Sex Stories

Sex Stories

How do we connect? What makes a mutually satisfying relationship? What are other people into? These are real human stories. Guests share details of their personal lives and/or work to add emotional context to the confusing experience of attempting to relate to other human beings. The goal? To learn from and more deeply understand one another through exchanges of personal wisdom and experience. The focus is always connection and intimacy in our modern world: relationships, dating, friendship, cultural “norms” and taboos. Conversations explore vulnerability, shame, desire, pleasure, celebration, creative bucket lists, fantasy play spaces, irresistible invitations and so much more. Listen and share to co-create the story-based, connection-first sex ed we never got—but will all definitely benefit from. Let's co-create the new horizon of personal education, together. Let's learn from each other & spread ripples of love. Follow us on our new instagram: www.instagram.com/xstoriespod Created and hosted by Wyoh Lee | wyohlee.com Edited and produced by Jason Defillippo | Contact | sexstoriespodcast@gmail.com Share a story or be a guest: sexstoriespodcast.com/guest

Episodes

August 8, 2025 64 mins

Hidden cameras, cum-as-lube, and deep emotional sex—Casey shares how healing from shame and trauma led to the hottest, most connected sex of his life.

 

📈 STATS | 30s gay bisexual white cis male, he/him pronouns, in a committed gay partnership after a decade of heterosexual marriage,  from the US South, into: double ended toys, cum play, and really connected sex.

 

TIME CODE

00:00 From straight marriage to gay partnership and a 2 on ...

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Exploring impact play, swinger parties, and the power of dominant caregiving—Windham shares how shame gave way to full-spectrum connection.


 

📈 STATS | 53 straight white cis man, divorced, partnered, kinky dom/daddy, former journalist, current higher ed professional, lives in Boston, into: chains, padlocks, saliva, pee, group sex, impact play, spanking benches, restraint furniture, homemade porn, and emotional vulnerability


 

TIME C...

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Hands-free orgasms, pine-needle sex, and choir room hookups—Mercedes shares how she's finding power, pleasure, and play through queer community, public fun, and creative consent.
 

📈 STATS | 18 bisexual white cis femme, kinky, queer, drag king.
 

TIME CODE

00:00 Meet Mercedes: bisexual, kinky, masochist-sadist switch, drag king, and public play enthusiast
05:06 Negotiating her first scene as a submissive with cords, drawing, and wax
10...

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Auto-fellatio, chastity cages, lactation play, and collaborative kink—Alec shares beautifully detailed stories from his decades-long monogamous partnership full of creativity, curiosity, and kinky exploration.
 

📈 STATS | 37 pansexual heteromantic white cis male, in a monogamous relationship with his partner of 17 years.

 

TIME CODE

00:00 Shame levels, shiniest secrets, and the difference between privacy and shame
04:46 The secret sex...

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From secret smut and sneaky blowjobs to BDSM, polyamory, and praise kink—Princess shows us what it means to carve out a joyful, rebellious sex life in a place where queerness is criminalized.

 

📈 STATS | 20 queer Nigerian cis-woman, n a polyamorous relationship with her Dom who loves to praise her and call her Princess, student architect, product designer, from Lagos, Nigeria, into: group sex, rope bondage, role play, impact play, B...

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Glory holes, gangbang fantasies, and a strap-on-wielding Mistress—Matt shares stories of getting railed in sex shop mazes, hotel room chainbangs, and joyfully navigating bisexuality in and beyond his open marriage.
 

📈 STATS | 39 bisexual white male, married, into: orgies, anonymous sex, butt stuff, kink.

 

TIME CODE

00:00 Shame, public image, and discovering porn mags at dad’s shop
04:23 Getting hard in middle school showers and bein...

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Deep throat, anal, threesomes, and a Colosseum blowjob—Susanne shares how she went from faking orgasms and self-abandonment to reclaiming her body, desire, and kinky power in a new relationship that centers her pleasure.


📈 STATS | 47 heteroflexible cis femme from Denmark in a new relationship that’s a few weeks old.

 

TIME CODE

00:00 Shame-free and thriving: how she transformed her relationship to sex
01:07 Divorce, discovery, and th...

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June 24, 2025 3 mins

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🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!

SDC: A place for swingers to connect

FIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% off

BEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sex

BUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the cod...

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Wyoh raves about daily sex and her Superbrothel, Kimberly reaches new sexy heights with hands, plus a lot of WOO HOO wins and smile-inducing stories from sweet listeners in this update and mailbag episode.


 

00:00 Overview + Kimberly’s masturbation wins!!!

