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April 2, 2024 34 mins

I am diving into a powerful conversation with my client and dear friend, David Ray, who's recently launched his first book, Inner Sales Child: Unlocking Sales Success by Tapping into Childhood Wisdom! Together, we explore the transformative journey of embracing authenticity in sales and life, drawing from David's personal experiences and insights shared in his book.

We unpack the importance of authenticity in sales, navigating the gap between our internal selves and external personas, and the profound impact of fear and judgment on our journeys. David shares valuable strategies for creating an environment where sales can naturally occur and emphasizes the significance of integrating masculine and feminine energies in our approach.

David and I also discuss efficiency in sales processes, uncovering the vital few actions that drive results and exploring ways to work smarter, not harder. As David opens up about his creative process, the significance of storytelling, and the unexpected opportunities that arise from embracing authenticity, you'll find inspiration and actionable insights to propel your own sales journey forward.

 

Show Notes:

[1:26] - David expresses gratitude to me for my support and encouragement throughout our shared journey.
[3:26] - David emphasizes the importance of authenticity in sales and its impact on building trust and rapport.
[6:12] - I share my journey of rediscovering my authentic self in my sales career.
[7:59] - Fear held David back in his career and from sharing his story, until he realized that fear is a choice.
[9:48] - David encourages us to embrace vulnerability, emphasizing that those who judge likely haven't experienced similar struggles.
[12:36] - Embracing empathy and understanding in sales, regardless of gender, leads to deeper connections and better results.
[15:19] - Balancing masculine and feminine energies in sales emphasizes both outcomes and the journey to achieve them.
[18:08] - I highlight David's childhood story, linking it to efficiency concepts crucial in sales consultation.
[19:17] - David discusses the importance of establishing and evaluating a personalized sales process for efficiency improvements.
[21:56] - Sales doesn't have to be a constant grind; focus on core elements for efficiency and growth.
[24:28] - Prioritize family and focus on making people feel valued in both personal and professional endeavors.
[27:14] - Learn how to contact David.
[29:48] - David feels that sharing personal stories through audiobooks and recording with authenticity sparks creativity and opportunities for growth.
[31:17] - I strongly encourage listeners to grab a copy of David's book!
[33:12] - Receive my free guide on increasing your closing rate by 50%!

 

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