BMMS 11-12-24

Hooray For Tuesday!!! Here's Your Yellowstone Recap, Sir You Can't Take That Cash Register, Dick Move In Vermont, LIving InN A Crawlspace, Faking Your Death To Move To Uzbekistan For Poontang, Listener E-Mails, To Tell The Truth, & Okra Water!!!!

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that maybe you should or shouldn't follow. We'll get to
that later. Uh, did you watch Yellowstone yet, Gimpie? I did, lindsay, No,
never have, really Okay, I know it's really good. So
this season is the last season. It's a split season.

(03:52):
They've already done half of it. And then Kevin Coster
was like, I'm busy some things going on. Yeah, ah
to his defense. He says the schedule kept changing and
he was like, I'm outy, I can't you guys are erratic.
I can't deal with it, and he walked away from
the show. But they were like, Nope, we're gonna continue, Indie,

(04:12):
We're gonna endo the show. We're gonna do the last
five or six episodes or whatever it is, which I
think is good because I hate it when a series
just ends. There's no finality, there's no conclusion, there's no closure.
Okay they and there's a lot of shows that have
done that, you know, and so I'm glad to see
that instead of just calling her quits, they're gonna wrap

(04:35):
it up, put a nice little bow on a for us. Yeah,
I don't disagree. I also get that feeling when I feel,
you know, like an untied bow, right, uh, and then,
but I also kind of feel like it ended months ago.
My life moved on, and you know what I mean, Like,
I don't it doesn't keep me up at night, but
you're right, it feels unfinished. Yeah. I hate the fact

(04:57):
that it's taken what two years, yeah, to get this far,
you know, just to wrap it all up. You're right,
after two years, you kind of forget about what happened.
You know what I watched on Monday Sunday. You know,
I was like, oh, okay, and then the opening scene,
I'm like, what happened? Is there something that I forgot

(05:18):
about that they didn't do in the recamp or whatever? Yeah,
but that's what happens, you know. Taylor shared for those
who know he writes Yellowstone, He's written many other shows.
He's been he was a part. I didn't know this.
He was a part of Sons of Anarchy in the beginning,
really and him and Kurt Sutter were writing Sons of
Anarchy together. They didn't get a good long and Taylor
Sheridan got fired and I think it worked out. Yeah,

(05:41):
I just think it worked out okay. And he's I
think he's a brilliant writer. I think everything he writes
is really really good. Right. That new show land Man
that's gonna be on, Yeah, Billy Bob Thornton looks really good.
I saw the commercials for it. I'm like, oh, is
that a spin off of Yellowstone or nine different thing?
A different thing. I'm interested to see that it's a
different thing, and uh, but it's going to be that

(06:02):
same gritty kind of attitude that his shows kind of carry.
But ultimately, how did you feel about Yellowstone without Kevin Costner?
For those who know the storyline, they have to conclude
it because Dutton's dead. They had to kill the main character,
John Dutton. Right. Fun thing about that. I was watching

(06:23):
a TikTok yesterday and Coos had no idea. He didn't
have any say at all whatsoever, and right he was
going to end it. He didn't know that they were
gonna end him off that way. I was like, well,
that's interesting. How did I feel about it without him?

Speaker 6 (06:39):
It's the same question did they take him to the train.

Speaker 1 (06:42):
Station bus station or bus station? Train station? The train
station train station? And spoiler, he took himself to the
train stad. They did want you to believe that, But
it's really Jamie. He's banging this one right, right, he's
banging this gal and he had brought up that he
need to do something. So she took it on her
own initiative to hire this outside source to go ahead

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and take care of it and make it look like
a suicide when it really was in the twilights of ecstasy,
and he's like, yeah, that sounds good. Yeah, sure, and
then he gets all pissy when he finds out that
you know, this is what you did. She's like, well,
you didn't know, but I felt it was just the
same without him, that had the same amount of drama
without him. I think, honestly, the show probably could go

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on without cause I think it could. I think it
could survive at least another couple of seasons, you know,
because you got you got Casey, who was you know,
easily the best actor on that show, absolutely and could
take Kenner. Yeah, he could take over Cossa's role so
far as owning the ranch and running things and blah

(07:49):
blah blah and all the stuff that goes with it.
You also have Rip, you know, who could also do
the same thing along with Beth or what I thought hers.
Oh she had some major overacting, you know, but I
get it, you know, I try to put myself in
that mind, you know, I have both my parents are gone,
not in such a tragic way or whatever. But here's
the fun thing about because Rip is down in Texas,

(08:12):
he takes all these this cattle down to the for six.
I don't understand. Uh, there's something to do with the
land deal that they made and they they they needed
to move them down there. So they're hurt. Six horses.
But no, there was a whole buttler to cattle. It
was one trailer. They only showed one trailer. I thought
that was weird too, that like they all that work
for one trailer, all these where the hell did this

(08:32):
cattle come from? Yeah, but unless it went down any way.
So Rip's down there dropping off all this cattle and
doing cowboys stuff or whatever. And Beth is back at
home and and she calls him up naturally like a
spouse would when they lose their their parents, and and
I need you. And then like a week goes by,

(08:53):
I don't know, and then like everything's fine because he's
down in Texas tending to cattle. Sorry, honey. And then
he finally comes back and she was gonna get on
a plane. Yeah whatever, I'm telling you. I don't think
it was a very good episode. I think the gaps
in the story were really big. There were a lot
tons and tons of cowboy porn. Yeah, men on cattle

(09:18):
talking like cowboys, talking about how there won't be no
more of us in thirty years, probably said by every
cowboy ever. Yeah, they pull up to a grocery store
or something. Breast stop, unload the horses out of the
trailer and let them stretch their legs. I guess sure,
I don't. I'm not a cowboy. I don't know if
that's a thing or not, but you know, and letting

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the kid come and you know, pet the horse, and
the kid never actually pets the horse. No, doesn't touch
the horse at all. And then those yuppies and no, no,
you mean the worst line ever. He the little boy
goes they are real to his sister, right, she didn't
believe cowboys are real? What do you talk about, Santa

(10:01):
Claus the Easter Bunny? Cowboys aren't real? He does that,
but that scene he does deliver the best line already,
where these teenagers, maybe twenty somethings are trying to take
a picture, like and they look kind of hippyisha probably

(10:23):
on purpose, And I'm like, hey, can we pet it?
And he's like no, They're like, why not you let
you let the kid? And he's like, because if I
do it, I do it once. I'body being nice, I
do it twice. It's a zoo and this ain't f
and zoo. You're like, okay, sure, sure, just some of
the cheesiest cowboy porn. They do this scene where he's

(10:46):
again a storyline that makes no sense, no bearing at all.
It's just for the cowboy porn where he's in Texas
and Rip his calls back to the ranch and they're like, hey,
can you pick up a bridle for me? It's done,
and he's like, yeah, sure, and he goes to this place,

(11:07):
is like, I'm here to pick up a bridle for oh,
I forget his name, the old man with the weird
leg and and he's the guy's like ninety seven, by
the way, hardly talk, can't talk. He's got molasses in
his mouth. And he's like I'm trying to think, Yeah,

(11:32):
that's the scene, and I am like hold on, and
I had to put on subtitles to know what was happening.
And it plays no bearing in it except that this
guy is a legendary Caliper bridle maker in West Texas
and they were paying tribute to him. Again, very nice,

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but it's cowboy porn. Bears nothing on the story, No,
oh spurs, these are all made out of one man.
You're like, God, all right, it wasn't biscuit and mustard.
Too old man and that guy that guy died, right,
and they were just paying tribute, which is fine. And

(12:13):
they're like, no, man, because uh Rip's a cowboy. First
of all, let's be clear, he is not a cowboy.
He's an enforcer, right, he kills people, right and cowboy
on the side. Yeah, when he has time. His job
is to kill people. That's literally to enforce what happens
on the ranch. And there is the scene of like

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the most devastating news that can happen, and Rip doesn't
know he's it takes him that long to find out.
Oh about John, Yes, that's wild to me. By the way,
Rip's always been his number one. And Rip isn't a
part of that scene at all. Isn't with him at
the And when was he at the Governor's Man? When

(13:00):
did he ever spend time that I thought was weird?
Maybe they he was there yet I'm meeting the next
day or something. I don't. Yeah, it's just gap filled history.
Like yeah, and I agree that Riley whatever, that lady's
the actresses that's a real name is in the Beth.

(13:20):
She overacts so much like she's gotten so much praise
for being a good character. They're like Okay, all right,
we get it. You're a crazy bitch. Just run to
him in the middle of the field where the hell
that came from, you know, and grab each other and
just screamer And I get it. Losing your parents sucks.

(13:41):
But yeah, that was a little little too much. Yeah, she,
by the way, has lost her mind every single season. Well, yeah,
something's got to drive everything triggers her. Yeah, I don't
have much anticipation for it to be good, you know,
to be fair, it is the last season. And I

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think a lot of shows in their final season when
they know, like this is it, you know, they just
mail it in. You know, we just need to do something,
get some episodes out and make some people happy. It
doesn't have to be good. She ain't got to look pretty.
But as long as she bangs, were all good, right,
which is exactly what we have here. The but Costner

(14:24):
did say in that interview, he did say that that
was the his demise, His death would be the end
of the show, like that was all they He didn't
know that was going to be a thing, right, He
just didn't know how they were gonna do it. Yeah,
and he played no part in it. And he says
he didn't even know it was on, but I was
looking because we're in that time of the year where

(14:44):
like shows debut and they come back on. I just
text my wife, I'm pretty excited because Bobby Flay is
coming back on tonight. Dude, that shows bru It might
be the one of the best laid out game shows
or reality game shows for those who know. It's a
cooking thing. And two people show up, they have to
compete against each other, and then he takes them on

(15:05):
and they'll get someone like an expert in Filipino food, right,
and they tell Bobby what they're gonna make, and the
presumption is he doesn't know until they say it okay,
and then he has to make it. And he just
knows good flavors. He may not make an authentic, you
know XYZ dish, but can he make a good one? Yeah?

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And he beats people that are like experts at certain dishes.

Speaker 6 (15:29):
And is it the exact same thing that they're making
he has to make.

Speaker 1 (15:32):
Yeah. So if they make like chili, they both make chili.
And sometimes it's something simple like that, and sometimes it's
something complicated, like some ethnic dish from another country.

Speaker 6 (15:44):
Does he ever lose Oh yeah, okay.

Speaker 1 (15:46):
That's the again. It's a brilliant show because you see
him get beat and it's it's a really good show.
They do a good a good job with it. Who
judges it, it's always a guest judges, celebrities, other guest
celebrity chefs, sometimes news anchor. His daughter did it once.
He's a famous broadcaster. And yeah, so it's it's pretty good.

(16:11):
But I was sharing my wife. That's where her and
I are in life. Is that I'm excited for Beat,
Bobby Flay to come back on. Road Wars is coming
back on. Uh, Cobra Kai is coming back on. Silo
is coming back on. It's the final season of Cobra Kai.
And my understanding from everything I've read is they need
to put a bullet in it, like it is beaten

(16:33):
to it. Have you been watching it? Oh yeah, yeah,
you're up today. You've watched all the fifth Yeah, Silo,
which is supposed to be really good on Apple TV.
It's apocalyptic apocalyptic show. Night Courts coming back and you
should be excited about that. Oh yeah, r HBH is
coming back. What's our HBH? Lindsay no idea?

Speaker 6 (16:54):
Oh Real Housewives?

Speaker 1 (16:56):
Yeah, never seen an episode nine land Uh. Cruel Intentions
is a new drama show based off the off the
movie and the book Prime that people are saying it's
gonna be good, but it's on Prime, so that might
be all you need to know because Prime doesn't do
a good job. They only have like one or two
shows out of the hundreds. And then I saw that

(17:20):
the what's the oh man, what's the name of their
show that where they kill people? Squid Game? This squad
Game comes back December twenty sixth. Is that a season
two or season two? Season two? Okay? I enjoyed the

(17:40):
first one, so all right, maybe this that's on Netflix though, right, correct? Yeah,
it goes to show you how long it's been. Yeah,
And this Friday is the Tyson Paul fight And on
Netflix they're doing an in depth behind the scenes of
you know, like leading up to the fight to get
you excited, kind of like a behind the training and
all that. It's done really well. It's done really well. Uh,

(18:03):
iced Tea voices it. Okay, it's amongst all the other
million things that he's doing. Car shield and dude, the
car shield commercial is so bad. Yeah, good on him.
Many get that money and did.

Speaker 6 (18:19):
You say that was this Saturday Friday.

Speaker 1 (18:21):
Friday, right, which is crazy because we never thought that
was actually gonna happen. No, it could still not true. Dead,
get everybody's money in, get them all hyped up, logged in,
ready to watch, and sorry, Tyson's got a bad hip. Yeah,
there is another fight that's on that car because they
won't fight till like eleven, twelve o'clock at night. But
there is another fight on that card that is a

(18:42):
really two girls fighting that they're really good fighters. That's
gonna be a really good fight. Uh. And then the
next night is John Jones Steve is fighting for the UFC,
which is a great fight because John Jones considered the best.
Oh yeah, is considered one of the best UFC fighters
of all time. So there's lots to watch, all right,
We got to take a break. We got tickets to

(19:03):
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in Oklahoma City on Thursday. Tickets available ticketmaster dot com.
We got listener emails, and we got to tell the truth.
We'll be back.

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Speaker 6 (19:55):
AM Illinois man steals entire cash register from McDonald's last
Wednesday night, Twenty year old Alexander Gonzalez Ruez of Joliet
is accused of stealing the entire register from the counter
of the McDonalds after claiming that he was the fast

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food restaurant's owner. Joliet police arrested him on charges of theft,
criminal trespass, disorderly conduct, two counts of battery, and obstructing
a peace officer. Juliet police let Gonzalez go after the
booking process. He was given his notice to appear at

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the Will County Courthouse. So what exactly happened? According to
Juliet Police spokesman Duyne English, at six fifty three pm
last Wednesday, officers responded to the McDonald's for a theft.
Officers learned that a man later identified as Gonzalez Ruez
had entered the restaurant and began making threats to the

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staff and began acting erradically, indicating that he owned the restaurant.
Police believed Gonzalez pushed past two female employees and walked
behind the counter and grabbed the cash register and fled
from the store through the drive through window. According to
the officer they found him on Theodore Street, noted that

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he was still in possession of the cash register as
the officer approached him. Police said that he jumped up
and climbed on top of a vehicle that was stopped
in traffic. He then dropped the cash register and ran
from police, who quickly caught up to him placed him
into custody without further incident. I'm pretty sure if you

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own the franchise, you don't need to jump out of
the drive through window.

Speaker 1 (21:46):
Yeah. And if you own the franchise, you already get
the money, absolutely, Yeah, you don't have to take the register.
You don't get the register. Though maybe that's what he
was really after. He didn't really want the money. He
just he wanted the cash regis.

Speaker 6 (22:00):
I could see if you own it and walking in saying,
you know, we've had problems with this register. I'm taking
it in to get it fixed whatever, but.

Speaker 1 (22:09):
Not during the hours. And you would just need the computer.
You don't need the drawer with cash, true, right right, yeah,
And they would send I don't know, maybe a service tex.
I don't know. Man tomes tough. Will YouTube videos get
And I'm surprised that people even steal like a register.
The amount of cash and one can't be nearly what

(22:31):
it used to. It's like robbing a hotel. That makes
absolutely zero sense. Not every hotel, almost none used take
cash anymore. It's only the like the hourly and twenty
four hour places. Basically, yeah, the cheap ones where you
take your horse, horse horse oh women of or man

(22:54):
arrested after spreading hundreds of nails and screws across the road.
This comes out of the night State of Vermont. James Denham.
He's fifty four after he's done making his syrup. I
don't know if that's what he's doing, but it's Vermont
anyhow so road workers had noticed this James guy has
been spreading nails and screws all across the road and

(23:16):
they call the police. They're like, hey, we got this guy.
Let's just spread and nails and screws all over the place.
So the police track him down and that's where they
found him, in the driveway of the Bradford Town office.
I guess that's their city hall. I guess. I don't know,
because he was spotted there throwing more screws and nails
into the road and under parked police cars as well. Oh,

(23:40):
so the cops are like, hey, there, Jim, you can't
do that. They went ahead and took him in for
reckless endangerment and disorderly conduct. They say that police and
transportation workers picked up hundreds of nails and screws in
the road and parking areas, but there might still be
a few out there, so to be careful. Yes, you

(24:02):
plan on traveling to Bradford Town, Vermont today.

Speaker 6 (24:07):
The amount of damage that he could have caused and
probably still is causing.

Speaker 1 (24:14):
I'm sure they did diligence trend cleaning up the best
they could get a giant magnet, yes, the best way
to do it, or broom or broom because I get
those ride flat tires.

Speaker 6 (24:24):
Right, you see a guy doing that, what's your first instinct?

Speaker 1 (24:29):
Mind my own damn business. Yeah, I don't know what's happening.
He may be looney Tunes and I don't want to
get stabbed. Truth, what's yours?

Speaker 6 (24:38):
Probably the same, But at first I would be like,
oh my god, I would want to probably intervene.

Speaker 1 (24:44):
Yes, and what would you do?

Speaker 6 (24:46):
I want to if I was a man, I don't
want to punch his lights out. For sure.

Speaker 1 (24:52):
You'd want to assault him?

Speaker 6 (24:53):
Yes, like what there?

Speaker 1 (24:56):
You would be fine going to jail for that? No, well,
that's what would I would.

Speaker 6 (25:00):
I would be really pissed because it is so it
is so irritating to find a nail or screw in
your tire.

Speaker 1 (25:09):
Yeah, so have you ever had one? Oh?

Speaker 6 (25:12):
A few times?

Speaker 1 (25:12):
Sure? How do you know someone didn't throw it out there?

Speaker 6 (25:16):
I don't.

