BMMS 6-10-24

Welcome Back From The Weekend!!! We Talk About The Best & Worst Parts, The Edmonton Oiler Flasher Has Gone Into Hiding, A Principal Tries To Stick It to The Man, Death By Badmitton,Jeff Hensley Stops By, Celebrity Names We Mispronounce, When The Inruder Tht Raped And Beat You Turns Out To Be Your Ex, & So You Think You Could Do Better Than The President?!?!?!?

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Another chance coming up very soon.We don't talk about hockey barely at

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all on this show, but I'vegot a reason for you to talk about
hockey. I don't know if youguys saw this hockey fan that is getting
credit for the Edmonton Oilers from beatingthe Dallas Stars. And she's this woman
who lifts her shirt and shows offher her bits were very, very nice,

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perky bits. Yeah, they're they'regreat. She looks to be sitting
near the top of the arena,right, which is fine. Here you
go with what you can go with. Well, apparently she has been offered
multiple jobs in the adult entertainment industry. Good. Good for them for trying
to get her. You know,they recognize good talent when they see it.

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Well, just because you can liftyour shirt doesn't mean you can do
all that. That's half of itright there, and that's not I'm not
bringing this up because of those things. What I'm bringing up is she's had
to go into hiding. She hasdisabled all of her social media. They're

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not disclosing who she is if anybodyknows who she is, which tells me
she's embarrassed. Carry some shame bigtime. By the way, she doesn't
look to be twenty. No,I would guess what older. Late thirties,
Yeah, definitely, maybe early forties, Yeah, for sure. They

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call it. She's saying that she'stwenty. They're saying she's twenty. I
think she's asking you if I can'tsay that? Yeah? Is that why?
Because you said she doesn't look tobe twenty No, oh, I
said that because usually young girls arethe ones doing this, why right,
right, until you get a coupleof white claws in them. Yeah yeah,

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And now these old bitches are showingoff the goods, and so she's
going and so is this like awhat She did look very comfortable doing it.
Absolutely, she didn't look embarrassed.No, she didn't look like it
was her first time. And maybeshe was encouraged by some friends, by
the way, surrounded by a lotof women too. So who knows what's

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happening, right, yeah, ben, girls and I out maybe, uh
huh, maybe, But I'm tryingto figure out what makes you go into
hiding when you do something like that. I'll tell you, Okay, creepers,
creepers on social media. She probablywasn't expecting this to go viral the
way that it has, which,by the way, if you've got a

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nice rack like that, you shouldexpect it to go viral. No,
okay, if you do that niceracker. Otherwise it's at a professional sporting
event. If you show your breastin public where people have phones and taking
pictures all the time, it's gonnaget on barstool, Twitter, whatever,

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something that's gonna get out there.Yeah. So with that being said,
this has gone viral. It's allover the Twitter, all over the social
media outlets, and I bet youthere's a bunch of creepy dudes hitting her
up, you know, trying toslide into her dms because you know,
she's not boobs boos, so they'reprobably want to get a closer look.

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That's just my thoughts. I don'tthink you're wrong. I mean, Creeper's
was definitely on my radar as areason. But you could also not check
that is true. That is true. You could also not go on to
the app right and ignore it.But but okay, so maybe there's family
members like your mama is like,what were you doing at the Whaler's game?

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Showing off your lady bets? Howdare you? I raised you better
than that? Maybe her man maybeso maybe maybe her man or a partner
was like, hey, that'd bemine right or her children. Okay,
mom, I cannot believe you didthat. How it's embarrassing. My friends
have seen this, but that toothpastesout of the tube, Yeah, they're

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gonna know it. I mean,if your friends know it's your mom.
H Deleting your social media isn't gonnastop any of it. No, because
they're fantasizing every time they come overto play Dungs and of Dragons, a
lot of play Dan's getting booked,and again, I can't get has the
idea of did you do it?That's that is not traditionally away people celebrate

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your team doing well. So didyou not think people were going to pay
attention? Were you not seeking outattention by doing that? Right? Exactly?
No, she was intoxicated. Huhwhat does that mean? Intoxicated?
So she wasn't thinking. Again,not a way to celebrate things when intoxicated.

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You do it for attention. Ladiescan get away with that. You
don't see a lot of guys outthere celebrating a touchdown by whipping their slong
out and shaking it. You don'tsee a lot of women doing that.
As someone who's gone to many professionalsporting events, it is it is not
like Tiger hits a hole in oneand you lift right right, or Denny

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Hamlin makes it around the track andyou're like, yeah, well that might
actually happen. It seems like,Okay, more rock concerts than anything you
know, is when the ladies wantto pull the girls out. But again,
that's not because they're playing your favoritesong, right, It's because you
want what attention, attention, attentionspecifically of the band. It is an

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attention getting moved. Please tell meI'm wrong, but no, for sure
it is. It doesn't matter whoor where you're at. It's an attention
getting move. People are gonna look. I've seen so many boobs and bars
that I've never wanted to see orwanted to ever see. Again, it's
like, oh god, but it'slike a train wrek. You can't help
but to look. So did sheget attention? And then she's like,

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oh no, not like this.I did want all that. I mean
I wanted some, but not allthat attention. I bet you she can
make good cash if just say shedecides to sign up with one of these
these porn companies. You know,it's it's kind of I look at it
like this. Just because you smokeweed doesn't mean you should open a dispensary.

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You are absolutely right. But ifshe can make a couple hundred thousand
dollars laying on her back or doingwhat you know what I mean, go
for it. Just because you're afemale doesn't mean you know how to be
sexy. Right, Just because youhave a nice rack doesn't mean you know
how to be sexy. And that'snot a woman thing, that's just a

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people thing. Just because you haveone attribute does not make you great.
We were watching the show and thewoman was like, I'm looking for a
dutch Man because I'm tired of NewYork men. Dutch Men don't have a
special characteristic that other men don't.Right, it works both ways. Just
because you have great breast doesn't meanyou're suddenly like uber duber sexy and have
all the right moves, know howto make a move, how to dance.

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Yeah, I was shocked to seeshe'd already turned like disabled our social
media. Yeah to try and whatgo into hiding? Yeah, just let
the dust blow over a little bit, get back on here after a couple
months, see where we're at.Maybe she just had a I'm done.
She wanted to show them off alittle bit. Also weird, I know,
Frank, though they're moving a lotmore naturally. They look pretty perky,

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dude, maybe look pretty bolt on, you think so? Yeah,
there was no drop that happened,right, I'm also I love the critique.
By the way, there was nodrop, right, I don't see
any scars either. Get out ofhere. You and I are like the
scar officionados to know where a scaris, well, yeah, because most

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of them are right like right upunder because they but they cut them open
their hair. Sometimes they take theareolas off. Threat it could have been
a really good doctor. He Sometimesthey go in the armpit. Maybe,
so maybe you don't see much likelife. There are many points of entry.
That makes sense that you say that, because I think we've said it
before on the show that like alot of women, once they get some

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new toys, they want to startshowing them off to God and everybody,
whether your old man likes it ornot. I can point to direct Yang
in the ying when my first wifegot breast augmentation in her life, like
she just became a different person.Right, I'm not saying that's across the
board, but I've got friends thatalso their partners got breast augmentations and then

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the wheels came off, which Iget it. You spend six, seven,
eight, ten thousand dollars, youknow you want to show it off.
You buy a new car, youwant to show it off, right
right, I mean, if youdo it for that reason, I guess
you get a new motorcycle, youwant to go show everybody. So it's
like, why not. I Iknow that my first wife, before she

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got breast augmentation, never showed herbreast off. I know once she got
married, all right, I'm sorry. Also that once she got the breast
augmentation, she started showing them off. We had a party at our house,
had people over at her house.Oh god. And this wasn't too
long after the former boss was there. People that worked here. I was

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doing something, came around in thekitchen. She's got her top up,
and I'm like, what are youdoing? Just go ahead, get me
out of them. To my coworkers, oh well, would you rather be
people? You know, random strangers? Random strangers probably would have been better,

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right right, because now you've gotto go to work with all your
co workers like I saw your wife'shooters. Oh yeah, yeah exactly.
Oh yeah. Matter of fact,when they fired the boss, I think
he said that on his way out. Hey, man, see you later.
This sucks. Sorry, yeah,I've still saw your watch spoops though.
Yeah. Yeah, never miss anopportunity people that worked here I haven't

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seen in years. See them,Hey, man, it's good to see
how I thinks. Great, greatman. Remember that time I saw your
first wife's poops? Yeah right,yes, thanks for peeling that scab back.
It's a weird like it makes me. When it happened, it made
me reevaluate everything, like what's happeningright, because it's not the person you

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expected her to be. I'll behonest, Flashing your breast is not an
attribute I look for in a partner. No, yeah, yeah, you're
absolutely right, And as it haszerr to do with pride or controlling or
anything like that. It's just Ijust don't want that type of attention.
I come, I guess I'm oldschool. I just want to be the

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one that looks at them and maybea couple doctors. I want it to
be a small number, right,once we're together that see your breasts.
Not a large number, right,right, right, not everybody at the
lake, right, I want tobe when I'm married. It's kind of
like having sex with your partner.I want that to be an exclusive group,

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very private club at that point,three members at most. I mean,
I don't think there's anything wrong withthat it wanted to be a very
exclusive club. I'm gonna guess itwas like if she was in a relationship.
It was somebody who was in arelationship with was like, Yo,
you gotta shut this down. Yes, like your boyfriend or husband's like,

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this is not cool. You haveto be dramatically secure as an individual to
let your partner do stuff like that, for sure, And in reality is
most people aren't. And I'm suresome of you are sharing saying based off
what I've shared that I'm an insecureindividual. I'm okay with you having an
opinion about me. Yeah, becauseI'm not taking your opinion on things,

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so why would I believe your opinion? Right, So it's fine have your
opinion. I don't care. I'mtotally comfortable saying I'm insecure. Ain't don't
know that you know what you like, you don't like anybody else staring at
your watch. But exactly, itsounds so weird. I have to defend
that. They're just breasts. Everybodyhas them, some more bigger than others.

