BMMS 8-19-24

Welcome Back From The Weekend!! We Talk About The Best & Worst Parts, Shot IN The F ace Over Stinky Feet, There's Rules To All You Can Eat, Jeff Hensley Stops By, We Spoke To A Rather Awesome Listener, & Piercings!!! 

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I found this story this morning. This is really fascinating.
Remembery Terry Shivo, Yeah.

Speaker 8 (04:10):
The name I sounds real familiar.

Speaker 2 (04:13):
She was a vegetable for a long time. Yeah, for
a long time. And her husband was like, hey, can
we go ahead and pull the cord and her parents
were like, no, no, she's gonna wake up after being
in a coma for a really long time, like ten
fifteen years. If I'm not mistaken anyway, For those that
don't know that story, this happened. She was in a

(04:35):
car accident when she was like twenty six. H No,
she had a cardiac arrest when she was twenty six,
went into a coma, and every doctor that examined her
was like, yeah, she's not gonna wake up. And her
husband was like, okay, well this is not an easy decision.
But and then her parents were like, no, we can't

(04:56):
let go. We've got to give her a chance. And
it so many people got involved. It was a massive
national debate. The President tried to get involved a little bit.
The Pope got involved, the Supreme Court got involved. Guy
running for president who was a doctor tried to get involved,

(05:19):
and he had never even seen her, so it ruined
his chances of being present. Like, it's a pretty crazy story.
And then when they did the autopsy they found out
oh yeah, no, her brain was attributed like it was.
She was never going to wake up. I can't imagine
the devastation her parents.

Speaker 1 (05:35):
Who who gets the legal right to make that call?
She's very question So wouldn't it be the husband? Okay,
so how come? I mean, I get it, that's your kid.
You want to but I mean, if they don't have
any legal action to take it all whatsoever, they can't
really make that to a terminal. But I think that's
the thing is do they That was the argument, right, right,

(05:57):
That's one of the things that came out of it
is that hey, spouses have the final call, which is
wild to me because so what you get married on
Saturday and Sunday you can decide whether you live or die?

Speaker 2 (06:10):
Should you know, crack your head open. It's wild. It's
completely wild to me. Or you know, what if you're like,
what if you're going through divorce but it's not final? Right? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (06:24):
Good point, because then your your spouse is still has
that legal hold.

Speaker 2 (06:27):
On you, or you've been in a domestic violent situation
and you've confided in your parents that you know tim
is not nice.

Speaker 8 (06:34):
What a living will? I wonder if a living will
would have any changes in that.

Speaker 2 (06:39):
Well, a medical directive, yeah, would be what you would
need to decide what you want to happen. If you're
in a situation where you're unattached at least illegally, like
Gimpia is in, then you would need a will to
help say this is who will decide this? But everybody
should have a medical directive that way. There's no argument,
right at least, I mean there can be, of course,

(07:01):
But nonetheless, this is what I'm talking about. So that's
the Terry Schivo thing, right. Well, now they've done studies.
They did it for seventeen years and found that people
with encomas from brain injuries are aware that they know

(07:23):
what's happening now of a traumatic brain injury, and what
happened to Terry Schiavo not saying the only correlation is
they were in a coma, right, so it's a little different.
But that's what I thought of immediately when I heard
this story. A new study found that one in four
people with severe brain injuries are more aware than originally thought.

Speaker 1 (07:43):
Okay, because you think that they're out, they don't know
anything that's going on. It's like just lights out and
eventually the power gets turned back on.

Speaker 2 (07:51):
Even though they can't move or speak, The individuals shown
via brain scans were able to sometimes perform cognitive tasks
following instruction. They gathered from various healthcare settings across six
multinational sites, and neurologists that did the study said that
it shows that up to one hundred thousand patients in

(08:13):
the United States alone might have some level of consciousness
despite their injuries. Findings do offer hope for connecting patients
to certain treatments in the future. But the idea that
you were out and you were like, I wonder how
many people made a decision, at least with what we
know now, preemptively to unplugged, Right, That's the thing.

Speaker 1 (08:38):
Just because they are aware of what's going on doesn't
necessarily mean that they're going to come back though, right, But.

Speaker 2 (08:46):
It definitely definitely means that there there's a chance.

Speaker 8 (08:49):
Exactly, there's hope.

Speaker 2 (08:50):
Yeah, percentage wise can be how much hope does there
have to be that they come back for you to
not unplugged? At least at least Okay, Lindsey, how much
of a percent of chance that they come back? Gimby says,
at least fifty?

Speaker 8 (09:07):
I don't need that much, okay, sure me.

Speaker 2 (09:09):
Like thirty okay? One? Yeah, you weirdos. I need a
one percent chance that you're going to come back. That's
good enough for me to hold on. But there's a
ninety nine percent chance that it just ain't happened and
have people win the lottery. Dude, If I love someone

(09:30):
that much, I don't need thirty percent.

Speaker 8 (09:35):
Right, Well, I mean, how long are they are we
talking about?

Speaker 2 (09:38):
Okay, say more because.

Speaker 8 (09:40):
We all know it's very expensive and the medical bills
for money?

Speaker 2 (09:44):
I got it, no, how long? No, I haven't.

Speaker 8 (09:49):
Been in this position, and I hope I never am.
But I think about like last year, a girlfriend of
mine who lost her cousin to an accident, and she
was the only only one who kept saying keep him
on life support, keep him on life support, and.

Speaker 2 (10:04):
Her fan everyone else is like, let him die. Huh.

Speaker 8 (10:07):
His family ended up pulling the plug because they had
no hope and She said that when she visited him,
there was twitching and there was like light finger movement,
but they were under the assumption from doctors that he
would be a vegetable. Yeah, and she wasn't believing that.

Speaker 2 (10:27):
Okay, So back to what we were talking about. You
said money would be the reason maybe to pull the plug?
How long? So say more to all that if.

Speaker 8 (10:36):
There was a year, if he was on or she
was on life support for a year, and.

Speaker 2 (10:41):
So when you grow weary of it, go ahead and
pull the plug, maybe your hope diminishes.

Speaker 8 (10:46):
I just don't know.

Speaker 2 (10:48):
We've been in this thing. Come on, get off the pod.

Speaker 8 (10:54):
Come on, and then you've seen I mean the only
time that I've ever been close to a situation is
watching it in a movie, and it's like nottime. If
they pull the plug, maybe they snap out of it.
Does that happen? Who knows?

Speaker 2 (11:06):
No, the doctors know, right man. We could try and
pop clutch it, you know, pop the clutch shit. If
that gets a run. No, I get that you would go,
you know, weary of the time. I get that money
would be the thing.

Speaker 8 (11:25):
And is it the longer they're on life support, the
life less they come the less chances they have of
coming around.

Speaker 2 (11:33):
I don't know, it depends on the injury.

Speaker 1 (11:34):
Would imagine then your quarter million dollars in on hospital
bills and die anyway, You're like, God, damn it.

Speaker 2 (11:41):
I kept you alive and now.

Speaker 1 (11:44):
I owe a quarter of a million dollars and you're
dead anyway.

Speaker 2 (11:51):
Wow, both of you. Wow. I'll never forget what My
grandfather and he got hurt. He was in the hospital
and he was in a medically induced coma for the pain,
and my dad and my aunt had to decide what
to do. That was not awesome. It was not awesome.
It's not a fun thing to watch unfold. Yeah, I

(12:13):
can imagine. And they ultimately went with what he had
already decided in his medical directive.

Speaker 1 (12:21):
But can they can they can a person go against
the directive?

Speaker 2 (12:25):
Absolutely?

Speaker 1 (12:26):
Okay, because I think I've heard that before. It's like,
you know, Grandpa wanted a DNR, but they're like, no,
we're going to keep you alive. I think I was
the doctor's I made that decision too, because it's like
it's a doctor's it's their job to try to, you know,
keep your life as long as possible.

Speaker 2 (12:41):
Here's the thing I have a medical directive. It doesn't
just exist all over the place, right, It's in a
safe So something happens to me and I could take
it to the hospital. My wife isn't running by the
home to get my medical directive. She's coming to the hospital, right.
I would like to think that that's you know, it

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depends on what's happened, maybe in the previous forty eight hours.

Speaker 1 (13:06):
Right, if she grapped your pants on, you know, getting
the news that you're in the hospital, she might want
to go.

Speaker 2 (13:11):
On change verse. That's fun.

Speaker 1 (13:13):
Do you change your pants if you accidentally spoil yourself
when you get bad news of a loved one being
in the hospital.

Speaker 2 (13:18):
He's stopping you the soda. I mean, you're gonna be
at the hospital a while.

Speaker 8 (13:21):
They have SODA's at the hospital. They're not going anywhere,
So they have a change of pants at the hospital too.

Speaker 2 (13:26):
They do.

Speaker 8 (13:27):
They have scrubs. I'm sure that they would be more
than happy.

Speaker 2 (13:31):
You show up with feces all over you. Yeah, I
don't think their first concern is going to be like,
let's get you some clean clothes.

Speaker 8 (13:38):
I think they would be more than accommodating.

Speaker 2 (13:40):
No, they're not there for you no, but they're not
there for you.

Speaker 8 (13:44):
Some nurse there that says, let us get you cleaned up.

Speaker 2 (13:48):
They're not there for you.

Speaker 8 (13:50):
I mean, when I'm gonna stop.

Speaker 2 (13:53):
From taking care of sick people to take care of
your nappy ass that can't crap all over it.

Speaker 8 (13:59):
There's plenty of hospital staff that are there that can
help you with a pair of pants or something.

Speaker 2 (14:09):
Pull them away from the same life saving proceitions. You
guys been in hospitals. They're incredibly busy. Absolutely, they're not
there to They don't come and go. Do you guys
need water or anything?

Speaker 8 (14:18):
But not everywhere is an emergency room. They don't in
the hospital.

Speaker 2 (14:22):
I'm I have never been in a hospital where the
nurse goes, do you the non patient who is not
paying for anything, need something?

Speaker 8 (14:35):
But technically, if it's your spouse, you are going to
be the one paying for it.

Speaker 2 (14:40):
Not a customer service now.

Speaker 8 (14:43):
But I feel like they don't want you sitting in
the waiting room either with with crap in your.

Speaker 2 (14:47):
Pants, because that'd be a first right. Maybe you're right,
I don't know. I just find it hard to believe
that they're gonna be like, oh, you look like your
clothes are dirty? You kind of stink. Have you soiled
your your your breeches? Let's get you right. Here's a
pair of scrubs. Don't worry about it. These are on us,

(15:08):
all right?

Speaker 8 (15:10):
Well no, I'm sure it won't be These are on us. Well,
we'll bill you for them.

Speaker 2 (15:14):
You're the patient at bill. You are the patient because
you don't.

Speaker 8 (15:17):
Check in, right right?

Speaker 2 (15:19):
Added to the patient. Yeah, put it on his bill,
his bill. What's he gonna miss?

Speaker 1 (15:24):
Another fifty dollars pair of scrub pants on a couple
one hundred on there and a cup of coffee?

Speaker 2 (15:32):
Yeah? Hey, can I get some eggs? Benedict? Yeah? Uh,
let's see. How do we get to that? How long? Okay? Yeah?
You get your medical directive and it's in the safe Yeah. Yeah,
there's no Yeah, it doesn't just exist. The doctor just
doesn't know that exists. Right, I have to provide that.

(15:55):
So you could definitely know that the medical directive exists.
You could definitely know what the medical directive says, and
you could definitely go against that.

Speaker 7 (16:03):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (16:05):
I think a good question too, is if you have
a medical directive that says do not resuscitate. I don't
want to be a vegetable, but we bring you back
and you're like, do you get to be mad? Well,
I mean, if you're vegetable, you're not gonna be too
awful emotional, you're not gonna have a lot of opinions.
But if you're cognizant, yeah, yeah, yeah, I think you
can be mad.

Speaker 1 (16:24):
Yeah, absolutely, because you literally you had it in writing
do not resuscitate, do not bring me back?

Speaker 2 (16:30):
And yet effin did it? Anyway? Damn doctors, I don't
think you'd be mad. Hey, listen next time, can we
follow up? But thank you? Right your life. You're live,
You're live, but.

Speaker 1 (16:50):
You don't really alive. I don't want to be alive.
Oh it's happy dying the way that I was.

Speaker 2 (16:55):
But no, mister doctor over here has to bring me
back to live, do his job saving me.

Speaker 8 (17:02):
And stuff I can eat through a straw.

Speaker 2 (17:04):
The rest, I'm suing you for one hundred and fifty
thousand dollars. That wouldn't be enough, and also they probably
have a limit on how much you can sue them anyway, right, yeah,
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Speaker 8 (18:22):
In ninety seventy five, MOD shoplifting suspect tries to hide
from police in trunk of tesla. This happened in Irvine, California,
where thirty five year old Emily Ayana Ghita allegedly stole
from the Sephora and Lululemon stores at the Irvine Spectrum
Center on Wednesday. A loss prevention associate tried to stop her.

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Police says she kept walking and made her way out
to the parking lot. But that's when an excellent citizen
told police they observed the suspect enter a white tesla,
but she didn't just enter the tesla, got inside the
trunk and there is video of it and it was
posted on the police department's Instagram page. And in the

(19:08):
video you can hear the officer ask Emily, why are
you hiding in your trunk? And she says, because I'm scared,
and he said, of what, she said, because you just
came after me, And he says for what, and she says,
for accusing me of taking something. And the officer then
began to look through her purse, pulling out several clothing

(19:29):
items and what appeared to be beauty products, and he says,
what about this Lululemon stuff? She says that she came
in with that, and according to police, six hundred dollars
worth of items from Sephora and two hundred and fifty
dollars worth of Lululemon items were found. She was arrested
for possessing burglary tools, resisting arrest, and of course shoplifting.

Speaker 2 (19:54):
Probably the burglary tools to get her in more trouble.

Speaker 8 (19:57):
Yeah, I agree, yeah, I wonder what, like.

Speaker 1 (20:00):
What does she just happen to have a screwdriver in
her car? Right, And they're like, well you popped for
you know, faft, so whatever, We're gonna get you with
these tools as well. Yeah, yeah, because well I think
there maybe they may be.

Speaker 2 (20:17):
They look for something like a screwdriver to add to that,
so they can could be a device also to take
the tags off security tag something. But because the she
was under the nine fifty, which makes it a petty
petty crime.

Speaker 1 (20:31):
Okay, okay, so add another charge on narrative trying Yeah,
get it hit.