Speaker 1 (25:17):
So it could be in accident for sure, And depending
on where they're at in the tire, they're pretty easily
to repair. If I see a guy on the side
of the road spreading nails and screws like it's chicken feed, yeah,
I'm just gonna call the police. But I'm not stopping.
I'm not as Gimbie said, you don't know who you're

(25:39):
talking to. That's not me. I'm not talking about me.
I don't know who the other person is. I don't
know what they're doing. I don't know what they're on.
I don't know if theyre an alien, I don't know.
I don't need them breaking out a claw hammer and
pummeling me in the face with it. I'm good. Yeah, well,
they ain't gonna do that to me. Shut up, you
don't know. Nobody ever brings a clawhammer to a gunfight.

(26:00):
I've seen plenty of guys who stand six ' two
six ' three get their asses handed to them by
people smaller, younger, older, don't look like they know what
they're doing. Someone's physique does not characterize who they are
and what they can do. It's a massive misunderstanding. Usually
people that boast that way. I have the biggest pussies

(26:22):
I know. Right, So I ain't about to intervene with someone.
If you're crazy enough to be like I'm gonna spread these,
you've already planned to be confronted. Yeah, that's wild to me.
Man living in crawl space of elderly women's home arrested
a man who is behind bars after he was found
living in the crawl space of a woman in East

(26:43):
Los Angeles. The resident and her family called police to
report loud noises coming from beneath the house, which they
had previously assumed was animals. Officers use tear gas to
flush the man out after negotiating with him failed. The suspect,
identified as Isaac Oh, I'm just gonna really right here Bencoork,
was apparently naked when he was arrested for trespassing Friday.

(27:05):
The family of the ninety three year old woman who
lives in the house says he may have been staying
there for up to six months. Wow. Crawl spaces aren't awesome,
by the way. Oh wow, And why would you want
to be naked underneath one? Well, you don't want your
clothes dirty. Sure of people I know that do work
in crawl spaces and go in them a lot, very familiar,

(27:29):
comfortable being in them if you will, they hate it. Yeah,
there ain't nothing about great about a crawl space. Oh
and this type of stuff, it has zero to do
with my mom. It has to do with just you
get used to things in your house. Is when I
go to my mom's house, I always walk through the house,
and I always walk to perimeter of the house on

(27:49):
the outside because you just don't know. And I'm a
dork that way. I'll if I'm like that screws out
of place, I'm gonna deal with it because you because
it's always like this. I'm tainted. All right. We got
to take a break. We've got tickets see jelly Roll
coming up, Tilsa's.

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to eight two nine four five. I didn't know this,
and this is gonna feel like, well, it's because he's
getting all this attention right now. Uh, Jason Kelcey just
recorded a Christmas song with Stevie Nicks, right. I had

(28:48):
saw that in the headlines and like really yeah, but
apparently he does a Christmas album every year for the Eagles,
like as a benefit for like kids. And if you
haven't heard this is singing maybe this Christmas was Stevie.
Next this Christmas will mean something more, Maybe this.

Speaker 5 (29:11):
Will deeper before.

Speaker 6 (29:18):
And maybe will give me next to that?

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Does you call someone with the.

Speaker 8 (29:29):
Why?

Speaker 1 (29:29):
Jason? Right? All right, that's scarf. It was all fine
until she walked in. Hey listen, he's doing more to
help at Christmas time, at the current moment than I am.
True statement, I'm not currently helping. I have plans to,
right well, I mean planning to plan to is kind

(29:52):
of nope, nope, no, that's just words. Until you do it,
it's all just people run their mouths all the time
and never do anything. Well, we're actually going to do it.
It's scheduled to happen. I'm expecting for it to happen, right,
But a lot of things in life get complicated, remember

(30:14):
the like the whole thing about the station vehicle stuff.
And I'm like, when it's here, I'll be excited. We've
been We're told in June, right, it's coming, and I
believe them. But until it's here, right right along with
our street team that help us, Yeah, I'm just not
not ready to make that jump just yet. When it so? When?

(30:37):
And December fifth? Yeah, December fifth, right, the third it's
still a plan right right, right right, But Jason Kelcey
and are currently doing more than we.

Speaker 6 (30:50):
Are the Dolphins defense did not allow the Rams to
find the end zone on the way to a twenty
three to fifteen win on Monday Night football at SOFI Stadium.

(31:13):
Miami's defense forced two turnovers and had four sacks while
holding Los Angeles to five field goals. Tua Tungo Viola
completed twenty of twenty eight passes for two hundred and
seven yards, one touchdown and a pick to help the
Finns snap a three game losing streak. Tyreek Hill and
Malik Washington both scored as Miami moved to three and six. Rams.

(31:35):
QB Matthew Stafford went thirty two to forty six for
two hundred and ninety three yards and an interception. In
the losing effort. Puka Nakua and Cooper Cup combined for
sixteen catches and one hundred and seventy eight receiving yards.
The Rams had their three game winning streak snap to
fall to four and five I.

Speaker 1 (31:54):
Meanwhile, the Dolphins still keep their playoff hopes alive. Did
you see the play where Tua decided it would be
a good idea if for him to try and tackle
someone that got the ball. Should not do that, bro
and he like leaned down and like they kicked his head,
not intentionally, it's just it's football, right, and you're like,
what are you doing? Exactly what are you doing?

Speaker 6 (32:15):
He's got a death wish.

Speaker 1 (32:16):
Yeah, I get it, it's in you. You can't just stop,
just push him, right, yeah, right, Like I'd rather you
stand up and try to push him, then lean down
and like like what are you doing?

Speaker 6 (32:28):
Man carried to watch him. Meanwhile, the Dolphins will be
without their starting right tackle for at least four games.
Miami placed Austin Jackson on injured reserve with a knee injury.
The injury is not expected to be a season ending injury.
Jackson has started all eight games for the Fins this
season after starting sixteen last season. In other news, the
team activated wide receiver River Craycraft from ir ahead of

(32:53):
its Monday night game at the Los Angeles Rams. And
the football world is mourning the death of a college
football Hall of Famer. Former USC and Los Angeles Rams
head coach John Robinson has passed away. He was eighty nine.
USC said in a release that Robinson died in Baton Rouge,
Louisiana due to complications with pneumonia. The former coach became

(33:15):
the winningest coach in Rams history during his nine year
tenure with the franchise from nineteen eighty three to nineteen
ninety one. Robinson coached at USC from seventy six to
eighty two before returning to lead the program again from
nineteen ninety three through nineteen ninety seven. He played tight
end at Oregon before beginning his coaching career with the
Ducks in nineteen sixty. He also served as the head

(33:38):
coach at UNLV from ninety nine to two thousand and four.

Speaker 1 (33:42):
Goodbye, old friend, and.

Speaker 6 (33:44):
The Seahawks are making a change at linebacker. Seattle waved
Tyrrell Dodson, who was leading the team with seventy one
tackles this season. Tyres Knight or Drake Thomas our players
who could potentially fill Dodson's void at weakside linebacker. Dodson
signed a one year deal worth up to five four
point six million dollars with the Seahawks in the off season.
The twenty six year old that started all nine games

(34:05):
this season. Cornerback Josh Jovie was signed to take Dodson's
roster spot. Another new Seattle put safety Kivan Wallace on
injured reserve, claimed nose tackle Brandon pee Lee off waivers
from the Miami Dolphins, and signed tight end Nikhil Harry
to the practice squad. The Hawks returned from their bye
week to face the San Francisco forty nine Ers on Sunday.

(34:28):
And that's your Balls to the Wall Sports. I'm Lindsay
in ninety seven to five KMOD.

Speaker 1 (34:44):
Good morning, It's the big Man Morning Show. Nine one,
eight four six oh KMOD. You can also text BMMS
and then what you want to say to eight two
nine four five Good morning, Lindsay.

Speaker 6 (34:56):
Good morning, Gorbyn. Jack White is being featured on a
new mural being painted at the Canes Ballroom and even better,
he's performing a surprise show tonight at the Canes Ballroom.
Tickets are gonna go on sale today at one o'clock.
The doors are going to open at seven pm and
the show will start at eight right now. You can
RSVP to get tickets on the Canes Ballroom website. And

(35:18):
it is an all ages show.

Speaker 1 (35:20):
It's one of the cool things that makes the Canes
so special, as those type of things that when they
get to be able to do, those artists want to
play there. At Green Day, did it if you remember,
good morning Gimpee, Well, good morning Corbin. If you want
to go coeu take on Alabama next Saturday, we'll send
you there along with a cooler full of free corps light,
and a whole lot more. We call a Crimson Cream
and chill. You can sign up to one at the
website the rockscanewodi dot com. On August twelfth, a man

(35:44):
named Ryan decided he was going to go do a
little kayak fishing in Wisconsin. He never came back. They
don't know where he went. Family feared he had drowned,
so the state dispatched resources to look for him. They
did drones, found his car, found his fishing rod, his

(36:12):
tackle box, his driver's license, his wallet, but not him.
They couldn't figure out where he went, and they did
fifty some odd days of searching and could not find him,
and to the point where people that do this for

(36:35):
a living were very perplexed that they hadn't found anything
in their extensive search, not one piece of evidence. Then
they decided to go through his computer and they found
that he had done extensive research on how to flee

(36:56):
the country and how, and he had opened a life
insurance policy on himself for three hundred and seventy five
thousand dollars. He had closed his banks, he had gotten
a new passport, and a little more investigating, they found

(37:16):
that the Canadian law enforcement did a ping on his
name the day after he went missing, and though they
haven't had communication with him, they believe he's with a
woman in Uzbekistan. Now, this man is married, father of three,

(37:38):
and he wiped his He thought he wiped his hard drive,
but that doesn't exist. That's not a real thing. I know.
I think people believe you have to even if you
drill a hole in your hard drive, they still compet
together if they wanted to. Yes, really, the only way
that you could actually get away with that is to
burn it. Yeah, I think you'd have to do something

(38:02):
with some finality. Maybe some water, I don't know, but
I think definitely fire would take care of it. Cinder
block somehow attach it to it. Heave that bitch into
the water. Yeah, right, at least they're gonna have our
time finding it. And anyway, so the police have now

(38:24):
plead with him on television saying, if you're seeing this,
please contact us, Please contact your family. We know like
you're not in trouble. We know things happen, but please
let us know that you're fine. Isn't faking your death
the criminal offense? I think you could be in sort

(38:46):
of a litigious situation for he didn't report himself missing, right, right,
but he just wanted to evaporate, right exactly. But he
takes out an insurance policy on himself, not against the law, right.
I don't know how that works out. I always figured
you had to die in order to do that. No, No,
you'd want to do it in case you die. Okay. Now,

(39:07):
if he changed, there was some that would be insurance fraud,
if he did some sort of meddling with the policy
and who would benefit from it and those things, But
it doesn't sound like that's what it was. Faking your
death is not inherently illegal. No, it may be part
of a fraudulent or listed activity such as tax of
Asian insurance fraud, yeah, or avoiding criminal Oh if you

(39:28):
thought it was ill, Now you would get popped on
something else and there would be a religious situation maybe,
or recoup resources that were used to find you. Interesting, Okay,
but the direct crime of faking your death, and by
the way, he didn't fake his death right. He just
went missing. Yeah, everybody just assumed he was dating.

Speaker 6 (39:46):
And you can't get paid on the insurance policy without
a death certificate or a proof of a body right.

Speaker 1 (39:56):
Typically is the way I understand it, and I found
the amount to be very interesting. Three hundred and seventy
five thousand dollars. Yeah, that doesn't seem that's a lot
of money, but you think you would go for more,
I would think. I would think usually the idea is
you want to pay for debt you have and like
a certain percentage over that, right, so you want to

(40:18):
be able to go with house, car paid off, and
then a little bit money to live off for people left,
so your significant others wouldn't have to deal with house
payments and car payments of the side that you were carrying.
And so maybe three hundred and seventy five was enough,
But it just feels like a very interesting amount. He
had changed closed banks, changed banks. They said he'd been

(40:40):
working on this four months. We've talked on the air
about this before, about just evaporating and how hard that
would be or how easy it would be, depending on
which argument one of us was taking. And this guy
did his diligence. Yeah, and they still pieced. They feel
pretty confident they knew they know where he went, and

(41:02):
I had to go down the rabbit hole. Are women
from Uzbekistan hot? You am thinking the same thing. I
was like, that's like, how miserable do you have to
be in life? Or ungrateful do you have to be
in life to go? I want to go to Eastern Europe,
Western Russia, Western Asia and live in probably one of

(41:27):
the more some of the most dangerous regions of the world.
Right African, it's right by Afghanistan, Kazurkistan, Kazakistan, all the
other stand Yeah, it's it isn't known for being a
really great tourist destination. Beautiful, sure, but when you when
Kande Nest Traveler puts out their list, Stans aren't on

(41:51):
the list. And how did he meet this? Individ to me.
That's I'm so intrigued by how did you do this?
You never had sex with this individual that you went
this is a good idea. You literally are going to
travel sight unseen. Now, Wisconsin, where did he go? If
he went, they said he crossed into the Canadian border,

(42:14):
so that means he had to travel across a border
probably had to grow from Wisconsin through the part of
Michigan that everybody forgets his Michigan into Canada, and then
there's nothing there. He'd have to go all the way
around down to Toronto by Detroit. Winnipeg maybe, but you're
not going to get an international flight out of Winnipeg, right,

(42:38):
So he did some extensive trouble to do this.

Speaker 6 (42:45):
Did he serve in the military at one time and
maybe he met her that way? Maybe he served there.

Speaker 1 (42:52):
I mean, I love the Netflix special you're going with,
but it says they met online. Okay, may not even
be a woman. It may not.

Speaker 6 (43:04):
He could have gotten gatfished.

Speaker 1 (43:06):
And the poor family here they are just, you know,
distraught that he didn't or relieve maybe in just doing
their diligence, but that he hadn't come back from his
kayaking fishing trip. And then you find out, no, he
had this whole other life that he was planning for
four months. I'd like to say, I know I would

(43:29):
know if my wife opened a bank account without my knowledge.
I'd like to think I would know that. Yeah, you
would like to think you yeah, but it's absolutely possible
she could do it. Now, let's just use Lindsey and
Eyes scenarios to play this out. I think it would
be a little harder for maybe her partner to do

(43:51):
it because his family lives somewhere else. He would have
to get a Post Office box here for the mail,
because you have to have an address. And my wife
has a family here, so she could easily send it
to somewhere else and I would never see it. But
when you're isolated from family members like Lindsey and her

(44:13):
husband are, it makes it a little more. It's another
step you gotta deal with. Maybe it is the best
way to say that. I think even if you had
family living here, you could still get a PO box
and use that as of course. Yeah, so your entire
family could be in the dark on this sort of thing. Yeah,
but to have a PEO box, you've got to have
billings set up, and to have billing that's where the

(44:34):
loophole is. Yeah, okay, so they got to have a
place to send the bill for your want for the bank. Yeah, yeah,
I get a sent to your work, your job whatever.
Some works don't allow that true personal mail. But I mean,
I think you're right, there are other ways to do this. Yeah,
and then he goes, well, I'll just wipe my hard drive.

Speaker 6 (44:56):
I got.

Speaker 1 (44:57):
I don't know if my wife went missy in this scenario,
she decides she's a kayak fisher and goes and doesn't
come back. I wouldn't know how to get into her laptop,
right because it's her work laptop. I wouldn't know where
that stuff is or it'd be on her phone right.
And it's not like the geek Squad would just willing

(45:18):
nelly help you out, you know what I'm saying. Yeah,
I don't know. You take a laptop that that's not
yours in somewhere. I don't think they just open it
up for anybody. I'd like to think that, but I
don't know if the security level is pretty strong at
geek Squad where they're go, sorry, so this is It
would be more of like I can't like my wife's

(45:39):
work computer's got some pretty high security on it, so
they're not She can't even like parry her phone to
it right right.

Speaker 6 (45:46):
They would still have to probably reset, like if you
don't know the password, they'd still have to reset.

Speaker 1 (45:51):
Everything, right, And then you got to call I'd have
to call her work and talk to her bos and
be like, hey, we met at a Christmas party, right, yeah,
and then you got to figure all this out and
they're like, no, they wouldn't know, or maybe they would.
And then you find out no, they're in Uzbekistan. You're

(46:11):
like what, And then you start going what what was
so bad here?

Speaker 6 (46:16):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (46:17):
Who did I marry? Who did I marry? You'd like
to think you know your partner, Yeah, but you don't.
It's all That's one of the fascinating things about marriage.
It's all on faith. Oh, absolutely, one hundred percent. You
are just trusting the process and being completely vulnerable. Oh no, no, no,

(46:41):
we have clear, open communication. We don't hide anything from
each other. How many times have you heard or probably
said that fun thing is is there probably is something
out there that they ain't telling you. I mean, no,
I hear what you're saying. But that the idea of like, hey,

(47:02):
we have open, clear communication only works as long as
the other person is also playing by those rules. But
you have to just have faith that they are. But
I don't own up to the idea that they probably
are all everyone's just a lion sack of ass. Yeah,
I will say that that everybody out there, nobody knows
somebody one hundred percent through and through. You may think

(47:25):
you do, but I bet you there's at least one
thing that everybody's spouse has never told them before. True,
it doesn't. I don't have to be massive. I don't.
I don't disagree with that. But to the implication that
it is intentional, that is the thing that is that
is intentional, whether there's embarrassment or shame behind whatever it

(47:47):
is that they're talking about that they're hiding from you,
or there's something there's some reason that there's that one
thing that they won't don't want to bring up, you know,
but it isn't. It isn't Nefario like you're I feel
like you're implying it's nefarious. And I would say that
it might just be they don't remember. Yeah, that that
very well could be possible. But I think that you

(48:09):
can't say, well, I know everything about this person and
this person knows everything about me. I think that's just
living on false presentations, you know what I mean? Or
faith and trust, and you gotta have trust in people.
Oh absolutely, yeah you do. And I don't think there's
anything wrong with that, having trust in faith in your partner. No, no,

(48:33):
But to be naive enough to be like, I know
everything one hundred percent. I don't think is accurate.

