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eight two nine four five. Uh. Do you remember the
last cassette tape you bought, Lindsay? Did you buy cassette
tapes because you are the youngest person in the room right, Yes?

Speaker 8 (04:11):
Yes, I don't remember the very last. It was probably uh,
New Kids on the Block or something like that. I
do know the first one that I received was waiting
for a Star to fall boy meets Girl.

Speaker 1 (04:28):
If you remember that song, no waiting on a start
of fall weird? That didn't help?

Speaker 8 (04:36):
Yeah, that was the first.

Speaker 1 (04:37):
It was It literally said the words, but just to
a pitch. Yeah, no, what about you gimpie? Yeah?

Speaker 9 (04:46):
Man, I believe it was Primus. Oh yeah, was that
Tales from the Punch Bowl or whatever? The worm with
wine own is big brown Beaver on it.

Speaker 1 (04:56):
I cannot recall. Since I was prepping for this, I
was trying to remember, and I cannot recall. I'm I can.
I feel like I remember some cassettes. I obviously had cassettes,
but I cannot recall a cassette that I had.

Speaker 9 (05:16):
I've only purchased three cassettes in my time, and I've
only owned.

Speaker 1 (05:23):
Less than a dozen. I'm confident I had more. I
bought more blanket cassettes than I ever bought cassettes for sure.
For sure. High speed dubbing what up? Yeah?

Speaker 8 (05:33):
Yeah, making those mixtapes.

Speaker 1 (05:36):
I'm not even that, just high speed dubbing of my
friend's cassettes. So, like, they stopped selling cassettes in two
thousand and two, but way before then they did they
start phasing them out. They started selling CDs in like
the eighties, believe it or not, but they didn't really
catch mainstream attention to like the early nineties, mid nineties.
I remember working at Chuck E. Cheese, Showbiz whatever at

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the time, and CDs is what we played in the kitchen. Yeah,
and I was sixteen at the time, so I know
that even though it's twenty two and nineteen eighty, there
was already CDs in the mix and people playing those.
But I found this list of the the most valuable
cassette tapes. Okay, interesting, right, right, because that's what put

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me down the what was what's a cassette tape? I owned?
Because I had Huey Lewis in the news on like
lp H. I had a lot of forty five's, right,
those are vinyl kids. Yeah, small ones too. Yeah, you
had to buy the adapter I got, and for the
longest time I played it on my Smurf record player.

Speaker 9 (06:45):
Nothing like listening a meatloaf on a Smurf record player.

Speaker 1 (06:49):
Mostly ghosts, mostly Ray Parker Junior. Yeah, Little Blackman Fever.
That's not a joke, that's fun. Yeah.

Speaker 9 (06:59):
I can't think of any cassette that would be. Maybe
Michael Jackson's Thriller.

Speaker 1 (07:07):
Okay, I'm trying to cassette, Okay, on cassette like because
these are these are what the most valuable, Yeah, most
valuable cassettes of the eighties and nineties.

Speaker 9 (07:15):
Eighties and nineties. So Michael Jackson, I feel, has to
be on that list.

Speaker 1 (07:19):
Not on the list, really.

Speaker 8 (07:21):
Wow, Madonna's Immaculate collection.

Speaker 1 (07:24):
Madonna is on there, but it's Madonna Madonna from eighty
three that had a Lucky Star borderline and that can
be found anywhere between two fifty and three point fifty
on eBay. Used versions can get up to sixty five dollars.
What about the J Giles Band. Nope, not at all. No.

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Number ten on the list is reasonable doubt. Jay Z
on cassette on cassette exactly, and that can get anywhere
up to four hundred dollars sealed and on about average
one hundred.

Speaker 8 (08:03):
How about Elton John No, no, Elton John.

Speaker 9 (08:06):
Well, if jay Z's on that list and Madonna's on
that list, I guess this list makes zero sense.

Speaker 1 (08:11):
It could be anything. Let's go with Garth Brooks. No
really Doggy Style by Snoop Dogg on the list, f
sealed the cassette sealed five hundred dollars and about sixty
if you haven't used, depending on the condition.

Speaker 9 (08:31):
Wells, okay, so that's two rap artists. I'm gonna throw
it out there. Doctor Dre, the Chronic Oh good car,
No what no on this is garbage?

Speaker 1 (08:42):
No Big Notorious, Big Ready to Die comes in at
the list if it is sealed and you get about
six hundred dollars, about ninety if it's been used.

Speaker 8 (08:53):
Okay, So then Tupac Tupac not on the list, NWA
not on the list, easy.

Speaker 1 (08:58):
Alanis Mori set comes in on the list. This is totals?
What are you talking about? Every band we've mentioned, an
artist we've mentioned so far, legit a from the nineties, Sure,
absolutely so was doctor Dre Tupac.

Speaker 8 (09:11):
I'm thinking on there because he's dead and he's worth
more money.

Speaker 1 (09:16):
But number six alanis more set. If you have a
sealed copy of Jagged Little Pill on cassette and get
about six hundred bucks if it's used ten, you're right,
who has I guess maybe somebody who had the forethought
to be like, he's gonna be worth money someday, you know,

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and did not open up Drew carry doll. Right, it's
that mentality, right, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, POSE don't know.
I have a Drew Carry doll. I don't know why,
but it'll be worth money someday.

Speaker 8 (09:51):
Someday, someday, my mom's got a cast for dollan to
pull a string pool and it'll say like whatever used
to say the friendly Ghost.

Speaker 1 (10:01):
Yeah, I would argue Casper has multi generational cultural significance.

Speaker 9 (10:09):
Yeah, especially if that's one from her childhood. No offense
towards you, MoMA or anything, but I mean you mom.
So she's a little older than us. It's, you know,
probably more rare than.

Speaker 1 (10:19):
I don't know. Drew carry Doll's pretty rare.

Speaker 9 (10:21):
I don't know anybody else has got Drew carry A'll
be honest with you exactly.

Speaker 1 (10:24):
You are literally the only person just because you have
one doesn't make it a big deal. Right. Uh so
that was on their uh nas Ellmatic is on the list, Okay,
and it is if it's in a sealed state nine
hundred dollars and if you have it used, it can
get about one fitty Really what about bone Thugs in Harmony? Oh,

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the any were on that list. They were big in
the nineties.

Speaker 8 (10:53):
Is this is this because they we aren't. We're surprised
that they were actually set tapes these.

Speaker 1 (11:01):
Artists, you mean in their value?

Speaker 8 (11:04):
No, but like because they're so recent, like Alanis Morsett.
I bought her on CD. I wouldn't have thought to
get her on a cassette.

Speaker 1 (11:12):
Probably, yes, because the age you're at. And then when
that artist came out that was ninety five, that was
really at the end of cassettes.

Speaker 8 (11:20):
Yeah, so that's why they're so valuable.

Speaker 1 (11:22):
No, just that one. I was just using that one
as an example. The other than Big was ninety four
Snoop ninety three, Madonna eighty three.

Speaker 8 (11:32):
Right, yeah, so.

Speaker 1 (11:34):
Yes, and no, Ride the Lightning is on the list,
that's eighty four. I could see that my friend had
that I listened to that on cassette. You ain't lived
until you listened to on cassette, And then I would
argue you ain't listen until you've listened to on eight track.
The sound quality difference. I mean, you gotta wait for
your song, right, you have no choice eight track there

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is no fast forward. I remember when my friend Greg Airfield,
he showed me how to fast forward and hear it
at the same time. Dude, I was like, you're a genius,
So ride the lightning. If it's sealed, one thousand bucks. Wow.

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And if it's if it's used, and get about one fifty.
And if you have apparently there was a white whale
version of it, okay, and it was in a green sleeve,
it can get about two to three hundred dollars for
that rare version of it licensed to ill from the

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Beastie Boys. That would make sense, Yeah, eighty six. And
if that is sealed, fifteen hundred dollars Wow for a
cassette tape. Wow. How do they authenticate it's originally sealed?

Speaker 8 (12:53):
I was just thinking, because you could shrink wrap something
and seal it, but they weren't.

Speaker 1 (12:57):
They were like folded and then pressed it wasn't shrink
crapped right, right, So I don't know. Yeah, somebody could
do that nowadays, but that's a lot of work. I mean,
it isn't for fifteen hundre, right, and then if it's
used about forty bucks, uh, never mind is on there?
So that's ninety one, okay. I had in Uteraru on cassette.

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HM bought it or given to you bout it, but
it was one of the four that I had purchased.
It was like that.

Speaker 9 (13:24):
Cowboys from Hell was my very first cassette I ever purchased.
Purchased it twice, as a matter of fact.

Speaker 1 (13:28):
I remember that. Yeah, that's a good story.

Speaker 9 (13:30):
Yeah, and then then it was in You to Row
and then Primus and then I forget what the other
one was.

Speaker 1 (13:38):
Is Pantera the most taken away from CD? Like from
our youth because my parents took it away from me.
It was on CD. Fo oh no oh, oh, you're
talking about like parents taken away? No no no, no
no no no no no no no no no no
no oh no no oh no, goddamn not.

Speaker 9 (13:59):
Two Left Crew two Live Crew has to be the
most taken away from your parents.

Speaker 1 (14:05):
My brother had that and I never saw that that
never got taken away fast. My brother had it and
it was ripped away quick, and a lot of people
that had that, like once their parents found out they
had that, it was like done zough. The cassette was
taken and it was smashed into pieces after they heard
the lyrics, They're like this what is this? Yeah, I

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would argue that it's not based off this one theory
because you knew it wasn't okay, and so you would
not play it loud. Where Pantera you would be like,
it's just they're not even it's not even my Two
Life Crew stuff, right right, right, Okay, I'll give you that,
but you maybe I don't disagree because Two Life Crew
was raunchy.

Speaker 9 (14:44):
As oh yeah, and you've got young it Yeah, and
all the you know, conservative parents.

Speaker 1 (14:51):
You know, get that garbage out of my house.

Speaker 9 (14:53):
Yeah, my parents were based when they found that and
my brother had it.

Speaker 1 (14:58):
Yeah, mine got my Pantera got take away just because
of the cover.

Speaker 9 (15:01):
Really mine got taken away because it was a bad
ass album and it was my parents will tug it.

Speaker 1 (15:05):
Oh, it was a goddamn Keith Johnson's a bit taking
it out of that ass Keith Huh uh. Number one
on this list of the most valuable cassette tapes from
the eighties and nineties makes sense from ninety one Pearl
Jam and ten oh for sure. If it's sealed, you

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can get four thousand dollars, you know, and if it
is used, you get about four hundred. I'm sorry, you
can even get it. Some people will sell a semi
used one seven hundred and if it's a really used copy,
about twenty bucks on cassette. I don't think I have
one cassette. Now let me phrase that. I have cassettes,

(15:49):
but it's from radio stuff put in a box. Yeah, right,
and also I have a pancake for those that know
what that means, but the idea and dats. But like,
I don't have any cassettes of music that I'm aware of.
I don't unless it's mixed in with all that stuff
my ier.

Speaker 8 (16:06):
Checks, and I don't know how i'd even play them.

Speaker 1 (16:09):
On a cassette player.

Speaker 8 (16:10):
I don't have one.

Speaker 1 (16:11):
Oh well, there's two or three here like here in
the building.

Speaker 9 (16:15):
Yeah, oh okay, like I need it, but still ok yeah.

Speaker 1 (16:21):
I was also a little surprised by the list when
because you can't go with music like like Tupac obviously legend.
He can't go with that. He can't go with legend status.
You have to go what is popular? How many were there?
Did they not print a lot green sleeve? Those type of.

Speaker 9 (16:41):
Yeah, those rare ones like that, for sure, I get that.
But Nirvana's never Mind wasn't a rare one. License to
Ill wasn't a rare one.

Speaker 1 (16:51):
You know, ten was not rare. I like this. I
did time with Keith Keith Johnson back in the day,
short chubby, little squaredhaired dude.

Speaker 9 (17:02):
He was short, skinny one. I knew him. Maybe he
gained some weight. Maybe it happens with h yeah right.

Speaker 1 (17:07):
Maybe his head did square out a little bit. I
don't know, but you served time with him, which is
the best part. That doesn't surprise me. Hold on, it
might not be did time. I've heard people talk about
serving as doing time, oh like military stuff. Yeah, that
very well could be possible to My last cassette I
bought was Chumbawamba, the tub thumping album.

Speaker 9 (17:26):
What that's gotta be? Ninety oh yeah, ninety seven is
when that one came out. I'm gonna say ninety seven.
Tell me if I'm wrong.

Speaker 8 (17:36):
Uh go earlier.

Speaker 1 (17:39):
That's gotta be hold on here, tub Thumping. You don't
want to get one of their other albums? Yes, they did, yeah,
ninety seven.

Speaker 9 (17:51):
So I'm just curious as to what were some of
the other tracks on that album with.

Speaker 1 (17:57):
The B side was Farewell to the Crown and Football.

Speaker 9 (17:59):
So because they only one song that was, I mean
a lot of there are one hint wonder for sure.
Oh yeah, I mean, but they had to put together
a full length album.

Speaker 1 (18:15):
But listen to it. Yeah, this doesn't show it as
an album. It shows it as a singles album. It
was from tub Thumper, the album tub Thumper that came
out in ninety six, and the songs were tub Thumping, Amnesia, Drip,
Drip Drip, the Big Issue, the good Ship Lifestyle, one

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by One, Outsider, Creepy Crawling Drip Drip Drip. Huh. I
am curious to the other hits on that Amnesia by Chumbawamba.
We're gonna listen to it because I want to. I
as someone who played this in radio, I do not

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know this song. So, uh, we're gonna find out how
good or how would it be awesome if it was
like Laten with you know, foul language, and you're like,
I mean that doesn't feel on brand for them, but
you never know.

