January 20, 2024 • 100 mins
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That's how you do the damnthing. Alicia man how you doing?
I'm having good. I've been good.
You've been good. Don't look atyourself in the monitor. And I
know this is your first time.
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This is your first time back inwhat you've been gone for. Oh, I
want to say a year. A year bythe year. How does it feel to be
back? Feels great. I'm reallyoff favoring Oh no, I
don't really alrightfirst of all
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the CO hosts and the cliquesthey claim
I've never said that. I never.
I just say I know. I'm yourfavorite. You know what I gotta
say though, you are consistent.
You are one of the mostconsistent people who we've had
on the show. Who comes in do thedamn thing. And then just get
ghost on it. Oh, I think anybodyget ghost is definitely it's
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definitely life happens. LifeLife be happiness sometimes. I
don't want to call capsulebreeze How you doing? Good to
see you again. YouTuber, man.
That's always good to seebreezes breezes in the building.
Man. I know last year we talkedabout you starting your program.
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How's that going for you?
Slow motion slow motion.
Gotta get used to it again. Thenstill Student Okay.
I got it. It's gonna be I cuzyou've been you've been out of
school for what? Standard? 10years. 10 years. Nothing like
riding a bike though? Not ain'tno.
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It's like riding a goat like youwrote about now you're writing
and you decidedyou got to know this. But I got
I got the support system. I gotthe young man. Now Alicia, we
were talking pre show. And youwere you were mentioning some
things that you want to do inyour life. So you were saying
that? You 29 This year, thisyear and you turned you turned
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30 this year? And you you wantto you want to you want to turn
on mommy Jana was now mommyJana. Yeah. Oh, come on. Mommy,
Jana. You know, that wasnot what I had to tell you that.
That has given me moremoney. Y'all know, my dear?
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Yeah, I want to be mommy Jana.
It's about my time. Okay, now,let me ask you started because
you came in with that goal. AndI'm not mad at that. So that's a
great, that's a greataspiration. But I feel like you
disturbed over some steps.
Maybe? Yeah, I mean, you can'tremind me out without somebody.
True. True. But we weren't goingon that we weren't going on it.
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All I'm saying is that right? Isthat find somebody and then you
know, it just you know, get apuppy. You know, some people get
pregnant within like threemonths of a relationship. That's
crazy. That could be me. That'sWow. That's actually crazy.
You don't know but you know thatthat's what people do. And I'm
saying and I can always go backto somebody I do know that's
crazy. That Somethingtranspiring in my life right
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between that person and do yougot like both me just in case I
want to read a book the firsttime make a lady with the hat
it's nothing crazy like thatsomebody that you know it. I've
known for what you're lookingfor what you're looking for one
a guy and I will be back to be30. So anytime I come on
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to me it's different now youdirty to me I don't understand
is different now.
Given daddy on a two, I can't begiven Mommy
and Daddy, can I can I breathe?
Can I just say, one I'm not madat you for having a go. I think
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that's cool. You gottago. It's not a goal, right? But
it's just like something that Iwould want to happen for me. But
I'm not like, actively make likewriting this down the vision
board. Gotcha. Okay, so nothingthat I do want. If it happens to
me, I'd be happy. Gotcha,gotcha. Well, I'm not mad at
that. My wife and I, that's,that's on our on our goals this
year to was. I mean, well,because we were gonna be my goal
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was to be selfish in our 20sbecause you want to do a lot of
things in your 20s that you knowthat because people get to have
kids and 1890 Yeah, and theylike you don't get to live life
until you are, what 30 Plus, andthen that's probably that's,
you know, took them. So that'swhere you can, that's where you
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probably get financially stable,and you can really take care of
kids. Like I always tell people,I was the most blessed out of
all my siblings, because my momhad me when she was 30. They
should figure it out. By thetime I came along, y'all Nichols
was I never lived in anapartment growing up. I'm sorry,
I don't, I don't know that lifesize.
roaches.
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My parents, my parents had ahouse. So but like my sisters,
my brothers that story could bea little bit different because
my mom had my oldest sister whenshe was 18. And my, you know, my
next day or whatever age, soit's like she's 18 and 30 is two
different people. I think likeback in the day, right? People
were having kids youngeranyways, and they had a bunch to
keep a big family. That's whatthat was our goal. I think like
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now, we have a decision to make.
I used to think that today likeI'm gonna be selfish in my 20s
but I work during birthcertificates. And let me tell
you, I see people that probablyshould have waited and they have
their life together and theystill should wait because
physically mentally therethey're not your parents. Oh no,
they're not married. No kids nostop. No Sophia. I know. I know
people that had kids and they20s and shit living outside like
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not even gothere like they they can't be
fresh and whole places and stillI think all depends on your
situation your and yoursignificant other you know I'm
saying that's factual. That'sfactual now speaking today, I
know January is national povertyAwareness Month. I don't even
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know what the fuck that is like.
I don't even know what that'swhy are you aware that you broke
you away you live in?
Yeah, we know. Are you aware ofyour current circumstances and
where you are and your hasn'tgot it? Like I'm about to be
done with a differentholiday? Yeah. Holiday ism.
awareness. Awareness. Oh, youcan make a national holiday what
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would you makethat's a good question. My best
question love thatthat's a that's a great
question. Um national switch dayswitch.
Yeah, a broke person gotta livewith a live a rich person life
and a rich person I live a brokeperson my four day car like it
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bad I do. Lisa you could have ayou could have a national
holiday you better be likesomebody
who got Beyonce Can I just can Iget Beyonce? So Alicia if you
could if you couldif you could make a holiday
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Yeah, you couldwe figured if you could have a
national day what would yournational day be and KB national
switch daywell, gladly well that's what I
was gonna say.
