BMMS 12-9-24

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Oh k m O d boom. I know parents get
stressed at the holidays, easy, that's there is not a
There's no doubt in my mind, and I would argue

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overwhelmingly the moms stress more. Right, Usually the moms are
the leading charge when it comes to organizing Christmas. Not
an ever family, but in most definitely the cliche. But
this stat is staggering to me. Okay, because when I

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heard this, I feel like sometimes things are a little
you do you do them to yourself? Right, So listen,
listen to this. Two thirds of parents pull holiday all nighters,
like the day before Christmas, like Christmas Eve, setting things up.

(05:10):
What do you what do they mean by an all night?
Or I would actually excuse the night before okay, because
you're trying to put whatever, the bicycle together or whatever. Right,
but this says that sixty six percent have stayed up
the entire night in a bid to get everything ready.
I'm good, I agree. I think that's wild. Yeah it is.

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I think even like I don't even like putting stuff
together the night before. I'm someone who will like try
to get that done way ahead of time and then
hid it and then hide it. Yeah, and I don't
have to worry about it. And it's not always possible.
I understand that depending on how big the Barbie dollhouse
is or whatever.

Speaker 4 (05:52):
Maybe this is taking into consideration getting the home ready
for company or having company there, and you don't have
time to get a toy built or something. So they
have no choice but to stay up, you know what
I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (06:08):
Like, maybe, yeah, but to stay up all all nights
the next day, yeah no, no, no, no thank you. If
my kid's sick, that's it. Yeah, right, if my kids
stick sick, I could stay up all night to be
there with them, to help them clean them whatever. That
looked like. Yeah, to get no no, no, no, no

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no no no. Some of the research that they found
when they asked two thousand parents of school aged children.
They found these are some of the craziest things that
they did. Uh getting on the roof to recreate the
sound of Santa's boots, covering their floors with baby powder
to showcase Santa's footprints, and tying fishing line to their

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elf doll to make it fly. Dude, the older I get,
the more the elf thing is a button for me.
Stop doing this. Parents, you are being a slave. Yes,
it does not matter, but the kids like you. Cor
you are, but you are. It is putting stress on

(07:11):
you to do that. Yes, you gotta remember every day.
I gotta move that damn off today, gotta do something
different good I am. Yeah, I'm not a fan of
that going on the roof. I mean, I could understand
wanting to sell the Santa thing, but to go on
to get someone to go on the roof, right, make

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a mess with baby powder? Whatever? My parents when I
was little, my mom and or dad, somebody made a
footprint by the fireplace of ash and like a boot. Awesome,
it was so cool. Clearly a memory. Right, so I
can get the like, why you would do that? To

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go on the roof, to risk injury? And you're trying
traumatic brain injury, right exactly, just trying to please your kid,
just trying to make them happy for the holidays. We
did milk and cookies. That was it. Yeah, that was it.
And most of the time the milk and the whole
cookie was still there. Santa never took a bite. Oh oh.

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For some reason, my kids always put out stuff Santa
likes to eat. Of course, I've tried to convince him
to put a ipa, but they are not thinking sand
is into that Patonic with grapefruit twist. They're just not in.
They don't think Sanna's gonna like that. I disagree. Loves

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his milk and cookies and his gin and tonic. From
what Santa has told me, it gives him the poops.
The milk does that. Late at night, He's like, he
doesn't want a sugar spike, he wants an alcohol spike.
From what he has said. It's been a rough night, yes,
absolute long night.

Speaker 4 (08:57):
And aren't they supposed to be asleep? How can they
hear him on the roof. They're not supposed to be
up to hear him on the roof.

Speaker 1 (09:03):
I'll but you know, the kids are excited and they
can't sleep very well anyway, Right, they get excited. I
agree with that. You hear the clip claw. Yeah, so,
like I said, they talk to two thousand parents, and
sixty six percent have said they stayed up the entire night.
They found that the results showed that the holidays this

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year might be better as three quarters of parents seventy
seven percent feel some pressure to make the merrier. When
it comes to inspiration, Facebook is the biggest source for
parents looking to create holiday magic, followed by TV and
then other family members. Okay, you got to get inspiration somewhere,

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And eighty six percent consider festivities festive activities to be
the best quality time. I agree. I mean, I think
it's important around the holidays to plan stuff that's festive,
like if a gingerbread thing, making special Christmas cookies, maybe
a craft of some I don't know. Yeah, but you

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shouldn't stress yourself to the max. It should be easy, yes,
there shouldn't. It shouldn't be like, oh, we got to
force this square through the circle, right right, try to
do all the things. Just pick one or two. We
like going to look at holiday lights, like a lot
of families, I'm trying to weord I gotta make sure
I wear this right. And some things you go to

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do are really expensive. I'm not paying thirty dollars a
car to look at Christmas lights. I'm just not. I
get it. It's cool, But when you're charging thirty dollars
for lights, I feel like that. When I can go
to Rayman it's free. Who charges to look at their lights?
Are their neighborhoods in town that actually do that? It's

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like Rayma's free. We went to the Christmas shoot in
Sepulpa on Saturday, Saturday. Yeah, and that's free and fun.

Speaker 7 (11:01):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (11:01):
They have plenty of places to take pictures. There's super
long lines for food trucks things like that, right, really,
I just told GIMPI what it was. Wow. Yeah, okay,
and it looks cool. Yeah, I'm sure I ain't paying that. Yeah,
I'm sure it does. No, No, thank you, I'm just not.

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When you can drive through neighborhoods for in there's some
great neighborhoods.

Speaker 6 (11:26):
Now.

Speaker 1 (11:26):
If you do like a helicopter tour or you're in
a bus or something like that, that's a completely different thing. Yeah,
But to go to one place and to pay to
go some lines, yeah, I'm an not Now, if you
do the zoo, okay, I would buy that, But they
charge you to go onto the zoo anyway regardless, So
that makes that makes it and that place charges too, Yeah,

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but it's usually it's for something else. But I do
not feel pressure at all to I would hope I'm
already an individual that can make Christmas memories and I don't,
so I don't. It feels natural to do it. We
want to put up Christmas decorations, we want to go
look at lights, we want to do a gingerbread house.

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I'm a big believer in trying to find things that
I like doing for my family because it makes it
not stressful for me. And if my kids like doing X,
Y Z, then that's different. I still don't feel pressure.

Speaker 6 (12:31):
To do that.

Speaker 1 (12:32):
It's they like to do it. We'll go do what
they like. But I'm not gonna if I don't like
going to look at Christmas lights, I ain't gonna try
to make that happen. No, you're just beat a grane. No,
it's not being it's if it's their idea, I'm down right,
but I'm not going to force everybody like we will
go cut down a Christmas tree. Right, I don't want

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to say this phrase. This is supposed to be family time.
I don't want that. That was my childhood, right, I
remember going to cut down a Christmas tree and it
was a nightmare. I remember it for the negative, not
the positive, and so to me it's to feel pressure
is crazy now. Pressure to make sure everyod has a

(13:15):
good gift and that I get that. I get like
a lot of parents, moms put a lot of power
into that. Yeah, and they want it to be good,
and I get it. Spoiler, your kids won't love you
more if you get them the perfect gift. They won't
love you more. No, it'll be broke, they won't care.

(13:37):
You'll be selling into grid saling here and you're still stressed. Yeah,
I'm just being honest. The number of things we put
in a garage sale or we give away, I'm like that.
Do you know how hard we stressed and debated over
this toy?

Speaker 4 (13:49):
I know, wasn't that just a year or two ago
that we got?

Speaker 8 (13:53):
Yes?

Speaker 4 (13:53):
Yes, yeah, Well they never play with it.

Speaker 1 (13:56):
I just keep my mouth shut at Christmas. It's probably
best anyway we want to hear. In my opinion, at
least in my house, probably less for show too, only
around Christmas. Huh ah. I mean as my girls are
getting older, I realize they do. I'm just trying to
train myself for teenage. Yeah, because then it really doesn't matter.

(14:18):
They really don't want to. I have good kids now,
right now, m right now, I have good kids. Uh yeah,
all right, So don't stress. Try to make to me,
it sucks the fun out of the holidays. If you're stressed,
does it does? It ruins everybody's day rather than like,
you know, hey, we're having people over for Christmas. What

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should we make? I love chili. Okay, then let's make
chili because then it's not stressful to make it right,
Try to remove the stress. All right. We've got news
quickies we're going to do. We've got Theory of a
Dead Man and tickets to the Cowboy Cup we're going
to give away. Cowboy Cup is this weekend. If I
don't know the right argument here, but it doesn't if

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you don't smoke, we it's not like you're going to
go in and it's it's a cheech and chong in there.
They're not hot boxing the Veno. No, No, it's very
clean and very nice, very educational. Too. Whether you're recreational,
or you're a diehard, or you dabble, I think, or
you're curious, I think you should go to it. It
is a very cool thing that happens right here in town.

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And it's this weekend at Tulsa expos Square. All Right,
we got to take a break. We'll be back.

Speaker 8 (15:31):
Tulsa's Morning Show continues next AX The Big Bad Morning
Show on Telsa's rock station ninety seven five KMOT.

Speaker 1 (15:56):
Good morning, It's the Big Bad Morning Show.

Speaker 6 (15:59):
Six.

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You can also text bmmass and then what you want
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Speaker 4 (16:26):
Pantless man breaks into home, grabs carpet cleaner while high
on meth. This happened in winter Haven, Florida, where Austin
Alexander Smith, twenty three years old, was charged with burglary
of an occupied dwelling and was booked into the Pope
County Jail. According to the winter Haven Police, residents inside
the home were suddenly awakened on Thursday about one thirty

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six am to a loud bang at their front door.
The residents then discovered Smith in the living room wearing
only a shirt and aunt liss no shoes. He's holding
in his hand a carpet cleaner belonging to the residence
of the home. One of them yelled at Smith, who
then dropped the carpet cleaner and ran out the door.

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Minutes later, police located a person matching Smith's description walking
into the area of the neighborhood. The officers detained him
and he was later identified by the resident as the
suspect who broke into their home. Smith had broken into
the home by kicking in the door. He told officers
he didn't recall what he was doing because he was

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high on methm at a means.

Speaker 1 (17:37):
Maybe he just wanted to take the carpet cleaner apartment.
She's a nice lady. It's Twaker's man. You gotta watch
out for those guys worky with carpet cleaner.

Speaker 4 (17:49):
Yeah, I felt something sticky on the bottom of my
feet when I walked in and thought I'd clean up the.

Speaker 1 (17:54):
Place for him. I don't know, somebody's got to do it, right.
A woman fled traffic stop with officer still in her car.
This is another doozy out of Florida, where a gal,
she's thirty three. Her name's Victoria Mooseve. Now, Victoria had
gotten pulled over for failure to yield the right of
way to another vehicle. Okay, So the cop comes up.

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She's like, he's like, hey, can I get your driver's license?
And she's like, no, I don't have one. It's suspended
and they took it away. Okay, So they called back
to dispatch to get her identity, find out she's got
a warrant out there for duy. All right, so they
she's in the cop car at this point in time,
and there's another officer that's in her car. Her ford

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escape with her six year old daughter. Okay. So as
all this is coming through, old Vicky here decides to
hop out of the cop car and jump back into
her car and then take off with the cops still
in the back with her daughter. Well, they eventually did
stop her and they arrested her took her in for
fleeing and eluding so with her warrant. Florida Man, Yeah,

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trying to squeeze it in at the end of the
ear huh. IHOB worker claims she was fired for giving
needy man pancakes. It's not a movie that Lindsay will
talk about tonight with all the hustle bustle of Thanksgiving
holiday and the holiday season. This happened in Florida Lakeland.
Victoria Hughes she'd been a thirteen year employee with the

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local ihop, but was fired after committing the sin of
giving someone pancakes and water to a homeless person outside
the restaurant. She says she was told she was fired
because it could cause a loitering issue or a safety
issue for customers. She says she stands by her decision
would do it again. After the media got ahold of
the story, she said she's received a phone call from

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corporate office, which included a job offer and compensation for
the days of work she missed. She's reportedly now deciding
on whether or not to go back to that job.
Would you go back? This is a tough one because
she was trying to help someone in need. Admirable. Right. Also,

(20:09):
I hops in the money making business, right, they don't
just be giving out free pancakes everyone. I'm sure this
person needed it. I'm sure the employee was in heart,
was in the right decision. It's against policy.

Speaker 8 (20:20):
Ye.

Speaker 1 (20:21):
True, that's the end of that in my opinion. So
as far as going back, I don't know. You worked
there a long time. Could you win, you know, WEDGEO raise?
Could you wedge maybe something else out of it. Do
I think she was wrongfully terminated? I do not do.
I think she did the right thing absolutely, and I

(20:41):
think the company's right. They what if that, then that
person always comes around, right like a cat. Yeah, it's
a tough predicament to be in. Start feeding them pancakes,
and I gotta feed this guy pancakes for freeing out
everybody's getting pancakes. I might go back in this scenario. Hey,
I'll come back if once a year or once a

(21:01):
month or whatever, we have a feed the homeless day. Yeah,
I like that turn it into a positive. Yeah. Yeah,
And if I was, I hop I'd be like, hell, yeah,
that's a great idea.

