Texts, Calls, and Stellarosa: Exploring Dating, Gender Dynamics, and Social Connections with Shadra Styles

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Get ready for some laughs and genuine insights as we welcome the amazing Shadra Styles to the podcast! We kick things off by sharing our thoughts on texting, calling, and FaceTime preferences - and what it all says about us. Spoiler alert: connecting with others is essential for success in life and work, and we dive into that topic with gusto.

Pour yourself a glass of Stellarosa black-label wine (just don't spill it like Shadra did!) and join us as we venture into the world of dating, relationships, and gender dynamics. We discuss women taking the initiative in dating, traditional gender roles, and the delicate balance of work, hustling, and maintaining a social circle. And, of course, we share our favorite songs for this season of our lives - you won't want to miss it!

As the episode winds down, we reminisce about our incredible Bae Night experience at a local restaurant. We share our thoughts on the food, drinks, and overall atmosphere, even getting into a playful debate about whether the waffles were too dry or not. So grab your headphones and join us for this fun-filled and candid conversation with Styles and Shadra Styles aka S.Dot. Cheers!

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Episode Transcript

Sound Bite (00:00):
Somebody's pulling me close to the ground.
I ain't panicked.
I've been here before.
Seems like only yesterday whenI got up on that stage In front
of that crowd and show them whowas who and what was what.
Man, look at these suckers.
I ain't no rapper, i'm ahustler.
Just so happens.
I know how to rap.
Okay, i reloaded.

Styles (00:24):
You are now rocking with the brunch hour podcast, the
best hour today.

Shadra Styles (00:29):
It's the only podcast I listen to.

Styles (00:33):
With your host staz.

Sound Bite (00:43):
He is the life of parties he has never attended.
If he were to punch you in theface, he would have to fight off
the strong urge to thank him.
Sharks have a week dedicated tohim.
He is the most interesting manin the world.

Styles (01:02):
I'm really not, though.
I promise you that I'm reallynot.
However, i am back.
I am back and it feels so goodto be back.
It feels so fucking wonderfulto be back.
For those of you that know me,i've been going for about a year
, and this is me, so I want tosay a year and three months
Maybe, sort of kinda.
My previous co-sids held itdown For as long as they could

(01:24):
with my bullshit, and then theybounced it, went and did their
own thing.
Shadows to goodie and Taniqa,glowing.
Right now They off, doing theirown thing with a level of
consistency Not seen on thisside.
Love it, um, and then, if youwant to check them out, go over
to Until next time.
That's the name of the podcast.
Shout out to y'all Salute,salute.
Back to this right here.

(01:45):
I'm happy to be back.
Gone through a lot of shit.
It's gonna be a gym pack season.
It's gonna be a hot summer,super hot summer.
So I came across this soundbite and the sound bite wasn't
me, so it's kind of like thesound bite was a mirror.
I'm let y'all here first, butthese are some of the habits
that I'm trying to bring I don'twant to be in the mix.

Sound Bite (02:04):
I don't like niggas.
I don't want to hang with you.
I don't want to get drunk withyou.
I don't want to go fuck hoeswith you.
I, i'm cool, i fuck with who Ifuck with and that's off.
Energy like.

Styles (02:15):
I'm trying to break those habits.
I mean not to have it with youknow, fucking holes and all of
that.
I'm married.
Shout out to my wife, nothinglike that.
But I'm trying to be lessanti-social in this game.
You have to be less insomething, anti-social With
things.
And you got to pop up and yougot it.
Nah, i'm not doing.
I'm not doing that, i figuredshit.

(02:36):
If I gotta do about myself, igotta do about my soul.

Sound Bite (02:49):
You'll get as far as the motherfuckers you talk to
for no reason.

Styles (02:51):
You'll be successful as the motherfuckers that you talk
to For no reason and againpeople, i can't tell you how
happy I am to be back, so I'mgonna leave you with this before
we jump into the show.

Sound Bite (03:00):
We just want to win, That's it Doesn't matter.
All the extra shit is corny.
It's about getting that breadand looking good doing it and
always being on your ding.
Have an honor being cut from acertain cloth like a real home
cat, right, You know, that's alljust knowing that if you're not
number one now, you will beright.
You know cuz we hustlers So wedon't give a fuck about betting

(03:21):
at all every time There's nofear there.

Styles (03:24):
But let's not be confused.
I'm still fucking ignorant too.

Sound Bite (03:30):
All the haters.
I don't want to be friendsafter this, so I'm gonna get
this up my chest.
braille urbis, stop it.
We need two shots.

(03:54):
It's a combo.

Styles (04:01):
Yeah, like I said, i'm back Anywho today for Happy Owl.
We're going to talk about HappyOwl, but before we talk about
Happy Owl, let me talk about myguest.
Right, i have a veryinteresting guest on today.
All right, shadra Styles.
Right, she goes by the name of.
I don't know if she goes byYour Instagram handle is.

Shadra Styles (04:23):
Hiden.

Styles (04:24):
Hills, okay, and.

Shadra Styles (04:26):
And Flights.
Fashion and Food.

Styles (04:28):
Okay, i'll never get that right, because the F's
always fucked me up.
Pun intended.
Anyway, this is my beautifulwife and we will try to get
through this without any sideeyes.
Any, you know all that otherstuff, So let's get straight to
the shits.
Listen.
First of all, let's talk aboutwhat we drink, And you know I'm
ignorant as it relates to wine,so I'm going to let you have it.

Shadra Styles (04:51):
Let's see, tonight we have Stellarosa, so
we're drinking the Stellarosawine.
It's black.
Well, the black wine, i guess,is red.

Sound Bite (05:03):
But it's the black label.

Shadra Styles (05:07):
Okay, I've already been sipping a little
bit.

Styles (05:09):
Yeah, you have been sipping a little bit, so there's
a story behind it sipping alittle bit Before she even got
the sip and she spilled anentire bottle.

Shadra Styles (05:16):
Wow, it wasn't a bottle, it was a glass.

Styles (05:18):
Fuck it.
It may as well have been abottle, it's a glass I wish I
had back, because it's actuallyreally good, really fucking good
.
All over everything, noteverything, mostly the table and
the floor, which was right.
And one of the left side of myheadphones.

Shadra Styles (05:36):
So I got.
He's still trying to get wine.
I think I have a boozy earright now.

Styles (05:43):
What we're going to do have a quick little icebreaker
So the people get to know youright?

Sound Bite (05:48):
now.

Styles (05:49):
Right, we're not married , because I don't want you to.
You know we are married, butwe're not married.
Make sense, right, all right?
cool, all right, stop touchingshit.
So let's go with this ReadyText call or FaceTime, what's
your preference?

Shadra Styles (06:06):
Text definitely Don't call me, Don't FaceTime me
, i just prefer text.

Styles (06:13):
All right, shoot your shot, chill it in the cut.

Shadra Styles (06:16):
Definitely chill it in the cut.
I'm not shooting my shot.

Styles (06:19):
I hate pretty women.
It's not even about that.
It's really not.
It is, it's not.

Shadra Styles (06:24):
What is it For me personally.
Please, I'm just not that girl.
I'm just not going to go up andshoot my shot Like I've just
never been that type of woman.

Styles (06:35):
Well, why not?
Is it the rejection?

Shadra Styles (06:38):
It's not even about rejection.

Styles (06:39):
So what is it?

Shadra Styles (06:40):
I just feel like a man Shit, shit, shit shit.

