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A lot of people are very surprised or trying to
make a point that it's shocking that Eminem's now a grandpa. Yeah,
why because he doesn't seem that old. I mean he's
fifty two, yeah, which that doesn't feel wild. I think
to be a grandparent at fifty two. I know someone
in this building that became a grandparent at like forty something. Hi,

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it's me. I'm that person. Besides, I didn't even think
that besides you. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, there's another person.
It's to me. It's just people are like, oh, Eminem's
oh rappers can have kids, right, those kids? Lauren Hill's
a grandparent at forty nine. Oh so it isn't that crazy. No,

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being a grandparent at thirty five maybe a little little
out there. Yeah, glad, I'm not out of the it
could happen. Glad you said that. But other great Cee
Lo Green forty nine, Catherine Zada Jones fifty five, Snoop
fifty three. It isn't that crazy. I think Brett Fahr

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fifty five. I think his kids he's fifty five now,
but I think his kids in college. Is actual kid
or grand kid?

Speaker 5 (05:53):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (05:53):
No, good point. But that made me go down the
rabbit hole of what do you think is the youngest
person to become a grandparent? How old do you think
they were?

Speaker 9 (06:03):
Lindsay thirty five.

Speaker 1 (06:06):
Let's see here have a kid at fifteen. Let's back
that up a little bit have a kid at fourteen? Okay,
twenty four, that makes that kid ten. And then okay,
so about the third I'm going to say lower thirty
and I'm going to say thirty two, twenty three.

Speaker 8 (06:24):
What when are they older?

Speaker 1 (06:29):
Okay twenty three? Her daughter gave birth at eleven? Whoa
see she eloped at eleven years old, being fearing of
being forced into a message. She gave birth to her
daughter at twelve, and then her daughter gave birth at eleven.

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So this girl's mother was a great grandmother at forty.

Speaker 9 (07:00):
Wow, wow, wow, holy cow.

Speaker 1 (07:04):
The mother of the great grandmother was like, I'm happy
to be a grandmother. Get out of here. Yeah, break
that cycle, please, I hear you. It don't work for me.
I don't wish that on my kids. But right, tata

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patata man exactly what's that? The apple doesn't fullifum the tree?
You know, but somebody please in that family break the cycle.
Don't be having kids until you're in your twenties. Have
it eleven? Hold on my kid's nine. Yeah, yeah, that's
so she's not good at picking up a room and

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to have a baby right along with it. Now we
joke like Game of Thrones, you know, because they mentioned
that before, you know, the young twelve year old girl.
Oh she almost fresh for you know, And that's what
they said in the mood in the show. Yeah yeah,
yeah yeah. But for it to actually happen in modern times,

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I guess is where the shock is.

Speaker 9 (08:12):
I have two eleven year olds who are still like,
oh hi, mommy, like, let me give you a hug?
You know, I can't imagine.

Speaker 1 (08:21):
Oh, I'm sure she does that. Still, I don't know.
I think that high mommy park goes after you lose
your innocence, right, No, no, no, you still say that.
I know grown women that call their mom mommy. Not
so innocent anymore. Doesn't sound innocent though, when you got
two screaming spawns.

Speaker 10 (08:40):
Sarah Palin's got to be on that list as a
young grandmother. Okay, well I'm Bristol Palin. I think she
was what seventeen when she had her?

Speaker 1 (08:51):
But how old was Sarah Palin?

Speaker 2 (08:53):
Wow?

Speaker 1 (08:53):
Good question, that's the whole point of this conversation. Yeah,
she is sixty one right now?

Speaker 9 (08:59):
Now? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (09:00):
Yeah, I think she was in her mid to late fifties.

Speaker 10 (09:03):
Oh no, I think she was in her forties. I thought,
or maybe she had a child of her own when
she was in her earthties.

Speaker 1 (09:12):
That might be more. Ah, I don't know. It feels
like we're just talking about stuff we're all unsure of
at the moment what we're just making things up.

Speaker 7 (09:22):
It.

Speaker 1 (09:24):
But to be twenty three and that be like, yeah,
that could just be their culture, right, true, you know
what I'm saying. There are some cultures that still believe
women's only purpose on the planet is to procreate, right,
that's it. I feel like that is more of a
product of your environment sort of thing. You know, my

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mom had me when she was young, and her mom
had her when she was young. And again, it's just
a vicious cycle that hasn't been broken yet because these
young ones they see what the older ones are doing
and they do the exact same thing, and the parents
just let it happen instead of saying, hey, how can
you stop? How do you stop that? How do you

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break the cycle? You've said yourself. The more you try
to stop it, the more likely it's to happen. Absolutely, education,
I think might have something to do with it. Educating
your youngins. It's like, hey, you don't you don't need
to be having like, well, my kid, my oldest boy.
He gave me, well my only two grandkids right now,

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so far right. But when he was sixteen seventeen, I
sat him down. I was like, hey, bro, listen, man,
I know you're fooling around with those girls. I ain't silly.
I've been there, I've done that. I know what you're
doing before you do it right. And I says, listen, man,
you do not need one of you right now, meaning
you know you don't need to be raising kids. You

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baby's having babies. So now, granted he waited until he
was twenty, but at least an adult at that point
in time. I don't know why, but I thought he
was in high school when he had no when he
got pregnant, you had just finished I think, so maybe
at the earliest nineteen. Yeah, let's see, he's twenty two.
Now that kid's three, so yeah, nineteen, but nonetheless still

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an adult, illegal adult. What do you think is the
appropriate age to have kids? Now, that obviously is a
sliding scale for a lot of people, but what is
the ideal Lindy, excuse me.

Speaker 10 (11:29):
I had my first at twenty eight, and I probably
could have gone sooner than that, even so I would say,
anywhere between twenty five, five or twenty six, something like that.

Speaker 1 (11:44):
Gimpie. Yeah, Gloria Cox. She was my world history teacher
in uh in high school. There at a lassa and yeah, yeah,
I'm signing your yearbook or whatever, you know. And she
made a nice little note there that kind of stuck
with me. Right, I'd say, so if you remember it
right now, that's impressive. She said, no kids until you're

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twenty five or a degree signed missus Cox right now.
I had my first one at twenty two, so I
was kind of close, kind of close. Of course, I
never really did listen anyway. But still I think early twenties,
twenty three, twenty five, something to that effect I think
is perfect. I think it's easier. I think it's probably

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easier now to have a kid before twenty than it
was in like the sixties or seventies or maybe even eighties.
Why you say that one, it's more acceptable. It isn't
so taboo. You got pregnant then sometimes they shipped you
up to your aunt's house right right when there was
an expectation that you had to derail your whole life
both individuals to raise the kid. And now it seems

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a little more like nor your life isn't you know
that whole phrase? Ye, that it's over. That phrase isn't
always uttered immediately. Probably like I'm a shamed type of thing, right,
I think idea, I'm not far off from the twenty
five thing. I think you should be in your thirties.
I think you should establish yourself. You should find what
life is about before you bring a life. That's fair

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because you learn a lot between twenty and thirty. You
do now you learn a lot with a kid too.
It's just a different type of learning. You do it
real fast. You grow up. I don't know if you do.
And I think I think the younger they are, the
faster they have. They're forced to grow up fast, and
that's not good. That's not good for a fifteen sixteen

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year old to have to grow up so fast not
enjoy their their life. I guess you could say, yeah,
I mean they still enjoy. It's just a different way,
you know, right, Yeah. I think force learning is not
a way to learn. No, you're not really learning. But
if you have the experiences you go through it, I

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think it's you retain it a lot. It feels real
rather than there's not resentment attached to it, right, right,
But the idea to be pregnant at twelve no thing.
Yeah yeah, people are always like, what would you do
if your daughter? I don't know, know that life continues,
right of the people I know that have gotten pregnant

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really young and had kids or their children got pregnant,
they're all still doing fine. Right, And with that mindset,
I think it's better to just approach it with a
very soft hand rather than a one that's like.

Speaker 8 (14:39):
I gotta tell my dad.

Speaker 1 (14:41):
I don't want them hiding that. Right at eleven years old,
I wasn't even thinking about the sex.

Speaker 10 (14:48):
No.

Speaker 9 (14:48):
I was still playing with Barbie dolls, right.

Speaker 1 (14:51):
That stuff didn't come around till what fourteen fifteen, maybe
even eleven year and what like sixth grade, fifth grade?
I mean I was just trying to be the VIP kid,
like you know they put your name on the board, yeah, right, right,
and the challenger explode. That's all That's what I was doing,
right right. I was trying to get a matching bulls

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jacket to hang out with my friends. Couldn't do it.
I was punching Jim Schlachley in the face, broke my hand.
That's wild to think about. And was this just a
lucky lou one shot boom done. We don't know much
about the father, how do we in this dealer situation?

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To be honest, I didn't dig deep enough to find
the four one one on if he's a dead beat
or what. Well, now I say that because was it
a kid their age? Was this a moment of molestation
and this girl got pregnant? You know, because I could
see that then at eleven years old, were saying, you're

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talking at eleven, we weren't even thinking about having the sax. Well,
some people are forced into that situation, you know. And
that's kind of kind of where my head's at on
that one. Now, if it was just if it was
a kid in her class and they hooked up on
a field trip or something. Yeah, I'm just trying to

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quickly read it, and it's not going too much into it.
And it might not because the girls dirt eleven, right,
you know, So it may not say that, but I
guess looking back, let's see the girls in the fifth grade,

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looking back, No, that would have been eighth grade. Eighth grade, yeah,
because I was thinking I did seventh grade twice and
nobody was exploring. I guess you could say at that point,
but it was in the eighth grade when there were
a couple of guys and gals that were exploring and

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doing the digital Did you redo.

Speaker 10 (17:01):
What was she exposed to at eleven or prior to
eleven to be able to know what to do at
that young age.

Speaker 1 (17:08):
Again, that's why I'm like wondering if it was a
product of molestation, because you're right, what was she How
would she know unless it was forced upon her? Uh,
it's a gypsy family, and I don't mean that in
regards to like understanding gypsy. Gypsy culture in Europe is

(17:29):
a little more like I don't know. I'm not saying
it's the best, but there is a lot of multiple
wives type of thing, so it may not be culturally
something we go how makes sense? Yeah, yeah, well it
all makes sense now you said Europe. I mean, yeah, yeah, weirdos.

