December 31, 2024 • 28 mins
In this two part episode (Podcast 12 and 13), Suzi talks about the 12 Universal Laws of success and how they apply to entrepreneurship.
This podcast focuses on what it takes to be a successful entrepreneur when you have an inside out lense. Throughout the episodes (podcast 12 and 13), Suzi explains how these 12 laws work in an entrepreneurial context, energetics around business, how you can build the laws into your business life and then use them to uplevel in business. Once you do, your business journey will become a lot easier.
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You're listening to the InsideOut Entrepreneur Podcast.
Today I am Talking about the12 laws of entrepreneurial success
and why these are so importantif you really want to start to feel
successful.
All right, buckle up, enjoythe ride.
This is your time now.
Okay, let's go.
Hi, I'm Suzy Belmont, amultiple seven figure entrepreneur
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with 15 years experiencebuilding and selling businesses,
as well as being a psychologyexpert, qualified coach and therapist.
Think of this show as personaldevelopment for women like you who
want to master your innerworld in order to lead yourself to
greater external success,whether that's in relationships,
emotionally, in business, or financially.
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So pull up your chair and getready to change your life and your
business from the inside out.
This is the Inside OutEntrepreneur podcast.
Hi there, everyone, it'sSuzie, back with you for a brand
new show this week.
And I want to really talk thisweek about some things that might
impact the heart of your success.
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What can help you be moresuccessful as an online entrepreneur,
as a leader, or indeed just in life?
You see, as you no doubt bynow can conclude from the name of
this podcast, the Inside Out Entrepreneur.
Success starts on the inside.
To be really successful, youwant to start from the inside and
then work outwards.
Yet most people start on theoutside and work in.
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What do I mean by that?
Well, if I asked you what isone thing you really want to know
about building a successfulonline business, what would you say?
And I can tell you what mostpeople would say.
And I can tell you based on areal life survey I did, about 200
people completed this surveyand one of the questions I asked
was, if you were to havecoffee with me, what two questions
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would you ask about building abusiness online or offline?
And here are some of theanswers I got back in that survey.
These are all anonymized, soI'm not going to reveal anyone's
name, but these were thethings that people said.
How do I build a website?
Should I start a podcast?
Should I be on all the socialmedia pages or just one?
Do you have to be on yourwebsite 247 to keep up with demand?
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How much will it cost me tobuild an online business?
How do I get in front of mytarget audience?
What color should my brand be?
And so on.
So those are real answers thatpeople gave.
Now, there is nothing wrongwith any of these answers, of course,
but what it showed me issomething I think you all know that
I'm very passionate about, andthat is that you are not really taught
how to be effective orsuccessful as an Entrepreneur, or
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a leader for that matter.
You're also not really taughtin life how to be successful as an
adult woman either.
And so often these thingscollide, as many of the success strategies
in entrepreneurship areactually very masculine strategies,
and I'm talking aboutmasculine energy here rather than
male female.
And so they directly conflictwith the more feminine energy ways
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of doing business.
But that is a topic foranother podcast, going back to the
list of things like what coloryour brand should be and things like
that that people ask me.
Non of these things are goingto make you successful.
Even if you had them allperfectly set up, that is not necessarily
going to make much of a dentin how successful you are.
They play parts, obviously,but they shouldn't really be the
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main focus when you'rebuilding a business.
And this problem starts andthen persists because school and
life tend to focus on results,on statistics, on numbers, on stuff,
on making stuff, scientificanalysis, concrete proof, and so
on.
We value time and effort,doing things over results, over happiness
and receiving things.
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And we're kind of raised toblame more than we're raised to take
responsibility or to leadourselves to greatness.
And this means that for manypeople running their business, the
natural way to do it is tolook at the outside world and stuff
that you need to do to build a business.
And if it doesn't work, youthen have something to blame.
You can blame those thingsthat you were trying to do and you
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can put fault somewhere, oryou start to blame yourself and talk
to yourself in a way that youwould never talk to anyone else.
Hostile, negative accusationsand so on.
But this is whereentrepreneurial life can become so
difficult.
This is where leadership canbecome so difficult.
If you go down that path, yousee success absolutely 100% starts
and lives on the inside.
In fact, the entire premisefrom working on the inside or from
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the inside out is creating akind of oneness in your business
that generates ease, calm and results.
Because you are removing a lotof the hustle mentality and the false
beliefs that you may haveimplanted in the past deeply in your
mind.
And one of the ways I want toshow you a little bit more about
this is to walk through the 12laws, as I call them, of entrepreneurial
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success, otherwise known ortaken from the twelve laws of the
universe.
Before I go through theselaws, I want to talk to you specifically.
If this area is completely newto you, those of you who are more
of the mindset that Darwin isking and hustle and hard work get
you results, I urge you to doOne thing today and that's just to
remain coachable.
Don't assume you know what I'mgoing to say and that you don't need
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to know this because I promiseyou that you won't think that by
the end of this show.
Of course it's up to youwhether you listen or not, but if
you don't, just remember thatwhen you do find out that some of
the stuff I'm talking abouttoday really works, maybe in 5 years,
10 years, 20 years.
Think of all the time youwould have wasted struggling when
you didn't need to if you justunderstood these more universal laws.
And if you want an example ofwhy I say that, well, I would hold
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my hand up here.
I've spoken about this before.
This is exactly what I used to do.
I don't like having regretsbut about 20 years ago I was in Waterstones
or Blackworlds, I can'tremember, in London and one of the
books fell off the shelf.
It literally fel the shelf onthe floor by my foot and I didn't
take that as meaning anything.
Had I taken that as a signthat that was the book I needed right
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now in my life, particularlyat that time, because my life was
stress filled, anxietyinducing, I was a lawyer at that
time.
I would have saved myselfyears and years of struggles and
difficulties because I didn'thave the knowledge that I later learned.
But I didn't see it at the time.
I picked up the book, I lookedat the back cover, I read it, I scoffed
at the mumbo jumbo.
You see, my parents had alwaystaught me that all of the self help,
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all of the spir spiritualside, all of the woo woo side, all
of that kind of less tangible,less measurable stuff was rubbish.
And they still do this oncourses today when I've gone through
my masters in psychology, theyreally do talk a lot of the time
about if you can't measure it,it's not there.
And I just don't believe that.
There are so many things that exist.
Ultraviolet light, radiowaves, energy.
We can't see them but we knowthat they exist.
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Anyway, going back to my storyas a 20 something, I used to think
that the more spiritualquantum, the more woo woo world was
not really my thing.
That it was full of people whowore lots of bangle and were hippy
ish and did yoga all the timewhilst fasting for days on end.
And that was really just myparents prejudices that had become
mine.
