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got VIP tickets to Oklahoma. I'm about a pair of
weekend VIP tickets to Rockklahoma this weekend. And if that's
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I feel like that's an important distinction. When we play
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and Thursday, from eleven to one, we got best and
worst of the weekend. What's the best thing that happened
this weekend and the worst thing that happened this weekend.
We've got our listeners are awesome, and Jeff Hinsley will
join us from Hinsley and Associates. You got a question
about divorce, custody, guardianship, name change, any of those things.

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He can and will answer them when he's in the
studio with us coming up at nine. Email addresses show
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that question is to eight two nine four five if
you would like to get a question to us ahead
of time. A couple interesting things that I have happened.

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One Oasis has a big announcement coming up in two days, okay,
speculation that they're going to do or reunion tour. Oh,
good luck with that one. First of all, I hope
they do. Yeah, that'd be great. He easily make an
argument that they are the band from the nineties right
from alternative rock. Right. I said an argument. I didn't
say you win. If that happens, I would encourage you

(04:57):
to go to the first couple dates, right, because in
the middle, in the end, that's gonna suck. Yeah. I
think it's possible. Maybe you could see them do a residency, Okay,
like a Vegas residency, okay, like in the sphere maybe okay,
And I think that that could have a little more
longevity because they could just show up and play and

(05:20):
then go to their houses or whatever, rather than catering
and touring and all that other stuff that comes along
with a little less stressful I think.

Speaker 6 (05:28):
So, what was their falling out even about in the
first places?

Speaker 1 (05:33):
But yeah, that's no, that's it. They're brothers. They both
have massive egos, right, they both think they're the reason,
and they're both right to be honest. Yeah, yeah, but
put your differences aside and just put up decent music. Yeah,
make the music that doesn't but it doesn't. Everybody has
a sibling. Everybody knows that people who have a sibling,

(05:53):
they just can't get along with, right. They can be
around each other at Christmas. That's why you don't go
into business with family. So that'll be interesting to see
how that plays out in the next coming days. It
could also just be an album greatest Hits documentary. It

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could be a nothing burger. The other one is a
little more interesting, and I think I don't know. I
only know of one surprise so far that's scheduled for
Rockklahoma and that doesn't include this artist, okay, or it
doesn't include what I'm about to tell you. It's completely

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separate thing. And that Lincoln Park put a time countdown
clock to Wednesday, Okay for a special announcement. Okay, they're eluding.
There's a special announcement. Yeah, they've released a posthumous hit before,
so it wouldn't surprise me if they had another one
just on the back burner waiting. I don't think they

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do a countdown clock. So the rumor is, and again
I don't know anything. I can't find anything to validate this.
The rumor is is that they have been rehearsing with
a female lead singer. Okay, there's some unfinished business with Oklahoma.

(07:16):
For those that aren't, don't remember, Lincoln Park didn't get
to play Rockahoma. They were scheduled. They made it to Tulsa,
they did never left the airport right right, because the
weather came through. Go. Yeah, so they never even ventured
to prior because they knew they probably wouldn't be playing.
They were coming in and out same day. And again,
this is a giant to me. Where I got to

(07:36):
this was from they believe announcement is they're going to
play a festival. Okay, I think this is a giant leap.
I don't think this is I don't think I think
it's possible they are going to announce a tour. I
think it's possible they could play a couple of dates.
I think it's possible. But if they were going to
practice something or do something in front of a crowd,

(07:58):
why not here? And if it's with Amy Lee, I
was gonna ask who could it possibly be the female
voice that could replace Chester Bennington because he had a
very unique voice of his own, And I just don't really,
honestly don't see anybody that could come close to it. Yeah,
because you know as well as I do, we're going

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to compare them to the original. Whoever may step in
line there not everybody's going to be that Asian fella
from Foreigner as a Foreigner, Yes, yeah, Journey Journey, which
you ever want? Or you know Adam Lambert who seems
to it it seems to work. Yeah, I just don't
see that with Chester Benningson. But I could be wrong,

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But I think if they're trying to create their own thing,
a new version two point zero, I think there's enough
fans that would support it. Fringe fans like it sounds
like you are because you're never really Lincoln Park fans. Remember,
I could get it, I get it. But to see
them go and play and do their version of in
the end, yeah, I'm on board for I think Link

(09:02):
Park's phenomenal. And I think you could say Amy Lee.
I think you could say uh Lizzy, yeah from Hailstorm.
I think there's some there's something there. I don't think
it's a real thing though I don't think it would.
It wouldn't be Lincoln Park then, and I feel like
you would have to go with a total different name.

(09:24):
You know how Chris Cornell and then the remaining members
of a Rage got together and informed audio Slave, right,
it was at rage against the machine with now with
Chris Cornell, you see they they they took too great,
a great band and a great front man and then
made a great band with it. Yeah, but that was
a supergroup. That was they nobody had died, right, right.

(09:47):
I think that you could bands have done this. We
had this discussion what last week. I think I think
they could do it. And though he Chester was Lincoln Park,
he wasn't Lincoln Park, right, So love to see. Yeah, yeah, hopefully,
but I think that's really exciting. There's never the surprise.

(10:09):
I know that's supposed to happen is pretty badass. Yeah
do you know it? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, we've talked. I
thought we talked about it. Yeah. Uh, it's pretty are
you frowning?

Speaker 6 (10:18):
I don't know it?

Speaker 1 (10:20):
You know it? You do know it? You know it?
Look good man, you do know it. You just don't remember.

Speaker 6 (10:27):
It does not going on?

Speaker 1 (10:30):
Is that what it is? You're really busy up there? Well,
she was getting shot at this morning, man, So yeah,
I almost came in there and said something I heard.
I thought I heard a little commotion on the outside.
But you know, I've got my headphones in right and
I'm working on the computer or whatnots and I hear
something out the back, and I'm like, okay, you know,
to me it was it wasn't enough to make me go,

(10:51):
oh good shots. It was a pop pop and then
like then a whole bunch right in a row after that. Yeah,
well I heard the same thing in my neighborhood. Was
that last week? Yeah? Last week early in the morning too.
I just woke up one thirty and I'm in the
garage smoking and I hear down the road a series

(11:11):
of pops like that, and then some dog's bargain and
I'm like, huh, well, I'm not going to open my
door to find out what's going on. Yeah, I'm just
gonna go back inside. Yeah, well I don't. We were
talking to Lindsay and I were because if you if
something happens right, let's say a drive by a twelve minutes, right,

(11:34):
that's the average response time, So you're twelve minutes out. Well,
I looked at the clock to see what time it
was when it happened, and when Lindsay and I was talking,
it still hadn't been twelve minutes, right, And we still
hadn't heard or seen anything. And you that's the thing
is misleading. Gunshots are misleading. When you're outside or you
hear it from the inside, you think they're really close.

(11:56):
It's hard to tell, Yeah, especially around here because there's
so many buildings at the sound could bounce off of
and we're up high. It's hard to tell where things
where things are because this isn't twenty seventh in Memorial
where we used to be where all the action happened.
You go, you go, what two blocks down seventy first Street.

(12:17):
That apartment complex is questionable. It can be, it can be.
It's not as bad as let's say, fifty first in
Yale right there, you know where the Quick Trip is
right there about forty four Okay, Yeah, you see a
lot of vagrants out there hanging out by the Quick Trip.
Those apartments behind there, Yeah, are sketchy af you know,
but you're right, I mean they can be. I'm just

(12:39):
trying to think of like the most questionable place. Now.
They had a big problem with people back here behind
the building for the longest time, going out into the
fringe of the brush right there.

Speaker 5 (12:51):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (12:51):
Yeah, but I don't think that was a gun. That
wasn't like a place where that That's not what I
thought was happening. No, no, No, that's where homeless people live
and do their drugs or whatever. But hey, we got
to fence up there now, so I mean really high fence. Yeah,
I was thinking when they put that fence in. When
you put up a fence, do you go, we got
to get higher than the average, right, So you go,

(13:13):
what because the fence is like what four feet? No, oh,
four feet the average fence six chaining fence four oh
chaining fence is four feet right, three or four feet
more than the doorknob, So four feet right, okay, like
you see in the yard, You're like, okay, wow, we
gotta go bigger than that, all right, six you go okay, six, sure,

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but make sure you do the post on the inside.
You don't want people climbing in your backyard, right right,
And then that's this is bigger than six. It's like
nine or twelve. Yeah. The only thing we're really missing
is the razor wire at the top. Yeah, but only
right there because you can go over here, like going around.
It's not a hard math thing, right, No, it's easily
to get around. But it's a good deturrent because I

(13:59):
haven't a lot of hoboes or vagrants of any kind.
And what about a year since that fence has gone up,
so that's good. Yeah. Yeah, And to be honest, I
didn't really talk to him or see them anyway, because
they're usually a sleep right when't I get here, and
I never see them. I never saw them leaving leaving

(14:20):
this area. Yeah, I never saw them, being like they
weren't camping out on this corner to go in there? Right, No, No,
A lot I've a few times I find them back
there at the bus stop or they make us go smoke.
It's a little shelter and it just looks like a
bus stop. That's why I call it the bus stop.
They'd be sleeping on the bench in there, or there's
been a time that front door down there. Because of

(14:41):
the doors down there, there are two doors. You got
your doors from the outside, and then there's a little
area and then another set of doors that get you
into the building. And the ones that get you into
the building are locked until a certain time. So there's
been times that I've found homeless people sleeping in there
or even next to the door. I had one scared
this out of me, damn near stuff. Don them no

(15:03):
walking outside, And they're oh Jesus man, okay, yeah, okay,
I'm just gonna walk this way. Thanks for the mild
heart attack this early in the morning. Right. We had
that one that one morning when it was really cold
and they were sleeping in the breezeway or whatever that was.
You're like, ah, just letting him it's cold, right. It's

(15:23):
funny how we'll do that during the Summertime's like, oh,
I get break the hose on him. But oh it's
cold outside, so I mean, you can really the guy
nothing right. It wasn't like he had his like he
could have been wandering from the bar right and he
was like, it's lost, got disoriented. It wasn't like he

(15:43):
had his cart and all these other things.

Speaker 6 (15:45):
Move along, man, No blanket, no nothing.

Speaker 1 (15:48):
It was just him laying on the ground cold, and
you're like, bro, you're gonna wake up with a lot
of questions about your life. Yeah, right, here's some cop
started thinking about that. People texting in about the music stuff.
Amy Lee has talked to an interview that it isn't her,
but would be open to the discussion. I don't believe
anything people say in interview is like that, especially if

(16:10):
they're you know, it's still in the work. So obviously
that could be true that it's not Lincoln Park new
female singer is violent or Landy. Rumor is they're announcing
a reunion tour. Yes, that is the rumor. Lincoln Park
announcement would likely be a festival announcement for next year.
I don't think we see them play this year. Could
be wrong. I think Alison Chains of lead singers dying

(16:32):
and finding replacement Lane was amazing, But William Davall has
made his own legacy with Alan said Chains, has he
in all honesty? Has he No, because we don't go
there for old Willie d. We go for Lane Stanley
and the rest of the band. I want to hear yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
I want to hear those songs. Have they made it work? Yes?

(16:52):
Uh would be cool to see new iteration of the
band female singer makes sense because of the range of
Chester's vocals. Yeah. Again, anything is possible. I think Lincoln
Park has shown they are pretty resilient, and for them
to go hey see you in twenty twenty five feels
not unless the tickets are going on sale that day. Yeah,

(17:16):
it feels a little lackluster. Here's what we're playing in
right That doesn't feel like they're again. There's plenty of
music festivals happening around the country right now. It's called
the Festival Tour, so it is possible they aren't playing
a different festival. Yeah. Yeah, and I love a good autocorrect.

(17:36):
It worked out for Alice Indian Chains. All right, listen,
We've got VIP tickets to Rock Klahoma. A pair of
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of Worston the weekend. Our listeners are awesome. Jeff Finsley
will join us take a break news quickies when we return.

Speaker 7 (18:14):
More of a Big Man Morning Show is next ninety
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It's time for news quakies. World news, local news and
news that just makes you say, what the Here's Corbin
gibm Lindsay with what's going on news Quakie. He's from
the Big mid Morning SOW In ninety seven.

Speaker 5 (19:01):
Five, a.

Speaker 6 (19:03):
Texasman kidnapped ride share driver forced to drive one thousand
miles to Miami. The US Attorney's Office for the Southern
District of Florida said in a press release that twenty
three year old Miguel Alejandro Pastron Hernandez was charged in
a Miami federal court on kidnapping, carjacking, and possessing a

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firearm in furtherance of a violent crime. So The complaint
alleges that a ride share driver was working at the
time in Arlington, Texas, at about ten thirty pm on
August sixteenth, when Miguel called him up, he ordered a ride.
He was picked up, and then the suspect reportedly ordered

(19:46):
a ride to a gas station. That gas station was closed,
and when the two arrived, he told the driver to
continue on. He pulled out a loaded gun and he
said head around in the chamber. Miguel then reportedly threatened
to tie up and place the driver in the back
of the vehicle, but instead he just said drive to

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South Florida, more than a thousand miles away. The Attorney's
office said. When the driver arrived in Florida, Miguel spoke
about his plan to kidnap another victim for ransom. Police
arrested Miguel and allegedly found him in possession of a
bag containing a loaded gun.

