Milk and Honey Bowie, MD | From Savory Bites to Savvy Insights - The Brunch Hour Podcast

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Speaker 2 (00:06):
It's the only podcast I listen to.

Speaker 1 (00:21):
Alright, guys, check it out.
Listen, we're back for anotherseason of the Brunch Hour.
Alright, I know it's been longPause.
I know that you've been waiting.
Now listen, normally I havelike a monologue at the front
end of this.
I didn't do it, I couldn't findanything, but I want to tell you

(00:41):
a quick story.
So this season we're on tour,basically.
So it's going to be a longseason.
It's going to be a long season,but it's not going to be a lot
of episodes, but a long seasonNonetheless.
We actually happen to be inBowie, maryland, right now.
Alright, so the next one, shadr,says hi, she'll actually be
talking in two seconds, anyway.
So again back to the monologuething.

(01:02):
I don't have a monologue todaybecause I basically was I don't
want to say lazy, even though itmight be perceived as such.
Anyway, so let me tell youabout me going to get a fit
Around my way.
There's a store right Like asneaker store blah, blah, blah
clothing store.
It's the Urban clothing store.
Those are hard to come by nowthat TikTok and Instagram and

(01:22):
all this other stuff in Amazon.
You order your stuff and thenit gets shipped to you.
You don't like it, you chip itback.
You know that whole thing.
I went in there.
First of all, shout outs toEthan.
Right, this kid has the samenamesake as my brother.
That's one of the people thatactually helped me in Q.
So I walk into the store.
I'm the only person in thestore because I went real early.

(01:43):
Good morning.
This is my greeting to theperson.
Now, normally I don't say shit,I just walk in and blow it past
you, but I had a bag in my handand I had to return some shit.
So you know, you have to becordial, I need help.
Good morning, and the personshe ain't say nothing.
She just literally turnedaround and went behind the
counter, blah, blah, to standthe third.

(02:03):
And then I was at that point.
I'm in my feelings.
So I'm like how you feeling?
She was like I'm good, I'm like, oh, okay, cause when I said
good morning, you ain't saynothing.
So she was like, oh no, it'scold in here.
I was like, oh, so immediatelywe became besties, cause I'm
like I'm like that at work too.
If it's too cold, don't talk tome.
I you know management shouldfix this.

(02:24):
What the fuck are we doing?
Like I don't pay to come here,I don't have enough sick days
and on top of that, I feel likeyou're robbing me of my sick
days.
So you're making me sick,making me take my sick days when
I want to be taking my sickdays and laying on somebody's
beach.
But anyway, need to handle that.
So we go through the wholething.
Um, if you check the gram, she'sresponsible for the fit.
Her and Ethan shout outs toy'all.

(02:45):
Um, I didn't realize thatasking somebody if they have
Instagram could be perceived asme trying to talk to you Like,
and it dawned on me because ofthe response that I got.
So I was like yo, you got, yougot.
Um, you want a grand?
And then she looked at me kindof funny, like nigga, why are
you asking me if I'm on a gramLike, first of all, you owe this

(03:06):
fuck.
And I was like oh, whoa, whoa,hold on, check it out.
I have a podcast and I'm shitat promoting Like, I don't like
to promote, I'm just saying youhelp me out.
I'm going to be rocking theoutfit, I'm going to do X1C and
I just want to tag you in it.
She was like oh, still didn'tgive me the Instagram.
But I was like fuck it.
At this point I'm fine with it,cause you know, my ego was

(03:28):
bruised because it's kind oflike, first of all, I wasn't
trying to get at you, you know.
And then she's 24, I believe,24.
So she was like what's thepodcast about?
Does they have any thoughtprovoking content?
And that I melted.
I melted, I didn't expect that.
I didn't expect that.
Not coming from 24 year old,not coming from 24 year old, 24

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year old that actually mean mugme when I walked into the store.
I didn't expect that.
So I was like, yeah, we talkabout shit, we talk about things
.
There's some things going on.
So I get in the car, it's threedegrees outside, so I look in
the mirror Apparently my nosehas been running Right.

(04:10):
So I look in the mirror and I'mlike, nigga, you really was
walking around looking likeRoscoe from Martin, and I was
like, oh, so that explains theGraham.
You can't have my Graham.
Go, wash your face the fuck outof here.
The Graham Do I have a Graham?
Grandpa with the boogers wantsto know if you got the grab.

(04:33):
I have a Graham.
Yeah, basically that's probablywhat she was thinking.
I would have said the same shit.
Everybody's laughing in thebackground.
But anyway, we have an excitingseason plan for you.
I hope you can.
I hope I'm going to start usingmy words.
I promise, I hope that youenjoyed this monologue not
monologue and you willdefinitely enjoy the season

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coming up.
So, fucking, let's just get tothe shit.
I used to be in love with thisbitch they mean J the fuck with
her, no more.
Now I fuck with Tango Ray, tangoRay.

Speaker 4 (05:04):
Hey, yo watch them.
Do we need two shots?
It's a combo, yeah.

Speaker 1 (05:14):
Now I have the whole crew with me, right and we going
from right to left.
You know my foundation, mypillow my a like my egg thing.
You know what I mean Big spoon,little spoon.
Let me stop Introduce yourself.

Speaker 2 (05:32):
I'm always the big spoon.
Hey y'all, what's up?
All right?

Speaker 3 (05:37):
See, you already know in that wave of you're not
supposed to be putting mybusiness out there.

Speaker 2 (05:41):
We trying to change that this year Little bit.

Speaker 1 (05:43):
You want to talk in the mic?
Let's change that too.
I am, no you look at that Okay.
Let me quit looking at you.

Speaker 2 (05:49):
Go ahead.
Hey y'all.

Speaker 4 (05:54):
Hey y'all, what's your name?

Speaker 6 (05:56):
Shadrash.

Speaker 2 (05:57):
Okay, they know me, they know me.
Brother Lamp, take me on mymisery.

Speaker 3 (06:01):
please let's go.
Good afternoon.

Speaker 2 (06:02):
Good evening, whatever time you listening?

Speaker 3 (06:04):
I'm James Lamp here.

Speaker 1 (06:04):
Host of the podcast conversation.

Speaker 4 (06:06):
My podcast is on SoundCloud and I put podcast.
Let me take this time to thankbrother styles for inviting me
to his platform.
It's an honor and a pleasure.
Appreciate that.
Oh yeah, and I'm Ryan.

Speaker 6 (06:27):
Free Lance.
Photographer by day, moviecritic by night, I guess you
could say and yeah, I'm justexcited to be here, I appreciate
this whole collaboration wehave going on and yeah, I think
this will be an outstandingseason.
Not saying that the previousones weren't ex-downing, but
this is something special.
You see how you try to cleanthat up, though.

Speaker 1 (06:49):
It was like your previous seasons was shit.
Yeah, I'm on.

Speaker 2 (06:55):
Captain Savor podcast out here.
I'm actually happy to have allof you on board.

Speaker 1 (07:00):
I'm actually happy to have all of you on board.
You know, I'm sure that youknow, all right, every season
I'm like I'm not going to sayshit, I'm not I'm not going to
say shit.
I promise you I'm not going tosay shit.
However, change is always good.
You know change is always goodand change is always necessary
in order to grow.
You know so.
Either you burn the shit down,you start all over and you get

(07:22):
it right, or you continue tochange shit.
I'm heavily criticized forchanging and I don't give a fuck
.
So, this is the thing you knowchange and create, you know, and
that about that, it's going tobe exciting season, right?
So let's tell the people whatwe're doing.

(07:43):
So, basically, what we're doingis we have a tour right Six
city tour.
I'm trying to figure outwhether we should tell them what
cities or just pop up.

Speaker 2 (07:57):
Because I don't even know.

Speaker 6 (07:59):
I think just pull up like exercise.

Speaker 1 (08:01):
You don't know, because you don't know your.
Apple notes.

Speaker 2 (08:06):
Oh my bad.
They're in the notes.
Remnants of past covoles.
I know a couple of cities, butnot all.
I know a couple of cities, butnot all of them.

Speaker 1 (08:15):
Yeah, so what we're doing is we're doing is a six
city tour.
We're starting in Maryland.
We're in Maryland right now,buoy to be exact.
The next city is the next tourdate.
It's going to be New York,right, and I think that
everybody could have pretty muchfigured that out themselves.
And then the final tour dateit's going to be an

(08:37):
international tour date, sowe're going to be out of the
country for that.
Yeah, so that's how it'sshaking out this season.

Speaker 2 (08:45):
I'm excited.

Speaker 3 (08:48):
Yeah, I'm going to stop with the uncomfortable
silences.

Speaker 6 (08:53):
No, I'm down, I'm down.

Speaker 1 (08:55):
I can't wait because.

Speaker 4 (08:56):
I'm not editing shit.
I'm used to recording by myself.

Speaker 1 (08:59):
So, yeah, there we go .

Speaker 3 (09:01):
And I'm not a podcast .

Speaker 1 (09:04):
So all right, so I might edit that part out.
Now I'm talking about all thechuckles that followed it.
All right, so let's get to theshifts.
Main course, it's time to eat.
What's on your mind?
All right, so for this one,we're going to let Brother Ryan

(09:26):
lead us into this, because,sorry, this was his brainchild,
so to speak.

Speaker 6 (09:35):
You talk about in terms of that?
You're talking about the goodold milk and honey, correct?

Speaker 1 (09:41):
Yeah, I knew we were going to fuck up, and when I say
we, I mean me.
Yeah, no, you absolutely right,because I jumped into the
finance.

Speaker 6 (09:52):
I don't even know what I'm doing right now?

Speaker 1 (09:54):
I don't even know what I'm doing right now.

Speaker 6 (09:56):
Oh yeah, I mean you know, but like I said, you know
first I thought you said thebrainchild is if I created milk
and honey or something like that.

Speaker 1 (10:05):
I was just like you know, ceo, you was correct
because he actually the one didcome up with the honey.

Speaker 4 (10:11):
Yeah, we all sit.

Speaker 1 (10:13):
Yeah, you write.
You write there too.
You know we sitting in thishome, but, unbeknownst to us, he
owns the block, everybody onhis block, or renters, ladies
and gentlemen, all right, I'mgonna own my shit.
I fucked up.
We wasn't even supposed to bein the main topic.
So just close your eyes andimagine that that shit didn't

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happen.
But if you're driving, keepyour eyes open, just imagine
that shit didn't happen.
So we're gonna talk about ourfirst time.
We actually went to milk andhoney and I apologize for that.
We went to milk and honey, allright, but before we get to the
milk and honey is a quick, I'mfucking this whole shit up.

Speaker 4 (10:54):
You got nine good quickfire questions.

Speaker 2 (10:56):
I do have some quick five questions.

Speaker 1 (11:00):
I'm wondering how many people was like turn this
shit off, shit the fuck off.
You know, especially somebody'slike yo.
They all in the car and they'relike can we listen to a podcast
?

Speaker 3 (11:11):
And they turn this shit on to be like you got me
listening to this bullshit.

Speaker 4 (11:14):
No, we good, we got to bring it right back, yeah All
right.

Speaker 1 (11:17):
So let's do a quick round table discussion.
Not even discussion, but aquick fire.

Speaker 6 (11:21):
All right.

Speaker 1 (11:21):
What was your favorite brunch spot and why
anybody?

Speaker 6 (11:24):
well, I'll tell you like this, I'm kind of biased
because it was my favoriteanyway, but I'm gonna say milk
and honey straight up.
And as far as why I love thefood, I'm a very simple, to the
point, part type of person andif you got chicken waffles and
you do chicken waffles right,you got me.
So there are a couple ofchicken waffle spots that
they're also pleasant.
So milk and honey is definitely, you know, kind of above and

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beyond with that.

Speaker 4 (11:49):
Okay, you cheated.
Okay, Actually, it's myfavorite spot to now.
You both from the DMV, so youknow that just so happened to be
our favorite.
My favorite spot too, and it'scrazy because we both chicken
and waffles like that was.
That's my reason.

Speaker 1 (12:07):
No, that's the fact.
We did sit down and y'all bothordered the same shit, it wasn't
it?

Speaker 6 (12:11):
wasn't planned.
It wasn't like a you get thechicken waffles and I'm gonna
get the chicken waffles andwe're gonna look cool, and I
wasn't like that, yeah we just,that's just we both on, yeah.

Speaker 1 (12:19):
How long is that?
My court like 25 feet, becauseI think I'm gonna have to
separate y'all.

Speaker 4 (12:25):
Yeah, exactly, I'm not just that one, it's about to
go left.

Speaker 1 (12:29):
Yeah, what about you as that?

Speaker 2 (12:32):
And Dallas, it's gonna be snooze.
It's definitely my favorite,yeah.

Speaker 6 (12:38):
I've been there and I forget.
Yeah, I went to snooze for my40th and I went to the snooze in
San Antonio.
Oh and you know I would.
I would like to retract orredact my answer.
I can't.
They have the pancake flakesand that's what I go to.

Speaker 2 (12:52):
And I had like the sweet potato.
Yeah sweet potato pancakes aswell, always good, but yeah, I
mean it's like a retro vibe.
Cost is good, so yeah, reallyaffordable, yeah that's like a
hippie type of yeah for sure.
Okay, yeah, what about yours?
Huh, huh.

Speaker 1 (13:10):
Huh, I don't have one actually.

Speaker 2 (13:14):
That's crazy.

Speaker 6 (13:29):
Styles brunches when he just coast with Tim's on
Instead of facts in the kitchen.
Oh, we doing we don't all right, so we leaning on New.

Speaker 1 (13:37):
York now Corn beef has.
Okay, corn beef has and and youcan attest to this as doc,
because wherever we go, alwaysask if it's on the menu, mm-hmm,
and I've only actually had it.
Well, there was a spot inDallas that we went to and it

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was like real beef in it, and Iwas surprised as fuck because it
was like big beef chunks.

Speaker 4 (14:13):
This is scary question for me to add don't do
it.
It was using real beef.
What taxes books they use in.

Speaker 1 (14:21):
New York.
You all right, so let meexplain to you how my roadcaster
works.
There are mute buttons on here,so if you fuck around and you
talking but you can't, well, youdon't have your headphones on,
so you don't know.
I'm gonna just give you thegentle smile.
No, no, no, they listen to oneknow that to now they they use

(14:44):
it, but it's not Um, it's real,real beef.

Speaker 4 (14:48):
Okay, or how do you know?

Speaker 1 (14:50):
flavored texture Us I use a MSG I say, yeah, it's
beef.
I put it to you like this Iwent out to.
I went out to Dallas.
I had the corn beef hash at acouple of different spots and I
no longer really eat it in NewYork.
I promise you that wow okaybecause I haven't now, I'm just
scared, mm-hmm, right yeah yes.

Speaker 6 (15:10):
To Lambs point.

Speaker 1 (15:11):
Yeah to Lambs point.
What the fuck have I?

Speaker 3 (15:17):
What is it?

Speaker 4 (15:20):
Mush.

Speaker 1 (15:22):
Mush.
All right, hold on, let me see.
All right, we got it.
It's supposed to be a quickfire, all right, how important
is food quality, you guys?

Speaker 6 (15:31):
I'm not.
It's very important if the foodis food, cause not there, I
can't do it.
I'm scared with food as it is,so now I Want some corn beef
hash from from New York no.
So that's very important, man,I yeah, if I think that's kind
of thing.
That's almost like saying Idon't know, you know basketball,

(15:52):
but but the basketball itselfis trash.
It's like you can't play ballwithout a good basketball.
You can't really eat if thefood quality is trash.

Speaker 1 (16:00):
Yeah, well, I've spoken about somebody actually
plays bad.
I fucking hate basketball so Iwouldn't even know.
I just learned something.
You know me.
I'll play with balls, that part.

Speaker 3 (16:14):
I'm just gonna skip ahead to the end.

Speaker 1 (16:18):
All right, fuck that, all right.
Do you prefer a large varietyof portions or small?
You know, curated menu forbrunch.

Speaker 6 (16:26):
So basically, oh, small man, I'm not a big eater
like that.
My wife tells me all the timeRyan just eats, just for fuel.
He don't eat because he enjoysfood.
So, nah, it's a small push likeI would waste money at a buffet
so I can't do it Okay.

Speaker 2 (16:40):
I like options, give me options.
I mean I have to be too, toolarge of a menu option, but I
need some options.

Speaker 4 (16:48):
I know for sure, okay , I don't need a lot of options.

Speaker 1 (16:52):
I mean, you know what ?
I think that they need to.
Some brunch bots need to pairthe menu down, because it's kind
of like you know me, yeah, andI'll be sitting there looking at
that man.
I got to show up at 12 brunchesover it too, and I'm ordering
brunch at 145.
Where give me.
Give me, is you know, as fewchoices as possible.

(17:14):
I can't do it.
How significant is the qualityof service in your overall
brunch experience?

Speaker 6 (17:22):
I ain't gonna fry.
I mean it don't have to betop-tier quality service, but I
would prefer somebody to be nice.
But you know, like if the foodmakes up for shitty service,
I'll take it.

Speaker 3 (17:35):
Yeah, yeah that's where my toes are gonna go laugh
.
Yeah, you definitely will laugh.

Speaker 4 (17:42):
Give me some good service too, like I'll just be
throwing my food down on thetable tomorrow.
Yeah, it's good, fuck you no.

Speaker 2 (17:51):
Service is important.
We should be able to have both.

Speaker 1 (17:55):
So this next comment is for you know we're a 40 and
up group, so you know you don'twant it to be like Mel's fucking
diner.
No, those who know know.
Let me see Do you prefer acasual or formal brunch?

Speaker 6 (18:12):
setting Casual man like if you mean formal like,
not not just casual.
I don't want to feel like I'mgoing to Sunday church service
to eat.
I don't want the, the setup tobe the same way.
Let me just pull up a eveningsaying Okay.

Speaker 1 (18:27):
Come on, boozy.

Speaker 2 (18:28):
I might say the former here and there, but you
know, I mean, you know I'm agirl, so I want to dress up and
go to brunch.

Speaker 1 (18:36):
That's the thing.
Rocking with her is kind oflike I'm on a fence with it,
because you know, sometimes youwant to there be an
establishment that has a reallycrazy Decor and you like kids
show up in here with justsweatpants and I'd rather show
up in my sweatpants.

Speaker 2 (18:51):
But you just can't me your whole pants.
Watch your mouth.
Don't worry, I've been.

Speaker 1 (18:57):
I've had a pair that was kidnapped and burn and I
burn you know, Next question.

Speaker 4 (19:04):
You know, but you know just aiming to cut.
But one thing you know A lot ofthese places don't even let you
wear athletic way.

Speaker 2 (19:09):
So right, you gotta do you like.

Speaker 6 (19:12):
I think, like turkey leg is something like they did
something like that last yearright, they changed the dress
code, or something like that.
Like you got to be spiffy toeat a turkey leg.
Now something crazy.