Almost national government givepeople money. They I guess
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that's the switch.
Switch. There's a switch thatmaybe to give out stimulus
checks every day. Once a month,once a month? I can make it a
holiday. Yeah, they need to giveout stimulus checks. That's tax
season.
Some people don't get nothing. Idon't get nothing back in my
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taxes. Are you are youindependent? Oh.
You let one of the people thatstand in the future.
We will be all these girls be onFacebook all day talking.
got a boyfriend scamming andthen oh if y'all need y'all
Texas beach no noso you get my social media the
way that the way I know youain't gonna do my taxes if you
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tell me like listen I'll do yourtaxes and when I do your taxes
if you follow me you get a freecruise or you get some shit for
free if you if you give me freeshit plus and the ones who get
you a I didn't get you inadvance of the $3,000 now before
your taxes even come back rightso now I'm happy
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I know this is happy but HappyNational Poverty Awareness month
the bill that gets passed Ithink you can actually you can
you can pick a day you can makea national month and our
national day and as long as youdo whatever you don't tell
nobody that because I don't wantnobody going out there trying to
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come up with some dumb now wegotta we gotta acknowledge it.
Yeah, as long as you as long asyou do it every month or every
year so the perks that happenthrough if somebody would like
yo like this and the governmenthad the why they did not happen
three years in a row and theywere the case because I already
feel like movies are you knowwarnings I feel like that's
coming anyways for thegovernment the purge you
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wouldn't know what to do. Iwouldn't Yeah, cuz I don't even
know coming to house likethey're coming they might not
come first. The first movie whenthe man had the um, the house
that that locked down you don'thave you don't have one of them
but I'm gonna work on that now.
We can get on that now. That wassmart houses. Yeah, like a
little bunker or whatever. Y'allneed to get on that anyways, I
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need to start getting outbunkers. Oh, you talking about
the movie that that just cameout on Netflix that Obama has
produced the one I was talkingabout. Like on the first
on the first movie, he had likea little like a little hideaway
in his house like he had like alittle armor house or whatever.
But it was a little harder to doin Florida. It is very hard for
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me. Oh, just what? You may hitsome moving to Texas there's
something going on.
In Texas I think everybodymoving to everybody moving to
Austin by Austin Texas. I saw alist of the top the top of the
five richest black cities thatblack people are thriving in and
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Houston was one of them. TheLana was one of them DC
Baltimore and she I don't thinkit was nothing in Florida.
Charlotte it was Charlotte.
I was putting my picks ongambling and I've seen the
quarterbacks Baltimore has fiveblack quarterbacks on a roster
that one white quarterbackcurrently currently they all
look likeI don't know what's going on in
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Baltimore I need to go thereabout I will tell you this we we
traveled to DC me and my wifeand I don't fly to DC because
all the bullshit with the worldand everything gee I forgot his
mother tongue crossed in thecolumn that don't sound like me
I'm a beat man you're going downa take that out there's a second
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part right people hate me hetexts you and be like I think
he's getting great views youdon't think I think a lot of
people'sWell, I will say Man, we used to
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we fly to Baltimore. And it'snot my wife's first flight into
Baltimore. To the airport. Manit's not a big airport. It's a
small airport. But everybody inthe airport is black. Like
everything is black the gateagents the people selling shit
the people at the food placeBLACK BLACK, BLACK, BLACK and
like hat I know we say southernhospitality is a thing but it's
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like it's also a difference upnorth because they can up there
too. It's just a different kindof rude it's just a different
kind of con kind of rude and ifyou get them on the street Yeah,
they definitely really rude ashell because they gotta pay
gotta get they gotta tempo.
fast because I went to Phillyand oh my god, I was moving slow
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and beat me upin the bag. Oh, like why are you
in a rush? Now? Raise your headas you saw my feelings money be
just I was thinking somebody wasgonna pull you by your hair a
breeze. What did you call her?
Her hairstyle? What's on myhairstyle? Buddhist Landers.
arms length. I think that if youdon't get your braids to your
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butt, you're not really gettingYour Hair donation question
always want to be seen girls inthe club Why do you do this when
they haveto get it off the neck and say
oh like it'd be dance Navy likeI don't know why they do that
baby Hi.
Listen they might be doing itright because they probably move
it in the hair if you see if yousee something moving really you
don't really pay attention tothat at that time. So like they
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don't like this try to getas you read looking at it okay,
because I was thinking theywanted to show it to here one
stiff so I was like yeah, maybethat's why so why didn't Why
don't keep doing all these damnhair videos already showing us
that the hearings there?
I just wanted to know what canyou do that booty?
Feel like if you don't have yourbrace to you, but anyway. Yeah,
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like what do you what are wehere? That's interesting. I
mean, I love me a good littlebob braid style. One lesson you
had like just a straight ballone of them. You do this from
the ones that I like the onesthat get longer like short and
then it's like an asymmetricalball a little ball bro. So I'm
gonna go to the rock ball hedropped the ball I hate to say
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it but it's called Bobby Jana.
But I know you you can behonest. Can you getting upset
with my honors but it's about megot to stop making these words
and I suppose the podcasting onthis podcast
now I want to add a Alicia thisbecause I know specifically I
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could talk about this but you'dbe because you're a you're a pre
K PK. MK MK ministers kid. So Iwas on social media a lot last
year but but also this year.
I've been seeing a little bit.
There was a pastor minutes. I'mnot sure what he goes by Bishop
by the name of Michael MikeTodd. You know, are you
familiar?