Speaker 6 (21:12):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (21:13):
Then they do it one time and then look we're helping, right,
how much could they lose out, possibly on pancakes. I mean,
I think you'd be to imply that they're making hand
over fist on pancakes, right, might be mis misleading.

Speaker 4 (21:27):
I mean, they do specials on Pan National Pancake Day
and stuff, and they have stuff on Veterans Day and
certain specials.

Speaker 1 (21:36):
So why not, Well, because a special and free are
not the same.

Speaker 4 (21:40):
Yeah, but I think that's what it is there on
those days it is free. It might be a buy one,
get one.

Speaker 1 (21:47):
But I think people would be shocked to find out
the number of people that actually take advantage of that
compared to packing the house all day like one. I
hear your point on that, like one, no big the
whole restaurant right for the day. That's tough. Yeah, but

(22:07):
they could take you know, a couple of hours. Yeah,
a couple of flapjacks, feed some homeless people, make some
people happy, and it's good publicity. And again if it
is good publicity, but if you spread that up, now
do you do it across all of them? And if
you're I Hop number four seventy two, and you hear
I Hop three seventies doing something, you go, well, we
want to do that too, and now it's you know,

(22:28):
it's in the shrimp. It's a snowball effect. That's what
I'm saying, Like, I hops in a tough predicament. It's
kind of like the you know, the box retailers are like, hey,
if you pursue someone trying to steal something, we're going
to fire you. Right, your heart's in the right, you're
trying to stop, You're trying to help, but ultimately it's
against the policy. Yeah, that's a tough one. Would you

(22:50):
go back and bee probably? I mean, I'm sure I
could find another food job somewhere else, But I guess
it depends on how long you've been there, you know,
taking long ride. They did make it right by giving
her her job back. I don't think they would have
done it if the media wouldn't gotten involved. Though, if
the media wouldn't have got involved, they would have never
given her job. They could have been like, too bad, Sorry,

(23:11):
was it the mainstream media or like a friends press?

Speaker 2 (23:14):
Right?

Speaker 1 (23:15):
Would you go back to those? I think so.

Speaker 4 (23:16):
I think there's plenty of other restaurants that she could
go work for and that would be happy to have her.

Speaker 1 (23:21):
A good heart, I'm a big believer in omen so
like when when someone says, you know you were fired,
you were fired for a reason. Yeah, yeah, give it
up repaintcakes. Yeah well I mean like, right, there must
be a bigger plan for you. Yeah, maybe go work
for a homeless shelter. Right, maybe that's your calling if
you feel that tug, definitely, maybe that's what you should go.

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Good morning, It's the Big Mad Morning Show six KMO
D can also text BMMS and then what you want
to say to eight two, nine, four five. We had
our games this weekend as we were in Week fourteen,
and the Buccaneers Raiders game played out exactly like we
all thought as the Buccaneers won that one, and so

(24:11):
we all got points on that, and then Bears forty
nine Ers. I actually thought the Bears were gonna like this.
It's not uncommon when a new coach steps in, Like
the team was like, yeay, here we go. But the
forty nine Ers clearly were too much for them. They
were like, now we'll play. Yeah, now we'll all show up.

(24:32):
And so Gimbie was the only one that got points
for that, and then the Chiefs Chargers game. Man, I
just love that they keep winning. You mean to tell
me week in and week I was just third luck
to win on a doink right on their third kicker. Yeah.
I didn't watch the game. I just picked up the

(24:53):
highlights off the old TikTok and there's some pretty impressive,
impressive moves. But I think that's that's what they do.
That's what the Chiefs do, right at the very very
end on the wire and win. Yeah. I didn't stay
up for it. I went to bed at halftime because
I feel like crap. But I watched it this morning.
Yeah and yeah. If I would have stayed up to

(25:15):
watch it, I would have had to stay up for
the whole game, and I just can't do that. So
we all got points for that. So Gimpy went three
and oh, and then Lindsay and I both went two
and one, and so overall, Gimby continues the year of Gimpy,
Yes right, and goes to thirty one and eleven, and
Lindsay goes to twenty seven and fifteen and I go

(25:38):
to twenty nine and thirteen. I'm taking all the trophies
this year, I guess. Yeah, yeah, you are, man, listen,
go for it, man, It just means you won't next year.
That's right. Hopefully, babe, maybe I'll be in the chiefs
of the games, right, sure, yeah, careful, careful.

Speaker 4 (25:58):
Oklahoma State Gunday I've reached an agreement on a restructured
contract and he will remain the Cowboys coach, the school
announced on Saturday. As part of the restructuring of Gundy's
contract to seven point seven to five million dollar annual
salary will be reduced to be redistributed as part of
revenue sharing with players, and as buyout will be reduced

(26:21):
to Sources told ESPN Gundhy would have been owed twenty
five point three million had he been fired without cause.
Gundhy is Oklahoma State's all time winning its coach and
has led his alma mater to a one hundred and
sixty nine eighty eight record since being promoted to the
role in two thousand and four. Gundy guided the Cowboys
to the Big Twelve title in twenty eleven, league runner

(26:43):
up finishes in twenty twenty one and twenty twenty three,
and eighteen consecutive Bowl appearances before this season, when he
recorded his worst record at three and nine and went
winless in conference play. Oklahoma State ended its season a
week ago when it fell fifty two to zero Colorado.

Speaker 1 (27:01):
People are talking about this because a lot of people,
a lot of fans, I guess maybe quote unquote wanted
him fired. But if you don't count this season, Mike
Gundy has the highest percentage of wins than any active
Big twelve coach. If you don't count this season, he's
within one percentage point of Sunny Dyke's and Kyle Winningham.

(27:22):
You think they can do better. I get the season
was frustrating and you want more. But does he get
a pass because of all the other seasons he's been
so good, just because he doesn't have Bedlam for everybody like, well,
he won Bedlam, so that's all we care about. Yeah,
I think he gets a pass. There was at one

(27:43):
point I thought that was gonna be it because they
said that they were not seeing eye to eye, yeah
at all, and they worked it out. So we get
we get the the hair, the hair again.

Speaker 4 (27:56):
For him, and that is your balls at the world.

Speaker 1 (28:09):
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Speaker 4 (29:33):
So the best was probably on Saturday when I had
the UH started off very lazy, slept in the kids,
then got up helped me clean house, and then I
made a really good homemade chicken and noodle's dinner that
was a recipe of my my grandmother in law. Anyway,

(29:57):
it turned out really good. Me and the kids decided
to get into the car and deliver a bowl of
dinner to my husband at work, and then we went
and saw the Rama lights for free. It was awesome,
and I was like, do you guys want to get
out and walk because it wasn't too cold.

Speaker 1 (30:15):
Well, you were just going to do a drive by.

Speaker 4 (30:17):
Yeah, we were just going to drive through because it's
so wead.

Speaker 1 (30:19):
We don't drive through you have to drive the perimeter.

Speaker 4 (30:21):
Yeah, but I mean you can still see it.

Speaker 1 (30:23):
And then.

Speaker 4 (30:25):
And then they were like, you know, Eli was like,
I'm only wearing shorts, so it is a little bit chilly,
and so we're like, all right, fine, we won't And
then they were like wait, they sell snacks here. Now, yeah,
let's get out. I'm like, oh no, no, no, now,
just because you see the snacks. No, So we decided,
like you know what, we do kind of want some

(30:46):
ice cream. We went to Broms and took advantage of
the bye two for seven for their ice cream and
we got the hot Cocoa. Oh that's our favorite ice cream.
Took that home and watched home alone.

Speaker 9 (30:59):
It was awfme.

Speaker 4 (31:00):
So it was a nice family evening. And the worst
of the weekend happened Friday afternoon. Marcus had hurt his
arm in wrestling, and so he needed to go to
the doctor and he got an X ray and they said,
good news is there's no broken bones, but he's gonna

(31:22):
need an MRI and he can't raise his arm. He
can go backwards with it, but he can't straighten it up.

Speaker 1 (31:31):
And raise it to stick his arm out to his side.
He thumbed down like this, and have him try to
push up. He can't rotator cuff. Well that's what the
MRI will show it. That's yeah.

Speaker 4 (31:42):
So but the good news, I guess on he's being
able to he can slightly lift it. Now it's like
getting it's getting progressively better, but we have to wait
this morning because our insurance has not yet approved the MRI.

Speaker 1 (31:55):
They have to wait until today, I guess. So he
can't lift up, get up above his chest chest type.

Speaker 4 (32:01):
He can go like to his chest right, so not
above his chest?

Speaker 1 (32:04):
Yeah. Can he grab a doorknob and turn it?

Speaker 4 (32:07):
Yes, he has pressure like he grabbed the doctor's hands
and they could tell that his right hand or his
left hand was a tighter squeeze then right.

Speaker 1 (32:18):
But can also dig your thumb right there and if
he screams, that's where it's at. You should try that.
As someone who's on his second rotator cuff.

Speaker 4 (32:26):
Tear, well, they thought maybe it was like a bic
up tear.

Speaker 1 (32:31):
I mean it would you would Know's that gonna stop
him from wrestling? Yeah? Pause, it's gonna hit pause for
sure because it's at least six weeks recovery. Yeah, if
that's what it is. Best and worst of the weekend.
What's the best part of the weekend. What's the worst
part of the weekend? Give me what's the best and
what's the worst. I have to say the best part
would be yesterday for the Abate Toy run took my

(32:53):
lady on her first toy run and she had a blast.
He was so overwhelmed with them, to bikes that were
out there. I don't know what she was expecting. It's
normal for me, you know, I've been doing this for
years now, but it was her first one, and it
was really cool to see how excited she got. She's
a huge Christmas fan anyway, right, loves the spirit, loves

(33:16):
the lights, loves the holiday, loves all that stuff. Right,
So it was really really cool to get her exposed
to that. She's so good for you. I would tell
give me this at the toy drive. She's so good
for you. She really is. She's the exact opposite of
you the best way, absolutely, one hundred percent. I was
thinking about that myself, you know, I was like, she's
total opposite of anything I've ever been with, right, and

(33:39):
I love it. I think it's fantastic. Yeah, you know
what I found out about the toy run debate, it's
only two years older than ours. Really, I figured it'd
be going on a lot longer than that. I mean
almost two decades. It's a lot of time. Yeah, that
is a long time. So that was the best part
of the weekend. Worst part of the weekend, I'd have
to say would be Saturday. I had a funeral to
go to. Sadday, another fallen brother, but Speed, Greg Speed Miller,

(34:04):
Rock and Piece Man. He did not die in a
motorcycle accident, which was fantastic. He had cancer and he
was like seventy four years old, but good dude, solid dude,
And it was great to get everybody together. Not for
this cause, but you know, nonetheless, it's just having to
say goodbye to another another Brother's never fun. Best to

(34:25):
worsch the weekend. What's the best part of the weekend
and the worst part of the weekend. Best part of
the weekend for me would be Saturday. We had our
first drop the kids off at a birthday party and
us get to go, like do something, all right, that
was a new experience. The birthday party was at a
place and the people that were their kid is a

(34:47):
good friend of ours, so they're like, yeah, go, it's
all good. So like birthday dates are not one of
our birthdays, but yeah, right, right right, And so that
was awesome. What did you go do? So we tried
to go to two because it was in al Tulsa,
weste Al, Tulsa. So we tried to go to two
separate places. One was closed and the other a band
was warming up to play, and I was like, I'm

(35:08):
not gonna listen to drums. Dink dink dink, yes, dk yes,
And so we ended up going over to uh wood
Fire Pizza. Okay, just sitting at the bar. Yeah, not
very many people are at the bar, so it was quiet,
and yeah it was. It was awesome. Worst part of
the weekend is you can hear it. Man. I was

(35:30):
down yesterday. I almost was like, I'm not going to
make it tomorrow. But we have a lot of things
happening today on and off the show, so I was like,
I got a power through and popped a bunch of
drugs this morning and we'll see what happens. But yeah,
it was I did. I slept until nine, which is
not like me. Wow. And then I laid on the

(35:51):
couch and yeah, it was not awesome. And my wife
said I get sick every year after the toy drive
and I'm like, That's not true, is it? But maybe
maybe I do. Your body just can't handle it anymore.

Speaker 6 (36:04):
Yes.

Speaker 1 (36:06):
Best celebrated my cousin he graduated with a doctorate in education.
Worst family took my sister tall roof van to Admiral
Twin Christmas Lights and we got stuck under the canopy
at the entrance. Uh six foot tall? Maybe? Oh no,
I don't know. I'm trying to decode their their message there.

(36:31):
My family took my sister tall. I like what you're
saying there?

Speaker 6 (36:35):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (36:36):
Seven seven maybe? Okay, Okay, I don't hate I don't
hate that. But either way, I guess I would think,
you know, that should be a consideration when you go
through some of these Clese Christmas lights.