Speaker 3 (19:21):
Where, oh, and a turkey leg in Houston right.

Speaker 6 (19:24):
They upgraded your dress code as if you go into a
club or something like that.
You got, I think I have like abutton-up shirt.
I might be, I don't know ifthey went that far.
Yeah, I might be gasping it up.

Speaker 3 (19:32):
But it was definitely did make some change yeah.

Speaker 4 (19:34):
There was mad about it.

Speaker 1 (19:36):
Yeah, I guess.
So I mean listen a Teaches onyeah right, because in certain
places you can't win.
You know when we were coming up.
You can't go into a storewithout shoes, you know you had
to have a shirt on.

Speaker 3 (19:48):
Yeah no, exactly.

Speaker 1 (19:58):
Okay, so what type of ambience?
And we're just, you know, rightoff of that, but what type of
ambience or atmosphere do?

Speaker 6 (20:04):
you prefer.
You gotta be something laidback, you gotta be fun and I
feel like you can't go wrong ifyou just have like the right
type of music there.
So you know you don't have tobe a DJ DJ, but it's like
somebody on staff gotta have thefire playlist Like like there's
been some times while I go torestaurant I'm like, oh, let me
get the, let me get the shazamor whatever it is, and let me
put those on my own playlistbecause it's nice.
So I think music is like 90% ofthe ambience for me.

Speaker 4 (20:27):
So yeah, yeah, the music is important.

Speaker 1 (20:35):
Well, if I'm a branch , so your men is in the streets,
ladies, that does not mean he'sfor the streets.
I don't disrespect my man but,he's definitely outside, not a
little bit that you off theporch, you at least got to the

(20:55):
corner he's starting.

Speaker 6 (20:59):
He ain't come up to bench man.

Speaker 4 (21:00):
Yeah, I don't know.

Speaker 1 (21:04):
Oh, all right, all right, all right, that's died.
What you, what's your thing?

Speaker 2 (21:09):
No, definitely music, for sure, but not to a point
where, no, we had a place,kitchens and cocktails and
Dallas where people were gettinglike stand up in the Seats you
know twerking and the chairs,stuff like that.
So I mean with the musicbecause it was like that's not a
playlist, but we Wasn't likethat yeah and so it was just a

(21:31):
whole situation.
But yeah, I mean, like said,music for sure, but I think you
know yeah, yeah, come throughwith that like burner boy or
something.

Speaker 6 (21:43):
Something chill, I guess.

Speaker 2 (21:45):
Yeah, I mean, you should know, like, why you
getting up in folks season sofaswith your heels on Like a
little bit too much.

Speaker 3 (21:52):
I don't really care what kind of music on.
You shouldn't be doing thatSometimes.

Speaker 6 (22:01):
Like that's like I have to like.
Well, for my most, as in, Iguess that the bottomless get
you there.

Speaker 4 (22:05):
I guess you know so.
Might get punched in the face.
You kind of got to payattention to the genre.

Speaker 6 (22:17):
That's why like was good, yeah, I'm saying, but like
you can't be in there andsomebody play, I gave you power
by now.
So some yet that turn yourwhole brunch experience off,
probably it depends on where youare.
If you win Queens bridge, thenyou know, that's a.

Speaker 1 (22:30):
Thing.

Speaker 4 (22:32):
That's a thing, but you know what?
See you something that'sactually.
You say that Because what arewe listening for?

Speaker 5 (22:38):
we listen to the lyrics, Beats but the beats not
gonna have you gone crazy.

Speaker 3 (22:42):
No, not that cuz that's a drapey.

Speaker 1 (22:47):
So for me, I need it all.
I need the ambience, I need,you know, I need the good music,
cuz a good music I literallyneed.
It has to be.
I Don't want to eat brunch atthe corner store.
I mean, it may look like when Iwalk through the door.
I want to eat lunch.
I'm a bunch of the corner store, but I don't want to eat brunch
at the corner store.

Speaker 6 (23:05):
Okay, right so.

Speaker 1 (23:06):
I need, I need all of that.
I need the ambience to matchthe music and the music to match
the ambience.
You know, and I don't likesuper duper packs Brunches, I
like seeing them on a grambecause that shit it gives me
goosebumps.
I'm not gonna lie, mm-hmm.
I just don't like a lot ofmotherfuckers like that, though
Don't be up all up on me and nah.
This is a day party, for sureyou know, but I'm a man of a

(23:30):
certain age.
Now I'm just playing.
Oh, let me see.
Um, we did the casual or theformal right.
Yes, we did what?
What are some must-haves thatyou have to have on the menu?

Speaker 6 (23:42):
Well, a Chicken and waffles, like I said, I don't
get a lot of.
I don't.
I don't get to a ventures withfood in the first place.
I'm scarier with food if yougot, if you got chicken, the
waffles you know, ten times outof ten I'm getting chicken
waffles.
Eleven times out of ten I'mgetting chicken waffles.
Yes, I was bad.
No, this dude making me feelgood about my small I'm a look

(24:04):
it's chicken waffles at brunch,if I, if you, if you know, I
know the cheesecake factory waslike a topic of discussion at
one point.
If I go to cheesecake I'mgetting the miso salmon, nothing
else.
So there's certain spots I goto already know what I want, so
I don't need to give you themain.

Speaker 4 (24:19):
No, they don't not for real.

Speaker 6 (24:21):
They really don't Give me the menu.
If you don't have chickenwaffles, then I I'll take the
meat.
Yeah, I feel like that's itchicken and pancakes.
I maybe I get a menu, just incase, but yeah.

Speaker 3 (24:33):
Yeah so that the other day kind of turn me off
yeah chicken pancakes soundsgross.

Speaker 1 (24:40):
Stop playing with my.
Most is two different textures.
It is, it is, it is.

Speaker 6 (24:45):
You know, I have tried it once and I didn't like
it.

Speaker 1 (25:05):
I couldn't imagine the shit and I was like now I
did.

Speaker 4 (25:08):
I've had chicken and fresh toes.

Speaker 6 (25:12):
I don't know that's not the same I don't know
chicken or something about thewaifu.
Yeah, something about chickenwaffles.

Speaker 1 (25:18):
Yeah, you took a hard left with that chicken.
Because the French toast that Ihad today, yeah, no, no, that
shit was like.
I know I loved it, but I'm justtrying to imagine a piece of
chicken.
Now, yeah, now, that fucked meup textually.

Speaker 4 (25:33):
It was.
So I went to this place, calledso baby, it was like a, like a
graham cracker French toast.
Hmm, yeah, it was, it was good.

Speaker 3 (25:44):
Oh, you got sophisticated with it, all right
, okay.

Speaker 1 (25:47):
He said they had the gold flakes.

Speaker 6 (25:52):
All you listen is the milk.

Speaker 1 (25:55):
Okay.
Do you enjoy bottomlessbrunches, as opposed to brunches
where they have like signaturedrinks?

Speaker 6 (26:00):
only well we say about me.
Some are like in terms of thedrinks, just never in them
bottomless or everything well,you already know they're not
giving you everything bottomlessthey give and if you find that
please let me know you.

Speaker 1 (26:10):
You get this orange juice and is this liquor that we
got from across the street?
Yeah, folks, is right.

Speaker 6 (26:16):
Yeah, I'm cool.
I'm cool on the bottomless any,any beverage, because,
especially what I call, I'm a.
I'm a lightweight.
I give out three drinks and I'mgood, so I can't do bottoms
anyway.
So now I'm fine without it.
Okay.

Speaker 4 (26:28):
Yeah, I don't drink.
So there you go, but you know,I'm not by myself.

Speaker 1 (26:33):
You want that bottomless water.

Speaker 4 (26:38):
For the value and I'm assuming the woman.
I would probably want thebottomless.

Speaker 1 (26:43):
Yeah, you can be out here like heavy.
It's a new Bill Cosby.
This thing is just like.
But they put judge.
She willingly drink all of thatshit.
I don't drink that.
She signed a consent formbefore she started drinking that
stuff not gonna make her donothing.
There we go yeah exactly, evenif she isn't.

Speaker 4 (27:07):
Just kind of as a loss.
She wasn't in the right mind, Iwonder, waking up some other
bad decisions you made.

Speaker 1 (27:14):
And if you do, is in your bed.
I wasn't here.

Speaker 4 (27:16):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (27:17):
What's a us that?

Speaker 2 (27:20):
Again, options for me .
So give me a couple ofdifferent cocktails to try work.
No, no, no no, no, no, no, notbombless but just different.

Speaker 6 (27:37):
Just a bombless bar.

Speaker 1 (27:46):
Yeah, that's crazy but no, anybody out there.
You find a bottomless likecocktail, please Let me know I'm
there.
Yeah, I'm there.
I need the.
I'm with you, I need, I don't.
I Forsake the fucking the mostlike I don't, I don't even.
I know it's tied to brunch,mm-hmm, but I rather have a
cocktail.

(28:07):
Yeah, you know, I'd rather payextra to get a cocktail or two
as opposed to have, you know, inor the orange juice and
champagne, or the bulini.
I mean, I'd rather do it thatway, you know.
All right, and the last one,would you say that the value for
the money is?
It is an important factor whenChoosing a brunch place.

Speaker 6 (28:29):
Hell yeah, cuz I.
There's been some spots where,like, you pay 60 bucks and they
give you the smallest ofportions, like even even
something that I would be turnedoff by, and that's saying a lot
.
So, nah, I definitely want toget my money's worth.
So if I paid I don't know $40 aplate, I want $40 Worth of

(28:49):
something good.
What does that look like?
Shoot, you know.
Maybe throw in a cocktail inthere.
Of course, chicken and waffle,maybe a side of eggs, oh, the
damn lemon pepper wings for.

Speaker 1 (29:06):
Apatowl.

Speaker 6 (29:10):
Yeah, I want variety for my, for my little $40.
I know it may not be much for,so you know, but yeah, give me
variety for my little 40.

Speaker 4 (29:19):
I don't know about you.
Multiply that by two.
Hey, that's true.
Yeah, you're right.
So we have about a hundred.

Speaker 6 (29:29):
No, I mean, compared to an unestablished restaurant,
low 40.
But yeah, you're good, pointbig 40 for me.

Speaker 4 (29:40):
So we we both established chicken and waffles.

Speaker 1 (29:42):
I wouldn't mind some good home fries 100% and not
everybody could do them, since,right, that's a problem, that's
a problem for me.
So I'm big scared every time Iorder this shit.
You know, I mean I'll.
It's like I don't know abouty'all, but sometimes I need to
see one of those plates floatingby my table to see what it a

(30:04):
little like.

Speaker 5 (30:05):
Yeah, you know you know and then pull my way to
back over here, Exactly.

Speaker 2 (30:09):
Let me see what that it come in.

Speaker 1 (30:11):
What was that?
What are they eating?
You know without pointing, soyou got give them the head.
Now what are they eating?

Speaker 3 (30:20):
I.

Speaker 1 (30:22):
What about you?
We was that brunt hold on Ineed, I need, I need lamps, help
.
So, lamb, I'm the waitressright, I'm about to hand you
this thing so you can put yourcredit card in.
Okay, here, that's exactly whatit is.

(30:44):
If you're not watching thevideo, he's stiff on the shit
out of it.
And she was like him.
And.

Speaker 6 (30:53):
I was like yeah.
That's your look like a matumbocommercial.

Speaker 1 (31:04):
So okay.
So, as it relates to me, yeah,of course money matters.
As you can clearly see, I jumpinto my lamp voice like big 40
for me Now.
But to be honest with you, IDon't want to say that money's

(31:26):
no object, because it absolutelyis, but I got to see what comes
with that.
Yeah, you know, because I'mwilling to spend the money If
something comes with that.
You know something back withthe you know line, with the
plates and stuff like that.
What is?
What does that portion looklike?

Speaker 3 (31:41):
you want to sit.

Speaker 1 (31:42):
I'm saying um, and I'm over here with lamp, cuz
lamp mentioned something today.
He was like I, I just need twopeople to say that shit was bad.
I ain't going, you won't get athird.
Yeah, you know.
And then you know, my wife isbougie and I'm you are and I'm
bougie.
You are and I'm bougie to anextent.

(32:03):
All right, so maybe I'm alittle bit more.
She is, you know.

Speaker 4 (32:09):
Because you we saw you cut that biscuit With the
fork in my.

Speaker 2 (32:15):
I don't know if you like that.
I don't know if you like that.

Speaker 6 (32:19):
You probably use a fork and knife with a pizza
slice problem.
That was a good segue, so whatwe did was For our first brunch.

Speaker 1 (32:28):
What we did was we ended up at milken honey in
Bowie, maryland, and our serverwas Erica.
Erica shoutouts to you and I'mgonna let y'all take it away,
and then I'll jump in, cuz Ifeel a thrashing coming on.

Speaker 6 (32:48):
Well, yeah, in terms of Erica, erica was was was
phenomenal Customer service onwarm welcome.
You know, she actually is oneof those people like she
actually Knows what you shouldget before you should before you
ordered, and she actually did aperfect example that with with
styles.
But but back to this cakecutting a biscuit.

(33:10):
So so everybody else was like,you know, they, they go on with
a biscuit and nobody else usesfor everybody, just a.
That biscuit is fire.

Speaker 1 (33:25):
She put the biscuits on the table, and Then it was
followed by release the home.
So I turn around everybodygrabbing a biscuit with their
hands.
It didn't bother me nothing,cuz I'm a savage too, but it
didn't bother me any.
So then what I did was Everylike the dust unsettled you know
, I mean.
Biscuits were gone, you know, Imean some were half-eaten, you

(33:49):
know, whatever.
So I gently pulled the lastbiscuit into my Saucer, got my
little knife and fork andstarted to cut.
Now hold on.
But I'm getting cool points andsavages turn around.

Speaker 4 (34:12):
I would expect it Like.

Speaker 1 (34:37):
Before it's a cut a biscuit at my bucket at the
table questioning them.

Speaker 3 (34:44):
It was looking around the other tables like yo.
Who else is cutting the?

Speaker 1 (34:46):
biscuit.

Speaker 4 (34:49):
Good job with the man .

Speaker 2 (34:57):
I'm a big.

Speaker 4 (35:01):
And I just say, you know, god bless, mama's stops
yeah.

Speaker 6 (35:06):
Yeah, I saw that.

Speaker 1 (35:12):
Who brought it up?
Though, somebody brought it up.

Speaker 4 (35:17):
I was too scared to bring it up.

Speaker 6 (35:20):
I was really concerned, like yeah, I wouldn't
even try to be rude, I was justlike curious.
I was like you got why yougotta fuck to your business.

Speaker 1 (35:33):
And I'm looking back at the three at home, looking at
fingers.

Speaker 2 (35:38):
I was clicking the honey off.

Speaker 1 (35:41):
The biscuit was amazing, yeah, you know I was
slicing that motherfucker up.
You know, what was crazy isthat I would have the same
thought if someone well, not ifsomeone I've witnessed it Eating
a slice, a piece of what aknife and fork I've seen it, I
ain't I go for.

Speaker 6 (35:57):
I did that once before, I was all right it is.
And he over here talking aboutme cutting the biscuit here's a
reason why?

Speaker 1 (36:02):
here's a real.
I was on a.
I was on a date Just finished achange in attire.

Speaker 6 (36:07):
Right, you couldn't wash your hands now.
I was on the first date incollege or something and I, you
know I really liked this girland I was like I'm about to be
above him in beyond impressive.
We went to like some pizza spot, like a California pizza
kitchen.
Oh, that's my yeah and so I waslike, yeah, I'm a wire with
this.
And she looked at me and gaveme the same.
It's like why you got a knifeor folks to your pizza and she

(36:27):
probably thought it was likeextra, extra soft.

Speaker 4 (36:31):
That's all weirdo, yeah.
What have we learned from there?

Speaker 6 (36:33):
be yourself.

Speaker 2 (36:34):
There, you go Don't use a knife and forks and cut a
biscuit I was.
Had.
I hadn't tapped into the primeof me at that point in time.

Speaker 1 (36:48):
I was like I was trying to impress y'all.

Speaker 2 (36:51):
I'm definitely looking at you a little bit
different now for sure.

Speaker 1 (36:57):
So we've come up with a rating system In which to
rate, so in which to rate ourexperiences at these spots, all
right, and with that, throughthis, we may or may not have
conversation about it.
So it's a five-tier Ratingsystem.
Yeah, one is poor.
Two is fair the food was decent, but nothing special.

(37:20):
Three is good the food wastasty and satisfying.
Right, how you call it.
What else?
What else?
Very good, the food wasdelicious and exceeding Exceeded
expectations, and excellent.
The food was exceptional andMm-hmm and memorable.
All right, so that's that'swhat we're going with this.
So, on a scale of one to ten,I'm gonna start with these

(37:43):
waffle and chicken eatin' up, Iguess.
There you go.

Speaker 6 (37:45):
That's fine.
Yup, yup, yeah.
And to the food quality I'mgoin' with a five.
Like you know, it's the chickenand waffles at that particular
establishment, milk and Honey,that keeps me goin' back.
I'm gonna give it a five Interms of memorable.
When I think of a honey biscuit, milk and Honey is first in the
cut of my mind.

(38:05):
So, hell yeah, I give a foodquality a five for sure.

Speaker 4 (38:09):
Same Five for me.

Speaker 1 (38:12):
I wouldn't expect anything different.
You had the same fuckin' mealRight and that's the crazy part.

Speaker 4 (38:17):
I've had it three times.
And they keep giving a five.

Speaker 3 (38:20):
So congratulations to .

Speaker 4 (38:21):
Milk and Honey for doin' shit right.

Speaker 6 (38:23):
Yeah, in the middle of the front.

Speaker 2 (38:25):
I definitely have to say five What'd?

Speaker 1 (38:26):
you have.

Speaker 2 (38:27):
I had the catfish and grits and it was like cooked to
perfection.
Like the fish was crunchy, itwas, and then the grits was real
cheesy, but I don't know.
It just had a good flavor tothem.
So but yeah, I definitely giveit a five.

Speaker 1 (38:43):
Okay, I definitely enjoyed it.
I would absolutely, because Idid have an opportunity to taste
off of your plate.
I had to fight.

Speaker 2 (38:49):
And they had Louisiana Hot Sauce.
Good, I'm such.

Speaker 1 (38:52):
Nah, that's cool.
Yeah, the grits and I'm not agrits person the grits were
cooked.
It's easy to fuck up some grits.
You could fuck up some grits,the grits you could fuck up.
I fucked them shits up onpurpose and by mistake.
But yeah, five for you, but forme.
I had the rum shot of FrenchToast, and when I tell you that

(39:14):
these fucking two slices ofbread now.
I don't think that they put iton like that regular holla bread
.
The thick joint didn't matter,though.
Didn't matter because it wasamazing, it was a five, five for
sure, five.
Now the Jell-O eggs, though.
Jell-o eggs, jell-o eggs.