No, I don'tI don't fool around with such
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negative things. If they'refake, like, I can't, but no, I
haven't heard of him. What doyou what do you mean fake like
that? Is he like a fake pass?
It's like putting on. So okay,so that's what was what I wanted
to ask you. Because so he he is,uh, he's he blew up during the
COVID year because he, he's hischarges, not virtual. They
haven't impersonally do a greatjob with the virtual options.
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And he grew up doing he blew updoing COVID. And even my wife
was watching them like he doesgood stuff. But now I think
that's like, the more popularhe's getting, the more not
intrusive, but he's trying to dothings to like entice people a
little bit more. So it was likethe method that he's preaching
isn't necessarily I don't know,I'm not gonna say that is wrong.
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But it's not. It's not like thetraditional. Here's Matt. He got
he got props on stage, he, he'ssitting there doing things. He's
calling people out about things.
And it's like, a lot of peopleare liking him. But a lot of
people also like, this is a fakeprophet. He's not really a
pastor. He's just a motivationalspeaker, calling himself a
pastor. Oh, I just say I don'tbelieve stuff like that. I would
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believe he don't know Anyway,especially if you got all that
props and stuff. I like good oldschool pastors anyway, so I
don't really give new pastures achance. I like me a good old
soul. So we'll get this get yourblood boiling What about you
breed? What do you think?
I think people gonna besurprised when Judgment Day
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coming out they pass it and sitin here and wait.
Because taking they takeis all is it's all like social
media based now like won't getno I think like you say the old
school pastors. Like I won'tthat Pastor that's why he got
you wrong. He did wrong. Give methe word without without without
all the extra stuff. You don'tneed a social media you'll need
on it. Give me the true word.
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Because I don't like them.
Facebook passed to this day. Wegot to be on Facebook. A lot of
the most popular pastors. TDJakes didn't say he identifies
what you really want to ask meabout like,
what is he doing it? Like? Ijust don't say that's like
saying Jesus was at the devilparty and just like, whoa, whoa,
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I gotta say the Bible does saythat Jesus hung out with sinners
Jesus.
But he also he also saved them.
He also turned their livesaround. So who's to say that as
TD Jakes is at these partiesthat he can live?
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No, I'm just saying. So like, Ithink that that pastors and
bishops and ministers theirpeople too, and we can't
although although in a Catholicchurch, they'll say that they
sit at the foot of God, y'allare they still human? They still
make mistakes and nobodyperfect. But you also like you
also gotta live and we sometimesput put we used to a lot of
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times put bishops and ministersand pastors into certain box of
elitist people that they can'tdo. They can't be they can't say
and it's like no you do you sayyou is why can't he so are you
now are you down with the NewAge Pack?
scores are the old passesbecause I'm sorry I'm I'm I
thought I feel like yeah yougotta life right? But you're
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also not putting yourself into apredicament to where like life
is gonna make you have to showyour true colors like What do
you mean? Like Pete like him atthese P Diddy parties if you're
not saving none of them sinnersyet why are you still there? But
who's to say I can't say forsure for account that TD Jakes
ain't ain't praying for Daddyain't praying for Dion ain't
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praying for these people whohe's around and who he's
socializing with. I can't saythat he is or isn't.
I'll say Dr. Because I know thata TD Jakes have presided Dion's
wedding to Palazzo Sanders backin the day, so that's why I'm
saying that like they gotta bepaying him a pretty penny. Who
TD Jakes? Yeah, I'm sureI'm just saying from when I was
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growing up and TD Jakes was TDJakes is completely different he
was acquired to read and less Ithink though I don't
require direct but you know,money may change you if I give
you a check to come here and dothis.
But transfer the businessanyways. Change is a big old
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business mega it is a businessbut I do think though, like,
like you said, social mediainput amplifies things. So he
could have always been doingthis and it just wasn't you can
get on social media and and seeand see it happening. You
probably couldn't get on socialmedia and see him sitting there
did his party, you probablycould have read about it for
somebody who was there but youwouldn't have saw it with your
own eyes. So it makes thingsdifferent, but I'm not going to
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hold my bishopin a different standard than I
would someone else like no mybishop shouldn't be on Instagram
last on my last go bust nowthat's out of what these videos
on hold. No. But if my bishopgot caught on camera cursing, I
bet he was a real person becauseshe and I could have sued I
probably cost more than mybishop do. But if you're a piss
Bishop off Bishop and cutBishop, I don't know if my
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ambition is singleBishop I hear called Bishop with
one of these families loose,loose flew this.
But he can't preach about it.
Like he came preaching aboutlike, you know, saving yourself
for marriage. Like I'm cool withthat. Like if if that's what you
want to do, and you want to beout here doing it but don't come
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into church on Sunday and tellme this is what you don't need
to do. This is what the Biblesays I'm cool, but just leave
that out because the past theywill just show you that.
I haven't seen the Venmo.
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card you got to separateyourself anyways, it just it's a
whole it's a whole notherballgame. you separate yourself.
Yes, but I think at the end ofthe day, though, we have to
understand that these folks arehuman too. They just they just
sit in the pulpit. It's theirjob to deliver it's kind of like
like breezes a teacher like it'swhen we was young if you ever
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saw your teacher out and destroyyou shop like yes, the teacher
is a person to outside of schoolso it's the same thing with a
pastor. And I think I know thatfrom experience because I have
my uncle's a pastor, I had a lotof family members who are
pastors and I see them outsideof church I got a lot of my
family members pastors too so Isee I see them like like I see
them and I'm grateful that theystill hold on to their
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Christianity when they aroundworldly things. I think we got
to do are you talking about thepastor the swag circuit pastors?