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Damn Europeans. You're hairy armpits, gypsy lifestyle just stealing coins
and belly dancing, right, Yeah, I don't know. All I
know is Eminem's pregnant grandpa and people are like, what,

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I hope he does a diss track as a grandpa
and references himself as a grandpa in the dis track.
That's larious because he that would be pretty funny to
see him just be like I'm a grain Paul and
I still got it or whatever, not that that's an eminem impression.
All right, we got tickets to Lincoln Park we're gonna

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give away, plus Jeff Finsley's gonna join us. If you
have a question about divorce, custody or grandparents rites because
you just found out you're a grandpa at twenty three,
he can answer those when he's in the studio. Take
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Speaker 10 (19:24):
Kmod Ceo chokes threatens to kill a man on cruise ship.
This happened early on March thirty first, in international waters
on the Resilient Lady cruise ship. According to a federal
criminal complaint, authority is alleged that Kenneth did Georgio, the
CEO of First American Financial Corporation, choked a male victim

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following an incident that involved his wife, Nicole did Georgio.
A spokesman for di Georgio's legal team said he was
only protecting his wife, So what had happened? Mister de
Georgio responded to the actions of an individual who apparently
harassed his wife, making her feel threatened and intimidated. So

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they were on the ship and the victim, who was
only identified by the initials MA, was dancing barefoot on
the dance floor and the ships on the rocks bar
when Digiorgio's wife walked over and asked him to put
his shoes on. The wife told law enforcement she said, look,

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we're all grown ups here, can you put your shoes on?
The victim simply responded by cussing at her and sticking
his middle finger up. A security then shows to Georgio
standing up, walking over to the victim and choking him.
It says the victim stumbled while under the physical control
of Digeorgio. The victim said de Georgio used a lot

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of force and it felt like my throat was going
to be ripped out. The man alleged that during the incident,
Digeorgio said, I'm gonna efing kill you. Digeorgio is ordered
confined to his room until the ship arrived in San Juan,
Puerto Rico. Authorities met the ship on Tuesday. Did Georgio's
wife told authorities that she should not have told the

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man to put shoes on, and that he never did
touch her. The legal team representing de Georgio, who has
been the company's CEO since February of twenty twenty two,
said he looks forward to being absolved of any wrongdoing.

Speaker 8 (21:33):
Can't put hands on people, man.

Speaker 1 (21:35):
No, And by the way, there's twenty seven hundred passengers
on this ship.

Speaker 9 (21:39):
Yeah, who is she defeat police?

Speaker 8 (21:41):
Like?

Speaker 1 (21:42):
Who cares police?

Speaker 10 (21:44):
People take their shoes off on dance floors all the time.
Your feet get sore. I mean not many men do it,
more women and to do it, I think, But.

Speaker 1 (21:56):
I think you should keep your shoes on. I think
because it's gross. There's a hygiene issue. I agree with
what you're saying. Yeah, who she is the police, but
also keep your shoes on. We're seeing people take their
shoes off in places they shouldn't be doing that. So
how do you deem it's not okay to do it here,
but to do it there. This isn't your house. Keep

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your damn shoes on?

Speaker 9 (22:18):
Right?

Speaker 10 (22:19):
But how many times have you been like even like,
even at my own wedding, I'm dancing, I took my
shoes off.

Speaker 1 (22:25):
You're the bride. That's a different that's different, right. It'd
be like if I was at your wedding and took
my shoes off and was cutting the rug.

Speaker 9 (22:32):
I wouldn't have minded.

Speaker 1 (22:33):
Yes, But how do you deem where it's okay to
do it and we're not.

Speaker 9 (22:37):
I mean, if security or you know someone.

Speaker 1 (22:40):
No, no, no, no, you are moving the goalpost. You
said it's okay.

Speaker 9 (22:47):
Uh huh?

Speaker 1 (22:48):
So how do you deem where it's okay and where
it's not okay? Is there a place it's not okay?

Speaker 7 (22:56):
Yeah?

Speaker 9 (22:56):
I guess in restaurants for sure.

Speaker 10 (22:58):
Anywhere else, Yeah, I mean I'm sure there too, But
if no.

Speaker 1 (23:02):
I'm asking you your personal opinion because you shared it's okay.
Is there a place it's not appropriate?

Speaker 9 (23:09):
Yeah, where there's food being served.

Speaker 1 (23:11):
What about an airplane?

Speaker 9 (23:13):
Oh god, no, why that does not bother me. It
just doesn't bother me.

Speaker 10 (23:19):
It just doesn't bother me. I mean people stinky groc
If they stink, keep them all.

Speaker 1 (23:24):
Now we're adding asterisks so you're not okay with it?

Speaker 9 (23:29):
Yeah, if they smell, then shed smell.

Speaker 1 (23:31):
But what if they smell on the dance floor?

Speaker 10 (23:34):
Right, yeah, then have then she should have gone to
one of the people that work there and have them
handle it. It wasn't her place.

Speaker 1 (23:44):
I'm we want all the worst, do whatever you want,
but also there should be some places we all kind
of go. Yeah, you shouldn't have your shoes off here.

Speaker 9 (23:54):
They're on vacation having a good time.

Speaker 1 (23:56):
That the entitlement is for everybody from the people going.
And why is he stepped Why is the husband stepping in? Yeah,
because you're wrong to my lady, right, because you got
her defense.

Speaker 9 (24:09):
You flipped off my wife.

Speaker 1 (24:11):
You flip.

Speaker 9 (24:14):
My wife.

Speaker 1 (24:15):
You had gestured. Yeah, you made some silence. You Oh
my god, what a beta hurt right hands hand signals
hurt fingers can hurt. Corbyn Bank bang man arrested for
battery after being denied a free refill at a lemonade stand.

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There's this dude. He's forty five. His named Stephen Akuzzamano,
and he is walking around the neighborhood last Tuesday about
seven thirty spots of lemonade stand ran by some kids. Stops,
gets a glass of lemonade, drinks it down and asks
for a free refill. Will The young girl who was
running the stand said no, man, sir, he can't do that.

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No free refills here, And that is when he grabbed
her by the wrist aggressively while standing in a fighting stance,
telling that he would beat her up. Of course, he
runs off. Cops get called. They catch up with him later.
He admitted to all the actions that were done, but
he says that he grabbed her because she was talking

(25:21):
s to him. Oh, they went ahead and arrest him
for felony battery.

Speaker 7 (25:25):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (25:26):
How old were the lemonade sellers their kids? You know
they didn't say in the article how old they were.
So I'm kissing. Yeah, she's talking to God a little
girl for that fact? Yeah, any better if it was
a young boy, but still little girl, just trying to
make some money selling lemonade. Yeah, and enforcing her rules.

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No free refills, right right, give me a refill. No,
I'll whoop, you're I'm the man here. Man accused of
brandishing machete after shoplifting cinnamon bun. This happened in North Carolina,
where the man is facing charges after allegedly stealing a
cinnamon bun from a grocery store and then brandon machette.

Speaker 8 (26:14):
Which apparently happens a lot.

Speaker 5 (26:16):
Uh huh.

Speaker 1 (26:17):
I already's identified the suspect as Jeffrey brew Bourne. He
was charged with arm robbery, shoplifting, and possession of drug paraphernalia.
Police responded to the incident after receiving reports of the
robbery and apprehended the man who was found eating the
stolen cinnamon bun. Is there difference between the bun and
a roll? Fox News reports he was booked into detention

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facility on a fifty thousand dollars bond.

Speaker 2 (26:40):
Wow.

Speaker 1 (26:41):
Police department is urging anyone with information to contact them
regarding the But I will say cinnamon buns or roles,
I don't know. Always delicious, Yes, they are hot. I
like donuts a lot, but I won't turn a cinnamon
bit m. I don't think I would. Maybe the ones
with strawberry ice I would turn down. Okay, sticky bun.

(27:03):
I'm on board with the difference between your cinnamon bond
and cinnamon roll because I know you're not gonna be
able to sleep unless I tell you that.

Speaker 7 (27:10):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (27:10):
Buns are often baked closely together for a softer, pull
apart result, while rolls are baked individually, sometimes with a
crispy or exterior. The more you know, Okay, Okay, I
get it that I'm more of a roll guy. Want
a hack for making cinnamon rolls at home?

Speaker 9 (27:30):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (27:30):
Sure? Any cinnamon roll continue you buy the ones you know,
the tubes or whatever. Yeah, take milk or heavy whipping
cream and pour it in the bottom, put your cinnamon
rolls on top of it, and then pour them on top.
Soak it all up. Well, it'll make them gooey like
they're homemade. Okay, Okay, you're welcome.

Speaker 9 (27:46):
Have you made them in the air fryer? Oh dude,
game changer? Why my son makes them that way? And
it is? They're delicious.

Speaker 1 (27:55):
Feels like they would be too crispy no.

Speaker 10 (27:58):
They don't get too crispy if you do it right.
Maybe he does that. Maybe he's using your hack who.

Speaker 1 (28:03):
Dott he's pouring liquid into the airfront.

Speaker 9 (28:05):
Probably not. They are good though.

Speaker 1 (28:09):
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Speaker 11 (28:17):
Nine The Big Man Morning Show returns next, Tulsa's Morning
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Speaker 1 (28:34):
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to the Wall Sports.

Speaker 10 (28:59):
The Yukon women are back on top of the college
basketball world. The Huskies blew out South Carolina eighty two
to fifty nine in the national championship from Tampa. Sarah
Strong and Ozzie Fudd scored twenty four points as Yukon
claimed it's NCAA record twelfth the title in school history.
Joyce Edwards and Tessa Johnson netted ten points for the

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game Cocks, who failed to repeat after winning last year's championship.

Speaker 1 (29:26):
Yukon's twelfth national championship, making them the most successful college
basketball program men or women.

Speaker 9 (29:36):
Yeah, you go, girls.

Speaker 10 (29:39):
And when you go into the final four of March
man as you know going in that two teams will win,
in two teams will lose. What you don't expect is
that one of the losing teams will end up being
the team that just about every expert predicted would win easily.
Saturday Nights opening a saw number one Florida take down
number one Auburn seventy nine seventy three. Walter Clayton Junior

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led the Gators with thirty four points, four rebounds, and
two assists in the win. The late game saw the
number one Houston Cougar's upset March Madness favorite number one
Duke seventy to sixty seven. With two point fifteen left
to play, Duke was in the driver's seat with a
nine point lead, but the Cougars clawed back and were
able to take the lead and the game in the

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final seconds. The NCAA Men's Basketball Championship will tip off
tonight at seven point fifty with the Action scene on CBS,
and Florida goes in as a one and a half
point favorite over Houston. And the over under a set
at one hundred and forty point five points.

Speaker 1 (30:41):
Duke's complete debacle in the final minute or thirty seconds
or whatever was wild. I think Houston went on a
nine to zero run in the last thirty seconds, Like
I don't know if they just forgot to defend crazy.
Some people are pointed to like the last there was
a foul on Cooper flag or there wasn't and they

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were like, that's that was the moment. No, they blew
a fifteen point lead. Duke just completely asking the bed.
But Houston a viable player, but still they just they
had the fifteen point lead, They had a fifteen point lead. Yeah, crazy, crazy,
and a star center for the Duke basketball team may

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get his visa revoked by the Trump administration.

Speaker 10 (31:27):
Seven foot two come in Maluak as part of the
Blue Devil's team that made it into the Final four Saturday.
He's also from South Sedan, and on Saturday, Secretary of
State Marco Rubio released a statement on x saying he
planned to revoke all visas held by South Sudanese passport
holders immediately. Duke University released a statement early Sunday saying

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they are looking into the situation and working to understand
the implications for duke students. Maluac is also eligible for
the twenty twenty five NBA Draft. And that's your Balls
to the Wall Sports and Len's you on ninety seven
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gonna do best and worst of the weekend. What's the
best thing that happened this weekend and the worst thing
that happened this weekend? And you can text it bmms
then whatever that is to eight two, nine four five,
you can call it nine one eight four six. Okmod
what's the best and what's the worst of the weekend, Lindsey.

Speaker 10 (33:28):
Well, the best, obviously was the pub crawl for cancer.
Such a fun day despite the weather being a little
bit on the colder side. Uh, it was at least
dry during the pub crawl, and it.