Speaker 6 (36:45):
Yes.

Speaker 1 (36:46):
Best of weekend. My brother put on an absolute awesome
performance at the Gateway Dirt Nationals. Congratulations, Worst, I'm at
work today. Best went to an old Sorry. Best went
to an art show my oldest kid participated in, and
he sold one of his paintings. Did you buy it?
That doesn't count if you buy it right, doesn't. It's

(37:07):
a very nice gesture to do as a parent. But
Worst dryer tried to catch fire, so we have to
buy a new one. Dryers, Man, you gotta clean the
lantern and the bent yeah. Uh. I try to do
mine once a month, but I usually just wait till
the dryer tells me, like it's not drying clothes, tell me,

(37:29):
which is probably too late. Best part of the weekend
was the wife was ovulating and we're trying to have
a kid. Worst part was, after all that work, she
now has a UTI and I have a male yeast infection.
She didn't even know that was a thing, So weird
to buy monostat as a guy. Monostat has a bunch
of benefits. By the way. It isn't just for yeast infections.

(37:53):
It'll deal with any type of fun. Guy, Okay, I
didn't know that. Yeah, put it on your feet, Yeah,
like athletes. It's got some I don't know about athletes foot,
but it's got some benefits for sure. I've used it
before on things because the doctors, Yeah, just use monastat.
But it's for vaginas, right, and he's like settled down.
It's just a product. She got a UTI and he

(38:13):
got a yeast infection. How dirty are you playing that
thing every now and again? I mean shower, Yeah, go
to the bathroom after you have sex, right I I
that's yeah. I don't know neither one of those things.
I've never had one. You've never had a UTI or
a yeast infection.

Speaker 9 (38:31):
So I don't know.

Speaker 1 (38:32):
I don't think I have had a UTI or yeast infection.
Now I've had jockeych which is a fungus. Yeah, so
I guess you could make that argument. And ovulating is
one of those things like, yeah, that sounds fun, but
now it's work. Yeah, and it ends up always you
just got to show up. It ends up being fine.

(38:55):
Uh have you ever had a yeast infection or a UTI? Lindsay,
I have had both. I have had women have them.

Speaker 4 (39:02):
Yeah, utiyes are well, neither is fun, but UTI is
the worst. And yeah, too much sex at once can
can do that to a person. Also if you for
females and probably males too, I don't know, but if
you hold your pee for a long period of time,

(39:24):
you can get a UTI. It's that simple to get
one that way.

Speaker 1 (39:28):
Yeah you don't want one? Yeah, No, I don't recommend
them for anyone. Uh. Best finally got a scope for
the rifle my dad passed down to me. Worst nephew
that lived with me moved to Florida. Best part of
the weekend road to a bait toy run. Worst was
cold as s on the way home. I thought it

(39:48):
was nice yesterday. Yeah, it was all right. I don't know.
Maybe they got home later after the sun went down,
like fifty five or something. All day, Yeah, it wasn't bad.
A little drizzly or whatnot. But yeah, if you till
the sun goes down, it's gotta get colder. Yeah, it
isn't as cold as it was on Thursday. Oh truth,

(40:10):
Sure that was cool. Yeah, all right, we gotta take
a break. We've got tickets. We're gonna give away a
Theory of a Dead Man and tickets to the Cowboy Cup.
You're gonna win two pairs of tickets, which is very cool.
We'll do that. Coming up.

Speaker 8 (40:20):
More of a Big Man Morning Show is next ninety KMOD.

Speaker 1 (40:36):
Good morning, It's the Big Man Morning Shown six oh kmod.
You can also text bmms and then what you want
to say to A two nine four five. Let's play
a game because now it's Theory of a Dead Man
is coming to Tulsa in February. It's gonna be an

(40:57):
unplugged show at the tuls Theater. Hit tuls Theater comed
to get your tickets, so we're gonna give your pair
tickets to that. Then we're gonna give you a pair
of tickets to the Cowboy Cup, Oklahoma's premier cannabis championship
this week and inside the Exchange Center at Tulsa Expo Square.
And so we're gonna play flick off call it but
nine one eight four six oh KMO D. Nine one

(41:18):
eight four six O kmod. I'll give you three movie quotes.
You got to correctly guess two of them in the
movie they're associated with nine one eight four six oh
K M O D. Let's go to our first contestant.
Good morning, you're on the air.

Speaker 7 (41:31):
What is your name, Daniel?

Speaker 1 (41:34):
Daniel? How are you, buddy?

Speaker 6 (41:36):
I'm good, Corban, Now about yourself good.

Speaker 1 (41:38):
I find it hard to believe you don't have your
Cannabis Cup tickets.

Speaker 6 (41:41):
But you know well, I have one for myself. So
I'm time to win some for uh suminly remember if
that's cool?

Speaker 1 (41:51):
Yeah, yeah, that's why not. Man, here's your first movie quote.
You gotta get at least two, right, Are you ready?

Speaker 6 (41:59):
As ready as I will never be?

Speaker 1 (42:00):
Okay, I'm in a glass case of emotion. I'm in
a glass case of emotion.

Speaker 6 (42:10):
Would that be the other guys?

Speaker 1 (42:12):
The other guys that is incorrect. That is from Anchorman.

Speaker 6 (42:19):
Oh, well that makes sense.

Speaker 1 (42:20):
But don't worry. Don't worry. Don't worry because you're right.
Don't worry. You still have two more chances to win
those tickets to the Cowboy Cup and to se Theory
of a Dead Man. Okay, here's your second one. You
shut your mouth when you're talking to me. You shut
your mouth when you're talking to me.

Speaker 6 (42:39):
Oh, shut your mouth when you're talking to me. Uh,
I'm gonna say it to Jim Carrey movie. M uh crap.
I'm just gonna say mask and I know it's wrong.

Speaker 1 (42:57):
Wait which one, the one we share or the one
with Jim Carrey. Okay, no, it's incorrect. It's not either one.
But I'm sorry, Daniel. Now you're not gonna win, buddy.
That is from Wedding Crashers.

Speaker 7 (43:10):
Of course.

Speaker 6 (43:11):
All right, buddy, have a good day.

Speaker 1 (43:13):
See you later, buddy. Good morning, you're on the air.

Speaker 7 (43:16):
What is your name, Chris?

Speaker 1 (43:18):
Chris? How are you today?

Speaker 6 (43:18):
Man?

Speaker 7 (43:20):
Good?

Speaker 1 (43:20):
You got to get at least two of these movie
quotes right to win those tickets to see the Cowboy
Cup in Theory of a Dead Man. Okay, Chris, here's
your first one. Rule number one, Cardio rule number one, Cardio.

Speaker 7 (43:38):
Dodgeball.

Speaker 1 (43:39):
That is incorrect. That is from Zombie Land.

Speaker 6 (43:43):
Gotcha?

Speaker 1 (43:43):
All right, let's go. Here's another one. Say what again?
I dare you say what again? I dare you?

Speaker 7 (43:55):
Dang it? M I don't have a guess, man, I'm sorry.

Speaker 1 (44:04):
Well, we're gonna count it as incorrect, but I'm gonna
do it in the tone and then we'll see if
he say what again? I dare you?

Speaker 6 (44:15):
No, I'm sorry man.

Speaker 1 (44:16):
All right, that's from pulp fiction.

Speaker 7 (44:18):
Man, okay, all right, let's have a good day.

Speaker 1 (44:20):
Kee letter Chris, appreciate you playing. I thought I thought
that was an easy one. Real Maybe through an mf
N there you probably would have got. Good morning, you're
on the air. What is your name?

Speaker 6 (44:29):
Hannah?

Speaker 1 (44:30):
Hannah? How are you today?

Speaker 6 (44:32):
Good?

Speaker 1 (44:32):
All right? Hannah? Up for grabs his tickets to see
Theory of a Dead Man at the Tuls Theater and
a pair of tickets to the Cowboy Cup that's coming
to Expo Square this weekend. Are you ready? Yes, I'm
teeing one up for you. I'm King of the World.

(44:53):
I'm King of the World.

Speaker 7 (44:56):
Uh, I'm sorry.

Speaker 1 (44:58):
What was the so movie quote? You got to guess
the movie it's from. I'm keen of the world. Yes,
you had me nervous there for a second. There were
so many people mad listening. If you weren't gonna get
that one right, all right, let's get you. Let's get
you another one here. The price is wrong. Bleep, the

(45:21):
price is wrong. Bleep. The bleep is a swear word
I can't say on the radio, Hannah, but the price
is wrong. Bleep.

Speaker 7 (45:34):
Happy, that is correct.

Speaker 1 (45:37):
Congratulations, you're getting tickets see Theory of a Dead Man
in February to Tels Theater. And you're gonna get a
pair of ga tickets to the Cowboy Cup that's going
to be at the x Exchange Center at Expo Square
this week. And congratulations.

Speaker 7 (45:49):
Awesome job.

Speaker 1 (45:51):
I wasn't sure she was gonna be able to do it,
but she both of them. She fooled us. Yeah, yeah,
I had that baby in the background. Baby was probably
helping her, probably cheating. Ask kids smart. All right, we'll
have more tickets to both those this week. We're gonna
take a break and we'll be back.

Speaker 8 (46:07):
Tulsa's morning show is Kemy Right Back, a big mad
morning show.

Speaker 1 (46:11):
Tulsa's rock station ninety seven kmo D, Good morning, It's
the Big Mad Morning Show. Nine one eight four six,
Oh k m O D. You can also text bmms

(46:32):
and then what you want to say to eight two
nine four five. Coming up, Jeff Finsley will join us.
If you have a question about divorce or custody or
visitation or anything like that that has to do with
family law, Jeff will be in at nine to answer
those questions. Get your question to us ahead of time,
email show at KMOD dot com, Text bmms and whatever
that question is to eight two nine four five, or
call when he's in the studio at nine at nine

(46:53):
one eight four six, Oh KMOD. Let's see what's in
gibbees four by four Well covin It says here the
series government falls and Assad flees to Russia. The Syrian
government has collapsed after rebels seized control of Damascus. Russian's
foreign ministry said President Bashir al Assad has resigned and
left the country. Opposition forces declared victory in a statement

(47:17):
read on Syrian television Syrian State Television, saying the country
was liberated from rule of dictator Bashir all Asade. The
US military has about nine hundred troops stationed in Syria.
Appeals court says TikTok must go. A federal appeals court

(47:38):
panel on Friday upheld a law mandating the sale or
ban of the Chinese owned social media platform, and a
bipartisan effort, Congress passed the legislation II in its words,
protect us interests. JB signed off on the bill in April.
TikTok argues the forced sale as a violation of a
First Amendment right and may appeal to the Supreme Court. Yeah,

(48:01):
whether the Supreme courtal here or not is up for debate.
And Trump is four TikTok, So who knows. But the
ban is before he takes office, So who knows what's
going to happen. If it does get banned, they won't
take it off your phone. They just will stop updating it.
And eventually, as updates happen, it will become unstable and
harder to use, and you'll end up deleting it. You

(48:21):
have the same crappy videos. Now, can Trump reinstated after
if it's been banned before he takes office? Like we
like the videos? Listen, I think in the current realm
of politics, anything is possible. True statement, true statement. Hey,
Colorado psychedelic therapy program is launching in twenty twenty five.
He oh yeah. Colorado's regulated psilocybin therapy program to address

(48:46):
the state's mental health crisis is set to begin next year.
It will allow therapists to apply for licenses to provide
psychedelic mushrooms to their patients. Facilitators will have to undergo
rigorous training. What are we talking about here? Rigorous training?
Eat these, don't eat too many of them. If you
think that you were a glass of orange juice, you

(49:07):
were not. Yeah. I think it's more of like how
to see the signs of psychosis kicking in, Got you,
got you, got youah, let's see rigorous training. Advocates emphasize
that the program will be heavily regulated to ensure safety
and accessibility for those in need. This stems from Proposition
one twenty two to legalize certain psychedelic mushrooms, which Colorado

(49:30):
voters approved two years ago. I think this is different
from the weed thing. I know a lot of states
are pursuing this. I don't think this type of it's
not for everyone. It's just not right. The psilocybin treatment. Yeah,
it's a small percentage. I think of benefits. So these
group studies are gonna see like, eh, okay, well if

(49:51):
it helps, it helps. Yeah, you know, I always love
telling the story. Casey Musgrave's her last album she was
on she took a bunch before she wrote it. Yeah,
that's where you get the most hurt her own Amittmance. Yeah, yeah,
there ain't nothing's wrong with it. And lastly here Metrolink
Tulsa introduces new service changes. In order to improve accessibility
and efficiency, Metrolink Tulsa has added the following changes. This

(50:12):
is fun. Zone nine will be eliminated. I don't know
where Zone nine is, but hey, if you ride the
city bus, this probably applies to you. Broken Arrow Transit
will expand its coverage and we'll have new hours Monday
to Friday seven am to six pm. Sunday microlink hours
and Zone one, three and four will extend eight am
to eight thirty pm. And then Zone six is available
for booking with expanded coverage. So Zone nine is the

(50:35):
north east part of the of the city. Okay, it's
all out of there. We're not taking the bus out north. Yeah.
You know, a depleted, you know, low income community are
the people that need it. The most but low ridership.
What are they gonna do right? They got to adapt
where they can. No reason to have the bus running
if no one gets on it right.