No, no, that was ashame rule please. I don't know
I don't know who it was and theydo that for the countdown. Yeah,
yeah but but here's the thingI'm not mad at that because if
if that's your if that's youryour way to connect with Joe
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flop and that and that resonateswith them
they can remix it yeah guysyou got to play the reason I
swear when I watch the serverI'm gonna give you Julian
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and BrittAbsolutely not. I'm gonna stop
playing. I got to talk to afriend praying I'd be talking to
you pray you pray you close youreyes. Like when I pray I sit and
I just like sit in my man cavethat's you're talking to God
like oh, like I just said Amen.
I mean so that's not for you. Imean that's what you want to
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consider as prayer I think thathow you decided to pray to God
is what your decision true youtried to pray Have you ever
tried to pray and you getdistracted by something?
I'm gonna come to you. ChickenI'm sorry Jesus.
Let me get back to youget over what was going on but
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see my one REM breathing parentlike heavy like they be
listening to the Bible everyday. So like they do that so now
aren't like she was likeLook, this rainbow is God's
promise. Like yeah, like a lotof kids wish he sat around with
the kids were like, What? What?
So now she's telling them likeill. So not my baby like the
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preacher baby.
But no, like, it's good becauseit motivated me like, you know,
I'm saying because she comes upwith these questions with God
and I do want to be closer toGod. I don't, I don't want to
say trust a lot of thesepastors. And that's what it is.
I want to know, I want to knowthe Bible for myself. So you
just can't tell me anythingbecause the Bible could be used
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for good or bad no matter youcan flip words, depending on the
part of Scripture. You choose touse it no matter no matter how
it is excellent what the Biblesays. Yeah, it says that, but
continue to read. Yeah. Youdon't know what to say before
that people do it often timethey read Luke 638 through 39.
Because I know what 40 Say,right? Yeah. What did they say
in verse 40? You told my read638 through 39. Don't forget
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about 1441 and 42. So peoplepeople try to use that to
weaponize a position. But nowI'm just gonna swerve a little
bit from from that conversation.
I want to I want to go back tothank you Lord for blessing us
to you know, who has a greatopportunity and I didn't think
about this yet. Ruben Studdardhe needs to come out with sorry
for 2024 and nineYes, he's definitely a lie. My
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banddefinitely was definitely no fan
of Aruba studiesthat's what it is. I'm telling
you. But I didn't know though. Ifeel like when people go away
for a long time, I automaticallygot to just make them a funeral
in my head my bad my what?
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He made a song and for yearsmust be dead.
I am the worst person to thinkabout any artist because I I put
the artists to death. I'mdefinitely not good. We love
playing the hands up game andthey was like the white rapper
that died. And I say Eminem,everybody was so mad. I was
like, what? Eminem is alive?
Like, and we'll be short games.
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Wherever, youknow, room has started and has a
great opportunity. But I wantedto ask you Alicia because you
talked earlier you talked aboutwanting to have a baby and yet
this year this is you go so butwas all camera breeze asks the
question. And you say you meetsomebody new but if you're if
you're dating someone, and whatdate does fucking come in? Like,
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are we fucking by date three? Oris that too much? Is that too
much? That's too fast. I thinkit depends on the guy. Date
three. I know some girl thatdidn't give it up in years. I
mean, yeah, one night, but I'mnot knocking nobody that do
that. You asking me right. Mypreference. I try to push it
out. 30 days. I'm gonna try topush it out. Okay, let me let me
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ask you this challenge challengeby choice. Challenge by choice.
Let me ask you this question.
Are youor have you made it to the 30
day mark? And if you have Okay,and if you haven't, how far did
you make it? Challenge bychoice? Okay, challenge by
choice. I've made it to 30 daymark. before in my life. Okay,
awesome. Before my life I've gota one night stand. Oh, okay.
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Can I dig a little bit?
You got one day in question. Wasthe one you got one day in
question? Let me go first. No,no, I didn't say want to beat me
because Iwas the one nightstand better
than a 30 day wait. Yes or no?
Which one was better? The 30 daywait the 30 day Wait, was
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better? She laughs She justsaying that
because it was good because he'dbeen waiting and anticipation
was up. Or there wasn't quick.
Oh, yeah. Thank you, buddy. Youmess it up for the one night.
Let's go next.
So I'm always curious aboutthis. What one night stand is
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that like did you meet them thatday? And then or was it somebody
that you have been communicatingwith and being like the first
time you met was like okay, wecan I know somebody I was
communicating with andlike, that's different. Just the
one you've been working for thatstandard like oh, let me try to
close that deal.
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I'm not gonna lie they did it.
But like a lot of female I thinkI think God probably should dig
in question. No, because I wasgonna do I was gonna have some
more depending upon your yourresponse to that. I was gonna
have some more fun. Yes. Butthen let me further No, that
wasn't really a one nice thing.
I think that people do becausehe worked for Yeah, now that he
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was the one and all they alwaystold me he was the one if it was
on me. I was the one. I think Ikept up more communication with
that person.
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That's how you do the damnthing. Alicia man how you doing?
I'm having good. I've been good.
You've been good. Don't look atyourself in the monitor. And I
know this is your first time.
(02:04):
This is your first time back inwhat you've been gone for. Oh, I
want to say a year. A year bythe year. How does it feel to be
back? Feels great. I'm reallyoff favoring Oh no, I
don't really alrightfirst of all
(02:27):
the CO hosts and the cliquesthey claim
I've never said that. I never.
I just say I know. I'm yourfavorite. You know what I gotta
say though, you are consistent.