(39:34):
I don't want to be the guy, butI'm going to be the guy Only
because this is basically fromthe essence of Erika.
She would want me to tell thetruth, so I also ordered a side
of eggs because she asked me amI going to just get the French
Toast and not get anything withit?
Mind you, I did scrape thefucking fruit off of the French

(39:54):
Toast because I'm a savage.
Just give me a fucking FrenchToast, don't dress it up with
this.
It's not going to get in.
Scrape that shit off.
She brings me the eggs.
The eggs are in a bowl, right,immediately turned off, because
I'm like why are my eggs in abowl?
I'm thinking cereal, I'mthinking salad, I'm not thinking

(40:16):
eggs.
She puts it down and it startsto jiggle.
I'm like not with the Jell-Oeggs, I don't like the Jell-O
eggs.

Speaker 6 (40:27):
It's like a Megastown video.
Just jiggle when you put itdown.
Watch it now.
I almost got punched in theface last night, but for
Megastown niggas be startingshit, don't even know they
starting shit.

Speaker 2 (40:42):
I didn't know.

Speaker 1 (40:45):
But yeah, no, that whole thing we did how you call
it.
Oh, also the drink, because I'mthe only one, I think, that got
alcoholic beverage.
The drink, the brunch punch iswhat she called it.
It's fucking amazing.

Speaker 3 (41:02):
Yeah, I mean, it was like she said she did.

Speaker 1 (41:05):
She did and shout out to Erica.
Let me talk about Erica for twoseconds.
No, I'm not going to do it,because we do have a services
and experiences that we raise aswell.
So five for me, so let's moveon to two.
What about the variety ofoptions?
How would you rate and rangethe options available for brunch
?

Speaker 6 (41:22):
Oh, man, I would have to say I would give it a four.
I had an extensive range ofoptions and, like I said, this
category, man, I'd benecessarily up my alley because,
like you said, I'm tunnelvision on the brunch menu
especially.
But if they didn't have chickenand waffles though I saw some
other stuff I would have got.

Speaker 1 (41:43):
But let me ask you a question.
Did you just bang them in thehead for something that they
absolutely had and said that ifthey didn't have that, you would
rate them lower than a four.

Speaker 6 (41:55):
No, I wouldn't rate them lower than a four.
That's just me being, I guess,weird, like you know.
Yeah, I guess, yeah, I wouldjust stick with a four.
You said.

Speaker 1 (42:05):
I'm gonna stick with four.
I'm staying on business.

Speaker 6 (42:07):
Yeah, I'm staying on business he was like it was a
four.
Yeah, I'm gonna stick with four, I mean because it was very
extensive and you had optionsand yeah, I mean, if you, yeah,
there's plenty of stuff youcould get on the menu, Okay,
yeah, I just maybe it's just thewhole weird just thing.
I don't want to give everythinga five, but yeah.

Speaker 1 (42:25):
Okay, I mean, you know it's crazy because I used
to work in a job that actuallywhat people would give out
surveys?
Right, you would do the bestpossible thing for them and they
would give you a three, becausenobody's perfect.
Like bitch, I was perfect inthat moment.

Speaker 6 (42:41):
Fuck, is you talking about Improvements?

Speaker 3 (42:43):
Yeah, yeah so don't go off on the move.

Speaker 1 (42:45):
No, you take that up with God.
That's between you and him.
That shit ain't got nothing todo with what.
I just did for you.

Speaker 4 (42:50):
All right, just fucking anyway.
So before I get his rate, youcan get all fives from that on
mind.
Giving fives, that's what.

Speaker 1 (43:00):
I got.
It's the odd couple over there,but they both like chicken.

Speaker 4 (43:05):
The funny thing is, but for this one I'm going to
just say in a I didn't needreading me.

Speaker 3 (43:12):
I've been there a couple of times I've randomly
made you before.

Speaker 1 (43:15):
All right, so let's go for that, because it hasn't
changed since you last sold.
I don't remember it.

Speaker 4 (43:19):
Okay.
So that's why I got to go in a.
Okay, because when we pickedthe spot weeks ago, I was
getting chicken and waffles.

Speaker 1 (43:27):
He was in the spot ordering Right.

Speaker 4 (43:29):
So when they gave me the menu, I took it.
Yeah, but I don't even know whyI took it, because I didn't
even look at it.
I knew I was getting chickenand waffles.

Speaker 6 (43:38):
So no discussion, yeah.

Speaker 4 (43:39):
It wasn't even enough .
From there, they may have thebest menu in this whole state.
I didn't read it.

Speaker 6 (43:44):
So, but not that, yeah, so, like if I wanted to be
adventurous, not adventurous, Iwas tempted to get the steak
and eggs they had on there.
They had like a ribeye withsome eggs.
That looked very good.

Speaker 1 (43:57):
Yeah, I might get that Drink 40, because that shit
definitely was close to 40bucks.

Speaker 6 (44:01):
Yeah, it was like, yeah it was, it was like a big
35 plus tax.

Speaker 1 (44:04):
Yeah, you and I both ordered.
I said this shit too.
I was like hmm.
Chicken and waffles wasn'tcheap, man no it wasn't, but it
wasn't 40 dollars no it wasn't40 dollars.

Speaker 4 (44:12):
It wasn't 40 dollars?

Speaker 1 (44:13):
Yeah, what about you, esda?

Speaker 2 (44:16):
I would say a five.

Speaker 3 (44:18):
All right they had a pretty.

Speaker 2 (44:20):
I was looking at the menu.
They had a pretty good optionsfor pretty much everybody.
They even had like a plantbased chicken sandwich.
So yeah, so from lobster tofish, to chicken, to plant based
, to steak, so yeah, I would sayabout a five, that's pretty
good, all right, I'm definitelygoing with a five.

Speaker 1 (44:39):
My reason is because I love one pages, one pages.

Speaker 3 (44:44):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (44:45):
I mean like there's a diner in New York that reads
like in the cyclopedia so whatdo you give the Cheesecake
Factory menu?
They got like a library book oflike options.
Yeah, but see, this is thething.
No, I'm kind of like you too,Like I'm going there for I'm
going for the pastikas and youknow, and I already know what I
want.
Yeah, I'm not flipping.

(45:05):
The only thing I'm flippingthrough that for is to see if
you have any new cheesecake.
You understand what I'm saying.
Stop taking a pineapple upsidedown cheesecake off the menu.
Please Stop doing that.
That's some dumb shit.
It's probably your bestseller.
You got some other bullshit onit.
You're going to take that offfor the damn me Fuck Triggered.

Speaker 3 (45:29):
All right.

Speaker 1 (45:30):
Ambience.
All right, let's talk about theambience.

Speaker 6 (45:33):
I'm going to give the ambience a five.
There's something about milkand honey.
It always just looks sowelcoming.
The customer service I knowthat's a different topic, but
the customer service also kindof helps.
Also the ambience as well, inmy opinion.
Okay, because it just theymatch the ambience, it's
welcoming atmosphere, and so arethe people who greet you.
And also, as Lampe said, theyhad the bomb ass playlist.

(45:57):
I don't know who, I don't knowwhat.
Teenage young 20 year oldplaylists.

Speaker 4 (46:01):
No, no, no, that's a grown girl.
Oh yeah, oh yeah.

Speaker 6 (46:06):
It was some date night playlist stuff.
You could steal off the musicin the Indian place today.
So yeah, I give it a fivestraight up.

Speaker 1 (46:14):
I will say that I did see Brother Ryan Shazam some
shit.

Speaker 6 (46:19):
I did, and it was.

Speaker 1 (46:20):
it was Dwell-A, dwell-a song, yeah.

Speaker 6 (46:23):
I forget the name of it, but it was a Dwell-A song
for sure, and I will be puttingit on my R&B playlist.

Speaker 1 (46:28):
Okay, yeah, all right .

Speaker 4 (46:30):
I thought you'd probably live Five, five.
But I'm going to tell you thereason I give it a five, why I
went to the bathroom.

Speaker 1 (46:36):
Oh shit, no, that's a big thing.

Speaker 3 (46:38):
That's a thing that makes the difference.
That's a bathroom with superclean yeah.

Speaker 4 (46:43):
Like almost like damn , somebody Don't do it Trying to
Don't do it, they trying to geta raise.
Okay, like it was like airfreshening in there, it was
clean.

Speaker 1 (46:55):
But was there a guy in there with the lotion and all
of that?

Speaker 6 (46:59):
No, no, no, no.
Were like a man.

Speaker 1 (47:00):
I'm in the club, I'm in the club, but that's what
gets you a five for the bathroom.

Speaker 4 (47:06):
That was probably getting in cuckoos Like when it
comes to a restaurant now Iexpect the bathroom to be clean.
You hope it's clean, you knowwhat I'm saying, but this one
was beyond clean.
Okay, like it was like this wasone of those better homes and
garden clean Wow.

Speaker 3 (47:22):
So five Better home to garden.
Yeah, okay.

Speaker 2 (47:29):
I guess about four or five.

Speaker 1 (47:31):
You can't have a four or five.
There's a point five in hereJust kidding to get a five.

Speaker 2 (47:36):
I mean it was a nice venue.
I mean the music was good, theambience was good.
Of course, like I said, theservice was awesome.

Speaker 3 (47:43):
So, um, yeah, just don't be that person scared to
give a five Okay.
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (47:51):
I'm gonna give them a five.
They deserve it.

Speaker 1 (47:53):
I'm gonna fuck all your heads up.
I'm scared, I'm gonna givey'all a three, three, yeah, wow,
fix your face, all of y'all.

Speaker 6 (48:01):
Wow, all of y'all.

Speaker 2 (48:05):
Y'all act like y'all watching me cut fucking biscuits
right now.
Yeah, it's like a biscuit thing.
Never seen it before.

Speaker 1 (48:09):
And this is no slight to them.
The reason why I say that isthis we're evaluating a brunch,
right?
Yeah, so there are certainestablishments that just have
brunch on the menu and I feltlike that that's what that was
Like.
This is brunch on the menu, soI have a different menu option

(48:30):
for you.
It doesn't speak to the tone ofit.
Angels in Harlem, in Harlem,different vibe.
Like, because it's it's.
It's when they start with theirbrunch.
It's a brunch, you understand?
Like, literally, from top down,it's a bunch.
You're not showing up therebecause you had dinner there

(48:51):
last night or you ordered, youcan't order breakfast there, but
so forth and so on.
Right, so there's no slight tothem that it's a three, but what
I'm seeing it as is again likeit's, it's a.
It's a restaurant that hasbrunch items.
Okay, so, that's where I'm goingwith this.
All right, right Look at that,just dug myself out of that hole

(49:12):
real quick, but we let it walk.

Speaker 4 (49:15):
All right, let's get to the service.

Speaker 1 (49:19):
And this was, I guess , the most enjoyable part for
most of us right, the service.
How would you rate the qualityof service provided?

Speaker 6 (49:25):
to you.
Oh, hands down Five.
Erica was tremendous.
She, she.
It was almost like she was afortune teller.
She, she automatically justknew what, what styles, would
and would like.
You know all types of stuff.
It was amazing.
It was almost like she had sometype of doctor strange ability.

Speaker 1 (49:44):
We don't have to switch the order in which we
asking these questions, ryan,like I'm gonna pull out all the
stops, yeah.

Speaker 4 (49:50):
More for Goli all up.
What do you think?
Easy five, and it was somethingthat happened before.
Everybody got there and I'mgiving her five.
So she comes to the table.
She asked me you know that Iwant something to drink and I
said, yeah, I just want awaterfront and she's okay.
Well, if you want somethingelse, let me know.
I'm not going to put it inbecause during these hours we

(50:14):
only be on a 90 minute timelimit, but I know you still
waiting on gas, so I'm not goingto start putting stuff in until
all your guests arrive.
So, off the rip, she got a five.
Just she got the five beforeshe did anything.
So that's awesome, that's dope.

Speaker 6 (50:31):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (50:32):
I would say definitely a five, and even
coming in like the people at thefront, were very you know they
were smiles on their face.
Very, you know, helpful, youknow.
And then, of course, for Erica,you know she just took it like
above and beyond.
So definitely a five for me,great service.

Speaker 1 (50:51):
It was Erica for me.
Yeah.
Erica for the win all day likeall day, like just basically the
engagement alone.
You know a lot of peopleshowing up for a check.
She's engaged, she's investedyou know and then come to find
out she was a manager and Ididn't even know she was a
manager.
You know, and that was for me,that was big for me.

Speaker 6 (51:15):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (51:15):
Because a lot of managers, they want you to know
that they're a manager.
Because, on top of that, it'slike listen, you're getting the
best possible service.
And let me explain why I am amanager.
Nah, she was acting like shewas low man on the totem pole
the whole time.

Speaker 6 (51:28):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (51:29):
You know, the conversation was great Menu
items.
I love when you go to arestaurant and they recommend
things.
And they're not recommendingthings because of the price,
Right, but they're literallyrecommending things based off of
the people that you know cometo the restaurant.
Right, you know it's the drink.

Speaker 3 (51:48):
I don't know what it was, but she was nasty.

Speaker 1 (51:51):
But she was like no, it's nasty, I'm like all right,
cool, so let's move on.
She was like nah, but I'm goingto make it for you because I
want you to understand thisnasty.

Speaker 3 (51:59):
Don't take my word for it.

Speaker 1 (52:01):
You know I'm telling you that it is.
But that solidified the trustand you know her picking options
and stuff like that.
She brought that out.
It was nasty, of course, andthen she went and got what she
thought was the favorite and,between the two, of course,
hands down the other one, onewhich was the brunch punch yeah.
But Erica, um, yeah, she's,she's.

(52:22):
They are lucky to have Somebodylike her, and I'm not just
saying that it sounds real good,though, but I'm not just saying
that they are extremely lucky.
And then she brought a managerover.

Speaker 6 (52:31):
Yeah, I bought a spola.
Yeah, and that's what we foundout.
She was a manager.
We didn't even find out thatrecord from her.

Speaker 4 (52:36):
Well, no, she didn't bring her over, she just had to
come over.
Oh yeah, that was a random.
Oh okay, cause she went toother tables too, I got there.

Speaker 1 (52:45):
So, um, yeah, All right.
So boom, let's move on to Valueand money, as it relates to
where we went, A value.

Speaker 4 (52:58):
I'll give it a.
Uh, you know what?
I'm not going to be that person.
I'm going to give him a five.

Speaker 3 (53:07):
I'm going to give him a five.

Speaker 4 (53:09):
I was about to be the the hater and be like I'm going
to give him a full cause.
I felt like I could have spenta little less on those chicken

Speaker 3 (53:16):
and waffles, but it was good, so I got to give him a
five.

Speaker 1 (53:20):
Exactly, I mean, that's your third time.

Speaker 4 (53:23):
What Third time?
What?

Speaker 1 (53:24):
Getting chicken and waffles.

Speaker 4 (53:27):
There's going to be a fourth when I go.

Speaker 1 (53:30):
He said I'm not going to be that guy.
I'm like thinking you justgoing to keep going in and
getting this.

Speaker 4 (53:35):
You know what I think .
Next time I'm going to do thatsteak and eggs.

Speaker 1 (53:38):
Hmm, I think yeah, you're going to have to save up
for that Especially I'm going to.

Speaker 2 (53:42):
It's going to be chicken and waffles.

Speaker 4 (53:44):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (53:45):
Big 40.

Speaker 4 (53:47):
That might be one of Dutch ones.

Speaker 6 (53:51):
I give it a five as well in terms of value because,
like we said, the steak and eggswith 35 by itself, my overall
bill was like 40, and I got thechicken and waffles and I got my
appetizer, I got the lemonpeppers and all that still came
up to, you know, 40.
So I guess, and the biscuits, Ithink a little a little what I

(54:13):
had to do with everything.
I'm just saying maybe Becausethat was a lot for 40.

Speaker 1 (54:18):
Yeah, I'm sitting there listening to the shopping
list and I'm like hold on broCostco Right.
Discount brunch?
Yeah, not well, all right.
So for me, though, it waspretty much the same.
It shook out to about 67.
For us, you know, I tipped a 20bucks, so it's like low 87.
And for what we had, and againthe quality of the food my

(54:42):
server.
I'm taking all of that intoaccount with what I'm paying,
because my service nasty and Igot to pay mad bread.
You know we've gone to themovies and been pissed off like
as for nachos they give you abag of.
Doritos.

Speaker 4 (54:56):
Oh, yeah, oh fucking crazy.
Hey, can we take a minute toapplaud that $20 tip?
All right, all right.

Speaker 1 (55:06):
What the fuck did y'all tip on?
I tipped 20%.

Speaker 6 (55:09):
I tipped the like $10 .

Speaker 1 (55:11):
Okay, so it's 30.
Yeah, yours shook out to about12.

Speaker 4 (55:14):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (55:15):
About 12.

Speaker 6 (55:15):
Something like that, yeah.

Speaker 1 (55:16):
I'm looking at her, no no, no, it worked.

Speaker 4 (55:22):
You know how we get stereotype.
That not tipping.

Speaker 1 (55:26):
Listen, you know what tip means right.
Yeah, I think so To ensureprofessionalism.

Speaker 4 (55:32):
Oh, you know, okay, because I did not know that yeah
.

Speaker 1 (55:35):
That's what the fuck it means.
So when I'm being stereotypebecause I'm not tipping, let's
go look in the mirror real quick.
Like you over here, you knowbringing me cold biscuits.

Speaker 6 (55:49):
Oh, cold hard biscuits.

Speaker 1 (55:51):
The scruffies.
I don't want them since.

Speaker 3 (55:53):
You know what I mean.

Speaker 1 (55:55):
I walk in there 30 minutes later, you putting bread
on my table.
No, that's a problem, you getme.

Speaker 6 (56:00):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (56:01):
So it's those things that actually go into it.
I think that we all tip, but atthe end of the day, though, I'm
not going to say we all tip.
No well, this is the thing,though I want.
I'm not, but we're also notgoing to bear the weight of the
rest of our industry not takingcare to people that they hire
Right right, right right.
Yeah, because that's what it is.
There's a lot of people in theservice industry that aren't
even allowed to take tips.

(56:23):
That's crazy, you understand,like you going to some Dunkin'
Donuts and and I keep saying NewYork, but that's where I'm from
, so it's only that's all I canspeak to but you go in there.
Some of them are half tip jawsand others they're not allowed
to have tip jaws, so they'll dosomething like, do something
crazy for you when you, you know, want to tip them there, yeah
Right.
So even in the restaurantindustry, I don't I feel bad.

(56:46):
Don't feel bad about people notgetting tips because the owners
shouldn't follow on me.
First of all, the price point.
You know I don't factor in yourtip when I'm looking at the
menu.
No, you understand, I'm sayingI'm not doing that.
It only hits me later when I'mlike why do you have to be so
good?
Yeah, what does that

Speaker 4 (57:06):
stand for Again.
I need to keep that in mind.