Speaker 2 (20:35):
Yeah makes sense. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (20:37):
Man shoots father over stinky feet. This comes out of
a Yowa where there's a dude. His name is David
Carpenter and he lives with his dad, William. Dave's forty eight,
Willie is seventy four. Now, apparently Willie had told David
that he had some steaky feet, and David didn't like
that too much, so he goes to his room, gets

(20:59):
his shoots his father right in the face. Okay, but
he did call nine to one one immediately afterwards and
let him know, hey, I just shot my dad right
in the face. So the guys come out they do
their investigation. His dad told him what was going on
that they they were fighting, got an argument over his
stinky feet, got a little heated. Dave went and her,

(21:21):
God has gone shot him in the face. Dave said
that he went gone, is gone and quote accidentally pulled
the trigger anyway, So Dave goes to jail for attempted
murder and child endangerment as well, because there were two
young children in the living room watching TV when Dave shot.

Speaker 2 (21:42):
His dad in the face.

Speaker 1 (21:43):
Wow, how traumatiz a comment about stinky beat I mean, like,
how stinky they gotta be to shoot your dad.

Speaker 2 (21:52):
I mean to complain.

Speaker 8 (21:55):
I had a girlfriend who dated a guy with really
stinky feet.

Speaker 2 (21:59):
You had a girlfriend who he gated a guy? Okay, yes?

Speaker 8 (22:01):
And she it was so bad. He was a basketball
player and he would sleep with his shoes on because
his feet smelled so badly.

Speaker 2 (22:10):
Well, that can't be good for your feet. That helps.

Speaker 8 (22:14):
They came to visit us once and I said, is
he sleeping with his shoes on?

Speaker 2 (22:20):
Why were you seeing when he was sleeping?

Speaker 1 (22:23):
Because that's how they roll, Corbin, don't ask what they
do on the weekends in the privacy of their friend's
house as.

Speaker 8 (22:28):
Many many years ago, and she said, yes, he's sleeping
with his shoes on because I refuse to allow him
to sleep any other way, otherwise it would stink up
your whole place.

Speaker 2 (22:41):
Oh well, then she sounds Funah, it was.

Speaker 8 (22:44):
Thankfully they're no longer together and it's been years and
years since she dated him. But it was really bad,
really really bad.

Speaker 2 (22:53):
I have no idea, Like, what.

Speaker 8 (22:55):
Does he not change his socks?

Speaker 2 (22:57):
Is he not?

Speaker 8 (22:57):
What change your shoes, dude, Like, do something. I have
no idea how that happens.

Speaker 2 (23:04):
Of all the remedies there are out there to deal
with stinky feet, keeping your shoes on is not one
of them.

Speaker 1 (23:09):
That's probably the worst. It It just harbors everything in
there and doesn't keep the smelling.

Speaker 8 (23:18):
I can't imagine shooting someone in the face over it, though, again,
how stinky, right, that's the question.

Speaker 2 (23:26):
Woman arrested after all you can eat dispute. This happens
in Indiana at the Portage Indiana Applebee's. An unidentified twenty
eight year old woman was charged with disordly conduct after
a verbal disturbance was reported. It seems that the confrontation
erupted based on the misconception that if one person at
the table ordered the all you can eat deal, it

(23:49):
was good for the entire table. Reportedly, words were exchanged
when the manager told them that each person would have
to pay fifteen ninety nine for the deal. This was
evidenced by the Applebee's menu, which clearly advertised the deal
as per person. Yeah you can't do that, man, I
think everybody knows that. Yeah, everybody knows that it's not
for the table. No, just one buffet please.

Speaker 1 (24:11):
Well, if you get one buffet at one plate, but
everybody eats off that one plate, you see what I'm saying,
they're not really I mean, I mean they are breaking
the rules.

Speaker 2 (24:21):
Yeah. No, if I come to the table and everybody's
eating off one plate, that's not per you're clearly violating
the per person thing.

Speaker 1 (24:29):
They said they weren't hungry when we sat down, right,
I come in with all this delicious goodness, and now
they just want to pick up my food like a
bunch of damn seagulls.

Speaker 8 (24:37):
If you're the manager of the Applebee's and someone orders
the all you can eat buffet or whatever and they're
sharing it, not with the entire table, but they're sharing
it with. Let's say they're toddler. Are you complaining about that?

Speaker 2 (24:52):
How big is the toddler? I mean, how much are
they eating?

Speaker 8 (24:55):
Toddler? I would say is under four years old?

Speaker 2 (24:59):
Yeah? These big, fat ass kids.

Speaker 8 (25:01):
I mean average size normals highs toddler.

Speaker 2 (25:05):
You ever see a seventy pound three year old?

Speaker 4 (25:07):
Yes?

Speaker 7 (25:07):
Yeah, but no, not that.

Speaker 8 (25:11):
Uh No, I probably sitting in a high chair.

Speaker 2 (25:14):
If I'm the manager of an Applebee's, I'm probably in
the back contemplating life and how did I get to
the spot?

Speaker 8 (25:21):
My employees have enough flare on the back.

Speaker 2 (25:24):
They don't wear flair there, do they.

Speaker 8 (25:27):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (25:27):
I haven't been in a while. Yeah, I don't know
the last time I was on an Applebee's. Yeah, it's
been And I don't hate Applebee's, yeah exactly, It's just
never on my radar of places to go. And as
a matter of fact, in this moment, I can only
think of one. I'm an outback over Applebee's. Yeah, the

(25:49):
only one I know is down here, Yeah, down the
street next to the outback. Yeah, you're right. Yeah, I
don't know where there's another Applebee's. Nope, Nope, I want
to say there's one on seventy first there used to
be yeah, yeah, but now I think it's Bob's Tacos
or something, Bob's Tacos and Boba Ti. I don't know.

(26:14):
It's like a comba. It's a combo thing. I don't
know what it is. Yeah, I can't think of the
last time. And like their London broil is pretty good.
Their chicken wings are pretty good. The Kisa dias are
pretty good. Their beverages work. Yeah, it's all just all right.
I want to know what the applebee is.

Speaker 1 (26:33):
All you can eat was yeah, yeah, because I didn't
know they had it all you can eat option because
they're not like a buffet.

Speaker 2 (26:39):
Like like like the GC. Right, huh, yeah, I don't
know what they're all you can eat? Oh here it
is all you can eat dining only, limited time fifteen
ninety nine. All you can eat, no to go orders,
limited price and participation varies, no substitutions offer valid per

(26:59):
person per order, no sharing, especially for seventy year old
seventy pound four year olds. Yeah, it just says all
you can eat. It doesn't say what is in the
all you can eat? That's no good.

Speaker 8 (27:13):
Yeah, come on, yeah, maybe it was something that she
didn't want, So that's why she was like, here you
have it all.

Speaker 1 (27:19):
You can eat boneless wings, riblets and shrimp. Oh yeah
for fifteen ninety nine double crunch shrimp tender riblets.

Speaker 2 (27:31):
Applebee's favorites boneless wings. Is that doing it for you?

Speaker 8 (27:33):
Red Lobster put that on their menu. Do you can
eat shrimp? And look what happened to them?

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Speaker 2 (28:14):
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Speaker 8 (28:41):
The Minnesota Vikings are bringing in a Pro Bowl cornerback.
The team signed Stefan Gilmore to a one year deal
on Sunday. Gilmore's deal is worth ten million dollars with
seven million of that being guaranteed. The Vikings cornerback room
was thin after rookie corner Kyrie Jackson was killed in
a car accident last month, shortly after a second year

(29:02):
corner Makai Blackman tour his ACL in training camp. Gilmour
is a five time pro bowler, but he is playing
for his fifth team in five seasons. The thirty three
year old had two interceptions and a forced fumble in
seventeen games with Dallas last season, and the.

Speaker 2 (29:19):
Wouldn't given mind this with the Vikings. Yeah, this is
the last five weeks. Cornerback passes away, starting wide receiver
gets the UI starting quarterback tears his ACL on the
first day of practice, other starting quarterback, a cornerback gets
hurt the second day. First round quarterback tears his meniscus
out for season, and starting wide receiver carted off the
practice field during their game.

Speaker 8 (29:38):
Yeah, it's not looking good for it.

Speaker 2 (29:40):
It's not looking good for them. It's been rough, not good.

Speaker 8 (29:43):
Yeah, the Raiders have named their starting quarterback. Vegas coach
Antonio Pierce announced that veteran signal caller Gardner Minshew will
begin the year as the team starter behind center. Minshew
signed a two year, twenty five million dollar contract with
the Raiders this offseason after spending last year suiting up
for the Colts. He passed for three thousand, three hund

(30:05):
five yards with fifteen touchdowns and nine interceptions through seventeen
games and thirteen starts last season. The twenty eight year
old beat out second year qb aid And O'Connell for
the starting job. However, the Raiders remained winless this preseason.
They lost to the Dallas Cowboys twenty seven to twelve
on Saturday at Allegiance Stadium and Gardner Minshew completed ten

(30:27):
of twenty one passes for ninety five yards, while Aidan
O'Connell was fourteen of twenty for ninety six yards, one
touchdown and an interception. Harrison Bryant found the end zone
on a five yard pass from O'Connell in the third quarter.
Daniel Carlson was two for two on field goal attempts.
The Raiders are now zero and two. They host the

(30:48):
fourty nine Ers in their preseason finale on Friday night.

Speaker 2 (30:52):
I'm then being o in two means nothing. It means zero, right,
It's so they haven't been winless, Yes, they just aren't.
They're not worried about winning. They're not trying to win games.
It's like the end of the right before halftime of
the forty nine ers game yesterday, when it's like fourth
and goal and they got the fascinator in there and
he's like, oh, yeah, let's go for it. They would

(31:15):
never do that in a game. No, No, it's freezy,
it's good practice. Yeah.

Speaker 8 (31:21):
The Tampa Bay Buccaneers have released pass rusher Randy Gregory.
He never reported a training camp and was found.

Speaker 2 (31:28):
It's like they didn't release him, they just closed the loop.

Speaker 8 (31:30):
Yeah. He was fined just over a million dollars for
the absences. He's suing the NFL and the Denver Broncos
saying they were not allowing him to take the drug
DRAWNA Binnell. The linebacker is prescribed the medication for social
anxiety disorder and post traumatic stress. Buck's head coach Todd

(31:53):
Bowles says he does not know why Gregory did not
show up to training camp.

Speaker 2 (31:58):
Yeah, that means they couldn't even like his agent wouldn't
even talk unless he's dealing with so much mental stuff.

Speaker 8 (32:06):
Yeah, could be.

Speaker 2 (32:08):
And so he's saying that they wouldn't pay for medicine
that he needed.

Speaker 8 (32:12):
They're not allowing him to take it.

Speaker 2 (32:14):
Yeah, but he says he needs it and they're like, no, no,
you're good. That's messed up, man. Yeah.

Speaker 8 (32:22):
Yeah, unless there's something in that drug that is against
NFL policy.

Speaker 2 (32:28):
Right, something that makes it a performance enhancing right, right.
I mean I feel like the doctors would there's another
option then, right, maybe unless there's not. No, But I'm
saying that, like they find ways around that when you
need something, but like, hey, we can't take pseudo fed
because of this, right, Like, oh, well, we can give

(32:49):
you this instead to kind of deal with some of
the symptoms exactly.

Speaker 8 (32:53):
And that's your balls to the Wall sports. I'm Wendsay
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Speaker 1 (33:50):
Good morning Gimpie, Well, good morning Gorban. We're just two
weeks away from Rocklaholm at Labor Day weekend prior USA.
Get your link for tickets and your full lineup at
kmod dot com. All right, let's do best and worst
of the weekend. What's the best thing that happened this
weekend and the worst thing that happened this weekend? You
can send your text, bmms and whatever that is to
eight two, nine four five, or you can call it

(34:12):
nine one eight four six O kmod Best and worst
of the weekend, lindsay what's the best and what's the worst?

Speaker 8 (34:17):
Saturday was probably the best it was meet the Red
Hawks at Tuttle Stadium. And I am a Mamahawk now.

Speaker 2 (34:24):
Since explain what all that means for everybody on the lingo.

Speaker 8 (34:27):
Yeah, Mamahawks is a program for the moms of football players,
and we are responsible for like feeding the players and
uh just organizing events for the kids and just really
being a part of the football team and answering questions
for parents and things like that, and just really being

(34:50):
involved and selling shirts. And I got to see and
be a part of it for the first time, really,
and it was a lot of fun. It was a
long day and it was a hot day. But it
was really neat because the kids all scrimmage from eighth
grade to varsity, and it was They had food trucks
out there, and it was really neat to see the

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underclassmen joining the varsity team for the first time, and
they have to sing the alma alma mater for union
and they don't know it. They learn it that day
and so they are just on the field not knowing
what the hell they're doing, and then the upper classmen
come in and show them how it's done, and it's
just a really good day.

Speaker 2 (35:34):
The worst.

Speaker 8 (35:37):
Marcus is in eighth grade, so he's scrimmaged with his class.
He didn't sing the song. It's the it's the freshmen
that go on and sing, Oh okay, yeah, he's not
a varsity player. And then the worst part was the
heat watching the scrimmages. I stood up and I had
sweat running from places I had no idea existed on

(35:59):
my body.

Speaker 2 (36:00):
It was so hot.

Speaker 8 (36:02):
I think I went through a gallon of water by myself.
On Saturday. I was out there from one till in
the afternoon until nine at night, and oh.

Speaker 2 (36:11):
We were there from one until nine? Why? Yeah, because
I mean the game is that long.

Speaker 8 (36:16):
No, there's just a lot going on, meeting the team,
selling merchandise, and then scrimmages throughout the day from eighth graders,
ninth graders, then varsity teams. So it's just a long day,
but totally worked. There was a lot of fun. Just hot,
just hot.

Speaker 2 (36:32):
Best and worst the weekend? What's the best thing that
happened this weekend? And the worst thing that happened this weekend?
Bmms and whatever that is to eight two, nine four
five or nine one eight four six? Oh kmod gimbi?
What's the best and what's the worst?

Speaker 1 (36:42):
I want to say the best would be Saturday night,
my girl and I got together with some friends went
and watched Josie Scott at the Shrine. That was pretty awesome.
Always puts on a killer show. So yeah, the worst
about the weekend, it has to be the heat.

Speaker 2 (36:59):
Man.

Speaker 1 (37:00):
Honestly, the weekend was pretty good except for the god dang.
He tried to play some disc golf Friday, right and
this like eleven o'clock in the morning. You think it
would be all right, got through maybe seven eight holes,
not even a full nine, right, and it was just
like done, done, I can't do this.