Styles (06:43):
All right, cool, we're going to save that for later.
All right, so in your socialcircle, what would you say is
the ratio of entrepreneursversus die hard?
nine to five is.

Shadra Styles (06:55):
Being that my circle is pretty little, pretty
small, I don't know.
I think right now, well,everybody in my circle no,
listen, everybody in my circleis either I mean, that does have
a nine to five also are likeentrepreneurs at the same time,

(07:16):
Like everybody has a hustle ortrying to be, you know yeah,
especially the day in time we inright now Like yeah, we're
going to need some extra on theside.

Styles (07:25):
So that's a whole fact.
Yeah, that's a whole fact.
All right, who can call you at3am and get you out of your bed?

Shadra Styles (07:37):
Definitely, family, friends, kids.

Styles (07:40):
Friends, I mean what best friend?

Shadra Styles (07:42):
I'm saying like a best friend, like my best
friend for sure, okay.

Styles (07:46):
Best friend for sure, yeah.
How many best friends do youhave?

Shadra Styles (07:50):
One best friend Yeah.

Styles (07:53):
I don't know, because, as it relates to me, like with
best friends, they'reinterchangeable.
So I have a couple of differentbest friends.

Shadra Styles (07:59):
Well, again, my circle is small.
I don't have a lot of friends,But no, but I have one best
friend.
And then, of course, like Isaid, family and friends.
I mean what family in my kids?
of course.

Styles (08:09):
I think the whole best friend thing is debatable too,
because I have multiple bestfriends Right, so my best friend
basically is a tear.
You can reach the best friendtear right, and then your best
friends, and then you turn toyour left to right and you see
my other best friends, becauseOkay.

Shadra Styles (08:28):
But with you, though, I would say, um are your
best friends females.

Styles (08:33):
So moving on to the next question What's the song for
this season of your life?
I?

Shadra Styles (08:40):
was trying to think about that.
I think right now I'm going tosay Lucky Girl by Collina or
Carlina, yeah.

Styles (08:49):
Lucky Girl.

Shadra Styles (08:50):
Yeah, it's the song on my last post on my
Height and Heels page.

Styles (08:54):
But um, yeah, i'm it, let me, i don't, i'm not
familiar.

Shadra Styles (08:59):
Do you want to hear it?

Styles (09:00):
No, nothing.
It would take time for you topull it up, and you know how I
feel about that air.

Shadra Styles (09:04):
Well, you can go to my post after we get off of
here and, and and listen foryourself.

Styles (09:10):
All right, cool Um for brunch.
What drink do you start offwith?

Shadra Styles (09:15):
Definitely Mamosa .

Styles (09:17):
No, okay.

Shadra Styles (09:17):
Or Bellini.

Styles (09:18):
Bellini, okay.

Sound Bite (09:19):
Bellini Um like a peach.

Shadra Styles (09:21):
Bellini.

Styles (09:22):
Okay, i thought Bellini's were just inherently
peach.
There are other types.

Shadra Styles (09:27):
Oh well, i don't know.

Styles (09:29):
If you could live in any sitcom, what would it be?

Shadra Styles (09:32):
Um, yeah, let's skip it for now.
Wait a minute.
Can you answer these questions?
or no, That's not that's notthe way this goes.
It's just me.

Styles (09:41):
I mean it could, but I was just being a bully And since
you should have answered someof those.

Shadra Styles (09:45):
Yeah, I should have, but I didn't.

Styles (09:47):
Okay, i did.
We can circle back on a futureepisode, maybe.
Okay, now that you're trying tomake the rules, um, anyway, uh,
let me see.
Let me see.
What would you consider adecent amount to spend on the
first date?
Now, let's let the people knowthat you live in Dallas.

Shadra Styles (10:07):
Right, right.

Styles (10:08):
So the dollar stretches there, you know, and I currently
am in New York and you can'tget off the block.
What a dollar.
So, god, i'm going to let youdo your thing.

Shadra Styles (10:23):
Um, let's see a decent amount for a first date.
Well, i really wouldn't know,cause I don't really pay on
first days, but if I did pay onfirst days.
No, i'm just saying I just wantto you know, um, put it out
there.
Um, i guess, about, um I don'tknow.
I don't know.

(10:47):
I'm gonna say like $100, $150,i don't know $150?
.
I mean, it depends on where wegoing.

Styles (10:53):
I'm glad I prefaced that with like you can stretch a
dollar in Dallas.

Shadra Styles (10:57):
Maybe $200, I don't know like, if you going to
.

Styles (11:01):
In bed we spent.

Shadra Styles (11:01):
Like.
What restaurant are we going to?
We?

Styles (11:03):
spent like $240 the other night.
just the other night That was$240 and it don't even feel like
that with that 6-1 time, butwe're gonna get back to that.

Shadra Styles (11:13):
Okay, but that was here in New York, that's not
in.

Styles (11:15):
Dallas.
That's what I'm saying, Yeah soI don't know.

Shadra Styles (11:18):
I don't pay for first date, so I wouldn't know
how much the tab is or what so.

Styles (11:22):
Okay, that's right, because you don't even You want
to be approached and not theapproach, right, so I'm not
gonna pay for the first date.

Shadra Styles (11:30):
I'll definitely pay for second date if I invite
you somewhere.
But yeah, i'm not paying forthe first date.

Styles (11:36):
Okay, I hate you, Sorry.
No, it's cool.
nothing to apologize for.
What's your dream vacation spot?

Shadra Styles (11:45):
Bali Okay.

Styles (11:46):
I was sure All right, why.

Shadra Styles (11:50):
I don't know, it's like it's a vibe Pictures,
but it looked relaxing, thoughat the same time Like, yeah,
definitely Bali.

Styles (11:58):
Okay, and last but not least, what's your example?
What's your example of a thirsttrap, a thirst trap.
A thirst trap.
It's not Chinese a thirst trap,What the fuck?

Shadra Styles (12:17):
Can I get your example of a thirst trap?

Styles (12:20):
Absolutely not.
You can get your own podcastand you can ask questions.
Wow, this is my podcast.

Shadra Styles (12:27):
Quick play.
All right, yeah, I don't know.
I don't know A thirst trap, athirst trap.

Styles (12:35):
What's a thirst trap?
I don't know what it is.
I'm sure you know what a thirsttrap is?

Shadra Styles (12:39):
No, not really.

Styles (12:41):
Bad with your 1.5 friends.
I'm sure that you guys have hadconversations about thirst
traps.

Shadra Styles (12:46):
We've never had a conversation about thirst traps
.

Styles (12:49):
Okay, so you've never had a friend that pulls
something real crazy as far aslike exuding sex, like dripping,
dripping sex.

Shadra Styles (12:59):
My friends don't do that kind of stuff Anymore.
No, Yeah.
I'm married.
Well, i guess like, yeah, ifyou go back and think back, okay
, well, how did you get your man?
Then maybe, um, yeah, i don'tknow, i don't have an example of
a thirst trap.

Styles (13:15):
I don't know I wasn't thirst, trapped into a whole
situation Like it wasn't.
Nah, i don't think that up.
Even I'm lying.
I was about to say I don'tthink I've ever fallen into it
Because you're a Leo, Anyway, um.
I don't know why you got tobring that into it.
So my, there was a follow upquestion, but you felt miserably
on the first part of that.
So, and have you sat in these?

(13:37):
So I guess not.
She being, she being pictureswith turtlenecks In the middle
of the fucking summer.
I'm here saying I don't knowabout thirst traps, i don't, i
don't know A whole windbreaker.
I'm fucking scheme ass.

