Single Mother Survival Guide

Having my son Sebastian this year has brought back so many memories of when my daughter was a baby, and it’s been surprisingly triggering at times. By the time she was five months old, I had already split from her dad, moved interstate, and was in the thick of setting up a new life as a single mum. Reflecting on that time in my life now, with the hindsight of experience, has left me wondering: what would I do differently if I were ...

In this week’s episode, I’m bringing you Part 2 of my conversation with Annie, a single mum who has walked through immense challenges and come out stronger. In this instalment, Annie opens up about life as a single mum and the reinvention of herself, including the surgery that transformed her quality of life and the importance of surrounding herself with the right people. We talk about the struggle...

This week, I’m sharing Part 1 of my powerful interview with Annie, a single mum who courageously opens up about her journey. Annie has faced more than her fair share of challenges. Today, she stands as a thriving, empowered woman who has reclaimed her voice and her personal power.

In this episode, Annie and I talk about:

For many single mums, Father’s Day can feel less like a celebration and more like an emotional hurdle. It can bring up feelings of sadness, frustration, or even resentment (whether your children’s dad is still in their lives or completely absent). In this episode, I share gentle, practical ways to navigate the day: supporting your children’s emotions, caring for your own wellbeing, and finding an approach that works for your unique...

This week, my podcast turns 9 years old – can you believe it?! When I started Single Mother Survival Guide, I hoped it might reach one or two single mums and help them feel less alone. Now, nearly a million downloads later, I’m pinching myself. This episode is extra special because it’s also my first time recording in 2025, after taking some time off to welcome ...

As single mums, life often feels like a balancing act. On one hand, you’re the loving, nurturing parent your children need. On the other, you might feel pressure to become the “fun parent” they want. Throw co-parenting into the mix - especially with an ex who takes on the role of the Disneyland Dad, prioritising fun over routine - and that balance can feel impossible to maintain. But here’s the truth: being the fun parent isn’t all...

Navigating life as a single mum can feel overwhelming, especially when dealing with the added complexities of a high-conflict relationship. Whether it’s managing co-parenting with a difficult ex or processing the emotional toll of separation, it’s easy to feel stuck. In this episode, we explore how therapy and coaching can empower single mums to reclaim control, build resilience, and create a more peaceful environment for themselve...

In a world dominated by social media and its endless stream of "perfect" parenting snapshots, the pressure on single mums to meet impossible standards can be overwhelming. Juggling work, parenting, and emotional well-being often leaves little room for anything else - and that’s okay. This episode breaks down why the idea of the "perfect mum" is a myth and explores how letting go of perfectionism can lead to a more balanced and fulf...

Divorce and separation can leave us grappling with overwhelming emotions - hurt, betrayal, and anger being just a few. In these difficult moments, blame might feel like a natural reaction, providing a sense of clarity or closure. However, staying stuck in a cycle of blame - whether directed at your ex, circumstances, or even yourself - can act as a barrier to your healing. This episode dives deep into why blame keeps you from movin...

Co-parenting can feel like an uphill battle, especially when communication with your ex is consistently tense or unproductive. Enter parallel parenting - a strategy designed to protect your peace, prioritise your children, and reduce direct conflict with the other parent. In this episode, we explore the core principles of parallel parenting, how it differs from traditional co-parenting, and practical steps to implement this method ...

The middle of the year can feel overwhelming. The initial excitement of new goals has faded, and the reality of juggling work, parenting, and healing from divorce feels heavier. You may even find yourself questioning how you’ll get through the rest of the year. But here’s the truth: a mid-year slump is the perfect moment for reflection and recalibration. In this episode, I share actionable steps to pause, reassess, and recharge you...

Co-parenting can be both rewarding and challenging, especially after separation or divorce. While the shared goal is to provide a stable, loving environment for your children, differences in parenting styles, schedules, or communication can lead to conflict. In this episode, I delve into the five most common areas where co-parents often disagree and provide practical tools to manage these issues effectively. By the end, you’ll feel...

As the middle of the year approaches, it’s a natural time to pause and reflect. Maybe life hasn’t gone as planned, or perhaps the goals you set in January feel more like distant memories. As a single mum, it’s easy to get caught up in the daily grind and lose sight of the bigger picture. This episode is your invitation to embrace a mid-year reset. I’ll guide you through assessing your progress, recalibrating where needed, and reign...

Parenting is always challenging, but when you're healing from trauma, it can feel especially overwhelming. Trauma doesn’t just stay within you; its effects ripple out, often impacting your children in ways that are subtle but significant. As mums, we want to protect our kids from the weight of our struggles, but children are incredibly perceptive—they often sense more than we realise. In this episode, we unpack the ripple effect of...

Stress can feel like an ever-present companion, especially during major life transitions such as divorce, single parenting, or navigating career changes. For single mums, the demands of parenting, financial management, and maintaining personal well-being can sometimes become overwhelming, leaving little room to breathe. But stress isn’t just a feeling; it has real effects on both your body and mind, influencing how you show up for ...

Divorce is one of life’s most challenging experiences, especially for mums navigating the complexities of parenting solo. In this episode, we explore why self-care isn’t a luxury - it’s an essential tool for managing stress, staying emotionally resilient, and being the best version of yourself for your children. From practical tips to mindset shifts, we’ll uncover ways to help you prioritise your well-being while thriving in this n...

Anger is a natural part of the healing process, especially during significant life transitions like divorce. In this episode, we discuss how to identify, process, and channel your anger into constructive transformation. By understanding and managing this powerful emotion, you can take steps toward emotional freedom and a healthier mindset.

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Divorce is a challenging experience, and navigating it often requires guidance and support. But not all advice is created equal. While many divorce coaches provide helpful insights, there are some hard truths they might avoid sharing. These truths, though difficult to hear, can empower you to take control of your life and move forward with clarity and strength. In this episode, I share five things most divorce coaches are too afrai...

As single mums, the way we speak to ourselves—shaped by trauma, pain, and fear—can deeply influence not only our lives but also the lives of our children. In this episode, I explore the profound effects of negative self-talk and share practical strategies to help you heal, break the cycle, and prevent these patterns from affecting your children. Let’s create a future rooted in positivity, growth, and resilience. You've got this, my...