And I'm telling you thatbecause I promised you the full Picture
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on this podcast, the warts andall version of my journey and my
own limiting beliefs in thepast meant that I didn't think a
more spiritual or woo wooworld could coexist with someone
like me who has and continuesto make money.
I almost felt like I had to doone or the other.
The two could not coexist.
So I ran my career in the pastin a very logical, no woo woo kind
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of way.
And whilst I saw financialsuccess, my inner world was slowly
falling apart.
As I spoke about in episodeone of this season of the podcast,
I was out of balance and Ifound a lot of negative things happened
to me.
I burned out.
I attracted negativesituations and often time and time
again.
I didn't know why then.
I blamed people andcircumstances for it, but I never
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really looked inwards.
In fact, I probably would havebeen outraged back then, 20 years
ago or so and 10 years ago orso at the suggestion that it had
anything to do with my energyor my mindset or my inner world.
I had self sabotaged.
I had a list of fears so longthat it would probably fill an entire
book.
It was only when I slammed thebrakes on and said, this can't be
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it.
This can't be the only part tothis, this can't be the only way
to do things, that I startedto see massive quantum shifts in
my life and in my business.
Once I became aware of thisother world, I saw huge and dramatic
changes in how I was being,how I was showing up, and my results.
As an effect of that, I foundit easier to manage my time, my business,
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my life and my money.
And money flowed to me a lotmore easily with a lot less effort.
It was like removing thehustle just by understanding a little
bit more about this kind ofuniversal side of entrepreneurship
and business and mindset.
And when I then started reallyleaning into the energetic work and
I trained as an energeticleadership practitioner, even more
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light bulbs went off and Irealized that I thought I knew so
much, when in fact I really didn't.
It was only in my later life,in my 40s, that I finally started
to piece this all together andto really get it.
And so all I want you to dotoday is open your mind up to what
I'm saying instead of closingit down with preconceived beliefs.
Now, for those of you who havenever heard of the 12 universal laws,
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these laws are thought to bethe unchanging laws of the entire
universe.
And as someone who studiedEgyptology at university in my undergrad,
I often saw that there seemedto be this kind of knowledge in that
ancient world.
They seemed to know a lot morethan I think we think they did.
We often put these ancientcultures in a box of mystery or magic.
But it's my belief thatthousands of years ago, they may
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well have been a lot moreclued up on how the universe works
than we are today.
Our insistence today on aDarwinian world model where science
is the one and only way ofseeing the world, means it's really
easy to live your entire lifeor run your entire business without
realizing the power of thisunseen world.
The power of energy, the powerof vibration.
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If you take health as anexample, we focused almost entirely
on science led health, despitethe fact that there is undeniable
and overwhelming evidence thatrunning science alongside the more
alternative methods works.
There is just so, so much evidence.
Yet, as I mentioned a momentago, I know from my own master's
degree and also from travelingthe journey of liaising with psychiatrists
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for my mum's mental health,that there is a biomedical model
belief that is really quiteharmful when it's just used in isolation.
What I mean by this is thatmuch of psychiatry is so obsessed
with drugs and medication thatit completely disregards the question
of what happened to you, whathappened in your life.
What other root causes mightwe need to assess before we pump
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this person full of pills?
In my mum's case, thepsychiatrist will happily give her
10 or more pills a day, but hehas no idea what trauma she has,
or what her past traumas mighthave been, or what might be the root
cause of her suffering.
It's just drugs or nothing.
Those are the two polaropposites and there's nothing in
between.
Anyhow, I'm digressing.
I am not saying that we shouldnot have medicine, I am not saying
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that we should not followscience and things like that, but
completely closing our mindsto anything other than scientific
methods, measuring medicinesand discrediting everything that
doesn't fall into thosecategories, that kind of starts to
feel like it's just reallygreat marketing by the big pharmaceutical
companies, by the big sciencebased companies.
After all, if we all start torealize that other things work too,
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that will make a big dent intheir profits.
And so isn't it logical andbetter that they push hard on making
sure that anything more woowoo is treated with suspicion and
dismissed, and that we'reeducated when we're young to believe
that too?
And then we don't find our own solutions.
We don't tap into these moreuniversal laws because we don't believe
in them.
But actually, as I've justsaid, my journey was when I started
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to tap into those, it openedup new pathways and new areas which
worked, which really worked.
And I was like, why didn't Iknow all this stuff?
So if you haven't had theeducation and if you haven't learned
to open your mindset to thisstuff, this can become a real problem
if you want to be a successful entrepreneur.
Because having walked the nonspiritual and the more spiritual
path, I can absolutely confirmthat there is definitely a lot of
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real evidence thatunderstanding this more woo woo spiritual
side of entrepreneurship willmove the needle just by using external
strategy and positive mindset.
That's not enough.
Having a more rounded pictureof all the things you might not be
able to see and measure isgoing to help you you.
So hopefully that explainswhere I'm coming from with this episode.
Let's jump in and talk aboutthe 12 laws of the universe and how
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you can harness them toimprove your business and your life.
Before I do, let me read outthe review of the week, which this
week comes from Andrea inSingapore, who shared a few of my
episodes and tagged me onInstagram saying, thank you Susie,
for this amazing podcast episode.
It arrived just when I neededit and you turned my day around and
lifted my spirits.
I am so glad you are back back.
And I just want to say thankyou back, Andrea, for tagging me
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and sharing episodes onInstagram, which is my smallest social
media channel.
I do need to get around tobuilding that one up.
So do come and say hi to me onInstagram if you don't follow me
there.
I'm just over at Susie Belmont.
Okay.
There are 12 laws in totalthat I want to go through.
But so this episode doesn'tget crazy long, I'm going to deal
with the first four in thisepisode and then I'm going to do
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a second episode for the nexteight or the second eight so that
it's split into two halves.
And those of you who are thenlistening when you're walking or
driving and you've got sort ofshort commute, you're not going to
get halfway through thisepisode and then have to find your
place all over again.
So we're going to do the firstfour in this episode and then the
second eight in the following episode.
Okay.
Law number one.
Law number one is the law ofDivine Oneness.
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This is really the foundationstone for all of the other laws because
it states that absolutelyeverything in our universe is interconnected.
It derives from quantum Theorywhich suggests that there is connection
in all creation.
And this law is becoming moreand more recognized.
In fact, the Amazon ChannelGuidance AIA has programs with leading
scientists now talking aboutthis to show that this is true.
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This means that your choices,your thinking, your beliefs, your
actions are all interconnectedwith everything around you.
With other people, with otherthings, with the environment that
you are in, and so on.
So just think about this.
Have you ever had a momentwhen you are sitting in a room and
you feel something behind youonly to turn around and find someone
there?
It's like you are connected totheir energy.