Shadra Styles (13:55):
That was gonna be sexy.

Styles (13:56):
Like I'm attracted, yeah , i mean I cast, if you into
that type of thing, right Shit,that's kind of crazy.

Sound Bite (14:04):
Next question.
There's no more questions.
You got a question, all right,so.

Styles (14:07):
I'm going to open up the floor to you.
You got any questions.

Shadra Styles (14:10):
No, I want you to answer the questions that I
answered.
I'm not going to go back topeople don't want to hear that
They don't want to hear you Allright here.

Styles (14:15):
I'll give you the paper and you can tell.
You can ask the questions.
Ask specifically what you wantme to ask.
Answer rather Go ahead.

Shadra Styles (14:22):
Let's see How.
about this one?

Sound Bite (14:24):
What.

Shadra Styles (14:25):
I'm not even going to call you and get you
out of your bed at 3 am.

Sound Bite (14:28):
Nobody.

Shadra Styles (14:32):
You just playing it safe.

Styles (14:33):
No, I'm not even playing it safe.
Try calling me in the middle ofthe afternoon.
You know you can't get me.
What fuck?
Why would you even think thatyou can call me at 3 in the
morning and you can get me?
You can't get me at 3 in themorning.
You can't answer your phoneeven then At all.

Shadra Styles (14:45):
I'm not, not even family.

Styles (14:48):
Listen, see, you're going down a path where I would
look at the phone because I knowthat I'm drinking, and then
make a decision from there.
I don't even know that it'sringing, so nobody.
Okay, what's next?

Shadra Styles (15:02):
Keeping it safe.
I see How about this Answer thequestion that I didn't answer.
If you could live in any sitcom, which would it be, martin?
Well, sure.

Sound Bite (15:14):
Right.
Yeah.

Shadra Styles (15:15):
Definitely, because I definitely wanted that
type of relationship.
When Martin was out, i was like, oh, martin and Gina, that's
right.
Okay, okay, um dream vacation.

Styles (15:26):
Um, anywhere with my wife.
You're so politically correct.
Listen, I'm a podcaster.

Shadra Styles (15:34):
I see What's the song for the season of your life
.

Styles (15:39):
Can I Live by Jay-Z?

Shadra Styles (15:41):
What's your example of a thirst trap?

Styles (15:45):
Let me see What's my example of a thirst trap, a
chick on a grand with everythingout.
Well, twerking now becausewe're past pictures.
So she could be twerking.
She could be sitting there, youknow, sticking the tongue out
doing things, thirst trap it.

Shadra Styles (16:02):
Why are those things showing up on you in your
feed in the?

Styles (16:05):
first place, my feed is filthy.

Shadra Styles (16:07):
I have no idea why.
I've seen your feed.
It is filthy Very I don't knowwhy, though.
You know, why?

Styles (16:14):
No, i don't know why.
I promise you, i don't know why.
I don't.

Shadra Styles (16:17):
It's the Instagram algorithm.
All right, let's Okay, thiswill be the last one.
Thanks, call or FaceTime.

Styles (16:26):
Um, text.
The reason why text?
because I can abruptly end theconversation and come up with a
reason why I ended theconversation later.
I don't need to, you know,figure out how I'm going to get
off the phone.

Shadra Styles (16:38):
Well, that's all I want to know.

Styles (16:39):
And then if I do FaceTime, actually FaceTime too,
because FaceTime I could justliterally just start showing my
surroundings to you and you'llwant to get off the phone.

Shadra Styles (16:46):
She's like why, you know, just surround her with
shit, hit the uh button and belike oh.

Styles (16:52):
I mean, I could do that too.
I could do that too.

Segment Break (16:54):
Main course, it's time to eat.
What's on your mind All?

Styles (16:59):
right.
You know what?
I think that the last fewquestions from the icebreaker
segment actually led up to this.
I'm going to get your take onthis Okay, because I know where
it probably diametricallyopposed, but anyway, i got a
quote off of the grab right.
This came from Ruby Rose, um,and she said I feel like the man

(17:23):
is supposed to chase the woman.
She said she doesn't text orcall guys first ever, unless
it's her man or they're lockedin.
And then she also wanted toknow what she asked Am I
childless?
Use your?

Shadra Styles (17:38):
words.

Styles (17:38):
That's the one It is.
It is that lazy tongue.
Women hate to hear that lazytongue.
Anyway, um, am I childish or isthis the one?
All right, i need to stop beingchildish right now and grow the
fuck up.
Am I childish or is this theway it's supposed to be?

(18:00):
So I'm going to let you weighin on that, because you know, of
course, i have thoughts.

Shadra Styles (18:06):
Yeah, um, i would say well, i definitely I agree
With the quote Um, because I'm,like I said before, like I don't
.
I feel like a man should chase.
Of course, that's just myopinion.

Styles (18:22):
Okay, at least we know opinion starts with a no.
Oh, what else is your opinion?
It's sarcastic.

Shadra Styles (18:32):
Um, yeah, like I said, i just I feel like a man
should be the one that's chasingthe woman or or at least I
would say, instead of like, likewhat one of your questions was,
you know, chilling in the cutor shooting your shot?
Like if a man shoots this shot,like I can appreciate that I'm,
i'm just not that girl.
Like I'm not going to chaseafter a man because I just feel

(18:53):
like if you don't want to bewith me, then you don't want to
be with me.
Why am I going to chase afteryou All?

Styles (18:58):
right.
So when you say chase, you meanafter the initial introduction
is over with, or I feel like.
So what?
okay, what is?

Shadra Styles (19:07):
what is the scenario in that?

Styles (19:09):
I don't know, she was confused.
She put a bunch of shit in here.

Sound Bite (19:12):
Okay.

Styles (19:13):
Um, first of all, she says she's not calling or
texting a guy first ever.

Shadra Styles (19:18):
All right, And But she said, if it's her man or
someone, she.

Styles (19:23):
Unless it's a man, but if it's her man, which is a
contradiction, like somebody hadto go, somebody first.

Shadra Styles (19:30):
Well, hopefully he.
he called her first.
You said hopefully, Accordingto this quote.

Styles (19:36):
he absolutely did Cause, unless you know they was out
there throwing up gang signs andshit.
I don't fucking know how thatwould happen, but yeah, no, um.
And then she mentionedsomething about being childish.

Shadra Styles (19:49):
I mean, I don't think that's childish too.

Styles (19:51):
I think this, I think that It's a tradition.

Shadra Styles (19:56):
It is a tradition , right?

Styles (19:58):
We need to research and find out where this tradition
came from, because I'm opposedto fucking European traditions
And then black people, just youknow, holding onto them.
It's kind of like.
I do know an African guy who'sa Christian And on top of that,
he's not just a Christian, he'sa Christian priest, preacher, or
pastor, there we go.
One of those you know.

Sound Bite (20:19):
Clearly I don't go to church.

Styles (20:22):
But he's that and I had to ask him the other day.
I was like yo, let me ask you aquestion.
Before the Europeans came toAfrica, didn't you have your own
religion?
What made you shed yourreligion and then rock out with
them?
Whole different conversations,so I'm going to leave that alone
, but I feel like, you know, weshould be in a space where one

(20:45):
we do what we feel iscomfortable right And I think
she feels comfortable with thatAnd not necessarily rest our
laurels on what you know, whatshe feels like the tradition
should be.
You and I have had heateddebates over being the whole
proposal thing.

Shadra Styles (21:02):
Right.

Styles (21:03):
Right Heated debates.

Shadra Styles (21:04):
Heated Right.