Speaker 4 (51:06):
College football's championship week is in the books. Oregon took
down Penn State forty five to thirty seven in the
Big Ten Championship, and Clemson defeated SMU thirty four to
thirty one in the ACC Championship on a last second
fifty six yard field goal by true freshman Nolan Hauser. Elsewhere,
Georgia overcame an injury to quarterback Carson Beck to beat

(51:30):
Texas in overtime twenty two to nineteen in the SEC Championship,
and Arizona State smacked Iowa State forty five to nineteen
in the Big Twelve Championship.

Speaker 1 (51:41):
I'm excited for these games. Some people are mad that
sm you got didn't even know they lost, But there's
still a high ranking team doing well, Clemson surprising people
getting in. I think it played out fine. I don't
think Boise State in Arizona State getting first RUMBER that's crazy. Yeah,
that's really exciting. It's different than what we thought the

(52:02):
end of the year would look like. The end of
the Year. We had George Ohio State's not even in it, right,
Georgia we had in there, right, Texas Alabama were in
the mix. Notre Dame was in there. I'm just looking
at the preseason poll that we had.

Speaker 4 (52:19):
Yeah, that's going to be exciting. Notre Dame versus Are
you on the twentieth?

Speaker 1 (52:25):
I think that game's big. I think Tennessee Ohio State's
a big oh. I guess Ohio State is Tennessee Ohio
State's a big game, right, Yeah, So I think that
those are good. Texas Clemson is going to be good.

Speaker 7 (52:36):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (52:36):
I think it played out those games. We played the
twenty twenty first that week that weekend, so.

Speaker 4 (52:40):
Yeah, yeah. Bowl season begins Saturday when Western Michigan faces
South Alabama in the Salute to the Veterans Bowl.

Speaker 1 (52:48):
That's right. And Oklahoma did get a bowl game, Yeah
they did, No, they did. What it is a bowl game.
It's it's not a big one one, but I mean
you get to see them play in the post season. Yeah,
which before getting a bowl game was an absolutely big deal. Yeah. Absolutely,

(53:09):
But now everybody's got a bowl. You know, I means
Dryroll Bowl, not everybody Tulsa is in one. Oklahoma State
isn't in one, right, and they're playing They're playing Navy
at the Lockheed Martin Armed Forces Bowl in Fort Worth
on Friday, December twenty seventh. That says at three, So
I don't know if that's Eastern Central, but so at

(53:31):
least they're they're in a bowl.

Speaker 7 (53:32):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (53:34):
Yeah, their quarterbacks entered in the portal, So we'll see
what kind of team we're getting.

Speaker 4 (53:39):
The Dolphins have won for their last five games. After
outlasting the Jets thirty two to twenty six in overtime
at hard Rock Stadium, Juno Smith caught a ten yard
touchdown pass from Tua taga Viola to clinch the victory
for the Dolphins. To a completed thirty three of his
forty seven pass attempts for three hundred and thirty one

(54:01):
yards and a pair of touchdowns on the day. Tyreek
Hill led all players with ten catches for one hundred
and fifteen yards and a score. Miami is now second
in the AFC East at six and seven. Aaron Rodgers
managed to eclipse the three hundred yard passing mark for
the first time in nearly three years after completing twenty
seven of thirty nine for three hundred and thirty nine

(54:22):
yards and a touchdown. Garrett Wilson and DeVante Adams led
the way for Gang Green. Wilson caught seven passes for
one hundred and fourteen yards, while Adams hauled in nine
balls for one hundred and nine yards and a touchdown.
New York is now tied for last in the division
at three and ten, and the Eagles have a new
all time rusher. Sekwon Barkley broke the franchise record for

(54:43):
yards in a single season during Sunday's win over the Panthers.
The veteran finished with one hundred and twenty four rushing
yards and now has one thousand, six hundred and twenty
three on the season. Berkeley eclipsed the previous record held
by Lashawn McCoy, who wrecked up sixteen hundred yards in
twenty thirteen. The Eagles still have four games left to

(55:04):
play in the regular season. And that's your Balls to
the Wall Sports. I'm Lindsay on ninety seven to five KM.

Speaker 1 (55:20):
Good morning, It's the Big Mad Morning Show nine one
eight four six oh KMOD. You can also text BMMS
and then what you want to say to eight, two, nine,
four five. Good morning Lindsay, Good morning Corbyn.

Speaker 4 (55:32):
Hey, we want you, along with Miller Lyte, to spend
Christmas with the Cowboys. You can win tickets to see
the Dallas Cowboys take on the Tampa Bay Buccaneers on
December twenty second. Interer online at kmod dot com and
wake up with us on Friday the thirteenth to hear
if you've won.

Speaker 1 (55:51):
Good morning Gimbie, Well, good morning Corbyn. The Cowboy Cup
is this weekend Friday and Saturday at the Exchange Center
at Tulsa Expo Square. If you want to sign up
and win My Big Adventure, a VIP experience you'll never remember, well,
you can do that at the website that rocks kmode
dot com. All right, we like to talk to our
listeners because they're awesome. They got crazy stories of adversity

(56:11):
and just life in general. And joining us on the
line right now is Cody. Hey, Cody, how are you?

Speaker 7 (56:18):
I'm good? How are you good?

Speaker 1 (56:20):
Cody? Been married two years? Congratulations? How did you meet
your wife?

Speaker 7 (56:25):
Actually? I was really good friends with her ex husband
and then hadn't seen them for either one of them
for a couple of years and I been him and
found that they weren't together anymore, and then see message
me and well you got together for dinner and just
kind of never left.

Speaker 1 (56:43):
He swooped in, stole her and kept her captive for
two years.

Speaker 7 (56:47):
Well, well I'll be hey.

Speaker 1 (56:52):
It says here that you are part of the member
of a bit of Oklahoma. For those that don't know,
we just talked about them, you know, for Toy Run,
and I think people know it for toy Run. But
tell everybody what you guys do.

Speaker 7 (57:05):
Well, everybok does a lot of things for bikers and
their rights to ride their motorcycle and do what they
want to do to their motorcycle, so that we're really
a big education group as well. So we do a
lot for education, changing laws, for making about Oklahoma the

(57:28):
best place you can to ride.

Speaker 1 (57:31):
Yeah, and I don't think people knew that that's what
you guys do. It's about motorcycles. I don't love this term,
but like motorcycle rights, it's you know, you said it
the best place to ride a motorcycle in the country.
You wanted to beat the state of Oklahoma. I'm curious
about this because I think this is really fascinating. Handlebar
laws and hands free laws. Talk to me about that.

Speaker 7 (57:54):
Yeah, So this year we're actually going after two laws.
We're going to change our law gets sandlebarre high and
hands free for people driving their farers up to down
the road right now in the stay with the home.
Now if you're legal for your handle bars to be
any taller than your eye level. And part of the
problem with that is is like if you're out riding
in the group and wanting your butt and when you

(58:16):
get hurt and you got to call somebody, Hey, can
you come ride a bike home for you your handle
bars or eye level that your friend may be a
little bit shorter than you. So whenever he gets on
your bike to ride the bike home for you, as
you're not able to for whatever issue, now he gets
pulled over and to get the ticket because your handlebars
are on your bike are taller than his eye level. So,

(58:39):
you know, we don't think that's fair. You know, we
want to be able to choose what we want to
put on our bikes, and so we think we're going
to go after changing that law for that reason. But
also hands free. You know, one of the biggest killers
of motorcycles is other people driving their cars and uh,

(59:00):
you know, first thing they say when when they hit
a motorcycle is is I never saw it. A lot
of times they don't see us because they're on their
cell phones. You know, it makes us really dangerous for us.
We don't have a cage around us, whatever, we'll get
in an accident, as you know as a biker yourself.
So we want to make it to where we have
stricter laws for being hands free in your thought. We're

(59:21):
not saying you can't take a call, we just don't
want you to do it with your with your phone
in your hand, hands free.

Speaker 1 (59:29):
Of Sometimes I thought there was already a law about that, So.

Speaker 7 (59:33):
There there is a but it's not really it's it's
kind of a difficult gray area there. But we want
stricter enforcement and stricter punishment for it because what they're
doing right now isn't working. So you know, we don't
want to get rid of the law or and make

(59:55):
a new one or anything like that. We're going after
the change to the law. We want to make it
lit a strict and a little more forced because it's
what they're doing isn't working. We're still getting killed, We're
still getting killed by people on our cell phones.

Speaker 1 (01:00:08):
Now this isn't new, Like you guys have worked on
laws before. What are some laws that you guys have
already changed.

Speaker 7 (01:00:15):
Well, one of the very first laws a bait changed
here in the state of Oklahoma was the law forcing
motorcycles to wear a helmet when they're riding the bike.
And so now because of what a bait had done
in the past, now you can choose whether or not
you want to put a helmet on your head. We're
not against helmets a matter of fact, a lot of

(01:00:36):
us wear helmets on our Bible. But it's the freedom
of choice. So, you know, one of the laws we
changed there was if you're eighteen year older the state
of Oklahoma, you now have the choice to whether or
not you want to put a helmet on your head
when you get on your motorcycle.

Speaker 1 (01:00:51):
Does abait have other chapters around the country or is
it just an Oklahoma thing?

Speaker 7 (01:00:57):
There is an abait in every state.

Speaker 1 (01:00:59):
Okay, we need to get that changed all the way around.
I hate having a good and we're put my helmet
on and then when I get to you know, Florida,
take it back off.

Speaker 7 (01:01:09):
It's like, come on, and as a matter of fact,
I believe it was Nebraska just actually had their law
changed earlier this year.

Speaker 1 (01:01:21):
Are there any laws that you are for that should
exist for motorcycles?

Speaker 7 (01:01:28):
Well, I mean there's a lot of laws out there
and we don't We're not really against any law. The
only laws were really is one that force you to
do something they really they have no reason to be
forced to do. So laws are good in stride, So,

(01:01:49):
I mean, it's feed lim It's obviously we got to
have those because speed kills people that don't know how
to ride with their riding. Does that make sense? But
we want the freedom of choice to be able to
a lot of fire motorcycles the way we want. We
want the freedom of choice to purchase our motorcycles the
way we want because right now they're trying to make
laws forcing the cell of electric motorcycles and we are

(01:02:13):
against that. That pusher. We're not against electric bias. You
want to buy an electric motorcycles, that's fine. We're against
the force of an electric motor tracle.

Speaker 1 (01:02:22):
Wouldn't you say forced? What do you mean by that? Like,
what are they doing to force?

Speaker 7 (01:02:27):
Well, okay, so here's an example. Have you guys heard
of carb California air Board. I have not, so they recently, Okay,
so that was a group obviously in California. You know,
California recently pushed the deal saying that all their vehicle
cells fifty percent of their vehicle sales by the year

(01:02:48):
I think it was twenty twenty five or twenty thirty five,
something like that, I don't remember. The exact terminology had
to be electric, and they were working on pushing the
same bill in the in a motorcycle version, which the
m r F, who is basically the same thing as
a BAIT only their national scale works in coordination with

(01:03:13):
their SMROS or state more circle rights of organizations like ABAIT,
and here recently cars shut that build down, so they're
no longer pushing a force fifty percent production only electric motorcycle,
and not just production but sell as well, so they're
trying to force out they're trying to product the engine

(01:03:35):
and bushes all straight to an electric.

Speaker 1 (01:03:41):
Besides motorcycles, what are some of your hobbies.

Speaker 7 (01:03:45):
I do a lot of things, and I'm a mechanic
and I love working on cars. I love peeping with
my bike, modifying my bike, my cars, my trucks. I
bought a jeep. I just put thirty ones on it,
bought new front rear bumpers.

Speaker 1 (01:04:00):
Kah.

Speaker 7 (01:04:01):
I love playing with my kids. You know, my kids
enjoy going with me to do things like yesterday with
a serif he spoke up earlier this morning, my kids
were there. They loved it. But I spent a lot
of time with my family when I'm not at work
and bike.

Speaker 1 (01:04:18):
How you how'd you become a man mechanic?

Speaker 6 (01:04:19):
What?

Speaker 1 (01:04:20):
What caught your interest to do that?

Speaker 7 (01:04:24):
Then I grew up on a drag trip. My dad
was a record driver when I was younger, and his
boss owned a truck to be built it for a
dragon racing And I grew up in the burnout box
for the dragon trip. And I just still love the
cars there. And I always wanted to mess with cars.
I love turn rincheons and I've made it through out

(01:04:44):
of it.

Speaker 1 (01:04:46):
What's your dream car?