Speaker 10 (19:16):
Yeah, I get I get down, I get knocked down.

Speaker 1 (19:32):
What they had a girl singer? Yes? You guys like
tum Thumber. Wait to hear our second song? What are
these are? At least tell me they're still on tour.
Oh yeah, they're They're coming to a casino near you.

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I don't know if I would go see a band
for one song. Hm, I don't know if I would
spend my money to go see an artist for one song.
Do you have a nineties band that you like but
it was only because of one song?

Speaker 9 (20:14):
On me?

Speaker 1 (20:14):
Yes said, I will go to this concert one song
and one song only.

Speaker 9 (20:18):
There's two of them as a matter of a fact,
or two artists, All right, Okay, you could probably guess one. Okay, right,
Donald Lewis, come on, man, I love you always forever.
I will go and I will pay the fifty dollars
to go see her in concert.

Speaker 1 (20:34):
Hell, I might even spending a little extra cash, get
a little VIP meet and greet, okay with my ninety
six crush. Come on, yes, I mean she had a
song on the Anastasia soundtrack. According to this article all night.
So she had more than one hit.

Speaker 9 (20:49):
Okay, I don't know which time, only for the one song,
so I would do that. And Montel Jordan Yeah, okay, yeah,
those are the two that I would pay just for
that one song.

Speaker 1 (21:08):
I think he didn't, was it Montell Jordan just here recently?
I don't know.

Speaker 8 (21:12):
He's a I think he's a preacher.

Speaker 1 (21:14):
Now. I feel like we hear that a lot from
an American singer and minister. That's how the auto field
on the Google first of all, so am I I
didn't mean anything? Uh yeah, yeah, he's the worship leader.
Oh good in two thousand and two, apparently Montel Doshan

(21:36):
Barnett Jordan. I mean, do you really so you're saying
you would sit through children's story just so you could
hear this is how we do it. Yeah, do you
have one? Lindsay?

Speaker 8 (21:46):
I was thinking of a skilo. I wish I was
a little bit taller. That one was a fun one.
It was fun, yes, yeah, but no for one song.
I can't I don't really think of anyone to spend
for one song.

Speaker 1 (22:06):
I can't think of one of from the nineties. I mean,
I could try to be cool and name somebody like
Fragile Porcelain Mice, like some obscure Saint Louis rock band,
maybe the Urge and jump right In. That song was
jump right in Maybe the Urge, but only because I've
partied with him and I think they would remember me,

(22:28):
you know what I mean? Yeah, remember back in the
late nineties and on the way home, I vomited down
the side of the car.

Speaker 8 (22:34):
I did love Little Black Men on Your Bus from
Stroke nine, but they had an entire album. It just
that was the only song that I really.

Speaker 1 (22:41):
A lot of these bands had entire albums, Lindsay, right,
we're talking about one hit, and you could argue they
may have had another hit, though I couldn't tell you
what it is, right, Stroke nine, No way, jose Uh.
I was young and didn't buy cassettes, but I inherited
a massive collection of kiss from my dad. Yeah, my
brother had a ton of ca That's the last casset

(23:01):
I got was Queenswick Empire and I want it. From
a radio station in Odessa, Texas for identifying def Leppard's
Rock of Ages, everyone else called in and said it
was Pyromania to oh good way to rag There. I
found a two short cassette tape on the side of
the road, and I used to take my sister's cassette

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player and go hide it in the backyard and listen
to it. I was five years old. Oh God, And
that's probably why you are the way you wore. Laska
set I bought was the converter cassette that you put
in the car stereo to be able to play the
car CD. Sure. Yeah, last time I bought a cassette

(23:44):
was I'm twenty six. Last time I bought a cassette
was last month. But that probably might be one of
those you know, hipster things. It is, we love you,
but it is ain't. Nobody wants the quality cassette. Stop.
Don't even write it. Just put your phone down, just
listen to the sounds. There's a reason the music quality evolves.

(24:10):
It is not awesome carrying cassettes around. You don't go yeah,
but have you heard Miles Davis on cassette? Right?

Speaker 9 (24:16):
You could say that with a record, then I would
argue it isn't good. Vinyl's got a total different sound,
for sure, a different sounds. Nothing beats the good, crisp
quality of digital. I love a good quality.

Speaker 1 (24:32):
White noise. Oh, that's when they really knew how to
make music. Shut up, don't drive your car then, and
just get your horse and buggy with the steel wheels.
So stupid people make that argument, that's when they really
knew how to make music. What are you talking about?

Speaker 9 (24:52):
It was the same time you can beat your wife
with a stick and get away with Why don't you
just make food on a campfire?

Speaker 1 (24:57):
Then modern advances? Who needs this air conditioner? I had
this epiphany over the weekend. I don't know if anybody
would live in Oklahoma if it wasn't for air conditioning.
Not that listen, sunset's like no other right people here awesome,

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But when it's hot af, ain't nobody psyched right? Right?

Speaker 9 (25:24):
Some people go to the north when it's hot in
the south. Some people go to the south when it's
cold and north. You can't do that here in Oklahoma.

Speaker 1 (25:30):
Because it sucks on both seasons. It's either hot as
balls or cold af there's no happy in between. Or
if it's nice, it's you know, seven hundred degrees or
seven hundred miles per hour wind right right? What a
beautiful day outside. That's what makes these past week in

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session nonomally. All right, we got to take a break
and we'll be back.

Speaker 2 (25:56):
More of The Big Men Morning Show is nes kmo.

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Speaker 9 (26:28):
World news, local news and news that just makes you say,
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Speaker 8 (26:36):
In ninety set of five, AMoD man picks fight at
red light, gets run over by his own Ram fifteen hundred.
This happened in Gainesville, Florida. Joseph H. Carl, forty eight
year old Florida man who is driving his Dodge Ram
fifteen hundred in the rain on Tuesday night. According to
the Gainesville Sun, about seven pm, he ran into another

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vehicle that was waiting at a stoplight. Now, this would
have been a great time to get out and apologize,
trade insurance information and deal with the mess another day,
perhaps when it's dry, but that's not what he did.
According to early reports, he jumped out and began yelling
at the other driver. He was so angry and violent

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the woman in the other car panicked and drove off.
That's when Carl's ram began rolling into the intersection. He
realized he'd forgotten to put it in park. Police and
paramedics responded to the scene and found Carl wasn't taking
it easy by any measure. They say he was stumbling
around the intersection and smelled like alcohol. So this would

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have been a great time to come clean and tell
police exactly what happened, but that's not what Joseph Carl did.
Carl insisted he does not drink and drive. Later, he
claimed he was returning from a neighboring town where he'd
had three beers. He failed the field sobriety test refuse
the breadth of lyzer test, so police searched his truck

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under suspicion of drunk driving, and there they found empty
beer cans and also a cold sixteen ounce Miller High
Life still in its cup holder. And when his arrest
looked imminent, Carl complained about his foot hurting. Police took
him to the hospital, where he was treated for a
fractured foot and hand. His what alcohol level was a

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point to two, triple the legal limit.

Speaker 1 (28:32):
Two things that I thought of when I saw this
article was one, when you guys click on the link
and you read the article, it will tell you how
he tried to stop it. For those are no, that
truck's got a weigh four thousand pounds, like, yeah, it's
not light. No, no human's going to stop it, probably
not even Superman. But and then the other thing I
thought of, So you're telling me there's seventeen different angles

(28:55):
of Tyreek Kill getting arrested. There ain't one of this
cat right, Well, this not Tyreek Hill, doesn't matter, it's Florida. Man.
Number of people that had there were so many different
angles of the Tyreek Hill incident, You're like, what true?
A pastor busted for guns and drugs in Vegas. So

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there's this pastor out of North Carolina. His day. His
name is David McGee.

Speaker 9 (29:20):
He's sixty one, and he took a private jet to
Vegas to go look for his daughter because he thought
that she was living in one of the flood tunnels
down there. So he goes to Vegas, gets a room,
ends up calling the police over some missing property in
his room. So the police come out, they do some investigating. Now,
this guy has already tried to bring a shotgun into

(29:42):
a hotel in Vegas once and the staff was like, yo, bro,
you can't do that. So they asked the man. They're like, hey,
are there any guns in the room, and he said, well, yeah,
I've got one in my guitar case. So they searched
the room. They found an ar style rifle with a
scope on.

Speaker 1 (30:02):
It and a bunch of fentanyl to go with it.

Speaker 9 (30:08):
He says that he uses the fentanyl and that he
brought it because he was going to give some to
his daughter when he found her. Anyway, they went ahead
and picked him up, took him to jail, and now
he's got to go to court for all that job.

Speaker 1 (30:23):
Don't ask preach man why preach man gotta have cocaine
right in private jet right and guns and just go
down the rabbit hole of mol Go down the rabbit
hole of mole. People, which are the people that live
in the tunnels, Like it's in the thousands, Yeah, and
there were the people that live in the tunnels, and
they obviously do not recommend it because they're there for

(30:44):
a certain specific reason. Why is that, Well, if it
rains a lot, they gotta have the water go somewhere
right so, and it isn't like a drizzle like you know,
a little bit, it's a large amount of water, incredibly dangerous.
This is just a good PSA story. I have oven
destroyed after resident puts loaded gun inside and turns it on.

(31:07):
This happened in Virginia, where a homeowner learned the hard
way the damage that can be done by doing something stupid.
According to fire officials, someone placed the loaded gun in
the oven, turned it on. When the gun heat it up,
it went off, shooting a total of five rounds. No
one was injured in the incident. When you place any
item in the oven, it is easy to forget it
as there, which can lead to fire or something worse

(31:29):
when you turn it on. According to fire officials, you
should also make sure to properly store your firearms, by
the way, keep them somewhere secure like a gun safe, well,
the oven safe. Eh. And they have a photo and
it is posted of the gun after it was heated up,
stuck to the grate that's inside the oven? Was it wet?

Speaker 9 (31:50):
Was he trying to dry it? Does he like his
pistols a little extra?

Speaker 1 (31:54):
Well done? Put it in rice man. I mean I
wouldn't even do that, but like, please do it. Do
the same measure as you do a phone. Just put
a microwave would be fine. Maybe it was cold and
he was like, I can't hold a cold gun, right,
so cold, I'll put it in here warm exactly. All
these stories are on our Facebook page, Facebook dot com,

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Speaker 2 (32:17):
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Speaker 8 (32:46):
Sports thirteenth Ring, Oh You escaped with a sixteen to
twelve win over Houston on Saturday at home. The Sooners
offense couldn't find much of any consistency with just one

(33:10):
sustained drive. Luckily for ou, the defense did just enough
to help the Sooners pull off the victory. We deserved
to lose because we did everything you can possible, to possible,
do too, to give someone a chance to win. OU
football coach Brent Bennable said on the SEC Network immediately

(33:31):
after the game.

Speaker 1 (33:33):
I think those type of losses are good. Are those
type of wins are good because they didn't lose and
they're gonna go, oh, we almost lost, so let's do
some Steeler miles. Yeah. Together.

Speaker 8 (33:47):
There was quite a few upsets with Week two of
NCAA football. Number fourteen Tennessee took down number twenty four
NC State thirty seven to ten. Illinois upset number nineteen
Kansas Tree to seventeen. Number three Texas gave number ten
Michigan their first loss since twenty twenty two, thirty one
to twelve.

Speaker 1 (34:07):
I think that Michigan was just not ranked correctly. Texas
is a beast of a team. Yeah, that was not
It's the beginning of the season. Some teams are ranked
not fairly, not accurately. Yeah, Michigan was writing you know
the previous season. Still. Yeah.

Speaker 8 (34:24):
The biggest one for me was the Northern Illinois Huskies
for sure history sure. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (34:32):
The coach cried in the post game in Yes, they
had no business in that game, much less beating Notre Dame. Right,
that's good. That's a good morale booster for the team.

Speaker 8 (34:42):
Big time, sixteen to fourteen over number five Notre Dame,
who now drops to number nineteen.

Speaker 1 (34:49):
They should have just dropped out completely. They should have
lost all ranking. I know Notre Dame fan doesn't think
that's right, but that's a big game to lose, right, Yeah.

Speaker 8 (34:58):
I saw that coach cry and it was like a
kind of gaming goosebump.

Speaker 1 (35:02):
For sure.

Speaker 8 (35:03):
Good for you man, and for sure and your boys.

Speaker 1 (35:06):
They were a giant killer that day. That's a big deal.
It's not like the It's not like a game where Illinois,
as an example, you said, now to me, that was
an upset. Illinois under valued. People don't realize how good
Illinois is. Still i'd still way early in the season. Yeah.

Speaker 8 (35:23):
Yeah, Iowa State edged number twenty one iomassive nineteen.

Speaker 1 (35:28):
That's a massive win for Iowa State. If you haven't
seen the video of Brock Purty watching the game and
them winning and the kick in the final seconds, it's
awesome because he went to Iowa State for those Yeah.

Speaker 8 (35:40):
And Syracuse defeated number twenty three Georgia Tech thirty one
to twenty eight. Yeah, and then you mentioned Tyreek Miami
Dolphins star whiteout. Tyreek Hill was handcuffed outside of hard
Rock Stadium for a traffic violation. ESPN reports that the
violation was reckless driving and that a verbal alircasion was

(36:01):
with police also occurred. Hill was handcuffed, sided, and then released.
He'll ended up playing in the game, catching seven passes
for one hundred and thirty yards and a touchdown. The
thirty year old told the media after the game that
he did not know why he was detained. A Miami
Dade Police officer had been placed on administrative duties while

(36:22):
the situation is being investigated.

