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HOORAY FOR TUESDAY!!!! Pee Wee Herman Is Dead, Public Masturbation, You Can't Escape Prison For Too Long, What Would You Go On A Hunger Strike For, Listener E-Mails, To Tell The Truth, & Class Action Lawsuits!!!

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seven. A little shocker yesterday nobodyhad him on the death pool. Paul
Rubens dead. All right, whatare you shaking her head for? I
didn't even realize that he was seventyyears old. That was a shocker to

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me. Was he seventy? Yeah, so you're shaking your head at that.
Yeah, I mean it's sad.I didn't the whole whole thing.
I didn't know he was battling cancer. I didn't. Apparently no one did.
Yeah, according to an Instagram post, some people like to keep that

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sort of thing to themselves. Yeah, and it's their right to do so.
Uh, there is some interesting thingshappening with it because people are,
you know, obviously like, ohhe was a part of my childhood.
Oh he was so funny. Ohhe was a jam. Oh he was
awesome, And everybody's gleaming over that. He got in trouble for pictures of

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kids? What what? I don'tknow the kids? Oh, child pornography.
I didn't know he had that either. Well that was the charge.
Well when he was jerking at andthat's a separate thing that he got in
trouble for. No, Aparently hehad some art, okay, um,

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like naked art, and some ofit depicted that of children. And so
two charges. One was for like, um whatever not porn specifically with children,
and then another one of child pornography. And they dropped the child pornography
one. He did thirty months probationand then got that other charge. I'm

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not saying he's a pedophile. I'mjust saying he had that charge. I
didn't know that. Nobody's talking aboutthat, all right, right, nobody
does really like when somebody dies,unless you're like, I don't know.
When Michael died, everybody was like, well they did that when he was
alive too. It was pretty fresh, to be fair, they did that

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while he was alive. They neverlet him live it down. Yeah,
yeah, they shouldn't. Yeah,nobody ever said anything about that about about
Paul Rubin whatever. That's why I'mshocked that that was even brought up,
because I did not know that thatwas a thing until like this moment right
here, and because he's dead,we're just supposed to have oh yeah about

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that. It was a good guy. Man. It's very funny. It's
fun to see all these celebrities,you know, who probably never even thought
of Paul Rubin or not tweeted abouthim that one said nice thing about him.
Now they're all coming to us,Oh, he's such a great guy.
Like I'm just scrolling through the Facebook, Katie Seagal, you know,
Peggy Bundy. Oh, my sweetPaul, I am speechless grateful at the

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same time for years of love andfriendship. You've been in my life for
most of it. We went toschool together Cal Arts before I dropped out,
and spend most of my time withhim. In his doing room looked
like the playhouse. We'd sneak outat night and break into the music department
and it says Seymour and I'm justnot gonna click on it to read the
rest. When you do a tributelike that to somebody after they're gone,

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it feels attention grabbing exactly what itis. That's exactly what it is,
because why else would I be mentioningPeggy Bundy's excuse me, Katie Sagal,
outside of being Peggy Bundy, Ihave no need to No, why would
she do it right? Like sheaddressed it to him. He can't read

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it, No, no, no, no, but she knows that other
people are going to be out therereading it. Was he funny? Yes?
Was that show amazing? Yes?I was listening to a thing yesterday
about him passing and he started thewhole like laughing thing that he does that
her. Yeah, it's because hewould do stand up and he couldn't remember

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his jokes, and so that's howhe made it, like tried to break
the uncomfortableness or if you'd mess up, that became a much And then that's
how the Peewee Herman character like evolves. Another fact I didn't know about him.
I didn't know it was a standup comedian. Yeah, yeah,
that's how that was his thing.And then he did the kids show.

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It's always weird when someone who doesa kids show or does a lot of
stuff for kids then gets popped forright, You're like, kind of makes
you wonder why did they do thekids show to begin with, because they're
attracted to that audience. There wasanother thing I read about him, and
he apparently was on Jay Leno Show, David Lennars, some late night show,

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and he was always so kind toeverybody and hit it off with every
green room has a like a runnerto get whatever they need or whatever,
and they're assigned to that room andso if the celebrity that's there needs something,
they just go, Hey, lindsay, where's the where's a Starbucks?
I want to go, No,we'll get it for you. Yeah,
right, That type of stuf andhe hit it off so well with that

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person. He was like, whydon't you come over for lunch? And
you're reading this story and the wholetime you're like, oh, man gets
to the house. Right, He'sreally gracious, shows them around his house,

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they eat lunch, and then he'slike, all right, have a
good day. Like that's all itwas. The whole time, you're just
waiting for like some weird right advancementor you know, to look like Peewee's
playhouse or something, and the wholetime he was like, No, he's
just a really nice guy, justtrying to be friendly to everybody. Right.

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Came off a little weird, though, I think the character was.
I think no, I think thatPeewee Herman or Paul Rubens came off weird
because most of the time you alwayspresented himself as Peewee Herman. Right,
he's stayed in character. Yeah,he did award shows. He showed up
as Pete Wee Herman, right,because no one knew who Paul Reuben was.

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Nobody knew like, we didn't knowthat Paul Rubens was the person.
Um there's another Um, dang it, I'm forgetting the name. It's a
comedian that also stays in character thewhole right, Stephen Wright stating character the
whole time? And who was theguy that who the man on the moon?

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Andy Kaufman, Yes, a littlebit like that. Wasn't he always
in character? No one's I mean, no, one's really sure because he's
so weird and he was just aweird guy that the people that were closest
to him, and we didn't haveInternet, and he didn't he when he
did TV interviews, he was alwaysthat. Yeah, but I remember red
carpet things with Andy Kaufman. Butthe idea that he's weird, he was

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weird because we only saw him asthat. And it didn't help that he
was in the midst of always beingpee wee herman that he then gets popped
for self pleasure, right, masturbatingvigorously. I was trying to think about
when that charge happened, and whywould I go to a place like that?

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Why would you go to a theaterto masturbate vigorous? Spect It's no
joke or no, it's no hiddensecret that there are places that sell sex
toys, or are theaters that havesexual videos porn on them? Right right,
right, right, pay a smallfee. You go back there handing
your business. There's one here intown, yeah, that you walk into

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and it smells like bleach when youwalk in. You're like, my understanding,
and I may have this wrong again, I've never been into a theater.
And then there's the box theaters,right, the little viewing ones that
some places have. There used tobe a place on um oh man,

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what are your bar that area?Yeah? Used there used to be a
porn shop there that had those areyour news? Yeah, And that was
always a weird place to go into, man, because the counter was way
up here. It was like sixfeet about like being a normal statured human
being. Oh, I have tolook up like like a child. It's

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so creepy because you have to reachup as an adult of money on a
counter or whatever. Yeah. Ithink I think it was to be able
to have a good eye over thestore. Oh is that it my understanding?
Because if my memory is correct,the one downtown was like that too.
Oh yeah, I haven't been ina minute. Yeah, yeah,
but those places. To get backto my point that those theaters are places

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sometimes where sexual acts not solo occur, and I've just never been one to
publicly want to master I never have, I never wanted to. I don't
I I don't know what's in there. I'm sure they keep them clean and

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in tiptop shape. What makes youfeel like that? What gives you that
assurance? With any other movie theateryou've ever been in? That gives you
that assurance. I'm sure there's ahealth code, health department codes is there?
They don't serve food. I don'tknow. I don't know. I

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think there's a law against having humanbodily fluids just you know, not being
cleaned up. I mean then youwould have to one someone would have to
report it too. They would haveto have somebody to come and check movie
theaters for bodily fluids. Right,I could be wrong, But when the
health inspector checks like movie theaters,like they don't go into the theater,

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right, is it any? Imean it's not. I guess it's a
little bit different. But is itmuch different from having sex on an airplane
or having sex with someone else ina theater or at a concert, you
know what I mean? Like maybeit was a bucket list thing for him.

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Okay, let's take because I thinkyou're mixing a bunch of things.
Sex in an public is the onlycorrelation with all those. Yeah, but
sex in an airplane with somebody,First of all, there's no way this
is a thing. Have you everbeen in an airport bathroom? I'm sorry,
an airplane bathroom? Yeah, Iknow, so so tiny you can't
turn around in him. People alwaystalking about changing clothes. I don't.

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If you've had it, done it, good on you? Yeah, I
don't personally know anybody who has.I don't either. I've never asked,
to be honest with you, MaybeI should start asking my friends, have
you ever had sex in an airplane? You brag about that, don't you?
Sure you're young? You sure youwould? Feels like any kind of
weird exotic place like that, youknow, airplane bathroom, the right on

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the beach, in public, Yeah, stuff like that. Of course you
brag about it. So okay,So I'm not one hundred percent that airplane
happens. If it does, supertimy mountain, right, and it's with
it's in a private space, right, So there's that. Concerts. I've
heard of sexual things happening at concerts, but people that have sex a concerts

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again, I think super rare,right, and there's definitely a peeping Tom
scenario where you want to be voyeurismthat happens. Totally understand that, I
like people watching me or I hopeto get caught that danger level there,
But to have a place that isknown for that, you're not going like,

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oh okay. You can make themistake to go in to massage parlor
thinking you're getting a massage, right, right, because that's what it's advertised
for. You may know the underlyingHey, this is a happy ending joint,
you know, but you might notright. You might go, oh,
massage, okay, and go andthen when they offer you extras,

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you're like, oh, well,went in rome because because you want a
massage, right, But to gowatch a porn publicly, right, seems
not. I can't draw that connection. Like I get like the private theaters
like the ones we have here intown, but a doing your business there,

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totally get that. You know it'sprivate, you're enclosed space, it's
just you and the screen, okay. But going to a place like where
Paul Rubin got busted, where it'slike full blown theater guys, yeah,
standing sitting around and everybody's got onehand passage through. Yeah, Yeah,

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that's weird to man. I mean, I guess you've got to be very,
very very comfortable with who you arein order to be able to pull
that off. Get in front ofGod and everybody. You know, it's
just not for mein out. Didn'tGeorge Michael get busted for the same thing
I thought he got bust I meanhe I thought he got busted it with
in a bathroom in a park Ryan, That's what I thought too. Yeah,

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with the dude, Yeah, whichyou know is weirdness self. But
it's still private for the most part. I mean you can shut the bathroom
stall door. Sometimes you can evenlock the the main door to the bathroom.
So I get that. If it'sa group bathroom, then we're in
the same boat, right, andthis all happens like you're famous. Yeah,

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you could just rent a hotel ora hotel room and do something private,
you know what I mean, witha group of people, if you
wanted to do well at that pointin time, when when when when people
got busted, he wasn't doing theplayhouse anymore, right, he was still
popular over it. Well, ifhe wasn't wearing a suit, no one
who he was. That's true.Too. Right, he had the long
hair. You know, you've seenthe mug shot, the trench coat,

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long hair. Yeah, he didnot look like Peewee himself. Now,
if he would have walked in withthe gray suit, you know, on
the red bow tie the platforms,yeah, yeah, yeah, you'd have
totally been like Peewee's in here toPeewee. What do you think his net
worth was? Was pee Wee Hermanhuge show? Right? Yeah? And

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he was in a lot of movies. He wasnot so much the main character
like he was with like the Peeweemovies or whatever, but he was he
was like like, blow dude,he's money in that movie. A lot
of TV two, like the csisand right, there was a lot of
Cheats and Chong movies that he wasa part of. Okay, yeah,

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I don't know if I put thatin as a big like, hey,
you know, he was still onfilm and he still got paid for it.
Is my point, what do umseventy million? I want to go
lower than then. I'm want tosay fifty six point five five five million
dollars. He spent all his moneyin four shows well and cancer treatments as
of Elite. Yeah, I don'tthink that that took all that money.

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I get the joke, but no, plenty of celebrities had money and get
cancer and don't lose fifty million,right, yeah, and do we know
what kind of cancer he had?No? I I don't. Yeah,
so it's been interested, Yes,poor guy. Sure, I feel like

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that goes without saying, right,yeah, nobody's like good. Maybe maybe
some people are, but the numberof people that are like he was a
gem, Well, you sure didn'thelp him when he was here. Right
when he's going through his ass,Adam Sandler treats his friends better. So

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I mean, were they really friends? I don't know, probably not.
Maybe just because we never saw KatieSeagal with Paul Rubens doesn't mean they weren't
friends, right right. We don'tknow what the private life was either way.
None of us got points on thatone. And then that kid from
the TV show Euphoria died apparently hisdad died and then he couldn't handle it,

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and I think he killed himself.I was wonder because I saw the
kids only twenty five, right,and it didn't say how. My first
thought was drug overdose at that age. Yeah, that's kind of word drugs
or suicide. Yeah, and apparentlyhis dad died and he was not handling
it well and and his life ended. Yeah. He he battled with mental

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health. Yeah, don't we allAnd he emulated mac Miller on that show.
If you've ever seen that TV showEuphoria, it's I can't watch it,
dude. It is uncomfortable. I'venever seen it. Yeah, it
is watching young kids do a tonof partying and you're like, oh,

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Nan, young kids you yeah,um, I mean yes, but like
extreme end of it. Right,all right, we gotta take a break.
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seven prisoner escapes gets caught ten minuteslater. This happened in Pennsylvania, where
a prisoner was able to experience thesweet taste of freedom on Sunday night for

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a few short moments before being captureda short time later. The person,
who hasn't been named, was supposedto be temporarily housed at the Lehigh County
Jail in Pennsylvania. Officials said theprisoner escaped from the sally Port before he
ever made it into the jail itself. It's a secured area where inmates are
taken as they're transferred into a jail. There's no word yet from officials on

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how he managed to get away,but he was caught ten minutes later at
the side of an old banana Joe'snightclub. Officials say he's now facing state
level escape charges, which means itlooked it up. He could get five
more years added on to a sentencethat is five justified. I know it

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seems light. Yeah, that scenethat does seem weird. Yeah, Now,
if you hit a guard or somethinglike push the guard down. Maybe
that would add to that. Wonderwhat the percentage of success is that when
you escape from prison of not gettingcaught, right, because it doesn't matter
how long you're on the lamb.If you get caught once, that ruins

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that, right. I wonder howmuch it is like escaping from prison and
like never getting caught. That's literallywhat didn't I just say that? No?
I thought you said it in getcaught, No, and not to
get away with it? Okay,Yeah, because to me, percentage wise,
it can't be there. Yeah,and six of the eighteen systems,

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between five and fifteen percent of minimumsecurity and community level inmates escape. More
than eighty percent of the reported escapeeswere returned. Yeah, right now there
are since twenty nineteen, it saysthirteen prisoners who escaped and are still at
large. Out of how many escapesthough, how many are out there?
Okay, but we want to knowhow many attempts were made to escape in

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the same year, because that,to me is like why take the chance,
right if you know you're gonna getcaught, even if you get out
like that is a ready shoot aimething. Even if you get away one
you gotta get rid of your clothes. Right, A bright orange jumpsuit kind
of sticks out a little bit.Yeah, that's why they're bright orange.

