How can laughter become one of your most powerful leadership tools? In this episode, Kevin welcomes Adam Christing to explore how humor can foster trust, connection, and engagement in the workplace. Adam shares practical strategies for leaders, including his framework of five "laugh languages": self-effacing humor that builds authenticity, the art of poking fun without causing harm, in-jokes that strengthen team bonds, and techniques like amplification and wordplay that enhance storytelling and communication. Adam emphasizes the importance of "planned spontaneity," the idea that intentional preparation allows humor to land naturally and meaningfully.
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00:00 Introduction
00:28 Why humor matters for leaders
01:20 Podcast purpose and live participation
02:05 Guest introduction: Adam Christing
03:44 Big idea: humor builds trust
05:05 Why Adam wrote the book
06:31 Everyone has a sense of humor
07:42 Is humor risky for leaders?
08:16 Guidelines for using humor intentionally
10:17 Humor even in serious situations
11:08 Laugh Language: Poke (self-facing humor)
13:40 How to poke safely as a leader
19:57 Laugh Language: In-jokes
20:34 Knowing your audience
22:10 Leaders aren't trying to be comedians
23:41 Humor strengthens connection
24:49 Laugh Language: Amplify
25:09 Using exaggeration effectively
26:57 Laugh Language: Wordplay
28:11 Test humor in communication
29:12 Planned spontaneity
30:05 Simple ways to spark humor (questions)
31:05 How to recover when humor fails
32:56 Where leaders should start with humor
33:41 Listening for others' humor styles
36:45 Where to find Adam and his book
37:46 Conclusion
Adam's Story: Adam Christing is the author of The Laughter Factor: Five Humor Tactics to Link, Lift, and Lead. He is one of America's most sought-after professional speakers and masters of ceremonies. With a signature blend of humor and heart, Adam has hosted events for a wide range of organizations—from Stanford University to the Green Bay Packers. As a humor expert and the founder and CEO of Clean Comedians®, Adam champions the power of laughter to inspire, connect, and create unforgettable experiences, without the need for profanity or politics. Adam has been featured on Entertainment Tonight and in more than 100 podcasts, TV, and radio programs. His warm-hearted comedy has delighted over a million people across 49 U.S. states, as well as in Canada, Europe, and Asia.
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