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It's the same for example,when you have a really weird dream
about something or someoneonly to find out that the thing actually
happens a few days later.
That's happened to me loads of times.
Just starting with this pointis so huge for those of you who are
on your entrepreneurial journey.
Because once you realize thateverything that you do, everything
that you think you say or youact is connected to other things
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in the universe, to otherpeople, to your circumstances, to
what's going to happen, yourealize that you're not just operating
in a vacuum.
Whether success comes to youor not is going to be affected by
this law.
You are in an interconnecteduniverse in your life and in your
business.
So if you know that thecustomers you want to attract, for
example, are interconnectedwith who you are, it becomes a case
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of harnessing that to your advantage.
There is no your customersversus you, them versus you.
And just knowing that thatalone can make you more compassionate
and more accepting of yourcustomer's point of view.
Imagine that when you're onthe end of a phone call with a really
difficult customer, knowingthat everything is interconnected,
how you're acting is affectinghow they're act.
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And how they act affects howyou act.
And this law really plays intoenergetics and frequency as well.
I have a phrase I use a lotabout energy and that is that like
energy attracts like energy.
So as you think about how youare showing up in life and business,
what does it look like?
If you are showing upcomplaining and not investing in
yourself, are you going toattract people with similar energy
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to you?
Yes.
You can't expect to becomplaining and angry and whining
all of the time and neverinvesting in yourself or your business
or your self development andthen attract people who are completely
opposite to that, who are veryhigh frequency and spending their
money investing in somethingor investing in you, it doesn't work
like that.
They're not going to be anenergetic match for you, because
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you are in a completelydifferent energetic place to them.
So as I often say,understanding you and how and why
you are showing up in ways youdo is so vital because ultimately
you are little more than a mirror.
And what you see externally inyour business and in your customers
and in your finances is just areflection of who you are internally,
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in your thoughts, in yourbeliefs, and in, most importantly,
in your energetic state.
So that is law number one.
Law number two is the law of vibration.
And what this law says is thatall matter in the universe, literally
everything is made up ofparticles that vibrate at a certain
frequency.
This means literallyeverything is vibrating at some kind
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of frequency.
Your thoughts are vibrating ata frequency, your actions are at
a frequency.
The shoes where you'resitting, your table, your car, they
all have their own specificenergetic frequency that's interacting
with other frequencies orother things around it.
So your thoughts, for example,whether negative or positive about
something, will vibrate at afrequency that has a certain energy.
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Those vibrations will then beattracted or repelled from other
particles, depending on howsimilar or distance those vibration
frequencies are.
That means that things thatare vibrating at the same frequency
are likely to be attracted together.
They're likely to resonate andpull towards one another, another.
Now this is one of the laws Iwish I had known about way, way,
way a long time ago when Iused to get into a really negative
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spiral with a situation at work.
Maybe something didn't go theway I wanted it to, or maybe something
was really difficult to handlemy vibration, my frequency would
have been reduced to a certainlevel without then consciously or
subconsciously changing that.
I would then attract otherthings at that low level too.
And at the end of the day,your energetic frequency is everything
when it comes to who you are,are to what you manifest in your
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life, in your business.
And so thinking about whatfrequency are you vibrating at, what
energetic state are you in,Are you in a low energetic state
or high energetic state?
Not only is that what is beingattracted to you, but it's also producing
your actions.
If you are in a low frequency,you're going to do things differently
to when you're in a high frequency.
And that's really important totake on board.
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It also leads me onto lawnumber three, and that is the law
of attraction.
This law expands on the law ofvibration and says that like attracts
like.
So if you want to have more ofthe things that you desire in your
entrepreneurial life, you haveto work out how to vibrate on the
same frequency as those Thingsyou have to learn to become an energetic
match for what it is that you seek.
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And that means becoming anenergetic match right now, not after
you have received the thingthat you seek.
So take money.
Take money.
Money has got its own unique frequency.
Let's imagine for a momentthat's quite a high frequency.
So if you spend your daysfocused on lack, focused on not having
enough, focused on scarcity,on anger, on shame, on res, which
are all very low frequencies,then you're going to be constantly
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vibrating yourself on a low,negative frequency.
Do you think then that you'regoing to attract money or you're
going to repel money if it's ahigher frequency thing in the universe?
Now, I'm not advocating forsome kind of fake positivity here.
That doesn't work.
That's not true either.
That's not the right thing to do.
But one of the things that Iensure that I do with my clients
is get them to really deeplyunderstand how this works from an
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energetic perspective.
And if you're one of myclients listening, you'll know that
that's a big part of how Ifirst get you to with me, I get you
to understand in a very deepway how all of this works.
Let me give you anotherexample here, because you see this
outside of your working life too.
If you know someone in yourworld who is constantly negative,
constantly complaining,constantly pessimistic, do they tend
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to attract people and thingsinto their world that are positive?
No, they don't.
They tend to attract more ofthe same, more negativity, more complaining,
more downward spiral.
They dig a hole and it getsdeeper and deeper, deeper.
Conversely, if you focus onyou and your inner journey when you're
building your business and youare grateful, you're trusting, you're
authentic, you're proactive,and you look at why things are happening
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for you, not why things arehappening to you, even your mistakes.
And then you can also let thatripple into how you view other people.
You tend to attract more ofthis same higher frequency thing,
people who are grateful andtrusting and proactive and taking
the steps that match the kindof steps that you're taking, taking,
you tend to be out of thedrama circle because it just doesn't
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show up as much in your worldbecause that's a much lower frequency.
And again, I can speak reallypersonally here in my world behind
the scenes.
I have a handful of clients Iwork with on a one to one basis,
not many as I tend to work ondigital programs.
And whilst I've been workingon My masters and various other things.
I've kept a lower level ofclient work, but every now and again
someone pops up and they are areally good fit and I do almost no
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marketing for this.
These people almost alwaysreach out to me, not the other way
around or someone I've workedwith tells them about me and they
reach out to me that way.
And I firmly believe that thisis a frequency thing.
When I get a DM or an email ora form completed for my one to one,
I can really tell whethersomeone is really, really wanting
to work with me.
Because I'm looking for thosepeople who are action takers, those
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who want to step into theirnext level, those who need a coach
and a mentor to hold the spacefor them and keep them in a higher
frequency to facilitate nextlevel growth in their business.
And it means I almost alwaysend up not only clients who have
massive personal and businesstransformations, but also clients
who are also determined to beself empowered and just wanting to
know more about how to empower themselves.
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They learn that they are ableto rise on an energetic level and
an energetic frequency levelwhere they are in control and then
they learn to lead themselvesthrough obstacles that they have
in their life and in their business.