Speaker 9 (33:42):
Was just it was a blast it always is.

Speaker 10 (33:45):
There was no one throwing up in their purses this year.

Speaker 9 (33:51):
Yeah, it was fun.

Speaker 10 (33:53):
Meta girl who was actually fighting cancer met some friends
of the show that I had no idea was a
cancer survivor and that was an awesome story to learn.

Speaker 9 (34:08):
And it was just a really fun day.

Speaker 10 (34:13):
Didn't wake up on Sunday with a hangover, which was
a blessing. And I guess the worst part of the
weekend for me was I had every intention of just
being lazy on Sunday, just watching movies, which I did
get a little bit of. That got some couch time.
But then my oldest was like, I really need a

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haircut and his barber was available, so I had to
get dressed and get out of the house and go
do some stuff. I didn't get to be a couch
potato as much as I wanted to be.

Speaker 1 (34:48):
Yesterday, Best and worst of the weekend? What's the best
thing that happened this weekend? And the worst thing that
happened this weekend? GIMPI what's the best and what's the worst?
The best would be Saturday, just all day Saturday. Of course,
the Crawlford cancer was awesome. After that, we all went
and ate dinner, which was much needed, and then we

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had a housewarming party for my old roommate him and
him and his lady got a house, so we went
over there and did a little housewarming after we had
been drinking all day zoints. So that was fun. And
then you know, we all got tired of being at
the house for the housewarming, so we all went to

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the pump and continued.

Speaker 8 (35:32):
Wow and continued.

Speaker 1 (35:34):
I think I made it home at like ten ten thirty,
so relatively early for a typical Saturday. But when you're
pulling an all day or like that, it seemed about
right worst part of the weekend. Now, granted, granted, you know,
pulled an all day and was at home early, and

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that's where the downfall was morning. I'm up at four,
I'm up at five, I'm up at six, and I
finally decided to get up and out of bed at
seven o'clock. And each time I woke up, my head
was hurting badly. I'm like, why am I absurdly? Anyhow,

(36:19):
I did actually took up Lindsay's couch time all day yesterday.
I went to the store long enough to get some
shaking bake and some pudding that I didn't make, nice flavors, banana. Yeah,
best and worst of the weekend. What's the best thing
that happened this weekend? And the worst thing that happened
this weekend? Patty are the Crawt cancer is always fascinating

(36:43):
too in the I don't know, twelve plus years that
I've been a part of it. The it's it's always different,
and that's what's really weird, like really different. I always
see people haven't seen. I saw someone from the show
that I hadn't seen me since he walked, I think.

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And I was standing out in front of Arni's and
he looked at me, and I looked at him and
I was like chowd and he was like Corbin and
uh yeah, that's pretty much all I got about it.
I mean, he he's the same guy. Not much has

(37:28):
changed except forgot it a little wit no. Too good of
a guy to be associated with the show, right, So
that was fun. It's all some listeners I hadn't seen
in a while, which is great. Watched Gimpie Lena hold
up a car. Yeah, he was feeling that last stop. Okay,

(37:49):
when you say you continued on, I'm not sure how.
It was the chimmy chango that did it for me,
the chimney changa of power okay. And it was as
I needed it. You came and I was literally holding
that truck to the ground. Yes, it didn't go anywhere.
And uh and You're like, hey, some people want some tickets,
and I'm just like right, he was outside. I'm like, hey,

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the people are inside. Can I have the thing to
go get them the tickets? Take they're inside, you're outside.
He's like yeah, not me, but someone else had been
playing a prank on GIMPI the whole time, really, and
I didn't even know. You didn't As a matter of fact,
at one point you engaged in it and it didn't

(38:33):
track that it was happening because you were so far gone. Probably,
So what was the prank? Everybuddy had been collecting? Anytime
he opened a beer, he was putting a bottle cap
in your hood? Oh yeah, I discovered that well later,
I'm like, they just start pouring out. I'm like, where
the hell did these come from? It makes sense now,

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And I didn't find out until the last stop, or
else I would have also parked take And at one
point you put your hood up and none of them
came out, and then you put it back down and
they're all like, I don't know how they weren't going
down your shirt. Yeah, yeah, I don't either, And I
was wondering. I'm like, where the hell did Okay? Whatever?
How many do you think there were?

Speaker 11 (39:17):
There?

Speaker 1 (39:17):
At least a half a dozen that I can remember.
As a matter of fact, I found one in my
living room this morning. I'm like, where the hell did
that come? That makes sense now? Yeah? And uh, we
played flip cup, which is always a fantastic game to
watch people get their asses kicked and not be able

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to handle it. Yeah she won one.

Speaker 9 (39:45):
Yeah one, we let her win one. Oh stop.

Speaker 10 (39:47):
No, you guys had the You guys had the benefit
of being able to stand up while we were on
the side of the table that had to sit.

Speaker 1 (39:53):
Y'all choose to sit there.

Speaker 9 (39:55):
No. I was like, let's move this table out and stand.
Come on, Scott, I was like, no, we'll be all
right if we sit. Come on. He's like, I'm feeling lazy.
Come on, let's stand up.

Speaker 1 (40:06):
So you attest the ability to not win and not
be get a victory like the manager of the football
team because you were sitting. Yeah, and how does that
inhibit your arm?

Speaker 10 (40:20):
Because you get more leverage when you're standing, you have
more control, much better control, telling you you're taking a Also,
I'm telling you with the Dallas Cowboys hat on, it's
very unfortunate.

Speaker 9 (40:36):
Brought our team down.

Speaker 1 (40:38):
You can't blame the last guy in that game. There's
nine other people that could have helped along the way.
And by the way, you were like barely flipping. There
was no trajectory in yours.

Speaker 7 (40:49):
I had.

Speaker 10 (40:50):
I had two rounds where it was my first flip
and it landed perfect.

Speaker 1 (40:55):
But other than that, yeah, game, everybody counts. That game
so fun, and it's by the next stop, everybody's feeling
the repercussions of it. Yeah. Yeah. That was probably the
fastest stop we had out of all of them. Yeah,
because we just used all of our beers to play
flip Cup and they were all done, so it's.

Speaker 8 (41:17):
Yeah right.

Speaker 1 (41:18):
Yeah, So that was the best part of the weekend,
just being a part of that whole montrosity and uh yeah,
it's just a fun event. And then the worst part
of the weekend was I love a vacuum sealer. I
love buying like bulk amounts of bacon, whatever and then
parting it, portioning it out, and then vacuum ceiling it.

(41:40):
I really like doing it. I don't know why. It
makes me feel like I have found some sort of
life hack. Okay, And so the one I'd have, I've
had for a couple of years. I probably use it
two three times a week, that's how often I use this.
And the plug I knew was kind of getting loose,
and I went to plug it in on Sunday morning
and went in a giant fireball. Oh my hand turned

(42:05):
black wow from the flame and ruined my vacuum sealer.
And I'm sure I probably could replace the plug and stuff,
but you know, I kind of like my house. Yeah,
and I don't like tempting fate. I felt like that
was the warning. Yeah, right, So now I gotta find
or buy a new vacuum sealer, which I don't take lightly.

Speaker 9 (42:28):
No.

Speaker 1 (42:29):
It gives you the opportunity to get a better one
and a fancier one. But I have to stay within
a budget. Okay, right, I'm not just a willing, nilly guy,
and so it's uh, I'm up for the task. Don't worry.

Speaker 9 (42:42):
I bet they sell them at Costco.

Speaker 8 (42:43):
They do.

Speaker 10 (42:44):
Yeah, and if it don't if you don't like it,
you can always return.

Speaker 1 (42:47):
It, of course. But I typically try to buy things
I want, sure, and like I don't try to buy
things so I can return them.

Speaker 10 (42:55):
Sure, But I'm saying, though, if you don't like it,
you can maybe in love with it.

Speaker 1 (43:01):
Yeah. If anything, if the thing burned up like this
one did, I could have returned it. That might be
the only saving grace on that Best and worst of
the weekend. What's the best thing that happened this weekend?
And the worst thing that happened this weekend BMMS and
whatever that is to eight two, nine four five. Best.
My daughter loved her early birthday present. Going to Oklahoma

(43:21):
City to see Deadrian Harding Stay Sober Spring Tour The
worst part I had to sit through Diadrian Deadrian Harding
Stay Sober Spring Tour. Idea. Who this person is? I'm
guessing somebody enough to have a tour and is trying
to stay sober. I guess best made some extra money

(43:43):
streaming videos video games? Worst no money, so stay at
home all weekend playing video games? How how much money
did you make playing video games this weekend? I'm curious
because Gimbe and I have talked about this before, like
people that try to do this and make money. How
much money did you make this weekend streaming video games?

(44:06):
How much? I mean a HOUNDI is a HONDI like,
I'll be happy with that for sure. I don't know
how that twitch stuff works out. I've been told, oh,
you should do it, you should do it. Make some
extra cash. Best. I went to my little grandson's birthday party.
He had so much fun, so much, he had so

(44:26):
much When your grandpa and grandparents is amazing and worst,
my band Soul Sagar got canceled due to weather at Loskabo's,
but we will be pumping out your favorite dance tunes
at Pj's this Friday. The idea of I had to
go to a birthday party. Let me phrase that my child.
I'd take my child to a birthday party. Because the

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parents of this kid normally have so much going on
that it got canceled because of the rain. They're like, oh,
let's do the birthday party. So we had like a
surprise birthday party we had to go to on Saturday,
which is fine, I guess, yeah. Best. I woke up
again worst to found out my wrist is broken from

(45:10):
car wreck. You made two hundred and eighty dollars.

Speaker 9 (45:15):
Maybe you should do this, can't be.

Speaker 10 (45:18):
Maybe you probably get some cash, some some good followers
on there.

Speaker 1 (45:25):
I'm sure sounds like it takes.

Speaker 10 (45:28):
Work, though, I mean, isn't it just talking while you're
playing and people just watch you play?

Speaker 8 (45:34):
Sure?

Speaker 1 (45:34):
I guess I don't know. I don't follow, believe it
or not. I don't follow gamers on the tiktoks, and
I don't watch them play video games. I find that
to be weird. And boring. This says, an average of
five to ten viewers per stream can get you around
fifty dollars a month. According to this, so if you

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have five to ten per stream, fifty dollars a month
and you made two hundred and eighty and one day right.
This here says, while it's difficult to provide a precise figure,
some streamers with a consistent audience of a thousand viewers
can potentially earn five grand a month. Damn, maybe I
should start doing it. H The keyword there is consistent.

Speaker 9 (46:19):
Right, I mean you play every day, Joe.

Speaker 1 (46:23):
On average, Twitch streamers in the US can earn eighty
three thousand dollars annually. Wow, dang there'd you got to
have people watching you all the time, Ryan, I imagine
that's how that works out. Yeah, yeah, consistently, not a
one off. I may play video games every day, but
it's getting these people to watch me play video games

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every day is the problem. Best quality time with my
mom and little sis. Worst I found out I have
a secret brother that was adopted out as a baby
in a closed adoption and is fifteen to sixteen. Best
I got my new duty station in Hawaii. Worst realized
I have to wake up at one am to catch
your show live now. But you're in Hawaii, man. Yeah. Best.

