Upbringing

Upbringing

We’re Hannah & Kelty of Upbringing- twins, certified parent coaches + speakers who help caregivers across the globe transcend daily conflict with their kids for sanity + social change. Most of us had no idea what magical mindset + sensitive skill set would be required to successfully navigate daily drama with our beloved, infuriating kids... No shame in that! From meltdowns to aggression to sibling rivalry to putting down the screen or getting out the door fully dressed + on time, managing kids’ big feelings + challenging behaviors was never meant to be done solo, let alone perfectly. We’re here to teach you creative, research-based ways to overcome daily obstacles with your sensitive + strong-willed kids, nurturing critical skills like consent, compassion, curiosity + creativity along the way. Our podcast episodes are Live, unscripted Q&As– reach out if you have a question or challenge you’d like us to discuss! Learning to parent our kids with more connection and less control can feel radical and even impossible at first- we get it. We invite you to explore our shame-free, research-based offerings, each designed to help you heal yourself, nurture your kids + transform our collective future for the better. Let’s Show Up + Grow Up! To learn more about us, our speaking services, coaching program, membership collective and shop goods, visit www.Upbringing.co

Episodes

December 23, 2024 53 mins

Are you motivated to master the mindset + learn shame-free, consent-based tools to overcome challenges with your sensitive + strong-willed kid?✨You’re not alone!

Visit our shop and choose the support that works right now for your family!

✨ Downloadable PDF Guides for calm bodies, big feelings and sibling conflict
Two-on-one coaching sessions to build a connective family plan for the holiday month ahead
✨ Learn more a...

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Are you motivated to master the mindset + learn shame-free, consent-based tools to overcome challenges with your sensitive + strong-willed kid?✨You’re not alone!

Visit our shop and choose the support that works right now for your family!

✨ Downloadable PDF Guides for calm bodies, big feelings and sibling conflict
Two-on-one coaching sessions to build a connective family plan for the holiday month ahead
✨ Learn more a...

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Are you motivated to master the mindset + learn shame-free, consent-based tools to overcome challenges with your sensitive + strong-willed kid?✨You’re not alone!

Visit our shop and choose the support that works right now for your family!

✨ Downloadable PDF Guides for calm bodies, big feelings and sibling conflict
Two-on-one coaching sessions to build a connective family plan for the holiday month ahead
✨ Learn more a...

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Visit our website to download your free guide: 3 Ways To Help Sublings Adjust To Baby


Our Right From The Start online course is back!

Our Right From The Start video course and community will bring you both the reassurance AND information you need in your baby’s first year to make the decisions that are uniquely right for your family. ✨ No prescribed rules, no perfection to attain… Just the essentials to help you ...

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Are you motivated to master the mindset + learn shame-free, consent-based tools to overcome challenges with your sensitive + strong-willed kid?✨You’re not alone!

Visit our shop and choose the support that works right now for your family!

✨ Downloadable PDF Guides for calm bodies, big feelings and sibling conflict
Two-on-one coaching sessions to build a connective family plan for the holiday month ahead
✨ Learn more a...

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Are you motivated to master the mindset + learn shame-free, consent-based tools to overcome challenges with your sensitive + strong-willed kid?✨You’re not alone!

Visit our shop and choose the support that works right now for your family!

✨ Downloadable PDF Guides for calm bodies, big feelings and sibling conflict
Two-on-one coaching sessions to build a connective family plan for the holiday month ahead
✨ Learn more a...

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Are you motivated to master the mindset + learn shame-free, consent-based tools to overcome challenges with your sensitive + strong-willed kid?✨You’re not alone!

Visit our shop and choose the support that works right now for your family!

✨ Downloadable PDF Guides for calm bodies, big feelings and sibling conflict
Two-on-one coaching sessions to build a connective family plan for the holiday month ahead
✨ Learn more a...

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When mistakes are judged, shamed and connected to child’s worth + belonging (conditional teaching):

✔️Kids learn to feel shame when they naturally struggle
✔️Kids learn that conflict is binary: good/bad, right/wrong
✔️Kids hold in their feelings + needs out of fear of shame
✔️Kids are more likely to lie, blame, + defend to feel safe

When mistakes neutrally explored and NOT connected to child’s worth + belonging (unc...

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We're all stressed! Tune in to learn the 3 tools we use for stress de-escalation in the moment and rhe 4 ways we examine stressful situations or conflict to reduce disconnect and meet needs between us and our kids -- to feel. better and do better all around!