Speaker 6 (48:40):
Think you know everything you need to know?

Speaker 1 (48:42):
Do you? I don't know when you need to know
that you're planning to move to a stand right? Right?
You will use Corbin's wife for an example. What if
she was a polled answer in her earlier days, right, Yeah,
but she left that life behind. Yeah, she's told me
about her like before me. Uh huh. But it's possible
she's blocked it out or didn't tell me. Right, it

(49:04):
was a bad it was just a bad time in
life and needed to make some money or whatever was experimenting,
and she does want to bring up those memories. Yeah,
let's just okay, let's play that out. Let's just say
that came to fruition. Huh. I wouldn't be mad, Well, yeah,
I wouldn't be mad that she didn't share that with me.
I think it is a waste of time to get

(49:25):
mad about the past, oh for sure, and a waste
of energy. Yeah, I wasn't in her life. It didn't
affect me right now. Psychologically, I'm sure I would have
some issues that I'd have to work through in my head.
Of like why didn't she share? What? What have I
not help helped create a place where she feels like
she could you know what I'm saying, like I would
have to work through some stuff on my own, right right, right,

(49:47):
same way. If what you know, if Lindsay's old man
was was, you know, did some amateur R porn you
know before they got together, and you know, let's just
say he's done three hundred and sixty five films. You know,
you thought you knew everything about this person, but come
to find out you've done three hundred and sixty five adul.

Speaker 6 (50:08):
Films, Like why do we own this collection?

Speaker 1 (50:12):
What if it was just three hundred? Right? What if
it was just sixty five?

Speaker 6 (50:18):
It was just one? But where's the video here?

Speaker 1 (50:21):
You thought, you know, you married this clean, wholesome kind
of person, and then you know, come to find out
their past comes back and you know they've they've done
three hundred films. This is great. Look at the bt
bt K killer. His wife didn't know about him till
they got him. That's true. There's also things that you'll
just look past. Yes, and I'm not saying she knew,

(50:42):
but if she was like, yeah, he's always gone for
two days at a time on the weekend, right, right,
I think of Jerry Sandusky, didn't his wife kind of overlooked,
looked past, thought it was normal. Thought it was normal syndromes,
tye of stuff. Yeah, looked past. It's fine. It's normal
for you to be all in the sho with these
kids or whatever. Yeah, you got a neighbor that keeps

(51:04):
to himself. You're like, ah, he's fine, he just kept himself.
When you go, no, that's actually kind of weird, right, Lindsay.
And now I don't want to give it too much
away because I don't know if this person wants to
share in this. But they were sharing something that happened
in their life and they're like, yeah, it just made
a mistake. That ain't a mistake. Man, You did things
that are not normal, and you just you you were

(51:24):
rationalizing why it's okay. That's what people do. Yeah, that's
why I love the joke about marriage of there's a
little bit of like, hey, let's get married and never
date anyone else ever, and you'll be mine. Let's sign
a piece of paper that says you'll be mine and
I'll be yours or forever, no matter what. It's a

(51:49):
funny joke, right, But in this scenario where the guy
went missing, he didn't have the balls to say I'm done.
I think that's so weak. Man, I agree, Now, I
hear you. I know you guys are some of you're
gonna text and go, well, maybe she was a bitch, huh,

(52:13):
she she had a strong personality. Is what your excuses
for him to just escape? Maybe maybe he assaulted her. Okay,
that's a different situation. Yeah, but still there are resources
available to him rather than go to Uzbekistan. Right. You
never read a lot about women leaving their marriages to

(52:36):
go to Uzbekistan.

Speaker 6 (52:37):
Nop.

Speaker 1 (52:40):
That goes to show he was in it for one
thing and one thing only. Man, we do the dumbest
off real I moved a couch for some poon tang.
What'd you do? I Movedstani like you only saw her
on bad digital poor internet video right or pictures? And
by the way, you think you just happened to walk

(53:02):
across each other's path while you're both looking at a
rare Mickey mantlecard on eBay, like you know, like, yeah,
I bumped into someone in the store. No, no, no,
you deliberately you either went to where she was, or
she went to where you are. Yeah, one of you
was looking right and you the other one's chalking it

(53:22):
up to luck. Yep, that's what we do, man, this
I'm asking Yeah, who says Whozbekistan is a much better
option than America. I mean he may not have picked
Who's Bekistan? That just might be the way loved worked.
You're right right, he could have been on russianfinder dot com.

(53:46):
The fun thing is, no, no matter where you're at,
where you're living, it's all the same man. Marriage is
the same thing. Relationships are the same thing. She still
probably leaves her dirty under her on the floor. She
probably still doesn't, you know, pick up after herself. It
probably nags about whatever that your ex old lady was, Magma.

(54:07):
Nothing changes now. The counter argument to this is that
he made changes. Yeah, he wasn't happy he made a
change for sure. How he went about it maybe could
have done it a little bit different. But we all
make mistakes. But he was like, I'm not happy, I'm

(54:30):
fixing it.

Speaker 6 (54:33):
At least he didn't murder his wife and children.

Speaker 1 (54:36):
That is a silver lining. Yes, I think every jug
has two handles, man like. He definitely not a good
moral person, right, but also keeper of your happiness. Ain't
nobody helping you but you and he he's a doer, right,

(55:00):
he isn't just you know, driving around the neighborhood for
twenty five minutes, which some of you are go watch
a movie by sitting in the driveway or the garage,
going you can do this, you can do this, you
can do People do that yep, or they get out

(55:20):
of they wake lay up and they're like, oh, I
got to get up early so I can avoid talking
to my partner. Sad people, Yeah, but that's real. It's
not sad, it's reality. And so I'm just trying to
give another argument. At least he did something about it.
He ripped the band aid, he took the stitches out,
he grabbed the pliers, put him on the braces and

(55:43):
yanked him off. Yep. But he didn't want to wear
braces anymore. Yeah, it's wild to think about. I think
marriage is what you make if it has none to
do with the other person. Marriage is what you make
of it. Right, Well, it's fifty to fifty partner shoot, Nope,
to you your side of the street, that's it. You
can decide that she leaves her panties on the floor,

(56:05):
and that's a ten or you can decide they aren't right. Uh,
Uzbekistan as primarily Islamic, dating is different. Uh Okay, it
doesn't mean she was Islamic, right. Uh Even burning a
hard drive would stop your ISP, or wouldn't stop your
ISP from having the search history. Right. Everybody does everything
online now unless you were a VPN. You could probably

(56:28):
use a VPN and block all that. But then we're
now we're getting to the weeds. All right, We got
to take a break. We'll be back.

Speaker 2 (56:34):
Elsa's Morning Show, The Big Man Boarding Show. The assault
continues next Tuty seventy five.

Speaker 1 (56:53):
Good morning, It's the Big Man Morning Show. You want
to win tickets to jelly Roll and we're giving away
a pair of tickets right now. Let's play a game.
Sinxing is the game. The current record is I am
leading with fifteen, Lindsay has eleven and you are dead
as last late last week's winner'd be me, So Corbyn

(57:14):
and Lindsay at nine one eight four six oh kmod
nine one eight four six oh kmo D call up
decide who's gonna be the clue giver. Whoever gets the
most Right is gonna win. Tickets to see Jelly Roll
Thursday at the pay Comm Center in Oklahoma City. Tickets
available ticketmaster dot com. Let's go here. Good morning, you're
on the air. What is your name?

Speaker 8 (57:36):
It's just see.

Speaker 1 (57:39):
I'm sorry. What is your name? Justine? Justine? Yes, all right, Justine?
Who do you want to give? Clues? Lindsay or Corbyn?

Speaker 6 (57:47):
Lindsay?

Speaker 1 (57:48):
All right, Justine. Sixty seconds are on the clock. Timer
starts after the first clue. Are you ready? Yes?

Speaker 6 (57:57):
Okay. This is from the eighties and this is when okay.
The group title is when an actor makes a special
short appearance in a film or TV show. They have
a what an unexpected appearance?

Speaker 1 (58:21):
They have a happy I don't know okay.

Speaker 6 (58:30):
And the song title is a you look up this okay.
You gotta fight for your right to party?

Speaker 1 (58:48):
Can you repeat that?

Speaker 6 (58:50):
This group sings you gotta fight for your right?

Speaker 1 (58:54):
Uh huh.

Speaker 6 (58:54):
And the song is when you are going to ruin something,
uh intentionally, I'm trying to. I'm trying to. I'm going
to ruin I'm going I'm coming up with a plan.

(59:15):
I'm going to ruin your your party. I've got this
plan crash. Yeah, another word, time time time.

Speaker 1 (59:25):
I'm so sorry, Jessine. You didn't get any so you're
not going to win anything. I'm so sorry.

Speaker 6 (59:31):
Ah, thank you?

Speaker 1 (59:33):
Who is it her? Good morning, you're on the air.
What is your name? What is your name? Dan? How
are you doing?

Speaker 6 (59:41):
Pretty good?

Speaker 1 (59:43):
I'm good? Man. All right, we got to get at
least one. Are you ready, Yes, sir, here we go.
Ice Cube Original band. This is a city in uh correct.

Speaker 7 (59:57):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (59:58):
This guy is married to Sharon and he was in
Black Savor. Yeah, and this is it's about a drink,
but it is a state of of uh, it's a
mode of transportation. And the correct uh lance. Bass is

(01:00:21):
in this band I think in sync. No, the other ones, oh,
Backstreet Boys. Correct. And the slogan for Burger King I'm
loving it. No, that's McDonald's your way, my way, that way.

(01:00:42):
I mean you're very close. You would walk, you would
walk up to the counter and you would say, what
way there you go? Good job, man, we got to win.
You're gonna get those tickets. Jelly Roll third day in
Oklahoma City.

Speaker 9 (01:01:01):
Man, all right, fantastic job.

Speaker 1 (01:01:05):
Buddy, hand on the line, Okay, all right, something happened
here and I don't know, so I'm gonna ask a lindsay. Uh,
normally she has all the cards on her side and
then she hands them to me. Now, a lot of
things happened in the morning. We have a lot of
conversations off here. Had you sorted some to the side
to prepare for the game, or had you sorted some

(01:01:26):
because they were in question?

Speaker 6 (01:01:27):
No, no, no, the police. The pile is just so
small that I just picked some up and through some
your way, and I had some mind.

Speaker 1 (01:01:34):
Okay, all right, she stacked the cards.

Speaker 6 (01:01:36):
No I did not.

Speaker 1 (01:01:37):
No, no, I don't believe that. But sometimes we talk
about the cards in the state of the cards, and
I didn't know if she filtered through some like these
are in question because when I grabbed the deck, she
looked at me kind of in horror, and so I
didn't know what was happening.

Speaker 3 (01:01:50):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (01:01:51):
Yeah, this is the the opposite of down would be
corny cover of this song All the People Everywhere Frison Fan.

Speaker 6 (01:02:05):
The reason why I looked at you and horror was
because I thought, holy hell, I don't remember this song
at all.

Speaker 1 (01:02:14):
Yeah, CAMEO word up and then uh, this is the
video for uh they are police officer, police officers jumping
over cars, fake mustaches, a French word for a infiltrator. Sabato, right, yeah, sabotage.

(01:02:36):
You said fight for your right you started singing fight
for your right to party. We were like, what is
she doing? We weren't sure on the clue on that. Now,
the straight out of Compton one, we just had that.
I I swear we just had that. They all blend together. Okay,

(01:02:57):
please don't, okay, go ahead on the One's the one
that I ain't it on.

Speaker 6 (01:03:02):
You're about to give this one and the only thing
I can think of. You gotta be down with it.

Speaker 1 (01:03:10):
But it's the sickness. Yeah, it's an acronym for vagina.

Speaker 6 (01:03:20):
That's not yours.

Speaker 1 (01:03:21):
That's not yours. Cauld The Swingers Lifestyles theme songs awesome,
I feel like very niche. But okay, yeah, that my
clue does matter. The record now keeps me in a
lad with fifteen, keeps Lendsley with eleven, buts you deny.

Speaker 2 (01:03:39):
The Thinking Mad Morning Show returns next Tulsa's Morning shown.

Speaker 1 (01:03:56):
Good Morning, It's the Big Man Morning shown four six
oh kmo D. You can also text bmms and then
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to see what Gimpi has in his four x four
El Corbin. It says here that Spirit Airlines flight was

(01:04:18):
struck by gunfire landing in Haiti. Spirit Airlines, American Airlines,
and Jet Blue are suspending flights to Haiti after a
Spirit plane was hit by gunfire yesterday. It happened while
it attempted to land in the capitol of Porto Prince.
The aircraft was flying in from Fort Lauderdale and was

(01:04:38):
diverted to an airport in the Dominican Republic where it's
safely landed. At least one person, a flight attendant, was
grazed by a bullet. Spirit is suspending flights pending further review,
while American and Jet Blue are canceling flights through at
least Thursday. Apparently a jet this morning, a Jet Blue
flight arrived in New York and it had a bullet

(01:04:59):
hole in it. And yeah, stayble since closed that airport,
all right, Republicans away Haiti, Dominican Republic right next to
each other and Dominican Republic. Tons of people go for resorts.
I've been to a bunch of resorts there. It's it
is very surreal going there because from the airport to
the resort, you are on a third world country, wow,

(01:05:23):
with tin sheds and everything else. And then you go
to these resorts with marble floors. Quite wild. What else
we got it? Republicans are just a few seats away
from keeping control of the House, as boat counting rolls on.
A win for Republicans would give President Trump an easier
path to enact as policies now, but the Senate is
under GOP control as of now. Republicans need to win

(01:05:45):
just three more seats to gain control, while the Democrats
need twelve to keep control. Here's a fun one. LEDs
reduce shark attacks. That's what they say. Putting LED lights
on the bottoms of surfboards might tour attacks from great
white sharks. Huh. A new Australian study put LED lights

(01:06:07):
on seal shaped decoys and found it disrupted sharks from
seeing these silhouettes up above, reducing attack rates. These sharks
appear to rely on visual cues of a dark object
against a lighter background when attacking at target. The study
was published in the journal Current Biology. What does LED
stand for? I don't know light emitting diode. Yeah, what

(01:06:32):
is it like? Emitting diode? The more you know, yeah,
it's amazing technology. Lastly, here, I Knowla High School is
in the lead for the T Mobile five G Friday
Night Lights competition. I know the high school's currently in
first place in the T Mobile five G Friday Night

(01:06:53):
Lights competition. A group of Iola High School seniors went
to Oklahoma City to campaign for more votes to keep
them on the top before the contest ends tonight at
nine point fifty nine pm. The prize is twollillas. Now,
this money would go towards the new field and new facility,
something I Knowla Hi is in desperate need of And

(01:07:14):
all you gotta do is like their Instagram post push
them over the top. Go ahead and see what Lindsay
has for Balls to the Wall Sports.

Speaker 6 (01:07:32):
The twenty twenty four NBA Cup tips off with the
Group Play today. Joel Embiid is slated to make his
season debut for the seventy six ers when Philadelphia hosts
the New York Knicks at Wells Fargo Center. Embida has
missed the sixers first nine games of the season due
to a combination of lingering injuries and suspension Elsewhere, The

(01:07:53):
defending champs are in action when the Boston Celtics hosts
the Atlanta Hawks, the Detroit Pisstons host the Miami Heat,
and the Orlando Magic host the Charlotte Hornets. The Milwaukee
Bucks also get to group play going when they host
the Toronto Raptors and the Utah Jazz host the Phoenix Suns.
The night wraps up with the Golden State Warriors hosting

(01:08:14):
the Dallas Mavericks and the Minnesota Timberwolves visit the Portland Trailblazers.
The Kings will be without a key member of their
rotation for at least the next two weeks. Sacramento guard
Malik Monk will be sidelined for at least the next
couple of weeks due to a moderate right ankle sprain.
Monk suffered the injury in the second quarter of the
team's lost to the Phoenix Suns on Sunday. X ray

(01:08:37):
imaging revealed that there was no structural damage to Monk's ankle.
The twenty six year old is averaging twelve point six points,
three rebounds, and two point eight assists through ten games
played this season. Finalists for the Major individual awards from
the twenty twenty four MLB regular season have been announced.
In the American League, Yankees outfielders Aaron Judge and Juan

(01:08:59):
so To arealists for MVP, alongside Royal shortstop Bobby Witt Junior.
The Bronx Bombers are also well represented in Rookie of
the Year, with right hander Louis Skill and catcher Austin
Wells as finalists, along with Orioles outfielder Colton Kowser, Tigers
lefty Tarik Skuble, Royals righty Seth Lugo and Guardians closer

(01:09:21):
Emmanuel Klace are finalists for cy Young. Stephen Voyd of
the Guardians, Matt Quatrero of the Royals and A. J.
Hinch of the Tigers are the finalists for American League
Manager of the Year. In the National League, Dodgers designated
hitter shoey Otani is a finalist for MVP, with met
shortstop Francisco Lindor and Diamondbacks second baseman Katel Marty. Pirates

(01:09:44):
rookie Paul Skenes is up for a couple awards. Skeenes
is a finalist for Rookie of the Year with Padre's
outfielder Jackson Marilyn Brewers outfielder Jackson Charrio, and finalists for
Cy Young with Braves lefty Chris Saale and Phillies' righty
Zach Wheeler. The Mets Carlos Mendoza, Brewers, Pat Murphy and Padres,
and Mike Shilt are finalists for the National League Manager

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of the Year. In Week twelve of the college football
playoff ranking is released tonight. Oregon is expected to remain
in the top spot after improving to ten and zero.
Ohio State will likely retain second place with an eight
to one record, but the rest of the top five
is uncertain. Number three Georgia and fourth rank to Miami
suffered losses over the weekend, which means Texas at number

(01:10:29):
five could jump both schools. However, the Bulldogs and Hurricanes
are expected to stay in the top twelve. Ole Miss
could into the playoff field after taking down Georgia, and
Alabama is expected to climb the ranks after a dominant
win over LSU.