13:14 Why Wyoh LOVES multiple days of sex in a row!!!

29:36 Q: I *almost* fractured a penis—will it happen again?

41:56 Q: Advice for a sexless married guy?

44:17 E’s heavenly erotic e...

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29 bisexual woman, she/her pronouns, ex-Mormon, ethically non-monogamous, polyamorous, in a committed relationship, porn star, content creator, legal courtesan at Sheri’s Ranch, originally from Utah, Vegas-based, into: extended vanilla deliciousness, all things sensual, deep human connection, exploring power play, interesting experiences off- and on-camera, and exhibitionism.


 

Topics mentioned:

Abstinence education, adult film indust...

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33 bisexual sapiosexual genderfluid woman, she/they pronouns, polyamorous, situationally monogamous, submissive brat, poet, pole dancer, in recovery from sexual assault-related PTSD, wrote their Master’s thesis on the poetry of rape trauma, Pākeha New Zealander, into: exhibitionism, soft touch, bullet vibrators, 69ing, powerful poetry, dirty talk, and sex by the sea.


 

Topics mentioned:

Aotearotica, affirmation, arousal, being adored,...

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36 bisexual non-binary human, she/her pronouns, polyamorous, artist sex worker, indie content creator, porn performer, from Chicago, based in Los Angeles, into: cosplay, monster horror, smell, spit, all things sloppy, big tits, and getting into pain.

 

Topics Mentioned:

Adult feature, alien, BDSM, body fluids, bondage, boobs, Burning Man, cam model, clothespins, collab, content creator, consent, costume, cuck queen, cum, deep throat, ...

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33 queer transgender man, he/him pronouns, single, gay, ethically non-monogamous, barber, from Massachusetts, based in California, into: daddies, bottoming, switching, giving oral, licking, biting, spanking, exploring, and hiking.


 

Topics Mentioned:

Adrenaline bonding, adventurous dates, anal play, armpit sex, art as healing, ball sucking, blowjob, body autonomy, car sex, communication in relationships, consent, daddy play, dating, d...

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46 straight-but-interesting cis white male, 15 years of solo-poly, relationship anarchy experience, teacher, artist, entrepreneur, parent, kind and gentle and very kinky, from BC, Canada, into: power play, practices and teaches shibari workshops, learning and practicing healthy poly dynamics, journaling, meditation, personal development

 

Topics mentioned:

Polyamory, solo poly, relationship anarchy, non-monogamy, open relationships, k...

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36 bisexual woman, she/her pronouns, single unicorn, onlyfans creator, performer, US Midwest, into: unicorning, exhibitionism, sensual partnered experiences, senior citizens (including nursing homes), creating content with fans, anal gang bangs.


 

Topics mentioned:

Anal gangbang, arousal, ass, authenticity, bisexual, blowjob, butt plugs, Chicago, cock, connection, content creation, creampie, creativity, curiosity, deep penetration, ex...

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55 straight man, he/him pronouns, non-monogamous, married for 25 years to a woman 15 years his senior, dating girlfriend of eight years, athlete, lover California-based, into: living in the moment, older women, pleasing, worshiping, lingerie, role play, outdoor sex, communication, sharing fantasies, hands-on sex education, learning languages, traveling the world, moving his body.


 

Topics mentioned:

Age gap relationships, open relatio...

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36 straight Canadian woman, she/her pronouns, monogamous, naked news anchor and adult content creator from Toronto, Canada, into: nudity, public sex, flashing, massage, connection, eye contact, fitness, love and romance.


 

Topics mentioned: 

Nude modeling, sexual shame, Flex Appeal (naked news workout segment), healthy lifestyle, feeling sexy, hardworking men, farmers, construction workers, sweaty men, handy men, first blowjob, losing...

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A total power exchange with his wife, partner-focused pleasure, and exploring piss play—Steve shares how his 20-year vanilla relationship transitioned into a consciously designed, mutually nurturing connection.


 

00:00 Scalding hot baths, outdoorsy adventures, and grounding in himself

06:16 A magnetic spiritual connection with his partner and how they balance their disparate relationship needs

12:17 How a 24/7 dynamic with contracts an...

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Mermaid roleplay, creating sexy safe spaces, and de-stigmatizing sex work—Kaylani shares how working at a legal brothel has led her down a path of self-discovery, independence, and deeper human connection.


 

00:00 Why sex work is “intimacy therapy”

03:20 Community, conquering shame, and feeling empowered as a legal courtesan

09:15 Creating safe judgement-free sexy spaces that allows lovers to express their vulnerability

12:51 Mermaid ro...

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