Now conversely, if I go Backto around 2014 as a comparison, when
I was in a very differentplace mentally and energetically
and I was subjected to vicioustrolling online by one particular
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lady from overseas and she theonly one, there was also a negative,
very life sucking lady in theUK who used to copy everything I
did and then bitch about me.
And back then I used to fallright into it and I'd spend time
analyzing and working out whatit was all about and I used to read
the comments and then I talkabout them with other people saying
what do I do about this?
And I kind of generate energyaround that and I think about how
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I handled that situation thenand how it would be so different
now if that happened.
Now honestly the first thing Iwould do is ask myself what frequency
am I on in my body business?
Am I bitching?
Am I being negative?
Am I being judgmental?
Am I posting judgmental comments?
Because if I am, I'm going toattract people in exactly that frequency.
And I see this quite a lot onsocial media.
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People post things like, youknow, what really pisses me off or
you know, what really annoysme and then they seek support for
their point of view in the comments.
I've done it myself many timesand it's particularly if I'm tired
or my vibration Drops.
Although I almost never joinin conversations online based on
comments like, you know whatmost annoys me?
Because those kind ofcomments, they're like energetic
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Dyson sucking all of the lifeout of you on a quantum level.
So I just avoid those andcurate my feed so that I don't see
those very much.
But imagine I was.
Imagine I was getting involved.
Or imagine it's you and you'regetting involved.
Imagine you are posting andgetting involved in really low energy
jabs and arguments online.
What would you have done ifyou did that?
Your vibration and yourfrequency would be lower and then
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maybe 100 people would commenton the post, agreeing or disagreeing,
and your energy and vibrationwould adjust to match it.
And then it's like a magnetattracting more and more of the same
and before you know it you'reproclaiming, oh, I hate Facebook,
or I hate TikTok, or I hate Instagram.
It's also negative, but youknow that it isn't really.
You just have to be reallyintentional on how you curate your
own feed and whether you'regoing to get pulled into a lower
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frequency and get pulled downby that, because it's going to change
your actions.
Allowing any energy into yourspace isn't great.
You have to learn to setboundaries, asking yourself, how
is this going to work for me?
And if it isn't going to workfor you in any way, the boundary
is to walk away.
Now, sometimes there arebigger issues that come up online,
but it's still the same thing.
This is not about false, toxic positivity.
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It's not about ignoring people.
This is about you decidingwhere your boundaries are and choosing
how you want to show up inevery space and whether that identity
is one that is an energeticmatch for what you're seeking.
You don't have to get involvedin conversations that don't match
where you want to be.
It's all a choice.
And you won't always get this right.
I don't.
I'm not perfect.
And sometimes I do post thingsat a lower, energetic frequency.
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Especially if there's somekind of external influencer like
tiredness or illness that'simpacting me.
But that's okay.
There are no ultimate mistakes.
It's all just a journey tolearn what works and what doesn't
for you.
And ultimately, it's also ajourney for you of self mastery.
Remember, self mastery is notabout perfection.
It's about choice.
It's about awareness and choice.
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Okay, so law number four.
This is the law of correspondence.
And this next law is sometimesCalled the law of patterns.
That's how I remember it.
And this law says thatpatterns repeat throughout the universe.
Universe.
You see this in everythingfrom ripples on water to patterns
on magnets with metalchippings, to patterns in flower
and nature.
And on that note, if you havenever watched the water videos, the
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videos of water patternsresponding to music, it will absolutely
blow your mind.
Dr.
Mazuru Emoto did some patternsor did some experiments on water
molecular structure and showedthat patterns made at molecular level
could be influenced andchanged by positive and negative
words or even positive andnegative thoughts and intentions,
quite literally.
Depending on whether therewere negative or positive words or
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intentions, the water crystalswould change from looking beautiful
and symmetrical with positivewords and really awful and non symmetrical
and kind of toxic looking withnegative words.
And if you haven't seen that,you kind of got to see it.
I will locate a video for thisand I will add it to the blog post
on my website or the shownotes for this podcast episode so
you can go and find that overover on my website.
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It will be podcast episodenumber 2012.
Have a look at that and thinkabout if that's happening on a kind
of molecular level with waterand you are almost entirely made
of water.
What's happening inside of youwhen you are using negative words
or when you're hearing themfrom other people and how much would
that change if you justchanged your self talk, for example,
so that it was more full ofgratitude, it was more full of positive
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thoughts, it was more full ofnot fake positivity but authentic
gratitude, how that mightchange your molecular strength structure.
It's funny because this makesme think of the phrase that my nana
used to use when I was littleand she would say sticks and stones
would break my bones, butnames would never hurt me.
She would talk like that whenI was being bullied at school or
people were calling me names.
It turns out she wasn't righton that one when she said sticks
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and stones will break yourbones, but names will never hurt
you.
As the water experiments show.
Words, matter and harmfulwords really affect your molecular
structure and the molecularstructure around you on a quantum
level.
Go have a look at the videoson the blog post and you'll see what
I mean.
I will also add a link to abook because there's a book called
Hidden Messages in Water andI'll add that on the same post so
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that you can see and readabout this if it interests you.
Now I've gone a little bit offtopic as I was talking about the
law of patterns and howpatterns repeat through the universe.
But what about you?
This law says that on apersonal level, what is happening
on the outside in your lifeand business is a direct reflection
of what is going on on your inside.
In other words, as within, sowithout out, as above, so below.
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And this is the very reason Irefer to my business work as inside
out.
And this podcast is called theInside Out Entrepreneur.
You see, I feel so stronglyabout building a business from the
inside out that I reallybelieve that if your inner world
is in turmoil and in a mess,your outer world will be too.
And so if your life and yourbusiness are in chaos on the outside,
it's because there is fear andchaos on the inside.
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Conversely, when everything iscalm and grounded, it is reflecting
a more calm and grounded inside.
Which is again the very reasonI work with my, my clients on this
inside approach first, beforewe do any additional work on the
outside side of their businessor if they are working on the external
stuff.
If you as a client are workingon the external strategy, my work
on the inside ensures that youactually show up and implement it
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as it's always your innerworld that stops you getting the
results, stops you takingactions on your strategy.
It's never the external stuff.
When you build your businessfrom the inside out, prioritizing
your inner world, learning asmuch as what you're doing for your
external strategy means thateverything starts to flow as real
success in business and moneyis found in who you are, not what
you do.
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When you know who you are inbusiness, everything starts to flow,
it becomes easier, there'sless resistance.
And when the resistance orfears do rear up, my clients in my
programs, my clients that I'veworked with one to one, know exactly
how to handle it so it doesn'tderail them and they don't fall into
the trap of losing their way,self sabotaging, or even destroying
what they've done.
Now, I'm going to stop herefor this episode.
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I think you've kind of graspedwhat I'm talking about here.
And we're covered four of theUniversal Laws of success so far.