(47:10):
We took the kids to see the new Minecraft movie. Worst.
We went to the Imax and there was a piece
of metal sticking out of the seat that jabbed me.
Some people pay for.

Speaker 7 (47:19):
That, right.

Speaker 1 (47:21):
You want to see something listen. I don't like Jack Black,
but you want to see something daring? Oh God, like
makes Jack Black look so awesome. There's a TV show
on Netflix called Love on the Spectrum and one of
the main characters, one of the people in the show,
main character, one of the people in this show that
has is on the Spectrum and is trying to find

(47:43):
dating life and whatever. He is on some talk show
and they bring he's a huge Jack Black fan. And
Jack Black comes out and they're like, the kid can't
the man? Yeah, because he's a man.

Speaker 8 (48:00):
It can't help.

Speaker 1 (48:01):
Like, he's so happy to see Jack Black and tells
how much he loves him, and like, and Jack Black's
just in it, man, like letting this be a moment
for this person and not like pushing him away. And
the kid from the Love on the Spectrum show is
like really in his space and like this close to
his face.

Speaker 8 (48:22):
Jack.

Speaker 1 (48:23):
I love you, Jack, Jack. I saw your movie. Jack,
like really into it and you're just like it's man,
You're like, dude, that's cool. It's really cool to watch
if you're a fan. And anyway, Jack Black's in that
Minecraft movie. Best gott to take my kids to see

(48:43):
the Minecraft Movie. Worst bad hangover from only a few beers.
Was exhausted, felt like crap this weekend. Definitely a hangover.
I didn't deserve or did you? You went to Minecraft,
you deserve the hangover.

Speaker 11 (48:56):
Right.

Speaker 10 (48:56):
My kids went and saw it too, and my oldest
said it was so bad it was good whatever that means.

Speaker 9 (49:02):
My youngest loved it.

Speaker 1 (49:05):
Just being honest, not sure what the threshold would need
to be for it to be great. Yeah, right, because
it's a Minecraft movie, right, it's a game movie about
a video game. The main character is you in the
video game, right, like you control yourself. Yeah, it's not
like Mario Brothers where you control Mario.

Speaker 10 (49:20):
Right, Yeah, I mean you control I think the character
is Steve and that I don't.

Speaker 8 (49:27):
I don't.

Speaker 1 (49:27):
I don't have kids that play.

Speaker 10 (49:29):
Yeah, I don't watch it because I don't like Minecraft.
I can't stand to watch. It makes me dizzy to
watch them play that.

Speaker 1 (49:35):
All right, we got tickets to give away to say
Lincoln Park. We'll take a break and we'll be back.

Speaker 11 (49:39):
If you're listening to The Big Man Morning Show, this
is Tulsa's Morning shown Kim Moulton.

Speaker 8 (49:57):
Good morning. It's The Big Man Morning Show.

Speaker 1 (50:02):
Nine four six oh kmo D. You can also text
BMMS and then what you want to say to eight
two nine four five. Let's play a game. The way
this works is I'm going to play a game called
Note off, and if you guess the song correctly off

(50:25):
one note, you're gonna need a pair of tickets to
see Lincoln Park. Not just any pair of tickets, club seats,
not just seats, but you'll be in the running to
sit in the suite with us, to be as Lincoln
Park Suite for Lincoln Park on April twenty eighth at
the Bok Center. So nine one eight four six oh
kmo D nine one eight four six oh kmo D.

(50:45):
If I'm being honest, I think this is an easy one.
Oh I all, I think you should be able to
get this pretty pretty easy. So I'm on eight four
six oh kmo D nine an eight four six O
K MODI call up see how you do? Good morning,
you're on the air. What is your name?

Speaker 7 (51:05):
Dan?

Speaker 8 (51:06):
Dan?

Speaker 1 (51:06):
How are you?

Speaker 5 (51:08):
I'm doing all right?

Speaker 1 (51:09):
Which stuff good? I'll play this one note if you
guess it correctly. You're getting the tickets to see Lincoln Park.
Are you ready, sir?

Speaker 5 (51:17):
Yes, sir, here it is.

Speaker 1 (51:22):
I'll play it again. No rain, no rain by blind Melon.
Are you sure.

Speaker 5 (51:34):
I feel like it is?

Speaker 7 (51:37):
It iss?

Speaker 9 (51:38):
You're getting those tickets?

Speaker 5 (51:40):
Yeah?

Speaker 12 (51:44):
Yeah, I love hearing people excited. And you're gonna get
a paired You get pared tickets to see link the park.
You get clubsy tickets and a chance to be upgraded
to sit in the BMMS and Lincoln Park.

Speaker 1 (51:55):
Sweet dude, congratulations.

Speaker 5 (51:58):
Thank you, sir, Dan.

Speaker 1 (52:00):
I gotta be honest, man, We've done this a lot,
and you've won a few times. I've never heard you
this excited.

Speaker 5 (52:07):
Oh dude, I love Lincoln Park. I am. I am
like so hopefully I can take my nephew with me
because he has Lincoln Park too. So I am sastatic
about this bill.

Speaker 1 (52:18):
I'm glad we could do it. Buddy, hang on the line, okay, yes,
third that excited Dan? Yeah, I like excited Dan, But
I could be happy for someone to be excited. It
doesn't mean that when I have sex with him. You know,
it's weird you go right to that you like excited man, Dan,

(52:41):
I don't feel like I said any of that. But
all right, we got to take a break.

Speaker 11 (52:45):
We'll be back Tulsa's Morning Show. He's gotting right back
to the Big Man Morning Show, Tulsa's Rock Station ninety.

Speaker 1 (53:00):
Good morning, It's the Big Man Morning Show. Nine one,
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Speaker 8 (53:16):
Coming up.

Speaker 1 (53:16):
Jeff Finsley from Hensley and Associates will join us. If
you have a question about a divorce or custody or guardianship,
or maybe you're just found out your fifty two year
old grandpa and you want to know your grandparents rights.
He can answer those when he's in the studio with
us at nine, So get your question to us ahead
of time. If you'd like the email dresses show at
kmod dot com. Let's see what Kimpie has in is

(53:37):
four by four. He Colbina says here that netting Y'aho
to visit the White House for tarent talks. Israeli Prime
Minister Benjamin Netton Yahoo visits the White House today to
discuss new US tariffs imposed on his country. President dropped
older borders aboard air Force will run on Friday that

(53:58):
he had invited Yahoo for discussions. The dogs also likely
to include Israel's war on Gaza and meting Yahoo's visit
Mars the first attempt by a foreign leader to try
to negotiate a deal on trips. Pam Bondi says she
received death threats Papa Bomb. Attorney General Pam Bondi says

(54:21):
that she has received death threats for seeking the death
penalty against Luigi Mangione. Last week, Bondi ordered her agency
to push for capital punishment in Mangioni's federal case. Mangione,
accused of killing the CEO of United health Care, has
pleaded not guilty to state murder and terrorism charges. His

(54:44):
defense attorney has said the allegations were brought by a
quote lawless justice department that is being guided by a
political decision to seek the death penalty. What are you
talking about? He has to be tried for murder, right
heat murdered something? He literally on camera pulled out a
gun and shot somebody? Or did he? Is he just

(55:07):
a patsy? I mean either way, he pulled the trigger,
right they what are you talking about?

Speaker 8 (55:14):
Threatening her?

Speaker 1 (55:15):
That's wild? So he should just walk. We can't or
keep him in prison for night? What else do you
have to be tried to be put in prison for life?

Speaker 8 (55:25):
Right?

Speaker 1 (55:25):
Right? Pope Francis makes his first public appearance since his hospitalization.
Old Frank attended the jubilee Mass for the sick entering
Saint Peter's Square at the Vaticant. In a wheelchair, The
eighty eight year old pontiff gave his blessings to the faithful.
As a celebrant, Pope Francis told the crowd have a

(55:46):
good Sunday everyone, Thank you very much. Listen, Bernie went
to a party too, right, They held him up in
a wheelchair. If I'm not mistaken, Yeah, you know the movie.
Just pick a new pope already?

Speaker 5 (55:58):
Eh?

Speaker 1 (55:59):
No, dude? You hey? Lastly, are easy? Exactly? Hey? Lastly here,
Service Oklahoma extends real ID appointment hours as deadline approaches.
As the deadline for having a real ID to fly
domestically approaches, Service Oklahoma is extending its appointment availability now.
Starting today, on Mondays and Wednesdays, Service Oklahoma locations will

(56:22):
offer real ID appointments from six pm to eight pm
through the end of the year. The evening appointments will
add hundreds of new scheduling opportunities each week, providing more
flexibility for those who cannot visit during regular business hours.
In addition to the extended evening hours on Mondays and Wednesdays,
during Saturdays in May, only Real IDEA appointments will be

(56:43):
available from noon to five pm. A Real ID identification
card or other federally accepted form of ID like a passport,
will be required to fly domestically and access federal buildings
and military basis starting May seven thirty year. I was
thinking about that because I saw that headline this morning,
and I was thinking, who whoever would find that inconvenient

(57:05):
to have to do all that or not want to
As long as you don't want to fly domestic or
feel like you'll never have to be in a federal courthouse, yeah,
or a nuclear power plant, like right, right, then you're fine, right,
But if you think you're gonna have to suddenly get
a job near some of uranium, you should probably think
about getting one. I want to go ahead and do that. Well,
they've made it very convenient for people like me who

(57:27):
don't want to go during the day. Right at all,
You don't have a bad day in there, right.

Speaker 10 (57:40):
The Lakers flexed their muscle after blowing out the Thunder
one twenty six to ninety nine in Oklahoma City. Lookadancik
led all scores with thirty points for the Lakers. Lebron
James added nineteen points and a team high seven assists.

Speaker 9 (57:57):
Los Angeles has won four out of its last five.

Speaker 10 (58:01):
Shay Gilges Alexander led the Thunder and scoring with twenty
six points and came within one assist of recording a
double double. Okac has now dropped back to back games.

Speaker 1 (58:13):
I mean this game right here. Them losing to the
Lakers is the argument some have that the Thunder aren't
very good, that this they're not as good as their
record is showing. I don't know that necessarily you can
have a bad game or whatever, but and the Lakers
can have a phenomenal game.

Speaker 9 (58:29):
Yeah, there is.

Speaker 1 (58:30):
Hard but I hope not right right is that momentum
it's about to get bad. But this is I'm just
saying that this is the argument people have on why
the thunder might be overrated when they lose to a
team who's like in what's fourth place? Yeah, yeah, not lose,
get embarrassed right at home.

Speaker 10 (58:49):
Yeah, especially when they've their scores have been so high
in the one forties, thirties, forties to ninety nine. This
time a veteran offensive line and is calling it a career.
Dolphins tackle Tron Armstead announced his retirement over the weekend.
The thirty three year old played on the left side
in Miami after signing a five year deal with the

(59:11):
team back in twenty twenty two. Armstead was originally taken
by the Saints in the third round of the twenty
thirteen draft and made five Pro Bowl appearances over his
twelve year career. The Raiders are moving on from one
of their starters on defense. NFL Network reports that Vegas
is releasing cornerback Jack Jones after failed attempts to trade him.

