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but I wanted to get to itstraight out of the shoot, just
because it's so I have a couplequestions that I feel like maybe Gimpy can

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answer. Maybe Lindsay too on it. And that is last night at the
home run derby a country artist sayingthe national anthem and her name is Ingrid
Andreas. I don't know who thisis. I never heard of her.

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I've heard the name before, butnever got into the music, and I
think there's a rece Okay, well, don't get ahead of me. So
here here is one of her countrysongs. It's the most recent one we
played, so I don't even knowif it's a if it's a uh,
if it's a hit or anything.I can't wait to show she's like two

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times three times Grammy nominated singer.Yeah, this is a good song.
Like credit, you get credit instantlyby saying Grammy nominator right now. To
be fair, just my first fewsecond observations. She's not singing. What
do you mean by she's just talking? Okay? Yeah? Oh no,
I don't oh yeah, she No, she's not talking. She's not singing.

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I don't think sounds country with thatparticular uh stanza right there. No,
she's not that verse. No,she's not. You're right. She
is just kind of talking. Thesong progresses into her singing. Okay,
let's let's move forward. Then ifI bring I guess a battle on you
she okay, Yeah, sound soundslike a good song, absolutely right.

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Not not my cup of tea,but you can hear it and go,
yeah, she clearly can sing.That's the only song that i've ever heard
of hers. I'm sure she's gotthere's a bunch in there, but that's
the most recent, fair enough,so I feel like that was the right
one. And then this is hersinging the national anthem last night. Let's
be clear, you cannot say it'snot as good as whitney Houston. Whitney's

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Houston is in her own classification.She's backed by an orchestra, it's at
the super Bowl. I mean,there's so many factors that are completely different
than this. This is the homerun Derby, big deal. Yeah,
she's not singing with any accompaniment atall. She could have a click track
in her hair. I don't know. It's just not the same doing a
cappella much less. The Star Spangledbanner is really hard, right right,

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and Whitney set the bar so frigginghigh anyway, it's a whole other world.
To compare anybody to her is unfair. Can't be done? Are all
right? So? Or she issinging. If you haven't heard this,
it's broad shape sound bait, Imean, all right, straight out of
the shoop. Sounds like what Iheard. I'm like, okay, if

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I knew her, I'd go thatsounds like her phil Do we all agree?
Yeah? All right, do thepair? Fine? Okay, So
now I feel like, all right, she's putting her own thing on it,
which which a lot of them do, which you should never do,
but they do it anyway because Whitneydid it. She did her own and
everybody's like, well, I gottabe like Whitney, No, you don't

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just sing it so anyway. SoI'm like, all right, well,
she's trying to put her own thing, all right, that's that's fine.
Oh the but we so started offstrong on that that part, and then
you're like, whoa, what happened? Sounds a little screechy, a little

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screechy there, right, But itwas her own voice that sounded similar to
what I heard in the song WereSo Gay? Still online? Yeah?
Yet? Oh no, what happened? That's a professional two time Grammy winning

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singer, Yeah nominated singer, Yeah, singing the hardest song on the planet,
doesn't matter, you still practiced.It isn't Roseanne. It kind of
sounds like it does sound no,But what I'm saying is it's not Roseanne.
Not a singer, right right,right, right right? Not Grammy
nominated. Usually they pre record thosefor a reason. Are you implying they're

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all recorded? They don't sing themlive? Sometimes they do, you said,
normally, yeah, they they Ithink they're given an option, especially
during the NFL. I think they'relive. I always thought they were live.
Yeah, I always I thought theywere live. Oh what we're so

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gay? Strecket, spread the Bones, burst GamePro Do the night lot of

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that was. That was a littlebit better. That was a little bit
better than a minute ago. Stillnot the expectation of a two time Grammy
nominated singer. People believe say StarSteak was fine. That's fine for the

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of Oh god, hard hard weekto be an American? Oh hard week
to be American? Right now?Really bad? Yeah. It says that
backup pre recorded version of the nationalAnthem is required for all Super Bowl performances

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since nineteen ninety three, So notnormally, Yeah, not at all.
Just to take something happens, Yeah, boys blows out before the game.
They can still make sure that it'ssung by the person. Yeah that was
really bad? Really yeah, likethat was that was? I mean,
uh flavor flav I mean that waslike ride in line with what he did,
right, he should be noted.He's also not a singer, right,

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he's a rapper, he's a hypeguy rapper. Yeah, he's a
hype man. Uh. First forjust going out and doing it, you
get my I ain't doing that.True statement, true statement. I mean
they have the balls to get upthere in front of gotten everybody in a
major stadium like that, an majorevent, major sporting event, and and
and to sing the hardest song inthe world, is saying one of the

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hardest songs probably ever. Yeah,yeah, kudos to her. She had
to shut down her social media justpeople were attacking I could imagine, because
because the because the Internet's kindergarten,just her getting eviscerated. And did she
not practice it? That's what itsounded like to me, Like she didn't
practice I know, I know,I know, right right, I was

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like, I'm a singer, I'ma two tough listen. People's egos get
a hold of them. So it'sit's entirely possible she could have been altered,
true that, right, I hada few those ten dollars beers before
she got up here. Maybe shefound out her her or somebody she loved.
Just that. I mean, therecould be an x number of factors,
but you have to make a judgmentcall in those moments and go will

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what I'm about to do. Noteverybody can be Brett far right when their
dad dies and then they go outand have like this record breaking performance,
right right, that's not a commonThat's a really hard thing to achieve.
So with that being said, right, let's say, right before the game
starts, you're like, oh,man, I'm not feeling it. I
feel like I'm gonna bomb this one. You can't just back out. Well,

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listen, there's a big difference betweenanxiety and a legitimate reason like the
death of a loved one. Right, I get that, I get that,
But in this case here she's likeshe's she's just like, I'm not
feeling rock. I didn't realize thegravity of this. You can't back out
at that point. You're you're toofar in, so you have no She

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could have tried. She could havetried to back out. Yeah, she
could be mad at her management label. She could be mad that she was
didn't get asked to do this andshe was just told she was doing it.
There could be a number of reasons. Yeah, right, we go
in with the automatic of headless chickenlives for eighteen months and not realize that
maybe she's just like this is herway to get over be done with it

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all, right, Yeah, Iwas. I was just looking her up
to make sure, like, well, maybe she's not really from the United
States, like because I know nothingabout her. No, no, No,
she's uh, she is. Shewas born in Michigan, she raised
in Colorado, So what it wasin Nashville? Are implying that are you

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implying that if she is an American, then she gets pass song. If
she's not American, Yeah, Likebecause she didn't, I would assume like
maybe she just didn't know it,so like maybe she tried to learn it
in like ten fifteen minutes or something. No, there's no, she wasn't
called like, hey, her personcanceled, which is also a possibility,
right, that person canceled. Butthey're they're in Arlington, right, They're

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in Dallas, Right, there's somany celebrities live right there. Yeah,
they could have gotten numerous different peopleto step in to sing it, right,
They're like, no, let's let'stake a four time Grammy nominated singer
songwriter. Yeah, you would thinkcredible. Absolute everybody has a bad day,

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true, true, On that itdoesn't guess what it will. The
four time Grammy nominated will no longerbe the lead on her introduction. No,
because she is right there with theworst national anthems ever saying, and
the one that pops up in Mamaobviously is going to be Roseanne. She
butchered it. Yeah. Again,I think it's not a fair comparison because

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she isn't a singer. You haveto say someone like Fergie, and you
probably could draw the line as theyang moment of when Fergie fell. Apart
to that moment, she was alreadykind of a mess. Uh. She
had her troubles with Josh Dumbel rightand the tip into the bottle, and

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it was after that. I thinkit was after that is when Black Eyed
Peas are like, sorry, yougotta go. She got kicked out of
Black Eye. I think I thinkthey had were already not touring together for
a while, and this was supposedto be like her little bitty comeback.
Maybe oh doing the basketball. Okay, I gotta be honest, I'm not

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up on my Fergie knowledge, right, So I mean you could argue that
that could be the when she didthat is when her career completely fell apart.
You gotta you think, Hey,we're gonna play the new Fergi today.
You go why? Yeah, theseare the eleven worst national anthem performances.

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Number eleven Jesse McCartney in two thousandand nine, I don't know who
that is, Carrie Hillson and popsinger ten. Christina Aguilera in twenty eleven.
I figured she would have done alot, you know. God,
So the problem with Christina aguilar isshe tried to do her own Whitney type

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thing, because you know, shedoes the whole the vibrado type, all
over the type place, and andshe is a great singer. It just
didn't work that time because again,everyone you know holds holds them up to
Whitney Houston, but Christina aguiler isknown as a pretty great singer. Yeah,
that's how I figured she would havedone a lot better. I could

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see. I could see her goingfor it, like trying to take that
on, trying to you know,get that. Yes, five times Grammy
Award winner Christina at the Super Bowl. Yeah, you fine, We're already

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steps ahead of Ingrid. What's over? I'm not sure where the fumble is
probably closer to like them. Inotes, Shall we move ahead. Oh

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no, okay, whatever critiques thesign language, lady, this isn't bad.

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I mean, if you serve thedish of food next to a steam
pile of dung, I'm gonna saythis is really good. I don't think
this is a bird. To putthis in the conversation is not accurate out
there. It isn't great. Itisn't Whitney Houston. Okay, this is

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very Christina aguilar. Yes it is. I mean it got a football player
crying. I think you're just doingit for the cameras. Cameras on camera.
Yeah, you got goosebumps. Okay, there you go. I got

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goosebumps on the ingrid thing too,but different different stories. R Kelly was
another one on this list. Yeah, apparently in two thousand and five he
did a It did a soul versionof the national anthem. You got,
ladies and gentlemen to honor America withthe singing of our national anthem, Please

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welcome. R kelly. He doeslike a kid's bop version to please Welcome,
and company's not right it stops somebody'sofforithm? Is it over? Please?

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So good? I think the piano'sout of Kiden it's throwing it off.
Yeah, so I think if hewould have just kept the instruments out
of it might have been all right. He was trying to keep up with
the piano. Right, here's justthe top five real quick stop Scott's Stap
in two thousand and believe you don'teven need to look it up. Michael
Bolton in two thousand. Yeah,he forgot the words and he had to

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look at his hand. Oh god, he's Canadian though, Yeah, I'll
give him a pass. No,he doesn't know. I don't care what
country's anthem. You've seen Fergie.It's twenty eighteen. It's number three,
number two Roseanne Ball in nineteen nine. I don't think that's fair. And
number one Cat Deluna in two thousandand eight. I have no idea who

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this is. Yeah, I thinkit was more of a mistake even asking
Roseanne Bark to do it. Youdon't ask a comedian. She's not Yeah,
she's not a singer. How didshe even get brought up into that?
How she did? Was it becauseof the hype of the show?
I mean it was nineteen ninety andthat was you know, when they were
very, very popular. I mean, it's it's entirely possible, and she
didn't say no to anything. Someonetext in and said that Christina saying the

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wrong words in the second verse.Okay, I hear it. Yeah she
may have. I was thinking thattoo as she was going through. I
was like, now remembering why she'son that list, But most of us
didn't pay attention. You're not goingI don't know, maybe if she said
on instead of if, or somethinglike if she said the blue rockets glare
then okay, right, so thishere says that kind of Roseanne did that

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bad on purpose? Of course.Yeah, she's a comedian. She says
she wanted to be obnoxious in anumber of ways by shouting the lyrics totally
off key, grabbing her crotch,and spitting on the pitchers mound. I
don't remember crotch grabs from Roseamba.Yeah, yeah, this just in She's
vile. That was like her wholeshtick, like or provocative, whatever word

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you want to use, Like,she that's her. That was her mo
o. But this is like woofher management team's having some phone calls this
morning. Oh yeah, she ain'tgonna be invited back to do any national
anthems anytime. Soon, not evenat a little league game. The only
way will be like in six months, like a redemption performance she'll do or

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I mean, again, kudos toher for even doing that. Most people
don't have the coats to even tryand sing in public, much less in
front of a televised audience. AndI can imagine you could It's possible we
may see her get checked into rehabor something like that. I'm not saying
there was, I could see anythingthat was going on. But typically to

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spin it, they say they dosomething like that, right, that's not
right though, make her look likeshe's all intoxicated and jacked out, that
she had a problem with I mean, it's a it is an acceptable rationale.
You're like, she's struggling. ButI don't know if that would help
her image any It would be betterthan she just fumbled it. I'd rather

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her just fumble it, then Iwould. But we're talking about the critics,
right, We're talking about the peoplethat write the articles. We're talking
about the people that promote things.I get it being human and going,
yeah, she had a bad day. That's a tough that's a tough look
for her, rather than like ifshe came out. She's like, I
messed it up my monitor quick,whatever you go. Those things happen.