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Some have crater nipples. You seeone, you want to see them
all? No? No, no, no, no no no, I
said it before. I've seen alot of boobs at the bars they get
pulled out, and I'm like,nobody ever needs to see that. Somebody
sent me a picture over the weekendof a homeless woman hearing tolls on the
side of the road with the boobshanging out, and I'm like, I

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did not want to wake up aweird algorithm. Well no, they texted
it to me. Oh okay,yeah, yeah yeah. So I was
like, I didn't want to wakeup and see that. No. Thanks,
Does this person randomly send you picturesof no almost people are homeless people
with their tops on? No,it was just a picture, and I
said, only a tool. SoI said, oh god. I mean
also, you're at their house,right, I eat outside, you're in

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there living. What do you wantto do onside and it ain't having Yeah,
right, go behind the tree orsomething. I'm so curious about this
person that sent you that. Whatwas the last thing video picture they sent
you that. I think that's theonly picture that they had ever sent me.
It was just you know, likeI said, it was captioned only
in Tulsa. Okay, thanks,I guess it was one of those like

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my day has been ruined. Sonow I've got to ruin somebody else's day
cases milk. Yeah, yeah,yeah, so that's that probably is what
the case was dig through. Yeah, all right, we got tickets to
Corn we're gonna give away. Thatshow is October twenty third at the Bok
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Gimbean Lindsay with what's going on NewsQuakies from The Big Man Morning showing ninety
seven five kod Texas man pleads guiltyto placing store antiques inside his rear end.
Kilt wearing Texas man on Thursday pleadedguilty to taking merchandise from antique store
shelves and shoving the items up hisrectum before returning them back to the display

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shelves. Man's name is it hetemporarily stored them? Yes, yeah,
he was just looking for the perfectfit. Yes. The man's name is
Mitchell Vest, sixty years old,and he copped a criminal mischief in connection
with a vile incidence earlier this yearat shops in Spring, which is a

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Houston suburb. As part of theplea deal, the six six two fifty
pound man was sentenced in Harris CountyCriminal Court twelve months probation and since he
is a first time offender, ifhe successfully completes the probationary term, the
misdemeanor conviction could be wiped from hisrecord, according to police. Them.

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According to police, a Vest visitedone store and placed a makeup brush and
a restoration hardware piece in his rectumbefore placing them back on the shelf or
display. The owner of a secondbusiness, the Curiosity Shop, told police
that Vest took an antique bottle openerand a tobacco tent can and placed them

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into his rectum under his green kilt, then returned the items to the shelf.
In both instances, the soiled merchandise, valued at a combined two hundred
and four dollars, had to bethrown away due to feces on them,
and since his arrest, Vest seenin action in the surveillance photo, has

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been free on a one hundred dollarsbond. He's described as retired in court
filings. He and his wife owna six hundred thousand dollars home in Woodlands,
which is a Houston suburb. Whatis a restoration hardware piece? I
don't I mean restoration hardware is astore. It's like a I think a

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brush of some sort. I knowrestoration hardware is a store. So it
says makeup brush and a restoration hardwarepiece. So I don't know what that
means. So my kids watch onYouTube where they restore old toy cars and

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they use like it's like a brushthat you would put like on the end
of like a drummel, okay,and it cleans like the rust off of
these old Yeah, no, Iknow what those are. It's a wire
brush, yeah, like a wirebrush, So I'm assuming it's something like
that, But that's not what itsays. Yeah, it says a makeup

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brush and meaning in addition to arestoration hardware pieces, and restoration hardware is
capitalized, which means the store verywell could be and make The little tobacco
can is like four inches by likethat. I can see geometrically how that

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works. Right, the makeup brush, okay, right, but this restoration
hardware piece, I am fascinated whatthis might be because they still like handles,
silverware, lighting, stuff like that. I read the story when I

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first came out, and I believethat's like when you're restoring like upholsterry and
stuff like that. It's a toolthat you use for that. But I
get what you're saying where you're likerestoration harbor pieces, you know, capitalized.
Maybe that was just down their endof writing story. Nonetheless, why
you want to go to these storesand shove things up your butt is beyond

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me. I just don't get it. But whatever two eaches your own,
buy the pieces and take them home. If you're going to do that with
them. Yeah, principle arrested fortrying to steal school electronics. This comes
out of Ohio where a forty threeyear old I named Gerald del Baccio.
Now, he was the principal atEast Palestine High School and he applied to

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be the superintendent at that school,but they didn't hire him. So he
goes and applies for superintendent of theLatonia School District and they hired him,
but then they quickly fired him becauseapparently old Gerald here Jerry, but he
did not get his I guess promotionas superintendent of East Palestine. He's going

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to stick it to the man.And he goes into his office and in
his office is a closet and thenthis clause is a bunch of different electronics,
TV's, laptops, tablets, stufflike that. And they say,
though he was seen on camera surveillancecamera walking into the school one day with
a backpack and another empty bag,and then he left that day with a
fullbackpack, a full bag and afew boxes. Unless they went ahead and

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called the police. They came overand they looked at his office and they
looked in the closet and they're like, yeah, sure enough, man,
this is empty. So they wentahead and tracked him down. They did
find all twenty nine pieces of electronicsin the back of his car, anything
from video game controllers, laptops,tablets, TVs, all that stuff.
They say it was all valued overforty three one hundred dollars. So old

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Jerry here got arrested and charged withfifth degree felony theft, fifth degree felony
theft. This is now and doctor, and I am by the news.
I thought that said school election.It doesn't. It says electronics. But

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we hear the word steel and yeah, yeah. Girl dead after being hit
in head in freak accident in Maine. This is a tragic story where a
six year old girl has died.She was playing badminton. Part of the
racket came loose and killed her.Police say it happened on June first in
the western part of Maine. Thefamilies from New Jersey was vacationing there when

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the shaft of the racket became dislodgedand pierced the girl's skull. She passed
away Wednesday. Police are saying it'sa tragic accident. So they're playing badminton,
right and probably in a backyard,maybe in a park or something the
lake ship lakes and they're batting theshuttle cuck back and forth, back and

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forth, and the round part ofthe racket came off and it's just as
the shaft. So, yeah,here's what I'm thinking. Here's what I'm
thinking that, uh, is thatthe grip usually as those get older,
don't stay on get it. Herbrother, dad, uncle, cousin,
whoever went to hit it and washolding onto the grip. The shaft came

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out of the grip, flung throughthe air and pierced her right in the
skull and went through her skull.And I'm guessing punctured. Wow, that
is some final destination stuff, right, it is a final destination at six.
Yeah, I feel bad for whoeverwas the one if that's the way

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it transpired. I doubt that she, you know, flung it in the
and she very well could have flungit in the air without the grip on
it and it pierced her possible.I didn't know like what had happened,
if it like flew out of theirhand or somebody stabbed her with it or
whatever. But and they're just saying, you know, what's the stories that
they're giving it. Sure you theywanted that six year old dead lindsay,

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yeah, right. Have you talkedto her recently? She's not lately.
All these stories are on our Facebookpage at facebook dot com, slash bmms
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O K M O D for you. Two balls to the Wall Sports.
I wanted to show you something.Four people were injured as a bull escaped
in arena in uh In Sisters,Oregon. And the video I'm going to
put out there shows the bull runningthrough the concession stand area and goes by

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this group of like three or fourand they don't even like see the bull
coming and it throws this woman inthe air, catches the bull, The
bull catches her on top of hishead, throws her again. Uh.
You sent us the link with theboobs, which I'm not hating. I'm
not hating, but I do wantto see this bull that you're talking about.

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Was that intentional? That's what I'mwondering. That's the right one there.
And so you see it running throughit runs by this group of people
are running. This group is like, we don't even know what's happening,
and the bull crows this woman Andif you watch the video near the middle
point, the guy in the pinkthat was standing next to her runs after
the bull and then realizes she's tossedto the side. And the other part.

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There's a couple other videos that arecirculating from this, including the one
where it jumps out of the arena, and that is people running towards the
bull without ropes. Right, there'sone guy on a horse and he's got
a rope and he's chasing it.Totally makes sense. But if you're just
a guy at the event who ownsa bull, I don't know what you

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think you're gonna do. Whoa,whoa, whoa, whoa. I stop,
Yeah, exactly. They don't listen. They're not dogs, they're not
horses. No, they are not. But I have seen people, I
know people that own bulls, andthey they don't behave, but they also
listen to their person. Hmm.But they are a wild animal. For

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surely, it tosses that woman inthe air like she's nutting, right,
and it almost looks like his back, his hind leg actually might step on
her. Yeah, yeah, probably. Oh and if you don't have a
right, I mean, do youshoot it with a taser or a taser?
I mean something? Uh, youmean neutralize the threat. I don't

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know. I don't I don't thinkunless it's got a broken foot, I
don't think they do that. ButI could be wrong. I don't think
they have a stun gun, becauseyou don't want to stun it and then
it fall on somebody. It weighsas much as a car. True.
Let's see what Lindsay has for Ballsof the Wall sports. Well, the

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Boston Celtics have taken a choot asEuro Series lead in the NBA Finals.
Boston defeated the Dallas Mavericks one ohfive to ninety eight in Game two at
T D Garden. Drew Holliday ledthe charge with twenty six points and eleven
rebounds, while Jalen Brown finished withtwenty one points and seven assists. Jason
Tatum was just shy of recording atriple double, finishing with eighteen points,

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twelve assists, and nine boards.The Celtics are now two wins away from
their first NBA Championships title since twothousand and eight. Luka Doncik paced Dallas
with thirty two points, eleven reboundsand eleven cysts. The series continues with
Game three on Wednesday. Luca wasquestionable. He wasn't expected to play,

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and he scored thirty two points.I know man's unbelievable and that is your
balls to the Wall sports. I'mWenesday in ninety seven to five Camo,
Good morning, It's the Big nineMorning Show. Nine one, eight four

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Hey. Our first patio party ofthe season is this a Friday from
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Lounge with the KMO D. Goodmorning, Gimbie, Hey, Good morning
Corbin. Hey. This weekend isRock the Riverfest down at Sparrow Hot Campgrounds
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more. Get your lineup and yourlink for tickets at rock to Theriverfest dot
com. That's r aw ak.We are doing best and worst the weekend.
What's the best thing that happened thisweekend? And the worst thing that
happened this weekend? Nine one,eight four, six old are you context
bmms and whatever that is to eighttwo, nine four or five? Lindsay
what's the best and what's the worst. Oh, we had a fish fry
at our house yesterday and we usuallydo that. They're one or two every

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summer, and we had, ohmy gosh, I don't know how many
pounds of catfish that we fried up. I think Kevin was frying fish for
at least a couple of hours outside. It was delicious and it was awesome
and everyone that came mostly people fromhis dealership and a few of our late

(33:36):
friends, and everyone brought a dishand all the food was delicious. The
worst part I have a fish fryquestion? Yeah, yeah, do you
do do you guys just do fishand then let everybody bring sides? Or
do you do like a plethora oflike hush puppies and French fries and all
that, All of it, Yes, and a lot of lots of good

(33:59):
sides. But I always ask like, if you're gonna bring like a potato
salad, will you make a homemadepotato salad? Anyone can store and buy
it, So you bring whatever,damn potato salad? O't Walter, Yeah,
bring whatever you want, as longas it's homemade. Sure. Wow.
Yeah. They're like, oh,of course it's gonna be home And
oh my god, no way,because a lot of people make bad potato

(34:19):
salads. Oh it was so good, it was delicious. Have you ever
had that mashed potato salad? No, baked potato salad? No, it's
pretty good. They take the littlepotatoes and they make basically it's like a
sour cream based and it tastes likea baked potato with like chatdar cheese,
it's cold choeddar, cheese, bacon, chives, all that stuff. Pretty

(34:43):
solid. So you do like yourselfa good baked pat I do. I
do. When the temperature is right, it's gotta be a hot out anytime.
It's good for a baked potato.But I guess the worst part would
be, Uh, there's a newcouple that came and the guy's poor wife
got really really I don't know ifshe got sick or what she did get

(35:08):
sick, but claimed that her bloodsugar was low and she kind of passed
out and threw up all over mybathroom. I don't like all over,
like all over all over. We'rejust talking like maybe a little splash out
of the can onto the floor,like missed the toilet and puked on the

(35:30):
floor. Was she drunk? Iwould assume, So, I would assume.
So, Gorman, why do younot have people over at your house
anymore? Exactly? Now? Iknow why. Guess who doesn't have to
clean? Not? Everybody has selfcontrol? Yeah, is vomiting something that

(35:51):
happens with low blood sugar? Iknow, pas can? I'm not sure.
So she how did to deal withit? So she pat? You
saw her passed out? I didn't. I didn't witness it, but I
heard about it, and so sheWait, someone passed out at your hat,
Like, so I think I'm confusingfainting and passing. Fancy fainted?