Speaker 1 (01:10:44):
How crazy is it that Georgia could miss make it
into the playoffs, Yahl, that's so wild to me. And
then you got teams like Ole Miss that are playing well.
I think they're for sure going to make it into
the playoffs. Uh, and then because Alabama and Georgia two
lost teams, so's old Miss Miami should definitely be in there.

(01:11:11):
Maybe Boise States should, Armies should be in there. At
nine to O should be yeah. Colorado is seven and
seven and two. Yeah, Like, you can make an argument
that they should be in there. They easily have one
of the best, if not the best college football player
in Travis Hunter. It's crazy to see how different it is.

(01:11:31):
Ohio State's been consistent. Texas for sure is going to
be in it. Indiana being fifth is wild to me.

Speaker 6 (01:11:37):
I can't even believe it at ten and but at.

Speaker 1 (01:11:39):
Ten and oh, they should be in fifth. I guess
wild Man Tennessee, Yeah, BYU even though they barely won
that game. Yeah, that is it's wild to see that
play out. Yeah, compared to the beginning of the season.

Speaker 6 (01:11:56):
And that is your ball. So the Wall Sports, I'm
Lindsay in ninety seven.

Speaker 1 (01:12:10):
Good morning, It's the Big Man Morning Show nine one,
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and then what you want to say to eight two
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Morning Corbyn if you want to head over to Arlington
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Speaker 1 (01:12:36):
Good morning, Gimby, Oh the morning Corbyn. It's time to
start preparing for the annual twenty eight hour marathon Toy Drive.
Fourteen years we've putting this thing on and we're doing
it December fourth and fifth at Dave and Busta's. Bring
a new unwrapped toy and toy and help some kids
have a very merrick Christmas. Listen to emails. You can
always email us show at kmodi dot com. We read
an email on the air and give advice on what

(01:12:59):
you sh should do. And this email that we got
is about cheating. Recently, I caught my wife cheating on me.
I found text messages of her communicating with some douchebag
at her job, pictures details about their hookup. I was enraged,
she was embarrassed, made a ton of different excuses as

(01:13:22):
to why it happened. She says she wants to stay together.
She quit her job and started going to counseling. She
doesn't want to get divorced. She even said, I can
go sleep with whoever I want to make it even
not gonna lie. This might be the only thing she
could offer to save this. I have this woman at

(01:13:42):
my work that I flirt with and she flirts back.
Do you guys think if I do this that we
will still work out? Or is this a waste of time?
Got caught cheating read tax saw pick sures and now

(01:14:03):
the wife's trying to fix it. I'm like, here you
go go play. Yeah, and you already got a candidate.
Sounds like that you're focused on old Becky at the
front camera. Sure, always the front girl, good here, right, job,

(01:14:23):
always young, where's revealing clothes?

Speaker 6 (01:14:27):
Flirts back?

Speaker 1 (01:14:28):
Yeah, that must mean she wants you, right, She's not
just being nice, she's there for you. What happens if
you go and you approach this woman the Becky right,
because you've got you've got your hall pass right, and
you're like, it's not a hall pass, it's a get
even passed right exactly. And then you're like, hey, Becky,

(01:14:51):
what's going on? And she's like, oh gross, that will
just deflate a person immediately. No, And that's I think
you're bringing up and in resting point is that guys
think that just because they're being nice, that they want you.
And maybe she's just chatting right, not knowing that you're

(01:15:17):
plotting and planning and maybe using her as a pawn
in your game of war with your.

Speaker 6 (01:15:26):
Right or what if it's the opposite, Like what if
she does go through with it and then gets feelings
and wants more.

Speaker 1 (01:15:39):
You never know, right, You never know what you're tapping into, man, exactly,
So sleep with the coworkers. This a Texas game is
sleep with the coworker and then tell your wife that
you want a divorce. Cheene whores the whole lot of you.
That feels like a weird thing to do, though, to
do that, like you could still you can just end it,

(01:16:02):
right and then go to sleep with the person, right.
I don't know why you have to stay with them
to do that, right, Much like this text, don't do
it at the end of the day, it's your clear conscience.
Don't stoop to that level. Yeah, And also, banging somebody
where could create a problem at work, right, Some businesses

(01:16:26):
have a you must disclose the relationship clause, right, even
if it's a one night stand. Huh, I believe so
we have that we have that policy here. Yeah, I
think even if even if it's a one night stand,
you've seen this person naked before. So that changes the
perspective that you guys have for each other. Oh yeah,

(01:16:47):
it changes everything. Leave her, dude. I love this line.
She's for the streets. You can pay that coworker when
you're single again, the hall pass our trop get out now.
Getting even will just tell her that cheating is okay
and will lead to more from her. Dude. That is
an excellent point. She is trying you to get you

(01:17:09):
in the trenches, right. Also, however, on the other side
of this coin, I hear me out this. They could
the man and wife. Right. He goes and bangs Becky
on the front counter. She's already stooped Steve, you know
over there in the warehouse, right, So they're doing it
to get even. All right, we've done it. They come back,

(01:17:32):
they talk. The next thing, you know, the relationship, they
stay together. They're now in an open relationship or in
a swinger's lifestyle. It's possible. I don't know how you
got there, but it's possible. It's like, well, you did
it and I did it, and I mean we could
still make this work. We just go bang other people
and then each other every now and again. Waste of time.

(01:17:55):
Either you love her and you can work through it
without cheating yourself, or you can move past wife cheating.
Waste time, learn from it. Don't ever put so much
trust and faith into anyone. I learned the same lesson. Hmm.
Don't put so much trust and faith into anyone. Learn

(01:18:16):
the same lesson like their partner gave them the same option,
like yeah, you go ahead and bang somebody else it's okay,
or yeah, and like work to try to work through it.
Uh huh. I don't disagree. I think if you get
cheated on and it's hard, you gotta put trust into
another person. You gotta try again. Nobody promised it would
be perfect. Keep going to the well. Man, did you

(01:18:41):
fall off your bike and then never get on it again.
Don't be messing around with another woman. You don't know
what she might be going through. Adding more problems won't
fix the current problem. Don't over complicate it. She cheated.
Getting even is not the same as forgiving right, Like
you what if this other woman's got a relationship. Yeah,

(01:19:04):
you're just gonna interject. Okay, yeah, reasonable answer. Two wrongs
don't make it right. Doing further damage to this relationship
won't help save it. And do you really want to
nuclear answer? Pound Becky in Accounting in New in a
Freaky Ways show Wifey the video get her to do that?
Then called Jeff. Now that is inter Yeah, that's an
interesting take too. Is to go listen if I bang

(01:19:27):
Becky because you're letting me that's not the same. You
have to see the videos and text messages of me
describing my desire for her. That's really what we're talking about. Yeah,
I for an eye. I'm just saying that cuts deep
rather than just knowing. Have you ever seen the movie

(01:19:48):
In Decent Proposal? Yes, it's a fantastic movie for those
who know. It's older movie. Woody Harrelson, Demi Moore, Robert
Isn't it is a Caine Michael Caine? Yeah, no, No,
it's not like King Robert Redford and Robert Redford's rich

(01:20:11):
and he offers money to them and they are in
Vegas betting their last couple dollars to try and get
out of debt. She's young. He's young, she's very attractive.
Robert Redford is the same ginger, fiery guy he's been
in every movie, and apparently women love that ginger and

(01:20:31):
can't be resisted and makes them an offer of the
can refuse million dollars and she goes and I don't
remember if they had sex the first night. I feel
like they did. It was only twenty four hours that
he wanted her to go, and she swoons him. He
thinks they're just gonna stay in Vegas. Oh no, no, no,

(01:20:53):
she's got he got the jet fired up. He's gonna
swoon her and totally takes advantage of the situation. She submits.
They get back and what he's like drinks himself into
a stupor, like is a mess, and he comes back
all piss and vinegar. He's like, yeah, yeah, yeah, your
begger ruins their relationship. She then goes back to him

(01:21:19):
the rich guy, because yeah, why would I be with
your sad broke ass. It's always going to be in
the back of it either one of them's mind. Yeah,
so while the others she's out like, oh god, torture
the whole time. Uh, cheating always comes back to haunt you.

(01:21:39):
You may forget, you may forgive, but you will never
forget an eye for an eye will just make it worse.
I cheated in my first marriage. We're no longer married.
Another one run another text. Wants a cheater, always a cheater.
The tit for tat won't change anything or make it
anything better. He's got to drop the my wife cheated

(01:22:02):
on me to his coworker to see how to see
how ahead the person responds, like to test the water.
Leave her now. She is at fault in the divorce
for infidelity, which is not a thing in the state
of Oklahoma. For the record, get even with Get even,
and you're both at fault and she gets more of

(01:22:23):
your stuff. Get out now. That's also not true. Nobody
gets more stuff based on who cheated, or who had sex,
or any of those things. She feels guilty and wants
to justify her own feelings because she knows it's wrong.
Don't do it already shown she doesn't care about your feelings. Ah,
I don't know. She makes it is possible two things

(01:22:45):
can be true at once. Yes, she can care about
his feelings and also has a very loose vagina. Cheating's
really complicated. I don't know it's as simple as I
wanted to hurt you. Right, Usually that's a side thing
that happens that the person that did it didn't even
think about. I'm not defending those people. I'm just saying

(01:23:08):
that it isn't as simple as like, let me hurt
him or her. Exact pro tip. It doesn't make it better,
just makes you want to do it more. Have her
do a threesome with you and another girl. Technically it's
not cheating, and you get to fulfill a fantasy memory
that you can keep. Even if it ends with her,

(01:23:30):
she might go for it. What was it that old
school or whatever. Owen Wilson's character walks in or whatever,
come in lay from work and she's in there with
the couple or whatever, and she's watching porn or whatnot.
She's like, oh, yeah, I could get into this. Oh yeah,
And then and then the other couple walks out of

(01:23:50):
the price.

Speaker 6 (01:23:53):
Right at the beginning.

Speaker 1 (01:23:54):
Yeah, I don't know if a threesome is the best.
That just feels like a really calm plicated scenario. I'm
not saying threesomes can't work. I'm saying that if you
are doing it out of spite and out of this
is our lifestyle. It may have a different outcome, right, Uh,
consider asking her what led to her decision to be

(01:24:15):
unfaithful and what factors contributed to her stepping outside the marriage.
Perhaps they they're interested in exploring the idea of an
open marriage, have both interested? How was that you liked?

Speaker 5 (01:24:23):
That?

Speaker 1 (01:24:23):
Was that good? What happened? Ah? Well, what a full
proof plan? I say, go for it. You're hooking up
with a rando will totally take all those thoughts of
her taking some other dude's hammer, And is it sorry
about it for a little bit. Yeah, you'll forget it
for three seconds. Three seconds that will come right back.

(01:24:45):
It didn't say in the email how long they've been married, though,
did it?

Speaker 6 (01:24:49):
No?

Speaker 1 (01:24:50):
Right? It could be a new marriage, could not be
a new marriage. It says a lot that dude readily
has someone in mind right off the bat. If my
wife gave me a hall pass, I'd have no idea
where to even start. I got a button for that,
say more, Ah, you do? You just haven't put any
thought into it like that kind of thought. Everybody's got

(01:25:12):
that one person that they've thought of at least one time,
and that's all that it really takes. That's all it
really takes, is that one time that you've thought, wow,
that'd be fun, but you just it was a passing thought,
so you didn't think anything more of it. So to
say that this person doesn't have anybody or wouldn't even
know where to start, I gets a lie. I think
deep down they probably do if they sat down and

(01:25:33):
actually thought about it enough, Yeah, they would know exactly
where to start. Even if if it's the homely gal
that works in the basement filing stuff, or if it's
the hot shick that works the counter whatever. Do you
think there are people that are fully committed to their
marriage and that's just the way the wheel turns. It's
really difficult for them to turn the wheel in another

(01:25:54):
direction and they can't get there. No, it's not. It's
a lot easier than which thing if you're that mindset. No,
not really, not really, because also takes this one little thing,
one little thing to trigger that and the trigger what
to trigger that thought, to trigger that thought of wow,
that was yeah, yeah, or if I had to start

(01:26:15):
all over again, I'll be honest. The idea of even
talking to another person to persuade them to want to
get naked with me terrifies me to no end. And
so I'm of the camp of, like I, the movie
Hall Past plays out perfectly because you think it's gonna
be great. Yeah, we end up going to Applebe's and
going to sleep early. Yeah, yeah, big night, right. Like I,

(01:26:41):
I love the idea that it's just this thing that
can happen. But for me, the idea of having to
persuade another individual and just think that they're there for
me is where I can't get pasted. Okay, I think
it's a lot easier than what you think. You don't
want to think that. No, I think you don't want

(01:27:01):
to think you can't be faithful and that you can't.
You have to unwire that, That's what I'm saying. You
have to unwire that mentality, not not necessarily. Not necessarily,
you can stay dedicated right to the one person and
it'd be just fine, be just fine. But to say, like,
oh I can't do that, I can't convince somebody else,

(01:27:22):
you know, to do this with me. It's a lot
easier than what you think. I'm not saying that, Hey,
I won't be a black belt one day in jiu jitsu.
It would take a lot of time. Yeah, and I
think if something happened with my wife, I could get
back into that game. But you just do it on
a whim. No, no, no. If you're of someone who

(01:27:45):
has a mindset to be faithful in a relationship, you've
wired your brain to think a certain way, okay, And
then and if you're someone who thinks it comes easily,
you've just not wired that way currently, or maybe never
have been wired that way. Everybody, no matter who you are,
has intrusive thoughts. Everybody, no matter who you are, has

(01:28:07):
we'll just say, for lack of better term, evil thoughts.
And if you talk it' sexually like fantasy and anything,
it doesn't matter what it is anything. And that's what
makes you know crazy people insane people different is the
crazy people will act on those intrusive thoughts or evil thoughts.
And the same person says, hey, now, I probably shouldn't
do that, but the thoughts are still there, the thoughts

(01:28:28):
still pass your mind, and you say, as the sane person, nah, man,
that's crazy, that's crazy. I wouldn't never do that. But
the fact of it is is the thought was still there,
the seed was still planted. You just didn't give it
enough water in sunlight for it to blossom and grow
into anything. But the seed's still there. Yeah, as you're saying,

(01:28:48):
And I don't know if I necessarily disagree that people
do have intrusive thoughts. I've said before that there are
many times I want to smack somebody's tray out of
their hand, and it's gonna I can't. But here's where
the difference is. I have this mentality of I care
about other individuals, how they feel and what they think.
And when you walk that path for multiple years, multiple

(01:29:11):
days in a row, you can't just turn that off
in a second. I have to disagree with you. I
believe I believe you. Yeah, I believe you, and I
think there's a lot of people that would agree with me,
you know, because it takes me. There's a lot of
people that would agree with me. And maybe so it
could take one minor thing, it could take one major thing,
it could take a lot of little things that pile up,

(01:29:33):
and then one day you're like, ah, throw your hands
in the air and I'm banging backing another text imagining
imagine knowing she chose a double over you and didn't
care what you thought let that thought sit for a while.
Stop being a simp. You deserve someone who cares about it.

(01:29:53):
I love a good insult like a simp. Let's just
call him a.

Speaker 6 (01:29:57):
Loser, yeah, because you were a faithful hu.

Speaker 1 (01:30:00):
Beda good exercise. Instead, pretend you have a good friend
in this situation. What advice would you give him? The
fact that she kept the fact that she actually kept
the video is a huge red flag to me. Just
leave her and stoop to her level? Oh is it
worse of offense because she kept the video and didn't
delete it?

Speaker 6 (01:30:18):
Lindsay, it is questionable? Why it makes me wonder was
this just a cheat or was this a straight up affair.

Speaker 1 (01:30:27):
I'll tell you why. I'll tell you why because that moment,
that moment that that video was taken, that was a
moment of ecstasy for her and it had great impact
positively on her brain and get the orphans exactly. And
anytime you want to go back and have that great
moment again, that great feeling, you just go back and

(01:30:47):
look at the video on how you know this guy
gave you the business? I think that's probably more accurate.
Or also she doesn't know how to delete videos that
could be it too, or she feels comfortable that he's
not gonna you know what I mean, Like I think
it's it definitely gave her pleasure. If you really love
each other, then try to make it work. My grandma
was a swinger. She had some stank lips. That's weird.

(01:31:10):
That's a weird thing to text. That's a weird thing
to know. That's a one weird thing to want to share.

Speaker 6 (01:31:15):
Yeah, especially about your grandma.

Speaker 1 (01:31:17):
That's weird that she shared with you. That's weird. And
was your grandpa as well or just her? I've been there.
You can't ever forget what happened. Take the hall pass
and rub it in and say how does that feel?
Then bounce? Are you talking about to the person you
have the hall pass with? Or two? As someone who
is forty and only been with two women in long

(01:31:37):
term relationships? This is all pretty crazy to me. Someone
cheats leave them Once a cheater, always a cheater. Where
did this guy's wife work again? What's the name? I'll
talk to her? How about this text? Not everyone has
thoughts of wanting to have sex with other people while
in a relationship. I do not think of others in

(01:31:59):
that I love my friends, and do not care to
have sex with any of them, nor put my hand
on in a disrespectful manner. Humans can be good and
not think of that nature. Not everyone is the same,
and some choose to work on oneself mentally to be stronger.
Maybe so I doubt it. Though evil was planted on

(01:32:20):
this earth, and it's always been there, and there's no
way of getting around it. You can try to run
block plays all you want when it comes to evil thoughts,
but every now and again one's going to slip through.
It doesn't matter. I'm good with my slipping through of
having a Snickers if that's the case. Yes, But it's

(01:32:40):
not always snickers, it's not always sex. It could be anything,
all right. Listener email from somebody who says that they
caught their partner cheating and my wife cheating. I found
text messages of her communicating with some douchebag at her job,
pictures details about their hookup. I was enraged, She was
embarrassed and made a ton of different excuses as to

(01:33:02):
what had happened. She says she wants to stay together.
She has quit that job and started to go to counseling.
She doesn't want to get divorced. She even said, I
can go sleep with whoever I want to make it
even not gonna lie. This might be the only thing
she could offer to save this. I have this woman
at my work that I flirt with and she flirts back.
Do you guys think if I do this that we

(01:33:23):
will still work it out? Or is this a waste
of time?