(59:34):
The Raiders will save three point four million dollars in
salary cap space with the move. Jones started sixteen games
last season, finishing with a career high sixty nine tackles,
sixteen passes defended, and three interceptions. The twenty seven year
old will be looking to join his third team since
being selected in the fourth round of the twenty twenty

(59:55):
two NFL Draft.

Speaker 1 (59:57):
I mean he played a lot of games last season, and.

Speaker 9 (01:00:01):
He's young, twenty seven.

Speaker 1 (01:00:05):
I mean that's I wouldn't say that that's young.

Speaker 9 (01:00:07):
No, I guess not in the NFL.

Speaker 1 (01:00:09):
No.

Speaker 8 (01:00:09):
No, the young in the.

Speaker 1 (01:00:10):
NFL would be twenty two to twenty three.

Speaker 10 (01:00:13):
The Dodgers are going to be without a member of
their starting rotation for the foreseeable future. Los Angeles is
placing two times sign Young Award winner Blake Snell on
the fifteen day injured list due to a left shoulder inflammation.
Right handed pitcher Matt Sower was recalled from Triple A
Oklahoma City in a corresponding move. Over the weekend, the

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Naismith Basketball Hall of Fame class of twenty twenty five
was announced. Interestingly, Carmelo Anthony and Dwight Howard will be
inducted twice. Anthony and Howard will be going in because
of their storied NBA playing careers. They were both also
part of the two thousand and eight US men's Olympic
basketball team known as the Redeemed Team. Lebron James and

(01:00:56):
Chris Paul were also on that team, so they'll be
Hall of Fay before their playing careers come to an end.
WNBA stars Sue Byrd, Maya Moore, and Sylvia Fowls will
also be inducted, along with Chicago Bulls coach two time
NCAA champion Billy Donovan, Miami Heat managing partner Mickey Arson,

(01:01:17):
and NBA ref Danny Crawford enshrin Weekend happens on September
fifth and September sixth. UFC CEO Dana White being on
the Board of Directors for Meta has resulted in a
strategic partnership between the two companies. White announced to a
multi year partnership with Meta that he says will take

(01:01:39):
fan engagement to the next level. Will be an absolute
game changer for UFC fans. As the sport's first ever
fan technology partner, Meta will use all of their platforms, Facebook, Instagram, threads,
and WhatsApp to create and distribute exclusive UFC content, starting
with a new fighter rankings that's already been created.

Speaker 1 (01:02:03):
I don't understand. So they're gonna let fans decide that's stupid,
that's stupid, So they might vote for a fan to
be like higher in the ranking because they love him
and he may not be a good fighter. Right, that's stupid.

Speaker 9 (01:02:19):
It's a popularity contest.

Speaker 1 (01:02:20):
I mean, I think there's a little bit of that
that it's it's a popularity contest. But also you have
to be really good, right, we'll see.

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Speaker 1 (01:03:13):
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awesome and Matt is on the Lineless Hey Man, How
are you all right?

Speaker 5 (01:03:29):
How are you doing, Corbyn?

Speaker 8 (01:03:30):
I'm good.

Speaker 1 (01:03:31):
Matt says, you've been married thirty eight years. Man, congratulations,
that is a long time.

Speaker 5 (01:03:35):
Yeah, yeah, almost thirty eight okay, thirty.

Speaker 1 (01:03:38):
Eight and May congratulations. How did you meet your wife?

Speaker 5 (01:03:42):
We met working at rock roll in National when they
were still here in town.

Speaker 1 (01:03:46):
Okay. And did she make the first move or did you?

Speaker 5 (01:03:52):
I'll really remember so long ago I was stuck in insane,
I've kind of died, okay, yeah, because I had I
had kidney cancer in twenty twenty three. Well, I guess
I had it some time before then too, but I
didn't find me till then.

Speaker 1 (01:04:10):
I don't know if I kidney cancer doesn't sound like
a very common cancer or very uh like you say,
he are a lot of people that get it. How
did you find out? What was the sign you found
out you had kidney cancer?

Speaker 5 (01:04:20):
Uh? Damiey of twenty twenty three? My vision wimberry and
uh diabetics. I'd had retinopathy before, so I called the
eye doctor, got in. She said, well, you got a
small breed. We think we can get taken care of
if you get your glucos back under control. And I
wasn't exercising, like I said, so, and I get bored exercising,

(01:04:42):
and it's not something you know, I couldn't just go
out walking circles in the backyard type of thing. So
I get out in the backyard and wrestle with her,
oh you know, full toys and things like that. And
it knocked the piece of the kidney loose and started
coming out in chunks. Are not kidney, but the tumor.

(01:05:04):
And it started coming out in chunks in my earn.

Speaker 9 (01:05:07):
Oh my goodness, like a stone.

Speaker 5 (01:05:11):
At first, the very first speck of it, I thought
that's what it was. And then later on in the
day it got a little bigger, a little bigger, and
then one I felt it and it was like a
little mini placenta in the in the bowl, and I
was like, Doc, and uh, the doctor gets me is

(01:05:32):
gonna right away. By the time I get in my samples,
hearing samples just pure red, they got it in right away.
The next day I'm getting scans and they say, you
got even Mungo's tumor on your right kidney, and we
need to cut that out. So uh spent about months
collecting Daddy, taking tests and stuff and I was like,

(01:05:53):
we can't do it tonight, and they were like, now
we gotta get all the daddy and thus is stone
the clott into your iv C. So we're gonna have
to have a heart surgeon involved. And so we got
our schedule, get our schedules to meet up on that
and uh and by the time they got in there,
it attached to a liver, so it didn't metastasize, but

(01:06:16):
just attacked. So they cut off bart the liver. And
since it regenerates, and oddly enough, some people can feel
it kind of doing something. I guess it's regenerating U
And I'm one of those it just feels weird. It
fell were within two years now and it's mostly gone away,
but uh feeling is still there every once in a while.

Speaker 1 (01:06:41):
How much time went from you, uh, using your words,
urinated a small placenta to whin you had surgery? How
much time?

Speaker 5 (01:06:51):
Let's see a month and a half.

Speaker 1 (01:06:54):
Wow.

Speaker 5 (01:06:55):
So yeah, And when I first started looking up so
what is this? I got it like, this is the
type of thing that could get you within three or
four months. And I was like, and were waiting another
month and a half. Yeah, So let's that's uh, let's
getting me and get and they said, I'm sorry, we
gotta you know, we've got to have the data and
so we know what we're doing and when we're up

(01:07:16):
against when we get in there and all that. And
I kind of understood that. But while we're doing all
the poking and protting and everything, for a few weeks
at least, I had almost daily like doctor's appointments that
kept my mind off of it. But then the last
two weeks all the testing was doing. It was just
about getting the dates scheduled, which ended up being March third,

(01:07:40):
twenty twenty three, and got it scheduled, and last two
weeks awaiting when I was listening to every album that
full albums. I hadn't listened to full albums, and along
time I was just listening to full albums, and you know,
trying to keep my mind off of it.

Speaker 7 (01:07:58):
That was a.

Speaker 5 (01:07:58):
Serious difficult a couple of weeks, just mentally, you know.
But got surgery down March fifteenth for an embassy. The
surgeon and he'd declared me cancer free, and which I
took them with a grain of salt a little bit,
because you know, I've had friends and family in a

(01:08:18):
similar situation and know that that's not always the case.
And when I did some follow up immunotherapy treatments, I
mentioned to one of the nurses, I said, yeah, I'm
more comfortable with cancer undetectable than cancer free right now,
And she said, yeah, because cancer is a cell, not
a tumor. And that really drove it home as well.

Speaker 1 (01:08:42):
So did they remove your entire kidney or you just
did the treatments to to get the tumor.

Speaker 5 (01:08:46):
No, No, they they had to remove the kidney.

Speaker 1 (01:08:48):
So you only got just the one kidney right now?

Speaker 8 (01:08:50):
Uh?

Speaker 5 (01:08:51):
Yeah, Yeah. And diet is interesting because I've got minor
heart issues, diabetes, and you know, the one kidney I
got a really safeguard now and finding things that you know,
one food is great for you know, two of my

(01:09:11):
three ailments, but horrible for the other ones. So you know,
find finding the foods that are good for all three
or just taking just enough of one and another. It's
it's pretty tricky.

Speaker 9 (01:09:24):
Are you a type one or type two diabetic?

Speaker 8 (01:09:27):
Two?

Speaker 9 (01:09:28):
Okay, so you're you don't have to be on insulin.

Speaker 5 (01:09:30):
Then no, but you know I take uh farsiga. But
oddly enough, before the surgery, I was on one of
those shot things you take, you know, once a week.
It was called Trulicity, and I was on the highest
dose of d uh. The doctor put me on the

(01:09:51):
FARSGA for kidney, not for diabetes, even though it can
be used for diabetes. And after the surgery, though, sure,
they started going way down, partly because I was really
watching my diet close. And then with the Truisity in
the far sea, it was too much. So we ended
up taking me down a half dose of Truisity, and

(01:10:12):
I still went enough, and I ended up totally going
off to Truisity. And also before the surgery, my blood
pressure was constantly through the roof and I was on
you know, you started me on a blood pressure medication,
kept up being it until I was on the maximum amount.
Still wasn't help him, so I got on another one,

(01:10:33):
and by the time it was done, I was on
four or five different high blood pressure medications at the
highest dose. And now you couldn't find out that high
blood pressure is one of the symptoms of kidney cancer.
Kuiney cancer isn't necessarily painful, so you know, I didn't
get diagnosed for a long time. And now after the surgery.

(01:10:55):
I am on half of the lowest dose of one
of the pressure medications, and that's only because my kidney
doctor wants me to use it to safeguard the kidney. Yeah,
so I'm not even taking anything for blood pressure anymore.
So the kidney was really doing a number on me.

Speaker 1 (01:11:15):
That's amazing. Was there at any point while you were
waiting that month and a half and listening to albums
that you were like, this might be it?

Speaker 5 (01:11:25):
You know, I had lots of thoughts of what does
it feel like to go under? And then yeah, there's
no reference point for you go under and then don't
come back out.

Speaker 8 (01:11:40):
You know.

Speaker 5 (01:11:41):
I couldn't you know, I couldn't see that. I couldn't
imagine it. So I was hoping that that was a
good sign, and apparently it was.

Speaker 1 (01:11:49):
It says you're that you're an attorney. Did you do
a trust or will before you went into surgery?

Speaker 5 (01:11:56):
Yeah, we got all. You know, the first thing they say,
the very first thing, the surgeon said he would just
rip the bandate off. He said, you know, ten percent
people don't make that off the table on this type
of surgery. He said, because that especially that blood caught
that's in your IVC. Sometimes they just slipped right out.

(01:12:16):
Sometimes they don't. And the key word here is that
we don't want to happen is And then his words
was splatter and that was like, okay, I get that,
you know, splatter and stuff. Hadn't do the bud vessels
to the brain and the heart and all that, so
it would be a done deal at that point, but

(01:12:37):
bare red came out all right. They did have to
take the IVC out. I guess they cut it out
instead of trying to pull it out, and I have
an artificial graft there.

Speaker 1 (01:12:45):
How long were you in the hospital.

Speaker 5 (01:12:49):
I guess about two weeks, maybe a week and a half.

