):
Hello, and welcome to Psychic Teachers. I'm your host, Samantha
Fay and I'm Deb Bowen, and today we're very excited
to talk about something that we find is really important
when you're on the spiritual path, and that is understanding
when we're in those challenging times and it seems as
though every door is closing in our face. Maybe that's

(00:39):
actually a sign that we need to recognize and follow.
So we're going to be looking at negative signs the
universe sends us and how we need to pay attention
to those as much as we do the green lights
and the positive ones. But before we do, I just
wanted to talk to you Dev and say welcome back.
I missed you while you were gone, and i'd love
to hear about your writing retreat.

Speaker 2 (00:59):
Oh thank you, Samantha. I tell you what what a
lovely experience it was. And I don't think our listeners
know this, that one of our very long time listeners,
a listener who has been with us for many, many years,
is who sent me the information about this opportunity and
I followed through on it and it was just wonderful.

(01:22):
I had never been to the Ozarks before, and golly
what a beautiful landscape the Ozarks are, so it was fascinating.
And the place that I stayed is a retreat center
for writers. It's called the Writer's Colony, and it was
just lovely and very well appointed. I do have to

(01:42):
tell you that the suite that they put me in
was just stunning, and the view across the little road
in front of me looked up into this beautiful, beautiful cliff.
I couldn't see the top of it. The trees and
all the landscape was just greening around me. There were
deer in the yard. It was just lovely. However, the

(02:07):
only sort of issue that I had in the retreat,
and I'll talk more about all the good stuff in
a second, but I'm a real ludite. As Samantha knows,
I do this technology stuff kicking and screaming.

Speaker 1 (02:21):
Yes, I had to put her in time out sometimes
she does.

Speaker 2 (02:24):
And in fact, I'm getting ready to update my website
and I'm in trauma mode about that. But in any case,
so so, I'm a real ludite, as I say, And
for almost fifty years, the only way that I have
made coffee in my house is with a kettle of
water and a glass caraffe called a chemis the new

(02:46):
phrase for that, I think is now pour over coffee.
That's not what I call it. I just was making coffee.
But in this lovely place that they put me in,
there was this coffee pot with more buttons than Carter's
got pills. I have never seen somebody and sort of
coffee butt in my whole life. And you shouldn't have
seen me trying to, as my grandma would say, mash
buttons in the right order to make that thing make coffee.

(03:10):
And it was a different challenge every morning I was there.

Speaker 1 (03:14):
Yeah, you've been home over a week and you're still
talking about this mother loving coffee pot.

Speaker 2 (03:20):
Well, it's because it was the only glitch in the
whole trip. The rest of it was all just wonderful.

Speaker 1 (03:26):
It sounded so cool that you guys were all in
these little cottages and you had your meals cooked for you.

Speaker 2 (03:32):
We did, We did. The lovely woman who cooked the
meals was a delightful person, and the dinners were lovely.
We were on our own for breakfast and lunch, but
the kitchen was open to us to go get whatever
we wanted to eat for breakfast and lunch, and then
our meals were communal, and that was very nice. And
there was really nobody else there except for a couple

(03:54):
who were in another space, and they were there the
whole time I was there. And then there was a
woman who was there the first night, and then she
was on her way out the next day. So basically
I really had the time and space by myself. I
also really am blessed to have friends who live in
this area on a beautiful lake. So at either end

(04:15):
of the trip, I was out on this lake, in
the middle of nowhere, six miles down a gravel road,
in their house right on this beautiful lake, and the
guest suite in their house was all glass, so it
was like being in a treehouse. It was just lovely.
They were just lovely hostess this and took me to
beautiful places. They took me into Bentonville to the Crystal

(04:41):
River Art Museum, where I got to see Georgia o'keeith's
original painting of Jimson Weed. I have loved that picture
for many years, and to be in front of it
was just amazing. It was just wonderful. They took me
out in another direction to a place called Thorn Crown,
chapel built by a student of Frank Lloyd Wrights, made

(05:03):
of two by fours and glass. It was just breathtaking.
The construction was amazing. The sense of serenity there was
just absolutely lovely. And many of our listeners will remember that.
Back last October, during our Spooky Episode month, we did
an episode on haunted hotels, one of which at the

(05:26):
time and I didn't know I was ever going to
go there, one of which in October was a story
about the Crescent Hotel in Eureka Springs, Arkansas. Well, I
have been now to the Crescent Hotel in Eureka Springs, Arkansas,
and that it's a big deal to do a lot
of a lot of ghost tours. That's clearly a moneymaker

(05:47):
for the hotel. But we did wander through the corridors
and it's very dark and very Victorian, and I am
sure that it is very haunted, but it was just
really lovely. And at some point I'll try to remember
to put some pictures up on our Facebook page of
the exterior of the hotel. I didn't feel like they
wanted us to take pictures inside, but it was quite lovely.

Speaker 1 (06:10):
Oh, it sounds wonderful now. I've never been on a
writing retreat, so I have a question. Did you feel
freedom to write or pressure to write?

Speaker 2 (06:21):
Pressure?

Speaker 1 (06:22):
I wondered that because I wondered if that's how I
would feel too. I'd be in this beautiful situation and
having people take care of me and cook for me,
and I would want to just sit and put my
feet up and read a book.

Speaker 2 (06:34):
I wanted to do that very much. But here's what
I had done. I had before I left for the trip,
made some notes and put together a notebook of things
that I thought might be where I might want to
focus my attention and energy, and so I gave myself
some kind of potential structure for the event. And in fact,

(06:56):
what I ended up doing was going back through files
on my computer of pieces of things that I have
started to try to figure out where I really wanted
to go next and what really was calling to me.
And I just finally just trusted the muse and gave
up and just did some writing that I felt like

(07:17):
was what I needed to write about. And whether or
not it ever gets published.

Speaker 1 (07:22):
I don't know, And that's not the point. The point
is to just give birth to it.

Speaker 2 (07:28):
I hope that's what I think, you know, there's also
this feeling of oh golly, I should have come away
with a collection of poems or a creative nonfiction piece
that I can send in somewhere, and I did not.
I still have pieces.

Speaker 1 (07:41):
That's okay, there we are, Okay, we'll get there.

