T&A Talk Sex

T&A Talk Sex

"Sexy, witty, & smart". T&A Talk Sex is a podcast hosted by a professional cuddler and a sexual healer. T&A (Christina Hepburn & Stephanie Allen), two treasure troves of sensuality and intimate connection, were baffled by how many of their lovers and clients marveled at their sensual capacities, yet fumbled when it came to their own. In service to humanity (and themselves!), T&A share the wisdom from their real life experience with what works and what doesn’t work to create deep, human connection and juicy sex. From frisky sexual encounters to contemplating marriage, these women’s anthropological approach to their love lives can’t help but give you insight into your own. Gentlemen, thrill at the brilliance of a thoughtful female look into what women want and need, and ladies, find the empowerment in relationships and sex you’ve always wanted. Find us on IG @TAtalksex

Episodes

How Can Fire on the Skin Feel Good?! Fire Play & Consent w/ guest Wry!

February 9, 2018 • 69 mins
T, Christina Hepburn, meets with Wry, a speaker, events planner & fetish performer, to talk fire play (that's right, fire ...on the skin!), the BDSM scene, healthy consent communication, and all of its challenges - the ways someone can fall short of using their voice, and what we can do about it.  He also share about his own journey into this world! It's a lively conversation on both ends, sharing about our personal lives and persp...
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Aziz Ansari & a Culture of Objectifying w/ Dating Advice Girl, Ep. 152

January 18, 2018 • 50 mins
There's a lot of sparring on social media over whether the Aziz Ansari story amounts to "just bad sex" or if it speaks to something more about our relationship to sex in American culture, and how we can educate ourselves to practice true consent.  Christina chats with Dating Advice Girl, Erin Tillman, @datingadvicegrl, about the nuances of the encounter, what's really going on in our culture around objectification and dehumanizatio...
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Get Inspired to Make a Difference in the new year! w/ Lauren Stephenson, Ep.151

December 28, 2017 • 39 mins
Get inspired to make a difference! Christina met up with Lauren Stephenson in NYC to find out how she started the organization Women to the Front.  The conversation starts in media res discussing the current feminism movements and how to navigate all the differnt opinions, and launches in to how Lauren went from feeling powerless after the 2016 election, to empowering herself and a group of friends to take action on the specific is...
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How do I Communicate in My Relationship? w/John Rosania of Honesty Lab, ep.150

December 21, 2017 • 63 mins
John Rosania, founder of Honesty Lab (www.honesty-lab.com) talks with Christina about how to really thrive in your relationship - What if you just said what you're actually thinking in your relationships, during sex, and anywhere else you happen to be? The results are better communication, more intimacy, personal growth, and full bodies forgiveness.  Christina did a workshop with John that was remarkable, so Christina invited him o...
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T&A get bullied for talking sex & intimacy!

November 13, 2017 • 16 mins
Some of you may have caught the angry blitz on Christina's social media profile, as well as T&A's Patreon account.  An interesting scenario unfolded where the wife of an acquaintance felt she was a threat due to her work as a professional cuddlist.  T&A talk about the experience of being harassed, and how this person might have approached her frustration differently for positive growth. Meanwhile Christina coaches a friend through ...
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Time to Make a Change and Get your Libido back This Fall! Ep.149

November 9, 2017 • 53 mins
Stephanie (A) shares that she's moving to Boulder! Why? When?! She's ready for a change this fall!  She gets candid with Christina (T) about waiting too long, even when her inner voice said 'it's time'.  How does holding ourselves back hurt us in and out of the bedroom? How can we be more proactive to make those changes necesary in our lives? Christina shares what's new in her life, and how she's had to move on from relationships t...
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How a Lady Finds her Mojo, Why We Should Care + Getting the Guys Involved Ep149

November 3, 2017 • 35 mins
'A' talks to Deborah Kagan, women's mojo recovery specialist, speaker and author about what exactly female empowerment IS and why it is essential to a woman and a couple's well-being and yes, sex life.   Plus, how we go about empowering the ladies, without forgetting our wonderful men.  Tune in to this backstage interview at the 'Rock Your Mojo Women's Weekend' 'A' recently atteneded, to hear Deborah's philosophy and experience wit...
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How to Be the Hot 'Bad Boy' w/o Being a D*ck plus Men's Pubic Hair Ep 148

October 26, 2017 • 67 mins
Women love the alpha male and the 'bad boy', but if you're a conscientious dude, how do you manage to give women what they crave sexually while abstaining from acting like a total douche?  Where's the balance? And what does being a 'bad boy' even mean? T&A are here to set the record straight and share their own experiences.  Plus, men's body hair- so rarely talked about and so much to say!  If you're even wondering what the hell we...
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Harvey Weinstein, #MeToo, & the scandal that’s rocking our sexual culture! Ep147

October 19, 2017 • 75 mins
T&A talk with Obi, former men's relationship coach, & creator of Dude Panel, about the Harvey Weinstein scandal that is helping to redefine gender dynamics in America.  What does this show us about our culture, and the ways men and women communicate? How do we shift away from this behavior, and give our youth practical tools to have healthy relationships? Micro-aggressions or low level sexual harrasment is pervasive.  How can men b...
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Usher Gets Sued for Having Herpes + Involuntary Arousal from Hot Daughters Ep146

