35. The Inner Kid, Part 1 - Feat. Kandi, Tahoe, Chris, and Kent Jones

Season 3 of The Business of Pleasure keeps the energy high and the conversations raw. In PART 1 of this episode, Your Sexologist Bestie @yoursexologistbestie is joined by @kandi, @tahoe_tv, @big_black_supervillain (the other half of The Soft & The Strong), and Grammy-nominated artist @kentjonesofficial. We open with Kandi sharing a saving grace tip using Bedroom Kandi’s Nourish Whipped Body Butter before she dips out — then the conversation takes off. From Kent’s rise in the music industry to his bold transparency about his foot fetish (something he’s spoken about on The Breakfast Club and Angela Yee’s Lip Service), we dive into how pleasure, kinks, and lifestyle intersect with growth. Kent reflects on how even the things that once defined his joy — like his love of feet — have evolved, pushing him to explore new spaces, like submission and kink dynamics. Chris opens up about aftercare in their relationship, and the guys expand the conversation into something deeper: the little boy and teenage self that still live inside us, and the need to make room for those parts of ourselves in adulthood. This episode is an emotional and sensual roller coaster — touching on everything from sexual exploration to emotional transparency, and how true intimacy means caring for the whole person, inside and out.