The next eight will be in thenext episode, which I will release
pretty much at the same timeas this one.
So if you want to go straightonto that one, you can listen to
that.
Now if you don't, you justlisten to it next time you pick up
the podcast.
See you next time.
You're listening to the InsideOut Entrepreneur Podcast.
Today I am Talking about the12 laws of entrepreneurial success
and why these are so importantif you really want to start to feel
successful.
All right, buckle up, enjoythe ride.
This is your time now.
Okay, let's go.
Hi, I'm Suzy Belmont, amultiple seven figure entrepreneur
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with 15 years experiencebuilding and selling businesses,
as well as being a psychologyexpert, qualified coach and therapist.
Think of this show as personaldevelopment for women like you who
want to master your innerworld in order to lead yourself to
greater external success,whether that's in relationships,
emotionally, in business, or financially.
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So pull up your chair and getready to change your life and your
business from the inside out.
This is the Inside OutEntrepreneur podcast.
Hi there, everyone, it'sSuzie, back with you for a brand
new show this week.
And I want to really talk thisweek about some things that might
impact the heart of your success.
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What can help you be moresuccessful as an online entrepreneur,
as a leader, or indeed just in life?
You see, as you no doubt bynow can conclude from the name of
this podcast, the Inside Out Entrepreneur.
Success starts on the inside.
To be really successful, youwant to start from the inside and
then work outwards.
Yet most people start on theoutside and work in.
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What do I mean by that?
Well, if I asked you what isone thing you really want to know
about building a successfulonline business, what would you say?
And I can tell you what mostpeople would say.
And I can tell you based on areal life survey I did, about 200
people completed this surveyand one of the questions I asked
was, if you were to havecoffee with me, what two questions
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would you ask about building abusiness online or offline?
And here are some of theanswers I got back in that survey.
These are all anonymized, soI'm not going to reveal anyone's
name, but these were thethings that people said.
How do I build a website?
Should I start a podcast?
Should I be on all the socialmedia pages or just one?
Do you have to be on yourwebsite 247 to keep up with demand?
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How much will it cost me tobuild an online business?
How do I get in front of mytarget audience?
What color should my brand be?
And so on.
So those are real answers thatpeople gave.
Now, there is nothing wrongwith any of these answers, of course,
but what it showed me issomething I think you all know that
I'm very passionate about, andthat is that you are not really taught
how to be effective orsuccessful as an Entrepreneur, or
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a leader for that matter.
You're also not really taughtin life how to be successful as an
adult woman either.
And so often these thingscollide, as many of the success strategies
in entrepreneurship areactually very masculine strategies,
and I'm talking aboutmasculine energy here rather than
male female.
And so they directly conflictwith the more feminine energy ways
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of doing business.
But that is a topic foranother podcast, going back to the
list of things like what coloryour brand should be and things like
that that people ask me.
Non of these things are goingto make you successful.
Even if you had them allperfectly set up, that is not necessarily
going to make much of a dentin how successful you are.
They play parts, obviously,but they shouldn't really be the
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main focus when you'rebuilding a business.
And this problem starts andthen persists because school and
life tend to focus on results,on statistics, on numbers, on stuff,
on making stuff, scientificanalysis, concrete proof, and so
on.
We value time and effort,doing things over results, over happiness
and receiving things.
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And we're kind of raised toblame more than we're raised to take
responsibility or to leadourselves to greatness.
And this means that for manypeople running their business, the
natural way to do it is tolook at the outside world and stuff
that you need to do to build a business.
And if it doesn't work, youthen have something to blame.
You can blame those thingsthat you were trying to do and you
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can put fault somewhere, oryou start to blame yourself and talk
to yourself in a way that youwould never talk to anyone else.
Hostile, negative accusationsand so on.
But this is whereentrepreneurial life can become so
difficult.
This is where leadership canbecome so difficult.
If you go down that path, yousee success absolutely 100% starts
and lives on the inside.
In fact, the entire premisefrom working on the inside or from
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the inside out is creating akind of oneness in your business
that generates ease, calm and results.
Because you are removing a lotof the hustle mentality and the false
beliefs that you may haveimplanted in the past deeply in your
mind.
And one of the ways I want toshow you a little bit more about
this is to walk through the 12laws, as I call them, of entrepreneurial
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success, otherwise known ortaken from the twelve laws of the
universe.
Before I go through theselaws, I want to talk to you specifically.
If this area is completely newto you, those of you who are more
of the mindset that Darwin isking and hustle and hard work get
you results, I urge you to doOne thing today and that's just to
remain coachable.
Don't assume you know what I'mgoing to say and that you don't need
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to know this because I promiseyou that you won't think that by
the end of this show.
Of course it's up to youwhether you listen or not, but if
you don't, just remember thatwhen you do find out that some of
the stuff I'm talking abouttoday really works, maybe in 5 years,
10 years, 20 years.
Think of all the time youwould have wasted struggling when
you didn't need to if you justunderstood these more universal laws.
And if you want an example ofwhy I say that, well, I would hold
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my hand up here.
I've spoken about this before.
This is exactly what I used to do.
I don't like having regretsbut about 20 years ago I was in Waterstones
or Blackworlds, I can'tremember, in London and one of the
books fell off the shelf.
It literally fel the shelf onthe floor by my foot and I didn't
take that as meaning anything.
Had I taken that as a signthat that was the book I needed right
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now in my life, particularlyat that time, because my life was
stress filled, anxietyinducing, I was a lawyer at that
time.
I would have saved myselfyears and years of struggles and
difficulties because I didn'thave the knowledge that I later learned.
But I didn't see it at the time.
I picked up the book, I lookedat the back cover, I read it, I scoffed
at the mumbo jumbo.
You see, my parents had alwaystaught me that all of the self help,
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all of the spir spiritualside, all of the woo woo side, all
of that kind of less tangible,less measurable stuff was rubbish.
And they still do this oncourses today when I've gone through
my masters in psychology, theyreally do talk a lot of the time
about if you can't measure it,it's not there.
And I just don't believe that.
There are so many things that exist.
Ultraviolet light, radiowaves, energy.
We can't see them but we knowthat they exist.
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Anyway, going back to my storyas a 20 something, I used to think
that the more spiritualquantum, the more woo woo world was
not really my thing.
That it was full of people whowore lots of bangle and were hippy
ish and did yoga all the timewhilst fasting for days on end.
And that was really just myparents prejudices that had become
mine.
And I'm telling you thatbecause I promised you the full Picture
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on this podcast, the warts andall version of my journey and my
own limiting beliefs in thepast meant that I didn't think a
more spiritual or woo wooworld could coexist with someone
like me who has and continuesto make money.
I almost felt like I had to doone or the other.