Speaker 7 (01:04:49):
It's not really a car, I mean, I mean it's
a truck. I would love one of these days, I'm
gonna buy a third gym Cruit Cabul drive uh coming
thirty twenty five hundred, put a big old lift on
it to lowers the fires. One six speeds with a
full ship full drive.

Speaker 1 (01:05:11):
What's one car you wish could be taken off the
road forever because it's ugly?

Speaker 9 (01:05:18):
Uh?

Speaker 7 (01:05:19):
Personally, I have never cared for the uh Scion, the
the sub they put out.

Speaker 1 (01:05:27):
Yeah, the little box thing, Yeah.

Speaker 7 (01:05:29):
It looks like a refrigerator box.

Speaker 1 (01:05:31):
Yeah yeah, what if your kid wants one?

Speaker 7 (01:05:37):
I can't say the tooth mood it wants to do.
But I mean, I gotta like his choice.

Speaker 1 (01:05:43):
If you want to drive your box, go for it.
Why do I gotta be honest. I don't think you're
gonna say a Toyota Scion. But I love that you
said that if you could bring any car back into production,
what would it be?

Speaker 7 (01:05:58):
Classic? Glorious?

Speaker 1 (01:06:00):
Really? The DeLorean of all the cars and all the
land you went with the DeLorean? Huh yeah, go down
the rabbit hole.

Speaker 7 (01:06:09):
I was a big back to the teacher kids, man.
I mean I love that movie. The Glorian stuff. They
made it big in my opinion, that looked cool, and
you know, the going doors on it and stuff they
don't make cars on. Second, if you go down the.

Speaker 1 (01:06:24):
Rabbit hole of John Delorian and of all the things
he did wrong and how his arrogance is what caused
that company to just fall apart. It is a fascinating
rabbit hole. There should be a movie about him and
how big of a of a of a narcissist he
was and when it came to his car company. It's fascinating.
So I'm I'm shocked that you want that's the car

(01:06:44):
you picked, but I love it. They actually are bringing
the DeLorean back. You should check out the Alpha five.
It's pretty slick looking car. I'm just saying, Okay, it's
not old school like you know, back to the future,
but it is very futuristic looking. It's the Alpha five
from DeLorean. You should google it.

Speaker 7 (01:07:06):
Well, I'll check it out.

Speaker 1 (01:07:07):
Yeah, that's if you could pick what's the most manly
car like for men to drive? If you want to
be like I want to display my my machismo through
a vehicle, what would that be?

Speaker 7 (01:07:22):
Well, I mean, are you talking modernly classic? Whatever you want, sir,
I mean basically the old classic muscle car. It is
just strange. You know, I've got the only the size
of coconuts when they're built properly. Now, I've never really
cared for somebody taking a classic and you know, just
trying to turn it into this this modern thing. I

(01:07:43):
mean I understand, you know, you don't throw a modern
fuel injected engine and the Okay, fine, I get that,
but keep the classic look. Don't put big old twenty
six wheels on it stuff like that. I mean, that's cool. Look,
if that's what you're into personally, I like an old
school classic with some you know, oh freggers or American
racing wheels, big old fat, meaty tires on the back.

(01:08:06):
To me, that just streams the horns.

Speaker 1 (01:08:08):
Man, Now what about the most Like you see a
guy driving, you're gonna question his machismos smart car and
that would be what, like, how would you define a
smart car?

Speaker 7 (01:08:23):
Look, dude, anything that you could pick up by hand
and put in the back of a pickup. Yeah, you
probably shouldn't have that road.

Speaker 1 (01:08:30):
Okay. Uh, what was the first car you ever worked on?

Speaker 7 (01:08:35):
I think the first one I ever bought nineteen ninety
four Ford Probe.

Speaker 1 (01:08:40):
Look at that? Yeah, and what'd you love about that?

Speaker 7 (01:08:44):
Man? I paid one hundred bucks of that car, put
four tires and radio in it, and drove till it
blew up. Man two door classic sleep looking, had no
had no nothing, underneath the hood really because there's just
no force cylinder. But they were just fun to drive
all around because they look cool and they sound You're
really good if you're from the exhaust all hang and

(01:09:04):
you just can't beat whenever you pay one hundred bucks
for a car, you're you know, fifteen sixteen years old
driving around.

Speaker 1 (01:09:10):
So here's a question when it comes to like, are
do you wait, do you do resident? Do you do
a commercial or like personal car mechanic stuff?

Speaker 7 (01:09:24):
I work for a little owner operator shop okay in Tulsa,
and we don't we're not a We're kind of do both.
So we have a few commercial clients, but most of
what we do is just people's cars.

Speaker 1 (01:09:34):
Yeah, I get. I just didn't want to ask a
qu if you worked on rigs. I didn't want to
ask a question that would So what's a myth about
car maintenance that you wish everyone would stop believing?

Speaker 7 (01:09:47):
So they're I mean, maintenance is pretty pretty well maintenance.
There's not really a bunch of myths about it. I mean,
you do need to change your oil cula stuff like that. Honestly,
if you follow what's in the owner's manual, which is
one thing people don't do anymore. They buy a car
that don't read their owner's manual. Don't just listen and
what people tell you break that owner's manual. Out read

(01:10:07):
your maintenance. They'll tell you when you need to change
your oill, how often you change your coolant, your transmission flush.
Anytime you hear squeaking a break, drive that far into
the shop. If you're not going to restate yourself, it's
all your break PABs are getting low. I don't know
how many times we get a car in here? Is
that all it's just noisy breaks? No, it's not. Your
breaks are metal to metal. Man, you have no no

(01:10:30):
pad left. But honestly, I mean I don't really hear myths.

Speaker 1 (01:10:37):
Okay, So I mean, what's what's one of your favorite
customer stories where they bring a car in and they
say car is doing X, and then you come to
find out it's something really ridiculous.

Speaker 7 (01:10:50):
I actually had one last week. We had the sweet
little lady brought a car in and she was like,
I need knew were breaks they're squeaking And it turned
out I pulled the real wheel rough that car and
she swore up down and needed brakes. And she's just
the sweetest lady. There was a rock stuck behind the rotor,

(01:11:11):
not the size of the marble. It got hung up
behind the desk feaver, and every time you put the
car in reverse, it would just sound like five fitch screw,
almost like a little little girl screaming. And it only
happened in reverse though, But it ended up not needing break.

(01:11:32):
I pulled that roader off that car and that rock
fell out and I picked it up and it was
the size of the marble, and I was like, good grief,
how does she even get this thing in there?

Speaker 1 (01:11:43):
I have one final question for you, man, about being
a mechanic. Of the people I know that are mechanics,
some of them create their own, like invent their own
tools or modify a tool. Have you ever created or
invented a tool to help make a job easier for you?

Speaker 7 (01:12:00):
We've we've done a few here and there, you know,
We've we've cut some wrenches down, we've been them and
heating them up, and we've also shaved them to make
them more in a thinner because sometimes you just can't
get in that space with a regular wrench that you
buy off the shelf because it's just too thick, so
do things like that, and sometimes you just got to

(01:12:22):
get creative. Man, the way they build they build these
cars these days, they make it harder, harder to work on,
so there are just no spakes. So yeah, I'm want
to say we we've built a few tools here and there,
you know.

Speaker 1 (01:12:35):
Yeah, yeah, I don't understand any of that. So I'm
just not I'm just not a mechanic basically. Sometimes it's
just too thick. Yeah, And I have one more I
just thought a homer question I want to ask you
and that and that is what is the repair You
couldn't figure out that it keeps you up at night
that you had to ask somebody else to help you

(01:12:55):
figure out.

Speaker 7 (01:12:59):
I mean, there's not really one that keeps you up
at night, because when you're work in a shop like
I do you just yet it's like a family, maybe
all work together. It's so there's not really one that
you don't that keeps you up at night because we
always do whatever we can to figure it out. And
there's not a lot of times the vehicle leaves our

(01:13:19):
shop that we couldn't figure it out. We either figured
it out and it's not something we work on like
shop I work out.

Speaker 1 (01:13:23):
We don't.

Speaker 7 (01:13:25):
We don't fix transmissions. We'll we'll do like flush and
filters and stuff like that, but we don't break your
transmission apart and rebuild or nothing like that. So there's
cars that leave here that need to go to the
transmission shop. But anything else, you know, if it's something
that we work on, we figure it out one way
or the other, and we all just lean on each

(01:13:46):
other so that things like that just don't happen.

Speaker 1 (01:13:50):
Right on, man, Well listen, Cody, I've enjoyed talkingy man.
Thanks for all you do with a bait and the
toy drive you guys just did and all the good
things that debate does and everything else. Man, And congratulations
on your what your recent wife and you guys have
a great holiday, hey man.

Speaker 7 (01:14:06):
You guys do the same, and thanks for calling. I
hope you guys enjoy the rest of your holiday and
the day and its Cooby kind of goodness to say.
Ryan Wards, all.

Speaker 1 (01:14:14):
Right, buddy, have a good one man, Thanks Cody, Thank you, elater.
Our listeners are awesome. Take a break and we'll be back.

Speaker 8 (01:14:20):
The Big Man Morning Show returns next. Elsa's Morning Show
ninety km O D.

Speaker 1 (01:14:36):
Good morning. It's the Big Mad Morning Show nine one
eight four six. Oh K M O D. Can also
text BM a mass and then what you want to
say to A two nine four five. We're gonna do
a quick little game of what. Two little crazy stories,
one of them local Thursday night. Apparently these two guys

(01:14:56):
went to work. While they were working, they were using
a lift to move of a steel plate across the
the you know, the floor of the place they work.
Something got dislodged, steel plate fell on them, killed them.
What they were not discovered until the morning crew showed up.
Oh my, what a wild story that is. And they

(01:15:22):
were only I would I would think there'd be some
sort of safety protocol where not both people stand under
Maybe they weren't. I don't know. All right, you got
to get the job done, man, Yeah, but you know
ain't gonna move itself, right. But I would think one
person's like, hey, I'm gonna stand here and so I
have to witness it should something bad happen. Oh god,
could you imagine seeing your coworker get crushed by a

(01:15:43):
giant steel plate or both both of them. Yeah, Like
you're just you're back here trying to be the safety guy,
make sure everything's fine, and then splat, or the people
showing up for work the next morning, they're like, Frank,
where's Frank? I can't find him? Hey, this, why is
this plate on the ground. This isn't where this goes?
Shoes poking out of it like the wicked witch of

(01:16:05):
the Wow, God, I hope not. That happened right here
in town. So to those families are the people that
caught it like that? Terrible that I can't even fathom
what that was like. And then you have to go
back to work. Oh wild, wild story. The somebody with
a fire department said, accidents happen. Unfortunately, it is tragic.

(01:16:26):
We can only do so much to prevent them. That's true,
Yeah for sure. Yeah, safety is kind of a subjective thing.
You can choose to participate it or not. Ah. So
that's one crazy story, and then this one I think
is crazy crazy in a different way. We obviously had

(01:16:46):
a lot of chicken in this country. Yeah, right, and
so thats more than four times a week even uh,
and that requires there to be a lot of chicken farms,
and for some reason, nearly six hundred million chickens go
miss seen each year. What six million chickens just vanish
from the face of the earth. Yeah, aliens like chicken too.

(01:17:12):
They escape, just free roaming chickens, which sounds crazy, I know,
but down in Key West they have chickens just roaming
the streets wherever. All They just that's that's like their
their town animal. It's just so many, so bizarre.

Speaker 4 (01:17:32):
They're homeless chickens.

Speaker 1 (01:17:34):
Yes. In twenty twenty one, five hundred and fifty six
million chickens in the US died at hatcheries and on
farms before reaching the slaughterhouse, and then their cocauses go
to landfills, incinerators, compost heaps, or pet food. An additional
forty one million never entered the food supply chain, either
because they died during transport to the slaughterhouse, were slaughtered
but deemed unsafe to eat do to whatever reason like

(01:17:57):
tumors or bruising or infections. Five hundred ninety seven million
chickens that are never consumed six percent of the nine
point eight billion raised to eat every year. It's a
lot of chicken. What I'm being honest when I say this.

(01:18:20):
I try to think philosophically about a lot of things,
and it wasn't it's maybe in like the last five
to ten years, did it land on me how many
chickens have to be farmed. Just drive down the street
and see the number of chicken restaurants just in your town,

(01:18:41):
and it's just an insane amount. Somebody's got to raise
them chickens.

Speaker 4 (01:18:47):
Yeah, I don't think you can go to a place
and not have some sort of chicken on a menu.

Speaker 1 (01:18:52):
I don't disagree.

Speaker 4 (01:18:55):
I can't think of one place.

Speaker 1 (01:18:56):
Yeah, And just the sheer volume, I mean billion, right,
and not just one billion, not just two billion, not
just three billion, not just four billion, not just five billion.
Damn near ten billion chickens each year. It's wild to

(01:19:21):
me when you really think about the sheer number. And
it doesn't just stop at chickens. I mean you got
to look at the cattle industry as well. You know,
if you take all those chickens and all those cattles,
you put them in one spot. One that's gonna stink horrendously,
and then two, why that's the damn lot of chicken
and cow. But those are like, what those are two

(01:19:43):
main ones?