Speaker 2 (37:22):
I just had to call it quits. It was so
freaking out. Best and worst of the weekend. What's the
best thing that happened this weekend and the worst thing
that happened this weekend? Best part of the weekend was
just a nice long weekend. The kids went to school
on Friday, and then my wife and I went and
did like brunch, which was fun and uh yeah, it

(37:42):
was just nice. My wife and I hadn't got to
do that in a while. I got beerra breakfast, nachos okay,
so good, so good, and then we got some a
cinnamon roll, but the cinnamon was Friday. And then the
ice on it brilliant. Yes, So that was the best.

(38:05):
Worst part of the weekend would be that also happened
on Friday morning, and I got word that a friend
of mine died. And actually the person has a connection
to the show because he tried out for the show.
If you remember Ian, he tried out for the show.
He apparently got sick and died. Wow, And I haven't
gotten much more on the illness and what He was

(38:28):
not much older than me, he was only fifty sick
fifty four, And yeah, it's kind of weird. So it's
amazing how many times I've been around people that have
died that have been close to me, and each time
it feels like a kick in the balls.

Speaker 1 (38:44):
Yeah, and it's just weird, just a weird thing. And
I'm actually thinking about going to the service for this one.
So okay, Yeah, it is weird when they're like close
to your age. Now, wow, it was like elderly people.
I'm like, okay, you want a good life, but you know,
fifty fifty five, it's like, holy cow, that could be us.

Speaker 2 (39:06):
Yeah, well well, and I think it's also different when
it's like your parents or your grandparents or whatever, like
you already in the mindset that they're gonna pass away, right,
like you know that's gonna happen. When it's somebody you've
you know, shared beers with and concerts with and all
that other stuff, and then you're like, oh, it just
it lands a little differently than like your parents or

(39:28):
an aunt or an uncle or a grandparent, right like that.
So best and worst the weekend? What's the best thing
that happened this weekend? And the worst thing that happened
this week, And this says the Best got baptized yesterday,
Worst got baptized. What could be bad? Hey, listen, I
love a good mulligan. Yeah right, wash all that away.

(39:49):
Best got to record a show in Oklahoma City Saturday.
In Oklahoma Indigenous hardcore band had a new EP release
and it was thick. They served fry bed yum. Now
you might in Best, Best might have to be might
have met the love of my life a few weeks
ago and stayed over after the show. He has a bedframe, headboard,

(40:11):
and throw pillows. Sounds like a keeper. I like how
pillows determine that well. And a headboard and bedframe that
means there's a track record of not right. That's it.
Next guy is gonna have a headboard shift the stars right.

(40:32):
Worst probably just the three cops coming to the show
Saturday because some kid called his dad because he got
kicked out for fighting. I mean, cops doing cop things.
Best raised close to nineteen hundred dollars for a fundraiser.
Worst the boots I thought were waterproof weren't. I had

(40:52):
about three hours of walking around in wet socks and boots.

Speaker 8 (40:56):
Gross.

Speaker 2 (40:58):
Right, that is a gross wet socks is the war.
Worst part was having to id my cousin's body to
the cops until his fourteen year old he was gone
after an apparent fentanyl poisoning. Best part was I still
had the bottle of JW Blue. I forgot to put
in that big ass package for Gimpie. Sorry, bro, I'll

(41:20):
get into you next time. The weed book and shirts
will have to do for now. Yeah, that sucks. Best.
My kid is back in town, so I didn't have
to mow. Worst flopped onto my bed on the new, colorful,
new quilt that perfectly hid the pile of cat vomit.

(41:41):
I landed in reason number six hundred and seventy three
to have a cat Yes, and you couldn't smell it? Right?
I don't know you the only one with a cat lander. Yeah,
I don't know.

Speaker 8 (41:58):
I don't think it really does have an odor to it.

Speaker 2 (42:01):
It's not dog vomit does. I feel like all vomit does.

Speaker 8 (42:05):
It's really not much of of vomit as it is,
like more like cat hairball or you know it's coming? Yeah? True?

Speaker 2 (42:18):
Is it?

Speaker 7 (42:18):
Is?

Speaker 2 (42:18):
It happened so often? Cat owners? Does it happen so
often that you're just not used to this, like this's
not a new thing.

Speaker 8 (42:26):
You're like, oh, yeah, Actually, Bruce doesn't really puke up
that much at all. Maybe once a month maybe, and
it's usually just like water, like he's drink too much
water too quickly.

Speaker 2 (42:43):
Uh, it can be. I just logged in. Are these
people on? Have you talked to these people? Oh?

Speaker 6 (42:48):
No?

Speaker 2 (42:48):
Okay? Best part was getting a dating floor jack from
Harbor Freight in orange, which is my favorite color. Whereas
it is dealing with three year old's altitude, sorry, attitude
and my old lady's mom all weekend. So three year
old attitude? Ah, you're three? Yeah? Is he out gunning you?

(43:15):
He's he's three? And your old lady's mom. That's cliche too, right, Yeah,
definitely my mother in law talking smack. Uh. Ryan is waiting,
Hey Ryan, how are you man?

Speaker 10 (43:29):
I'm doing great? How are you? Corbyan?

Speaker 2 (43:31):
What do you got for us?

Speaker 10 (43:33):
That's the weekend?

Speaker 7 (43:34):
Uh?

Speaker 10 (43:35):
Had watched UFC three h five. I know that you're
an MMA fan. Did you get to catch the event?

Speaker 2 (43:41):
I caught some highlights the next day. To me, Israel's
not He's not in it anymore, right, Like he just
didn't seem like his heart was in it.

Speaker 10 (43:49):
He definitely uh, you know, you could tell that the
rust of being off for a year definitely affected him.
He did not look like the same guy that we've
been watching for, you know, the last ten year.

Speaker 2 (44:00):
So yeah, he's a stud man. And then you see
him in there and you're like, well, who's this guy?
What's he? Why is he even being considered for a championship?

Speaker 10 (44:08):
Yeah, and the mistake that he made towards the end
of the fight was pretty uh elementary, I thought. Yeah,
and getting caught with with the uh with the joke
for sure.

Speaker 2 (44:19):
Dude, he went to all like when he got hit,
he went to all fours and the police. It was
ridiculous when he he goes here, fight fight me. Quit like,
fight me, and then proceeds to get choked out like
ten seconds later. You're like, ah, come on man, Yeah,
but listen, he's a stud. He's he's a stud for sure.

Speaker 10 (44:36):
Yeah, for sure. So that was a good card. And
then also went and saw that alien Romulus over the
weekend and I thought that was pretty good, kind of
bringing the franchise back to more of the horror element.
A pretty good movie.

Speaker 2 (44:49):
What happens in it that's so surprising.

Speaker 4 (44:53):
I don't know that.

Speaker 10 (44:54):
Anything super surprising. It's really more just kind of a
throwback feel. H I mean, it's got some cool action
sequences and things like that, but it wasn't necessarily the
most original movie. But it still had that that feel
of tension and whatnot that you kind of missed from
the franchise from the last couple of sequels.

Speaker 2 (45:16):
Ron, Ryan, have a great week.

Speaker 10 (45:18):
Yeah you too, rank you see later.

Speaker 2 (45:20):
Sherry's waiting. Hi, Sherry, how are you?

Speaker 4 (45:22):
I'm doing okay? How about yourself? Good?

Speaker 2 (45:24):
What's the best and what's the worst of the weekend?

Speaker 4 (45:27):
Well, the best was it wasn't so hot all the
worst it was too hot.

Speaker 2 (45:37):
I don't know, are you going through menopause? I mean
is it was tough to decipher if it was too
hot or hot? That's it. You got that right, okay,
because it was pretty hot the whole time. Yeah, all right, girl,
have the best week. Okay, you do the same, Never change,

(46:02):
all right, we gotta take good Morning. It's the big
mad Morning Show. Nine four six oh kmod.

Speaker 1 (46:27):
Well, Corbyn says here that's the Chicago Mayor's confidence security
plan for the DNC Mayor of Brandong and Johnson said
that the Chicago Police are working with the Secret Service
to maintain a secure convention. Johnson said the DNC welcomes
protesters expressing their First Amendment right and there would be
a place for them in Chicago. The twenty twenty four

(46:49):
d n C will be the twenty seventh time the
city has hosted the National Political Convention.

Speaker 2 (46:55):
Did he just challenge him? I think he did bring
it on? But bro, what else we got here?

Speaker 1 (47:03):
Texas health officials worn of spreading monkeypox virus YEP. Monkey Pox,
a viral infection that can cause fever, painful rashes, and
swollen lymph nodes. In the first half of twenty twenty four,
Texas officials recorded over one hundred and fifty cases, a
seventy six percent increase from the same.

Speaker 2 (47:21):
Period last year.

Speaker 1 (47:23):
This as the World Health Organization has declared a unique
strain of monkey pox not yet reported in the US
that has caused an outbreak in Africa, reading a public
health Emergency of International concern.

Speaker 2 (47:37):
I had to look because I had no idea about
the difference between monkey pox and chicken pox.

Speaker 1 (47:41):
Okay, and then one of you know, what is apparently
your lymph nodes. Swell, Okay, that's the only difference. Huh,
So you're still going to break out, you still get itchy?

Speaker 2 (47:51):
Yeah, okay, all the symptoms are the same, except with
monkey pox apparently.

Speaker 1 (47:56):
H Okay, interesting, what else we got here? Former Congressman
Santos to plead guilty to fraud charges. Multiple sources say
the New York Republican will enter his guilty plea at
a federal court room today on Long Island. Santos was
expelled from the House of Representatives last year and is
facing twenty three counts of fraud that allegedly took place
during his twenty twenty two campaign. Last fall, both his

(48:19):
campaign fundraiser and his former campaign treasurer accepted plead devils
on the fraud charges.

Speaker 2 (48:25):
Two things. One, I can't wait for the movie with
Tom Hanks and Leonardo DiCaprio about this guy. Two, this
is not sure if he's gonna show up. Really, he
said he would, but they're saying he's so flighty that
like we don't know what's gonna happen. He could show
up and then say now I'm not gonna say not guilty,
Like he's pretty insane, and the idea that he just
duped a bunch of people. It's a pretty impressive game

(48:49):
he played, like you know, side of hand. Yeah, not
that it's okay, he's totally get in trouble. But he
duped every He lied about everything. MM politicians lying no, no, no,
Like he lied about like his parents were in a
concentration camp. Like he lied about everything, not like hey,
I'm gonna help you get that school right, not like that.

(49:10):
What a diche.

Speaker 1 (49:11):
Lastly, here there's a boil order issued for Osage County
Rural Water District twenty one. The Oklahoma Department of Environmental
Quality has issued a boil oder boilorder for Oceage Water
District twenty one. The department says the boil order is
due to a treatment failure. Residents in Osage County Rural

(49:33):
Water District twenty one must use water that's been brought
to a full boil for at least one minute, or
bottled water for food preparation, dishwashing, and brushing teeth. The
department says residents will be notified when water is considered safe.

Speaker 2 (49:47):
But you can still bathe in it. I mean you
could keep your mouth shut. I mean yeah, in the
shower I think if you've got a boil order, like
you're gonna be stinky, it's fine, right, it's yeah. Women
go without washing their hair for like, you know, five
seven days or whatever. Time. It's fun. Not that long.
You have to wash your ass for five seven days.

(50:09):
You might not know, but women do. Is it supposed
to be like good for your hair, like oils or whatever?

Speaker 11 (50:15):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (50:15):
Yeah, yeah, but three tops for me three days. What
happens on day four?

Speaker 8 (50:21):
Oh, it's it's it's getting washed. Day three, it's getting washed,
because day four, my scalp would be extremely itchy, like dry, yeah,
like flaky, not flaky, just oh my, the itch would
just be terrible and the hair would be really greasy.

Speaker 2 (50:39):
How long have you gone so far? Because it's looking
pretty rough.

Speaker 8 (50:42):
No, it's not looking rough. I washed it yesterday morning,
you see it.

Speaker 2 (50:46):
I don't think you can do that. I don't think
you do. When someone gives an opinion about a look,
you can't really hold on hold on. When someone gives
a disagreement, like they're like, hey, you can't go No,
I mean it's their opinion.

Speaker 8 (50:58):
I mean it's not I'm just saying it's not dirty.

Speaker 2 (51:00):
It's just slept on.

Speaker 8 (51:02):
It's the problem, the problem with curly hair. It only
looks good the day one.

Speaker 2 (51:08):
Yeah, I know, terrible. I have that problem all the time,
right when you had hair. There is a solution. Cut it.
You want to complain, so you want to complaining? He
was you just complained about curly hair.

Speaker 8 (51:25):
Okay, I did a little. I guess you're right.

Speaker 2 (51:29):
Shave it off on the show. Let's do it tomorrow
back just fine. Of the things we do on the show,
what would you have to negotiate for us to shave
your head?

Speaker 8 (51:42):
A million dollars?

Speaker 2 (51:43):
Of the things on the show that we do that
you could get out of or not have to do,
what would it be to shave your head?

Speaker 8 (51:51):
There's no like.

Speaker 2 (51:52):
For example, let's just say, uh, you don't have to
play Taser Time Trivia for.

Speaker 9 (52:00):
A year.

Speaker 2 (52:00):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (52:01):
I was gonna say six months, thinking that was a
little too long, but I'm happy with the year. You know,
just let us just you never have to do sports again. Nope,
you never have to do Taser Time Trivia. You don't
have to do sports, and you don't have to do
your segment Nope, you don't have to come in nope.
Not shaving my head.

Speaker 2 (52:20):
I'll shave my shave your beard share why not? It
grows back, It grows back, and it's just hair, eyebrows.
Shave it all. I don't know about the eyebrow. I could.
I could get away with you. I get it. I
get away without the eyebrows. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (52:34):
I can totally do that because I wear a hair
most of time anyway, and my hat usually goes over
my eyebrows, so it's like whatever, fine, done.

Speaker 2 (52:42):
Yeah, hair grows back.

Speaker 8 (52:44):
It takes way too long.

Speaker 1 (52:46):
I'm just saying, you complaining. There's a solution, That's all
I'm saying. And you can always draw your eyebrows back
on too, and you just have different looks all the time.

Speaker 8 (52:53):
Great little squiggly lines. One day, a little caterpillars be nice.

Speaker 2 (52:58):
Well, yeah, we used to do that to our pit.
Some days should be shocked, some days very disappointed in Yeah,
why are you scowling at me?

Speaker 8 (53:19):
The Steelers are going to be without a member of
their offensive line for the foreseeable future. The Pittsburgh Post
Becausette reports that Pittsburgh Center in Nate Herberg is expected
to be sidelined for a significant amount of time after
suffering a torn rotator cuff. The twenty six year old
had been working with the first team throughout camp before

(53:39):
sustaining the injury last week. The Steelers are now poised
to start rookie center Zach Frasier to begin the regular
season next month. Herbig has played in sixty one career
games with thirty starts throughout his five year NFL career.
Did you have rotator cuff surgery before?