Speaker 2 (07:44):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (07:45):
I went to see John Edward. I think I told
you I was going to do that this week. Did Yeah,
So I was really excited because you and I went
to see him last time he was in town. That
was a long time, like ten years ago at least. Yeah,
he hasn't been in our area for a while. So
I was like, ooh, I got to go and see
if my mom will come through. And I made Michael
came because I wanted him to see the way people

(08:08):
like us work, and I thought it'd be a good
introduction for him. So we go and I wore my
mom's pearl ring and I'm talking to her the whole time.
I'm like, Mom, if anyone can break through this line,
it's you, So show us what you got, you know.
So we're sitting there and John Edward comes out and
does this whole thing, and I think there were we

(08:28):
didn't realize it at the time, there was a family
of sixteen and a huge row behind us.

Speaker 2 (08:34):
Oh my god.

Speaker 1 (08:35):
So John Edward says, I have a woman here and
she's showing me three three children, and I got to
talk to the baby, and I'm like, oh my gosh,
that's me. I'm the youngest of three girls. And someone's like, well,
I have behind us, I have three granddaughters. And he's like, okay,
he said, did she call at any of you CEC?

(08:58):
Well she always called my sister CC. And so I'm
like trying to raise my hand, but this family of
sixteen behind me keeps claiming everything and she and then
he said, she's saying that she's with someone who had Alzheimer's,
and snap boom, He's totally back to himself. Who can
claim Alzheimer's And this family behind me is like, well,

(09:21):
my cousin's dad has all zem and I was like,
son of a gun. And then he goes and she's
holding a baby. There's a baby coming to the family. Well,
my niece is pregnant. So I'm again raising my hand,
and the family in the row behind me is like, well,
we just had a baby delivered. But she never got
to meet him and I'm like, yeah, no, this is

(09:41):
not for you. And it kept happening and the row
behind me kept claiming it, and I had this I
was talking to my mom in my head and she
was she showed me this image of everyone like throwing
balls of energy at John and like once he just
focuses on one group in the crowd, the other people
go away. And so my mom was like, I kept

(10:03):
trying and you know, throwing the energy, but it just
the other energies were stronger. I guess.

Speaker 2 (10:09):
I'm sorry.

Speaker 1 (10:10):
I know it was kind of frustrating, but it was
really really cool to see him work. He's just so
amazing and so on it. And he this one man
came through deb He was so funny. He came through
for his wife and John said, did he actually like
pull a prank in a confessional? And the woman goes, yeah,

(10:34):
that was him. It was at our daughter's christening and
he just popped out of the confessional and scared the
priest's body. So he was able to break through like
really really specific validations for people, and it was just
it was just amazing. And there was this one woman

(10:55):
and he was like, I have I have a Beth here,
and she stays it raises her hand and she's like,
that's my sister. And he's like, Beth just wants you
to know that she's okay, and she's happy, and she's
with two uncles. And he starts bringing through all this
stuff about the uncles and the woman is just crossing
her arms, barely holding the microphone, and he goes, he

(11:15):
said he made a joke, like, is that not what
you wanted to hear? And she was like, no, I
don't want to hear from them. I just want to
talk to Beth. No, dear, does that not bring back memories?

Speaker 2 (11:27):
Oh? Boy, does it not?

Speaker 1 (11:30):
Oh no, it was a very very fun evening, and
and my mom tried, but I just wanted to share
that sometimes when even when you go to see the
best of the best and you have strong energies on
the other side, it takes a lot for them to come.

Speaker 2 (11:43):
Through, particularly when you got competition.

Speaker 1 (11:46):
Yeah, that was a lot. Who would think sixteen people
could all be free on a random Wednesday night.

Speaker 2 (11:53):
Oh that's a lot. That's a whole. That's a bunch
of family.

Speaker 1 (11:56):
A whole bunch of family. All right, we ready to
dive into topic.

Speaker 2 (12:01):
Well, I Am and you know, Samantha, this this topic
is one that we actually get right many emails about,
you know, folks. Folks are frustrated or are unsure and
they don't understand why they're not getting what they have
asked for, or are they misinterpreting signs, And sometimes it's

(12:23):
really and we're getting ready to talk about this for
a right good while, y'all. But the truth is, sometimes
the answer is just no.

Speaker 1 (12:29):
That's right. What's the old thing? And at least in
our neck of the woods, God's rejection is your protection.

Speaker 2 (12:36):
Sometimes that's the truth, isn't it?

Speaker 1 (12:37):
Sometimes it is. I know today we're talking about those
times in your life when everything that can go wrong
seems to actually go wrong, and you start to wonder
if maybe, just maybe there's a message in all this chaos.
You know, we often focus on manifesting our desires by
looking for positive affirmations, which is great. So what equally

(13:00):
important is learning to interpret when the universe might be
nudging us in a different direction, perhaps to protect us
or redirect us, or simply because something isn't aligned with
our highest good or the timing's wrong, or the timing's wrong.
That's a really yes. Very often the answer is yes,
but not now. That's right, because you know, the universe

(13:21):
doesn't always send us booming voices or flashing knee on signs.
More often it's the gentle whispers, the subtle shifts, even
the seemingly inconvenient events. The key is to become attuned
to these signals so that you understand how the universe
is talking to you and what it's trying to tell you.
We thought we could explore some common ways the universe

(13:44):
might be saying no, and then we'll delve into some
practical tips and exercises to help you develop your own
intuitive radar. So picture this, You're pushing hard towards your goal.
You're grinding away, and suddenly your laptop dies, and then
your car won't start, and then coffee maker gives up
the ghost and you're thinking, really all at once, Yeah,

(14:05):
the universe isn't exactly subtle sometimes, So let's talk about
these cosmic stop signs, what they look like, why they matter,
and most importantly, how they might actually be pointing us
towards something better. So one of the first cosmic knows
is the energy dream. Do you want to talk about this?

Speaker 2 (14:24):
Well, yeah, you know those days when you're trying to
work on something and you just can't keep your eyes open.
We're not talking about normal tiredness here. We mean that
bone deep exhaustion that hits you every time you think
about a specific project or our relationship or something you
need to do. That's not just fatigue. That's your energy
body saying nope, not this.