Speaker 9 (01:19:43):
Right?

Speaker 7 (01:19:44):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:19:44):
But beef, for some reason, chicken always gets this thing
like huh, right, be feels more accepted. Yeah, and it is,
you know, three times as much. Yeah, but still it's
just it's insane. Member's insane to me. Nine billion chickens, yeah,

(01:20:06):
nine billion of Anything's a lot.

Speaker 8 (01:20:07):
Now.

Speaker 1 (01:20:08):
I worked on a chicken farm, which I love to
tell people about because I think it's hilarious. And I
don't know how many chickens they had there, but two
to three times a year we would go and load
chickens up to go to the soup plant. Right, Yeah,
and it was I mean it was a good I
think it was like a quarter of a mile, the
four rows quarter of a mile. That's least a couple

(01:20:30):
hundred thousand, I imagine. I don't know. I don't know, dude.
But even then, I was like, that's a lot. That's
a lot of chicken, right. I guess when you eat,
so if you eat a two chicken breast is one chicken.

(01:20:52):
I know this sounds stupid, but I'm just trying to
like equate it, like two chicken breasts. If you, like,
you and your wife have a chicken breast for dinner,
that's two chickens, right, what is it? I guess I
don't know, don't chickens have two boobs, yeah, two breasts.
So that's just one chicken, you know, you and your wife.

(01:21:13):
That's what I'm saying, Like one chicken. And how many
times do you eat?

Speaker 9 (01:21:17):
Do that?

Speaker 8 (01:21:18):
Right?

Speaker 6 (01:21:18):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:21:19):
Like Lindy said, sometimes three four times a week?

Speaker 4 (01:21:21):
Yeah, but yeah exactly, because I mean think about when
you go to the grocery store. Do you ever buy
the the package of like ten chicken breas? Oh yeah, yeah, oh.

Speaker 1 (01:21:30):
Yeah, just find ten chickens like it ain't nothing, right,
that's crazy, all right? So ten million seconds is three
point one seven years, okay, ten billion seconds. So that's
we're doing chicken. I'm trying to show how many chickens
is three hundred and seventeen years. Oh damn, that's still

(01:21:54):
a lot of chicken. It's a lot of chicken. Lot chicken.
I don't know why that floors me, but it does.
You drive and I guess maybe you see cattle out
out in fields, so you're like, oh, okay, but the
chickens are in some coop, right, So you don't even
think twice about it. You just smell it. That's all

(01:22:15):
you do. You never forget that smell. God, it's the
worst you never forget like cow. You go, Yeah, this
cut poop chicken, you're like, it gets stuck in your
nose forever. Sometimes you can taste it. It's the worst.
The guy that on the chicken from Gary Man, he
smelled like it all the time. Oh that's terrible. You

(01:22:37):
get in his car, it smelled like chicken poop. He's
clothes smelled like chicken poop. He didn't have many friends,
did he. He was a pretty lonely guy, right, him
and his chickens. He was it was super nice guy. Yeah,
but he didn't have a girlfriend or boyfriend or whatever.
But he didn't have anything. Yeah, just because he over

(01:22:59):
he oversaw the group, the demal A group. I was
part of the Satanistic cult. It's not by the way,
that's a joke. Calm down, dema a friends uh and
and so yeah, he was like a divisor and so
he was. It was nice. He was great paid well, yeah,
but it smelled like chicken poo. Even his checks smelled

(01:23:21):
like chicken poo.

Speaker 7 (01:23:22):
Oh.

Speaker 1 (01:23:24):
You could not get rid of it. Every time I worked,
I had to throw my clothes away after because you
would never get it out ever. Shoes I would go
buy like cheap Walmart shoes and that would be it.
Use them that one time they're gone. It's horrendous smell.
All right, we got to take a break. Good morning,

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Speaker 4 (01:24:22):
The Steelers have won back to back games after taking
down the rival Browns twenty seven to fourteen from Akroshaer Stadium.
Russell Wilson completed fifteen of twenty six passes for one
hundred and fifty eight yards and two touchdowns. Pat Fryarmouth
and Van Jefferson came down with touchdowns, while George Pickens
missed the first game of his career due to a

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groin injury. Pittsburgh still leads the AFC North at ten
and three. Jamis Winston went twenty four of forty one
for two hundred and twelve yards, two touchdowns and two interceptions.
Jerry Judy state hot with sixty four receiving yards and
a scores. Cleveland has lost four or five and remains
last in the division at three and ten.

Speaker 1 (01:25:03):
I'm good with that. We have them next.

Speaker 4 (01:25:05):
This weekend, I believe the Seattle Seahawks ran all over
the Arizona Cardinals en route to a thirty to eighteen
win at State Farm Stadium. Seattle ran for one hundred
and seventy six yards as a team in the game.
Zach Charbonnet had twenty two carries, one hundred and thirty
four yards and two touchdowns. Gino Smith was efficient, completing
twenty four of thirty passes for two hundred and thirty

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three yards, a touchdown and no interceptions. The Hawks have
won four straight games and are eight and five. They
remain in the top spot in the NFC West, one
game ahead of the Rams. Murray finished twenty five for
thirty eight with two hundred and fifty nine yards, two
touchdowns and two picks. James Connor at eighteen carries for
ninety yards. The Cards have lost three straight and are

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six and seven.

Speaker 1 (01:25:51):
How about those Rams, man, what a great game that
was against the Bills.

Speaker 4 (01:25:55):
It was so good, forty four to forty two, highest
scoring game of the NFL season.

Speaker 1 (01:26:01):
If I remember it is the first game five tds
and I forget how many field goals with no interceptions
since nineteen sixty something. Somebody put that game on rookie
mood one hundred percent. It was like, either the Rams
played really well or there may be a potential fraud
alert on the Bills. Oh okay, Bills really didn't wake

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up until the second half.

Speaker 4 (01:26:27):
I mean, let's see. Stafford completed twenty three of thirty
passes for three hundred and twenty yards and two touchdowns,
and let's see, let's see Josh Allen went twenty two
of thirty seven for three hundred and forty two yards
three touchdowns through the air, while rushing for an additional
eighty two yards and three touchdowns.

Speaker 1 (01:26:48):
Yeah, but I don't think any of that really happened
until they scored like twenty eight points in the second half.
Yeah the Bills did.

Speaker 4 (01:26:57):
Yeah, they had a seven game win streak, snap to
fall the ten.

Speaker 1 (01:26:59):
And yeah they look shook. Stafford had the secondary on
their heels. Yeah, it was a fantastic game. Came to watch.
I love the idea of the Rams playing spoiler to
a lot of teams at seven and six. Yeah, yeah,
that's that one would like the record. We talk about
the record don't mean nothing.

Speaker 4 (01:27:21):
It's true the Minnesota Vikings spoiled Kirk Cousins return to
the Twin Cities with a forty two to twenty one
victory over the Falcons at US Bank Stadium. The Vikings
outscored Atlanta twenty one and nothing in the fourth quarter
to seal to win. Sam Darnold became the first Minnesota
quarterback to throw for over three hundred yards and five
touchdowns in the same game since Dante Culpepper back in

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two thousand and four. Jordan Addison caught eight passes for
one hundred and thirty three yards and three scores, while
Justin Jefferson hauled in seven catches for one hundred and
thirty two yards and two touchdowns. Minnesota is on a
six game winning streak. Kirk Cousins passed for three hundred
and forty four yards and two intercept and the losing efforts.
The Falcons have lost four in a row.

Speaker 1 (01:28:03):
Now, Yeah, there was a big call afterwards for them
to bench Kirk Cousins and bring in Michael Pennock Junior.
And the coach is like, he's our No, Kirk Cousins
is our quarterback.

Speaker 4 (01:28:15):
Yeah, we'll see yeah, and it is now time for
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quarterback in place of injured veteran Dak Prescott. Rush completed
twenty one up thirty six for one hundred and ninety
five yards and a touchdown and a win over the
Giants on Thanksgiving Day. Dallas is third in the NFC
East at five and seven after its bye week. The
Bengals are looking to snap a three game skid for
the second time this season. Joe Burrow is leading the
team with three thy three hundred and thirty seven yards

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passing to go along with thirty touchdowns. Our Chase has
had a stellar season as hee Anders this week, leading
the league in receiving with one THY one hundred and
forty two yards and thirteen touchdowns. Cincinnati is currently third
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Join us in the studio now is Jeff Hensley of
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Jeff's here to answer any question you have about custody, guardianship,

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name change. Maybe you're looking to figure out if you're
gonna have alimony or not. He can get into the
depths of whether you will or not. They don't call
it that here, so he can explain it, though, just
whitch your question calmony, We do call it alan I
thought you said you don't call it.

Speaker 9 (01:30:45):
No, we call it alimony, but it's it's calculated differently
than other states.

Speaker 1 (01:30:49):
If you have a question about that, he can answer it.
Nine one, eight four to six Oh kmo d email
show at kmod dot com or text BMMS and whatever
your question is to eight two nine four five says recently,
and I have many assets. She doesn't have hardly any
how should I go about a prenup? My first marriage,
and I want to make sure my stuff stays my

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stuff if anything were to ever happen.

Speaker 9 (01:31:12):
That's true love. No, seriously, if you're doing a prenup,
give us a call. I mean, we've been actually doing
quite a few prenups in the last month. I guess
everyone's getting ready for, you know, getting married before around
the holidays. But the basically gist of it is is
that if you have something like that and you want
to protect your assets. A prenuptial agreement is the way
to do it. And you know there's certain things you

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can and can't put in a prenup. You know you
can't put people like children in a prenup, but as
far as everything else, it's pretty much fair game. So
you know, if you've got questions about that, you want
to protect your assets because you've worked hard, and while
you love the other side, you know, we never know
it's going to happen in the future, right, and so
please give us a call. We'd be happy to help
with that.

Speaker 1 (01:31:53):
Here's a question we've never talked about when it comes
to prenup. If you are the one being offered a
prenup to sign, is it a negotiation?

Speaker 7 (01:32:02):
Well it is?

Speaker 1 (01:32:03):
I mean, if what should you do when someone here,
I want to keep everything.

Speaker 9 (01:32:06):
And I'm glad we get to bring this up because
you want to understand that if you're presented with a prenup,
First of all, it needs to be way in advance
of the wedding, Okay, and at least several weeks show.

Speaker 1 (01:32:17):
Up the day of the wedding.

Speaker 9 (01:32:18):
Well, you joke and you laugh. The number of people
that sign these things on the church house steps is unreal.
And the problem with that is is that you've got
this issue of is it coercion, is it force? You know,
are you forced to sign it? Because the person is saying,
if you don't sign this right now, all this is

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called off, we ain't getting married. Well that's coercion, all right,
that doesn't work. You can't force somebody into signing these things.
But the number of people that are it's it's staggering.
I actually did a national continuing education thing for lawyers
across the US about pre nups and the number of
people I talked to in another states that have dealt
with these issues, use of people signing on the court

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on the on the church house steps is unreal. And
so you run into problems there because down the road,
when you do decide to get married or excuse me,
divorced and something falls through, you fall back on the prenup. Well,
was the prenup entered into mutually? Was it entered into legally?
Was it entered into without any force of coercion or force?
I mean, it's really hard when not to want to

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sign something right away when you're on the court on
this I keep saying Qutter on the church steps being
told you're not going to get married, which is something
you've been planning for for I don't know how many
months and paying how many tens of thousands of dollars
for these super expensive weddings now just to be told,
if you don't sign this right now, we're not getting married.
I mean it's that's coersion and that's a problem. So
first of all, you want to sign look at it

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way in advance, number one, if you're number two, if
you're number two, if you're presented with a prenup, all right,
you want to have an attorney look at it right.
Don't just trust your own skills to make sure that
things are correct and the way you want it to be.
You want to hire an attorney to look at it
with you and through it and make sure it covers
everything you wanted to cover. Or saying look, you know,
I don't agree with this, or I don't agree with that,

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or I want to add this, whatever that may be.
You want to have an attorney help you through that
so you know exactly what your rights are and what
they can and can't do, so that no wolves pulled
over your eyes. The number of people that don't hire
an attorneys and sign these things again staggering again. I
think a lot of this is coercion. You know, you
don't no one ever wants to think about. Like for example,
when my wife and I got married, we were poor

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college kids. Okay, we didn't have anything, so we didn't
need a prenup, right, we didn't literally didn't have anything.
But people who are getting married, especially when they're older,
they've worked hard in their careers. They've bought property, they've
owned businesses, they all these other things. You want to
protect those assets, and a prenups a way to do that,
but you want to do it the right way and
not force the other person to sign it. You know,
at the last minute, you want to do everything properly

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because when you get to that divorce, if you get
to divorce and those issues come up and says, well,
I was forced to sign this because I was told
if I didn't, we weren't getting married. You got a
problem now with the prenup, and now your stuff is
potentially open for grabs.