Speaker 2 (53:55):
Yeah? Yeah, and an impeding like a bone spur thing
in my shoulder tip. Yeah, It's not bad, but I'm
not trying to play football right, so it's a little different.
I didn't think the Steelers looked good. I mean, I
think Justin Fields looked like Justin Fields. He did not.
He missed a couple of plays, his passes were overthrown.
I didn't. He didn't look calm right like, So what's

(54:16):
interesting about him? Let's compare him to like bow Knicks.
I think Denver looks awesome and against preseason it is
what it is, but there is a sense of like
calmness happening, and bow Knicks has it. He looks like
he's been playing quarterback and the NFL for years. Well,
Justin Fields still looks like he doesn't know what's happening. Absolutely,
and even Caleb Williams I thought looked pretty good. I

(54:38):
thought there was a little bit of Caleb Williams happening.
He's like, oh, he's so mobile. That doesn't work well
in the NFL. He's gonna get injured. So yeah. I
didn't think Justin Fields looked calm. I didn't think he
looked good. I thought the forty nine ers looked crazy
good yesterday. Oh yeah, their backup a solid man. Yes,

(54:59):
but when he was in when he had to carry
the torch in Minnesota, if you remember, he did good
and then like he didn't do good. So yeah, we'll
have to see with that. But I thought they looked
I thought they looked good. I couldn't tell the Saints
were just rotating guys in and trying things or they
just weren't good. Well forty nine, well they're not good.

Speaker 8 (55:18):
Did pick up their first win of preseason. They beat
New Orleans sixteen to ten yesterday at Lay. Party completed
two of six passes for eleven yards in his very
short time on the field. Joshua Dobbs was twelve of
twenty one for one hundred and thirty three yards while
rushing for twenty five yards in touchdown. Jake Moody was
three for four on field goal attempts, with his lone

(55:42):
miss coming from fifty one yards out. The Niners are
now one and one, and they again visit the Raiders
in their preseason finale on Friday. Tennessee football landed a
big time recruit on Saturday, twenty twenty five offensive tackle
David Sanders has committed to the Volunteers. ESPN has Sanders
as a five star prospect and fourth in the class.

(56:04):
He is the top rated recruit and head coach Josh
Huple's tenure on Saturday. On Sunday, Tennessee picked up a
commitment from twenty twenty five linebacker Jaden Harmon. ESPN rate
Harmon as a four star prospect and one hundred and
twenty sixth in the class. He was previously committed to Alabama.
College football kicks off this weekend, and trash talk is

(56:27):
one thing. Backing it up is another. Last week, Miami
Dolphins wide receiver Tyreek Hill called out US Olympic sprinter
Noah Lyles, implying that he was faking being sick when
he took the bronze in the two hundred meter and
boasting that he'd beat Lyles man to man in a race.

Speaker 2 (56:45):
I know.

Speaker 8 (56:45):
And on Saturday, Lyles was asked about it by Shannon
Sharp and Chad Ocho Cinco on the Nightcap podcast, and
Lyles said, Tyreek is just chasing clout. But if you're serious,
Lyles is more than willing to meet Hill on the
track and settle it once and for all. So now
it's on Tyreek to make the next move.

Speaker 2 (57:06):
One, he ain't ever gonna do that during the season.

Speaker 6 (57:08):
No.

Speaker 2 (57:08):
Two, he would get smoked so bad. Yes, and three
he would only do it if he was gonna get paid. Yeah,
that's the only way he would ever do that, or
if he was smart, it would be the only way
he would ever do that, right because at least if
you lose, you still get paid.

Speaker 8 (57:24):
Truth.

Speaker 2 (57:24):
But if you lose and don't get paid, you just
look like you're running your mouth, which everybody knows Tyreek
Hill does and was like, Oh, Miami's going to win
a Super Bowl, sure, sure, And that's.

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All right, let's do Our listeners are awesome. We like
chatting with our listeners. They share their story with us
and on the phone with us right now, is Kat, Hey, Kat?

Speaker 8 (58:55):
How are you hello?

Speaker 2 (58:57):
Kat is not May married? And is married something that's
you'd like to do? You know some people don't like
getting married. Is that something would be on your radar?

Speaker 4 (59:08):
I mean, I'm not opposed.

Speaker 2 (59:10):
What do you need? Because we read something earlier where
someone was like, I need my man had a bed
frame and I was pretty happy about that.

Speaker 4 (59:17):
Just stability and respect.

Speaker 7 (59:19):
Man.

Speaker 2 (59:20):
Right on, you are quite the quite the entrepreneur there.
You have do so many different things. It says you've
been a former snake dancer. That's not a code word
for anything. You actually danced with snakes? Yeah, it was.

Speaker 4 (59:35):
Her name's Medusa. She was a Burmese python.

Speaker 2 (59:40):
And how long does a Burmese python get?

Speaker 4 (59:43):
And so right now she's fourteen feet, but when I
danced whether she was nine foot?

Speaker 8 (59:48):
Holy cow?

Speaker 2 (59:50):
And how did you get into dancing with snakes? Did
you start with like a gardener and then moved off
or like how does that work?

Speaker 4 (59:57):
So I've actually had that snake since I was about
eleven years old, and I started belly dancing when I
was about fifteen, and it just kind of went hand
in hand.

Speaker 2 (01:00:09):
Okay, those I did ever thought that those went together.
But why did you start belly dancing?

Speaker 4 (01:00:15):
It was kind of a form of physical therapy because
I broke my ankle in twenty fifteen and I used
it as a way to put pressure on it and
it just kind of stuck.

Speaker 2 (01:00:28):
Okay, sure. And then who bought you the snake when
you started snake dancing? My mother really?

Speaker 4 (01:00:36):
Yeah, a very supportive other.

Speaker 2 (01:00:38):
That's awesome. And I don't even know where do you
get a snake like that? How did you buy it?

Speaker 4 (01:00:43):
I don't know where exactly where she got it, but
I'm sure she had friends.

Speaker 2 (01:00:47):
Okay, and you also do fire breathing, and tell me
there's a connection between snakes and fire breathing.

Speaker 4 (01:00:56):
The snakes knows the dancing yet.

Speaker 2 (01:00:58):
Okay about fire breathing, how did you get into that?

Speaker 4 (01:01:02):
So I started spinning POI a long time ago, which
is like these led lights that are on rope space, right.
And then I went to a flow meeting on Riverside
a long time ago and somebody had the same thing
I had, but it was on fire, and I was intrigued.

Speaker 2 (01:01:18):
Yeah, I have seen this before. It seems very dangerous,
and obviously it's fire, so of course it's dangerous. But
how dangerous is it? Really?

Speaker 4 (01:01:27):
It's not hard to set your hair on fire? How
many times I've lost I've lost the myyebrows. Recently did
a photo shoot with brit Clement and during the photo
shoot I went to do I went to spit fire
and I I kind of messed up a little bit
and got lost some hair. It happens, but it's definitely fun.

(01:01:48):
It's a definite adrenaline rush, and that's kind of why
I do it. It's it's super fun and it looks
great in pictures too.

Speaker 2 (01:01:56):
How do you build up to it? Like what do
you start with? Do you start with like a match stick?
Like how do you what's the or do you just
jump right in?

Speaker 4 (01:02:05):
Uh So I kind of just jumped right in because
you really don't want to hesitate with fire because it's
not going to wait for you. So it's one of
those things where you just had to full send it
and hope for the best until you got practice. You
kind of start out spitting water to practice before you
actually move up to the oil you used.

Speaker 2 (01:02:23):
And where do you get the oil?

Speaker 4 (01:02:26):
You can get a hoppy lobby. It's just paraffin lamp oil,
scentless and odorless.

Speaker 2 (01:02:30):
And if you accidentally swallow some, do you like have
to get to the bathroom really fast.

Speaker 4 (01:02:37):
Don't recommend swallowing it, but yeah, definitely a rentile with
water and drink a lot of water and hope that
you don't get sick.

Speaker 2 (01:02:43):
Okay, and you don't have to share this because it's
how much can you make if someone pays you to
come do fire breathing?

Speaker 4 (01:02:51):
It all depends on how long they want me to.

Speaker 2 (01:02:53):
Do it for. Okay, what's the longest you've ever done it?

Speaker 4 (01:02:58):
Longest show I've ever done was an entire thirty minute set.

Speaker 2 (01:03:03):
And how much can that potentially pull in? Uh?

Speaker 4 (01:03:06):
I made probably about two hundred dollars off of it.
I'm not gonna share how much they act you have
paid me, but I made about two hundred tips off
of that one.

Speaker 2 (01:03:15):
Wow, that's cot and I'll just to And how long
have you been doing the fire About a year? What's
the next step do you want to do? Like swords
swallowing or something like that?

Speaker 8 (01:03:27):
Uh?

Speaker 4 (01:03:27):
Yeah, that's actually I was considering it, not sure how
to get into it, but that would probably be my
next step would be swords following.

Speaker 2 (01:03:34):
I mean, girl, your track record shows you just jump
in and figure it out.

Speaker 4 (01:03:38):
Right, Jack of All trades.

Speaker 2 (01:03:41):
Yeah. Uh, and it says exotic dancer. Does it? Do
you like exog dancer like on a like on a
stage at a club or would.

Speaker 4 (01:03:49):
You use that? I used to dance, yeah, club wise.

Speaker 2 (01:03:53):
And what was that like for you?

Speaker 8 (01:03:56):
Uhuh?

Speaker 4 (01:03:57):
It was it was mainly for the money, but I
also won a couple of po Olympics and I was
Miss Night Trips actually at one point, or runner up?

Speaker 2 (01:04:08):
How did you get talked into, you know, running from
Miss Night.

Speaker 4 (01:04:12):
Trips the competition came up and I signed up.

Speaker 2 (01:04:15):
You just were like, yeah, I'll do that.

Speaker 4 (01:04:17):
Yeah, I'll just I'll try it.

Speaker 2 (01:04:19):
And when you won? What was the feeling like?

Speaker 4 (01:04:22):
So there was a top three and I was second? Okay,
it was very cool. Well, we got roses, we got
a little slashes. It was pretty awesome. It was a
good feeling.

Speaker 2 (01:04:31):
Felt pretty special.

Speaker 4 (01:04:33):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:04:34):
And so after Night Trips do you go dance anywhere else?

Speaker 4 (01:04:38):
I was in Vegas for a little bit.

Speaker 2 (01:04:39):
Yeah. So you do well in Night Trips and you're like, hey,
I want to go to that next tier and try
to make more money, and you're like, Vegas it is Yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:04:47):
I had to try Vegas. I like to try everything
at least once.

Speaker 2 (01:04:50):
Yeah, so do you just pack up the car and
guard Did you have a connection to a club out there?

Speaker 4 (01:04:56):
I had no connection. It's got in the car and went, wow.

Speaker 2 (01:05:00):
How terrifying.

Speaker 10 (01:05:01):
What was it?

Speaker 2 (01:05:01):
So did you just pick a club when you got
there and walked in or did.

Speaker 4 (01:05:05):
You research before I went to Vegas? But yeah, I
basically just kind of picked the club, looked at the
pictures of it, was like that one looks good.

Speaker 2 (01:05:15):
Okay, So your threshold of where you were gonna go
dance in Vegas was not real high. No, didn't care
about the background the club was associated with or anything
like that. You just went, yeah, let's do it.

Speaker 4 (01:05:27):
Yep.

Speaker 1 (01:05:27):
Basically, did you ever look at any because you say
you did your research and you're just like, ooh, I
don't know.

Speaker 2 (01:05:33):
That one looks a little too sketchy. I shut her down. Yeah, sorry,
we lost you there, kat, I'm still here, okay. Gimby
was asking was there any you looked at and you're like, ooh,
that's too sketchy.

Speaker 4 (01:05:51):
Oh yeah. It was a double I don't remember the
exact street it was on, but it was by Freemont
Street and it was probably the size of a double
wat trailer and that I I was a hard pass on.

Speaker 2 (01:06:02):
Did you ever get propositioned or considered going to a brothel?

Speaker 4 (01:06:07):
No, never did, never had the desire to do it.

Speaker 5 (01:06:13):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:06:13):
Yeah, because it's a whole nother leap right.

Speaker 4 (01:06:16):
Yeah, that's a whole other level. And I was not
about that one.

Speaker 2 (01:06:19):
Yeah. How long did you dance out in Vegas?

Speaker 4 (01:06:22):
I was only out there probably six months?

Speaker 2 (01:06:24):
And what was the moment that made you decide I
want to go back home?

Speaker 4 (01:06:30):
So I was offered to pee on a guy and
it was one of those moments where I was like,
you know what am I doing with?

Speaker 3 (01:06:43):
I did it?

Speaker 7 (01:06:44):
But then I went on.

Speaker 2 (01:06:47):
How much did he offer?

Speaker 4 (01:06:50):
He took me to twenty five dollars.

Speaker 2 (01:06:54):
I gotta be honest. I can't say I blame you.
I probably said yes to I'd say yesterday maybe, So
get you do this, you get your twenty five hundred
dollars and you're like, Okay, this chapter feels like it's
written itself, not exactly.

Speaker 4 (01:07:10):
I was pretty I was pretty set up for that one. Yeah,
Vegas was a little Vegas was fun. Time to go home.

Speaker 2 (01:07:17):
It says here that it says to ask about Ballbuster
in Vegas. What's that?

Speaker 4 (01:07:21):
Oh my god? Yeah. So there was a gentleman that
would come in every Friday night lot clockwork at seven
o'clock and he had this super big fetish for being
kicked in the balls as hard as possibly human can
with heels on, and every time a girl would do it,
he'd give him a hundred dollars. And I used to

(01:07:42):
wear eleven inch heels. Wow, And I did it once
and I hurt him and he actually gave me two hundreds.

Speaker 2 (01:07:52):
Like that was good for him. He was very happy.

Speaker 4 (01:07:54):
Yeah, he was. It was I don't kink shame, but
man it was. It was a little odd, but to
each their own. Yeah, he was. I hope he's doing
well today.

Speaker 2 (01:08:04):
That's fantastic. So like even for your like ay oh.

Speaker 4 (01:08:10):
Anything.

Speaker 2 (01:08:11):
Yeah, it says here you're also into body mods. How
many body modifications do you have? So?

Speaker 4 (01:08:17):
I have thirty four piercings and a split tongue.

Speaker 2 (01:08:21):
Oh wow, okay, so thirty four piercings. Let me see
if I can figure it out. So ear ears for sure,
probably a couple of how many in each year?