Speaker 1 (20:29):
Yeah, wonder what DeFi is for that? Like who? Because
I don't know what happens when you go off map
for Uber, right, Yeah, I don't know. I mean typically
when I was when I was doing that a while ago,
it would like the map would like send me way
the hell off in the wrong direction, and I turn

(20:49):
around and go back. So it just charges you for
the time that spent in the mileage. But whether or
not this guy kept the ticker going is a different story,
you know what I'm saying. If he kept it going,
kept the meter run, and then yeah, he's gonna potentially
have a lot of money. Yeah, I just wonder. I

(21:10):
wonder if like there's a safety feature when you say, oh,
I've picked up you know, George, and then all of
a sudden you close the app, Right, does Uber go, Hey,
that's weird?

Speaker 6 (21:21):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (21:22):
I doubt it. I can't imagine there's an Uber command sitter.
I don't think so either. Know, it's all a bunch
of computers. Man uses explosives on ATMs and steals nothing.
This comes out of southern California and early June, as
a matter of fact, is when this happened. There's a
forty four year old dude and he goes up to
the California Coast Credit Union there in San Diego at

(21:44):
like three point thirty in the morning, and surveillance shows
him getting out of his car and he takes his
five gallon container that's got a spout connected to it,
and he puts it in front of the ATM and
then he grabs a hose and then he shoves it
from the container into the ATM and then next thing
you know, there's a minor explosion that goes on, right,
and then he goes and tries to get some money
out the ATM, but it didn't work all right, He

(22:07):
didn't get anything, well, crap, so he bails out of there,
and then flash forward a couple of weeks later, he
goes to a different bank, the first Citizens Bank there
in San Diego, and he does the same thing, pulls
up container, boom, hoose, electrical fire, tries to get money,
doesn't get anything out of it, right, so he gets

(22:30):
the hell out of there. Now. Police they do their
investigation They end up getting the guy's vehicle, tracking him
down to his apartment. They got a warrant, they search
his apartment, and that's where they found gasoline and black
powder and potassium nitrate sulfur, along with some explosive precursor

(22:50):
chemicals and a paper that explains how to make black
powder a gun and more. Either way, they've arrested him
and now he's off the streets broke. Do people that
break into ATMs or try to steal ATMs not do
any research with how tough ATMs are made and make
them that way for a reason? If I remember right,

(23:13):
it's like ten to twenty hours of diamond bit to
sender trying to drill into it. Yeah, it's a safe
within a safe. They literally have the outside and then
they have another interior for the cash. Oh no, it's fine,
we'll just blow it up and everything'll be fine. But
what happens when the fire you caused from the explosion
burns up all the money that you're trying to get, right,

(23:35):
or the mushroom cloud that you've created, is what's got
everybody's attention. I have a really hard breaking news story.
Bald Eagle deemed too fat to fly. The Missouri Department
of Conservation recently captured an eagle at the Wilson's Creek
National Battlefield. Officials say that the bird was unable to

(23:59):
fly after eating a suspected raccoon. This says the eagle
was rebilitated, but probably just took a nap, right, and
then it was released and was okay to fly after that.
Head to feel a lot better now, thanks too bad
to fly? That's funny. That's a guess at best. Right,

(24:25):
all right, you're like God, suck snuck. I used to
be you good God, I'll catch maybe if you would
have eaten earlier in the day it had the energy
to go it later at night, had some time to
digest said coon that he was eating.

Speaker 6 (24:43):
I'm just gonna say, right for a second, let's go
ahead with that.

Speaker 1 (24:47):
Oh God so much. All these stories are on our
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Speaker 7 (24:55):
Tulsa's Morning show is coming right.

Speaker 8 (24:57):
Back, a big morning show Rock station.

Speaker 1 (25:02):
KMOD. Good morning, It's the Big NAD Morning Show six oh.
KMOD can also text bmms and then what you want
to say to eight two nine four five. The Sports

(25:27):
Illustrated has put out their prediction to win the Super
Bowl already. Huh. Yes, well, I mean that makes it.
It always happens like in this week, right, So who
do you think they picked to win the Super Bowl?

Speaker 6 (25:38):
Chiefs?

Speaker 1 (25:41):
Yeah? I want to say the Niners because it's one
of the two Chiefs or Niners, but I'll be realistic
and go with the Chiefs Nope. Really, Ravens Nope, The Jets,
no way, The Browns nope.

Speaker 6 (25:54):
No.

Speaker 1 (25:55):
Oh man, the Eagle nope, Packers the Detroit Lions.

Speaker 6 (26:02):
Wow.

Speaker 1 (26:03):
Okay, okay, Just so you know previous years. Last year
they picked the Eagles over the Bengals. The year before
that they picked the Bills over the Buccaneers. And just
so we're all in the same page and rowing in
the same direction, the Chiefs won both those. In the

(26:23):
real world. In twenty twenty one, they picked the Chiefs
over the Rams, in twenty twenty the Ravens over the Saints,
and twenty eighteen the Falcons over the Steelers. So what
I'm saying here is they've never gotten it right. No,
Sports Illustrated doesn't know much about sports, right.

Speaker 5 (26:45):
I mean.

Speaker 1 (26:48):
They do, but in terms of predicting as a whole
other game, right, I hardly think doing having good journalism
skills makes you good at predicting the team. I like,
it's silly just to even try to make that prediction. No,
but it's fun.

Speaker 6 (27:03):
Yeah, right, sure, it's fun. Who is the guy that
always does the prediction and he's been pretty correct.

Speaker 1 (27:10):
Yeah, it's one of the guys from Good Morning Football,
Peter Schrager. And I believe he does his the mourning
of the first game. Okay, okay, if I remember correctly,
and because he correctly picked the Chiefs both years, and
he picked I forget who he picked the year before.
But yeah, so if he's really good.

Speaker 6 (27:31):
At one high up there, yeah.

Speaker 1 (27:34):
Yeah, he and so and people always they're starting to go, well, okay,
he knows, yeah, he he knows. So we'll just we'll
just have to wait and wait and see. Former OU
quarterback Spencer Rattler. He uh and in South Carolina game
called quarterback. But he played the last night was it

(27:56):
yesterday or last night against for the Saints, and he
threw some dimes. Yeah, like he looked good. He played
when they played the Niners. Yeah, and he did not
look I didn't like you for being a Nube. I
thought he looked all right, Patriots. Was it Drake Mays
is that his name? He looked solid. He looked solid.

(28:18):
Jaden Trey Lance, the backup or the guy down in Dallas.
He had one amazing run and then he looked like
someone set a garbage can on fire. He looked atrocious
for you, right, he looked. I mean when he ran
that ball and you're like, damn. And then he started

(28:39):
throwing the ball and you're like, oh no, just run,
keep the ball in your hands, just run. Let's see
what lindsay has four balls to the wall.

Speaker 6 (28:47):
Sports Baltimore Ravens offensive line coach Joe d' Alassandras has died.
The team announced he was seventy years old. D' Alessandras

(29:08):
had been in the hospital the last two weeks with
an illness that was going to require treatment for a
lengthy period of time. He had been in the position
with the Ravens since twenty seventeen. Baltimore hired George Warhop
as its offensive line coach on August fourteenth. When the
team announced that d Alessandras would be away from the team, they.

Speaker 1 (29:30):
Said, he had illness. Is that right? Yeah, he was
in the hospital for some acute illness, which I had
to look up because I was like, what does that mean?
Just something he got recently, just some short term sickness
thing he'd been dealing with.

Speaker 6 (29:40):
And the Washington Commanders are going to be honoring franchise
legend Sean Taylor by building a statue. The late safety
was a two time Pro bowler. In four seasons with
the team, he amassed three hundred and five tackles, twelve interceptions,
and eight forced fumbles. He was murdered during the two
thousand and seven season at the age of twenty four.

(30:01):
His daughter, Jackie Taylor, a U n C volleyball player,
will help with the design of the statue. The team
has removed the much maligned memorial and that was unveiled
back in twenty twenty two.

Speaker 1 (30:13):
There was an abomination.

Speaker 6 (30:15):
Yeah, and the Patriots wrapped up the preseason with a
twenty to ten loss to the Washington Commanders in Landover.
Jacoby Brissett started the game under center and completed two
of his four pass attempts for nineteen yards before leaving
the game with an injury. Drake May threw four one
hundred and twenty six yards and a touchdown while adding

(30:36):
seventeen yards on the ground. New England finished its exhibition
schedule one and two and we'll open the regular season
on September eighth at the Cincinnati Bengal Jacoby Brissett.

Speaker 1 (30:47):
He took a shoulder injury and he didn't return and
afterwards the coach was like, ah, he's gonna be okay.

Speaker 6 (30:55):
That's good, good yeah, sure yeah. And that is your
Pulse of the Wall Sports. I'm Lindsay on ninety seven
to five km OD.

Speaker 1 (31:13):
Good morning, it's the Big Man Morning Show nine one,
eight four six, oh KMOD. You can also text BMMS
and then what you want to say to eight two,
nine four five, Good morning Lindsay.

Speaker 6 (31:26):
Good morning Corbyn. Sooner Football is back this Friday. The
season kicks off against Temple with a three pm pregame
show and kickoff is at six and of course you
can listen to it on your iHeartRadio app and of
course your Tulsa Sooner station ninety seven to five km OUD.

Speaker 1 (31:47):
Good morning, Gimpie, Well, good morning Corbyn. You have your
very last Rocklaholma Thursday coming up this Thursday, where you're
never more than thirty minutes away from scoring free tickets
to Rocklaholma. Just make sure you're listening all day long.
On Thursday time for best and worst of the weekend?
What's the best thing that happened this weekend? And the
worst thing that happened this weekend? A couple of ways
to share nine one, eight four to six oh came,

(32:07):
OHD or you can text it BMMS and then whatever
that is to eight two, nine four five, what's the
best and worst of the weekend? Lindsay, what's the best
and what's the worst?

Speaker 6 (32:17):
Uh, the worst was probably the fact that it went
by too quickly. It was very jam packed full of stuff.
And I got a kid sick, and Leo's not very
lovey dovey when he's sick. He doesn't want to be coddled.
He just wants to be left alone. So that was
because I kind of, you know, I just want to

(32:38):
coddle him when he's sick. You know, you want to
do that when your kids are not feeling good. He's
got this pretty rough cough going on and just feel bad.
But he's like, no, I'm fine, I'm fine. Let's give
him his medicine and off he goes. But nonetheless, he's
just not feeling great. And it's just allergy. Is there's
no fever or anything like that. So it's not like

(33:01):
much I can do about it. Just got to wait
it out, I guess. And then the best part was
probably making posters for football season for all of the
home games in the locker rooms for eighth grade, ninth grade,
and high school football.

Speaker 1 (33:19):
What do you mean? What do you mean?

Speaker 6 (33:20):
Posters for the team so they can see them in
the like let's go and this is our house.

Speaker 1 (33:26):
You can do it exactly. And when I was in
high school, the cheerleaders did that.

Speaker 6 (33:31):
Yeah, some cheerleaders showed up to help, but some yeah, yeah,
but you know, they have other stuff going on, to
other fundraising things they have to do for themselves. And yeah,
so a lot of the mamahawks, the team moms and
players' moms get together and do that.

Speaker 1 (33:49):
I was watching this documentary about high school football, and
it was about the two teams that played for the
national championship in Texas or the state championship in Texas,
and they interviewed the winning team and the losing team
and talk about, you know, the dedication and the hard work,
and the losing team felt like if they just would

(34:09):
have had more you can do It signs in their
locker room, they probably would have won.

Speaker 6 (34:15):
Yeah, probably probably, But it's fun and being part of
that and just I look forward to the season so
much and wetly.

Speaker 1 (34:23):
Oh, I know you do.

Speaker 6 (34:25):
Our eighth graders start their season tonight. Their first scrimmage
is tonight.

Speaker 1 (34:30):
How many moms show up to make these signs?

Speaker 6 (34:34):
I think there was ten of us, ten.

Speaker 1 (34:36):
Moms over how many grades?

Speaker 6 (34:38):
Well, high school and then eight the ninth grade.

Speaker 1 (34:41):
So five grades. Only ten parents showed up. Yeah, there'd
be a lot more. Yeah, and what pretty quick?

Speaker 6 (34:49):
We're done about an hour and a half.

Speaker 1 (34:51):
Do you buy pre made ones and like color them in?

Speaker 6 (34:54):
No?

Speaker 1 (34:55):
No, you buy craolos? Or what do you guys do
paint paint?

Speaker 6 (34:58):
You paint paint rushes?

Speaker 1 (34:59):
And is there like predetermined Pinterest ones you find and
then you duplicate or what what do you do all.

Speaker 6 (35:06):
In your head?

Speaker 1 (35:07):
Just whatever original whatever you come up with?

Speaker 6 (35:10):
Yep?

Speaker 1 (35:11):
Yeah, yeah, Like what was what was the one you
were most proud of?

Speaker 6 (35:17):
Probably roast the rams So we did a goalpost and
put a ram on on a barbecue.

Speaker 1 (35:26):
Oh wait, so this is just for this game, this
upcoming game.

Speaker 6 (35:30):
Specific games.

Speaker 1 (35:31):
Yeah, oh so you made him for all the games pretty.

Speaker 6 (35:35):
Much for weeks ahead. It's for the boys to see
in the locker room.

Speaker 1 (35:40):
Yeah. Motivation, yes, yes. The old adage from Vince Lombardy
is roast them, gimby what's the best and what's the worst.
Best part of the week, And I guess it'll be Friday.
So there's been this part that I've been looking from
all the bike that I write on the way back

(36:00):
from Malklahoma, years years years years years ago, and I've
been searching for a certain part for it and haven't
been able to found it. But I finally found it
and I ordered it and it came in the mail.
Sweet fantastic. So Friday, my brother comes over. We work
on that bike a little bit, trying to get back
on the road, get it real worthy. Decided to take
a break, go and eat at Tomali. Boys. I don't

(36:21):
know if you've ever eaten there. It's over on the
west side, over by Arnold's and that shopping center there
off of Southwest Boulevard. And it was all right, it
was all right, you know, we split, you know, half
a dozen Tomalays, you know, him and I and then
went and had some drinks whatever. So Friday was a
really good day. Really enjoyed that they got my haircut.