The two could not coexist.
So I ran my career in the pastin a very logical, no woo woo kind
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of way.
And whilst I saw financialsuccess, my inner world was slowly
falling apart.
As I spoke about in episodeone of this season of the podcast,
I was out of balance and Ifound a lot of negative things happened
to me.
I burned out.
I attracted negativesituations and often time and time
again.
I didn't know why then.
I blamed people andcircumstances for it, but I never
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really looked inwards.
In fact, I probably would havebeen outraged back then, 20 years
ago or so and 10 years ago orso at the suggestion that it had
anything to do with my energyor my mindset or my inner world.
I had self sabotaged.
I had a list of fears so longthat it would probably fill an entire
book.
It was only when I slammed thebrakes on and said, this can't be
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it.
This can't be the only part tothis, this can't be the only way
to do things, that I startedto see massive quantum shifts in
my life and in my business.
Once I became aware of thisother world, I saw huge and dramatic
changes in how I was being,how I was showing up, and my results.
As an effect of that, I foundit easier to manage my time, my business,
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my life and my money.
And money flowed to me a lotmore easily with a lot less effort.
It was like removing thehustle just by understanding a little
bit more about this kind ofuniversal side of entrepreneurship
and business and mindset.
And when I then started reallyleaning into the energetic work and
I trained as an energeticleadership practitioner, even more
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light bulbs went off and Irealized that I thought I knew so
much, when in fact I really didn't.
It was only in my later life,in my 40s, that I finally started
to piece this all together andto really get it.
And so all I want you to dotoday is open your mind up to what
I'm saying instead of closingit down with preconceived beliefs.
Now, for those of you who havenever heard of the 12 universal laws,
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these laws are thought to bethe unchanging laws of the entire
universe.
And as someone who studiedEgyptology at university in my undergrad,
I often saw that there seemedto be this kind of knowledge in that
ancient world.
They seemed to know a lot morethan I think we think they did.
We often put these ancientcultures in a box of mystery or magic.
But it's my belief thatthousands of years ago, they may
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well have been a lot moreclued up on how the universe works
than we are today.
Our insistence today on aDarwinian world model where science
is the one and only way ofseeing the world, means it's really
easy to live your entire lifeor run your entire business without
realizing the power of thisunseen world.
The power of energy, the powerof vibration.
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If you take health as anexample, we focused almost entirely
on science led health, despitethe fact that there is undeniable
and overwhelming evidence thatrunning science alongside the more
alternative methods works.
There is just so, so much evidence.
Yet, as I mentioned a momentago, I know from my own master's
degree and also from travelingthe journey of liaising with psychiatrists
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for my mum's mental health,that there is a biomedical model
belief that is really quiteharmful when it's just used in isolation.
What I mean by this is thatmuch of psychiatry is so obsessed
with drugs and medication thatit completely disregards the question
of what happened to you, whathappened in your life.
What other root causes mightwe need to assess before we pump
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this person full of pills?
In my mum's case, thepsychiatrist will happily give her
10 or more pills a day, but hehas no idea what trauma she has,
or what her past traumas mighthave been, or what might be the root
cause of her suffering.
It's just drugs or nothing.
Those are the two polaropposites and there's nothing in
between.
Anyhow, I'm digressing.
I am not saying that we shouldnot have medicine, I am not saying
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that we should not followscience and things like that, but
completely closing our mindsto anything other than scientific
methods, measuring medicinesand discrediting everything that
doesn't fall into thosecategories, that kind of starts to
feel like it's just reallygreat marketing by the big pharmaceutical
companies, by the big sciencebased companies.
After all, if we all start torealize that other things work too,
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that will make a big dent intheir profits.
And so isn't it logical andbetter that they push hard on making
sure that anything more woowoo is treated with suspicion and
dismissed, and that we'reeducated when we're young to believe
that too?
And then we don't find our own solutions.
We don't tap into these moreuniversal laws because we don't believe
in them.
But actually, as I've justsaid, my journey was when I started
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to tap into those, it openedup new pathways and new areas which
worked, which really worked.
And I was like, why didn't Iknow all this stuff?
So if you haven't had theeducation and if you haven't learned
to open your mindset to thisstuff, this can become a real problem
if you want to be a successful entrepreneur.
Because having walked the nonspiritual and the more spiritual
path, I can absolutely confirmthat there is definitely a lot of
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real evidence thatunderstanding this more woo woo spiritual
side of entrepreneurship willmove the needle just by using external
strategy and positive mindset.
That's not enough.
Having a more rounded pictureof all the things you might not be
able to see and measure isgoing to help you you.
So hopefully that explainswhere I'm coming from with this episode.
Let's jump in and talk aboutthe 12 laws of the universe and how
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you can harness them toimprove your business and your life.
Before I do, let me read outthe review of the week, which this
week comes from Andrea inSingapore, who shared a few of my
episodes and tagged me onInstagram saying, thank you Susie,
for this amazing podcast episode.
It arrived just when I neededit and you turned my day around and
lifted my spirits.
I am so glad you are back back.
And I just want to say thankyou back, Andrea, for tagging me
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and sharing episodes onInstagram, which is my smallest social
media channel.
I do need to get around tobuilding that one up.
So do come and say hi to me onInstagram if you don't follow me
there.
I'm just over at Susie Belmont.
Okay.
There are 12 laws in totalthat I want to go through.
But so this episode doesn'tget crazy long, I'm going to deal
with the first four in thisepisode and then I'm going to do
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a second episode for the nexteight or the second eight so that
it's split into two halves.
And those of you who are thenlistening when you're walking or
driving and you've got sort ofshort commute, you're not going to
get halfway through thisepisode and then have to find your
place all over again.
So we're going to do the firstfour in this episode and then the
second eight in the following episode.
Okay.
Law number one.
Law number one is the law ofDivine Oneness.
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This is really the foundationstone for all of the other laws because
it states that absolutelyeverything in our universe is interconnected.
It derives from quantum Theorywhich suggests that there is connection
in all creation.
And this law is becoming moreand more recognized.
In fact, the Amazon ChannelGuidance AIA has programs with leading
scientists now talking aboutthis to show that this is true.
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This means that your choices,your thinking, your beliefs, your
actions are all interconnectedwith everything around you.
With other people, with otherthings, with the environment that
you are in, and so on.
So just think about this.
Have you ever had a momentwhen you are sitting in a room and
you feel something behind youonly to turn around and find someone
there?
It's like you are connected totheir energy.
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It's the same for example,when you have a really weird dream
about something or someoneonly to find out that the thing actually
happens a few days later.
That's happened to me loads of times.
Just starting with this pointis so huge for those of you who are
on your entrepreneurial journey.