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If you're are cuffed or shackled,you gotta get out of that. Yeah
yeah. And then after that yougot to be off the grid. And
now more than ever, you gottastay away from cameras, right, good
luck with that. They're on everytraffic corner. Yeah, yeah, all
over the place, so convenience stores, ATMs everywhere. Yeah, you're you're

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you're forced to move out into thewilderness. Forget to have about having an
ID, you won't have it.You'd have to have a fake name like
and a fake so security number.Right, start all over again. More
than that, you got to findsomeone who will fake all that for you,
right right, there's no way that'seasy. Good good man drags his

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uncle's lifeless body to the post officecollective pension check. This comes out of
Ireland, where there's this dude.He's like forty two. His name's Declin
hacking me and he lives with hiswell lived with his sixty six year old
uncle, Pete Dower with a dPeter Doyle. Now see old Declan and
Pete here would split the checks thatwould come in Peter's like welfare checks and

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his pension checks. They pay thebills and then split the money up afterwards.
How, somehow, at some pointin time, Peter died and old
old Declin still needed to cash Iguess, so he hatched this plan with
his buddy Gareth to like, hey, let's just go ahead and drag this
body on down there and try toget the check. And also a witness
had seen what was seemed like thetwo carry in the body all weekend at

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Bernie style, feet dragging behind him, and they called the authorities. The
authorities come to the post office,They declare Peter dead on the scene.
They say that there was no foulplay. Peter goes to court charges of
attempted deception, goes to court,gets sentenced to two years to like two
and a half years in prison,but ends up walking free due to time

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served and remission is what they say. So they're like, all right,
time served and you're really sorry forwhat you did, you can go free.
So they went ahead and let himfree. He is back on the
streets. The family went ahead andtook him back into the fold or like
it's all good brother, nothing toworry about, citing that he had a
long time battle with a heroin addiction. And they're like that, it's all

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good man, dead weight man.That ain't that ain't That's a real thing.
That's a real thing. And youimagine, at what bare minimum one
hundred and fifty ounds, it's goingto feel like two or three egg exactly.
Body in fifty five gallon drum washesonto Malibu Beach. A body was

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found Monday morning inside a fifty fivegallon drum that washed up on the southern
California shore. Investigators with the LosAngeles County Sheriff's Department had been on the
sand in Malibu. No information hasbeen provided, but the gender condition of
the body is also not disclosed.The case is being investigated by the Homicide
Division. I mean putting a bodyin a barrel, crazy, yes,

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and then putting it on a boatright, driving that boat somewhere and dumping
it. Yeah, those are signsof somebody that's done that a couple of
times before. I e. Cartel, whatever, mafia, whatever you want
to think. I don't think yourregular, average one off Joe would be
able to do that sort of thing. But maybe it's not out of the

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possibility, it's from a different ethnicity, from a different place, message in
a bottle man, right, Sothey just assumed it was gonna sink.
Probably think that, you know,as much as we've seen on TV and
movies that like criminals would learn,you know, maybe I don't know,

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pour a bag of quick reread inthere or something, right, you know,
go the extra step. It's worththe money, right, Yeah,
and maybe they did. But it'ssaltwater, right, who knows? And
when you say a statement, orwhen one says a statement like when will
criminals learn? I don't know howmany times have they been successful? And

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how can you track it back tome? I don't know if fingerprints stick
on a barrel eighty five gallon drumfloating in the ocean. Yeah, yeah,
I don't know either. I don'tknow. Maybe they don't, Maybe
they know something we don't. Maybeso me personally, I just as seemed
stay away from all that. Butyou know that's just me. So you're
walking on the beach, you're onyour little road trip and sandon to our

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Corpus Christie. You see it abarrel droll up on shore, kicking it
pushing it. What are you doing? Keep on walking, man, keep
all walking. That is a wholelot of none of my business at all,
whatsoever. Because nothing good washes upin a barrel on the ocean.

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You see what I'm saying, nothinggood drugs. Cartel is coming after you.
If you're digging into it, somebody'scoming after you. I found one
hundred and fifty thousand pounds cocaine anda barrel washed up on the shore.
I'm staying away from that. It'san interesting idea because if Sally is walking
on the beach and she found somecocaine washing shore, and they're like,

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you know, local citizen, Sallypulled it up on shore. And if
she dies weeks later, months later, that ain't making a splash. That
ain't making a new story. No, no, not at all. Yeah,
it's true. I might be aptto take package that washes up on
shore. But you know, ifyou you see, you've seen them whatever,
you know, the bundles, thebarrels, you know, they're just

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kind of wrapped in seran rap orwhatever, you know. But a steel
drum, fifty five gallon drum sealedso a saran wrapped brick of weed washes
up on shore. Yeah, there'sa good chance that I'm probably you know,
at least be like, hey,what what, what's what's going on?

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So that you're yeah, why not? You can you can see what
it is, you know, maybewrapped in plastic, but you can tell
what it is inside a drum,a metal drum. You don't know what's
in there, Brian. If youdon't know what's in there, and I'm
not gonna take the chance, whatif you could go through the body's wallet.
Now I'm just saying like you're takingit because you want the weed.

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No, I'm good. What aboutyou, lindsay we were walking with your
family, fifty five gallon drum rollsup on shore. I'm I'm probably too
concerned with whatever the hell my kidsare getting into on the beach, and
I probably don't even see the drum. Yeah. If I do see it,
I don't have the tools to probablyopen the drum, So I'm gonna

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leave it there. Yeah, I'mnot gonna go down to the local ace
or whatever and be like I needa crowbar, yeah, or you know,
a sawsall or something like that.Yeah, but if you rolled it,
you would feel the body shift inside. Yeah, maybe, yeah,
maybe no, it would do unlessit's encased in concrete, because they listen
to the Morning Show and they're like, hey, this gimpy guy's got an

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idea. Sure he's the mastermind ofcriminals we've been missing, he's got the
inside track. Yeah, yeah,bring him on a board, right,
thank you. We're probably gonna assumeit's an old garbage tan or something.
What's an old garbage? An oldgarbage? Can you know? All right?
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for defamation after the league started itscrackdown on sticky substances Parkins and worked for
the Angels for four decades, butwas dismissed in March of twenty twenty when

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the crackdown started. Harkins admitted thathe routinely created a sticky substance made a
rosen and pine tar, and hegave to both Angels and visiting pitchers.
Core documents say that the league neverenforced the sticky policy and never clarified it
was against MLB rules. The defamationoccurred, according to Harkins in media reports

(33:40):
after he was fired. Anonymous sourcesalleged defamatory information that was leaked by the
league or by the Angels. Thecase was settled before it even started in
the courts, which surely was inthe best interest of Major League Baseball.
Terms of the settlement have been keptprivate. Ohio State is gaining a commitment

(34:04):
from the son of a late NFLwide receiver. Chris Henry Junior, announced
he's joining the Buckeyes for the twentytwenty sixth season. The pass catcher is
the son of Chris Henry Senior,who died in two thousand and nine after
he fell out of a truck duringa domestic dispute. He was selected by
the Cincinnati Bengals in the third roundof the two thousand and five draft and
spent five seasons with the team.Adam Pacman Jones adopted Henry Junior after being

(34:29):
a close friend with his father duringtheir time at West Virginia. Henry Junior
chose Ohio State over Georgia, Clemson, and USC and the drama factory shows
no signs of slowing down. Forthe Indianapolis Colts, Disgruntled running back Jonathan
Taylor has asked for a trade andis coming off ankle surgery. He's also
on the physically unable to perform list, and then it was announced that he

(34:52):
was having issues with back payne.Meanwhile, Colts owner Jim Ursey says that
a trade won't be happening, andeven if one did get offered up,
no team will be willing to paythe asking price. And now there's this
with a back injury announcement. There'sword that Ersay is considering putting Taylor on
the non football injury list because hesuffered it working out in his on his

(35:15):
own in Arizona. And now theColts could then opt to withhold pay from
Taylor, and then Taylor just tweetednever had any back pain. I never
reported back pain. Now I'm notsure who these sources are, but I
need to find new ones, andso do they. The only sure thing

(35:37):
going on here is that it's notgoing to be ending quickly. I mean
petty, it's all petty, yes, and that is your bass to the
wall sports. I'm Lindsay on ninetyseven five KMO. Good morning, It's

(36:00):
the Big Man Morning Show, foursix zero KMOD can also text bmms and
then what you want to say toeight to nine four five, Good morning,
Lindsay, Good morning Corbyn. ThreeDoors Down and Candlebox Wednesday, August
ninth at the Walmart Amphitheater and Rogers, Arkansas. If you want to go

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for free, sign up to wina pair of tickets online at kmod dot
com. Good morning, Gimpy,Morning Corbyn. If you're too cheap to
pay for Oklahoma tickets, you canlisten all month long on Thursdays because we're
giving away a pair of Brockloma ticketsall day on Thursdays. Let's go listen
for the queue, be the rightcaller, and then boom you gratch yourself

(36:45):
pair of weekend tickets to Rocklahoma thisyear Labor Day weekend prior. You say,
uh, pickle ball is gaining aton of popularity, right, yes,
people want to at least we've been. Let do believe it's gaining a
bunch of popularity and pickleball. Pickleballcourts are popping up all over the place.

(37:07):
I get to see pickle ball gearat like Dick's Academy, does it
okay? Or Walmart? Right?To be honest, I'm not looking for
it, so right, right,it took them forever to get any kind
of disc golf gear in You don'tknow what I mean. Before you'd have
to go online. Before basket casewas around, you'd have to go online

(37:28):
or find especially stop somewhere that's notin Tulsa. So I mean I could
see there the slow go on thepickle ball, and so people are getting
annoyed with pickleball courts. This iswhy I don't think it's gonna because it's
loud, Okay, is it really? Oh yeah, Okay, it's ping

(37:50):
pong, but with whiffle balls andwooden paddles, So it's a think okay,
super loud. Right, And thisone family decided their way of protesting
or dealing with it would be whatlindsay, complaining big time? Okay,

(38:15):
Gimpy, I'm going to say,heavy metal music cranked up to eleven.
Nope, damn it, lindsay puttingup signs, Nope, loud, obnoxious
sex, noises, sidebar. Theyhave put up signs, but that's not
how they're protesting. Neither one ofthose is correct. Oh, roping off

(38:37):
the court, No, because thenI think you're like trespad. I don't
think you can just rope off somethingthe city owns. I don't think you
get I think you get in troublefor that, Gimpy. How about a
chainsaw art competition? You know theyroll out a couple of stumps and you
get people out there what their chainsaws, making like bears and wolves and stuff.

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How would that it would come backto noise? Louder exactly? Fight
fire with fireming. They're going ona hunger strike. What the hell that's
gonna not gonna do anything but makeyou hungry, thinking that they're going to
care about them not eating. Well, you're not Gandhi, And if I

(39:20):
remember correctly, Gandhi did it fora different reason. It was for the
Again, you're the hero of yourown story. So maybe they think they're
doing it for the whole, thegood of the whole, right, Like
the noise is bad for everybody,but it could just be those two.
Everybody else is just kind of okay. Yeah, it sucks, but whatever

(39:40):
is what it is. For awhile, I lived my wife and I
lived with my sister in law overin Skytook and it's near the high school
and Saturday mornings band practice, right, and it's loud, yes because they're

(40:00):
band right, And I remember beingfrustrated. Not once did I ever go
walk. I'm you know, what'swe'll teach them if I don't eat?
And so I was trying to thinkof what would I go on a hunger
strike for. Okay, because pickleball, I don't get it. I find

(40:27):
it hard to believe it's that great. Sports are great, right, disc
golf is great. If you loveit, that's fine, but I it
isn't. I don't know. It'svery subjective, so I don't see what
the big to do is. It'snot like eating a piece of pizza.

(40:50):
We're like, oh, and peopleeat it. They're like dang, nobody
leaves pickleball like Man Disney Warm World, pick a ball, right, right,
unless you're over the age of fiftyfive. Yeah, and fine,
but if you haven't played sport andI'm getting off on the wrong can Um,

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So what would you go on ahunger strike for, lindsay, I
mean for something that matters homelessness?Sure, world, hunger? Yeah,
just pick one for you. Yeah, um, child abuse, So why
don't you then, yeah, yeahabout that? Yeah, so then you

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wouldn't to the point, right,I'm not picking on you to the point,
not even child abuse. Gimby probablyif they decided, hey, we're
gonna take your legal weed away likewe had at once and that was all
good and gravy. But they're like, nope, not any hunger strike.
Huh. Be Like hey, waita minute, everything was just fine.

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Now we're gonna sit out in frontof the capital and starve ourselves. To
be fair, there's nothing, Honestly, if you want me to be one
hundred percent honest, I don't givea damn about anything to go on a
hunger strike, but to play thegame, I'm gonna come up with something
and let's go and be taken awaymy legal week. I'll accept nothing than
nothing, because I think that that'sa fair. The only thing I could

(42:21):
come up with was if I wouldgo to John Q route, but instead
of taking hostages, okay, Iwould go on a hunger strike John Q.
The movie Denzel Washington, his kidneeds to be on the hard transplant
less blah blah blah. He takeshostages and then he's the hero. Right
so, but honestly does a hungerstrike ever work out? That's my other

(42:42):
point is you can't just sit inyour room, right, Oh yeah,
who's gonna pay attention to that?Nobody. That's why you have to do
it in public. And you haveto change yourself to something. I feel
you have to chain yourself to something. Well, it relieves the temptation again,
it up and walk to the burgerking across the street and get,

(43:04):
you know, something to eat andcome back a protest like you'd have to
be on display of everybody seeing youdo a hunger strike. Let's just say
you go to the mall and youhave a sign. Well, now you're
protesting the mall. I don't knowif they love that. You don't want
to disrupt all that shopping right allyour build a baron. So let's say
you change your now you're trespassing rightnow. It's not about your cause.