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Hey, I didn't get the AllStar Game monitors. I got the Home
Run Derby monitors right right. Theycalled me an hour before Leitimately, I'm
the opener for whoever Chris Stapleton andhe couldn't make it, so he Chris
was like, hey, will yougo in my place? And I warmed

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up in the car or I gotthere at the time they told me to,
thinking I had an hour to warmup and I did two minutes.
I mean, all those are rationalthoughts. But who dogay, she just
got famous for the wrong reason.All right, we gotta take a break.
We gotta take it to Jan's addiction. We're gonna give away a plus
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Big Man Morning showing nineties O thefive kmod woman shot at after tracking down

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stolen purse at Checkers drive through.This happened in DeLand, Florida, where
last Thursday morning, a woman realizedthat her purse was stolen from her car
at the Taylor Place apartments in DeLand. Around one o'clock in the afternoon,
she got a notification that her creditcard had been used at the Checkers in
that area. So the woman andtwo others drove to the restaurant and found

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three suspects in a car in thedrive through lane. She grabbed her purse
and her credit card, but thedriver drove off. Damn, I know,
how did she sign? I mean, how did she find it?
How did she know which car wasin I'm not sure, but may she
had an air tag in her purseor sexing. A short time later,
the woman called police. She tolddeputies she had seen the suspects car and

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had started to follow them. Whenthe suspects realized they were being followed,
they started shooting at the woman fromthe backseat of the car. No one
was actually shot or injured during thealtercation, but deputies did catch up to
the three suspects, identified as twentytwo year old Willie Gooseby, eighteen year
old Makai Edwards, and twenty sixyear old Alyssa Levy. They were all

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charged with three counts of aggravated assaultwith a deadly weapon, but not burglary
or robbery. Well left because it'sjust her opinion at that point, Okay,
sure, because they police did notsee it. There's no evidence that
it was in their possession. Yeah, there's use of a card. But

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depended on them, they're probably alittle more work in that one. Maybe
a charge to come later. Tome, to get a shootout over a
purse is wild. Absolutely. Ihad my purse stolen out of a parking
lot and I was just sitting inthe parking lot. I ran into Rema
to get my uh well, Marcuswas in daycare there. I was pregnant
with the twins at the time.I just ran in. I mean I

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was probably out of my vehicle forthree minutes, ran back into the car.
And so you left it unlocked,running running, No, no,
just unlocked. Yeah, people leavestuff in their car unlocked all the time.
It's insane to me. Within fifteenminutes there was over almost it was

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like five grand run up on twocredit cards and at CBS of all places.
And then how much did you say? Almost five grand? What do
you buy for five grand at CBS? I have no idea. A bunch
of snacks and cole met because you'regoing to make your mask. Well,

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and it was in December, andso I mean, you know they have
like they have toys during that time. You know they have gifts. Christmas
is Old Lindsey and the the peopleworking there said that they had the people
on camera using the credit card,but they wouldn't release it unless the detective
went. And yeah, they definitelygive it to people like us because they

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don't want us tracking them down andkilling the people. Well, because they
don't have to too their property,they don't have to give you the video.
So what the police do? Nothing? They never went and asked for
the video footage. Did you filea complaint? Oh yeah, I cancel
the credit card. It's pain inthem beforeence. What really made me upset

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was that was the best photo IDpicture I'd ever taken on my driver's license.
I'm curious about nice Fanny. I'mcurious about the police though, So
do you you call them? Theyshow up, they take the report,
and they're like, chances are yourwallet. They'd probably taken any cash and

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credit cards and throwing the wallet somewherein a ditch and I'll never see that
again. So there's nothing that willever be done. So they come to
the scene, do the file thereport, and then do you hear from
them ever again? Do you followup with them ever again? Yeah?
I did, but they and whatthey said I even called when I when

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I found out when I called thecredit card company, they're like, oh
yeah, it was just used atCBS. So I went to CBS and
they were like, oh, yeah, I have them on camera. I
can't release it to you, butI can the officer. So I called
the detective and I said, hey, they have the people on camera.
It's two women boom. That's whatthey did tell me, And they never

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followed through. It's like, okay, I'll down there. Never did itches
woman's boobs making appear during appearance duringa fit of rage. This happens out
of England. A twenty two yearold gal named Amy Murphy. She got
pissed drunk with one of her friendsoff of vodka and apparently they were down
below in front of the apartments thatthey live in, just causing a ruckus

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yelling yelling at the neighbors. Oneof the neighbors got pissed, open up
the windows, started yelling back athim, and then that's when the fit
of rage comes around and old Amyhere starts throwing rocks and roof tiles at
the window of the neighbor that's gettingpissed and recording this all at the same
time. Anyhow, during her fitof rage, her breasts decided to go
ahead and pop on out. Anyhow, the police were called. I guess

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one of the rocks that she threwat the window ended up hitting the neighbor
in the shin, and then that'show Amy ended up going to jail for
assault. She goes court, tellsthe judge that she believes her drink was
spiked and that she could not recallthe incident, but she did plead guilty
to the assault and is looking atsixteen weeks in jail. She ain't nothing

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to look at, No, sheis not. Two men charged with roast
beef theft from Arby's. A schemeto seal thousands of dollars in roast beef
from an Arby's location has been foiled. Two women, twenty one year old
Shanaya mm, we got the meatsWest and sixty three year old Stephanie We're
gonna get that meat Davis, arenow on the receiving end of a felony

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charges after allegedly stealing more than threethousand dollars worth of food and drinks from
Arby's last year. The store's ownerdiscovered a discrepancy in roast beef log sheets,
which is not an Urban Dictionary term, over the previous months. Eventually
she discovered that the two employees wereallegedly slicing the beef and hiding and hiding

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it in a non working oven beforeputting it in the trash. But before
that trash became real trash, theroast beef was removed from the bag.
In all, it's alleged the twowomen stole twenty eight hundred dollars in roast
beef, as well as one hundredand forty three drinks, sixteen food items,
and forty nine other miscellaneous things.Just fire them, right, You

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don't have to go through and keeptrack. If they're bad employees, just
fire them. Oh we're going tostick it to them. Take our roast
beef and drinks and such. Comeon, roast beef. Isn't that good?
Oh settle to be stealing it likethat? It's pretty good. It
isn't good hours later after sitting inthe not trash trash, right, and

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then you take it home. I'venever reheated one, so maybe they are
quite delicious later, but typically whenI've eaten one and then had to deal
with something, come back to thesandwich and it's cold, it is not
very delicious, but warm some cheddaron it, or as a French dip.
Well, yeah, day when it'sa fresh sandwich. Yeah, absolutely,
it's delicious. But I'm just saying, you know it just to go

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to jail over roast by Arby's roastbeef just doesn't It's not for me.
I wonder if she went through theowner went through and watched video of these
two people's shifts to see how manytimes they filled their cup up with diet
pepsi and be like one hundred andforty right next day one hundred and forty
one Like that is at tea.Well you gotta have hardcore evidence, Corbyn.

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I listen, I get it,and they were doing not good things
and they should be held accountable.Also, just fire them right because it
feels a little Now that's your thing. Now all your employees are like,
man, now she's gonna hyper focuson everything we do or to work with
jan She's always just nitpicking everything.What do you do with that fry?

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What are you talking about? Well, it's not in the bin. It
just fell up right her up right. We used to get so many free
drinks during a shift right now rightbecause of Shanaya and Stephanie, we will
no longer be giving free curly fries. You can have the dog gas other

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five See what Lindsay has for Ballsto the Wall Sports. T Higgins is

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not receiving a long term contract.The Cincinnati Bengals and their star wide receiver
could not reach an extension by thefour pm Eastern deadline. This means the
twenty five year old will play thetwenty twenty four season on the franchise tag.
He's the only franchise player in theNFL this year to not land in

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an extension. Higgins will make twentyone point eight million dollars this season after
back to back one thousand yard seasonsin twenty twenty one and twenty twenty two.
Higgins missed five games last season.He had a career low forty two
receptions, six hundred and fifty sixyards and five touchdowns. Yeah, so
now the speculation will go, wherewill he go? The Washington Commanders made

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an addition to their front office.According to NFL Network, they are hiring
former Carolina Panthers general manager Scott Fittereras a personal executive. Fitterer will help
out the Commander's front office and scoutingdepartments. In three seasons as Panthers general
manager from twenty twenty one to twentytwenty three, Carolina went fourteen and thirty

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seven. The team fired two headcoaches, Matt Ruhle and Frank Reig during
his tenure. Before joining the Panthers, Fitterer spent over twenty years with the
Seattle Seahawks player personnel department after startinghis NFL career as an area scout with
the New York Giants, and theBrowns are rewarding their kicker with a new

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contract. ESPN reports that Cleveland issigning Dustin Hopkins to a three year,
fifteen point nine million dollar extension.The new deal makes Hopkins one of the
NFL's top five highest paid kickers.They f three year old made thirty three
of thirty six field goal attempts toset a franchise record for makes in a

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season. Hopkins was set to enterthe final year of his contract that had
a base value of two point eightseven five million dollars. Hopkins has also
spent time with the Washington Commanders andthe Los Angeles Chargers. Yeah, I
think, if I'm not mistaken,he's got like most consecutive fifty plus yard
field goal kicks consecutive consecutive games.Dan. I mean, he's a Hall

(35:31):
of Fame kicker. Yeah, he'sworth the money, yeah, yeah,
fifteen point nine mil. Yeah.And I don't know. I think when
you're talking about what's our big storyas a team, and it's we have
a Hall of Fame kicker, what'sI say for the team? I just
I feel like it should be alittle more. Kickers score the most points

(35:53):
on teams usually, but also he'shall were the lightest ads. Like,
I'm not knocking kickers. It's reallyhard, but also compared to the other
positions, it is, and it'schallenging. It's a challenging thing. I'm
not undermining any of that, sure, but when you're talking about when you

(36:16):
go, oh, a defense winsSuper Bowls or an offense win super Bowls,
rarely do you say the kicker winsthe Super Bowl. I mean,
they can win the Super Bowl,but you can't rely on him only to
win this. You can. Chiefswon a Super Bowl with just a defense,
right, a really great defense,right. So Like, I don't
know, I just feel like itshould be a little more than we have

(36:36):
a really great kicker. Browns fansgonna be like, yeah, yeah,
Chiefs might be going for three fortynine ers might be contender. We got
a real good kicker. I gottastart somewhere and that's your ball to the
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I'm really fascinated by the hawk Twoygirl, just because I feel like there's
this mischaracterization that she's going to becomea gazillionaire and that she's struck gold and

(38:06):
she quit her job, and Ithink these are all giant missteps. And
so she was linked in an interviewwith an Australian radio station, which I
also think is a giant misstep becauseI'll circle back to that. But in
the interview, she talks about howmuch trouble this has been yep, yeah,

(38:30):
no kidden, and how the creepershave shown up. No Kidden.
You said something really provocative and itgot all the Daryl's attention. I think
it's a giant misstep because she hasn'tfrom what I can tell, there's no

(38:51):
registered trademark on Yeah, she hasn'tdone her domain like all that stuff can
happen pretty fast. And if shewas, for lack of a better term,
hawking that stuff every interview she did, then okay, and she's doing
Why isn't she doing real interviews?Why isn't she on entertainment tonight? Why

(39:15):
isn't she doing Good Morning America?Why why are we doing Bob's podcast?
Right? Because she's not a realentertainer, and these other real outlets know
that she's just a flash in thepan. Yeah, but she's a pop
culture sensation for right now, forright now. I mean, I don't

(39:36):
disagree, but if I'm her thepeople that bring her on, it's we're
getting her to do legitimate stuff,not Bob's podcast, right right. I
did see something where she was onsocial media saying, well, I'm gonna
use my fifteen minutes to do somegood in the world. So she was
taking stuff to homeless shelters, whichyou can do. Panty, absolutely,

(39:58):
but she was trying to get sensepeople are actually following her on social media.
She's trying to go so maybe,but to my point, why would
you announce that on social media?Right? You should go on a major
outlet. Your management company should begetting you, at least the local TV
station. Yeah, but she probablydoesn't have the best management. She just
went with the first one that offeredher something, and she's like, oh,

(40:21):
right, dollar science to ching.She said that she she says it's
strange. She feels like she can'tgo out in public anymore. She's paranoid
of getting kidnapped or something. Quote, I'm very paranoid about that. I
think that's a fair assumption. Ithink it was. It would be a
fair assumption if you hadn't become viral. And it's definitely a fair concern.

(40:47):
Whether it's reality or not, Idon't know, but if it's a fair
concern now that you've got some exposure, she said, I'm a I'm little
too, so I can't really defendmyself with big people or nothing like that.
Of course, because you grew upin the country, so you're automatically
a badass against people your own size. Yeah, if someone wanted to kidnap

(41:08):
you, they wouldn't be like,well, I'm not bigger than her.
So this headline says here that sheturned down American Idol as well as millions
of dollars and adult themed deals.I could see where she would have something
on the adult thinged deals, right, only fans doing porn, you know,
Playboy sport, whatever. But AmericanIdol even tell me, American Idol

(41:34):
reached out and like, hey,hey, hey, I don't know if
you can sing or not, butlet's get you on the show. Sure,
just maybe just to have her on, right, some people are okay
with being embarrassed. She clearly is. She just probably doesn't think what she
did was embarrassing, right, yeah, right. She said that she has

(41:55):
been a lot of people want herto get an OnlyFans, of which she's
not comfortable doing and which my responsewould be, you absolutely, you want
to capitalize on your fame fast.Sure it's an only fan. Nobody says
you have to do sexually explicit things. Right. You can sit there in
knit blankets, just do a photo, spend seven days doing photo shoots,

(42:16):
and then over the next two monthsreleased them one at a time at least
capital and then decide later whether you'vegot to do pictures of your feet or
naked or topless or provocati or whatever. But she's like, I'm not,
that's my boundary. I'll gladly talkabout how I give oral sex. But

(42:38):
you want me to in a photoof anything provocative? That is over the
line, sir. It says hereher appearance fees is twenty thousand dollars.
No way she can ask for that. Right again, it's a different story.
She can ask for that. I'dread somewhere one club did pay her
that much money, which then youcan say, well, that's my rate,
which I don't know if that's maybe. I guess you would get a

(43:01):
lot of guys to show up,right, But I can't imagine the club
wants the hawk twoy girl there.I don't know how much draw that is
for the guys which she's going tocharge for. I don't know if I
would go to a club. I'mtrying to think of younger version of myself.