Speaker 4 (01:08:32):
So I have five on my last year and three
on my right ear?

Speaker 2 (01:08:37):
Okay? So that's eight. I'm gonna guess nipples one one nipple,
all right, one that's not well.

Speaker 4 (01:08:44):
Yeah, why not the other because it fell out one
time and I never put it back here?

Speaker 2 (01:08:50):
Fair, Yeah, that sounds like a logical answer, actually, all right,
So then I'm gonna guess like, uh like lips, eyebrows, nose.

Speaker 4 (01:09:00):
Yeah. So I have four on my eyebrows, two on
the inside, two on the outside my bridge which is
right in between my eyes, all right, each side of
my nostril, I have five piercings on my bottom lip,
and my cheeks pierced, and then my split tongue has
a piercing on each side.

Speaker 2 (01:09:20):
Okay, so we're getting pretty close to the number here,
and then where else?

Speaker 4 (01:09:26):
Belly button? And then there's probably a couple that are
still open on my ear that just don't have rings
in them at the moment.

Speaker 2 (01:09:35):
Okay, what about your genitals used to and and did
it fall up too?

Speaker 4 (01:09:42):
And you're like, oh, well, that was a tragic boating
accident that they got ripped out.

Speaker 2 (01:09:48):
Did you say a tragic boating accident they did? Okay,
you should know what's going to happen next. What do
you mean a tragic boating accident. So you were in
a boat and what bouncing around or there was a
wreck and it came out.

Speaker 4 (01:10:05):
I was being pulled behind the boat on an inner
tube and we hit a wave a little too hard
and bottoms went flying and so did the jewry owl.

Speaker 2 (01:10:14):
Oh my goodness, ol. So you had a piercing ripped
out of you. I have, yeah, of your genitals? Was
it labia or the sea word?

Speaker 4 (01:10:26):
It was the sea word?

Speaker 8 (01:10:29):
On a scale of one in ten, What was the
pain level?

Speaker 4 (01:10:33):
So I'm riding the pen at eight because I face
planted in the water. So I think hitting the water
hurt just before I even realized that happened.

Speaker 2 (01:10:42):
And was there blood or were you like, oh I
think I'm good and then you went I feel lighter.

Speaker 4 (01:10:48):
The second one?

Speaker 2 (01:10:49):
Okay?

Speaker 8 (01:10:50):
Wow?

Speaker 2 (01:10:51):
Yeah?

Speaker 8 (01:10:52):
Were you like, thank god, this isn't the ocean.

Speaker 4 (01:10:55):
Yeah, basically no trick week.

Speaker 2 (01:11:01):
Did you tell everybody like, hey, I think I just
lost my piercing on my wow?

Speaker 4 (01:11:10):
Myself? Until later?

Speaker 2 (01:11:12):
Yeah, that's wild. Have you thought about getting it redone?

Speaker 4 (01:11:16):
No, I have no desire not after that?

Speaker 2 (01:11:19):
Was there a lot of blood?

Speaker 4 (01:11:22):
No? No? Really?

Speaker 2 (01:11:23):
Huh? What about the tongue splitting? What was the what
made you want to do that? M?

Speaker 4 (01:11:30):
So it was one of those things where I, well,
I already had my tongue gauged, so there was already
a giant hole in it. So I figured new body wave,
body model modification waves coming up. I was like seeing
the split tongues all over my Instagram and I was like,
you know what that looks awesome?

Speaker 2 (01:11:49):
Where do you go for someone? You got to go
to a doctor.

Speaker 4 (01:11:51):
I've been on your show before.

Speaker 2 (01:11:54):
Right, I remember? And so did you Where do you
go to get that done? So?

Speaker 4 (01:12:00):
I did mind myself drunkenly one night.

Speaker 2 (01:12:03):
Okay, so you decide to what, drink some whiskey and
then get a sharp knife.

Speaker 4 (01:12:11):
So it's it's a scalpel.

Speaker 2 (01:12:12):
Yeah, so you had a scalt You got a medical
scalpel to do this?

Speaker 4 (01:12:17):
Yeah. I was prepared to do it. I just needed
liquid courage.

Speaker 2 (01:12:21):
Yeah. How much did you drink? Oh?

Speaker 4 (01:12:25):
Goodness, probably at least a half a bottle of jamison?

Speaker 2 (01:12:30):
And how nervous? Did you do this by yourself? Or
do you have other people around you while you did it?

Speaker 4 (01:12:35):
I was socially, I was hanging out with some friends.

Speaker 2 (01:12:38):
Can you imagine like, Hey, come on over and we're
like drinking, Like, hey, by the way, I'm gonna split
my tongue today.

Speaker 4 (01:12:44):
What they kind of expected it with all the other piercings.
I mean, that was the first time I pierced myself,
so they it wasn't too much of a shock to
my friends. They were like, oh, that's just tat Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:12:57):
Listen, piercing your ear with a potato and uh a
lighter in a needle is a little different than splitting
your tongue.

Speaker 4 (01:13:07):
Yeah, I guess.

Speaker 2 (01:13:08):
So did it bleed a lot?

Speaker 6 (01:13:10):
No?

Speaker 4 (01:13:10):
No, I didn't really no. And the healing was fine.
The mouth is the fastest healing organ, so the healing
was like two days.

Speaker 2 (01:13:20):
And what kind of we gotta be careful because we're
on the air, But what kind of cool tricks can
you do with a split tongue?

Speaker 4 (01:13:27):
I can pull a straw out of a drink and
hold it with my tongue.

Speaker 2 (01:13:33):
And how many guys are turned on by the fact
that you do you have a split tongue and think
there's some they want you to I don't know, show them, Okay, sure,
I would imagine. I would imagine how many girls are
turned on by it and want to see what you
can do one of them? And have you have you

(01:13:56):
he doesn't have to say which gender, but have you
practiced this to see if there is a benefit and
it is enjoyable.

Speaker 4 (01:14:02):
I'm in a very happy relationship, so let's a yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:14:08):
I would imagine. And these are all very interesting things,
but not the most interesting thing at least. I think
about you. You do taxidermy?

Speaker 4 (01:14:16):
I do, Yeah, how to run living bad arts taxidermy?

Speaker 2 (01:14:20):
And how did you get into this?

Speaker 4 (01:14:22):
So I wanted to be a mortician, and between all
the body mods and my appearance that it just wasn't happening.
So I went with the second best thing, Sure, And how.

Speaker 2 (01:14:32):
Much apprenticeship or studying or practicing did you have to
do before you could really start doing this?

Speaker 4 (01:14:40):
So I did it as a hobby for about five years,
and then people actually started like I would have it
hanging in my house or I have a skunk skull
in my car and people would see it and they'd
be like, where'd you get that? And be like, I
made it, And then people started wanting to buy it.
So I got into looking into the pyramits and the
classes and kind of full sent it.

Speaker 8 (01:15:00):
What is the biggest animal that you've stuffed?

Speaker 4 (01:15:04):
Biggest animal I've stuffed so far would probably be a coyote.

Speaker 2 (01:15:09):
Okay, is there an animal you won't stuff?

Speaker 4 (01:15:15):
No? Not really, I won't do. I mean I've done
a couple of dogs for people whose dogs that have
passed away, so there's really not much I won't do.

Speaker 2 (01:15:23):
And those dogs, how much did you charge them to
stuff Fido?

Speaker 4 (01:15:28):
Depending on how big the dog was? Yeah, yes, there
was a I did probably last year and I charged
to seventy.

Speaker 2 (01:15:36):
Five two and seventy five dollars. And how long does
it take to remove all the organs and then stuff
it with the stuff you get at hobby lobby?

Speaker 4 (01:15:47):
From about hour and a half. There's things you get
that don't come from hobby lobby?

Speaker 8 (01:15:51):
Oh right, right?

Speaker 2 (01:15:53):
And what do you do with the disposed carcass like
the innerds?

Speaker 4 (01:16:00):
Uh? Disposed of? Like?

Speaker 2 (01:16:02):
Do you just throw it? I'm just I have no idea.
Do you just throw it in the trash?

Speaker 4 (01:16:06):
Yeah? Basically, I mean do you have your basically like
it's like zip blocks on crack so they have bags
to where you can put like human or not human?
Lord ha mercy bodily organ.

Speaker 2 (01:16:19):
That was a weird slip.

Speaker 4 (01:16:23):
Okay, there's biohazard bags that you use and then you
put those in the field bags and then throw it out.

Speaker 2 (01:16:30):
Right, They are special bags for to put that stuff. Yeah,
And what's the weirdest item you've ever stuffed?

Speaker 8 (01:16:38):
Uh?

Speaker 4 (01:16:38):
So I didn't stuff it. It's actually sitting in a
wet jar. But it's a kitten.

Speaker 2 (01:16:44):
I have seen those in wet jars before.

Speaker 4 (01:16:46):
Yeah, I have a kitten in a wet jar. And
then I have a rat pelt that is on a
picture frame because I didn't know what else to do
with it.

Speaker 2 (01:16:53):
Yeah, what is like the sought after item as a
taxidermist you would like to have? Like, I know, shrunken
head are kind of a thing, but like, what is
for you that you sought after collectible or item in
the tax dermy world you would like to own?

Speaker 4 (01:17:10):
So in a museum right now, there's a mom of
five human hand and I would love to have that.
But animal WISEE probably a bison.

Speaker 2 (01:17:21):
Okay, what's the oddest thing you own as a collectible?
Because we even went down a rabbit hole one time.
You can actually buy human skeletons online. Yeah, yeah, So
what's the oddest thing you own, honest thing I own.

Speaker 4 (01:17:33):
I have an Asian hissing cobra stuff above my bed.

Speaker 2 (01:17:38):
An Asian hissing cobra stift above your bed.

Speaker 4 (01:17:43):
Why it's black and white and it's actually it's about
five and a half feet long, and it's it's gnarly.

Speaker 2 (01:17:52):
And how much did you pay for that?

Speaker 4 (01:17:55):
I actually caught it for free. I have a friend
in Thailand that sent it to me.

Speaker 2 (01:17:59):
Not a phrase I can say, right, I have a
friend of Thailand. Have you ever been to Thailand?

Speaker 4 (01:18:04):
I have not? Okay, I plan on it though, all right?

Speaker 2 (01:18:08):
And then finally here it says that you're hosting oil
Wrestling at Roklahoma. Tell us more about this.

Speaker 4 (01:18:15):
So on the Saturday of Wrocklahoma. This will be my
fourth year doing it. This year, Prior Liquors from Money
left Field is sponsoring me. He's providing the winners prizes.
But we take sixteen women and sixteen men and narrow
it down to one and there's no kicking, no hunting.
It's all in good fun. You wrestle. We have a
guest rest free this year. He's gonna be making sure

(01:18:38):
everybody stays safe and nobody actually gets hurt. But winners
they get to get a swag bag and all that stuff,
and it's it gets pretty messy. Not gonna lie.

Speaker 1 (01:18:54):
Is it like baby oil? Or is it like Crisco?
All of What are we talking about here? Why every time?

Speaker 2 (01:19:04):
Personal? Yeah? Sorry we lost you there again? What kind
of oil do you guys use?

Speaker 4 (01:19:10):
Baby oil?

Speaker 2 (01:19:12):
Okay? How much baby oil do you have to buy
to do a wrestling an oil wrestling event?

Speaker 4 (01:19:18):
Costa's my best friend on that one. So they I
try to fill at least a five gallon bucket if
not to wow.

Speaker 2 (01:19:27):
Okay, So I'm if I'm a female, I'm guessing it's
females and you're listening and they want to participate. How
do they they're gonna be at Oklahoma on Saturday. How
do they get a hold of you to say I
want to be a part of this.

Speaker 4 (01:19:39):
So it's after the headliner on Saturday night, and so
we take sixteen. It's the first sixteen women and sixteen
men that show up.

Speaker 2 (01:19:49):
So men can do it too.

Speaker 4 (01:19:50):
Yes, there's men's winners too, so the men each other. Yes.
So this is my fourth year doing it, and last
year is when we introduced men into it because the
men felt left out.

Speaker 2 (01:20:06):
So you had some men going, I want to wrestle
another man with oil all over my body.

Speaker 4 (01:20:11):
Yes, and it happened, and they want a bottle of moonshine.

Speaker 2 (01:20:14):
No judgment there, I mean, I can I can think
of a few guys who if a bottle of moonshine's
on the line, will probably do a lot of things.
And I would imagine the Because women oil wrestling's got
a sexual connection to it, men oil wrestling feels more
like a Benny hillskit. Just comical.

Speaker 4 (01:20:32):
Yeah, it's very comical. It gets brownie and yeah, like
with the prizes, so prior liquors are sponsoring the prizes
this year. They're so in moonshine merch. It's gonna be awesome.
We got a referee, it's me and a girl named
Christy Grosser wrestling first to start off the night as
whoever wins that we're donating to Rockovet. So we're going

(01:20:54):
to donate to where Rockavet gives a chance for veterans
to go to Orocklahoma.

Speaker 2 (01:20:58):
So you're awesome, Thank you so much for talking with us.
And that's so cool. You're putting on the oil wrestling
at Rockklahoma. And good luck with the taxidermy and all
those other things you have. That's like there's a lot
going on here. You're easily one of the more diverse
people we've had on in a while. That's got so
much going on, we didn't even get to everything. So

(01:21:18):
thank you so much for chatting with us.

Speaker 10 (01:21:21):
Thank you all right, ket have a great day, me too.

Speaker 2 (01:21:24):
You later. You a sign up giving oil wrestling you
want to no, no, I challenge you. I'm calling you now.
I need my men dry when I wrestle with that.
Gotta take a break. We'll be back.

Speaker 9 (01:21:38):
More of The Big Men Morning Show is next ninety KMOD.

Speaker 2 (01:21:58):
Good morning, It's The Big Man Morning Show. Six o KMOD.
You can also text bmms and then what you want
to say to eight two nine four five. We've all
seen the movie The blind Side. I think are well
aware of what that movie is about. And it came
out last year that Michael Orr was suing the parents

(01:22:24):
quote unquote for taking advantage of him. Right, yeah, and
some have written him off as being ungrateful. But when
you start, he did an interview with The New York
Times and it came out over the weekend, and when
you start reading some of the things that this family did,
it doesn't feel genuine. It doesn't feel like they were honest.