(43:30):
Now, it's your trespassing, rightyou and why to get your kid a
heart or in child abuse or legalweed is the smaller print. It is
protesters were removed from the mall fortrespassing. Right. That's a bigger deal

(43:50):
in itself right there, because nowyou're interrupting a peaceful protest. It's all
right, no you can't. Youcan't. Well it's our right a peacefully
assembol not in places that are private, in private, yes, Like I'm
all that's not public? How isthem all not public? Because it don't
buy a private entity. It's aprivate property. Okay, that's why you

(44:10):
can be trespassed off of it.Then go do it at the courthouse.
You have to do it on thestreet or on the sidewalk, right,
that is public land. But theidea of going on a hunger strike Texas,
a hunger strike doesn't even work inprison. They will come in with
cert and take you at four point, you take you out for point you

(44:36):
and force feeds you with a tube. Yeah, they give you, they
give you stuff, yeah, becausethey have to take care of you.
The idea like are there rules solike, you know, when you do
a Guinness World Record, they allowlike bathroom breaks and sitting breaks and all
that. In a hunger strike,is there rules like am I allowed to

(44:59):
have like something every few hours?Well, I'm a diabetic and my blood
sugar killer get too low right righthyper semic? Yeah, I don't think
that there's really rules like that whenit comes to any kind of strike at
all whatsoever. Maybe they'll let youhave some water because it's so hot outside,

(45:20):
but if you really, really reallywant to send your point home,
you'd go without any of it.No liquids, no solids, no nothing.
Yeah. I feel like you haveto be all in or nothing,
right. You can't half ass aprotest man. A half as test just
loses all oom. I agree,And there's like what are you what are

(45:42):
we even doing here? Yeah?You gotta be committed. If it's the
main thing, make it the mainthing. Yo. Absolutely, And this
says there are rules for a hungerstrike. Who made these rules? Yeah?
Yeah, okay. Rule one,before commencing the strike, appeal to
the other side to reconsider their positionwhen it doesn't escalate by announcing a willingness

(46:04):
to suffer through self inflicted hunger forthe cause. Rule two alert the media,
which is what we kind of talkedabout. It's okay if if if
a tree falls in the forest andno one's there, how do you know
it fell? Right? True,The abdominal melodrama of a hunger strike is
irresistible, especially if major players,including a president, are involved. Real

(46:29):
three have a physician handy to issuemedical bulletins at the first sign of deterioration.
During the strike, one protester heateda doctor's advice and took to a
hospital bed there to be hooked upto an ivy to counter dehydration. Well,
then that's not the hunger strikes overat that point, right, right,

(46:50):
because you're getting something inside you displayingan iron will if it helps,
it helps. If one's spouse expressesfears to the media that a coma could
come at any time, yeah,that's true. Like you need someone to
be your spokesperson, and he'd belike, listen, today, he slept
most of the day. We thinkhe's sleeping, could be dead. Yeah,

(47:13):
it's got to be really orchestrated,right, So I gotta get a
doctor and a sane person. Seemslike too much already, right, It's
a lot of preparation and organization togo on a hunger strike. Hunger strike
I've always heard of like fold yourarms. No, right, you can't

(47:34):
do that. It's got to You'vegot to have some ins and outs.
You probably need a Facebook page,right of course, how else are you
going to get your message out here? I mean, because you know,
not everybody can get the news tome. Oh yeah, we got other
things. There's a cat stuck ina tree we need to cover. Dude,
I'm going an hour maybe. YesterdayI had a smaller breakfast than I

(47:54):
normally do unintentionally, and by likeseven o'clock I was starving in here.
Right, a hunger strike. Iam not built for a hunger strike.
Oh no, oh no, Icouldn't do it. First donut shop we
went by, right. You know, if you're cry traveling down seventy first

(48:15):
Street, you pass all those restaurants, like I pass a Boilers and and
uh smash Burger, and I smellthat food and I'm like, yeah,
I want to stop in and getsomething to eat. Nope, I'm gonna
go home. Yeah, I'm gonnaeat a bologna sandwich or whatever good for
you does celery count Celery counts becauseit is substance, no calories, it

(48:36):
isn't Yeah, I know, itstill feels it feels a whole, it
feels a void, it does.I feel like celery doesn't count because it's
negative now because I'm always hungry aftercounties food Yeah right, I think if
it's putting something in your body,right, yeah, foode liquid, you
know, liquid solids, whatever,it doesn't count. Then I got it.

(49:00):
You're on a hunger strike and youget super duper hung you would have
to eat, okrah, that's it. But even then the strike is over.
Yeah, I'm still eating. Yeah, yeah, it's not you know,
I gotta eat what I don't like. That'd be your only option.
This is not a hunger strike,then no, and I'm eating what I
don't like strike and no water,no water, because that's still putting something

(49:20):
in your body. You have togo dry, man, you have to
go completely dry. No food,no liquid, no water, no coffey,
no soda, no nothing. Don'teven try to, you know,
pull some grass out and squeeze thejuices out of it, because that's still
getting something in your body. Somebodytexts in Tower Guy for those who know
the old building we were at.We had a tower in front of our
building, and somebody climbed to thetop of that and they were there for

(49:45):
five days, four days. Ihad national news out there covering it.
Is it longer than that? Lookit up, gimpy. I think it
was. It might have been longerthan that. Um, I don't know
if that now. It wasn't longerthan that, and I think it was
like five days. I think thatthat that's different. He was having a
mental episode. That wasn't he was, I'm protesting in hunger or lack thereof.

(50:10):
I think they even got food tohim, if I remember correct,
he took a gatorade up there,so I'm like, yeah, it was
in August two, if I'm notmistaken. He stayed on the tower when
severe weather moved in and even madea request for water burger because remember water
burger was smelling. After six longdays of negotiations, it was retired TPD

(50:36):
crisis negotiator Tyrone Lynn who was ableto convince the man to climb down.
Yeah, one hundred and twenty totallyone hundred more than one hundred and twenty
eight hours is how long the standoffwas. That's insane, and was again
he wasn't striking striking, he wasjust having a mental episode. Fo.

(50:59):
Yeah, August sixteenth, all right, So this article from it was like
channel nine or whatever. It saysAugust sixteenth of twenty twenty, twenty fifteen,
and it says here it was fouryears ago today, So twenty eleven,
twenty eleven, August sixteenth, twentyeleven, August, middle of August

(51:20):
in Oklahoma. I remember it wasone hundred and something feet up in the
air on a tower, a metaltower. Just was it one hundred?
I don't think it was one hundred. It was pretty high up there.
He didn't go all the way inthe top. No, it wasn't a
hundred. The man climbs a threehundred foot communication tower doesn't mean that he
went at least halfway. So you'reright, Yeah, so about one hundred.

(51:42):
But he was up there a ways. He was up there a ways,
and he slept up there. Yeah. How long does it take you
to get angry? Lindsay, couplehours? Like two? Yeah, yeah,
so after two hours you get angry. Yeah, if I haven't had
any coffee, especially like if I'vejust had lunch, let's go with lunch.

(52:05):
After lunch, how long do yougo before you get angry? If
you can't include the morning because youall night? When all night without food?
Yes, I've gone all night,but if I haven't had anything,
like if there's no coffee in mysystem, yes, lunch, Yeah,
so I mean six seven hours,six seven hours I've had lunch. I'm

(52:28):
good. So from lunch, youcould go six or seven hours and not
get angry pressive, Yeah, gimby, I'd say about yeah, about the
same eight or nine maybe if Ilike, let's say I eat lunch at
noon, you know, and ifI'm not eating by like eight or nine
o'clock at night, then yeah,passie Pete's coming out. I think four

(52:51):
hours, and I think I'm beingI'm overshooting dramatically, right, But you
eat regularly, trying to eat everycouple hours for sure. Yeah, And
that's probably why you know, Iused to. It wasn't until last year,
maybe the year before that, thatI started eating breakfast in the morning,
you know what I mean. Iwould skip all the way up until

(53:13):
lunch, and even before that,even before that, I would skip breakfast
and lunch and just go straight todinner, you know. What I mean,
So I could go all day.My body's pretty well conditioned to go
quite some time without eating. Somany tanks in I do at work with
work fast right where at work theydon't eat that you fast in the overnight
hours. And typically people fast andthey go from maybe they do one day

(53:38):
and that's not a protest. No. The problem with fasting is that people
will fast like they go, Oh, I fast one day a week,
Okay, but you're over and thenwhat the next day you pound two days
worth of calories. That's not fasting. Then the idea is to reduce your

(53:58):
caloric intake. But if you doone day, but then you make up
for it over the next six right, you're just right back where you start.
Yes, and then you're just doingsome fad. Not the same as
a protest, but for pickleballoo.All right, we gotta take a break.
We'll be back. Tulsa's morning showPeas Cody, Good morning, It's

(54:37):
the Big Man Morning Show. Foursix zero km o D. Let's play
a game. Motley Crue and defLeppard are gonna be over at Chapman Stadium
on the Kents of the University ofTulsa on August sixteenth, Big Outdoor Show.
Alice Cooper's the guest, special guest, not just a regular guest.

(54:59):
Take it the Beilable Live Nation dotcom. But we gotta pair of tickets
for you. Now we're gonna playSing Sing Kurt record is Oh, I
am leading this one with ten.Corbyn's kind of right there behind me with
eights, and then Lindsay so farbehind. I probably shouldn't even mention her
score. She has four. Lastweek's Winter So Gimpy and Lindsay at nine

(55:20):
eight four six zero kmot nine oneeight four six zero kmot call up,
decide who's going to be the personto give you clues? Whoever gets the
most right is getting those tickets tosee Motley Crue and def Leppard. Uh,
good morning, you're on the air. What is your name? Xavier?
How are you today? Good?How are you guys? Good?
Who's gonna be giving you clues?Lindsay or Gimpy Xavier? Sixty seconds are

(55:45):
on the clock. Timer starts afterthe first clue? Are you ready?
Oh, let's get it all right. This is a group of four rappers
come out of the eighties. EasyEat ice Cube, Doctor Dre would oh
get them. Yeah you did,all right? Uh jay Z's wife.

(56:07):
Uh, this is yes, andthis is where she's talking to a particular
group of women that don't have aman. Yes. This is zag Dela
Roach's band. And this is aboutthe thing that you're listening to now and
a type of warfare that is namedafter primates Um radio. Yes, radio

(56:30):
not monkeys, but the bigger ones. Radio Gorilla. Yes, now put
it all together radio Grilla. No, you got a backards radio radio.
Uh. This is the woman thatlooks like the guy from Saw right now
she sings um that virgin song orwhatever you know I'm talking about? Yeah,

(56:55):
yeah, yeah, who sings that? Um? Um? Not not
important. This is what you do. Time two is what you got.
Xavier might be good enough for thewind. Hang on the line. Okay,
all right, good morning, you'reon the air. What is your

(57:16):
name? DJ? DJ? Howare you? I'm fantastic? How are
you good? DJ? You andlindsay you've got to beat more than two?
Okay, oh my gosh, lindsay, come on girl, we got
this. Here we go. Gay. I know you want to leave,
man, but I refuse to letyou go. When you get on your

(57:44):
knees and you are pleading to someonebeggy yes, uh huh. And this
is a Motown song all males,boy, do you know motown music?

(58:07):
Yes? Okay, so you areyou see you stand tall? And what
croud? Uh huh uh huh.Yes, so you have two of the
big words in there, you said, uh huh, yup, Yes,
I know you. Yes, uhhuh, I'm dauntably okay. Well I

(58:32):
can't pass it. Okay, soyou're gonna know one another word for it,
proud Mary no ah, you boy, this was a word that you
you weren't supposed to say it becauseit wasn't in the dictionary, and then
it wasn't the dictionary time. Unfortunately, the time ran out and one wouldn't

(58:59):
have been an enough anyway. DJ, thanks for playing. You're welcome,
congratulated, and Xavier all right,see you later. Xavier, congratulations.
You're getting tickets to go see MotleyCrue and def Leopard. They're gonna be
a the Chapman Stadium on the campusUniversity of Tulsa on August sixteenth. Hang
on the line, so gimping getyour info, all right? Thank you

(59:19):
see the one that Gimpy ended on. Oh yes, life is a miss
story. Everyone must stand. Uh. I hear you called my name and
it feels like home. Yeah,she's coming to the Bok Center, not

(59:42):
right now, anytime, So that'sright. That's got postponed, probably canceled.
Um, yeah, you do thisin church, watch football. I'm
just thinking of things you do inchurch. You get down on your and
yeah yeah. Uh. And thenthe one that he spilled the beans on

(01:00:09):
the rappers. There was a movieyou recently made about it. Not recently,
I guess, but a few yearsback. Um. Yeah, the
clues are right on at the time. Yeah. And then she got it
right at the end. But wouldyou have done anything different for her?
Is gonna be? Oh no,he'll no, I've none about the same
thing. Drag it out until shedoesn't get it the record. Now,
that keeps me further into lead witheleven, keeps you at eight, keeps

(01:00:31):
her with four. All right,we'll be back. The Big Man Morning
Show returns next Tilsa's Morning Show ninetyseven five KMOD, Good morning, It's

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The Big Man Morning Show nine oneeight four six oh Kingmod listening else coming
up. We'll get to that first. We're gonna see what Gimpie has in
his four by four well Cobb andsays here that Biden to keep Space Command
headquarters in Colorado. US Space CommandHeadquarters will not be located in Alabama after

(01:01:15):
all. JB says that Colorado Springswill be the permanent home of the four
star Command. The news reverses aTrump administration decision to move the headquarters to
Alabama. Alabama, Colorado doesn't reallymatter where it's located at. I don't
think so plays no burying on meexactly. Sixty one percent of Americans lift

(01:01:37):
paycheck to paycheck. That's according toa new report from Lending Club. It
suggests that lower income workers have beenhit the hardest by price increases because food
and other stables accounts for a biggershare of their household budgets. Among consumers
earning less than fifty thousand dollars annually, roughly three orders we're living paycheck to

(01:02:00):
paycheck in June. This comes despiterecent signs that inflation appears to be cooling,
says here. The Hunter. Biden'sassociate says that President Biden's involved in
his son's businesses. In a closeddoor hearing yesterday, Devin Archer told Republicans
that the president was on more thantwenty different business calls with Hunter, and

(01:02:22):
JB says he's always maintained he knewnothing about Hunter's business feelings. And they'll
lastly here new group home opening forhomeless girls in Tulsa. Teens Excelling Beyond
as a Tulsa Foundation and they're hopingto fill a need in our community by
opening a group home for homeless teamgirls. The group home will house five

(01:02:45):
girls ages ten to thirteen. Alongwith a safe place to stay. The
girls will get theirpy lessons in aleadership and counseling on how to move forward
from trauma. Isn't it crazy?We need that? Yeah? And it's
only housing five five five teenage girlsand I hardly believe they're doing it because

(01:03:07):
there's only a need for five.Right, Well, we got these five
teenagers. Oh man, it's ahousewarm. I guess No, That's what
I'm saying is there's way more thanfive. Oh absolutely, So hopefully this
is the start of something that canget bigger and bigger and house all those
homeless teenagers. The Denver Broncos aretaking a hit to their wide receiver depth

(01:03:37):
chart. ESPN reports white out TimPatrick suffered a torn achilles in his left
leg during practice on Monday. Patrickwill miss another full season after missing the
twenty twenty two season due to atorn right ACL. Denver also had to
wave wide receiver kJ Hammler on Mondayafter he was diagnosed with a mild heart

(01:03:58):
irritation called a puria cartitis. Handlerwill step away to undergo treatment, but
could return to the team later inthe season if he's cleared. Dallas Cowboys
running back Ronald Jones will be sittingout the first two weeks of the new
NFL season. Jones is being suspendedfor the first two regular season games for
violating the NFL's performance enhancing drug policy. The twenty five year old signed a

(01:04:24):
one year deal with Dallas in Marchafter spending last season with the Kansas City
Chiefs. Jones finished last season withseventy rushing yards and one touchdown in six
games. He'll be eligible to returnto the Cowboys on September eighteenth. And
that's your vaults for the Wall Sports. I'm Lindsay on ninety seventy five KMOD.