(43:22):
But she has teamed up with aguy to do hats yeah with their
phrase on it. She has collaboratedwith a someone to release her own line
of hats with her infamous phrase,and has received unusual requests. Apparently,

(43:43):
she said, quote, so theguy that does my hats got offered six
hundred dollars three days ago for meto spit in a jar and sell it.
That's not weird at all, isit of If I was her management,
I would say, we're doing that. It isn't your spit, but

(44:06):
we're doing that. Make your money, yeah, yeah, because next week
it won't be more. I don'tthink she's pretty. She's all right,
she's all right. That's all thatthere is to it. She just dies.
I'm sure dulled up. She's asolid seven. Yeah, and because

(44:27):
she said hawk twoy, she's asolid nine, right, But every day
her probably isn't. And I'm justtrying to be honest and reality. She
probably doesn't even do the hawk toit. I hate that something, right,
dude, of course, right,And you're like, you're expecting it
because that's what made her famous.You know you're going to do the thing,
do the thing. We talk aboutthis all the time, we joke

(44:52):
or say the hottest woman probably justlay there because they think you're the lucky
you. You are welcome, right, So maybe she does because she's a
solid seven. Maybe she does tryingto work for that encoreably right. But
when like she's like, oh,I've teamed up for someone to do hats,
hats hats, yeah, girl,you need everything, right, hats,

(45:15):
t shirts, handbags, trademark thatStanley cups, sunflower seeds whatever,
you're spitting those out, hawk toysunflowers something. I'm just saying that,
like, you've got to overshoot,right, what is it quickly? What
does it take to trademark something?Right? And it's like like one hundred

(45:36):
and fifty bucks maybe, and thenit's got but then it's in an application
phase and then it's got to belike approved because they do research to make
sure, you know, and yougot to hire a lawyer to do it.
Like there's there's some steps. Itisn't a I'm doing it, but
you can start the process, rightLike in her interview, she's not we've
applied for the patent so cause thenshe can go after all these people that
have sold merch under her nose andget her money. Yeah, which is

(46:00):
a long road, but that's atleast that's a long game. What's the
long is she? Are we gonnahear it? Come up with a new
phrase? Is she gonna try topat in a new phrase? When they're
like, listen, the hawk tooything was real good, but we feel
like that's run its course. Cando you have any other sayings? Right?

(46:20):
I mean good good? Hey y'allright, I'm just put it on
a hat. Yeah, okay,from the hawk tooy girl. Here's hey,
y'all, it's gonna run its course. It's not gonna like we're near
the end. I think. Well, she also said spit on that thing?

(46:42):
Well, yeah, I mean that'stechnically that's another avenue. Sure that
she could use put that on yourhats and whatever. Yeah, listen ed
hardy Von Dutch was those were massivethings even and they tried kept pushing it,
pushing it, and he even that, yeah, all that these hats

(47:04):
are spit on that thing or whatever. It's gonna be in a garage sale
soon for sure. And your daughtercomes home, Jimi and I were having
a conversation about this last week.Your daughter comes home and she's wearing a
spit on that than shirt, oryour your son comes home and the daughter
is the girl that he's brought homeis wearing a hawk twey hat. Yeah,

(47:30):
nope, you take that harlot outof here. Yeah, I guess
it's just the world we live in, where we announce, hey we're going
on vacation, or hey I boughtthis chicken palm dinner. We also explain
how we provide oral sex exactly,or don't do you get to have do

(47:51):
you get to sue for false advertisement? I'm sure you would. Why not
get with this girl? You're allexcited, she takes her hat off,
takes your hair out of the ponytail, right, whatever, and it's just
average. Right, Well, hedidn't even spin on it. You didn't
even spin ale on it. Itdoesn't have to be a hot clue.

(48:15):
Yeah, let's just be careful,saying Hawk to me, and then demonstrates
two completely different things on the radiothere, gimpie. But the idea,
yeah, it's only her careers.Uh, but the idea of that,
like, you can't just do that, like people are just gonna believe that
that person does that. That isa weird look. That's like to me,

(48:37):
it's as equal as a girl wearinga shirt that says if right right?
Uh, okay, but you yourshirt said it right? Did you
see what she was wearing an officer? Can you blame me? Come on?
Yeah, so I guess she's gotthis. What's funny is even in
the interview she doesn't say where toget the hat, right, which to

(49:00):
me is a giant fumble because they'reprobably not available yet. You even if
they're not available, you start takingorders. Yeah, she shouldn't be opening
her she should be wearing a shirt, this says HAWKTOI dot Com. All
Right, you can find them outthere. It's just a matter of are
these officially hers or not? Whichprobably are not okay? Does it matter?

(49:24):
Right? If you are someone whowants the Hawktoey shirt, do you
care? If like the official HaleyWelch by the way, that's her name,
you're welcome That shirt right has hadon Amazona cost twenty nine nine five
for it says hawkta spin on it. Hang I'm good, I'm good.

(49:45):
Yeah, I'm good. I wouldthink so. I don't know. If
you wore that shirt, I wouldbe like, what are you doing?
Did someone give that to you?The only one I have? Did the
listener buy that for you? Butagain, I think she's making so many
mistakes that it's not like she's providingmore like she isn't doing an Instagram where

(50:07):
more and more stuff. It allfeels so it feels uncomfortable. She looks
uncomfortable in interviews. It feels uncomfortable. Doesn't feel like she's fully embracing it.
She probably isn't, and she probablyis uncomfortable. She doesn't know how
to handle all this fame. Andif you're just a simple country girl from
Tennessee or whatever, you know,you're not used to this. So all
of it gets thrust it upon you. You don't know how to handle that

(50:29):
Yeah, you were in Nashville fora bride, a bridemaid party or whatever,
right right, And he's like andthen they're like, yeah, do
that again all the time. Youcan't go out. You gotta explain to
grandma. Right. All that iseverybody wants to have an Etsy shop where
they're making necklaces until you have tosit down and make forty five necklaces a

(50:51):
day. Yep. Right, thenyou're like, well, this sucks.
All right, we got to takea break. We'll be back. You're
listening to The Big Mad Morning Show. This Elsees Morning Show ninety seven km
o D. Good morning, It'sthe Big Man Morning Show. Nine one

(51:16):
eight four six oh kmo D.You can also text bmms and then what
you want to say to eight twonine four five. On August twenty first,
first, Jane's addiction is gonna beat the Walmart Amphitheater. Let's play
a game to win a pair oftickets. We're gonna play Sing Sing,
and the current record is, well, it looks like I'm leading with nine,

(51:37):
Lindsay's right behind me with eight.You have five. Last week's winner
you so Lindsay and Gimpi at nineone eight four six, Oh kmo D.
Nine one eight four six Oh kmoD. Call up, decide Who's
gonna be a clue giver. Whoevergets the most ride is gonna win?
Nine one eight four six oh kmoD. Good morning, you're on the
air. What is your name?Hi? This is I three Ivory.

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How are you today? I'm goodgood? Who do you want to give?
Clues? Lindsey or GIMPI Lindy?Please Ivory? Sixty seconds are on
the clock. Timer starts after thefirst clue. Are you ready? Yes?
Here we go? Oh right,This is okay Jack and his last

(52:22):
name is the color opposite of blackand uh huh and the number one song
that everyone seems to know good goodbass in the beginning of it playing plays
that's a lot of games and alot of arenas. Bite no the number

(52:44):
after six seven, uh huh anduh huh Yes, the number ever says,
and we're gondo witchita blank the rightstripes yes, And the song is

(53:08):
oh gosh, what is the song? The United seven? Seven? The
seven seals not seven seals seven?You have? Okay, you have you
have the think of the the branchesof time is run out. Zero is

(53:35):
what happened. Yeah, so atbest there is a tie. If there's
a tie, nobody gets anything.So thanks for playing ivory. Okay,
all right, girl see okay,what a good sport. Good morning,
you're on the air. What isyour name? Ryan? Ryan? You
just need one Ryan, You andGhibby have to get just one. If
it's zero, you get nothing.Are you ready? Yes? Here we

(53:59):
go? All right? Okay,So this is an old fifties song.
I believe sixty songs and nothing youcan do can take me away from blank.
My guy, there you go.Uh okay, eighties song and uh

(54:22):
see, the only the only wayI know this song is the dirty version
that people do during karaoke. UhSo, if I take like a baseball
back and I strike you with it, what did I just do? You
hit me? Yes? Those arethe first two words of the title of

(54:42):
this song. Okay, no,no, no, this think eighties,
not not Britney Spears. Okay.So you take a gun and you put
a bullet in it, and thenyou take your what aim? And then
what fire? Okay, something likein basketball you you take your blank?

(55:04):
There you go? So you gothit me and shot? The first two
words of the song and the lastword of the song. It's not your
worst, but it is your absolutehit me with your shot. Ah damn.
I don't think you got my girlbecause you gave the my guy,
because you gave the chorus. Okay, whatever, nothing you can say can

(55:27):
tear me away from my guy.I said take I said take sure,
Yeah, it takes. It's notreally, it is not. The words
on there on the chorus is tearand I said takes you. I mean,
I'm only one person in this room. I have your matter. So
it's zero. It's zero. SoI'm so sorry. Man, you did

(55:47):
not win anything. Thanks for playing. I appreciate it. Thank you,
buddy, see you later. Soit's a poosh. Uh. So the
record is still keeps me in thelead with nine, keeps her eight,
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the race and may. Trump saidthat his campaign has agreed to take part
and a vice presidential debate hosted byFox News News. He did not mention
anything about a proposed CBS News debate, to which she wants to do.
I didn't know this, and Iwent down the rabbit hole. Jd Vance
wrote a book about his life.And there's a movie with Glenn Close.

(57:13):
Yeah, Heller and I guess shewas like, well that's interesting, and
now look at him and I kindof want to watch it to see if
it's good or bad. Yeah,find it on a streaming platform. I'm
sure it's on Netflix. I watchedthe trailer and I was like, look,
God, it's gonna have to bea G and T night watch this.
Well, us we got here,Delta Airlines to change better than the

(57:35):
movie I was in, by theway, right, I was like,
oh, he wasn't a movie.Delta Airlines is to change their employee uniform
policy. This comes after the airlinecame under fire last week for a social
media post seeming to defend an outragedcommentary on seeing flight attendants wearing Palestinian flag
pins. Delta apologized for the postand said the employee responsible has been removed

(58:00):
for handling from handling social media.Delta will now ban its employees from wearing
pins representing any country or nationality exceptthe US. What if they're based out
of another country? To me,it's weird, Like I don't think employees
should be wearing any flare of anykind, right, I was, yeah,

(58:22):
that's what this is about. Uhhuh right, And I'm all for
patriotism, but it should be likeif you want to wear your country's flag,
like I just don't know how youstop at like a flag of your
country, and then like what ifyou want like a Pikachu pin? Right,
Like how do you? So?Isn't it better to just be like
no, you're there to do ajob. Nip it all in the bud,

(58:44):
Give me my peanuts and my sodawill be We do that with baseball
players. We do that with alot of industries where like, no,
you can have your flare, right, But does the NFL have messages on
the back of the helmets. Ithink they're chosen. They have to pick
from chosen ones. Okay, okay, and that's the same basic thing.
Yeah, but the league determined whatthey were if the IF delta or in

(59:07):
this case was like these are thepit lapel pins you're allowed to wear?
All right? Right? What elsewe got? Can you imagine us like
going to task with the company aboutlike not tell me what parent I can
wear? Right? It's a pen? Yeah? What else we got here?
Many Americans fear getting late detection ofcancer. A new poll shows the

(59:29):
biggest health worry amongst American adults isgetting late diagnosis of cancer. The University
of Cambridge shows a study seven outof ten Americans I fear getting cancer that's
detected too late to be treated.About forty percent of respondents worry about getting
the right treatment. I think that'sa fair concern. I mean a lot
of people I know have died fromcancer. I'm worried about it, but

(59:51):
not right I gotta wake up thenight going, oh, what am I
gonna find out if I have cancer? When it's too late? Yeah,
when most likely, most likely?And then lastly here the city of Bartlesville
is flushing water systems and effort toprovide cleaner water. The City of Bartiville
Bartlesville began conducting a water system disinfectswitch after seeing indications of a stronger disinfect

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They're gone from a chloramine disinfection toa temporary free chlorine. The free chlorine
is stronger disinfection that will keep thewater quality better. They do routine water
checks and recently noticed indications of biologicalactivity in the water. Customers may experience
discolored water, low pressure, ordifferent taste or odor. This is why

(01:00:45):
we trust that the water's clean,because we all don't want to get in
the weeds on on how and withand why and who? And don't We
don't want to know? Right?No, just make sure I got clean
water? Quote why'd you do?Air? Quotes? Those weird? You
know? I do what I can. It's more like a semicler Forever.
Trust. Teoscar Hernandez is the twentytwenty four MLB home run derby champion.