(36:44):
It was a good day Friday. That was the best
part of the weekend. This is good. It wasn't that bad.
And it was pretty affordable. You know, I ain't like
half a dozen Tomal's cost me. It was like ten
bucks or something like that, you know. And then his
old lady got something not you or whatnots like, I
forget what she got. Amazing. Yeah, it's a good little spot.

(37:05):
I've never heard of it before. And he's like, yeah,
I've discovered it, and let's go eat. And I'm like, well,
all right, then, well let's go eats. Listen to this.
These are French fries covered in sharp cheddar cheese, Queso
Biarda and naughty pine sauce.

Speaker 6 (37:20):
Those looks so amazing.

Speaker 1 (37:23):
Yeah, check it out. Check it out. It's good to Mally's.
You know, you can't go wrong with Tmali's. That sounds great. Yeah,
it sounds like You've had a great weekend so far.
Friday was awesome. The worst part of the weekend was yesterday.
The entire thing day Sunday could just suck it, suck it. Uh,
so get up right early. My brother's like, hey, let's

(37:45):
go play disc off early in the morning, right before
the sun comes out and it becomes unbearably hot. And
I'm like, all right, cool, so get up. You know
seven o'clock. We're supposed to meet at Chandler like you know, eight,
and the kids were supposed to join, but the kids
overslept and they didn't join. So it's just me and
my brother playing disc golf, all right, cool. We went
and played. I threw, like crap. It was terrible. The

(38:08):
disc would leave my hand and it's looking gray, and
the pal right into a tree every fing hole just
enough to twist your nipples. Okay, fine, whatever, I'm gonna
go back home and I'm just gonna call it a
to day. I'm I'm gonna work on a few things,
you know, And then I go, I go to the

(38:31):
parks store to get some parts, and I go when
I reach in my back pocket, and in my back
pocket is just my bank card. I lost my ID
somewhere on the golf course. Oh no, all right, fine,
we're getting carted while you were on whole twelve. Now,
it was just it was my my phone was in
my back pocket, and I think when I pull my

(38:53):
phone out, it just it flopped out with it. Uh,
not a big deal, all right, get online, which I
discovered you can you get a replacement and a renewal online.
I was like, well that's great. Yeah, saves me from
having to go to the tag office and you know,
look for my birth certificate and all this. They're like,
they're like, all right, so what we're gonna need is
a picture of your driver's license. And I'm like, oh, God,

(39:14):
damn it, I know I've got one in here somewhere.
So I had to scroll through like five years of
pictures in my phone. Finally found a picture of my
ID that wasn't expired. You know, it's a it's a valid,
still up to date feature or whatever. So I was
able to upload it. I was able to, you know,
at least start that process of replacing my driver's license

(39:37):
and getting that back. But yesterday it was just it
was just a rough day. Question answered, how will you
handle that drinking at Rockaholm. But don't they check your idea?
You have to get like a wristband. H Yes, I'm
sure I could figure something out. To be honest with you,
I have my ways.

Speaker 6 (39:57):
Yes, use this passport.

Speaker 1 (40:00):
Sure, I'll use my passport corbyin that's the only time
it'll ever be used. Do you have a passport? I
do have a pass Okay, it's expired, though it doesn't
I got a passport back in uh twenty ten, twenty ten.
I had plans to go to can Kun, but then

(40:22):
that fell through. So I got the passport, got all
that stuff, and then it fell through, and I was like, well,
at least I got a passport. And the event that
I ever decided to go traveling outside the state, and
I haven't done any traveling outside the country at all, whatsoever?
So best and worre's the weekend? What's the best thing
that happened this weekend? And the worst thing that happened
this weekend? Bmms and whatever that is to eight, two, nine,

(40:44):
four or five. Worst part of the weekend was I
had a couple of things. Had to pick up my
kid early from school because they said she had a fever.
No big deal, right, but there's been this leak happening
in my wife's car that based on the colors, like, ah,
that might be break fluid. Did the tests that I

(41:04):
know you can do and everything seemed fine, and by test,
I mean backing out of the driveway and hitting the
brake really hard. But the leak kept happening, and so
I was like, well, I just filled windshield wiper fluid.
Not uncommon for sometimes it had drun down part of

(41:24):
the whole frame and you know if I spilled it.
I was like, Oh, we'll just see what happens in
axt couple next couple days showed up again. My wife
was pretty concerned. And then I got another low wiper
alert fluid alert right, and I was like, oh, it's
one hundred percent not the breaks. Then it makes sense

(41:45):
because it's within seven days. I'm it's saying I need
more windshield wiper fluid. And did some digging around investigating
the pump cracks and breaks after so many cars got
one hundred twenty thousand miles on it, so the pump
for the windshield wipe or fluid needs to be replaced.
Here's the caveat. You have to take the wheel well off,

(42:06):
the wheel well shield thing whatever, and it is a
it is built into the side of the frame. The
reservoir is for efficiency and it's a thirty five dollars pump.
But I've got to probably take out twenty seven rivets
or twenty seven of those pop rivet things, and I

(42:27):
gotta get it up on a jack, so he's gonna
leave it be not an all fix. I'm afraid to
get in there. I just don't want to do It's
one hundred and ninety no doubt, truth truth. Yeah. Uh.
And that is probably the best part of the weekend
is because my kid was sick, I only had to
go to one cheerleading roasting and not two cheerleading roasting sessions.

(42:50):
They're on like separate teams or whatever. Yeah, oh yeah,
oh yeah, they were doing it together. No, I mean
they are, just they're different grades. So instead of doing
ten am and noon, I only had to do noon
when it's the hottest. Got there and they're like, no,
we worried about forty minutes behind. You're like, okay, good lad,

(43:11):
we're on time. Best and worse than the weekend? What's
the best thing that happened this weekend? And the worst
thing that happened this weekend? Best was playing fast pitch
softball for the first time, most fun I've had in
a while. Worse was playing in the heat Tomali's Boys
is solid. Also, the Coney Place right next door is legit.
Sure nice Bess went to check out the new outlet

(43:36):
mall with my little sister while she was in town.
We walked around maybe two minutes, turned around, went to
Taco Bell and thrifting instead. Worst, the Trail for Murder
of a very very dear friend friend's mom starts today.
The trial, Sorry trial. I was like, trail Trail for

(43:56):
murder sounds like a chickery movie. To be honest to
this person that's texting this goes to shows that have
bands that could be named Trail for murder. True dead. Uh,
she's the woman that was stabbed to death by her
boyfriend earlier this year in Tulsa. I want to be
there for support. Best watched Phillies versus Royals to check
off bucket list item worst three of six kids were there,

(44:18):
as in three more than there should be or not
all six. Best thing that happened to me was that
it is getting closer to rock Lahoma. Worst part is
my transmission went out in my car. That sucks. Best
of the weekend got to see my best friend of
fifteen years get married. Worst went by too quick didn't

(44:40):
seem to have time to relax. Was go go go
all weekend? Best spent the weekend at the lake. Worst
wife hadn't at had an attitude all weekend altitude? Well
she was up there. I'd be curious to what the
attitude was, like, what was it about? Yeah? Was she saying, hey,
be caref don't drink tonight, honey? Do you think maybe

(45:05):
you should since you can't stand You're done drinking?

Speaker 5 (45:07):
Right?

Speaker 1 (45:09):
Yeah? Tell people to deal woman I live in the
lar will want to. Or maybe she was very clingy.
That can be considered an attitude. Yeah. Uh, this says
you can get a print out of the tag agency
for a temp. I d while waiting for your ID
to show, So go and get a temp print out. Well,
it'll be nice carry a giant piece of paper around women. Yeah.

(45:32):
Uh had to get a new phone. Had to get
a new phone number, Best and Worst. I don't know
which ones which, Okay, yeah, but it's possible that it
could be both. Yeah, why they had to get a
new phone in number? Oh yeah, that's good too. Yeah
jilted X totally totally a good reason. Maybe, uh, you

(45:53):
cheated on your wife and to fix it You're like,
I'll just get a new phone. I'll show you like
I'm over. That's over right, right, that was old me,
old number, old me right. Yeah. For a second, was like, wait,
is there a story there? Yeah? Right, you were in
the CIA. Well yeah, that's a good one too. Yeah,
you are a world class chef and your phone has

(46:17):
been hacked and all your recipes are in your phone,
and you needed to change your number and get a
new phone, so you start all over again. Yeah. You
this was the phone for your car recovery business, and
you're tired of getting calls to go get people's toes,
so okay, you don't want to be called at midnight anymore.

(46:39):
It was your dad's phone that you got when he died,
and you used it, and you think it's finally time
to move on, so you went ahead and got a
new phone, new number. Okay, you are unfamiliar with how
block works on a phone. That's more likely what it is.

Speaker 6 (46:58):
Got out of the mafia.

Speaker 1 (47:01):
Well yeah, because you know what's really annoying is when
those hitmen call him like, hey, where are your new phone?
We're looking for you. We're looking for Vinnie. Okay, no
Vinnie here, sir. Yeah, I don't know if the annoying
phone calls is enough to get a new phone number

(47:22):
cause answer or hip block. Yeah, even creditors block. Right,
that's a fun thing about caller ID. And I know
I'm not the only one. If I don't recognize the number,
I'm not answering the phone and if it's important enough,
they'll leave a voicemail and then I'll check out. Then
what is the percentage of certainty you must have to
answer a phone number that you know the number? Well,

(47:45):
it has to have the name like the persons you have,
so it has to be saved in your phone, right exactly.
So it doesn't matter if you know the number. It
has to be saved in your phone. Yeah, Because I
mean I don't really know numbers anymore. I was looking
at my girlfriend's phone numbers the other day. I was
about to text her, and I was like, answer a
phone number? Huh, how about that? I might want to
memorize that in case I don't know, something happens. But

(48:05):
you know, you just you open up your phone and
start dialing or putting in their name where you go
to your messages, and it's like, all right, we'll go
to this person's name and then open it up and
call them from there. Holy cow, it's pretty serious. If
you're saying she's she's coming the in case of emergency person,
it's good, you know what?

Speaker 6 (48:23):
Right?

Speaker 1 (48:23):
You never know, yeah, never know when you sp No judgment.
I'm just saying as an observation when you're like, ah,
something happens. So like, if you go to jail, she's
the person you're calling, i'd either her or my brother.
I should really probably memorize my brother's phone number two.
But I think they let you get into your phone
now while you're in jail to make those phone calls
for that reason. Right, it's not like back in the
day we went it tomorrow. Yeah, right, who's going to jail?

(48:46):
Not it?

Speaker 5 (48:47):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (48:49):
Kids and all that? All right? Yeah, god, it's gonna
make sense. Best got five days off work. Worst got
five days suspension from work for calling out twice for
my sick kids. What that doesn't seem right? You got
a five They gave you more days off for because
you had sick kids. Don't you have sick days? Maybe

(49:13):
they used them all already. Okay, maybe this is habitual thing. Yeah,
kids really aren't even sick who probably bill went up
too much on one carrier. That's a good one too,
that makes sense, Like, hey, you don't want to pay
the bill, right, so you're just changing your number. I
can't do that, man, I've had this number forever and

(49:34):
I have to change everything. No, you know you're not
comfortable with the idea of not having the security having
the same number as you, Yeah, because I like it.
I've had the number for too long. But so what man,
Then I'd have to learn a whole new number, you know,
from when you're filling out paperwork. Oh damn, old man.
I can't tell you how many times I'll be like,

(49:55):
you know, people call in right they went prize, and
I'm like, all right, what's fun? I'm and they're like, oh,
hold on, I got it new phone, and then I
gotta And then you can hear them rustle in scrolling
through trying to hold all one second, gimp, but it's
my new phone. I gotta find the phone number. Then
they'll scroll through and they'll finally find their number and
they're like, all right, you ready, yes, all right, it's

(50:16):
five three nine, all right. Yeah, It's not that big
of an obstacle, man, it's a bigger obstacle to deal
with your driver's license. Maybe make sure that's a little
more secure. That was easy, man, he's get online boom pal. Now.
I was just like, oh, gotta tell everybody this is

(50:37):
my new number. Now everybody I know is gonna be
getting tags mass just saying hey, it's gimpy, this is
my new number. Save this one. That's interesting because when
I changed my number, I went, uh, I told like
the people I like needed it, yeah, and then everyone
else I didn't care, right because I figured they would
figure out how to get a hold of me. Yeah eventually, Yeah, yeah,

(51:00):
I don't that's interesting. All right. We got to take
a break. We've got VIP tickets to Rocklholm we're gonna
give away, and we come back.

Speaker 7 (51:07):
Tulsa's Morning Show. Oh yeah, he's coming right back, A
Big Mad Morning Show, Tulsa's Rock Station ninety seven five KMOD.