Speaker 1 (36:24):
Okay, so a couple of things on that. One, Tyreek
Hill in the postgame interview was like, I didn't say
anything disrespectful. I didn't swear right. Maybe he did or didn't.
I don't know. Hopefully they had their cams RNE and
we could know for sure. But I've seen you think
he runs his mouth all the time, but then at

(36:44):
that moment, he's a good boy, right. I have a
hard time buying that. And two, he was speeding to
the game to try and be there on time, and
one of the announcers on the pregame show when that
news broke, was like, Hey, the police have to understand, like,
you know they're trying. Are you kidding me?

Speaker 8 (37:02):
Right?

Speaker 1 (37:02):
Oh? Laws or laws br yes, earlier, Yes, it has
a little bit of a Scott Scottie Scheffler feel to it.

Speaker 7 (37:08):
Yes.

Speaker 1 (37:10):
And then the other thing is him going on administrative leave.
Was they were like, hey, we're not waiting for a
demand for an investigation, we're starting it now. And part
of that process is he got the guy. The rest
of officer has to go on administrative leave.

Speaker 8 (37:21):
Well, I had heard that there was on there was
a video of him while he was in handcuffs and
on the ground. Yeah, is when the officer was kicking
him while he was on the ground.

Speaker 1 (37:32):
I mean the video I saw. I don't remember seeing
him getting kicked. I saw them throw him to the
ground because it didn't look like he was complying.

Speaker 9 (37:39):
Right, What they gotta do with people that don't comply,
make them comply, right, And then all like the agent,
all these people got involved.

Speaker 1 (37:46):
Now, it does make no sense to be that aggressive
on a stop, but if if the police tell you
to do something, it is in your best interest to comply.
Any lawyer will tell you like, hey, don't bow up right, right,
And especially if the officers don't know who you are.
They know looking at you, they know I'm just they're

(38:07):
patrolling in front of the stadium, right, Yeah, everybody's aware
of who Tyreek Hill is. But it just saved another
girl from from getting beat. Who knows. But they say
it was aggravated speeding, and if he was like I'm not, no,
I'm not. By the way, he wasn't arrested. He was
just detained. Two completely different things. And for them to

(38:31):
detain him because of speeding could have been a number
who knows what was going on. Maybe the officer felt
like it wasn't in the room for that. Here was
another argument I heard for tyger Kill, which was fascinating,
was that like, hey, these guys go to the practice
facility in the stadium all the time, and on game day,
some areas are closed, some roads are closed, and they
may not know where to go and it may be
a little Are you kidding me? You don't get a

(38:54):
pass just because you're black of planning? Right, what do
you mean? It's not the first time he's ever played
in a game, right, he's nose game days are crazy.
So if he had to run late because he had
a number two, Like, come on, man, why are you driving?
I don't understand this. Yeah, day of the game.

Speaker 9 (39:14):
Don't be driving all right because anything can happen to
get an accident, anything could happen.

Speaker 1 (39:17):
Make your boy drive, make someone else drive, so you
don't have to worry about it and be stressed.

Speaker 8 (39:21):
Yeah, send a car for me on game days. That's
your boss of the Wall Sports. I'm Lindsay on ninety
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Speaker 1 (39:39):
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Speaker 1 (40:04):
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Speaker 9 (40:06):
Football is back this weekend as they take on two
Lane down in Norman. Your pre game with Chris playing
starts twelve thirty. Kickoff is at two thirty.

Speaker 1 (40:13):
Always streaming on the Iheartrady wet all right, best and
worst of the weekend. What's the best thing that happened this
weekend and the worst thing that happened this weekend? BMMS
and whatever that is to eight two, nine four five,
or feel free to call it nine one, eight four six.
Oh kmod lindsay what's the best and what's the worst
of your weekend?

Speaker 8 (40:29):
The best of the weekend was a football My add
ass was loving yesterday, going back and forth from game
to game all over the place. Of course, my Chicago
win was amazing, loved it. And then the worst of
the weekend for me was playing nurse. Started on Friday,

(40:52):
and I'd say Friday was probably the worst of it.
Playing nurse. Kevin was the biggest baby most men are.

Speaker 1 (41:02):
I think what was he doing that was making him
a baby?

Speaker 8 (41:06):
He was just I just don't feel I need you
to make me.

Speaker 1 (41:11):
That, And so despite him not feeling well, he should
just make his own stuff.

Speaker 8 (41:15):
I always have to. No, I'm just asking you sing
care of myself when I'm sick. But then the oldest
was also sick, so it was just full on mommy
nurse mode. And then uh, Kevin had a pretty bad
fever that he finally Plus you know, I sat in
my bedroom then because I don't want to get it
sure h he he broke his fever by sweating it out,

(41:37):
and that is I mean, I was like, dude, are
you sure you didn't what the bed like? It was
horrific everything, so strip the bed, have to clean all
the sheets, do all the things, just more work. Was
just you know, very unpleasurable, but we got through it.

Speaker 1 (41:56):
Gonna discover Red Zone NFL Red Zone. Yeah, oh, that's
an amazing, amazing channeliz And at the beginning of the season,
they do preview for free if you don't already have
it on your system, and they go to every game
back and forth. That's all they do is bounce around
to every game rather than just watch the two games
that are available in your market. Nice. Pretty awesome.

Speaker 9 (42:17):
I mean you don't get to watch the whole game,
but you get to catch the good stuff.

Speaker 1 (42:20):
Yeah, it's there in the red zone. Awesome. Some argue
it's the reason, the whole reason to buy the ticket. Okay,
I didn't think that that was part of Yeah, but okay,
it's it's awesome to watch all the games that way,
best and worst the weekend. What's the best thing that
happened this weekend, and the worst thing that happened this
weekend it can be.

Speaker 9 (42:40):
I guess best part of the weekend would be Saturday.
After my remote, I head over to the Town Punk
because they had the Combat Bets cbma's Combat Bets Motorcycle
Associating that their annual nine to eleven poker run, and
which is also the worst part of the weekend. Because
I had to work, I didn't get to go on
said poker run, but I still support the guys regardless,

(43:02):
and it was awesome to watch all one hundred and
fifty two hundred bikes come rolling in and one time,
and then they served us dinner.

Speaker 1 (43:09):
Oh so you went before the poker run started.

Speaker 9 (43:11):
While the poker run was going on when I got done,
so I didn't get to catch up and go on
the run. If I didn't have to that remote at
the Classic Chevrolet, I would have gone on the ride,
no problem. But a lot of my friends were there
and I support combat Combat Vets wholeheartedly, So went down there,
caught up with those guys after they all got back,

(43:32):
and we sat around, we had dinner, and we had raffles,
and somebody walked away with two jet skis.

Speaker 1 (43:38):
It was pretty awesome. It was a pretty awesome deal. Yeah.
And the worst of the weekend is just I couldn't
go with them because I had to work. Best and
worst of the weekend. What's the best thing that happened
this weekend? And the worst thing that happened this weekend.
Best part of the weekend was, for sure the weather.
Undoubtedly the best part of the weekend. To be able
to sit on the patio and watch game and grill

(44:02):
and do all these things. It was. It was an
incredible weekend for weather. The worst part of the weekend, ah,
I just not feeling well. That's that.

Speaker 9 (44:19):
All right, Wine and cry for soup and make your
old lady make it for you. I guess yeah.

Speaker 1 (44:25):
Best and worst of the weekend BMMS and whatever that
is to eight two nine four five. Worst was coming
down with COVID midweek and thinking I was gonna miss
my cousin's MMA debut. Best of the weekend. I still
was able to see my cousin's debut and he knocked
out his opponent. I've heard a lot of people say recently,
They're like, oh, I think I've got COVID. How do

(44:46):
you know, right, Are you taking the test right? Or
is that just like I don't feel well. I think
I got COVID because I've heard a lot of people
say that. I've heard a lot of people like, oh,
I got COVID. Are you buying the test and taking
the test right? Maybe they're going to urgent care or something. Okay,
I know possible. Yeah, I'm just curious of how. Yeah,

(45:08):
I mean, how you're coming to that conclusion.

Speaker 9 (45:10):
It's hard to tell when you have all the same
symptoms of I don't know, severe allergies or cold and blue.

Speaker 1 (45:15):
Best the weekend was I got to make three hundred
dollars on Saturday and got to hear GIMPI on the air.
The worst of the weekend I had to work hard
on Saturday. Who good deal? And that doesn't make any sense,
but okay. Best went to Savannah Bananas game. Worst all

(45:37):
the driving to attend the game. I wonder where they played. Hmmm.
Best going to the Drillers game Sunday to see Blue
with the kid and baby mama. Worst was not getting
a lot of sleep over the weekend, so Monday super sucks.
Best was meeting Gavin Rosdale in Durant, and worst was lose.

(46:00):
Seeing all my money at the chalk Taw casino, I
wonder if he was playing the casino or was he
just in Durant. I'm gonna go with he was playing.

Speaker 8 (46:09):
Yeah, or was he in town picking up his kids from.

Speaker 1 (46:15):
The X do they live in Durant? Was a pretty
big stated.

Speaker 9 (46:22):
Ada looks like the Savannah Bananas played in Des Moines.
It's a hell of a drive and watching novelty baseball team.

Speaker 1 (46:31):
It's gotta be six hours if not more, Yeah to
des Moines. Maybe I know it's four to Kansas City
and it's got to be at least another two to
go to Des Moines. Two and a half to get
to Des Moines. Best part of the weekend I was
I was blessed with granddaughter number five, healthy and a

(46:52):
headful I'm gonna say head full of hair, but this
is headful of air, which is a definite quality you
want a newborn to have. The worst part of the weekend, Honestly,
I can't think of one right now. Yeah, absolutely, man,
getting to have a grandchild's got to be fifth grandchild. Congrats,

(47:13):
even if it is a dumb ass airhead baby, right,
does that mean their head's just really big, and they're like,
did the baby come out going adrpe right? Her favorite
color is clear, you're a baby. You don't even know
colors yet here. I mean again, I don't think Einstein

(47:33):
came out not knowing colors right, or a lawn. All right,
we gotta take a break. We got tickets to see
Rob Zombie. We're gonna give away coming up. Tell us
this morning show is coming right, Good morning, and it's

(48:00):
the big Mad Morning shown six oh K M O D.
You can also text themms and then what you want
to say to eight two nine four five. It was
announced that Kendrick Lamar will play the Super Bowl. They
announced that yesterday and feels like they announced that earlier
than they normally do. I saw a push earlier a

(48:20):
couple of weeks ago for Jelly Role to play the
Super Bowl. I'm like, that makes sense. Yeah, he said
some good crossover stuff. Yeah, he kind of hits everybody.
I think, so, yeah, that would make total sense. I
don't hate Kendrick Lamar. You're talking maybe one of the
best rappers of all time. Definitely in the conversation. He's
played the Super Bowl before a halftime before as a

(48:41):
supporting artist, when he showed up with Dre and m
and all them. So I don't I don't hate that Kendrick.
Everybody's like Kendrick Lamar. People know him like two of
his songs. So what just because you're not a Kendrick
Lamar fan, just because you don't know all of his songs.

(49:01):
Believe it or not, the Super Bowl halftime show doesn't
cater to you, right? What it does? They kind of
rotate who they're targeting each year. They rotate it around
two different genres. We should just go back to marching bands.

Speaker 9 (49:16):
Yeah, who needs all this entertainment and music stars?

Speaker 1 (49:23):
Just throw a marching band out on the field and
call it done. I'll be honest. I'm good with just
like a fan toss for you know, some Doctor Pepper money.
I think that's fine too. It's already too long, right.
I just want to watch I just I'm there to
watch football. I'm not watching I'm not there to watch
bands play. And so for them to do this elaborate,

(49:44):
ridiculous setup of it's got to be big and all
this production, I don't care. I want to see football.

Speaker 8 (49:51):
I enjoy the halftime show.

Speaker 1 (49:53):
That's not the question. That's not what it's for. Though,
there are people that tune in just for that, and
maybe you're that person. But then it does that like
I'm there to watch football. Yeah, I want to see
the teams play. The teams already hate it because it
makes it so long, the halftime so long. They gets
some good rest in that that air mission. You can

(50:14):
make an argument that it becomes you get atropute, your
muscles get tired, right, they oxidize a little bit. You
got to stay for like it's more work.

Speaker 8 (50:24):
They could make the game earlier, they could start it sooner.

Speaker 1 (50:28):
Well, internet that I don't know what that has to
do with the band playing, right, because they're still going
to take the same two hour halftime.

Speaker 8 (50:35):
Yeah, it's not a two hour halftime show, forty five
minutes whatever. It's not even forty five.

Speaker 1 (50:41):
Minutes between the teams stop playing until they start playing again.

Speaker 8 (50:46):
Is it that long?

Speaker 1 (50:46):
No, way, it's a long time, lindsay.

Speaker 8 (50:49):
I think that the halftime show is only fifteen minutes long.

Speaker 1 (50:53):
Yes, but from when they stop playing to when they
start playing again, you're right, the performer may do like
nine minutes or something. Yeah, they got a wheel, a
stage out and they gotta do the thing, and they
gotta got the drones in them, I got the fireworks going,
they got get the lights and all the dancers and
all the people and all the lights. And you're like, ah, yeah,
it says it's at usually twelve to.

Speaker 9 (51:12):
Fifteen minutes the performing aperience. Yeah, can you be closer
to thirty minutes? Longer halftime allows for more entertainment and
a longer break.

Speaker 1 (51:24):
And when you like, you go, that's just they're just
trying to sell more beer for sure, because nobody really
cares that's there because the common Joe can't go to
that game, not when they're charging ten thousand dollars for
the cheap scene. Yeah, there's just not a lot of
tickets to those games. That's something worth save enough for.