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The Dodger Slugger crushed fourteen homers todefeat Royal's shortstop Bobby wit Junior in the
final round from Arlington. He becamethe first Dodger and seventh Dominican born player
to win the derby. Hernandez snuckin as the last player to advance from
round one after hitting nineteen homers andtook down Philly's third baseman Alec Baum in

(01:01:37):
a swing off in the semis whitJunior hit thirteen homers in the final round
after defeating Guardians third baseman Jose Ramirezin the semi finals. The MLB All
Star Game takes place tonight from GlobeLife Field, and you can watch the
action on Fox one. Soto continuesto be asked about his future during All

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Star Media Day, the Yankees outfieldersaid no what he knows the future when
asked about returning to the Yankees.Soto is at his third consecutive All Star
Game and with a third different team. He represented the Washington Nationals in twenty
twenty two before being traded to theSan Diego Padres, where he spent the
twenty twenty three season. The BronxBombers acquired the twenty five year old during

(01:02:20):
the off season, but have yetto work out a contract extension. The
Mets, Phillies, Red Sox,Cubs, and Nationals are expected to be
among the teams competing with the Yankeesfor Soto in free agency. And that's
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two nine four five. So asmuch like you, guys, we went
on vacation over the fourth We wenton a long cruise and just for the
record, it was awesome. Corbyn. On the flight home, my young
son was curious to how much thevacation cost and how much money we make.
My husband said enough and tried toend it. Do you tell your

(01:04:12):
kids how much you make or howmuch it costs to do stuff? And
at what age do you think kidsshould start being made aware of how much
their parents make. I never grewup knowing how much my parents made,
and same for my husband. Yeah, vacations aren't cheap. They aren't.
And there's something about like we don'tget told how much you make how much

(01:04:38):
parents make? Did your parents everdisclosed any of that information? Mine didn't
The only time I found out howmuch my dad make is because when your
paycheck would come in the mail andI looked, right, you look at
the paste up and I remember going, oh, I don't remember them ount
right, but I remember the reaction. I was like, that's a lot

(01:05:00):
money. Yeah, I didn't learnuntil after he had passed away. Really,
yeah, And how'd you find out? Well, because I was the
executor of his estate. Okay,so then everything came to me. Is
that appropriate? Is that the wayyou should find out? Should you find
out when your parents are gone theirfinancial situation? I mean, I guess

(01:05:23):
it helps because if they're in amountain of debt and you're gonna end up
having to take care of it becausethey're gone and nobody else can, then
yeah, you would need to knowabout you get me. Did you find
out? No? And did youfind out even like after he passed No?
No, again, none of thatwent to me, you know,
so I ain't messing with any ofit. It should happened, I probably

(01:05:45):
would have found out, But eventhen maybe maybe not. I don't know.
I don't know. Is it archaicto like not share? Like?
Is an old school mentality? Tobe like kids? Don't need to know.
Why do they need to know?That's a good question. Why do
the children need to know how muchyou make or what the finances are?

(01:06:06):
Why do children need to know adultstuff? I mean, I don't think
it is about knowing adult stuff.I think it's more of like, because
you wouldn't use adult terms, you'dhave to use like, you know,
child of appropriate terminology. But Ithink you're trying to shape future adults.

(01:06:33):
Okay, I'm not following, butyour job is to raise future adults,
create adults. You're not trying tocreate future children. No, No,
they're going to grow up and beadults regardless. Yes, but that's just
a word when I'm talking about itscharacter traits. Yeah, I don't see
the point and kids having to knowthat sort of Yeah, we're not to

(01:06:55):
that part yet of the advice.I'm just done trying to figure out what
why? Why? Again? Ithink you're trying to raise adults, and
raising adults is like, hey,you're nice to people, you don't hit,
right, Yeah, those are allgood and gravy, But that doesn't
have anything to do with the financesor the debt that you're in. You.

(01:07:17):
Yeah, I don't think you needto necessarily teach them about finances or
no, no, no, nono, definitely teach them about finances.
You don't need to tell them howmuch money you're making. But there's always
ability, right right right. Ithink you have a responsibility of teaching them
the value of money, and howdo you do that? Things are made
up mounts? Right, what's abetter example than what you're going through.

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I'm just play Devil's advocate here,like when they're always like at, like
can I get these new shoes?Well, let's see, like how much
these new shoes cost? Like whatcan you instead of getting these two hundred
dollars pairs of Jordan's, Let's lookat what else two hundred dollars go by?
Or you want these two hundred dollarspair of shoes, You're gonna have
to work for it, you know. So if you want something, no

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matter what it is, you're gonnahave to work for it. Text game
ince is My kids knew as asingle mom there was not enough. Ever,
once they were adults, we hadthose conversations. Once they are over
eighteen and trying to adult. Ithink that it can be used as another
learning tool to discuss with them,right. That's the thing my wife and

(01:08:28):
I go through right now with anine year old and a six year old,
is when do we start teaching themabout money? My parents, I
had an allowance right right, andbut that was pretty much where it ended
in terms of understanding finance. Youdo chores, here's money, that's the
end, right, spinning on whatyou want, and if you don't have

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enough for that, well you can'tget what you want yet, you're gonna
have to save again. I don'tknow if I don't remember that being the
conversation, just like, here's yourmoney, figure it out. Yeah.
I don't remember being sat down andlike, hey, listen, if you
want to go to the pool,you want to season pass to Raedwards Pool,

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it's fifteen dollars for that. Idon't remember what it was, right,
But you've got to have You're gonnahave to save for it. I
don't remember those conversations. They mayhave happened, but I don't remember those
conversations. I just remember, here'smoney, here's chores, right right,
Like even in college, right,there was a time in college where I
had no money. I remember,like, hadn't eaten in like two days

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and calling my parents and telling themI had no money, and they were
like, I'll mail you a check, which meant I would get it in
three to five days. But like, even at that age, I didn't
really wasn't good at managing sure money. It was never even even in that
moment. It wasn't taught to me. Yeah, and that's not something that
they really I don't remember them teachingyou in school had a man your money.

(01:10:00):
They might write teach you maybe oneday in math class how to write
a check. That's it. Idon't think they teach that anymore. There's
no need. I mean, targets, stop taking checks out right, thank
god? Right, just going throughthis, my mom passing lawyer says that
I'm not responsible for her debt.If there's nothing left of her estate,

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they can't come after me for thedebt. People give their kids green like
cards. I'm not sure what thatmeans. If I was speculative implying that
giving them a reason to ask questions. No, the greenlight card is a
type of debit card for kids.Oh got it, Okay, It's like

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a preloaded sort of thing. Youknow. Here, there's forty bucks on
this card. You know, useit. When it's out, it's out
the quicker. You teach them aboutmoney and money out the quicker, they
learned to live on their own andalso quit asking you for toy money when
they understand and the value of thosequestions. Not sure where that stance is
in our for our email, butI think it's a great point. We

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give our kids tough love to preparethem for the real world, why would
we need not do the same withmoney. That's definitely a tactic if you
want to tough love them and letthem learn by skin knees. Yeah,
I figured out on you. Myeleven year old and fourteen year old both
work for a lady to earn moneyto buy the things they really want.

(01:11:28):
Both work about ten to twelve hoursa week doing thirteen dollars for thirteen dollars
doing yard type of work. That'sawesome, sure, and I was teaching
them how to earn money for sureand work for it right right exactly.

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But it's not like the email says. It's not talking about their finances and
how much this vacation costs and howmuch you how much money you make?
You know, So ten to twelvehours a week for thirteen dollars is a
dollar an hour? Is that theway I'm understanding that? Good labor right

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there? Man for the person paying? Yes, what good does it ever
do do to share with a kid? That's why they have allowances to learn
fiscal responsibility. But knowing what youmake is unnecessary. Just ask the Menindez
boys. Oh god, weren't theyabused? Was their defense? I believe

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right. I don't know if thatwas ever proven, but that's what they
That was their defense. I believeone of them said that their dad molested
them. Yes, they murdered theirparents for money. But the brother I
mean even that, we don't evenknow if the Mendez brother were told how
much they may I don't they knewthey were rich kids? Yeah, you

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don't need to tell a kid thatthey're rich when they live in a three
car garage house with a boat anda lake house and go to a private
school and all those like tennis courtin the backyard. Yes they know.
Yeah, they don't need to knowhow much you make to know those things
to go after. Plenty of peoplehave gone after people for money and not
known they didn't have money. Right. A lot of people live beyond their

(01:13:19):
means so to imply that they woulddo that knowingly. Uh oh, thirteen
dollars an hour. Okay, thatmakes no more sense. I remember when
I left the house, I hadnot a clue about money, got myself
into some situations that could have beenavoided. Have I had any knowledge there?
But therefore, as my kids gotolder, my wife and I tried

(01:13:41):
to fully jk them, just kidding, just kidding them. I'm just gonna
say, educate them and the downfallsand that and that. Fortunately they listened.
Yeah, Like, I was nevertaught about a credit card. And
on first time I was in college, the girlfriend at the time was like,

(01:14:02):
we were at the mall and wewere looking at clothes and she was
like, you just get a structurecard. And I was like, what's
that. She's like, it's acredit card, but just for the store.
And I maxed that son of abitch out immediately got two things.
You are right. Stuff I wouldn'tI don't even remember wearing. But because

(01:14:25):
this vagina was telling me, Iwas like okay, and just went down
a rabbit hole of messing up mycredit. After after that, there's a
Mark Jackson that basketball card with thebrothers sitting courtside. Yeah, yeah,
yeah, talking about them and adestbrothers. Yes, yes, it's pretty
common, pretty common worth I thinkit is, actually because it's a unique

(01:14:49):
it's a unique it's a unique card. My dad told me what he made
on high in high school, soI know what I could afford and not.
Yeah, I don't know. Lindsay, have you and your husband talked
about when you will tell teach kids, your children about money? I mean
we talk about the value of moneywith them a little bit here and there.

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I mean, we don't talk tothem about how much we make.
No, that's not what I'm asking. That's not what I asked. When
do you talk to them about money? Not the value of money? I
think that is I think that isa to be honest, I think that's
a broad statement. People use tothink they've that's the birds and the bees.
Yeah, yeah, we do.We talk to them about money mm
hmm, and what we can affordat this time or can't, or why

(01:15:38):
we don't need to be paying thismuch for this or that. You know.
Yeah, we do talk money.Yeah. When we were going on
vacation right before the forest, ourkids wanted to do some things and I
kept saying no, And of course, as kids do, they're like,
why, because we're paying for thisvacation, We're going to go on vacation.

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Why can't we go get ice cream? Because you're gonna have all the
ice cream you want on vacation.Yeah. I don't know if that's teaching
them anything right, rather than Ijust didn't want to spend that money.
But the idea of not telling kidsthings is an interesting argument as to why
not because it's hard to explain.Sure, it's hard to explain do they

(01:16:23):
really need to know? Do theyneed to know? I think both sides
of that coin are accurate. Thisemail says much like you, guys,
we went on vacation over the fourthWe went on a long cruise. Just
for the record, it was awesome, Corvin. On the flight home,
my young son was curious to knowto know how much the vacation costs and
how much money we make. Myhusband said enough and tried to end it.
Do you tell your kids how muchyou make or how much it cost

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to do stuff? At what agedo you think kids should start being made
aware of how much their parents make. I never grew up knowing how much
my parents made and same for myhusband. Lindsay, I don't think it's
necessary to tell your kids how muchyou make. Are they asking? I
mean it's really a personal choice,sure, but they're asking our opinion.

(01:17:09):
Yeah. No, I don't thinkit's necessary to let them know it's it's
it's not their business. Just knowthat if if you want a certain thing,
if if you feel like you're thenyou're gonna have to work really hard
and get a good job and youcan afford those things that you want.
It's my parents, that's not true. You can have a good job and
still not afford thanks, That's that'strue. Do your research to know exactly

(01:17:34):
how much things cost in life,and know how much you're going to need
to make in life to afford thosereally nice things. I just think that
statement is like saying you can beanything you want. You can't. Can't
you can't be anything you want?What do you mean by that? I
mean, I think we've had thisargument before. You You literally can be

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anything you want. You want tobe an astor not, be an ash
or not. You just got towork for it. No, there are
certain limitations. Now, if youwant to be a toaster, that's a
different story. Right, you knowwhat I mean. I'm just saying,
if you want to be president,you can be president. If you want
to be an astronaut, you've beenan astroniut if you want to be a
police officer or an EMS or youknow, a guy on the radio,
you literally can't do anything you want. Yeah. You and I just don't
see eye to eye on that becauseyou can't because there are certain other factors.

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You want to be president is allgood and dandy. That doesn't mean
you'll get to be president. Thereare other factors involved. You can.
Jason Bateman has a great quote inan interview where he talks about you can
go to the best schools, youcan be do all the right stuff,
do all the right training, andall those things. That doesn't mean you're
going to be an actor. Thereare other factors involved other than you just

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want to. Yeah, you're right. It is the hard work that makes
you get something exactly, It makesyour your information that you get about it
is what gets you that not justbecause you want to right right right,
And I think that's where we're gettingcrossed at is you can you want to,
you just got to work for it, and you got to work hard,
and there are things that you're goingto have to do to get to

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that point. You just got toput in the effort to do it.
You just can't wake up one dayand be like I want to be president
and expected to happen. No,it takes legwork to get there. Yeah
anyway. Yeah, Also, someoneelse's texting. What's the harm in telling
them? I don't necessarily know thatthere is any harm in telling them unless
you don't want them putting your businessout there. I'll tell you the harm

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in telling them all right. One, you're overloading a child with information that
they probably can't process with their tinylittle kid brains. Okay. Two,
if you do tell them, thenthey could start expecting things from you.
Oh, well, you make fiftythousand dollars a year. How come I
can't have a PlayStation five? Right? You make X amount of dollars I

(01:19:47):
should be able to have all this. Well, yeah, fool, I
make fifty thousand dollars. You don'tmake squat all right. If you want
that money, you go out andmake you fifty thousand dollars a year.
I think that's what the that's theharm and telling kids is that could come
with expectations and kids start having expectationsand start becoming sy little assholes. Because

(01:20:12):
why is everything we talk about childrenalways in with you calling them SI little
assholes because they are Corbyn, everylast one of them, every last one
of them. Uh. I amnot somebody who believes raising your don't tell
your kids something because you have tohave a hard conversation. I'm just not
that. I just don't believe that. That's not the way I choose to
parent. And if if I wereto tell my kids how much they make

(01:20:35):
and they came back and wanted toknow why they can't afford a PlayStation or
they want to tell the smiths whatI make or whatever, then it's uncomfortable
for me. If I were tochoose that. I'm just using this as
an example. I agree. Idon't know what the harm is to doing
it. It could have create uncomfortablenessfor me and people knowing how much I

(01:20:55):
make and stuff like that. Onehundred percent. I think if you use
age appropriate in information on any topic, then you won't overload their brain.
You don't need to go into howmuch you make, and then there's net
and gross and you got a pancle. Sam and then the insurance and all
that. You don't have to doall that, right, you don't have
to go through all that stuff.I don't think. Like I said before,

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I'm a believer. I'm trying toraise future adults, right, I'm
not trying to raise future adult children. And I want my kids to be
able to do things with the understandingthat I didn't have. I'm going to
mess up my kids just like myparents messed up me, just a little
different. Somebody texting Corbyn raising hiskids to believe they can't be anything.
That's not what I said. Isaid that We sometimes as parents just say

(01:21:45):
that and there's not more to it. Like hard work is what is important,
right, That's the only thing thatmatters is working hard. You can
work hard all you want. I'msure do Caucus worked really hard to be
president. I'm sure Dewey works reallyhard to be president. Doesn't mean you're
gonna get it. There's other factorsinvolved. You can do all the hard

(01:22:10):
work and still lose the game.Are you implying that all the people that
want to be super Bowl champions didn'tthey they didn't want it enough. You
hear that sometimes in sports where youjust don't want it enough. Okay,
somebody could want it more. Evenyour enough could not be as much as
the other person's want, so oneis hardly it. Listener emails. You

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read an email on the air andgive advice. It says, hey,

(01:23:25):
guys, you've given me a lotof perspective before, so I figured i'd
try again. My best friend's daughteris eleven, and she's known me her
whole life. I attend every birthdayparty, get her Christmas gifts, go
on family vacation. She texts me. We're close. It is well known
I do not want children. Idon't want that lifestyle, and it's actually

(01:23:45):
a big joke between me and thefamily every time something crazy happens. This
daughter recently got into theater. Iwent to one play and wanted to die.
They've already have three lined up overthe next year and a half,
I feel comfortable to talk to myfriend about how I really don't want to
go to the show because I thinkwe have that type of relationships, A
relationship for you guys as parents,would you think less of your friend.