Speaker 1 (51:26):
Good morning, It's the Big Mad Morning Show. Nine one,
eight four six Oh KMOD can also text bmms and
then what you want to say to eight two nine
four five. See what Gimbie has in this four by four. Well,
it says here that the first human case polio recorded
in Gaza as vaccines are set to o rye. The

(51:49):
first human case of polio in the Gaza Strip has
been found in a Palestinian infant. This has hundreds of
thousands of doses of polio vaccine are set to a
arrive in the coming days. The WHO says that the
baby is in stable condition, despite losing movement in his
lower left legs. Humanitarian officials say for the upcoming vaccination

(52:12):
campaign to be effective, upwards of ninety percent of children
in the Strip must receive two rounds of the vaccinem
Trump plans to form a committee to look into presidential assassinations.
He made the announcement during a rally in Arizona Friday night.
Says the committee will be tasked with releasing all the

(52:34):
remaining documents pertaining to the assassination of John F. Kennedy,
as well as conducting a rigorous review of the attack
against him last month. I'm wanna pause right there. Even
if they do like release this information, the remaining documents
pertaining most of it's going to be redacted in blacked out,
isn't it. I mean, so you're not really getting anything

(52:57):
or how do you know it's the truth exactly? Exactly.
It's still the government, right right, Oh, sure, we'll tell
you everything we know, No, they won't. What else we
got here? Russia and Ukraine exchange one hundred and fifteen
prisoners each. The two countries swapped one hundred and fifteen

(53:17):
pow Saturday, with the United Arab Emirates acting as the intermediary.
It marks the first exchange since Ukraine launched a suppress
attack earlier this month on Russia's Kersk region. Reuters says
it was the largest attack by a foreign power inside
Russian territory since World War II. The Russian Defense Ministry

(53:39):
says the Russian servicemen that were returned had been captured
in the Kersk region and then lastly here. The Lemonade
Project begins its thirtieth anniversary celebration. The Lemonade Project is
a citywide charity events where kids are provided with the
materials to set up a lemonade stand to raise money

(54:00):
for those in need. It's begun its thirtieth anniversary celebration
festivities starting on Saturday. Ten local eateries partnered with the
Lemonade Project to create lemon inspired treats. Ah Somebody give
us man a baby from August twenty fourth to September second.
People can enjoy those horrible, delicious drinks and more. It's

(54:25):
not about the lemonade. It's about teaching kids to like
be entrepreneurial. I wander do they supply them with, like
the wood and the nails and the hammer to build
your own stand where you're like, here's something they do anymore.
I think they've pretty much accepted the table with a
hendritten sign. Here you go dollars, sir. Yeah, yeah, I
feel bad that you don't enjoy lemonade. It's so good,

(54:46):
but I'm sure it isn't. Ah.

Speaker 6 (54:54):
The Rams are giving one of their young defensive playmakers
permission to seek a trade. ESPN is reporting that Los
Angeles is granted linebacker Ernest Jones, the fourth and his
agents the ability to find a trade partner for the team.
This comes after both sides failed to come to an
agreement on a contract extension earlier this offseason. Jones had

(55:14):
one hundred and forty five total tackles and four and
a half sacks in fifteen games played last season. The
twenty four year old was selected in the third round
of the twenty twenty one NFL Draft out of South Carolina.
The Steelers are closer to picking their number one quarterback
this season. Russell Wilson started the team's preseason finale against
the Lions on Saturday and needed just five snaps to

(55:37):
score a touchdown. Justin Fields entered the game. Afterward, Head
coach Mike Tomlin told the media he wanted to see
results and was satisfied watching the first team offense under Wilson.
Pittsburgh still hasn't named a starter after both players arrived
in the offseason.

Speaker 1 (55:52):
It's absolutely going to be Russell Wilson. Just Fields did
not look good. He looked very Justin Fields. Yeah, And
I don't know how much you can take into account
how great Russell Wilson was when pretty much every team
didn't have their starters playing, So it's not like he
went against the number one defense.

Speaker 6 (56:10):
Yeah, it was easy for him to look good.

Speaker 1 (56:12):
You could make that argument. Short.

Speaker 6 (56:15):
The Cowboys are heading into the regular season without a
key defensive player. Deron Bland suffered a stress fracture in
his foot and is expected to miss six to eight weeks. Yeah.
The team hopes he can return sometime in mid October,
with the bye week taking place on the twentieth the
Pro Bowl. Corner picked up nine passes last season and
returned five of them for touchdowns. He had five interceptions

(56:38):
and his rookie year after he was taken in the
fifth round of the twenty twenty two draft.

Speaker 1 (56:42):
Go ahead and start writing that down there, cowboy fan,
you want to start those excuses now.

Speaker 6 (56:48):
And Believes have arrested a suspect after a theft at
Memphis men's basketball coach Penny Hardaway's house earlier this month.
Hardaway spoke to Memphis television station WRIG earlier last week,
saying twenty six pairs of his Nike shoes were stolen
from his home. Memphis Belief spokesman officer Joseph Hibbler told
ESPN that forty two year old Ronald James had been

(57:08):
charged with theft of property. ESPN obtained a police report
that said a man was caught on camera stealing the
merchandise and pushing boxes in a shopping cart close to
Hardaway's house.

Speaker 1 (57:20):
Wow, that's impressive.

Speaker 6 (57:22):
Yeah. Yeah. And there's a long overdue bonus coming to
those who decide to subscribe to NFL Sunday Ticket on
YouTube TV. For the first time, fans will have access
to a customizable multiview game presentation where they can watch
to watch two, three, or four games on the same
split screen. And in addition, there's Fantasy View where you

(57:44):
can connect your fantasy account to see key plays and
multiview combinations catered to your fantasy teams. Which I believe
that if you do the Sunday ticket, it's three forty
nine a month.

Speaker 1 (57:56):
It's not three forty nine a month.

Speaker 6 (57:57):
To add that to it.

Speaker 1 (57:59):
I think the overall price is pretty ridiculous, but you're
talking three forty nine for what four months? Five months?

Speaker 5 (58:10):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (58:12):
Forty If you have three dollars and forty nine cents.

Speaker 6 (58:15):
No forty nine?

Speaker 1 (58:17):
Are you making that up? Are you just guessing?

Speaker 6 (58:19):
If you have Sunday ticket, I think it's one seventy
nine a month, and then if you add the Sunday ticket,
it's three forty nine a month.

Speaker 1 (58:27):
Is say that sentence again?

Speaker 6 (58:29):
So one hundred and seventy nine dollars or YouTube TV
and if you add Sunday ticket, you're paying three hundred
and forty nine dollars.

Speaker 1 (58:36):
Okay, Yeah, it's one hundred and fifty to add per
month to add the Sunday ticket. Yeah, I thought you
were saying it was three fifty to add the fantasy thing.

Speaker 6 (58:46):
No, no, no, no, yeah, no, it ain't cheap, No
it's not.

Speaker 1 (58:49):
It says a six hundred and seventy nine ninety nine
for Sunday ticket and if you throw in the red
zone it'll cost you seventy three seven thirty nine total total. Yeah,
that's two month. I've never heard them per month thing.
But either way, I as a huge NFL fan, I
don't find it worth it. It doesn't get me games.
I want to see, which are Chiefs games. They've got

(59:11):
to go to a team model so I can get
all the Chiefs games. That's the only way I'll pay it.
So the next step is just how long? How long
until that happens? I don't know.

Speaker 6 (59:23):
And that's your balls the Wall Sports. I'm lindsay in
ninety seven five kmod.

Speaker 1 (59:40):
Good morning, it's the Big Man Morning Show. Nine four
six oh kmod. So I was just going down the
rabbit hole of Sid Wilson slip Nott who burned himself.
Apparently he fell into a burn pile, oh my goodness,
like he was burning trash or something I guess, ripped
and fell right into it. I guess, and I'm maybe

(01:00:03):
throwing stuff in it and exploding or whatever. There's a video
on his Instagram of him trying to shave with like
a trunk out of his face, his arm all bandaged up.
But I didn't know he was married to Ozzie's daughter.

Speaker 6 (01:00:15):
Yeah, Kelly. I don't know if they're married, but they
do have a little Sydney together.

Speaker 1 (01:00:20):
Baby boy, you know quite a lot about him, yeah,
blade more night. I learned that this morning. I was
on the Facebook or whatever, and it was like, you know,
the back at home at him and Kelly's rancher house
or whatever. Okay, okay, good for them anyway. He looks fine,

(01:00:42):
but if his hands all bandaged up, Yeah, how's he
gonna play? I don't know. Well, but there's enough members
in that band they could probably let him go. Person
with mass exactly, get a guitar tech or whatever. Whoever's playing,
they will be playing. Yeah. So we had somebody lined
up for our listeners are awesome and as life goes,

(01:01:03):
things get kicked around. This person had a better offer,
soe you bitches, they needed to go in and get
their snacky roller off the thing at the quick trip.
But I saw this this morning. This was I love
stuff like this when you find facts about things that
you didn't know were out there. And some of them
are big deal, a lot of big deal. Some of

(01:01:25):
them are like whatever, Right, Like this one I don't
think is a big deal. But this says it took
the inventor of the Rubik's Cube a month to solve it.
It's his own damn toy. Right, you should know this already.

Speaker 6 (01:01:38):
I've got this great idea for a little cube with
a bunch of colors. Puzzle.

Speaker 1 (01:01:44):
Apparently the inventor, Emo Rubic struggled with solving it when
he first developed the cube in the seventies. He couldn't
figure out how to match up all the colorful sides.
Took him a whole month. There are forty three books,
zillion gazillion possible combinations. But you should be able to
figure it out in twenty moves.

Speaker 6 (01:02:06):
Huh, No way, twenty moves.

Speaker 1 (01:02:10):
There's a diagram online of how to do it in
twenty moves. I remember having one and couldn't for the
only way I figured out how to do was to
pop the colors off and then put him back. Yeah,
it was the only way to figure that out. So anyway,
things like that are on this list, right. I think
this one's pretty awesome. Andre the Giant's body was flown
to the US for cremation because no crematorium in France

(01:02:33):
was big enough. Wow. Okay, So are we saying that
the Americans are naturally bigger than the French? I mean
maybe in the nineties, this was not, you know, possible. Remember,
he was over seven feet tall and when he died
of heart failure, they cremated him in North Carolina, where

(01:02:58):
he apparently owned a ranch. Hmm. And the funeral director
had to borrow a forklift from a local building supply
company when the body arrived in its massive shipping container,
so they used a forklift to move him into the
garage where the crematory tory oven was located. He weighs

(01:03:20):
like five hundred pounds or something like that, so they
had to wait until the forklift operator left before he
opened the box and then saw Andrea the Giant's face.
They said, the creation job usually takes one funeral home employee.
His took four. The men moved Andre's body to a

(01:03:41):
different wooden container, one that would be burned along with him,
so it'd be easier. Man. We've talked about this before.
I am so fascinated with how we treat people when
they die. Why you say that, what do you mean
picking somebody up with a fork lift? Yeh feels insane? Yeah,

(01:04:03):
but he was five hundred and twenty pounds. Sure, so
that's five hundred and twenty pounds of dead weight, which
is way different than just normal weight. I just get hugging.

Speaker 6 (01:04:13):
He did it?

Speaker 1 (01:04:15):
Pick him up? Body slam them. Oh yeah, I get it.
I'm not saying they were wrong. I'm saying it's weird
to think. Here you are when you die, you're supposed
to be treated with this like angelic behavior, and they're
like the forklyft coming through I think, And I'm probably wrong,

(01:04:40):
but I would I would imagine there's not much. I mean,
they just kind of handle them, you know, like, okay,
so when babies are first born, people freak out because
the doctor's got it hanging upside down by its leg
or whatever, you know, and they're like, oh my god,
it's such it's a baby. But the doctors do that
every day, so they know how to handle the baby.
They know what's going on. They can do that. You know,
if we did it, we would be strung up in

(01:05:01):
the streets for it. So with that being said, I
feel like when it comes to the opposite, when it
comes to death, you know, you could roll right off
onto the floor and I'd be like, oh, oh, are
you really going with the trust me. I'm an expert.

Speaker 6 (01:05:16):
I mean what they could have, I mean they could
have probably what dismembered him to make him lighter and
then throw him in there.

Speaker 1 (01:05:22):
But I also feels a little bizarre. Why like just
make a get said available, make an open pit. Right again,
I'm not blaming them. I don't know if I don't
have a better mouse trap. I'm just saying you think
about like when you die, and you don't expect a
forklift to be the thing. No, I would imagine they

(01:05:43):
would have gotten you know, several other workers involved. All right,
everybody get an end pick them up? You know? Is
that more bro I have seen the forks on forklifts
like penetrate solid object at balls and cars stuff, you know,
So imagine you get a nube on the forklift, say

(01:06:06):
the funeral home directors never operated a forklift before, and
he can't and then bam sticks one of those forks
right through Andrea the Giant, and then he got Andre
juice all over the place. Not a thing I expect.
By the way, I was in the room for both
my children being born. Never saw the baby held upside down.

(01:06:27):
Not saying it doesn't happen, just saying I never saw it. Also,
it could have happened, don't remember. Kind of a busy moment, Yeah,
A lot going on, a lot of memories happening, a
lot of core things happening right then. So I didn't
take that one into account. Really. Daryl Hall and John
Oates met while taking cover from gunfire. Huh hm, well,

(01:06:47):
wait a minute, where are they? Are they from Detroit?
That might make sense? Uh, they met, uh in a
very dramatic way. They both grew up in Pennsylvania, like
many kids from the area that both ended up as
undergraduates at Philadelphia's Temple University. They joined different music groups.
Hall was a part of the established temp Tones, well

(01:07:11):
Oates joined the up and coming Masters, and both acts
were scheduled to perform at Philadelphia's Adelphi Ballroom on the
same night nineteen sixty seven. The show devolved into chaos
when audience members began to fight in the video a venue.
According to one of them, I don't know which one

(01:07:31):
said this, we'll go with Hall because he's cooler. There
were chains and knives and shots rang out. The show
was over. We were on the upper floor and there
was a lift down to the street, so I ran
and jumped into it, and John Oates was in it too,
and I said, oh, well you didn't get to go

(01:07:51):
on either. How you doing? You go to Temple University.
I go to Temple University. See you later by And
that was that's how we met. Hmmm, interesting chains and
knives and such.