Styles (21:07):
And I personally don't want a woman to propose to me.
I'm fine with it, but at thesame time, though, i don't see
anything wrong with a womanproposing to a girl I don't see
anything wrong with it.

Shadra Styles (21:20):
I think y'all should do it differently, don't
get on your knees, yeah, andespecially in the dress on your
knees, like proposing?
Definitely not.
But again, like I said, mything is, i mean I feel the same
way, like I mean if a womanwants to do that, then that's
fine.
I'm not going to be like girltrying to, you know, run up and
be like girl, don't do that,stop, don't propose or whatever.
Because, again, i mean, if awoman wants to propose and

(21:42):
that's on her, you know I can't,you know that's what she want
to do, that's what she want todo.
But I'm just saying for me,again, speaking for me, uh, yeah
, i'm not doing that.

Styles (21:52):
All right, so let's dig.
Let's take a deeper dive,though, okay.
Do you think that that type ofmentality going back to Ruby
Rose, do you think that thattype of mentality might be
blocking her blessings?

Shadra Styles (22:04):
Some would probably say yes.

Styles (22:06):
And you, i'm, i'm asking you, i don't care about the sum
.

Shadra Styles (22:11):
No, because I, because the only reason I say
that's because I know, like um,looking again, going through
Instagrams and posts and andseeing these type of
conversations happen.
You know, i've seen thatconversation too, where you know
um.
You know if you see somethingyou want, go after it.
You know, being a woman, goafter it.
You know you blocking yourblessing If you're not um, but

(22:32):
for me, again, i don't.
I don't think she's blockingher blessing.

Styles (22:38):
Okay.

Shadra Styles (22:39):
So if you're not going to be again and you can
call me a traditionalist and allthat, that's fine.
I'm fine with that, Um, becauseI just feel like I mean, if a
man, if you're in a relationship, and if a man has not proposed
to you, I just feel like maybeyou're just not the one, yeah,
but you don't know the dynamic,i don't know.

Styles (22:57):
I know the relationship And that's true, and we can't
say that No no, no, and that'sfine, that's true.

Shadra Styles (23:04):
But yeah, for me, again, just my thoughts,
because again you're, you'reasking, you know, about how I
think about it or what I thinkabout it.
Um, yeah, mm-mm.
So I just feel like I mean, ifhe's not proposing to you, maybe
you're not the one.
So I don't see your blessingsbeing blocked because he's not
the one.

Styles (23:23):
Anyway, So had I not approached you in the way that I
approached you and I and youknow there's a story behind that
too, ladies and gentlemen, I'mjust not going to get into it
right now.
I hate the backstory and I'mhorrible at it.
However, had I not approachedyou and I met my wife online had
I not approached you Actually,you know what?
What?
Hold on, hold on, hold onBecause, as memory serves me,

(23:47):
you, kind of lightweight,approached me.

Shadra Styles (23:50):
I did not.

Styles (23:50):
Yes, you did.
No, I didn't.

Shadra Styles (23:51):
You're a liar, Because you were the one You
stole the entertainment.
See I had to clean that up,here we go I didn't want to get.

Sound Bite (23:58):
Who was liking whose pictures That's not me
approaching you, though I meanthat's not All right so let me
put it out there So what youwent, so what you saying That is
, if a person comes through,your great.

Styles (24:11):
If a person comes through, starts liking your
pictures, that's a form of NoOkay.

Shadra Styles (24:18):
Okay, so let's just give a little backstory,
because okay.
so someone I'm not going tomention any names- that was like
in my pictures And so I did.
I was like oh so is this howyou flirt, or something like
that.

Styles (24:34):
So you reached out.

Shadra Styles (24:35):
I did reach out.

Styles (24:35):
Amen.
So, ladies and gentlemen, justso you know, has won for styles
and zero for sguide.
Wow, really.

Shadra Styles (24:44):
You can, but You just said it.
I did reach, but no, youreached out first because he was
liking my pictures.
Okay, so I'll.

Styles (24:54):
Sellers, beware, i was just That.
Double tap is the double tap ofdeaf And you will get a story.
We'll definitely get twisted.
Go ahead.

Shadra Styles (25:03):
That's.
That's basically how I don'tyou know what.

Styles (25:05):
I'm going to go back, because It's not even a form of
communication.
So what do you mean?

Shadra Styles (25:09):
Listen, but we had already been.

Styles (25:12):
No, no, no, no that was not at all Yeah.

Shadra Styles (25:15):
So yeah, so I reached out and so I was like oh
, is this how you, is this howyou flirt?
Is what I had And you were likesomething about yeah, this, i'm
flirting, or something likethat.
And then we just startedtalking from here.

Styles (25:26):
I mean, I got poetic after that but And that was it.
Yeah, but you, you I guess thatwas like the You weren't thirst
trapping.
I want to be clear on that,Because you definitely had on
turtle next, turtle next andmakeup.
Her face is beat.
Who knew what that body in for?

Sound Bite (25:46):
Wow.

Styles (25:47):
But, um, so you weren't thirst trapping, i wouldn't like
pictures.
So is that your thing?
That was your thing Like priorto me, and somebody likes your
pictures and you reach out tothem and that's the that opens
the door for you.
No, okay, because I mean okay,i'm just going to move, walk
about it at.
So you do go for what you want.

Shadra Styles (26:10):
I'm a whole walking contradiction.

Styles (26:12):
Clearly saying it No, definitely not.

Shadra Styles (26:14):
No, she was like I'm not going to block my
blessings, god damn it.

Styles (26:19):
That nigga double tap, and I'm here for it.

Shadra Styles (26:23):
Hey, that is not what you see, that is not what
happened.

Styles (26:31):
And I was like yes, ma'am, How you doing Um.
anyway, yeah, All right.

Shadra Styles (26:40):
Um, but had you not liked my pictures, right?
No, i wouldn't have neverprobably said anything to you,
though.

Styles (26:47):
Okay, i mean, but all right.
So let's also be clear, becauseyou got me out here sounding
like a simp, i wasn't.
I didn't go through like 10, 15pictures, it was like three.

Shadra Styles (26:56):
No, it was a few.
No, I'm going to tell you why.

Styles (27:00):
So, boom, what I did was you did homework after I double
tapped a couple of pictures andthen I was also out in Houston
and that was your segue and whatyou're waiting Like.
Oh, he was down here sayingbecause I had posted some
pictures.

Shadra Styles (27:14):
Yeah, you had a bunch of people making comments
and I was just another personmaking a comment.
That was it.

Styles (27:20):
That's a fact.
Yeah, that's a fact.
All right, maybe you got out ofthat one, yeah, move on What's
your perception of women that domake their first move?
Um like is it something?
you sit on the sideline likedamn.
I wish I could do that, yeah,probably.
Yeah.

Shadra Styles (27:34):
I would say I mean, i definitely think it's
all about.
You know, i'm definitely forwomen empowerment and just women
doing that thing, and so I meanfor a woman to be able to do
that and have the confidence todo that, definitely Like I would
never take that away from awoman or be like, oh my God, why
would she do that?
Or, you know, think anydifferent or less for a woman

(27:56):
that does that?
because no, that's.
If a woman has the confidenceto do something like that, go
for it, girl.

Styles (28:03):
See the thing, the head scratcher for me is this like
I've definitely been approachedand picked up for sure, right,
and that's not an ego thing,that's just a real thing.
But I guess it will put me in aheadspace like the initial
shock of it all.
Like I like aggressive women.
I don't like aggressive women.
You get what?
I'm saying Like is this, isthis the height of your

(28:24):
aggression Cause?

