August 21, 2023 • 59 mins
Get ready for an intimate conversation with Barbie, host of the renowned Let Me Touch You podcast. Our spirited exchange takes you deep into the world of relationships, exploring everything from modern dating to the significance of communication. We kick things off by sharing our own personal journeys of healing and self-care, emphasizing how these experiences have shaped our lives and relationships. You'll also get a taste of our latest lighthearted creation - the 'Henny Fruit Roll Up', and we discuss why expressing our needs is essential for maintaining healthy relationships.
But what happens when the complexities of adulthood collide with the fun of childhood? Join us as we ponder on what could be deemed as childish behavior in adults. We also dive into the expectations and norms of first dates, from selecting the perfect spot to the amount one should spend. Expect lively debates on modern dating dynamics like going Dutch, initiating the second date, and how the medium of payment can impact perceptions.
As we round off our engaging conversation, we delve into the significance of first date impressions and how they can make or break a relationship. We dissect different payment methods and their attached stigmas, while also stressing the importance of creating memorable experiences. Experience our candid take on balancing the desire to save money and the need for a memorable, bougie experience. This episode is a laughter-filled, thought-provoking journey on navigating love, relationships, and communication. Join us for an episode that's sure to leave you pondering long after the final sign-off.
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
You are now rocking with the brunch hour podcast,
the best hour of the day.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
It's the only podcast I listen to.
Speaker 1 (00:11):
With your host styles .
What's goodie people we allback.
It's another week.
It's another week of me tryingto say hello without saying
hello.
It's just that.
It's just that I'm grateful.
(00:31):
I'm thankful because I do havea really good guest for y'all
today.
I'm going to be pissed off,though.
It's not my wife, and I keepsaying that.
You know she wasn't on thetrial, she last week we joked
about her having a trial periodas far as, like, being a host
and stuff like that.
I promise you it's not that.
That is not that coming tofruition.
(00:53):
And there's a meat grinder overhere.
We do run through host.
However, she won't be one ofthem.
Stuck in a good way, in a goodway.
I hope everybody's week wasgood.
You know, if you're listeningand you're driving, keep your
eyes on the road.
You know, if you're driving toTesla, keep your eyes on the
(01:16):
road, because it's notinfallible.
What else?
If you know somebody who isjust like you and a like is what
we like to call them Send themthe podcast.
The more, the merrier.
You guys will have something totalk about.
It'll be great, right?
So we're going to start theshow.
Well, I'm not even start toshow off, I'm bugging once again
(01:38):
.
We're going to start off withthis, okay, so listen up, listen
closely, follow me.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
I expected you have a Wow.
I expected more.
You should be expecting stuffso early on.
I didn't lie, I didn't lie.
I didn't lie about you two I'mhere for a reason.
Speaker 2 (01:50):
I didn't lie about you two.
I didn't lie about you two.
I didn't lie about you two.
I didn't lie about you two.
I didn't lie about you two.
I didn't lie about you two.
I'm here for a reason.
This is the second day.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
I'm here for a reason .
Speaker 2 (01:59):
I'm here for a reason .
Speaker 3 (02:00):
You're good Because you want to go to the capital to
build?
Okay, I want to go out.
I want to stay in Okay, youshould have told me that you
should communicate.
Speaker 4 (02:08):
I communicate with you.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
Exactly.
You guys don't want tocommunicate, y'all want to say
it.
Speaker 3 (02:12):
Y'all have some of the shots on.
I can really pull up and takeyou where you got from.
Why don't you go with them then?
Okay, why don't you go withthem?
You go with them, since theyare so much better than me.
Y'all want to go with them.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
So let me paint the picture for you.
This gentleman actually fixedher plate they're at his house
Fixed her plate of food.
You know he did his thing asfar as like the plate plating
and stuff like that, it lookedreal good.
She shows up she's thinkingthat she's going out for a meal,
but instead, you know, hecooked a meal Right.
(02:45):
So a very small thing turnedinto a very big thing and at
that point I started counting myblessings.
I am not dating anymore andthis is great because you know I
was an asshole.
Speaker 3 (02:58):
No rice, no champagne .
You don't eat nothing.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
And I'm not playing, that was me all day long and I
just have a little bit ofanother little sprinkle of
disrespect.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
Don't be acting like you fuck with me.
You really don't Fuck off myline.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
And then we can start the show.
Speaker 3 (03:21):
I guess, I used to be in love with this bitch.
They mean J the fuck with her.
No more.
Now I fuck with Tango Ray.
Tango Ray, hey yo, what's in?
Speaker 4 (03:30):
the.
We need two shots combo Thentake me away, all right.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
So boom, listen, this week we back to them.
I don't even want to say backto, because that shit is
disrespectful, I'm not even backto.
I got my my road dog with me,barbie from let me touch you
podcast.
Speaker 4 (03:54):
Hey guys.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
Why do you like every female that I have to get some
money?
Speaker 4 (04:00):
I always say hey guys .
Speaker 1 (04:01):
I understand, but with the annoying voice like
that though, it's annoying, I'msorry Now my voice is annoying,
right out the gate.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
It's already starting with me, you see right out the
gate.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
This is before we do that, though, before we put the
boxing gloves on, let's telleverybody what we're drinking.
So it's called a Henny fruitroll up.
I did leave out an importantingredient.
I guess it's important Notreally so important, because it
still tastes good, but it'sHennessy fruit punch and
pineapple mango juice.
It's supposed to have sweet andsour mix, but I totally left
(04:34):
that out.
What do you think?
Speaker 4 (04:35):
No, I think it's good without the sweet and sour.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
It would have been like too sour Too sour, that's a
word.
Speaker 4 (04:42):
Yeah, it's my word Shut up.
It's time for you to get backto podcasting.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
Your vocabulary is slipping.
Speaker 4 (04:46):
It would have been too sour because it has like
that little.
It already has like a sour,sour taste to it.
Speaker 1 (04:54):
Listen, everybody listening to this voice right
now, you can thank me later.
I dragged that out of her bed,not literally, figuratively, all
right, I brought it back fromthe dead, resuscitated up.
Speaker 4 (05:05):
Yes, and I appreciate you for doing that.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
Where you been, bob, I've been home.
Speaker 4 (05:08):
You've been home.
I've been home with my children.
You know, healing, yourfavorite word.
I fucking hate that word.
Yeah, I had to take some timeout but I'll be back.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
Sometimes.
Well, I'm back.
Speaker 4 (05:20):
You know what I'm here.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
Wait, Bob, everybody Don't fuck around on my platform
.
With that I'm hearing I'm back.
Speaker 4 (05:26):
Yeah, are you really back though?
Speaker 1 (05:28):
Oh, ok, there we go.
Speaker 4 (05:29):
This is the stepping stone to me being back.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
I ain't no, goddamn stepping stone.
Speaker 4 (05:35):
This is what is the beginning.
What a whole bunch of greatness.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
When can we expect?
Just no.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
I'll say that for later.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
I'll save it for later.
You will do it, but I'm savingfor later.
So for everybody that doesn'tknow, bob, she has a podcast
called Let Me Touch you.
It's amazing.
It's a self-help podcast.
I'm not big on self-helppodcast, but the way that she
delivers the message, I love it.
You want to talk a little bitabout it, or you want?
To wait till later, because wewait till later, is it?
Speaker 4 (06:04):
on the Orthodox yeah, you did good.
That's a good way to start itoff and then we'll talk about it
later.
I'll get into more detailslater.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
There you have it.
Podcast is on the podcast.
This is my podcast.
Speaker 4 (06:15):
So then, what you want me to do, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
All right, let's get started All right, so boom.
This is different from whenwe've had you on in the past.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
All right.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
So we have an icebreaker right now so
everybody can get to know you,the people that don't know you.
All right, so it's quick fire.
I don't like the backstory, allright.
Speaker 4 (06:32):
So you know I love giving them to you.
So I'll make it short andsimple.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
I appreciate that you ready, ready.
All right Text, call orFaceTime.
Speaker 4 (06:41):
Call Texting is.
You know?
It's like I feel with textingyou can just text me now, I can
text you back, and you couldtake like three hours to write
back to me and it's going to getme upset.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
So you rather the person call you.
Speaker 4 (06:54):
Yeah, if you FaceTime me, you're invading my space.
I'm going to ignore you andcall you.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
That's the third time that I've heard invading my
space with FaceTime.
Why?
Do y'all act like you can'tignore the FaceTime.
You can All right then.
Speaker 4 (07:06):
Who gave you the?
Who made you think that you hadthe right to FaceTime me, like
only my kids can FaceTime me?
Speaker 1 (07:16):
Fair enough.
Anyway, I'm going to move offof that angry topic.
Shoot your shot of chilling thecut.
Speaker 4 (07:22):
Shoot a shoot.
I'm going to shoot my shot.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
if I want it, I'm going to go for it, you fucking
up right now because they'regoing to go to your Instagram
page.
Shoot a shoot, it won't be likeoh she a gangster.
Speaker 4 (07:35):
Yeah, cause I'm going to chill in the cut and nah,
nah, shoot a shoot.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
I'm going to go get you All right, ps, she's from
the Bronx.
Anyway, in your social circle,what would you say is the ratio
of entrepreneurs versus nine tofive die holders?
Speaker 4 (07:54):
I just recently changed my circle.
Um, you know, when you elevatein your life, you have to leave
some people behind,unfortunately.
I love them, but I would saythe entrepreneurs everyone is an
entrepreneur in my circle rightnow Is that right.
Yeah, they do the entrepreneurstuff and then they do the nine
(08:14):
to five as well.
So okay.
Who those two done, did a realMVP's.
Speaker 1 (08:19):
Oh shit, okay, um wasn't ready.
Um, I know you grew up onalternative music.
What's your song for the seasonof your life?
Speaker 4 (08:34):
This season.
The song I have been listeningto some of you might know it or
not it's called happy by LeonaLewis.
No.
Speaker 2 (08:46):
No.
Speaker 4 (08:48):
It's the what, like I said, I've been healing right,
so it's a song that I play everymorning to remind myself to be
happy.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
Yeah, cause everybody needs a reminder.
They want to be happy Um, whocan call you at 3am and get you
out of your bed?
Speaker 4 (09:06):
My children close friends you.
Speaker 1 (09:11):
The circle.
Speaker 4 (09:12):
Yeah, the circle, and you're in that circle, by the
way.
Speaker 1 (09:15):
No, okay, it's funny, cause I asked my wife the same
thing, right, and she didn't sayme, because I guess the way
that our phones are set up, likein the beginning when we
started dating, I could call herat 10 minutes after four in the
morning and she would roll overand answer that phone.
Speaker 4 (09:35):
Now she I say you just go by yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:39):
We just and it's, it's what basically is like.
Vice versa now we're like bothlike super comfortable.
So it's like you know, we knowlike don't call me before 8am in
the morning, unless it's a yeah, crazy, crazy, crazy, crazy.
All right, um, um, um, whatdrink do you?
What drink do you start brunchoff with?
Speaker 4 (10:01):
Hennie and Red Bull.
Speaker 1 (10:03):
Hennie and Red Bull.
Mm-hmm, she's from the Bronx,forget her.
She knows not what she saysright now.
Speaker 4 (10:08):
That's the best, that's the drink.
Speaker 1 (10:10):
That's a fucking sledgehammer, though that's not
even a.
Uh, that's the best thing ever.
All right, Fuck it.
Um, I started drinking Hennie Cbecause of you.
I still don't like it straight.
Pause.
But I'm just saying I coulddrink a straight.
I'm sure you from the fuckingBronx.
If you could live in any sitcom, what would it be?
Speaker 4 (10:33):
Um damn, again some old school stuff.
Speaker 3 (10:39):
Mm-hmm.
Speaker 4 (10:40):
It would be Beverly Hills night, or two or no.
Speaker 1 (10:45):
All right.
I need to be careful because Iam starting to get like
advertisers and stuff like that.
So I got to watch my mouth, andafter the Alabama incident I
really got to watch my mouth.
You know, but the tiger can'tchange his stripes.
Speaker 4 (10:59):
So but I will redo with my crew.
Speaker 1 (11:02):
But you can't see is the thing.
This is what throws me.
You drink, hennie, but you wantto be a 90210.
Speaker 4 (11:08):
So what happened?
Speaker 1 (11:10):
This shit is a contradiction.
It doesn't make sense.
Speaker 4 (11:12):
Why?
Just because I drink honey.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
I'm going to let you do the fucking math.
Speaker 4 (11:15):
It's easy two and two , four, no, Just because I drink
honey doesn't mean anything.
But what the fuck?
I can be a 90210 taking shotswith Brenda and.
Speaker 1 (11:26):
Dylan and not a Hennie.
Speaker 4 (11:29):
Well, we can be drinking wine.
Speaker 1 (11:30):
It's kind of like you know what I almost expected you
to say.
Friends, I'm not going to holdyou.
Speaker 4 (11:37):
Friends is one of my favorites.
Speaker 1 (11:39):
It comes, friends is just basically 90210 grown up.
Speaker 4 (11:43):
Yeah, but I don't want to be a grown up, that's a
whole shit Like I want to goback to those younger years.
Speaker 1 (11:48):
Good.
This leads me into my nextquestion what child is things
you still do as an adult?
Speaker 4 (11:56):
Watched.
I just rewatched it.
By the way, guys, let me see, Idon't think I do anything
besides reliving those yearswatching those old shows.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
That's not a challenge.
Speaker 4 (12:13):
Some might say it is.
There's some people that whenthey call me they be like what
you doing, watching out toanother, like Barbie, howl Do
you?
Speaker 1 (12:19):
know Right, so let's take a deeper dive.
What do you consider childish?
Speaker 4 (12:24):
People that ignore people and go from people,
little shit like that.
Speaker 1 (12:30):
That's not even child , that's petty.
I'm going to really need you tobuckle down on this one, you
ready.
Speaker 4 (12:35):
Yeah, go ahead, I'm focused listening.
Speaker 1 (12:37):
What do you consider childish?
Speaker 4 (12:41):
Exactly what I said to you that you consider that
petty, but I consider that pettyand childish.
Speaker 1 (12:46):
Oh, petty and childish.
What do you consider justchildish I?
Speaker 4 (12:53):
don't know.
Speaker 1 (12:54):
What the fuck, yeah like.
Speaker 2 (12:59):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (13:00):
Like these, still play with Barbies, like childish
that's okay, no, I don't playwith Barbie dolls.
Speaker 4 (13:06):
That's yeah, that's super childish, though.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
Listen, I guess they're very in degrees of
childish, but I'm just trying toget to the generalization of
childish.
Speaker 4 (13:15):
I don't do anything childish, you don't no?
Speaker 1 (13:17):
You're a complete grown ass.
Speaker 4 (13:18):
A grown ass woman from the Bronx that drinks honey
and red bull and wants to be a90210.
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
Get out of here All right.
All right.
What would you consider to be adecent amount to spend on a
first date?
Give it some thought.
This is a lightning rod 150.
150?
Okay, what would that 150consist of?
How would you spend that?
(13:44):
Like you know, just do thiscourt and you want to grab,
because that's how the kids doit nowadays, and you agree to
meet up when you meeting Firstof all.
Yes, the whole meetup.
Remember, it's a first date,right?
So you're taking this from you.
You have decided I need to stopdrinking.
You have decided to move thisoffline I mean, yeah, offline
(14:08):
from where you were.