Speaker 6 (01:08:04):
It sounds like West Side Story, right.

Speaker 1 (01:08:06):
Worrios come out too well when you hear people talk
about like I don't go to shows, it's too dangerous, bitch.
That's nineteen sixty seven where they had whips and chains
and knives inside at a at a Masters and a
Temptones show. That just sounds like a rough crowd. I

(01:08:29):
gotta go. I already feel weird listening to rap pulling
into whole foods. I can't imagine what the lyrics are
from a Temptones song.

Speaker 6 (01:08:38):
Ludicrous was singing about a Temptones concert, whips and chains, handcuffs.

Speaker 1 (01:08:44):
The old times pain respect. Jamaican police once opened fire
on Jimmy Buffett's plane because they thought he was smuggling drugs.
That's what their excuse was. Officially, They're like, there are
no oh cheeseburger's here by here Margeritaville, one more time,

(01:09:07):
It's happen. In January of nineteen ninety six, when he
got shot at, he had just landed in Jamaica on
his private plane entitled the Hemisphere. Dancer Bono and Bono's
wife and children were with him, and before anyone could exit,
they were met with an unexpected, unwelcome Surprised local police

(01:09:29):
officers fired seven shots at the plane, mistakenly assuming it
was involved in a smuggling drugs. Bono later described his
feelings about it. He said, these boys were shooting all
over the place. It felt as if we were in
the middle of a James Bond movie, only this was real.
It was absolutely terrifying, and I honestly thought we were

(01:09:50):
all gonna die. Thank god, we were safe and sound.
My only concern was for the safety of everyone. It
was very scary. You can't believe the relief I felt
when I saw the kids were okay. For his part,
Jimmy Buffett didnt appear to shake it. In fact, he
used the incident as fodder for one of his jaw songs,
Jamaica mistaka Thanks jim quote like all things, it made

(01:10:16):
for a good song. I know that there are times
in my life when I probably should have been shot
at for a lot worse behavior, because they sure, But
on this particular instance it was I was innocent, not
even a spliff. Nobody was hurt, so I said, let's
just get on with it. Some people said, God, you
could have sued them, You could have sued the government.

(01:10:36):
But I went, now, it's probably karma. Worry. Even now,
he doesn't even look like the kind of person that
would have drugs on, which is exactly why he probably
does exactly right. You know who doesn't get freaked out
when gunshots are fired? Right? People who are around gunshots? Yeah,
Jimmy Buffett all this whole time was like leader of

(01:10:56):
this cartel or something. How about the most gangsta app
them out? There is a song out there as a
song by Jimmy Buffett being shot at slingings pleefs in Jamaica.
You never would have guessed that, right, right, New Mexico
is the only state with a state question. Okay, right,

(01:11:20):
everybody at state birds, right, state flowers? Right, that's that's
a very common thing. But in uh, New Mexico, they
have a state question and the state question is red
or green? Okay? Is there an answer to the state question?

(01:11:41):
Is there a state answer to the state question? No?
This is actually really brilliant if you think about it.
Because state flower, you go, okay, state bird, You're like, okay,
Like scissor tail is the state bird for Oklahoma, right,
and you go okay. That makes sense. That bird is
associated makes you ask questions or should about the state.

(01:12:04):
This state question does the same thing. Peppers peppers, Okay,
that makes sense. I'm just glad they had time in
the legislature to focus on something like this. And I
would love to know the vote count. Guys, we need
to stand out amongst forty nine other states. How are

(01:12:26):
we going to do? I don't like this question. No,
I don't like it. Should be greener red, not red
or green? Doing the real work. I didn't know this,
but it's a pretty popular song that Outcast did. But

(01:12:47):
did you know Rosa Parks sued Outcast for using her
name what I didn't know that she was obviously in
the song Rosa Parks to honor her. She didn't welcome
the honor, especially because some of the lyrics are everybody
moved to the back of the bus. Do you want

(01:13:09):
to bump and slump with us? We the type of
people make the club get crunk some of the lyrics
she objected to. She was eighty six at the time.
She filed a lawsuit against the group for using her
name to make a profit. After a long legal road,
they eventually settled with her in two thousand and five,

(01:13:30):
just before her passing death later that year. They had
just held out a little bit longer. Right. The group
was confused about the lawsuit, said it was kind of
weird because I think Rosa Parks was misled. She was
misled by her handlers. They just wanted to get some
money out of it. An outcast. Didn't mean any harm.

(01:13:52):
It was a tribute, but her people felt like it
was slander. I mean, I guess I can understand when
you become the face of civil rights movements and then
somebody's using your name to talk about getting crunk in
the club. Yeah, I could see you going a She
very well, and probably was misled, right, She probably was
just like her handlers were the ones doing all the stuff.

(01:14:14):
But the idea of being like, hey call it's no, no, no,
it's a tribute, right, and she's very much against it.
Didn't know that caught me off guard, this one. I didn't.
I have a hard time believing this one. But the
virgin Mary is often depicted in art as getting pregnant

(01:14:37):
through the ear, right, you can't do that. Well, to
be fair, she's a virgin. I think you can do
it anyway you think you might. That is true, And
I'm sure there's a joke about a hole, but I'm not.
Can't you hear me? Now? Can't you hear me? No?

(01:15:00):
In many of the scenes, the artists depict Mary as
getting conceiving through the ear. The Holy Spirit, frequently depicted
as a bird in Christian iconography, is often illustrated flying
into Mary's ear at the time of Christ's conception, as
in the following refrain, as it was in Holy Mary's womb,

(01:15:22):
driven there in the form of a bird uote. This,
of course, was a simple, convenient way of visually depicting
the complex notion of incarnation. Huh. I'm gonna have to
look next time I'm in a museum and be like, hey,
how are they depicting Virgin Mary conceiving never knew this,

(01:15:44):
But at least they're addressing addressing it because there's questions.
CIA accidentally left explosive material on a school bus for
two days in twenty sixteen. That's recently. This happened in
twenty sixteen and approves that the CIA had an oops
moment that year. The agency was conducting training exercises involving

(01:16:07):
a school bus out a high school in Virginia. Bomb
sniffing dogs are supposed to locate explosive material hidden on
the bus. However, things didn't happen as planned. According to
the Shore Sheriff's Office quote, it's part of training exercise
last week, Canine explosive detection training was conducted in areas
inside and outside the high school. During the outside portion
of the training, the training material was hidden inside an

(01:16:29):
engine compartment of the bus. At some point, a portion
of the material appears to have been dislodged from the container.
It fell into the engine compartment of the bus and
was not recovered following the training. Instead, the not recovered
explosive material remained under the hood for two days, even
as twenty six students piled on and off the bus
during normal school commutes. Good lord, no one was injured.

(01:16:53):
Well that's good.

Speaker 6 (01:16:55):
Yeah, all right, guys, let's go to lunch.

Speaker 1 (01:16:58):
Hey, did you get the bombs? No? I thought you
got the explosive this he got the one under the seat.
Got the tire one? Yeah, No, I think we're good
man to get the tire one? Yeah, yeah, yeah, Spie
got it? Yeah, sure, yeah, I think so. Do you
My stomach, yeah, is a real hungry. The head of

(01:17:19):
the FBI, I'm sorry. The head of the Federal Bureau
of Narcotics allegedly gave Joseph McCarthy morphine. This happened in
the nineteen thirties. Apparently, Harry Ainslinger became head of the
now defunct Federal Bureau of Narcotics. In that role, he
was the architect of the American War on drugs that

(01:17:40):
continues to have repercussions steven today. He especially targeted cannabis
and rebranded it as dangerous violent. According to one writer,
Ainslinger purposely referred to the drug as marijuana and not
cannabis because he was tapping into the very deep anxieties
in the culture connecting with Americans of color, especially Latin immigrants.

(01:18:04):
Despite a reputation as general in the fight against drugs,
Ainslinger wasn't above providing friends and acquaintances with feel good substances.
He gave morphine to Joseph McCartney, the Center from a
senator from Wisconsin who would fan the flames of the
anti communist Red scare in the post war eras I go,

(01:18:26):
what you need? Hey, will you make a meeting with Anslinger?
I have a question about their confiscation. Sure, even then,
drugs were running rampant amongst them. All Right, we got
to take a break.

Speaker 7 (01:18:42):
We'll be back to Tulsa's Morning Show continues next with
a Big Man Morning Show on Tulsa's rock station ninety
seven five.

Speaker 1 (01:19:07):
Good morning, It's the Big Man Morning Show, nine six KMOD.
We are in the midst of back to school and
everybody knows every good doctor goes on TikTok to give advice. Yes,
and that's the same when it comes to back to school.
And this doctor that has shared the top back to

(01:19:31):
school safety tips, and all of them are fine, except
for one that caught me off guard. Six of them.
I completely expected one of them. I was like, huh,
so let's get to the ones I expected. Helmets are
a must. Yes, kids fall off bikes, Helmets protect their brain.

(01:19:51):
Definitely worth having a lot of kids ride bikes to
I don't know if a lot of kids ride bike
to school anymore. No, just crack kids. Those are the
only ones that really ride bikes anymore. Uh, I don't
know about that. But okay, God, growing up, like there
was a like a massive place for you to put
your bike to lock it up at school.

Speaker 6 (01:20:10):
I can't even tell you the last time I saw
a place to put bikes.

Speaker 1 (01:20:16):
There are apparently, like a lot of my nieces and
nephews don't even know how to ride bikes. Is that
just like a fading thing now? Like kids just don't
want to learn how to ride bikes. I don't know.
I made it a point to make sure all my
kids learn how to ride a bike. Yeah, you know,
because at least growing up, and we say it, dear
in the toy drive, you know what kid doesn't want
a bike? It's easily the most sought after toy, right yeah? Yeah,

(01:20:37):
But now it looks like, oh, I'm good. Yeah, But nonetheless,
wearing a helmet, they say, is very important. Tector Crean,
I expected that to be on the list, right. Uh,
there's a right and safe way to walk down the street.
It says that kids should walk against traffic to keep
an eye on wayward cars. They should always use the

(01:20:58):
sidewalk if available, of course, and have reflectors attached to
their backpacks. In addition, this doctor says kids need to
look both ways before crossing the street, even if the
cross walk light is in your favor. Okay, that makes sense, right,
And if you're in the street if there's no sidewalk, yeah,
you should walk against traffic. But I like the idea

(01:21:19):
of even if there's sidewalk, you walk on the side
going against traffic so you can see cars coming towards you.
That way, you don't have somebody pull up behind you
and stop and be all tricky. Yeah, that makes sense.
I never thought of that. But again, I don't know
a lot of kids that walk to school very It's
got to be a very small number. It seems like
a lot of them are just getting dropped off or

(01:21:40):
ride the bus.

Speaker 6 (01:21:42):
I feel like at our elementary school there's a lot
of walkers. Not I would say it was the last
time you read there the well, I picked my kids
up from school, so there's quite a few walkers. Really well,
a lot of them live in the neighborhood of the school,
so there's quite a bit.

Speaker 1 (01:22:03):
This says, but I walking crosswalk all that was expecting
me in the sist right. Make sure your kids have
proper identification on them, they say, it's important to have
important contact in your kids' backpacks, especially if you're if
walking or right into school. Put a laminated card with
their name, phone number, and their dress so if they
get sick, are injured and can't communicate, we can still

(01:22:23):
get a hold of you. Okay, it's a good idea. Yeah, uh,
definitely don't put your kid's name embroidered on the back
of your back kid's backpack, right, so you can have
you know, you know Chester the Chomo, right, being like, hey,
you know Adam or whatever. Yeah, makes sense. Tricky strangers

(01:22:46):
are real. Again, totally expected that to be on a list.
Got to deal with that. Backpacks and school's equal germs
one hundred percent. I'm a dork about washing my kids
backpack and their lunch. I'm a licee all fiend because yeah,
they throw them on the ground, they don't care whatever. Yeah,

(01:23:07):
try to try to do the best I can to
mitigate those germs coming into my house.

Speaker 6 (01:23:10):
I keep the the lysol wipes too, a little like
to go package inside their backpack as well, so they
can have access to those.

Speaker 1 (01:23:18):
Hopefully they will use them correctly. Yeah. Right, when driving
your kids, be safe, no distractions. Right. We already told
a story this month of a woman taking her kid
to school and driving over her kid. Right. Again, expected
all these, here's the one I didn't expect. Middle school
kids should be aware of substances being passed around. I'm

(01:23:42):
not oblivious to the fact that drugs are in school.
Not oblivious. I hear middle school. I think like sixth, seventh,
eighth grade. Yeah, that caught me off guard. Yeah, maybe
it's more of the sixth part caught me off guard.
We were smoking cigarettes, but we weren't doing the drugs yet.

(01:24:04):
So but times change.

Speaker 6 (01:24:08):
When Marcus was in sixth grade, there was a girl
on his bus that got sick from bringing gummies to
school or got into her parents dash.

Speaker 1 (01:24:20):
Apparently THC gummies.

Speaker 6 (01:24:22):
Huh got sick at school?

Speaker 1 (01:24:24):
That's what this says. This says the doctor's saying they're
seeing a lot of THHC gummies making their way around
middle schools and the kids need to be paying attention
to that. Yeah, I mean, okay, yeah, kids did the
same thing beforehand. They just pinched their parents' bag, you
know what I mean? Yes, but me putting you know,
the flower is a completely different look. Then here's a gummy.