Speaker 6 (01:33:25):
Lindsay, Okay, I think that if that's the only thing
she can offer to save the marriage, then the marriage
is over.

Speaker 1 (01:33:34):
Uh.

Speaker 6 (01:33:35):
I don't believe that once a cheater, always a cheater.
I don't think that's true. Also, it does bother me
that she saved all the conversations and the videos, because yeah,
she was holding on to that. Something in your marriage
is lacking for her to step out of it. Obviously,
she quit her job. It does sound like she wants

(01:33:57):
to save her marriage and she's desperate to save it.
But but why and why is she the only one
going to counseling. You should probably go into the therapy
sessions as well. Not because you did something wrong, but
something was definitely wrong in the marriage, and it does
take two to make it go wrong. So don't step

(01:34:17):
out of the marriage, don't take the hall pass. If
you want to save your marriage, if it's worth it
to you, go to the counseling sessions and figure it
out that way if it's worth saving. But the whole
situation is very sketchy to me. It sounds like there

(01:34:37):
was big problems before the infidelity happened, and you guys
need to figure out what triggered her cheating in the
first place.

Speaker 1 (01:34:48):
Do not take the hall pass, gimbi. I think she's
telling him that she's going to counseling and quit her
job to put his mind at ease. I don't think
that she it wants to save the merge. Probably doesn't
want to change. People don't like change. Hell, I gotta

(01:35:11):
start all over again. That's never fun when I'm nice
and comfy and cozy right here. But I could also
be wrong, who knows. I don't think that sleeping with
somebody else exactly is going to fix the issue betwixt
you and your lady. I think that you have already

(01:35:34):
had these thoughts because you already have somebody in your
mind and mind of well, yeah, I could totally bang
this person at work, you know, So you have already
had those thoughts. The only difference between you and your
old lady right now, is she acted on it and
you haven't, because you're already flirting with this gall at work.
You already thinking now the wheels are turning, I could

(01:35:55):
totally get with this coal. So you guys are both
basically the same thing in the same boat. She just
acted upon it and you didn't. Are you saying flirting
and having sex with somebody? A relationship with somebody is
the same. If it's very close, it's a very thin line.
It's a very thin it's a very thin like because
what happens. What does flirting lead to? Corbyn? Most of

(01:36:18):
the time, flirting will lead to more of the relationship.
You know. Flirting's lightmail true. That is so if I
say hi to you, or your dress looks nice, that
can be interpreted as flirting. But I hardly think giving
somebody a compliment is going to lead to banging. And
I do not correlate you getting taken to pound time
town by pedro and accounting is the same as talking

(01:36:41):
to Becky at the front saying your hair looks nice
today and she goes, no, your hair looks nice today.
I hardly think those are even remotely on the same planet.
How they are so close? Man? Remember that seed that
I was telling you blunt bounce. Man, you're planting that
little seed. You don't may not know it subconsciously, but
you're planting that seed. Because why you look at Becky
and you a banger. You want to bend her over

(01:37:02):
that front counter that she's working on right now and
just give her the business like nobody's giving her the business.
Because why because your wife isn't giving you the business.
She's out getting the business from somebody else. You know
what I'm saying. So I do not see what you're
saying at all. If you want this relationship to work,
in my personal opinion, that's something you're gonna have to
deal with. You're gonna have to figure out how to

(01:37:23):
live with the fact that Pedro pounded, you know, Pamela,
I'm just assuming because it goes with the piece. Nonetheless,
you're gonna have to learn how to figure that out
and learn how to deal with it. And if you cannot,
if you dig down deep inside of you and you say, ah,
there's no way. Remember the bus lover, I tried to
make that work for a week and I said, oh week,

(01:37:45):
I said to myself. I was like, I was like, yeah,
we could work through this, because I've always like, you know,
you could work through anything, anything short of child molestation,
you go work through. And I tried it and I said,
you know what, this ain't working and you gotta go
because I cannot deal with this. So if you could
deal with it, fine, fantastic. But if you can't, you
probably won't. You're gonna have to keep a moving. So

(01:38:06):
I say, go ahead, take this opportunity to get the
hell out of here, start over again, build yourself, go
lick your wounds, work for longer ones while you're at it,
and continue life. You don't have to get revenge. I'm

(01:38:29):
a believer in are you making decisions to set yourself
up for success the next day and give you was right.
There are little temptations out there all the time, and
evils constantly lurking, and there are little gateway drugs that
lead you down the path of it. Revenge suddenly leans

(01:38:49):
to a different nefarious thought, and then another nefarious thought,
and these things starts snowballing on top of each other.
You could also just go, I deserve respect. This isn't
what I signed up for. It's over and walk and
be hurt and miss and be sad. All those things

(01:39:11):
are valuable emotions that are a part of that process.
Getting revenge is the gateway. Like you, then you get this,
and then you think this is okay, and then no,
What is your citadel? What is your inner citadel? What
does that look like? Are you being a good character?
Do you have good morals? Are you violating those by
doing any of those things? Did she? You don't have

(01:39:35):
to settle man. You want someone to bring your range
juice every morning, Find the person that brings orch juice
to you every morning. If you want to be in
your marriage where you're not getting cheated on, find someone
who doesn't cheat on you. If you want to give
them another chance, give them another chance. And nothing wrong
with that, but I think toxic behavior breeds more. Toxic
behavior could always emails for advice. Show It came dot

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listener emails. We have been working remote for about four

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and a half years. It's been great. I've gotten to
see my kids to school and picked them up, not
to mention, get stuff done around the house, all because
I'm not commuting. Well, the job is said, we all
we must all return to the office. They have a
new building for us and expect us to be back
starting the first of the year. How do I tell
them I have no plans of coming back. I know

(01:41:15):
this is a thing. A lot of businesses are saying, hey,
we're ending remote work. We're ending hybrid schedules where you
work this many days from home or you can. And
a lot of people have benefited from the hybrid schedule
thing or the remote work. And yeah, some people, taking
two hours around trip off or an hour round trip

(01:41:36):
off of your commute has enabled you to do some
things you wouldn't normally do. Right, get that hour of
days of our lives in that's still on right, or
hour of sleep right right in the morning, because you
don't have to get up and eat, and you can
do all that. We've had that conversation here because previous

(01:41:56):
boss was not a He thought it was stupid and
that you're just way time at home. That may be true,
but you're wasting time here. I see it happen.

Speaker 6 (01:42:05):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:42:07):
So whether you hang around the water cooler and talk
about days of our lives or you watch days of
your lives, I hardly see the difference. And if you
get your stuff the idea of any remote work, if
you get your work done, who cares exactly.

Speaker 6 (01:42:21):
There's been studies that say that productivity has been better.

Speaker 1 (01:42:25):
There's also been productivity, but let's say they're down. It's
a very polarizing conversation. A lot of people of the
old school nature like we must be in person, and
then some people are like, ah, what makes you happy?
But you don't have a boss. So if you're doing
remote work at home, right, you won't have a boss

(01:42:45):
to hold you accountable for what you're doing or not
doing how because he's not there standing over your walking
past your cubicles saying hey, what's going on here? Or
seeing you sit there and serve Facebook or you know,
whatever the case is. Instagram you know, you don't have
anybody there to hold you accountable to do your work.
When you're at work and you're in the building and
you're at your cube or whatever the case is, you know,

(01:43:09):
you're in your office. You know that if the boss
walks by and sees you screwing around, oh, he's going
to get on to you, and you're gonna get in trouble.
And nobody likes to get in trouble. But you don't
have that at home. You don't have that accountability at home.
I mean, you are right that if your boss wants
to micromanage you, Yeah, it is very hard to do remotely.

(01:43:29):
But if you're producing the numbers, if that's the way
you're measured, what's the matter how you got there? All right?
So okay, with that being said, most everybody works eight hours, right,
an eight hour work day with which is kind of
where we're at. Sometimes it's whatever. But when you're working
at home, you can get eight hours worth of work
done in two hours and now I've got six hours

(01:43:51):
left of the day to just do whatever the hell
that I want. So while come, it's not the same
case when you're at work. If you come into work
and you're in the office and you do your eight
hours worth of work and two hours, why don't you
just get up and leave right because you're supposed to
be in the office exactly, is the rule? Exactly? And
in this case, the office is your home, but you're
not seeing it that way because the office isn't your home.

(01:44:12):
The home is a home. So so therefore you do
your two hours worth of work. Well f this RW
I'm gonna go play disco for the rest of the
day because I don't have anybody there to tell them.
Yeah again, if you get your work done, what's the matter?
If you want to micromanage the people, then yeah, you
want to watch their every move. I mean, there's a
lot of bosses that would be like, no, that's not cool, man,

(01:44:34):
I get it, great, fantastic. You got eight hours worth
of work done in two hours. Go find something else
to do work related Yeah. Yeah, And that's just a
boss mentality thing. Yeah again. If your job is to
score one hundred and you score a hundred, what's it matter?

Speaker 6 (01:44:51):
Exactly?

Speaker 1 (01:44:52):
And if they're getting their stuff done to you as
the boss, didn't give them more work, right, I hear
what you're saying. And again, if you want to micromanage employees,
that makes sense. But if your job is to get
it done, and you get it done, what's the matter
and you've to try and put toothpaste back into tube?

(01:45:13):
Not an easy thing. You got a lot of people,
I know, people that relocated because they were in remote work. Yeah,
and they were like, the company said, we have no
plans in the future to change that, And you went, Okay,
that sounds good. I'm moving to Mexico. I'm going to

(01:45:35):
move my office, my remote home to the beach. They
can't eat you back in the office. Yeah. Well yeah,
and what if you're the top performer and that's happening.
Do they go, well, we're not going to tell the
top performer. We're not going to fire them. Who's the

(01:45:55):
top performer? Yeah? I don't know. I'm been a manager
for a long time. Where do I want to be?
Tell them exactly like you just said it, I'm not
coming back. Might end up looking for a new job.
Reasonable answer, I'm not coming back into the office. But
you also have to be prepared for them to say
well bye. Nuclear answer. Go back to the office, half

(01:46:18):
ass everything, take a dump on the boss's desk, give
them everyone the double bird on your way out blah
blah blah blah. One of those feels like sound advice. Right,
I'll let you decide which one is the sound advice listener.
Email from a guy who's been working remote for about
four and a half years. It's been great. Da da
da da. The job has said we must all return

(01:46:41):
to the office. They have a new building for us
and expect us back starting the first of the year.
How do I tell them that I have no plans
of coming back, Lindsey.

Speaker 6 (01:46:48):
I think that's what you do. Listen. For the past
four and a half years, I've gotten used to the
remote lifestyle. It works for me and as long as
I'm performing, this is how I prefer to continue working
for your company. And if you would prefer me to
look for a new job, if that's how it has

(01:47:08):
to be, then I will do that. Because now there
are plenty of remote jobs out there, so be prepared
to have to look for another job. But you will
just have to tell them just like that I'm not
coming get back, and if they have a problem with it,

(01:47:29):
then just be prepared to look for something new.

Speaker 1 (01:47:32):
Gimbi. Yeah, if you don't want to go back to work.
Don't go back to work. Just tell them you ain't
going back to work. It's pretty simple. I think, how
about this text, I own a business, Remote work is
profitable for us. It showed us that happy employees are
productive employees. The only people that didn't like it was
middle management because it showed us their job wasn't as

(01:47:54):
necessarily as previously thought. So now we have less of them.
What would you say you do here? I take the orders,
You take the orders, well, my secretary takes them. Oh,
and then you take them up to the production No,
my secret Well what is it you say you do here? Yeah? Uh?
I would say that you should have a conversation with

(01:48:17):
your boss. Let them know what's up. Let him come
to a conclusion, you know, maybe ease out of it.
Maybe there's another solution. It's not uncommon. Some of these
companies are gonna make these statements, are gonna have to
backtrack some things because what if everybody decides they're donepe Yeah,
it makes it a little harder for them to get
some stuff done. I'm not saying you should do that,

(01:48:38):
but there's some things they have to figure out. It is.
Evolutions are good revolutions not fun. And at least they
gave you months to figure it out. You had all
deceimmer al November. You got time. You don't have to
be like, what do you mean tomorrow? They're letting giving

(01:48:58):
you heads up so you can figure that out. I
don't agree with Lindsay. I don't think there are a
lot of remote jobs out there. I think there are
plenty of jobs out there that you can work remotely
and pay. Okay, but you ain't making the salary you make.
I don't think you can make sixty seventy thousand dollars
working remote. Maybe in certain industries, but I don't think

(01:49:21):
you'd make as much as you think you would because
you're working remote. Ah, that's a doozy. Make pizza dough
from nine to two. Yeah, okay, sure, all right, we
got to take a break. We'll be back.

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I think that movie's still great, It's still well done. Here.
If you woke up tomorrow and it was two thousand
and five, what would you do he woke up tomorrow,
it's two thousand and five, what would you do.

Speaker 6 (01:52:55):
Two thousand and five?

Speaker 1 (01:53:02):
So you go go back to what you were doing
in two thousand and five, the job you had, where
you were at in life, all those things.

Speaker 6 (01:53:10):
I don't even remember where I was in two thousand
and five.

Speaker 1 (01:53:15):
I probably twenty years ago. You were, howled. I'm forty three,
so you've been twenty three.

Speaker 6 (01:53:24):
So I was in Indiana. Oh, I would walk into
the radio station that I was working part time at
and demand a full time position.

Speaker 1 (01:53:39):
Oh demand, Yeah, been here long enough. How do you
think that would have played out? Well?

Speaker 6 (01:53:48):
Actually, the guy that I was working for part time,
his wife actually stole me. She was working at a
different radio station, and she ended up hiring me full time.

Speaker 1 (01:53:58):
Right, But I'm speaking of demanding to get hired full time.
How do you think that would have worked?

Speaker 6 (01:54:03):
He probably would have done it because we ended up
beating his station in ratings after she hired me there.

Speaker 1 (01:54:08):
So you just think they would have had a job opening.

Speaker 6 (01:54:11):
Well, he would have seen that he made a mistake.

Speaker 1 (01:54:15):
Gimbi. I'd have been twenty five and I was DJing
at the clubs at that time, living my best damn line,
well one of them. I probably wouldn't. I wouldn't change anything,
that's for sure. I was quite happy where I was at.
I just got out of a seriously toxic, abusive relationship,

(01:54:38):
was moving into something you know better, and I had
a pretty awesome job. So what would I do in
two thousand and five? That's the question. Question is you
wake up tomorrow and it's two thousand and five, what
do you do? I'd probably be getting up around noontime,
so go find a sandwich somewhere, you know, eat that,

(01:55:01):
and then get ready for depending on what day of
the week it was. If it was a Tuesday like today,
then I wouldn't be doing nothing. I just didn't you
want my day off. I would be just about to
turn thirty, working in radio with my at that time
soon to be first wife, practice wife, and I've probably

(01:55:24):
been like I'm gonna move to New York. I would
have just taken a leap, right, because why not. I
think when I was younger, I was like, Oh, it's
gotta I've got to have this solid job. I've got
to do this. I gotta do it. No, right, No,
if you have the means, do it. Take chances. That's

(01:55:45):
probably what I would. Not that I would change any
part of my life, right, but by as much applestock
as I can. Yeah, No, that that's pretty good too. Uh.
I'll go ahead and get these two things because I
like we answer them a lot. When Corbin is out
for vacation, sick, just can't make it in for whatever reason,
you know, because I better offers. Well, I can't gimbe

(01:56:07):
just run the show. Just something that I've wondered about.
Love the show, not our call, not my call? Am
I missing shows on the iHeartRadio app?

Speaker 6 (01:56:17):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:56:19):
There's some good ones out there. I'm sure you can
find someone. Maybe ask some friends what they listen to. Yeah,
every show you need on the podcast is any podcasting
shows available on the iHeart radio app go back to
two thousand and five. I'd buy every bitcoin I could find.
They were worth about ten cents each of then sure,
start a company making fabric masks and wait for twenty twenty.

(01:56:41):
That'd be a slow fifteen years, bro, I'm showing you
that'd be a slow fifteen years. I don't even know
if you would make it. What's the weirdest thing you
have ever had to apologize for? And or the weirdest
thing someone had had to apologize to you.

Speaker 6 (01:56:58):
For eating over food and the refrigerator. Weirdest thing I've
ever had to apologize for food is food, and that
was as a kid. If my mom had brought home
leftovers from a dinner or something and my dad had
to tell her at one time, like it's just food
and the refrigerator.

Speaker 1 (01:57:20):
I think I think there was, at least with our parents,
there was this like I've got to get leftovers, like
it's a way to save money. Yeah, can be. I
guess apologized for pissing in the clothes hamper galla lit
one night off of some Camo malt ligor yeah, that's

(01:57:41):
great stuff. Eight percent. It was it was high point
at that time, really high because this was only like
three two at that point in time. So yeah, and
got it up and thought I went to the uh
to the restroom and come to find out the restroom
was just actually the closet were you know, the dirty
clothes were at. Probably had to apologize for talking about

(01:58:02):
my experience when my grandfather died. That might be the
weirdest thing that I had to apologize, because I've said
some things I probably should apologize for, But that's stuff
for me. The weirdest Why does lindsay the only wish
female porn stars a happy birthday? What about the dudes?

Speaker 6 (01:58:17):
They're never listed?

Speaker 1 (01:58:20):
Also, I don't want to hear about dudes. There you go,
that's the main reason we don't want to hear about
at least Gimbi and I don't want to hear about dudes.
Oh no, I don't know if you do, Corbyn, But
I go to Google. I almost see what this broad
looks like as soon as she mentions the name. If
she mentions Jack Steele, I'm not going to google that.