(01:24:09):
I want to nip it now soI don't need an excuse every time there's
a play, but I also feelobligated to go. This is exactly why
I don't want kids help disclaimer,These plays take out of my whole weekend.
It's not an hour in the morning, two hour show with a half
hour mission to buy flowers for thecast at four o'clock on a Saturday or

(01:24:30):
Sunday. They said they went toone show and that was enough for them.
Any child recital performance is an eyegoug. I'm just being honest.

(01:24:51):
The short time your kids on stageA were doing whatever is awesome, But
it's everybody else's kids. You've gotto endure. And I don't mean that
in a mean way. You're not. It's usually not that great, right
kids given kid things right, AndI feel like the last part of the

(01:25:12):
email here is an over exaggeration.They take the whole weekend. Well,
I mean, yeah, if ifif you know, you got to play
on Friday night and a play onSaturday night, you know, two performances,
you know, and you're obligated togo to both of them because they're
your friend's kids. I think that'sasinine. You're obligated to go to all

(01:25:36):
the performances. Well, that's whatI feel this person is saying they feel
obligated to have to go to thiskid's performance because they've been a part of
their life since they were born.That's It's one of the things I love
about these emails is you're hearing thatthey're going to all the performances, when
I hear they're only going to oneand they have to do it three times
over the next year and a halfor whatever it's said. But over the

(01:26:00):
if it's just you're going to oneperformance, it's hardly the whole weekend.
It's a two hour performance, right, and it might start at a four
o'clock on a Saturday. That's notthe whole weekend. But you're not going
to get the early bird special downat you know, the first cafe,
right, can't get your day drinkingin. I mean you can, but

(01:26:23):
they tend to frown on that.When you're at a kid's side. Yeah,
it's a little weird when you're vomitingduring Chopsticks girl, And I don't
understand a half hour intermission to buyflowers for the cast. Huh. Are
you supposed to buy flowers for thecast? You don't have to, it's

(01:26:45):
nice to I mean, it's it'sbring flowers for the actor, not the
whole entire cast. That says cast. Mm hmm, that's a lot of
flowers. Yeah. Are you supposedto buy flowers for your kid in the
performance every time? Isn't that kindof like a participation ribbon? Then they

(01:27:10):
expect it every time, right,Right. My youngest boy was in drama
and I went to a few ofhis performances, and I just go up
and give him a hug and ahigh five afterwards and say good job.
There's no flowers involved, and notsure as well. Didn't buy any for
all of you know, the entirecast of that. Yeah. No,

(01:27:31):
I did theater in high school,and my parents would bring me flowers if
I had a leading role. Excellentpoint. I wasn't a lead, then
they didn't bring me flowers. Right, If you weren't good enough for them,
if you're just a squid, right, and the Christmas play that was
the best performance of a rock I'veever seen before. I think sometimes when

(01:27:51):
people do that, they do itfor the showmanship to the other par parents.
Okay, yeah, keeping up withthe Joneses. But I'm a better
parent because I got you flowers.How about you just showed up, because
there's a lot of parents that don'tdo that. No, that's true too.
If you're a parent, do youhave to go to all the performances?

(01:28:15):
If it's like a Christmas recital andthey do it, you know whatever,
it's their version of Edward Scissor Handsand which would be none of those?
Uh, and they do it likeThursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday
afternoon. Are you, as aparent supposed to go to all the performances?
I don't think so. Not shockedright, probably? Okay, I

(01:28:40):
mean do you does your kid havea lead? I think that's I don't
think that that's so. If yourkid's really good, you should rather than
your kid needs to get better,you shouldn't, is what I'm hearing you
say. I think it's I thinkit's up to your child. Do they
want me there at every single performance, or is it I'm coming to the

(01:29:01):
first performance? And then right doyou go to opening night as a parent?
Are you supposed to be there justfor Are you absolutely supposed to be
there on opening night? Oh?These are tough questions. I feel like
I gotta answer. I'll give youopening night, but the other three performances
not so much. I mean,it's you're not gonna see. You know,
sometimes when you watch a movie overand over again, you pick up

(01:29:23):
things that you haven't you didn't seethe first time you watched it. I
don't think that's gonna happen with thisparticular play, but what has I don't
want to accidentally fall asleep on thefourth performance, right when I know the
plot twist texts coming in. Myfriends have kids, My kid plays with
their kids. That doesn't mean Ispend all my time with my friend's eleven

(01:29:45):
year old daughter. That's weird.Brod needs to sack up and just tell
his friend he doesn't want to go. He has his own life outside of
his friends and his daughter. Everybodywants to be a dad till it's time
to do dad stuff. Just tellthe year old you aren't going because you
don't want to your selective parenting likea father figure. Don't stop now.

(01:30:08):
Parents should never expect friends, nomatter how close they are, to come
to every event their child does.It's not your friend child, okay,
s Just tell them you got otherstuff going on and you'll try and make
it if you can. Maybe afair compromise in order promise to go to
the big finale. I'll show upwhen you make playoffs right weekend dad style.

(01:30:32):
Reasonable answer No is a complete sentence. Amen. If you don't want
to go, don't go, orjust say you have other plans. Nuclear
answer next time, next performance,get wildly drunk beforehand, vomit on a
few people, slur, yell outthe kid's name every time she's on stage,
then pass out and intermission and snoreloudly. You'll never be asked again.

(01:30:55):
Yeah, something's off Showmo sounds fishy. I think it's fair to say
just because your supportive a friend's kidhardly makes you a child molester. I
feel like the threshold for Chomo's moving. How many text messages do you get
from your friend's kids, Corbyn,Well, not for my friend's kids,

(01:31:19):
from friends' parents who have kids.None. But I also haven't been in
their lives since they were eleven,right, right for eleven years? You
know what I'm saying. This texturesays that, you know, the kid
texted them back and forth and theytalk, they're constantly in contact or whatever.
And I think that's I think shemeant he or she meant the parents.
I didn't because a sound alike they'retalking to the eleven year old and

(01:31:41):
they're texting back and forth at theeleven year old. I didn't take that
from that. If if that's theway you guys took it, that's on
you. I guess, go formoral support, Okay, I mean,
isn't that what they're doing anyway,going for moral I don't have to go
for moral support, right, Yeah, you've got their phone number. You

(01:32:04):
can text him a say break awayand honest right, honestly, the child's
probably not going to know if they'rethere or not. You can't really see
from the stage who's in the audience. Yeah, but they'll know before and
after. There's some there's a YouTuberabbit hole you can go down of kids
finding their parents at recitals. It'sawesome where they're looking and then they see

(01:32:26):
them and they just light up likeit's awesome. Maybe go Maybe this kid
is really his, that's why hefeels obligated. See and you're going with
a he. I don't know ifit's a her. We never get that
designation that it is a he ora she. Listener email from someone who

(01:32:46):
says that they have a best friend'sdaughter as eleven. She's known me for
her whole life. I attend everybirthday party, get her Christmas gifts,
go on family vagation. She textsme. We're close. It's well known.
I do not want children. Idon't want the lifestyle. It's actually
a big joke between family and friend. The daughter recently got into theater.
I went to one play wanted todie. They already have three lined up

(01:33:08):
over the next year and a half. I feel I feel comfortable to talk
to my friend about how I reallydon't want to go to the shows because
I think we have that type offriendship. For you guys, as parents,
would you think less of your friend? I want to nip it now
so I don't need an excuse everytime there's a play, but I also
feel obligated to go. This isexactly why I don't want kids. Lindsey,

(01:33:30):
Well, first of all, it'sdifferent when it's your own child,
so don't let that be an excuseas to why you don't want children.
But no, your friend, youshould never feel obligated to go to a
friend's child's program. So yeah,she, if she is truly your friend,
she's not going to be upset thatyou're not going to watch her kids
play, So you can totally tellher, Hey, I went to one.

(01:33:53):
I'm good, right, like I'mgood. You're off the hook,
yet, don't worry about it.Don't freak out now. You said there's
a year and a half, there'sthree more coming up if you do have
that. If the child asks youto go to one, you said they're
two hours long with an intermission,maybe just go and at intermission leave and

(01:34:15):
you can even say that I'm gonnadine out. Okay, I have to
leave it intermission because I have otherplans, but I will I will see
the the beginning of it at least, so there you won't be upsetting the
child too much. But then itends. I'm sure they can fill you
in. But at the same time, you should never feel bad about it.

(01:34:39):
You are clearly close enough to thisfamily, so don't feel bad.
No, not that close. Youdon't want to be a part of everything.
Gim me you don't want to go, don't go. Tell your friend
that you don't want to go.Your friend probably will say I don't want
to go either, but I haveto because it's my kid, you know.
I mean, it's a fun thingabout life is that you're life.

(01:35:00):
You can do literally whatever you want. So if you don't want to go
to this kid's goddamn play, thendon't go to the kids goddamn play.
Go day drinking instead, have fun, enjoy your life. My answer is
very similar to the one before.You don't want to say no because you
don't want the uncomfortable question. Youdon't have to go. It ain't your

(01:35:20):
kid. You're making a nothing outof this. This is a nothing burger.
It ain't your kid. What areyou talking about. I literally don't
understand what you're talking about. Itain't your kid. It ain't your kid
at all. Right, But outof respect for your friends, and it
doesn't matter. Not your kid beenthere forever. It's not your kid right

(01:35:44):
there, it's their life, itain't yours. You're choosing to insert into
their unit, right You're choosing toplace yourself because you don't want to have
kids. You feel like this isyour way to still get a little bit
of the cake and eat it too. You don't want kids, then don't
participate in kids stuff. You don'thave to have kids. I get it.

(01:36:08):
You don't want that lifestyle. Youdon't want the obligation of going things.
Then do it. Then say you'renot going. You're trying to balance
between two things. You don't wantkids, don't participate in kids stuff the
kid. If you're worried you're creatinga You're a fixture in this child's life.
That's what you sold us. Youknow what them eleven years, Christmas

(01:36:28):
birthdays. You're a fixture in theirlife. But you don't want kids.
Decide if you don't want kids,don't be in the kid's life at all,
like single dads, or be aweekend dad, be the fun friend
right the frontal. I always thinkit's weird when you have a friend that's
this close to a family and involvedin all the kids stuff, because are

(01:36:54):
you You have to be careful notto outshine the parents, and if you
do, you get better gifts,and it creates like I want to go
live with aunt sally like you're creatingproblems just because you choose to not have
kids and you want to be apart of this kid's life. Yeah,

(01:37:14):
say where were you when they neededyou at their school? Play? Right?
You want to do the fun stuff. You don't want to be there
when they won't pick up their room? Are they they any of the other
hard stuff that comes with parenting?Right? Scooping turds out of the bathtub?
Yes, not your kid, notyour problem. Your friends should understand
and if they don't, then they'renot your friend. They only want you

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to be the friend. So you'lldo this stuff so they have somebody to
talk to while they're waiting for thesquid to dance across the stage. Right,
all right, we got to takea break. We'll be back.
Telsa's Morning Show is coming right back. The Big Morning Show, Tulsa's rock
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to say at eight two nine fourfive. Today is a special day.
Today, along with a few otherteams, a third of the league quarterbacks
and rookies report to camp. Weare I believe fifty one days away from

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NFL season. I know, congratulationsto all. It's just the start my
Friday. Everybody should be reported andwe should be in the churning of fall
ball. An Olympic gold medal forthe American basketball team is no sure thing.
If Team USA isn't able to deliver, it'll likely be because they were

(01:38:57):
beaten in the trenches. In anexhibition yesterday in Abu Dhabi, Team USA
defeated Australia by a final of ninetyeight to ninety two, but it was
a win that was far from flawless. There are still signs of unfamiliarity in
the team, but there's clearly beensome improvement, which is encouraging. One
area where the Aussi's found success wasattacking the middle, where they found softness

(01:39:21):
by putting up sixty eight points inthe paint, which is a massive red
flag in a forty minute game.Team USA will face Nikola Jokic and Serbia
tomorrow in Abu Dabi. Yeah,they're in a weird position because do you
try your hardest and exert all thisenergy and fatigue yourself out, or do
you let these exhibitions just go bywho cares if you win or not.