Sound Bite (28:25):
I can't take anything else beyond that?

Styles (28:27):
Yeah, You know we're not going to be slap boxing in the
middle of the street because weplay fighting.
We're not doing none of that.
So like is that?
is this the height of it?
You know I don't need youpulling out my chair when I'm
sitting down and she's like that, opening up your door.
All right, stop, cause we knowwe're going with that.

Shadra Styles (28:42):
I'm just so glad.
Yeah, we're going to leave it,leave it alone.

Styles (28:45):
Let it die I know, you say Oh no, in New York, there's
just no time to open up to somuch.

Sound Bite (28:52):
It's 20 minutes.
It's 20 minutes.
Listen, you gotta get in yourcar, i'm a handle.

Styles (28:57):
You gotta make time One of us don't make it, somebody
got us.
You gotta make time.

Shadra Styles (29:06):
I'm going to need you to open up my car door.
I'm going to need you to openup the door.
Remember that time we went on adate and you you didn't even
open up the car door for me Andyou went ahead and walked around
to the driver I'm standingthere, like I know his nigga did
that See, that's the differencebetween being southern and

(29:29):
somebody on the East Coast.

Styles (29:32):
We just offended an entire coast.

Shadra Styles (29:36):
Because y'all do, y'all be moving fast here in.
New.

Styles (29:39):
York, like y'all ain't got time You just explained it.
There's too much shit going onoutside.

Shadra Styles (29:43):
I'm gonna need you to make some time for that,
all right.

Styles (29:45):
We gotta get in the car half the time, which means you
handle your car door and I'llhandle mine.

Shadra Styles (29:51):
I understand that That's cool.

Styles (29:53):
And then when you, you can hop in first, and I'll keep
my head on the swivel, and thenvice versa.

Shadra Styles (29:57):
Yeah, that's cool , but now I'm gonna need you up
into my car door.
I got you.

Styles (30:01):
I mean, it was a lesson learned the other night, so I
open all the doors, didn't I?
Yeah, you do.

Shadra Styles (30:06):
I did, you did.
Okay, cool, because in thebeginning I had to train him
y'all.
He wouldn't do it.
I did.

Styles (30:12):
My name is fucking Rova.
What the fuck Do I bark too.

Shadra Styles (30:23):
Oh man, all right Moving on.

Styles (30:29):
The way I look at it is this Women that don't approach
men, mm-hmm A.
They follow one tradition right.
Which I think is silly, andthen B.

Shadra Styles (30:41):
So she couldn't just be shy?

Styles (30:43):
I'm getting there.
Okay, go ahead.
That's why I professed it withA.
This is B, so B.
I don't know if you have a realB or not, i do.
Okay, good, it's ego driven.
Okay, yeah, it's ego driven, idon't know.
Woman likes rejection.
See, dudes, we hate rejectiontoo, but it's kind of like we've

(31:03):
dealt with it for so long, weknow what it feels like.
It's not unexpected.
So when we walk into thesituation, we already know the
potential of the hurt and painthat we could be in when we have
to walk away from the situation.
Hence, you know that lonelywalk away, like that, lonely
walk after you know I do theapproach.

Shadra Styles (31:23):
We had to turn around and walk back and go back
to your seat.
Holloway across the room.

Styles (31:28):
Exactly, put your head down.
Yeah, exactly Exactly.
And shit Fuck it If I approachyou.
It better be a group, this wayyou know you can say you're big,
which one you want?

Shadra Styles (31:41):
Somebody gonna get it, somebody gonna get it,
somebody gonna laugh at it itdraws Cause I'm gonna be a whole
fucking comedian.

Styles (31:50):
You might say no and she might be like but he's funny.

Shadra Styles (31:53):
Yeah, she gonna be like okay, girl, i'll be
right back, exactly.

Styles (31:59):
And then you know, leo's are one of the most frowned
upon signs in the astrology, forsome fucking strange reason.

Shadra Styles (32:06):
But you know, and then you'll get, yeah, you get
that group, that's like Youthink it's because of the mouth.
Like being sarcastic.

Styles (32:13):
It's because of the shit I don't think Oh, i think it's
the.

Shadra Styles (32:17):
is it the ego?

Styles (32:20):
It's not the arrogance either, you sure No, it's our
low tolerance for bullshit Andcertain and unfortunately,
people like to hear themselvesspeak.
They're not always saying shitthat makes sense or matters.
We're the ones to tell you that.
Okay.
I mean it's not even.
I mean you have to, you know,in a clever manner, to tell
people that they're stupidwithout saying you're stupid,

(32:41):
you know.
So what I do is I just havepeople who plead to shit back to
themselves slow.

Shadra Styles (32:46):
Be like maybe they'll catch on to it.
Yeah, yeah, exactly, Exactly.
And then?

Styles (32:50):
most times it's funny Like we both end up laughing.
But anyway, get back to thegroup of women And it's just
kind of like one of them isbound to like Elio, right, Wow
So it's four Exactly.

Shadra Styles (33:01):
No, no, think about it.
Think about it.

Styles (33:03):
So it was four, i'm thinking 3.5 are not going to
like Elio right.
But, I have a 0.5 chance ofactually overcoming that
objection right Cause there'llbe one.

Sound Bite (33:14):
That's that funny math.

Styles (33:15):
Exactly, there you go, there you go.
Cause three will be definitelyno.
Then there'll be one of beinglike no, yes, maybe, and I'm
like all right cool, so no, yes,let's make it happen, that's
all I need.
Kick that door wide open, stopplaying.
She's coming with me Now.
Fuck out of here.
Anyway, all right, but Idefinitely think it's an ego
trip And I don't think thatwomen know how to deal with

(33:39):
objection, right, which is whyyou don't hear a lot about how
women are like shooting a shotand shit like that.
And then on the other side ofthat, some dudes be like yo.
They're intimidated by womenthat shoot their shots Cause
they be on a Kevin Hart.
I'm with the man you know whatI mean.
That type of shit.
And if a dude is out and aboutwhatever he could be out and

(34:01):
about in between jobs, thanks.
And then if you approach him,that ain't gonna be like wait a
minute And you could beeverything that he wants and
needs in that moment Right, buthe's not really.

Shadra Styles (34:12):
Yeah, but and too , like you said, and I think,
like you said, nowadays, well,in the time that we're in now, i
do think a lot more women doshoot their shots.
Now, you know, slipping inpeople, dms and that whole thing
.
So, but like I said, I mean, idon't know, i just you know to
eat your song, you know, and,like I said, i would never put a

(34:35):
woman down.
but hey, if you, if you want toshoot, your shot go for it.

Styles (34:38):
Shoot your shot.

Shadra Styles (34:39):
Shoot your shot.

Styles (34:40):
I'm here for it.
I mean, I'm not here for it.

Shadra Styles (34:42):
If you see something you like, go get it.
Girl, exactly That's what I'mtalking about.

Styles (34:46):
Do it, don't be afraid of the whole Walker shame and
all that other.
I don't think women actually gothrough the whole Walker shame
thing, though, like the women'sWalker shame is basically waking
up at a dude's house that liveswith seven other people And you
know, you in the back room andit's 10 o'clock in the morning.
They all sitting at the table.

Shadra Styles (35:07):
And you got to walk with tiptoeing athletes.
Exactly You know where thisbitch come from.
With your weed cock to the side, you're fucking lashes hanging
off.
Hey, don't talk about that.