You are one of the mostconsistent people who we've had
on the show. Who comes in do thedamn thing. And then just get
ghost on it. Oh, I think anybodyget ghost is definitely it's
(02:50):
definitely life happens. LifeLife be happiness sometimes. I
don't want to call capsulebreeze How you doing? Good to
see you again. YouTuber, man.
That's always good to seebreezes breezes in the building.
Man. I know last year we talkedabout you starting your program.
(03:12):
How's that going for you?
Slow motion slow motion.
Gotta get used to it again. Thenstill Student Okay.
I got it. It's gonna be I cuzyou've been you've been out of
school for what? Standard? 10years. 10 years. Nothing like
riding a bike though? Not ain'tno.
(03:32):
It's like riding a goat like youwrote about now you're writing
and you decidedyou got to know this. But I got
I got the support system. I gotthe young man. Now Alicia, we
were talking pre show. And youwere you were mentioning some
things that you want to do inyour life. So you were saying
that? You 29 This year, thisyear and you turned you turned
(03:52):
30 this year? And you you wantto you want to you want to turn
on mommy Jana was now mommyJana. Yeah. Oh, come on. Mommy,
Jana. You know, that wasnot what I had to tell you that.
That has given me moremoney. Y'all know, my dear?
(04:19):
Yeah, I want to be mommy Jana.
It's about my time. Okay, now,let me ask you started because
you came in with that goal. AndI'm not mad at that. So that's a
great, that's a greataspiration. But I feel like you
disturbed over some steps.
Maybe? Yeah, I mean, you can'tremind me out without somebody.
True. True. But we weren't goingon that we weren't going on it.
(04:41):
All I'm saying is that right? Isthat find somebody and then you
know, it just you know, get apuppy. You know, some people get
pregnant within like threemonths of a relationship. That's
crazy. That could be me. That'sWow. That's actually crazy.
You don't know but you know thatthat's what people do. And I'm
saying and I can always go backto somebody I do know that's
crazy. That Somethingtranspiring in my life right
(05:01):
between that person and do yougot like both me just in case I
want to read a book the firsttime make a lady with the hat
it's nothing crazy like thatsomebody that you know it. I've
known for what you're lookingfor what you're looking for one
a guy and I will be back to be30. So anytime I come on
(05:23):
to me it's different now youdirty to me I don't understand
is different now.
Given daddy on a two, I can't begiven Mommy
and Daddy, can I can I breathe?
Can I just say, one I'm not madat you for having a go. I think
(05:43):
that's cool. You gottago. It's not a goal, right? But
it's just like something that Iwould want to happen for me. But
I'm not like, actively make likewriting this down the vision
board. Gotcha. Okay, so nothingthat I do want. If it happens to
me, I'd be happy. Gotcha,gotcha. Well, I'm not mad at
that. My wife and I, that's,that's on our on our goals this
year to was. I mean, well,because we were gonna be my goal
(06:06):
was to be selfish in our 20sbecause you want to do a lot of
things in your 20s that you knowthat because people get to have
kids and 1890 Yeah, and theylike you don't get to live life
until you are, what 30 Plus, andthen that's probably that's,
you know, took them. So that'swhere you can, that's where you
(06:27):
probably get financially stable,and you can really take care of
kids. Like I always tell people,I was the most blessed out of
all my siblings, because my momhad me when she was 30. They
should figure it out. By thetime I came along, y'all Nichols
was I never lived in anapartment growing up. I'm sorry,
I don't, I don't know that lifesize.
roaches.
(06:48):
My parents, my parents had ahouse. So but like my sisters,
my brothers that story could bea little bit different because
my mom had my oldest sister whenshe was 18. And my, you know, my
next day or whatever age, soit's like she's 18 and 30 is two
different people. I think likeback in the day, right? People
were having kids youngeranyways, and they had a bunch to
keep a big family. That's whatthat was our goal. I think like
(07:10):
now, we have a decision to make.
I used to think that today likeI'm gonna be selfish in my 20s
but I work during birthcertificates. And let me tell
you, I see people that probablyshould have waited and they have
their life together and theystill should wait because
physically mentally therethey're not your parents. Oh no,
they're not married. No kids nostop. No Sophia. I know. I know
people that had kids and they20s and shit living outside like
(07:33):
not even gothere like they they can't be
fresh and whole places and stillI think all depends on your
situation your and yoursignificant other you know I'm
saying that's factual. That'sfactual now speaking today, I
know January is national povertyAwareness Month. I don't even
(07:55):
know what the fuck that is like.
I don't even know what that'swhy are you aware that you broke
you away you live in?
Yeah, we know. Are you aware ofyour current circumstances and
where you are and your hasn'tgot it? Like I'm about to be
done with a differentholiday? Yeah. Holiday ism.
awareness. Awareness. Oh, youcan make a national holiday what
(08:19):
would you makethat's a good question. My best
question love thatthat's a that's a great
question. Um national switch dayswitch.
Yeah, a broke person gotta livewith a live a rich person life
and a rich person I live a brokeperson my four day car like it
(08:42):
bad I do. Lisa you could have ayou could have a national
holiday you better be likesomebody
who got Beyonce Can I just can Iget Beyonce? So Alicia if you
could if you couldif you could make a holiday
(09:03):
Yeah, you couldwe figured if you could have a
national day what would yournational day be and KB national
switch daywell, gladly well that's what I
was gonna say.
Almost national government givepeople money. They I guess
(09:27):
that's the switch.
Switch. There's a switch thatmaybe to give out stimulus
checks every day. Once a month,once a month? I can make it a
holiday. Yeah, they need to giveout stimulus checks. That's tax
season.
Some people don't get nothing. Idon't get nothing back in my
(09:48):
taxes. Are you are youindependent? Oh.