(01:39:45):
Let's just work on fundamentals, organizationplays or do you let the competitiveness in
these superstars. Yeah, you're gonnabe like, no, we can lose
its fine, No, it's aweird spot. Commissioner Greg Cinky reiterated Monday
that the league is not interested inrecruiting teams from other conferences. There's been

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speculation that the SEC could land FloridaState and Clemson at both schools leave the
ACC. Judges in Florida, SouthCarolina, and North Carolina are hearing arguments
and cases where the schools have challengedthe grant of rights. The ACC has
sued those schools to defend the conference. In Sankee's opening statement to begin SEC
media Days, he confirmed that theconference's main focus is on its sixteen members

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only, and the American League ishanding the ball to an Oriole's ace to
start tonight's MLB All Star Game inArlington. This is the ninety fourth Midsummer
Classic, and the team announced yesterdaythat Corbyn Burns will get the start.
The twenty nine year old is nineand four this season with a two point
nine to three ERA and is thefirst starter to represent Baltimore in an All

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Star Game since Steve Stone in nineteeneighty. The twenty twenty one n l
CY Young Award winner was acquired fromthe Brewers in the offseason. The National
League sends rookie Sensation Paul Skens tothe mound. The Pirates Hurler is six
and oh with a one point ninezero ERA and eleven starts this year.
The Phillies are sending the most playersto the game with eight, while the

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If you were gonna make an icecream flavor, it has to be
made of food. What would bethe gross the most gross ice cream flavor

(01:42:53):
has to be made of food?I'll go first, Okrah, Okay,
Okra ice cream not fried, Okraice cream, Okra ice cream regular,
Okra ice cream. Yeah, thatsounds disgusting, lindsay liver and onions.
Okay, yeah, yeah, I'mno counter to that. I can't think

(01:43:16):
of a meat ice cream. Gimpietuna tuna fish ice cream does not sound
very pleasing, Yeah at all.I think I think that's a good one
too. Really, if you thinkabout it like any kind of like you
just said, meat flavored ice creamwould not be good like a beef flavored

(01:43:39):
ice cream, you know, justtastes like ground hamburger meat. Chicken flavored
ice cream feel that'd be awfully bland. Chicken. I can't even cold chicken.
Yeah, but I mean it's usuallylike seasoned or something like they're just
regular plain chicken cooked. It isnot good. When we were teaching my

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kid, you know, to eatsolid foods, one of the things they
were like, oh, do likeblend up the foods, right, And
so we did that with a lotof them, and one of them they
were they said to do it waslike do chicken. It was vile,
Like I would try everything right,and so I would try. I'm like,
we're not giving our kid this.This is gross. I wouldn't eat

(01:44:20):
it. Why do I expect themto eat it? Goat cheese and honey,
but see that's got that's these areice cream savory ice creams. But
I would consider that sweet because ofthe honey and cheese, and cheese is
dairy. So I don't think it'sa far jump. Blue cheese, fig
and cheddar, walnut, smoked salmon, dill. Okay, that sounds vile.

(01:44:45):
Rosemary ice cream I have had.I've had lavender, but it's sweet.
But I guess ice cream has tobe sweet, right, so it's
gonna have sugar in it no matterwhat. Actually, it might be a
way that you might enjoy o GROLsif it's an ice cream, because it's
sweetened. Right. No, Butwould Brussels sprout ice cream be good?

(01:45:08):
I mean ice cream that tastes likebarts. No, but I could see
like a crispy like honey Brussels sproutwith bacon ice cream might be pretty good.
I'm good. Balsamic glazed Brussels sproutsare pretty amazing. Brussels are good,

(01:45:29):
you know, once you church themup a little bit. But just
playing little balls of cabbage. Somebodytexting corn. Yeah, no, that's
true. I've had corn ice cream. It's pretty good. Okay, I've
never heard of this corn ice cream, but corn is already sweet, right,
Spinach ice cream, but even then, raw spinach isn't that bad?

(01:45:51):
Cook spinach sucks, ass, Yeah, I mean spinach salads are pretty good,
exactly, exactly. Cook spinach ispretty good. And like with eggs
or I've added in like an enchilada, it's pretty good. I've had it
with like out, like in astuffed in an Italian dish. I'm forgetting

(01:46:14):
the name of it right now.And it's stuffed inside with alfredo and noodle.
That's pretty good, But you're puttingall those other ingredients, right,
You're putting spinach in with all thoseother ingredients. Just cooked spinach by itself.
Open up a can of spinach.I do I like I like it.
Keep it out of my ice creamthough, real right? Uh?

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Vegas has a new movie theater wherethey serve you the meals in the movie
at the time you're watching it.What movie would you want to eat along
with? I don't know what Vegasdoes. There is a movie chain called
Alamo Draft House and Origin in Austin. They made a chain of it and
they did this, so it's notan it's not a new thing. They

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do that here, right, butthey bring you the meal to your seat
in the theater. The we goto this theater? Why am can I?
Warren? Warren does it and sodoes it starts with the sea No
cottage. You've got a bowling alleyinside Synergy Synergy, thank you, Yes,

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Synergy has that. I had moresceneames so they got good and they
got good food too. Yeah,but they're I think what this person is
like the move the meals that arein the movie, right, Like,
let's just say you're watching Super SizeMe and they're bringing every meal that's in
the movie to you and you're eatingit at the time that he eats it
or whatever. What movie would youwant to eat along with? Hmmm and

(01:47:48):
deaf? Uh? I don't knowwhat? What movie do they show good
food in? What's that movie withBradley Cooper chef okay ratiituey uh, Willy
Wonka all the candy? Thinking ofmovies with food in them. Yeah,

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So what's your answer, lindsay?Maybe some I guess something with Italian Italiano
sim the menu No way, Yeah, dead movies do. That movie's trippy
mess. They do make good foodin it, exactly right. I don't
want to die at the end ofthe movie, like a lot of people.

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She doesn't. She doesn't. Yeah, she ends up getting out of
there, but like everybody else diesin it. But the food, if
I'm manut it for the food man, that's that's where it's at. Yeah.
For those who move know this movieis about a chef's annoyance with people
not enjoying the food and just beingquote foodies. Right, And this guy

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brings this girl. She's a ans if I'm not mistaken, right,
No, she's a reporter. No, no, I can't remember if she's
an escort or last minute substitute.I don't forget what it was, but
it was something like that. Andhe basically everybody gets killed. And yeah,

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if you were cast in a horrormovie, By the way, Willie
Wonka sounds great. I think it'sa good choice. If you were cast
in a horror movie, what partwould you want to play? Villain,
monster killer, hero, final girlor someone who gets killed in a creative
or spectacular way. How would youdie, Lindsey? I think I would

(01:49:36):
want to play the hero or thefinal person that lives, but most likely
the hero. Yeah, that saveseveryone if you don't masses, I don't
like a horror movie where there's alike a happy I don't like happy Indian
horror movies. Yeah, well,I think the hero in the final person

(01:49:58):
is pretty much the same thing.There's ever a really hero, so to
speak, but there's always someone thelast survivor. Yeah, I don't like
that either. Seems like a lotof mental trauma unless it, Yeah,
unless it's dismal like the you know, the fog or the myst or whatever
it's called. What about you,gimpe. I think I'm gonna go with
the villain or a monster slash killer. Yeah, they're really the stars of

(01:50:21):
the movie. They make it tothe sequel. You're right. We look
at how many Jason went through,how many times they thought they killed him
off. Yeah, how they senthim into space and he still lived.
I agree the villain or the monsteris the star of the movie, so
I would love to be that.That would be the best part. Yeah.

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If you if you've ever been stoppedby the police, have you tried
to use your name to get outof a ticket, or has the officer
recognized you and sent you on yourway? Lindsey, No, no to
which part Either I've I haven't.I haven't been stopped and tried to use
my name to get out of aticket, and I've never been recognized by

(01:51:05):
my voice and sent on my way. I've gotten off with a warning just
because because yes, uh, lasttime you got pulled over. Last time
I got pulled over was on ourway home from Arkansas driving God I don't
know when that was. M hlast year around Christmas, it was Uh,

(01:51:30):
I was speeding and it was ahe gave us a warning and I
didn't realize that the speed limit hadchanged and I was going ten over and
I apologized and he was like,uh huh ten over. It's an extra.
I think he said I could giveyou a two hundred dollars ticket or
something. And he said tell youwhat, because I had the boys with

(01:51:53):
me in the car, and hewas like, you take that two hundred
dollars and you spend it on themfor Christmas? Sure? Okay, Oh
god, GIMPI. I've never usedmy name to get out of any kind
of legal trouble, but I havebeen recognized by officers and sent him out
my way before a couple of times. Last time you got pulled over a

(01:52:15):
couple of years ago. Yeah,I'm trying to remember the last time I
got pulled over. I'll say twoyears ago. That feels about right.
I popped on one sixty nine.No, I've definitely not used my try
to get out of a ticket byusing my name? Do you know who
I am? Is not a phraseI would throw around, and he definitely

(01:52:38):
he was all business. I alwaystry to make a joke like to like
I get it, I got caught. It is what it is. You
do your job, Iron Hayton,and so I was trying to make a
joke and he was not having itat all. He was all business,
which is fine. Yeah, IIone hundred percent did not. I don't
think I've ever gotten out of aticket my dad. My dad was having

(01:53:00):
surgery for cancer, and I leftit like three o'clock in their morning or
something like that to get to SaintLouis by the surgery time, and going
through Lebanon, Missouri, if Iremember correctly, I got pulled over and
he brought me to his car andput me in the front seat while he
was writing the ticket, asked mewhy I was speeding and I was like,

(01:53:23):
oh, I'm trying to get toSaint Louis. What's in Saint Louis
my dad's having surgery, Like I'mtrying not to use that car. And
he goes, what's your dad havingsurgery for? And I was like cancer
and he was like he didn't sayanything, just nodded his head. And
then when the ticket was it wasa good luck, hope your dad has
good luck with surgery. Yeah,no, why should you get me out
of it? There's my breasts arenot nearly big enough. Right, that's

(01:53:48):
weird. He brought you into hiscar. It's a common police tactic.
Yeah. Yeah, when I getyou an intimate space, so I can
smell your breath easier, right,I can see your demean better. Uh.
Sometimes if they think you're shifty,they'll do that so they can have
you in a controlled situation. Yeah, there's a camera, yeah, on

(01:54:10):
you. There's multiple reasons why anofficer will put or a trooper whatever,
will put you inside their squad carin the front seat. Ask questions.
It's the back seats. You gottaworry. Yeah, truth. Brussels sprouts
equals cabbage abortions. Aw, Spinachis good raw or cooked? Can't?
Spinach is diaper ass A ever madehomemade salsa? I did this weekend with

(01:54:36):
my own veggies. Lindsay, haveyou ever made homemade salsa? Yes?
Yeah, it's great. I've doneit a couple of times. A friend
of mine has a really good recipe. Wasn't as good as theirs, but
decent enough are edible. We allknow that the basic ingredients of a salsa.

(01:54:56):
Is there anything magic as your trick? I mean I like a lot
of cilantro. Yeah, extra cilantro. You can't go wrong, Okay.
I always say that if green hada if the color green had a flavor,
it would be cilantro. Always reallygreen had a flavor, would be
Nike will I always thought if greenhad a flavor, it would be grass.

(01:55:16):
Like this, like you smell grass, you think of the color green.
I love cilantro. Gimpy No,never made mown salsa, Never made
mo own spaghetti sauce. Yeah,that's about it, uh, Julie.
Yes, And not to brag,but I have a pretty legendary salsa.
Nothing, there's no trick. It'sjust I think it's the way I used

(01:55:40):
to do it in a blender.I don't like that. Food process or
makes it much better. Yeah,salsam No, because it's work. But
when I can plug in. Youdon't like hand cranking it no time.
I'm not going into the bathroom todo that, So I do all my
hand cranking. And spaghetti sauce isincredibly easy. It might be one of

(01:56:04):
the easiest things to make. Um. Warren Theater also brings you liquor at
your seat, beer, mixed drinks, they do it all. Yeah.
My problem with all that is theprice. It's not cheap. I'm not
that hard up to get my meal. I can carry my own food.

(01:56:25):
I can go without a drink.I've never been in need of an alcoholic
drink so much that I would paythat much just so they can bring it
to me. I feel drinking liquorat the theater's bad news. Man.
You just go fall asleep through themovie fast. Do you fall asleep at
home when you're when you're drinking andwatching a movie. So yeah, okay,
maybe it's just the movies poring.If your child was asked to be

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in a horror movie such as Itor Nightmare on Elm Street, would you
allow it? Well, it's agood question. My kids like scary movies,
so I think that if they wantwanted to be in it, sure,
Gimpy, Yes, absolutely, andgive me a ninety five percent of
your paycheck when you're done, andthink about the fayteck mark. Yeah.

(01:57:10):
I mean, if they wanted todo it, then we would figure it
out. But I very rarely doeschild the actors turn out. Well,
look at mcaulay. Yeah, he'sa very normal human. Very few turn
out. Well, try smoking theveggies before making sauces. Okay, stop,

(01:57:34):
yes, let's char them. Areyou talking about putting in like a
pellet smoker or something and confuse smokeinto it? Probably? Yeah, you
know, you can buy fire roastedtomatoes and avoid all that work. What
it's crazy. I love the cookingrecommendations that come along with the show.

