Jason Gots, podcaster and author of Humanity is Trying: Experiments in Living with Grief, Finding Connection, and Resisting Easy Answers, on the nature of human suffering, living with grief, and the Buddhist approach to addiction and self-discipline. In the episode we discuss:
-Jason’s drinking history and what led to him getting sober curious
-How Buddhist ideas and practices have influenced his relationship with alcohol
-The conversation with his father than helped his sober curiosity stick
-Having a lot of “drunken poets” as his early heroes, and letting go of his romantic associations with booze
-How a culture of “survivalism” has been passed down the generations, and different generations’ responses to this
-What the show Euphoria shows us about shifting motivations for substance use and abuse
-The role that alcohol and other substances played in his relationship with his sister, and in her death in 2015
-Medicating our grief – for both the people and the things we have lost, and the things we fear we will never be able to have
-Self-discipline as both punishment and liberation – and the role of “friendly curiosity” in supporting healthy new habits
-The Buddhist concept of “the middle way,” and why it’s so hard to achieve this – through moderation – with a substance like alcohol
Learn more about Jason and his work HERE, get your copy of Humanity is Trying HERE, and listen to the Clever Creature podcast HERE.
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