Speaker 1 (14:47):
Let's talk about that energy drain a little bit more.
Sometimes when you're working on a project and you're initially
all excited about it and then you can't stop procrastinating
on it for some reason, you just can't get started,
or or when you sit down to actually work on
it or fix that resume, or work on your networking,
whatever the project or goal is, and you just keep

(15:10):
getting interrupted, or you get so tired you just have
to walk away from it and do something else for
a while. That can be a sign that this isn't
the right project for you.

Speaker 2 (15:20):
I think that's true. And the energy drain just isn't
about energy drain in your body. It's also about energy
drain in your brain, where you just become like cotton
candy in your head and you can't think, and you
can't prioritize and the list goes away in your mind.
That is that energy drain stuff that happens to us

(15:41):
when it's just not for us at this point in time.

Speaker 1 (15:45):
Yeah, and even when you just have a project and
you can't even talk about it without feeling overwhelmed and tired.
Do you ever have that happen where you're like trying
to talk to someone like, Okay, well we're gonna do
this and by the end of the summer, we're gonna
do that, and then you're just so tired you're like, well,
let's table that we'll meet about this and talk about
it in a couple of weeks, because.

Speaker 2 (16:03):
It's well, this harkens back to the conversation we had
before we started recording of all this work that I
have to do this summer with the book that's coming out,
and good golly, it's just overwhelming.

Speaker 1 (16:16):
Okay, that's a very good teachable moment, though, dev because
I don't think that's a cosmic no from the universe.
I think that's just everyday common anxiety of holy cow,
I have a lot to do to promote this book
that's coming out in September, right, and I think this
is where it gets really tricky. Is this a no?

(16:39):
Or is this just a normal reaction to a stressful situation?

Speaker 2 (16:43):
Well, I think it's both. I think it is indeed
a normal reaction to a stressful situation, and it isn't
necessarily a no. But it's how am I going to
prioritize the energy that I have? And what do I
need really to ask of the universe too to guide
me in this situation?

Speaker 1 (17:04):
Yes, exactly, And so it's a cosmic pause.

Speaker 2 (17:07):
Yes.

Speaker 1 (17:08):
Then there's something that we'll call the obstacle Olympics where
you're trying to make something happen. Maybe it's a business deal,
maybe it's a move to a new city, and suddenly
you're facing hurdle after hurdle. The paperwork gets lost, the
contact stop responding, the funding falls through. It's like trying
to run through wet cement, and everything that could go

(17:30):
wrong does. Here's the thing, though, and this is important,
these aren't just random annoyances. They're guidance. The universe has
this funny way of closing doors that aren't meant for us,
even when we're trying our hardest to prop them open
with a cosmic doorstop. And you know what, I find
frustrating about the obstacle Olympics deep because this has happened

(17:53):
to me many, many times, and I am stubborn, so
oftentimes when I'm working on something and I keep getting known,
I'm like, oh, really, hold my beer and I just
push those doors open, I kick them down. And sometimes
that works really really well for me, and sometimes it
works really really not well for me.

Speaker 2 (18:13):
I think this is this is something I think the
Buddhists called pushing the river, and it's the idea that
you are just determined that things are going to go
the way you plan them to go, and sometimes the
universe says, well, okay for a while, and sometimes the
university just says, no, this is not the way it's
gonna go. Yeah, that's no where those where to fight

(18:35):
those Olympic energies and where not to yeah.

Speaker 1 (18:39):
And that's why I think the cosmic no is so
so tricky, because sometimes those closed doors in my life
have been really instructive for me and wonderful growth opportunities
because it helps me to really realign my priorities and go,
all right, Samantha, how much do you want this? And
sometimes I'm like, yeah, I don't know that I really

(19:00):
do want this. I think I want this for someone else,
or I think I want this because I'm supposed to
want this, and I just walk away from that closed door.
Other times those closed doors make me go, oh no, no,
I want this, and I kick it through. So I
think you have to look at the know from a
lot of different standpoints. It's not necessarily what you're seeing

(19:21):
on the surface. You have to really dive deep and think,
how do I feel about this? How do I feel
about all these doors closing and this paperwork falling through
and this delay and that delay? What is it making
me realign in terms of my priorities, my motivations, and
my passion for really getting this done.

Speaker 2 (19:38):
Well, okay, so here's a question. So you kick your
way through because you're determined you're going to do this anyway.
Do you often get on the other side of the
door and after some time realize, oh, wow, that probably
wasn't the best choice.

Speaker 1 (19:51):
Yes, yeah, yes, one hundred percent. That's happened to me,
and I'm like, why are you so stubborn? But then
other times I'll kick that door down and it's the
best thing I could have done, and I'm like, thank God,
you're so stubborn. So that's why it's tricky, and that's
why I think you have to look at other things
going on inside your body, inside your mind, inside your

(20:13):
central nervous system, the ways that you were truly feeling
about those situations. And I think you know, of course, hindsight,
you can look those times when you really did push
through those doors. You didn't feel so great about it,
but those times where you push through those doors and
you were determined that was good, that was a good
You got this. You can do this all on your own.

(20:34):
So it's all about really what you're feeling intrinsically inside.

Speaker 2 (20:40):
So let's talk about that gut feeling, that subtle not
in your stomach when something is just off and you
know it. I mean, for example, maybe you're about to
sign a contract and despite all the numbers looking good
on paper, something feels wrong. That's not paranoia, that's your intuition,
your internal GPS trying to reroute you.

Speaker 1 (21:02):
The gut feeling, I think is the most important one
when we're talking about understanding what the universe is trying
to tell us. It is our clarcentience and it will
not lead us astray. You have to always trust it.
And for me, that has taken a lifetime of learning
how to do it, and it's through trial and error.
When I was going to sell my house this year,

(21:22):
for example, I was really conflicted about that, you know,
I mean I've been in that house since my twenties.
I was sad to sell that house, but I was
excited to start a new chapter. So it was a
whole mixed bag of emotions. And I asked my friend
who was a realtor, to list the house, and she
found a couple who wanted to buy the house before

(21:43):
we even listed it. And I met with them, and
you know, they had little girls, which of course like
tugged at my heart because I think it's such a
little girl house. And I just liked them instantly. And
you know, the whole time deb people kept telling me, oh,
you could get more, you could get more, ask for more,
put it on the market, you'll have a bidding war.