You let one of the people thatstand in the future.
We will be all these girls be onFacebook all day talking.
got a boyfriend scamming andthen oh if y'all need y'all
Texas beach no noso you get my social media the
way that the way I know youain't gonna do my taxes if you
(10:11):
tell me like listen I'll do yourtaxes and when I do your taxes
if you follow me you get a freecruise or you get some shit for
free if you if you give me freeshit plus and the ones who get
you a I didn't get you inadvance of the $3,000 now before
your taxes even come back rightso now I'm happy
(10:37):
I know this is happy but HappyNational Poverty Awareness month
the bill that gets passed Ithink you can actually you can
you can pick a day you can makea national month and our
national day and as long as youdo whatever you don't tell
nobody that because I don't wantnobody going out there trying to
(10:58):
come up with some dumb now wegotta we gotta acknowledge it.
Yeah, as long as you as long asyou do it every month or every
year so the perks that happenthrough if somebody would like
yo like this and the governmenthad the why they did not happen
three years in a row and theywere the case because I already
feel like movies are you knowwarnings I feel like that's
coming anyways for thegovernment the purge you
(11:21):
wouldn't know what to do. Iwouldn't Yeah, cuz I don't even
know coming to house likethey're coming they might not
come first. The first movie whenthe man had the um, the house
that that locked down you don'thave you don't have one of them
but I'm gonna work on that now.
We can get on that now. That wassmart houses. Yeah, like a
little bunker or whatever. Y'allneed to get on that anyways, I
(11:42):
need to start getting outbunkers. Oh, you talking about
the movie that that just cameout on Netflix that Obama has
produced the one I was talkingabout. Like on the first
on the first movie, he had likea little like a little hideaway
in his house like he had like alittle armor house or whatever.
But it was a little harder to doin Florida. It is very hard for
(12:04):
me. Oh, just what? You may hitsome moving to Texas there's
something going on.
In Texas I think everybodymoving to everybody moving to
Austin by Austin Texas. I saw alist of the top the top of the
five richest black cities thatblack people are thriving in and
(12:24):
Houston was one of them. TheLana was one of them DC
Baltimore and she I don't thinkit was nothing in Florida.
Charlotte it was Charlotte.
I was putting my picks ongambling and I've seen the
quarterbacks Baltimore has fiveblack quarterbacks on a roster
that one white quarterbackcurrently currently they all
look likeI don't know what's going on in
(12:47):
Baltimore I need to go thereabout I will tell you this we we
traveled to DC me and my wifeand I don't fly to DC because
all the bullshit with the worldand everything gee I forgot his
mother tongue crossed in thecolumn that don't sound like me
I'm a beat man you're going downa take that out there's a second
(13:29):
part right people hate me hetexts you and be like I think
he's getting great views youdon't think I think a lot of
people'sWell, I will say Man, we used to
(13:53):
we fly to Baltimore. And it'snot my wife's first flight into
Baltimore. To the airport. Manit's not a big airport. It's a
small airport. But everybody inthe airport is black. Like
everything is black the gateagents the people selling shit
the people at the food placeBLACK BLACK, BLACK, BLACK and
like hat I know we say southernhospitality is a thing but it's
(14:14):
like it's also a difference upnorth because they can up there
too. It's just a different kindof rude it's just a different
kind of con kind of rude and ifyou get them on the street Yeah,
they definitely really rude ashell because they gotta pay
gotta get they gotta tempo.
fast because I went to Phillyand oh my god, I was moving slow
(14:36):
and beat me upin the bag. Oh, like why are you
in a rush? Now? Raise your headas you saw my feelings money be
just I was thinking somebody wasgonna pull you by your hair a
breeze. What did you call her?
Her hairstyle? What's on myhairstyle? Buddhist Landers.
arms length. I think that if youdon't get your braids to your
(14:58):
butt, you're not really gettingYour Hair donation question
always want to be seen girls inthe club Why do you do this when
they haveto get it off the neck and say
oh like it'd be dance Navy likeI don't know why they do that
baby Hi.
Listen they might be doing itright because they probably move
it in the hair if you see if yousee something moving really you
don't really pay attention tothat at that time. So like they
(15:20):
don't like this try to getas you read looking at it okay,
because I was thinking theywanted to show it to here one
stiff so I was like yeah, maybethat's why so why didn't Why
don't keep doing all these damnhair videos already showing us
that the hearings there?
I just wanted to know what canyou do that booty?
Feel like if you don't have yourbrace to you, but anyway. Yeah,
(15:41):
like what do you what are wehere? That's interesting. I
mean, I love me a good littlebob braid style. One lesson you
had like just a straight ballone of them. You do this from
the ones that I like the onesthat get longer like short and
then it's like an asymmetricalball a little ball bro. So I'm
gonna go to the rock ball hedropped the ball I hate to say
(16:03):
it but it's called Bobby Jana.
But I know you you can behonest. Can you getting upset
with my honors but it's about megot to stop making these words
and I suppose the podcasting onthis podcast
now I want to add a Alicia thisbecause I know specifically I
(16:24):
could talk about this but you'dbe because you're a you're a pre
K PK. MK MK ministers kid. So Iwas on social media a lot last
year but but also this year.
I've been seeing a little bit.
There was a pastor minutes. I'mnot sure what he goes by Bishop
by the name of Michael MikeTodd. You know, are you
familiar?
No, I don'tI don't fool around with such
(16:47):
negative things. If they'refake, like, I can't, but no, I
haven't heard of him. What doyou what do you mean fake like
that? Is he like a fake pass?