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phone numbers I gave earlier. Justsays I was with the same guy my
senior year of high school. Thenwe went to college together and ended it

(01:06:01):
my junior year at school. Hemoved back home. I stayed in Norman,
my younger sister started dating him.I'm sorry my younger stepsister started dating
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just all spent a week together atthe lake, and my parents think I
should just be over it by now, but I'm not. I think it's
weird. He's still in the familyand has been with me and my sister

(01:06:24):
in law. I don't get tobe away from him. He's still in
my life. Who comfortable. Yeah, makes things a little weird when you're
gathered around and grew. Yeah.I remember when I ended my first marriage.
We were having troubles and I gotwind like I was whatever in an

(01:06:48):
argument with my ex at the time. She wasn't my X. We just
weren't living together, and she waslike, well, I was talking with
your mom and I was like,huh right. And I had to call
my mom and be like, hey, if you're gonna keep talking with her,
I can't talk to you. Youare not alone in that. I've

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had to do it several times inmy life, you know, And I
get it. My brother told mewhen it came to an X, I
mean, you can't stop us frombeing friends. And I'm like, you
were absolutely right. You are afree person. You could do whatever the
hell you want. But I feelout of respect for me. I don't
think that y'all should be, youknow, talking or hanging out. Once
the tier cut, the tieser cut. Yeah, you shouldn't be mingling with

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the enemy. I dated a guythat dated my best friend and they went
on a few dates and it didn'twork out, and he ended up asking
me out and we actually dated forquite a while, and a mutual friend
of ours ones asked her like,is it are you pissed that you know,

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Lindsay dated this guy or how doesit make you feel? She's like,
no, you know, it didn'twork out for him and I.
We weren't meant to be or whatever. We didn't. We dated a very
short period of time, But itworked out for them, so it doesn't
bother me. I'm a bigger personto know that it didn't work out for
us. They had more chemistry,whatever, so it wasn't weird for them.

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But I can see way a differentsituation. Yes, this person had
years with this dude and your friend. The chance of you being around your
friend or vice versa damn near zero. I mean, she was pretty much

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like my sister. I understand youguys were very close Christmas, Thanksgiving,
yes, intimate family holidays, allof that. Yeah, but sometimes you
just have to like that's saying brosbefore hose were sisters before misters. Sometimes
that doesn't exist. Sometimes you haveto realize that they make the better couple.

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But in this case is weird awkwardI think when like dating's already hard.
Right, I'm sorry, I'm justhaving her memory. My brother dated
this girl in high school and shewas a year younger than I think a

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year younger, two years maybe youngerthan him. And so then when I
went to school, because she wouldcome over, I mean, I knew
who she was. So when Igot to the high school, we I
befriended her because I knew her.Yeah, right, in the big scary
high school, I knew somebody andnothing sexual or maybe flirtation, not on

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my end, and we became reallyclose friends. And my brother never said
a word to me. But shedidn't come over at Christmas. Right,
you might have had some reservations inside, but he respected enough to keep his
thoughts to himself. He never saidanything to I mean, I'd have to

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ask him if it bothered him.I just remembered that, but again it
was it was friends. We weren'tlike, you weren't banging, right,
No, she dated one of myfriends. But I don't remember anything ever
happening. I'm trying to even thinkif I'd ever been to her house or

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she'd ever come to been at myhouse with me. I mean, yeah,
I remember her being at the housewith my brother, right. But
yeah, I there's plenty of storiesout there of people getting especially when one
of the partners, like somebody diesand then a sibling getting with the widow,

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right, which I've just been waitingall this time. It's really creepy.
I don't think it's that. Idon't think it's you know, lying
in the tall grass, right.I think it's more of the bond.
Okay, it's your way of thatperson living. It's so weird. I
could I could see that with adeath, right. I mean, kind

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of guys are both um trying tomourn and get over it, you know,
and sometimes you know, fire sparksand then there you go, you
guys have trauma bonding. It's yeah, but for one of the parties,
there's weird similarities right to the personthat's deceased, right exactly. They can
describe intimate parts of the other personif you get with if if somebody dies

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and then a sibling gets with you, you get a pass if you say
the wrong name, right, agree, Well, well hold on now,
how long I'll give you? Maybethe first year, right, because you've
got a lot of stuff going onthrough your mind and I could totally see
how that could slip up. Nowafter three years and you're still calling out

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Jim's name or whatever. Becky,you're just like Jim. Oh yeah,
no way. You don't get apass for that tax comminsu just a threesome.
If he agrees relationship over reasonable answer, you need to be happy for
your sister and minimize your contact.If he makes you uncomfortable, nuclear answer,
you gotta try seducing him. Burnthat relationship all the way down.

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Be the cheat and who ye anotherone? Sabotage it or get over it?
Another one. We have now foundthe reason Corbyn's brother still intentionally gets
under his skin. Don't brothers dothat? They do that anyway, It
doesn't matter if there's a dame involvedor not. Yeah, sabotage man,

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really, I mean, what goodis that going to do. Let's take
that sabotage route for a second.What good's that gonna do? That's going
to drive a huge wedge between youand your family, you and your your
friend or whatever. Is that reallysomething that you really won't just because you're
pissed off because your sister grabbed upyour your ex. Old man, I

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am confident I have sabotaged relationships,but not from a mister Boone's scenario,
this kind of happenstance. It justyeah, it was just a character trait
that I did that, Right,we haven't talked about the guy. Oh
what kind of like you into relationshipand you're like ah, and it's a

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step sister, so there's probably nota lot of facial body similarities. Absolutely,
but still it's weird to be likeyou ever go, well, I
like her, but I'm gonna bearound Sally a lot o none of that
smoke where I'm still connected. Istill have a heart for her, right

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Yeah, what kind of psychopath doesthat? Right? Who's to say that,
you know, all aren't gathered aroundon Christmas, you know, having
a few drinks or whatever, andwhile the families in there helping make dinner,
or whatever. You guys are outsidechilling and next thing you know,
you're running off to the shed somewhere. It's possibility could happen. Or the

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first time you're just having a conversationin the kitchen while everybody else is having
fun. Yeah, oh yeah.I was this girl for a few years
and we even had a child together. We ended up splitting up, and
then my cousin got with her andthey started to have children. So now
my daughter's siblings are also cousins.Family should definitely leave X's alone. S

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Even cousins is a little different.Yeah, yeah, because some people in
their families they see their cousins alot, and in some families they never
see their cousins. So it justdepends on which family scenario set up you
have. So I guess ultimately inthe end here it's a matter of how
close you are with the person that'swith the you see what I'm saying.

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I've never been on vacation with mycousins. My children, though, have
been on vacation with their cousins alot. Uh right. Yeah. A
matter of fact, some of mycousins, if they walked up to me
in a grocery store, and saidhello. I'll be like, who the
hell are you? Right? Wow? Really kind of familiar. We met

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before. I meet a lot ofpeople. I hope you understand. Why
do you say wow to that?Lindsay, it's just surprising why you would
know who your own cousins are.Why wouldn't it kind of sad? Why
is it sad? Was a personwho grew up very close to my cousins.
I just find it sad, ButI'm glad that your kids are close
to their cousins. Sure, Ihaven't seen Okay, so what was it

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like? Three years ago? Iseen one of my cousins for the first
time in twenty years, probably longerthan that first time, since I was
like, you know, fifteen,Okay, I recognize her. You know.
The only reason I knew was mycousin because my brother's like, hey,
cousin, Brandy's here. Okay cool. But outside of that, I

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haven't seen any of my cousins sinceI was about fifteen and you were an
only child. Yeah, so yourcousins probably came around, see you'd have
somebody to play with. Exactly.Definitely. I loved hanging out with my
cousin. Sure, and me growingup my We lived six hours away from
any family member both sides, andthen some of the other siblings moved even

(01:16:45):
further away, like twelve hours away. I've only seen one of my dad's
siblings once that I can recall mywhole life, because families are weird like
that. Somebody in I dated agirl in high school, broke up,
dated my stepbrother for a little brokeup, got with my oldest stepbrother,

(01:17:05):
and got pregnant. He turned intoa deadbeat, and now me and her
are best friends. Sounds like Iworked out keep it in the family.
It's another text. Another one,how big is the town? What if
it's a stop sign? Not alot of options here, right, Another
one, I just choose to notbe around them. If your parents are

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mad at you missing Christmas, I'dtell them to get over it already.
Another one. I was with thisgirl for a few years. We even
had a town. Oh yeah,that we read that one already got with
a cousin. Family should leave X'salone. The idea of how big the
town is, I mean, youwould be aware of that. It's one

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thing to do family vacation together.It's another even in a stop sign town,
right, Like I'm thinking about.You could live in Jinks and still
live in you know, Bixby orOwasso and be away from not have to

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see it right, right, right, because there's separation of other towns and
cities between you. But have youboth lived in Barnstall? Yeah, yeah,
you're forty five minutes from another town. Yeah. Yeah, So pigans
are pretty slam So you're gonna runinto each other at the store. Absolutely.

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The only reason I still communicate withsome family members is because their air
conditioner is down. God just usingyou right listener. Email that came in
from somebody that says I was inwith the same guy my senior year of
high school, then we went tocollege together. To me, that's also
a little different. If you justdyed in high school and then you went

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to college and that end, that'sdifferent, right. But the fact you
went to college together, yeah,you bonded. You grew up, like
you carry that relationship with you intoadulthood, from adolescence into adulthood, and
there's a lot of changes that happenedin those ten years. I would argue
they probably live together, Oh sure, yeah, for sure, whether they

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stayed in each other's dorm room orwhatever that looked like. They spent every
day together sometimes in high school.That doesn't happen anyway. He moved back
home and I stayed at school inNorman. My younger stepsister started dating him.
Now there are a couple and havebeen for three years. We just
all spent a week together at thelake and my parents think I should just
be over it by now, butI'm not. I think it's weird.

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He's still in the family and hasbeen with me and my sister in law.
I don't get to be away fromhim and he's still in my life.
Lindsay, I think it is.I feel for because it is strange.
Here she spent three plus years withhim and now her stepsister has been
with him for three years. Herfamily saying get over it. Well,

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you can say the same thing tothem. You don't have to hang out
with them, and you can tellthem to get over it. Maybe he's
doing it to keep tabs on heras well. Some people do that.
Yeah, some people keep one familymember in the role of decks just so
they can still have that reach tothat person. I think the easiest way

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for you to get over him isto get under someone else. So as
soon as you find a new relationship, you'll definitely get over theirs, does
he Yeah? Right, Yeah.I don't know. If I was dating
a girl and then she was like, Hey, come to my house for
Thanksgiving and we go in, thisis like, oh, this is my

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stepsister Karen and her boyfriend Frank,I would be like, you dated a
Frank. Is that the same Frank? Yeah, I'd be like, whoa,
whoa, whoa. Now I feellike I'm a part of some drama.
Now I'm gonna be like, whyare you talking to him so much?
You know what I mean? Like, it's it's a weird thing.

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It's a weird extra piece of dramathat gets inserted into a relationship that you
wouldn't even be aware. Like,oh yeah, I mean you can't help
who you fall in love with,so you can I mean, yeah,
I mean that is true. Hecould have stayed away from her, but

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he moved back to a small townor wherever. I we don't know that.
Yeah, yeah, they pursued eachother. Let just move along and
just try to stay away. Soyou think this is her problem? Um,
I mean, if they're it sucks. But clearly they're not going to
break up. Because of how shefeels, so she has no choice but
to get over it. And ifshe wants to stay away from that situation,

(01:21:55):
she's just gonna tell her parents.Sorry, I'm not it does bother
me, so I'm gonna stay awayfrom it, and you guys have to
get over the fact that I'm goingto stay away from you guys when you're
all together, you said something reallyinteresting there. Could she ask her to
break up with him? Maybe notnow, but initially, like when she
first got wind of it, Ithink she could have like, why would

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you want to date someone that waswith me for three years? That's weird.
I probably could have said something likethat, or something simple as hey,
I'm not comfortable with this. Youknow, we're family and I don't
like this at all whatsoever. I'msurprised by both you saying that because Lindsey
just gave a stance of you can'thelp but you fall in love with so

(01:22:39):
why do you think you'd be entitledto say something? And then I'm also
surprised by Gimpie saying it kind ofthe same mentality of people live the way
their lives, like why do youinsert yourself into it? Right? Right?
You can totally ask them not to, and you have every ride as
a human being to make that request. Doesn't mean that the other party has
to oblige. I'm actually more surprisedthat the stepsister didn't say to the other

(01:23:04):
sister, are you cool if Igo on a date with your ex boyfriend?
Why are you surprised by that?Are you supposed to do? If
she has any respect for what?Huh you ended it? Or why do
I got to check in with you? Why do I got to check in
with you on my life? Fact? Out of respect about my life?

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Yep? Because that's a sister.Huh stepsister or not? Out? With
all due respect, you don't know, right, I don't know. I
don't want the sister code is.I don't know what the brother code is.
I don't I'm not gonna contact mybrother and go, are you okay?
If I do that? I'm myown person, right, I would

(01:23:54):
have asked gimby. Uh. There'sa couple of ways you could really go
about it that'll be really highly effective. You could one start sleeping with his
dad, okay, and especially ifdad's divorced, you can really just start
a relationship with his dad and makeit as as humanly uncomfortable as possible.