Speaker 1 (57:08):
To ensure professionalism.

Speaker 4 (57:10):
That was good.
Thank you, no worries.

Speaker 1 (57:13):
No worries.
So overall I think they're astrong four and a half.

Speaker 6 (57:18):
Yeah, I'll say it probably on average sound like
one and a half.

Speaker 1 (57:20):
Yeah, I'm sorry about that three.
It was the three that broughtyou to a four and a half.
That three fucked you up.
Oh and well, we got one NA aswell, and we got a four because
this dude is nobodies, perfect.

Speaker 6 (57:30):
Yeah, I just made the four of you hit this cut.

Speaker 1 (57:33):
Yeah, I did, I gave it just because Paul, yeah, so
we're going to do the four andthe half, but at this point,
though, I think now it's timefor us to get to the segment
that I tried to get to earlier,but I fucked up the whole.
You would have missed all ofthis good shit.
I hope y'all turn this shitback on after y'all was like

(57:54):
fuck them.
Disorganized motherfuckers.
But hold on, let's get to theshit though.

Speaker 5 (58:00):
The next shit rather Main course, it's time to eat
what's on your mind.

Speaker 1 (58:07):
All right, so here is where Ryan brings us in,
because this was his topic andyou know we're going to flesh
this out.
It's financial literacy oremotional.

Speaker 6 (58:20):
Yeah, well, you just say financial literacy is fine.
Just how comfortable are youjust talking about finances and
just in general?
You know, when I say in general, maybe you come across under
like a small group of people ata party or something and I don't
know.
Maybe somebody was like, oh,did anybody, do you know, check
the stock market?

(58:40):
Or how's your you know anybodythought about investing in real
estate, things like that.
Or just just in general, likehow comfortable are you talking
about money if it's brought upin general conversations?
And also, which I think is alittle bit more important, how
comfortable are you talkingabout finance with your partner?
You know, I feel like that'sone of those things where you

(59:02):
know it's just like.
You know everything else is funto talk about, whether it's
intimacy, date nights, this andthe third but you never really,
even on podcasts or televisionshows, really you never really
see anybody be like all right,if we're going to, I don't know,
shack up together, if we'regoing to get married, what are
your finances looking like?
What's your debt to?

(59:23):
You know debt to income ratiolook like?
Do you have a decent creditscore?
You really don't really don'thear anything about that and I
really feel like, especiallymaybe not everybody, but I do
feel like you know, I feel likesome people of color are just
afraid of talking about it.
And just a very, very quickpersonal example.
We can go around the room.
I got some, some stats, we canlook up stuff like that.

(59:44):
But just a very quick, personalexample.
When me and my wife first gotmarried, you know we weren't on
the same financial goals andevery time I would try to bring
it up, you know, just to be like, hey, you know, I feel like we
need to cut back on such acredit card.
You know we need to startsaving this.
Like she would kind of like youknow, kind of change topics,

(01:00:06):
like I kind of.
Just like you know, shrink,shrink when it comes to the top,
because she wasn't, she wasn'tused to that type of
conversation.
You know, and you know, perhapsmaybe didn't have that
conversation growing up orwhatever the case may be.
It's just, and I feel likethat's a conversation.
We're on the same page now, butit took a while for us to get

(01:00:26):
there and I felt like that's avery important thing.
I don't think a lot of couplesreally talk about it, or if they
do talk about it.
It's too late.
And my point exactly accordingto the Forbes.
According to Forbes, financialproblems are like one of the top
five reasons for for the, fordivorce.

Speaker 4 (01:00:44):
I've already talked.
Yeah, yeah.

Speaker 6 (01:00:48):
Some sources may say top, but at least what I checked
, at least top five you know,depending where you, you know,
get your sources from.
So so, yeah, that's what Iwould like to just talk about.
Like you know, you know lamp.
I know like you were married,for example, how comfortable is
that?
What was that topic?
Or even in your current day,like if you take someone
seriously, how important orcomfortable is that talking to

(01:01:11):
your partner about it?

Speaker 4 (01:01:13):
Well, when I was married it was.
It was very important and I canbe transparent my wife had to
type me up and spend it.
So now, dating it's important.
Let me say that it's important,but we not.

(01:01:36):
It's only important when Ineeded to be important, like we
only.
We're only going on a couple ofdates.
I don't care what your creditscore is.
It could be great, it could beterrible.
We're not going to stick aroundto find out anyway.
So, it just depends.
If we start getting serious,then you know we can start
talking about credit and youknow how we can improve and all

(01:01:59):
this stuff.
So yeah that's going to getimportant to me.
When it's serious, like I'mjust we just on to a movie
getting something to eat, Iwould be honest.
I don't care, but if there'ssomebody that you're taking
seriously, once again, that'swhen it's yeah, that's when it's
Matter of fact you'll probablyknow, because I'm going to start
asking some different questions, just to get the date, I don't

(01:02:22):
want to say the number, becauseI done been on that number Some
of the potentials are going tobe listened like.

Speaker 6 (01:02:27):
Oh, we went on dating number four.

Speaker 2 (01:02:29):
He ain't asked me that shit, I must not be the one
.

Speaker 4 (01:02:33):
I've been on it.
It's a person.
It was not a person.
It's a woman I've been on aboutseven dates with, still didn't
get to that conversation, sothat's why he put us number one.

Speaker 1 (01:02:43):
I don't know, he's a podcast, I don't know.

Speaker 3 (01:02:46):
But yeah, it's important.

Speaker 4 (01:02:47):
It's important when it needs to be.
Got you.

Speaker 6 (01:02:49):
Got you?
How about you?
Well, and that's another thing,it's almost I don't want.
Has anybody seen the movieHeartbreak Kid with Ben Stiller?
Not a year ago, oh I haven't,yeah, but there was one
hilarious part of the movie thatI feel like is kind of relevant
.
Long story short.
He meets the woman of hisdreams, gets married off a whim

(01:03:11):
and before they get married hefinds out that she works for the
Marine Biologist stuff, likethat.
At some point in the movie he'slike, hey, when we get back
from this honeymoon, we got tocombine our finances.
We got to do this in the third.
And she's like you know,combine what finances?
And she was like you said youwere a Marine Biologist, right.
And she's like no, I said Ivolunteered for the Marine
Biologist.
I don't make no money, and soif anybody's seen it, they know

(01:03:34):
exactly what I'm talking about.
So don't be no Heartbreak Kidout here.

Speaker 1 (01:03:38):
Yo, that's crazy, that's crazy.

Speaker 4 (01:03:40):
Yeah, you're making me go watch that movie.

Speaker 6 (01:03:45):
So what about you?

Speaker 1 (01:03:45):
Sal.
Okay, so for me it was, ofcourse, just like anybody else.
I identified with the wholefinancial issue Okay, you know
we have conversations about ityou know as far as building and
stuff like that and alsoidentified with the fact that a
lot of people, as far as the waythat I was raised in a

(01:04:09):
financial space is like, youknow, that's like very close to
the vest type of information youknow, and like I'm breaking out
of that because we've beenmarried three years.
This is our third.
It's our third year.
Okay, our anniversary is comingup on the 25th of March.

Speaker 4 (01:04:28):
All right, all right, I'll let you know that, bro.

Speaker 1 (01:04:29):
Yeah, now listen, I pay attention to everything I
love.
I like that how you call it.
So like, for instance, we justliterally just had a
conversation about my W-2s.
You know, not a deepconversation.
I'm sure, like after thispodcast, we'll have a further

(01:04:51):
conversation, but for me,walking into it, I'm transparent
now at this point.
If she asked me a question,this is what it is.
This is what we're doing, thisis what I have, this is what
I've done.
You know, when I speak to LambsPoint, as far as like
tightening up, this is my anchor, like this is my anchor, you
know, I don't make chump change,but I also don't see it either.

(01:05:14):
You know what I'm saying, right,thanks, like Uncle Sam, right,
yeah I don't, I don't see it,you know, and I think what's
important for me is that we havea plan.
You know, what's important forme is that we actually have
discipline, you know, becausediscipline is going to basically
help us execute that plan.
So that's that, to me, isimportant, on top of the

(01:05:36):
finances, because, again, it'sjust like any other business
that you run.
You know, one of the biggestfinancial steps that we took
forward was when I started thepodcast.
I thought I was taking itserious.
I'm like yo, I'm in this thing.
You know, three years in, I'mgood.
And she was like I'm proud ofyou one day, out of the blue,
I'm proud of you, I'm like why?

(01:05:56):
And she was like, because youstuck with it, like you know,
and a lot of times she wasn'tengaged with it, you know, it
was just like ah, you got thepodcast, you know doing whatever
, whatever.
And if I wanted her to listento something, I would have to
tell her I need you to listen toX, y and Z and send it to her,
which didn't bother me, becauseeverybody has the only thing
yeah, um, but that Christmaswhat she did was she got an LLC

(01:06:20):
for the company.
She was like go be serious Likeyou.
You serious, this is good, thisis what you're doing.
You know step one and then steptwo.
You know um her coming on asthe co-host.
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:06:33):
You know, it wasn't like yo.
I think I need you now.

Speaker 1 (01:06:35):
And she was like listen, we're going to solve all
the problems, that's what we'regoing to do.
I'm going to be the co-host,that's that.
That's awesome, that's good.
You know.
So again, for me, we wedefinitely need to have more
financial conversations, becausethen there's growth.

Speaker 5 (01:06:51):
You get what I'm saying we get to grow from it.

Speaker 1 (01:06:53):
Because if I'm making a mistake and constantly
hitting that wall and not sayinganything.
That's crazy, Right, you knowthat's crazy.
She sees where the she seeswhere the break goes, though.
Okay, it's not one of thosethings I'm not a frivolous
spinner but at the same time,though it you know it's not
always going to the places itneeds to go, gotcha.

Speaker 4 (01:07:14):
In a timely manner.
Gotcha, gotcha, I'm telling thesame.

Speaker 3 (01:07:17):
It's good to have that second eye.

Speaker 4 (01:07:19):
Yeah, it is, I'm going to tell the story.
I don't drink, I don't smoke,but I do gamble.
Okay.

Speaker 1 (01:07:26):
All right Fando.

Speaker 4 (01:07:28):
Fando kicked me off.
That's the story.

Speaker 3 (01:07:30):
Did you?

Speaker 6 (01:07:30):
Oh yeah, that's another episode right there, so
at one point like I was doingsome.

Speaker 4 (01:07:37):
I was betting on some stuff on, on doing some batting
, and I kept making cashwithdrawals.
And my wife was like, why youkeep taking all this cash out?
And I was like, oh, I made somebets.
If she looked like are you, areyou monitoring this?
Like, do you see what you spent?
And I'm like I spent like $700.

Speaker 3 (01:08:01):
Yeah, holy yeah and.

Speaker 4 (01:08:02):
I was like, damn, all right.
Well, I guess the budget, thegambling budget, been blown.
So it may be that.
But from that day on, look, youknow, everybody got the advice.
But you can't, you can't losecontrol of it.
And at that point I would say Ilost control of it, but I

(01:08:23):
wasn't that $700 on gambling istoo much.
So at that moment I had that.
What was the time spent forthat?
It was like 700 over what Liketwo months.

Speaker 6 (01:08:37):
That's still too much .
Yeah, you talking about 350 forthe total of two months.
Yeah, that's still a lot.
That's still a lot Becauseyou're not you're not going to
see that back.

Speaker 4 (01:08:44):
Yeah, look, she only saw it because I was losing,
right?
So if I was winning with thebig deal, but if you lose 700
odds in two months?

Speaker 1 (01:08:54):
Yeah, but you had a gambling problem.
So that means that she wouldn'teven seen it if you won,
because you're not putting thatback into the bank.
A lot of people with problems,what they do is like that
bankroll I'm not speaking fromexperience that bankroll is it
stays there and then thatwhittles down, and then you go
back to the bank and you bringmoney over.

Speaker 4 (01:09:14):
So here's a problem with this.
Here's the thing when you winmoney gambling right yeah, when
you win money gambling, youusually spend it on something
that's frivolous, like I don'tknow people who's win money
gambling and they go open theSavings account right they go
buy some new shoes, yeah, orsome new clothes, yeah you.

(01:09:36):
You got this money doing dumbshit because gambling is dumb,
yeah, so you got it doing dumbshit so that's what you about to
do.
Go do some dumb shit with themoney you want.

Speaker 1 (01:09:45):
I got a I have a story to piggyback off of that.
What we did was like during thewhole covid situation and stuff
like that, right, I got in theday training just like everybody
else you know, so we justinvest in the stuff, and I
jumped on the whole.
Um, I was in Dallas when gamestop did what it did.
Oh Wow.

(01:10:06):
But I was in Dallas and thatwas when everything qualified
and I was like hold on, let melook a little closer into this
right.
And then they started talkingabout amc.
Was you know do for a shortsqueeze as well, which it did
squeeze a couple of times.
But so I jumped into that right.
I have five grand, and this isthis is one of the things that I
deeply regret.
I don't think that I've evertold you I jumped in, I had five

(01:10:29):
grand right and I was like yourbed, listen, x1z is happening
like we would have Conversationsabout this stock and to the
point where it was like I knowin our heads she was like this
thing, it's a fucking stockanalyst, you know, because I was
, I was doing that much researchon it because you asked me a
question.
I'm like I got an answer youknow, youtube university.

(01:10:51):
But we went from five grand.
We were at uh 12, right from 12.
So now we seven up Right fromseven.
We jumped to around 19, right,yeah, um, we got as high as 29.

(01:11:11):
Amc did a reverse on stocksplit Uh, right, so it was like
10 to one or something like thatreverse stock split and we lost
everything, so to speak, to um,that whole thing, the, the
gambling thing and stuff likethat.
This is where, once again, itpays to have, because I didn't,

(01:11:35):
we didn't have like thoseconversations.
We had conversations when wewere winning.
I'm like well, we is nowsending screenshots and
everything.
Look, this is where it's at.
Well, boom, we good.
And then, in hindsight, thatwas my house down payment.
That was, that was us beingunder one roof, not her in
Dallas and me in new york.

(01:11:56):
You get what I'm saying inhindsight, yeah in hindsight,
I'm a lot wiser now, a lot moreTransparent now you know,
especially if, if I have an ideato do something, first thing
I'll do is like listen what youthink about this.
Yeah, like this is what I'mdoing, like I was pretty good
with the whole day trading thing, right, so now I'm studying how

(01:12:17):
to trade futures and stuff likethat, because everybody else is
on, not crypto.
Um, they're doing Help me out,um, bitcoin or something, not
Bitcoin.
So it's not crypto, it's notbitcoin.
They're doing the tradingcurrency Blockchain, not
blockchain.
It's gonna come to me.

Speaker 6 (01:12:38):
All right, I'm just going around the table.
It was like your turn we'regonna be here.

Speaker 1 (01:12:41):
I don't know and to the financial literacy point.
We're all fucking stupid.
No, um, and it's, it's, it'sactually um you're not talking
about nft or anything, right?
No, Nft is another skin.

Speaker 4 (01:12:57):
Yeah like it's exciting.
We sell too much more to throwthat out there.

Speaker 1 (01:13:01):
Yeah, true.
No, they're doing um God damnit.
Anyway, it'll come to me andit's probably somebody listening
screaming at the fuckingspeaker right now Like stupid
it's.

Speaker 2 (01:13:15):
As you know, right right, right.

Speaker 1 (01:13:16):
But you know, doing that whole thing, but that's
what I'm moving into now, youknow.
And then, of course, open uptrying to get multiple streams
of revenue popping um, but inCriminally.
And I think what happens with alot of motherfuckers is that
they jump out the window andthey're like they want, they
want the money overnight and youcan't get the money overnight.

(01:13:37):
You can, you can, but of courseit's a gamble.
Right, it is yeah, because ifyou don't make that first, flip
you down bad.
Yeah you know, um.
So again, she's.
She's my anchor in a lot ofways and to speak to your points
, you know, speaking to yourspouse about finances and stuff

(01:13:59):
like that is is super important,you know, and she knows how
hard I work.
I want my speaking for you.
Oh, yeah, please.

Speaker 2 (01:14:08):
Oh no, um no, I was just gonna say, I mean, it's
never for me, it's never been aconversation like, especially
when dating or you know, likeyears ago, things like that,
like it's never just really beena conversation as far as you
know finances and you knowcreative scores and that whole
thing.
But now, um, of course, at thisold age of mine and and being

(01:14:30):
married to this guy over here,um, you know, I think I mean of
course it's, it's important youknow before marriage, you know
Definitely before marriage, tokind of get an idea of you know,
of how you know the person thatyou're gonna spend the rest of
your life with.
You know, like, how well theyspend money.
How you know they're crazy likeyou want to know these things

(01:14:50):
because, again, like you said, Imean finances is one of the top
reasons for divorce.
So, um, but yeah, like I said,but I just never had those
conversations before prior.
Okay like.
But but for me, I've always feltlike I've managed my money well
, um, always, you know, to carrythe bills and things like that
before I've, you know Like,bought myself anything or did

(01:15:12):
anything, for you know like Ialways made sure you know things
were taken care of.
So for me, uh, money managementis definitely important.
Um, credit scores, all thatgood stuff, especially now you
know, right, but, um, but yeah.
So I mean, I definitely thinkit's, you know, when dating,
definitely talk about it,especially when you know that

(01:15:32):
it's going to be something more,or you are lending, you know,
going into that whole marriageconversation absolutely,
absolutely so when, uh, you know, because I think that's another
thing, that's kind of scary too, like it can.

Speaker 6 (01:15:43):
It can be an awkward, scary conversation, especially
if you don't feel that confidentIn your credit score to to
share with your work can beembarrassing.
Yeah, more so embarrassing yeahand I, you know, like I said, I
think that's what a lot ofpeople you know it's fearful,
fearful, fearful of, um, but Ithink that's the whole point of

(01:16:04):
you might as well have thatconversation if you're serious
about somebody, as opposed tohaving it after the fact of
marriage.
I mean, granted, yeah, like Isaid, I didn't have that
conversation before we gotmarried.
You know that that financialconversation came after I
started.
You know, you know, notice,like you know, we just started
looking at credit card billstogether and stuff like that,
and even still, you know, like Isaid, it was an awkward.

(01:16:25):
It had it had to be a fewnumber of awkward conversations
before we actually Came up withsome type of a plan to really
get things back in order.
You know what I'm saying and so, um, you know.
So, with getting things back inorder, has anybody, anybody
this panel ever considered, likeyou know, find out to advisor
for help or anything else likethat?