(01:57:54):
Now so funny, I'm making starterto make sour dough. Oh yeah,
yeah, all right, we're gonnatake a break and we'll be back.
The Big Mad Morning Show returns nextElsa's Morning Show nine KMOD Good morning,

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It's the Big Mad Morning Show.Nine four six, Oh kmo D.
You can also text bmms then whatyou want to say to eight two nine
four five. We talked about yesterdaywith Richard Simmons dying, but now it's
coming out that the are investigating thecause of death, and apparently it isn't

(01:58:45):
as obvious as we were led tobelieve. Like you say someone has cancer
and you're like, oh okay,and then you find out he fell and
you go, oh okay. Butapparently there's a little more to it.
Let me give you the timeline ofwhat happened, and you can draw your
own interpretation. So he had fallenin his bathroom Friday night, which was

(01:59:08):
his seventy sixth birthday, and hishousekeeper helped him up and tried to get
him medical attention. He reportedly declined. This is according to the housekeeper says
he wanted to stay home on hisbirthday. He then told his housekeeper felt

(01:59:29):
that he felt dizzy before the falland he would consider seeing a doctor the
following day. Then, around tenam the next morning, he was found
unresponsive on the floor next to hisbed. He had no signs of injury
after the accident. He had skincancer. He said he felt good,
he was grateful to be alive.That was in an interview the day before

(01:59:53):
his death. So for me,I think the million dollar question is who
is the ben officiary of his estate? Yeah? Right? Is it the
housekeeper? Did he ever have you? Never had kids? Ah? He
wasn't married. His partners have alwaysbeen kind of in secrecy. He might

(02:00:13):
have some cats. I don't know. I could see him leaving it to
some organizations. Absolutely. I wasgoing to say leaving it to his seventeen
cats, But yeah, organizations aregood too. Yeah, he even though
he hadn't been seen in a decade, he still did help with people and
their fight in life. Right.I would not put it beyond the housekeeper.

(02:00:39):
She pushed him. We can't askhim no. And if she's especially
right, because you need motive anopportunity, right, those two things exist
if she is indeed named as abeneficiary in some capacity. Opportunity sure,

(02:01:00):
well, yeah, he's up ona ladder. Just a nice little shove.
Yeah, right, fell in thebath How did he fall in the
bathroom getting in out of the shower, trying to lift his leg over?
That's what I was thinking, Yeah, slipped. Man's were twenty million dollars.
He didn't have one of those sittingtub things right, right, right?
He didn't have the little sticky frogsyou know, sure on the tub
to keep him from sliding. Maybehe was, you know, working on

(02:01:24):
a new exercise routine and uh,you know, I don't flipped and film
cocked his head. I don't thinkso, dude. I think he was
not exactly agile. I don't rememberhim ever having so many tattoos. When
did he get help these tattoos?Well, I mean when he was bored,

(02:01:49):
I guess, Yeah, he hadbeen out of the spotlight for quite
some time, over over a decade. Yeah. Uh. Falls of the
second leading cause of unintentional injury deathsworldwide. Each year, six hundred and
eighty four thousand individuals die from fallsglobally, of which over eighty percent are

(02:02:11):
in the low and middle income countries. Adults older than sixty years of age
suffer the greatest number of fatal falls. We gotta lie. That's fear of
mine, you know, slipping inthe shower, breaking my neck, and
then of course, since I livealone, nobody's going to find me,
right, And then I got hotwater beating down on me. We all

(02:02:32):
know what water does to skin aftertime, you know. So there I
am just a big pile of mouchein my bathtub with water still pouring down
on me. If the dogs haven'tcame in and eaten me already yet.
Yeah. I had a friend whoshe had a seizure, fell hit the
shower thing, turned it to hot, fell in the shower, and she

(02:02:53):
drowned and died in the shower.Yeah, and we were just like,
she sure has been in there along time, she did. Yeah.
Twenty four ain't some yep yep.In twenty twenty two, forty six and

(02:03:13):
fifty three people died and falls athome and or at work. We know
plenty of we know personally people thathave been injured because of a fall.
Absolutely, falling off a ladder isone of my biggest fears. Aren't there
changes? Their changes everything in lifeif you survive it. Yeah. So

(02:03:34):
he could have accidentally fallen or trippedor got up to pull his pants up
after sitting on the toilet, andhe got his legs caught and then just
kind of you know, dolphin didn'thit his Head's knee buckled right right,
he'd been sitting there for so long. Scrolling through TikTok video. Right,
leg fell asleep. He's the dogfrom family guy right dragging behind him.

(02:03:56):
I've done that before, me too. I fall asleep and geometry class,
my legs fell asleep. I wakeup when the bell rings. I go
to stand up to go to mynext class so I can sleep in that
one too, And I fell rightthe hell over in front of everybody.
It was terrible. Now, thisis a great text. Ninety percent of
my job as a paramedic is pickingup old people off the floor. That

(02:04:18):
sound. That's a horrific statement sentence, by the way. Yeah, I've
known firemen that the lot of thecalls they went on, we're picking people
up that had fallen, So thatdoesn't surprise me at all. Feeling dizzy
before a fall can be a signof an aneurysm or other cardiac issue.
The housekeeper angles sounds like that knivesout movie. Okay, whatever that is.

(02:04:44):
It's like modern version of clue.Yeah. Also common, right,
housekeepers killing, right, especially ifthere's money involved. Would you say he
was all dollars? Yeah, andif you didn't have anyone to leave it
to, m M. Maybe hedid have an arrangement with her. If

(02:05:06):
they're investigating, there is something thatdoesn't seem right to them, right,
right, that they felt like theyhad to def it. Yeah, if
there was a sign of his ananeurism, I would and maybe that's it.
They want to check and see ifthere's an aneurysm or make sure that
there was no foul play at all, whatsoever. Yeah, a number of

(02:05:27):
things. Yeah, but all thatcomes out, you know, after an
autopsy, if there is one performed, because not every death requires an autopsy,
you know, there's not an autopsyat every death, and if you
want one, well you have topay extra for that. No, it
says his autopsy has been completed,but the cause of death is pending toxicology
test results to see jecked up onpills or something that's a possible listen to.

(02:05:49):
I'm no longer surprised when celebrities comeout to their pill poppers. Absolutely,
I'm no longer surprised by that.How do you think he got all
that energy? I'm just saying,I mean that was a decade ago.
I don't know what he's like now. You think he was doing I think
he was doing cocaine. Yeah,Okay. The topic the housekeeper has been

(02:06:11):
a topic for a few years.They're a video and podcasts about him and
her. Okay, see now,I'm not It ain't so crazy, is
it. You get one contradictory textand suddenly validated. Right. Maybe they
did have a thing, a littlesecret. I don't know if. I
don't know if there was a thing. But it's not uncommon for people who
have caregivers that are nurses or inthis case, a housekeeper, to take

(02:06:34):
advantage of them, manipulate them,pressure them things like that. Yeah,
think of Stan Lee's you know,caregiver Casey casem Absolutely it was his wife,
but it was still a caregiver.Absolutely, not not an uncommon thing.
I think somebody texts yesterday Paul Shoreis doing a movie about this topic

(02:06:55):
in general. Yeah, about RichardSimmons. Yeah, and well in his
whole this arc of his life wherehis housekeeper was questionable. I just thought
it was about yeah, yeah,which would be a part of his life.
Right, isn't it crazy? Youhave these people super famous that love
and a door in this case RichardSimmons, and they would do anything to

(02:07:16):
take care of him, and theysurround himself when someone who's taking advantage of
them. Yeah. Right. AndRichard Simmons didn't want Polly Shore doing this
film now, he had asked himto stop. Yeah. They do look
a lot of light though they douncanny. We joke about Polly Shore.
I personally have joked about Polly Shore. His comedic ability is pretty solid,

(02:07:39):
right, right, Yeah, you'renot wrong, You're not wrong. I've
seen him almost watching h Married withChildren the other day because well it was
on and he had a brief roleon that one. I was like,
wait, get out of here?Is that Polly? It was when Al
got a second job at the BurgersShock or whatever, and and Polly was
his manager, and I just heardvoice yeah and A It's like is that

(02:08:01):
poly? Sure? And then sureenough he comes out to start yelling at
Al for doing his job wrong,and I was like, Ah, it's
the weasel. Yeah, how aboutthat. I love when celebrities that we
grew up with now they're getting olderand they start like doing old person things
right and like going on rants andget off my lawns and stuff. And
you're like, that's awesome. You'reold, can't help themselves. Yeah,

(02:08:28):
all right, we gotta take abreak. We'll be back. Tell USA
This Morning Show, The Big BadWarning Show, The Assaulting Continuous Next ninety
KMOD Good morning, It's the Bignin Morning Show. Nine one, eight,

(02:09:16):
four six, OKM D Lindsay,what'd you learn today? I learned
that smoked veggies are apparently a greatway to kick your homemade salsa up a
notch. And it's a tough weekto be an ear in America, gimb
what'd you learn today? I learnedto not bother me while I'm in the

(02:09:37):
bathroom making salsa. I also learnedthat Corbin uses his own yeese to make
his bread. I learned you gotto watch out for that back door you
do. And I also learned welcometo Walgreens. Can I help you?
Yes, I'd like one thousand zen'sor ten thousand reeses Christmas trees, whichever

(02:09:58):
you can bag up quicker. Andhere's my credit card. It feels like
a red flag. It's Corbin saying, make sure that dishwashers loaded right.
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this thing yesterday I wanted to bringup. I saved it for the podcast
so we could dig in on it. Remember that lady who said she slept
with one hundred and twenty two studentsin twenty one days. Yeah, like
for her only fans or whatever.Right, Yeah, she's sharing why men
cheat. Okay, and I feellike that's a very complicated thing that man,

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it can be. It's just notalways once a cheater, always a
chieveder. No, it can beas simple as I just wanted pleasure,
right right, right, slip felland landed into virgina. She says she
seventy percent of Americans will engage inan extra marital affair during their marital lifetime.
Okay, now that sounds misleading,right, But as someone who's been

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married before, that statistic could playan effect to me absolutely, and I
could say, yes, that's happened. That doesn't mean that's happened with my
wife, Like that's that That canbe a blurred stat right, Or if
you got married again, the samething could be true for you, absolutely,
on either on either end mine ortheirs. Yeah, yeah, because

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it's it makes it sound like ifyou're married, seventy percent chance you're gonna
get cheated on, absolutely, andthat's not what the status is sad's the
case. That's not the case atall. According to one research, forty
percent of people in unmarried relationships willdeal with acts of adultery. That's that

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that number feels a little more accurate. Okay, because adultry. I don't
know how they defined it in theresearch, but some think having an uh
an OnlyFans account is adultry or lookingat porn as adultry, right, right,
right? What's we define it asI guess would be the ultimate.
I mean, it's just websters.I don't know if that's adultery is voluntarily

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sexual intercourse between a married person anda person who is not his or her
spouse. Okay, so they countedjust as complete injection has to be,
has to be the sex. Yeah, it's not just looking at porn or
whatever. Now, because I getwhat you're saying, because some people will
look at Some people considered looking atporn cheating, right, even though you're

(02:13:31):
not physically cheating on them. Youknow you are with these these people on
the TV screen or whatever it is. So, but they're saying that that
is adultery. Is fucking somebody elsethat's match your spouse. Now, that

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woman who slept one hundred and twentytwo students in twenty one days. She
claimed in an interview that women alot, which makes them appear unattractive to
their boyfriends and husbands. Say thatagain, Say that again. Women that
moan a lot appear unattractive to theirboyfriends and husbands. She says that women,

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especially as they get older, becomehe HEYSI in the bedroom and think
a pillow princess performance will keep theirhusbands happy, when in fact that's when
I find them booking for me forthe weekend. Okay, not just older

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men, but just in general.Yeah, if you're not getting if you're
the one doing all the work,I could see, and you know your
partner's not, you know, doinganything at all, just laying there taking
it. I could see how thatother person would be like, Yo,
this is boring. I need togo find something else. She says that
if women were better in the bedroom, men wouldn't cheat. Lindsay, M

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not necessarily true. Why you saythat. I think that men cheat for
different reasons, and there's different formsof cheating, right, So you have
emotional affairs, you have, youknow, and for some women it's not
all about a sexual cheat. Asexual affair. She says, all the

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nagging about dishes not being done,as an example, I think is resulting
in me being bent over the kitchencountertop. I used to blame the men
for cheating, but since being asex worker, I blame the women.
Men look elsewhere when they're bored,so stop boring them. I will say
this, lindsay that the most commonreason you hear why men cheat is they

(02:15:46):
say they're not getting something in thebedroom, right, And I will say
this to the other point is thatmen think sex should be like a porno.
And so when you hear a statementlike she made of that they're late.
That's because men watch porn and theythink it's gotta be like something.
That's the only argument I can comeup with to validate that statement, Because

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what is lazy in the bedroom mean? It means you're just laying there,
not doing a fucking thing, youknow, like the goal just lays there,
she spreads your legs, You fuckingstick your dick in her three pumps.
You're done. That feels like ungratefulness. Listen, you you're you're absolutely
right, you should be grateful you'reeven getting any at all whatsoever. However,

(02:16:31):
it's kind of like when you're theonly one doing the dishes or taking
out trash or cleaning or doing allthe fucking laundry all the time. You're
the one that does it all thefucking time, and you would like for
your partner to at least maybe justwants fucking help out, do some fucking
laundry, help me out a littlebit. I'm overloaded here, all right.
I'm tired of being the only onethat does it all the time,