(22:04):
And I just had this peace about it. I just
knew that family needed to be in that house, and
I was like, no, I did not listen to what
everyone else told me, and I just accepted their offer
and everything went through without a hitch, like insanely easy.
Did you hear me complain or stress?

Speaker 2 (22:24):
No?

Speaker 1 (22:24):
I did not, No, it was just sign here, sign here, done.
And so I think you have to like that gut
feeling I had of just this is the family that
this home needs. I just trusted that. I tuned all
the naysayers out and you know, and it wasn't easy,
but I did, and I feel so so good about it.

Speaker 2 (22:47):
I'm so glad that happened.

Speaker 1 (22:48):
Yeah, me too. But you've got to listen to that
gut feeling, and that's not always easy, especially when you
have other people whispering in your ear. If you don't
know intrinsic who you are and what's important to you
and what you value, you can be like a willow
tree and just bend in the wind, you know, which

(23:09):
you know, there's nothing wrong with that, but I do
think it's important for us to be more like an
oak tree when we're trying to really dig our roots
down and trust our own gut, our own internal gps.

Speaker 2 (23:23):
And that trust is important because I can be the
queen of yeah but well, I've got this gut feeling,
yeah but what if this? And yeah but what if that?
And yeah but yeah, but yeah, but and somewhere along
the way, yeah, I have to learn to trust what's
really being told to me by my gut.

Speaker 1 (23:42):
Yes, exactly. Like you know, not to get too personal,
but when you were getting ready to retire from your
big university job, you trusted your gut on that, and
you had a lot of signs pointing you in that direction,
even though you were yeah, butting yourself. Well, you've followed
the signs.

Speaker 2 (24:02):
Absolutely. The logic of what I did was crazy. There
was no logic in what I did and the timing
of what I did. And yet the morning that that
hawk flew in front of me so close I could
have touched her, and she turned her head and looked
at me as she flew by, I knew I had
my answer exactly there it was. I mean, I went

(24:24):
upstairs and handed in by letter of retirement.

Speaker 1 (24:28):
Now, sometimes the universe will communicate its nose to you
through your own internal compass, like your intuition and your emotions.
That nagging feeling of unease or discomfort around a certain
person or situation should not be ignored. And again, this
is I think, on par with the gut feeling. You

(24:51):
can't ignore that if you just don't feel comfortable when
you walk into an office building for an interview, if
you feel uncomfortable when you meet someone off a dating
app for a coffee meetup, You've got to trust that
if you have a friend and whenever you're around this person,
you feel drained and uneasy and you can't pinpoint anything specific,

(25:13):
but your gut keeps telling you something isn't right, and
if you ignore these feelings, you'll invest time and energy
in the friendship, only to eventually discover this person had
ulterior motives and wasn't as genuine as they appeared. Your
initial off feeling was a clear signal you should have
listened to. And you know that happens all the time.

(25:34):
You remember in the beginning, ded when you and I
started working together, we would have a lot of people
try to be our friend and we were like, well,
this is nice. We have all these new friend options
who want to talk about to row and crystals and
eaching and all sorts of googy cool boo boo stuff.
But then we'd hang out with them and really what
they wanted we're readings, yep. And we picked up on

(25:56):
that and were able to carefully sidestep a lot of
that trauma.

Speaker 2 (26:01):
Absolutely absolutely. Our bodies and our subconscious minds often pick
up on those subtle cues you're talking about that our
conscious mind might miss, you know, mm hmm. And part
of that is also getting your ego out of the way.

Speaker 1 (26:15):
Yeah, yeah, well, and I think another part of it
is really paying attention to what's going on in your body.
You know, where do you have pain in your body?
Is it in your head? Are you trying to control stuff?
Is it in your shoulders? Are you carrying someone too much?
Is it in your lower back? Are you worried about
who's supporting you? Is it in your knees? Are you

(26:37):
not bending on an issue? Are you having pain in
your hips because you're too afraid to move forward? You
got to pay attention to how your body is trying
to talk to you as well as the universe, because.

Speaker 2 (26:49):
Golly, we are back to Louise Fay from one hundred
years ago.

Speaker 1 (26:53):
Yeah, because it's true.

Speaker 2 (26:55):
It is true and exactly that. Yes, your body doesn't lie.
It tells you really order information. And one of the
things that I think we also do is that we
get so caught up in whatever is the new groovy
way to look at metaphysical journey. And in fact, if
we go back to old basics sometimes we get a

(27:16):
lot more information. Like what you just said, I mean,
I can see the cover of You Can Heal Your
Life by Louise Hay as we're talking ohe.

Speaker 1 (27:24):
Me too, the Rainbow Heart.

Speaker 2 (27:26):
That's it.

Speaker 1 (27:26):
Like my friend, for example, had to do this really
really important presentation to get some type of certification and
she had to do it in front of a group
and it had to be recorded, and that's scary, you know,
And so she prepared and prepped and worked on it
and went over it, and you know, gets up in
the morning and she's so nervous. She's like shaking as
she's driving there. And she gets in front of the

(27:47):
group and the woman who was in charge of this
meeting was just not the nicest one, and that made
her even more nervous, and so she just kind of
stumbled through and forgot a lot of stuff and just
went away from it going that was not my best look.
And it was because that kind of negative woman was
just like, you know, baring her eyes into her and

(28:09):
making her uncomfortable. And so she was like, what was
that about? Like I prepped, I prepared. I don't understand.
And then she gets an email that the recording thing
glitched and she has to come back and do it again.
So she goes back to do it again, and this
time that negative woman couldn't be there, but her partner,
this super nice gentle man, was there, calmed my friend down,

(28:32):
She did the presentation. It went off without a hitch.
She was even better than her notes that she had prepared,
and it was like, okay, so sometimes you have a
negative situation and you think, all right, I'm doing everything right.
Why is nothing going in my favor? Well, the universe
is trying to work in your favor. So that negative
situation was actually really really good preparation for the real deal.