So you guys are meeting up, I'massuming, because you're not
going to go downstairs and hopinto somebody's car that you
haven't met before.
Speaker 4 (14:17):
No, yeah, we're going to meet up at the spot.
Speaker 1 (14:19):
Got you, and what spot is this?
Speaker 4 (14:21):
A restaurant.
Speaker 1 (14:22):
What restaurant?
Speaker 4 (14:23):
is this Are we in New York?
Speaker 1 (14:27):
I mean you live in New York.
Why would I change a geographiclocation?
Speaker 4 (14:33):
Well, my favorite restaurant is Jake's Steakhouse.
Speaker 1 (14:36):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (14:37):
So we'll be meeting up at Jake's Steakhouse.
Speaker 1 (14:39):
Where's Jake's Steakhouse?
Speaker 4 (14:41):
It's on Broadway.
Speaker 1 (14:42):
In the city.
Oh, is it Okay.
Speaker 4 (14:45):
I'm saying the Bronx, I give up.
Got, you got you, we'll bethere.
Speaker 1 (14:50):
We'll meet up there.
Speaker 2 (14:51):
Have dinner.
Speaker 4 (14:52):
Some wine and for the first day.
I think that would be good,Just the dinner for me.
Speaker 1 (15:00):
Just the dinner.
Speaker 4 (15:01):
Yeah, just in case, like I wouldn't want him to plan
too much, because if I don'tlike the way the dinner goes,
then I have to do all the othershit and I don't want to be
there, got you?
So that's why I say 150 wouldbe good.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
What?
150 for yourself?
No for both.
Yeah but it's a Steakhousethough I'm assuming, I'm
thinking like more intosomething like that.
So if it's a Steakhouse, I'massuming you're looking at you
know, just for like the threecourses, 75 per person.
That's 150, right there youdrinking, or you drinking that
water with the ice in it.
Speaker 4 (15:31):
I'm drinking, but I'm not that type of person to go
out to dinner and I needappetizers and to dinner and to
dessert, Like you know, I'llskip the appetizers, because if
I have appetizers I'm not goingto eat my meal.
But that's just me To fuck.
I won't.
Speaker 1 (15:48):
That is truly some hood shit.
And when I say hood shit, I'mnot even saying it in a
derogatory manner towards you,because I feel the same way.
Speaker 4 (15:57):
Yeah, I can, Like I can't get filled with the
appetizer when the meal I'mgoing to end up taking it home.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
Yeah, exactly Like, exactly, exactly.
I'm with you 100% on that,because, um, the way I grew up
is like appetite why the fuckare we?
I didn't.
I never Understood the purposeof an appetizer.
And then, the old god, I waslike it's not appetizer because
the other shit's gonna takeextremely long and you just want
to.
You know, I had that thoughtand also had to thought yeah,
(16:23):
motherfuckers just want to getevery dime out of me.
Speaker 4 (16:26):
Exactly you know, then the first day, honestly
again, this is just me.
I'm not gonna get nothing crazyto eat because I'm real.
If he like an picky with eatingand I don't want to eat it,
certain like I get nervous andTo eat a certain way.
This one time I went out on adate with a guy.
(16:46):
He was just looking at me theway I cut my steak and he
thought I was just weird forcutting my steak the way I do.
Speaker 1 (16:54):
I'm funny like that too, as far as, like the, the
types of food and shit like that, like I Don't know the way my
stomach is set up now with daysMight be because I'm getting
older, I don't fucking know.
But um, yeah, it's like.
Speaker 4 (17:08):
I'll have something simple, first thing.
Speaker 1 (17:10):
We're like Jello, give me some Jello.
Speaker 4 (17:15):
Something that doesn't require too much, like
we ain't going to eat no crablegs.
And another first thing no crablegs.
Speaker 1 (17:22):
I mean that's like because it's they always say
don't eat finger food, like onthe first day.
Shit pretty much on any.
Don't wait till you're marriedto your finger food.
You know we actually went to aspot in the Bronx Shit the name
escapes me.
Speaker 4 (17:38):
That's not good, but anyway that means it wasn't that
good.
Speaker 1 (17:42):
No, was it was.
It was phenomenal actually.
That's not actually ordered.
The fried crab leg Right.
And the funny thing about friedcrab legs what happens is when
you fry it, I'm allergic toshellfish so I don't even eat
the shit.
You know, not a bottom feeder,the can you not hit stuff on the
(18:04):
fucking?
I'm just fucking with you.
So when you fry it, it changesthe texture of the meat in the
claw so it makes it moredifficult to actually take out.
And the other thing is, can Iask you guys a question?
Oh, you fried crab leg eatingpeople.
Why do you fry the crab leglike and then season the thing?
Speaker 4 (18:30):
I've never had a fried crab legs.
Speaker 1 (18:32):
They seasoned it, it looked amazing.
But then, when Reality set inand I was sitting in logic and
all of that, like you can't eatthe shell, what the fuck is that
like?
Speaker 4 (18:45):
a sad zone.
Lollipop, Like you see.
Speaker 1 (18:48):
I see some of that but that's different, though,
you know, because the set, the,the boil actually goes, you know
, into the shadows.
Speaker 2 (18:57):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (18:58):
Thanks.
You know they season the shelland fried it, so I'm sitting
there.
Speaker 3 (19:03):
I have to try it.
Speaker 1 (19:04):
It had a crust and everything and I'm like I'm
amazed.
I'm looking at it like oh, thisis fucking awesome.
But then, initially, initially.
But then she tried to.
You know, of course she wastrying to eat it and you know it
was difficult to pull a meatout because it changes the
texture of it so it kind of likebinds to the shell on the
(19:26):
inside.
We're about to see full boil.
What happens is when you crackit and pull it, it just slides
right the fuck out.
Pause.
I'm gonna be here just having abunch of pause moments, but that
whole thing.
And then of course I'm standinghere with the gestures and shit
with the hands.
Speaker 4 (19:41):
I'm glad I can't see that, waiting for him to say
pause.
Speaker 1 (19:44):
Yeah, it's crazy.
Speaker 2 (19:46):
Main course is time to eat what's on your mind.
Speaker 1 (19:51):
All right.
So this week I feel like Ilined y'all up.
You started off with amonologue talking about.
You know dating andUnappreciative people.
You know male and female.
Speaker 2 (20:01):
You know equal opportunity.
Speaker 1 (20:02):
Yeah, it just happened to be a female, because
that's the only clip that Icould find.
Um, and then sliding into the,you know the happy hour, and in
a happy hour we ended off withhow much you would want to spend
on on the first day.
You know your expectations,what your expectations.
No, yeah it was an awkwardpause, but you can go.
Speaker 4 (20:30):
Okay, um.
So with that, and it's not justbecause she's a female and I'm
gonna defend her.
She does have a point, though,if you tell a female I'm gonna
pick you up and we're gonna goout and you bring me to your
house.
I'm gonna look at you like whyare we in your house?
Speaker 1 (20:51):
See, and this is gonna be the first argument that
we have tonight, Okay, I'mready for it.
All right, so boom.
How did you get that out ofwhat?
What went on there, she said,she said you told me we were
going out right.
Speaker 4 (21:05):
And they ended up at her at his house right, this was
date two.
Speaker 1 (21:09):
also, did you hear that?
Speaker 4 (21:10):
Yes, okay, he should have said listen for date two
instead of us going out.
I wanted to do somethingspecial for you and prepare
something for you in my house,right?
And she would have beenmentally prepared for that.
What if she wasn't ready to goto his house?
Okay, what if she has some pasttrauma that you know?
Something happened to?
Speaker 1 (21:27):
her when she went to a guy's house.
Let me ask you a question.
You kind of the crib right.
The dude actually makes yourplate, puts it in front of you.
You gonna spaz out like thatthough.
Speaker 4 (21:37):
No, I'm not gonna she right, all right, so be lady
like yeah, I got understandmiscommunication.
Speaker 1 (21:44):
You know, and that was a complete that that fucking
flag was maroon.
It wasn't even right.
This shit was maroon, right?
No, we don't.
We don't do that.
And if you, you don't do thatand then bring up communication,
you don't even know how tocommunicate.
Speaker 4 (22:00):
Yeah, dad, I agree with you 100% the way she.
Speaker 1 (22:07):
You don't have a choice.
You gotta agree with that, yeahher delivery.
Speaker 4 (22:12):
If she would have said it a different way, it
didn't have to escalate the waydid.
Mm-hmm she should have justsimply said you know, I
appreciate you doing this, butthis is not what I had in mind.
If she wasn't ready to go tohis house, she should have just
said that too, before evencoming out the car, like why are
we pulling up in your house?
But it's a hour defense.
Speaker 1 (22:34):
Who's?
Speaker 4 (22:34):
hour to the ladies defenses.
Whenever you're gonna saysomething, just do that.
That's it.
Speaker 1 (22:43):
Okay, um.
Speaker 3 (22:46):
No, there's no rice, no champagne.
You don't eat nothing.
I'm a star.
Speaker 1 (22:52):
You won't stop cuz I'm yeah, none of that, none of
that.
Speaker 4 (22:57):
And he was trying to get in her pants.
I'm gonna do all this for herwine and dying her.
Speaker 2 (23:02):
Give her something to drink.
We're ready, chilling in thecrib.
Speaker 1 (23:05):
She's comfortable.
Speaker 4 (23:06):
One thing Kaleeta, another Right wham-bam, no, all
right.
Speaker 1 (23:09):
So this is the thing.
The end result for every day ishopefully to get in somebody's
pants.
I mean, I don't.
Speaker 4 (23:15):
I hate to.
Speaker 1 (23:16):
I hate to break the fucking news to you, for women
too.
It's just that you guys listen,whether it's the first date,
the tenth date or six months inyour case, right, it doesn't
matter.
The end result is the hopes toactually do that, for that to
happen, you know, um, I'm on theway.
We hope to find a littleemotional connection.
(23:38):
You know shit like that, um,but we do.
Ultimately, it's not like.
You know why.
What's your purpose when you'regoing out on the tape?
Speaker 4 (23:49):
To get to know someone to see if I do have a
connection with them, toeventually sleep with them.
Shut the fuck up, bob.
Speaker 1 (23:57):
This is what I'm talking about.
You don't have to agree with mein a subtle manner.
Take the hand out, do what youneed to do the fuck.
Eventually I'm winning overhere.
Speaker 4 (24:08):
It's a W for the men over here, Not on the second
date.
That's all I gotta say.
Speaker 1 (24:11):
Guys, Come on man, it could happen on the second date
, mm-mm, yeah, it could.
Speaker 3 (24:15):
Not with me.
Speaker 1 (24:16):
Wow.
Speaker 3 (24:17):
No ribs, no rice, no champagne.
You don't eat nothing.
Speaker 1 (24:23):
I mean, yeah, from your house, take your ass home.
Mm-hmm, I will.
And see, I like how you builtthe story around your point.
She was like, and he justpulled up to her house.
We don't know that that's howshe got there.
Speaker 4 (24:36):
She must have, he must have picked off.
And you what?
Speaker 1 (24:39):
the fuck, it's all right.
Speaker 4 (24:41):
If she, if he would have told her oh, you come into
my house and we're gonna chillhere, she would have started the
argument off rib.
Speaker 1 (24:48):
Oh my God, she probably would have, because she
was a Tasmanian devil, yeah,mm-hmm, and she ain't looked
apart either, like mine.
You going, wow right now.
Look like an angry fuckinghamster, eat that steak and be
happy it looked good, though Dothese?
Speaker 4 (25:02):
the Fenty did a good job setting everything up.
He did he did.
Speaker 1 (25:05):
I politely put that shit in some tupperware but you
know, gave him one of themfucking nine.
Speaker 4 (25:11):
I'd have had to find a plastic bag or a paper bag,
and she didn't even deserve totake it home with the way she
responded.
Speaker 1 (25:16):
The dude was a gentleman?
Yeah, he was, so he would havedefinitely sent it with her.
Speaker 4 (25:20):
But there's a reason why she must have reacted that
way.
That's what I gotta say.
I'ma leave it there.
Yeah, I too, i'ma leave itthere.
Speaker 1 (25:28):
How would you feel if your date pays with cash app
chime, a giffy or grubon?
Speaker 3 (25:35):
I wouldn't mind.
Speaker 1 (25:36):
I'm asking a rural person Now that I'm older.
Old, you're older yeah.
Speaker 4 (25:40):
Just a Hennessy.
Now that I'm older I would notmind.
The younger version of me wouldhave looked at him like he
crazy.
But now you know the mother offour got bills to pay.
Like I'm grateful he's at leasttaking me out on a date.
You're that bad, no but youknow, not everybody got it like
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that.
Like what I'm taking the timeout to actually go look for a
group.
I wouldn't mind a grubon allright, that's it.
I wouldn't mind a grubon, agift card.
Speaker 1 (26:14):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (26:15):
Cash app card.
Speaker 1 (26:18):
I'm not going to hold you.
It takes a special kind ofconfidence to from a man's
standpoint, in my standpoint, afucking man's standpoint,
because I don't think it's my,you know abandon ship once I say
what I gotta say.
But it takes a special type ofconfidence to actually show up
on the first date with a grubon.
Speaker 4 (26:36):
I was about to ask you that it's the first date.
Yeah, yeah, I couldn't do it.
The first date.
It does take a special personto do that.
Like you gotta feel extracomfortable with me in order to
do that.
Speaker 1 (26:50):
Not only that, but remember, perception is
everything.
And if you don't know my fullstory, this is the first date,
the first time we've ever spenttime in each other's company or
whatnot.
If you don't know my story, youknow I don't want you to start
building a story from thisgrubon date.
Speaker 4 (27:09):
But a grubon is not bad.
Speaker 1 (27:11):
No, it's not.
See, there's a thing, there'snothing wrong with it.
But remember, let's go back tothe root of it.
Perception is everything.
This is the first encounterthat we've had and time we spent
together.
Speaker 4 (27:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (27:20):
I don't want to dig a hole in and basically start off
by trying to find my way out ofthat hole.
Speaker 2 (27:28):
You get what I'm saying, yeah.
Speaker 1 (27:29):
Because I don't want to do that.
I just don't want to do it, soI couldn't.
I personally, I couldn't do it.
Speaker 4 (27:36):
The only thing like out of the three that you
mentioned, that I might be alittle iffy about would be the
cash out card, because if youdon't listen, you don't have a
bank account.
That means that you owe moneysomewhere to some bank for
something, so that means youdon't know how to manage your
money and all you can have rightnow is a cash out card.
Speaker 1 (27:58):
Bobby from the Bronx.
He pulls out the cash out card.
You going to question him aboutit.
Speaker 4 (28:02):
I'm not going to question him, I'm going to look
at him.
At least he's paying the bill.
We ain't got to watch no dishesor I ain't got to pull out my
card, but I'm going to look atit.
Like you know, I'm going tostart doing my investigation and
ask some other questions Fallensee what I'm talking about.
Speaker 1 (28:16):
Perception is everything.
If you ain't got no money, youknow, or, pardon, if you don't
have a debit card, a regulardebit card, but you know what?
There's so many different debitcards that you can get.
Now, with days outside of acash out card, cash out cards,
they don't.
My antennas aren't raised ifyou pull out a cash out card.
Speaker 4 (28:35):
But usually people with cash out and chime is
people that they can't get aregular bank account because
they owe other banks money orthey owe child support.