Styles (35:18):
I'm just saying All them sisters look like Chinese fans
and shit.

Shadra Styles (35:25):
Who?
all that is grandma that isdoing the Walker shame.
Okay, let me stop.

Styles (35:29):
But think about it like this though Like yo for real,
like real shit You.
The Walker shame in the morningis crazy, right Cause I've done
the Walker shame.
I've done it at a college dormactually, which was fucking
weird, but anyway for a womanthough, like if you do it and
it's kind of like.
Cause you know, everybody knows.

(35:51):
Yeah, cause you not taking ashower.
That's unfamiliar, yeah.

Shadra Styles (35:55):
You get up and you get nothing but laughter 30
feet away.

Styles (35:59):
You like nah, and they're not talking about you,
cause they don't even know thatyou're there yet.

Shadra Styles (36:03):
Right, but it's like a whole.
You got to go through that.

Styles (36:06):
Yeah, when you walk about that though, like a whole
family bar if you happen inoutside right now And you don't
even know this dude So you knowit's last night, you're not
hopping in the shower So as youwalk by, and especially me, i
mean.
But we might do a little burpAnd sink Just a little song.
I mean, i hope so, but it isstill.
is just like you know thatillus side up.

Shadra Styles (36:28):
We know what you did, yeah.
So when you walking out, craig,you ever did the walkshade.
It wasn't really the Walkershame, why, well, all?

Styles (36:38):
right.
So the Walker shame consists oftwo or more people.
One person you could, you couldgive a fuck Like you can blow
it past that person, never thinktwice.
But if it's two people, causenow you know those two people
actually having a conversation.

Shadra Styles (36:51):
But see, like I said, it wasn't really like the
Walker shame.
No, it was.
It was.
I don't even want to talk aboutit, nevermind.

Styles (36:58):
We want to know who won as I sip my wine.
Matter of fact, who won?
Let me pour up.

Shadra Styles (37:04):
Wait a minute And it was definitely back in the
day, like back, oh no, no, no,no time ago.
But it wasn't so much, like Isaid, the Walker shame, it was
more, you know, like otherpeople was in the room, kind of
situation.

Styles (37:19):
Wait a minute.

Shadra Styles (37:19):
No wait.

Styles (37:20):
Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
That's not a.
there's nothing shameful aboutthat If everybody signed a
consent form.

Shadra Styles (37:26):
Well, it okay, but it wasn't that type of party
though It was.
Just other people was in theroom and then, like you know,
Things started happening.
Well, i was already like in thebead and other people Wait, so
they wait time out?

Styles (37:39):
Did they come in after you were in the bed?

Shadra Styles (37:42):
It was, you know what.
I think it was more like asweet like it was.

Sound Bite (37:45):
Can you stop trying to clean this shit up in this
painting picture?
No, okay, that's what it was.

Shadra Styles (37:49):
I think it was more than people was already in
there, but or maybe they didcome in after the fact.
You know, like it's been yearsI've slept since then.
I don't remember it all, butyeah, no, it was definitely.
I think some people had came inafter the fact or something
like that Of me being in the bedand done, but they ended up
leaving, so like.

Styles (38:10):
I said did they even know?
Did they know, Or were youpretending to be asleep?

Shadra Styles (38:14):
No, it was like the act was already over and
done with.
You know, are you just like inthe bed, you know, with your
person?

Styles (38:20):
Yeah, marinating, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Shadra Styles (38:22):
And then the people came in the room and kind
of like did some walked aroundda, da, da, whatever they had
forgot?
Oh, they did what they wasdoing And then well, it wasn't
sexual or nothing like that.
They just like come in there,like like they forgot something,
i don't know what it was, andthen they walked back out.
So I technically didn't have todo like a walk of shame,
because they were already outthe room, like when I had got up
to leave.

Styles (38:42):
Right.

Shadra Styles (38:43):
But they was in there, like when I you know was
in the bed and stuff like that.

Styles (38:48):
All right, we gonna never mind all that bullshit
Cause I had no idea, but itwasn't, that's what I'm saying.

Shadra Styles (38:53):
It wasn't a walk of shame, though.

Styles (38:54):
No, it definitely wasn't , it wasn't, so you shouldn't
even mention this, okay.

Sound Bite (38:58):
We're gonna cut that out.

Shadra Styles (38:59):
Yeah, I pretend like y'all didn't hear that.

Styles (39:01):
Yeah, how about that You want the last two minutes of
your life back.
All right.
So to wrap this up, though, ithink that and then, oh, there
was a response from Blueface aswell to this, and it's kind of
late with me throwing this inthere, maybe because I really
didn't want to read it, and Ithink that still is a fucking
idiot.
Anyway, okay, respectfully.
So he said the Bible says menshould never chase women.

(39:23):
You know how I?

Shadra Styles (39:24):
feel about that.
I ain't never seen that in theBible, but okay, so I'm moving
on to the next.

Styles (39:28):
Yeah, i don't think this nigga even knows how to read,
but you need to hear it or thereWe gonna let that ride.
My thing is this the women thatdon't go for theirs, so to
speak, those are the women thatjust think they're entirely too
pretty for it to happen.
You know, i have to disagree,but okay, No, no, no, no.
some of them.
I'm not saying all of thembecause I haven't met all the

(39:49):
women on the planet, But I thinkthat when I was younger, it was
my ass cremation.

Shadra Styles (39:54):
Okay, I better say I know you.
That was the goal.
That was the goal, Hey you no,hey ma.

Sound Bite (40:02):
How are you?

Styles (40:03):
Don't niggas want to buy you See me, i want to fuck for
free, anyway.
So those are the, those types,the pretty types, the eagle
thing, because they don't wantto get let down.
What have you?
I think I enjoy the type whereit is the pretty woman doing,
approaching, and if you ain'twith it, you ain't with it.

Shadra Styles (40:21):
They understand their value when they walk away,
I think that shit is fire,right, right, so well I was, you
know, like I said, as far aseven with the women, well, with
the men, as far as like, evenrejection, you know, like if a
woman isn't, um, you know, likeif a man trying to shoot a shot,
a woman, you know, is like,well, no, I'm good, or whatever.
Like you know, a man has to begood too with the rejection of

(40:45):
that, you know, becausesometimes men would be like,
yeah, niggas don't handle itwell.
Not at all Throwing bottles,bitch, you was ugly anyway.

Styles (40:53):
Which is retort like this, i don't even want to get
in there.

Shadra Styles (40:57):
So yeah, but yeah , just be respectful, of course,
But again, like I said, for thewomen I mean the women that do
it more power to you.
I wish I had.
I wish I had that muchconfidence to do it.

Styles (41:09):
You don't need it.

Shadra Styles (41:10):
I mean I'm saying back in the day, back before
the I do's, and all that, ThankGod you.

Styles (41:16):
you didn't have the confidence because you might
have found a different type ofblessing.

Shadra Styles (41:19):
I would have missed that on my blessing.
Well, I don't know.

Styles (41:22):
Well, this is a blessing , specifically, but there might
have been another blessing outthere for you.
It's definitely ego driven andall this other thing, and not to
repeat myself, because I'mdrinking this wine and you'll
probably be driving or doingwhatever y'all doing like nigga
when you get on with it.
All right, cool, so I'm gonnaget on with it And you got any
closing words.

Shadra Styles (41:38):
No, you could Go ahead.

Styles (41:39):
I'm gonna get that.
You know you wish that womenwould do.

Shadra Styles (41:43):
No.
Bay night, sexy nights and goodfood.