(01:22:47):
As an example, they said that he was their adopted son.
They never adopted him, so they kidnapped him and forced
him to live with him. She says that I never
used the because in their their book, the book that
came out before the movie the movie, she says adopted,
And she says she didn't mean that term in the

(01:23:09):
literal way she meant, right, She says, I mean it
like he was felt like he was, he was a
part of our family, right, Okay, Well, that you can't
just change the word that way. You implied that he
was adopted. When you say the word adopted, I think
we all agree that that means I have legally taken
this child on as my own exactly. Absolutely. And also

(01:23:32):
is displayed in the book that he when he became
the number one recruit, that he lived in the home.
That is not true in the movie. And I'm not
sure on the book, but in the movie it is
depicted that they found him on a bench. That is
not true either. I thought he was walking down the roof,
ye sitting in the rain. That is none of that's true.

(01:23:53):
He apparently was already playing football. He had stayed with
the coach for a while, and then he came to
stay in their home, which happens in sports groups on
a certain level, where really good athletes will stay with
coaches and other players parents and stuff like that, right,

(01:24:14):
and especially like in the basketball world. And he says
that all this ruined his stock value. The book ruined
his stock value. He says the movie in the book
depicted him as dumb. Matter of fact, in one of
the interviews to play football in the NFL, he was
asked if he even knew how to read a playbook,

(01:24:35):
and he was like, yeah, I know how to read
a playbook. And he now hast kids. They put a
conservatorship on him when he turned eighteen, but never proved
any medical disability that negated his ability to make decisions
or take care of himself. And it only got dissolved
two years ago. He's thirty six, by the way, So

(01:25:00):
that's what it was.

Speaker 8 (01:25:01):
It wasn't an adoption, it was a conservatorship.

Speaker 2 (01:25:04):
After that happened when he turned eighteen, he moved in
with them, like in his junior year, I think, so
there was a year and a half where he wasn't
but they even went to like Parents Night at Ole
Miss Yeah, I mean it was presented, and he says
he was constantly he was grateful, but he was constantly

(01:25:28):
in fear that people would judge him for speaking out
against all of it, which I can understand. Yeah, he's
a kid, right, And then they did the conservatorship, and
then it puts some things in the book that his
book came out to try and answer some of these things. Well,
they had a conservatorship, they could change all that, right,

(01:25:49):
It's a really bizarre thing. And they went on to
do speeches and a speaking tour at places like where
Maya Angelo has spoken before, had no room to really
be he was never adopted, and even like branded themselves
as the adoptive parents of Michael Arr. So essentially, this family,

(01:26:13):
they're just a bunch of fraudsters. And if I remember right,
he made no money, like barely any money on the movie,
like less than two hundred thousand dollars and the moves
about him. Yeah, right, I wonder how much they made
though I think that's the rub, right, how much did
the parents make as opposed to him, because you say

(01:26:33):
he didn't make that much, so we got something out
of it. Doesn't matter, said, Their litigation response is that
they have a right to tell their story of what
it was like to have to raise him. But if
it's all a sham, yeah, and if.

Speaker 8 (01:26:47):
He was under a conservatorship with them, how much of
his NFL contract went to them and not him?

Speaker 2 (01:26:54):
Yeah, I don't know. Yeah, good it's it is a
fascinating story. And you just remember that movie came out
and you're like, Gollie g these are good people. They
good people coming. Yes, just take I almost we can
talk with Jeff about it when he's in here at nine.
But conservatorships, though they aren't, that's not what they call

(01:27:16):
them in this state, and they don't really do them
in the state. That that should not be a thing. No,
that should not be a thing. And maybe I'm curious
to Jeff's take on why they should, and maybe they're
there's a good reason that I'm not thinking of. But
over and over again you see people getting taken advantage
of because of them, and I don't know of anybody like,

(01:27:36):
thank goodness, we had a conservatorship. Like I said, Jeff
will being here at nine, you got a question about divorce,
family law, custody, any of those things. He will be
here at nine. Get your question to a show at
KMOD dot com.

Speaker 9 (01:27:49):
Tulsa's Morning Show is coming right back. The show Tulsa's
rock Station nine KMOD.

Speaker 2 (01:28:17):
Good morning, It's the Big Mad Morning Show nine one,
eight four six, Oh k m O D. Get your
question in for Jeff Hensley of Hensley and Associates. Question
about divorce, custody, guardianship, any of those things. Make sure
you get it over to us. And I wanted to
look real quick because it just came down that Phil

(01:28:41):
Donahue has died. Yeah, no, I know that's how old
was he? Eighty three if I remember correctly. Oh, this
is Sally still alive. Just talking about old ass.

Speaker 8 (01:28:55):
You know, Elly Jesse Raphael.

Speaker 2 (01:28:58):
I think she died while back eighty eight. Phil Donahue
was eighty eight. Okay, Oh, Sally's eighty nine and she's
still alive. Fill live, Okay, All right, let's see what
Lindsay's got for Balls to the Wall Sports.

Speaker 8 (01:29:26):
So last Thursday, the Hokchua Girl otherwise known as Haley
Welsh throughout the ceremonial first Pitch in New York ahead
of the A's and Mets game. With nothing better to
do or pretend to be outraged about, hordes of heated
fans took to social media to bitch about it, though
many of those complainers would probably be hard pressed to
come up with one instance where they showed up early

(01:29:48):
to watch someone throughout a first pitch. On Friday, she
took to social media to address the controversy, pointing out
the main reason she was there to support America's Vet Dogs.

Speaker 2 (01:29:59):
The controvers she feels pretty loose.

Speaker 8 (01:30:01):
Yeah, they're an organization that works to provide service dogs
to first responders or veterans who have disabilities.

Speaker 2 (01:30:07):
How about this girl had a drunken statement she made
and this is why I don't think she's gonna work.
And she's like an awesome person. Yeah, Like she's literally
a good person. You see any interview with her, you're like,
you're not the girl, right, You're not that you don't
do it, but like, right, she's you expected you were

(01:30:29):
going to get this like a trashy girl. And I
don't mean that in a bad way, right, somebody whose
life is pretty much an S show. Yeah, fun, drunken craziness,
and she's a Gollie.

Speaker 8 (01:30:41):
G Yeah, and people are are are being mean to her.

Speaker 2 (01:30:46):
No, no, no, this story is a nothing burger to me.
This is a story that was generated by her pr
people to get her name in the press. Ain't nobody
cared that she threw out the first pitch? They know what?
People that were there, Yeah, they were booing. It was
a weird pit thrill though.

Speaker 8 (01:31:04):
Yeah, sure it was.

Speaker 2 (01:31:06):
No, it wasn't even it didn't even make it to
home play and she threw it to a front.

Speaker 8 (01:31:10):
But good for her for taking her fifteen minutes and
using it for the good. Sure, I guess honestly. And
that is your ball.

Speaker 2 (01:31:18):
So that's all you got for sports, not even sports.

Speaker 8 (01:31:21):
Okay, NASCAR Cup series where he's scheduled, that's not sports either.
Being pushed to Monday due to rain at Michigan International Speedway,
green flag for the fire Keeper's Casino four hundred is
gonna wave at ten o'clock this morning. Drivers will battle
in the third to last race of the regular season,
with the Round of sixteen playoffs set to take place

(01:31:42):
on September eighth. Kyle Larson, Tyler Reddick, Chase Elliott, Denny Hamlin,
and Ryan Blaney make up the top five in the standings.
That's your balls to the wall sports. I'm Lindsay at
ninety seven to five Kingmod.

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Your next one's happened at one and five. Keep listening,
Joys in the studio. Now is Jeff Hensley of Hensley
and Associate. It's good morning, John, Thank good morning, and
Jeff is here to answer in your family law question
you have and it can be anything from custody you guardianships,
name changes, adult guardianships, things like that, and a couple
of ways to get your question to us nine one
eight four six zh kmod nine one eight four six

(01:33:15):
oh kmod or you can text bmms and whatever that
question is to eight two nine four five. And we
were talking about Michael or earlier and that he had
a conservatorship put on him when he was eighteen. He
had no disabilities. The judge even made a statement of
he's she had never seen a conservatorship in forty three
years of practicing. That, uh, there was a conservators ship

(01:33:35):
put on somebody without a disability. Here's the question I
have for you. Yeah, are conservatorship's good? Can you think
of an example where they've been very beneficial?

Speaker 12 (01:33:44):
Well, so understand, we don't have conservatorships in Oklahoma. They're
basically the same as as a guardianship. Okay, that's kind
of our wording here in Oklahoma. But as far as
having one in place, you know that's been really good.
I mean, I mean obvious in situations where somebody is
for example, when kids right, so you know somebody is

(01:34:06):
being in a situation where they've been in danger or
harmed or neglected or something of that nature, where the
parents are unfit. Obviously, those are good things to have
when you're talking about adults. Anytime you've got what we
call an adult disabled child, which is somebody over the
age of eighteen who's unable to take care of themselves
at a young age for whatever reason through you know,

(01:34:31):
mental health issues or physical issues or whatever it may be. Obviously,
those kind of guardianships are great to have in place
to be able to help them and to make financial
decisions for him, because once they're eighteen, technically they have
to make those decisions for themselves, which is why we
get the guardianships. But when you're talking about these conservative
ships that we hear about on you know, the news
and media and things like that, you know, Britney spears right,

(01:34:53):
she had one forever. I mean, arguably, I think her
conservativeship was probably a good thing to control her career
and all the things that she did. I mean, she
obviously if anyone hasn't figured out since the conservatorship end ended,
I you know, if you haven't figured.

Speaker 7 (01:35:08):
Out she's got mental health problems.

Speaker 12 (01:35:10):
Obviously she's made a very apparent in my opinion, based
upon things that she posts and say, says and does.
But the idea behind a guardianship or conservativeship, as they're
calling them, is to make sure the individual that has
it on them is taking care of that they are protected,
that they are having financial decisions made for them because

(01:35:32):
they can't make them themselves, or they're being taken to
medical facilities or doctors because they're not being treated by
the person that their parents or whatever it's got their
care on them. So the idea behind guardianships are great.
I've never seen or heard of a guardianship or a
conservatives ship being granted on someone who doesn't have some
sort of issue.

Speaker 7 (01:35:51):
Because Michael Orr's howled.

Speaker 2 (01:35:53):
He's thirty six now and it just gotten dissolved two
years ago.

Speaker 12 (01:35:56):
Right, So I don't know why that happened. That seems
fairly strange to me. But again, remember it was that
in California. I'm guessing I didn't get chance to reach any.

Speaker 2 (01:36:04):
Not in the East Coast, so I think they lived
in Tennessee or something.

Speaker 12 (01:36:08):
Okay, So every state has its own rules and regulations
in regards to guardianships conservativeships, what they're used for, how
they're handled, laws may vary from state to state on this.
So maybe there was a certain point or a certain
thing that was done in Tennessee that was required or
something popped up.

Speaker 7 (01:36:25):
I don't know. I mean it's odd to me too.

Speaker 12 (01:36:27):
I'd be with the judge going if he's physically fine
and he has no mental health issues and he can
take care of himself and make his own decisions.

Speaker 7 (01:36:35):
Why do we need a conservatorship?

Speaker 2 (01:36:37):
What is the threshold? Like we talk a lot about
our parents, the worry of our parents being taken advantage
of financially, and how would you stop that? Could you
get an adult guardianship in our study?

Speaker 4 (01:36:50):
How?

Speaker 2 (01:36:50):
What is the threshold you have to prove to try
and take control of that situa?

Speaker 12 (01:36:54):
Well, I mean you have to show that they're in
some sort of harm. I mean, whether it be for
an adult, you know, financial harm or something of that nature.
I mean if someone is taking advantage of they've got
a friend living in or a caretaker that's living in,
and they're financially taking advantage of their accounts or whatever
it may be, because the person is too mentally gone
to understand that they're being taken advantage of. Obviously, those

(01:37:15):
kind of guardianships are what are what go into place.
So yeah, I mean there's ways to protect people for
that once if you find out it's happening, for sure,
if you're concerned about it down the road, we can
talk about it.

Speaker 2 (01:37:25):
And financial well being is an acceptable threshold as much
as health.

Speaker 7 (01:37:30):
I think so. Yeah, I mean that's what I've dealt
with personally in Oklahoma.

Speaker 12 (01:37:33):
Yes, I mean a lot of times, you know, nine
times out of ten it's going to be it's gonna
be health. But there are other issues that can tie
into that for individuals as they get older and start
they're not as they're mentally and things like that.

Speaker 7 (01:37:46):
For sure.

Speaker 2 (01:37:47):
Guardian ships are just one of the things that Hinsley
Associates does. If you have a question about any family
loss scenario, Jeff can answer it now nine to eight
four to six oho kmod or you can text BMMS
and whatever that question is to eight two nine four five.
This says, how hard would it be to adopt a
child who has no bio dad on his birth certificate
and I've been the only father figure in his life
since birth?

Speaker 12 (01:38:08):
Well, I would imagine mom probably knows who biodad is, okay,
and we can find out who that is and then
obviously try and get him noticed, and that she doesn't
for some reason, which does happen.

Speaker 7 (01:38:19):
Believe it or not.

Speaker 12 (01:38:20):
You know, obviously you can still happen. I mean, we
have other ways to serve by publication and things of
that nature. So it's not difficult at all. If you
don't know who the individual is or you can't find them,
we have ways to handle that in the state, provided
that through the statute, by publication and other things. So yeah,
if you're interested in that, give us a call.

Speaker 7 (01:38:40):
We can help you with that.

Speaker 2 (01:38:40):
The court does require an effort being made to conform
the blood father.

Speaker 7 (01:38:45):
That is correct.

Speaker 2 (01:38:47):
This says I'm not married to the mother of my kids.
How do I get some control? So I'm guessing this
is another scenario like we just talked about.

Speaker 12 (01:38:55):
Well, I mean, if you're not married and you're having kids,
I mean, that's fine, except to understand that under Oklahoma
law since November first of twenty eleven, the law has
been mom's got sole custody until dad does something about
it in a court of law. So dads who have
children that are born out of wedlock have zero rights
to their children in this state until they file in
a court, whether that be through administrative court for DHS

(01:39:18):
for child support or through district court to get custody, visitation,
things of that nature. So how do you get how
do you can control? You give us a call and
we file paternity action where we exert your custody and
visitation rights and have you adjudicated as dad legally. So
adjudication is nothing more than a legal term for have

(01:39:39):
a judge find you on a piece of paper to
be dad. I mean, that's that's dumbing it down, but
that's basically exactly what it is. Okay, So you have
to be adjudicated dad, and then once you've been adjudicated dad,
you've get the same rights as any other father that
was married that had children in Oklahoma.

Speaker 7 (01:39:53):
So that's how we do that, and that's how we
help you.

Speaker 12 (01:39:56):
Get I don't know what about control means, but at
least get you know, custody, visit, citation, and be involved
in the lives from a legal standpoint.