They owe somewhere something.
Speaker 1 (28:45):
Well, let me put you on.
I have two cash out cards onefor the business and a personal
one.
So if a person like myself tookyou out on the first date and I
pulled it out, that's what youautomatically jump into.
Speaker 4 (28:56):
Maybe I'm not going to say here, lie, yeah, I'll be
like let me explain how unfairthat is Right.
Speaker 1 (29:01):
It's unfair to the point of we sit down and you're
like yo, I got four kids.
It would be unfair of me toassume that they all have the
same father without asking.
I'm just in my head assuminglike it would be unfair, right?
So it's unfair of you tosuggest that I don't have a bank
account because I pulled out mycash out.
Speaker 4 (29:18):
That's why I said I'm not going to assume I'm going
to investigate.
You're which, I do have a cashout card, but you're
investigating based off anassumption.
Of course yeah.
Speaker 1 (29:28):
You just said you're not going to assume.
Speaker 4 (29:31):
Yeah, you're right, I am assuming I'm, going to do my
private eye investigation justto make sure that my assumptions
are correct, Right and see iswomen like you.
Speaker 1 (29:42):
that makes me not have the confidence to show up
on a group because you're goingto assume something else and I
don't want that.
I don't need that.
Speaker 4 (29:53):
Now I feel you, I see what you're saying, right.
Speaker 1 (29:55):
But the group on.
Speaker 4 (29:56):
Honestly, I'm listening, I wouldn't care about
the group on, because it's likeoh, he knows how to save money.
Okay, he can probably show mehow to save some money.
Speaker 1 (30:04):
Okay, until y'all split in a plate.
Speaker 4 (30:07):
No, because with the I've gone on dates with Groupon.
Speaker 1 (30:10):
First dates.
Speaker 4 (30:11):
No.
Speaker 1 (30:12):
Okay, so there lies the comfort person's actually
comfortable with you.
I mean I would do that now,like me, and my wife will figure
something out, you know, I meanjust to make sure that the
experience we all bougie.
So we want to make sure theexperience is crazy.
But if we can get it forcheaper, let's do it.
Speaker 4 (30:30):
No, of course.
You know, it was a guy that putme on to Groupon.
I didn't know nothing aboutGroupon and I wanted to go
somewhere.
I think I was going to GreyWolf Lodge with the kids and he
was like, oh, you know, theyhave it on Groupon.
They have a 40% off.
I was like, what is a Groupon?
And he put me on to it.
So I was like, oh look.
I was like, oh, thank you,you're helping me save money.
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So I appreciated that.
It was the first day.
Speaker 1 (30:55):
No, he was helping me save money for something that I
was going to do with the kidsCopy.
All right, I mean again.
You keep going to the labtalking about first days.
Speaker 4 (31:04):
No, first day, like I said, we pulled out a cash out
for Chime.
There was one time I went outwith a guy and he pulled out a
Chime card.
And he pulled out a card andI'm looking at his card Listen,
I'm not bougie, I'm not nothing,because if it just is what it
is, I'm not going to say he andLidia.
He pulled out a card and I'mtrying to figure out what
fucking type of card is that.
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And he felt uncomfortablepaying with the card because he
pulled out the card and he wenttowards the waitress.
He didn't even let the waitresscome to the table with the bill
.
Then, when I realized it was aChime card, and then, you know,
as our relationship got a littledeeper and we started talking,
the situation that I mentionedearlier like he owes other banks
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money, he can't get a bankaccount.
Speaker 1 (31:50):
My man, you should have just passed up on that.
You know what I mean.
Anyway, because I'm just sayingthis is my thing From my
perspective, because it's alittle different.
Normally, you know, men takewomen out on first dates, not in
reverse.
You know, it's kind of likethat whole stigma of women
proposing, but that's a wholeother story.
So, from my perspective, aslong as nobody's doing dishes at
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the end of the night or thecops aren't being called, that
was a good night, it was asuccessful night.
You know, I don't think that.
You know this dude pulling outa charm card or a cash app card,
you know he should get strikesagainst him.
That doesn't make any sense tome.
For instance, my cash app card,direct deposit coming out of my
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check, that goes to my cash appcard, the business cash app
card.
Speaker 4 (32:45):
Actually, you know, like I don't, I'm struggling
with your, your reason behindall cash, I think Because some
people people like us use it forthose type of reasons.
Speaker 1 (32:58):
Why do you keep seeing people like us Like?
Speaker 4 (33:00):
us that we can have regular bank accounts.
Speaker 1 (33:02):
Yo your discrimination right now.
Speaker 4 (33:04):
No, listen people.
Speaker 1 (33:05):
It's palpable.
Speaker 4 (33:07):
People that can have regular bank accounts.
We do because, like I said, Ihave cash up, my kids have cash
up and I use cash up for otherreasons.
I use it as one of my savingsaccount.
I transfer money there to save,so I won't see it in my regular
account that I normally use.
Speaker 1 (33:24):
But why doesn't your date get the same benefit of the
doubt when he pulls out hiscash app card to pay for your
steak dinner?
Speaker 3 (33:31):
He just didn't.
No ribs, no rice, no champagne.
You don't eat nothing, yo.
Speaker 4 (33:40):
I'm not going to sit here and try to figure out a way
to fix it.
Like when the guy pulled outthe chime card, I was just like
no, it wasn't it, but I was justlike it was a red.
It was like a red flag for me.
Speaker 1 (33:51):
But you guys went on more days though.
Speaker 4 (33:54):
No.
Speaker 1 (33:55):
That was it.
Speaker 4 (33:55):
Yeah, but it wasn't because of the chime card.
Speaker 1 (33:57):
What was it?
I'm curious.
Speaker 4 (33:59):
He just what had a lot of red flags.
Speaker 1 (34:03):
He had chime characteristics.
What the fuck?
What was happening?
He eventually, as we kepttalking, you realized he didn't
have a bank account.
Speaker 4 (34:14):
Yeah, he didn't have a bank account.
Speaker 1 (34:16):
What the fuck.
Speaker 4 (34:17):
And he wasn't.
And I'm not judging nobodyagain because I'm not in the
best space in my life, like mylife is all together.
I don't have 800 credit score,but he was in a point in his
life where he couldn't have anaccount.
He owed money in a whole bunchof places and it was just like I
can't, it was something that Icouldn't.
(34:38):
I've invested a lot of years inmen trying to help men be
better and I'm sorry, but I'mnot doing that again.
Speaker 1 (34:45):
Let me ask you a question as far as friends are
concerned.
Could you have a friend with alow credit score?
I'm just asking you could, okay, stop, I'm glad you said that.
So, with that being said, youdon't have to be fucking this
individual, right?
Because you were romanticallyinterested in him and he had a
400 credit score.
He was like I can't fuck withyou, I can't even be your friend
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.
Speaker 4 (35:07):
We're friends.
I'm still friends with thecharm guy.
Speaker 1 (35:08):
Oh, you are.
Yeah, are you making him abetter man?
Speaker 4 (35:12):
Yes, I'm helping him elevate, himself.
Speaker 1 (35:14):
And he just can't get no buns.
Speaker 4 (35:16):
Nah, I can't.
Speaker 1 (35:18):
He was like you got to get your credit score up fam.
Speaker 4 (35:21):
Listen, I'm the type of person, people that if I am,
if I decide to be sexuallyintimate with you, is because I
see a future with you.
Speaker 1 (35:30):
And a high credit score.
Speaker 4 (35:32):
And if you're at a place in your life where you
can't, I'm just just out of thefuck up.
Just forget it.
Speaker 1 (35:39):
Keep going, Come on you from the Bronx, let's go.
Speaker 4 (35:44):
If you're at a place in your life, depending on your
age to age is a huge factor.
If you're at a place in yourlife where you really can't, we
can't help each other and allyou're going to do is just hold
me back, slow down my process,my goals.
I can't.
Speaker 1 (36:01):
Was he?
Was he an energy sucker?
Yes, he was All right say that,so there's nothing to talk
about that.
Speaker 4 (36:07):
Yeah, it was too much .
I felt like I was investing toomuch in him and I wasn't going
to get anything in return.
Speaker 1 (36:12):
I tried to lawyer up just now, but I can't defend
that guy.
It's not going to work.
Yeah, it's not going to work.
Okay, so we went over theeconomics of dating and stuff
like that.
Oh, I got a question, though.
Here's my question.
Speaker 4 (36:29):
I'm scared.
Speaker 1 (36:30):
No, no, no, we good.
So you start off therelationship, your past date one
and two.
When is it okay?
Or when do you startentertaining the idea in your
head of going Dutch or evenpaying for it by yourself?
After the first date oh, afterthe first date you go Dutch, and
then you also pay for an entiremeal.
Speaker 4 (36:53):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (36:53):
Yeah, like, how does that work?
What does that look like?
Speaker 4 (36:57):
All right.
So the first date is amazing,Like we hit it off great and I
want to spend time with youagain.
I will initiate the second dateand I'm the type of person if I
invite you it's because I'mpaying, and if you're the type
of man that's not comfortablewith it, then now you know I'll
be like so we can go half andhalf, and if it's still the
issue, I'll find a way to payfor it, or even the bathroom or
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something.
But I'm not the type of girl tojust let a man pay for dates.
Speaker 1 (37:26):
Assuming he does go to the bathroom.
Speaker 4 (37:29):
He will.
Speaker 1 (37:29):
Why.
Speaker 4 (37:30):
Yeah, let's go to the bathroom.
Speaker 1 (37:32):
I never go to the bathroom.
I never go to the bathroom.
Speaker 4 (37:36):
Oh, then I'll go to the bathroom and when I'm going
to the bathroom I'll go to thewaitress Like here pay for the
bill.
Speaker 1 (37:41):
Yeah, but then he's going to cash out of you because
he doesn't have a bank account.
He's going to cash out you thebread right after you do that,
because remember, you got it ondeck.
Speaker 4 (37:50):
Listen, I have nothing against people with cash
up.
Speaker 1 (37:52):
Yes, you do Stop playing, but you have to see the
reason behind you.
Having cash up is totallydifferent.
Speaker 4 (38:00):
Instead of saying it's like I'm sorry, as adults
cash up shouldn't be yourprimary bank.
Speaker 1 (38:05):
Oh, absolutely.
You know, life is hard out here, right Bob?
I know that, and you know a lotof people don't have the
discipline that you have, right,Bob?
Speaker 4 (38:13):
Yes, I know that, so this is what they do.
Speaker 1 (38:14):
They separate their bread, so they keep all the
important bread over there tothe left, because they're right
and you know it's in the righthand.
The cash app card.
Speaker 4 (38:26):
So cash app is the secondary bank.
Speaker 1 (38:29):
I mean it most certainly is.
I don't understand what you're.
Your whole thing with cash appthrows me a little bit.
Speaker 4 (38:35):
It shouldn't be your primary bank.
That's my thing with it.
Speaker 1 (38:39):
It shouldn't be your primary.
No, you know you can even fileyour taxes with cash.
Speaker 4 (38:46):
It shouldn't be like because cash app recently came
out.
A couple of years ago, thatmeans some of these years you
didn't have a bank account.
Speaker 1 (38:53):
All right.
So let me ask you anotherquestion.
I fucked that.
Let's move off of that.
Let's get to the communicationpart of it.
And this is prior to actuallygoing on that first day.
So the dude is like yo, bob, Ithink you know what I mean.
I want to go out, blah, blah.
I want to take you to what wasthe name of the steakhouse Jakes
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?
I want to take you to Jakes,the fucking steakhouse in the
Bronx called Jakes.
Speaker 4 (39:22):
I want to take you to Jakes You're going to try it
one day yeah, maybe I don't knowwhen your wife comes to take
you there.
Speaker 1 (39:27):
I try to avoid the Bronx, except for the last time.
Speaker 4 (39:30):
It's a nice section of the.
Speaker 1 (39:31):
Bronx.
Oh, is it so?
He's like yo, I got a cash app.
I mean, yeah, cash app card.
I don't know why he would bringthat up.
I'm just bringing it up becauseI just want to be stupid in a
moment.
But I got a cash app.
Do you dub him.
Then he's communicating.
No, you let him take you toJakes and pay with his cash app.
Speaker 4 (39:55):
Yeah, because I don't know the story behind.
No, I'm not dubbing.
Nobody with a cash app.
I don't know the story behindhis cash app.
Yes, you do.
No, I don't.
Every like this time I shop onmy cash app card, depending on
how my cash is flowing in myregular account If I want to
touch that.
If I don't, I'll touch themoney I have saved in the cash
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app card.
Speaker 1 (40:17):
Okay, so it depends.
Speaker 4 (40:19):
It depends people.
Speaker 1 (40:21):
All right, so boom, another question because I'm
getting back.
I'm trying to work my way backto the group huh, but I'm trying
to make it in a way whereyou're going to go against it a
little bit.
So your man shows up.
Y'all go to Applebee's Firstdate, right First date
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Applebee's.
Yo, I couldn't be single rightnow, because I'd be such an
asshole I like.
Speaker 4 (40:46):
Applebee's.
Speaker 1 (40:48):
Nah, you got to challenge people's intellect
when you start talking to themand I feel like that's not
happening.
You know, we going off of theaesthetic.
And you can't tell me thatwe're not going off of the
aesthetic because everybody'ssteadily taking fucking trips
out of the country to get theirass done.
So, yeah, we going off of theaesthetic, you know.
So we go to Applebee's becauseyou happen to like Applebee's
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and then you find out that thatperson is actually paying for it
with a groupon.
Speaker 4 (41:17):
I said earlier, I'm okay with groupons.
Speaker 1 (41:19):
You're fine with groupon, even coupled with
Applebee's.
Speaker 4 (41:23):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (41:26):
So you're about to get a free, you're both about to
get a free meal.
He goes Applebee's on the floorslide and you fine with that.
Speaker 4 (41:33):
Yeah, but he can't pull out the cash app card Only
because he's still fucking outof here Only because, like I
said with again and I'm onlybasing my answers on experiences
that I've had and so far, theone experience with the one
person that had the chime card,his story was that.
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So now, moving forward, I'mgoing to think that, damn, every
guy that I meet that has achime or cash app card has it
because he has a story like that.
Speaker 1 (42:03):
See, that's how I wipe it you was.
When we get out of jail, theybe like nah, like I.
Speaker 4 (42:08):
By the way, people, I'm not white and Puerto Rican
because I might think I'm white,because of the 90210 and all
that crazy.
Speaker 1 (42:13):
Nah, you're not white .
You said Hennessy Before yousaid 90210, they already knew
what it was.
Speaker 4 (42:19):
So, based on that situation now it's going to have
, because I never thought of itthat way- which way?
That people, that certainpeople that use cash app or
chime have it because that's theonly thing they can have.
I thought everyone used it inthe way that I used it.
Speaker 1 (42:35):
I'm going to be honest with you.
The shit never dawned on me LikeI've never just like you never
thought about it like thatbecause of the fact that when I
got it, I got it based off ofthe fact that it was popular and
it was convenient.
Yes, it had nothing to do withnot being able to get a bank
account, and I believe you know,even still, that you're not
able to get a bank account.
I don't know your circumstancesbehind you not being being able
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to get that bank account.
You might have, you know, beenin a situation where you lost
your job, defaulted with, youknow, chase, whatever, whatever,
and then they closed theaccount and they closed it with
it being in the negative.