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Two. Next time you guys areall gathered around in a family atmosphere,
whether it be the lake or Christmasor Thanksgiving, you know, you're sitting
there eating your dinner or whatever,and you'll look at her right straight in
the eye and you ask, orhow do I taste? You just leave
it at that, Oh God,well be you can just not or see,

(01:24:40):
which is probably what I would endup doing. I would just put
some distance between me and the family. And if the family doesn't understand why
you're putting that distance between you guys, because you're not comfortable with it.
You don't you don't like it,okay, you feel it's disrespectful to you,
then they're not much family anyway,and you might be better off without

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them, because I feel that familiesshould look at you be like, yeah,
I totally get it. I respectyou and your feelings, and well,
this is how we're going to doit. So for me, why
don't you just go ahead and justput some distance between you guys and go
from there. Maybe she'll come aroundand talk and be like, hey,
what's going on, and then youcan explain to yourself, well, this
is what's up, and then youmight be able to find out, Oh,

(01:25:25):
we'll work out together anymore. Okay, I don't know why your parents
are throwing shade. Why are theytelling you how you should feel? That's
weird, right. I think thatif you wanted to really squash it,
you could tell your mom you thinkhe's working through he's trying to work through
all the women in the house.You're next, Mama. She'll put her

(01:25:47):
guard up at least. Yeah.Right. I think it does suck.
It ain't cool. But you can'ttell people who they can date. It
doesn't go over well. And Ithink that you gotta just not make it
a thing. Just because you're havingthat thought doesn't mean to mean you need
to audibilize it. Let's say heis trying to get to you or be

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close to you. Audibilizing it makesit valid like he's won. Right.
If he's not trying to get youand they're happily in love and you audibilize
it, you're now that sister.Right, they're gonna keep you out of
arm's length. Yeah, Just itcan be sucky and uncomfortable without you having

(01:26:32):
to take action. You just haveto sit in it, right, it
sucks. It's not like she's gota meth problem and is stealing money from
you. Yeah, she's stole.I'm a man that I gave up a
long time ago. And just becauseshe's your stepsister doesn't mean she automatically makes
great sisterly choices because people be people, right, I think you're making it

(01:26:58):
an issue. I don't know ifit's really an issue. We suffer in
our mind more than we do inreality, so it's probably not even really
a thing. They may stay togetherlonger, right, just for spite,
hey may get married. All Right, we gotta take a break. You
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two to three times a week.Now she won't touch me. She won't

(01:28:02):
even try. I don't even knowthe last time I saw her naked.
We've been married for nine years,and it's been forever since we've had sex.
Sounds like it sucks. It's acliche for a reason, right,
because it happens they you get marriedand stop having sex. And it doesn't

(01:28:26):
say in this email how old theyare, because age does factor into their
right, things stop working, right, without the help of modern medicine,
things dry up, some do.Yeah, sometimes you know, so maybe
that's the case. I don't know. Sometimes they dry up without being old,
right, Sometimes they stop working withoutbeing old. Just happens. Yeah,

(01:28:46):
It's part of life, right,both sides of the coin. Have
they had children? You know,Hormones change big time and maybe um,
you know, moods change for differentreasons, not always just hormones. But
maybe there was a loss in thefamily of someone, a death maybe you

(01:29:11):
know what I mean, like aloss of a job or something changes,
the mood changes. The mood isdifferent than not have sex for years,
right, yes, right, right? Dry spells I think are common.
Not having sex for a couple ofyears. It is a problem, that
is, Yes, absolutely, atleast get it once a year. Goddamn

(01:29:35):
Christmas, birthday, birthday something.There should be at least two times that
you're getting laid right, Okay,right, Christmas and birthdays. I why
Christmas? Why Jesus' Birthday? Imean it's it's a gift exactly. Sorry,
I got you a skill saw andsome vagina, you know, But

(01:29:56):
it's just one of those special occasionsort of things. Maybe an anniversary,
right if you're married, an anniversary, a birthday, and Christmas. You
mean, those should be at leastthe three times a year that you're you're
you're going to poundtown. If you'resingle and you're not getting any of them,
that's just totally on you. Yeah. Yeah, isn't it interesting how

(01:30:19):
you get married You never have aconversation of what does our sex future look
like? Right, because Lindsay's right, like hormones change, like all those
things. But there's an understanding,you I think the probably separate understandings where're
like, we're gonna have sex forever, right. No, I don't think
anybody has an expectation of we havethe way we have sex in the beginning

(01:30:39):
is the way we'll have sex forever. Oh no, no, no,
I don't think anybody believes that everybody'srabbits in the beginning and eventually you kind
of level out and you know,sometimes it's twice a week. Sometimes it's
only on Saturdays. Whatever, Yeah, it happens. Yeah, never see
naked a whole other concern. Yeah, that was my next question. Was

(01:31:00):
there a sudden weight gain or somescar issues? You know, was there
something? Is she hiding something?Him? Not seeing her naked is a
him problem, all right, becauseI'm sure she takes a shower, hopefully
takes a shower at least once aweek. If you want to see your
old lady naked, just go peekthe curtain behind here. How you doing

(01:31:26):
and go back? So you're notseeing her naked is all on you because
of wearing headphones and some other things, like I don't hear sometimes I don't
hear when there's other ambient noise around, but I can hear the moment a
piece of cotton falls off my wife'sbody, right, And you're right,
like, I'm not going to missthat opportunity. I'm just not. Nope.

(01:31:48):
And but if he's been traumatized byher, oh like, don't come
in here, I'm showering or whatever. Okay, I could totally see that.
Maybe she's locking the door behind her. Yeah, I'm not blaming her,
I'm just saying that, right,Yeah, I didn't even think she
could have safeguarded. He could havetried. But right if my wife locked

(01:32:11):
bathroom doors, we would have tohave a conversation, what the hell's going
on? Yeah? Yeah, becauseespecially out of nowhere, you used to
not lock the bat if it's ayou've locked the bathroom door every day since
we've been together because you don't wantme walking in while you're taking up oop,
I understand. Yeah, but ifthis is all of a sudden and
start locking doors and you're taking yourphone with you, you know what I
mean, that's caused for concern.I would probably say something very similar to

(01:32:35):
that, but along the lines of, hey, if you want privacy,
you're locking it. For privacy,you don't need to lock it. I
will not bother you, absolutely,but locking the door tells me you don't
trust me exactly, you're hiding something. Maybe it tells me you don't trust
me for sure that I feel onehundred percent confident on a lot of texts

(01:32:56):
coming in. She's definitely a cheatingwhore. She'd be cheating. There is
a lot of that coming in.Yeah, I don't think because you don't
have sex, you don't have sexis not an automatic, they're cheating.
No, but a lot of thementality behind that is, well, if
I'm not getting it, she's givingit up to somebody else. If I'm
not giving it to or she's gettingit somewhere. Yeah, but then you're
undermining that that's a person, rightright, you just think they're a sexual

(01:33:21):
object, all right, right,Well, you're a person that's here to
fulfill my needs, yes exactly.Hey, likewise, I'm here to fulfill
yours as well. But if you'renot wanting me to fulfill yours, what
the hell is going on? Who'sdoing it? Because your appetite changes,
right right, and you're just likeno, no, no, they if

(01:33:44):
they must be getting it somewhere elsebecause they just want sex, right right?
Well, I mean, if ifshe never makes or nobody ever makes
dinner at the house and she nevercomplains about being hungry, bitch, be
eating somewhere right, not necessar necessarily, which sex is not food. You
need food to live. I'm justsaying, take a look at yourself.

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Is it something you're doing? Talkto her? Can she explain why she
isn't interested? Explore all options,get a divorce, don't stay in a
relationship where you're not getting what youwant. Valentine's Day, birthday, anniversary,
given us days that you should havesex on, right, I don't
know if I need sex on Valentine'sDay, what day of the weeks have

(01:34:31):
fallen? Yeah? Right? Isit a Friday? Saturday? With good?
Do you have extracurricular Tuesday? AndI don't want just birthday sex right
like I want, you know,streamers and maybe a blue arch like I
don't want to. I'm just sayingI don't want like you to check the
box, all right. I'm rightthere with you. I feel like birthdays

(01:34:54):
you should do that a little extraon both sides. Meelan, absolutely you
should do that little extra big justcoming in and going to poundtown and taking
care of business. Like you said, check in the box. I'll take
it, yea, yeah, yeah, yeah, absolutely absolutely. I will
eat Jack in the box soggy tacoswithout a problem. But I would,

(01:35:16):
you know, at least on mybirthday take me to the roadhouse or something.
Yeah. If I'm getting sex,right, that's the whole thing.
If you're getting sex only three timesa year and it's just box check sex,
that's a whole other problem. Inmy world. Yeah, yeah,
I would agree. I wanted tobe like a thing like, oh yeah,

(01:35:38):
when's the show start? Right?Popcorn right, get there early so
I can watch the trailers right stateof the end to see what the teaser
for the next version of the movieis. Maybe some outtakes. Yes,
yes, my wife and I hada normal sex life while dating, then
barely had sex when she when wefirst got married. It wasn't until after

(01:36:00):
she got off birth control that mywife had a sex drive. Now I
can barely keep up. Good foryou, she's a cheating horror. Could
be hormones. Would you rather gototally blind or totally deaf? Yeah?
Which beggars can't be choosers? Listeneremail. This is from a guy who

(01:36:24):
says that his wife and him usedto have great sex two to three times
a week. Now she won't touchme, she won't even try. I
don't even know her the last timeI saw her naked. We've been married
for nine years and it's been forever. Lindsay, all right, so how
is her mood? Has her moodchanged as far as her mood swings,

(01:36:44):
like? Is she a nice person? Is she a bitch? What is
that like? Because I would say, hormones. If she used to be
extremely sexual with you and then allof a sudden it's just nothing. Could
be hormones. Maybe she suffers andshe's not talking to you about it.

(01:37:05):
You have to talk to her,that is number one. You have to
discuss it with her. But ifshe is moody, I bet she is
going through something hormonal, some majorchanges, and she should probably call New
Leaf Wealness definitely and get her hormoneschecked, number one. But if not,

(01:37:25):
if it isn't hormonal, she mightbe getting it from somewhere else.
The whole not seeing him, notseeing her naked, that's weird too,
because that's that is completely different.I don't know. Like when I was
going through my hormonal changes, Imy husband still saw me naked. I
just didn't want to have sex.It was completely hormonal for me. So

(01:37:50):
yeah, he needs to first talkto her, not necessarily us her.
Have that conversation. Gimpie. Yeah, I mean, I definitely have to
have the conversation with it. Ithink that's the most important thing. Find
out what's going on, because itcould be a number of things. The
thing is, though, with theconversation, you don't know if they're being

(01:38:14):
honest with you or not. Arethey just telling you what you want to
hear, or are they just tellingyou what you feel you want to hear,
or are they telling you something thatyou know they feel will kind of
soften the blow a little bit.You just don't know. So that's the
fun thing about communication. And Icould just be me and my trust issues.
I don't know, you know,but it wouldn't hurt. It wouldn't

(01:38:40):
hurt to stop and be like,hey, what's going on now? And
another side of that is this guysays, oh, it's been forever,
and time in a person's mind isalways jumbled, right. It could have
been just maybe a couple of months, sixty days, Oh it's been a
for ever. Well, guys aretypically very dramatic in that world. Yeah,

(01:39:02):
exactly. You could have just gottenlaid a couple of weeks ago.
It would have been too drunk toremember it, okay, and then been
like, oh, I haven't hadsaxon forever, right light Mayo eggs.
Absolutely, So it's it's worth atleast the conversation. I wouldn't be calling
Jeff Hensley right now and been like, I want to divorce because this bitch

(01:39:25):
ain't put out the way that Ifeel as she should. You know,
but maybe there is something going on. Maybe it's hormonal, maybe she's just
maybe it's eight. Maybe there's anumber of things. But you you will
never know the answer until you openyour mouth, and even then you still
might not even get the right answer. So that sucks. I think I'm

(01:39:45):
my answer somewhere in between. Youguys, it's not my job to figure
out why something isn't happening. It'smy job as your partner to tell you
what the problem is and see whereyou land with it and can we come
to a solution together. It's notmy job to understand if it's hormonal.
It's not my job to under standif you're you're feeling fast. It's not
that's that's your side of the streetto clean up or deal with. It's
my job to have empathy for it. But I got first step is I

(01:40:10):
gotta tell you, hey, Ithought we'd have more sex. Hey,
I'd like to see you naked atleast once or twice a week. And
then if you want someone to bringyou juice every morning and put it on
your nightstand, then find that person. It's okay to want sex more doesn't
mean you'll get it right. Butit's okay for you to want that in
a relationship. But yeah, it'snot your job to understand why. It's

(01:40:35):
their job to communicate that to you. You can't pull that out because,
give me right, you won't knowif they're telling the truth. You can
always email a show at Kmodi dotcom. Four of The Big Man Morning
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Good morning, It's the Big nineMorning Show nine eight four six o
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that we're gonna win. Time forto tell the truth, Time to tell
the truth. This is your opportunityto ask anything you want. Just remember
keep it clean, no bodily fluids, nothing sexual, and don't forget.
We can't and will pass not aquestion. Let's open up the phone lines.
Here's Corvin in the Gang with allthe truth you're gonna need. So
I found this thing and it's sofunny. The question that's being asked is

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what's a terrible name for a dog? And besides the obvious like nutsack or
something like that. But the pointof it is is they've got to put
the name on a chart when youtake the dog or the pet to the
vet. Yeah. So like somebodyon there said they named their their pet
Bong Walter, Bong Walter, Soare like they call Bong Walter at the

(01:43:57):
vets. That's really funny. Itis funnyng Walter there. And another name,
Help is a horrible name for apet? Absolutely help, Help,
Help please? Yeah, is thereany help in the lobby? So what's
a horrible name for a pet?We had a friend growing up and they

(01:44:18):
were not creative. They had multipledogs and cats at the time that I
knew them all like thirteen years,and they named every single dog dog,
and they named every single cat cat, and they I was like, why
we never have to remember their name? Is it such a kick in the
balls that hard? Apparently it wasfor them? What do you name your

(01:44:40):
children? Kid? Thing one andthing too? So? What's a horrible
pet name? I think naming adog like kitty cat that's bad, embarrassing
on the dog. Why the dogdoesn't know any better? Right? Or
does it? Gimby Jill? DoI think it's funny? Yet? You

(01:45:00):
know, inappropriate name for a dogwould be funny to left to BET's office.
I always think it's weird when petsare named for people, right,
like Paul or Becky? Right?You know, like, what do you
why is you? Yeah? Ohso I took Becky to the park.
I'm like, oh, I didn'tknow you were Daty. No, it's
my dog, okay? Whatever?Weirdo? Right for Debbie Steve meet my

(01:45:26):
dog Steve? Right? And arewhen they have really really long names,
right, and I'm like, younever call your pet that name? Right,
like Bartholom you serve barks a lot? Yeah, something like it.
I thought it was strange. Wehad a one of our neighbors growing up.
Her name was Chelsea, and weand I didn't really know her.

(01:45:51):
I was I was out at theat the playground one day and I met
her and she had a dog namedLindsay. And we had a black lab
named Chelsea, and that was weird. What a coincidence. Your name's Chelsea,
I have a dog named Chelsea.My name's Lindsay. You have a
dog named Lindsay. Weird? Partof the matrix? Right? All right?

(01:46:14):
To tell the truth, somebody textind did Lindsey figure out her thermostat?
If not, she can contact thelisting rulator and have them talk to
the previous owner to get access tothe thermostat. Yeah, we did figure
it out. Yeah, what wouldyou end up doing? Devin actually text
in and told me what to do. Go into settings and figure it out.
Go into settings. Who's Devin?Her listeners don't know who that is.

(01:46:38):
He's a listener of our show.Um, Himpie's roommate. We didn't
have to go and announce all idbut okay you have before I cast.
Sorry, that announces it like she'sa superhero. Would you rather go totally
blind or totally deaf? Lindsay,I would have to say death, because

(01:47:05):
if I couldn't see my children orh. Yeah, they both would suck,
GIMPI. I'd rather go totally blind. Music is life. If I
can't listen to music, then whyam I even here? Yeah? I

(01:47:27):
think as much as I either oneof those, when it comes to the
people I love would not be awesome. I would find it hard to not
be able to hear them laugh orhear their stories. I have to wait
for them to do sign language orlike some thing. You know. Have
you seen the video of Margot Robbieout promoting the Barbie movie and she's working

(01:47:51):
the line like saying hi to people, and there is somebody who is deaf
and she apparently knows uh sign languageand has this whole like thing with them,
and you're like, man, isthat endearing? Yeah, she's cool.
Yeah, learning sign language cool?Uh? GIMPI Are we birthday buddies?

