So Shameless

So Shameless

Tahoe, Ms. DajahBelle and Dj Trauma talk relationships, friendships, life issues, finance, sex, and everything about men that annoys women.

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October 28, 2025 72 mins
Welcome Back to So Shameless! This week we welcome JD back as Tahoe asks Daj why she doesnt show her friends more empathy when they have a problem with the way she treats them..Be back later with more!

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We get back into this episode featuring Lola Thee Divine as we talk D'Angelos passing, an older man says women saying men shouldnt date younger women is manipulation, Mama Dee getting strippers for 14 year old Scrappy, a girl shames a man for not letting her grab his peen, a mother said her son will not be dating black girls, a cease and desist letter that was sent to the show and Tahoe gets called a broke boy by an old fling. ENJO...
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October 21, 2025 76 mins
Trouble brews on part one of this episode as the friend Tahoe and Daj spoke about who didn't invite tahoe to his party calls in to set a few things (and people) straight. Lola joins us to be the voice of reason as we talk friend wounds and Dajs trauma with dealing with friends she feels dont appreciate her. 

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Welcome back to Part Two!

We get back into the convo with Kira J and JD about a woman feeling pressured by her children to get a man so they can have a "real" family and JD's previous claim that he isnt really pressed to date a woman with kids, an woman who says she left her childs fathers other child at school when the school called her to pick up both of the children, a woman asking men what do they lack that they need for women t...
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This week we welcome spoken word artist Kira J and podcast host JD to talk her new album I Have No Idea What I'm Doing". We talk being in love with a friend and wanting more, being depressed and being a friend to someone who suffers from depression, the time period that it takes to actually get over a break up with someone, and your child wanting you to get a boyfriend so that they can have a "real fam...
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Welcome back to part two of this weeks episode as we dive right back into the conversation about the Nicki and Cardi beef, Tahoe speaks on being a fulltime father, a teacher singing a offensive song to one of her students, and telling a new partner that you had relations with their friend in the past... ENJOY!

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This week we welcome friend of the show, LolaTheeDivine back to the couch as we talk Tahoes coworker stepping on his new sneakers, a situation where Tahoe feels a way (again) that he wasnt invited to a party, and how we feel about the Diddy verdict. Tune into part two this thursday as we talk Nicki vs Cardi B! ENJOY!

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Welcome Back for Part Two of this weeks episode featuring @JDTheOpinionated! 

We get right back into the convo as we talk teachers dress code in the past vs the way teachers dress today, occupations that would make a person not dateable, baby books that focus on the LGBTQ community, and Candace Owens remarks about the trans community. Enjoy!

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Welcome Back No Shame Gang!!

This week we welcome JD The Opinionated to talk Tahoe calling him metrosexual, women giving bare minimum behavior when going out with her man vs when going out with her girls, a man asking his wife not to get on birth control and her reaction to it, a husband who doesnt listen to his wife, and a woman puts a man on blast because his daughter got into the bed with them while she was sleeping over. ENJOY!!...
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September 26, 2025 74 mins
Welcome Back Guys!!!

We return to the conversation with Wolf Taylor about the effects of gentrification in Brooklyn, how we feel about Dame Dash appearance on the Breakfast Club, if ten guys were trying to fight your girl would you rather run with Charlegmagne or fight with Dame Dash, Cardi B's new album and how we feel about her pregnancy with Stephon Diggs baby, and Camron protecting black women?? Enjoy!

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Welcome Back To So Shameless!!

This week we welcome content creator Wolf Taylor as we talk Traumas traveling adventures in Hong Kong, the Charlie Kirk conversation, is Drake bigger than Hip Hop, Jay Z's failed attempt to put a casino in Times Square and was the gentrification of Brooklyn really a bad thing?

Stay Tuned for part two releasing this Friday or head to our patreon to listen to the full episode Ad free right now at Patreon....
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September 11, 2025 69 mins
Tahoe speaks about the Young Thug situation and an interview with Jada Pinkett.
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September 9, 2025 114 mins
Welcome Back Guys! This week Daj and Yesssterday are on their own for a few as they talk their experience with the kids as they start a new school year, kids having a mental health day, the Young Thug situation with his interrogation video and his phone calls being released, then Kasha Vanessa joins them to talk mental health and pillow talking with your partner, honesty and how the different genders actually respond to it, the dif...
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September 2, 2025 111 mins
This week we invite Tahoe and Dajs friend Scroooge to the show as we talk the whole YSL debacle, sharing finances in relationships, when is the right time for money to be given or asked for when you start dating, at what point men get tired of providing, are all women born to be nurturers, the affect of single fathers vs single mothers on their children, Tahoe and his new kittens, Scrooges card game, aand MORE! ENJOY!!!

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August 26, 2025 132 mins
In this episode we welcome @TheAngieLolo of the @TalkThatShhh podcast and it gets hot right from the start as he explains to Daj why he doesnt think she likes men. Then we talk the influence of the younger generation vs the influence of Daj and Yesssterdays generation. Paul Pierce urges men to seek out a 5 or 6 vs trying to get with a 10. Dating women who refer to themselves as a baddie, a guy who used to do all the little things f...
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August 14, 2025 89 mins
Welcome back to part two of this weeks episode.

A wife cheats on her husband, getting a hall pass from your wife, men not being in serious relationships until their lives are fully together, and modern feminism is the number one destroyer of relationships today? ENJOY!

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August 12, 2025 77 mins
Welcome Back NSG! This week we well Gladymir from the Toxic With Benefits podcast to talk Tahoe choosing between business and his friends services, choosing not to go to funerals of close friends or family members, separating yourself from ppl who didnt grow up the way you did, and the controversy surrounding the Martin show and the jabs thrown towards Pam. Tune in this thursday for part two or hit the patreon to listen to the whol...
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August 6, 2025 163 mins
Tahoe tells a story about his life and losing his best friend to a tragic accident. 
TRIGGER WARNING ..this is deep.

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July 31, 2025 74 mins
Welcome back to part two of So Shameless!

We continue the episode with the top ten struggles that men face, Malcolm Jamal Warners tragic passing, RIP Hulk Hogan?? De-Blacking a home and would yall put your kids on a no room policy? ENJOY!!!
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July 29, 2025 79 mins
Welcome Back NSG!

This week the crew receive a call from a listener about a letter his wife wrote to the Hard Or Soft show. The convo got really interesting as he admitted to cheating and needing more than what he felt that his wife was willing to accept in their relationship. Then we follow up with women needing to sleep more than men?? lol interesting topic indeed...ENJOY!!! 

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