Now, I've been in that situationand some like off the cuff bank
, like northern something orwhatever, they got like one and
(43:20):
a half branches and whatnot, butI went into the negative, I
lost my job, went to thenegative, they closed the
account and I couldn't get it.
You know, couldn't get anaccount, um, but I was gainfully
employed.
You get what I'm saying.
You see, I'm going with this,so I don't think that you should
.
Actually, I'm holding againstsomebody for pulling out a child
and I'm not familiar with timebut pulling out a chime or a
(43:43):
cash app card.
Speaker 4 (43:45):
Like I said, I need background story.
Speaker 2 (43:49):
You don't know a background story, Listen.
Speaker 4 (43:53):
I know two people.
Speaker 1 (43:54):
Right.
Speaker 4 (43:54):
That is him and someone close to me that all he
has is cash up, and it's becauseof similar reasons.
So, again, I'm only speakingbased on Situations I know of.
Fuck your situations, guys, areyou?
Speaker 1 (44:18):
It is what it is.
Yeah, because you sound crazyright now.
Speaker 4 (44:22):
I'm not going to try to fix it.
All right.
Speaker 1 (44:26):
So boom.
Listen my advice.
As far as dating is concerned,um first day is concerned and
your payment method pay howeveryou could pay.
Speaker 4 (44:36):
You know what I mean.
It's getting paid as long asit's getting paid.
Speaker 1 (44:39):
Exactly Because, remember, if you found out
through conversation that youknow this dude isn't worth your
time or this woman isn't worthyour time, that's one thing.
But to say that that person isnot worth your time and then
jump to assumptions because wewon't say group on, because you
save money and he got paid Right, but in terms of chime and cash
app, you know we're not goingto jump to conclusions and just
(45:01):
be out here like yo, you knowthis dude is.
You don't have a bank.
Speaker 4 (45:05):
Yeah you know what it is to usually um, I associate
cash up with like for hood stuffskin hood stuff.
Why?
Because a lot of hood peoplethat I know they use the cash up
for hood stuff.
Speaker 1 (45:20):
Well then, you should associate email with hood stuff
too, because a lot of Nigerianswas you was getting those
letters talking about send me$5,000.
I'll send you $5 million.
Speaker 4 (45:29):
Yeah, it was getting those DMs yeah.
Speaker 1 (45:31):
So I mean, can't do that no you're right.
Speaker 4 (45:34):
You can't do that, it's not fair for me to you know
.
Speaker 1 (45:38):
Assume 400 years of oppression has done us Over here
looking over my shoulder Now,but I don't want to say
everybody should, you know, getthe benefit of the doubt.
But at the end of the day andyou notice that I didn't lean on
you with the whole, you know,if he pulled out and I'm like,
yeah, but then you have a wholefucking conversation with him
(45:58):
before you went out with him.
You get what I'm saying.
So, you should have at leastthat in the bank to fall back on
when he does pull out that timenot automatically jump to this
motherfucker ain't got a bankaccount.
Speaker 4 (46:09):
No, but realistically before first day, are you
sitting down discussing financeswith someone?
Speaker 1 (46:14):
No, it depends.
It depends, All right.
So I'll tell you this theyounger generation, they may
have a problem with it.
The older generation, weunderstand the significance and
importance of it, because I needto know, you know how sturdy
your footing is.
You know, in whatever youdecide to do, you get what I'm
saying.
So, yeah, those are theconversations.
I think somebody after likemaybe 37 is having you know, but
(46:39):
prior to 37, we have not hadlife.
Speaker 4 (46:41):
Be having a surprise people 37.
Speaker 1 (46:45):
Exactly so you sit down.
You know, after 37, you sittingdown at the table was like yo,
what are you?
What are you getting into you?
understand what I'm saying.
You guys are talking about 401K.
You guys are talking about, youknow, transitioning from one
job to the next job and thereason why you did it, the price
.
You know, the salary bump thatyou got and stuff like that.
You guys are talking aboutinvestment properties, or future
(47:06):
investment properties, and whatyou're doing to attain certain
things.
So the conversation is a littlebit different.
You know, and you know, peopleabout complexion have a lot of.
We have problems talking aboutfinances, like we.
You know we.
It's just something that's notdone.
Speaker 4 (47:22):
Would you have an issue dating?
Let's say you know it's statenumber six, seven.
You're having deeper financialconversations with the female
you're with.
You guys are now in arelationship and you realize she
, her credit score is shot Likeshe has.
She's fucked up credit Right.
Would that be an issue for?
Speaker 1 (47:42):
you.
Well, see, there's the thing we, through conversation, I would
already understand our spendinghabits, you know, and her
financial responsibility, or herbeing financially responsible,
rather, how good she is, youknow, and if it's a facade, so
if things aren't matching up, itmay be a problem.
I don't have a problem.
See, life be life in oh, I knowyou get what I'm saying and one
(48:11):
one risk or one false move, onebad decision, well, have you
upside fucking down, you get me.
So that doesn't make you, thatdoesn't put you in a position
where you can't, you can'trebound off of that Right, and
it also doesn't make youfinancially irresponsible that
you could have had, you know, aneight hundred score your entire
(48:32):
life.
And again, that one baddecision fucked your whole shit
up.
Speaker 3 (48:36):
You get what I'm saying Been there before.
Speaker 1 (48:38):
Yeah, you got people running around here right now to
have co-signed on somebodyelse's lease or car or something
.
Right, that person fucked themand didn't pay it, and that
falls on them, and now yourcredit score is fucking shot
based off of you being a goodfucking Samaritan.
Speaker 4 (48:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (48:55):
You know.
So again, it doesn't.
I don't think I don't.
A bad credit score isn't adeterrent for me.
The reason behind the badcredit score is a deterrent for
me.
You running around buying, youknow, louis Vuitton bags and
Louis Vuitton's and shit likethat, you got like a three
(49:15):
hundred and fifty credit score.
Yeah, that's, that's concerning.
Yeah, you know that'sconcerning.
Um, guess, I answer that forboth of us because you know that
.
Speaker 4 (49:27):
Oh yeah, you're right .
Right, that'll be the samething for me.
The reason why, the reasonbehind the reason your credit
score is so, and honestly peopleI'm not going to honestly me I
wouldn't sit here and just belike, all right, we're on the
first date, so what's yourcredit score?
How much money do you make?
Do you make six figures, like?
(49:48):
Because I'm sure a certainresponse is I'm giving people
part of you think that I'm thattype of female.
No, my thing is my people thatdon't know me.
Speaker 1 (49:56):
OK, yeah.
Speaker 4 (49:56):
Yeah, 90210.
My thing is and it movingforward.
I've been in two majorrelationships and one of them
that guy was the guy with thelow credit score.
You know.
He was at a point in his lifewhere he was trying to find
himself and I dedicated so manyyears trying to make him become
(50:20):
a better person and at the endof the day it was.
I felt like it was all fornothing.
So, moving forward, I said oneI do decide to be in a
relationship.
I need to someone.
I need to meet someone that'sin the same page I'm in.
I don't have the energy anymoreto build somebody Makes sense.
Speaker 1 (50:39):
Yeah, you sound like you're struggling with emotion
over there right now, so I'mgoing to just take that away
from you.
I'm going to mute your mic andyeah, we just go on.
Speaker 2 (50:49):
Bay night, sexy nights and good food.
Speaker 1 (50:55):
I don't even know how we segue into this, because I'm
going to need, like, a goodstory.
Why is there annoying?
Speaker 4 (51:00):
voice.
Speaker 1 (51:02):
Yeah, because I'm trying to find solid footing at
this point.
You know we jumped out of.
We already know how, we alreadyknow what not to pull out when
we take you out on the dateRight.
So I need you to tell me abouta good time when somebody pulled
out something that wasn't acash apple or a time card.
Speaker 4 (51:27):
A good time where someone pulled out something.
Speaker 1 (51:29):
Yeah, it was a good time.
Speaker 4 (51:31):
Keep another honey with you.
The good dates, the perfect daynights that I've had is Bay
nights that I planned and I did.
So I'm going to tell you abouta Bay night that I planned for a
guy that I think was amazing.
Speaker 1 (51:48):
You going to be one with it?
No, all right.
Speaker 4 (51:50):
So it was his.
It was his birthday weekend.
He had never been to AtlanticCity, so I booked the room in
Atlantic City before we went outto Atlantic City.
Of course, we went to myfavorite spot, which is Jake's
State House.
Yeah, but go check it out.
Um, we drove out to AtlanticCity.
Stop why.
Speaker 1 (52:12):
Before you went to Atlantic City, you stopped in
the Bronx to have a steak.
Speaker 4 (52:15):
Yes, it's a nice restaurant.
Speaker 1 (52:19):
I just wanted to be clear.
Speaker 4 (52:20):
Yeah, we went to dinner there, and then that's
where I told him we were goingto Atlantic City.
He only he thought that wasjust going to be his birthday
present.
We went to Atlantic City.
I had rented a room at theBugata.
When we got there I had thechocolate covered strawberries
there already, the bottle ofwine.
Speaker 1 (52:37):
Who's the strawberries for you or him?
For both of us?
He liked the strawberries.
Yes, he liked them.
Speaker 4 (52:43):
He loved, so it wasn't.
Speaker 1 (52:44):
It wasn't one of those things that he would have
ever requested.
He likes chocolate coveredstrawberries.
Keep it a buck with me.
The strawberries were for you.
Speaker 4 (52:53):
No, he loved chocolate covered strawberries.
It used to be our team.
Speaker 1 (52:57):
It's not a y'all thing, though I'm sure they all
right, go ahead, I'm going tolet you go.
Speaker 4 (53:01):
He ate most of them.
I had like maybe two.
Anyway, when we got to the roomthe room, you know, was nicely
decorated and then he had nevergambled before I gave him money
so he could go downstairs.
We gambled.
We went on the broad walk.
I had some fun out there.
We came back to the room andyou know it was a wrap.
(53:24):
I gave him the Barbie 4000.
Speaker 1 (53:32):
The Barbie 4000.
Speaker 4 (53:34):
I don't know what that is.
One day.
Speaker 1 (53:36):
No, never the fuck is wrong with you.
Speaker 4 (53:41):
They had to be like Barbie 4000.
What's that?
Speaker 1 (53:43):
Yeah, for real, like the fucking Barbie for.
Speaker 4 (53:49):
So that was what you think.
You think that did a good jobwith that.
Speaker 2 (53:53):
Desert.
I hope you guys enjoyed yourmeal.
Can I get you something off ofour desert menu?
Speaker 1 (54:00):
I thought it probably 4000.
Barbie 4000.
They know that.
Yeah, I.
Hacks about me.
They mean, Like you were inback pages, the fuck out of here
.
See, this is what happens whenyou sip slow, because by the
(54:23):
time you get to the end of theshow, that's just start hitting
different Um.
All right, fuck that you drunk,let's talk about.
Um.
Let's talk about Let Me Touchyou podcast.
Let's talk about it.
Speaker 4 (54:35):
So Let Me Touch you podcast.
It's my amazing platform whereyou can come and listen to
episodes where I speak aboutdifferent situations.
I've been in differentsituations, close friends of
mine have been in and I give youthe best advice I can in like a
nice, positive, fun way.
Speaker 1 (54:55):
It's not one of those podcasts where you're going to
be bored and full of, she said,podcast is.
Speaker 4 (55:00):
It's a liquor Sorry.
Speaker 1 (55:02):
And I'm Puerto Rican.
We are not our own words.
Speaker 4 (55:04):
So now, podcast is any of the ways.
It's an amazing platform whereI give you guys positive
feedback on any and everysituation that you may come
across in life and a lot of myepisodes.
I'm joined by your favorite guy, my favorite, leo Styles.
Go check it out.
Speaker 1 (55:25):
Yeah, um, the other thing is, now that I got that
out of you, let's talk about therelease date, all right, so
what is it?
What are we going to do?
I'm going to put you on thespot.
Um, she's had like a fucking 10month layoff.
Speaker 4 (55:39):
Has it been tough.
Speaker 1 (55:40):
No, it's been a while .
Though it's been a while, Iwant to say it might have been
time.
March was your last episode andit was an amazing season last
last season.
Um, the new season will bestarting mid September.
Um, yeah, definitely midSeptember.
Speaker 4 (56:03):
I'm not making.
I didn't say that he did.
Speaker 1 (56:05):
Okay, mid September.
How much more time do you need?
Speaker 4 (56:11):
Cause I want to come back and, you know, come back
full force, the way you did.
Speaker 1 (56:16):
Yeah, but I even still, I was working behind the
scenes.
Needed the break right, butyou're not even talking about
working behind the scenes.
Speaker 4 (56:24):
Where's?
I'm gonna start working behindthe scenes starting today.
Speaker 1 (56:27):
All right, cool.
So you, the midst mid-september, that today's the fucking 16th
of all this September's rightthere.
That's 30 days away.
Bob, I'll try.
Not cool, that's the best youcan ask for.
I'm not even gonna talk aboutthe lives.
You know the Friday night liveand all that cuz.
(56:47):
We definitely need to bringthat back, but you know it is
what it is.
I'm gonna put you on the spotright now.
I'm gonna let you, I'm gonnalet you live.
Tell me they can find you actlike you've been on the podcast.
Speaker 4 (57:01):
Cuz now, right now, guys, I'm not gonna lie.
He has me thinking like that Ireally need to do Saturday you
do, that's what I had to do that.
Speaker 1 (57:09):
I, I literally what I did was I can't.
I was like yo, bob, check itout.
This is what I'm gonna do.
Let me people this is how thishappened.
This season happened like thisright, I took a layoff last year
, but apparently because I tooka layoff and then when everybody
else takes layoff, look what'sthat?
As you did it, I understandwhat I did, but I mean you, you
right, I gave you more time thanI took off.
Speaker 4 (57:30):
Whatever we did now that was today.
Speaker 1 (57:33):
So so, boom, when I did it, I was like, listen, I'm
gonna record X amount ofepisodes.
We wouldn't constant contactRight.
And then I said the only waythat I could really get this
done is to set a date.
I have to set a date and itworked towards that day.
So we're setting a day.
I don't even have, cuz I don'teven know what days you want to
come out on.
Speaker 4 (57:53):
Friday's, that's per usual All right cool, so the I.
Need a day in October.
Hold on, you know I got a setof day right now.
Speaker 1 (58:01):
We're gonna do this, listen, let's do.
Second week of october, secondweek of September, I can cuz cuz
why kids are starting school.
My schedule's gonna be hecticSeptember you know, every time
you talk and you talk about this, all I hear is wham.
That's it Um what I Reallyshould be entertaining the
(58:22):
people right October 13thOctober 13th yeah, that's far
ball.
Speaker 4 (58:28):
No, it's not.
Bogus is almost over.
I guess October 13th, it givesme enough time, I don't want to
rush it.
I guess.
Speaker 1 (58:39):
Listen, if you are, if you think that she should
come in before or come outbefore that, jumping DMs and
encourage her to come out beforeOctober 13th because you don't
need to come out like the secondweek of October.
That's stupid.
Speaker 4 (58:52):
Listen, october 13th will be the day that I drop my
first official episode.
In the meantime, I will beworking behind the scenes, I
will start being on social mediamore, I'll start, you know,
doing everything slowly butsurely, and I'll be back for
force October 13.