Speaker 1 (01:35:02):
So we do it the right way. The person offering
the prenup has should also have a responsibility of making
sure there wouldn't be a catch later by doing it
on the steps of the church, right, And what would
be just quickly. I don't want to go too much
into it because people can call you if they want
to get into the weeds. But what is something most
people who are offered a prenup overlook that they should

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re counter back with, like a duration of type if
we've been together ten years, this dissolves. I mean, what
would be something you would recommend.

Speaker 9 (01:35:32):
As far as what like to negotiate back? Well, I
mean you never know if. I mean, first of all,
everyone ers enters into marriage with the idea of well,
we're not going to get divorced, or we don't want
to get divorced, or we hope it don't get divorced. Right,
I mean, no one, no one enters into marriag quoting yeah,
I'm gonna be divorced in five years, that's my goal.
I mean, no one does that, right, So it's hard
to plan ahead and think, well, what if we get married?

(01:35:54):
You start playing the what if game? All right, It's
like playing the what if game with my eleven year old.

Speaker 7 (01:35:58):
All right.

Speaker 9 (01:35:58):
You can get into these if what if, would, what if?
What if? And the problem with that is is it's
hard to plan for every single scenario. The idea behind
it is to look and see, if you get divorced,
no matter when it is all right, what stuff do
you want to protect? All right? And so that's what
you've got to get in and figure out. You've got
to make a list of all your assets, all the
things going on that you want to include properties, you know, businesses, stuff,

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whatever it may be you want to you have to
list all those things out. That says, if you get divorced,
you walk away with this, and the other side walks
away with this, whatever those items may be.

Speaker 1 (01:36:33):
But to the person's tax that came in, if they
want to safeguard all the things they're bringing into the marriage,
can they one hundred percent safeguard them?

Speaker 9 (01:36:40):
You can try absolutely, I mean we can definitely try
and do that. But we've got to look and see
what those assets are. I don't know. I don't know
everything that he has or if she has, or whoever
it is, I don't know. And so we've got to
look at it and see, well, is it something we
can include or is it something we can't include? Right,
We've got to go through step by step, and that's
why you want an attorney to do these things. You
don't want to go online and do rocket lawyer and

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also their craft that's out there to draft up your
own prenup. All right, most of the times those things
are wrong. Even though they say they're state specific, they're
not all right. So with that being said, you want
an attorney to draft it up. So please, if you're
thinking of doing this, give us a call. We've been
drafting up a lot lately. We'd love to help you out.

Speaker 1 (01:37:16):
What if you don't have anything, but you know the
other party has substantial debt. Would a prenup safeguard you
from taking her?

Speaker 9 (01:37:23):
Yeah? Absolutely. I mean you can put in there that
any debt you walk into, any debt you walk into
at the marriage, at the time marriage, anything it's before
the marriage, is all on the previous person.

Speaker 1 (01:37:32):
Yeah, so it's it's mostly seen as a thing to
protect your assets, but it can also be a thing
to not have to take on the other person's pay.

Speaker 9 (01:37:37):
I mean, there's all sorts of protections that the prenup involves, absolutely,
and most people don't think about it. Not everybody needs
a prenup. Okay, let's let's just throw that out there
the example I gave. If you don't have anything, you
don't need a prenup, all right. I would only suggest
prenups for people with very large assets and lots of
or businesses or whatever it may be. Now, that's not

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true for everybody, everybody. You know, some people may want that,
and prenups are a good tool, but they're not necessarily
for everybody, not every I'm not saying that every person
out there that gets mary needs a prenup.

Speaker 1 (01:38:09):
That's not it, right, You should consult legal advice to
make sure if it makes sense for you.

Speaker 9 (01:38:12):
All for your free fifteen minute consultation.

Speaker 1 (01:38:14):
This one says, my father isn't on my birth certificate,
but we've gotten a DNA test and no, he is
my father. How do I get to where he is
on there? I'm native and need documentation to prove it.

Speaker 9 (01:38:27):
Well, I mean there's a lot of empty there's a
lot of holes here. I mean holds serve with.

Speaker 1 (01:38:31):
A DNA part of it. Because you've addressed this before
when people find out they are the father.

Speaker 9 (01:38:35):
Right, so you know, if you do a DNA test,
all right, you want to make sure that it's done
at a facility, all right, You don't want to use
the ones at CVS and Walgreens. I'm not saying those
tests are bad. I'm not saying those tests are not accurate.
I'm merely saying that those tests cannot be used in court. Okay,
So with that being said, you want to make sure
you do it at a facility that is licensed to

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do these things. There's three or four here in Tulsa
that do it. I know other bigs have all multiple
different places to go. But you want to make sure
you get an actual lab test done rather than something
that you buy at Walgreens recivs all right. Main reasoning
is that the nations, no matter what nation it is,
if you're trying to get on their roles, is going
to require that directly from a facility, not from a

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home test Number one, number two. As far as you know,
you got to get into these weeds, and it gets
very confusing, and every tribe has a little bit of
different requirements and all this other stuff. You know, some
some tribes have blood amount requirements. You have to be
X number percentage and all these other things to prove.
So you have to first and look and see is

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this we're doing. I don't know this person's heritage. Maybe
his dad is full blood. I don't know. We'll have
to figure that out, you know. But whoever this is,
give us a call. We can work on getting that done.
But it is a process and it's not something that's quick.
It's not something that necessarily easy. It can be done.
We've done it all. We've done several of them, but
it does take some time. So understand that we can
make that happen. Again, I don't know ho this person is.

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I mean are we talking, are they teenager? Are they
in their twenties or and then the fifty I mean,
we've got to find out all these things. So whoever
this is, please give me a call. I'd love to
help you walk you through it a little further and
find out what's going on.

Speaker 1 (01:40:12):
What would be the benefit of, let's say they are
an adult, what would be the benefit of getting your
father on your birth certificate? Just ceremonial at that point.

Speaker 9 (01:40:19):
Well, I mean, in this case, when you're talking about
getting on a native role, okay, you've got to prove lineage,
all right, And so that means proper names have to
be on birth certificates. You can't just say well so
and so is my birth certificate, but he's not really
my dad, and my real dad is the one that's
the native, and so you know, you've got to get
those things cleared up so you can very clearly show
the lineage that goes on. Other thing too, is about

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being on a birth certificate is let's talk about non
native things, right, So if that if dad were to die,
all right, now you're part legally, you're legally part of
his estate and so not a state, but his familiar
line that deals with the issue of his estate when
he passes away. So you know, there's all sorts of
advantages and things you would want to have on there,

(01:41:03):
but it can get deep in the weeds, and so
you want to give us a call so we can
help you through that.

Speaker 1 (01:41:07):
Jeff Finsley's in the studio of Hensley and Associates. If
you have a question about family law, he can answer
it right now at nine one eight four six ZHO KMOD,
or you can text your question BMMS space and whatevery
question is to the phone number eight two nine four five,
or you can email show at kmod dot com. This says, hi,
I have a custody case that has a child reunification requirement.
The other parent has moved out of state and wants

(01:41:28):
nothing to do with the child. Do I need to
continue the therapy? We have been going to reunification therapy
for eight months and she has not shown up and
refuses to respond to my lawyer or the therapist.

Speaker 9 (01:41:41):
So what's the question in there? Let's say one more time,
do I.

Speaker 1 (01:41:44):
Need to continue the therapy? We've been going to reunification
therapy for eight months and she has not shown up
and refuses to respond to my lawyer or the therapist.
Let's talk about me therapy part of that. And because
most people might not know what reunification requirements.

Speaker 9 (01:41:57):
So reunificate. We kind of use two terms synonymously. Okay,
So you've got reunification and you've got reconciliation. They're basically
the same thing. Okay, we use them interchangeably, just like
you know, lawyer and attorney. It's an interchangeable word. And
what we mean by that is when you've got a
child that has not been around a parent in a
long time, or has never met the parent, and the

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parent is now coming out to try and get some
sort of legal rights or to get some visitation or whatever.
It may be you don't just take the kid and
throw them in the deep endo the pool and hope
they survive emotionally or mentally. All right, So we have
this thing called reunification slash, you know, reconciliation therapy, all right,
where the idea behind it is is to very slowly
bring the child and the parent together so it's not

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a mental shock and emotional shock and all these other things,
and you very care for lean very slowly reunify them
or bring them back together so that they're able to
have a normal relationship. Now, does every reunification reconciliation therapy work,
Absolutely not. I mean you can try and try and
try and try with this is I'm talking about with

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someone who actually shows up, all right, And not every
kid is going to want to reunify with that parent.
I've had several who say I want nothing to do
with the other side, And that's kind of how it
has to sit until the kid turns eighteen, and then
that parent can try and do whatever they want to do.
But then you've got people like this who just don't
show up. Now, if you're not showing up, there's no
there to be the therapy to be had.

Speaker 1 (01:43:26):
Not really.

Speaker 9 (01:43:26):
I mean, if the other parent is not showing up,
there's no reunification, there's no reconciliation, there's nothing simply because
you've got the other side failing to show up. So
you know, if but is it an order of the court.
That's where you kind of give in this gray area
because you want to follow orders of the court no
matter what they say. Right, that's the idea is you
don't want to defy a court order. Court order is
there for a reason. A judge has authority and the

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power to say, look, you have to do this. But
then you've got these issues where you've got the other
side not showing up, and if they're not talking to
the attorneys, this person who's failing to show up, someone
needs to file something with the court to end the
reunification therapy. That would be the cleanest way to do it. Now,
could you just stop? Yes, absolutely, until mom shows up
out of the blue, whenever that may happen, you could

(01:44:13):
do that. But if you want to make it one
hundred percent clean, you would follow a motion to end
it simply because mom's not there, Mom's not doing what
she wanted to do. She's not or she claims she
was wanting to do to reunify with his kid.

Speaker 6 (01:44:24):
So there you go.

Speaker 1 (01:44:26):
Jeff Finsley from Hensley Associates is in the studio nine
one eight four six, oh kmod or you can text
BMMS and whatever your question is to eight two nine
four five. It says my wife's grandpa passed away earlier
this year. He left all of his grandkids and account
with money for a down payment on a house.

Speaker 9 (01:44:43):
Nice.

Speaker 1 (01:44:44):
My wife's aunt has control of the accounts. She's not
giving my wife the account info. Now, I have not
seen a will and I don't believe my wife has either.
Can the aunt legally withhold the account?

Speaker 9 (01:44:57):
Well, the question comes is is is everything tied up
in probate at this point? What has happened? Because when
people die with wills or without wills, all right, trust
her a different thing, all right? When we're talking about
those situations, then the estate has to go through probate,
all right. So the question is is is this in
probate right now?

Speaker 1 (01:45:17):
And probate is and you section of the courts, right
It's like family laws exactly.

Speaker 9 (01:45:21):
It's a section of the court. It's just the section
of court that handles when people pass away. And we
have to deal with their estate. What are we going
to do with it? Or their bills or their debts?
You know who oat gets what? That kind of stuff, right,
and there's loss to handle that, But I'm guessing it's
probably not because it sounds like these people haven't had
any notice about a probate hearing. So that's the first
thing is is give us a call so we can
figure out if it's in probate, and if not, we

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need to get it in probate so we can start
dealing with this issue of this money that was left behind.
Because the question also becomes is does this was it husband?
What does it hurt?

Speaker 1 (01:45:51):
Is why wife's grandpa passed away?

Speaker 9 (01:45:54):
Right at the end, right her aunt? Does her ant
have a power of attorney over the estate? Did her
did her aunt have a power of attorney over the grandpa?
I mean, there's a lot of holes here. We need
to figure out all those things because if she's got
a power of attorney and it hasn't gone to probate,
there's problems and we need to deal with those. We
need to get in into probate so that she can't say, well,

(01:46:15):
I've got power of attorney I'm just gonna do what
I want with the money, and I'm going to go
blow it on a boat or a you know, trip
to Rome or whatever it may be. You don't want
all that stuff to happen, so please give us a
call so that we can have this dealt with and
help you figure out where things are at to get
you the money that you were promised.

Speaker 1 (01:46:31):
But the aunt can can't legally do it, but she
could absolutely do it because it would have to go
to probate for any of that stuff to be executed. Right.
You do not know about it until it's brought forward, right.

Speaker 9 (01:46:41):
At which point she's going to be in trouble and
have a lot to answer for her. She's not done
what she needed to do.

Speaker 1 (01:46:46):
So is that criminal?

Speaker 9 (01:46:49):
I don't know. I'd have to look that up. I
mean it's it's it's obviously not elder abuse because the
person has passed away. Is in a misuse of funds potentially,
But you know we before I spout off, it's criminal
and I need more facts.

Speaker 1 (01:47:01):
And how many times does someone come forward and say,
my grandpa told me before he died X y Z,
and then there'll be no doctor.