Speaker 1 (01:16:44):
or yeah, um, I think on two occasions.
Okay, that I've, you know, I'vedone it, and then again like
that whole, that whole thing.
Another thing that takesdiscipline yeah, you know with
regards to like you know, you goin there, you dump all your
shit on the table and you try tosort through it you know, and

(01:17:05):
then the plan that they come upwith it's like oh so you just
want me to be a slave forever,like All right.
So you know, we milk in incookies the rest of my fucking
life, you know, um, but again,in my old age, there are things
that are necessary, you knowwhich.

(01:17:26):
You know I had an epiphany, youknow, and I um probably have
this discussion with you guysoff cam and just to speak to my
camera I mean my character buthad an epiphany and it was like
yo, life is about Sacrifices.
Yeah, you understand, and whatare you going to sacrifice for

(01:17:47):
what you want, you know, andthen after that, like there are
a lot of different intricacies,things that actually go with
this, you know, sacrifices, um,putting together a good plan, a
sound plan, you know, and thatsound plan only has to be
agreeable to yourself andprobably one or two other people
.
Yeah just to make sure thatthey're fact checking your work.

(01:18:07):
You understand, um, and thenthe whole execution part of you
know.
You got to be Ready to hit thestreets and go make it happen,
you know, and damn.
And then you just need you, youneed that, you need that, um,
that security blanket in theform of a cheerleader, okay.

(01:18:28):
And when I say that is this,there's gonna be a lot of hard
nights, a lot of terriblefucking days when you're just
gonna be like I don't want toput another fucking penny in the
bank yeah, you know what I meanLike it's not, it's not serving
me and it's just that person,you know, that's gonna come

(01:18:48):
through and just be like, oh,you're doing the right thing.
Because, this is what's gonnahappen.
You can't see.
You know you can't see tomorrow, but I've already took a trip
there.
Yeah, right, right, and this iswhat it's looking like.
Yeah you get what I'm sayingand just have that so that you
know.
Because once you get over thathump, it's just that one home.
Yeah, because once you get overthe hump, you've already
developed a discipline toactually be able to save and and

(01:19:09):
do the things that arenecessary to maintain that Right
, because if you do anythingelse you're an asshole.

Speaker 6 (01:19:14):
Yeah.
Yeah, that's true.
Like you said, I think Once youget over that one hump, it's
just a matter of just continuingthose good habits like like,
for example, if you it mightsound simple to some people, but
like you know, if you eat out,you know for four days out of,
for four out of the five work,work, you know workdays.

Speaker 1 (01:19:34):
Maybe you cut that back a little bit you know, or
all the ways to do it right,yeah, you don't have to eat out.
We just the matter.
Convenience consumes us, yeah,yeah.

Speaker 6 (01:19:42):
Yeah, yeah.
How about you just take anextra 30 minutes, cook yourself
up a meal instead of going outin the weekends?
Maybe stay behind home.
Just just make it a date nightat a crib, netflix and chill.
But, uh, we brought up afinancial advisor.
Um, I know I came across thisarticle on Edward Jones and it
was talking about like the topeight reasons why you should at
least consider getting aFinancial advisor.

(01:20:05):
I'm not gonna go through alleight.
We can post the link in thedescription at some point, but,
like I don't, one of the main,the top three reasons that stood
out for me.
Um, one, I think the more moreobvious reason is, um, just
long-term planning.
You know whether that behelping you out with retirement.
Maybe you want to go on a.
You know Even something thatcould be for yourself.

(01:20:27):
I know you guys have been madefor three years.
Maybe you want to do somelong-term planning so you can
have.
You could do a big for your10-year anniversary, right, and
you don't have to rely ondropping 10 bands on a credit
card because you've been savingup for the next seven years in
your marriage.
Um, the second reason I knowthey said like you can just try
to, just to help you hone otherthings, like maybe it can help

(01:20:48):
you with, you know, like yourstock store you told, or your
day trading.
You know it could actually evengive you advice on that, which
I wasn't aware of.
I thought it was just a placewhere you can just they just
help you save money and maybecut costs somewhere else.
But there are some financialadvisors who can help you with
the day trading things, so youmay not have to carry that
burden on your own.
But the biggest thing, you knowonce again, I'm only give three

(01:21:09):
, will post the rest on thedescription it's just a plan for
the uh, the unpredictable.
You know you plan for theunplanned thing.
I know We'll get into the topiclater about adulting and stuff
like that, but it always seemslike whenever I got my bills in
order, whenever I got a goodgroove, card trouble, daughter
got go to the emergency room,your daughter needs braces now.

(01:21:31):
Just something always comes uponce you get in a good groove.
But if you at least have afinancial advisor or at least
have some type of good habits or, as you say, styles, get over
the hump and just develop goodhabits of saving and being more,
more Conscious with your money,maybe you could prepare for
that unpredictable.
So that's you know.
I just want to share those twobits with the financial advisor.

(01:21:51):
You know I mean you'reabsolutely right, especially.

Speaker 1 (01:21:54):
For the unpredictable ?
Yeah, right, because, like Isaid, we live in two different
states.
Right and we've.
We've had to make it work.
Um, you know, it can be astrain of times financially, but
my daughter got sick, right,and I didn't know and when I you
know, I mean when she had toldme that she had gotten sick I
had to hop on a flight the nextday, right, and that's costly.

(01:22:15):
Yeah, you get what I'm sayingto go out there and make sure
everything is good.
But again, if I didn't have theextra bread to you know to do
that because that flight wasAgain right, right next day type
of um action that had beencrazy, yeah, and then I got my
money back, and I got my moneyback and and those are the some

(01:22:35):
of the things that I guessinstills the discipline in me Um
, along with warranted, you know, the motivation and everything
because of the fact that thoseare the things you want to make
sure that you're there for.
You understand I'm saying so.
I mean it's rough.
But Getting back to what youwere saying yeah, absolutely,
like you know, sometimes you doneed professional help.

Speaker 6 (01:22:58):
Yeah, sometimes you know it's no shame and ask for
professional help.
I think I didn't see that inthe uh in the list when I read
the article.
But Kind of brings me to thenext thing in terms of seeking
help.
One of the things that I amafraid of, and perhaps
ironically enough, I'm talkingabout financial advisors, and
Sometimes it can't be costly toat least get a financial advisor

(01:23:19):
.
But, um, ironically enough, oneof the things I'm kind of
scared of is actually, you know,truly, trying to find out what
to invest in.
Like there's so many scamsgoing on.
You got DJ ambient and Caesarwith the real estate scam.
You got, um, Like I know, uh, Ithink it's jake paul, one of
the paul brothers.
They was getting a lot of a lotof flak for the nft scam.

(01:23:41):
There's this guy named bitcoinriding.
He had, like some some somecrypto currency scam.
He just got arrested the otherday.
Yeah, that's what I'm saying, soyeah, so uh, you know, and of
course everybody remembers thethe all-time famous Um, you know
, burning made-off.
You know, can I?

Speaker 1 (01:23:59):
jump in real quick.
Please do so the burningmade-off thing is is Funny and
ironic at the same time.
No how so because thegovernment is a Ponzi scheme.
So it's not he's just the onethat they singled out, and they
were like you know what?
You can't do what we're doing.

Speaker 3 (01:24:18):
It's you know and these are.

Speaker 1 (01:24:20):
These are things that you know.
Of course it's a deeperdiscussion and of course you
want to have it with somebodythat has you know, that knows a
lot more history as far asthat's concerned.
But the government is a Ponzischeme.
They're washing money everyfucking day and I'm gonna say
this and I'm gonna leave italone.
I promise you, but you don'twake up and then send Five

(01:24:42):
billion dollars to a foreigncountry, but you can't do
anything here.
Right right.
It gets stuck in legislation andall his other stuff, but we can
wake up and send five billiondollars somewhere.
Yeah so it's not again Bernie.
Bernie was only doing whateverybody else is doing and

(01:25:03):
that's not even to say thatmaybe riding is doing the same
shit.
You know crypto riding.

Speaker 6 (01:25:07):
Yeah right.

Speaker 1 (01:25:08):
Oh, maybe he was.
He was doing the same shit, wecould have been, you know and oh
, and the thing that I wastrying to remember earlier, it's
forex.

Speaker 6 (01:25:15):
Okay for it.

Speaker 1 (01:25:16):
For it when you trade currencies and stuff like that,
and forex isn't a scam.
Okay, it's not, excuse me.
What happens is the people thatactually get involved.

Speaker 3 (01:25:26):
Auto scammers.

Speaker 1 (01:25:27):
Auto scammers and then what they do is they like
I'm gonna take, they turn into apyramid scheme.
So you go, get all of thesepeople Right and you sign them
up under me, and then somebodyelse, ultimately, is doing a
trade, but you're funding thistrade, but you're not actually
getting the money from it.

Speaker 6 (01:25:43):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:25:43):
So and I've had that issue with forex because when
you look at it fundamentally,it's not.
It's not a scam, it's just thatwhere do you get the
information to learn to actuallydo it?
Okay?
I got you and all of thesepeople, and I don't want anybody
to get swept up into that,because there's a lot of these
young kids jumping online andlike yo, look at this.
I'm just made like Excuse me$10,000 in like seven minutes

(01:26:07):
Hold on though.
This is the thing, notimpossible, but you got to
understand that these kids arestarting with capital.
You don't have it.

Speaker 3 (01:26:16):
You understand.

Speaker 1 (01:26:17):
I'm saying so if you think that you gonna put $10
into a trading account and yougonna hit a home run and make
seven grand in eight minutes.
Yeah, you got your mind, it'snot gonna happen because you
don't even know what you'redoing.
Right, you don't know how toread candles.
You don't know how to.
You don't know how to momentumtrade.
You don't know how to do any ofthat stuff.
You don't know whether you knowwhat they're posting was based

(01:26:37):
off of news Right or based offof um, an earnings report.
You don't know any of thatstuff, but yet, and still, this
is what you know and yeah, butthat's a whole other, different
part of marketing.
That's instagram page mark.

Speaker 6 (01:26:52):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:26:53):
Yeah right, right.

Speaker 1 (01:26:54):
We feel we're like yo , we're gonna do this and it.
You know I'm with themotivational speakers Because
you can't sell me or you'regonna sell me.
On me, I can do it.

Speaker 3 (01:27:05):
You are the best you know.

Speaker 1 (01:27:09):
God broke the bone when he made you.

Speaker 3 (01:27:13):
I'm for that.

Speaker 1 (01:27:14):
I'm not with.
Uh, you know, for me I getgassed up off of the same ones.
Y'all see where people are like, yeah, so you make x, y and z
off of.
Then I go look at thefundamentals of it and I'm like,
yeah, it's absolutely possible.
But I don't fool myself and Irealize that you need capital in
order to do x, y and z.
And if you jump in and you don'tknow what you're doing, even
with that cap, you're gonna loseit on you back to square one.

(01:27:35):
Okay, you get me.
So that's where I'm at withthat as far, because I know that
on here you did have somethingabout scams and schemes and
stuff like that.

Speaker 6 (01:27:43):
Yeah, so but that.
But I guess you kind ofanswered the question.
That's how you kind of Maneuviaway around Said scams like you
actually do your own, of course,do your own homework.

Speaker 1 (01:27:52):
It's hard because where you getting the
information from?
Yeah, where you're gonna go andwho do you trust enough to tell
you about?
For a rex?

Speaker 4 (01:27:59):
I don't know anybody's scamming you giving
you the information?
Yeah, exactly, and they be inmy DMs all the time.

Speaker 6 (01:28:05):
Yeah, yeah.
All the time I'm like wait aminute, what Don't you want to
be like this?
I got some new friends.

Speaker 2 (01:28:10):
They just are following me.
I'm like, oh, okay poorexperience.

Speaker 1 (01:28:13):
Yeah, between them and come see my page.
I get naked, oh yeah.

Speaker 6 (01:28:19):
Yeah, that's what every time I post it.

Speaker 1 (01:28:21):
Nah, I don't mess with Dobby Pistole.
They be fucking up my algorithm.

Speaker 6 (01:28:25):
Every time I post a story, I got at least one of
those spam things that that justat least looked at the story.
I'm like I didn't even ask foryou.
But yeah, I get those all thetime, bro, and I'll be like yo
you be fucking my, my ego and mynumbers up.

Speaker 2 (01:28:36):
Yeah, I'll be like yo , I got like 50 bills and like
30 of them is fucking.

Speaker 1 (01:28:42):
Come to my page, I get naked.

Speaker 6 (01:28:45):
So, so, like Lambo or Shade Rouge or anything like,
how do you kind of protectyourself from a scam?
If you thought about what elsecan I do with money to, to, to
invest or anything like that,has there been anything that
y'all've done to try to Protectyourself?
Or you just be like, look, I'mnot familiar with it, so I ain't
rocking with it.

Speaker 4 (01:29:01):
And that's just an instance.
If I don't, if I don't know it,true.

Speaker 2 (01:29:06):
Yeah, for me I think everything is a scam, so I don't
really engage.
But um, but one thing I did Idefinitely look at more into
investments, um, and and stocks.
I think that's the safest way,and so I'll do research and kind
of see like who the fag is Tofollow regarding you know that,
but everything else is a scam,what I feel like.

(01:29:27):
So, yeah, I don't really.

Speaker 4 (01:29:30):
Participate, going to look for information in this in
the form of a blog.

Speaker 1 (01:29:36):
It's funny is because I started getting into stocks,
I started taking a lot of masterclasses because you know, of
course that's.
That's how we all stumbled intoit.
You know we're all like I coolStocks, think it's like you
start getting the gas up videosLike word.
I could do that over that.
You know, and I could do youknow, then when you jump into it
, they're like, yeah, just sendme 499, I'm gonna send you this

(01:29:58):
newsletter, and then you have toget the newsletter.
It's like yeah, so you want tobe part of this, this, this,
this, uh, what you call itgroups.
So once you get in my telegramand you know, start doing.
I've never done any of that,thank you.
No that's not.
That's not where my money isgoing, you know and um, yeah, no

(01:30:19):
, it's.
It's difficult out here to tomake sure you know.
It's difficult out here to vetthe people that you're actually
getting the information frombecause, remember, you're
walking into the situationignorant.
So how do I know that whatyou're saying is not true?

Speaker 2 (01:30:33):
Yeah, you're right, you've got a research for
yourself.
Yeah, you never got research.

Speaker 6 (01:30:37):
And I think that's the safest way, just like what
you see, uh, sadra and andstyles, all three racks, I think
the safest thing that I do.
I've just been paying moreattention to stocks, you know.
Like you know, I have somestuff in in apple, amazon here.
I tried to diversify and that'sabout as far as I got like
artists, I think.
That's another thing that Ithink people are afraid to admit
.
They're afraid to really say Idon't really know.

(01:30:59):
Like, like, when the whole nftthing went, went, you know, went
, boom, I remember my cousinhe's.
He was very knowledgeable aboutthe whole cryptocurrency thing
and I wanted him to sit down andexplain it to me and I still
didn't do it because it was.
You might as well explainChinese calculus.
I didn't know anything aboutthe blockchain and this and the
third and making your own crowdslike I Thank you, but I'm cool

(01:31:20):
with just at the most, investingin stocks.
So and that's another thing.

Speaker 1 (01:31:24):
I mean I'm looking at the uh, the technical
revolution.
You know, I think this is alllike like our second round of
this, because, remember, thefirst one was the internet boom,
right when they startedinvesting in all these internet
companies and it was like a youknow a bubble and it burst
eventually and they stoppeddoing all these ipos for these
companies.
Um, and if he's in crypto, it'sthe other thing.

(01:31:47):
They're still not using cryptoas regular currency.
Yeah so like for me, and theproblem that I have with it is
like, if it's not used asregular currency, where's the
value?
And so that's what makes ithard to invest, because you
never know.
Are you buying a dip?

Speaker 6 (01:32:06):
Yeah, right.
Or are you buying a peak?

Speaker 1 (01:32:08):
Yeah, and it's so volatile that way, yeah, yeah,
just don't know, you know, andit's, it's crazy, so, um, but I
plan on getting into it.
So again, like I said, if youslow, walk into it, you good,
you know.
So if you don't just jump outthere, you'll be like yo,
Dogecoin is going to do x, y andz now really take my money yeah
but if dogecoin is six cents,you can have my money you know

(01:32:29):
what I mean.
Like it's six cents, let's do it, because I jumped into those
when those was six cents andshot up to nearly a damn dollar,
you know.
But then it tank Okay.
So like, are you buying the dip?

Speaker 6 (01:32:41):
You don't know buying the peak, right, right, you
know, yeah, so, and I think,like just the last thing on top
of the whole thing of Scan, Iknow they are seeing it.
I think it was seeing in um, Iforget the source, but I know
there was like a top eight Umscammers in the in America.
Um, of course, you have Ponzium Himself.

(01:33:03):
I think his name is CharlesPonzi.
Um, I think that was back in uh1920, and so it's not a lot.
Well, it's a lot to me now tothis day, but even back in 1920
he was um, the most he scannedpeople was like like 15 million.
So think about how, back then,you know, you know that's like
billions.

Speaker 3 (01:33:23):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (01:33:25):
Right.
So I won't get into the detailsof need for the sake of time
and so forth, but we'll put itin the description as well.
You have Lou Perlman.
I think that was back in the90s, if I'm not mistaken oh
sorry, 2005.
He, uh, I think the biggest hispositive scheme got before he
got caught was 300 mil.
Um, we have Gerald Payne at 448mil.
That was in the 1990s.

(01:33:46):
That's what I got confusedabout, but there's like eight of
them.
So I once again, I don't.
I don't know if it's necessaryto read through the whole list,
but you know there's a whole, along history of people who just
got, got got.
Well, let me interrupt you.

Speaker 4 (01:33:58):
How much jail time did it?

Speaker 6 (01:34:00):
Well, um, maybe most people, mostly people, did get
like considerable amount of jailtime, like, for example, bernie
I think he got life, yeah andlike and Bernie, he wasn't even
like the highest on this list interms of the money that he
scanned.
I don't think you know.

Speaker 1 (01:34:15):
I'm saying and it's the thing with the Bernie thing
if you really want to Take adeep dive into it.
You know, or even just you know, Hit the surface.
There's a couple ofdocumentaries out and a couple
of series out with um Bernie.

Speaker 4 (01:34:28):
Oh yeah, I was gonna say for a couple years and a
couple hundred millions, I mightsit.

Speaker 3 (01:34:33):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (01:34:36):
I did have that wrong , bernie.
Actually he, uh, his uh balloonwas up to 20 billion before he
got caught.

Speaker 3 (01:34:41):
Yeah, your Bernie was turning niggas 20 Out so he
might be the highest on thislist.

Speaker 4 (01:34:48):
Yeah, he got some famous people.

Speaker 1 (01:34:50):
Yeah, yeah, he got people for real he was killing
them.
Um, but yeah, now he.
I think I bugged out when Iheard you know, because
everybody's like Ponzi scheme,they're like, oh, fraud.
I didn't know until recently,just like you, that the Ponzi
was the name of the dude thatactually first did it.
Yeah, back in 19.