Speaker 1 (59:09):
Ma where can they find you?
Because it's bullshit.
Speaker 4 (59:12):
Man shit, you can find me on IG.
I let underscore me, underscoretouch, underscore you.
You can find me on twitter,which is now called what x?
It's called x dumb shit umfacebook, all streaming
platforms.
Speaker 1 (59:29):
Step time again and since we really don't know how
to say goodbye, I'm not gonnasay goodbye, but listen what I
will ask.
I'm not even asking if youliked it.
Please don't forget to like,comment, subscribe and shit.
Um, and that's homework also.
There is no.
Also, we'll catch you next week.
We'll save a seat at the tablefor you.
You are now rocking with the brunch hour podcast,
the best hour of the day.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
It's the only podcast I listen to.
Speaker 1 (00:11):
With your host styles .
What's goodie people we allback.
It's another week.
It's another week of me tryingto say hello without saying
hello.
It's just that.
It's just that I'm grateful.
(00:31):
I'm thankful because I do havea really good guest for y'all
today.
I'm going to be pissed off,though.
It's not my wife, and I keepsaying that.
You know she wasn't on thetrial, she last week we joked
about her having a trial periodas far as, like, being a host
and stuff like that.
I promise you it's not that.
That is not that coming tofruition.
(00:53):
And there's a meat grinder overhere.
We do run through host.
However, she won't be one ofthem.
Stuck in a good way, in a goodway.
I hope everybody's week wasgood.
You know, if you're listeningand you're driving, keep your
eyes on the road.
You know, if you're driving toTesla, keep your eyes on the
(01:16):
road, because it's notinfallible.
What else?
If you know somebody who isjust like you and a like is what
we like to call them Send themthe podcast.
The more, the merrier.
You guys will have something totalk about.
It'll be great, right?
So we're going to start theshow.
Well, I'm not even start toshow off, I'm bugging once again
(01:38):
.
We're going to start off withthis, okay, so listen up, listen
closely, follow me.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
I expected you have a Wow.
I expected more.
You should be expecting stuffso early on.
I didn't lie, I didn't lie.
I didn't lie about you two I'mhere for a reason.
Speaker 2 (01:50):
I didn't lie about you two.
I didn't lie about you two.
I didn't lie about you two.
I didn't lie about you two.
I didn't lie about you two.
I didn't lie about you two.
I'm here for a reason.
This is the second day.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
I'm here for a reason .
Speaker 2 (01:59):
I'm here for a reason .
Speaker 3 (02:00):
You're good Because you want to go to the capital to
build?
Okay, I want to go out.
I want to stay in Okay, youshould have told me that you
should communicate.
Speaker 4 (02:08):
I communicate with you.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
Exactly.
You guys don't want tocommunicate, y'all want to say
it.
Speaker 3 (02:12):
Y'all have some of the shots on.
I can really pull up and takeyou where you got from.
Why don't you go with them then?
Okay, why don't you go withthem?
You go with them, since theyare so much better than me.
Y'all want to go with them.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
So let me paint the picture for you.
This gentleman actually fixedher plate they're at his house
Fixed her plate of food.
You know he did his thing asfar as like the plate plating
and stuff like that, it lookedreal good.
She shows up she's thinkingthat she's going out for a meal,
but instead, you know, hecooked a meal Right.
(02:45):
So a very small thing turnedinto a very big thing and at
that point I started counting myblessings.
I am not dating anymore andthis is great because you know I
was an asshole.
Speaker 3 (02:58):
No rice, no champagne .
You don't eat nothing.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
And I'm not playing, that was me all day long and I
just have a little bit ofanother little sprinkle of
disrespect.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
Don't be acting like you fuck with me.
You really don't Fuck off myline.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
And then we can start the show.
Speaker 3 (03:21):
I guess, I used to be in love with this bitch.
They mean J the fuck with her.
No more.
Now I fuck with Tango Ray.
Tango Ray, hey yo, what's in?
Speaker 4 (03:30):
the.
We need two shots combo Thentake me away, all right.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
So boom, listen, this week we back to them.
I don't even want to say backto, because that shit is
disrespectful, I'm not even backto.
I got my my road dog with me,barbie from let me touch you
podcast.
Speaker 4 (03:54):
Hey guys.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
Why do you like every female that I have to get some
money?
Speaker 4 (04:00):
I always say hey guys .
Speaker 1 (04:01):
I understand, but with the annoying voice like
that though, it's annoying, I'msorry Now my voice is annoying,
right out the gate.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
It's already starting with me, you see right out the
gate.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
This is before we do that, though, before we put the
boxing gloves on, let's telleverybody what we're drinking.
So it's called a Henny fruitroll up.
I did leave out an importantingredient.
I guess it's important Notreally so important, because it
still tastes good, but it'sHennessy fruit punch and
pineapple mango juice.
It's supposed to have sweet andsour mix, but I totally left
(04:34):
that out.
What do you think?
Speaker 4 (04:35):
No, I think it's good without the sweet and sour.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
It would have been like too sour Too sour, that's a
word.
Speaker 4 (04:42):
Yeah, it's my word Shut up.
It's time for you to get backto podcasting.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
Your vocabulary is slipping.
Speaker 4 (04:46):
It would have been too sour because it has like
that little.
It already has like a sour,sour taste to it.
Speaker 1 (04:54):
Listen, everybody listening to this voice right
now, you can thank me later.
I dragged that out of her bed,not literally, figuratively, all
right, I brought it back fromthe dead, resuscitated up.
Speaker 4 (05:05):
Yes, and I appreciate you for doing that.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
Where you been, bob, I've been home.
Speaker 4 (05:08):
You've been home.
I've been home with my children.
You know, healing, yourfavorite word.
I fucking hate that word.
Yeah, I had to take some timeout but I'll be back.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
Sometimes.
Well, I'm back.
Speaker 4 (05:20):
You know what I'm here.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
Wait, Bob, everybody Don't fuck around on my platform
.
With that I'm hearing I'm back.
Speaker 4 (05:26):
Yeah, are you really back though?
Speaker 1 (05:28):
Oh, ok, there we go.
Speaker 4 (05:29):
This is the stepping stone to me being back.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
I ain't no, goddamn stepping stone.
Speaker 4 (05:35):
This is what is the beginning.
What a whole bunch of greatness.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
When can we expect?
Just no.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
I'll say that for later.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
I'll save it for later.
You will do it, but I'm savingfor later.
So for everybody that doesn'tknow, bob, she has a podcast
called Let Me Touch you.
It's amazing.
It's a self-help podcast.
I'm not big on self-helppodcast, but the way that she
delivers the message, I love it.
You want to talk a little bitabout it, or you want?
To wait till later, because wewait till later, is it?
Speaker 4 (06:04):
on the Orthodox yeah, you did good.
That's a good way to start itoff and then we'll talk about it
later.
I'll get into more detailslater.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
There you have it.
Podcast is on the podcast.
This is my podcast.
Speaker 4 (06:15):
So then, what you want me to do, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
All right, let's get started All right, so boom.
This is different from whenwe've had you on in the past.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
All right.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
So we have an icebreaker right now so
everybody can get to know you,the people that don't know you.
All right, so it's quick fire.
I don't like the backstory, allright.
Speaker 4 (06:32):
So you know I love giving them to you.
So I'll make it short andsimple.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
I appreciate that you ready, ready.
All right Text, call orFaceTime.
Speaker 4 (06:41):
Call Texting is.
You know?
It's like I feel with textingyou can just text me now, I can
text you back, and you couldtake like three hours to write
back to me and it's going to getme upset.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
So you rather the person call you.
Speaker 4 (06:54):
Yeah, if you FaceTime me, you're invading my space.
I'm going to ignore you andcall you.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
That's the third time that I've heard invading my
space with FaceTime.
Why?
Do y'all act like you can'tignore the FaceTime.
You can All right then.
Speaker 4 (07:06):
Who gave you the?
Who made you think that you hadthe right to FaceTime me, like
only my kids can FaceTime me?
Speaker 1 (07:16):
Fair enough.
Anyway, I'm going to move offof that angry topic.
Shoot your shot of chilling thecut.
Speaker 4 (07:22):
Shoot a shoot.
I'm going to shoot my shot.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
if I want it, I'm going to go for it, you fucking
up right now because they'regoing to go to your Instagram
page.
Shoot a shoot, it won't be likeoh she a gangster.
Speaker 4 (07:35):
Yeah, cause I'm going to chill in the cut and nah,
nah, shoot a shoot.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
I'm going to go get you All right, ps, she's from
the Bronx.
Anyway, in your social circle,what would you say is the ratio
of entrepreneurs versus nine tofive die holders?
Speaker 4 (07:54):
I just recently changed my circle.
Um, you know, when you elevatein your life, you have to leave
some people behind,unfortunately.
I love them, but I would saythe entrepreneurs everyone is an
entrepreneur in my circle rightnow Is that right.
Yeah, they do the entrepreneurstuff and then they do the nine
(08:14):
to five as well.
So okay.
Who those two done, did a realMVP's.
Speaker 1 (08:19):
Oh shit, okay, um wasn't ready.
Um, I know you grew up onalternative music.
What's your song for the seasonof your life?
Speaker 4 (08:34):
This season.
The song I have been listeningto some of you might know it or
not it's called happy by LeonaLewis.
No.
Speaker 2 (08:46):
No.
Speaker 4 (08:48):
It's the what, like I said, I've been healing right,
so it's a song that I play everymorning to remind myself to be
happy.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
Yeah, cause everybody needs a reminder.
They want to be happy Um, whocan call you at 3am and get you
out of your bed?
Speaker 4 (09:06):
My children close friends you.
Speaker 1 (09:11):
The circle.
Speaker 4 (09:12):
Yeah, the circle, and you're in that circle, by the
way.
Speaker 1 (09:15):
No, okay, it's funny, cause I asked my wife the same
thing, right, and she didn't sayme, because I guess the way
that our phones are set up, likein the beginning when we
started dating, I could call herat 10 minutes after four in the
morning and she would roll overand answer that phone.
Speaker 4 (09:35):
Now she I say you just go by yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:39):
We just and it's, it's what basically is like.
Vice versa now we're like bothlike super comfortable.
So it's like you know, we knowlike don't call me before 8am in
the morning, unless it's a yeah, crazy, crazy, crazy, crazy.
All right, um, um, um, whatdrink do you?
What drink do you start brunchoff with?
Speaker 4 (10:01):
Hennie and Red Bull.
Speaker 1 (10:03):
Hennie and Red Bull.
Mm-hmm, she's from the Bronx,forget her.
She knows not what she saysright now.
Speaker 4 (10:08):
That's the best, that's the drink.
Speaker 1 (10:10):
That's a fucking sledgehammer, though that's not
even a.
Uh, that's the best thing ever.
All right, Fuck it.
Um, I started drinking Hennie Cbecause of you.
I still don't like it straight.
Pause.
But I'm just saying I coulddrink a straight.
I'm sure you from the fuckingBronx.
If you could live in any sitcom, what would it be?
Speaker 4 (10:33):
Um damn, again some old school stuff.
Speaker 3 (10:39):
Mm-hmm.
Speaker 4 (10:40):
It would be Beverly Hills night, or two or no.
Speaker 1 (10:45):
All right.
I need to be careful because Iam starting to get like
advertisers and stuff like that.
So I got to watch my mouth, andafter the Alabama incident I
really got to watch my mouth.
You know, but the tiger can'tchange his stripes.
Speaker 4 (10:59):
So but I will redo with my crew.
Speaker 1 (11:02):
But you can't see is the thing.
This is what throws me.
You drink, hennie, but you wantto be a 90210.
Speaker 4 (11:08):
So what happened?
Speaker 1 (11:10):
This shit is a contradiction.
It doesn't make sense.
Speaker 4 (11:12):
Why?
Just because I drink honey.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
I'm going to let you do the fucking math.
Speaker 4 (11:15):
It's easy two and two , four, no, Just because I drink
honey doesn't mean anything.
But what the fuck?
I can be a 90210 taking shotswith Brenda and.
Speaker 1 (11:26):
Dylan and not a Hennie.
Speaker 4 (11:29):
Well, we can be drinking wine.
Speaker 1 (11:30):
It's kind of like you know what I almost expected you
to say.
Friends, I'm not going to holdyou.
Speaker 4 (11:37):
Friends is one of my favorites.
Speaker 1 (11:39):
It comes, friends is just basically 90210 grown up.
Speaker 4 (11:43):
Yeah, but I don't want to be a grown up, that's a
whole shit Like I want to goback to those younger years.
Speaker 1 (11:48):
Good.
This leads me into my nextquestion what child is things
you still do as an adult?
Speaker 4 (11:56):
Watched.
I just rewatched it.
By the way, guys, let me see, Idon't think I do anything
besides reliving those yearswatching those old shows.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
That's not a challenge.
Speaker 4 (12:13):
Some might say it is.
There's some people that whenthey call me they be like what
you doing, watching out toanother, like Barbie, howl Do
you?
Speaker 1 (12:19):
know Right, so let's take a deeper dive.
What do you consider childish?
Speaker 4 (12:24):
People that ignore people and go from people,
little shit like that.
Speaker 1 (12:30):
That's not even child , that's petty.
I'm going to really need you tobuckle down on this one, you
ready.
Speaker 4 (12:35):
Yeah, go ahead, I'm focused listening.
Speaker 1 (12:37):
What do you consider childish?
Speaker 4 (12:41):
Exactly what I said to you that you consider that
petty, but I consider that pettyand childish.
Speaker 1 (12:46):
Oh, petty and childish.
What do you consider justchildish I?
Speaker 4 (12:53):
don't know.
Speaker 1 (12:54):
What the fuck, yeah like.
Speaker 2 (12:59):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (13:00):
Like these, still play with Barbies, like childish
that's okay, no, I don't playwith Barbie dolls.
Speaker 4 (13:06):
That's yeah, that's super childish, though.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
Listen, I guess they're very in degrees of
childish, but I'm just trying toget to the generalization of
childish.
Speaker 4 (13:15):
I don't do anything childish, you don't no?
Speaker 1 (13:17):
You're a complete grown ass.
Speaker 4 (13:18):
A grown ass woman from the Bronx that drinks honey
and red bull and wants to be a90210.
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
Get out of here All right.
All right.
What would you consider to be adecent amount to spend on a
first date?
Give it some thought.
This is a lightning rod 150.
150?
Okay, what would that 150consist of?
How would you spend that?
(13:44):
Like you know, just do thiscourt and you want to grab,
because that's how the kids doit nowadays, and you agree to
meet up when you meeting Firstof all.
Yes, the whole meetup.
Remember, it's a first date,right?
So you're taking this from you.
You have decided I need to stopdrinking.
You have decided to move thisoffline I mean, yeah, offline
(14:08):
from where you were.
So you guys are meeting up, I'massuming, because you're not
going to go downstairs and hopinto somebody's car that you
haven't met before.
Speaker 4 (14:17):
No, yeah, we're going to meet up at the spot.
Speaker 1 (14:19):
Got you, and what spot is this?
Speaker 4 (14:21):
A restaurant.
Speaker 1 (14:22):
What restaurant?
Speaker 4 (14:23):
is this Are we in New York?
Speaker 1 (14:27):
I mean you live in New York.
Why would I change a geographiclocation?