Speaker 6 (01:58:37):
That is true. The females are always hotter.

Speaker 1 (01:58:41):
Would you rather get a pair of bikini brief underwear
tattooed on yourself in the underwear location or get a
tramp stamp of a tramp from Disney's Lady in the
Tramp in a sexy position. All right, would you rather
get a pair of bikini brief underwear tattooed on yourself
the underwear location or get a tramp stamp of tramp

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from Disney's Lady in the Tramp in a sexy position.
Tramp would be the dude.

Speaker 6 (01:59:12):
Yeah, I think I'll just get underwear tattooed on my
long tattoo.

Speaker 1 (01:59:20):
Yeah, you're getting into some pretty sensitive spots. Yeah.

Speaker 6 (01:59:25):
Yeah, But I don't need a tramp stamp. I don't
really find this anybody.

Speaker 1 (01:59:32):
Yeah, I don't know anybody's like, you know what I'm missing?
Give me, I'll get a tramp stamp of Tramp from
Lady in the Tramp in a trampy position. I think
that's funny. I think that's hilarious. As opposed to tattooed underwear.
You're not covering anything up. It is just whatever color

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if you want to go all black or red or whatever,
maybe even polka dots. It's not covering anything up, so
at least I could show that tattoo off. I'm one
getting a tramp stamp. I don't care. I can't see it.
It's everyone else's problem. Right, you're pending over to fix

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the sink and tramsle ahead just pops up. I am
not enduring the amount of time and the healing process
real of a tattoo of underwear. Yeah, because that's not
just like the outer regions. You're going to have to
tattoo your genitals, color it in, You're gonna have to

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get your taint. Yeah. Yeah, I'm out, No way I
would take that on. Does Gimpi and Lindsay ever get
sick of Corbyn's attitude? I mean they can answer, but god,
I hope so, I hope so yeah, Gimby Cord answer.
I mean we all have difference of opinions. It's okay,

(02:00:54):
when's your question for me? If I ever get sick
of their attitudes? We don't have it. You're her, No,
you're careful. Don't knock your halo off. If you could
take over any building as your fortress, what would it be?
Any building in the entire world is your fortress?

Speaker 6 (02:01:17):
Hmmm, uh, I got it.

Speaker 5 (02:01:23):
I'll go.

Speaker 1 (02:01:23):
I'll go since I'm ready. Statue of liberty, Okay, why
because it's cool? I don't. I don't want to have
something and at the end of the day, people leave
and then it's all mine. Yeah, something like uh, I
don't know, the White House or Apple Headquarters or something

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like that. You're constantly dealing with stuff.

Speaker 6 (02:01:48):
Yeah, what is the the tallest building in the world,
like in Dubai. Yeah, yeah, because I bet it's like
really glamorous too, because it's in Dubai.

Speaker 1 (02:02:04):
Okay, gimbi. It's a tough call, man. I am going
to go with the Swiss Fort Knox, all right, Fort
Knox in Switzerland. Yeah. Yeah. Basically, I mean because you
got the Fort Knox in Kentucky and you got the
Swiss Fort Knox, which is protected by the Alps. Right,

(02:02:26):
It's it's one of the most secure buildings in the world.
And if you're having a fortress, I feel security is
a must. Okay. I like the idea of living in
the you know, having the Statue of Liberty as your fortress,
but one good jet liner and you're done. So I

(02:02:49):
think the Swiss Fort Knox would probably be the best.
People are texting in Fort Knox. Uh. My understanding is
Fort Knox doesn't have any money in it, that they
moved it a long time ago, right, But I'm not
in it for the Mommy, I'm in it for the security.
That's why I chose the Swiss Fort Knox. No, well,
and like even saying Fort Knox doesn't feel like that

(02:03:10):
would be a very efficient place. I don't know if
they have a toilet place for my car pool, right,
I don't feel like there'd be any accouterments that I
would need. Uh. Would any of you dose your mom
with a fifty milligram edible on her birthday? She wouldn't

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know until it kicked in, lindsay, would I give her
a what fifty milligram edible on her birthday? Hmmm?

Speaker 6 (02:03:47):
No, probably not, Probably not that big of a dose.
I don't know that my mom, I don't think. I
don't know if my mom has ever in her life
had any form of of marijuana in her life. You
should ask her, hasn't She claims that she hasn't.

Speaker 1 (02:04:06):
Oh, come on now, she seventies. I know, I know, but.

Speaker 6 (02:04:11):
I just maybe ten milligram or something like that. I
think she would love it, But no, I don't think
I could. She would never forgive me.

Speaker 1 (02:04:25):
Gimme. I want to say no because I really don't
feel like digging a hole and then opening a vault.
And ask it exactly, and then I gotta pry that
mouth though, and it's already been you know, sewn shut
or whatever, you know whatever flex sealed shut. So and
then that's just a waste of avaedible. I could eat
it myself. No, absolutely, absolutely, even though she, Lindsay feels shocked,

(02:04:52):
you would Why why are you shocked? Just seems like mean,
why it's not acid? No, it's not cocaine, it's not heroin,
it's not meth, it's not ever clear, seems like a lot.
It is a lot. She'd have a great nap, right,
she would feel so good. I'd even buy popcorn and

(02:05:16):
stuff for her. I think like giving that is a lot. Yes,
which she experienced some probably people mistaking her for down
syndrome when she was awake, maybe yeah, But she would
also be she'd be fine. It's the least obtrusive thing
in terms of like you could taint her with and

(02:05:39):
she would probably have an epiphany about some things, which
would be awesome for her. Texas, I dosed my mom
once and she came to in the middle of the
night doing the wave like this or like this, like
sports wave. That's pretty amazing. Yeah, I don't think I've done,

(02:06:00):
but I've gotten pretty close. And I woke up and
I was terrified of what was happening in life. By
the way, nothing, I was just napping and it took
me forever to get off the couch. Uh, Corbin. After
five years of trying, the wife and I are looking
at IVF. Any advice if you're the dude, do everything

(02:06:24):
she asked, be a supportive as possible. She's turning into
a Petri dish. And it's a crazy ride. It's crazy, man,
It's crazy that they can make somebody get pregnant. Yeah,
it's a wild experience. I remember being in the room
because he had to do this orientation and it was

(02:06:46):
in this hotel and there had to have been thirty
people in the room, everybody there for IVF orientation and
they did it once a month, the orientation that many
people need assistance. I was shocked how many people were
there and they do it every month, and there was
like a comfort in that knowing that there were other

(02:07:07):
people also going through it and the success rate that
they have. It took us three rounds if I remember correctly. Uh. Yeah, yeah,
it's crazy, man.

Speaker 6 (02:07:19):
It's stressful when you say, three rounds. Is that like
three like shots or like is it do you have
to do like at home shots?

Speaker 1 (02:07:29):
Well, there's different types and there three rounds are three
different types of IVF okay, and do you do shots?
I don't do any right, right right? I remember doing
a broadcast at the Center of the Universe and we
had to take she had to go with us, and

(02:07:49):
I had to take a cooler with the shots, and
then we had to go to the car and do
the shot at a certain time. Yea, it was crazy.
Hold on, I'll be right back. I might not be
back for the break, but because this is more important. Yeah,
it's a ridiculous amount of shots. I still have the
sharps container with a bunch of the shots because that stuff,

(02:08:12):
believe it or not, is really hard to get rid of.
You really can't just take them to Walgreens or whatever
and drop them off. I could not care and just
throw it in the trash, for sure. But that thing
we talked about earlier, my feelings kick in right. No,
you cannot take it there. Yeah, I didn't know that. No,
you have to pay to have it. They pay to

(02:08:33):
have it.

Speaker 6 (02:08:33):
Now.

Speaker 1 (02:08:33):
I've tried to take it to the place, and they're like,
there's a charge. By the way, we haven't been a
patient ten years, right, eleven years, and you could there's
a service you can buy that. Some people say you
can just tape it up really good and write needles
on it and then throw it and then it feels
wild to me. It's a beery in your backyard.

Speaker 2 (02:08:52):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (02:08:55):
I know you guys are saying IBF, but I keep
hearing ibs in my head. Okay. Also crazy experience, Yeah,
gotta be careful, enjoy the ride. Crazy. How many people
have it? Uh huh No, hotel or orientation don't have
to pay for it, not at least not to get
it right. My dad just got his medical card and

(02:09:17):
he's gonna sleep better. I'm just gonna let him figure
it out on his own. This the eighties, my dude.
Oh god, Yeah, you can't just let pops figure it
out on his own. Well, hold on, what's he doing, right?
If he's smoking flower, he'll be fine. Yeah, that's fine,
that's fine, that's not a problem. If he's doing concentrates, oh,
dear lord, oritables. Listen, it's it's fifty milligrams. That's not

(02:09:42):
that much. Isn't that much of anything until you're holding
onto the earth. They will not tell you, by the way, no,
because they don't know everybody's expertise. They they should you
should have a different colored card for your years of experience.
I'm not hating that, so they know when you give
the card, they're like, okay, hey, listen, you gotta cut

(02:10:02):
these caramels in half. Otherwise you will see doc brown. Yeah,
and the Libyans will be trying to get the the
uranium back or whatever, right, every different Yeah, that's not
nice of you to do that to your brother. What's

(02:10:23):
the most expensive liquor each of you has tried and
was worth it? That's fun most expensive liquor you have
ever tried. I'll go first because it's easy for me.
I don't purchase expensive liquor. A leader of Hendrick's gin
might be the most expensive, and that's seventy dollars a bottle,
maybe a bottle of lick of like wine or champagne.

(02:10:45):
My brother turned fifty. I bought him a very rare
bottle of champagne from the year he was born for
him to open and drink on his birthday. Did you
drink with them? No, it was in another town, so
that that might be. And I think it was three
hundred dollars maybe, so maybe something like that.

Speaker 6 (02:11:03):
Yeah, I have had a I think it was one
hundred and fifty dollars bottle of daquila. That was pretty
damn taste.

Speaker 1 (02:11:12):
You bought it. I did not buy it, So okay.
So the question is what's the most expensive liquor each
of you has tried? And it was worth it?

Speaker 6 (02:11:19):
Okay, okay, And that was definitely worth it. One that
was not worth it. Bottle of chrystal.

Speaker 1 (02:11:27):
Not good. Yeah, I was going with what I had bought.
But do you tried it as different? You didn't make it,
make it with the Alisa and do the old thug passion. Yeah, tried.
I've tried many expensive wines opus one like twelve hundred
dollars bottles of wine. It wasn't worth it. It's good
to me. It doesn't sound like it was worth twelve

(02:11:48):
hundred dollars then. I mean, I think when you are
buying something you have a different feeling about at you're
very more critical and like okay, yeah, and you're already
on the side of wanting to enjoy it, right right,
I mean cytacom music type of thing. Right, but you've
tried it, you knew the cost behind it. You may
not have paid for it, yeah right, but you knew
the cost behind it, So I would think that I'd

(02:12:10):
be like, yeah, it was totally worth the twelve hundred
dollars as somebody else is spent, you know whatever. But
you're like it's good. So to me that just like
it's not worth it. I just am not a believer
in spirits or alcohol or beer or anything is worth
paying high price point for none of it. There's a
better one that's cheaper right right, that you can that
is just as good. In the in the spirit liquor

(02:12:31):
world right now, I've never had like even in like bourbons,
the Pappy van Winkl or whatever is highly sought. It
is overrated. It ain't worth it. A lot of high
end spirits are mass produced now, they're not made with
the care. It's not as rare. Yeah, so it isn't
as special. You're just paying for there's what it takes
and the brand tax, and you're paying a brand tax.

(02:12:52):
At that point, what was your skimpy Johnny blue? Johnny Blue?
You know I've had that before I've tried it. I
haven't purchased it myself because it's butt love and expensive,
but I believe it is worth it. I mean, it's
twenty five dollars for a single at some restaurants, you know,
twenty five dollars, well, restaurant prices a whole nother you know,
ball of wax, right right, But either way, you know
you're going a double Tito's and Tonic is, you know,

(02:13:14):
seventeen dollars and you've almost bought a whole leader at
that point, right right. But even though at the liquor store,
I see it up there for it's you know two only,
like two fifty three hundred something like that, and I'm
just like, I can't. I like it. It's fantastic. I
just can't come off that kind of coin, you know,
all at once for one bottle. Then I'm going to
drink in the same amount of time as i would

(02:13:38):
a bottle of gym, you know what I mean. I
don't want to spend three hundred dollars and watch it
be gone in like three days.

Speaker 6 (02:13:45):
Yeah, that's depressing.

Speaker 1 (02:13:48):
Hurts, hurts. What's it about? Let's rephrase the question. And
I know I feel like I know, what's the most
you've ever played paid for wheat? This has to go
back to like way back in the day when before
it was legal medically and you got dispensaries on every corner. Right,

(02:14:09):
this is back in the day when when when Mexican
ditch weed that square brick compact stuff you know, was
just regular and then you would pay extra for the kbs.
And I paid seventy dollars for a quarter rounds one time.
I know it was worth it. It was worth it.
And did I slow down any really? Yeah? All right,

(02:14:36):
we got to take a break. We'll be back.

Speaker 2 (02:14:38):
Rush of the Big Mad Morning Show is next ninety
seventy five KMOD, Good morning, It's the Big Mad Morning Show.

Speaker 1 (02:14:57):
Six km OD can also text bmmss and then which
you want to say to eight two nine four five.
A couple of things here. Somebody sent an email with
a link for me to look at that I was
going to share with you. I'll do it, and that
it is a felony in the state of Oklahoma, a

(02:15:18):
law on the books where imprisonment in a state penitentiary
not exceeding five years or a fine not exceeding five
hundred dollars or both if you are found guilty of adultery.
Now last, it hasn't been tried in like twenty years,
and there you would have to seriously question a prosecutor

(02:15:41):
or district attorney's plans to pursue this charge when it's
not a non violent two consenting adults or deciding to
have sex with each other. I think it's so out
of bounds. It's a It's as equal to not making
ugly faces as dogs, you know what I'm saying, Like,
it's a stupid no. Swearing is a stupid law. Yeah.

(02:16:02):
Jeff has said before that he's only had to do
it one other time, and that was because, you know,
as a religious person and his old lady really wanted
to embarrass him. Yeah, and bring you know, send the
point home. That's grounds for divorce. This is you could
go to jail right for it? Yeah? And so yeah
is it on the books? Sure? So stepping on a

(02:16:24):
crack right, carrying ice cream in your back pocket on it? Yeah? Yeah,
it doesn't mean that they're going to be pursued as
a crime. I think that that is. You say it
was a felony though it's a felony. Yeah, in the
state of Oklahoma. Wow. Yeah, and that there were people
that were like, yeah, we should do this, we should
make this happen, And they've admituted it a couple of times,

(02:16:44):
as recently as nineteen ninety nine. But and it would
be it would be political suicide to try and take
it off the books, right, that's traditionalists. Well, not only that,
it looks like you're for adult tree right right, So
they're just like leaving it and the prosecutors go, oh,
we're just not going to touch it. We're too busy
with rape. I found this and this is terrifying, and

(02:17:14):
I don't know if you guys will feel the same
way when I share it with you. And I saw
it the other day. And this is becoming a fad
we all know. Like lemon water, rightum, cucumber water. Yeah,
some people say there's benefits to that. Some people say
there's just by putting a slice of water a lemon
in your water does not make the water more healthy, flavorful, flavorful. Well,

(02:17:40):
there's a new type of water infusion craze called Okra
water gross.

Speaker 6 (02:17:47):
Hard Pass.

Speaker 1 (02:17:49):
It's made from soaking Okra pods in water and the
TikTok doctors are showing it off. They're saying it some
of the benefits are reducing appetite, Yeah, because it tisic's
not improving cholesterol levels, regulating blood glucose and even supporting

(02:18:11):
liver health. According to these tiktokts, you take sliced okra pods,
put it in clean water overnight, then strain, and then
you drink. You can also make the argument that you're
drinking water, right, and it's helping out with some sink

(02:18:33):
some things. But does water have the same antioxidants in
it that okra and lemon cucum or vegetables, fruits, vegetables.
Does You'd have to prove that the antioxidants are transferring
from right the okra into the water. It's about as
beneficial as a cleanse. Yeah, there are so many I

(02:18:57):
went through a rabbit hole this morning of non of
scam type of health trends that are out there, because
there's so many and people just believe them and so
much in fact that when I say them, you're gonna
go no, that's that's a real one. How dare you, Corbyn?

(02:19:22):
Like detox diets are not beneficial at all? Right, Right,
the idea that you need to drink cabbage soup to
get toxins out of your body is a little wild. Uh,
weight loss wardrobe like those soup. Those shoes where that

(02:19:42):
if you walk a certain they're like, oh, if you
walk a certain way, you can also just be walking
more because you bought new shoes, right right, all natural foods.
Coconut water is another big health fad that isn't a
real thing. I've never had it, but I know people
who have and says it tastes like, yes, that's Fair's

(02:20:05):
fair statement. I think that's fair. The pineapple infused coconut
water isn't bad, but you can get electrolytes and potassium
in many other ways. You don't have to get it
from now. If you're you happen to be running a
marathon and you find yourself on a desert island, uh,
and and one has fallen from a tree, Yeah, yeah,
it's better choice than saltwater, right yeah. Yeah, But if

(02:20:27):
you are walking amongst society and you're standing in front
of the cooler at quick trip, I don't think it's
your best choice. And I'm not a dietitian. I'm not
a nutritionist. I'm just the people I pay attention to
say that there's other ways to get those nutrients than
coconut water a lah like okra water. There's other ways
to get those benefits. You don't need to go through

(02:20:49):
the process of soaking okra and water overnight growth. Why
not just do broccoli? Right? Are lima beans better yet?
Blend the lima beans? Yeah? I mean lima beans are gross.
Uh huh, you're right, Lima beans aren't bad. They're not

(02:21:13):
my favorite lentil.