Styles (41:48):
So this is the part of the show that every one of my
guests have managed to fuck upin the 10 episodes that I've
actually recorded.
Not everyone, not every one ofthem.
Actually, i have some really,really, really good Bay nights.
Shout outs to Danielle.
Shout outs to a couple of theother ones.
I'm, danielle was definitelyone of my favorite ones, but I'm

(42:09):
gonna let you do this.
Why are you looking at me crazy?
You don't look at me crazy.

Shadra Styles (42:13):
What are we doing ?
We're talking about.

Styles (42:14):
Bay night.
Actually we can talk about aday night.
We had the other night, So shetouched down the other night.
We were supposed to do fivedates and five nights, right?
So that turned into a two and apossible.
Here we started playing spadeswith it.
That's what we do.
But yeah, two and a possible,that's funny.
That's funny, all right.
So she touched down What we dothe first night We um oh, we

(42:38):
just ordered food ordered foodwatch movies watch movies, did
some adult things.

Shadra Styles (42:44):
We'll try to watch movies with somebody who
went to sleep, but go ahead.

Styles (42:47):
Yeah, I don't even understand why you keep telling
my business like that.
Come on.
Okay, so we watch movies, atesome food, blah blah blah.
That was cool because you knowwe did the whole catch up thing.
Right.
So the following night we wentto this spot called free bird

(43:08):
Okay, So free bird.
The aesthetic was fire.

Shadra Styles (43:11):
Nice Right, that's what you agree.
Yeah, all right Cool.

Styles (43:17):
So, uh, what do you want to?

Shadra Styles (43:20):
Um the chicken and waffles.

Styles (43:21):
Chicken and waffles.
We don't collect it RightChicken and bricks.

Shadra Styles (43:25):
I'm always trying to, um, you know, find a good
chicken and waffles or shrimpand creases.
Um, whenever it's on the menu,i'm like, okay, let me see how
good you know, but right, It was, it was a oh, okay.

Styles (43:37):
Let's tell them what I ordered.

Shadra Styles (43:40):
Oh, what you ordered.

Styles (43:42):
She's getting a relationship to become a fucking
bully.
Oh yeah, i won't approach you,but I definitely hit you with
this elbow after I get to knowyou.
So I have a salmon and, uh, itwas salad and a salad.
It came with a salad.
Now, white people I don'tunderstand the pomegranates.

(44:02):
No, definitely white people,because black people don't do
this shit, so I don't like.
When I was younger, we get thepomegranate or whatever, and we
used to call them Chinese applesback in the day That's what
they were called.
And when I grew up, they turnedinto pomegranate all of a sudden
, and I even realized they wereChinese apples.

Shadra Styles (44:18):
I'm pretty sure they was pomegranates back then.
No, they weren't, it might havebeen.
No, they weren't It might stopit.

Sound Bite (44:23):
It might have been an age.
I feel like I found it.
I feel like.

Styles (44:27):
I found it.
I feel like I found out thatthey were fucking Chinese apples
in this moment.

Shadra Styles (44:32):
I'm sure there was pomegranates Like can you?

Styles (44:35):
Google.

Shadra Styles (44:36):
Chinese apples?

Styles (44:38):
I'm sure it's not going to put a picture of a
pomegranate.
Listen, I probably couldn'tpronounce it when I was younger.

Shadra Styles (44:43):
So you just made up the word.

Styles (44:45):
There weren't any whole foods when I was coming up, so
basically it was Chinese fuckingapples, okay.

Shadra Styles (44:50):
Where you get that from.
You know what I'm a GoogleChinese apples.

Styles (44:53):
Chinese fucking apples.
Okay, so did the whole thingNow with the pomegranate, right,
I didn't know what When I wasyounger.
You know we bite into it and itspit the seed out.
So you get the juice, whatever,whatever, and spit the seed out
, But apparently you're supposedto eat the seed too.
Pause.

Sound Bite (45:15):
Right.

Styles (45:15):
So I'm sitting here and I'm like so they brought out
this whole plate, or whatever.
The salmon was phenomenal,phenomenal, but that salad was
definitely straight out thebackyard from the dirt, it was
fresh, yeah For a while I wasstill on it.

Shadra Styles (45:38):
It was so fresh.

Styles (45:40):
They washed it Little false and water Sprinkle some
pomegranate on it.
It was a lot.
It was spinach, it was spinachYou know they lightly bathed it
in some type of I don't know,some bland ass something.

(46:02):
It was like a vinegar orsomething.
It wasn't, though.
It had potential to be vinegar,but it just didn't turn out
like that.

Shadra Styles (46:11):
Interesting.

Styles (46:12):
Yeah, now you can tell them about your chicken and
bricks.

Shadra Styles (46:18):
Yeah, so the chicken was good.
The chicken was good.
I don't know about the waffles.
The waffles was a little bittoo dry for my taste.
I mean, i've had waffles whereyou know, like okay, they still
kind of fluffy on the inside,but yeah, those waffles was
pretty crumbly and hard.
So I'm not sure.
But yeah, but the chicken waspretty good though.

Styles (46:41):
Yeah, but I was offended at the fact that you sat there
and said that the shit was nasty.
Right, not nasty.
You know I'm paraphrasing.
I know you're a little bit moreelegant than I, but then you
hit me with it.
You want to try this and I waslike what the fuck?
what I?

Shadra Styles (46:54):
want to try.
I want you to experience whatI'm experiencing.

Styles (46:56):
That's why listen that shit.
That shit dissolved in my nameand dissolved in my mouth, but
it was, it was.
It wasn't what it should havebeen.
That was, that was a problem.

Shadra Styles (47:09):
It wasn't what it should have been and then they
were kind of they weren't evenwarm.
Well, the chicken was more hotand yeah, i know.
So I basically gave it what Igive a seven out of ten.

Styles (47:20):
Yeah so we got about it there.

Shadra Styles (47:24):
Yeah, talk about the, the fries, oh the fries
were crazy.

Styles (47:28):
Yeah, we had the pork, pork And it was sweet potato
fries.

Shadra Styles (47:33):
They were sweet potato fries.

Styles (47:36):
And those were phenomenal.

Shadra Styles (47:39):
Yeah, they were pretty good.

Styles (47:41):
I want to go back right now for those.
I don't like just to take out.
No no, fuck it.
So, alright, so on top of that,because you said so, so we got
about it in.
And Also, they had some livemusic that started to play
towards you know the end of thenight and stuff like that, you
know so yeah, that was prettycool.

(48:02):
And then we we had, we hadreservations for the rooftop,
but um, mother nature decided toplay games again and forget
that she must be on.

Shadra Styles (48:22):
Yeah, so that was .
Um, it was like the ambiance inthere was really nice Food,
like I said, probably if I hadordered something else, but oh,
and the service service was dope.
Oh, the service is really goodservice was dope.

Styles (48:35):
You can't go wrong with that.

Shadra Styles (48:37):
And the drinks we did have.

Styles (48:39):
Drinks We had drinks at a hen is a fire Hennessy, which
consisted of a bunch of shitthat I'm not gonna name right
now because I can't remember.
However, it was supposed to besmoky and Although there was
minimal smoke when he actuallypoured it.

Shadra Styles (48:53):
Flavor was there.
It definitely was smoky forsure.

Styles (48:56):
Mm-hmm, what'd you?

Shadra Styles (48:56):
drink.
I had the picking a peach,something to that.
That's what it was called onthe menu.
Yeah, um, it was really good.
Nice Refreshing drink.
Um, yeah, it was good.
But yeah, like I said, idefinitely give The food,
definitely seven out of ten.