Speaker 4 (14:33):
Well, my favorite restaurant is Jake's Steakhouse.
Speaker 1 (14:36):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (14:37):
So we'll be meeting up at Jake's Steakhouse.
Speaker 1 (14:39):
Where's Jake's Steakhouse?
Speaker 4 (14:41):
It's on Broadway.
Speaker 1 (14:42):
In the city.
Oh, is it Okay.
Speaker 4 (14:45):
I'm saying the Bronx, I give up.
Got, you got you, we'll bethere.
Speaker 1 (14:50):
We'll meet up there.
Speaker 2 (14:51):
Have dinner.
Speaker 4 (14:52):
Some wine and for the first day.
I think that would be good,Just the dinner for me.
Speaker 1 (15:00):
Just the dinner.
Speaker 4 (15:01):
Yeah, just in case, like I wouldn't want him to plan
too much, because if I don'tlike the way the dinner goes,
then I have to do all the othershit and I don't want to be
there, got you?
So that's why I say 150 wouldbe good.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
What?
150 for yourself?
No for both.
Yeah but it's a Steakhousethough I'm assuming, I'm
thinking like more intosomething like that.
So if it's a Steakhouse, I'massuming you're looking at you
know, just for like the threecourses, 75 per person.
That's 150, right there youdrinking, or you drinking that
water with the ice in it.
Speaker 4 (15:31):
I'm drinking, but I'm not that type of person to go
out to dinner and I needappetizers and to dinner and to
dessert, Like you know, I'llskip the appetizers, because if
I have appetizers I'm not goingto eat my meal.
But that's just me To fuck.
I won't.
Speaker 1 (15:48):
That is truly some hood shit.
And when I say hood shit, I'mnot even saying it in a
derogatory manner towards you,because I feel the same way.
Speaker 4 (15:57):
Yeah, I can, Like I can't get filled with the
appetizer when the meal I'mgoing to end up taking it home.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
Yeah, exactly Like, exactly, exactly.
I'm with you 100% on that,because, um, the way I grew up
is like appetite why the fuckare we?
I didn't.
I never Understood the purposeof an appetizer.
And then, the old god, I waslike it's not appetizer because
the other shit's gonna takeextremely long and you just want
to.
You know, I had that thoughtand also had to thought yeah,
(16:23):
motherfuckers just want to getevery dime out of me.
Speaker 4 (16:26):
Exactly you know, then the first day, honestly
again, this is just me.
I'm not gonna get nothing crazyto eat because I'm real.
If he like an picky with eatingand I don't want to eat it,
certain like I get nervous andTo eat a certain way.
This one time I went out on adate with a guy.
(16:46):
He was just looking at me theway I cut my steak and he
thought I was just weird forcutting my steak the way I do.
Speaker 1 (16:54):
I'm funny like that too, as far as, like the, the
types of food and shit like that, like I Don't know the way my
stomach is set up now with daysMight be because I'm getting
older, I don't fucking know.
But um, yeah, it's like.
Speaker 4 (17:08):
I'll have something simple, first thing.
Speaker 1 (17:10):
We're like Jello, give me some Jello.
Speaker 4 (17:15):
Something that doesn't require too much, like
we ain't going to eat no crablegs.
And another first thing no crablegs.
Speaker 1 (17:22):
I mean that's like because it's they always say
don't eat finger food, like onthe first day.
Shit pretty much on any.
Don't wait till you're marriedto your finger food.
You know we actually went to aspot in the Bronx Shit the name
escapes me.
Speaker 4 (17:38):
That's not good, but anyway that means it wasn't that
good.
Speaker 1 (17:42):
No, was it was.
It was phenomenal actually.
That's not actually ordered.
The fried crab leg Right.
And the funny thing about friedcrab legs what happens is when
you fry it, I'm allergic toshellfish so I don't even eat
the shit.
You know, not a bottom feeder,the can you not hit stuff on the
(18:04):
fucking?
I'm just fucking with you.
So when you fry it, it changesthe texture of the meat in the
claw so it makes it moredifficult to actually take out.
And the other thing is, can Iask you guys a question?
Oh, you fried crab leg eatingpeople.
Why do you fry the crab leglike and then season the thing?
Speaker 4 (18:30):
I've never had a fried crab legs.
Speaker 1 (18:32):
They seasoned it, it looked amazing.
But then, when Reality set inand I was sitting in logic and
all of that, like you can't eatthe shell, what the fuck is that
like?
Speaker 4 (18:45):
a sad zone.
Lollipop, Like you see.
Speaker 1 (18:48):
I see some of that but that's different, though,
you know, because the set, the,the boil actually goes, you know
, into the shadows.
Speaker 2 (18:57):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (18:58):
Thanks.
You know they season the shelland fried it, so I'm sitting
there.
Speaker 3 (19:03):
I have to try it.
Speaker 1 (19:04):
It had a crust and everything and I'm like I'm
amazed.
I'm looking at it like oh, thisis fucking awesome.
But then, initially, initially.
But then she tried to.
You know, of course she wastrying to eat it and you know it
was difficult to pull a meatout because it changes the
texture of it so it kind of likebinds to the shell on the
(19:26):
inside.
We're about to see full boil.
What happens is when you crackit and pull it, it just slides
right the fuck out.
Pause.
I'm gonna be here just having abunch of pause moments, but that
whole thing.
And then of course I'm standinghere with the gestures and shit
with the hands.
Speaker 4 (19:41):
I'm glad I can't see that, waiting for him to say
pause.
Speaker 1 (19:44):
Yeah, it's crazy.
Speaker 2 (19:46):
Main course is time to eat what's on your mind.
Speaker 1 (19:51):
All right.
So this week I feel like Ilined y'all up.
You started off with amonologue talking about.
You know dating andUnappreciative people.
You know male and female.
Speaker 2 (20:01):
You know equal opportunity.
Speaker 1 (20:02):
Yeah, it just happened to be a female, because
that's the only clip that Icould find.
Um, and then sliding into the,you know the happy hour, and in
a happy hour we ended off withhow much you would want to spend
on on the first day.
You know your expectations,what your expectations.
No, yeah it was an awkwardpause, but you can go.
Speaker 4 (20:30):
Okay, um.
So with that, and it's not justbecause she's a female and I'm
gonna defend her.
She does have a point, though,if you tell a female I'm gonna
pick you up and we're gonna goout and you bring me to your
house.
I'm gonna look at you like whyare we in your house?
Speaker 1 (20:51):
See, and this is gonna be the first argument that
we have tonight, Okay, I'mready for it.
All right, so boom.
How did you get that out ofwhat?
What went on there, she said,she said you told me we were
going out right.
Speaker 4 (21:05):
And they ended up at her at his house right, this was
date two.
Speaker 1 (21:09):
also, did you hear that?
Speaker 4 (21:10):
Yes, okay, he should have said listen for date two
instead of us going out.
I wanted to do somethingspecial for you and prepare
something for you in my house,right?
And she would have beenmentally prepared for that.
What if she wasn't ready to goto his house?
Okay, what if she has some pasttrauma that you know?
Something happened to?
Speaker 1 (21:27):
her when she went to a guy's house.
Let me ask you a question.
You kind of the crib right.
The dude actually makes yourplate, puts it in front of you.
You gonna spaz out like thatthough.
Speaker 4 (21:37):
No, I'm not gonna she right, all right, so be lady
like yeah, I got understandmiscommunication.
Speaker 1 (21:44):
You know, and that was a complete that that fucking
flag was maroon.
It wasn't even right.
This shit was maroon, right?
No, we don't.
We don't do that.
And if you, you don't do thatand then bring up communication,
you don't even know how tocommunicate.
Speaker 4 (22:00):
Yeah, dad, I agree with you 100% the way she.
Speaker 1 (22:07):
You don't have a choice.
You gotta agree with that, yeahher delivery.
Speaker 4 (22:12):
If she would have said it a different way, it
didn't have to escalate the waydid.
Mm-hmm she should have justsimply said you know, I
appreciate you doing this, butthis is not what I had in mind.
If she wasn't ready to go tohis house, she should have just
said that too, before evencoming out the car, like why are
we pulling up in your house?
But it's a hour defense.
Speaker 1 (22:34):
Who's?
Speaker 4 (22:34):
hour to the ladies defenses.
Whenever you're gonna saysomething, just do that.
That's it.
Speaker 1 (22:43):
Okay, um.
Speaker 3 (22:46):
No, there's no rice, no champagne.
You don't eat nothing.
I'm a star.
Speaker 1 (22:52):
You won't stop cuz I'm yeah, none of that, none of
that.
Speaker 4 (22:57):
And he was trying to get in her pants.
I'm gonna do all this for herwine and dying her.
Speaker 2 (23:02):
Give her something to drink.
We're ready, chilling in thecrib.
Speaker 1 (23:05):
She's comfortable.
Speaker 4 (23:06):
One thing Kaleeta, another Right wham-bam, no, all
right.
Speaker 1 (23:09):
So this is the thing.
The end result for every day ishopefully to get in somebody's
pants.
I mean, I don't.
Speaker 4 (23:15):
I hate to.
Speaker 1 (23:16):
I hate to break the fucking news to you, for women
too.
It's just that you guys listen,whether it's the first date,
the tenth date or six months inyour case, right, it doesn't
matter.
The end result is the hopes toactually do that, for that to
happen, you know, um, I'm on theway.
We hope to find a littleemotional connection.
(23:38):
You know shit like that, um,but we do.
Ultimately, it's not like.
You know why.
What's your purpose when you'regoing out on the tape?
Speaker 4 (23:49):
To get to know someone to see if I do have a
connection with them, toeventually sleep with them.
Shut the fuck up, bob.
Speaker 1 (23:57):
This is what I'm talking about.
You don't have to agree with mein a subtle manner.
Take the hand out, do what youneed to do the fuck.
Eventually I'm winning overhere.
Speaker 4 (24:08):
It's a W for the men over here, Not on the second
date.
That's all I gotta say.
Speaker 1 (24:11):
Guys, Come on man, it could happen on the second date
, mm-mm, yeah, it could.
Speaker 3 (24:15):
Not with me.
Speaker 1 (24:16):
Wow.
Speaker 3 (24:17):
No ribs, no rice, no champagne.
You don't eat nothing.
Speaker 1 (24:23):
I mean, yeah, from your house, take your ass home.
Mm-hmm, I will.
And see, I like how you builtthe story around your point.
She was like, and he justpulled up to her house.
We don't know that that's howshe got there.
Speaker 4 (24:36):
She must have, he must have picked off.
And you what?
Speaker 1 (24:39):
the fuck, it's all right.
Speaker 4 (24:41):
If she, if he would have told her oh, you come into
my house and we're gonna chillhere, she would have started the
argument off rib.
Speaker 1 (24:48):
Oh my God, she probably would have, because she
was a Tasmanian devil, yeah,mm-hmm, and she ain't looked
apart either, like mine.
You going, wow right now.
Look like an angry fuckinghamster, eat that steak and be
happy it looked good, though Dothese?
Speaker 4 (25:02):
the Fenty did a good job setting everything up.
He did he did.
Speaker 1 (25:05):
I politely put that shit in some tupperware but you
know, gave him one of themfucking nine.
Speaker 4 (25:11):
I'd have had to find a plastic bag or a paper bag,
and she didn't even deserve totake it home with the way she
responded.
Speaker 1 (25:16):
The dude was a gentleman?
Yeah, he was, so he would havedefinitely sent it with her.
Speaker 4 (25:20):
But there's a reason why she must have reacted that
way.
That's what I gotta say.
I'ma leave it there.
Yeah, I too, i'ma leave itthere.
Speaker 1 (25:28):
How would you feel if your date pays with cash app
chime, a giffy or grubon?
Speaker 3 (25:35):
I wouldn't mind.
Speaker 1 (25:36):
I'm asking a rural person Now that I'm older.
Old, you're older yeah.
Speaker 4 (25:40):
Just a Hennessy.
Now that I'm older I would notmind.
The younger version of me wouldhave looked at him like he
crazy.
But now you know the mother offour got bills to pay.
Like I'm grateful he's at leasttaking me out on a date.
You're that bad, no but youknow, not everybody got it like
(26:04):
that.
Like what I'm taking the timeout to actually go look for a
group.
I wouldn't mind a grubon allright, that's it.
I wouldn't mind a grubon, agift card.
Speaker 1 (26:14):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (26:15):
Cash app card.
Speaker 1 (26:18):
I'm not going to hold you.
It takes a special kind ofconfidence to from a man's
standpoint, in my standpoint, afucking man's standpoint,
because I don't think it's my,you know abandon ship once I say
what I gotta say.
But it takes a special type ofconfidence to actually show up
on the first date with a grubon.
Speaker 4 (26:36):
I was about to ask you that it's the first date.
Yeah, yeah, I couldn't do it.
The first date.
It does take a special personto do that.
Like you gotta feel extracomfortable with me in order to
do that.
Speaker 1 (26:50):
Not only that, but remember, perception is
everything.
And if you don't know my fullstory, this is the first date,
the first time we've ever spenttime in each other's company or
whatnot.
If you don't know my story, youknow I don't want you to start
building a story from thisgrubon date.
Speaker 4 (27:09):
But a grubon is not bad.
Speaker 1 (27:11):
No, it's not.
See, there's a thing, there'snothing wrong with it.
But remember, let's go back tothe root of it.
Perception is everything.
This is the first encounterthat we've had and time we spent
together.
Speaker 4 (27:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (27:20):
I don't want to dig a hole in and basically start off
by trying to find my way out ofthat hole.
Speaker 2 (27:28):
You get what I'm saying, yeah.
Speaker 1 (27:29):
Because I don't want to do that.
I just don't want to do it, soI couldn't.
I personally, I couldn't do it.
Speaker 4 (27:36):
The only thing like out of the three that you
mentioned, that I might be alittle iffy about would be the
cash out card, because if youdon't listen, you don't have a
bank account.
That means that you owe moneysomewhere to some bank for
something, so that means youdon't know how to manage your
money and all you can have rightnow is a cash out card.
Speaker 1 (27:58):
Bobby from the Bronx.
He pulls out the cash out card.
You going to question him aboutit.
Speaker 4 (28:02):
I'm not going to question him, I'm going to look
at him.
At least he's paying the bill.
We ain't got to watch no dishesor I ain't got to pull out my
card, but I'm going to look atit.
Like you know, I'm going tostart doing my investigation and
ask some other questions Fallensee what I'm talking about.
Speaker 1 (28:16):
Perception is everything.
If you ain't got no money, youknow, or, pardon, if you don't
have a debit card, a regulardebit card, but you know what?
There's so many different debitcards that you can get.
Now, with days outside of acash out card, cash out cards,
they don't.
My antennas aren't raised ifyou pull out a cash out card.
Speaker 4 (28:35):
But usually people with cash out and chime is
people that they can't get aregular bank account because
they owe other banks money orthey owe child support.
They owe somewhere something.
Speaker 1 (28:45):
Well, let me put you on.
I have two cash out cards onefor the business and a personal
one.
So if a person like myself tookyou out on the first date and I
pulled it out, that's what youautomatically jump into.
Speaker 4 (28:56):
Maybe I'm not going to say here, lie, yeah, I'll be
like let me explain how unfairthat is Right.
Speaker 1 (29:01):
It's unfair to the point of we sit down and you're
like yo, I got four kids.
It would be unfair of me toassume that they all have the
same father without asking.