(36:14):
It was someone fainted at your houseand you didn't witness her. No,
I didn't witness it. I'm like, what I was inside preparing food and
she was outside and they were like, yeah, she just fainted and her
husband took her in and she cameto and he said, she's got really
low blood sugar. And then shewent to the bathroom and I went into

(36:37):
check and he was there cleaning upa vomit all over the floor. How
did he know she had really lowblood sugar? And that short amount of
time said this happens every once ina while. In other words, she
could well, she could have heatexhaustion. Yeah, it is true,
that could be a thing. Here'syour symptoms of low blood sugar. Feeling
hungry, dizzy, anxious or irar, sweating, shaking, tingling lips.

(37:02):
It doesn't say which one, buttingling lips, heart palpitations, feeling tired
a week, changes in your visionssuch as blurred vision, feeling confused,
and if you have severe low bloodsugar, you may have a seizure or
a fit. I just get madto start kicking your feet, I guess,
and then become unconscious. So shefainted and nine one one wasn't called.

(37:29):
So this happens, This happens.That shouldn't be a common thing right
in life? Should fainting be acommon thing? This just happens. Got
her some water, she laid downfor a little bit, and then he
took her home and all was rightin the world. I guess, but

(37:50):
I don't do well with vomit,So I'm like, Kevin, guess what
you're doing tonight? Cleaning that up? Cleaning the bathroom up. So we
had to do that, but thatYeah, yeah, this is definitely the
worst worst of your weekend you've hadin a long time, mostly because it
affected you, but like, yeah, this is the vomit other people's vomit.

(38:14):
Yes, fainting and strangers if someYeah, but you have strangers in
your house a lot. Not really, yes, really, I mean you're
you're a threshold of knowing people's prettylow. You don't know this person.
No, this was newbies. Theidea of uh going saying the statement of

(38:37):
this happens fainting is so off forme. Yeah, I thought so too.
I'll buy I won't jump straight todrunk, but definitely heat exhaustion.
It was pretty warm yesterday. Itwas windy though kind of cool to down.
Yes, absolutely, But if you'reout there drinking pounding, uh huh,

(39:00):
not eating right because you're enjoying theatmosphere, that's happened to me play
the time seltzer Felter. Yeah,I mean I she definitely ate because I
saw what came out of her allover the floor. The best and worst
the weekend? What's the best thingthat happened this weekend? The worst thing
that happened this weekend? Bmmss andwhatever that is to eight two, nine,

(39:20):
four five. Gimme what's the bestand what's the worst? I guess
the best part of the weekend wouldbe Saturday. We had a poker run
for a fallen brother and it wasreally cool. Had a lot of bikes
out there. Oh couple one hundredbikes side if just throwing a number out
there. This one was like reallycool because a lot of the poker runs
that I go to, it's likewe all have our own little group,

(39:42):
right, there's like five or sixof us that rightyg other. Yeah,
little clicks of people went on andthey'll go off and do their thing,
and then they'll go off to Weall go to the same stops. We
all end up at the same place. But this one was ran a little
more like parade ish to wear.All hundreds and somethings of bikes took off
at the same time, which Ithought was pretty pretty awesome when you're going

(40:05):
through the streets of you know,Sepulpa, skytok A Wasso, you know,
everybody all together once instead of justsmall groups. But I think that's
really cool. I think it's reallycool to see all those bikes in a
line. So that was the bestpart, you know, gathered together with
a bunch of friends. We didthat. The worst part of the weekend,

(40:25):
I guess, with the combination ofnot hydrating properly Saturday all right,
road to grime and dirt and dustand everything stuck up in my nose holes,
you know, and uh and justthe heat has made for a very
miserable met today. And it's justsinuses and blach that goes with it or

(40:47):
whatever. So it'll be fine overthe next day or two. It'll be
fine. Right. It's called gettingolder pretty much. You can't run,
can't run hot for multiple weekends ina row, ruth truth. Unfortunately,
I have no choice. But alasit's a lot of fun. It was
worth it, you know, I'mjust I'm paying for it today. Best
when we're's the weekend. What's thebest thing that happened this weekend. The
worst thing that happened this week Whenyou do those poker runs, do you

(41:09):
stop for food like along the way? Yes? Yes, like we the
town Pump was one of the stopsthat we had there. Right, it
was like the fourth stop, likethat's awesome, and then the typically probably
it would have been a stop alongthe way regardless, dude, it was
the first stop of the day,like nine thirty, and I'm at that
sum bitch before it even opens up. I'm right, can I come in

(41:31):
and play? You're waiting for yourship? Right? I did open and
close that place Saturday night, nonetheless. But yeah, typically they have food
their force, but they didn't.So there's a taco truck outside and I
got myself a nice steak case ofDylla, which was really good, and
everybody at that stop, we're like, all right, get you drink.

(41:52):
And then everybody went over to thattaco shack and it just gave them a
whole bunch of business. Whatever itis, good and worst the weekend.
What's the best thing that happened thisweekend? And the worst thing that happened
this weekend? Uh? Best partof the weekend is my stove has been
making this rattling noise. So whenthe oven cools down, it rattles.

(42:14):
And I had a repair down ona while back, and I finally pulled
the stove out, and I guessthe technician didn't tighten all the screws down,
so but I felt super accomplished.But I fixed that. I felt
like I was like, yes.Then I couldn't get it pushed back in,
so I created a different problem.But whatever, there's a lock in

(42:37):
the back so it doesn't tip over, and I couldn't get it into the
lock, So I'll get it figuredout. Okay, it works out.
I mean, it's no vomit onthe floor. But best and worst the
weekend? What's the best thing thathappened this weekend? The worst thing that
happened this weekend? Uh? Someonesaid, I'm also hypoglycemic. Yes,
vomiting and nausea is a symptom oflow sugar. If you're hypoglycemic, should

(43:00):
you be drinking? Anyway? Howdo you know it's home made? They're
not just taking it out of thecontainer and saying it's home made. Good
point. I think you can tastea difference. Smell a challenge. Best
cleaned out our poll? It's readyto use now. Worst, our baby
is teething and he's had a lotof sinus issues. Yeah, just in

(43:23):
that phase. Man. Best ofthe weekend getting to spend time with my
daughter and my friends. Worst ofthe weeking having to get rid of a
body and it fell apart when Ipicked it up. Okay, there's gotta
be more to that. Tech.Yeah, it must have been like a
roadkill or you know, pet.Surely it's not a human body. I

(43:46):
mean, I would think so,knowing the person that doesn't feel like that's
in his Yeah, but yes,knowing the person that very well could be
right. He continue to surprise me. He showed up driving one day.
Come on, yeah, he's flying. Worst had to drive up to Tulsa
because my stepbrother passed away suddenly.Best got to see family sooner than I

(44:07):
thought I was going to, exceptfor one anyway. Oh Dangel. Saturday,
Sun's Birthday, our thirty third weddinganniversary celebration with the family in Nashua
at Pizico on their patio. Iget that right. Saturday evening gathering with

(44:29):
many friends, cocktails, outdoor air. Sunday family friends patio cookout, steaks,
ribs, chicken, pasta salad,corn on the cob soaked in honey,
buttermilk, and more cocktails. Where'sthe worst? I don't know you
have that all sounds amazing. Ohyeah, best was the water park.
Worst the sunburn. Yeah, we'rein that sunburn season. Man. All

(44:51):
right, we're giving away a pairof tickets to see Corn That shows October
twenty third at the Bok Center.Tickets available bok Center dot com. Take
a break and we'll be back.If you're listening to The Big Mad Morning
Show, this he is Tulsa's Morningshow. M good morning. It's the

(45:19):
Big Mad Morning Show. Nine oneeight four six oh kmod. We got
to mention earlier, congratulations to R. J. Lanford of Talaquah heard the
Q and is qualified for one hundredtickets to one hundred concerts celebrating one hundred
years at Cane's Ballroom. Let's gorepair of tickets to one hundred shows at
the Canes. But you got tolisten every hour with us to get qualified.

(45:42):
So another chance coming up here injust about fifteen minutes. Right now,
though, we got to see what'sin Gippies four by four? Well,
hope what it says here that Trumpis to have probation interview today Cork.
President Trump's scheduled to sit down withthis PO today. It says here
that it'll take part in a virtualinterview with the oppice here in New York
City from his mar al Ago estatedown there, Florida. This comes after

(46:05):
his last month convention shut up thirtyfour COUNTCSIL falsifying business or records. He's
set to be sentenced in July eleventh. There are major Supreme Court decisions expected
this month. In June, theconservative majority court has several noteworthy decisions pending
before summer or recess, including oncases regarding presidential immunity, the obstruction charges

(46:30):
against the January six capital orioturs,the FDA's approval of the mithipristone abortion pill,
and abortion access to medical emergencies.Also the dock of this month's are
ruling on gun access for domestic abusersand whether bumpstocks can be federally dailed.
Says that the DHS secretary anticipates lawsuitsover Biden's Border Order JB is ruled in

(46:59):
JB has rolled out an executive actionto limit the number of migrants who can
claim asylum between ports of entry.At the US and Mexico border. Homeland
Security Secretary at A hundred on Mayorcussaid that the move is intended to incentivize
migrants to use lawful pathways of entryinto the US. Mayorcus says that he

(47:19):
anticipates a lawsuit from the ACLU andothers over JB's unilateral action. The Secretary
are called on Congress to pass aborder bill order security bill. Yeah,
got it. You had to dosomething. Gotta do something. Everybody's bitching
beoutter. Now you can't say hehas done right right. Lastly, here,
Eden Village is to open their firsthomes by late July, a tiny

(47:42):
homes community providing housing for the chronicallyhomeless population in Tulsa, plans to open
its first few homes by late July. About one hundred and fifty individuals have
applied to be residents of Eden Villageof Tulsa in West Tulsa. Of the
sixty three total houses planned to openfor unhoused, eighteen are fully funded.
Yeah that's pretty cool. Yeah,eaton how it's an Eden Village Tulsa dot

(48:07):
org. If you when to lookat the guy like social media and stuff
like that, that's very cool.Man to do stuff like that for people.
Let's go ahead and see what Lindsayhas for balls to the wall sports.