(01:48:15):
What's a birthday buddy? I guessif somebody you share a birthday with,
I don't know. So if theirbirthdays on the same day as mind
the seventh, then I guess so. Yeah. If it's not, then
we're not buddies at all. Abirth I don't know anybody I have a
birthday buddy with. Well, youdo you did? Oh right, you
did home now, but yeah,yeah, I know that's total. I
totally wrote that off. I forgotso much like when that happened. I

(01:48:39):
was just taken back right because Ididn't have anybody I should like had a
birthday on January first. Not manypeople do, not that I know.
I think. Out of all andI know a lot of people, you're
the only one that I know thatis on the first itself. I share
a birthday with the karate kid RalphMaccio. Well, okay, you'd probably
share a birthday with a lot ofpeople, even celebrities. I'm sure there

(01:49:01):
are celebrities born on January first,but I don't I can't recall any of
them at this moment, right,look up your birthday celebrities born on your
birthday, Lindsay, because I betthere's more than Ralph Macchio. For some
reason, that's just the one thatresonated with you. I think, if
we're going celebrities want to I said, share birthday with Jim Carey, but

(01:49:25):
I'm probably wrong on that. Okay, Yeah, the list of people that
are like famous feels very very thin. Uh. Tiger Woods's first wife,
Nice, that's the one that beathim with the club. That's the one
he cheated on, and then shebeat him with a club. Yeah yeah,

(01:49:47):
I think that's probably a little moreaccurate anybody, Lindsay Sean Combs shown
Puffy Comb. That's yeah. JeffProbes, there you go. Uh,
surviber guy, right, yes,Christina Applegate, Walter Cronkite, m A.
Marquis Post, Oh god, CurtisStone. Yeah. Uh, let's

(01:50:15):
see Laura Bush, Matthew McConaughey,so way more people than Ralph macchio,
Rachel McAdams, yeah, Kathy Griffin, Bill Night, the science guy.
Hey, y'all right, Minds ofVerne Troy Oh yeah, we uh oh
many yeah yeah, um, GeorgeWashington Carver Okay, a punch of which

(01:50:42):
I don't really count it. ButYouTube TikTok people, Yeah, they don't
count. I mean they're not thatthey're not famous, but they're not famous
enough. They're not famous enough.Betsy Ross nice the flag lady. Yeah,
what about you, gimpy dude,I am stoked about my list man.

(01:51:03):
David Decovny Okay, Wayne Night Newmanfrom Sign Yeah, all right to
me. Moore, Alan Alda,I share birthday with Alan Alda, that's
cool. Charlie's theren nice, ChrisHemsworth nice, okay, Julia Roberts nice,

(01:51:25):
Jennifer Lawrence. You've got the mostA listers, Oh absolutely, Jason
Momoa yeah, yeah. And thenthere's other ones in here that I have
no idea who they are. Yeah, you have won the celebrity birthday buddy
lottery. Everybody's the lottery, dude. It's different. Depends on the type
of lottery that you win. Uh. People that texting and all of a

(01:51:48):
sudden who they share their birthday with. I didn't know that that was such
a thing. Birthday buddy stuff.Yeah, I didn't know either. I
just thought we had the same birthdaytogether. I had Lyn Hernandez and I
have the same birthday. Yeah.But so he texted. And you're okay
with not seeing them smile. Youwould rather hear them laugh. Yeah,

(01:52:11):
I want to hear their stories.I want to hear about their life.
You can see a smile and knowthat they're happy, right, but you
won't know the reason why they're happy. You want to see their wedding day
well, and people sometimes you misspart of it, right, right,
even if they're signing to you they'relike, hey, what happened? And
then they tell that they audibilize it, and then someone's got to tell you

(01:52:33):
when everybody's already having the rats,and you're like, that's gotta suck late
to the party. Yeah, yeah, so no want I want to hear
that stuff for sure. Would yourather have twice as many kids as you
have or three times as many petsas you have had in your entire life?
You cannot get rid of your petsor kids. Gotta die a natural

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death, lindsay, Would you ratherhave twice as many kids as you have
or three times as many as you'vehad in your entire life? I'll take
twice as many kids as I have, Definitely. I always said that.
As an only child, I alwayswanted to have a lot of kids,
and if I could afford it,I would. I would have definitely had

(01:53:16):
even more. Definitely, Gimby,that's a tough one. I'm not good
with kids at all, whatsoever.Young ones. You cash me when you're
about seventeen, okay, and thenwe'll be good. And I I like
a pets, don't get me wrong, but that means I'm gonna have Oh

(01:53:36):
god, it's way too many.And the thing is is like kids eventually
be able to take care of themselves, right, So my thought is,
twice as many kids. They cantake care of themselves. The animals can't
take care of them. They can'tfeed themselves, they can't let themselves.
I guess they could let themselves outsideif you get on a doggy door or

(01:53:56):
something. But you see what I'msaying. So I feel like the kids
would be like, all right,I'm only in it for a little while
and then you you get take careof yourself. Twice as many kids.
I love being a dad, sotwice as many kids, plus that doubles
my chances of the retirement home lottery, right right? What kind of retirement

(01:54:16):
home are they going to shove mein? A good one or not good
one one where Ben Stiller works?Oh and Happy Gilmore? Right, are
one that they take care of themin the notebook? Right right? Hopefully

(01:54:39):
they just don't all gang up onYou'd be like, yeah, we're sending
them to the Happy Gilmore home,right duty for a week? All right?
You gotta put down your list ofthings you want in a retirement home
that they're going to shove you in. What do you put on that list
three things because it ain't gonna bea pool, right right, because they're

(01:55:00):
I'm gonna do it the most atthat point. A lot of people may
be in diapers just soaking up allthat pool, but you need that physical
therapy. So are there are homeswith pools in them? Okay? So
I want mine to hide? Ican't now. Granted I haven't been in
a ton, but I have notseen one with a pool, big rooms

(01:55:27):
to watch TV, eat rice pudding, right, I definitely want a game
room so I can play cards.And I would like a salon. Oh
okay, yeah, and a goodrestaurant. Do old folks homes have restaurants?

(01:55:53):
Yeah, of course, high endones. But yeah yeah, again,
who's paying for this? I'm behindus probably and on and no,
they're serving rice pudding and tapioca.Yeah, my big country clubs. I
have a cousin that works at one, and they have a Starbucks inside of
it. Well, they serve Starbucks, the movie theater inside of it.

(01:56:15):
No, it's an actual Starbucks withbaristas and everything. Yeah, it's really
nice. They have a they havethe theater and then they have a gym.
It's really nice. And there isthis indoor outdoor swimming pool. Again,
there are very high end ones.Yeah, it's expensive, gimby.

(01:56:35):
It's got to definitely have a TV, right, big TV to watch you
know, TV on, maybe playsome video games if they let me have
a PlayStation. You know, thatmakes sense. You know, you want
to be as comfortable as possible andtry to keep you know, the violence
down to a minimum, so it'slike here, just play your video games

(01:56:58):
to take it all out there.That's something I've never thought about. At
some point, senior living centers,old folks at homes, whatevery, retirement
whatever, they're gonna need to havevideo gaming situation. Absolutely because people like
in our demographic that have been raisedup on and that's what we do,
and and I would have the cognitiveskills would be beneficial from that. Now

(01:57:20):
you might be playing called Duty rightexactly exactly, but I listen, I've
got Monopoly and Scrabble on my PlayStationright now, so it would be nothing
different. So definitely definitely a TVwith the game station hooked up to it.
I'm thinking a music room would befantastic, like just where I can

(01:57:41):
go and plug in listen to whateverI want. You know, um,
along with instruments to play as well, okay, because you know why not?
And then thirdly, uh don't know, like h like I want to.
I want to say, like awould shop sort of thing, you
know, but it'd be more likean arts and craft center, but like

(01:58:03):
more than just Macarni art. Youknow what I'm saying. Oh, they're
not giving them power tools. Nono, no, no no no,
but like maybe something I could youknow, construct the bong out of.
I don't know. High speed internet, okay, okay, which I don't
think anybody said I gotta have highspeed internet. You assume it's a thing

(01:58:26):
great TVs with great TV selection.I gotta be able to watch my stories
right right? Or football? Andthen um, once a week something happening,
like they bring puppies in or oh, something happens that is not normal

(01:58:46):
to the everyday bunco thing that happensto break up the monotony. Yeah,
I gotta have stuff to look forwardto, right, somebody visiting football?
Cat day? God, you askedfor it. Yeah, you didn't specify

(01:59:08):
what kind of dazzled man. Right, lizard day some guy shows up and
puts his lizard on my lap.Oh, my gosh, no, Corby,
grab it with both hands. Letme hold it and put it in
your put it in your lap foryou. Yeah, and then nice stroke
it, stroke it, mister piercewarare you crying? He made me touches

(01:59:32):
lizards. It's okay. Your daughterswill be visiting in six months. All
right, we gotta take a breakand we'll be back. You're listening to
The Big Man Morning Show. Thisis Tulsa's morning show. Good morning,

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It's The Big Man Morning Show.Six zero KMOD. You can also text
bmmss and then what you want tosay to eight two nine four five.
Couple lawsuits that are happening in classaction lawsuit against Taco Bell. They're saying
the people that are suing are sayingthat the guys I'm showing you the post

(02:00:32):
right now, uh, that TacoBell misrepresents the amount of beef in the
country crunch Rap Supreme by at leastdouble And when you see the photos that
they're using as their evidence, Yeah, it looks nothing like the photo,
not even a smidgeon close. AndI like a good country crunch Rap Supreme.

(02:00:58):
This has been It's always better lookingin the picture than what you get
in real life. Yeah, andI understand, like, oh, well
it shows in the picture you've gotstacks of beef and oh my god,
look at all our guacamali, andthis is what you give me. I
can understand the anger behind that.But you also got to understand one,

(02:01:19):
it's their business and they can dowhatever they won't, Yes, but you
cannot misrepresent something, and you're misrepresentingthat when you get this, you will
say beef, cheese, lettuce,tomatoes, and sour cream, yes,
and not some beef on one side, some lettuce and one tomato. If

(02:01:40):
restaurants put a actual picture of whattheir food looks like when you get it,
nobody would order it. Bottom line. Yeah, that's why that's on
them. And that's the thing that'sthe This is could be magic of photography.
You know, you could get theexact same thing, then have the
picture there whatever, and then youknow, fluff it up a little bit

(02:02:00):
that might not even be full ingredientsin that picture. That could be styrofoam
and a tortilla with just you know, so do you want that? Do
you want just a little bit ofmeat? Your salca, you'r guacamala,
you're sour cream? And then therust of it be styrofall. Yeah,
but you can't misrepresent, you can'tmislead people that it's going to be one

(02:02:24):
thing and then give them something else. So this has been going on for
decades, years, centuries. Yeah, why is it a problem now,
because apparently Taco Bell has never beena target? Get another one is against
Buffalo Wild Wings. Okay, andthis is a class action lawsuit that a

(02:02:44):
man claims that the boneless wings atBuffalo Wild Wings are nothing more than chicken
nuggets, and that this guy hasasked the judge to not throw out the
class action lawsuit because it only fuelthe restaurant's disrespect for poultry lovers. In

(02:03:06):
an Instagram post from Buffalo Wild Wings, quote, we don't give an s
yeah way to go be Buffalo WildWings on when people say boneless wings aren't
wings. They also have made poststhat say it's true, our boneless wings

(02:03:27):
are all white meat chicken, ourhamburger hamburgers contain no ham, and our
buffalo wings are zero percent buffalo exactly, egg exactly. I got. It's
not your chicken. When you buywings, they really wings exactly. A
wing is a big old honking partof the chicken. It's a leg and

(02:03:53):
a drumt right, a flat delicious. But maybe they should start selling full
ass wings. There go, gotwhat you're looking for. Can you imagine
if they had to suddenly it's likeall like like all legs like real.

(02:04:15):
Nobody wants to hear that those areall baby chickens like the full right legs.
I'm all about it, man,Oh it would not be good,
dude. Drumsticks are my favorite.PA and I go and get like KFC
church is something like that. Ialways I ask them, Hey, can
we just do like mostly legs,mostly drumsticks, maybe a breast in there?
All? Sorry, we can't dothat. Oh Charlie's chicken in three

(02:04:39):
piecemeal legs only. I'm out oflegs. Okay, do your best.
Let's see what you can do.Yeah, I'm just telling you. I
want it dark, the idea toget so again, I know I unpack
this every time we talk about stufflike this that means this person and got

(02:05:00):
mad. Looked up a lawyer calledlawyer, made appointment to time off work
or cut their lunch short or whatever, drove to the place, waited in
the waiting room, made their argumentand lawyers are going to kind of feed
off emotion. Sometimes took the case, felt like momentum was justice was finally

(02:05:25):
swinging in their favor, consuming theirlife, absolutely, keeping them up at
night. You've had your share oflitigation issues. It consumes your life.
That's all you think about. Absolutely, because you're worried about the outcome.
Could you put you in a financialdistress? Could something worse happen? Absolutely,

(02:05:46):
which makes perfectly good sense. Ifyou're going through custody or a divorce
or some kind of criminal charges orsomething like that, having a consume your
life makes perfectly good sense. It'sa big deal, yes, but over
a culture over the wings aren't reallywings, they're chicken nuggets. The answers

(02:06:12):
in your question, wings aren't boneless, right right? Why don't even call
them boneless wings? I get it, I get the guys. I get
it. I don't care. Idon't get it. Why he's so mad
has to go and sue somebody.They're not really boneless out, I mean,
I don't get it. Maybe hewants a lifetime supply of chicken nuggets.
You know hamburgers don't have ham inthem, right, Yeah? You

(02:06:36):
know that they're not even made withpork for God's sake, right, I
don't know, man, I pickedup some pork burgers are good though,
right. They were brought burgers,is what they were. Johnsonville brought words
made into patties You've never had,not until like last week, and I
was like hard to find it.I got him out year yeah, yeah,

(02:06:57):
yeah, yeah, yea yeah yeah, I love him dude. Helleny,
I was like, this is amazing. As a matter of fact,
I'm thinking because we're going floating thisweekend because we're like, what are we
gonna do for dinner? You know, there's a gaggle of us, man,
and I could get that big giantbox of pre made beef patties if
I wanted to, But it's mybirthday, so I think I'm might splurge
out. And everybody's getting brought burgersthis weekend. The idea that Brons has

