All Episodes

October 10, 2025 24 mins

Book a Discovery Call for Relationship Renovation Coaching

Or email us directly at coaching@relationshiprenovation.com with the subject line “Couples Coaching Application.” 

Take the Emotional Safety Assessment Quiz

Join Our Patreon Community

Are you tired of small habits turning into big fights? Do you wish your partner could just “know” how you feel—without you having to explain it every time?

In this episode of Relationship Renovation, Tarah and EJ Kerwin share how hidden assumptions and unspoken judgments quietly chip away at intimacy. Drawing from a recent psychodrama training and their own marriage, they reveal how a simple act like fixing a partner’s hair uncovered 15 years of miscommunication and resentment.

You’ll learn:

  • Why assumptions and daily habits can trigger unexpected tension
  • How to use the “Empty Chair” technique for safe, honest conversations
  • Simple ways to stop wishing your partner could read your mind—and start creating emotional safety instead


If you’re ready to turn everyday frustrations into opportunities for growth and connection, this episode offers both heartfelt stories and actionable tools.

🎧 Listen now to start breaking free from assumptions and building a stronger, more intentional relationship.



Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donations

Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Mark as Played

Advertise With Us

Popular Podcasts

Stuff You Should Know
Dateline NBC

Dateline NBC

Current and classic episodes, featuring compelling true-crime mysteries, powerful documentaries and in-depth investigations. Follow now to get the latest episodes of Dateline NBC completely free, or subscribe to Dateline Premium for ad-free listening and exclusive bonus content: DatelinePremium.com

The Breakfast Club

The Breakfast Club

The World's Most Dangerous Morning Show, The Breakfast Club, With DJ Envy, Jess Hilarious, And Charlamagne Tha God!

Music, radio and podcasts, all free. Listen online or download the iHeart App.

Connect

© 2025 iHeartMedia, Inc.