(48:28):
So the Lakers may be closing inon hiring the next head coach of
their prestigious franchise. Yukon's men's basketballcoach Dan Hurley said that Los Angeles has
made a pretty compelling case along witha compelling vision for him to become the
team's next coach. Hurley is expectedto make a decision on his future today.

(48:50):
The fifty one year old has ledthe Yukon Huskies to back to back
national championships since taking over the jobin twenty eighteen. Lakers are searching for
a new head coach following thesis missileof Darvin Ham earlier this offseason. I
don't know what to take of thisbecause the success rate of college basketball coaches

(49:14):
moving to the NBA isn't high andhe's never coached but college, So yeah,
but one of those you know,how do you know if you don't
try sort of things? Listen,reaching for goals one percent? Self awareness
is a dramatically underappreciated trait, andhe's got a good what's the reason to

(49:36):
go up on the next round,so he can say that he, you
know, coached professional basketball team.So this is probably ego in the way,
right, Yeah, the only thingI can think of. Yeah,
I'm I'm all for it because Idon't want you come to be good.
But they're really good, right,And how is he going to be able
to coach people who know how toplay? And not that college kids don't.

(49:59):
But there's an expect tation that thecoach is in charge, and I
think at the at the pro level, it isn't like that. No,
he's in charge, of course,but it isn't like he's like show up
to practice, right, Yeah,he's grown adults. He's dealing with yes,
yeah, multi millionaires. And likewe said last week though, like

(50:21):
you don't have to really coach atthat level and not the way you do
it at college. It's a runand watch. I mean, you're not
standing around. I don't want todismiss the college coach or the professional NBA
coach, but also it ain't coachingcollege kids right right. These are people
that have been playing literally all theirlife, the best, not some that

(50:43):
are trying to be the best.Really, coach is just there for you
know, every now and again,you might have to tell somebody what to
do. Sure. I mean he'sresponsible for play draw up. Yeah,
right, And but you can dropall the plays you want once the guys
do whatever they want. Right,What are you gonna call time out and
bench the star because he's gonna dowhatever he wants And a veteran and tight

(51:07):
end is calling it a career.Darren Waller informed the New York Giants on
Sunday that he is retiring. Thethirty one year old has been staying away
from the team, giving up apotential two hundred thousand dollars workout bonus.
He's also giving up a base salaryof ten point five to five million dollars.
The g Men will save eleven pointnine million dollars in cap space by

(51:31):
designating Waller a post June first cut. Waller was traded to the Giants from
the Las Vegas Raiders for a thirdround pick in the twenty twenty three offseason.
He was originally drafted by the BaltimoreRavens as a wide receiver out of
Georgia Tech in the fifth round ofthe twenty fifteen NFL Draft. I don't

(51:52):
hate on guys who retire early.No from the NFL. He was a
twenty twenty leader and he's thirty one. That's almost a decade. Yeah,
you know, it's probably not apriority. The longer you do something,
it becomes to keep it a highpriority is not easy. And if he's

(52:12):
like, ah, I'm good,yeah right, I've got my millions of
dollars. Now I'm just gonna sitback and into a life and my health
still, right, whatever is thatI can stand up? Right? Yeah,
before that runs out, I wantout. Yeah, Or he came
to the Giants and was like,oh, hails, no better off Retiring

(52:34):
two right boxer Ryan Garcia has evenmore problems than just the fact that he's
facing suspension for testing positive for abanned substance. On Saturday, Garcia was
arrested and charged with felony vandalism.The Waldorf Astoria in Beverly Hills has accused
the fighter of causing an estimated fifteenthousand dollars worth of damage to their property.

(52:59):
This saecific nature of the vandalism hasn'tyet been made clear, and there's
a word that a public intoxication chargemight also be in the pipeline. After
being booked, Garcia allegedly told policehe was having a medical issue and was
taking to Cedar Sinai Medical Center forevaluation. This kid has some serious mental

(53:19):
things going on. In April,before his fight, he went on this
huge tirade of that they were tryingto arrest him and that he would be
thrown in jail because he's saying namingall these people that are child predators.
And then he gets he said somethingbad's going to happen to me, and
then he gets arrested and he doesnot seem okay. There seems to be

(53:45):
this feels different than just somebody beinglots of money being reckless. Yeah,
he seems like mentally troubled. Andhow old is he? Twenty six,
twenty seven? Ye punched in theface a lot. Yeah, great boxer,
phenomenal boxer, but he looks likehe's having a real mental episodes,

(54:09):
multiple mental episodes. And I'm notsaying that just because of the things he's
saying. I'm saying that because ofthe pattern he's showing. Right, it
doesn't matter what he says, hecontinues to be reckless. And to me,
that is where you're like, whoathat along with saying really outlandish things,
and maybe he's right. I don'tknow. We tend to go with

(54:31):
people that say outlandish things is beingmentally troubled. That doesn't necessarily mean they
are, but it is out ofthe norm. And when you do out
of the norm things repeatedly, thenit's like, Okay, something's not going
on correctly here. He's acting outbecause there's something going on. I don't
think he thinks he's acting out.To me, acting out is a choice,

(54:53):
right, You're choosing to act out, And it's more of i've got
a bunch of money, I'm gonnabe a fool. I don't even think
it's he's like I want to bea fool. I think he's got nobody
around him. That's like, heyman, we're worried about your health.
Right. A seventy six ers legendhas passed away. The NBA Players Association

(55:15):
said on Saturday that chat Walker died. He was eighty four years old.
The seventh time All Star was selectedby the Syracuse Nationals in the nineteen sixty
two draft and followed the team whenit moved to Philadelphia. Walker helped contribute
to a then record sixty eight winseason in nineteen sixty six, which included

(55:35):
a takedown of the Celtics in theplayoffs. Boston had won eight straight titles
up to that point. Walker playedalongside Philly legend Wilt Chamberlain and averaged more
than eighteen points per game in histhirteen year career. By the way,
Garcia fifteen thousand dollars in vandalism damage. Yeah, that's more than spray painting
a wall. Yo, a littleboot and that is your bass to the

(55:58):
wall Sports. I'm Lindsia ninety sevenfive KM. Good morning, It's the
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Well, good morning Corbyn. Makesure you come have a little happy hour
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(57:07):
for free. Who knows? Allright, so we usually do. Our
listeners are awesome, but the personwe had scheduled had a better offer,
and so they're not joining us.Their word doesn't matter, So I'm pivoting
to something else. And I haven'tspent a lot of time ready for this,
but I'm going with it anyway.And these are celebrity names that we

(57:30):
mispronounce, right, how many ofthose are sports? Can exactly? Some
of these we may have to eliminateon the again, I haven't got to
clean it up. So some ofthese, like I already pulled one out
because I was like, hey,nobody, none of us are going to
know who this is, Okay,But so I'm trying to go with ones

(57:50):
that we know. So we'll startwith this one right here. Oh say
the name that is incorrect, it'sKelch No else, Kelse really is the
correct way. That's fun. Sowho's responsible for starting the Travis Kelcey trend
because that's what we always known it, As they said on their podcast that

(58:12):
they were always brought up Kelsey,but their dad recently has been like,
it's actually Kelse. Come on now, damn it, Okay dad, what
dad ruining being trying to be like, no, it's got to be right.
I mean, they should have knownwhat their last name is their entire
life, how it's properly pronounced.So somebody and their family somewhere drop the

(58:35):
ball and Dad's like, eh,that's an interesting take from you, as
a guy who it hardly matters standson that hill. I'm just saying,
you know, that's that's your name, and especially if you're famous like these
two Kelsey's are I'm saying Kelsey,I don't absolutely yeah, uh, this
is if you know Patruli. Youknow this guy Hosier. Yeah, you

(59:01):
said two different names, so's holdon, hold on, So let's just
say the name we think it is, Hosier always right. This guy is
an amazing story, really talented musician, wouldn't sign with a record label,
sold CDs out of the back ofhis trunk like and then made it big
that way, right, fascinating guy. Uh, This is technically pronounced Hosier.

(59:24):
Hosier. Yes, h o dashz e e dash you are Hosier.
He's hosier than the rest of them. Hosier. I'm the hosier hoo's
er wo'ser this one. I don'tknow if everybody will know, but I'll
try to give you some clues.She was in Split. She was in

(59:46):
Mean Girls, The New Mean Girls. Uh college, Uh college girls go
to school or something like that onHBO. She's a musician, very pretty
woman, very talented. Can alsobe is a a talented singer. Okay,
Lindsay Anya Taylor joy Okay, that'swhat I would pronounce it as either,
but I mean I can see itas Anya either as well Anya Anya

(01:00:08):
Taylor Joyce. Anya is the correctway to say this. Hmm. She
says it's wrong. When you sayAnya, I would assume there'd be another
n for Anya. Well, youwould assume wrong there, Lindsay, These
people wrong right exactly. This isa guy that I'm not familiar with.