Speaker 2 (28:56):
And you know, you just got to follow the signs sometimes,
and that learning to trust is so hard, but you know,
those signs are sometimes not just telling us what's wrong,
they're actually pointing us to what is right. Now. Okay,
I'm not sure I know what I'm talking about here
because I don't use this thing on my phone. But

(29:17):
it's like when your GPS says it's recalculating, it's not
just telling you where you're that you're lost. It's helping
you figure out a better way to go. So here's
a better example. I think let's talk about a client
called Amy. She was pushing really hard to open her
yoga studio in this really fancy, upscale downtown location. Everything

(29:39):
kept going wrong, lease issues, permits, contractor delays. She was frustrated, exhausted,
and ready to give up. And then she found this
quirky space in a quieter neighborhood and everything fell into
place like magic. Turns out that's where she was meant
to be all along. Her studio is now the heart

(30:01):
of that quirky community. That's the way it's supposed to work.
Is when this you can say that there's a reason
for all these delays and something better comes along. How
many many, many many times have we said on this show,
and have we said to clients, always always ask for

(30:21):
this or something better if you are trying to manifest something.

Speaker 1 (30:25):
Yes, exactly, because we don't know, we don't know what's
out there. One of my favorite stories to tell about
that is my older sister who followed my dad's advice
and went into accounting, and my mom was like, what
are you doing? You have the personality of ten Johnny
Carson's when you're not supposed to be an accounting and

(30:48):
my sister would not listen to her. And she did
well at accounting, but she just didn't love it, you know,
it just wasn't her thing. And so she stayed home
for many years to raise her kids, and then she
went back into a counting and was not happy. And
it was just like push in that river, and my
mom kept saying, you need a career where your personality

(31:09):
can shine. You need to go into real estate, and
my sister was like, no, I don't want to do that.
Finally she did. Everything went easy, and I mean, that
amazing smart woman makes more money than Midas. I think
now she's like one of the top sellers in her
entire state. She's opened up her own brokerage. I mean,

(31:29):
she's so successful. It's such a joy and a privilege
to watch her star just shine. And it's because she
finally just was like listening to herself and exactly what
her talents were. And once she was like all right,
I'll try it, all doors were open. So sometimes we

(31:50):
think we're supposed to follow this one path because it's
the smart one, it's the conservative one, it's the safe one,
and yet those doors they might know, but we don't
even really want to walk through. And we walk through
them and we're like, oh, this is it, this is
my cubicle, thank you very very much, and then we
take a risk to go. You know what, I think
this is where my personality will shine brightest and tuta

(32:14):
you get all the success and accolades you deserve. I
think we can see it in relationships too, you know,
the right on paper person. Have you seen all those
articles lately dead Probably not, your your algorithm is probably
different than mine. But because I have young ladies as daughters,
I get all these articles about this new generation and

(32:36):
how they're dating and how these the new research is
showing that they're not dating for love and romance. They're
dating for good on paper. WHOA doesn't that make you sad?

Speaker 2 (32:48):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (32:49):
Yeah, And they're just they're being very calculated about it, like, oh,
well they have to have this, and they have to
have this, and they can't have that, and they no
debt and college degree and this job and this, you know,
all of this, which is fine, but you gotta sprinkle
in some love and romance and just chemistry into there
as well. You would think yeah, so sometimes you know

(33:13):
the doors might open, but do you want to walk
through that open door. You got to think about that
as well. We had another client we worked with who
was trying so hard to make this one relationship work,
but her car would break down almost every time she
tried to drive to his place, or she'd get stuck
in traffic. Weird stuff happened with her phone. She kept

(33:33):
missing his calls or text and guess what, that relationship
would have been a disaster for her. But when she
started working on self love, she met the right person
for her. So you have to look at that, those
series of events that happen when you're trying to make
something work, and think, if all of these little snaffoos

(33:54):
are occurring, is this a message from the universe.

Speaker 2 (33:57):
The answer is probably so. Just as a kind of
a reminder. When your body reacts negatively to a place, person, work, environment, future, project, invitation, whatever,
pay attention, because that really is a great signal for
you to really know that there might be something you
might want to do differently. So, for example, when things

(34:20):
start to break around you, appliances, jewelry, a drop cup,
these are often signs that something is off in your life.
It's usually the universe's way of helping you notice that
you are overly stressed or off the path, or maybe both.

Speaker 1 (34:37):
Yes, and sometimes it can just be stressed, you know.
I'll never forget when my first husband was in the
hospital that dreadful summer after his shooting. Every single appliance
in my house broke that summer. I had to replace
the oven, the microwave, the dishwasher, and then at the

(34:57):
end of the summer, as a tutdaw ac unit broke,
the alternator in my car broke, like everything broke, and
it was just I think the stress from you know,
is he gonna make it, Is he gonna be okay?
When is he coming home? Just that constant stress from
all of us in the home, just emitting these vibrations,

(35:18):
and that that was really instructive to me because it
made me realize stress is a physical, real thing. It's
not just an emotion, and it has ripple effects, so
that those appliances breaking can come as signs from the
universe that you're off path, but it can also come
as signs from the universe. Because I did not feel

(35:38):
I was off path that summer at all. I felt
like that was a very destined moment. But all of
those things broking breaking told me, Saman that you're taking
care of everyone, but you've got to focus on taking
care of yourself too, because this is this is out
of alignment exactly.

Speaker 2 (35:56):
So how do we work with these signs when we
see them and recognize them.

Speaker 1 (36:00):
Well, let's talk about that because we have some pretty
good suggestions. But let's take a very quick break first,
and then we'll dive into some good exercises we can do.
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(36:22):
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let's get back to the show. Welcome back. So whenever

(37:53):
your body reacts negatively, you really do want to pay
attention when things start breaking around you. Appliances, juel read crystals.
These are often signs that something is off in your life.
It's usually the universe's way of helping you notice that
you're just overly stressed or maybe off path or both.
So how do we work with these signs instead of

(38:14):
fighting them? First, pay attention to patterns. One thing going
wrong might be coincidence everything going wrong. That's a conversation
the universe is trying to have with you. Second, notice
where things flow and where they don't. When you're on
the right path, doors tend to open. Not that it's

(38:34):
always easy, but there's a difference between healthy challenge and
banging your head against a wall. Third, and this is crucial.
When you hit those obstacles, pause just for a moment
and ask yourself, am I pushing towards something that's not
meant for me? Is there another way? Sometimes the detour
is actually the destination. I wanted to say something about