It's like putting on. So okay,so that's what was what I wanted
to ask you. Because so he he is,uh, he's he blew up during the
COVID year because he, he's hischarges, not virtual. They
haven't impersonally do a greatjob with the virtual options.
(17:09):
And he grew up doing he blew updoing COVID. And even my wife
was watching them like he doesgood stuff. But now I think
that's like, the more popularhe's getting, the more not
intrusive, but he's trying to dothings to like entice people a
little bit more. So it was likethe method that he's preaching
isn't necessarily I don't know,I'm not gonna say that is wrong.
(17:31):
But it's not. It's not like thetraditional. Here's Matt. He got
he got props on stage, he, he'ssitting there doing things. He's
calling people out about things.
And it's like, a lot of peopleare liking him. But a lot of
people also like, this is a fakeprophet. He's not really a
pastor. He's just a motivationalspeaker, calling himself a
pastor. Oh, I just say I don'tbelieve stuff like that. I would
(17:51):
believe he don't know Anyway,especially if you got all that
props and stuff. I like good oldschool pastors anyway, so I
don't really give new pastures achance. I like me a good old
soul. So we'll get this get yourblood boiling What about you
breed? What do you think?
I think people gonna besurprised when Judgment Day
(18:12):
coming out they pass it and sitin here and wait.
Because taking they takeis all is it's all like social
media based now like won't getno I think like you say the old
school pastors. Like I won'tthat Pastor that's why he got
you wrong. He did wrong. Give methe word without without without
all the extra stuff. You don'tneed a social media you'll need
on it. Give me the true word.
(18:36):
Because I don't like them.
Facebook passed to this day. Wegot to be on Facebook. A lot of
the most popular pastors. TDJakes didn't say he identifies
what you really want to ask meabout like,
what is he doing it? Like? Ijust don't say that's like
saying Jesus was at the devilparty and just like, whoa, whoa,
(18:57):
I gotta say the Bible does saythat Jesus hung out with sinners
Jesus.
But he also he also saved them.
He also turned their livesaround. So who's to say that as
TD Jakes is at these partiesthat he can live?
(19:24):
No, I'm just saying. So like, Ithink that that pastors and
bishops and ministers theirpeople too, and we can't
although although in a Catholicchurch, they'll say that they
sit at the foot of God, y'allare they still human? They still
make mistakes and nobodyperfect. But you also like you
also gotta live and we sometimesput put we used to a lot of
(19:46):
times put bishops and ministersand pastors into certain box of
elitist people that they can'tdo. They can't be they can't say
and it's like no you do you sayyou is why can't he so are you
now are you down with the NewAge Pack?
scores are the old passesbecause I'm sorry I'm I'm I
thought I feel like yeah yougotta life right? But you're
(20:06):
also not putting yourself into apredicament to where like life
is gonna make you have to showyour true colors like What do
you mean? Like Pete like him atthese P Diddy parties if you're
not saving none of them sinnersyet why are you still there? But
who's to say I can't say forsure for account that TD Jakes
ain't ain't praying for Daddyain't praying for Dion ain't
(20:26):
praying for these people whohe's around and who he's
socializing with. I can't saythat he is or isn't.
I'll say Dr. Because I know thata TD Jakes have presided Dion's
wedding to Palazzo Sanders backin the day, so that's why I'm
saying that like they gotta bepaying him a pretty penny. Who
TD Jakes? Yeah, I'm sureI'm just saying from when I was
(20:47):
growing up and TD Jakes was TDJakes is completely different he
was acquired to read and less Ithink though I don't
require direct but you know,money may change you if I give
you a check to come here and dothis.
But transfer the businessanyways. Change is a big old
(21:10):
business mega it is a businessbut I do think though, like,
like you said, social mediainput amplifies things. So he
could have always been doingthis and it just wasn't you can
get on social media and and seeand see it happening. You
probably couldn't get on socialmedia and see him sitting there
did his party, you probablycould have read about it for
somebody who was there but youwouldn't have saw it with your
own eyes. So it makes thingsdifferent, but I'm not going to
(21:31):
hold my bishopin a different standard than I
would someone else like no mybishop shouldn't be on Instagram
last on my last go bust nowthat's out of what these videos
on hold. No. But if my bishopgot caught on camera cursing, I
bet he was a real person becauseshe and I could have sued I
probably cost more than mybishop do. But if you're a piss
Bishop off Bishop and cutBishop, I don't know if my
(21:53):
ambition is singleBishop I hear called Bishop with
one of these families loose,loose flew this.
But he can't preach about it.
Like he came preaching aboutlike, you know, saving yourself
for marriage. Like I'm cool withthat. Like if if that's what you
want to do, and you want to beout here doing it but don't come
(22:15):
into church on Sunday and tellme this is what you don't need
to do. This is what the Biblesays I'm cool, but just leave
that out because the past theywill just show you that.
I haven't seen the Venmo.
(22:38):
card you got to separateyourself anyways, it just it's a
whole it's a whole notherballgame. you separate yourself.
Yes, but I think at the end ofthe day, though, we have to
understand that these folks arehuman too. They just they just
sit in the pulpit. It's theirjob to deliver it's kind of like
like breezes a teacher like it'swhen we was young if you ever
(22:59):
saw your teacher out and destroyyou shop like yes, the teacher
is a person to outside of schoolso it's the same thing with a
pastor. And I think I know thatfrom experience because I have
my uncle's a pastor, I had a lotof family members who are
pastors and I see them outsideof church I got a lot of my
family members pastors too so Isee I see them like like I see
them and I'm grateful that theystill hold on to their
(23:20):
Christianity when they aroundworldly things. I think we got
to do are you talking about thepastor the swag circuit pastors?