(01:00:30):
Maybe Lindsay is Paul mescal He wasin Normal People Gladiator. He's gonna be
a gladiator too. All of usare strangers. I would go with Paul's
call because rhymes. Uh, he'sIrish and people think it's mess call,

(01:00:51):
but it's mess calls. Okay,yeah, how about this person? Uh,
this is Kaylee Taylor. Yeah.Yeah, that seems about right for
those don't know. Uh, there'san actor by the name of Miles Teller.
His wife, that is who thisis. And he's a phenomenal actor.
He's like one of my favorite actors. She is best friends with Deal

(01:01:15):
Swift. And this is technically pronouncedKelly, just another weird way of y
K E l E I g hH. Right. Uh. This is
also a musician. I don't knowif everybody knows who this is Swedish singer

(01:01:35):
that's what I was known as.It's actually too vey low. What where's
your accent at the end? I'mnot Swedish to evade. Wait, hold
on, I get him my SwedishUS TV. Sure right, everybody knows

(01:01:57):
who this actor is. Very famousactor Jake Jillen Hall. Yeah, I've
always known as jill and Hall gota new movie coming out on Netflix,
Apple TV where he plays kind ofa crazy man. Uh, and a
lot of his movies where he playsthe crazy person. He's phenomenal at he
just did the remake of Roadhouse.Sure, sure, he was great in

(01:02:22):
it. That's why I went straightto prime. Uh. I agree.
I always thought this was Jake Gillenhall, but apparently it's Swedish and it's Yieling
Hall, Yillen Hall, Yellen Halland his sister Maggie right, who's a

(01:02:42):
phenomenal actress as well. Another famousone you guys should know, Steve.
Yeah, gimme booskim I apparently becausehe's Sicilian, it should be boy Steve,
Steve Bouchame. Okay, right,let's see if I got this is

(01:03:05):
a good one here. Adele nearlyyeah, yeah, yeah, it's always
been Adele. I've always heard itas Adele. I was surprised to see
it on this list because I toohave always called it Adele. But apparently
that is incorrect, and she recentlywent on a show to say that it

(01:03:28):
is actually Hoodele. What h uh dash d A L E. Whodele?
Who is who? Okay, Ican see why she went with that
one. It's done well. Listen, Creative people have a scosh of crazy,

(01:03:49):
and some of them their scosh isa skosh like it's a lot.
Amen, Right, and that's whatmakes them so awesome in terms of how
they can do things because they're soout there. Right, they think differently
than everybody else completely right, speakingof speak thinking differently, Lindsay Lohan,
Yeah, it's always been Lindsay Lohan. Maybe Lindsay Loewen. This is one

(01:04:13):
that I don't necessarily believe that we'resaying incorrectly. She has been someone who's
constantly, uh seeking attention. Ifeel like even after the fact, right,
even after people were like, you'renot a good actress. Right,
you were cute when you were akid, but once you became puberty entered

(01:04:35):
your life, whatever that was isgone, right, right. So apparently
she has said that this is becausewe say low hand, it's low in
Lindsay Loewen. I love it whenpeople no, that's not right. It's
her name, who cares. Anotherone that everybody should know, pretty famous,

(01:05:00):
Ariana Grande. I'd say Ariana Grande. Uh. She says that in
her family it's Grandi, Ariana Grandi. Okay, Another famous person, Taylor
Lautner. Sure, I don't knowwho this person is, but i'd say

(01:05:23):
Taylor Lautner. I'm trying to thinkof a movie without naming the most obvious
one that he's been in. Don'tlook it up. Let me see if
we can help you. Let mesee if we can help you, because
I don't know if he's been ina movie that's good and that's argumentative besides
the most famous what he's most famouslyknown for, okay, which is Twilight.

(01:05:45):
Okay, he was the wolf.Oh yeah, that makes sense.
Yeah, I've never seen Twilight,not a single one of them. Ever.
I can't think of anything else either. Anyway, Taylor Lautner, he
says, it's we say Latner,and it's a actually Lawtner like oh u
t Lawtoner Lawtner another one, prettyfamous, Lady Rihanna, Yeah, Rihannah.

(01:06:13):
Oh are you saying it a littledifferent? Rihanna? And wait are
you? It's always right, Benihana. You want to make sure I'm doing
it the way you're doing No,Rihanna again, it's always been Rihanna,
right, I've always pronounced it Rihanna. Uh. And she says it's actually

(01:06:34):
Rihanna. Okay, okay, Rihanna. Sure? Is that how Fleetwood Max
spells it? It is? Ohno, that's Rihanna in aah see you
got me. Another actress who hasnothing but boobs. I'm sorry. She's
a really good actress. Florence Peugh. Yeah, Florence full Learn. She

(01:07:00):
was recently in the blockbuster movie OhBoppenheimer. Okay, she's done some other
things, and uh, it isit says it is said like the like
pew, like pew pew. SoFlorence pew. That makes sense. Yeah,

(01:07:23):
so I think we were right onthat one. Another famous one here
as we're feeling because Parker was unavailableto talk to us today. For our
listeners are awesome. Charlie's. Yeah, I've always heard it as Charlie's then,
but I've also heard it as throne. So I don't know if somebody

(01:07:44):
was being silly or whatever, butI've always pronounced it. They're on Charlie's
trone French. Huh, technically it'sSouth African. Another famous one, Alicia
Silverstone. Yea Alicia, Alicia Silverstone. Yeah. A lot of people say

(01:08:08):
Alicia, but she says it's Aliciagoing back to her Latin roots. Huh,
Alicia Alicia. Uh. Got twomore here, I'll do this one
first. Oh boy, Ralph findssay it again for me. Ralph fine,

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Ralph Fennis Phoenix, it Israfe finds, how the hell do you get
rape finds that, well, that'swhat it said. That's how I actually
that's how I got it. ButRaife finds looks r a y f Okay,
Raefe finds. Okay, so maybemaybe much like chef Boyardy boy Arty

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right to bring this up. Ilove that we can. That's the we
gotta start doing this on Mondays.Figure out like an obscure reference to bring
in for the week. And thisweek it's chef boyar Dy chef Boyard.
You can't just say chef Boyard.It has to be like work. Yeah.
So when he first started out chefBoyardy, Uh, they were like,

(01:09:18):
how do I pronounce this name?And that's how I got americanized into
chef boy r d boy Ardi.But it's really Boyardy more. You know,
hell love it. So chef byr D is the work in this
week. Okay, it's the lastone. Demi Moore, I've heard on

(01:09:43):
a second say it again more.I've heard it two ways, like she
said Demi Moore or Demi the memore And I'm going with the demean it's
Demi yeah me more like there's anh sent me more more. Okay,

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So this is gonna be a giantannouncement and this has proven it. We
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It is wild people in relationships andwhat they do in that time right
after. And here's an example ofthat. This is just a wild story.
A woman shares how she discovered thather intruder who sexually assaulted her and
choked her was her ex husband.Oh wow, right hot, think about

(01:11:24):
that. How would you was therea bump where there shouldn't like? How
did you you have a tattoo onhis neck that said his name? Right?
This is a wild story. SoMorgan awoke in the early hours of
New Year's Day in twenty twenty oneto a masked man standing in her bedroom
and he was using a voice distortiontool which is hilarious, and her kids

(01:11:49):
were away and she was in thehouse by herself. She said. She
screamed so loud she doesn't think shecould ever do it again, and it
was so painful. The man startedto beat her with the butt of a
pistol and then got on top ofher to her to restrain her with zip
ties, and then raped her.Oh Jesus christ Man, that iscalated quickly

(01:12:09):
and after a half hour. Imean, I don't know if the timeline,
I don't know if all those thingshappened immediately a half hour into the
assault. He then began to chokeher, and she recalls feeling deprived of
oxygen, thinking this is it.I'm gonna die. She said. He
was wearing a mask that made himlook like Batman. He even had like

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the ears were on the mask,she said. And then the attack stopped.
The assailant dragged her, half nakedout to the out to the deck
of the house, and then hestarted to flee, and as he fleed,
he said this You're gonna miss yourkids and your husband, and then

(01:12:57):
he took off. Oh god,and she said she realized right then,
why would he she this assailant sayyour husband. Yeah, right, because
she was there by herself, sohe didn't know. Ideally you would think
it's random. Absolutely, So she'snaked, nearly naked, pillowcase over her

(01:13:20):
head outside. It's winter in Geojia. She said she was trying to stay
awake because she felt like she hadconcussions, and as she fell asleep,
she was worried she might die.And so about fifteen minutes after that,
her ex husband showed up. Oh, and he said a stranger showed up

(01:13:42):
at his apartment and told him hisex wife's house had been broken into,
and that he seemed devastated by whathappened, but she wasn't buying it.
The police, of course show up. They waited for the police. She
began to accuse him of the attack. He's denied it. The sheriff's office
arrived about twenty minutes later. Eventhe officers started becoming suspicious of him.

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Police quickly found that while his exwife was still tied up outside, he
went back to his apartment, changedhis clothes, and then returned to the
scene to play the hero. Theyeven have video footage of him in Low's
buying the zip ties. Oh mygoodness. He even searched online people in

(01:14:28):
your search history? Man, howlong before you starve to death? And
how long does it take to chokesomeone until they are unconscious? Jesus christ
Man, do you not know notto go incognito? Right? Full record?
Incognito is not incognito? But yeah, you're right, gimpy. At
least go to a library commuter somehow, right, ask a friend to look

(01:14:50):
it up. Oh then wow?And why would a random stranger just show
up at your house and be like, Hey, you don't know me from
Adam, but your ex's wife oryour ex's house has been broken into.
The two had been high school sweethearts. They met when she was fourteen and
he was a senior in high school. Ah damn it, twenty ten.

(01:15:11):
They got married. A year later, they lost their first child to heart
fail I'm sorry, a congenial heartdefect. Then they got twins a year
later. They appeared to be lovingon the surface, but he was very
toxic. Apparently, you don't say. At one point, she says that
he had convinced me I pushed himdown the stairs. I did not.

