Valentine’s Day 2025 – My Conceptual Valentine - HER (2013) and I’M THINKING OF ENDING THINGS (2020)
For our Valentine's Day 2025 episode, we plunge deep into the nature of relationships by discussing two films whose romantic pairings are arguably not relationships at all: Spike Jonze's Her (2013) and his sometime collaborator, Charlie Kaufman's I'm Thinking of Ending Things (2020). Isolation, loss, misogyny, male fantasies, hope and despair: we've got all of the Valentine's goodness for you. And it continues with our Fear and Moviegoing discussion of Mike Leigh's Hard Truths (2024).
Time Codes:
0h 00m 25s: HER (2013) [dir. Spike Jonze]
0h 54m 53s: I’M THINKING OF ENDING THINGS (2020) [dir. Charlie Kaufman]
1h 30m 24s: Fear and Moviegoing in Toronto: Mike Leigh’s Hard Truths (2024)
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* Read Elise’s piece on Gangs of New York – “Making America Strange Again”
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