I'm just in my head assuminglike it would be unfair, right?
So it's unfair of you tosuggest that I don't have a bank
account because I pulled out mycash out.
Speaker 4 (29:18):
That's why I said I'm not going to assume I'm going
to investigate.
You're which, I do have a cashout card, but you're
investigating based off anassumption.
Of course yeah.
Speaker 1 (29:28):
You just said you're not going to assume.
Speaker 4 (29:31):
Yeah, you're right, I am assuming I'm, going to do my
private eye investigation justto make sure that my assumptions
are correct, Right and see iswomen like you.
Speaker 1 (29:42):
that makes me not have the confidence to show up
on a group because you're goingto assume something else and I
don't want that.
I don't need that.
Speaker 4 (29:53):
Now I feel you, I see what you're saying, right.
Speaker 1 (29:55):
But the group on.
Speaker 4 (29:56):
Honestly, I'm listening, I wouldn't care about
the group on, because it's likeoh, he knows how to save money.
Okay, he can probably show mehow to save some money.
Speaker 1 (30:04):
Okay, until y'all split in a plate.
Speaker 4 (30:07):
No, because with the I've gone on dates with Groupon.
Speaker 1 (30:10):
First dates.
Speaker 4 (30:11):
No.
Speaker 1 (30:12):
Okay, so there lies the comfort person's actually
comfortable with you.
I mean I would do that now,like me, and my wife will figure
something out, you know, I meanjust to make sure that the
experience we all bougie.
So we want to make sure theexperience is crazy.
But if we can get it forcheaper, let's do it.
Speaker 4 (30:30):
No, of course.
You know, it was a guy that putme on to Groupon.
I didn't know nothing aboutGroupon and I wanted to go
somewhere.
I think I was going to GreyWolf Lodge with the kids and he
was like, oh, you know, theyhave it on Groupon.
They have a 40% off.
I was like, what is a Groupon?
And he put me on to it.
So I was like, oh look.
I was like, oh, thank you,you're helping me save money.
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So I appreciated that.
It was the first day.
Speaker 1 (30:55):
No, he was helping me save money for something that I
was going to do with the kidsCopy.
All right, I mean again.
You keep going to the labtalking about first days.
Speaker 4 (31:04):
No, first day, like I said, we pulled out a cash out
for Chime.
There was one time I went outwith a guy and he pulled out a
Chime card.
And he pulled out a card andI'm looking at his card Listen,
I'm not bougie, I'm not nothing,because if it just is what it
is, I'm not going to say he andLidia.
He pulled out a card and I'mtrying to figure out what
fucking type of card is that.
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And he felt uncomfortablepaying with the card because he
pulled out the card and he wenttowards the waitress.
He didn't even let the waitresscome to the table with the bill
.
Then, when I realized it was aChime card, and then, you know,
as our relationship got a littledeeper and we started talking,
the situation that I mentionedearlier like he owes other banks
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money, he can't get a bankaccount.
Speaker 1 (31:50):
My man, you should have just passed up on that.
You know what I mean.
Anyway, because I'm just sayingthis is my thing From my
perspective, because it's alittle different.
Normally, you know, men takewomen out on first dates, not in
reverse.
You know, it's kind of likethat whole stigma of women
proposing, but that's a wholeother story.
So, from my perspective, aslong as nobody's doing dishes at
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the end of the night or thecops aren't being called, that
was a good night, it was asuccessful night.
You know, I don't think that.
You know this dude pulling outa charm card or a cash app card,
you know he should get strikesagainst him.
That doesn't make any sense tome.
For instance, my cash app card,direct deposit coming out of my
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check, that goes to my cash appcard, the business cash app
card.
Speaker 4 (32:45):
Actually, you know, like I don't, I'm struggling
with your, your reason behindall cash, I think Because some
people people like us use it forthose type of reasons.
Speaker 1 (32:58):
Why do you keep seeing people like us Like?
Speaker 4 (33:00):
us that we can have regular bank accounts.
Speaker 1 (33:02):
Yo your discrimination right now.
Speaker 4 (33:04):
No, listen people.
Speaker 1 (33:05):
It's palpable.
Speaker 4 (33:07):
People that can have regular bank accounts.
We do because, like I said, Ihave cash up, my kids have cash
up and I use cash up for otherreasons.
I use it as one of my savingsaccount.
I transfer money there to save,so I won't see it in my regular
account that I normally use.
Speaker 1 (33:24):
But why doesn't your date get the same benefit of the
doubt when he pulls out hiscash app card to pay for your
steak dinner?
Speaker 3 (33:31):
He just didn't.
No ribs, no rice, no champagne.
You don't eat nothing, yo.
Speaker 4 (33:40):
I'm not going to sit here and try to figure out a way
to fix it.
Like when the guy pulled outthe chime card, I was just like
no, it wasn't it, but I was justlike it was a red.
It was like a red flag for me.
Speaker 1 (33:51):
But you guys went on more days though.
Speaker 4 (33:54):
No.
Speaker 1 (33:55):
That was it.
Speaker 4 (33:55):
Yeah, but it wasn't because of the chime card.
Speaker 1 (33:57):
What was it?
I'm curious.
Speaker 4 (33:59):
He just what had a lot of red flags.
Speaker 1 (34:03):
He had chime characteristics.
What the fuck?
What was happening?
He eventually, as we kepttalking, you realized he didn't
have a bank account.
Speaker 4 (34:14):
Yeah, he didn't have a bank account.
Speaker 1 (34:16):
What the fuck.
Speaker 4 (34:17):
And he wasn't.
And I'm not judging nobodyagain because I'm not in the
best space in my life, like mylife is all together.
I don't have 800 credit score,but he was in a point in his
life where he couldn't have anaccount.
He owed money in a whole bunchof places and it was just like I
can't, it was something that Icouldn't.
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I've invested a lot of years inmen trying to help men be
better and I'm sorry, but I'mnot doing that again.
Speaker 1 (34:45):
Let me ask you a question as far as friends are
concerned.
Could you have a friend with alow credit score?
I'm just asking you could, okay, stop, I'm glad you said that.
So, with that being said, youdon't have to be fucking this
individual, right?
Because you were romanticallyinterested in him and he had a
400 credit score.
He was like I can't fuck withyou, I can't even be your friend
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.
Speaker 4 (35:07):
We're friends.
I'm still friends with thecharm guy.
Speaker 1 (35:08):
Oh, you are.
Yeah, are you making him abetter man?
Speaker 4 (35:12):
Yes, I'm helping him elevate, himself.
Speaker 1 (35:14):
And he just can't get no buns.
Speaker 4 (35:16):
Nah, I can't.
Speaker 1 (35:18):
He was like you got to get your credit score up fam.
Speaker 4 (35:21):
Listen, I'm the type of person, people that if I am,
if I decide to be sexuallyintimate with you, is because I
see a future with you.
Speaker 1 (35:30):
And a high credit score.
Speaker 4 (35:32):
And if you're at a place in your life where you
can't, I'm just just out of thefuck up.
Just forget it.
Speaker 1 (35:39):
Keep going, Come on you from the Bronx, let's go.
Speaker 4 (35:44):
If you're at a place in your life, depending on your
age to age is a huge factor.
If you're at a place in yourlife where you really can't, we
can't help each other and allyou're going to do is just hold
me back, slow down my process,my goals.
I can't.
Speaker 1 (36:01):
Was he?
Was he an energy sucker?
Yes, he was All right say that,so there's nothing to talk
about that.
Speaker 4 (36:07):
Yeah, it was too much .
I felt like I was investing toomuch in him and I wasn't going
to get anything in return.
Speaker 1 (36:12):
I tried to lawyer up just now, but I can't defend
that guy.
It's not going to work.
Yeah, it's not going to work.
Okay, so we went over theeconomics of dating and stuff
like that.
Oh, I got a question, though.
Here's my question.
Speaker 4 (36:29):
I'm scared.
Speaker 1 (36:30):
No, no, no, we good.
So you start off therelationship, your past date one
and two.
When is it okay?
Or when do you startentertaining the idea in your
head of going Dutch or evenpaying for it by yourself?
After the first date oh, afterthe first date you go Dutch, and
then you also pay for an entiremeal.
Speaker 4 (36:53):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (36:53):
Yeah, like, how does that work?
What does that look like?
Speaker 4 (36:57):
All right.
So the first date is amazing,Like we hit it off great and I
want to spend time with youagain.
I will initiate the second dateand I'm the type of person if I
invite you it's because I'mpaying, and if you're the type
of man that's not comfortablewith it, then now you know I'll
be like so we can go half andhalf, and if it's still the
issue, I'll find a way to payfor it, or even the bathroom or
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something.
But I'm not the type of girl tojust let a man pay for dates.
Speaker 1 (37:26):
Assuming he does go to the bathroom.
Speaker 4 (37:29):
He will.
Speaker 1 (37:29):
Why.
Speaker 4 (37:30):
Yeah, let's go to the bathroom.
Speaker 1 (37:32):
I never go to the bathroom.
I never go to the bathroom.
Speaker 4 (37:36):
Oh, then I'll go to the bathroom and when I'm going
to the bathroom I'll go to thewaitress Like here pay for the
bill.
Speaker 1 (37:41):
Yeah, but then he's going to cash out of you because
he doesn't have a bank account.
He's going to cash out you thebread right after you do that,
because remember, you got it ondeck.
Speaker 4 (37:50):
Listen, I have nothing against people with cash
up.
Speaker 1 (37:52):
Yes, you do Stop playing, but you have to see the
reason behind you.
Having cash up is totallydifferent.
Speaker 4 (38:00):
Instead of saying it's like I'm sorry, as adults
cash up shouldn't be yourprimary bank.
Speaker 1 (38:05):
Oh, absolutely.
You know, life is hard out here, right Bob?
I know that, and you know a lotof people don't have the
discipline that you have, right,Bob?
Speaker 4 (38:13):
Yes, I know that, so this is what they do.
Speaker 1 (38:14):
They separate their bread, so they keep all the
important bread over there tothe left, because they're right
and you know it's in the righthand.
The cash app card.
Speaker 4 (38:26):
So cash app is the secondary bank.
Speaker 1 (38:29):
I mean it most certainly is.
I don't understand what you're.
Your whole thing with cash appthrows me a little bit.
Speaker 4 (38:35):
It shouldn't be your primary bank.
That's my thing with it.
Speaker 1 (38:39):
It shouldn't be your primary.
No, you know you can even fileyour taxes with cash.
Speaker 4 (38:46):
It shouldn't be like because cash app recently came
out.
A couple of years ago, thatmeans some of these years you
didn't have a bank account.
Speaker 1 (38:53):
All right.
So let me ask you anotherquestion.
I fucked that.
Let's move off of that.
Let's get to the communicationpart of it.
And this is prior to actuallygoing on that first day.
So the dude is like yo, bob, Ithink you know what I mean.
I want to go out, blah, blah.
I want to take you to what wasthe name of the steakhouse Jakes
(39:16):
?
I want to take you to Jakes,the fucking steakhouse in the
Bronx called Jakes.
Speaker 4 (39:22):
I want to take you to Jakes You're going to try it
one day yeah, maybe I don't knowwhen your wife comes to take
you there.
Speaker 1 (39:27):
I try to avoid the Bronx, except for the last time.
Speaker 4 (39:30):
It's a nice section of the.
Speaker 1 (39:31):
Bronx.
Oh, is it so?
He's like yo, I got a cash app.
I mean, yeah, cash app card.
I don't know why he would bringthat up.
I'm just bringing it up becauseI just want to be stupid in a
moment.
But I got a cash app.
Do you dub him.
Then he's communicating.
No, you let him take you toJakes and pay with his cash app.
Speaker 4 (39:55):
Yeah, because I don't know the story behind.
No, I'm not dubbing.
Nobody with a cash app.
I don't know the story behindhis cash app.
Yes, you do.
No, I don't.
Every like this time I shop onmy cash app card, depending on
how my cash is flowing in myregular account If I want to
touch that.
If I don't, I'll touch themoney I have saved in the cash
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app card.
Speaker 1 (40:17):
Okay, so it depends.
Speaker 4 (40:19):
It depends people.
Speaker 1 (40:21):
All right, so boom, another question because I'm
getting back.
I'm trying to work my way backto the group huh, but I'm trying
to make it in a way whereyou're going to go against it a
little bit.
So your man shows up.
Y'all go to Applebee's Firstdate, right First date
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Applebee's.
Yo, I couldn't be single rightnow, because I'd be such an
asshole I like.
Speaker 4 (40:46):
Applebee's.
Speaker 1 (40:48):
Nah, you got to challenge people's intellect
when you start talking to themand I feel like that's not
happening.
You know, we going off of theaesthetic.
And you can't tell me thatwe're not going off of the
aesthetic because everybody'ssteadily taking fucking trips
out of the country to get theirass done.
So, yeah, we going off of theaesthetic, you know.
So we go to Applebee's becauseyou happen to like Applebee's
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and then you find out that thatperson is actually paying for it
with a groupon.
Speaker 4 (41:17):
I said earlier, I'm okay with groupons.
Speaker 1 (41:19):
You're fine with groupon, even coupled with
Applebee's.
Speaker 4 (41:23):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (41:26):
So you're about to get a free, you're both about to
get a free meal.
He goes Applebee's on the floorslide and you fine with that.
Speaker 4 (41:33):
Yeah, but he can't pull out the cash app card Only
because he's still fucking outof here Only because, like I
said with again and I'm onlybasing my answers on experiences
that I've had and so far, theone experience with the one
person that had the chime card,his story was that.
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So now, moving forward, I'mgoing to think that, damn, every
guy that I meet that has achime or cash app card has it
because he has a story like that.
Speaker 1 (42:03):
See, that's how I wipe it you was.
When we get out of jail, theybe like nah, like I.
Speaker 4 (42:08):
By the way, people, I'm not white and Puerto Rican
because I might think I'm white,because of the 90210 and all
that crazy.
Speaker 1 (42:13):
Nah, you're not white .
You said Hennessy Before yousaid 90210, they already knew
what it was.
Speaker 4 (42:19):
So, based on that situation now it's going to have
, because I never thought of itthat way- which way?
That people, that certainpeople that use cash app or
chime have it because that's theonly thing they can have.
I thought everyone used it inthe way that I used it.
Speaker 1 (42:35):
I'm going to be honest with you.
The shit never dawned on me LikeI've never just like you never
thought about it like thatbecause of the fact that when I
got it, I got it based off ofthe fact that it was popular and
it was convenient.
Yes, it had nothing to do withnot being able to get a bank
account, and I believe you know,even still, that you're not
able to get a bank account.
I don't know your circumstancesbehind you not being being able
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to get that bank account.
You might have, you know, beenin a situation where you lost
your job, defaulted with, youknow, chase, whatever, whatever,
and then they closed theaccount and they closed it with
it being in the negative.
Now, I've been in that situationand some like off the cuff bank
, like northern something orwhatever, they got like one and
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a half branches and whatnot, butI went into the negative, I
lost my job, went to thenegative, they closed the
account and I couldn't get it.
You know, couldn't get anaccount, um, but I was gainfully
employed.
You get what I'm saying.
You see, I'm going with this,so I don't think that you should
.
Actually, I'm holding againstsomebody for pulling out a child
and I'm not familiar with timebut pulling out a chime or a
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cash app card.