(01:15:32):
He made me feel as I wasthe aggressive one and the toxic one in
the family. They got divorced intwenty twenty, but tried to stay friends
because of the children, which youdon't need to do, And in the
days leading up to the attack,he faked a cancer diagnosis and an attempt
to gain sympathy from her. Justdays before the attack, she and him

(01:15:54):
drove the floor together to drop offthe twins with family for Christmas break to
show them that they were night infront and caring for the children. Once
they returned, he told her hewas diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. He even
forged documents, she said. Afterthat scheme failed, she developed a convoluted

(01:16:14):
pain that investigators believed involved him killinghis ex wife before taking his own Oh,
he was developing that plan, andwhen he couldn't go through at the
plan, he devised a new planto rescue her. Part of a plea
deal. He's getting seventy years injail. Wow. Good, that's some

(01:16:36):
deep psycho stuff though. Absolutely,He's just he just could not get He
just couldn't let her go. Totalpsycho. Yeah, you paint the campus
with your own die so like hebelieved that they were still Yeah, like

(01:16:59):
she was just miss guided and hehad controlled her for so long It sounds
like that he couldn't believe his tacticsweren't working anymore. So what's the next
logical thing to do? Let's see, I tried the cancer thing that didn't
work out. Dude to forge,dude to forge documents for cancer is a
special kind of bad forget. Imean, you don't need me to tell

(01:17:23):
you rape, right is bad.You don't need me to tell you assault
is bad unless you put it inyour spaghettios. Right. So what did
he think that? You know,he's gonna go to her and go someone
just said that my ex wife thatwas broken into Are you okay? He

(01:17:45):
was gonna he thought this was gonnawinner back. Yeah, I'm gonna be
your hero. No, No,there are plenty of people that help somebody
and duress and they don't fall inlove, right, called being a decent
human being. By the way,he wasn't helping that. That is the
misguide right there, is that it'sas he thought he was helping. He

(01:18:10):
was not helping. You don't You'renot helping when you're the problem. Right,
boy? What some people's kids?Man, I tell you you're gonna
miss your husband. Right, he'sa really good dude right here, real

(01:18:35):
real nice, real good griller.Oh god, like he gives like intimate
details. Ale. Remember how heused to wash your car and take out
the garbage, right, brought homesix limits. Right, he's a real

(01:18:57):
good man. I'm not him,no, but he's real good guy.
You should maybe be nice to him. Think about taking them back. The
father of your children, what areyou gonna do? And father say,
huh do you think about that?For you? In this forever, if
you would have never left your husband, I'd have never come and raped you.
God dang right. You did thisto yourself, right, not me

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or your husband. Definitely not here. He has nothing to do with any
of this. Your husband, wholooks just like me, same shoe size,
right, also ins a batman maskand a voice to coder that is
not me. I don't have cancer, right right, moron? Let you

(01:19:45):
know, listen, listen, youdon't know unless try. I'm just saying
no, no, you do know. It might have worked in his defense,
It might have worked. She mighthave just been like, you know
what, you're absolutely right. Iforget the name of it, but there's
a there's a scientific theory that whenyou try harder to do something, it

(01:20:06):
doesn't work. So as an example, like as a pitcher, right,
if you try to throw strikes,you will not throw strikes. Right,
you're overthinking things. Yes, youare in your own way. You just
it is your your body stopping youfrom do that, from doing it.
The same thing holds true here andin most scenarios. If you try to
force someone to be with you orto do something, it does not work.

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No, no, you have tounderstand that. In the past,
if they have done that, it'sonly because they wanted to go along with
it. Right, Well, maybethey have played intruder before, you know,
trying to get back to that.Somebody jumped to an expert level,
like good god man brought in areal gun and everything. Full disclosure,
I've never played intruder, but Ican't imagine the butt of a gun.

(01:20:58):
A mask, sure, Dakoder okay, zip ties maybe for the experience,
but the butt of a gun,right right, pistol whipping takes it to
a whole new level. Babe,Tonight, I thought we'd introduce the backside
of my cult, right, hey, you know, just try to get
as realistic as possible. Oh hey, all right, we gotta take a

(01:21:21):
break. We'll be back more ofThe Big Man Morning Show is Nest ninety
d. Good morning, It's TheBig Man Morning Show nine four six oh

(01:21:43):
k m O D. So.Over the weekend, the London Series wrapped
up with Major League Baseball Phillies andMats. Right, and it is what
it is, right, But thisis the part that's interesting. Apparently the
phil flew back last night and theydon't play again till tomorrow night. But

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they didn't get back last night inBoston or their scheduled to play tomorrow night
till midnight, and so they're noteven getting they're barely getting a full day
off on the return. And peopleare crying foul that that's not okay,
and they may be right physically thatmight not be best for the players also,

(01:22:27):
don't care. Right, it's partof the schedule. Do what you
gotta do. It's they make alot of money to be inconvenienced. And
they get back at twelve. Sothey landed last night at midnight, they
got all day today, yeah,right, they got another night's sleep and
then all day the next day.Yeah, and then they play that night.

(01:22:48):
Now I get it. They havetheir routines and workouts and all those
other things that go on. Butit's not like they showed up today last
night at midnight and played today atone. They are also professionals and know
how to play, right, Andit's not like they were there for a
whole How long were they there,like four or five days? Okay?

(01:23:08):
Well, then the jet lag wouldsay, it's eight hours. It's eight
hours. It's not a day.Yeah, right, you didn't flight to
Australian back, right, it's eighthours. They are fine, They are
fine. There is jet lag thatexists with going to England, but it
isn't detrimental, right, You're nota zombie. The next day and they

(01:23:29):
said the player stayed up on theflight, tried to stay up on the
flight, and then slept when theylanded, which is what you're supposed to
do. Right now. Whether theygroped anybody on the plane like the Jaguars
apparently, Yeah, I don't know. Former Miami Dolphin star cornerback Xavien Howard

(01:23:55):
could be in some deep doodoo.He sent a male teenager a sexually implicit
photograph of the teen's mom because sherefused to get an abortion COURTI yes,
wait, hold on, I gottaI need I need my organizational chart.
So he was with baby mama.Uh huh, and she got pregnant by

(01:24:16):
him. I'm assuming right she wouldn'tget an abortion. So he says,
bitch, I'm gonna send pictures ofyou naked to your You're a live kid.
Yeah. Yeah, The allegation wasmade on Thursday. Wait did it
work? No? Okay, Theallegation was made Thursday in a lawsuit filed
last year by a woman who isnot the teenager's mom. It's another woman.

(01:24:38):
The woman who filed the suit accusesHoward, who's thirty years old,
of secretly recording them having sex andsharing the recordings with others. She says
Howard also shared without consent, sextapes she had agreed to make with him.
Attorneys for the woman want the teenager, who is now eighteen, added

(01:24:58):
as a plaintiff again against Howard,who was released this off season by the
Dolphins in a money saving move andis now a free agent. The teenager
is the son of another woman whoattorneys car say also had a relationship with
Howard and was recorded having sex withhim. That woman has not sued Howard.
Mister Howard denies the claims and looksforward to prevailing in a court of

(01:25:23):
law, his attorneys have said.In the original lawsuit, filed under a
pseudonym James Doe, a woman saysshe dated Howard for several months back in
twenty twenty two. A few monthsafter they broke up, she received an
Instagram message from a woman who saidHoward had sent her sexually explicit videos of
himself having sex with various women,including Jane Doe. Doe said she consented

(01:25:48):
once to Howard recording their sexual activity, but that other videos were done secretly
without her consent. In the latestfiling, seeking to add the teen as
a play, he says that inSeptember of twenty twenty two, his mother
and Howard were fighting over her refusalto have an abortion. The woman says

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Howard is the child's father. Theattorneys say Howard texted the teenager a photograph
of his mom engaging in sex inhis ongoing crusade to be and humiliate the
woman, and caused severe emotional distressto the teen. Howard's conduct was outrageous
and went beyond all boundaries of decency. In the court filings, the suit

(01:26:31):
is requesting damages and excess of fiftythousand dollars. No criminal charges have been
filed, which is a bit surprising. Stay strong Kings right, God,
what a weird flex. Yes,yes, and that is your Balls of
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Join us. On the line rightnow is Jeff Hensley from Hensley and
Associates. Hello, Jeff, howare you doing? I'm good, sir.

(01:28:45):
Let's go ahead and get into it. If you had a question for
Jeff, email it show at kmoddot com, text it, BMMS and
whatever that question is to eight twonine four to five, or you can
call at nine one eight four sixoho KMOD. First one I have before
you came in late last week.It says, my husband is in the
military and station overseas. I'm filingfor divorce. Do I have to file
where he is stationed or do Ihave to file differently because he is in

(01:29:09):
the military. Well, you haveto file. And so when you're dealing
with the military individual, they've gota state that they've registered as their for
lack of a better term, homestate, so you know that's the state
that you're going to want to filein, and that's typically the state where
the spouse, the spouse that stateside is living. So if she's here
in Oklahoma and he's serving in Germanyor Afghanistan or wherever, she can file

(01:29:31):
here in Oklahoma even though he isout now. The one thing about being
in the military is is that eventhough you go ahead and file on him
now, they can actually ask fora stay of the divorce until they return.
So just beware that when you dofile, there is a particular that
they may hire an attorney and theymay be asking for that stay. That's

(01:29:53):
part of the service Members Civil Relieffact that requires the court to stay off
proceedings on the divorce until the individualis allowed is required or allowed to come
back to the States to be ableto deal with it. So that's just
one of the extra steps in dealingwith military divorces, because there's there's things

(01:30:14):
like that. There's things called somethingcalled DEFAST, which is the Department of
Funding that handles all of the benefitsand everything. So military divorces are are
a little bit different, to saythe least. Jeff Finsley's joined us from
Hensley Associates. You got a questionabout divorce, custody, guardianship, name
change, adult guardianships, anything withfamily law. Jeff is here to answer
those questions. Nine one, eightfour to six oh kmod or you can

(01:30:39):
text BMMS and whatever that question isto eight two nine four five. Aaron
is on the line. Aaron,go ahead. What's your question for?
Jeff Hensley of Hensley and Associates.My question was, so, I've been
going through the ES for about twoyears now, and as with the last
month or so, my does nothave a lawyer, and the judge just

(01:31:02):
keeps on passing our court date,and I just I'm just curious how how
many times can a judge continue topass until he finally just stops and goes
fur A lot of curiosity, Whatcounty is this? Then Cattle County down
in Katta, Okay. So you'retalking about the other side of the state,

(01:31:24):
southwest Oklahoma area. I know becausethat's where I'm from, and I
know exactly where Cattle County is.So you know, our judges here in
northeastern Oklahoma or north northeastern Oklahoma.Brainfort for a minute. You know,
I've only seen him path it onceor twice at the most. Okay,
the idea is to not keep draggingit out and dragging it out and dragging

(01:31:45):
it out. But sometimes when youget into smaller counties, all right,
you deal with judges that are alittle bit old fashioned, I guess in
a sense, and they'll pass it. So you know, there's no straight
line or law or legal requirement asto how many times the judge can pass
it, although how many times hasit been passed? Now? This will

(01:32:09):
be number three. July is alreadyfirst. We go back again, and
it said if she doesn't have alawyer a week in advance, she needs
to gut up there and let himmatter. So they'll puts the court date
back further so I don't have todrive. Yeah, see that that's ridiculous
that I don't know our judges.I've never seen that. Again, the

(01:32:30):
most I've ever seen is a twotime path. At the most, I've
never seen path that. You know, if a judge is passing it over
and over and over trying to allowsomebody to get counsel. Obviously, if
the person doesn't have a counsel withinthe first thirty days, they're not going
to hire anybody. I mean,that's just how it goes. Okay,
That's what I've seen in my practicein fifteen years of doing this, and

(01:32:51):
you know over a thousand cases,is that you've got somebody who keeps telling
the judge that just to drag thisout. So at some point, do
you have a lawyer yourself or no, yeah, I have one. Your
lawyer, in my professional opinion,needs to file something with the court to

(01:33:12):
say, look, this is it. They shouldn't be giving more passes.
This is just dragging it out.This needs to stop so we can get
these two divorced to move on.So you know, your lawyer has the
ability to file something. Now Here'syou may not be doing it for some
particular reason that I'm not aware of. Maybe they're afraid of the judge,
or you know, I don't knowwhat the deal is, but you know

(01:33:32):
you need to have a conversation withyour attorney and says, look, this
has been drug out for two years. It's now been passed three times being
and I'm being told that it couldpotentially be passed for another fourth time and
that's just not acceptable. So youknow, while your attorney have have a
call. You know, there's somethings we can't control on passes. Okay.