Speaker 1 (01:12:52):
That's crazy, that's crazy. Yeah, yeah, I mean we're not
even here to talk to You're not even on the
show to talk about your cancer. That's just something that
is why that's wild to find out how people find
out they have cancer, and that journey is always fascinating
to me, and usually it yang's people's lives in a
different direction because it's so crazy. As someone who had

(01:13:14):
it just a few years ago, it had to have.
Of all the experiences you've had here, you are dealing
with maybe the biggest experience in your life going through cancer. Huh.

Speaker 5 (01:13:23):
Well that and uh, my second oldest son that passed
away from the South of Jill cancer the November before
and and they didn't catch his till it was way
too late. They just kept thinking it was heartburning. And
they finally diagnosed him and they said they would stage

(01:13:43):
four by that time.

Speaker 1 (01:13:46):
So you did you think it was? I mean when
they were trying to diagnose it and they were like, oh,
it's just heartburn. Did you know how did when did
you find out it was cancer? Then? For him?

Speaker 5 (01:13:58):
Yeah, uh, you know, shortly after he found out, I
mean just yeah, he was up and down Houston and
h So he went to MD Anderson and and they
finally figured it out. And at the same time they
were finding you abnormalities and in my blood work and stuff.

(01:14:20):
So they had me going through some testing trying to
figure out what was going on. And and uh and
when I told him that about his situation, when I
went in for a colonoscopy and okay, they said, we'll
do the the one they go down the throat endoscopy.
Is that would I don't know anyway, they said, well

(01:14:41):
we'll check for that while we're while we're here then,
and they did and they said, no, that's not a
problem with you, and when at anything to do with
colon cancer And they just kind of cut me loose,
still not knowing exactly what was going on, and and uh,
you know, one thing right to another as far as
the wrestling went the dog and you know they're breaking
off of the tumor and all that part.

Speaker 1 (01:15:03):
What I mean, that's nobody should have to go through
cancer treatments or witness somebody, but you you had to
see your son deal with it and you went through it.

Speaker 5 (01:15:15):
That was something a nurse friend of mine kept reminding
me of, you know, after the fact when it was
you know, recovery was different, difficult, and you're saying, you know,
first of all, you need to realize you do you know,
you had a knife fight with a surgeon and lost,
and and you had a you know, prior trauma, you know,

(01:15:37):
just months before of your sun pass and so and
it's like your son helped me kind of mentally get
through it all after the fact.

Speaker 1 (01:15:45):
And you've been in the military and you were a
police officer, right, yes, And that's a lot for just
those two things is a lot for an individual to
go through, but much less they go through cancer. And
then also they lose their son to cancer. That's a
lot for an individual to deal with.

Speaker 5 (01:16:02):
Yeah, you know, it still has its effects, that's for sure.
That's because I'm fine. I'm buying a little bit on
the cancer because I wasn't able to work enough the
year of the surgery, so I lost the marketplace insurance
and they offered me a plan where I could play

(01:16:25):
two grand a months for my premium, and it didn't
cover my immunotherapy treatments for after cancer, so I only
got six months or twelve months of the treatment. And
when I asked the doctor about it, it was like, Okay,
I'm only going to be able to do six months
because it was like one hundred and forty thousand dollars

(01:16:48):
of treatment for the ammunis therapy that the insurance was
covered one hundred percent of before. And then I went
to you don't have coverage and he said, well, he's
a need. The answer said, why do we do it
twelve months? Because that's what the studies did. But there
are some people who don't tolerate it very well. They
have to get off of it, and we see really

(01:17:09):
good results of those people were odd hearing him talk about,
you know, success rates with the ammunis therapy treatment being
in the like twenty five to thirty eight percent range
of beating the you know, the five year marker. And
it's like, so you're saying, I've got a shelf life.

(01:17:32):
I got a shelf life that got you. Maybe's gonna
have thirty eight percent added to it, you know, hopefully,
But yeah, trying I think about that too much. Yeah,
that's five years through that.

Speaker 1 (01:17:42):
Oh that's a wild journey that you've been on. But
we wanted to talk about cleaning out your mom's house. Now,
did she pass away? Is that why you had to
clean out her house?

Speaker 5 (01:17:52):
No, she had strokes and needed to move into a
sisters living And then there was an entity that needed
to that was wanting to buy the place because it
was on a dead end street. The house I grew
up in was the only house on that dead industry

(01:18:14):
and there was besides this business, and the business wanted
to bias and essentially extend their parking lot, and she
needed the money for you know, for care, uh at
the time, So you know, we were selling the house
to them, and then the task came to okay, well,

(01:18:34):
we need to clean it out because we didn't even
know the condition that was in until she had her
you know, first troublesome stroke. I mean, it was kind
of weird. She drove home from a senior senate senior center,
had been playing cards, and the lady that kind of
oversaw it all called me and said, hey, you know,

(01:18:56):
your mom's tablemates were concerned because she he's the scorekeeper,
because she's better with members than anybody else, and she
was having trouble keeping the score to day and she
was even having trouble see mike with her left hand
and holding her cards and things like that, and I
was a little concerned that they let her leave, but

(01:19:19):
uh so I had her over to her house and
I actually beat her there and normally every routine would
have been going straight home. And when I got there,
I was waiting around trying to call her. She wasn't
answering her phone, and then she finally showed up. He
was clear she was having a little bit of speech issues.
They weren't they didn't stand out a whole lot, but

(01:19:40):
it was clear something was going on, and we just
kind of monitor her real close and it's just one
thing right doing another that it became obvious something was
going on and got her into the doctor and they
hospitalized her for a little while and ended up diagnosing
the stoke. So, you know, in the inn room, we

(01:20:03):
were trying to stay with her, and it was while
we were staying with her that we figured out, you know,
how bad the mouse problem was. And the mouse problem
had gotten bad because her type of hoarding was, uh,
you know, anything's on sale. She felt good about it, like,

(01:20:23):
you know, I'm saving money. It was like buys them
on sale and just go toss it somewhere on pile
and parmly. Over time she equally distributed whatever she was purchasing,
and sometimes that would be maybe some candy and then
he get buried under some clothes and so the mice

(01:20:44):
had a field days of all the little tunnels through
all the stuff that was piling up.

Speaker 1 (01:20:50):
How gross was it.

Speaker 5 (01:20:53):
The house had to be demolished.

Speaker 9 (01:20:55):
Wow.

Speaker 5 (01:20:56):
Afterwards when the like cleaning out the kit and the
ovens were just full of droppings, and uh, you know
the wall, you know, the base boards of the walls
were just covered. After we uncovered those, they were covered
with it too. See, I just had to know it
couldn't have been good on the on the inside of

(01:21:17):
the walls.

Speaker 1 (01:21:18):
So just curious as the seller you guys cleared it
out or you just went ahead and stopped at one
point and then just went ahead and had it demolished
and taken away.

Speaker 5 (01:21:29):
The buyer demolished it, but we cleaned it out to
try to see if there were, you know, any valuables
or whatever under there. That was one of the things
when we're starting now, was like, how do we tackle this?
And we started looking around for services they would do it,
and and you know articles they would read about it
and say, well, you know there are people who offer

(01:21:49):
these services. It's really expensive. They can be really expensive.
And that's in a house that's not covered in mice
and h And then he got to be concerned about
whether or not you know, certain valuables you know, just
might not walk off because you're out there to watch

(01:22:10):
them through.

Speaker 8 (01:22:10):
The clean out, right.

Speaker 5 (01:22:12):
And she had always told me, you know, check every pocket,
check every looking clean. Use sometimes I stuff with you know,
a little money here and there, and wish she did.
It wasn't a whole lot, And it ended up being
usually about you we Career section find enough cash there
to pay for the you know, the trip to the

(01:22:33):
inside domp for that load.

Speaker 1 (01:22:35):
What what's the What's something weird you found while cleaning?

Speaker 5 (01:22:40):
Oh? Man, you know a lot of stuff was just
you know, uh, you know, things that uh she shouldn't
have had, really that they belonged to friends of hers
and things like that. Uh. Probably the probably the weirdest
thing that found was a letter. This guy it's on backstory,

(01:23:06):
but a letter from a priest from when my dad
had ship me off to a seminary boarding school because
I refused to go back to Bishop Kelly and I
wanted to go back to where my friends went after
I left the Catholic school in West Ulsa and went
to go to Webster where all my friends went. And

(01:23:27):
he was like, no, You're going to Mission Kelly. And
then I did one year and hated it and said
I ain't going back, and he said, see there was
a seminary, and I didn't think he'd send me a seminary,
so I called his bluff and he wasn't bluffing, And
so after the seminary I went and and well, okay,
I'm here. See what I can do to you know,

(01:23:48):
take this seriously and long story short, especially with the
girls in town who you know, it was their mission
to defollow a seminary and which never happened for me,
but just the idea of it and everything else is
like I'll never be able to adhere to the vals Eelbacy.

(01:24:12):
So I called my dad and he's old school, he
don't even talk about sex with he was born in
nineteen thirteen, and he just blew up angry to down
the phone. My mom gets on the phone what just happened,
and I was I kind of told her and so
next thing I know, I'm on I'm playing back Home

(01:24:34):
and I finished out of Webster goes through all my life,
end up cleaning out this house and I find this
letter from a priest that had counseled me at the seminary,
and he was counseling me to talk with my parents
about it. And I couldn't tell him that's a no go,
because you know, my dad was the type of guy
in the nineties when the Super Bowl first had like

(01:24:56):
a Pepsi commercial with dancers dancing and kind of suggestively
and like the outfits, he got upset and said, that's
just just boy. There was anything and shut the TV
off and my dad never set off the Super Bowl.
So I was like, I was thinking I was priests
and saying, not to your parents a letter, but that's
not gonna happen. And then, you know, in my sixties,

(01:25:20):
early sixties or may late fifties, uh, you know, cleaning
up half the finals letter from the priest to him
as a good order. You know, my mom would save
that letter, never showed it to me. I never read it.
They never followed any It was a very well considered
letter asking them to consider to talking with me about

(01:25:41):
how they felt when they were my age, and you know,
the things that they were feeling towards uh, boyfriends and
girlfriends and things like that. And it was just such
a such a beautiful, beautiful letter that they never talked
with me about it.

Speaker 1 (01:25:57):
You felt like this was a letter where this guy
was coming to your fence and trying to help, and
they never even took listen to it.

Speaker 5 (01:26:04):
Yeah. Yeah, it was like, yeah, I know it would
have angered my dad. I read it. I knew it
was it was angering my dad as he read it.

Speaker 1 (01:26:13):
Yeah, So you felt like probably alone a lot, and
that they weren't hearing you, and here's somebody this whole
time had been trying to help you and they weren't
hearing it.

Speaker 5 (01:26:23):
I ask, I mean, I don't know that. I mean
I wanted to brooke him up. Did Actually I did
look him up, you know, since the days of the internet.
But he's in an assistant care facility somewhere down in
Texas now himself. So he's in his late eighties. So
I don't know what his mental state is or anything
like that, or he'd even remember me.

Speaker 1 (01:26:42):
But yeah, that's crazy, man, the things we don't know. Uh, listen,
it's been really interesting talking. We had so much more
to talk to you about what we've run out of time.
Mat Thank you so much for taking Yeah, well that's
all right man. Listen, you're a good storyteller. Thank you
so much for taking the time. And good luck with
everything thing and I sure appreciate.