Speaker 4 (01:35:10):
I didn't know that until you just read.

Speaker 6 (01:35:13):
That's crazy, yeah, charles Ponzi.
So yeah, I appreciate you.
Let me uh share that segmentthere.

Speaker 1 (01:35:20):
No, it was.
It was dope, um again, I'm justa recap.
You know, um, um, financialliteracy is important Absolutely
.
You know, if you have to spendmoney, think about it like this
think about spending money,that's an investment.
You know, that's definitely aninvestment.
Um, having to open and honestconversations about you know

(01:35:41):
finances with your spouse Um,not your girlfriend with your
spouse is important.
You know, because with yourgirlfriend, what's happening is
she's just picking up on thecontext, clues anyway, how you
spending your money and stufflike that, just from the outset
and then after you know you guysare going to be serious, not
before, you know, not after youjump the broom, whatever, have
that conversation.

(01:36:02):
Um, you guys have anything elseto add to that?

Speaker 6 (01:36:04):
Well, I will add this Um, I don't think it's.
I think it's very important toteach financial literacy if you
have kids see your kids, becauseI don't really you know, I've
been out of school since for along time I highly doubt that
they're actually having like aspecific financial literacy
class, right?
So I think if you have children, no matter how old, try to
instill in them some type offinancial literacy, yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:36:27):
Okay, so, um, let's see if I can locate the right
fucking body.
Bay night, sexy nights and goodfood.
All right.
So Normally we would talk aboutlive because limbs outside,

(01:36:48):
lims outside getting a suntanRight or standing in in his, in
his window, you know, with a cupof.

Speaker 6 (01:36:57):
Cup of joe.

Speaker 3 (01:36:58):
Yeah, I was gonna say joe, you don't drink coffee, no
, I chocolate.

Speaker 1 (01:37:02):
What warm beverage, nigga?
You can't be consuming watersolely.
I've refused to fucking believethat I drink.

Speaker 4 (01:37:09):
I drink a lot of sugary drinks tea.

Speaker 1 (01:37:12):
Oh, okay, so you drink tea full of shit.

Speaker 4 (01:37:14):
Yeah, I got you now.

Speaker 1 (01:37:15):
He's tea is you know?
I guess a little man on the toetold him poll.
As far as bullshit, I'm sorry,but all right.
Um, so, in honor Of land beingoutside right, what we have is
we have.
I've comprised, not me, I'vebeen comprised, shit.
I actually got this off theinternet, um, but there's, uh,

(01:37:38):
what is it?
Here are 10 common rules tokeep in mind for a first date
for men.
Man, you want to read that?
Yeah, let's go through the.
We're gonna start with 10 rules, the 10 rules.

Speaker 6 (01:37:51):
Yeah, shoot, I'm curious to see what, uh what, he
thinks about some of these 10rules.

Speaker 3 (01:37:56):
Like as far as you know, first date.

Speaker 6 (01:37:59):
Uh, etiquette.
I you know I've been way out,that guy.

Speaker 4 (01:38:02):
So we starting with the man, right Starting with the
man.

Speaker 1 (01:38:04):
We're gonna, we're gonna let shadow, shadow read
off the women.

Speaker 4 (01:38:08):
Dress appropriately.
Make sure to dress neatly andaccording to the occasion.
It shows respect andconsideration for your date.
Hmm, agree, okay, just gonna doan agree, disagree.
I like it Be punctual.
Arrive on time or a few minutesearly Demonstrates reliability
and respect for your date's time.
Agree.

Speaker 1 (01:38:27):
Disagree.
Don't be showing up early,looking thirsty.

Speaker 4 (01:38:32):
No, no, no, no, sit on time, Sit on time, so you
show up.

Speaker 1 (01:38:35):
You show up with a bottle of water and make it 15
minutes after the time you'resupposed to be here.

Speaker 3 (01:38:40):
Don't listen to style .

Speaker 4 (01:38:47):
Be a good listener.
Show genuine interest in whatyour date has to say.
Ask questions and activelyactively engage in the
conversation.
Agree Avoid controversialtopics.
Stay clear of sensitivesubjects such as politics or
religion.
Keep the conversation lightenedenjoy.

Speaker 2 (01:39:09):
Agree hold on, let me jump in here, real quick, go
ahead.

Speaker 1 (01:39:11):
So how do you know who you really date?
And if you don't ask thesensitive shit?

Speaker 3 (01:39:18):
I don't know so far I'm listening we.

Speaker 4 (01:39:20):
Why would you waste?

Speaker 1 (01:39:21):
my time on this.

Speaker 4 (01:39:24):
I don't want to talk about politics, extending my
religion.
Talk is God is good, okay, sowe keeping it at that.
We ain't about to start talkingabout.
All right, what do you thinkabout?

Speaker 1 (01:39:36):
the Jesus really rise on the third day and you know
he's gonna find that out when heget married.
Be like who the fuck did Imarry?

Speaker 4 (01:39:43):
But that's a conversation you would have
before you get that far like.
So these are because remind you, didn't ask me none of those,
because you gotta remember thisis first date.
Yeah, so first date.
We don't need to be talkingabout that like If you were a
magnet supporter.
We'll find out.
It'll come out so practice goodhygiene.

(01:40:07):
Make sure you're clean, freshand well grown.
Pay attention to your personalhygiene, including fresh breath,
definitely agree.
Be respectful.
Treat your date with kindnessand respect.
Be mindful of their boundariesand personal space.

Speaker 3 (01:40:23):
Okay.

Speaker 4 (01:40:25):
Offer the pay.
It's a common courtesy to offerto pay for the first date.
I actually agree.
Oh, wait a minute, hold on.
However, be prepared torespectfully accept if your date
insists on splitting the billDamn Interesting.
We're gonna keep going.

Speaker 1 (01:40:43):
No, no, no, no, no.
Okay, go ahead.
Why is it interesting?
Because I was a little confusedabout it, so I don't.

Speaker 4 (01:40:49):
So If the bill hits the table, right, I asked you
out.

Speaker 1 (01:40:56):
Okay, so you gonna fight her.
She says that I'm not gonnafight her, but it's like I'm up.

Speaker 4 (01:41:04):
Okay, it's gonna.
I'm kinda looking like well,what kind of man you used to
dealing with.
Were you sitting there when Ijust said?
I'm paying it.
Right, like just say thank you,like we don't need all this
other shit, okay.

Speaker 1 (01:41:18):
Thank you was good enough, all right, which is fine
, and I'm with that, but I thinkthat you have to, you have to
be comfortable with the factthat she was like you know,
definitely give her somepushback.
Well, we know that you're not.
Yeah, no, we're not, relax,relax.

Speaker 4 (01:41:38):
I don't even know why you.

Speaker 2 (01:41:40):
I think you should let her experience To me.

Speaker 4 (01:41:41):
it's because to me it's like look, all you're
exhibiting is your trauma dating.
I don't wanna deal with that.

Speaker 1 (01:41:46):
Look, I got it okay, I already picked the place.
Somebody done left therestaurant on you before huh Nah
.

Speaker 4 (01:41:54):
Oh you showed up without money before huh.
Yeah, I'm like, look like, Iasked you to go.
Yeah, yeah, I work.
I work 40 hours a week.

Speaker 1 (01:42:05):
Yeah, like stop disrespecting me.

Speaker 4 (01:42:06):
I'm a man, it's okay, like, if I take you, I don't,
I'm not gonna take you somewhere, right when I'm gonna be
sweating when the bill comes.

Speaker 1 (01:42:14):
It's okay, that's a fact.
That's a fact.
You wanna take these 50 centfrancs.

Speaker 4 (01:42:21):
Yeah, like I'm, not we not going to the best
steakhouse in the city?
Is this the first date?
You might not like me, I mightnot like you.
It's the first date.

Speaker 1 (01:42:30):
Let me ask you a question Now.
I'm gonna let you continue, buthas there ever been a time
where you seen somebody that youwould break that first date
rule and take them to thesteakhouse?
No, okay, I'm just asking.

Speaker 4 (01:42:40):
Absolutely not.

Speaker 1 (01:42:41):
I'm just asking, we just trying to build your tender
profile and make sure it'sright, my message is right If
you can tell me a reason thatshe deserves a steak date.
I'm interested, but you can't.
It's a steak date.

Speaker 4 (01:42:55):
So keep your phone away.
Give your full attention toyour date and avoid distractions
.
Keep your phone on silent or inyour pocket.
Okay, I agree, be yourself,don't cut biscuits.
I'm just kidding.

Speaker 2 (01:43:10):
I'm just kidding, I'm just kidding, I'm just kidding,
I'm just kidding.
Thank you, bougie.

Speaker 6 (01:43:15):
Wow, I love it Wow.

Speaker 1 (01:43:18):
I wasn't ready.

Speaker 4 (01:43:19):
Be authentic and genuine.
Don't try to impress your dateby I pretend to be so.
Just got your date all overstyle.

Speaker 3 (01:43:26):
Yes, yes, yes, 8, 9 and 10.

Speaker 4 (01:43:29):
Don't try to impress your date, but I pretended to be
someone you're not.
And number 10, follow up.
If you had a good time,consider sending a text or
calling to expression enjoymentand interest in seeing them
again.
I love it.
Remember these rules are morelike guidelines and it's
essential to be a.
And it's essential.
Let me start over.

(01:43:50):
Remember these rules are morelike guidelines and it's
essential to be adaptable andconsiderate of your date's
preferences and comfort level.

Speaker 1 (01:43:59):
All right, I feel like somebody Fanella wrote that
.
Who wrote it?

Speaker 4 (01:44:06):
Fanella Do you disagree with, but it's a good
list.
No, I'm not saying it is.
It's a good list.
Yeah, it's a great list.
It's a good list.

Speaker 6 (01:44:12):
Yeah, it's a good common sense list, Like yeah,
well, what's common sense tosomething may not be common
sense to everybody.
I was just about to say thewhole common sense thing, but
I'm glad that you grabbed it.

Speaker 1 (01:44:20):
Yeah, for sure.
Pause.

Speaker 3 (01:44:24):
Interesting.

Speaker 1 (01:44:25):
Go ahead Now rock out with the women.
All right, let's go with thewomen All right.

Speaker 2 (01:44:32):
So, number one dress comfortably and confidently.
Wear something that makes youfeel good about yourself.
So definitely agree with that,always going to dress
comfortable.
Be punctual, show respect foryour date's time, arriving on
time or a few minutes early.
Engage in conversation.

(01:44:52):
Take on an I mean take anactive role in the conversation,
share your thoughts and askquestions to get to know your
date better.
But we're not talking aboutpolitics and religion, though,
so don't worry about that.

Speaker 3 (01:45:04):
I was just.

Speaker 2 (01:45:05):
We're not what I was just Not on the first date the
first date is going to be fun.

Speaker 3 (01:45:11):
Let's just have a good time, let's just you know.

Speaker 2 (01:45:14):
All right, Be yourself.
Don't feel pressured to pretendto be someone you're not.
Be authentic and genuine.
Number five practice goodhygiene.
Make sure you're clean, freshand well-groomed.
Pay attention to your personalhygiene, including fresh breath.

Speaker 1 (01:45:30):
Number six offer to contribute, While it's commonly
expected, I see how these daysFor the man to pay Right.

Speaker 2 (01:45:38):
Exactly.
Offering to split the bill ortake turns can be a thoughtful
gesture.

Speaker 1 (01:45:45):
But don't get mad if he's like listen.

Speaker 2 (01:45:47):
I got this.
I don't wear.
I won't Swim chump, don't belike, I ain't gonna be mad.

Speaker 6 (01:45:53):
Another six sounds like the.
I'm gonna just slow, mostly tomy pocketbook, but you gotta
take it.

Speaker 2 (01:45:58):
Yeah, yeah, she's gonna be like this yeah Right,
but again I'm being five.

Speaker 3 (01:46:03):
I don't need to feel like playing that game.

Speaker 2 (01:46:05):
What the?
I just don't.
I don't need to feel likeplaying that chess game.

Speaker 4 (01:46:09):
Should we split the bill?

Speaker 1 (01:46:10):
No, you know what it is.
We're not splitting it, no, butsee, we just had a whole
conversation over talking aboutfinances.

Speaker 4 (01:46:19):
But I'm just saying, it's like, bro, it's a date Like
you probably gonna spend what$60, $70?
.

Speaker 6 (01:46:27):
Yeah, on a dinner date, I'll say it's $70.

Speaker 2 (01:46:29):
But again, but just like what Lamp was saying
earlier on, well, with theminions question.
But I mean, if I'm asking youout, then of course I will pay.
Oh, OK, all right, but that'sonly if I ask you out.

Speaker 3 (01:46:42):
Yeah, I don't think that's a good word about All
right.

Speaker 2 (01:46:50):
But now once that bill comes out.

Speaker 1 (01:46:51):
Hey, give it to him over there.

Speaker 2 (01:46:53):
Sitting across the table.

Speaker 1 (01:46:55):
How did you hand me that bill?
Right Well that was my top oneit looks like all of them the
same.

Speaker 6 (01:47:00):
Yeah, they're talking like back though, yeah, and
then of course, like I said,what else?

Speaker 2 (01:47:05):
Oh, number seven, no.
Number eight keep your phoneaway Again, give your full
attention or distractions.
Number nine be yourself, youknow, be authentic.
And then number 10, of course,again, follow up.
You know if you had a good time, consider sending a text or
calling to express yourenjoyment.

Speaker 6 (01:47:22):
I think that's a solid, solid list as well.

Speaker 2 (01:47:25):
Good little baseless.

Speaker 6 (01:47:26):
Sound like a marriage of the same.
Yeah, it sound like a.

Speaker 2 (01:47:28):
Oh wait a minute.

Speaker 6 (01:47:30):
Sound like a couple wrote that list together.

Speaker 2 (01:47:32):
Hold on.
No, I'm sorry.
Number seven was to berespectful.
Number eight keep your phoneaway.
And number nine trust yourinstincts for the women.
Oh trust your instincts.
If something feelsuncomfortable or unsafe, trust
your gut and prioritize your ownwell-being.
Oh yeah 100% agree with that.
And then number 10 was tofollow up.

Speaker 3 (01:47:52):
Yeah, number nine is a really good one.
That's a really good.

Speaker 2 (01:47:55):
Always trust your gut women.

Speaker 1 (01:47:58):
All right, so this is what we're going to do.
There is well, actually, Ifound some Gen Zers and there
are a lot of, well, basically,terms that they use.
So this is basically 2024 Gen Zslang in the guide for
relationships, now, a lot ofthis shit, though I don't know,

(01:48:22):
I'm offended by it because thisslang basically was created
before them, but then there's alot of texting slang in here.
That's whatever.
Anyway, we're going to goaround the table.
I'm going to say a word andsomebody's going to put it in a
sentence.

Speaker 6 (01:48:38):
OK.

Speaker 1 (01:48:38):
I'm ready.
All right, I'm not a Gen Zer,but OK, all right, hold on, let
me give you something.
All right, I'm going to giveyou the honest, because you know
you out here, in these streets.
You need to be slanging that.
Slang.
You feel what I'm saying?
Oh yeah, I need you to soundlike you know what you're
talking about when you starttalking to these chicks.

(01:49:01):
All right, cuffing slash,cuffing season.

Speaker 4 (01:49:09):
Put it in a sentence.
Either you don't have to useboth myself at this currently
moment.
At this current moment, it'snot experiencing cuffing season.

Speaker 1 (01:49:22):
OK, all right, Stop.
Just went down a little bit.
Ok, hold on, we're going tostay on you, lam, because you
need it the most.
I don't need it, I'm good.
I'm good.
Can we switch seats?
Nope, gaslighting, you knowwhat gasoline?

(01:49:43):
Is you familiar?
I have the definition.
I got the definition oh, yougot it, I just never understood
it.

Speaker 4 (01:49:50):
Ok, I don't.
I don't know how to use that ina sentence, all right.

Speaker 6 (01:49:57):
I'll give my man a lifeline.
Yeah, so she called me cheating, but I just was gaslighting her
and we're back together.

Speaker 1 (01:50:06):
You didn't help.

Speaker 6 (01:50:07):
He didn't at all.
Oh, I thought I used it rightlike gaslighting.

Speaker 4 (01:50:11):
No, here's the thing.
I'm looking at the definition.
Listen, this is one of thewords I struggle with People be
like oh, he's gaslighting thesituation.
I'm always sitting there likewhat the fuck does that mean?

Speaker 6 (01:50:23):
What I got is almost like I make the person feel
crazy when they're 100% right.

Speaker 1 (01:50:27):
Oh that's a fact.

Speaker 3 (01:50:29):
Oh, you call me cheating.

Speaker 6 (01:50:30):
I'm a gaslight you All of a sudden we're back
together because you lie yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:50:36):
OK, All right cool.

Speaker 4 (01:50:37):
All right Back to you .
When I got back to me, ghosted,ghosted, I really didn't like
her, so I didn't bother callingher back.
That's a sentence.

Speaker 3 (01:50:53):
But the word ghosting is not in the sentence.
Oh, ghosting oh oh.
I can't get it out of my head,my man.
That wasn't even the definition.
It wasn't even the definition.
It was like, uh, something.
I was like wait for the word.

Speaker 1 (01:51:08):
He ghosted so good he didn't even use the fucking
word Right, man.
I said what.

Speaker 4 (01:51:13):
Some of you used the sentence Right man, I didn't
have a good time.
I'm ghosting her.
I'm not calling her there yougo hey.

Speaker 1 (01:51:22):
Cast with a ghost.
All right, let me fuck yourhead up.
I don't know if they actuallypronounce this.
No, it's an acronym, so I don'tthink that they do.
But I-O-Y, I'm sorry what I-O-Y?
I love you.
Ok, but you got to use theI-O-Y, i-o-y.

Speaker 2 (01:51:41):
Oh.

Speaker 6 (01:51:42):
That's fine, I'll take you to the text.

Speaker 2 (01:51:44):
Yeah, I was just about to say that.
Act like you sent in the text.

Speaker 4 (01:51:49):
Oh, I took you.

Speaker 1 (01:51:50):
Damn I-O-Y.
Now hold on.
There's a couple of rules tothis.
Make sure it's not 10 in themorning, all right, make sure it
doesn't have the other acronym,you know, w-y-d.

Speaker 3 (01:52:00):
OK.

Speaker 1 (01:52:01):
OK, so go ahead and I got you just in the same.
Yeah, and you can't saybeautiful or queen, oh shit.

Speaker 4 (01:52:07):
This man, I love you yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:52:10):
Yo, you are fucking Listen.

Speaker 4 (01:52:13):
OK, damn, I got for my-.

Speaker 2 (01:52:14):
Don't be gaslighting.
I got for my-.

Speaker 4 (01:52:16):
Basically Great.
I got to put myself in thescenario.
While I'm not a swum, Come on,be on the scene.
It's been four months.