(38:57):
that detour is actually the destination. One of my favorite
stories is about Joseph Campbell and how he graduated college
and tried the whole work stuff and was like, this
is just not for me. I don't want to do
this right now. And he rented a cabin in the
woods with no running water. I don't think he'd even
had heat or electricity, and he just wanted to spend

(39:19):
a year reading books. And he did not come from
a wealthy family. It's not like his family was like, oh,
Joseph is off taking a gap year. Like he put
himself through college. He knew he had to go into
the workforce or you go further his studies, but it
would all be on his dime. And he was just
following this nudge he got of I am not wanting

(39:42):
to jump into this workforce. I am not wanting to
jump back into school. He just really wanted to follow
his bliss and he read those books, all those books
for an entire year, cut his own wood, made his
own food, lived in the secluded cabin, and that is
where he started his entire new career, which was helping

(40:02):
us understand the cultural implication of mythology. And I always
think about that when I read things like sometimes the
detour is the destination. Because he thought he was taking
a detour, his whole family's shouting in his ear, you
know what are you thinking? You need to make money,
and he ignored all of that and just took this
detour and it changed his whole life.

Speaker 2 (40:23):
I love that. I just love that story.

Speaker 1 (40:25):
I do too. The other thing you can do is
pay attention to repetition. One off inconvenience has happened. But
if you notice a pattern of things going wrong or
feeling consistently negative around a specific person or situation, take
it seriously. Haven't you ever had that where there's just
a new hire, or maybe you have a student in

(40:48):
one of your classes, or you're just meeting a new
acquaintance and you just feel off about them, and then
later it's proven true. Absolutely, every time that happens, you
need to you need to validate yourself. Put it in
your journals so you remember that your feelings are accurate,
and of course, always trust your gut feelings. That intuitive

(41:09):
ping or feeling of unease is a powerful tool. Don't
dismiss it just because you can't rationalize it immediately. It's
a vibe and you have to learn to trust your vibe.
I was just talking to Joel about this. I had
an argument just a couple of weeks ago. Not an argument,
but a little heated debate with a friend about a

(41:31):
friend of a mutual friend that I just had a
bad vibe about and I had nothing to back it up.
It's just not a good feeling, and I was talking
to Joel about it, and he was like, trust your vibe, Samantha.
He's the best cheerleader, deeb.

Speaker 2 (41:46):
He really is.

Speaker 1 (41:48):
I know, but that was a very recent example where
I don't really have anything to back it up. I
just know there's something not trustworthy around that person. I'm
going to trust it.

Speaker 2 (41:58):
I think you should. I do. Indeed, I think you
should piggybacking on that. Be aware of your environment and
how you feel around in that environment and around certain people.
If you feel drained or anxious or heavy, there's a
reason for that, and look for obstacles and delays what
is happening. You know, it's important to be persistent in

(42:21):
what you want, but when there are consistent and unusual
obstacles that stop you from pursuing a particular path, that
might be a sign that that's not the right direction.
And again, as we talked a few minutes to go,
pay attention to physical symptoms like headaches and unexplained fatigue
and stomach ache and so forth. You might be resisting

(42:45):
a message that's trying to get through to you. You
knew we were going to say this, right, Take a
few moments each day to quiet your mind and tune
in to your body and your emotions. Just take a
deep breath and kind of do what I call a
systems check. Ask yourself, how am I truly feeling about
whatever the situation is that you're trying to find an

(43:05):
answer for. Note any feelings of resistance or discomfort.

Speaker 1 (43:11):
One thing we did in yoga this Sunday is called
She called it bumble bee breath. Have you heard of that? No, Okay,
I'm sure I've done it. I'm sure you've done it.
I just I love that she called it bumble bee breath.
So we inhaled for account of four, we held for
account of four, and then we exhaled for an account
of seven while making a humming sound like a bunch

(43:32):
of bees. Oh and it was very rhythmic and very nice.
But making the humming sound was so helpful because it
tuned any thoughts out because you're focused on making the
humming sound. Ah, and it actually helped me tune in
much quicker and focus in on my true internal compass.

(43:54):
So I just recommend anyone who wants to try that,
try that. Inhale for account of four, for account of four,
exhale for account of seven while making a humming sound
like a like a bunch of bumblebees. Oh yeah, because
you know how sometimes when you start meditating and you
just can't get there, too many thoughts are going your

(44:14):
head spinning.

Speaker 2 (44:15):
It's right to tiedge.

Speaker 1 (44:16):
You need to stretch your back, you want to blow
your nose? Do you have to pee? All that stuff
going through your head, but when you're making that humming sound,
it all goes away.

Speaker 2 (44:26):
That's a great idea. Everybody tried that. I will try
it to Samantha. We will report back to you.

Speaker 1 (44:31):
Okay, that's your homework.

Speaker 2 (44:35):
Everybody's homework. And of course the other piece of the
homework is always to make notes. Journal, journal, journal, You
know how much Samantha and I just think that that
journaling and keeping records and dating things that happen to
us along our metaphysical journey is just so important.

Speaker 1 (44:54):
I told you all. I think I mentioned this on
the show. My favorite way of journaling. I've been doing
it for a couple of year years now. I got
those little too stickers from an Etsy shop. I think
I got you some too, right, you did?

Speaker 2 (45:06):
And yeah, Teresa Rae sent me some too.

Speaker 1 (45:09):
Oh, that's right. They came with her book. I love them.
So what I do now is I'll just pull a
card in the morning and I find a little sticker
that goes with it, and I put it in my
journal and then I write down what that card means,
and then I write down how it relates to what
I'm feeling in my life now. And I like that
a lot better because sometimes when I sit down to journal,

(45:32):
I'm like, what am I going to write about? And
I tend to it tends to be more like a
dear diary. The girls came home this weekend. Deb and
I are recording on Tuesday. You know, it doesn't have
any really, but what I work with the terurou it
helps me dive a little bit deeper and it gives
some structure. So that's just a suggestion I want to
throw out.