Speaker 5 (01:27:01):
You, problem appreciate you guys.

Speaker 1 (01:27:04):
All right, man, have a great day. That's matters, take
a break and we'll be back.

Speaker 8 (01:27:09):
Elsa's morning. Good morning.

Speaker 1 (01:27:21):
It's the Big Mad Morning Show. Six oh kmot. You
can also text the MMS.

Speaker 13 (01:27:27):
And then what you want to say to eight two, nine, four, five. Uh,
there is a list of the top US casual dining
restaurants in America, and all of Garden has been the
top spot for a long time.

Speaker 1 (01:27:47):
But why, that's the question, because when you're here your family,
I don't even know the last time I was in
an olive Garden. I do love that they have a
pretty good soup, that sausage soup thing show sup a
something rather Yeah, yeah, but it's not number one anymore good?

(01:28:09):
So what do you think number one is?

Speaker 2 (01:28:11):
Hmmmm?

Speaker 9 (01:28:13):
Another chain, Cheese Trees.

Speaker 1 (01:28:17):
No Roadhouse, Texas Roadhouse is now the top casual dining
restaurant after seven years.

Speaker 7 (01:28:28):
Wow.

Speaker 1 (01:28:29):
I would like to say that I had a hand
in that. I think I have too. Dude. You can
get their dinner specials to go. It's like twenty five
bucks and you get like a bunch of steak and
salads and it's a crazy deal. Dude. During the pandemic,
that was that's what we did. We would order it
up to go and then just have this delicious Roadhouse

(01:28:50):
and the comfort of my living room. You can still
do it, dude. You could do it and have food
all week if you didn't want to cook. Yeah, absolutely,
And I could throw the peanut shells on the floor.

Speaker 8 (01:29:01):
Still, that's important.

Speaker 1 (01:29:04):
The other ones were Chili's, Applebee's, and B Dubs. Really
B Dubs huh okay, I mean BE Dubs is fine.
I don't mind going there with like taking the kids
and getting like because they eat nugs or whatever, right,
and I can have hot wings and drink beer, you
know what I mean. I don't And they have other stuff.

Speaker 7 (01:29:25):
Yeah, they got a.

Speaker 1 (01:29:26):
Good not Cho Burger. I like to get every now
and again. Not Cho Burger. Yeah, it's pretty good.

Speaker 8 (01:29:30):
They have chips on it.

Speaker 1 (01:29:31):
It's got chips, and it's got the nacho cheese and
of course the hamburger. It's good when I don't feel
like winging it At B Dubs, that's usually what I get.
It's been for years though, since I've been there. I mean, yeah,
people make the mistake thinking that you got to eat
wings at B Dubs and you don't.

Speaker 8 (01:29:49):
Uh so.

Speaker 1 (01:29:51):
Yeah, So Texas Roadhouse, Chilis and Longhorns. Chilis was ranked third. Longhorns,
which came in sixth place, did good. Applebee's, Outback Steakhouse,
the Lobster, the Red Robin all saw a decrease, even
though Lobster's going out of business, they still made the list.

(01:30:13):
Huh yeah, I mean they saw a drop, right, so
less people are going and I'm just being honest. That is,
when we think about going out to eat, none of
those are in the rotation or on the radar. Occasionally,
like we'll go to Roadhouse. My niece works there, and

(01:30:35):
so we'll go that. We've gone there, right, but it's
not our first, second, or third fourth choice. Wow, as
you said, it's a pizza place. We try to eat
at a local place and if I hoop is in
that rotation sometimes because my kid's oh yeah, pancakes for dinner,
come on, yeah, you can't go wrong. Roadhouse is number

(01:30:59):
one on my list. Anytime decided to go out to
eat over GC over the GC, Yeah, oh yeah, the
GC's been on. Uh the rain is over. Huh Well
GC is still good. It's still on the list. But
you know, much like every other buffet, I mean, I
get fat and I gorge myself and I'm it's some
big mistake. Afterwards, I'm like, oh god, I'm miserable and

(01:31:21):
I can do anything, but there's something about the Roadhouse man,
whether it's their rolls or the butter or just you know,
like I like a good ribby there, and then out
back is always on my list too, Like I do.

Speaker 9 (01:31:32):
Love the outback bluem an onion.

Speaker 10 (01:31:35):
What's yours, lindsay, probably out back, but we don't really
go out a lot.

Speaker 9 (01:31:39):
If we do, it's usually out for sushi.

Speaker 1 (01:31:43):
Kids eat the soush huh?

Speaker 9 (01:31:46):
Two out of three do?

Speaker 1 (01:31:47):
Okay?

Speaker 9 (01:31:48):
Yeah?

Speaker 10 (01:31:49):
The other ones you know it will eat any other
Japanese food.

Speaker 1 (01:31:53):
Do they eat like real sushi or do they eat
like something real?

Speaker 9 (01:31:55):
Yeah? No, none of the California role.

Speaker 1 (01:31:58):
No, well that's real soush? She is it? Yes? Is
it crab meatra?

Speaker 9 (01:32:06):
It starts cooked?

Speaker 1 (01:32:08):
No, not a California roll is not cooked. It's real sushi.
It's almost in. It's like it's in like every sushi restaurant. Yeah.
For the people that don't want to eat the raw fish,
I'm talking like things they make to make it sound
like it's sushi, like rice with chicken. Right.

Speaker 10 (01:32:22):
No, No, they're like, give me the tune of my
Leo will just do sashimi.

Speaker 9 (01:32:27):
Like he will order pieces of fish expensive?

Speaker 10 (01:32:30):
Is that very very That's why we get to do
it maybe once every couple of them.

Speaker 1 (01:32:35):
I don't even get sashimi from me. Right, all right,
we got to take a break. We'll be back.

Speaker 11 (01:32:42):
Rush of the Big Mad Morning Show is nast ninety
Good morning.

Speaker 1 (01:32:58):
It's the Big Mad Morning shown six km oh D.
You can also text BMMS and then what you want
to say to eight two nine four five. You might
not have seen it over the weekend, but Colorado had
their pro day and at one point a scout or

(01:33:21):
somebody was telling Colorado players how to position themselves for
the forty yard dash timing, and you can there's a
video circulating of Dion Sanders, coach Sanders yelling at this scout,
like railing into him. And afterwards he was asked to clarify,

(01:33:45):
and he was, and his his thing was, we have
been working on this day four weeks for months, and
I don't need somebody who's not associated with us trying
to give day of changes to guys who are basing
their career off something. I don't know who that guy was,

(01:34:06):
I don't know who he was associate with. I don't care.
That makes sense to me. You're not wrong, and I
don't think I wonder because sometimes people don't take Dion
Sanders I think seriously as a coach, and I wonder
if because of that, this person felt like they could
do that or is that normal right at pro days

(01:34:28):
for whoever's scouts or whoever to say, hey, you've got
to be in this position, and for those that care
it was there's a white line in where you put
your hands on the white line. Some say you can
be on the white line, some say you have to
be clearly behind the white line, meaning there's a clear
color difference between your hands and the white line. Right whatever,

(01:34:48):
Potato patata and that. But the video is pretty damning
because you're like, damn, Dion is firing in it. Well,
it's his team, and he has right to say that,
to do that, I feel anyway and experience.

Speaker 9 (01:35:02):
I mean, he was there.

Speaker 1 (01:35:04):
Before, right, but he's never been a scout. No, no,
and it's been thirty years since he's had a Pro Day, right,
I'm not it's is it his team? I mean, I
don't know if they're technically still his players at that point,
but I hear you right right right, Well he's been
training them all this time, and that's kind of like,

(01:35:25):
you know, hey, I come in here and I train
these people. How to do the job and you were
just unraveling at all in one second.

Speaker 8 (01:35:33):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:35:33):
But if I get the counter argument, in my opinion
is it is a pro day. I'm there to see
if I want you to play on my team, right,
if I'm basically it's an interview. If if if I
want to see you do it a differently, might you
might think about doing that?

Speaker 9 (01:35:48):
Are you coachable? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:35:51):
Right, that is a good argument too. If I want
you to get up and do a dance, you're gonna
do it. God damn it.

Speaker 5 (01:36:03):
Soon.

Speaker 10 (01:36:09):
Vladimir Guerrero Junior is staying north of the border. ESPN
is reporting that Guerrero agreed to a fourteen year extension
to remain with the Toronto Blue Jays late last night.
The contract is worth five hundred million dollars. Guerrero was
set to become a free agent at the end of
the twenty twenty five season.

Speaker 9 (01:36:28):
The twenty six.

Speaker 10 (01:36:29):
Year old is the son of MLB Hall of Famer
Vladimir Guerrero, and he's been selected to each of the
last four All Star Games. He had a point three
two three with thirty home runs and one o three
RBI with Toronto last season. Basketball Hall of famer Shaquille
O'Neill had tough words for Los Angeles Clippers guard Ben
Simmons in a rant against the NBA's current product. O'Neill

(01:36:53):
sounded off on the game in the latest episode of
the podcast. He says, people get mad. It's just a
product of what I've seen the Los Angeles Lakers. Legend said,
I've seen what greatness is Ben there played with them.
I don't see that all the time over there. So
you want me to give these mfers the same props
you've given them. That's s will never happen. You can

(01:37:17):
call it hate if you want. O'Neill said he wants
to see greatness on the court and laminated that a
lot of these mfers can't play. He pointed to Ben Simmons,
a three time All Star whose career is ben marred
by injuries. He went from averaging fourteen point three points
per game with the Philadelphia seventy six ers to averaging

(01:37:38):
fewer than seven points per game with the Brooklyn Nets
and now with the Clippers. All of that while he
averaged around thirty five point four million per year in
salary and has earned more than two hundred million dollars
in his career. Ben effing Simmons, that mfer needs to
be arrested. Jason Tatum can play. He's all right. I'm

(01:38:00):
not going to bash him, but Ben Simmons needs to
be arrested two hundred and fifty million for that.

Speaker 9 (01:38:05):
Bulls.

Speaker 10 (01:38:06):
Get the f out of my face, he said, robbing people, man,
you can't do that. The NBA's current product has found
a lot of criticism over the last few years, with
more teams taking three pointers and stars not playing the
entirety of the eighty two game schedule. Fans responded by
turning the game off.

Speaker 1 (01:38:25):
He's a talking head. Does has he played the NBA? Yes?

Speaker 8 (01:38:29):
Does he know the NBA? He knew his NBA.

Speaker 9 (01:38:32):
Right, Yes, it has changed, it's.

Speaker 1 (01:38:33):
A different NBA.

Speaker 8 (01:38:35):
Is he wrong?

Speaker 1 (01:38:36):
I don't know. Is he right?

Speaker 8 (01:38:37):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:38:38):
His job is to talk and create disgruntlement.

Speaker 10 (01:38:42):
Yes, but I do see his point that he's getting
paid all of this money to not play.

Speaker 1 (01:38:49):
Ah, players get hurt, Things happen, that's part of the arrangement.
Shack definitely went through a time when he was injured
and got paid and didn't play.