Speaker 3 (01:52:28):
No.

Speaker 4 (01:52:30):
And nobody has made me feel the way you make me feel
.
This has been really good.
Four months Kind of takes asense of this, my man got a
monologue.

Speaker 6 (01:52:40):
Yes, i-o-y.

Speaker 4 (01:52:42):
You been practicing.

Speaker 2 (01:52:43):
He can't wait to send that one man.

Speaker 6 (01:52:46):
that's what I'm like.
That's what I'm like a bonus inthe notebook, or something.

Speaker 1 (01:52:52):
Hey, listen.

Speaker 3 (01:52:53):
The alternate ending Right.

Speaker 4 (01:52:56):
Look, that was a little more difficult.
I had to you had to build up toit.

Speaker 1 (01:53:00):
Yeah, let me get you back over here.
Pimping Riz Yo, we don't knowshit.
Oh my God Yo.

Speaker 4 (01:53:17):
Oh shit yeah.
Riz Riz Riz Riz Riz Riz.
Man, I know for a fact youattracted to my Riz and good
looks.

Speaker 6 (01:53:35):
I attracted to my Riz and sounds wild OK.

Speaker 3 (01:53:41):
We can't answer right after this, that's how crazy
Hold on.

Speaker 1 (01:53:44):
Here we go, all right .
So I got two for you.

Speaker 6 (01:53:48):
Is that yous right?

Speaker 1 (01:53:49):
Oh yeah, I mean it's charisma.
I mean he used it grammaticallycorrect, like it's not how
somebody of the age of 25 woulduse it.

Speaker 3 (01:54:00):
I've heard it a lot and I'm just like what?

Speaker 1 (01:54:02):
the fuck is-.

Speaker 3 (01:54:03):
I've never I tried to Riz up.
And I'm like what does thatmean?

Speaker 1 (01:54:07):
And I'm sitting here like you can't pick it out or
figure it out through thecontext you try to Riz what.
Like what happened exactly?
Let me get some more backstories so I understand what the
fuck is going on Back story.
Yeah, I need the back story?
Well, I don't need the backstory.
But you understand?
Well, you already know.
So, with that point up, justlike fuck you.
I don't even want to know.
Let's go to Smash, oh okay.

Speaker 4 (01:54:29):
Smash yes.

Speaker 2 (01:54:33):
You've been using that for a while, man.

Speaker 1 (01:54:39):
My business is all out of the streets.

Speaker 4 (01:54:45):
It took a minute, but she finally came through and
let me smash.

Speaker 1 (01:54:51):
That was, ladies and gentlemen.
That was his pimp hand.

Speaker 6 (01:54:54):
I think, I think, I think most men have used that
term.
Well, I use that approach of asentence.

Speaker 1 (01:54:59):
Yeah, all right, sneaky link Shit.
Come on man, you can't be Ican't have you out here in these
streets, filthy.

Speaker 4 (01:55:13):
I would never use these terms.
Come on, man.

Speaker 6 (01:55:15):
He's like I'm a grown ass man, what you mean?

Speaker 1 (01:55:17):
Sneaky she might be talking to you about something
oh, a sneaky link I was or youcould be defending yourself.

Speaker 3 (01:55:29):
I'm not a sneaky link oh, oh, oh, oh, oh oh.

Speaker 4 (01:55:41):
I do not have time to be your sneaky link.
Okay, okay, go home to your man.

Speaker 6 (01:55:47):
Damn.

Speaker 1 (01:55:49):
That was his left pimp hand.
All right, snack.

Speaker 4 (01:55:53):
And then I'm going to let you off this, oh okay, oh
no, that's not going to be thelast one.

Speaker 1 (01:56:02):
I just found a treasure trove.

Speaker 6 (01:56:11):
I'm scared to find out what it is tonight.

Speaker 4 (01:56:14):
I saw her profile picture looking like a whole
fucking snack.
There you go, oh my man thatone.

Speaker 1 (01:56:19):
Okay, all right, all right, all right, talking or
talking face.

Speaker 4 (01:56:27):
Oh man.

Speaker 1 (01:56:29):
That's the space she went right now.

Speaker 4 (01:56:32):
I know, just put it in park and give me a sentence
Right now.
Currently I'm enjoying datingand having a talking face with
what I like it.

Speaker 1 (01:56:45):
I like it a lot.
All right, thirsty, I told youI don't fell into a whole
treasure trove.

Speaker 4 (01:56:56):
You will never catch me on these streets being
thirsty.

Speaker 1 (01:57:00):
Okay, that's good, that's good and last but not
least, Zaddy, oh man.

Speaker 4 (01:57:20):
I posted the pic and she put the heart eyes and
called me Zaddy.
Oh, it's a wrap.
I guess y'all talking aboutfinance tonight.
Word.

Speaker 1 (01:57:29):
Oh, my God.

Speaker 3 (01:57:29):
Oh, man Hold on.

Speaker 1 (01:57:39):
Because I got, we got one last thing for this,
because now you know this wholedating thing.
So Applebee's introduces a $200date night pass for year long
dining experience.
Now for the cereal data, thatcould work out, think about it.
Yes, because you know you'renot taking the same person as

(01:58:03):
Applebee's, unless, how, fuck it, let's tie it back into
finances.
Right, tie it back intofinances.
You're trying to.
You know y'all like fuck it, wecan't eat out every night.
Now you got a $200 year longpass and y'all good.
Or for the cereal data, youknow, I mean with Instagram.
Now, with this, you're going tobe fucked up out here because

(01:58:23):
they're going to be like this isthe fucking Applebee's guy.

Speaker 6 (01:58:27):
Or the body like are you going to laugh again with
this fourth date?
What?

Speaker 1 (01:58:32):
can I get for your victim?
I mean?

Speaker 2 (01:58:33):
your date, everybody knows that.

Speaker 3 (01:58:37):
Get a glass of water.

Speaker 6 (01:58:38):
Lamb doesn't drink, and if I don't, drink, you don't
drink the same thing or they golaughs at Patrons' norm, the
lab and the building.
It's like an episode of Cheers.
Everybody know your name, Iknow right.

Speaker 1 (01:58:51):
Oh my God, all right.
So our league is clear about.
What.
Does everybody think about thisshit?

Speaker 6 (01:58:59):
I think it's awesome if you can use it at multiple
Applebee's locations, Right Likeif it's the same location it's
trash.

Speaker 1 (01:59:05):
But think about it like this though it might be
like Planet Fitness, where youget a black card and you got
Applebee's.

Speaker 6 (01:59:11):
I would think you could use it at different
locations.
Honestly, if I could only useit like the Applebee's here in
Bowie, if I could only use it inBowie, it's trash, because then
, like you said, everybody knowyour name and it's just crazy.
They're like damn.
So the last day they work outfor you, huh, bring the date
number four Back again.
Nah, man, I think that's aboutit.

(01:59:32):
It's only good if you can useit at well, at least multiple
locations in your local area.
Like okay, if I go to theApplebee's in Bowie and then go
to Applebee's in Laurel and thenmaybe I go to the one in
Waldorf, but then, you know,applebee's people might be
talking about each other.
I know he coming down to y'allnext.
So you never know.

Speaker 1 (01:59:50):
It's an interesting story.
I don't know where we werecoming back from.
Where we were coming back from.

Speaker 2 (01:59:54):
Was it the wedding?
I don't even know what you'retalking about All right.

Speaker 1 (01:59:57):
So I think it was the wedding.
I'm going with the wedding.
I'm maybe lying, but that'scool.
Whatever, y'all don't fuckingknow.
We're coming back from thewedding.
Of course she's hungry, right?
You like the?
Of Course.

Speaker 6 (02:00:10):
Oh yeah, I heard I peeped it.
You got to underline that shittoo you know, get the little
fucking yellow highlighter.

Speaker 1 (02:00:16):
Highlight it.

Speaker 2 (02:00:17):
Oh, it's not the only one.
Put some fucking hearts in it,I promise I wouldn't, only yeah,
yeah, circle.

Speaker 1 (02:00:23):
Yeah, so a lot of things around my way close early
.
Okay.
When I say early, I'm likebetween 10 and 11, 11 o'clock
everything is shut, soApplebee's is open and we ended
up at fucking Applebee's andshit.
Was it the wedding?
Yeah, it was yeah, we wascoming back from the wedding, I
was just got married, so it waslike all right cool, whatever

(02:00:47):
went there.

Speaker 6 (02:00:50):
It wasn't that bad.

Speaker 1 (02:00:50):
Applebee's not bad it wasn't horrible.
It wasn't horrible, it wasn't.
It was one of those things,like you know, of course, I got
ice grilled because it's likeyou know I'm like oh, so this is
open at that age, like niggawhy the fuck?
Do you need to know how latethis is?
Like, do you want food or not?
I'm like, yeah, all right, no,but yeah, no.

Speaker 6 (02:01:11):
Anyway, that was my useless, disgusting story that
had nothing to do with it, butno, I mean they chicken tendered
the fire.

Speaker 1 (02:01:17):
The chicken, I don't think I got the chicken fingers,
though.
Well, I had wings that night.

Speaker 2 (02:01:21):
But I don't know For me.
I think it maybe if it was likeother restaurants under that
brand, probably.

Speaker 3 (02:01:28):
That's smart.

Speaker 2 (02:01:28):
Like can we get?
Like I don't know, chili's ispart of it.
But, whatever other you knowrestaurants under that brand,
instead of just all Applebee'slike.

Speaker 6 (02:01:36):
Yeah, Applebee's, Ruby Tuesday's.

Speaker 3 (02:01:38):
Yeah whatever, yeah, something like that.

Speaker 2 (02:01:40):
So instead of just the one restaurant maybe that
would be okay.

Speaker 4 (02:01:45):
So for me, I think it's a great idea, okay.

Speaker 6 (02:01:49):
All right.
Even if it's one location, isit good right there?

Speaker 3 (02:01:54):
Yeah, one location, that's fine.

Speaker 4 (02:01:56):
Would I, would me being a dator, use it.
No, okay, while I'm not like,while I'm not trying to make
nobody my wife, the first date,you still want to get a good
impression.
You know I would like to take awoman.
It would be ideal to take hersomewhere either.
She's never been.

Speaker 1 (02:02:16):
She's just not getting a steak, but she ain't
getting Taco Bell either.

Speaker 4 (02:02:20):
No, she's not getting a no.
So here's the thing about thesteak thing.
Right, you can.
You know your budget.
Right, you was you, you, you,you, you playing in this deck.
You know your budget.
Um, it may not be state, butI'm not going to take a woman
somewhere in in penny pinch Like, damn, I hope she don't order

(02:02:43):
no shit with shrimp.
Like, if we go on, we go on.
You know what I'm saying.
Like you got to be, if youtaking a woman out, you got to
be prepared to spend money.

Speaker 6 (02:02:52):
That's how it is.

Speaker 4 (02:02:52):
It's just, I'm not.
It's, it's, it's.
I look at it like it's love.
Yeah, you know what I'm saying?
Yeah, but that don't mean I'mgoing to take you to a dump.
It just mean I might, I mightspend some money, I might spend
a little more money because I'mnot going to be there, like,
okay, you, here's the rules,right.
Right, you get that, then wegoing to share, right, and you

(02:03:12):
get an entree.
You know, try to keep theentree $20 or less.
I would really appreciate that.

Speaker 1 (02:03:19):
No, like I think you could do that.
You can.

Speaker 4 (02:03:22):
I mean, I'm reading right here I just don't want to
be there I don't like to meet.
It gives off that cheap personRight, and I don't want to be
the chief.
You don't want her to know thatyou're cheap, you're cheap.

Speaker 1 (02:03:32):
No, I'm not cheap.

Speaker 4 (02:03:33):
No, you're cheap.
No, I'm not cheap.
This is the thing.

Speaker 1 (02:03:36):
What I'm saying is this right, when I say that
you're cheap, that first dateyou was like remember, because I
was like well how could she geta steak dinner?
You was like show me a womanthat deserves a steak dinner on
her first date and I was likeyou know what.
This is smart.

Speaker 4 (02:03:53):
No, you see no, no, no, I think it just kicked me in
the fucking hole.
No, it's a difference, becauseyou said steak restaurant.
That's why I said well, waitman, you think about like a
capital grill.
Yeah we not going nowhere likethat?

Speaker 1 (02:04:09):
Oh, you're going to allow this man to do that shit
right now.
I'm just trying to clarify thecase.

Speaker 6 (02:04:14):
I'm just asking Listen, listen, listen.

Speaker 4 (02:04:16):
OK, listen, listen you can't, you can't put up
right you can't put, it's noteven about I could go to.
You could go to Fridays andspend more money than you would
have spent and forgo the child.
Yeah forgo the child.
Well, I don't want to use forgothe child, because that's all
you can eat.
But let's say, you pick it.
Let's say, you pick a steakrestaurant.
Right, you pick a steakrestaurant.

(02:04:37):
It's just the ambience, it'severything about this place.
It's not even just the food.
It's the ambience, it's theservice, it's everything that
comes with this place.
There's just some places like,hey, this is cash.

Speaker 1 (02:04:50):
You like, you know what it is, you won't get this
skirt steak and hope they cut itright.
I mean, that's what you order,yeah.

Speaker 4 (02:04:57):
I look, if I was you, if I were you.
I would go to Fridays and ordera steak.
That's just me.
I will order chicken fingersand fries or something else.

Speaker 3 (02:05:10):
The jackdaw is a burger.

Speaker 4 (02:05:11):
Yeah, just something else.

Speaker 3 (02:05:12):
You know what I'm saying but here's the thing.

Speaker 4 (02:05:16):
But here's the crazy part I don't know how much we're
going to spend because I'm not.
I'm not now.
See, I be careful of my wordsbecause people watching.
I don't want you, thinking youabout, to have bottomless drinks
, right, I just expect, unlessit's $20.

Speaker 1 (02:05:32):
They 20 hours.
You drink as much as you want.
They said so 20.

Speaker 4 (02:05:36):
No, because you got to get home.

Speaker 1 (02:05:38):
Right, no, put in the Uber, oh, but y'all drive out.
Yeah, you can, but it's like no, so just expect this.
Let me sum it up with this Damn.
He just said I ain't evenpicking up, we're going to meet
there.
Just in case I really don'tlike it.

Speaker 4 (02:05:51):
No, no, no, no, no, no.
A lot of women don't want youto pick them up.

Speaker 6 (02:05:56):
They want to meet you at the place?

Speaker 1 (02:05:58):
Oh yeah, so you can tell I haven't dated anyone,
yeah.

Speaker 4 (02:06:03):
So I'll sum it up with this I'm expecting a woman
to know how to God damn.
I'm expecting her to know howto conduct herself as a woman.
You know what I'm saying, like.
I'm expecting you to be a woman.
That's not.
Oh, this my time to go out.
Let me get three, four drinks,because I don't get to go out

(02:06:23):
much.

Speaker 6 (02:06:24):
Like about about 30 oysters, like that one lady did.

Speaker 1 (02:06:28):
Bro.
I've been saying I got a storyabout that In my mid 30s.
Oh no, oh, no.
Yeah, I was in Philadelphia andI had went out on a date in
Philadelphia.
Philadelphia is only two hoursfrom New York.

Speaker 3 (02:06:46):
Yeah, right.

Speaker 1 (02:06:49):
And she was like you want to go to a restaurant.
So we went there and don't askme why, like this is my first
experience dating somebody thatyou know like seafood to the
extent of lobster and all thatother shit.
Now she ordered a lot.
Now I didn't think about itbecause I'm allergic to seafood,
so why would you be soinconsiderate as to do?
But whatever, you know, I'mlike.
Whatever they want to take outthe shit on the menu, let me get

(02:07:11):
that salad.
So she ordered, like theoysters, some black oysters, bro
.
And my butt clenched because Iwas like hold on, because you do
understand, because you knowwe've been talking about the
budget earlier, right, I meanyou do understand what side of
the menu.
That is right.
But it's different if you'vealready started smashing, like

(02:07:34):
I've already hit.
Like this is not a home run forme and I don't even like you
like that for a while.
You doing all this.
Yeah, we not talking aboutfinances.

Speaker 6 (02:07:47):
We have nothing to gain from here.

Speaker 1 (02:07:49):
Oh my God, yeah, no, but that's see, that's why.

Speaker 4 (02:07:53):
That's why you picked the rest of one is a man.

Speaker 3 (02:07:55):
I don't live in Philly.

Speaker 4 (02:07:58):
No, it was, but see okay, yeah, no research.

Speaker 1 (02:08:02):
No, bro, there was no internet back then.
See, look she styles.
You got her how to take analley.
I knew that oh but I was tryingto be considerate.
She ended up at one of thefucking Philly cheese steaks
Fucking restaurant Shit.

Speaker 4 (02:08:20):
Listen now, nowadays, okay, with city, you went If I
happen to, if I make a city, youknow what I'm saying and it's
like hey, I found this spot.
You want to go?
Simple, yeah, simple, no, butsee, that's that's the first of
all.

Speaker 1 (02:08:34):
I don't know.
I can't even act on that advice.
The thing is with, withactually I can't get up and
setting stuff up and whatnot.
Nice I'll be doing.
Do I do a good job, though?

Speaker 2 (02:08:47):
Yeah, you do Damn.

Speaker 3 (02:08:49):
They always tempted to say the increase voice.
Did you hear?

Speaker 1 (02:08:52):
little voice inflects .

Speaker 6 (02:08:55):
Just to let you know that you really ain't doing shit
Right, you know what I mean,but enough to let you know, like
I'm not going to embarrass you,Voice turner to Minnie Mouse.

Speaker 1 (02:09:07):
Gentlemen, effort is is worth zero in these streets.
No, I'm playing with you, I'mreally playing, so anyway, I
just don't want to get choppedin the throat.
Oh, what the fuck was I goingwith this?
Oh no, that was a good segue.
I was lost, we were talkingabout playing.

Speaker 4 (02:09:26):
I was saying something about being in the
city, yeah.

Speaker 1 (02:09:29):
But see, the thing is right now you, armed up, like
you are, you got everything.
You got you got the dating apps, which I hope you're not using
because you're a podcaster.
You have, that is your datingapp.
You have because putting you incontact with all of these
people, yeah, you have,basically, just like you said.

(02:09:51):
Like I have on my Instagrampage is a folder called the day
night and literally I've gonethrough like all of that.
Also have one with brunch withmy brothers and all of that too.
But every time I see somethingI'm like then we need to go, to
need to do this, we need to dothat.
So I put everything in thereand then when it comes time to,

(02:10:12):
actually, I'll shoot it to herbecause she's funny, like I'm
funny, like a scale of one to 10.
What you think I mean, right?
So it's like a eight to 10.
We good, right?

Speaker 6 (02:10:22):
Anything less than eight.
I ain't messing with it.

