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Welcome to 2026 — the happiest, healthiest, funniest, most Valley Girliest year yet. Jaci and Chelsey are kicking things off with a little personal rebranding, starting with a life audit of where they’re at and where they want to go. This year’s plans include getting outside more, finally conquering pull-ups, drafting journal prompts that actually make you think, and reassessing how much a girl can realistically handle in ...

The girls are closing out the year with their very own 2025 awards ceremony, celebrating the moments that brought the most laughs, tears, and confusion on the podcast. They hand out recognition for the year’s most spot-on predictions, the worst advice they accidentally gave a listener, their funniest fumbles as parents, and of course, their favorite episodes of the year. It’s a fun, nostalgic wrap-up that highlights everyt...

The presents have been opened, the eggnog has been drunk, and the decorations are coming down — but things are only just heating up at the What We Said studio. In this bonus episode, Jaci and Chelsey crack open a fresh batch of your advice submissions, from a sister-in-law stealing your baby name to a boyfriend embarrassing you by splitting the bill. Whether your dilemma involves family drama, relationship woes, or just fi...

This week, the girls are wishing you a very merry Christmas Eve Eve and celebrating with a lineup of festive chaos. They’re diving into your biggest holiday pet peeves, the top dishes that should be on every seasonal table, and some piping-hot family scandals to sip on with your hot chocolate. There’s a lot of ground to cover — from potlucks with absolutely no rhyme or reason to hiding a family member’s true identity — mak...

This week, Jaci and Chelsey debate your hottest Christmas takes, because the holiday is approaching fast and there is so much to discuss. You sent in everything from whether strangers — or even straight-up enemies — should be welcomed into festive gatherings for the sake of holiday cheer, to whether wish lists are turning gift-giving into a consumerist chore instead of something magical. With plenty more cozy controversy s...

This week, the girls are chatting about the best part of this season — the gifts — until they’re not so great anymore. They dive into your submissions about the worst presents you’ve ever received, and we’re not just talking about a $5 gift card to a store you’d never step foot in. There are gag gifts gone wrong, destroyed family heirlooms, and even stories involving dead pets… yes, you read that right. This episode will m...

The girls are tackling the dilemmas you sent in and deciding who stands where. Things start strong with a classic inconsiderate brother-in-law and quickly spiral into wedding dodgers, family thievery, and a friendship situation so confusing it practically needs a flowchart. The lines between right and wrong will get blurred, but one thing’s for sure: the Valley girls are always correct.

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This week, the girls are diving into the worst kind of chaos - sister-in-law drama. From stealing the spotlight at someone else’s big moment to blowing through their husband’s money for a scandalous getaway, these listener write-ins prove that girls really can do it all… sometimes in the worst possible ways. Buckle up, this one gets messy.

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It's your favorite time of the month, the advice column is here! Our girls are diving into everything from holiday homesickness (or… is it nostalgia? seasonal depression? honestly, who knows) to handling pushy family members around religion, jealousy when friends start having babies, and what to do when someone keeps copying your every move. They also unpack a very tangled friends-with-benefits situation and plenty more li...

Get your tissues ready this Thanksgiving, because the annual tearjerker is back. This week, the girls are reading your heart-melting submissions to “the sweetest thing someone’s ever done for you,” and honestly, we’re not okay. From strangers stopping to help on the side of the road to partners setting the bar sky-high, and even real-life heroes showing up at the perfect moment, this episode is pure serotonin. It’s a much-...

The girls just can’t seem to let Halloween go — but this week’s topic is a different kind of ghosting. 👻 From one-night stands to full-blown engagements, they’re diving into your wildest stories of people who vanished without a trace. Whether it’s vague texts, sudden disappearances, or awkward run-ins after the fact, no one is safe from this digital Irish goodbye. It’s funny, chaotic, and just the right amount of petty — ...

This week, the girls are joined by the amazing Mimi Bouchard to chat all things manifestation, mindset, and creating your dream life. Mimi even hooked the Valley Girls up with an exclusive 2-week free trial and a 69% discount on her app at activations.com/whatwesaid ! From self-improvement hacks and romanticizing your life to real mindset shifts (and the difference between meditation and Activations), this episode is all a...

This week, the girls are feeling extra lucky — and they’ve got the stories to prove it. It started earlier this week by scoring some unbelievable finds at an estate sale, but then Jaci and Chelsey dive into listener submissions all about good fortune and serendipity. From sneaking into concerts for free to landing dream jobs out of nowhere, these stories will have you believing that good karma is very real. It’s a feel-goo...

This week, the girls are reading off your horrors while traveling — but first, they make some predictions for their 2025 Spotify Wrapped (spoiler: the mom era is definitely showing in the charts). They reflect on the end of tour season, sharing heartfelt thank-yous to everyone who helped make the live shows such a massive success. Then it’s time for the main event: your travel horror stories. From international mishaps and...

This week, the girls are recapping their Halloween-themed Los Angeles tour stop — and yes, Jasper and Chester made their grand return, joined by the one and only Tiffany (Tyson French) to bring the drama and seduction to the stage. They share all the behind-the-scenes chaos, from painful SFX makeup and a halftime mixup to the dreamy TEZZA photo booth that stole the show. Plus, they chat about what’s coming up for the rest ...

Halloween is creeping up, and the girls are out this week — which means Chester and Jasper are back to take over the mic 🎃 .Their mission: to read your terrifying listener write-ins. From music mysteriously blasting in empty rooms to candles blowing out on their own and strange creatures lurking where they shouldn’t be, these stories will give you chills. Plus, Tyson calls in to spill the tea on his unforgettable (and sli...

Fall is in full swing, and the girls are celebrating the season with a little thrift shopping for cozy decor — but not without a rant about how checking out anywhere has become a full-blown DIY nightmare. Jaci and Chelsey also dive into the chaos of modern life: finances, gender roles, and the weird realities of working from home. Things take a turn with a round of listener-submitted small-town horror stories that prove tr...

This week, the girls dive into Taylor Swift’s new album The Life of a Showgirl and share their unfiltered first impressions before getting into some of the craziest catfishing stories you’ve ever heard. From fake friend identities that go way too far, to situations that blur the line between funny and disturbing, these stories will keep you guessing until the end. It’s one of those episodes that’s equal parts jaw-dropping,...

This week, the girls are back from their Dallas tour stop and kicking things off with a little travel drama. From the wild emergency that happened mid-flight to the people who cannot wait to jump up the second the plane lands (we all know the type), Jaci and Chelsey have thoughts. After a quick chat about Dancing with the Stars week three, they dive into the main event: your dating horror stories. Getting stood up at dinne...