(02:07:24):
a pretty good sausage burger too,if I'm not mist they use Owens.
Sausage still good and beef still good. Yeah, suzer burgers are good.
Yeah, you can't go wrong there. But it's not like the broad Works.
It's just nothing but broad works.Yeah, but also still not ham
Absolutely yes, but that's a regionalthing because Hamburger Germany, right, that's
where that comes from. Buffalo hamburgersare American, man, my ass,

(02:07:47):
they're Hamburgers, just like frank Burgershot dogs come from where Frank for Germany.
Buffalo wings were originated in Buffalo,New York. So yeah, are
you sure the reason why they callthem boneless wings it's because they can't call
them nuggets because McDonald's owns the rightstoo nuggets. Yes, but I think

(02:08:07):
it's more on the fact that it'sa wing, like you're trying to be
given because not everybody likes to hammerthe bone, right, Yes, so
that's they just try to stay inthe same marina. Yeah, it's like
sweet potato fries are not fries.Most time they're soggy mess. Yeah,
they're made the same way. Yeah, they are made from sweet potatoes,

(02:08:31):
but they are not French fries.Some people love sweet potato fries. They're
fine. I ain't hayten. Ifthey're in front of me, I definitely
eat them, especially with some honeymustard. But they aren't French fries.
They're not full of anybody. It'slike saying cauliflower rice is rice. It
ain't just stop it. No,that's mush. No, it's not horrible,
but it's not rice just like yougo there, you know what you're

(02:08:56):
getting into rightly exactly. So whyis this just a payday? Oh?
I bet you I can get somemoney from big corporate you know, be
dabbs because they're you know, they'rethey're falsely representing their wings or not.
Maybe or maybe this person feels likethey're this is going to help, you
know, straighten out the line ofthe world child trafficking. I think we

(02:09:20):
got somebody take care of that,right. I'm just trying to ride all
the wrongs in the world. We'rejust gonna do a movie solves it.
I saw a video on TikTok thismorning and it was a video and they
showed these people driving down the roadand they're driving and they're like, did
you see that That woman made agesture and uh, it's the get I

(02:09:45):
didn't know this. It's there's asymbol you make when you're being held captive
or abused. It's four fingers andclass. But that's not important. And
so they make the video and itclearly is clearly is fake and people start
commenting staged fake whatever, da dada. Well, then the creators of
the video then do a response likeare you guys idiots? How what kind

(02:10:09):
of person craps on and educate?Like something that educates people, it makes
awareness for it, because that's whatwe do as human beings. We crap
on everything. Good. No,you are not being honest. You're not
being authentic with it, right.You made it. You stage something and

(02:10:30):
tried to pass it off as realto make it to get clicks one.
But also then you're using like domesticviolence, super serious situation and rather than
just like hey, because you knowthis video doesn't get as many clicks.
Hey, if you ever see anybodyin distress like this, here's a simulation,

(02:10:50):
right, But they made it looklike they were in pursuit of a
vehicle with a woman who was makingthe symbol. That's not awareness, that's
clicks right. Well, that's thething we do for views, try to
get, you know, but numbers. But I don't think that's what this
is. I think this is someonewho thinks they're doing right in the world.
I guess I look at as paydayand I probably could be more likely

(02:11:15):
I'm wrong. But with you know, as many lawsuits that are out there
trying to go up against these bigcorporations. Seems like it. Plaintiff's prior
suits have involved cases claiming that thenatural label on Tom's of Main Wicked fresh
mouthwash and the high end fiber labelon Kind granola bars are inaccurate. He

(02:11:37):
also claimed that Hefty misled customers bylabeling its bags recyclable when that wasn't the
case. That suit was dismissed.This guy believes in trying to keep companies
good with their word. Oh sothis is one dude taking all these companies,
just create a class action suit andthen people jump on Yeah, that

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trying to keep him honorable? Myass, you're looking for a paid a
show, he says, false anddeceptive marketing and advertising when it comes to
their boneless wings, which he saidare derived from chicken breasts and not chicken
wing meat. Show me on thisdoll where the chicken wing hurt you,
sir? Come on, show mewhere the corporations. That guy's been scorned

(02:12:20):
somewhere before and now he feels likehe has to do something. I'm trying
really hard to do a couple ofthings, like I'd like to go to
juitsu every day this week. I'dlike to read a couple of books,
spend time with my family, preparefor the show. I've got time for
I've got time for one and ahalf of those things. Right, how
do you have time? He doesn'thave a family. Maybe I think you're

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making a giant mistake. He probablydoes have a family, but he sued
him for false representation. He justthis. He feels like he's doing this
for his family. Yeah, thisis not the family for everyone else's family
too. Some people believe that it'stheir job to police for everyone. Yeah,
all right, we'll take a break. We'll come back find out what
everybody learned. He tells us themorning show. Oh yeah, he's coming

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right back. A big mad morningshow, tells us. Rock Station ninety
seven five KMO. I'm as goodmorning, It's the Big Man Morning Show.

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Final patio part of the year isFriday, Inner Circle Downtown, right
across from the Cans. Five toseven. We'll be there. Three dollars
Miller Lights, Sam. We're givingaway that Miller Light golf package. Inner
Circle Vodka Bar, Friday, fiveto seven. Lindsey, what'd you learned
today? I learned Pete Hermann willbe missed on the big and small screens,

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not necessarily in the theater, andCorbyn's retirement plan consists of watching football
while holding his lizard. Gimp,what'd you learned today? Sounds like a
good time. Excuse my lizard?No, just you know, watching football
and holding oh lizard? Okay,Yeah. I learned that just because there's
kids that are starving doesn't mean thatI have to be. I also learned

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that it's never bros before hose orsisters before misters. It's money over bitches
U. I learned that the wayI'm going to get people to care about
something they don't care about is Iwill starve to get them to care about
me not eating. I also learnedthat when Gimby gets put in an old
folks home, he will be walkingaround on Thursdays going pet my lizard,

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Corben saying, make sure that dishwashersloaded right. It's Lindsey stopped tracking my
cycle. This is gimpy and I'msorry. Daddy can roll with the time
I need? Yeah now what hell? Noise? Enter password Corban new messages

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The Big Mad Morning Show. Liketo take a minute to thank troops from
Oklahoma and all over the United States. These soldiers have sacrificed. Did the
Big Mad Morning Show before you toback like the told douche bags that they
are total douche bag. Hold totalbag. You sat and complete douchebag.
We honor and respect you. Wehonor and respect We honor and respect you.
Dot Bus, Rock and Roll,Sickles, Blessed Calsa, We tried

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boys. I was just looking becausewe have our patio party on Friday across
from Keness barrowm and I always liketo see what else has happened, Like

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is there a show at the Keynes? Like what do I what are you
deal with? Right? And thereisn't. But when I was looking,
there's an event happening at the Keyneson Saturday. And I'm so out of
touch, right, Like I'm fortyeight, I'm not going out? Is
not really in my vocabulary, right, right, special occasion if you do.

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There is an event happening on Saturdayat the Keynes called the Shrek Rave,
a Shrek Rave, yeah the fuckyeah? Or there gonna be donkeys
there and this. Yeah, itis a completely like touring rave thing that
happens people dressing up as Shrek andcharacters from it. What the fuck?

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Man? Yeah? Is that anall ages show? Eighteen plus? Okay,
you I have never heard of sucha that sounds so have you such
a I never have. I've heardof raves. I've been to a few.
Yeah, not my scene. Notmy scene either, but to dress
up and character for said rave,I mean you don't have to obviously like

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a good but the person spinning isdressed like Shrek. They're showing the Shrek
movie. I'm I'm just flabbergasted.I'm trying a toy story one right,
I'm trying to think of, likewhy people would go to this. I
mean, I guess massive Shrek fans. But are you in it for the

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music? But does he play Ohfucking shit, he's gonna play that.
I'm a believer? Yeah or whatever? Yeah? Yeah, I forget who
it is. Probably remixed in adifferent way. Okay. I was thinking
if he plays like all the musicfrom the soundtrack. But okay, um,
I mean that's cool. I guessif that's what you're into. Yeah,

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I wonder how much it cost bookthere? Oh to book it,
or for a ticket, not forthe ticket to the book it, Like,
how much is DJ shriky Shrek shrikgetting to to to come perform at
the Kynes ball Room for a Shrekrate. I'm just gonna we'll just go.
How many people you think go?Hundred? Sure? A bare minimum,
I'm sure hundred people. I meanthat's forty five hundred dollars. I

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think half that on a Saturday isprobably the venue cost. Okay, because
he So there's two different types ofwaste shows get booked, right. There
is I'm traveling with this show.I want to book the venue. And
then there's promoters that fine shows andreserve the venue. And then there's the
venue will buy shows to print goout there, yes, okay, okay,

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so this is probably the latter orthe first one. Right. The
show probably travels around, right,they go, what dates do you have
open? Okay, we have Augustfifth? Right? Great? How much
is it this? Okay? Weneed X y Z paperwork? Right,
that's we'll load in at this time. I'm all that other stuff. But
it's this person's traveling probably in ain a tesla right or whatever, and

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unpacking their laptop right and puts upa fucking screen and gets paid and that
hell of money. So if theyget five. Just they gotta get over
Vinue. The cost is pretty minimalon a show like this, All good
for him, make your money dosomething that you love to do a little
weird, but I think it'd bemore interesting because this is happening on a

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Saturday in August in Oklahoma. Youknow, nobody's fucking really green, right,
so they have to paint themselves up. So it starts off all nice
and fresh. You leave the housein your air conditioning, right, It's
all great. But then when youfucking sitting in line waiting for the doors
to open to get into the ShrekShrek Rave Shrek Wave Wave Wave Rave Rave

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Reeve, trash Reeve, all thatmakeups can start dripping the sweat. You're
gonna have a bunch of streaky streks, streaky shreks, streaky shreks. Yes,
yeah, and maybe one hot donkey. Doors open at nine shows at
ten. Okay, wow, sothere's forty oh wow, so there's forty

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five dollars, thirty five dollars,twenty five dollars ticket levels. The only
thing left is twenty five dollars.Really, oh god, I have the
best seats. Are they going tohave like mud pits? And stuff.
I don't. I don't know,like for the swamp, yeah, because
you know, shrup lives in aswamp or a bog or whichever the one
it is. Yeah. Their sloganis it's dumb, just come have fun.

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Who cares cool is dead? Idk ha ha ha haa Okay,
god fuck, I'm old. Ownit, man, I don't get it.
I own it. He knows it'sstupid, but people are gonna come
out and have fun anyway, sogood for him or her. I don't
know who's behind whatever. Yeah.Have you ever gone to a rave lindsay?
No, can be already said hedid. I've done one and been

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like, oh fucking get it.Yeah. Yeah, and it was really
late. Yeah. I went whenI was nineteen okay, still in high
school or whatever. And my buddyMark wanted died back in high school.
He was huge, so I wentwith him as a support for him.
And it was at this fucking buildingdowntown they like, I guess rented out

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the floor or whatever, and thentotally you know, turned it into a
rave scene. Fucking ply wood upand knee on fucking light you know,
not like lights, but you know, like knee on paint. Black light
paint, I guess would be thebetter way to put it, you know.
And he's out there dancing, doingthe thing and wearing a fucking facifier

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and the fucking candy necklaces and andI'm just sitting there like, can we
go? This fucking sucks? Thisis not for me. There is um
the guy that cuts my hair.Him and a bunch of guys at that
barbershop. They travel to go twodifferent real shows and he's like twenty four,

(02:22:05):
me maybe like fuck yeah, dude, slay, yeah, you live
your best life. He was likeI'm going, hey Friday, I'm going
to Oklahoma City for you know,dg wikty Wick right. And I was
like, ah, fun, man, what time He's like, I don't
know. We'll be done here atseven. I'll get there but eight and
then check into a hotel and thenwe'll get there at like midnight. And
I was like that sounds fucking horrible. Yeah, but he's twenty, he's

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got the stamina. He can dothat. Yeah thing man. And so
the next time I was like,hey, how was that that fucking thing?
And he was like I sucked.I left it like one and came
back spend god knows how much moneyto get into it. Yeah, yeah,
because I don't know how much thosethings I don't either, like cost,
I don't either, Oh god always. I was just about to say,

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that's like, that's a young person'sa young person's thing. Yeah,
but then you gotta look back,and then it flashed in my head.
If you think you remember the fiftyfour Studio fifty or the movie with Mike
Myers, you know, they hadthat old ass lady that was, you
know, like in her eighties orsome shit look like it. Anyway,
you know, out there partying up. So I guess you're only one as

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old as you feel whatever. Soif if you're eighty and can still out
there and fucking stay up until two, three, four o'clock in the morning,
I mean, I guess to lovegoing clubbing, but not what's a
different I mean the music, right, the music. Okay, I'm under
the impression that when you go tothe club that the same thing happens.

(02:23:33):
In terms of music. I thinksometimes people get raves confused with like an
EDM event. So d M isright, Yeah, that's an DM event,

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yes, and raves can have that, but they does have a club
outmusphere again, I don't know shitfrom Shinola. Wait, what's the line?
I don't know? Fuck about shitright or shit about about fuck but
mine. They're not the same.Like the club and the rave can kind
of be the same, They're notall like the example Gimby gave that he

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went and supported his friend at washow they started, but the progression of
them has changed, and I'm picturinglike the glow sticks and the neon and
the black lights. Yeah, they'renot all like that. Yeah, I
think of it as you know whoIoki is, right, Yeah, yeah,
DJ, his shows aren't. Thatis a maybe not a rave to

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the t right right, but thatis an event, a dance event,
right that people go to. Yeah, that's more of a concert with a
guy that you know spends on it. No, no, no, he's
a DJ rightly who now is sobig can put on big events like that,
right right, Same with the MarshmallowGuy, dead Mouse. They're all
the fucking same, David Ghetta fuckinglines along Man chain Smokers. Yeah,

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yeah, they're all the same.Good for them if that works. Yeah,
I haven't been to a club sinceI was working at them, to
be honest with you, you know, like an actual dance club, like
what Lindsay's talking about. And Istopped doing that at thirty two. Well
fuck when I started here. Butplaying music and mixing their ones and twos.
I think clubs mix ones and twosnow, they don't just play one

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song and then play it like itis like there's a the blind has been
blurred, is what I'm trying tosay. Yeah, you're training DM and
like, yes, the like Idon't know why it sounds like Termit the
Frog, right, yeah, youdon't need the machine man, you got

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it all right, right, thatsound effect is from like raves and stuff.
Yeah, and now you hear itin the club. And now you
go to clubs and they do thefog machine and foam parties and all that
other shit. Yeah, I guesswe did the same sort of thing when

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I was Djane and the Swimmers SwimmersClub. The Swimmers Club, not a
big difference. There were some swimmersthere, I'm sure um usually shot on
the floor anyhow, But we hadall that. We had the lights,
and we had the fog machine,right that I would run that every now
and again. Yes, but we'retalking like but it wasn't like up beat.

