Deep Cut

Talking in depth about particular subjects can open up insight to other possibilities within your own mind, while also shedding light on other people's positions of where they stand. Most times, other people have issues because of their own individual past experiences. Rarely does it really have anything to do with you at that very moment when a heated debate may occur. 

Reality is only a perception that each of us are all experiencing simultaneously yet uniquely in our very own way based on every choice we have ever made on our path of life. It is not duplicable, your life. But the days of it can be through the consistent actions of true dedication and make itself predictable in a way that builds yourself security in your own success with control over your bigger emotions. 

Are you still allowing other people the capability to have control over you like they once did in the past, always triggering you negatively? Do you think you have to keep other people's problems for yourself to solve? YOU DON'T! You can always contribute your effort to help them solve it if you want to, but you are never obligated to carry that shit with you if they cannot resolve their problem! 

That doesn't mean you have to process everything alone, either. You can confide in those close to you to tell them things that matters to you on a much more complex and deeper level. Sharpen your intuition from the lessons you have learned in your past to avoid similar pain in your future. You are capable of overcoming your past trauma through your commitment to always give your best going forward. Give most to your people who love and support you through the darkest days of all, the most devoted fans of all that you are on a deeper level.