Speaker 2 (02:21:15):
You know how.

Speaker 1 (02:21:15):
I know you're getting older. You say more and more
crazier things, right instead of getting off my lawn. It's
lima beans. No, you say that too. Butter beans are
really good too. Not made with real butter though. Nope,
mince meat pot doesn't that meat in it? Right? It
did long ago? But not anymore? Grant is he in

(02:21:36):
his tomb? I don't know, right every not again? You
know this doesn't happen you guys. You'd be walking down
the vegetable aisle or you know, the canned or frozen
vegetable aisle, and you're like, I haven't had lima beans
in a long time. I haven't. I never choice butter
beans in a long time. You can just put any
bean in that serence. I've never been like, I haven't

(02:21:59):
had black beans in a while. I may cook Mexican
food and go, you know what would taste good with this? Right?
And maybe not even that. I just don't crave beans.
Beans are probably the lowest on the on the chain
there when it comes to good foods. You're probably right.
If I'm making chili, I'm one of I'm on the
chili has beans and it stands absolutely so I will

(02:22:23):
buy beans for it. But I'm not like I can't
wait to have some Garbondso that's not a thing for me.

Speaker 6 (02:22:32):
I'm not like big beans on a barbecue during Yeah.

Speaker 1 (02:22:36):
Yeah, but you like barbecue, that's not I like baked beans.
Baked beans. It's like dream bean castrole. You don't just go, man,
I could just sit down and need a pan of
green bean castle.

Speaker 6 (02:22:48):
I could.

Speaker 1 (02:22:48):
I just made some actually this week for regular dinner.
Amazing nothing else, just that, no, no, no, I made.
It was chicken cordon blue with green bean cast roll
and some mashed potatoes to go with it. That's my point.
But I was like, who says I have to wait
till Thanksgiving to have green bean castle. I'm making some
now and I'm did and it was good. Yeah, spite

(02:23:09):
is an incredible motivator for you. He's gonna eat home. Yes, No,
they don't even put that in the nursing home, lindsay,
because it requires chewing gum up food. Yeah it's okay, yeah,
okra water So it works as good, about as good

(02:23:29):
as the carnivore diet, right, the hot dog diet. Yeah,
just eat nothing about hot dogs. You're good. You lose
so much weight, right, all every diet fad not work.
Fasting doesn't work. What works is you're having You're reducing
the amount of time of caloric intake. That's all you're doing.
It's not the fasting. It's the window you've opened for

(02:23:50):
you to eat and stuff your face. But the any
of those type of diets are complete fats. Eat less calories,
that's it, eat less, move more. You don't even have
to move more, just eat less calories. It has been
proven that you do not have to move more. You
just you can sit on your ass, not do a
thing and just eat less calories per day. Then you're

(02:24:13):
required for your size and you will lose weight. Boom.
Very simple or cocaine. I mean saying, yeah, no, there
are definitely more than one way to skin a cat.
As we went and talked about earlier. You have a choice.
We'll take a break and we'll be back.

Speaker 2 (02:24:31):
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they have officially banned us from it. They took that
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are the big theory, big big problems in the world. Man.
I was like trying to investigate it, and then I
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I have no I don't Can you even go bank
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you know, yeah, the folks of Facebook can because they
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(02:26:03):
I don't even go back that far. Lindsay, what'd you
learn today?

Speaker 6 (02:26:08):
I learned that drinking water drinking ochre in your water
is a new thing. I remember when we did. All
we did with Okra was accidentally eat it. And I
also learned that once a cheater, always a cheater isn't
really a thing. Some people are just committed to disappointing
their loved ones.

Speaker 1 (02:26:28):
Get me what you learn today. I learned that taking
your wife's hall pass could lead you to killing cats
and skinning homeless people. It's gateway. Also learn don't absolutely
do not look up male porn stars birthdays unless you're
into that sort of thing, because you're going to get
an eye full of more than what you really want

(02:26:48):
to see. I learned, Yeah, I'm the owner. I'm just
gonna take this register full of cash. It's fine. And
I also learned the whore is against the wall. The
whore is against the wall. We're all just lying and wait,
waiting to become sexually active when our spouse gives us
a chance. It's just waiting to fester inside of us. Right,

(02:27:10):
Corbin saying, make sure that dishwasher dishwashers loaded.

Speaker 6 (02:27:13):
Right, stop cracking my cycle.

Speaker 1 (02:27:16):
This is gimpy and I'm sorry, Baddy. Can I get
a call? Yeah? What the hell?

Speaker 6 (02:27:34):
It should be?

Speaker 1 (02:27:35):
No top makes a noise.

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I don't know if there's any legality to this, So
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We can stop it if we need to. It's like
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Speaker 8 (02:28:52):
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You don't owe the collection agency one dime. Before you
got a letter of notice in the mail, you had
no idea who LNVN Funding was or Jefferson Collection Agency.
You had no idea who they were. You never bought
anything from them, you never entered into any agreement with them.

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You don't owe them any money whatsoever. What they did
is they bought your debt from the original creditor. That
creditor has then written off your account as a collection
they call it a charge off. The collection agency purchases
the debt, then they're going to come after you for it.
They bought it for pennies on a dollar that they're
coming after you for the full amount, plus fees and

(02:29:37):
interest in everything else. But the bottom line is, you
don't owe the collection agency at dime.

Speaker 1 (02:29:47):
I think, I mean, he's right, you don't owe the
collection agency. You owe the company that sold your account
to the collection agency. But it's the collection agency owns
that account now, so I guess technically you do owe
them because they got to recoup their money somehow. I
really don't know. I don't know enough about that, how

(02:30:07):
that works or whatever. Honestly, I was always under impression,
like what you exactly what you said is that this
company bought your credit or your debt, and now I
owe you that debt.

Speaker 6 (02:30:19):
I didn't know that a collection agency is buying the
oh yeah, money. I thought it was like usually I
always thought that, like when it comes to a collection agency,
it's usually through like a medical bill or something. And
the way that people are getting around that is well,
I don't know. Because of HIPPAA rules.

Speaker 1 (02:30:37):
Right, they can't prove you any billion their documentation exactly.
So he goes into it. More so, listen to this more.

Speaker 8 (02:30:43):
You never signed up with them, you never signed anything
with them, you never purchased anything with them. You don't
know them from adam. If you're gonna do that, send
me the money instead. It's foolish.

Speaker 1 (02:30:55):
Just don't do it.

Speaker 6 (02:30:55):
What if they try to take you to court.

Speaker 8 (02:30:57):
If they try to take you to court, let them
try to take your court. This is a litigious world.
Everybody's trying to sue everybody for everything. Becomes a frivolous
lawsuit because all you have to do is prove that
you don't owe the collection agency anything.

Speaker 1 (02:31:13):
You've never done.

Speaker 8 (02:31:14):
Business with them, you've never signed anything with them, you
never bought anything from them, you never borrowed anything from them.
And the collection agency has to prove it. They have
to prove that they bought your debt and that you
agreed that debt was yours to begin with. If they're
unable to do that, they can't come after you for anything.
Now if a judge, if they're somewhere how successful in

(02:31:37):
getting you to have to go to court. There's a
mediation that has to take place first. Then they have
to prove all kinds of other things, like that they
purchased the debt, that it was within a statue of limitations.
There's a myriad of things they have to prove. It's
almost impossible for them to do it. Don't let them
bully you, don't let them threaten you if you have

(02:31:58):
any questions about any of the Yeah, he sounds.

Speaker 1 (02:32:01):
Of course, of course, what do you think I think
that this guy is just teaching people to not pay
your debts, which I don't think is right. You know,
you did something, you were expected to pay for it,
and you're not, so pay your bills.

Speaker 6 (02:32:18):
Lindsay, yeah, I mean I get that. However, also, like
like the whole medical thing, if it is a medical debt,
they can just write it off. They're getting they get money.

Speaker 1 (02:32:31):
But that doesn't get around with Gimpi's saying though, no, no,
you took a service.

Speaker 6 (02:32:37):
Right.

Speaker 1 (02:32:38):
Any company can write off the debts, right they any
company in corporation, they have a certain amount that they
you know, Okay, well, we let's just say fifteen thousand dollars, right, Well,
you know you got fifteen people that are one thousand dollars.
You know they write that any company could do that.

(02:32:59):
Well in the to me, the argument of medical rite
off is equal to home depot having shrinkage like as
a license to steal from them. Yeah, we're just having
a conversation, right, I'm just saying that, Like, I agree
with you, they do have medical rite off, but I
think that's using that as a reason not to pay

(02:33:21):
is equal to going to home depot and stealing things
because they have shrinkage, they allow for things to be
stolen in their line items. To me, with medical debt,
you have an always negotiate with them. Yeah, you can
that they will work it out with you.

Speaker 6 (02:33:37):
Yeah, or they give you a you get on a
pay plan or whatever.

Speaker 1 (02:33:42):
Right. Yeah, and this guy actually goes on for a
couple more things.

Speaker 8 (02:33:47):
Hi, everybody. First of all, I'd like to thank everybody
for the overwhelming response I got on the last video
of regarding paying or not in this case, not paying
a collection agency under any circumstance. What I'd like to
address today is I try to answer as many questions
as I possibly could regarding this very subject in the

(02:34:07):
last video, however, as unable to get to everybody. So
I'm going to answer as many questions as I possibly
began in this one, and I hope this really clears
us up. Under no circumstance should you ever pay a
negative account that has been turned into collections And I'm
going to tell you why.

Speaker 1 (02:34:23):
It's very simple.

Speaker 8 (02:34:24):
Once you're creditor, whether that's Discover Capital, jan American Express,
what have you, sells that debt to a collection agency,
they are no longer entitled to collect any money from
you whatsoever. The collection agency now has the responsibility of
attempting to collect that debt from you. That doesn't mean

(02:34:47):
that they're going to be successful, and if you're smart
about it, it means that they won't be successful and.

Speaker 1 (02:34:52):
You'll come out a winner. One of the ways that
we do this is that we challenge the best insult
ever you'll be a winner, Like why not channel some
of that inner child bullshit that your dad didn't love
you type of thing and be like, you're just a loser.

Speaker 8 (02:35:10):
Collections agency is directly we make them provide to us
a written verification along with proof including statue of limitation
and any other kind of verification, including the original contract
that was.

Speaker 1 (02:35:28):
Signed by you. Yeah that I've heard that before. That
if you're ever questioning a debt or whatever, you just say,
show me the paperwork. And nine times out of ten
when they buy debt, they don't buy the paperwork, right,
and so they can't. They just don't have it. But
you still have to pay. I mean, you are not
according to them, and not according to this guy. I
don't know about that guy. I just buntship your credit

(02:35:51):
not paying it. Yeah, it goes to collections. You know,
it messes up your credit. Yeah, that takes forever to rebuild,
you know what I mean. So I just I just
don't think it's a good idea for this guy to
be out telling people to go ahead, reck up all
the debt you want, you don't have to pay it,
because essentially that's what he's saying. In a nutshell, that's
what he's saying. Yeah, you don't have to let it

(02:36:12):
go to collections. You don't know how the collections agency anything.
You're right, I didn't. I didn't do business with them.
But the company that I did do business with is
so I'm still on the hook for you know what
X amount of dollars just a quick search here. Collection
agencies can report a debt to a credit reporting company
if they follow certain rules contacting you, provide validation notices,

(02:36:36):
follow credit and reporting laws which a lot of them don't,
and avoid false information. Yeah. So, but when they're calling
you and calling you and calling you and calling you,
that's an attempt to, you know, contact you and get
you to pay your debt. They do send letters in
the mail, you know, so, so they've got most of
those boxes checked to where they can. Yeah, but like

(02:37:00):
sending you making sure the information they send you is accurate.
And if you correspond with them going hey, can you
provide me with documentation and they can't that, then that
debt becomes nagative not there, right, I think that's what
they're saying. I agree. It feels a little snake medicine
to be like snake oil medicine, to be like, here's

(02:37:20):
how you don't you get out of paying for a
service you took. You took right, which is not right
at all? Man. I mean, you fucking did something, you
should pay for it. Yeah, you know, I get it.
It's hard. I've lived my whole life in debt, you know,
but it is what it is. Dealing with it. Yeah,
I am not a believer of not paying your debt.

(02:37:40):
You you asked an individual for service and it is
the right thing to do that. I don't think you
get judged at the at the PG on whether you
paid your debt or not. But character plays a part,
I think, and your character of paying people for services
you that is, and being honest, that is a virtue thing.

(02:38:03):
I think that JC would probably look at. Again, I
don't know nobody's consulted me on that, but I would
think that that's what you should do if you're trying
to get services from somebody else and they pull your
report right and see that you've racked up all this day,
you know, and it's gone to collection services, and then
it's gonna hinder your chances of getting that service down

(02:38:23):
because are you gonna go and help somebody out who's
fucked everybody else over? I wouldn't people do though, Yeah,
I mean there are plenty of business people who carry
debt don't pay. Banks are the worst people to get
payment from, right They are notorious for being ninety to
one hundred and twenty days after the ninety one hundred

(02:38:44):
and twenty days, Oh yeah, because they know, what are
you gonna do? There's not much you can do. Even
if you go to court, you're still like they'll hold
on the money, like all the way to the end.
So as I get older, I think about, like you're
told to have like this pristine credit right right, which
I think the whole credit industry is a scam anyway,

(02:39:07):
but because you need it to function on certain levels.
But you also don't, right, You also don't, as you said,
you're you've dealt with that your left you're functioning absolutely,
you have cars, absolutely, you go on road trips like
I make it happen, right, I don't know. I would
argue to have good credit just puts you deeper into debt.

(02:39:30):
One would say that, I mean it helps you get
some shit too. I get it, because like there's certain
things you can't get with the five fifty credit score
that you could with a six fifty credit score, right,
or you know with seven hundred credit score.

Speaker 6 (02:39:43):
It sucks because it should be like they should based
stuff off of your payment history instead of your credit.

Speaker 1 (02:39:50):
History, which is your credit history is based off payment history.

Speaker 6 (02:39:53):
Right, right, But like, interest rates are super high right now,
and it should well, and you can get a better
interest rate if your credit score is really good. It
shouldn't be like that because I have other debts or whatever.
Not me, royal, me, whatever, But you know it should
it shouldn't reward Someone shouldn't be rewarded because of their

(02:40:13):
high credit score. It should be they should get rewarded
because oh, you are still making all these payments like
people that rent, Like, I'm sorry, you can afford a
fifteen hundred dollars rent every month, but we're not going
to approve you to buy a house.

Speaker 1 (02:40:28):
Yeah, I think, sit right right and have.

Speaker 6 (02:40:31):
An eight hundred dollars mortgage payment like that doesn't make
sense to me, does not make sense.

Speaker 1 (02:40:38):
I mean as far as interest rates go, I don't
know if that's I think interestates is always ebbed and flowed. Yeah,
So to say, well they're high right now, I mean, yes,
but you you can still The point of the argument
I'm trying to make is that you, even under duress,
as Gimpeias pointed out, still has bought things he needed

(02:41:00):
for sure, the refrigerators, food cars, truck you found a
way as well. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, and a
lot of that. It took me a long time. I'm
I'll be honest about it. I've had a file bankruptcy before.
You know. I don't think there's anything shameful, No, there is.
It is a surface, a service there for you to utilize.
And that allowed me for all the you know, mistakes

(02:41:23):
that I made as a younger, gimpie allowed me to
start over again, you know. And uh and and it's
getting better and and I I found that if life's better,
if shit's paid off, I just found life is better.
Your stuff's paid for. Yeah, yeah, my bikes are paid for.
My car is paid for. Now that'll probably change because

(02:41:43):
I do need a better car, you know, really, yeah,
I might need to get a different car work. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
I'm thinking that. It's good. That's gonna be one of
my goals for next year. It's just a matter of
I don't know what I'm going to do, whether I
want something new or if I want something older, like
a classic car or something. Because I've been looking at
you know, like old fucking Cadillacs, you know, like a

(02:42:05):
seventy seven Coop Deville fucking land yacht motherfucker. Yeah, I
I you know, you need what you have. You need
a car that you don't drive it enough exactly, you know.
And those cars like that, they're easy to work on, right,
you know, affordable to work on. It's not like if
I got a brand new fucking Mercedes or whatever, you know,

(02:42:27):
something breaks down on I gotta take it to the
shop because you know, computer, whatever the case is, and
it's gonna cost me way more than what it would
if I got something older, you know what I mean.
I don't know, dude, I don't know if those parts
exist at the same time. Oh yeah they do. Oh yeah,
they're out there. Oh they're they're they're out there. eBay's
an amazing thing. Also, junk yards too, you know, going

(02:42:48):
down to the dealership, you go to fucking auto Zone
or whatever. You can get about anything that you need.
You may have to wait for a little bit, you know,
for them to order one. But the fact of it is,
and then it's like, all right, well, do I want
to go that route or do I want who just
gets something newer that I wouldn't have to worry about
those problems. So it's something I'm trying to figure out.
This car. We're just using you as any sampit. But

(02:43:09):
like this car you have, you paid barely anything for absolutely,
got a hell of a deal. Yeah, great deal on
It's served its purpose absolutely and that's she ain't sexy,
but she fucks yeah, you're absolutely right. She fucking has
a limp, you know, and a fucking lazy eye. Yeah,
you know, and for what she overheads, but for what

(02:43:29):
you use it for exactly. Yeah, it's perfect, sure, sure
it is. It ain't sexy, it isn't. You're not gonna
show off in it, No, no, it's not. It'll get
me to working back, that's fine. Yeah, I know. But
let's say I want to take milady out and I
don't want to drive her car, right, you know, I
know you guys don't take that car. We don't take

(02:43:51):
mine anywhere. No, no, no, because fucking the the the
window doesn't want to go, doesn't want to stay up
without tape. The heater only blows, and air conditioner only
blows when if I wants to, you know what I mean.
So that makes sense. Yeah, there's a number of things there.
So that's why I'm like, all right, I just get
something newer. They ain't gonna worry about all those or
maybe something older than I can fix myself. But as

(02:44:13):
I've proven with this car, I'm fucking lazy, and don't
I'm tired of working on motherfucking cars. Man. I never
my car has one hundred and ten thousand. My car
has eighty five thousand, and we're talking about, like what
does that look like? And I'm of the attitude of,
I mean, short of like a really major thing. Let's

(02:44:34):
just say the transmission falls out on one of those cars,
We're gonna take it on, right, because that car, it's
still less than what a monthly payment would be. I'm like,
I know what kind of car. We're not gonna get
a beater, right, We're gonna get a car where a
car payment's going to be six hundred, eight hundred dollars
a month. Yeah, And I'm like, well, why that could

(02:44:57):
three or less than a year of those payments pay
for a new transmission? Oh? Absolutely, yeah, and we'd still
not have a car payment. I just don't understand how
it makes sense to spend that money, yeah, on two
cars that look cosmetically fine. Maybe they don't have the best,
you know, widgets, but overall they're fine cars. Yeah, it's
kind of it's a it's a tough decision for me

(02:45:19):
to make right now, how I want to go because likewise,
don't want five six hundred dollars payment a month, not
really when I could save up, you know, a couple
three four or five thousand dollars, get something that's decent.
You know, Hell, even ten grand will give me something
fucking decent, you know that looks good, runs good enough
to take for exactly and it's paid for and the

(02:45:41):
window goes down, and the window goes Meeter blows. She's
a nice lady, right, right, right, Yeah, So it's it's
a it's it's something that I'm working on. I'm trying
to figure out, you know, how I'm gonna do it.
But I'll fucking figured out like I always do. Yeah. Yeah,
And I would argue that if you can decide that

(02:46:01):
is the decision, right, it's just not meant to be
right now. Yeah, she'll come around when it's supposed to.
It should It shouldn't feel like a circle in a square.
Absolutely absolutely, it should feel like this makes sense? Yeah,
And you were absolute one hundred percent right with that.
With that car that I have, it gets me where
I need to go. It serves its purpose. I only
drive it when it's downpouring, raining or snowing outside, and

(02:46:21):
outside of that, I'm always on my bike. So you're right,
you're not under duress to have to make a decision.
But it would be nice, at some point in time
be able to, you know, take my lady out or whatever.
And I smoke in my car. She doesn't, and I
don't smoke in hers out of respect whatever, you know,
So I would be able to do that, you know,
Just a lot of different little things, Yeah, little shit. Yeah.