(01:33:53):
We can't control when people die,we can't control when people are born,
we can't control when people get COVID. We can't control when people,
you know, break their ankles likeI did. Okay, so you know
you can't there's certain things you can'tcontrol. But somebody who's just saying that
they're trying to get an attorney todrag it out, that can be controlled.

(01:34:13):
So right, And the biggest thingis the biggest thing is she's also
like the judge is running everything together. So the I have a custody of
the kids, emergency custody and sheuh and the promise whenever I got custody,
she attempted to punch my lawyer inthe courtroom. So there's a kim

(01:34:34):
charge right there. And assault chargethat they're running they're running everything to he's
running everything together, and he doesn'twant to do anything, especially with the
g A L until she has alawyer, which is insane because I mean,
I'm well, okay, so that'sthe whole in January third, Okay.
So if that's the case and she'sconsidered indigent, meaning she doesn't have

(01:34:59):
money at all, I mean,the judge has the ability and the jurisdiction
too. And maybe they don't doit because it's such a small county,
but here in Tulsa, what theywould do is is they would appoint a
public defender. They would point anda point an attorney to represent her on
the contempt in the assault charge.I mean, she's entitled to that by

(01:35:20):
law. So the judge has theability to stop dragging this out. Something's
going on and you need to talkto your attorney about it and find out
what's going on, because you know, I've never practiced in Cato. I
mean, I'm I'm from that area. I've practiced in Comanche, if I
practiced in a bunch of other countiesArounther, but I've never actually practiced in
Cado. So you know, youneed to talk to your attorney and say,

(01:35:41):
look, I get this is whatthe judge wants to do, but
doesn't that you know, the judgehas the legal right to appoint her an
attorney. Why hasn't he done.So let's see what your attorney says.
Aaron, thank you so much fortalking with this man. Have a good
day, good luck with everything.Let's move on to Jason has a question.
Jason, you're on with Jeff Hensleyof Hensley and Associates. Morning.

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Jeff, I have a mother whois bipolar. She's one hundred disabled for
it. She's right now. Shestopped taking her manage, so she's in
a manage state. Many voicemails ofwins, suitside and making lies, you
know, all this stuff mating peopledo. We're running take emergency cestidy or
guardianship, whatever it is to beable to get her put into the hospital

(01:36:28):
so she won't go on her own. That we've been mourned many many times
that that's very dangerous, that it'ssomething she does, something stupid. We're
liable. Is this true? Potentially? Yeah? I mean, if if
you're talking about doing an adult guardianship, you know you are now the guardian
of the individual. You're the guardianof their estate and their money and their

(01:36:49):
person and all those things. Andso you know what what particularly specifically or
I should say, are you worriedabout that she might do that you'd be
held liable for. Well, Steve, she dropped driving all the time.
She shouldn't be driving. I mean, she burns up a tanker to a
vACC today. She just goes wherever. She doesn't sleep at night, So

(01:37:12):
he's driving where every night. She'staking homeless people on mats and step into
her apartments talking about how she's happened. Then we've had police officers out there
and they compare them. Now thesepeople are on that Well, the car
situations, dangerous crowd, well Iunderstand that, but I mean some of
those are easy fixes, right,Okay, so the car, take to
take the keys, all right,take the coil wire off the off the

(01:37:35):
off the coil. I mean,there's there's different things you could do to
keep her from driving around. Imean, if she needs to go into
a mental institution like Lorette or somethinglike that, you have the ability to
do that with her, and thatobviously keeps her away from those kind of
people, you know, but atthe end, of the day. It's
just like having kids. You know, there's only so much you can do

(01:37:59):
if they may if they're not doingwhat they need to do and they want
to make a bad decision. Imean that's just true for anything. You
can do as much as you cando. You can, you can try
and you know, prepare yourself,compare your family and your home and everything
else to accept this individual so thatthose things are minimalized, but minimized.
But at the same time too,you know, there's only so much you
can do. But you know,as far as being liable, I mean,

(01:38:21):
if she goes out and shoots somebody, you're not liable for that.
She's that she's on her on thehook for that herself. But you know,
the car is pretty easy. Justtake the keys, you know,
disable the car. I mean,there's ways to do that to keep her
from driving, whether she likes itor not. Fold is this individual,
by the way, uh seventy one? Okay, Yeah, So I mean

(01:38:45):
she obviously needs help and and gettinga guardianship will allow you to get her
into a place that can get herhelp, hopefully get her on meds and
get her, you know, gether evened out where she needs to be
and and be able to be productiveand happy. Okay, all right,
thank you so much, christ Start, good luck, sir, thanks for
the time. What would be something? Would you be financially responsible for that
individual? Jeff Well, I meanyou are, yeah, you are financially

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responsible in other words, or you'rethe one that is appointed to handle all
of their finances, so you knowthat way, there's you know, that's
why there's an accounting every year ofall the finances of the individual. Where
did the money go, what wasthe money spent on? You know,
you have to show receipts and allthese other things to show exactly where the
individual's money goes, because typically thesepeople are on some sort of you know,
social security disability or something of thatnature, and you have to make

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an accounting for every pentny of wordsbeing spent, you know. And that's
the other easy thing to lock upis that if she's got an ATM car,
take the ATM card away, shecan't. And if you're the guardian,
you can block her from going inand trying to get money out of
the account without your approval. Sothere's ways to block money for her so
that she's not out buying drugs ordoing things that she shouldn't be doing.

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Jeff Finsley's join us from Hensley andAssociates. You've got a question about divorce,
custody, guardianship, name, change, any of those things. Jeff
can help and he's here to dothat. Nine one, eight four to
six, oh kmod. You cantext your question BMMS and whatever that is
to eight two nine four five,or you can call it nine one eight
four six oh kode. This onesays, my husband wants the divorce and
has filed. Is he responsible forpaying for everything in the divorce? I

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mean the answer is no. Imean he if he wants to file,
he'll obviously pay the filing fee.But as far as paying for everything,
I'm not sure exactly what that means, other than to say, you know,
in Oklahoma, Oklahoma is an equitabledivision state, meaning there is an
you split everything down the middle.I mean, it's typically fifty to fifteen,

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and that's the term we use,is equitable for fifty to fifteen Oklahoma.
There are exceptions to the rule.Obviously, there are different scenarios that
would be very rarely different, butthose typically don't apply. It to ninety
nine percent of the population, allright, But you know, paying for
everything doesn't mean he's not going topay for all the debts. I mean
that's going to be split down themiddle. He's not gonna pay for the

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entire house and her get you knowa was scott free, or get all
of her equity one hundred percent ofthe equity or whatever. I mean.
She's gonna have to be involved init in some way, whether it be
physically being involved or understanding that she'sgoing to be responsible for half the debt
and she'll get half the assets andall that. So, but you know,
if he wants to start the processand pay the filing fee, absolutely

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that'll be on him for sure.Jeff Finzley's joining us nine one eight four
to six oh kmod family law questionscan be answered. You can also text
BMMS and whatever that question is toeight two nine four five. This says,
my son is twenty one, butwe want to change his last name
to a stepdad's last name. Howdo I do that? Sure, give

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us a call. We can getthat done. That is a really easy
process one that once they're an adult, so unlike with children, you've got
to give notice and all these otherthings, whereas an adult that's not the
case. So please give us acall, be happy to get that change,
because that's you know, that's thebeauty of name changes. Once you're
an adult, I guess, isthat you can change your name to anything
and everything you want to. Obviously, there are restrictions. There's not judges

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that are going to allow you to, you know, change your last name
to a swear word or something that'sgoing to offend somebody per se, but
for the most or for it's copywritedfor some reason. But otherwise, you
can change your name to whatever,and we can help you make that happen.
So please give us a call.And I would think a lot of
people feel like that's something they cannavigate on their own and don't need an

(01:42:34):
attorney. Why is it important tohave an attorney on something in terms of
other family los scenarios that is sosimple, Well, because it's it's something
that's very specific as well, andyou want to make sure that every I
is dotted, every T is crossed, because at the end of the day,
if it's not done correctly, youcould end up with the legal name
that you thought you were getting,it'd be something completely different. And now

(01:42:57):
it's a mess to get it corrected. So you know, we know how
to handle it. Give us acall. We we would love to help
you with it. Well, thisis a really great question that came in
via text, which you can dotoo if you have a question for Jeff
Hensley of Hensley and Associates, FamilyLaw Questions BMMS and whatever. That is
to eight two nine four five.This says, what's the difference between a
guardianship and a power of attorney?Sure? So, a power of attorney

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is something that is granted by anindividual to somebody else. In other words,
for example, you can give apower of attorney over let's say finances,
all right, over money to somebody, all right, but you have
to be the person who's giving thatpower away. Has to be looseid and
with it, and has to beable to legally be able to make that

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decision on their own. And youknow, powers of attorney can be very
limited. You can limit them toone thing only, or you could limit
them to everything from medical to financesto whatever it may be. Or you
could just lock them into one thinglike finances or just medical or whatever it
may be. All right, Andthere's no judge's signature. There's no court
order. There is obviously a powerof attorney paperwork, but there's no court

(01:44:08):
order signed by a judge. Now, a guardianship is something completely different in
the sense that it gives you fullcontrol and care of an individual, whether
it be a child or an adult. Right you're the decision maker for that
individual. Now you're the one that'sgoing to be handling all their finances,
all of their stuff. You're goingto be making decisions for them medically,

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You're going to be making decisions forthem financially, whatever it may be.
You've got full control over everything thatis said or done for that individual because
they have been found by a courtbe able not to be where they can't
do it themselves. For example,if you're a kid, obviously you're under
age, so you can't make thosedecisions on your own. But if you're
an adult, you know you're you'reincapacitated in some way, whether it be

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medically or mentally, or physically orwhatever it may be. There's something that
requires you to have help from somebodyelse else to make those decisions for you.
That does have a court order,that does have a judge's signature,
that does have something called letters ofguardianship that allow you to do those things.
So power attorney, if you wantto put it on a scale of

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things, let's on a scale ofone to ten. You know, that's
a power of one through four,But a guardianship is a power of five
to ten, meaning you know,it's a higher it's a higher document.
It's something that allows you to domore and gives you more control than just
a power of attorney. And aguardianship can be granted whether somebody is loosen
or not. You know, typically, and we're talking about adults here,