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It looks like fucking Studio fifty four. Yeah, yeah, it wasn't
quite likely. We don't come inif you suffer from seizures. Right right
now, we know we did havethat. We did have. I had
huge fucking strobe lights that I'd speedup or slow down, and I got
in trouble a couple of how youneed to kill it on the strobe lights
be blur like and having issues overhere. But we had all that.
We had the fucking mirror ball,you know, we had all that shit.

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But it wasn't the technotype EDM music. It was just all that shit
with Dan music. When I saydance music, fucking fitty scent, you
know, fucking whatever's going to causea woman to shake her ass and hopefully
pull her tits out. I've goneto just a few clubs, and every
time I go, I'm like,this is not my fucking scene at all.

(02:27:13):
Right, I don't have expensive enoughclothes on, I don't have enough
money in my pocket to my drinks. Right, I'm too fat, right,
axe body spray, Yeah yeah,I don't like wearing my sunglasses indoors
right right. I become a hugefan of dive bars. Man, it's
just fucking simple. It's fucking easy. There's no trouble. You know,

(02:27:37):
you get the music that you wantto hear, whether you're playing a jukebox
or whatever, you know, andeverybody's pitching in on it piss me off
and turned me off. The mostabout clubbing was we would get dressed up
and we would take hours to getready, and the whole point of doing
that was so you'd get hit on, right, yeah, and never got

(02:27:58):
never get hit on. And thenwe start going to die bars, put
a baseball cap on and just goingjeans and a T shirt and then get
hit on all the time. Yeah, this is the way to do it,
so much easier. We don't takeany effort to get ready and all
we do is get hit on.Yeah, this is the life. Well,
I mean, I think the differenceis you have a little bit of

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embarrassed to do it, don't knowwhat they're doing, and then you have
some people that are already defeated atrock bottom, that have nothing to fuck
lose. Health. You're not wrong, You are not wrong. What's your
ideal bar like, what's it soundlike, what's it look like? Is
it dimly lit? Like all thoseattributes. What I don't want to get

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to is a die bar, likedescribe the bar my mood. I mean,
it depends on my mood. ButI love you know, I like
to go sing karaoke. So forme, I do like like like the
Market. Yeah, that is theperfect type of spot I do enjoy like
cjm Looney's, that type of placeanywhere where I can get cocktails or beer,

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right, Um, but I don'twant just a just beer. I
gotta be able to get cocktails too. Um. It depends on if I
do feel like if we're going,if it's a girl's night out, we're
probably gonna get more dressed up,right, I'm gonna go to showing off
for each other at that point intime. Yeah. Yeah, but what's

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the bar the bar looks like?Is the question? Right? Because to
me, CJ. Maloney's and theMarket are very different clubs, that is
bars, very different bars. Thatis true. I mean, I I'm
not picky, but I do.I tend to be more comfortable in like
the dive year of a bar,which means what what attributes does a dart

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laid bag. It's gonna have atleast a pool table. It's gonna have
dartboard, a dartboard, um,and a juke box and at least one
to two bartenders. And it's gonnabe small, more intimate place. You're
gonna know who's there. Uh,you're gonna um, you're gonna know everyone

(02:30:15):
there pretty much, and it's gonnabe there for a long time. Everyone
knows that place, Okay, gimby. Uh. I don't want to say
dark, but not where all theugly lights are on constantly by ugly lights.
Those are the lights that come onat the end of the night.
Say fuck, that's what you looklike. Shit, But dimly lit,

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not super dark like the market whenwhen Rick's there on Fridays whatever, it's
dark like lights are fucking out andall as you have to light up the
whole places fucking neons, right,which is all right, don't get me
wrong, it's all right. It'sgood. But I need a little bit
more than that, right, Sokind of like a dimly lit less super

(02:30:56):
light. UM definitely has to smokein it. If I can't smoke in
this fucking bar, then I'm fuckingout. I'm leaving. I'm not gonna
stay there because I feel bar asyou should be able to Okay, they
call it a smoky bar for afucking reason, and it's a dive bar
too, since that what's ultimately whatwe're talking about is what's your dive bar
look like? No, what's yourbar look like? Don't have to be
a dive bar. Yeah yeah,yeah, so demily let gotta be able

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to smoke. Definitely has to havepool table, darts, at least two
pool tables and darts. Okay,So you've got something to do. Jukebox
stage for live band, because Ido love me some live music, and
that stage comes in handy more thanyou know than just live band or whatever,

(02:31:39):
whether you want to guess DJ ora kJ karaoke jock or somebody in
there that's good for that. Soa performance stage of some sorts, but
definitely has to have a jukebox soeverybody can play what they want to play.
It has to have at least budlight, you know. I think
it's because that's fair to say.It's got to have what you want.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, Butit has to have beer in liquor.

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It can't. I can't do justa beer bar, you know, because
not all the time do I wantto drink just fucking beer. There's times
where I feel fat and bloated andI'm like, I don't want heavy beer
or whatever. Give me some whiskeyor something instead that. And you gotta
be able to be like, right, a shot for the table, you
know, And so I have that, and of course big breasted bartenders and

(02:32:24):
waitresses because it's my bar and I'mbuilding it. Yeah. Yeah, um
intimate for sure. I don't wanta lot of people, and I gotta
be able to sit at the baror sit at the table. Like there's
gotta be a you see what I'msaying, Like it's gonna be just busy
enough that there's people there, butnot busy enough where I'm fucking standing.
If I'm standing, it's because Iwant to. I'm a stander. I

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don't like sitting at tables usually,and so I'm a stander. But I
want the choice, right. Itdoesn't necessarily have to be obscure. As
I'm getting older, I like restaurantbars. Okay, going into your chilies
or whatever. Uh no nomblebees,No, No, those would be fine.

(02:33:11):
It's like we go to Uncle Paco'sin Awaso and their bar. It's
a server bar, right, likethe servers coming around to do Bartenning.
That's fine. I have found thatgoing to the bar is a lot easier.
Yes, it's faster. It's faster. You're like, oh, we
got a twenty five minute wait,well you got any room at the bar.
Yeah, there's two seats right there. It done, and they've got

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to check on people at the bar. Right right, I'm right there with
you, man. Restaurant bars,and most of the time a manager is
working the bar or a lead serversworking the bar because the best tips,
so you know you're gonna get goodservice. And if we go to like
low Woods, even Flemings or aplace like that, the bars ten times

(02:33:56):
better because they know how to makea drink. Right. You aren't getting
stiffed on a drink, you aren'tgetting shorted on your pores right right,
Some bars you do in restaurants.But as I've gotten older, so uh,
I don't want it big. CJ. Maloney's I like that bar.
It's just too big, right.I start getting a little anxiety when it

(02:34:18):
starts filling up. I'm like alot of people here. There's more chances
of it's not exactly fights. Right. Some Duchery, kicking up absolutely,
Pj's and Owasso might be almost toobig, okay, the old Fishbones the
district, too big for me,I feel you. I don't um even

(02:34:41):
though it's not big um. Middleton'salmost has that vibe it's too big sometimes.
Yeah, I like that bar.They always have great service, their
food's money. Yeah, yeah,I'll I love everything about that place.
The only reason I won't go therebecause it's not smoking. Oh and that's
the other thing, non smoking bar. But you're not. You don't like

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that sort of thing, so it'sokay, and it's your bar you're building
at. I don't like smelling likeany place I go after I leave right
right, So that would be thereason for me. But we go to
like when we went to that placeout and Broken Arrow fuck was the name
in that place. When we hadlug that was great. Yeah. Yeah,

(02:35:24):
that's still a smoking facility. Yeah, yeah, you know right,
good size. Yeah, they hadgood food, good drinks, good service.
Yeah, that's another one, totallyobscure. Absolutely a seat, yeah,
good service, food on point,they had everything, good beer choices.
Yeah, I knew I wasn't gonnaget short on my pores. Yeah,
they only have the one pool table. But that's okay. Bartender's just

(02:35:45):
smart enough, right, I ain'task them for a lot. Yeah.
One of them's got huge jugs,so they checks my box. Yeah for
not gone to a bar because theydidn't have jugs. It just makes it
a little even Back in the day, my hang was the Snail Yeah,
and I would go the moment likeat five, like six seven, I'm

(02:36:05):
fucking done because it starts filling up. Yeah, oh in the evening six
seven. Yeah, Like I wouldgo at like one and then buy six
or seven. I'm fucking out becausepeople when they start carding at the door,
I was fucking done. That makessense because it's a different crowd.
It totally brod. Snail Burgers wereso fucking good. I've never been there.

(02:36:26):
I never I was not old enoughto go while I was around,
And even when I was old enough, I just know I wasn't in that
scene at that point in time.Why, I heard a lot of good
things. Great patio, yeah,uh was it shined down and hailstorm.
Yeah, Hailstorm showed up one day. I remember here play on the patio.
Yeah, how fucking awesome is that? Yeah? Before they but my

(02:36:48):
wife, Like, my wife andI hit it off at that bar.
Ye oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I would go. We'd meet there
on my birthday, big unit,and that's where we do Bloody Mary's.
It was always a fight to gethim at the get him to the bar
on that day, probably because he'sstill hung over yeah night before. But
when he got there, it wasfine, drink all day. God,
the number of pictures Serene shows mefrom m She's like, hey, I

(02:37:11):
look at this flashback. Yeah right, and it's at the fucking Stale.
I'm like, how long ago wasthat? Twenty is? Yeah, that's
how I like Tin Dog slow Ride. I thought slow Ride was perfect.
Slow ride is good. I likethat. I think they need to work
on a motorcycle parking a little bit, but that's me. You know,
there's parking right, but it's notoutrageously large. It's still a smoking It

(02:37:33):
fits my boxes. You know.Do they serve food there? I don't
think so. I don't think theydo either. But the drinks are on
point, yeah for sure. Andthe service is always good. Yeah,
Ten Dog, thirty first and Harvardset Back, Yeah, back there always.
You got to know it's there.You say a sign from the street,
but you got to know it's backthere. I walked in there one
day with my axes, like meetme over here, and I was like,

(02:37:54):
I've heard about it, saying itnever been I walk in. I'm
like, yeah, record scratch right, I don't know about this. It's
been a minute, so it mayhave changed. It was solid, man,
it was solid. If you likedthose good, down, dirty places,
man, that's a good place togo. Yeah. I've seen brend
Clark play there. I don't knowhow many times. Yeah, yeah,
right in the beginning of his career. Yeah, uh yeah, good bars

(02:38:20):
when there's food. Yeah, Ilike it when it's a place you can
go and like you just can dowhat the fuck you want and nobody talks
to you pretty much, or everybody'severybody's cool. You know, there's no
you know, because there are thosesome places like all right, the there
was this one place that I usedto go to along with my acts,
and no frequent there as much asI used too, but um, there

(02:38:43):
was a guy that would always comein and he he oh God, bless
his soul, he would piss himselfright there sitting at the bar. Good
God, he would shit himself sittingright there at the bar. I'm not
fucking lion, dude. I'm sittingthere having a fucking drink, and I'm
I'm at kind of towards the endof the bar, and I've got my

(02:39:05):
ex with me or whatever, Andwas this like a fucking Saturday or a
Sunday or something like that in theafternoon, And I'm sitting in there drinking
and I'm fucking smoking a cigarette andI go so I was like, fucking
shit over here. So I asked. I asked the bartender, I say,
hey, does this smell like shittinghere to you? And she turned

(02:39:28):
right around. She knew exactly whoit was and who did it. Because
that's a problem. That's a problemwith this guy. There've been many times
that this guy would walk up andgo to the bathroom in the back and
he would piss. He'd leave afucking piss trail all the way to the
fucking bathroom or whatever. People wouldlose. Bous can go to the bar
too, I get it, theycan. They can. But like what
I'm trying to say is, likesome places, there's always that one guy

(02:39:50):
that either shits himself or always causestrouble. No matter what the case is,
trying to be friendly. Like,I'm not there to make friends.
We can all hang out and havea good time, you know, just
don't don't fucking be an asshole aboutit. If I'm sitting at the bar
and you're sitting next to me,you can try and make friends. Right.
If I'm at a table and youcome from across the room or from

(02:40:11):
your regular stool, fuck off.Yeah, don't random stranger or some regular
really if you're sitting at a tablebecause you don't want to be bothered,
Yeah, I don't want to talkto you. I guess like random strangers,
I'm right there with you, youknow. But if it's a regular
at the bar, then I'm aregular at the bar at the chances are

(02:40:31):
you know, even though we maynot talk that often, you know,
you still come over and be like, hey, what's up? And then
you go back to your seat,And I'm gonna know, No, just
because we're in the same fucking clubdoesn't mean that we're friends. And if
we've had conversations and there was likewe've bonded, anything more than a head
nod is acceptable, right, Butif we see each other every Saturday,

(02:40:52):
that doesn't mean we can fucking starttalking. Well, yeah, you guys
are Saturday bodies, no unspoken Saturdayboy. Just because we both have a
fucking jeep doesn't mean we're friends.Just because we both wear Chiefs hats doesn't
mean we're friends. Yeah, justbecause we both happened to be at the
same resort, it doesn't mean we'refriends. Yes, I mean, maybe

(02:41:13):
not in the beginning, but youknow, after like after a couple of
years of being seeing the same guyat the corner of the bar each day,
you know, you know his name, he knows your name. You
guys have just never talked to eachother. No, you know, how
do you know your name my name? If we haven't talked, you fucking
he's dropping on my goddamn shit becausethe bartender hollered it across. You want

(02:41:35):
another realm, Yeah, you'll belike yeah, sure, yeah. First
of all, if a bartender everdid that, I would not go back.
Oh yeah, yeah, just callingyou. I'm done. I'm at
a fucking bar to not I'm tryingto be nobody, trying to get away
from life's problems. Yes, createmore. Yeah, I don't know who's
in there. You know what I'msaying, like, I just want to

(02:41:56):
be able to go and be withby myself, right, or have it
attention to the person i'm with.That's why you drink alone at home because
you know what would suck is I'mthere with my wife and that happens,
and then you know, hey man, we haven't seen you since the snail
and like, fucking now, I'mnot now I'm not on doing something with
my wife right, my brother theattention I'm now doing this And then I'm

(02:42:18):
like, hey, my anxiety kicksup. I'm like, oh, what
kind of person do I need tobe? Fuck? You can always just
than just going hey man, I'mdoing some fucking private shit. Fuck off.
Yeah. Yeah, you just carryon a nice little cordial conversation and
there's ways to get out of itor whatever. All right, man,
cool, Thanks, it's been apleasure talking with you. Man, enjoy
the rist of your day. Yeah. Some people can carry a tray with

(02:42:39):
like twenty drinks on it. Ifucking can't, so got you. I'm
clumsy as fuck. I've got twohands and they're both full. Yes,
right, all right, last patioparty of the year, come by,
say hi, It is a greatbar with a great patio, five to
seven million lights on special, havea great week. Yeah, well, Ony,