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January 14, 2025 21 mins
Life offers an endless rotation of surprises, so the only thing not surprising is our desire for order—often in the form of control. When we believe we can control what goes on around us, we can somewhat come to terms with the way our lives unfold. But controlling everything is impossible, and when we make that our aim, consciously or not, it can leave us on edge and erode our relationships. In this podcast episode, Darlene Brock and Julie Bender discuss all the areas we might find hard to control—our tongues, our children, our appetite for more—and when our desire for control inches into dangerous territory. If you brand yourself a control freak, or if others around you suggest as much, you'll learn some tips for reining in your tendency to control your circumstances so you can begin to graciously accept your life for what it is—ups and downs included.   Quote of the episode: “Your way isn't the only way, and it may not even be the best one.” —Julie Bender Resources Related "How to Control Your Feelings So They Don't Control You" with Dr. Zoe - 247 "Grasping for Control? A Counselor Explains How to Stop" Mentioned Check out the Smart Living book series here! Be sure to follow us on social media! Facebook Instagram Twitter Pinterest #gritandgracelife
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