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I get kids. If you're underthe age of eighteen, it's that's not
the case. But you know,if you're incapacitated, a judge can find
you incapacitated so that things can bedecided for you, so you can be
taken care of in that state.Jeff Finsley's joined us from Hensley and Associates.
Nine to eight, four to six, Oh, kmod and Keita has

(01:45:58):
got a question for us. Goahead, it's Kata, right, it's
Kita, Kata, my mistake.Kata. Well, what's your question for
Jeff Hensley of Hensley and Associates,And yes, I was wondering, what
is it that I need to dobecause I'm supposed to be seeing my son
and talking to him about every weekend, if not every other weekend, and

(01:46:19):
I've been doing everything that Judges askedme to. But his biological father has
been hiding him for past going onthree years now and he has done nothing
to Judge asked, what do Ineed to do? Hey, it's the
first stuff. What, Kenny,are you talking about? The orders?
Aney? Okay? And is thisa divorce, paternity deprived child action,

(01:46:44):
guardianship? What is it? Guardianship? Guardianship? Okay? And who has
guardianship right now over the child?Unfortunately his father? So the biological father
has guardianship over this on, yes, and he I had for the first

(01:47:04):
seven years. I know, Ihad for sure at the guardianship and you're
sure at the guardianship and not apaternity action. That might be a paternity
action now because I had him forthe first seven years. Yeah, and
then he just cames out of nowhereand takes him without me knowing and filed

(01:47:25):
for custody. Okay, So thatwould be a paternity action, not a
guardianship. And so what did hewhat did he claim that that you were
unfit? About? I mean,he couldn't. He can't just come in
and take the kid away. Hehas to say something. He has to
prove something to the core that wouldmake you considered unfit and would give him

(01:47:45):
emergency custody or whatever it may be. What happened there, he came in
and then he filed for paternity.But what did he claim that made you
unfit? What did he say?He said that I wasn't fit because I
was in a domestic voluntary I gotaway from and I haven't been you know,
I haven't been back to that relationshipin over a year. And but

(01:48:09):
he tried to, but he convincedto judge that, oh my ex is
coming back when I'm actually in abrand new relationship. I've been in this
relationship for over a year now,and okay, he's been having my son
for three years. Okay, sowe can definitely help with that. There's
all sorts of emotions we can file. Most is to enforce contempt citations,
all sorts of stuff. You'll giveyour name a number to gimpe. I

(01:48:30):
would love to call you in thenext day or so, and let's talk
about a plan of action so youcan start getting your kid back. Okay,
all right, hang on the line. H Jay has been waiting.
Let's go to Jay. Jay.What's your question for Jeff Hensley of Hensley
and Associates? How are you doingto good morning? How are you good?

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My daughter or my son is inGeorgia and it's called the intrust state
child support which I've been paying andI'm having to go back to Georgia versus
Oklahoma because I've been paying it,but yet I have not seen Jared for

(01:49:12):
four years. Okay, So rememberchild support enforcement offices in any state does
no matter what state it is.All they do is collect money. They
have no control over visitation or oranything like that. Where's the original visitation
order? Is there an original visitationorder out of any state? Oklahoma or

(01:49:32):
Georgia, either one. It's inGeorgia. She knows. I can't do
that. I mean the problem.But here's the thing under the UCCJE that
sends for a Uniform Child Custody JurisdictionEnforcement Act. That's the act that defines
what the home state of the childis and if your son is if Jared

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is in Georgia and has only everbeen in Georgia. That's the home state,
which means any action you're gonna haveto take for visitation or anything like
that is gonna have to be donein Georgia. There's not a single thing
we can file for in Oklahoma.Okay, Oklahoma doesn't have Oklahoma doesn't have
any controller jurisdiction over that child.It does you because you're a resident,

(01:50:19):
but the judge can't make any decisionson the kid, at least none of
our Oklahoma judges can make a decisionon the kid because there's no jurisdiction here
in Oklahoma. Okay, even thoughshe's not let me talk to him,
or I don't even know where he'sthat again, that's what I'm saying,
Jays. If it's in Georgia,anything and everything it deals with, phone

(01:50:43):
calls, visitation, whatever it maybe, pick up drop of any of
that stuff is gonna have to bedealt with in Georgia. Oklahoma simply has
no jurisdiction to enforce a Georgia order. Okay, you're gonna you call it
Georgia. I mean, most ofthis can be done remote. I mean
you can call it Jojia attorney andsay, look, I'm not getting visitation.
I need you to file something andthey'll go do it. So you

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know, that's what I would suggest. There's nothing we can do in Oklahoma.
Okay, awesome, thank you somuch for your time. All right,
Jake, good luck, welcome singlisten. It can be quite complicated,
especially when there's an out of statematter involved. That's why you need
to make sure you have an attorneyto represent you, and Jeff and the
folks at Hinsley Associates can do that. Nine one eight three, nine,
eight, five six nine two,nine one eight three, nine eight five

(01:51:28):
six nine two For Hensley and Associatesnine one eight three, nine eight,
five, six nine two mentioned kmodyou get a free consultation over the phone.
And if you're dealing with something otherthan famine law, Hinsley Associates can
help with that, right Jeff,that's right. So our office to Pohsco,
which is the Shoemake law firm.It's all Hinsley's just we kept the
name from the first time we gotit from UH. But they can do

(01:51:49):
everything else. So in addition tofamily law, they do criminal matters.
So if you've got any sort ofcriminal matter, even If it's just a
parking ticket, please give them acall. If it's a duy, murder,
arson, whatever it may be,please give them a call. They'd
be happy to represent you up there. If you've got a probate issue,
if you've got somebody who's just passedaway and there are states tied up in

(01:52:10):
probate, they can help. Youcan need a will or a trust.
They can help you draft that stepup to car wrecks, medical malpractice,
anything you need. That office upthere, in addition to family law,
can help you out with them.So if you want to call them and
get us the Shoemaker Law Firm atBOHUSCA, or you can call us at
Hensley here in Tulsa. We canhook you up with them as well.
But they do a great job andeven though they're in BOHUSCA, they can

(01:52:30):
do everything over the phone and beable to represent you in any county in
the state of Oklahoma. So pleasegive us a call. Jeff Finsley of
Hensley Associate's nine eight three nine eightfive six Hensley and Associate's nine eight three
nine eight five six nine two.Jeff, have a great week, Hey,
take care, guys, take abreak and we'll be back. Tulsa's
Morning show is coming right back,A big morning show. Tulsa's rock station

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ninety KMOD. Good morning, It'sthe Big Mad Morning Show. Nine one,
eight four six oh KMOD. Canalso text bmms and then what you
want to say at eight two,nine four five. Uh. I get

(01:53:16):
a lot of surveys that come acrossmy eyes of weird things. Usually it's
like, you know, best Father'sDay gift or something like that. This,
this one's wild. A third ofAmericans think they'd be a better president
than either candidate. Have you evertried to run a country before? Most
of y'all can't balance checkbook, Thissays a survey of five hundred Democrats and

(01:53:41):
five hundred Republicans suggest a lot ofAmericans aren't happy with either candidate. In
fact, thirty seven percent nearly fortypercent, thirty seven percent of respondents believe
they'd make a better candidate than Trumpor Biden. So the question I have
is, do you think you wouldmake a better president than either candidate?

(01:54:03):
Lindsay nope? And why not?What about that job makes you think that
you could not be a better candidate? Oh, too many decisions, too
many people to run. Too manyheadaches, you're never going to make anyone
happy. Never too much stress,is that life? Yeah, but it's

(01:54:25):
just way too much stress, Kimbi. Yeah, I'd like to think I
would. You think you would dobetter than I said. I'd like to
think I would. There's a difference, but no, it's too Yeah,
it's too much man, too muchstressed and involved. And you know,
you've got other world leaders you've gotto deal with that. You're trying not
to piss off so you don't starta whole nuclear war sort of thing,

(01:54:45):
or you know, just really ingeneral, you know, we've done pretty
good for a long time of youknow, not having conflict on American soil
so far from like foreign adversaries,you know, And I feel like,
you know, I don't want tomess with all that. Man, Guys

(01:55:05):
get the perks, go on aboutmy business. I get that paycheck with
steady security. Yeah right, youwere legalized weed, you know, federally
all the way around, and thenit doesn't be about it. I don't
want to think about everything else andall the other stuff and politics that go
with it. I think you haveto be a bit of a psychopath to

(01:55:28):
want to be president of a country. I would agree, I would agree.
I mean, why would you wantthat much criticism, right, because
you're getting it from all angles.Oh yeah, it doesn't matter your intentions,
it doesn't matter if you do good. And as far as responsible for
too many things, I think that'sup to the president. Eisenhower constantly scolded

(01:55:49):
employees. Employees, I mean theyare I guess uh White House personnel for
bringing him sealed envelopes. He's like, I don't need to be opening envelopes.
My time is wasted opening envelopes andseeing what this is about. Don't
bring me an open envelope. Buton the other side of that, Carter
wouldn't. You couldn't even reserve theWhite House tennis courts without his approval,

(01:56:12):
right, which is way like ridiculous. So I think it just depends on
how much you want to be involvedand how much you don't want to be
involved. I'm sure you could delegatea lot of stuff out. You should
delegate everything, as you should,but you know that's that's a lot of
stuff to have to deal with it. You got to find the right person.
What happens when they screw up,eat them and get somebody else that's

(01:56:34):
the right team. Ah, youjust gotta throw caution to the wind.
I mean you've got to have somethresholds. You don't You don't just pick
some guy who was a radio host, right or your son, right?
Yeah? So I think you gotto have some thresholds, but ultimately you

(01:56:59):
got to pick some people just likeall right, yeah, this makes sense.
Do you see? Like each presidentwhen they go in, they like
start off looking real young and spry, and by the time they're done,
they're all gray and haggard. Man, And I'm like, oh, that's
too much man. Yeah, stress, too much stress, And you gotta
be up like twenty four hours aday. No, okay, you gotta

(01:57:19):
be up like twenty three hours ofyour on call, right right? Sure?
Because some say, all, no, it didn't age Trump at all.
How do we know? Right?You could tell? You could tell
by looking in his face that it'saged him. The stress is aged him.
Yeah. The amount of work itdoes on your like damn, and
I have all those secrets like youknow now, and it's like, you

(01:57:43):
know, you want to tell somebody, but you change. I don't know,
man, plausible deniability sir? Allright? To me, it would
be the amount of lives that wouldbe that would weigh on you, right
of people that died. Right,you got to make important decisions. Do
we want to talk to me?I'm a good morning It's the Big Mad

(01:58:11):
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(01:58:32):
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(01:58:54):
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