Speaker 2 (01:40:03):
Well, in all the years we've been doing this, this
is the number one thing that comes up and that
fathers are unaware that you have to prove you are
the father if you had a child at a wedlock.

Speaker 12 (01:40:15):
Absolutely, and it's it's you know, again, the laws that
used to be that way. When I first started, it
was on a fifty to fifty basis. There wasn't it
wasn't as difficult to prove and all sorts of things.
There wasn't many as many requirements. And then the legislature
changed the law on November one, twenty and eleven. I mean,
I remember when that came down and we all read

(01:40:35):
about that. We were all kind of like, wow, I
wean were really taken aback because it basically cut off
dads completely that had children out of wedlock from a
legal standpoint, where now they had to prove that they
were dad. Now understand that if either if the parties
agree that your dad okay, you don't have to take
a DNA test for a judge or anything like that

(01:40:56):
when we do the adjudication process. If both parties agree
that your dad no problem, okay, then you're still adjudicated dad.
There's just no DNA test that's required.

Speaker 2 (01:41:05):
Okay.

Speaker 12 (01:41:05):
But in the case is where you know you're not
sure your dad, we would do DNA tests and DHS
does the same thing and all that. But yeah, it became,
in my opinion, more difficult for dads with kids out
of wedlock on that date, and it's been that way
now for almost thirteen years. So that's the hell I
guess that dads that have kids out of wedlock that

(01:41:26):
they've been living in for thirteen years now.

Speaker 2 (01:41:28):
I know your answer is going to be it depends,
but how long does an adjudicating process take.

Speaker 7 (01:41:32):
Well, I mean the thing is is it does depend.
But I will say this.

Speaker 12 (01:41:36):
I mean, typically we try to get the person adjudicated
straight out the gate. That way, we've got adjudication done
and then we start dealing with the custody and visitation
and child support.

Speaker 2 (01:41:45):
So a separate thing that happens before the process.

Speaker 8 (01:41:47):
It can be.

Speaker 12 (01:41:47):
Yeah, absolutely, and DHS, I mean that's one of the
very first things they do when they do as wells.
Whenever they're doing their stuff and administrative quarters, they adjudicate
your dad and then they calculate the child support.

Speaker 7 (01:41:58):
So you know, if you've been adjudicated.

Speaker 12 (01:42:01):
Dad, and you don't think your dad, give me a
call and we can talk about those options.

Speaker 2 (01:42:06):
Too, right, And I think we should say this too,
just to wrap this up, and that well, my name's
on the birth certificate though, doesn't that make me the father?

Speaker 12 (01:42:12):
So in Oklahoma, being on the birth certificate and signing
an acknowledgment of paternity at the hospital. That only gives
you a presumption in Oklahoma that your dad. Okay, it
doesn't prove that your dad doesn't give you any rights
just because your name is there. That is just a
quote presumption in the state of Oklahoma that you are dad.
You still have to show the court or have the

(01:42:32):
party agree that you are dad to be adjudicated. You
still have to be adjudicated. You can't just say well,
I'm on the birth certificate, it's my kid. Well, that's great,
and the fact that you're involved in paying child support
and all these other things, that's awesome. But from a
legal standpoint, you have no rights until you've been adjudicated
by a judge to be the dad.

Speaker 2 (01:42:54):
Jeff Finsley's here from Hensley and Associates. Got a question
about divorce, custody, guardianship, name change, any of those things.
Jeff can help with a family law question nine one
eight four to six oh KMOD. You can text your
question BMMS and whatever that question is to eight two
nine four five, or you can call it nine one
eight four to six oh KMOD. So as I filed
for divorce three years ago and served my husband with papers.

(01:43:14):
He did nothing after that, and we tried to work
it out, but nothing, but never notified the courts of this.
I've received nothing from the courts and we are now
separated and want a divorce. He says, the divorce is
not valid anymore. We have a case number. Do I
need to file another divorce or can we just go
to the courthouse and sign the papers filed three years ago?

Speaker 7 (01:43:34):
So they're saying that paperwork they had was filed or
was not filed.

Speaker 2 (01:43:38):
U my husband was served, so that would tell me
that was filed.

Speaker 12 (01:43:42):
Yeah, okay, so the paperwork that was filed was probably
a petition. If there was no decree that was ever entered,
then that case number is still active, assuming the court
didn't dismiss the case. Sometimes the judges, at least in
Tulsa County, will go through and try to clean up
their the numbering that dockets to make sure, you know,
if there's cases that haven't been dealt with for years

(01:44:04):
because the parties have decided to reconcile and they've never
done anything of a dismissal, sometimes the courts will dismiss
those cases. But if the case number is still active.
We would still file under that existing case number.

Speaker 2 (01:44:16):
If you are in a situation where you're gonna try
and work it out, should you inform the courts?

Speaker 12 (01:44:21):
There's no need to simply because the court's going to
say okay, and they're not going to do anything about it.

Speaker 7 (01:44:27):
I mean that the court. The court doesn't have the power.

Speaker 12 (01:44:31):
If the parties are reconciling, and you finally do say, okay,
we've completely reconciled, we're gonna stay together, we're gonna stay married,
a dismissal needs to be filed at that point because
otherwise the.

Speaker 7 (01:44:41):
Case just stays open.

Speaker 12 (01:44:42):
And just just because you send an email to the
clerk that says okay, we're reconciling or we've reconciled, the
court's going to go okay. But you need to file
a dismissal if you want to shut that case number
down and shut that case completely down.

Speaker 7 (01:44:56):
So that's that's what needs to happen.

Speaker 12 (01:44:58):
If the case to answer her question, the case is
still open, use that case number because you're gonna save
yourself the filing fee.

Speaker 2 (01:45:06):
Jeff Finsley from Hensley and Associates is here. You got
a question nine one eight four to six, oh kmod
or text your question bmmass and then what you want
to say to eight two nine for five or email
like this one is says my has my has been
staying with her grandma.

Speaker 7 (01:45:20):
Husband, it's from kids have been staying.

Speaker 2 (01:45:23):
I'm guessing the past couple years. Can I get the
child supports switched over to her instead of the mother? Yes?

Speaker 12 (01:45:31):
I mean the DHS would tell you that the money
goes where the children go. Absolutely, so I just need
to contact DHS. If there's a DHS case and say, look,
grandma's been taking care of him, then child sport needs
to be moving to grandma.

Speaker 7 (01:45:45):
So, yes, the kids the money goes where the kids.

Speaker 2 (01:45:47):
Go another parent or grandma in this case. This isn't
uncommon that it feels like this could easily get lost
in the paperwork or one party or the other doesn't
do anything about getting the money moved to the It's
very common and is it an easy process? Yeah?

Speaker 12 (01:46:02):
I mean if you typically, what we do is we
contact DJs and say, look, you know the kids went
over to mom or to grandma's on this date and
Grandma's had them the last however many months or years
or whatever. So Grandma used to be receiving this child
support instead of Mom, who has no children living with
her and should not be getting that child support. That
child support and the money follows the children wherever they
go Grandma, grandpa, aunt, uncle, whatever. If it's for an

(01:46:25):
extended long period of time like this one is the money.
The money goes where the children go.

Speaker 7 (01:46:29):
Mom should not be unjustly enriched with child support if
she doesn't have the children.

Speaker 2 (01:46:36):
That makes sense. Yeah, this text says, do we need
a marriage license to get divorced?

Speaker 4 (01:46:41):
No.

Speaker 12 (01:46:42):
Now I'm assuming they're talking about maybe common law married.
I'm assuming that's what it means.

Speaker 2 (01:46:47):
You don't.

Speaker 12 (01:46:47):
I mean, obviously, with common law married, we don't do.
There's not marriage certificates.

Speaker 7 (01:46:53):
You don't have to prove.

Speaker 12 (01:46:54):
In other words, but let's say that they were married
and they had a license and they lost it, or
they got married outside of the United States down in
the Caribbean or wherever, and they don't have a license
and it's too difficult to get one. We don't present
marriage licenses to the court to prove we're married to
get divorced.

Speaker 7 (01:47:12):
It doesn't work that way.

Speaker 12 (01:47:13):
So, and I think I've talked about this before, where
we talked about you know, there's no national database for
the court to go through and look and see if
there was a marriage certificate. There's no international database to
do that. So marriage licenses are not required to be
shown to a court to prove you're married to get
a divorce.

Speaker 2 (01:47:28):
There's a presumption that if you're filing for divorce, you
have a legal marriage. Correct. This is interesting because Heinsling
and so sids does name changes. We've never gotten a
question like this regarding name changes. It says I text
a long time ago about my child's mother making my
child's last name hyphenated style last name. With my child's
last name being hyphenated, does it legally have to be

(01:47:49):
fully wrote out concerning him in school and things like that,
or can she just use her last name as if
mine isn't on there.

Speaker 12 (01:47:58):
So, from a legal standpoint, if you legally change a
person's name or a child's name to where if it's hyphenated,
obviously that's the child's legal name and therefore it should
be written as such. So to answer that question, if
it's legally changed, and it's legally like that, then yes,
it needs to be legally written that way. I'm assuming

(01:48:20):
it sounds like mom made the change, but didn't isn't
physically changing it when she's writing it or.

Speaker 7 (01:48:26):
Writing the kid's name?

Speaker 12 (01:48:27):
Well it's too long, now, yeah, maybe, I mean, I mean,
what if it's like a total of forty five letters long, right,
you know, I mean, that's that's a whole lot for
a little kid. But from a legal answer, from a
legal standpoint, it should be should include the hyphenation.

Speaker 2 (01:48:41):
Jeff Finsley from Hensley Associates is here. This says what
age can a child decide to stop visitation with a father?
We get this question a lot too.

Speaker 7 (01:48:51):
Well, yeah, and I will tell you.

Speaker 12 (01:48:52):
I mean that the child doesn't. Okay, So understand that
when a child turns twelve, all right, they're.

Speaker 7 (01:49:00):
Preference.

Speaker 12 (01:49:01):
Okay, We don't use the word choice. We use the
term preference, all right, because twelve year olds shouldn't get
to make choices, legal choices like that, all right, they're kids.
That's giving a kid way too much power. So we
use the term preference, and then we follow that up
by saying the child's preference is taken into account by
the court so the court can make a decision from

(01:49:21):
a global perspective. Now, when it comes to these kind
of things on visitation, right, if the child doesn't want
to go visit all right, the child needs to be
the one to tell dad or mom that they don't
want to go all right. The parent that they're staying with,
that they are living with, you know, they should never
get involved in that. In other words, if it's a text,
the kid wants to send a text, fine, but it

(01:49:42):
needs to be on the kid's phone by the kid,
not on mom or dad's phone sending it to the
other parent saying that, okay, that's putting you as the
parent in between the other two and that shouldn't be
the case.

Speaker 7 (01:49:55):
And understand that even if your kid doesn't want to
go all right.

Speaker 12 (01:49:58):
It is still your job, the custodial parent, to say, look,
I know you don't want to go, but I am
encouraging you to do so.

Speaker 2 (01:50:06):
Okay.

Speaker 12 (01:50:06):
So when you're the primary custodia, a parent or a
soul custodian, your job is to always encourage a relationship
with the other side. Now, there are extenuating there are
exceptions to the rule.

Speaker 7 (01:50:17):
Okay. Obviously, if the child has been molested or beaten,
or whatever it may be.

Speaker 12 (01:50:22):
I mean, there's obviously exceptions, but ninety nine percent of
the time your job is to encourage the child to go.
But the child needs to be the one to call
the other parent and say, look, I just don't want
to come see you for this visit, whatever it may be,
I don't. I always tell my clients never get in
the middle of that. It always has to be with
the kid, from the kid on the kid's phone, because

(01:50:43):
otherwise you've put yourself in a situation and the court
looks now, that looks like you're trying to block visitation.

Speaker 2 (01:50:49):
So the answer to the question is there is no age.

Speaker 7 (01:50:52):
No, not really.

Speaker 12 (01:50:53):
I mean, when kids turn sixteen, seventeen, all right, and
they have access to a car, they do whatever the
heck they want to do, all right. The courts can't
enforce visitations. You can try, but the most of court
can do is it hold the kid in and admonish
him from the court bench, that says, from the judges bench,
and say, you know, you really need to go see
the other parent.

Speaker 7 (01:51:12):
I mean, that's about all they can do. I mean,
they can't force somebody to go.

Speaker 8 (01:51:17):
Will a judge ask a child why don't you want
to see this parent?

Speaker 12 (01:51:22):
Sometimes, I mean, what they'll do is is they'll take
those and understand, it is ultra rare that a kid
ever testifies an open court, all right, in that case,
I could see a seventeen year old maybe doing and
I've seen that before. But if they're younger than that,
they'll take them back into the judge's chambers. The judge
will interview the child back there, and that's where questions
will pop up about, well, how are things going, you know,

(01:51:44):
why aren't you wanting to go over there?

Speaker 7 (01:51:45):
Things of that nature.

Speaker 12 (01:51:46):
So the child can voice that if it's asked, and
sometimes the kid just blurts it out in court anyway.

Speaker 7 (01:51:52):
So, I mean, but there has to be a good
reason just not.

Speaker 12 (01:51:56):
Going over to the other side because you don't have
as many toys there, or you know, you can't use
the phone as much.

Speaker 7 (01:52:03):
Those are not good reasons.

Speaker 2 (01:52:04):
I don't let me play my Nintendo right that.

Speaker 7 (01:52:06):
Those are not good reasons to go. Those are dumb reasons.

Speaker 2 (01:52:08):
Make me eat vegetarian food, right or organic? Organic? Yes, organic,
talked about last night favorite time.

Speaker 7 (01:52:15):
Yet you know, so there has to be good reasons.

Speaker 2 (01:52:17):
They can't just be well, I don't want to go
listen if these things can be hard to navigate, and
Jeff has kindly put up a free consultation for fifteen
minutes if you mentioned KMO D when you call the
office at nine eight three, nine, eight five six nine
two eight three nine eight five six ninety two for
hissling associates. Maybe you're trying to figure out do you
need a guardianship over your mom or your dad or

(01:52:37):
your brother. He can help navigate what that would look
like for you, but you've got to make the call
first eight three, nine, eight five six nine to two
mentioned KMO, Do you get a free consultation over the
phone at nine one eight three nine eight five six
nine two when you guys cover other areas of law
as well, that's.

Speaker 12 (01:52:51):
Right, So through our Prohesca office, which is the Shoemake
Law Firm. Yes it is a different name, but it
is our office. We just didn't change it when we
took over the office, all right, So so calling up
there is our attorney who handles all of those things.
So in addition to family law, if you've got any
other issues, criminal issues, if you've got DUIs, if you've
got drug charges, if you've got.