Speaker 9 (01:47:09):
It's very common I mean it's very common where you know,
you've got that where Grandpa said this or Grandma said that,
and I'm supposed to get this, and I was supposed
to get you know, grandma's silver bowl that was you know,
left to her by Napoleon bowling apart, whatever it may be.
All right, there's a lot of that. It's very common, okay.
But the problem you run into is is that when
you get people that start fighting over stuff and especially

(01:47:32):
money obviously when someone passes away, that's when you've got problems.
That's why we have probate courts so that we don't
have these arguments, so that a court can help them
through these issues and make sure everything is done a
legally and b fairly.

Speaker 1 (01:47:44):
I know when my I was taken out of my
grandmother's will, I was served with papers and to inform
me that my name was going to be removed unless
I had took issue with it and I had an
option to fight it and go to court or just
say that's fine, correct, But they have to inform you.

Speaker 9 (01:48:01):
They have to inform you that's right. And then of
course when you if you find out later that you
were taken out of the will without notice you have
a right to contest it, so there's all sorts of
options for you. We just and you know, maybe grandpa
had a will and it's just that this lady hasn't
seen it.

Speaker 6 (01:48:15):
You know.

Speaker 9 (01:48:15):
That's what we got to find out too. So please,
whoever this is, give us a call. We'd love to
help you get all straightened out.

Speaker 1 (01:48:20):
Last one here it says I'm getting divorced. We split
two years ago, but just filed for divorce. My husband
sold the house almost immediately when we separated and bought
a new home. Can he do this well?

Speaker 9 (01:48:32):
I mean, the problem is you've got stuff that happened
prior to the divorce that was filed. All right, number one.
But the other issue is is you know where was
there equity in the house? Was there not equity in
the house. If there was equity in the house, did
he pay her her equity share? Did he keep the cash?
I mean, again, lots of holes in it. And that's okay.
I'm just merely saying that. That's the flip side of
things is is we've got to find out, you know,

(01:48:53):
in this particular case, was there equity and if so,
did he did the equity get paid? Did it not
get paid. Is he's sitting on it, is he being
a pain in the butt about it, is he, you know,
saying he's refusing to give it to her, whatever it
may be. So we want to make sure that you
get your equity share of that house. Now you've been
separated for two years, so you know that. That's what
I want to find out is what's happened over those

(01:49:14):
last two years you've been Have you been trying to
get it? Did he give it to you? Did you
blow it? Did he blow it? What's going on? Because
if he blew that equity, her equity share, then obviously
we're going to fight for her to get for her
to get her equity share in court because he's done
marital waste and wasted it.

Speaker 1 (01:49:29):
It's a good term marital waste. Listen. Rarely is the
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That's right in our office in Pahsca. It is the
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get you taken care of.

Speaker 1 (01:51:05):
Nine one eight three nine eight five six nine three
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and we'll be back on Tulsa's.

Speaker 8 (01:51:14):
Morning show, The Big Man Boarding Show. The Assault continues
next ninety seven five.

Speaker 1 (01:51:20):
Jmod, Good morning, It's the Big Man Morning shown six
O KMOD. You can also text the bmms and then

(01:51:41):
what you want to say to eight two nine four five.
Time Magazine has announced the shortlist for Person of the Year,
and I'm going to tell you who's on the shortlist,
and you shouldn't base it on whether you agree with
them as an individual, Okay, and you should agree. You
should decide whether they deserve to be on the shortlist
on if they had an impact in society. Okay, right,

(01:52:04):
because sometimes you say a name and you go man
because you don't like them, and that's not what it's
based off of.

Speaker 8 (01:52:09):
It.

Speaker 1 (01:52:10):
It's based off people who have had an influence across
the world. Right, So the first one you're gonna probably go,
this is why you're saying it. But like Kamala Harris,
Now you may not agree with her politically, but she
did get a bunch of people riled up. Yeah sure,
Cape Middleton. Okay, she had this thing where she was

(01:52:35):
photoshopping photos, but she had cancer. And you know people
who celebrities who have cancer and then keep going like
those are inspirational people. Yeah, for sure. Elon musk ok
a lot of people idolize him. You can easily say
what they've done at SpaceX is to say it's impressive
would be an understatement, right. The Rocket Lands Itself, which

(01:53:00):
is also a movie. Lindsay promoter. Another one, Yaliah noval
On Navanna Lavayani. She is the widow of the Russian
opposition leader who died. Uh, and she is also fighting
for his cause as well. Benjamin Nett and Yahoo okay,
Jerome Powell Okay, Now you may be going, why is

(01:53:23):
the chairman of the Federal Reserve on a list like this? Well, uh,
I know you're not gonna believe this, but his ability
to keep inflation kind of under control and not spiral
out again. You can't go with your personal opinion. You've
got to go with have they had influence. I'm not
saying he should or shouldn't be on the list. I'm
just saying y'all like, like you don't have money, but
y'all buying iPhones like they're going out of style. Joe

(01:53:45):
Rogan Okay. I was beginning to think. I was like,
are all these going to be political? Or hypically? They
are typically they are okay, Joe Rogan Okay. Inspirational Claudia
Shinbaum Mexico's first female president. Definitely, Donald Trump, Mark Zuckerberg.
Now Zuck Zuck has been it before. Trump has been

(01:54:08):
it before. Not a big deal. You can be it
again last year? Do you know who it was last year?
Because it's such an important thing. Who was it last year?
Lindsay Tad Guess.

Speaker 4 (01:54:21):
Taylor Swift comes to mind.

Speaker 1 (01:54:22):
Okay, Mark Wahlberg, Mark Wahlberg first head the Rock. If
we were going to go celebrities, Taylor Swift was the
person of the year last year, and twenty twenty two
it was Zelensky and the Spirit of Ukraine, Elon Musk
twenty twenty one, Biden and Harrison twenty twenty. You have

(01:54:43):
to go all the way back to twenty sixteen for Trump, right,
and Zuckerberg, you got to go all the way back
to twenty ten. So of the people that are on
this list, at least four of them have had it before,
and so I don't I don't know. I kind of
give it to someone new who. I'm sure there's a

(01:55:04):
panel of somebody that's not like, you know, the magazines
are voted right, white people who read the magazine. They're like, oh,
I vote for X. Yeah. No, it's I believe they
decide the board does Okay, it's to sell magazines, of course,
of course, that's all it's for me. Whether it's polarizing

(01:55:26):
or not doesn't matter, right, It is about selling magazines
at a time when people don't buy magazines because it's
Christmas time. First year nineteen twenty seven. Wow, was the
first time twenty three US presidents have been named Person

(01:55:47):
of the Year. Okay, three popes, that makes sense, I
guess yeah. I was trying to see if there was
like only three popes though, huh, yeah, I figure that
had been a little more. But Pope Francis most recently,
Pope Jumpaul the second, yeah, and then John the third
twenty third, if I know my room and numerals correctly,

(01:56:11):
and then a bunch of other like political people, right Obama,
I'm sure well already named presidents Okay, but like other
like Vladimir Putin person of the year.

Speaker 6 (01:56:25):
Huh.

Speaker 1 (01:56:26):
It doesn't have to be great, right yeah, yeah, it
just seems odd. It's a misconception that you have to
be like a good person. Yeah, yeah, right, right right.
Where's Fidel Castro on this list? Well, hold on, I'll
tell you. Stalin was on it like twice. Wow. Wow,

(01:56:47):
you know who wasn't Hitler? Maybe I don't know. I
don't think. I don't think he should be. And if
they do, if they did put him onto, they come
back and be like sorry, I think here's a little off. Okay,
I think you it's bad optics to have him as

(01:57:07):
Person of the Year, but you could easily see he
had a huge influence on the world at that time. Sure,
and in a way that you could argue is good
because people stood up and said this is wrong and
came together to fight an end it true. I get
what you're saying, but I just feel like, I don't know,

(01:57:30):
you should probably do some good, not kill nine billion people. Well,
now we're getting into we're splitting heres right with Oprah.
Ever on that list, I don't believe so of the
celebrities that are on here, Ted Turner is on here
for seeing inn and what they did in terms of

(01:57:51):
coverage of Operation Desert Storm, which easily if you can remember,
that is a case study in evolving with the Times
and embedding journalists in a way that had never done before.
Journalists had been embedded before, but with cable news, like
we got to see stuff in real time. It was
it was terrifying, Yeah, for that to happen. Of course,

(01:58:16):
we mentioned Taylor Swift on here, right, the one that
I thought was really fascinating, which Rudy Giuliani was it
in two thousand and one, and you could argue in
two thousand and one, yeah, he was, yeah, an inspirational person.

Speaker 4 (01:58:33):
Call them America's mayor. Who was the who was the
the media guy who lied, who came forth about lying
about his time served in the army, And that was
a big headline.

Speaker 1 (01:58:51):
Brian Brian something another. Yes, yes, I couldn't tell you
his last name. Yeah, I don't. I'm not familiar with
what you're talking about. The computer was it one year?
So so you don't have to be a person, no, no, no, no.
The Apollo eight astronauts were at one year, scientists were

(01:59:13):
at one year. Williams, Yeah, Williams. But he was just
an anchor. Yeah, yeah, he was just an anchor. Charles
Lindbergh was the first one. For those that don't know, okay,
if you need to be educated on what he was.
I mean he believed in having jars of his piss
because he didn't trust people. You know, everybody's got their

(01:59:36):
quirk man. Yeah, that's a little too quirky for me.
But hey, what's man, I'm not judging fingernails, urine, kid's teeth,
kid's teeth, whatever it is. I'm not somebody who keeps
any body parts of any kind. I keep no fragments
of bodies. Nope, no teeth, Nope, you have no teeth.

Speaker 9 (02:00:01):
Hair.

Speaker 1 (02:00:01):
No, you didn't keep your kid's hair really from the
first haircut? Why surprises me? Why?

Speaker 6 (02:00:07):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (02:00:08):
Keeps saying memory things.

Speaker 4 (02:00:09):
I think, look at it and go, man, it took
a picture of the first haircut. That's about it.

Speaker 1 (02:00:14):
How many times you look at that? Yeah? Maybe once
or twice in the I don't know if I even
believe you on that. Maybe if you're it's while you're
flipping the page, right, But yeah, rarely do you you go.
I wonder what my kid's hair looked like when they
were a baby.

Speaker 4 (02:00:33):
Now, I have one child that kept his own teeth
when they came out because he didn't want any stranger
tooth fairy coming into his room at night taking anything
from him.

Speaker 1 (02:00:43):
Smart Yeah, all right, right, sounds like a trust issue.
Put for real, I'll find with some strange old man
coming down this chimney.

Speaker 4 (02:00:52):
Hunt, no stranger danger coming into his room like.

Speaker 1 (02:00:55):
Some large human size bunny. It's completely okay. But not
just a teeny tiny little fairy that just wants your
teeth and gives you money. That gives you money exactly
all right, wellie, I mean easily in terms of like
stranger danger. Money is the one we never go have.
If anybody offers you money, don't take it. And at

(02:01:15):
some point you women go, yes, I will do this.
That's a very good point, don't take candy from strangers.
But never we never say don't take money from strangers.

Speaker 4 (02:01:26):
No.

Speaker 1 (02:01:26):
We were at a doctor's office one time for my wife, Like,
we were all just sitting there and some old man
was I think I may have told the story in there,
and he was like, here gave my kid money. And
I was a little like, I don't know do here?
And I decided to just ask him question he gives
kids money, And then I asked him questions about why
he did, and he's like, look, I'm old. Giving kids

(02:01:50):
money always is just such a joyous thing. And so
I last year I gave way X number of dollars
just doing this good on you, bro makes him feel good. Yeah,
well I want them paying forward is a pretty big deal.
So but yeah, at some point we say don't do this,
And then at some point, at some age, specifically women
go yeah, I'll take something from a stranger. Yeah, drink

(02:02:13):
money whatever. All right, we got to take a break.
We'll be back.

Speaker 8 (02:02:17):
The Big Mad Morning Show returns next Tulsa's Morning Show
ninety KMOT.

Speaker 7 (02:02:29):
I'm a good morning.

Speaker 1 (02:02:37):
It's the Big Man Morning Show. Lindsay, what'd you learn today?

Speaker 4 (02:02:41):
I learned that Hitler was Time Magazine's Person of the
Year back in nineteen thirty eight. They may have just
misunderstood the concept of influencer. And even though I find
it hard to believe, I learned that some tools are
just too thick to get the job done.

Speaker 1 (02:02:58):
Gimpy, What'd you learn today? I'll learn at Lindsay kids
got some deep seated trust issues. That's probably going to
require years of therapy. I've also learned that I me
Gippy McGhee and the Tom Brady of our games to
do multiple years.

Speaker 6 (02:03:18):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (02:03:19):
I learned the creator of the California Air Resources Board
was Ronald Reagan. And I also learned that, uh, that's
a lot of chickens in one room, which is not
a movie Lindsey was promoting earlier. It's Corbyn, say make
sure that dishwashers loaded right.

Speaker 4 (02:03:35):
It's Lindsay stopped tracking my cycle.

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