(02:46:42):
We talk about going on vacations and that expense of
spending money to go on vacations, and like we just
went to Austin and we went to New York and
we saved up for those So although we put everything
on our car card, when we got back, we paid
the balance immediately right right right. You get in the
the miles and the last points on your guard. And
I started doing that five or six years ago. You

(02:47:06):
have a better vacation. Yeah, you don't worried about like
what's hanging over you, right exactly. We saved it up
for that New York trip for like a year and
it's not easy, no, and you do without, but that's
something you want to do, having those experiences. Yeah, absolutely,

(02:47:27):
I do that same shit when it comes to our
regular vacation. You know, we we know at the beginning
of the year when we're going on vacation, right, because
we we all take the same time off. You know,
we know that we're going to be out the week
of fourth of July, and that's typically when I will
take my traveling vacation. You know, a week of Thanksgiving
not so much, the Christmas break not so much, but

(02:47:49):
the fourth of July is my traveling vacation, So I
start saving for that early. You know, whatever extra cash,
take that out, put it to the side, take that out,
put it to the side. So that way, you know,
I'm that's one thing I learned from my parents, because
them motherfuckers would go in just to go on vacation
or whatever and come back and have to play catch

(02:48:10):
up for the next year and a half. And I'm like,
I'm not doing that. I'm not I'm not gonna go
through that ship because I still need to live in
my life. So if it's easier if you just take
put it back, take put it back. Forget it, hide it,
get stoned, and forget about it. I'm lucky to live
in a really nice neighborhood and the house turnover is wild. Yeah.

(02:48:32):
People buy these nice houses and then they realize they
can't afford them and they have to sell them. And
I'm like, that's so fucking crazy. When we moved into
our house, we started saving, like acting like that was
our house payment a year before, to make sure we
could do it. Yeah, because we didn't. I did not

(02:48:53):
want to get caught moving sucks. Sucks, I'll bet And
this this isn't a knock on Lindsay. I'll bet she
still has boxes unpacked because you just can't get it
done in time. There are you lose something in the process.
The whole thing is just like a goddamn nightmare.

Speaker 6 (02:49:11):
I actually don't because I am OCD about that kind
of stuff, Like I have to get it all done.
Like after we moved in, people were like, how long
have you been here? I mean we were what maybe
a month or so, and they thought, oh my gosh,
we thought maybe you lived here for years because you
couldn't tell. I mean, it's it was done. I can't

(02:49:32):
sleep unless everything gets unpacked. Everything has to be in
its place.

Speaker 1 (02:49:37):
Been in that house, the duplex i'm living in for
was this twenty four right? A while? So by yeah,
three years now? Three? Really I thought it was longer
than now because we moved there. We was living with
my brother in twenty twenty with the pandemic, and we
moved over to this house i'm in now in twenty
one almost, if not twenty one, then almost twenty. I

(02:49:58):
thought you lived there before the pandemic. Oh no, No,
I was living with my brother at that time. But
I still got boxes and shit I haven't unpacked, you know,
but you know a lot of it. Urge theory would
be if you haven't unpacked it, you don't fucking know.
You're absolutely right, Yeah, there's a lot of shit that
I need to, uh to go through and get rid of,

(02:50:19):
you know. Like I looked up in my closet the
other day. If you looked at my top, show off
my closet, it's stuck full of fucking T shirts that
I don't ever wear anymore. And I'm like, I bet
you there's hoboes out there that would really like these
right now, but I just got hold onto them. You
can never know, I saw a thing this weekend. This
is a really great quote, and it said, when you're
deciding whether to throw something away, and if it had

(02:50:41):
shit on it, would you clean it off or throw
it away? That's a good way to look at it. Right,
Yeah that sucks. Yeah right, I got jeans in there.
I'm like, I don't wear these jeans. They have giant
holes in the ass. Why am I still holding on
to them? Because you never know, Yeah, you might be

(02:51:02):
completely out of jeans and these are all I got,
And well, we'll just put on a pair of shorts
underneath them. You can see my ass hanging out. I
have a sock drawer. It's maybe like half as deep
as the drawers over here, but maybe half full of socks. Bitch,
I wear the same second socks. Yeah, every fucking week.
It's good to have options. My wife's like, why do
you just get rid of them? I'm like, ah, so

(02:51:24):
I have this thing I do and I'm not sure.
I just put it in like a bag and then
put to tie it and put it to the side,
and then those bags starts stacking out. Well, but then
I go, well, I never I never got in the bag,
so goodbye. Yeah, just get rid of it. That's a
good way to do it, because I don't know why
I have them.

Speaker 6 (02:51:42):
I keep a laundry basket or a laundry bag, like
one of those dry cleaner laundry bags in my bedroom,
and randomly I will put clothes like, oh, I'll see
something in my closet hanging that I have not worn
in forever, and I will throw that in that bag.
And then if my kids, if I'm doing laundrum, like
this does not fit them anymore, I will put that
in the bag. And then that is like a monthly
trip to the resale shop and I'll drop that stuff off.

Speaker 1 (02:52:06):
Enormously, So like you do, you try to make money
off of it.

Speaker 6 (02:52:08):
Yeah, normally when I go in there and drop stuff off,
I'll have like twenty to twenty five dollars wait for
me to pick up.

Speaker 1 (02:52:13):
Somebody bought your socks? Yeah right, yeah, I have fucking
white tube socks. Still. I couldn't tell you the last
time I wore white fucking tube sox. Yeah. I'm actually
this conversation is actually empowering me because I'm gonna go
home and take a bunch of shit and put it
in a bag and just go let's see what happens. Yeah. Absolutely,
because my wife's gone, so I need something to keep
my mind occupied. Anyway, there you go, and so I'll

(02:52:34):
just do that and then uh, I'll say, right before
Thanks Christmas, if i'll just get rid of it. Do
you go through and clean your wife stuff up as well?
Or is it just her clothes? Yeah? No, I want
to stay married. Yeah, I was wondering. Fuck, no, no, god, no,

(02:52:54):
you haven't worn this green dress? Oh my god. I
can say for certain part of the reason I'm still
married to my wife and we're like, I'm happy, I
hope she is, is that I don't talk about her clothes, right.
I may be like, hey, this is cute. Can I
buy this for you? But I don't say you shouldn't

(02:53:15):
wear that. I don't say you shouldn't buy that. I
don't talk about her fucking shoes, like I'll joke with
her on some of that stuff. But I don't know.
I haven't warned us in six years. I bet it
doesn't even fit anymore. Yeah, but also I don't need to.
My wife is a good perjer Yeah, as far as
I almost. It's holding on to you. Yeah. Yeah, so

(02:53:38):
maybe she's not a good pursure. Yeah right, yeah, no,
she's good enough. I don't need to Yeah that's smart,
right there, smart. Don't even mess with it. Let her
deal with it. Like, I bought a charger, like a
special charger so when you travel, like it's always hard
to find like USB ports or do you have the
right cable or whatever. So I bought a charger that

(02:54:00):
a friend of mine who travels a lot told me.
And it has all the ports you need and it
plugs into an outlet and you just put the cable.
Like so, there's four spots, you bring four cables. That's it.
You get rid of all the other fucking cables of
everything else, right, So I bought it and the box
came and I put the box on the counter and
my wife is like, eh, what's this? I was like,

(02:54:21):
I told her what it was. She goes, Okay, why
are we keeping the box? I'm like, well, what if
we don't like it? Yeah? She goes, okay, what's your plan.
I'm like, the oh sweating forever. Yeah, I ever know,
you might have to take it back six years later. No,
but if I take it put in the attic, it'll

(02:54:42):
sit there for fucking years. But if I leave it
on the counter and go, ah, I'm getting rid of it.
It's been a week, it's been ten days. That's the plan.
Because socks I just shoving a drawer. They're fucking kind
Yeah yeah, I'm like, I need to clean the sock
draw out and then I just continue on with my
fucking day. Uh purging. That is a beautiful thing. Yeah.

(02:55:03):
There was a thing I saw earlier too about people
that keep secrets. They'll never tell their partners. Okay, they
that they did, and they're not all nefarious, but like
one of them was. I witnessed my son walking for
the first time about a month before she saw him,
and she was struggling with postpartum and so I never
told her I saw it. I just let her And

(02:55:24):
I'm like, okay, that would kind of make sense. That's
a very special thing for a mother. I don't know
if i'd say sweet, but I hear you, I hear you, uh,
compassionate one day, Okay, I'll buy that, yeah one day.
But also, you experienced a life thing and you didn't
get to share it with your partner because their inability
to control their emotions because of medical reasons. I'm not

(02:55:46):
dogging on it. I'm just saying one day I woke
up with a blocked ear, so I took a shower
and let warm water run into my ear, and a
small spider came out my ear instantly unblocked. If I
told my partner, she'd literally never sleep again. Well yeah, yeah,
being considerate definitely. Also if a spider then clogs her
eer and this happens to her and you're like, yeah,

(02:56:08):
that happened to me once, and you were like, you
didn't tell her, that's also a crazy thing to do.

Speaker 6 (02:56:14):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (02:56:17):
Uh. Another one says that they had an emergency stash,
a gift to stash for the when their partner had
a bad day. Oh wow, and their emergency stash was
mostly chocolate. That's fucking wild to me too, I gotta
have an emergen What are you at the doctor's office, Like,
here's a fucking lollipop. How much do you fuck out
that you got to have an emergency gift stash? Well,

(02:56:40):
this says if their partner has a bad day, exactly,
My job ain't to regulate your emotions or manage them.
Maybe that's their love language, right, energy and emotions. No
gift giving or receiving gifts, you know, and they know
that of and it's like, oh, well, I know how
I can make her feel better. Here's a here's a
score bar whatever, here's a watch of mccallach. Yeah, here's

(02:57:03):
a fucking kiss watch McCulla its.

Speaker 6 (02:57:06):
Kevin and I will surprise each other with those every
once in a while. But now the new one is
the bueno bar, right have you had? You not had?

Speaker 1 (02:57:13):
All?

Speaker 6 (02:57:13):
My fucking god game?

Speaker 1 (02:57:15):
It is a chocolate with like this. It's you know
what the little sticks are like the scoopy chocolate thing
and it looks like an egg. It's like a kinderregg Yes, okay.

Speaker 6 (02:57:26):
They are so chocolate bar for me.

Speaker 1 (02:57:28):
Okay, but this one says, as my wife figured out
I had a steak secret chocolate stash for her bad days,
she started having more bad days just to get them out.
And that's what the fuck I'm talking about. Ye ain't
my job? Yo? Uh? If you forced me to eat this,
it's all right, Yeah, it's okay. I don't think it's
that great. Yeah, it's just alright. It's like it's as

(02:57:49):
good as a watch mccullard. Yeah, I guess watch mac culture. Fine,
all right, fucking I don't really get down on a
lot of the sweets and whatnot like that. And the
other day I got done testing some some judging some
of the reefer from the Cowboy Cup, and I got
the munchies and I was like, I got nothing fucking
sweet in here. So I go to the fucking store
and I bought a box of fucking oatmeal cream pies

(02:58:11):
and a box of Nutter butters, right because I couldn't
make up my mind. And and I've had one oatmeal
cream pie out of it. That's it. Those things are
probably gonna sit there forever. The oat cream pie, microwave
warmed sup of ice cream all right. Then I did
get the nut of butter ice cream so I could

(02:58:32):
I could shove that on top of there too.

Speaker 6 (02:58:33):
And I picked up yesterday from Baldi the cookie pizza.

Speaker 1 (02:58:37):
Did you try it yet?

Speaker 6 (02:58:38):
Oh no, no, I've had one before. But the kid
I had one of the kids with me, and ELI
was like, the.

Speaker 1 (02:58:43):
Cookie pizza they got, let's get one, we do it.
Put it in, put it on a sheet pan turned
upside down and covering ice cream and chocolate syrup and sprinkles,
whipped cream. Wow.

Speaker 6 (02:58:50):
No, sprinkles.

Speaker 1 (02:58:51):
But hell, yeah, it's it's everybody digs in. Yeah, that's
fucking awesome. Yeah, they're so good, they are good percent. Yeah.
It is the idea of, like secrets you don't tell
your partners really interesting. Everybody's got them. Everybody's got them
in some form of the other. You know, because they

(02:59:13):
don't you don't want to hurt their feelings or you
don't want to be a target. Yeah, if you're potentially
a target for being truthful with your partner, they may
not be a great match for you. Maybe. So now,
if you want to stay married, you don't care about
all that shit. Okay, but I don't know if it's
I don't like the idea of, like it's good healthy

(02:59:33):
marriage to keep secrets. I'm with you, Like everybody's got
like a past of things they don't share. But to
have shit happen and then not share, like in real
time while you're in the marriage and not share it,
I think that's fucking wild. Spiders are crawling in your
fucking ears, that's something to be shared. Yeah, yeah, fucking it,
we got a goddamn problem.

Speaker 6 (02:59:52):
I think if that happened to my husband, you are
never gonna believe what just happens.

Speaker 1 (02:59:56):
Like what I want to know? Yeah, absolutely, I don't
if I find out like a fucking millipede fucking landed
in my mouth and you're like, oh, yeah, that shit
happened to me, and like what the fuck are you
talking about? Why are you hiding shit like that? I
didn't want you to worry Now I'm now I want
to know what now. But see, I love this attitude too,

(03:00:17):
because I go with, you didn't tell me that? What
else have you? Right? Right? Something as minor as that?
A spider in the air? Yeah, what other shit? Don't
trust me to tell me minor shit? Either you think
I have a problem or we have a problem. Yeah,
that's fucked up. I think.

Speaker 6 (03:00:33):
I can't even think of like a secret because Kevin knows,
like he can tell, like even like when I'm like constipated,
like he can tell like just like by my attitude
or by the way, you know what I mean, Like
he just knows, and I just I can't even I can't,
Like I could just imagine myself saying, babe, you're not

(03:00:54):
finally I'm going you know what I mean?

Speaker 1 (03:00:57):
Like bay by shit right exactly?

Speaker 6 (03:00:59):
I took I would be an overshare.

Speaker 1 (03:01:02):
Yea, my wife and I were shares because I know
exactly how my wife's poop cycles are. Yes, I know
if she's constipated or not. Yeah, that's nice. Still in
new relationships, we haven't across that threshold yet. So yeah,
I just believe in my mind it's marriage as in
like a one, it's one word, like, it isn't my marriage, right,

(03:01:25):
it isn't for me, it's it's for the marriage. So
knowing your ship cycle, yeah, it's important because if I
can go, okay, well, yeah, we probably have some corn
with dinner. Here's a here's a here's a here's some
sillium husk. Right, relationships different. Two things that nobody ever

(03:01:48):
told me about getting married and having kids, and one
of them was I would know my fucking partnership cycle.
And the other was I would be cleaning so many
boots like children's shoes mud oh a lot. Nobody ever
told me how oft would I be doing it? Welcome
to life. Speaking of life, our toy drive is coming
up in December the fourth and fifth. It's gonna be

(03:02:10):
a Dave and Busters bring a new unwrapped toy. I
just saw targets doing fifty percent off board games.

Speaker 6 (03:02:16):
Nice.

Speaker 1 (03:02:17):
Yeah, this week, so you can go and get like
Operation for ten bucks, And so you could go and
get a least like one hundred dollars worth of toys,
and that'd be a pretty good haul of toys to
bring for the Toy Drive. And you can save that
stuff up now and then bring it on December fourth
and fifth at Dave and Busters for our annual Toy
Drive brought you by US Cellular. You guys have a
fantastic week. See ya, by bye.