Because once you realize thateverything that you do, everything
that you think you say or youact is connected to other things
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in the universe, to otherpeople, to your circumstances, to
what's going to happen, yourealize that you're not just operating
in a vacuum.
Whether success comes to youor not is going to be affected by
this law.
You are in an interconnecteduniverse in your life and in your
business.
So if you know that thecustomers you want to attract, for
example, are interconnectedwith who you are, it becomes a case
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of harnessing that to your advantage.
There is no your customersversus you, them versus you.
And just knowing that thatalone can make you more compassionate
and more accepting of yourcustomer's point of view.
Imagine that when you're onthe end of a phone call with a really
difficult customer, knowingthat everything is interconnected,
how you're acting is affectinghow they're act.
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And how they act affects howyou act.
And this law really plays intoenergetics and frequency as well.
I have a phrase I use a lotabout energy and that is that like
energy attracts like energy.
So as you think about how youare showing up in life and business,
what does it look like?
If you are showing upcomplaining and not investing in
yourself, are you going toattract people with similar energy
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to you?
Yes.
You can't expect to becomplaining and angry and whining
all of the time and neverinvesting in yourself or your business
or your self development andthen attract people who are completely
opposite to that, who are veryhigh frequency and spending their
money investing in somethingor investing in you, it doesn't work
like that.
They're not going to be anenergetic match for you, because
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you are in a completelydifferent energetic place to them.
So as I often say,understanding you and how and why
you are showing up in ways youdo is so vital because ultimately
you are little more than a mirror.
And what you see externally inyour business and in your customers
and in your finances is just areflection of who you are internally,
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in your thoughts, in yourbeliefs, and in, most importantly,
in your energetic state.
So that is law number one.
Law number two is the law of vibration.
And what this law says is thatall matter in the universe, literally
everything is made up ofparticles that vibrate at a certain
frequency.
This means literallyeverything is vibrating at some kind
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of frequency.
Your thoughts are vibrating ata frequency, your actions are at
a frequency.
The shoes where you'resitting, your table, your car, they
all have their own specificenergetic frequency that's interacting
with other frequencies orother things around it.
So your thoughts, for example,whether negative or positive about
something, will vibrate at afrequency that has a certain energy.
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Those vibrations will then beattracted or repelled from other
particles, depending on howsimilar or distance those vibration
frequencies are.
That means that things thatare vibrating at the same frequency
are likely to be attracted together.
They're likely to resonate andpull towards one another, another.
Now this is one of the laws Iwish I had known about way, way,
way a long time ago when Iused to get into a really negative
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spiral with a situation at work.
Maybe something didn't go theway I wanted it to, or maybe something
was really difficult to handlemy vibration, my frequency would
have been reduced to a certainlevel without then consciously or
subconsciously changing that.
I would then attract otherthings at that low level too.
And at the end of the day,your energetic frequency is everything
when it comes to who you are,are to what you manifest in your
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life, in your business.
And so thinking about whatfrequency are you vibrating at, what
energetic state are you in,Are you in a low energetic state
or high energetic state?
Not only is that what is beingattracted to you, but it's also producing
your actions.
If you are in a low frequency,you're going to do things differently
to when you're in a high frequency.
And that's really important totake on board.
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It also leads me onto lawnumber three, and that is the law
of attraction.
This law expands on the law ofvibration and says that like attracts
like.
So if you want to have more ofthe things that you desire in your
entrepreneurial life, you haveto work out how to vibrate on the
same frequency as those Thingsyou have to learn to become an energetic
match for what it is that you seek.
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And that means becoming anenergetic match right now, not after
you have received the thingthat you seek.
So take money.
Take money.
Money has got its own unique frequency.
Let's imagine for a momentthat's quite a high frequency.
So if you spend your daysfocused on lack, focused on not having
enough, focused on scarcity,on anger, on shame, on res, which
are all very low frequencies,then you're going to be constantly
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vibrating yourself on a low,negative frequency.
Do you think then that you'regoing to attract money or you're
going to repel money if it's ahigher frequency thing in the universe?
Now, I'm not advocating forsome kind of fake positivity here.
That doesn't work.
That's not true either.
That's not the right thing to do.
But one of the things that Iensure that I do with my clients
is get them to really deeplyunderstand how this works from an
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energetic perspective.
And if you're one of myclients listening, you'll know that
that's a big part of how Ifirst get you to with me, I get you
to understand in a very deepway how all of this works.
Let me give you anotherexample here, because you see this
outside of your working life too.
If you know someone in yourworld who is constantly negative,
constantly complaining,constantly pessimistic, do they tend
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to attract people and thingsinto their world that are positive?
No, they don't.
They tend to attract more ofthe same, more negativity, more complaining,
more downward spiral.
They dig a hole and it getsdeeper and deeper, deeper.
Conversely, if you focus onyou and your inner journey when you're
building your business and youare grateful, you're trusting, you're
authentic, you're proactive,and you look at why things are happening
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for you, not why things arehappening to you, even your mistakes.
And then you can also let thatripple into how you view other people.
You tend to attract more ofthis same higher frequency thing,
people who are grateful andtrusting and proactive and taking
the steps that match the kindof steps that you're taking, taking,
you tend to be out of thedrama circle because it just doesn't
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show up as much in your worldbecause that's a much lower frequency.
And again, I can speak reallypersonally here in my world behind
the scenes.
I have a handful of clients Iwork with on a one to one basis,
not many as I tend to work ondigital programs.
And whilst I've been workingon My masters and various other things.
I've kept a lower level ofclient work, but every now and again
someone pops up and they are areally good fit and I do almost no
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marketing for this.
These people almost alwaysreach out to me, not the other way
around or someone I've workedwith tells them about me and they
reach out to me that way.
And I firmly believe that thisis a frequency thing.
When I get a DM or an email ora form completed for my one to one,
I can really tell whethersomeone is really, really wanting
to work with me.
Because I'm looking for thosepeople who are action takers, those
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who want to step into theirnext level, those who need a coach
and a mentor to hold the spacefor them and keep them in a higher
frequency to facilitate nextlevel growth in their business.
And it means I almost alwaysend up not only clients who have
massive personal and businesstransformations, but also clients
who are also determined to beself empowered and just wanting to
know more about how to empower themselves.
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They learn that they are ableto rise on an energetic level and
an energetic frequency levelwhere they are in control and then
they learn to lead themselvesthrough obstacles that they have
in their life and in their business.
Now conversely, if I go Backto around 2014 as a comparison, when
I was in a very differentplace mentally and energetically
and I was subjected to vicioustrolling online by one particular
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lady from overseas and she theonly one, there was also a negative,
very life sucking lady in theUK who used to copy everything I
did and then bitch about me.