(01:24:48):
You don't know it absolutely absolutely because it looks like
it's like any other kind of gummy candy. And if
it's not in its right packaging, teachers wouldn't know. So
how are they gonna how are they gonna figure that out? Well,
it says to make sure you talk to your kids
about it so they're aware they're just because somebody hands
you a gummy bear doesn't mean it's a gummy bear? Like,

(01:25:11):
can I get what you're saying now? It's not so
much getting caught which your your kids taking it from.
Hey you want a gummy Yeah, have some community. Yeah,
which to me, as someone who's done some edibles, huh
that sounds terrifying. Yeah, only because the milligram dosage can

(01:25:32):
be completely different exactly, and the kids don't know, to
eat half of it or a quarter of it. You know,
they they pull one out of mom and Dad's bag,
you know, and it's a it's one of those you know,
two thousand milligram bag where each one's like two hundred
and fifty milligrams or whatever. Next thing, you know, Johnny's
laid out, done, drooling all over himself, having the time

(01:25:54):
of his life. And it's not like mine's laying out.
My stuff isn't laying out, it's put away. There's they cannot,
I get it. Yeah, they cannot. And even when they
think they start, like during that age where I know
they'll go snooping around, I'm going to be even more
diligent about hiding it. Definitely right, put it in a
locked container. Now, I'm not as recreational as GIMPI, So

(01:26:19):
maybe it's different if you're partaking more frequently. Maybe how
you leave it out? Oh yeah, I mean mine, when
I had the kids around, it stayed in my room.
And nobody's allowed in my room right except for me.
But isn't that a naive thought to think that they're
not going to go into your room when you're not there? No,
because I don't you know, usually I wouldn't they we'd

(01:26:42):
all be together basically, is what I'm saying. You know,
so they would never be in the house when you
aren't there because I got home early enough. It's where
I was there when they got home from school. If
we're going to the store, it's pack everybody and come on,
let's go. Well, no long leg fall asleep? Do sessions?

(01:27:04):
Now that's a different story. But again, I'm in my bathroom,
which is in my room, and I feel like I
would know if they're coming in there. But you're right,
I mean they can still sneak in at any point
in time. Yeah, I think it's naive to think just
because you know, they know not to go in my room.

Speaker 5 (01:27:18):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:27:19):
Kids, you even say that. Get kids are kids, man, Yeah,
they're gonna be tricky.

Speaker 6 (01:27:24):
Or there might even be a time where you're at
home and you ask your child to go get something
for you out of your room.

Speaker 1 (01:27:30):
Oh no, like what would I ask I don't know
what would I ask my kid to go get out
of my room for me?

Speaker 6 (01:27:36):
No idea? Maybe a pillow or something, who knows a pillow.
Maybe it's a movie night in the living room and
you want a comfy pillow, go grab the one off
from my ba.

Speaker 1 (01:27:45):
I would get up and get it myself. They're not
my Errand do you ask your kids to go get
stupid comfortable? Do you ask your kids to go get
stupid things like that?

Speaker 6 (01:27:54):
Yeah? If they're up, like, hey, will you grab me
a glass of ice water?

Speaker 1 (01:27:57):
Yeah? My parents did this up and I hated it. Yes,
give me a glass tea? Would you? Hey, take my
shoes off for me? Would you your own damn shoes off?
Rub my corns? Oh god, get my foot bath ready?
Where's the epsom salt? Get out of here? Yeah? Built

(01:28:21):
in slaves. Isn't that why we have kids? No? It
just not not for me at least. I really could
use some help around the house. Let's have a child, right, Hey, Hey,
I'm all for Hey, it takes this whole house to
make it run. But not also go rub daddy's corns.

Speaker 7 (01:28:43):
M h.

Speaker 1 (01:28:43):
Get me a beer and you can have a sip
those really good old days. All right, We got to
take a break. We'll be back.

Speaker 7 (01:28:51):
Elsa's Morning Show, The Big Man Boarding Show. The assault
continues the next thirty seven.

Speaker 1 (01:29:17):
Good Morning, It's the Big Man Morning shown six km
D A lot of schools started football. High school football
started last week, some did some like practice games. Uh.
This story that I'm going to read you comes out
of Alabama, where a sixteen year old died after being

(01:29:41):
struck during a game on Friday night. Damn. He was
injured while making a tackle in the third quarter of
a game the opening game. This specific nature of his
injury is unclear. Following the injury, was taken to the
hospital in critical condition. He was then flown to another
hot spittal before ultimately succumbing to his injuries. He had

(01:30:04):
passed and rushed for a touchdown in the game before
getting hurt. Obviously, people are distraught. Obviously it is incredibly sad,
and he could have had a hard thing. I mean,
there could have been one hundred different things. There's no
clear answer yet on what caused his death. Here is

(01:30:25):
the question, do they continue the football season? Oh, I'm
sure they will, and I'm sure your opinion. Oh mmmm, no,

(01:30:45):
your kid plays on the team, went to camps all summer.
Do they continue the season the senior year? This is
the year that they decide where he's if he's gonna
get a scholarship, if he's gonna go to a school.
Do they continue the season? Kimp, Yes, you continue the season,

(01:31:08):
and you dedicate it to Cody or to the Gipper
Finsy or whatever the hell this kid's name is, you know,
and then carry on because there are other players on
that team that are expecting to play and have the
exact same hopefuls as Kinsey or Cody or whatever the
hell his name is. You know, same seniors looking to

(01:31:29):
see are they gonna get signed to a college or
are they going to go somewhere, you know what I'm saying. So,
of course you're gonna rob all these other kids of
their opportunity to for themselves and play college ball, potentially
go on to the pros. Because one kid happened to
die after getting hit, and we don't know what happened.
We don't know if it was underlying medical or was

(01:31:51):
it that he just got hit so hard that his
heart exploded, whatever, whatever, We don't know. We don't know.
So you're gonna ruin all these other kids future. I
think rob is a little harsh. They're not getting robbed.
Unfortunate things happen in life. I mean, the kid died,
their friend died, a classmate diedemate died. Those are pretty

(01:32:12):
serious things to take on as a child. Absolutely, but
you said it yourself. You know, as kids have gone
to camps and they have been working, some of them
their entire life, trying very long exactly exactly. But for them,
that's all they've got, you know, and they're banking on
their football scholarship to go to college. Well, you know,

(01:32:35):
no guarantees college. Now you're going to go, and you
know what, the parents can't afford it. There was no promise.
There was no promise. So what do you do? You
let the get you continue? You want to want the season?
Or what if it was my child, I'd be like,
what do you want to do? Oh so we're talking

(01:32:56):
individual kids, No, we're talking about the entire program. I'm
telling you how I would like, how I would handle it.
I would be like, if you want to play, great,
but I'm not going to make the schools not do it. Right,
I'm not going to make the school do it because
what if you're a wide receiver and the backup quarterback
ain't a good thrower. Now you're not getting a scholarship.

(01:33:17):
There's plenty you could have got injured and you wouldn't
get a scholar. There's plenty of outside factors. I think. Ultimately,
a child has died. That's it. Kids die every day,
though not tragically, not like this, and when they do
we tend to pay attention. Sorry, we should pay attention.

(01:33:41):
But it shouldn't be treated like a nothing burger. The
tone in your voice makes it sound like it's not
a big deal. No, it is. It is a big deal.
The loss of any kind of life is a big
deal for sure. However, you know there's still a program
that goes on. There's still kids that have worked all
this time, Yeah, to get where they're at. Yeah, so

(01:34:03):
just to just scrap it, Oh, we'll pick it up
again next year. Yeah, because life, life is important. Some
of those kids won't get a chance to make and
anything could happen to any one of those kids at
any point in time. And it doesn't have to be
on the field. Yeah, you know what I'm saying, And
those would be equally as tragic. So, okay, that's fun.
So kid dies in a car accident because you know whatever,
somebody ran a red lion. Yeah all right, same football

(01:34:25):
playing kid, yeah right, dies in a car accident. Yeah,
do you stop the season then, potentially okay, But there's
a big difference between watching them get hit on the
field right, loaded on a gurney pushed into the back
of an ambulance, yes, and then or hearing the story

(01:34:48):
of them dying. Yes. They're two completely different snears. It
all sucks regardless. No, No, the visual is where the
problem is.

Speaker 6 (01:34:57):
It's traumatizing.

Speaker 1 (01:34:59):
Yes, yeah, pretty intense, man.

Speaker 6 (01:35:02):
The nightmares, the PTSD, all of it.

Speaker 1 (01:35:05):
Yeah. Yeah, that's that's a doozy, man. But ultimately I think, yeah,
it's fine if they canceled the season. That's that's pretty
intense to watch somebody that you were just laughing with
in the huddle get loaded up into the gurney as
the ambulance drives off the field. Yeah, and then they

(01:35:27):
die hours later. Yeah, we send kids to war, they laughed.
This is not that. This is not that. No, it's
not the same. You volunteer kids die, You volunteer to
go put yourself into danger. People don't play football thinking
they're going to die. Death is a part of life.
Discounting it is so hilarious. Teach them early about everything

(01:35:51):
except for the hard stuff death.

Speaker 6 (01:35:58):
Some good news out of Florida. They're celebrating a Little
League Baseball World Series title. The team from the Lake
Mary Little League in Lake Mary, Florida, beat Chinese Taipei
two to one and extra innings to win the Little
League World.

Speaker 1 (01:36:10):
Series Championship of the Air.

Speaker 6 (01:36:12):
Yeah. With the game tied one to one, in the
bottom of the eighth, Chinese Taipey pitcher Choo Wai Chew
threw a ball and bunted by Florida's Hunter Alexander to
an uncovered first base. Leith and Norton scored on the play,
giving Florida its first Little League Baseball World Series title
in state history. And that's your Balls of the Wall

(01:36:33):
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Speaker 1 (01:37:15):
Good morning Gimbie. Well, good morning Gorbyn. You got your
first keyword to score a trip for two to the
Radio Music Festival. Keep on listening because it happens again
at one and five. Joy's in the studio. Now is
Jeff Heinsley of Finsley Associate.

Speaker 5 (01:37:31):
It's good morning, Jeff, Hey, good morning.

Speaker 1 (01:37:32):
Jeff's here to answer your questions about family law, custody, guardianship,
name change, dog guardianships, things like that, anything family law related.
He can answer that question. Get your question over to
us a couple ways. You can email it show at
kmod dot com. You can text it BMMS and whatever
that question is to eight two nine four five, or
you can call it nine one eight four six. Oh kmod.

(01:37:52):
I'll do celebrity things to kind of start some conversations.
And they just announced Judge j Lo and Ben Affleck
filed for divorce. She even walked it in herself to
that feels petty, but and on a certain date apparently
their wedding. But the thing I wanted to bring up
is here are two people, one of them a megastar
and no prenup in place.

Speaker 5 (01:38:14):
You know, you have to remember these two have been
on and off and on and off and on and
off for a long time, and so and they were
previously married or whatever it was, so engaged engage. Yeah, Okay,
So I'm surprised, but I'm not surprised at the same
time too. I mean, both of these people have multimillions.
I mean, they're they're both I mean, obviously j lo

(01:38:36):
Is is far has far more money than Affleck, I'm guessing.
But at the same time, too, he's not hurting for
cash either.

Speaker 6 (01:38:42):
She's rumored to have seventeen million dollars alone now and
just engagement rings.

Speaker 5 (01:38:48):
I don't doubt that. I mean she did. She was
engaged to a Rod and then she was Yeah, I
don't one time.

Speaker 1 (01:38:55):
Yeah wan Aflec, Yeah, jonas a low peasant worth his
four hundred bin Affleck is one hundred and fifty. But
you know, but the question I have is, I would
imagine both these people have legal representation that help them
oversee contracts and things like that. Wouldn't would it be
safe to say, a family law attorney it would recommend
more often than not to get a prenup to protect yourself.

Speaker 5 (01:39:17):
And with people like this that have this kind of money,
absolutely you know, you're most of us don't need pre nups, okay,
and most of us that don't have you know, multimillion
dollars and you know, four houses across the world and
private planes and all this other stuff. Okay, we don't
we don't need pre nups usually, okay, but people who

(01:39:37):
are high asset, high net worth, absolutely, I think that
it's important that they have pre nups in place for
these situations where it's clear as to who gets what
when it's time to split. So, you know, prenups can
be all sorts of different ways. There's certain things you
can and can't put in them and whatnot, children being
one of them. You can't put in there because they're

(01:39:58):
not property that kind of thing. But at the same
time too, you know, it's surprising that they don't. But
you know, the only one that stands to gain from
this would be Ben I would imagine, because he's only
at you know, a poaltry one hundred and fifty million
instead of four hundred million. So I don't know, it'd

(01:40:20):
be interesting to see how it plays out. It just
depends on how nasty nasty they want to get. I'm surprised,
she went and filed herself. I mean, she's got what
how many assistants? Did you help with that? And typically
we do that ourselves as lawyers. I mean, we take
care of that for our clients so they don't have
to worry about going to the courthouse and all that
kind of stuff. But you know, as she said, some
people want to be petty. I haven't followed up very

(01:40:41):
closely on what caused the breakup or whatever, but who knows.

Speaker 1 (01:40:47):
The idea that she would even do it by herself
would be insane.

Speaker 5 (01:40:53):
Well yeah, I mean, especially if you've heard anything about
j Low. She doesn't do anything by herself, and she's
supposed to be completely very difficult to work for and
very arrogant and hateful and all these other things, so
you know, yeah, it's really weird.