Are you motivated to master the mindset + learn shame-free, consent-based tools to overcome challenges with your sensitive, strong-willed and/or neurodivergent kid?...

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We loved connecting with friend and colleague, author and speaker Jen Lumanlan of Your Parenting Mojo about her new book, Parenting Beyond Power! ✨ Tune in to learn more about ways to use connection and collaboration to transform your family — and the world! 


Visit Jen's website for ways to purchase her book and check below, Oregon folx, for information on her book tour as it passes through at the end of October! 🎉


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Tune in to hear the 4 magical ways we can work WITH our kids to help them get homework, chores, hygiene, manners, safety, dressing, toileting and bedtime achieved WITHOUT coercion -- independently, completely, consistently and WITH JOY.

Are you motivated to master the mindset + learn shame-free, consent-based tools to overcome challenges with your sensitive + strong-willed kid?✨You’re not alone!


Happy 1 year anniversary ...

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Are you motivated to master the mindset + learn shame-free, consent-based tools to overcome challenges with your sensitive + strong-willed kid?✨You’re not alone!

Visit our shop and choose the support that works right now for your family!

✨ Downloadable PDF Guides for calm bodies, big feelings and sibling conflict
Poster prints for your home and playrooms
Two-on-one coaching sessions to build a connective family pla...

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Are you motivated to master the mindset + learn the tools to overcome challenges with your sensitive + strong-willed kid? ✨ You’re not alone!

This week only: enroll in The Upbringing Collective, our coaching + community membership– AND get a FREE 60 min coaching call with us when you enroll for the year! 🎉 The membership includes:

✔️ An inclusive, secure online forum to connect with like-minded caregivers across the globe

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Are you motivated to master the mindset + learn shame-free, consent-based tools to overcome challenges with your sensitive + strong-willed kid?✨You’re not alone!

Visit our shop and choose the support that works right now for your family!

✨ Downloadable PDF Guides for calm bodies, big feelings and sibling conflict
Poster prints for your home and playrooms
Two-on-one coaching sessions to build a connective family pla...

Mark as Played

Are you motivated to master the mindset + learn shame-free, consent-based tools to overcome challenges with your sensitive + strong-willed kid?✨You’re not alone!

Visit our shop and choose the support that works right now for your family!

✨ Downloadable PDF Guides for calm bodies, big feelings and sibling conflict
Poster prints for your home and playrooms
Two-on-one coaching sessions to build a connective family pla...

Mark as Played

Are you motivated to master the mindset + learn shame-free, consent-based tools to overcome challenges with your sensitive + strong-willed kid?✨You’re not alone!

Visit our shop and choose the support that works right now for your family!

✨ Downloadable PDF Guides for calm bodies, big feelings and sibling conflict
Poster prints for your home and playrooms
Two-on-one coaching sessions to build a connective family pla...

Mark as Played

Are you motivated to master the mindset + learn shame-free, consent-based tools to overcome challenges with your sensitive + strong-willed kid?✨You’re not alone!

Visit our shop and choose the support that works right now for your family!

✨ Downloadable PDF Guides for calm bodies, big feelings and sibling conflict
Poster prints for your home and playrooms
Two-on-one coaching sessions to build a connective family pla...

Mark as Played

Are you motivated to master the mindset + learn shame-free, consent-based tools to overcome challenges with your sensitive + strong-willed kid?✨You’re not alone!


Visit our SHOP and choose the support that works right now for your family!

✨ Downloadable pdf guides for calm bodies, big feelings and sibling conflict
✨ Poster prints for your home and playrooms
✨ Two-on-one coaching sessions to build a connective family...

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Are you parenting a sensitive + strong-willed kid that challenges your beliefs, stamina and sanity beyond measure? ✨You’re not alone!

The Upbringing Collective– our new coaching + community membership– is NOW OPEN for enrollment! 🎉 It includes:

✔️ An inclusive, secure online forum to connect with like-minded caregivers across the globe
✔️ Weekly group coaching sessions with us (H+K) for support with all your biggest chal...

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Every feel flooded? Triggered? Too emotionally hijacked to respond calmly to yourkids' big feelings and challenging behaviors? Join our conversation with Jen Lumanlan of Your Parenting Mojo to talk about ways to calm our minds and bodies so we don't keep losing our shit on our kids!

Jen explores ways we can stop cycles of trauma and begin healing through our parenting practices. Her Taming Your Triggers Workshop is LIVE! Th...

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