Speaker 4 (43:45):
Like I said, I need background story.
Speaker 2 (43:49):
You don't know a background story, Listen.
Speaker 4 (43:53):
I know two people.
Speaker 1 (43:54):
Right.
Speaker 4 (43:54):
That is him and someone close to me that all he
has is cash up, and it's becauseof similar reasons.
So, again, I'm only speakingbased on Situations I know of.
Fuck your situations, guys, areyou?
Speaker 1 (44:18):
It is what it is.
Yeah, because you sound crazyright now.
Speaker 4 (44:22):
I'm not going to try to fix it.
All right.
Speaker 1 (44:26):
So boom.
Listen my advice.
As far as dating is concerned,um first day is concerned and
your payment method pay howeveryou could pay.
Speaker 4 (44:36):
You know what I mean.
It's getting paid as long asit's getting paid.
Speaker 1 (44:39):
Exactly Because, remember, if you found out
through conversation that youknow this dude isn't worth your
time or this woman isn't worthyour time, that's one thing.
But to say that that person isnot worth your time and then
jump to assumptions because wewon't say group on, because you
save money and he got paid Right, but in terms of chime and cash
app, you know we're not goingto jump to conclusions and just
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be out here like yo, you knowthis dude is.
You don't have a bank.
Speaker 4 (45:05):
Yeah you know what it is to usually um, I associate
cash up with like for hood stuffskin hood stuff.
Why?
Because a lot of hood peoplethat I know they use the cash up
for hood stuff.
Speaker 1 (45:20):
Well then, you should associate email with hood stuff
too, because a lot of Nigerianswas you was getting those
letters talking about send me$5,000.
I'll send you $5 million.
Speaker 4 (45:29):
Yeah, it was getting those DMs yeah.
Speaker 1 (45:31):
So I mean, can't do that no you're right.
Speaker 4 (45:34):
You can't do that, it's not fair for me to you know
.
Speaker 1 (45:38):
Assume 400 years of oppression has done us Over here
looking over my shoulder Now,but I don't want to say
everybody should, you know, getthe benefit of the doubt.
But at the end of the day andyou notice that I didn't lean on
you with the whole, you know,if he pulled out and I'm like,
yeah, but then you have a wholefucking conversation with him
(45:58):
before you went out with him.
You get what I'm saying.
So, you should have at leastthat in the bank to fall back on
when he does pull out that timenot automatically jump to this
motherfucker ain't got a bankaccount.
Speaker 4 (46:09):
No, but realistically before first day, are you
sitting down discussing financeswith someone?
Speaker 1 (46:14):
No, it depends.
It depends, All right.
So I'll tell you this theyounger generation, they may
have a problem with it.
The older generation, weunderstand the significance and
importance of it, because I needto know, you know how sturdy
your footing is.
You know, in whatever youdecide to do, you get what I'm
saying.
So, yeah, those are theconversations.
I think somebody after likemaybe 37 is having you know, but
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prior to 37, we have not hadlife.
Speaker 4 (46:41):
Be having a surprise people 37.
Speaker 1 (46:45):
Exactly so you sit down.
You know, after 37, you sittingdown at the table was like yo,
what are you?
What are you getting into you?
understand what I'm saying.
You guys are talking about 401K.
You guys are talking about, youknow, transitioning from one
job to the next job and thereason why you did it, the price
.
You know, the salary bump thatyou got and stuff like that.
You guys are talking aboutinvestment properties, or future
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investment properties, and whatyou're doing to attain certain
things.
So the conversation is a littlebit different.
You know, and you know, peopleabout complexion have a lot of.
We have problems talking aboutfinances, like we.
You know we.
It's just something that's notdone.
Speaker 4 (47:22):
Would you have an issue dating?
Let's say you know it's statenumber six, seven.
You're having deeper financialconversations with the female
you're with.
You guys are now in arelationship and you realize she
, her credit score is shot Likeshe has.
She's fucked up credit Right.
Would that be an issue for?
Speaker 1 (47:42):
you.
Well, see, there's the thing we, through conversation, I would
already understand our spendinghabits, you know, and her
financial responsibility, or herbeing financially responsible,
rather, how good she is, youknow, and if it's a facade, so
if things aren't matching up, itmay be a problem.
I don't have a problem.
See, life be life in oh, I knowyou get what I'm saying and one
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one risk or one false move, onebad decision, well, have you
upside fucking down, you get me.
So that doesn't make you, thatdoesn't put you in a position
where you can't, you can'trebound off of that Right, and
it also doesn't make youfinancially irresponsible that
you could have had, you know, aneight hundred score your entire
(48:32):
life.
And again, that one baddecision fucked your whole shit
up.
Speaker 3 (48:36):
You get what I'm saying Been there before.
Speaker 1 (48:38):
Yeah, you got people running around here right now to
have co-signed on somebodyelse's lease or car or something
.
Right, that person fucked themand didn't pay it, and that
falls on them, and now yourcredit score is fucking shot
based off of you being a goodfucking Samaritan.
Speaker 4 (48:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (48:55):
You know.
So again, it doesn't.
I don't think I don't.
A bad credit score isn't adeterrent for me.
The reason behind the badcredit score is a deterrent for
me.
You running around buying, youknow, louis Vuitton bags and
Louis Vuitton's and shit likethat, you got like a three
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hundred and fifty credit score.
Yeah, that's, that's concerning.
Yeah, you know that'sconcerning.
Um, guess, I answer that forboth of us because you know that
.
Speaker 4 (49:27):
Oh yeah, you're right .
Right, that'll be the samething for me.
The reason why, the reasonbehind the reason your credit
score is so, and honestly peopleI'm not going to honestly me I
wouldn't sit here and just belike, all right, we're on the
first date, so what's yourcredit score?
How much money do you make?
Do you make six figures, like?
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Because I'm sure a certainresponse is I'm giving people
part of you think that I'm thattype of female.
No, my thing is my people thatdon't know me.
Speaker 1 (49:56):
OK, yeah.
Speaker 4 (49:56):
Yeah, 90210.
My thing is and it movingforward.
I've been in two majorrelationships and one of them
that guy was the guy with thelow credit score.
You know.
He was at a point in his lifewhere he was trying to find
himself and I dedicated so manyyears trying to make him become
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a better person and at the endof the day it was.
I felt like it was all fornothing.
So, moving forward, I said oneI do decide to be in a
relationship.
I need to someone.
I need to meet someone that'sin the same page I'm in.
I don't have the energy anymoreto build somebody Makes sense.
Speaker 1 (50:39):
Yeah, you sound like you're struggling with emotion
over there right now, so I'mgoing to just take that away
from you.
I'm going to mute your mic andyeah, we just go on.
Speaker 2 (50:49):
Bay night, sexy nights and good food.
Speaker 1 (50:55):
I don't even know how we segue into this, because I'm
going to need, like, a goodstory.
Why is there annoying?
Speaker 4 (51:00):
voice.
Speaker 1 (51:02):
Yeah, because I'm trying to find solid footing at
this point.
You know we jumped out of.
We already know how, we alreadyknow what not to pull out when
we take you out on the dateRight.
So I need you to tell me abouta good time when somebody pulled
out something that wasn't acash apple or a time card.
Speaker 4 (51:27):
A good time where someone pulled out something.
Speaker 1 (51:29):
Yeah, it was a good time.
Speaker 4 (51:31):
Keep another honey with you.
The good dates, the perfect daynights that I've had is Bay
nights that I planned and I did.
So I'm going to tell you abouta Bay night that I planned for a
guy that I think was amazing.
Speaker 1 (51:48):
You going to be one with it?
No, all right.
Speaker 4 (51:50):
So it was his.
It was his birthday weekend.
He had never been to AtlanticCity, so I booked the room in
Atlantic City before we went outto Atlantic City.
Of course, we went to myfavorite spot, which is Jake's
State House.
Yeah, but go check it out.
Um, we drove out to AtlanticCity.
Stop why.
Speaker 1 (52:12):
Before you went to Atlantic City, you stopped in
the Bronx to have a steak.
Speaker 4 (52:15):
Yes, it's a nice restaurant.
Speaker 1 (52:19):
I just wanted to be clear.
Speaker 4 (52:20):
Yeah, we went to dinner there, and then that's
where I told him we were goingto Atlantic City.
He only he thought that wasjust going to be his birthday
present.
We went to Atlantic City.
I had rented a room at theBugata.
When we got there I had thechocolate covered strawberries
there already, the bottle ofwine.
Speaker 1 (52:37):
Who's the strawberries for you or him?
For both of us?
He liked the strawberries.
Yes, he liked them.
Speaker 4 (52:43):
He loved, so it wasn't.
Speaker 1 (52:44):
It wasn't one of those things that he would have
ever requested.
He likes chocolate coveredstrawberries.
Keep it a buck with me.
The strawberries were for you.
Speaker 4 (52:53):
No, he loved chocolate covered strawberries.
It used to be our team.
Speaker 1 (52:57):
It's not a y'all thing, though I'm sure they all
right, go ahead, I'm going tolet you go.
Speaker 4 (53:01):
He ate most of them.
I had like maybe two.
Anyway, when we got to the roomthe room, you know, was nicely
decorated and then he had nevergambled before I gave him money
so he could go downstairs.
We gambled.
We went on the broad walk.
I had some fun out there.
We came back to the room andyou know it was a wrap.
(53:24):
I gave him the Barbie 4000.
Speaker 1 (53:32):
The Barbie 4000.
Speaker 4 (53:34):
I don't know what that is.
One day.
Speaker 1 (53:36):
No, never the fuck is wrong with you.
Speaker 4 (53:41):
They had to be like Barbie 4000.
What's that?
Speaker 1 (53:43):
Yeah, for real, like the fucking Barbie for.
Speaker 4 (53:49):
So that was what you think.
You think that did a good jobwith that.
Speaker 2 (53:53):
Desert.
I hope you guys enjoyed yourmeal.
Can I get you something off ofour desert menu?
Speaker 1 (54:00):
I thought it probably 4000.
Barbie 4000.
They know that.
Yeah, I.
Hacks about me.
They mean, Like you were inback pages, the fuck out of here
.
See, this is what happens whenyou sip slow, because by the
(54:23):
time you get to the end of theshow, that's just start hitting
different Um.
All right, fuck that you drunk,let's talk about.
Um.
Let's talk about Let Me Touchyou podcast.
Let's talk about it.
Speaker 4 (54:35):
So Let Me Touch you podcast.
It's my amazing platform whereyou can come and listen to
episodes where I speak aboutdifferent situations.
I've been in differentsituations, close friends of
mine have been in and I give youthe best advice I can in like a
nice, positive, fun way.
Speaker 1 (54:55):
It's not one of those podcasts where you're going to
be bored and full of, she said,podcast is.
Speaker 4 (55:00):
It's a liquor Sorry.
Speaker 1 (55:02):
And I'm Puerto Rican.
We are not our own words.
Speaker 4 (55:04):
So now, podcast is any of the ways.
It's an amazing platform whereI give you guys positive
feedback on any and everysituation that you may come
across in life and a lot of myepisodes.
I'm joined by your favorite guy, my favorite, leo Styles.
Go check it out.
Speaker 1 (55:25):
Yeah, um, the other thing is, now that I got that
out of you, let's talk about therelease date, all right, so
what is it?
What are we going to do?
I'm going to put you on thespot.
Um, she's had like a fucking 10month layoff.
Speaker 4 (55:39):
Has it been tough.
Speaker 1 (55:40):
No, it's been a while .
Though it's been a while, Iwant to say it might have been
time.
March was your last episode andit was an amazing season last
last season.
Um, the new season will bestarting mid September.
Um, yeah, definitely midSeptember.
Speaker 4 (56:03):
I'm not making.
I didn't say that he did.
Speaker 1 (56:05):
Okay, mid September.
How much more time do you need?
Speaker 4 (56:11):
Cause I want to come back and, you know, come back
full force, the way you did.
Speaker 1 (56:16):
Yeah, but I even still, I was working behind the
scenes.
Needed the break right, butyou're not even talking about
working behind the scenes.
Speaker 4 (56:24):
Where's?
I'm gonna start working behindthe scenes starting today.
Speaker 1 (56:27):
All right, cool.
So you, the midst mid-september, that today's the fucking 16th
of all this September's rightthere.
That's 30 days away.
Bob, I'll try.
Not cool, that's the best youcan ask for.
I'm not even gonna talk aboutthe lives.
You know the Friday night liveand all that cuz.
(56:47):
We definitely need to bringthat back, but you know it is
what it is.
I'm gonna put you on the spotright now.
I'm gonna let you, I'm gonnalet you live.
Tell me they can find you actlike you've been on the podcast.
Speaker 4 (57:01):
Cuz now, right now, guys, I'm not gonna lie.
He has me thinking like that Ireally need to do Saturday you
do, that's what I had to do that.
Speaker 1 (57:09):
I, I literally what I did was I can't.
I was like yo, bob, check itout.
This is what I'm gonna do.
Let me people this is how thishappened.
This season happened like thisright, I took a layoff last year
, but apparently because I tooka layoff and then when everybody
else takes layoff, look what'sthat?
As you did it, I understandwhat I did, but I mean you, you
right, I gave you more time thanI took off.
Speaker 4 (57:30):
Whatever we did now that was today.
Speaker 1 (57:33):
So so, boom, when I did it, I was like, listen, I'm
gonna record X amount ofepisodes.
We wouldn't constant contactRight.
And then I said the only waythat I could really get this
done is to set a date.
I have to set a date and itworked towards that day.
So we're setting a day.
I don't even have, cuz I don'teven know what days you want to
come out on.
Speaker 4 (57:53):
Friday's, that's per usual All right cool, so the I.
Need a day in October.
Hold on, you know I got a setof day right now.
Speaker 1 (58:01):
We're gonna do this, listen, let's do.
Second week of october, secondweek of September, I can cuz cuz
why kids are starting school.
My schedule's gonna be hecticSeptember you know, every time
you talk and you talk about this, all I hear is wham.
That's it Um what I Reallyshould be entertaining the
(58:22):
people right October 13thOctober 13th yeah, that's far
ball.
Speaker 4 (58:28):
No, it's not.
Bogus is almost over.
I guess October 13th, it givesme enough time, I don't want to
rush it.
I guess.
Speaker 1 (58:39):
Listen, if you are, if you think that she should
come in before or come outbefore that, jumping DMs and
encourage her to come out beforeOctober 13th because you don't
need to come out like the secondweek of October.
That's stupid.
Speaker 4 (58:52):
Listen, october 13th will be the day that I drop my
first official episode.
In the meantime, I will beworking behind the scenes, I
will start being on social mediamore, I'll start, you know,
doing everything slowly butsurely, and I'll be back for
force October 13.
Speaker 1 (59:09):
Ma where can they find you?
Because it's bullshit.
Speaker 4 (59:12):
Man shit, you can find me on IG.
I let underscore me, underscoretouch, underscore you.
You can find me on twitter,which is now called what x?
It's called x dumb shit umfacebook, all streaming
platforms.
Speaker 1 (59:29):
Step time again and since we really don't know how
to say goodbye, I'm not gonnasay goodbye, but listen what I
will ask.
I'm not even asking if youliked it.
Please don't forget to like,comment, subscribe and shit.
Um, and that's homework also.
There is no.
Also, we'll catch you next week.
We'll save a seat at the tablefor you.
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