Speaker 1 (01:41:07):
So if you need help with a prenup or anything
like that, the folks in Hensley Associates can help with that.
If you have a question about how prenup works, maybe
your inner relationship and a prenup was presented to you,
Jeff can answer how that works. Even if you wanted
to just talk to Hinsley Associates about a prenup that
was they can help with that, and along with many
other family law situations like this email we just got

(01:41:28):
it says what factors are taking into account for a
person paying child support doesn't matter. We only live an
hour from each other. I have more. I have them
one hundred and twenty nine overnights a year. She has
also taken the kids for an access of six six months,
and we just got out of court for that, which
I'm still paying on as well. I would just like

(01:41:50):
to know what to expect. I have four other kids
to live with that live with me two or mine
two or my fiancees. My salary is ninety four thousand
dollars a year. What would would just like to know
what to expect. It's supposed to be a fifty to
fifty custody, but it's more of a sixty forty with
her being the custodial parent. I have tribal care for
the kids healthcare. They do not have CDIB cards. They

(01:42:13):
go under my name. These are two.

Speaker 5 (01:42:15):
Children, Okay, So you know, when you're looking at child support,
there's a number of things taken in consideration. Obviously, the
first thing we start with is what people actually make
pre tax Okay, so his would be the ninety four
and hers would be the whatever. But when he says
it's fifty to fifty, it's not, and that's because he's
at one hundred and twenty nine overnights instead, at if
it's fifty to fifty, it'll be a one eighty two
and a one eighty three. He's at a one twenty nine.

(01:42:36):
The reason numbers are important is because from zero overnights
tow one hundred and twenty, there is no lowering of
child support. Okay, you can put any number in there,
it doesn't matter what it is. I don't care if
you put one or if you put one hundred nineteen.
It'll calculate it all the same way. Okay, But when
you hit one hundred and twenty one, so between one
hundred and twenty one and one hundred and thirty you

(01:42:57):
get a discount, and between one thirty one and one
forty you gotta just send so on and so forth
all the way up to one hundred and eighty two
and twenty three, which is the true fifty to fifty split.
So you know he's gonna get a little bit of
a modifier or lowering a little bit because he's at
one twenty nine. You know the fact that they're not
on insurance and they're on tribal insurance, that's fine. The
insurance section would stay blank unless she's got a policy

(01:43:19):
for the kids for some reason. You mean, you just
have to kind of look at those things. It's all
taken into account a number of our own nights. Who's
paying insurance? Is there any daycare costs which your pre
pre tax number is for your income each month? I mean,
when it says and let's just talk about fifty to
fifty for a minute, just because you've got fifty to
fifty time does not mean that you're not going to

(01:43:41):
owe child support. Now, if you and she or he
and you make about the same amount, it probably will
be a zero unless you've got you know, daycare costs
in there, or insurance cost or whatever. Maybe it might
be a little higher or something, but you know, if
it's true apples to apples, it'll be a zero. But
if you've got somebody that makes almost one hundred thousand

(01:44:02):
dollars versus somebody who makes minimum wage, then obviously there's
a huge disparity there, and so therefore you will owe
some child support because even though you've got the same
number of overnights because she makes far less than you do,
or he or you know he makes far less than
you do. Trying to cover men and women here, So
that's where that comes in. So a lot of people think, well,

(01:44:24):
fifty to fifty time, I don't want to pay an
child support. I shouldn't have to pay any will. That's
not how the law looks at it, because if the
incomes are hugely different, there has to be an afset
there to help the other parent who makes less money,
who's having the children the same amount of time. So
that's where those numbers come in.

Speaker 1 (01:44:39):
This is probably one of the top questions we get
is about what will my child support look like? Or
what should it be? And so it obviously it's a
very complicated question with many attributes. So what should parents
do or fathers in this example do to make sure
there it is even.

Speaker 5 (01:44:55):
As possible sure, so you know, if you've got a
question about what it might be, give me a call.
I'm happy run through the calculator with you, cover all bases,
make sure that we've got everything covered to give you
a potential number of what you may or may not
be paying. So you know, I'm happy to help with that.
Corbyn will give the number here at the end of
the segment and you can give me a call and
we can talk about how to get that number.

Speaker 1 (01:45:15):
Yeah, it's it is not an easy thing to just go.
It's this, right, and it's complicated for a reason, right.

Speaker 5 (01:45:21):
And you know the problem too. So he's another thing
he talked about I want to throw in here real quick,
is children living with him. Okay, two of them are his,
two of them are his new ladies. Okay, So he's
going to get credit for the two kids that live
with them because they are biologically his, and so's going
to get an in in home child credit on those.

(01:45:42):
Now the other two he's not going to get a
credit on. Just because you end up being engaged to
somebody who has a bunch of kids, you don't get
credit for those children. You only get credit for those
that are biologically yours. So if there're two in this case,
two of them are his, he'll get credit for that.
If he and his new lady were married and they
had a child together live in the home, he would
get credit for that, But he does not get credit

(01:46:03):
for her children. So he will get a reduction of
some sort for the two children that are in home
that live with him, so he will get a deduction
for that.

Speaker 1 (01:46:13):
Jeff Heinsley from Hensley Associates is here. You got a
question about custody or guardianship, name change into those things
that have to do with family law. Jeff is here
to answer them. Nine one, eight four to six oho KMOD,
or you can text it bemms and whatever that question
is to eight two nine four five, or you can
email show at kmod dot com. Semail says my children.
My child is sixteen years old. Six months ago I

(01:46:33):
did an at home paternity test and found out who
his father was. He willingly took the test and knows
the results. He made no effort to have a relationship
or help out. Since my son is sixteen, is it
too late to file child support? We have been using
sooner care services.

Speaker 5 (01:46:49):
No, and it's not too late. And I'm surprised I
haven't tried to hit you for child support anyway. Whenever
there's state money like sooner care being used, or Tanne
for Wick or any of those, typically they make you
go ahead and get a child support thing going simply
because someone's going to pay for that Sooner Care so no,
it's not too late at all. He'll get hit for
two years of back support. So even though the child's sixteen,

(01:47:12):
you can't go best sixteen years. You can only go
back two years, So he'll get hit for two years
of a reared plus moving forward until the child ages out.

Speaker 1 (01:47:21):
When someone calls Sinsley and associates and calls up and says, hey,
I just found out who the father was the kid's sixteen.
What's the first couple questions you would ask them that
they would need to answer to start the process of
going after child support?

Speaker 5 (01:47:36):
Sure, so, do you know where the person is? You know,
how can we contact them? Do you have any idea
what kind of money they make? And if not, then
obviously we can get that information. So there's several things
just trying to figure out where they are, who they are,
why they've waited sixteen years to just now worry about this,
and kind of get some background information for sure.

Speaker 1 (01:47:56):
This tax says a question for Jeff, how is alimony
calculate in Oklahoma? Sure?

Speaker 5 (01:48:01):
So, alimony in the state of Oklahoma is different than
a lot of states. It's first, the person asking for
it must prove that they have a need Okay, an
actual need. It's not about oh, I want to say,
accustomed to the lifestyle that I've lived. You know I've
been living. It's not like that, Okay. It's based upon need.
Do you need the money? So if you've been as
for example, like a stay at home mom the entire
time you've been married, or stay at home dad the

(01:48:24):
entire time that you've been married, and you're getting a divorce,
obviously you need some time and money to get on
your feet and maybe go back to school and finish
your degree or get it, get a degree or a
master's or whatever it may be. So you obviously would
have a need in that kind of situation. Then the
flip side of it is is the next part of it.
I should not flip side, But the next portion of
it is is that you have to show that the

(01:48:45):
other party has an ability to pay. Okay, so you know,
if you've got somebody who makes a lot of money,
they obviously have some ability to pay. But again it's
kind of taken it from a global perspective too. I mean,
in the divorce, is the person who has the hiring
come are they going to be taking all the debt?
I mean there's lots of different things to look at
and see, but its need and ability to pay. Now,

(01:49:07):
Oklahoma does not, and I repeat, does not, have lifetime alimony.
There are some states like Florida and a few others
that do lifetime. So the reason that's important besides the
fact that it seems like forever, because a it is
and b even in Florida, if the person gets remarried,
you still have to pay, whereas in Oklahoma, if the

(01:49:28):
other person that you're paying alimony to gets remarried or
they have somebody a paramore living in a home with
them full time, then you no longer have to pay
child support in this situation. So that's why it's important
to bring up the lifetime alimony thing. We do not
have anything like that in Oklahoma.

Speaker 1 (01:49:46):
Jeff Heinsley from Hensley Associates is here. You have a
question about divorce, custody, guardianship, name changes, adult guardianships. Maybe
you need to put together some sort of trust or
something family law related. Jeff and the foot Sai Hinsley
and Associates can help nine one eight four to six
oho KMOD or you can email show at kmod dot
com or text bmms and whatever that question is to

(01:50:07):
eight two nine four five says, according to our divorce agreement,
my husband was supposed to refinance the house, take my
name off, pay me half the equity within sixty days.
It's been ninety days and he has done nothing. He
was turned down for refinance and will have to take
out a loan on the house and his grandmother that
his grandmother gave him. Meanwhile, he's renting out the house

(01:50:28):
we lived in. Am I entitled to any compensation half
the rented collects because I'm still in the mortgage? He said.
The bank said it would take another two months. This
is a common problem too, right, well.

Speaker 5 (01:50:38):
It can be absolutely. I mean, first of all, that
her remedy here would be to file a contempt citation
for his failure to follow the court's order. Now, the problem,
or the potential barriers she's going to hit is is
that has he failed to do what has been ordered
by the court? Has he wilfully and that's the key
term is has he wilfully failed to refinance now or

(01:51:01):
do whatever needs to be done to give her her
equity share within sixty days. So number one, that's where
we got to figure out. I didn't quite understand the
thing about the grandma. It sounds like maybe the grandma's
giving him alone. Is that what it said? I could understand.
So you know, if grandma's giving him alone, he needs
to take that money and refinance the house or whatever
it needs to be done to get her her equity share.

(01:51:22):
But I mean remedy nu mumber one for her is
a contempt citation. Dragging him in front of the judge
and find out what's going on and say, look, he
had sixty days, he's not done it. It's ninety days. Now.
I'm being told it's going to be an extra sixty
days to even come close to getting this done. He's
failed to do what he needs to do. I want
my money now, and let's go see the judge. So
that's what we'll need to do in this situation.

Speaker 1 (01:51:42):
People hear the word contempt, they think they're going to
go to jail.

Speaker 5 (01:51:46):
Right, So you know, there are two kinds of contempt.
So let's kind of just throw this out there, right.
The first I'll talk about is what's called direct contempt.
All right. Direct contempts are like, for example, if you
are in court and you're a witness and and all
of a sudden, you don't like what the judge says,
and you turn the judge and you go, have you judge,
all right, judge can throw you in court for direct

(01:52:07):
contempt because you have directly done something to the court
to cause the court to throw you in jail. All right.
That is much easier to get into jail on is
a direct Now, an indirect means that you have failed
to follow an order of some sort, and we use
them a lot in family law court because, for example,
if somebody has been ordered to do something and they
failed to do it, they need a consequence, right, So

(01:52:28):
especially if you want to get that thing done. So
an indirect contempt is a quasi criminal proceeding and we
call it that way because and this is it's quasi,
it's criminal because we have to do an arraignment, all right,
just like you would do in a criminal case. An
arrayment is nothing more than getting in front of the
judge and saying, you know, not guilty, wave dury and

(01:52:50):
moving forward. Okay, that's typically what happens. Now, let's talk
about arraiments real quick, right, So whenever you and this
is why the media drives me nuts, all right, So no,
offense to the media people listening. But you do, but
you all drive us nuts. Okay, And here's why. It's
not so much radio. It's more like the actual news people. Okay.
You've got these big murder cases, for example, where this

(01:53:12):
guy is a serial killer and he's been caught and
he gets dragged to arrangement and he pleads not guilty,
even though we all know he's guilty as sin.

Speaker 1 (01:53:21):
Right.

Speaker 5 (01:53:22):
Guess what, that's the only thing he can plead at
an arrangement. You're not allowed to plead guilty at an arrangment.

Speaker 1 (01:53:29):
It doesn't work that way.

Speaker 5 (01:53:31):
But the news, bless your souls, want to sensationalize it
all and make people angry and hateful. And I can't
believe that guy or that girl you know, lied and
said that she's not guilty or he's not guilty. Dude,
that's all they can do legally, that's all they're allowed
to say. It can't plead guilty right there in front
of the judge. It doesn't work that way. So please

(01:53:53):
bear that in mind, and see of the news don't
get magic. Go oh if they're required to do that,
all right, and news quick playing it up so much.

Speaker 1 (01:53:59):
And so when when you get contempt that because of
the TV or believe believe that you will go to jail.
That is not necessarily what's going to happen.

Speaker 5 (01:54:06):
Now in an indirect contempt citation situation, right, once you
get past the rate, you'll have a hearing, right and
at the hearing.

Speaker 1 (01:54:13):
A separate hearing.