Speaker 1 (02:10:25):
I mean it's between eight and 10, because it costs
money to play.
We don't want to go out thereand spend money on some shit,
you know whatever.

Speaker 6 (02:10:31):
But you ready to go out here, out here A little bit
shooting in the gym A little bit.

Speaker 1 (02:10:39):
A little bit Ladies and gentlemen, I mean pardon, I
didn't mean to do that to you.

Speaker 4 (02:10:46):
Ladies, it's all good , the gentlemen knew better Some
of them.

Speaker 3 (02:10:53):
They knew better.
Trust me, they knew better.

Speaker 1 (02:10:57):
Ladies, there's a good catch out here.
He's not talking about finances, it's not an algebra pop quiz.
When you show it, show up thereon your first date.
So don't worry about the hardquestions.
There won't be any as long asyou can Nunciate your words and
no ads are going to fuckingstate plays on the first day.

(02:11:19):
They ain't gonna happen.
I'm telling you that right now.

Speaker 4 (02:11:21):
All right, you can tell me off, off, off.
I don't know off it, but I justit depends on the woman.
Okay, we had conversations like.
I'm the type.
This is why I'll never reallyunderstand how men be feeling
like women used the fourth meal.
That's your fault, bro, that'syour fault, all your fault.

Speaker 6 (02:11:40):
That's a sound blade right there.

Speaker 4 (02:11:43):
Because if you had a good conversation with this
woman, you know if she's feelingyou or not.
You should know what type ofplace she would like to go to.
Those are the bottom.
One thing is the first thing.
So if you just out here beingsaved as food guy on her phone,
that's on you, bro.

Speaker 6 (02:12:00):
Food guys, because that's what you in.

Speaker 4 (02:12:03):
You're the food guy.

Speaker 6 (02:12:04):
People say never.

Speaker 4 (02:12:06):
I say never will I be the food guy.

Speaker 6 (02:12:09):
Never Good.

Speaker 4 (02:12:10):
So the food guy I know in three conversations if
we in a good space where I couldbe spending my money on you.

Speaker 6 (02:12:20):
So what about?
Like the nail guy?
You're gonna be like the nailguy.
Neither, I'm not gonna be.
None of those guys.
Okay, they be saying, hey, hair, hair, nail, nail, all that
You're not getting no extracurriculars off of me.

Speaker 1 (02:12:32):
So I will say this brother, I'm gonna pray for you.
You be safe out in thesestreets.

Speaker 4 (02:12:37):
I'm good man, All right.

Speaker 1 (02:12:38):
Because there's some savages out here lurking, you
know, lurking and hurting, youknow, and they, like they, want
to talk about finances too Yours.

Speaker 4 (02:12:48):
You know how that conversation gonna be short.
You know, listen, let me tellyou something.
My whole golden rule is, whenwe go on this date, if my car
get declined, you have allrights to ask about my finance.
As long as that car go through,you don't need to talk about my

(02:13:09):
finance.

Speaker 1 (02:13:10):
Relax.
I don't care if it is my cashapp called relax.
Don't matter what car, liveright, you eat currency is
currency.

Speaker 4 (02:13:17):
Did you get the walk out?
Did you?
Did you open your purse?
Yeah, that's a fact.

Speaker 1 (02:13:21):
Did you act like you was going to open your purse,
because that's a problem too?
Yeah, exactly, I just need youto.

Speaker 4 (02:13:27):
I just need you to say thank you.
I appreciate the good timebeing engaged.
Don't have your phone and wegood, it's not.
I'm not a complicated guy.

Speaker 1 (02:13:36):
There you go.
Can I ask a real quick question?
Sure, so this is for everybody.
So we're all let's say allindividually right, I'm doing
something for my wife, my wife'sdoing something for me, when
you're doing something for themystery woman that you hopefully
did not meet on tender, so yousend out an invite, like y'all

(02:13:58):
trying to do X, y and Z for mywoman on what you call it.
Come through, if you want tocome through, they come through,
then they pay.
I mean, excuse me, it comestime to pay for whatever Pay for
everybody Send in invites.
It's grown man.

Speaker 6 (02:14:17):
No, no, I'm not.

Speaker 1 (02:14:19):
I don't even think that my friends would.
Even I seen it flowing around.
Yeah, by the time this hits thestreets it's gonna be super old
news.
But I did have, you know, anopinion on it and my thing is
this if I got it, I'll do itBecause, again, it's anything
for my woman, right?
So if I want to make it agrandiose thing, right.
If I want to fly people in oryou know better, yet that'd be,

(02:14:43):
that's real stupid.
If I want to be in Dallas andsend out invites you know what I
mean it's gonna be a small,intimate crew or whatever.
I would do it, I would takecare of them if I had it.
But for you to show up andexpect, you don't expect it.
I think that's the problem.
That.

Speaker 3 (02:15:01):
I'm gonna pay for you .

Speaker 1 (02:15:03):
Now I brought you out to make a movie, but I ain't
paying you.
Yeah, you know what I mean.
We not doing that.
What's your thoughts?

Speaker 6 (02:15:12):
Well, I guess it depends on the situation.
Like true story for my 40thbirthday that just passed this
past October, my wife threw likea surprise birthday brunch at
me in Lamp Shraver spot at thegood old milk and honey.
But it was the one in CampSprings and it completely threw
me off guard.

Speaker 1 (02:15:32):
Can I stop you?
Yeah, what'd you eat?

Speaker 6 (02:15:36):
Yeah, you already know Chicken and waffles,
chicken and waffles and somemimosas, you know what.
I'm saying Chicken and waffles.
But she surprised me and likeit was a emotional moment, like
I cried, I had all my family andstuff like that and I didn't
you know.
So me thinking I was like in myback of my head.
One thing I never liked to dowas like when there's a huge,

(02:15:57):
huge party, I'm like damn okay,how we splitting the bill, this
in the third and then Ioverheard the waiter talk to my
wife was in.
He was just like okay, so yougot X amount, that's already
covered.
Blah, blah, blah, because shein advance put that money aside
to pay for the people inattendance.
So I feel like it depends onthe occasion.
Like that milestone birthday,sure, she did it.

(02:16:20):
But if it's just, you know, butnot all occasions, like if
you're just doing something niceto your wife, like you said,
just don't don't come throughexpecting that style is just
going to pay just because heinvited you.

Speaker 1 (02:16:31):
I mean, I want her to be around.
You know her family and friends.
Of course I'm going to takecare of my mother-in-law, my
sister-in-law, but you know whatI mean.
Like you won't find, you cansee.
Yeah.
She means, you got peanuts inhere real quick.
But again, if I had it I woulddo it Right.

(02:16:56):
But I think that no grownperson you know walking around
paying bills, should expect thatsomebody's going, especially if
we know the financial climatethat we're in, because we
probably ended up splittingsomething at some point.

Speaker 6 (02:17:11):

Speaker 1 (02:17:12):
Going somewhere, splitting something.
We split that.
Why the fuck would I pay foryou to you?
Know what I mean.
Like that doesn't even make anysense In fact, you should ask
me, you know, if you're reallythat concerned like yo, how are
we going to assist this?
You know, am I paying for this,you paying?
For this.
Like do that.
You know, what are y'allthoughts?

Speaker 4 (02:17:31):
Yeah, I'm with you Like.
I'm looking at it like man.
I appreciate the fact that theywant me to share this moment
with them.
So this is I'm sharing a moment.
Don't mean they paying the bill.
I expect like an end.
I look at it like I know myfriends not they, they, they

(02:17:51):
well, but I don't want to putthe burden in them paying for me
.
No, in my life.

Speaker 3 (02:17:57):
But whoever from with somebody Right, right, I'm
saying, if I'm with somebody.

Speaker 1 (02:18:01):
You little side thing Right?
Yeah, I don't really want to.

Speaker 4 (02:18:07):
The only time she get a steak dinner somebody get a
steak, so it's like yeah, like Idon't expect that, like I
wouldn't even want you know whatI'm saying, I wouldn't even
want them to do that.
No, now, if he, now, if he, ifhe come up like a lamp, already
paid for this, then I'm like oh,that's different.

Speaker 1 (02:18:23):
I just get a whole.
Thing.
You hit the ladder Right.

Speaker 4 (02:18:26):
So it's like who you took care of that and let me let
you know I appreciate that.
So, yeah, because, again, youknow another thing to consider
too.
A lot of times you didn't bringa gift.
So if you bring in a, I think,if you think like, if it's a see
, once it's in a restaurant,it's kind of understood.

(02:18:47):
You're going to be paying likethis If it's at the house.
You know what I'm saying, youprobably not going to pay
nothing.

Speaker 6 (02:18:52):
Hey, nothing, yeah, so it's like but then you're
going

Speaker 4 (02:18:54):
to bring, but then I feel like you should bring a
gift.

Speaker 1 (02:18:56):
Yeah, or liquor.
You better bring some.

Speaker 6 (02:18:59):
No, come in here and be handy.

Speaker 1 (02:19:01):
Like oh.

Speaker 6 (02:19:01):
I'm going to eat this food and roll out.
And then you got your top away.

Speaker 4 (02:19:05):
That food was delicious.

Speaker 1 (02:19:08):
Like we were taking plates to go.

Speaker 4 (02:19:10):
Using your little.
You know my, my, my, my, mybrothers.
You know what I'm sayingDifferent.

Speaker 1 (02:19:15):
Yeah, I know, I know what they find.
They think it cursed outdifferent too.
That's the problem.

Speaker 4 (02:19:19):
Yeah, but I'm not saying like they when I say
brothers like close friends andstuff, so it's like we know our
financial situation.

Speaker 1 (02:19:27):
But see, that's the thing, though.
This is where I was going withthat.
Like you, we've probably splitsomething recently, you know
what I mean.
Or I came to you and I neededsomething, or vice versa.

Speaker 3 (02:19:38):
Why would you?

Speaker 4 (02:19:38):
think that I'm paying for this.

Speaker 3 (02:19:40):
Yeah, yeah.

Speaker 4 (02:19:42):
It's just, it's just a principal thing.
Like why is it, as a grown man,like, why would you?

Speaker 1 (02:19:46):
do that.
You want to grant talking abouta stand on business.
What's your?
What's your thoughts?

Speaker 2 (02:19:54):
I pretty much agree.
I mean, I think you know, takeaway the expectation of it.
You know, like I said, for youto even have the expectation
that, okay, well, they're goingto pay for this, since they
invited me, okay.

Speaker 3 (02:20:06):
No, actually no.

Speaker 2 (02:20:09):
But but I kind of like agree, like with what your
wife did for you as far as, like, you know, saving up the money,
you know, like things like that, and then you know taking care
of it.
You know, especially, you know,if it's something for my
husband, then yeah, let me.
You know, as far as like payingfor everything, like I mean, I,
you know, my thought was whenthey're first, because I'm like

(02:20:31):
that would be something that Iwould do as well and not, you
know, have everybody to pay, butbut yeah.
But, like I said, for you toexpect or to come in here and
think, okay, well, they're goingto take care of it, yeah, yeah,
that's just taking away theexpectation.

Speaker 6 (02:20:46):
Yeah, as an adult.

Speaker 4 (02:20:47):
Yeah, yeah, just going in knowing I may have to
pay Right.
If I'm paying for everybody, Ihave it.
You might have a menu.

Speaker 6 (02:20:58):
I mean like yeah.

Speaker 1 (02:20:59):
I already said.

Speaker 4 (02:21:00):
Yeah, like, oh no you the filet mignon, that's not on
that menu at all, Not a littlebit.

Speaker 1 (02:21:07):
You might get some chicken and waffle though.

Speaker 2 (02:21:10):
You know what's on the menu.
Everybody else got chicken andwaffle.

Speaker 1 (02:21:13):
Everybody else got chicken and waffle.
You got the chicken and waffle.
I'm great with that.
Yeah, chicken and eggs in abowl yeah she said these are in
carton eggs and I'm like hold up, you got a rooster.
Like where these eggs?
What kind of eggs are?
these Cause.
They kind of threw me when shesaid that, right, and that's
just me going back to the earlyconversation.

(02:21:34):
But yeah, no, no, I'm not doingeggs in a bowl, ever Not at all
.
I hear you, you know it better.
It was different if it had likesausage and pause.
All right, let's, let's, let'smove on.
I'm talking about talking aboutdessert.

Speaker 5 (02:21:49):
I hope you guys enjoyed your meal.
Can I get you something off ofour dessert menu?

Speaker 1 (02:21:56):
Yeah, so this is the part of the show I love hate.

Speaker 3 (02:21:59):
Hmm.

Speaker 1 (02:21:59):
Right, so you got to go.
You know, um, to wrap it up.
Thank you guys, you know.
Thank you to my beautiful wife.
You was going to say something.

Speaker 6 (02:22:12):
No, did you put me oh , I thought you had muted me.
No, no, no, she came with adefensive.
She was like you didn't mute me.

Speaker 1 (02:22:18):
I got to look at the board.
No, I'll be able to happyfingers.
Um, yeah, so you know?
Uh, let me see.
Oh, I'm wowing again Cause Ijust did it again.
The only thing is that, yeah,Ryan, in jumping front of that

(02:22:41):
bully, he was like fuck you Didit earlier, you know, you got
COVID brain.
What the fuck is going on, ryan?
Actually, this is, this isRyan's um segment again.
Oh, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 6 (02:22:54):
Yeah, no problem.
Well, uh, just for this, aquick segment.
Uh, I'm a huge, huge movie buffLove shows this.
And the third, just really,really quick.
Um, it's already out, but ifyou're interested in something
good to watch it, you got thetime to do so.
Highly recommend you check outboy swallows universe.
Pause, as some people mightlike to say, but uh, it was.

(02:23:15):
It's a very uh great series ison Netflix.
Uh, seven episodes, uh, afairly quick watch.
You can knock it out in oneweekend.
What it's about?
Um, I heard someone say it'slike sons of anarchy mixed with
the goonies, and I'll have toagree.
It's about a little boy by thename of Eli and his older

(02:23:35):
brother, gus long, so he's short.
It's a.
It's a movie about themstruggling to raise themselves
after alcohol and drugs Damn,they tear the family apart, um,
so, for example, you have analcoholic biological father.
You got um, their mother,biological mom who was
struggling on, you know,struggling with drug addictions.
Stepdad is cool with the kidsbut, spoiler alert he's a drug

(02:23:59):
dealer as well, and so you gotall these things in the mix and
you're looking at this entireseries from the point of view of
Eli, who was like 12 years oldtrying to navigate through this
whole space.
So, um, a really great watch.
Um, if you, if you like, a tearjerker, there might be a few
moments where it's a little bitof a tear jerker and as a 40
year old man, I'm not a notafraid to admit that I've I've

(02:24:20):
cried on a few of those moments.
So highly recommend it.
Um, pause the slay and reassure.
Yet again, it is called boyswallows universe and very, very
quickly, um, as a uh, somethingthat I'm looking forward to.
By the time this comes out,it'll already be out, but we do
have uh not we, cause I don'town it Um, uh, we have uh,

(02:24:40):
griselda.
Griselda Blanco is going to beon Netflix January 25th.
Um, I'm looking forward to it.
I think it's already going todo a lot better than the
original uh adaptation ofGriselda's life, which was
played by Catherine Zeta-Jones,and it was horrible.
Um, this one is played bySophia, sophia uh Vergara.

(02:25:01):
For those who aren't familiar,she was the wife of Ed Bundy on
Modern Family.
I've always seen her in comedystuff.
So for her to actually take ona serious role as Griselda
Blanco herself, I'm highly,highly excited for it and I feel
like Netflix has a great umstreak going with just great
shows.
And just as a quick, quick,honorable mention, we got the

(02:25:22):
Vince Deppler show coming out aswell.
It looks like Atlanta thatChilders of Gambino did, but
just with Vince Deppler's LAtwist to it.

Speaker 1 (02:25:30):
So yeah, Alright, I'm here for it.
I am here for it, thank you,thank you, thank you, um, and
now I should just cut out thatfirst part and then put it here,
but.

Speaker 3 (02:25:41):
I ain't going to do that though.

Speaker 1 (02:25:43):
I'm keeping it organic.
You know, we want to see, wewant y'all to see us fall in our
faces on this episode, nextepisode, we good, right, um,
alright, so I'm just going to goaround the table, you know.
Let everybody know where theycan find you.
Um, thank you again.
You know, uh, and this I'm, I'mexcited.
You know, I don't even know howI can keep looking in the eyes

(02:26:04):
of two grown as men telling meI'm excited.
But, you know we're going tostop that.
I'm excited there you go.

Speaker 3 (02:26:13):
That's a much better look.
I'm excited.
Hey, how you doing.
Hey, should I leave my ownhouse?

Speaker 6 (02:26:21):
Shout out to Ryan for being such a gracious host.
I hate this brother.

Speaker 1 (02:26:24):
This brother was like , listen, do you mind if I open
up my home to you and I'm likeyo, the south is different, the
south is different.
You know what I mean?
It is like it's kind of likewhen you invite people or
whatever and you don't expectthem, I mean you expect them to
know that they have to pay.
It's the same thing.
Well, fucking don't expect this.

(02:26:45):
You're going to be thinking itwas like yo, it's good, I know
you're coming down here.
You mind if I open up mysingles, Like, basically, do you
mind being my company thisweekend?
And I was like yo, man, thisdude, I was like they different.
I like them.
They different yeah.

Speaker 3 (02:27:08):
Like the fuck, yeah, okay.

Speaker 1 (02:27:10):
Um, yeah, we look forward to seeing you Guys on
you know future tour dates andstuff like that.
And when I say you guys, Iain't talking about you guys.

Speaker 3 (02:27:19):
I don't look forward to y'all.
Better be there.

Speaker 1 (02:27:21):
I'm talking about you guys Seeing y'all on future
tour dates.
Go around the table.
You know everybody give yourInstagram handle that people
know where they can find you.
And then we're going to wrapthis up.
All right, that's just RyanOnce again.

Speaker 6 (02:27:39):
you can find me on Instagram Taylor underscore
photos, dnv, freelancephotographer in the DMV area.
And also, if you're a moviebuff or you enjoy shows like I
do, you can find me on Ryanreviews.
Everything on YouTube JamesLampkin again.

Speaker 4 (02:27:57):
Appreciate your support styles.
Thank you for inviting me.
You can find me on Instagram atconversations underscore with
underscore lamp.
Facebook is also conversational.
Lamp In my podcast is on soundcloud.
That Apple podcast, all right,and you got Shadra styles here.

Speaker 2 (02:28:19):
You can find me at hiding hills on Instagram and
also flights, fashion and food.

Speaker 1 (02:28:22):
If y'all think that I'm going to say something, you
don't lost your fucking mind,because if you showed up, you
already know where to find me.
So I'm here or over there withthem.
Anywho, let me see if I canfind this button now.
Where the fuck is the button?
And I'm looking at the wrongplace.

(02:28:44):
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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