Speaker 7 (01:53:10):
Murder charge, whatever it may be. He can handle criminal.

Speaker 12 (01:53:13):
If you've got probate issues, if you need a contract reviewed,
if you've got an oil and gas issue, if you've
got name changes, if you've got anything in addition to
family law issues, calling up there can help you with
those issues, so please give them a call. It's again,
it's the Shoemake Law firm up there. It is our
firm where you can call us in Tulsa and we
can get you in touch with them as well.

Speaker 2 (01:53:33):
Six nine two for Innsing Associates. Jeff, have a great
weeky too, Thank you, break and we'll be back.

Speaker 9 (01:53:38):
A Big Mad Morning Show returns next Tulsa's Morning Show
ninety KMOD.

Speaker 2 (01:53:56):
Good morning. It's the Big Mad Morning SHOWD. You can
also text bmms and then what you want to say
to eight two nine four five. Obviously we're talking about
a lot of Rockahoma because it's coming up. But apparently
apparently Cold Chamber has postponed and they will not be participating.

(01:54:16):
From what I can tell, it's still listed on the
Rockahoma site, but col Chamber has said that they are
going to delay the start of their to a tour
until twenty twenty five.

Speaker 1 (01:54:26):
Yeah, I saw that, and I was like, well, God,
dang it, that's just one of the bands, one of
the many, probably the most one that I was really
looking forward to saying, because I haven't seen him for
so long, I'm gonna ask what I say him was
like two thousand.

Speaker 2 (01:54:38):
I said, uh, with a heavy heart. Let me tell
you a story about life taking a turn. I'm writing
to you from my bed. I've been running six miles daily.
I've been rehearsing two hours daily in my home studio
and excited to hit the road. I am excited to
get on a bus with my brothers and sisters and
my crew. I'd never felt better. As you all know,
I fought back hard from a long haul after COVID

(01:54:59):
tried to kill Saturday morning, I woke up, I was
coming upstairs. I saw flashes in my eyes. I passed out,
and my wife revived me. My vitals were through the
roof and I was sheet white and vomiting, and the
whole world was spinning. Nine one one was called. I
ended up back in the back of an ambulance and
did nine hours in the er, testing all my vitals,

(01:55:21):
taking X rays of my heart, my lungs. My doctor
has advised me to get a cat scan, and until
further testing, I am on bed rest and must postpone
the tour. Our agent sprung At Action to rebook the
tour from March of twenty twenty five, and until we
can figure out what the f medically is happening, we'll
see you in twenty twenty five. So there you go. Yeah,

(01:55:45):
you gotta pay attention to that stuff when it's happening.
You can't, I think, especially when you get to a
certain age, you can't ignore that stuff. No, and that
cat's like what midfif fifties something like that. Okay, that
sounds about that would make sense. Yeah, yeah, I'm fifty eight,

(01:56:06):
Oh damn. Okay, a little later into this fifties. But nonetheless,
not that des can't still rock your face off. Absolutely,
Hey man, if if Mick can do it, soaking dez.

Speaker 4 (01:56:16):
No.

Speaker 2 (01:56:18):
People are built different, they just are, right, right. Some
of us can deal with uh piercings ripped out of
our genitals. Some of us can't. And I'm one of those, right.
Have you ever had a piercing ripped out of your genitals?
I've only had one piercing and I didn't even like
it and took it out, So just saying you might

(01:56:41):
like it, we got.

Speaker 9 (01:56:42):
We got.

Speaker 2 (01:56:43):
We got drunk and used ice and a potato and
put the piercing in. And I tried one night to
sleep and I couldn't and it was the pok in
the back of my ear and I was like, this
is stupid, and I tried it again and then I
was like, no, this is dumb, and I just took
it out. I'm I'm messing with this. I don't care
how cool it makes me look. I want to sleep. Yeah,
but you look great in your mama's ear rings. No,

(01:57:05):
I never got to find out. I might have, I
might have. I've never That was it. That was the
piercing journey for me. That's as far as it goes on. Yeah,
I never like that happened. I was like, Eh, never
wanted to nipples. You know my lebra never knows belly button,

(01:57:26):
Jacob's Latin, none of that. Yeah, did you want any
others besides your ears?

Speaker 8 (01:57:33):
Lindsay, So, I have four piers, five piercings total. I
had two in each ear, and I think my second
holes in my ears have closed because I didn't wear
earrings enough in those and then I had my belly
button piers until the time I was pregnant with my first.

Speaker 2 (01:57:52):
Yeah, and then it feels like that. Yeah, it feels
like you checked the typical piercing box that I think
a lot of girls go go through.

Speaker 8 (01:58:00):
Yeah. I thought about getting a nose piercing for a
long time, but then I always thought it would probably
just feel like a booger inside my nose, and I
wouldn't it would be uncomfortable. Yeah, talk myself out of
it real quick. Yeah, it can't be how many?

Speaker 2 (01:58:18):
Oh, I had thirteen different ones at one point, every
single thing, last one of them.

Speaker 8 (01:58:26):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:58:27):
Where, well, I have my ears up and down the ears.
You can see the holes in my ears, they're still there.
And then I did my eyebrows. See there was two
on the right side, two on the left side. I
did my labra. I did both my nipples and my
penis twice.

Speaker 8 (01:58:42):
Oh twice. Yeah, once wasn't enough. No, how long did
it last?

Speaker 10 (01:58:49):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (01:58:49):
I kept those things in there for years.

Speaker 1 (01:58:54):
Any infections, No, no infections, but it did swell up
masks now right, I was like, Okay, I hope that's normal.
And eventually the swelling went back down. I was like, Okay,
that's that's that's good. That's good swelling in your genitals.

Speaker 2 (01:59:07):
Yeah. How many days did you endure the swelling? That
was like a day I'll call it took It wasn't that,
it wasn't.

Speaker 8 (01:59:14):
Yeah, so you didn't go to the doctor.

Speaker 2 (01:59:16):
Oh the answer was no before you asked it for real.

Speaker 1 (01:59:20):
I did because I tried to get a job at
coke once right, Coca Cola, and uh, they sent me
in to go get a physical done right, and the
doctors needed to stripped down, put this this robot or whatever,
you know, cool whatever, and then got weird after that?
How did it get weird? Because he's like, oh, do
the whole turn your head and cough thing right, Which

(01:59:42):
that's not the weird part for hernia exactly. But the
fact that he continued the look and gazed and said, well,
that's interesting as he's looking at my piercings.

Speaker 2 (01:59:52):
That's what made it weird. I'm like, doc, no, this
doesn't seem right. How long were the rods? Oh, they
were stilling I don't know, maybe two inches? Dude. The
man's the scene multiple two inch rods in your genitals.
That is weird, that is uncomfortable, that warranted a look. Yeah, yeah,

(02:00:13):
you look, you cannot even inquire, But you don't sit.

Speaker 1 (02:00:17):
There and flop around back and forth and be like
huh like like you know, you're just discovering fire for
the first time.

Speaker 2 (02:00:25):
He might have been would it be weird if you
inspired him? And then he was like, I don't want
to go get that done right right?

Speaker 1 (02:00:33):
Next thing, you know, he's getting Prince Alberts and ample
Lane's done and.

Speaker 2 (02:00:38):
Just all of them. Yeah. Yeah, so he had a
Jacob's ladder, Yeah, yeah, yeah, not a Prince Albert. No,
a little different.

Speaker 8 (02:00:47):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (02:00:47):
Now I look back and I'm like, could I do that?

Speaker 1 (02:00:50):
Now here, I'm forty four, right, let's say, could I
go and get a Prince Albert done?

Speaker 2 (02:00:56):
Now? I'm sure I could? Right, you absolutely could.

Speaker 1 (02:00:59):
Yeah, but I'm gonna I'm I'm past the piercing point now. Yeah,
that's on the board for you. Yeah, that's I gotta
be honest. That surprises me a little.

Speaker 2 (02:01:10):
That feels like something you would revisit to get talked into,
especially if you have a room full of whips and
chains that you alluded to last week. In your room.
Uh huh, uh huh.

Speaker 1 (02:01:22):
I'm more into tattoos now that I am into piercings now.
I was telling my girlfriend about said piercings, my penis piercings, right,
because we got all the conversations talked about piercings and
asked how many I had there? You go, and I
told her about him, and I.

Speaker 2 (02:01:39):
Was it six years ago? Or so?

Speaker 1 (02:01:42):
As of six years ago, maybe a little bit longer
than that, they were still open. I can still put
jewelry in them, but not now.

Speaker 2 (02:01:50):
But no, now I haven't. I haven't tried. I got
rid of all my jewels now because you went down
that other road and the penis was like, heyy too
much trauma, man, stop messing with me like that. That
is a fun question, though. If your partner asked you
to get a piercing on your genitalia, would you do it? Okay? No,

(02:02:11):
no at all?

Speaker 8 (02:02:12):
No, no, no, no, sorry, just I mean, I I'm
still cringing from cat story earlier.

Speaker 2 (02:02:20):
Yeah, not all of them get ripped out in a
freak boating accident.

Speaker 8 (02:02:24):
No, that's fair, that is fair, Yes, absolutely, at least.

Speaker 2 (02:02:30):
In my experience. I mean, getting the genitalia a pierced.
It didn't.

Speaker 1 (02:02:34):
It didn't hurt as bad as you would expect it to, right,
you expect it to be like, oh my goodness, gracious,
that's that's a very sensitive, very yes it is. But
I didn't think that it hurt that bad on a
scale of one to ten. Right, Well, what's okay? I
like this, what's the most pain you've ever been in?

Speaker 2 (02:02:53):
What's the ten? Oh, that'd be when I broke my leg.

Speaker 1 (02:02:56):
Yeah, when the doctor reset my leg, when I broke
a slipping on the small spatch. But the parking lot
when he reset it, when he said, you know, the paramedics,
when I was in the parking lot laying down right
and he set that some bitch so he can get it.

Speaker 2 (02:03:07):
Yeah, that was probably the most pain ever been in.

Speaker 1 (02:03:09):
And they gave you herowly like yeah, yeah, yeah, well
not at that point. Yeah, maybe they did at that point,
but yeah, nonetheless, I just it hurt like a son
of a bitch, That's all I can say.

Speaker 2 (02:03:18):
So, yeah, that was a one. I don't know, stub
your toe, you know, something length at him and this.

Speaker 11 (02:03:25):
Would be a this is like a three, so equal
do a paper cut you say, yeah, No, honestly, I've
never had a paper cut.

Speaker 2 (02:03:36):
I'm a wayner before. You're not exactly saying that I
want to. That's fair, you know, But I I had
not a yellow, not a lot of yellow Manila envelopes penis. Yeah, yeah,
I don't stuff envelopes naked. She's a nice lady, she's
got a great person. Would you get your genital pierced

(02:03:57):
for your partner? Probably not?

Speaker 9 (02:04:01):
Not.

Speaker 1 (02:04:01):
Now that ship is sailed, I think I'm firm on that.
You know, that's not happening again at all, whatsoever, even
if she really really wanted it.

Speaker 2 (02:04:10):
No, I'm good, I'm good.

Speaker 1 (02:04:12):
I've done it before. Now I'm getting a tattoo on
my waiter. That might be a different story.

Speaker 2 (02:04:19):
Okay, uh huh. Why has one sailed in the other Knot.

Speaker 1 (02:04:26):
Because I'm more into tattoos now that I am piercings,
If that makes any sense at all whatsoever.

Speaker 2 (02:04:32):
I mean, it's still a level. I mean, it makes
sense that you like tattoos more, but it makes one
It would make too sense why she would ask you
to get a tattoo on your right genitalia. That would
be really weird, Like if found return to that which
you may be appropriate somebody's face, settle down, stick figure,
be a small face. Yeah, I'm not. I'm not doing that.

(02:04:55):
I would probably talk like we'd talk it out, but
I would have the conversation fe not open to the idea, like,
let's talk about it, try to understand why, maybe there's
something else we could try first before I have surgical
steel the alpoid put to work by Claw right when

(02:05:17):
I've got to visit him when he's there. Yeah, I don't.
I don't think so. I think that that part is. Yeah,
I'm good with that sailing. Also with the tattoo, I'm
not getting a tattoo on my penis at all because
I don't know any mice that do work like in

(02:05:40):
the movie's Utopia with the mob. Boss is like, all right,
we gotta take a break.

Speaker 9 (02:05:46):
Says morning show. The Big Bad Morning Shows.

Speaker 2 (02:05:50):
Next, good Morning, It's the Big Bad Morning Show. Lindsay,
what'd you learn today?

Speaker 8 (02:06:10):
I learned that everyone listening felt the genital cringe at
the same time this morning thanks to our awesome listener,
Cat and I also learned that the hospital will only
offer paper scrubs. So if you ask yourself on the
way there stop at home first to change can be
what you learn today.

Speaker 1 (02:06:28):
Well, I learned that my pinis has seen more surgical
steel than it really needs to. And I also learned
that Corbin and I will be doing oil wrestling at
Rocklaholma this year, so make sure you stick around a watch.

Speaker 2 (02:06:41):
I learned that if he's going to have a twenty
nine percent chance of survival, Lindsay's husband's sol And I
also learned for some men, oil wrestling at Rockklahoma will
be their highlight. It's Corbyn saying make sure that dishwashers
loaded right.

Speaker 8 (02:06:57):
Yeah, it's Lindsay stopped tracking my cyche is gamy.

Speaker 2 (02:07:04):
Daddy. Can I get a call.

Speaker 6 (02:07:10):
With the.

Speaker 8 (02:07:12):
Time?

Speaker 6 (02:07:12):
John B?

Speaker 2 (02:07:15):
Yeah? Now what lay I mean it to be?

Speaker 6 (02:07:19):
No?

Speaker 2 (02:07:19):
Do make some noise.

Speaker 10 (02:07:26):
Interpasswords Corbyn new messages. The Big Mad Morning Show would
like to take a minute to thank troops from Oklahoma
and all.

Speaker 9 (02:07:32):
Over the United States.

Speaker 10 (02:07:33):
These soldiers have sacrificed.

Speaker 2 (02:07:35):
Did the Big Mad Morning Show.

Speaker 1 (02:07:36):
Before you to back like the total douchebags that.

Speaker 2 (02:07:39):
They are, total douchebag bag, total incomplete douchebag.

Speaker 4 (02:07:43):
We honor and respect you. We honor and respect you,
We honor and respect you.

Speaker 2 (02:07:48):
Bless rocking ll.

Speaker 1 (02:07:52):
Blessed Tulsa.

Speaker 12 (02:07:52):
We try, boys,