(51:45):
I think though.

Speaker 9 (51:46):
I mean, if you say a lot of money, and
if that's something you really want to do, if you
say something save up a couple of years, you know,
you know, like playing ahead, like, well we're we're it'll
be twenty twenty five, right, so let's plan for the
twenty seven Super Bowl.

Speaker 1 (52:01):
Yeah. But if you're a Cowboy fan or a Bears
fan and you hit that drought and you've been saving yeah. Yeah,
we're not going for your team. We're just going to
the Cup, right, Yeah, just to go to the game,
to be in that atmosphere. Yeah. If you I'm yeah.
If that is a thing you need for fulfillment in
your life, that's an adventure you'd like to go on. Yeah,

(52:22):
start saving.

Speaker 9 (52:23):
If you're waiting for the Cowboys to go back to
the super Bowl, it's gonna be a.

Speaker 1 (52:27):
Whole or the Lions or the Bear of the Browns
or whoever. Like you can hit a drought for a
long time. Not everybody do to back to bad Corbon. No,
that's true. That's why it's smack. That's why I'm enjoying
it because it's going to end at some point. Let's
see what Ghimbie has in his four by four, Well

(52:49):
go over.

Speaker 9 (52:49):
It says here that the Boweling star Liner returns to
Earthlight didn't blow up.

Speaker 1 (52:54):
Huh, I guess not. They should have put them on it. Friday,
the unmanned capsule released from the ISS and began its
six hour journey back home. That's from here to the
Moine anyway. The star Liner landed in New Mexico's White
Sands Space Harbor. That sounds like a resort. Yeah, late

(53:17):
Friday nights. It launched due to the ISS back in
June with two astronauts on board who didn't come back.
The mission was expected the last eight days.

Speaker 9 (53:26):
The mechanical issues kept the craft and the astronauts in
space for three months. The two astronauts will remain in
space until Februarary.

Speaker 1 (53:35):
Of next year. Maybe maybe do the engineers they get
up to it and they're like, you know, like when
your car doesn't run or whatever, you're like, or they
get in there and they find out, they're like, oh,
we totally could have brought people back on this thing.

Speaker 2 (53:53):
Right.

Speaker 1 (53:53):
They're like, it's just the thing you just got, Like
when you go to you have a buddy that's really
good with cars, and like it's just the wickedy wig
right right, it just blew confuse, man, that's it? Whatever, Hi,
what else we got here?

Speaker 9 (54:04):
Report blames Biden administration for failure to plan in Afghanistan.
A Congressional report on the twenty twenty one withdrawal from
Afghanistan fines that hesitation from the administration put Americans at risk.
A three hundred and fifty four page report was released
yesterday by House Foreign Affairs Committee after a three year investigation,

(54:28):
Foreign Affairs Chair Michael McCall McCall of Texas said that
the administration had the opportunity to plan for the quote
inevitable collapse of the Afghan government to put the evacuation
into place. A terror attack during the chaotic withdrawal led
to the deaths of thirteen US service members and numerous civilians.

Speaker 1 (54:49):
The mother of the alleged Georgia shooter says she warned school.
Mothers of the teenager accused killing four people out of
Georgia High School says she called the school before the
attack to warn them about a quote dream emergency. The Post.
The Washington Post says records show that Marcy Gray not
to be confused with Macy Gray. I tried, y'all didn't

(55:16):
leave me and I just shut up and school. I
did not have Macy Gray on our bingo car today,
not at all. I mean, but I'm glad that I'm
glad that you you hit it for us, because who
doesn't like to have a little Macy Gray in their morning?

(55:39):
Really keep it going.

Speaker 9 (55:46):
Marcy Gray called the Appalachi High School about a half
an hour before the shooting.

Speaker 1 (55:51):
Let me get this straight. She called the school and said,
I try, but Jesus she got school shootings are not funny. Well,
that's not what we're laughing about. Calm down, it's about
Macey Gray. Let us get stuck in your heads for
the rest of it. I remember when you saw her

(56:13):
and you'd be like, that's a big bitch for real,
a big old hair. How tall do you think she is?

Speaker 9 (56:19):
She gotta be at least five eleven five eleven six foot.

Speaker 1 (56:24):
So what do you think or how old do you
think Macy Gray is?

Speaker 11 (56:28):
What?

Speaker 1 (56:29):
Oh? God, sixty two fifty five fifty seven net worth
thirteen dollars.

Speaker 8 (56:39):
Twenty five million, twelve million.

Speaker 1 (56:41):
Wow, way to go, Macy. Name another song by her?

Speaker 8 (56:45):
Can't do it?

Speaker 1 (56:46):
That's right exactly. Name the album is tried. Name the
album is on.

Speaker 8 (56:52):
Sunshine.

Speaker 1 (56:52):
I try? Uh yeah.

Speaker 9 (56:59):
So Mom called the about half an hour quarter shooting
and was on the phone for about ten minutes. Her
fourteen year old son, Colt, is charged with four counts
of felony mayor dare for the Wednesday shooting. Lastly, here
the Community Service Expo of Greater Tulsa to be hosted
at several park and recreation community Centers, The Downtown Tulsa

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News and Tulsa Downtowners Club That's the Thing are hosting
the Community Service Expo of Greater Tulsa at several Tulsa
parks and recreation community centers. This is an event that
will connect members of the Tulsa community with needed community
services used using various facilities throughout the Tulsa communities, such
as park facilities and church organizations that will open their

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doors free of charge to their community and the public.
The expo began on September seventh at Hicks Community Center.

Speaker 1 (57:50):
That's Say with Lindsay's Gone for Boston The Wall Sports.

Speaker 8 (58:04):
The Nebraska Cornhuskers took down the Colorado Buffaloes on Saturday
night in a primetime win twenty eight to ten. Nebraska's
could stood tall and Lincoln after a great start to
the game and a great defensive showcase, Nebraska quarterback Dylan
Riola shined in a showdown with potential first round draft
pick Shador Sanders. Riola came out on top, completing twenty

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three of thirty passes for one hundred and eighty five yards.
Royola also had a touchdown pass to Ramier Johnson, not
throwing an interception. In the process. Sanders was twenty three
of thirty eight passing for two hundred and forty four yards,
throwing a late touchdown, but also telegraphing a pick six
to Husker defensive back Tommy Hill's.

Speaker 1 (58:47):
Good for him to that is for him production wise,
a super low amount passing. He is a crazy passer
and did not bode well. He left the game early,
it's not I'm not clear on that. I don't know,
and like he wasn't injured and he just left the
game with like two minutes to go. There were a

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lot of missteps. I saw an article and I don't
know if this is true about the fraudulent behavior of
Deon Sanders being a coach and that where was the coaching.
He let thirteen seconds roll off the clock before he
called a time out. Yeah, that's not how timeouts work man.
Maybe there's some kind of strategy behind it. We just

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don't know what it it from. Obviously, I've never coached
a team. It looked chaotic. This isn't you know, a
Division three school, right, this is Colorado. This is you
gotta be You got to have your ass together. They didn't.
They do not look like they have it looks like
I got some really talented athletes on the team, but

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they do not have it together. It was some of
the most bizarre play calling coaching that it made Matt
Ruhle and Nebraska look like old school Nebraska.

Speaker 8 (01:00:03):
Yeah, just because you can play doesn't mean you can coach.

Speaker 1 (01:00:06):
So do you think Dion will stick around there for
much longer if they keep it up at this rate?
I don't know if they're going to have the tolerance
for one more season. He's selling tickets.

Speaker 9 (01:00:16):
Right right, But because you're selling tickets if you're not
winning games, that's a big difference.

Speaker 1 (01:00:21):
I don't disagree that.

Speaker 8 (01:00:24):
Dylan, though, is awesome, and he Dylan Riola from Nebraska,
right he is the quarterback, and they kept saying it
he does have He is mahomes doppelganger, for sure.

Speaker 1 (01:00:37):
I think he's emulating him for sure. When you have
a high caliber quarterback in the NFL, a lot of
quarterbacks are emulated in the college level. Yeah, but Colorado
has two amazing players, if not three or four. Travis Hunter,
that plays both sides of the ball for Colorado, is
an unbelievably talented athlete and it's just getting wasted at Colorado.

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Shdor Sanders could be a Heisman candidate. I think it
ain't gonna. Can you be a Heisman candidate and your
team lose a bunch of games? I don't think so.

Speaker 8 (01:01:08):
No. No. The Steelers marched into Atlanta without their starting
quarterback and took down the Falcons eighteen to ten from
Mercedes Benz Stadium. Justin Field started for the injured Russell
Wilson and completed seventeen of twenty three passes for one
hundred and fifty six yards. He added fifty seven rushing
yards on fourteen carries. Chris Boswell accounted for the entire

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offense with six made field goals, including a fifty seven yarder.
The Steelers visit the Broncos next Sunday.

Speaker 1 (01:01:39):
Like he looked out of the shoot. He looked like
Justin Field's doing Justin Field's thing, missed passes, bad snat
like it just looked like what are we doing here?
But when he finally settled down, they got productive for sure.

Speaker 8 (01:01:53):
Yeah, and the Vikings opened up their Sam Darnold arrow
with a twenty eight to six.

Speaker 1 (01:01:59):
You know it's a messed up NFL weekend. When Sam
Darnold and Derek Carr are the best quarterbacks of the weekend.
It was the weekend for the underdogs. Man, I don't know, man.

Speaker 8 (01:02:13):
The win was Minnesota's first by more than seventeen points
since twenty nineteen.

Speaker 1 (01:02:18):
Damn.

Speaker 8 (01:02:18):
The one to no Vikings take on San Francisco at
home on Sunday.

Speaker 1 (01:02:23):
Nobody expected the Vikings to win, Nobody expected the Patriots
to win, and nobody had Derek Carr having a legendary starting.

Speaker 8 (01:02:31):
Yeah, and that is your boss of the Wall Sports.
I'm Wenday on ninety seven to five KMOD.

Speaker 1 (01:02:46):
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Speaker 1 (01:03:48):
Let's keep on listening, all right, let's do Our listeners
are awesome. We like to chat with our listeners. They
share their story with us and join us on the line.
Right now, is Skyler? Hi, Skyler? How are you?

Speaker 4 (01:04:00):
I'm good man, how are y'all good?

Speaker 1 (01:04:02):
Skyler is twenty four? No kids. That's a pretty good accomplishment. Accomplishment, man,
to not have kids by twenty four.

Speaker 4 (01:04:11):
Yeah, man, that's hard though, it's really hard.

Speaker 1 (01:04:14):
Yeah, any close calls.

Speaker 4 (01:04:17):
A few, a few, yeah, just not a lot.

Speaker 1 (01:04:20):
That's good. It says here that you do asset protection
for a store at Admiral and Memorial, And yeah, that's
got a pretty gotta be a pretty crazy day to
day experience.

Speaker 4 (01:04:37):
Yeah, man, it's crazy some days, it's pretty chill. Some days,
It's just crazy.

Speaker 1 (01:04:41):
Man.

Speaker 4 (01:04:43):
It depends on what today.

Speaker 1 (01:04:44):
You know, do you when you go to work, are
you like I'm gonna have a good day today? Like
what's a what's a what's the difference between a good
day and a bad day? In the asset protection world, good.

Speaker 4 (01:04:54):
Days is nice and slow, you know, just really like
just really calm, cool. And then you know the days
I actually say I have a good day, it's just
it just gets really worse. It just gets bad. It's
like all busy and everything. You know, your local neighborhood
tweakers around here and stuff like that.

Speaker 1 (01:05:13):
So have you ever been like attacked during asset protection
when you confront somebody like hey put that maybe lene back,
and like have they ever tried to assault you?

Speaker 4 (01:05:26):
Man? There was one time where we stopped this lady
and she had a cart full of stuff and but
she was on a PCP. So we got her into
the office and everything, and she started like start tripping out.
She had a knife in her purse. Whenever the officer
went to go check her, turned out she tried to

(01:05:47):
pull the knife out on us. Like all there was
four of us in there, tried to pull it out
on us and then yeah, I tried to established and
it was pretty Uh it's pretty crazy, man.

Speaker 8 (01:05:56):
How big was this knife?

Speaker 4 (01:05:59):
It was like one of those Michael Myers kitchen knives. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:06:05):
So you had her in there in the back room,
in the asset protection room with the officers, and she
just pulls this knife out.

Speaker 4 (01:06:12):
Yeah. So there was only one officer and like four
of the workers.

Speaker 1 (01:06:16):
And so do you let the officer deal with that
or do you get involved?

Speaker 4 (01:06:21):
Uh? So I usually let the officer do with it.
But they you know, if they ask for help, we
can't deny them help, you know what I'm.

Speaker 1 (01:06:27):
Saying, right help me? You're on your own, bro, Yeah,
is it right? From what I understand of asset protection,
there are people that maybe take something, and then there
are people that steal that. This is their business. This
they they are professionals at shoplifting.

Speaker 4 (01:06:46):
Yeah, man, there's a there's a few of them I've
caught there, just like straight up boosters, you know. But
they ended up being honest with me and some of that,
So you know, you can't do much about it, you
know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:06:58):
Right there, they look as get at getting caught as
just a part of the process. Sometimes and they'll they'll
play the long game, and like, yep, I did it.

Speaker 4 (01:07:06):
Yeah right, have you ever have you.

Speaker 1 (01:07:10):
Ever come across anyone that was in organized crime?

Speaker 4 (01:07:16):
Uh? Not that I know of. It's it's you know,
it's none of my business if they are, you know,
trying to stay out the way as much as possible.
I already worked, you know, stopping shoplifters, so you know.