Speaker 2 (45:51):
That's a great idea, So do this. Try this in
addition to the journaling piece, what we call the what
if exercise. When you're face with a decision, imagine fully
embracing a particular path and then honestly assess how it
makes you feel. Then imagine choosing a different path and

(46:13):
do the same thing. Assess how it makes you feel.
Pay attention to which scenario brings you the greater piece
and alignment sence, it's in your body and in your heart.

Speaker 1 (46:24):
I do that a lot, where if I'm at a crossroads,
I'll visualize myself in a little I call it my
little time machine, and I'll visualize myself going five or
ten years into the future with that scenario, and I
really spend some time in that new scenario, and I
try to see how I feel, what does it look like?

(46:45):
And oftentimes if that crossroad that I'm considering the left
turn or the right turn, if I can't see it
or feel it or really visualize it, that's a no
for me. That makes sense, you know, like if you
can't really truly visualize, well, who will be there, what
will it look like? I've learned that's kind of a
no for me. Or if I look at it and

(47:06):
I'm like, oh, it don't I don't really want that,
then that's obviously helpful. But sometimes I've done this exercise
and I can't even visualize it, like nothing comes to mind.
It's like nothing, It's like the pieces aren't falling into place.

Speaker 2 (47:20):
And that should tell you something, right, Yeah, exactly all right,
So ask for clarity with intention, and what we mean
by that is what is your intention? What is it
you're really asking here? And sometimes just the formulating the
question is the hard part. What is it you really
are intending to have happened here? So ask for clarity

(47:40):
about what that intention is, and you can consciously ask
the universe for clearer signs, be specific in your request,
and then remain open to receiving receiving guidance in unexpected ways. Remember,
the universe communicates in its own language. And this is tricky. Oh,

(48:01):
this is so tricky because, for example, so here it
is beautiful springtime where we live, and you've got a request,
you're setting an intention, and you ask for, oh, a bluebird.
Well guess what's flittering around the world all over the
place right now? Bluebirds? So are you really getting a

(48:22):
sign or are you just happening to pay attention to
something that's just naturally occurring in spring? Which is it?
Probably that they're bluebirds everywhere. So try to be more
specific than something that might be just naturally occurring and
ask for something that's connected to your intention. So, for example,

(48:45):
if you are, I don't know, looking for a new
job in a particular field. Pay attention to whether you
might see a sign on a billboard that's connected to
that particular field. Look for things that are related. You
want to add to that, Samantha.

Speaker 1 (49:02):
Yeah, I think you can do that with so many things.
For example, if your intention is to look for new love,
you could ask to see a heart shaped seashell, or
you could ask to be given a rose by someone.
We had a client years ago, deb when we used
to do our coaching together, and she did that, and

(49:24):
I think she was actually praying to Saint Teresa the
Little Flower, but she was asking if I'm on the
right path for someone to give her roses out of
the blue, and no one had ever given her roses
out of the blue. And sure enough, that next week,
someone in her office was delivered roses, and I guess
she was allergic to them, and so she gave them

(49:44):
to our client.

Speaker 2 (49:46):
Now about that, Yeah, I remember that out of the blue.
I love it.

Speaker 1 (49:49):
I remember when I was working on my writing project,
my first book, I asked Rosemary Ellen Guiley to help
me to be on my dream team, and I wanted
a sign of the and someone gave me one of
her books in the mail.

Speaker 2 (50:04):
So you know, isn't that interesting? Yeah, similar thing happened.
I don't know if our listeners remember this. Sure. I
talked about that strange dream I had when after you
had written your book and I was asking my dream
team for help, And remember Mary Shelley showed up. Of
all the people in the world, why Mary Shelley. Well,

(50:24):
after I read about her, I understood why she is
on my team. But shortly thereafter somebody sent me the
Tales of Villa Diodity, which is the book that came
as a result of the year that she spent writing
with Percy and Lord Byron, and which includes Frankenstein's Monster.

Speaker 1 (50:44):
Well, that is so cool.

Speaker 2 (50:46):
I know.

Speaker 1 (50:47):
Here's a practice you can try. Whenever I hit these
universal roadblocks, I will sit quietly and ask what am
I not seeing? What am I meant to learn here?
The answers will often come and unexpect ways, through random conversations,
through dreams, through those moments of clarity that hit you
in the shower. You've got to pay attention to all

(51:10):
of those. I had a conversation with my sister the
other day, and she was saying, I think God is
teaching me through contrast. She just had a lot of
situations with people, you know, just not being super positive,
and she learned more from those situations than the positive ones.
And so sometimes I think it's important to recognize that

(51:32):
we are learning through contrast, through what not to do,
what not to say. The universe isn't trying to punish
you when it puts obstacles in your path. It's trying
to protect you, guide you, maybe even push you towards
something better than what you'd imagined for yourself. Those broken appliances,
they might be telling you it's time for a fresh

(51:53):
start that exhaustion. Maybe it's pushing you towards a necessary rest.
Those opportunities that keep falling through, they're making space for
the right ones to come along.

Speaker 2 (52:05):
You know, that was an interesting comment when we were
talking about broken appliances and so forth. When I got
back from that writer's retreat and got in my car,
it wouldn't start. Now, this is unusual for my wonderful
old car. She's been with me for a long time,
and so I ended up having to have her toad
and blah blah blah and all this stuff. But I

(52:26):
also realized that I was on my way to become.
I had gotten back, I barely unpacked my toothbrush. I
hadn't even started laundry yet, because I had forgotten to
buy detergent before I went on the trip. So I
came back, was getting ready to do laundry and couldn't.
And boy, I was Katie bar the door. I was
going to the grocery store. I was going blah blah
blah blah blah, and the car said, no, you're not.

(52:48):
You're just gonna be for five minutes before you get
back into your normal doing doing doing routine. And I
began to realize that the broken car was a gift.

Speaker 1 (53:00):
Hard gift, but yes, a good reminder. You know you
were mentioning earlier on in the show about how sometimes
these obstacles aren't a no, but a not now yes,
And you know, I am happy that I'm finally published.
But I've been trying to be published for a very
very long time, and I really started pushing it in

(53:23):
my forties, and I kept getting no's, and you know,
you and I would covetch and talk and complain and
whine and moan and groan about that, right, and then
it finally happened and I realized now, because that's the
key with trusting the universe. Yes, we have to constantly
stay in the present moment and look to the future.