(49:17):
Service was a ten out of ten, iguess service was a ten out of
ten.

Styles (49:21):
For sure I'm beyond.

Shadra Styles (49:22):
So ten out of ten for sure.

Styles (49:25):
So what we did was we got about it in, took a couple
of selfies on the way out,looking crazy Because you know
we old and shit, you know allthe millennials speak for
yourself, listen, yeah, okay.
All right.
So this is a thing, but you allthe beautiful.

Shadra Styles (49:38):
Okay, but you're older, so it doesn't matter.

Styles (49:40):
I'm married, i want to get my one.
I won.
It's like I don't even need tobe out here like, see, think
it's to be out here.
Like Looking like a fucking wetbag of socks and Unattached to
anything, talking about I'mnever gonna get married.
I'm gonna.
I'm gonna be by myself the restof my life.
Listen, across the finish line.
I'm good, all right, and I'mnot too shabby, so Thank you, I

(50:06):
appreciate you.
Well, i hope so.
So we got up out of there.
When we left, i actually wasstill hungry, be oh, they put it
on, didn't?
they put it on a better plan,like not that, it was a puddle
of polenta the salmon.

Shadra Styles (50:25):
Um, I didn't see it on anything.

Styles (50:27):
Okay, Well, Oh was it was.
No, I wasn't.

Shadra Styles (50:31):
It looked like plate but it wasn't real quick.

Styles (50:33):
Talk about it.

Shadra Styles (50:35):
Chinese apples.
I looked it up palm granates,also called Chinese apples.
All right, yo, i'm out.
All right, cool Yeah.

Styles (50:54):
All right, so we just muted her mic, ladies gentlemen,
it was an act of God and I'mGod sitting here at this fucking
uh board.
So here we go.
We got up out of there becauseI know you guys are waiting here
.
What?
what happened next?
We, we got up out of there.

Shadra Styles (51:11):
Can you swear my mic?
I'm not turning shit on.

Styles (51:13):
We got up out of there and, um, i'm like yo, i'm still
hungry, though Luckily enough,cheesecake factory was around
the corner.
So we decided to go around thecorner to you know, cheesecake
factory.
Unbeknownst to me, that karma,that bitch was hitchhiking in my
back seat.
Because we got there, got out,we ordered some food.

(51:36):
Remember, i said I was hungry,we ordered some food, went
straight to the bar Give me somefood.
So We get the fried wontons,right, fried wontons, i think,
like 13 dollars.

Shadra Styles (51:50):
So we're in friday with potstick potstick is
whatever.

Styles (51:55):
No more wine for you and i'm fucking muting you like so
over here talking hella, shit,they were, they were potstickers
.
Well, you got the flatbreadright, you got the flatbread.
That everything.
Flat, flatbread, fatbread,that's funny.
Um, you got the everythingflatbread.

Shadra Styles (52:13):
No more wine for you either.

Styles (52:15):
Uh, yes, I got the flatbread.
So we got four minutes to getthrough this.
I just need four minutes Relax.
This is what happens when youcome back after a year and a
half.
Um, okay, she had that.
So your man brings out theplates and shit like that.

(52:35):
Remember I said this shit was13 bucks, right.
And this this, uh, what is it?
Let me move this glass this?
um, cheesecake factory isattached to Whole Foods.
Your man comes out with thepotstickers.
There are five of them, fivebaby potstickers.
I'm like, oh, this must be like.
They must be gold inside thesemotherfuckers for 13 dollars,

(52:57):
right.
So I started doing my fuckingfunny math.
I'm like, but you can go rightnext door To Whole Foods, like
if they get the frozen bag fromnext door because clearly you
got it from next door.
The motherfuckers was definitelynot chef, any shit's up in the
back.

Shadra Styles (53:10):
They were not making them from scratch At all.

Styles (53:13):
Right, it's like 30 in a bag, right.
Five and 50, 20, 30, that'sfive batches and 13 dollars.
26, 50, 40 Yo son, you makingabout 70, 80 dollars over each
bag of five.

Shadra Styles (53:29):
Look, times are hard.
We got to ration out everythingat this point and this one
sitting here talking about tooslow.

Styles (53:37):
I don't want you slow.
Anyway I was.
I wasn't happy about that.

Shadra Styles (53:43):
Um, The drink Was uh, I had a lemon drop.

Styles (53:49):
You did What did.

Shadra Styles (53:50):
I have something frozen.

Styles (53:52):
It was worldly?
I don't know I don't frozendrinks throw me because it
always seemed like there's notenough alcohol in frozen drinks
at all.
I don't care what you do,except when we went to jamaican
We had to buy a molly, like welived off of them.
Sheds right, but um, yeah, nowback in the stage.
I'll play too much.
Anyway um, we dropped anotherway 120 dollars there for that.

Shadra Styles (54:18):
Oh yeah, you definitely need to hear
mootadallas because Thecheesecake.
Yeah, I don't know about that.
Yeah, it was crazy that oneworth it.

Styles (54:29):
No, it wasn't even there for like 45 minutes and then we
they validated the ticket, theparking ticket.

Shadra Styles (54:34):
Then we get out to the park and I still had to
pay the three dollars.

Styles (54:38):
So yeah, that bitch calm was sitting in my back seat
laughing her ass off.
Um, um, yeah.
So that's about it for baynight this week.
Next week, hopefully we dosomething better for y'all,
hopefully dessert.

Segment Break (54:52):
I hope you guys enjoyed your meal.
Can I get you something off ofour dessert menu?

Styles (54:58):
All right.
so you know what We didn't talkabout, either of the thing We
just talked about your instagramhandles, you know, tell them a
little something, make it quick,because you only got two
minutes, all right.

Shadra Styles (55:08):
So real quick, yeah.
So my instagram handles ishiding hills, um, and also
flights, fashion and food, flags, fashion, fashion and food Is
basically gonna be, or it'sstill growing, but basically
just um, all things flights,taking trips, you know, food,
anything food related and, ofcourse, fashion style over there

(55:31):
.
Um, hiding hills was basicallymy um, um Modeling page.
I guess you can say, um, but uh, i will be, you know, creating
a youtube channel as well, uh,which is gonna basically
incorporate a lot of the flights, fashion and food and lifestyle
.
So, um, once I get that created, i'll let you know and uh, yeah

(55:56):
, I tell people they can findyou heights And heels on
instagram, or flights, fashionand food on instagram.
Yeah, that's it.

Styles (56:09):
All right, so this was fun.
We won't make this a habit.

Shadra Styles (56:12):
I enjoyed you.

Styles (56:13):
Uh, you better Um.

Shadra Styles (56:18):
I hope you have that Always.
It's your wine, but okay.

Styles (56:21):
You really spilled that whole fucking bottle.
I do, i mean it was a glass.
It feels like a bottle nowbecause the bottle's finished,
All right anyway.
Um people, thank you forjoining us at the bunch out
podcast.
If you have any questions,comments.
Well, you know all that othershit.

(56:41):
Anyways, in my fucking outro Ithink it's an outro, we're about
to find out It's that timeagain and since we really don't
know how to say goodbye, i'm notgonna say goodbye, but listen
what I will ask, part.
I'm not even asking.
If you liked it, please don'tforget to like, comment,
subscribe and shit.
Um, and that's homework.
Also, there is no.

(57:03):
Also, we'll catch you next week.
We'll save a seat at the tablefor you.

Sound Bite (57:08):
Stain alive.
Thank you.