Speaker 1 (01:07:31):
Right, you're not trying to get connected to some buddy
an organized crime that's gonna come back at you.

Speaker 4 (01:07:37):
Oh yeah, for sure.

Speaker 1 (01:07:39):
It says here that you got stabbed once. I'm sorry, No,
you got shot once.

Speaker 4 (01:07:45):
Yeah, I was fourteen when I got shot.

Speaker 1 (01:07:48):
Man fourteen? Yep, what were you doing at fourteen that
got you almost got shot? Or you did get shot?

Speaker 4 (01:07:55):
So it was like a whole you won't situation?

Speaker 1 (01:07:59):
Wait are you what? So you won't.

Speaker 4 (01:08:03):
Basically just like you won't do it, like you're you're
too scared to do it, Like you won't do it.
And I messed around and found out so.

Speaker 1 (01:08:12):
Your I'm guessing friend had a gun and he pointed
at out you and you were like, you're just chicken.

Speaker 8 (01:08:22):
Basically, oh my goodness, what are you doing?

Speaker 4 (01:08:28):
So we was at my uncle's house. And uh So
we was at my uncle's house in his room and
I sat down, like in a seat and my friend
was like, hey, that's my seat. I said okay, and
he was like get up. I was like no, and

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then he was like, I'll shoot you if you don't
get up, and I was just like, well, uh, you won't.
You know, you won't do it. I messed around found out.
So the gun was on safety with the safety malfunctions
and hit me in the chest whenever you pulled the trigger.

Speaker 1 (01:09:08):
How close was he to you?

Speaker 4 (01:09:10):
About three four inches?

Speaker 1 (01:09:12):
Man, So he put a gun in your chest and
at fourteen you were feeling sassy and.

Speaker 4 (01:09:17):
We're like, go ahead, yeah basically.

Speaker 1 (01:09:22):
And so do you remember the gun discharging?

Speaker 4 (01:09:27):
I do not remember it.

Speaker 1 (01:09:30):
So what do you what's the first thing you remember? So?

Speaker 4 (01:09:38):
I remember me passing out basically, like and not even
passing out, but like, you know.

Speaker 1 (01:09:46):
Uh, losing consciousness basically.

Speaker 4 (01:09:51):
Yeah, it gets froggy, gets poggy a little bit, you
know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:09:57):
So, and so I guess the A they take you
to the hospital. How long are you in the hospital.

Speaker 4 (01:10:07):
H So I was in the hospital for six months.
But my time out of the hospital was about recovery,
was about you know, another six months.

Speaker 1 (01:10:19):
Yeah, and did he get in trouble? Did the police
show up? Or are they get involved? I'm sorry, are
you playing Merlin or something? Are you playing Super Mario Brothers?
What's going on in the background?

Speaker 4 (01:10:35):
So what's going on in the background is so whenever I, uh,
whenever I got hit, basically, everybody's like running around and
stuff like that. You know, I hit the wall like
a like went off. The movies where still of that?
And so I clapped and uh because my lung collapsed.
And then I'll remember, is nobody's doing anything, We're just

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killing us in music. So music's playing in the background.
I don't remember what tongue it was. I have no clue,
but yeah, man, that's uh, that's basically I went. I
remember my Grandma coming over and praying over me. I'm
not a big religious person, but like you know, it
was kind of it was kind of scary seeing that,

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you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:11:20):
Did the police get involved? Uh?

Speaker 4 (01:11:23):
Yeah, so we had to call it emsign and stuff
like that. Police got involved, all that bunch of stuff,
all that jazz, all that jazz. The only time I
thought I was dying wash whenever they were putting me
to sleep, they didn't tell me that.

Speaker 1 (01:11:40):
Yeah. Did the guy that shot you go to jail?

Speaker 4 (01:11:45):
Uh No, we didn't.

Speaker 8 (01:11:47):
Why so.

Speaker 4 (01:11:51):
Basically made like a whole little you know, there was
a whole story about it. Uh, basically what happened and
their eyes and are my eyes? They were doing a
cleaning test on the gun and the safety malfunctions and
it went off. Mm hmm.

Speaker 1 (01:12:14):
What made you want to stick around and not give
up and DIEU?

Speaker 4 (01:12:18):
My brother was two weeks old, so like, you know,
I couldn't, you know, just give up right then?

Speaker 12 (01:12:26):
There?

Speaker 4 (01:12:26):
You know what I'm saying, Like he just he just
came out like fresh out right.

Speaker 1 (01:12:34):
No regrets, did he? Uh? Do you still hang out
with the guy? Uh?

Speaker 4 (01:12:39):
Yeah I do. Well, we're actually best friends.

Speaker 1 (01:12:42):
And do you guys get together and he goes, I
remember that one time I shot you?

Speaker 4 (01:12:46):
Yeah. Basically sometimes we'll talk crap about it.

Speaker 8 (01:12:50):
Have you ever gotten him back?

Speaker 13 (01:12:53):
Uh?

Speaker 4 (01:12:54):
No? I always tell him I'm going to get him back, like,
you know, shoot his nipple off or something like that.

Speaker 1 (01:12:59):
I mean, to be fair, shooting his nipple off is
not gonna be even you'll still have some bill do
with him, I would think, yeah, right, yeah, I don't
think he's been in a coma for six months and
six months of rehab. But you did take his nipple though,
I mean, come on, that's a that's a fair price. Yeah, right,
right on, all right, well listen, Skyler, good luck with

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asset protection, stay safe. Ain't no reason to get shot again, right, yeah,
no reason, right on, all right, man, have a great day.

Speaker 4 (01:13:33):
Alright, man, you too, All.

Speaker 1 (01:13:34):
Right, buddy, go back to watching cartoons or you later.
Do you think they have a problem at that location
at Admirable Memorial with stuff getting taken? You think I
don't know? Big story though, Yeah, I love to tell
you about it. All right, we're gonna take a break.
We'll be back.

Speaker 13 (01:13:54):
Tell us his Warning Show, The Big Bad Warning Shows
next ninety KMOD.

Speaker 1 (01:14:15):
Good morning. It's the Big Mad Morning Show. Jeff Finsley
will be here soon. If you have a question about divorce, custody, guardianship,
name change, any of those things, Jeff will and can't
answer them for family loss stuff. Feel free to get
your question to us ahead of time. The email addresses
show at KMOD dot com. Show at kmod dot com.
I thought, while we're waiting for Jeff, we play a

(01:14:36):
little game and to see how well you know your abbreviations.
All right, would you say you know your abbreviations pretty well, Lindsay, now,
gimbi on.

Speaker 9 (01:14:47):
A scale of one to ten, I would consider myself
probably a.

Speaker 1 (01:14:51):
Six and a half. Okay, well, let's let's start. We'll start.
There's quite a few of them, but we'll do us.
I'll give you some easy ones, and you might need
to write these down to keep up with it because
it's kind of hard to understand. But let's do an
easy one. P O V gimpy Yes, point of view. Yeah,

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I think everybody kind of knew that one. H S
m H gimpy yes, shake my head. Yes again. I
feel like I'm teeing them up here, so n s
f W gimpy yes. Not safe for work. I want
to make sure Lindsay's buzzer works, yes.

Speaker 8 (01:15:33):
Lindsay, Okay, I'm writing them as you say. Then f
O M o oh fear of missing Lindsay, fear of
missing out?

Speaker 1 (01:15:48):
Uh I y k y k yippy yes, you know
you know. See, if we can't make it a little
harder what she said, T L d are t.

Speaker 11 (01:16:01):
L b R no clue talk long date rape, No,
I wanna take guest, Lindsay.

Speaker 8 (01:16:20):
Uh, time lasts, I don't know something, do right, I
don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:16:31):
Too long, didn't read? Huh okay.

Speaker 9 (01:16:37):
Uh OFC ofc oh FC is uh only fans channel gibb. No, No,
that's not right. You have a guest, lindsay, of course.

Speaker 1 (01:16:54):
Of course, that's what it means. We locked a couple
up for you. I am oh.

Speaker 8 (01:17:02):
In, lindsay, in my opinion.

Speaker 1 (01:17:05):
Correct uh h m U kimpy hit me up l
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Speaker 8 (01:17:13):
Oh, Lindsay, yes, laughing my ass off.

Speaker 1 (01:17:18):
I am oh gimpy, Yes, in my opinion. Oh yeah,
I I r C r C. I'm out. I don't
know that I I r C no clue if I

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recall correctly.

Speaker 8 (01:17:43):
Huh a f.

Speaker 9 (01:17:46):
K oh gimpy. Yes, Lindy, do you know this one?
No away from keyboard n g L gimpy yes, not
going long not gonna lie wow.

Speaker 1 (01:18:02):
O O T d oh, Linday, you should know this one.
I don't know. I feel like you should too. Yeah.

Speaker 9 (01:18:10):
I want to do a video all one later. It
looks like you do videos on these, y I do.
This is like my new thing.

Speaker 1 (01:18:15):
Outfit of the day. I G gimpy Yes Instagram No, damn.

Speaker 8 (01:18:25):
It, I G I'm going.

Speaker 1 (01:18:29):
I guess I go T T Y L gimpy Yes,
talk to you later.

Speaker 8 (01:18:38):
Correct TB H lindsay yes to be honest.

Speaker 1 (01:18:42):
Correct d M Gippy direct message correct yellow y O
l O.

Speaker 8 (01:18:52):
You only live once.

Speaker 1 (01:18:53):
Correct. And the last one I have here is f
W I W f W I.

Speaker 8 (01:19:01):
W f W I W uh for what I want?
For what I want?

Speaker 9 (01:19:16):
Uh f with ingrid when it's more of a question
than it is a statement.

Speaker 1 (01:19:23):
You know that that's not correct for what it's worth.

Speaker 8 (01:19:26):
Oh yeah, okay.

Speaker 1 (01:19:30):
I love when we do these and we're like gold on.
Let me give you a butterscotch candy with no wrapper
on it. That's said.

Speaker 9 (01:19:43):
That could be how sentences are written now, you know,
in the near future, like everything's just shortened down and
you got to decipher it like goddamn Cherokee wind whisper.

Speaker 1 (01:19:53):
You know what I mean? When people send me those,
I just more like I I'm a fool already, so
why add to it?

Speaker 9 (01:20:04):
I google it just because I'm curious. I'm like what
does this mean?

Speaker 1 (01:20:08):
Oh? Okay, now I know not to ever use that again.
Do you ever go, hey, can you just say the
word all the time?

Speaker 8 (01:20:17):
I'll respond with a huh or a question mark.

Speaker 1 (01:20:21):
All the time.

Speaker 9 (01:20:22):
It's okay, just you know, use a couple of extra
letters and spaces and.

Speaker 1 (01:20:27):
Maybe make some sense. Right, No, and then you definitely
can give them a shiny nickel for rubbing your corny. Two.
Absolutely you can't. Yeah, I just don't even engage. I'm like, okay,
I'm clearly batting way out of my league at this point.
I'm gonna sit over here and write in cursive. I'm
just gonna write, right, write my check in cursive. Why

(01:20:51):
don't you show up with the coupon?

Speaker 9 (01:20:54):
I was at the grocery store againting groceries the last Tuesday,
and there was this.

Speaker 1 (01:20:59):
It was an older cup what i'd say, maybe on
mid to late sixties, and this bron actually pulled out
her check book, wrote it out and handed it to
where I was like, people still do that? Oh yeah,
oh yeah, yeah. I've been trying to convince my mom
to stop doing that. Just it's a little plastic card.
It works. She doesn't trust, she doesn't trust buying stuff

(01:21:23):
online too, is her and my brother buying stuff online
is like a giant ass. I'm not gonna lie.

Speaker 9 (01:21:27):
I was that way for the longest time too, And
then I started buying stuff on online, and I'm like,
this is amazing.

Speaker 1 (01:21:33):
It's pretty secure. I don't have to go anywhere. Yeah,
it is only time that I've gotten breached, my my
my personal information breach. I don't want people think that
I personally was breached, because that's just but hey man,
it's a different time. It's a new millennium. That was
the younger you, right.

Speaker 9 (01:21:54):
But that's when that's when it came through on my PlayStation,
you know, because I had my card stuff, you know,
when I buy digitally or when it renews my my subscription,
and somebody got in and stolen my information, my brother's
card information.

Speaker 1 (01:22:08):
But that was it outside of that good But how
much of that when they stole like, how much did
they end up spinning? Do you remember?

Speaker 9 (01:22:16):
Oh, it was a couple one hundred dollars worth of games,
And when I say a couple of hundred, it was
like close to like three because of sitting there playing games.
All of a sudden, the like I get the notifications
like thank you for your purchase, thank.

Speaker 1 (01:22:29):
You for your purchase.

Speaker 9 (01:22:30):
And usually when that comes like through that on PlayStation Network,
it's because my subscription automatically renewed. I'm like, all right, great,
So I opened it up just curious, you know, how
much was I know how much it was? But and
then it was like this game and then another game,
and then I was like, I didn't buy any of
these games at all whatsoever.

Speaker 1 (01:22:48):
So that's how I knew something was up. How much
of an anomaly was the game? For you to go, Well,
that's not me, oh like Chef's Burger Time seven? Right, No,
it was some.

Speaker 9 (01:23:00):
Role playing game of sorts, like a Final Fantasy Sword
of type game, and that's just not my bag.

Speaker 1 (01:23:08):
You know. It wasn't a giant Left Turn. Yeah, it
wasn't too awful, man, but I knew it wasn't me. Yeah,
and see, people would be, you know, cautious about buying
stuff online because of the story you tell. But Lindsay's
got a story where someone just took her credit card,
so and it can happen both ways. Definitely, all right,

(01:23:28):
we got to take a break. We'll be back.