(53:44):
But I think there's a lot of benefit in reflecting
on the past as well, because it is incredibly instructive.
And I didn't know what went into publishing a book.
I thought you wrote a book, and you put it
out into the world, and then you worked on the
next project. I just didn't know there was so much
that went into it, especially with nonfiction. I'm sure with

(54:05):
fiction it is like that, but with nonfiction, you really
got to get out there and talk about the book
and do presentations and go to talks and all sorts
of conferences and things like that. And in my forties,
when I was a single mom with my three kids
at home, there's no way I could have done all that.
My parents needed me, my kids needed me, my aging

(54:25):
pets needed me. There's no way I could have traveled
and done all the cool things I've been able to
do in the last several years if that had all
happened in the forties. So, if you are pushing through
a goal and it hasn't happened yet, and you're thinking well,
maybe it's just a no and I should give up.
Maybe it is a no and you should give up.

(54:46):
But here's the thing. What I did was I would think,
all right, am I supposed to just give up on this?
And I would get you know, like I said, I'm stubborn,
and I get pissy, and I'd be like, fine, I
will give up. But then a couple of months later,
I'd find myself writing and I was like, son of
a bitch, what am I doing? I thought I gave
up on this, and then I realized a writer writes.

(55:06):
It's like. One of my other favorite stories is Madeline
engel Bright. It's in her, you know, she wrote the
Wrinkle in Time. What's her last name? I'm saying it wrong.

Speaker 2 (55:16):
The Angle. I never can say it correctly, so it
wots to be Angle.

Speaker 1 (55:21):
Yeah, her who wrote a Wrinkle in Time. She has
a wonderful series of books called the Crosswick Journals that
I really recommend, and it's about her time after being
published and living in Connecticut with her husband and just
reflecting on midlife stuff. And she talks in the earlier

(55:42):
I think it's in the first Crosswick Journal book about
how she could not get that Wrinkle in Time book published,
and it was her fortieth birthday, and she was like,
you know what, that's it. I'm just giving up. And
I think her husband was like throwing a party for her,
or maybe just taking her out for dinner, but the
family was eating downstairs for her, and she's in her
bedroom having this very proper pity party for herself, and

(56:05):
she even like put the cover on the typewriter, you know,
and she's like done, finiti over and she gets up
and she's gonna go downstairs and celebrate her birthday with
her family. And she realizes as she's getting up from
the covered typewriter, she even describes it like putting the
cover on a coffin, you know. And she's narrating this

(56:26):
whole scene in her head in third person, and she
put her hand on the banister inside as her shoulder sagged,
and she realized she was writing in her head. Even
though she had said no, she was still a writer.
And she was like, darn it, I guess I have
to keep doing this. So if the universe is telling
you no, and you're like thinking, okay, I guess it's

(56:49):
a no, but you still want to do it to
me that's a sign that the universe is saying not now.

Speaker 2 (56:58):
Or maybe not exactly the way you pictured it true.
For example, I wrote a book twenty years ago. It's
still out there and still selling it. I'm very grateful
for that. And then life happened and I kept writing,
but was I publishing anything.

Speaker 1 (57:16):
No.

Speaker 2 (57:17):
And I finally got up the courage and the wherewithal
within me to send out shorter pieces, creative nonfiction poetry,
and those started getting published, and I thought, oh, but
it's not another book, and it's still not fiction, and
so I'm still not, in my own head a writer, right,

(57:38):
But giving myself permission to do something that was a
deviation and different from what had been my rigid intent
got me published in lots of other ways and connected
me with people that I may never have met in
any other way. And while all that was happening, then
the universe Doore opened up in this new book coming

(58:00):
out in September.

Speaker 1 (58:01):
It's such a great example.

Speaker 2 (58:03):
You know.

Speaker 1 (58:03):
I had a client years ago who was a professional
athlete and did really, really well all through high school
and college scholarships and then played in the professional level
for one year and then done on an injury and
he went into a serious depression for about five years.
As you can imagine, you know, you work through this goal.

(58:26):
I mean, gosh, when does like Pop Warner football start
when you're three? You know, his whole life and then
boom it's over. And suddenly, through a lot of prayer
and reflection in that depressing time, he realized he just
loved the game and he never wanted to stop being
involved in the game, no matter what way it meant.
He didn't have to be a star, he didn't have

(58:47):
to be a professional. He just wanted to be in
the game. And so he started coaching. And when I
met him, he was in his sixties, and he said,
I never would have reached all the pe people I
reached as a professional athlete the way I did as
a coach, and really having my hands and my love
in that game and really inspiring people not so much

(59:10):
to understand the game, but to understand the limitless potential
within them. And he was actually happy that he had
that injury and it forced him to go into coaching.
So sometimes we have a very obvious universal no, and
it might send you into a depression or an anger spiral.
And that's okay too. It's like my friend Ted said

(59:32):
to me, well those years ago, when I told her
I felt ashamed because I was mad at God, and
she said, that's okay, God can handle your anger. I
always love that response. It's okay to be angry and
it's okay to be sad. But then at some point
we have to change the clockwise spiral on that downward
trench we're heading into and say, all right, what am

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I supposed to learn from this? How can I redirect this?
What's the golden nugget I can and find in this?
And often, as we're climbing ourselves out of that dark night,
we can actually climb into a door that we didn't
even see was there, and it's our door, and it's
going to change everything about our lives. But we have

(01:00:16):
to understand that this is how the universe redirects us,
rather than staying in that stubborn pity party energy.

Speaker 2 (01:00:24):
I think it's important to remember that recognizing negative signs
isn't about living in fear we're becoming overly superstitious.

Speaker 1 (01:00:33):
It's about learning to trust our inner wisdom and recognizing
that sometimes a no from the universe is actually a
gentle redirection towards something even better. So pay attention to
the disruptions in your environment, honor your gut feelings, and
practice these simple exercises and you can become more fluent
in the language of the cosmos and navigate your life

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with greater clarity, ease, and alignment. So until next time, everyone,
keep your eyes, your heart, and your mind open to
the signs. The universe is always talking, We just need
to learn its language. Have a great week. Everyone, be
the light for yourself and others.

Speaker 2 (01:01:13):
Take care everyone.

Speaker 1 (01:01:21):
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