(02:16:52):
and now I have to be aporn star too. No, you don't
have to be a porn star.No, you don't have to do that
fucking weird shit like that. Takecontrol sometimes, maybe guys believe it or
not as fucking gay as it sounds, Guys like to be pampered too.
They want to be lazy. Theymay be not so much lazy. Lay
there, maybe take you know,have the other person take control. You

(02:17:13):
know, guys like that sort ofthing. Sure, you know, so
so again, if you're the onethat's doing all the work and you're like,
hey, just to take out thetrash on me one time, I'll
be all right, you know,then I'll take it out for the rest
of you know, next three monthsand then again, you know, then
I'll start complaining it. I amnot someone who has that attitude about marriage.
If you want all the what wasthe example, get doing all the

(02:17:35):
dishes? You have laundry done?Yeah, laundry done. That's because you're
choosing to do it now. ShouldI be a good spouse and help out,
Sure, but I can't control you. I want the laundry done,
so if I want this certain threshold, it's up to me to keep keep
it up, right. I'm notgonna put pressure on you to keep up
with my expectation. I feel asa partnership you should though, because that's

(02:17:56):
what a marriage is is it's apartnership, it is, But it isn't
to meet your expectations. No,you've got to me in the middle for
each other. Right, And shitneeds to get done regardless, right and
and and I think it's just amatter of you know, the one person
does all the work all the time. It gets stressful and frustrating. Right.
I hear what you're saying, andI believe in living a marriage that

(02:18:20):
way, where we work together onthe things that have to be done.
But I don't think it's realistic toexpect the other person to be that well,
because just not everybody. That's notthe marriage cycle they were exposed to.
That's you need to have that conversationbefore you get married. Yeah,
if your expectation is, hey,I want to marry you. You're great,

(02:18:43):
you're fun, and then you realizethey squeeze the toothpaste from the wrong
spot, or they do the toiletpaper the wrong way. If you want
the you want the mullet and notthe bangs, then that's not my fault.
I I I've always done it thebangs. Why do I have to
change for what you want? Becauseas you've become a partnership with this person,
and it's time for compromise on bothends, not just one person or

(02:19:05):
the other. But in the toiletpaper roll, there's no there's no compromise.
It's one or the other. Ithink it's funny how this bitch is
blaming, how she's blaming the womenwhen she says men look elsewhere when they
feel bored, to stop boring them. Women get bored too, Yes,
and women also run out and getup there here exactly. But also women

(02:19:26):
are way more passive and way moreacceptive of monotony. I don't know.
They will tolerate things that men aren'tgood at being patient. It's a complimenting
women women like women are really goodabout, like they'll have sex with their
partner even when they don't want to. Women are really good at that.

(02:19:46):
Yeah we will, Yeah, menaren't. Doctor Ruth popped up on Tiktoking
yesterday and it was like, so, let's say your man, you know,
wants to have a lot more sexwith than you do, right,
And she said, well, whatdo you do? She's like, listen,
it takes three minutes and you're done. Give him an orgasm and go
back to the right. Now.I've seen that advice too, like just

(02:20:09):
showing up. Very rarely have youhad sex with your married partner and been
like, well that was a badidea. Well, she's saying, like,
I used to blame the menford cheating, but since being a sex worker,
I blame the woman. Well,why would the woman know to change
if her husband's running out on herbecause you're providing it for him. So
now the polster that you're getting alittle worked up, you're getting a little

(02:20:33):
worked up. Don't forget she runsa business. She's she's giving validation to
her clients to come to her bookher Yeah, right right, So don't
get a little don't get all yeahyeah, sisterhood on me. Obviously there
should be a communication and all thosethings. Yes, But also to Gimpi's

(02:20:54):
point is you should be taking theinitiative as the other partner to know that,
hey, I should wear shouldn't bewearing my period panties all the time?
Right right, right right? Youseem a little stressed. Let me
suck a dick or something. Yeah, something like that. I don't know
what you're saying. That's the mostforeign thing I've ever heard you say.

(02:21:16):
And you said some foreign shit,my man. I'm just saying, initiative
is where it's at. Yes,another escort, she said, so many
husbands are bad in bed, andhow are their wives putting up with it?
What I'm just I have never paidfor an escort. I've never paid
for a prostitute. I know whereyou can go. Where's the highway going

(02:21:37):
through Memphis has got plenty. SoI can't speak with any authority on this.
But when I rent a car,I don't drive it the most pristine
way to be happy at the endof when I turn it in, right,
so I can only imagine I amnot caring about the escort's enjoyment of
what's happening. No, No,I am just trying to get yours.

(02:21:58):
Yeah, putting on a performance service, Yes, yes, it should perform
for me. If we all goout to dinner and you see me stack
the dishes and make it easy forthe server to take the dishes you away,
You go, why is Corbyn beingweird? We pay someone to take
the dishes away, right, that'swhat you're paying someone to deal with the

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bad sex at the scenereal. No, like when we're out to dinner and
if my husband does that, it'sbecause he's hinting to the server like we're
done with our plates. Get himalways off of our Sure, I'm just
saying that when you start doing youcan't you do that at home? Typically,
Yeah, I'm going to give mywife the best sex, not the
escort that I'm paying for. Theybetter give me. Well, the tables

(02:22:41):
turned real quick for you to changeyour argument real quick. Yeah, I
just don't see that as like,yeah, of course you're having bad sex.
Ain't nobody trying to work for aperform like a return if you get
a disc now if I get adiscount, right, yeah, because you
really enjoyed it, that's a wholeother thing, Right, that's the way

(02:23:05):
to evaluate that. Do you thinkprostitutes give discounts. I think there may
be a different rate for frequent clients. Okay, Okay, that makes sense
then, and they may have somethinglike a frequent fuck pass or something.
Right, Tom shows up, youknow, every Thursday, and he's been

(02:23:26):
doing this every Thursday for the pastten years. So of course, you
know, we break it off tohim a little bit cheaper, but not
like here's a coupon. She thewoman said, there are so many bad
There are so many husbands, boyfriends, and men young and old who have
absolutely not a single idea how toplease a woman. How are their wives,
girlfriends, and women in general puttingup with this? I am shocked

(02:23:48):
she made this statement that she isn'taware that vaginas are different depending on the
model, right. Absolutely, Also, that's just her opinion just because she's
having bad sex with these people.You see what I'm saying, who's to
say that their spouse is are not. I'll give you a good example.

(02:24:09):
I tell you, guys a jokethat I've told a hundred times. You
don't think it's funny. We've heardof me meaningtimes. Yeah, my kid,
who's never heard the joke, thinksit's funny for a good six or
seven times. Right, So whenyou're going through miles of dick miles,
how would you know if it's goodor not? And there's no way it's

(02:24:33):
got to be the best. Yeah, the threshold is constantly moving right,
right, right, right, SoI feel like she's just not being honest.
She's just a whore who cares whatshe says? She says. Porn
can be an amazing educational tool.It can give some guidance on the general
flow of a session. You don'tneed to compare your size or stamina to

(02:24:56):
that of a porn star, butif you can. If you can't even
last two seconds and only do missionaryand can't execute that properly, then we
have a problem. Well, thisperson's got a problem anyway, if they're
only going to seconds, right,Maybe because I'm afraid if I flip you
over, it's a new fee,right, right, I know how work?

(02:25:22):
Right? I never really thought aboutthat as extra cost more. Yeah,
maybe they paid by the hour andthey want to make sure they get
off before they're hours up. Oh, I think that's a guarantee. Right,
Oh, maybe by the five minuteincrements. Right. Again, I've
never gotten an escort, so I'mnot clear on how the roses work.

(02:25:43):
Uh. There are also a lotof self help guides and videos that teach
better bedroom etiquette and techniques, specificallyfor males. Again, I'm not a
giant fan of that. I'm notgonna get a book and read that on
how to have sex with my wife. One. It's a little weird.

(02:26:07):
My wife walks in bedtime, she'sput the kids to bed, and I've
got the book open, the readingglasses and I'm reading Orgasm for Dummies.
She's gonna be like, what areyou doing? I'm reading up. She's
gonna be like it's fine or not. I don't I don't know. I
just feel like that's weird. Soyeah, And also, what if your

(02:26:28):
wife doesn't like that technique? Somewomen don't like receiving oral sex? Right,
so if you're so, if youread it and then it says to
do that and your wife's like,gee, gee, now you've turned her
off. You've made it worse.So I'm not a big fan of the

(02:26:48):
of the book scenario. I wasjust looking to see what kind of books
they have out there. Lots ofmen do not ask their sexual partners what
they like. The best encounters areones where guys ask me what I also
like. It doesn't have to berobotic, it can be in a sexy
way. Uh. Yeah. Somewomen don't like talking during sex. Neither

(02:27:11):
do men. It's so weird tome because they're not in a relationship with
her, So I don't care whatyou like exactly exactly. They are not
courting you. If she was like, why don't you ask me what I
like? I go, well,why don't you give me a discount?
I would say, fuck what youlike? I'm not according you, I'm

(02:27:31):
letting you save. Uh. Allparticipants in a session with people that they've
not slept with before should be askingtheir partner what they like, checking in
to see if something feels okay.I've had many clients look at me weird
when I ask them if they likesomething. Yeah, probably because they're not

(02:27:54):
they're paying you not to talk.I'm just being honest. I saw a
thing online and it was a womanon podcast and she was like, when
you're a man's talking to you andhe starts talking. Let them finish and
let them get through their thought.Don't answer right away, let them finish,
and it transitions to this young,younger man and he goes, this
woman just learned shut the fuck up. Can you imagine discovering shut the fuck

(02:28:20):
up at that age? Yeah,I'm paying you to not have a conversation,
right, You're here for one thing, and one thing only. Lots
of men will assume that all womenlike the same things. This is where
asking each individual partner what they likeis important. I agree on a first
date, though, No, that'ssomething you work over time. I think

(02:28:41):
so too. Yeah, so isthis woman trying to pose as is she
an escort? Or is she alove therapist? Like? What is she?
What is she trying to be here? I don't know, Yeah,
I don't know. Probably get clients. Uh. The big trend she has

(02:29:03):
noticed is that men think women canorgasm on command, as if as if
it's something I can just snap myfingers and do on command. These men
usually tend to always be the guyswho are the worst in bed, or
the reverse, when a man willfinish in two seconds and then ask me
if I also came we can't controlit. Again. If you're an escort

(02:29:24):
and I'm paying for sex, Idon't care. I'm just finish whenever I
want, take her as long oras little time as I want. I'm
the client. Customer is always right, said, A lot of men don't
know where the clid is. Ibelieve that there. You guys move it
from person to person. Guess wherethe penis always is. It's always in

(02:29:50):
the s You never you never haveto figure out how a penis works.
I'm just saying, no, you'reabsolutely right. A vagina. Some women
don't like their clip touched right.Some women do. Some women like a
different, more vulgar way to bepleasured. Like there. Men are pretty

(02:30:13):
easy when it comes to the sequenceof events that you need to do right,
right and out and out and out. I'm done. The only anomaly
would be some sort of prostate massage. And that's an anomaly. I think
that's a giant anomaly. Whoever youwomen are that were taught to stick a

(02:30:35):
finger up a guy's asshole when you'regiven oral sex, you're listening to the
wrong people. Get it from theporn man, that's all. I've never
watched a porn where a woman's givingoral sex and then she decides to oil
check him. I've never seen thatporn. Maybe you have to look for
it. Mary. Also, Ijust tend to not include in my search

(02:30:58):
history butt play, stay away fromall that plan. I tend to stay
away from that stuff. But likeas we started this and Lindsay was getting
worked up, these type of articlesdon't help the cause. In my eye,
they don't at all. One noguys gonna be like, well the
prostitute said it. I should probablydo better because this prostitute said right,

(02:31:22):
Well, but baby the horse saidyeah, like that goes over the well.
Chefs say, caviars the best.It ain't that great. It's salty,
it's it's good for some people,but that doesn't mean it's the best.
A lot of people are happy witha plain old chicken, thigh boiled
chicken. Yes, so I dothink you should ask your partner though.

(02:31:46):
For sure, it's all about communicationnow, and you pick up on their
cues while you're doing it, subtlemovements or sounds or whatever. Yeah,
for sure, you don't sit thereand ask them every five seconds. And
you know, another pitfall gimby isthe uh hey, that's a nice blue
shirt, right, because if yousay, hey, I enjoyed that,

(02:32:07):
then they're gonna be doing it everytime. It's all you're getting. It's
all you're getting. No, Ilike it when you twist my nipples.
Oh yeah, and a sudden right, oh not so much, right?
Yeah? Yeah, last night whenyou choked me, it was good.
Listen, I don't want to bechoked all the time. Right, it

(02:32:28):
was hot and spicy. When heslapped me across my face. Well,
now you're just abusing me, yeah, right, as men are horrible with
compliments, you get a compliment likesure is a nice blue shirt. I'm
buying fucking seventeen blue t shirts andI'm wearing them all the time because we're
we're dumb. Sky blue, royalblue, No, no, just royal

(02:32:50):
blue. Just this one shade.That's it. Do you ho? Many
guys or other were the same thingall the time because we were told once
it looked, it's good. Uhhuh, we all do it. Yes,
we're horrible about it. So whenyou're like that felt really good, we're
like, shit, I found thecode, right, yeah, not realizing

(02:33:11):
that it's it's goddamn, it's Nicholascage and National Treasure where there's another fucking
layer. It's a clue to aclue to a clue to a clue,
and it all ends up on Lincoln'sdesk. Desk, you desk, listen,

(02:33:31):
all right, So no Patty aparty this week, but we are
going to have another one next week. And we had to broke an arrow.
Yeah, we're going to be aJamison's right here on seventy first and
one hundred and forty fifth, stumblingdistance from my house. Yay, I'm
excited. Congratulations you guys have agreat week. Thanks for listening to us.
Bye bye, see you, father,

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