Speaker 5 (01:54:14):
Well it it can be, alright. Sometimes a lot of
times direct indirect contempts are what we call consolidated into
the entire divorce case, the praternity case, or whatever it
may be. The reason being is because our judges only
have limited amount of time to hear thousands and thousands
of cases, all right, so they'd rather hear it all
at once because most of the time during the divorce

(01:54:35):
or a paternity case, when a contempt is filed or
an indirect contempt is filed, it kind of ties into
all the facts of the case anyway, right, So that's
why we have one hearing. Typically. Now, that doesn't mean
that the judges won't hear things out of order or
won't hear the contempt before the final divorce hearing. Okay,
we can push to do that if needed on certain
elements or certain issues, but typically it's consolidated. But once

(01:54:58):
you get past the indirect content him or the arraignment
portion of it, then you have a hearing. Okay, The
key wording and the key finding and a hearing is
is that the judge has to find that what you
did was wilful. All right. If you can't refinance because
your credit's in the toilet and you've got you don't
make enough to you know, get a better whatever, and
that you can't get approved or whatever, you're not as

(01:55:20):
long as you tried to get that refine, all right,
that's that's doing what you're trying. You're doing what you're
supposed to be doing. You didn't willfully failed to get
in that scenario, you didn't willfully failed to get the
refined done. You don't qualify, and you don't have people
you can borrow money from, and the bank won't lend
you any more money and all this other stuff. So
the key term in any contempt, any indirect contempt, is wilfulness. Right,

(01:55:45):
the other side has to show that you willfully failed
to do something or you willfully violated in order. So
that's where a lot of contempts sometimes get hung up
because of wilfulness so you know, that's just the key
factor there.

Speaker 1 (01:55:57):
The fact that he's gone through a process to try,
and it shows he's being wilful. He's trying to make
it work.

Speaker 5 (01:56:02):
Wilfulness is only if you willfully failed to do something
you willfully violated, not that you willfully tried. Okay, So
it's not about trying willfully. It's you did try, which
means you didn't willfully fail to do what the court
ordered you to do.

Speaker 1 (01:56:17):
Jeff Finsley from Hensley and Associates is here final ones
here says my daughter's child support is supposed to be
five seventy six a month according to the court. It
is taken out of her exes pay every two weeks,
but they are only giving her four hundred and ninety six.
It's going through DHS. Why isn't she getting the correct amount?

Speaker 5 (01:56:34):
Probably because the rest is going to Sooner Care. So
if you look at a calculation, you'll see what the
what the actual number is, and then you'll see a
section that says how much is being spent or paid
for for Sooner Care. So I wish I had one
here to show you, but basically you'll see a number.
It's let's say it's the four ninety six, and then

(01:56:54):
it'll say, what is it four and seventy, So eighty
dollars is going to sooner Care. Just give me a minute.
So eighty roughly eighty dollars is going to sooner Care
to pay for that sooner Care, is my guess, all right.
I don't know without seeing their document, but my guess
is is that that eighty dollars is going to the

(01:57:15):
state there taking it, intercepting it and paying for sooner Care.
I will tell you, in the last two years, I
have seen DHS clamp down hard on collecting on sooner Care.
All right, they weren't so they were much more lax
of days ago about it in the past, but they
have really cracked down on it because just like most
states were broke, all right, and they need money to

(01:57:36):
pay for programs, and so that's probably where that eighty
dollars is going. Whoever this is, please call me at
the office. I'll walk through it and pull your calculation
up and see if that's the case. But that's my guess,
is that the money is going to sooner Care. Now
for those of individuals who are receiving child support and
are not having it taken out through DHS, all right,

(01:57:56):
and you're just getting the money directly from someplace. But
you have soon from the other side. But you're you've
got sooner Care. You better check and see that box
and see if any money is out on sooner care
because sooner Care the state will start coming after you
now for sooner Care money. They are clamping down on
it hard. So please be foreworn. Just because you have

(01:58:16):
a full amount coming to you doesn't and you're on
sooner Care doesn't mean that all that money is potentially yours.
So please check your calculation.

Speaker 1 (01:58:23):
Whether it's alimony, whether it's child support, whether it's visitation,
whether it's a any type of agreement that you have
about being married, and who gets what? Uh. You got
to have somebody help you navigate it. It's really complicated,
and don't believe your friends. Don't believe Google. Make sure
you get somebody that knows how the court system works.
And the folks at Heinsland Associates are that nine three

(01:58:45):
nine eight five six nine two nine one eight three
nine eight five six ninety two for Hensleyan Associates, they'll
be able to give you a free constation over the phone.
If you mentioned KMOD nine one eight three, nine eight
five six ninety two, and you guys practice in other
areas of the law too, should they need it.

Speaker 5 (01:58:58):
That's right, so through our office in Pahusket. It's the
Shoemake Law Firm. Yes it is a different name, but
it is our firm. We just left the name when
we bought the practice, so please give them a call
up there. In addition to family law, they do everything else.
So if you've got a criminal case, dui drug charge,
whatever it may be, anything criminal, they can help you

(01:59:19):
with up there. If you've got a probate issue, if
you need a will or a trust drafted, if you've
been in a car wreck and you need to sue
an insurance company or you need to sue the other side,
if you've been hurt by somebody in the medical field,
please give us a call. We'd be happy to help
you with all those kind of cases. You can call
Hinsley and Tulsa and we can get you hooked up
with them, or you can call Shoemake directly in Pahusca itself.

(01:59:41):
Even though it's in Buhusco, we still work everywhere in
the state. It's just that's where the physical office is
and they can do meet with you even by phone
and zoom if.

Speaker 1 (01:59:49):
Need be so nine two for Hensley Associates. Jeff, have
a great week, you too, Thanks you break, We'll be back.

Speaker 7 (01:59:55):
If you're listening to The Big Man Morning Show, this
is Tulsa Morning Show.

Speaker 1 (02:00:02):
Kim Moulton, Good morning, It's the Big Man Morning Show.
We love movies, so I thought we'd do a little
movie trivia to end the day. You just jump in

(02:00:22):
with you know the buzzer, say your name right, you
see how you do?

Speaker 5 (02:00:27):
This is generic.

Speaker 1 (02:00:28):
Some of them might be really tough. Some of them
should be really easy. I'm gonna give you a softball
in the first one. What is the name of the
serial killer in the film Silence of the Lambs.

Speaker 6 (02:00:38):
Lindsay Lindsay, Hannibal Lecter.

Speaker 1 (02:00:40):
Incorrect, gimp oh, hell, I couldn't Gay Lindsay. Nope, you went,
you lost. You don't get a point. Now it's Buffalo Bill. Yeah.
I felt like that was an easy one. Who is
the lead actress in the film Killers of the Flower
Moon filmed here in Oklahoma? Gimpy, Yes, Jennifer Garner, No,

(02:01:03):
Lily Gladstone okay, in the movie The Matrix. What is
Neo's real name? Gimpy, Gimpy ted? Please try to take
this seriously. I don't know. I just guess. Thomas Anderson
mister Anderson, who won the Academy Award for Best Actor

(02:01:25):
for his role in the film There will be Blood.

Speaker 6 (02:01:31):
There will be blood. There will be blood. Lindsey Benicio
del Toro.

Speaker 1 (02:01:42):
No, Daniel day Lewis. What year was the movie Gone
with the Wind released Gimpy nineteen thirty nine A long
time ago? Yes? Who directed the twenty seventeen film Get Out?

Speaker 6 (02:02:06):
Uh, Lindsay god Peel.

Speaker 1 (02:02:11):
Jordan Peele is correct? What is the name of the
fictional African country in the movie Black Panther Gippie? Yes? Yes,
wherever what? Nineteen ninety movie starred Patrick Swayzee and Whoopee Goldberg.
Lindsay Lindsay, Okay, that you get his boom Burglar. No,

(02:02:35):
ed Sister act, damnit Karna Koreina? No, that was really
Edie was good all right compared to Karina Karina. Though.
You know what wasn't good is blood Sport was on
this weekend. I made my wife watch it. Oh god bad,
It's so bad. The acting so bad as a terrible movie,
and that chase scene with Forrest Whitaker right through the

(02:02:59):
boats said it to death. Listen, he's gonna turn in
any moment. Oh man, what do Catnus and Pete attempt
to poison themselves with in the movie The Hunger Games?
I've never seen it?

Speaker 2 (02:03:17):
Uh?

Speaker 1 (02:03:20):
The food night Lock who directed the nineteen ninety four
film pulp fiction Gimpy Gimpy, Quentin Tarantino correct who voiced
Mushu in Mulano, who voiced Mushoe in Milan? Which one

(02:03:41):
was I know? Was that the main character or the
little dragon? Little dragon?

Speaker 6 (02:03:47):
Oh, Robin Williams.

Speaker 1 (02:03:51):
See that's Aladdin. It does seem fitting, right, I have
no idea Eddie Murphy. Okay. You know what's fascinating about
Robin Williams and him doing eleven is they couldn't afford
him to do it. So he made a deal that
said whatever lines he came up with, they couldn't use.
So when you go see the musical or anything like that,

(02:04:11):
you'll see they don't use a lot of the lines
that you know, because of that clause in his contract.
That's late pretty fascinating. What film won Best Picture Oscar
in twenty twenty.

Speaker 6 (02:04:27):
Oh, and we probably.

Speaker 1 (02:04:30):
I mean it's pretty recent stock at home, So I
don't know this movie. Oh, there's no way you're gonna
get it.

Speaker 5 (02:04:39):
Parasite, Okay, I've heard of the movie, I have not
seen it.

Speaker 1 (02:04:45):
What was the name of the woman who falls into
Corbyn Dallas's car in the Fifth Element?

Speaker 6 (02:04:54):
That was a Bruce Willis movie, right, Yes, I don't
know the woman's name.

Speaker 1 (02:05:03):
Like her. I like the character. The character name? Oh,
I couldn't tell you, Leelu. Oh yeah. What gift does
Rose find in her coat pocket at the end of Titanic?

Speaker 6 (02:05:15):
Lindsay, the heart of the Ocean?

Speaker 1 (02:05:18):
A necklace? Yes, that is what Famous Star produced, Barbie produced.

Speaker 6 (02:05:32):
Mmmmmmmmm.

Speaker 1 (02:05:37):
I haven't seen that one either, Margo, Yeah, Margot rope
is What score does l Ellie get on her l
sat exam in Legally Blonde?

Speaker 6 (02:05:48):
I haven't seen it?

Speaker 1 (02:05:50):
Wow? Uh one hundred and seventy nine. Who is the
director of Oppenheimer Gimpy Steven spiel No, no, the answers
Christopher Nolan? Oh yeah that guy. Yeah. What is the

(02:06:10):
name of the nineteen ninety two movie starring Tom Hanks
and Gena Davis, Lindsay Lindsay a league of their own correct?
And I just found out that that stadium were burnt
to the ground. Okay, this weekend? What breakfast food does
Donkey want to make with Shrek? In Shrek Gimpy Waffles? Yes? Correct?

(02:06:36):
In Willy in Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory, who's
the first kid? The umpa lumpas sing about? In Willy
Wonka and the Chocolate Factory? Who's the first kid? The
oompa lumpas sing about? Gimpy? Is it Violet? You're turning Violet? Violet?

Speaker 6 (02:06:53):
No, don't know.

Speaker 1 (02:06:58):
Like one of the first scenes where chaos happens. Yeah,
there's the they're eating the teacups, there's the river falls
into the river woun Augustus and then ironically there was
only enough seats. Amazing how people left? Hmmmmms planned? What

(02:07:22):
color did Frenchy dye her hair in Grease?

Speaker 6 (02:07:25):
Pink?

Speaker 1 (02:07:27):
Lindsay pink? Thees? What do Cat and Patrick first kiss?
Where do Cat and Patrick first kiss? In Ten Things
I Hate About You? Oh God, I have seen that
movie since nineteen ninety nine.

Speaker 6 (02:07:43):
Was it on a swing?

Speaker 1 (02:07:45):
It can't be. The bleachers Paintball Arena. I love that
you both went. Oh, yeah, who voiced Jesse in Toy
Story two? Oh, that's the female version of war right? Oh? Yeah,
I don't know.

Speaker 6 (02:08:06):
Joan Lindsay is Lindsay?

Speaker 1 (02:08:09):
Is it? It is? Yes? Uh? Jordan Belfour works for
which firm in the Wolf of Wall Street? Jordan Belfort
works for which firm in The Wolf of Wall Street?

Speaker 6 (02:08:27):
I haven't seen it.

Speaker 1 (02:08:29):
That's a good movie. L f Rothschild. What iconic line
does Miranda Priestley say when dismissing Andy in The Devil
Wears Prada?

Speaker 6 (02:08:44):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (02:08:46):
Have you seen that? Lindsay?

Speaker 6 (02:08:47):
Yes, it's one time. It's been a minute. Oh, take
off those ugly shoes. I don't know.

Speaker 1 (02:08:57):
That's all.

Speaker 6 (02:08:58):
Oh.

Speaker 1 (02:08:59):
Who does Patrick Swayze pick up in an iconic lift
in Dirty Dancing?

Speaker 6 (02:09:04):
Lindsey Lindsay, Jennifer Gray.

Speaker 1 (02:09:06):
Correct an inception? How many dream levels does the crew enter?
That's a tough question. I've never seen the movie. The
answer is five, last one. I expect both of you
to have an answer on this. What song does Jenna
Rink perform in thirteen going on thirty? I don't know.

(02:09:30):
Why do you know about the Ten Things? I hate
about you answer that surprised me.

Speaker 6 (02:09:34):
Thirteen going on thirty was a.

Speaker 1 (02:09:36):
Jen answer this to stay here, answer this question. Yeah,
I am Jennifer. Jenna Rink perform to thirteen going on thirty?
What is the song? Oh? Oh, I have no idea thriller? Oh,
take a break, We'll be back.

Speaker 7 (02:09:54):
Tulsa's Morning Show is getting right back to the Big
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Speaker 6 (02:10:29):
I learned that ten Things I Hate About You is
at least more entertaining than blood Sport. And also I learned,
due to age, where and Tayor Corbyn's wife's parts are
leaking can be?

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What you learned today? I learned that obesity in America
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I also learned if you do it in the ear,
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