Sounds Fake But Okay

Sounds Fake But Okay

A podcast where an aromantic asexual girl and a biromantic demisexual girl talk about all things to do with love, relationships, sexuality, and pretty much anything else that they just don't understand.

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June 29, 2025 62 mins

Hey what's up hello! As June wraps up, we reflect on Pride 2025 - the lack of corporate pride, aspecs at pride events, and rampant biphobia. And do we get a little bit off topic sometimes? Of course we do.

See you in August!

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Hey what's up hello! This week we look at examples of times when changing your interests or look for the sake of a crush actually turned out to be a good thing. We know it's shocking and gross, but could changing yourself for a crush actually be good??

Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/could-changing-for-a-crush-be-a-good-thing   

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June 15, 2025 58 mins

Hey what's up hello! This week we play romance and dating choose your own adventure stories on chooseyourstory.com! Spoiler alert: it goes about as well as you think it will.

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Hey what's up hello! This week we discuss how society's current conception of womanhood clashes with asexual and aromantic identities. Can gender and sexuality be separated? What does it mean to be a woman when you don't desire or want to be desired? All that and more (after 10 minutes of girlhood and yapping at the top of the episode of course).

Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/can-womanhood-and-...

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Hey what's up hello! We are back and so are the people who make so many bad decisions and then post about them on Reddit.

Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/reddit-rabbit-hole-aita-pt-17   

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Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about a new study that found that having a cat or a dog to keep you company could boost your wellbeing as much as being married. The only problem is the study makes absolutely no sense and we don't understand math. Either way, pets are important!!!

Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/pets-boost-wellbeing-more-than-partners    

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Hey what's up hello! This week we're joined by Debbie Urbanski to talk about her excellent collection of short stories, Portalmania. Portalmania dives bravely into the shadowy depths of betrayal, parenthood, revenge, murder, coercive sex, open marriages, asexuality, neurodiversity, and second chances.

Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/portalmania-by-debbie-urbanski   

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Hey what's up hello! This week we discuss the phenomenon of queer women loving boy bands and yell from the mountaintops about how you can be a boy band fan without finding any of the band members attractive!!!

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April 27, 2025 54 mins

Hey what's up hello! This week we're reading some more lore submitted by our listeners.

Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/listener-lore-pt-4   

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April 20, 2025 50 mins

Hey what's up hello! This week we discuss the overlap between transphobia and aphobia and the importance of trans aspec solidarity.

TW: transphobia

Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/trans-aspec-solidarity   

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April 13, 2025 49 mins

Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about making assumptions about people. They really do make an ass out of you and me. 

Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/making-assumptions   

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April 6, 2025 58 mins

Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about doing things by yourself when they are normally done as a couple or in a group. 

Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/doing-things-alone   

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March 30, 2025 47 mins

You know what time it is.

Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/reddit-rabbit-hole-pt-16  

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March 23, 2025 56 mins

Hey what's up hello! Today we talk about the morning shed, appealing to various gazes, and other such beauty standard shenanigans. 

Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/beauty-standards   

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March 16, 2025 65 mins

Hey what's up hello! Today we have LOTS of house to keep. Then, we talk about the importance of celebrating major life events that aren't allo-centric things like weddings or baby showers.

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March 9, 2025 47 mins

Hey what's up hello! Some people are giving things up for Lent. We have ideas. 

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March 2, 2025 55 mins

Hey what's up hello! We're back reading Reddit stories with a heavy detour to Bologna Fest.

Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/reddit-rabbit-hole-pt-15  

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February 23, 2025 75 mins

Hey what's up hello! This week we're chatting with Dee Whitnell about their new book Beyond Bananas and Condoms: The LGBTQIA+ Inclusive Sex Education You Never Got at School. 

Episode Transript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/inclusive-sex-ed-feat-dee-whitnell   

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February 16, 2025 62 mins

Hey what's up hello! This week we're celebrating Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week by chatting with Rachel Levi and Kerry Chin, two of the authors of AUREA's upcoming book on aromanticism!

Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/aro-week-feat-aurea   

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February 9, 2025 44 mins

Hey what's up hello! This week we talk about emophilia - a psychological trait that describes people who fall in love easily, quickly, and often. Personally, we cannot relate.

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