Do you feel good in your own home?
Does your family culture feel like a safe, joyful refuge—or more like constant conflict and stress?
Most parents spend 90% of their time fixing problems instead of preventing them. But what if the secret to a thriving home is in the things you never do?
In this video, Greg and Rachel Denning—parents of 7 and family coaches—reveal the small but powerful “never-do’s” that transformed their parenting and family culture. From eliminating sarcasm and insults, to saying no to video games, TV, and constant notifications, these intentional choices create a home environment where kids feel secure, confident, and deeply attached.
They share why attachment—not punishment—prevents misbehavior, how harshness backfires, and why saying “no” to outside noise means saying “yes” to family connection.
Raising kids is already hard enough. But by eliminating just a few destructive habits, you can dramatically reduce sibling rivalry, power struggles, and emotional distance in your home.
👉 Tune in to discover the things we NEVER do as parents that helped us raise 7 happy, respectful, and resilient kids—and learn how you can create a family culture your children (and others!) love to be part of.
Key Takeaways
✅ Eliminating sarcasm & insults builds trust and confidence.
✅ Harshness and yelling create distance instead of respect.
✅ Strong attachment prevents misbehavior better than punishment.
✅ No video games, TV, or junk food = more energy, focus, and peace.
✅ Saying “no” to distractions means saying “yes” to family.
Memorable Quotes
🗣️ “If you don’t want to trade lives with someone, don’t take their advice.”
🗣️ “We never say mean or hurtful things to our children—ever.”
🗣️ “Harshness creates distance and fragility, which causes misbehavior.”
🗣️ “Eliminate the baby dragons before they grow into monsters.”
🗣️ “Other families send their kids to live with us because they love our family culture.”
Chapters
00:00 The Importance of Small Changes in Family Dynamics
01:09 Creating a Positive Family Culture
03:05 The Impact of Sarcasm and Teasing
05:43 Building Strong Attachments Through Love
07:30 The Dangers of Harsh Parenting
10:19 The Role of Technology in Family Interactions
16:21 Intentional Living and Productivity
17:36 The Impact of Video Games on Success
18:18 Media Consumption: Radio and TV
19:45 The Power of Saying No
21:03 Healthy Lifestyle Choices
21:56 Communication and Emotional Authenticity
23:32 Addressing Problems Early
25:51 Creating a Positive Family Culture
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