Speaker 2 (01:23:29):
Tulsa's Morning Show continues next with a Big Man Morning
Show on Tulsa's rock station ninety K.

Speaker 1 (01:23:48):
Good Morning, That's the Big Mad Morning Show six KODEE.
Jeff Pinsley will join us here and Man, he got
a question about divorce, custody, guardianship, any of those things
that I have to do with family law, He'll answer them.
Get you a question to us ahead of time. Email
addresses show at kmode dot com, or you can text
bmms and whatever that question is to eight two, nine
four five, or call it nine one, eight four to six.

(01:24:08):
Oh kmod when he's in the studio in about ten minutes.
Let's see what Lindsay has for sports.

Speaker 8 (01:24:24):
The Chicago Bears collected an old school victory after coming
from behind to top the Tennessee Titans twenty four to
seven at Soldier Field. The top pick from the twenty
twenty four NFL draft made his debut. Caleb Williams completed
fourteen of twenty nine for ninety three yards. Chicago's special
teams and defense dominated the second half. Jonathan Owens recovered

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a blocked kick for a touchdown. Tyree Stevenson recorded a
forty three yard pick six. The Bears are tied now
atop the NFC North at one in oh Chicago visits
Houston this coming Sunday.

Speaker 1 (01:24:58):
It is u that was not a great performance by him.
It was the worst performance of a quarterback yesterday.

Speaker 8 (01:25:05):
He looked amazing.

Speaker 1 (01:25:06):
Lindsay, No, first, Lindsay, time out. He did not.

Speaker 8 (01:25:11):
No, he didn't no interception.

Speaker 1 (01:25:14):
When he threw forty two passes like bow Nicks did, Yeah,
that's gonna happen. Compared to the twenty three that Caleb
Williams did. He scored zero offensive touchdowns.

Speaker 8 (01:25:23):
He looked great.

Speaker 1 (01:25:24):
He did not, Lindsay, and I'm safe. Listen, I'm trying
to tell you that you can't be that homer about it.
They won. That's all that matters. And it's his rookie year.
But he did not have a good performance.

Speaker 8 (01:25:38):
He did have a good performance, and he played it safe.
He didn't get hurt. He he looked good. His first
game in the NFL.

Speaker 1 (01:25:48):
He didn't. He did uniform in general. I mean, I
don't think bo Nick's look good either, but he threw
forty two passes. That's an insane amount of production.

Speaker 8 (01:25:57):
Dude, to not get any interceptions. I thought that was
impressive for him because I thought he was gonna. I
was nervous as hell for him.

Speaker 1 (01:26:06):
Right, No, that's fair. You're justin fields.

Speaker 8 (01:26:07):
Pts exactly, absolutely.

Speaker 1 (01:26:10):
But that that is not I don't think that's a
game to brag about. But it's the first game of
the year. There's a lot that can happen.

Speaker 8 (01:26:17):
Absolutely there is. But I'm going to take that.

Speaker 1 (01:26:21):
You can't say he had an amazing performance.

Speaker 8 (01:26:24):
And when he after the game, when he spoke, he
did it. He looked like he spoke like someone who's
been playing in the league forever.

Speaker 1 (01:26:34):
If you say so. But he had the worst performance
of quarterbacks yesterday.

Speaker 8 (01:26:39):
He did great. I was impressed by him. I think
all of Chicago was as well.

Speaker 1 (01:26:44):
The defense had Yeah, there was something to talk about
with the defense and the special teams faux show.

Speaker 8 (01:26:50):
And then the signal caller for America's team. I can't believe.
He's now the highest paid player in NFL history. Multiple
reports it's now saying Dallas Cowboys quarterback Dak Prescott have
agreed to a record setting four year, two hundred and
forty million dollar contract extension to keep them with the
franchise through the twenty twenty eight season. The deal includes

(01:27:14):
two hundred and thirty one million dollars guaranteed, which is
the most in NFL history. Prescott coming off a season
where he passed for forty five hundred yards with thirty
six touchdowns and nine interceptions. The thirty one year old
completed nineteen of thirty two passes for one hundred and
seventy nine yards and a touchdown in Dallas's season opening

(01:27:34):
win over Cleveland yesterday, thirty three to seventeen at hunting
in bank Field.

Speaker 1 (01:27:39):
These are the top ten highest earning quarterbacks. Okay for
twenty twenty four. You're ready, Dak Prescott. How many Super Bowls? Zero? Okay?
Trevor Lawrence how many Super Bowls?

Speaker 8 (01:27:53):
Non?

Speaker 1 (01:27:54):
None? Rude Joe Burrow, how many Super Bowls? A whole
bunch of one appearance? One appearance, one appearance? Right, Jordan
Love how many Super Bowls? Okay to attack of Viola
none correct, Jared goff Oo no. One appearance, Justin Herbert none,

(01:28:17):
Lamar Jackson none, Jalen Hurts one appearance, Kyler Murray none.
The paying these quarterbacks, like Dak had this great interview
yesterday and he was like, Hey, this is just part
of the system right now. Is you know, paying court
like Jamar Chase is an example. Pay Jamar Chase. This

(01:28:38):
is insane. He deserves it. He he made nine hundred
thousand dollars last year. Pay Jamar Chase. Right. The quarterbacks
little different story, but they have no Like what are
you talking about? All these guys are the top ten
paid quarterbacks. None of them have a Super Bowl win, No, nope,
but they're getting the money. They're like, well, we're not

(01:28:59):
gonna get us, so I'm gonna get mine. Yeah, And
I can't say is that I blamed them?

Speaker 9 (01:29:04):
Ah, you should actually earn your money that you're demanding.

Speaker 1 (01:29:10):
Why it's wild. Joe Burrow's twenty nine and twenty two,
that's his career record. Jordan loves nine and nine as
his career record. Justin Herbert is thirty and thirty two
as his career record. Those are insane stats.

Speaker 8 (01:29:23):
Did Jordan love tears of Aclu?

Speaker 1 (01:29:26):
It's a they're calling it an acl strain No more today?

Speaker 8 (01:29:30):
Okay, Yeah, I mean he could possibly be.

Speaker 1 (01:29:33):
Yeah out a season. I mean Joe Burrow looked like hoof.
He's overrated, sure, says Caleb Williams, fan, Yeah, it looks good.
Worst quarterback of the day, brand new rookie doesn't matter.
Worst quarterback of the day had the worst stats of

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the day.

Speaker 8 (01:29:55):
It looked good, good enough for w and that he.

Speaker 1 (01:29:58):
He didn't contribute no offensive touchdowns.

Speaker 8 (01:30:03):
He was awesome. He was We're happy.

Speaker 9 (01:30:07):
Couple of texts Caleb looked like s Lindsay, please, for
the love of God, step away from the crackpipe.

Speaker 1 (01:30:13):
No, and his nails are painted. I don't care about
hay nails.

Speaker 8 (01:30:18):
He cares and that's your balls for the wall sports.
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Speaker 9 (01:30:59):
Good morning, give me well, Good morning Corby. And you know,
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You can call us, you can text us, or you
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Speaker 1 (01:31:15):
Jeff Finsley's joining us from Hensley and Associate's Good morning,
Jeff thy good morning. If you have a question about
divorce or custody, guardianship, name change, any family law scenario,
you can ask Jeff right now nine one eight four
six oh KMOD nine one eight four six oh KMOD.
You can text it BMMS and whatever the question is
to eight two nine four five, or you can email

(01:31:36):
show at kmod dot com. C email says, about eight
years ago, my elderly mother UH put my brother on
her checking account to pay her bills as she is
legally blind and can't read her statements, write checks and
is a little forgetful. He put most of her bills
on autopay to come directly out of her checking account
when do He is also her POA for financial healthcare

(01:31:58):
and is the executor for her state. All this feels standard, right, Yeah?

Speaker 7 (01:32:03):
I mean, I don't hear any anything jinky yet, So.

Speaker 1 (01:32:06):
About five ing to it, about five years ago he
was borrowing money from our family parentheses thousands because he
got into some serious debt, which he said was because
of the high cost of medication, high vet bills for
his aging pets, and other items such as glasses, et
cetera for our mother. We found out these were all
lies to cover up gambling problem. He admitted to it
with the family and said he get help, and we

(01:32:29):
all stopped loaning him money. Recently, he was seen by
a family member in a casino gambling. We were worried
because he has control of mom's finances. We decided to
investigate her bank and found out twenty five thousand dollars
is missing. It was slowly taken through ATMs over the
past two years. We are in the process of removing
him from the account and changing the poa, et cetera.

(01:32:50):
Since he was on the account. Did he commit a crime?
Mom's only source of income of social security, so she
really needs this money. Two questions. Let's answer their question
of is a crime and also talk about the importance
and how and if you need to change in that scenario.

Speaker 12 (01:33:07):
You know my and so you know, did he commit
a crime?

Speaker 7 (01:33:13):
He had power of attorney.

Speaker 12 (01:33:14):
But you know when power of attorney you're talking about,
they're only able to do legal stuff, you know, paying
their bills and helping them financially, those kind of things,
not draining their account in this case, and there is
a potential for elder abuse or something of that nature.
So you know, you're always welcome in that scenario. Whoever
this is to call the police and make a police

(01:33:35):
report and they'll do an investigation. If they think that
chargers are warranted, they'll refer them up to the district attorney,
who will then prosecute.

Speaker 7 (01:33:44):
So there is that possibility.

Speaker 1 (01:33:45):
Do the police have a division that specializes in in
elder financial crimes?

Speaker 7 (01:33:51):
I don't think. I mean, the detectives do.

Speaker 12 (01:33:54):
It all depends on the county, right, I mean, you've
got some counties that are much bigger than others that
have detectives for different things from homicide to you know,
theft to whatever. I mean, there's different areas. Smaller counties
obviously they've got less detectives and so therefore they just
kind of take what comes in.

Speaker 7 (01:34:10):
The door regardless.

Speaker 12 (01:34:12):
There are detectives that handle these things and can do
the investigation and get the records and find out if
that were the case. If you've got this going on,
and you know, somebody's taking the money they shouldn't, even
though they've got power attorney and all that. You know,
obviously we need to get that person office parwate attorneys.
Power attorneys can be revoked at any point. Now it
sounds like the elderly lady is still with it mentally,

(01:34:34):
she's just kind of blind and a little forgetful. She
has the right to revoke that parate attorney at any point,
so she can just say power attorney's dead, you're not
going to do this anymore, you're not going to take
any money, and you're no longer pow attorney. And she
can assign that to somebody else or you know, depending
upon how she is now mentally, physically, emotionally, that kind

(01:34:54):
of stuff. We can look at guardianship. But you know,
if she's still with it, she can revoke that parate
attorney at any point and give it to somebody else else,
if she showed chooses.

Speaker 1 (01:35:03):
Jeff Finsley from Hensley and Associates is joining us. And
if you have a question about family law, custody, paternity,
things like that, Jeff can answer them. And here's an
email that came in last week about a nightmare I
think a lot of men have. A friend of mine
received a message via social media from a woman claiming
he is the father of her seventeen year old daughter.

(01:35:24):
Should he respond one If he waits until she turns
eighteen to respond.

Speaker 12 (01:35:28):
I mean, you don't have to respond. I mean this
kind of gets into the.

Speaker 1 (01:35:32):
Whole moral it's a moral question.

Speaker 7 (01:35:38):
And as we've talked about before, if you want moral law,
go to Europe.

Speaker 1 (01:35:41):
Go to Europe.

Speaker 12 (01:35:42):
We don't have that here and not always our laws
taken to those things in account.

Speaker 7 (01:35:47):
But with this scenario, I mean, here's the thing.

Speaker 12 (01:35:51):
The first question any guy as to ask is is, well,
do I want to get to know this kid?

Speaker 7 (01:35:56):
If this kid truly is mine?

Speaker 12 (01:35:58):
And of course the first question anybody has popping their
head as is well, how do I know that it's
my kid? Okay, So first step obviously would be a
DNA test, and then if you are the father, then
you have to decide whether or not you want to
have a relationship with that child. Now understand that if
mom goes and files for child support under the law,
they can go back two years. So you know age

(01:36:19):
is fifteen, sixteen, seventeen. Obviously, seventeen is where they start
moving forward, but two years previously it could get you
for two years of back child support. But it really
kind of boils down to, you know, if this kid
truly is yours, do you want to have a relationship
with them or not? Does the kid want to have
a relationship with you? I mean, that's just something you
just kind of have to decide but understand, and that's
a moral and what you want to do personally kind

(01:36:40):
of thing. But from a legal standpoint, mom could go
file for child support and they could come to him
and say, Okay, she's claimed that your dad. We're going
to do a DNA test. If you are a dad,
then you're going to owe child support until the child
turns eighteen or ages out by graduating high school, and
we're gonna hit you for two years of back support
on top of that. So you had a question looked

(01:37:02):
like okay. So with that being said, there's the moral
side of it, there's the legal side of it.

Speaker 1 (01:37:10):
Is it safe to say that?

Speaker 7 (01:37:12):
And I've had this happen to clients.

Speaker 1 (01:37:13):
It feels like I've heard friends tell this story.

Speaker 12 (01:37:16):
I've had this happen with clients. In fact, I had
one one time. It's probably about ten years ago now.
But the guy, it was funny because by the time
that the bio mom got to my guy, he was
the sixth person that she had tested for DNA for
this kid, and lo and behold, he was the dad.

Speaker 1 (01:37:35):
He won. Everybody wants a lot of right ancessity.