August 18, 2017 • 52 mins
Usher's getting sued for not disclosing he had herpes before sex and passing the STI along.... so much to unwrap with this one! No pun intended haha.  Plus the girls respond to a concerned dad who can't help his involuntary erections when his hot teen daughter wants to cuddle.  For a dad who wants to model a healthy male relationship with his daughter, he can't just push her away- what to do?  Plus, this is the first full episode o...
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Ask T&A: Am I Being Safe or Paranoid About STI's? Low Libido+ BC Options Ep 145

August 3, 2017 • 99 mins
On this month's episode of Ask T&A, a young listener writes in about her concerns entering the casual sex scene.  At 23 y.o and having one sexual partner, she asks her potential lovers to show her paper proof of their STI history even if they're going to use a condom.  Is this too much, or just enough?  Plus, given all the recent hubbub about birth control, what are the best options?  Then - low libido at 23, how can I get more int...
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Anatomy of a Divorce: One Man's Hindsight that Could Help Us All Ep. 144

July 27, 2017 • 42 mins
While 'T's away in europe, 'A' interviews her insightful friend 'Richard' who looks back on his marriage of just under 20 years to share his key takeaways of what exactly went wrong and shares the major pitfalls and what he would have done to avoid them.  It's always hepful to learn from our mistakes, and the mistakes of others!  And Richard's story is no exception.  A great episode to hear for any human being who might ever be in ...
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Guys We F*cked Podcast- How Does Sex Podcasting Affect Your Sex Life? Ep 143

July 20, 2017 • 14 mins
Talking about your sex life publicly isn't always easy.  In this week's mini-episode, 'T&A' grab a quick chat with Corinne Fisher and Krystyna Hutchinson from the hit podcast Guys We F*cked on just that topic.  Listen in as the girls talk shop and share an inside look at how speaking openly about their action has both hurt and helped their sex lives.  Always in support of those raising their voices to change the game on female sexu...
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T&A R Back w/ T's Cuddle Work, Choosing a Partner & Teens in Thong Bikinis Ep142

July 6, 2017 • 74 mins
After months of seperation due to 'A's travel sabbatical, T&A are back together and have so. much. to. talk. about.  'A' sums up here travel experience- why she went and what she got out of it and then the girls give a sexy reading in english of the hot lyrics to the latin smash hit Despacito. 'T' shares her latest professional endeavor- Cuddling! Yep, she's a professional cuddler (what could be more appropriate?!) as well as her a...
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Periods Shouldn't be Painful? How?!! Dr. Lara Briden explains to T and Tate!

May 11, 2017 • 60 mins
Ladies, the Period Repair Manual is here! We are not small men, meaning we have our own complex hormone system that has purpose and works in our favor if we maintain it! T talks with Dr. Lara Briden, naturopathic doctor with 20 years experience and author of Period Repair Manual, who breaks it down for us. Tate of Cuddle Domme from ep. 140 guest co-hosts, and shares their experience with endometriosis, allowing Dr. Briden to discus...
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Ask T&A: Does Talking Sex Kill the Beauty of Sex? w/ Guest Cuddle Domme, Tate!

April 13, 2017 • 68 mins
Guest, Tate, a queer cuddle domme, chats thoughtfully and articulately with T (Christina Hepburn) about whether or not "over-analyzing sex kills the beauty of sex?" If it doesn't kill the beauty, why not? How can we avoid monotony with sex? And furthermore, what exaclty is a cuddle domme? Tate explains their work as a cuddle domme, and what they accomplish in a session with individuals seeking their skill set.  T and Tate get perso...
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Is a Foot Fetish Really Strange? or is there Science behind honoring the foot?

March 30, 2017 • 83 mins
Is the foot fetishist more evolved than the rest of us? T questions what the foot has to offer & if we are overlooking an opportunity for greater connection through our feet & ears by chatting with a foot, hand, and ear reflexologist, Christina Crabtree (https://www.facebook.com/touchbalanceyoga). David Rodwin, guest co-host (www.jadelake.com), storyteller & filmmaker, inquires about her kundalini yoga practice.  How is kundalini d...
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The Best Way to Pee, Poop, Give Birth & Get Back to Great Sex After Birth! Ep138

March 23, 2017 • 70 mins
Ep. 138, What is a pelvic floor therapist? There's a whole doctor dedicated to my vagina? Sara Chan Reardon, a women's pelvic health therapist chats with T and the hilarious and smart guest host, Lora Somoza, from the podcast Between the Sheets with Lora Somoza, about how we can all benefit from pelvic muscle relaxation, and all the things that could be causing you trouble down there without you even knowing about it! We also get i...
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How is the traditional dating model failing us? & more w/ Dude Panel's Booda

March 16, 2017 • 75 mins
In this episode 137, T has an intimate chat with Dave Booda of the Dude Panel Podcast, a favorite guest, about our personal approach to relationships, how we've handled pitfalls, and grown, and how the way we, as a culture, approach dating is hurting our ability to connect with that person, how more physical touch amongst friends can be good & not creepy (while Booda massages my feet during the show, hooray), and how to manage that...
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What does the future of sex look like? w/ Bryony of Future of Sex & Malie Mason

March 9, 2017 • 59 mins
T discusses the wild new frontier of sex tech with expert, Bryony Cole from The Future of Sex podcast and comedian, Malie Mason, and what that might mean for real life in-person relationships.  Is it good or bad, or neither? What does it say about our society? How can it help us? How can it hurt us? And how do we use the future of sex to our benefit? We get deep, we laugh, learn and have a good convo about VR , our vibrators, and i...
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