No, no, that was ashame rule please. I don't know
I don't know who it was and theydo that for the countdown. Yeah,
yeah but but here's the thingI'm not mad at that because if
if that's your if that's youryour way to connect with Joe
(23:43):
flop and that and that resonateswith them
they can remix it yeah guysyou got to play the reason I
swear when I watch the serverI'm gonna give you Julian
(24:04):
and BrittAbsolutely not. I'm gonna stop
playing. I got to talk to afriend praying I'd be talking to
you pray you pray you close youreyes. Like when I pray I sit and
I just like sit in my man cavethat's you're talking to God
like oh, like I just said Amen.
I mean so that's not for you. Imean that's what you want to
(24:26):
consider as prayer I think thathow you decided to pray to God
is what your decision true youtried to pray Have you ever
tried to pray and you getdistracted by something?
I'm gonna come to you. ChickenI'm sorry Jesus.
Let me get back to youget over what was going on but
(24:48):
see my one REM breathing parentlike heavy like they be
listening to the Bible everyday. So like they do that so now
aren't like she was likeLook, this rainbow is God's
promise. Like yeah, like a lotof kids wish he sat around with
the kids were like, What? What?
So now she's telling them likeill. So not my baby like the
(25:10):
preacher baby.
But no, like, it's good becauseit motivated me like, you know,
I'm saying because she comes upwith these questions with God
and I do want to be closer toGod. I don't, I don't want to
say trust a lot of thesepastors. And that's what it is.
I want to know, I want to knowthe Bible for myself. So you
just can't tell me anythingbecause the Bible could be used
(25:32):
for good or bad no matter youcan flip words, depending on the
part of Scripture. You choose touse it no matter no matter how
it is excellent what the Biblesays. Yeah, it says that, but
continue to read. Yeah. Youdon't know what to say before
that people do it often timethey read Luke 638 through 39.
Because I know what 40 Say,right? Yeah. What did they say
in verse 40? You told my read638 through 39. Don't forget
(25:54):
about 1441 and 42. So peoplepeople try to use that to
weaponize a position. But nowI'm just gonna swerve a little
bit from from that conversation.
I want to I want to go back tothank you Lord for blessing us
to you know, who has a greatopportunity and I didn't think
about this yet. Ruben Studdardhe needs to come out with sorry
for 2024 and nineYes, he's definitely a lie. My
(26:20):
banddefinitely was definitely no fan
of Aruba studiesthat's what it is. I'm telling
you. But I didn't know though. Ifeel like when people go away
for a long time, I automaticallygot to just make them a funeral
in my head my bad my what?
(26:42):
He made a song and for yearsmust be dead.
I am the worst person to thinkabout any artist because I I put
the artists to death. I'mdefinitely not good. We love
playing the hands up game andthey was like the white rapper
that died. And I say Eminem,everybody was so mad. I was
like, what? Eminem is alive?
Like, and we'll be short games.
(27:09):
Wherever, youknow, room has started and has a
great opportunity. But I wantedto ask you Alicia because you
talked earlier you talked aboutwanting to have a baby and yet
this year this is you go so butwas all camera breeze asks the
question. And you say you meetsomebody new but if you're if
you're dating someone, and whatdate does fucking come in? Like,
(27:30):
are we fucking by date three? Oris that too much? Is that too
much? That's too fast. I thinkit depends on the guy. Date
three. I know some girl thatdidn't give it up in years. I
mean, yeah, one night, but I'mnot knocking nobody that do
that. You asking me right. Mypreference. I try to push it
out. 30 days. I'm gonna try topush it out. Okay, let me let me
(27:52):
ask you this challenge challengeby choice. Challenge by choice.
Let me ask you this question.
Are youor have you made it to the 30
day mark? And if you have Okay,and if you haven't, how far did
you make it? Challenge bychoice? Okay, challenge by
choice. I've made it to 30 daymark. before in my life. Okay,
awesome. Before my life I've gota one night stand. Oh, okay.
(28:18):
Can I dig a little bit?
You got one day in question. Wasthe one you got one day in
question? Let me go first. No,no, I didn't say want to beat me
because Iwas the one nightstand better
than a 30 day wait. Yes or no?
Which one was better? The 30 daywait the 30 day Wait, was
(28:41):
better? She laughs She justsaying that
because it was good because he'dbeen waiting and anticipation
was up. Or there wasn't quick.
Oh, yeah. Thank you, buddy. Youmess it up for the one night.
Let's go next.
So I'm always curious aboutthis. What one night stand is
(29:03):
that like did you meet them thatday? And then or was it somebody
that you have been communicatingwith and being like the first
time you met was like okay, wecan I know somebody I was
communicating with andlike, that's different. Just the
one you've been working for thatstandard like oh, let me try to
close that deal.
(29:25):
I'm not gonna lie they did it.
But like a lot of female I thinkI think God probably should dig
in question. No, because I wasgonna do I was gonna have some
more depending upon your yourresponse to that. I was gonna
have some more fun. Yes. Butthen let me further No, that
wasn't really a one nice thing.
I think that people do becausehe worked for Yeah, now that he
(29:45):
was the one and all they alwaystold me he was the one if it was
on me. I was the one. I think Ikept up more communication with
that person.
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Joyce Sapp, 76; Bryan Herrera, 16; and Laurance Webb, 32—three Miami residents whose lives were stolen in brutal, unsolved homicides. Cold Case Files: Miami follows award‑winning radio host and City of Miami Police reserve officer Enrique Santos as he partners with the department’s Cold Case Homicide Unit, determined family members, and the advocates who spend their lives fighting for justice for the victims who can no longer fight for themselves.