Speaker 12 (01:37:37):
Right and so now what suck for him was is
that that was back when the law was five years
of back support instead of two and the interest rate
was ten percent instead of two percent. So he got
royally screwed when that came about. At the end of
the day, though if I remember correctly, he did end
up trying to have a relationship with this kid and
everything kind of worked.

Speaker 7 (01:37:58):
Out and you know, move forward and all that.

Speaker 12 (01:38:00):
But you know, as far as that's concerned, you know,
again it's only two years back support and two percent
is the interest, so you know, it's a lot better
now than it ever had been. But it does happen.
I've had this happen to several clients along the way.

Speaker 1 (01:38:14):
Is it safe to say? And I don't know if
this would be legal advice, but the day of discovery
will come if it is indeed your kid, And I
mean sure can skirt. It is is kind of a
you're you're playing a kind of a financially dangerous game,
aren't you.

Speaker 12 (01:38:29):
Well you can yeah, I mean, obviously it all depends
on when mom goes in files. I mean, if mom
waits till one day before the kid turns eighteen, you
could still get hit with two years of back support. Obviously,
your current support moving forward would be dead the next
day or until the child graduates high school, whichever one happens,
you know. But my point of it all is is

(01:38:51):
that there could be a day reckoning and there could not.
I mean, it just all depends on what mom does.
I mean, you're truly at her mercy as to what's
going on and what's going to happen next, unless you
take the step of saying, okay.

Speaker 7 (01:39:04):
I follow father to kid.

Speaker 12 (01:39:06):
I didn't know, but I want to try and get
to know this individual. And then of course you've got
the you know, does the kid want to have a
relationship with you? What has Mom told her or him
about everything that's been going on or about you or whatever?
You know, So it's it's definitely a quagmire to get into.

Speaker 1 (01:39:22):
And on the flip side of that, do you encourage
all mothers who aren't sure to pursue paternity.

Speaker 12 (01:39:32):
Again, that's up to them. I don't push one way
or the other. And here's why. At the end of
the day, do you want are you only going after
child support or do you want your child to have
a relationship with the father.

Speaker 7 (01:39:44):
I mean, that's really on you.

Speaker 12 (01:39:45):
I mean, that's not anything that there's no law that
says that you have to get that DNA test done. Now,
if you go for child support, there's that law that
says you have to go for that DNA test, obviously,
But at the end of the day, if you're just
wanting to know or you're just calling to do the
right thing and let the dad know that they've got
a child after seventeen years, that's up to you.

Speaker 1 (01:40:10):
This is the text in If you have a question
for Jeff, couple ways to do it. Text it like
the one I'm about to read BMMS and whatever that
is to eight two nine four five. You can email
it show at kmod dot com, or you can call
nine to eight four to six. Oh. Kmod. It says,
if child support is foregone and a divorce decree, can
the custodial parent go back and file for reviews to
continue payments.

Speaker 12 (01:40:30):
Yes, I mean even though you have a decree at
that time. Let's say it's now twenty twenty four and
you say, okay, we've agreed to no child support. We
can do this because there's no money owed to the
state for sooner care or anything like that.

Speaker 7 (01:40:44):
So we say is zero for both sides.

Speaker 12 (01:40:46):
Well, where we are now is not where we might
be financially or otherwise into three, four, five, six. However,
many years down the road, you can always modify the
decree to have child support brought back into the situation.
So just because you agree to nothing now does not
mean that that person is stuck at a zero forever.

(01:41:08):
They can modify that moving forward if they so choose.
So even you've got even though you've got a deal now,
that's great, but that doesn't mean that they can't come
for you later.

Speaker 7 (01:41:18):
Now they can't.

Speaker 12 (01:41:19):
Get you for back support because you've had an order
in place that says zero. So don't worry about that.
But if they modify, ask to modify it, because the
situations change. Financially, they've they're making less money and now
they need support or whatever it may be. Or you're
making more money and they're making less. Whatever it may be,
that person has the right to file the motion to modify. Now,

(01:41:40):
I've heard of some people trying to do this. They'll
say they'll put it in a decree that says you
can never ever ever change this zero. You can never
ask for a modification.

Speaker 7 (01:41:51):
Uh huh. It doesn't work that way. That's a violation.

Speaker 12 (01:41:53):
And anybody that writes that up should have some major
problems in their lives. And what I mean by that
is this, all right, you can't legally waive your right
to child support that way. You can't say I'm never
going to modify. Now, if you choose to, that's one thing.
If you truly choose to do that, that's fine, knock
yourself out. But I'm saying from a legal standpoint, if
the other side files down the road and you come

(01:42:16):
back and said.

Speaker 7 (01:42:16):
Well, look in the decree it says that you weren't
allowed to do that, well it doesn't work that way.

Speaker 12 (01:42:21):
That is legally blocking them to their right to the courts,
and that's not allowed.

Speaker 1 (01:42:25):
Jeff Heinsley from Hensley to Associates is here. If you
have a question nine one, eight, four to six, oh
kmod you can text BMMS and whatever that question is
to eight two nine four five per cent an email
to show at kmod dot com like this one. I
had a friend who had child support taken out of
his check before he was notified and before he went
to court? Is this legal?

Speaker 7 (01:42:45):
That doesn't make any sense?

Speaker 12 (01:42:47):
And here's why, all right, there has to be an
order from a judge that says that there's a child
support order in place, which means notice has to be
given to the other side about a hearing, and he
or she has a right to show up at that
hearing now. And the other thing, too is let's say

(01:43:07):
there's been an order and the person hasn't been paying
and all of a sudden it starts coming out of
their paycheck. Well, again, there can be a summary of
support order. Plus you're already unnoticed for from the original
order of which you're not paying. All right, But whoever
this is, please call me because what you're describing doesn't
make any sense in any way, just based upon my

(01:43:28):
experience and how I know how DHS handles all that stuff.
So please, whoever it is, please call me this week.
I'd love to talk to you more about it, because
it doesn't normally work that way. It can't because they
can't hit you with an order without giving you notice
of a hearing.

Speaker 1 (01:43:41):
And notice of the hearing falls under the ways that
you have described before, which is if they can't get
a hold of you via certified mail or a process server,
or does it count if it goes in the classifieds.

Speaker 12 (01:43:53):
Well, it doesn't go in the classifieds, and that's not
how it works. Is is that you contact whatever local paper,
so of for example, also it's also world in other counties,
it's the major newspaper. Usually most small cities have only
one newspaper, and you contact them and it's published in
their newspaper, and it's it's I.

Speaker 7 (01:44:12):
Don't know if some put it under classified.

Speaker 12 (01:44:14):
Some have an entire section of just for announcements those
kind of things, but that's where it's printed, whether you
read the newspaper or not. That's just the way the
law is in Oklahoma. And so if they've done one
of those, if they've done all three of those things
and you still don't show up, then yes they could
get a default.

Speaker 7 (01:44:31):
But even then still they have to send you a
copy of the default.

Speaker 12 (01:44:35):
So obviously this person got noticed, they got an address somewhere,
which is why none of this makes sense.

Speaker 1 (01:44:42):
Because I was trying to think of the ways that
that could fall through the cracks, because you can always
say I wasn't told.

Speaker 7 (01:44:50):
You can say that.

Speaker 12 (01:44:50):
But the problem is is the other side is going
to say, well, we sent a process server out to
this address.

Speaker 7 (01:44:55):
Is this your current address? Well, yes it is. Well
we send out a process server.

Speaker 12 (01:44:59):
You know, they this, this, this, this, and these dates,
and you weren't there, so then we tried to send
it certified mail and you never picked it up. See,
because that's a lot of what a lot of people
do is they think, oh, you know, because when when
you're not there, you get the little orangeish, bageous.

Speaker 1 (01:45:13):
Colored postcard time to come gets started?

Speaker 12 (01:45:15):
Right, me, come get it? And they think, oh, if
I don't get it, then I don't have service. Well
you don't have service, that's right. But then they're going
to go to the next step, which is now publication.
And publication, in my opinion, all right is a great
I hate to say it this way, but it's a
great loophole for default because how many people read the
newspaper anymore?

Speaker 1 (01:45:35):
Right?

Speaker 7 (01:45:36):
And I don't mean I.

Speaker 12 (01:45:37):
Mean a lot of us read the digital newspapers look
for those announcements, right right, And that's where I was
going Next, was we all read that, you know, we
read the sports section, we read the community section, we
read the front page, what's going on in the world,
blah blah blah. But how many people skip to the
back where there's the cartoons and the classifieds and the announcements.

Speaker 7 (01:45:56):
You might have some people, you know, like my mom
that love to read the obituaries for some goofy and.

Speaker 12 (01:46:00):
But you know, the announcements are not next to those obituaries.
So my point of it all is is that even
though it goes to the newspaper, and remember these laws
were set up when people were actually reading paper newspapers
all the time, right, not digital newspapers. Now, is it
in the digital newspaper of tilsa world. Absolutely, it's there
you can look forward. But again, who goes to that section?
So again that's why I say it's in my opinion,

(01:46:22):
I think it's a great loophole for default.

Speaker 7 (01:46:23):
But at the same time, too, courts hate defaults.

Speaker 12 (01:46:27):
So if you came someone came in later within thirty
days and said, you know, I didn't get noticed or whatever,
they'll open the case back up and things will be fine.

Speaker 1 (01:46:35):
But but yeah, but you sid, that doesn't mean just
because they said they didn't know doesn't mean.

Speaker 7 (01:46:41):
Right now, I don't get off the hook.

Speaker 12 (01:46:42):
And by saying well, I didn't know, especially if the
other side can prove that they've tried serving you multiple ways.

Speaker 1 (01:46:49):
If they followed the process correct, then you just chose
to ignore it correct. All right? I got another one
here though. That was the other one. If you have
a question for Jeff Hensley Hensley Associates, you can call
it nine one eight four to six. Oh, KMOD. You
can text BMMS and then what it is that your
question is to eight two nine four five, or you
can email show at kmod dot com. It says, is

(01:47:11):
it parental kidnapping if my child's father won't give my
child back to me? Oh, parental kidnapping is not a thing.
You know.

Speaker 12 (01:47:20):
Kidnapping is one of the most misunderstood things out there,
in addition to a few other things. But so you know,
kidnapping involves not returning a child is not kidnapping, especially
if you.

Speaker 7 (01:47:36):
Know where they are and who they're with and all
that stuff.

Speaker 12 (01:47:39):
Kidnapping is running across state lines and hiding in a
hole somewhere where no one knows where you are and
you've not notified the other parent and you've turned your
cell phone off and they can't find you and all.
I mean, that's when the FEDS get involved in all
sorts of other stuff. I mean, that's a whole nother
scenario as instead of intensity, Yeah, way different intensitive potency.

(01:48:01):
Just because the other side won't return after visitation. That's
not kidnapping, So please stop saying that so many people do. Please,
that's not kidnapping. That's just some jerk not wanting to
return and follow in order if there is an order
in place. So if there's not, now let's talk about
two different scenarios on this, okay. So you've got two
different requirements under the law in a You've got one

(01:48:23):
with a divorce and you got one with paternity. So
let's talk about divorce first, all right. So if you're
in a divorced situation and there are no orders as
to visitation yet because you've not been to a temporider
hearing yet, or you've not made any agreements as to
visitation that had been signed by a judge, all right,
Remember it has to be signed by a judge if
you don't. If one of those two scenarios, all right,

(01:48:45):
and the other side has visitation or refuse to return them,
there's nothing we can do in any way, shape or
form until we get into a temporarity hearing with the judge,
plain and simple. The only exception to the rules on
that obviously, if the child is in some sort of
idiot irreparable harm. Okay, we have an avenue to take
care of that particular issue. But let's say that's not happening,

(01:49:06):
all right, there's nothing we can do until we can
get in front of a judge.

Speaker 7 (01:49:09):
That's a divorce. Now let's talk about paternity, all right.
And paternity.

Speaker 12 (01:49:14):
Remember, under the law, all right, it says that mom's
got sole custody until there's an order that says otherwise,
which means mom can control visitation and all those kind
of things. If mom releases the child to dad and
Dad refuses to turn the child to mom, then because
of Oklahoma law, we can go and get what's called
a rid of assistance or rid of Habe's corpus. It
says we're sending the cops out to go get this kid.

(01:49:37):
From dad who won't return kid, all right, So then
the cops will go out and pick up the child
and bring the child to mom, all right. So that's
how the paternity side of it. Now, let's say in
a paternity case, you've got dad that won't return them.
And let's say this for divorce too. Let's say there's
an existing order on both of these scenarios and the
other side won't return them. Again, we have avenues to

(01:49:59):
handle that and go get it. You know, rits of assistants,
things like that, contempts, motions to enforced visitational sorts of stuff.
So we have avenues to solve those problems.

Speaker 1 (01:50:08):
How fast does a rid of assistance happen?

Speaker 7 (01:50:11):
Same day?

Speaker 12 (01:50:12):
So we'll go before the judge, and the judge will
sign the order.

Speaker 7 (01:50:16):
We take it to the sheriff's office.

Speaker 12 (01:50:18):
Sheriff, for example, Tulsa County has an entire section. I
don't know how many sheriffs are involved in it, but
I know they have an entire little division that handles
picking up kids and all that kind of stuff for
these kind of scenarios. So, you know, we take it
to the sheriff. Sheriff goes out, picks up kid brings
kid back to parents.

Speaker 1 (01:50:34):
But do you call the police or do you call
your lawyer?

Speaker 12 (01:50:37):
You call your lawyer because cops the police can't do anything,
all right, without an order from a judge. Despite what
you may have heard, Despite what you may have been
told at certain points by certain people, whether they be.

Speaker 1 (01:50:54):
Trying to be characters on television or characters in life.