And back then I used to fallright into it and I'd spend time
analyzing and working out whatit was all about and I used to read
the comments and then I talkabout them with other people saying
what do I do about this?
And I kind of generate energyaround that and I think about how
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I handled that situation thenand how it would be so different
now if that happened.
Now honestly the first thing Iwould do is ask myself what frequency
am I on in my body business?
Am I bitching?
Am I being negative?
Am I being judgmental?
Am I posting judgmental comments?
Because if I am, I'm going toattract people in exactly that frequency.
And I see this quite a lot onsocial media.
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People post things like, youknow, what really pisses me off or
you know, what really annoysme and then they seek support for
their point of view in the comments.
I've done it myself many timesand it's particularly if I'm tired
or my vibration Drops.
Although I almost never joinin conversations online based on
comments like, you know whatmost annoys me?
Because those kind ofcomments, they're like energetic
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Dyson sucking all of the lifeout of you on a quantum level.
So I just avoid those andcurate my feed so that I don't see
those very much.
But imagine I was.
Imagine I was getting involved.
Or imagine it's you and you'regetting involved.
Imagine you are posting andgetting involved in really low energy
jabs and arguments online.
What would you have done ifyou did that?
Your vibration and yourfrequency would be lower and then
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maybe 100 people would commenton the post, agreeing or disagreeing,
and your energy and vibrationwould adjust to match it.
And then it's like a magnetattracting more and more of the same
and before you know it you'reproclaiming, oh, I hate Facebook,
or I hate TikTok, or I hate Instagram.
It's also negative, but youknow that it isn't really.
You just have to be reallyintentional on how you curate your
own feed and whether you'regoing to get pulled into a lower
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frequency and get pulled downby that, because it's going to change
your actions.
Allowing any energy into yourspace isn't great.
You have to learn to setboundaries, asking yourself, how
is this going to work for me?
And if it isn't going to workfor you in any way, the boundary
is to walk away.
Now, sometimes there arebigger issues that come up online,
but it's still the same thing.
This is not about false, toxic positivity.
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It's not about ignoring people.
This is about you decidingwhere your boundaries are and choosing
how you want to show up inevery space and whether that identity
is one that is an energeticmatch for what you're seeking.
You don't have to get involvedin conversations that don't match
where you want to be.
It's all a choice.
And you won't always get this right.
I don't.
I'm not perfect.
And sometimes I do post thingsat a lower, energetic frequency.
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Especially if there's somekind of external influencer like
tiredness or illness that'simpacting me.
But that's okay.
There are no ultimate mistakes.
It's all just a journey tolearn what works and what doesn't
for you.
And ultimately, it's also ajourney for you of self mastery.
Remember, self mastery is notabout perfection.
It's about choice.
It's about awareness and choice.
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Okay, so law number four.
This is the law of correspondence.
And this next law is sometimesCalled the law of patterns.
That's how I remember it.
And this law says thatpatterns repeat throughout the universe.
Universe.
You see this in everythingfrom ripples on water to patterns
on magnets with metalchippings, to patterns in flower
and nature.
And on that note, if you havenever watched the water videos, the
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videos of water patternsresponding to music, it will absolutely
blow your mind.
Dr.
Mazuru Emoto did some patternsor did some experiments on water
molecular structure and showedthat patterns made at molecular level
could be influenced andchanged by positive and negative
words or even positive andnegative thoughts and intentions,
quite literally.
Depending on whether therewere negative or positive words or
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intentions, the water crystalswould change from looking beautiful
and symmetrical with positivewords and really awful and non symmetrical
and kind of toxic looking withnegative words.
And if you haven't seen that,you kind of got to see it.
I will locate a video for thisand I will add it to the blog post
on my website or the shownotes for this podcast episode so
you can go and find that overover on my website.
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It will be podcast episodenumber 2012.
Have a look at that and thinkabout if that's happening on a kind
of molecular level with waterand you are almost entirely made
of water.
What's happening inside of youwhen you are using negative words
or when you're hearing themfrom other people and how much would
that change if you justchanged your self talk, for example,
so that it was more full ofgratitude, it was more full of positive
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thoughts, it was more full ofnot fake positivity but authentic
gratitude, how that mightchange your molecular strength structure.
It's funny because this makesme think of the phrase that my nana
used to use when I was littleand she would say sticks and stones
would break my bones, butnames would never hurt me.
She would talk like that whenI was being bullied at school or
people were calling me names.
It turns out she wasn't righton that one when she said sticks
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and stones will break yourbones, but names will never hurt
you.
As the water experiments show.
Words, matter and harmfulwords really affect your molecular
structure and the molecularstructure around you on a quantum
level.
Go have a look at the videoson the blog post and you'll see what
I mean.
I will also add a link to abook because there's a book called
Hidden Messages in Water andI'll add that on the same post so
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that you can see and readabout this if it interests you.
Now I've gone a little bit offtopic as I was talking about the
law of patterns and howpatterns repeat through the universe.
But what about you?
This law says that on apersonal level, what is happening
on the outside in your lifeand business is a direct reflection
of what is going on on your inside.
In other words, as within, sowithout out, as above, so below.
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And this is the very reason Irefer to my business work as inside
out.
And this podcast is called theInside Out Entrepreneur.
You see, I feel so stronglyabout building a business from the
inside out that I reallybelieve that if your inner world
is in turmoil and in a mess,your outer world will be too.
And so if your life and yourbusiness are in chaos on the outside,
it's because there is fear andchaos on the inside.
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Conversely, when everything iscalm and grounded, it is reflecting
a more calm and grounded inside.
Which is again the very reasonI work with my, my clients on this
inside approach first, beforewe do any additional work on the
outside side of their businessor if they are working on the external
stuff.
If you as a client are workingon the external strategy, my work
on the inside ensures that youactually show up and implement it
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as it's always your innerworld that stops you getting the
results, stops you takingactions on your strategy.
It's never the external stuff.
When you build your businessfrom the inside out, prioritizing
your inner world, learning asmuch as what you're doing for your
external strategy means thateverything starts to flow as real
success in business and moneyis found in who you are, not what
you do.
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When you know who you are inbusiness, everything starts to flow,
it becomes easier, there'sless resistance.
And when the resistance orfears do rear up, my clients in my
programs, my clients that I'veworked with one to one, know exactly
how to handle it so it doesn'tderail them and they don't fall into
the trap of losing their way,self sabotaging, or even destroying
what they've done.
Now, I'm going to stop herefor this episode.
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I think you've kind of graspedwhat I'm talking about here.
And we're covered four of theUniversal Laws of success so far.
The next eight will be in thenext episode, which I will release
pretty much at the same timeas this one.
So if you want to go straightonto that one, you can listen to
that.
Now if you don't, you justlisten to it next time you pick up
the podcast.
See you next time.
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