Speaker 12 (01:50:57):
Correct, I'm trying to be delicate here because I don't
want to piss anybody off or offend anybody by accident.

Speaker 7 (01:51:06):
My point is is that.

Speaker 12 (01:51:09):
When it comes to these scenarios, in any family law scenario,
you've got questions. You want to call an attorney, You
want to call us, Why? Because we know the laws,
all right. This is what we do day in and
day out, only family law, right. Other people who do
other areas of law, whether they be law enforcement or otherwise,
they don't always do those things every day.

Speaker 7 (01:51:31):
And so you may in TV.

Speaker 12 (01:51:33):
TV's horrible about this, you may hear certain things, but
at the end of the day, the lawyers are going
to be the ones that know what the laws are.

Speaker 7 (01:51:40):
So please give us a call. We'd be happy to
help you through your scenario.

Speaker 1 (01:51:44):
I think we've shown today that it can be complicated,
whether it's you think your child's been kidnapped from you,
but it's just with their father to your mother's son
is taking money. It can get complicated really fast. And
you need to make sure you have someone that understands
the details of the law and knows how to navigate
the court system, because they do it every day. And

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those are the folks at Hensley Associates and they'll be
happy to give you a free consultation. If you mentioned
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for Hensley Associates, you call up mentioned km ODE, give
that free consultation over the phone. And if you happen
to find yourself in a situation that isn't family law related,
Hinsley Associates can help with that too.

Speaker 12 (01:52:26):
Yeah, through our office in PAHUSCA. It's the Shoemake Law Firm.
Yes it's a different name, but it is ours. We
just didn't change it when we took it over, all right,
give them a call up there. Colin is the attorney
up there and he can help you with any other scenario.

Speaker 7 (01:52:39):
In addition to family law.

Speaker 12 (01:52:41):
So if you've got a criminal issue, I don't care
if it's as small as a speeding ticket or as
large as a murder trial, please give us a call.
We'd be happy to help you with any, any and
all criminal issues. If you've got any probate issues, wills, trust,
anything dealing with that, contracts, anything in addition to family law.
You've been in a car wreck, and you've been hurt

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by somebody during a carreck, please give us a call.
And if you got an insurance company that won't pay,
give us a call. I mean, any of that kind
of stuff. Colin can help with and we'd love to
help you with it.

Speaker 1 (01:53:11):
Nine eight five six nine two. For Hensley Associates, talk
to them over the phone. Get that free consultation when
you mentioned KMOD and they will help you out. Nine
eight three nine eight five six nine two. Jeff, thanks
for coming in.

Speaker 7 (01:53:22):
Hey have a great date.

Speaker 1 (01:53:23):
We'll be back.

Speaker 2 (01:53:24):
The Big Mad Morning Show returns next Tulsa's Morning Show
ninety seven.

Speaker 1 (01:53:40):
Good morning, It's the Big Mad Morning Shown four six
oh K M O D. Or you can also text
BMMS and then what you want to say to eight
two nine four five Lindsey, I'm gonna give you your choice.
You can either pick drink the kool Aid psychopath or

(01:54:04):
huh drink the kool aid psychopath or huh psychopath. Thank
you for not picking drink the kool Aid, oh man.
And if we get in trouble later, it's because Lindsay
chose to not for the kool Aid.

Speaker 4 (01:54:22):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (01:54:23):
So they have published in a study a way to
recognize women that are more likely to be psychopaths. Let's
see they're breathing. No, it's women that are psychopaths are

(01:54:45):
less likely to wear makeup. Okay, Okay, I know I
would argue more makeup, like an abundance of makeup, like
if it takes you an hour and a in a

(01:55:08):
twelve fourteen by fourteen box of makeup that feels a
little over the top.

Speaker 8 (01:55:15):
Absolutely.

Speaker 1 (01:55:18):
Research just found that women who regularly wore lots of
makeup scored highly on the narcissistic scale. Women who scored
highly on the psychopathic scale were less likely to put
on lipstick, eyeliner, blush in all social situations. While the
fightings may initially appear unexpected, they're perhaps unsurprising given that

(01:55:40):
psychopaths are generally unbothered by how they are perceived by others.
They're right, Yeah, that makes sense. They don't care if
you think they look crazy, because they are crazy. Right.
The finding the underscore that nuanced relationship between makeup usage

(01:56:02):
and personality. The study author stated, saying that women who
wore lots of makeup were also found to be more
agreeable in most social.

Speaker 9 (01:56:11):
Contexts, So the more makeup they are, the easier they are.

Speaker 1 (01:56:15):
The findings came just three months after a separate study
uncovered another sign that could indicate you're in the company
of a psychopath woman. According to the academics from the
University of New Mexico found they found female psychopaths or
more likely to move their heads when they talk. Psychopaths,

(01:56:36):
why moving ahead? Yeah, they're still doing it?

Speaker 13 (01:56:39):
Right?

Speaker 9 (01:56:40):
Does anybody just stand still, keep their heads straight and
not move it at all when they're talking.

Speaker 1 (01:56:45):
That seems a little psychopath. I don't know if it's
like you're trying to do advice, Like I don't know
if that's what they mean, or like are you doing
like around in a circle as you talk? Like I
don't know what the what do they mean? Yeah? Not
verbal behaviors. Head dynamics represent an important, yet understudied form

(01:57:05):
of communication that may enhance our ability to detect certain
forms of psychopathology and including psychopathy. According to the author, Surprisingly,
female psychopaths are more common than most would think. Professor
who specializes in corporate psychopathy recently suggested that female psychopaths
likely go unnoticed due to societal gender bias. Like, So,

(01:57:30):
what I'm hearing this say is that women, if you're
a psychopath, you're good because we're not paying attention to
you anyway.

Speaker 8 (01:57:39):
Because you're a female, We're gonna get away with it.

Speaker 1 (01:57:42):
Yeah, because you're already under the radar, you're not considered
a threat exactly. That makes sense.

Speaker 9 (01:57:50):
Yeah, we don't look at the homely girl without any
makeup on. She just sits there quietly and does her
work until she comes in murders everyone.

Speaker 1 (01:58:02):
I now want to go back on women we know,
like from Netflix specials, and watch their behavior to see
if they you know, they constantly moving their head around
like they're on crack or something. What would be your
one characteristic that you think a woman, for a woman
to be a psychopath, has We're gonna ask men, like

(01:58:24):
what the men is too? But like what do you
think is a woman characteristic that makes them a psychopath?
While you think about that, I've got mine selfies, Okay,
my son, because ain't nobody care like when you're like
forcing like we got to take a picture so like
constantly like over the top. Yeah, if I were ever single,

(01:58:48):
I want none of that smoke. I think that psychopathic behavior.

Speaker 8 (01:58:54):
I think it's the not trusting. I think that's like
all women.

Speaker 1 (01:58:58):
Are, right, just people in general. Okay, gimp for a woman?
What makes sure a psychopath? Trait that you would that
would be your danger? Will Robinson, you know that's uh,
that's a good question.

Speaker 9 (01:59:13):
I'm been trying to think about that, Like, yeah, the
the weird homely girls, I'd say, you know, because we
talked about the gal that didn't have any makeup on, right,
But I'll talk about the gal that doesn't have any
makeup on, looks like she hasn't you know, cut her hair?

Speaker 1 (01:59:31):
Dirp ever, you know, they got a certain look about
him that you're like, hmm, So anybody that looks unkept kempt?
Ye with an m kempt. Yeah, that's how you saying,
why would it be kempt? I don't know.

Speaker 9 (01:59:47):
I didn't make up the English language. That's just the
word that it's supposed to be. That that's unclean. You
know that you don't keep yourself up like people with
unkempt beards.

Speaker 1 (01:59:57):
Never heard that words? Yeah, real straggly looking. Yeah. I
always love when you correct me on words. When you
say guacamali, I do that to be silly. Uh, let
me go, who had that on their bingo card today? Vocabulary?
But yeah, somebody who You know, it's just kind of real.

(02:00:18):
I don't want to say frumpy, but you know what
I'm talking about.

Speaker 9 (02:00:21):
Man, just shoveled appearing well, no, disheveled means that you
could have just got done having sex, you know what
I mean.

Speaker 1 (02:00:28):
But just unkempt, you know.

Speaker 9 (02:00:30):
Uh, let's just let me paint a picture for you.
She's so weird you focus on that word to get right,
Go ahead.

Speaker 1 (02:00:36):
No, no, I'm just saying.

Speaker 9 (02:00:38):
Anyway, she's about maybe five and a half feet tall,
maybe like five three, some sort of flower patterned sundress
that's been washed a million times, so it's faded.

Speaker 1 (02:00:54):
You know, why are you describing Britney spears? Well, if
the shoe fits.

Speaker 9 (02:01:00):
But yeah, yeah, somebody like that Stragley here may not
wash it all the time, definitely does a style. It
hasn't been to a stylist to get a cut, if
if ever, it's been decades.

Speaker 1 (02:01:12):
You know what I mean? Yeah, yeah, no makeup, just
kind of like maybe smells like cats. So you hate
homeless people, I'm not saying I hate homeless people. I
kind of Swift fans. Besides, Kempton kept. I have a
hard time dealing with narcissist and psychopath like the like

(02:01:33):
I lumped them together, right when that's not accurate. Well,
I mean one could play off of the other. You know,
a narcissist who thinks nothing of themselves, you know that
is psychopathic behavior, right, But a narcisst like wants it
to be all about that, right, where a psychopath doesn't
care about others, right, I guess right. But yeah, you're
it's like a bourbon as a whiskey, but a whiskey

(02:01:53):
can't be a burban or whatever the hell? Yeah, pounding
on my psychopathic behavior, pounding on the front door at
three am, screaming you belonged to them? Yeah. I was
watching this to the video on line and was a
Judge Judy episode where the guy came over to his
girl was staying at her friend's house and he pounded

(02:02:14):
on the window at three am and broke the window.
And the personnel in the buildings like you got to
replace the window, and he's like, no, I don't have to.
She told me to come over and he was like, no,
I had a shirt. I just happened to have a shirt.
I was holding the shirt and the window is very fragile.
Well you've broken, yes, Batista, Yes, yes, you lightly tapped

(02:02:36):
on the glass. Yeah. Sure, I think for guys I'm
going to go with any sort of lifted truck. Do
you think that's psychopath Absolutely? There's literally no need for it.
I don't know though there is there is now, now
keep me kempt. Let's hear it. Let's say you.

Speaker 9 (02:02:54):
Work out in the field, right, You're you're you're working
out in like, you know, the woods or something where
you need a lift on your truck to get over trees. Yeah, yeah,
NOWERD logs and stuff like that. Now, with that being said,
those bastards with the squatted trucks, those are psychopaths. There

(02:03:16):
might be a need to get people when you're trying
to go under a bridge. I'm just saying you're gonna
come up with some asenine logic of why you need
your truck lifted that high. There's one that's equally as
asenine for a one lower. No, no, we're not talking
lower trucks. We're just talking where the ass end is.

Speaker 1 (02:03:33):
Just lowered, where the noses up here and the ass
end is down here, where it looks like you're hauling
fifty thousand pounds of bricks but you not. Yeah, what's
yours Lindsay's mail? Yeah?

Speaker 8 (02:03:46):
I I honestly I think it's the uh, the bejeweled
gene pockets ass pockets. Yeah, and the uh what's the uh?
What's what's the T shirt?

Speaker 1 (02:04:02):
What's the shirt? Yes?

Speaker 8 (02:04:04):
Thank you?

Speaker 1 (02:04:05):
I mean I don't think there's been an affliction shirt
thing for a while, but I was hoping you give
a modern like twenty twenty four a reference.

Speaker 8 (02:04:13):
Glasses inside, wearing sunglasses inside. Okay, total psychopath.

Speaker 1 (02:04:19):
GIMPI why is that that squad truck? Squaded truck? Yeah? Yeah,
I don't see a lot of squatted trucks. Oh man,
They're they're all around. No, I'll look. It's like when
you get a red Honda and then all a sudden're like,
look at all these red Hondas. Uh huh okay, yeah
you'll see them.

Speaker 9 (02:04:30):
You're like, it looks like a dog dragon its ass
across the carpet, you know when it needs a good old.

Speaker 1 (02:04:36):
It's anal Glands released. Yeah, express express, damn it. Yeah,
it's a worst word. We gotta take a break with
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(02:05:21):
learn today?

Speaker 8 (02:05:23):
I learned how to tell when someone's an alcoholic? How's
that when they call a radio station to brag about
how they can drink all day and all night without
getting a hangover. And I also learn it's better to
have a one handed clap than to have the clap.

Speaker 1 (02:05:41):
Gimbe, what'd you learn? Today.

Speaker 9 (02:05:42):
Well, I learned that I'm going to be out in
Jinks this afternoon off of ninety sixth Street and Highway
seventy five slinging some meat from four to six.

Speaker 1 (02:05:53):
You should come by get you some of that delicious meat.

Speaker 9 (02:05:57):
And I also learned that I want to be Classic
Chevrolet tomorrow out in Awassa from eleven am to one
in the afternoon to drop by and say hi tomorrow
at Classic Chevrolet in Awassaw.

Speaker 1 (02:06:08):
As well. Uh, I learned that Lindsay doesn't wear songs.
I also learned the Gimpy wears thongs. It's Corbyn saying
make sure that dishwasher is loaded right.

Speaker 8 (02:06:18):
It's Lindsay stopped tracking my cycle.

Speaker 1 (02:06:20):
This is Gimpy. I'm sorry, thank.

Speaker 7 (02:06:22):
You, thank you, thank you.

Speaker 1 (02:06:27):
Baddy.

Speaker 7 (02:06:29):
Can I get a.

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