Speaker 9 (01:38:58):
Right, that's your ball. So the Wall Sports. I'm Lindsay
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Speaker 8 (01:39:14):
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Joyce in the studio. Now was Jeff Hensley of Hensley
and Associate's Good morning, Jeff, Hey, good morning. He's here
to answer any question you have about divorce or custody
or guardianship or name change or anything like that, and

(01:40:12):
utilizing some of the news, Eminem is now a grandfather.

Speaker 7 (01:40:15):
I saw that and I thought, man, I'm old, myde.

Speaker 1 (01:40:21):
Ahed to be a grandparent.

Speaker 7 (01:40:25):
I mean, I'm I'm reading forty seven next month, so
you know, and I've only got a twelve year old.

Speaker 1 (01:40:30):
So but you know, good news. I guess we found
out the world's youngest grandparent was twelve.

Speaker 7 (01:40:37):
You know, that sounds twenty three, thank you, and that
sounds odd. But you know, you hear about these stories
and I see this all the time. I practice where
you've got like an eight year old who's uncle, you know,
or whatever, and that's just all because of you know,
marrying and marrying somebody with kids. And it's yeah, I
get that, but you know it's it's Eminem, man. I mean,

(01:40:58):
I just I felt old.

Speaker 1 (01:41:00):
Does he have any grandparents' rights in Oklahoma? If this
were taking place in Oklahoma?

Speaker 7 (01:41:05):
Well it depends, and you know, our rights for grandparents
are thin in Oklahoma. But it really boils down to
how involved are you with the child. In other words,
you have to show that it's going to be an
absolute detriment to to that child's life and psyche and
everything else if you, as a grandparent are not allowed
to be around them. Now, it typically it's tied into
you know, you're there every day helping, because there are

(01:41:26):
grandparents out there that do that. You know, they pick
him up from school, they take them to school, They
you know, get him ready for the day. I mean,
they're just really super involved for whatever reason, may because
the parents are single parent or something of that nature.
You know. So there are grandparents out there that do
fit the bill and could ask for that now. Also too,
if you have served as a guardian, and I mean

(01:41:48):
an actual guardian that's been appointed by a judge, you
have standing to go after grandparents' rights grandparents visitation. Same
thing if you've served in the juvenile division in some
way such as a kinship placement or a guardian or
something in that kind of placement kind of thing, so
you do have standing to go get your grandparents' visitation.
But you know, I don't know. We'll see if a

(01:42:10):
good old Mathers is really into his grandkid or not.
We'll see.

Speaker 1 (01:42:15):
But as far as grandparents' rights go, going, do you
have to let me see my grandchild? That's not necessarily
a thing. There are many factors that go into that.

Speaker 7 (01:42:24):
There's a lot of factors, and I get calls from
grandparents to say, well, they're not letting me see my
kid well, or see my grandkid well, how often do
you normally see him? Well all we see him during holidays,
we see him maybe once a month, or we see them,
you know, for a week in the summer or something.
That's just not enough. I mean, you've got to really
be super there in the kid's life almost like every day,
and have to show that it's a jutriment to take

(01:42:46):
the kid away from from you as a grandparent.

Speaker 1 (01:42:48):
Not just grandparents rights, but any family los scenario. Jeff
is here to answer the questions on your situation. A
couple of ways to get your question to us nine
one eight four to six oh kmod. You can email
show at kmod dot com or text like this one
BMMS and whatever your question is to the phone number
eight two nine four five. This says my wife and
I were forced by DHS in the state to get

(01:43:09):
a divorce. DHS considered me a threat of harm to
my family. They did an investigation, nothing came of it,
no charges were filed. We got the divorce. It's been
three years. Could we get back together without having to
worry about the state coming after us again.

Speaker 7 (01:43:25):
I mean, I'm going to say I don't know. And
the reason I say that is is or you know
the famous lawyer answer of it. It depends, right. I
would need to know exactly what they were they claimed
of you. I mean, what did they say that you
were a danger for. I mean we need to pull
the DHS report and see exactly what they claims were,
were they really was there really nothing that came of it.

(01:43:45):
A lot of times what happens is is after a
DTS gets done with an investigation, now they're supposed to
send out letters that tell you whether or not the
claim has been substantiated, which means they found stuff to
back up what was claimed or unsubstantiated means they didn't
find enough or didn't find anything to back those things up.
And there's letters that are sent out. Not everybody gets
a letter though, I mean, it astounds me. And if

(01:44:07):
anybody from DHS is on CPS side is listening to this.
This is not a criticism. This is just a plea
for you guys to look into this. There's lots of
people that don't get letters, and I don't know why.
I don't know if it's because the addresses are just
jacked up or somebody's not doing there, I don't know
what it is. But the reason I'm answering the way

(01:44:27):
I am is because I don't know why they were
going after this family. I don't know why they thought
he was a danger to his kids. I'd have to
look and see and get more information. So whoever this is,
please call me or anybody in my office. Let's find
out what's going on and see what your options are
and see what you got going on.

Speaker 1 (01:44:43):
Of all the times we've done this, I've never heard
of anybody being forced to get a divorce, much less
DHS quote forcing you to get a divorce. And why
would they make that happen or try to push for
that happen without knowing if it was substantiated or not.

Speaker 7 (01:44:58):
Well, right, there's a couple holes there. Let me let
me back up and say they can't quote force you.
They can say though this person is a danger, and
if you continue to have them or this person around
the children, you will not get your children back, or
we will file a deprived action and that'll be the
end of that kind of thing.

Speaker 1 (01:45:18):
So, you know, do they without it being substantiated.

Speaker 7 (01:45:20):
Again, I'm not there. You jump in the guns sound
hold on?

Speaker 1 (01:45:24):
All right?

Speaker 7 (01:45:25):
All right? Yeah right, but no no.

Speaker 1 (01:45:28):
Because it sounds wait wait wait wait wait wait wait,
it just sounds like he's he was being forced.

Speaker 7 (01:45:32):
Well okay, so maybe forced isn't a good word. Maybe
strongly suggested. All right, the idea. And I've got a
case like this out in still water right now, okay,
where uh dad is fine? I represent dad. Dad has
zero issues. Dad is not a part of anything other
than to say he's the biological father of the of

(01:45:54):
the kid. And I've got the lady on this side
who has had multiple children removed by DHS. They remove
the child, wants the child. Is more. My point of
telling you this is that DHS can say, look, the
person that you're with is a danger to these children.
We believe during our investigation. We're I've done yet, but

(01:46:15):
this is what we believe, and we want you to
keep them away from this person. So instead of getting divorced.
And this is where it gets a little murky. And
that's why I'm again, this is where I'm coming into
your question. Is I want to find out more? Is
is they can't force you to get divorced. They can say, look,
this person can't be around these kids, which means can't
live there. Now some people may interpret that is as well,

(01:46:37):
my only option then is divorced, because if I can't
live with my spouse and being around my kids, then
we might as well go ahead and get divorced. And
maybe it got misconstrued again, I don't know, it wasn't there.
But you know, there are times when dhs will come
in and say the person you're with is not safe
to be around these kids. Can't stay in the home,
can't stay overnight, you need to get them out, or

(01:47:00):
you're not going to see your kids. That does happen,
so be.

Speaker 1 (01:47:05):
Aware, even without it being substantiated.

Speaker 7 (01:47:09):
They can do that. They can say, look until we discover,
until we do our investigation and find out whether this
person truly is a danger to the kids, this person
needs to go. They'll do their investigation, and then if
it is unsubstantiated, then they'll say, Okay, it's okay for
this person to be around the kids and it shouldn't
be a problem. This forcing to get divorced is you

(01:47:32):
can't be forced to get a divorce. It may feel
like that and whoever this is, please call me. I'd
like to get a few more details and find out
what county and all that stuff. But it can feel
like that because you're being forced out of your family.
So I totally understand where they're coming from.

Speaker 1 (01:47:47):
This tex says, if my brother and his wife are
separated but not actually divorced, and she ran off with
the kids, could me and my mom try to find
her to have her visitation rights and my mom to
try to find her to get her visitation rights.

Speaker 7 (01:48:04):
Yeah, I don't know what that lass sentence means. That's
where I'm lost. So if you all are separated and
one of the parents runs off with the kids, presumably
to another town, another state, whatever it may be, I mean,
you have as a father, you have a right, assuming
this is mom that ran, you have a right to
go and see your children and be in their lives.

(01:48:25):
You know, if that ever happens, you want to file
before six months runs. And the reason being is because
if they've been outside the state of oklhom for more
than six months, and whatever state they've landed in, assuming
they moved out of state, that is now the home
state of those children, and then you're going to have
to file you're you're going to deal with your divorce
or whatever in that state. Now, if they move to

(01:48:45):
a different town, Okay, let's assume that it's a town
in southern Oklahoma somewhere. Right after thirty days, that county
they live in is now the home county, and now
you have to file in that county rather than the
county you reside in. So there are time limits on
these things, and that's why it's important you give us
a call when these things happen, so we can walk

(01:49:06):
you through them and get a game plan going so
that we don't miss these deadlines, or you don't miss
these deadlines.

Speaker 1 (01:49:13):
The text have interpreted a little bit that the brother
and the mother are going to do this for their brother. Inside. Yeah,
I don't is that plausible. Can you get visitation rights?
It kind of falls my grandparents, right, No.

Speaker 7 (01:49:28):
Not for those two people, know. And again, unless you
can prove that grandma's so ultra involved, then grandma doesn't
really have any rights to do with anything with these kids. Now,
if interpreting interpreting this differently, there, maybe they're talking about
a guardianship. Maybe mom ran with the kids and mom
is a drug addict who's living in a drugged in

(01:49:50):
and that's where the kids are living in the projects
and all these other things, and there's needles in the
house and all that crap. That's a guardianship issue for
grandma if dad's not going to do anything about it.
So you know, there's a lot going on in this
without any specifics being given, but those are potential scenarios
that we could deal with this.

Speaker 1 (01:50:08):
Tex says, I've been with my wife for ten years married.
We have three boys. She came with two, but I'm
the only dad they know. The sperm donor has been
out of the picture, no reach outs or anything, for
eight years. How do I get the boy's last name
changed without having to get the guy involved?

Speaker 7 (01:50:28):
Well, you can't because you always have to give notice
on a name change when it's a.

Speaker 1 (01:50:33):
Minor, regardless of how long they've been out of the picture.

Speaker 7 (01:50:36):
Regardless of how long they've been out of the picture.
So I don't care. If the person has been out
of the picture for sixteen years and the kid is
now sixteen or seventeen years old and you want to
change their name, you still have to give notice or
try to give notice. Now you know, you may get
the whole Well, I don't know where they're at. Okay, Well,
that's why we do background checks and all these other
things to try and find them. All right, nine times

(01:50:58):
out of ten we can find them. It's rare that
we don't, all right, or that we can't. It's very rare.
But we still have to give notice. That's what the
law requires, and for some reason we can't find them.
That's why we have the option in Oklahoma to publish
notification of what's going on in a newspaper. All right,
So the three ways to serve give service in Oklahoma
is either a by process server, or b by certified mail,

(01:51:20):
or c by publication in a newspaper. So we have
options either way. You still have to get them involved.
And let's say this is an adoption issue and you
want to do an adoption, all right, you still have
to get them involved. You have to give them notice
of what's going on, whether they've been involved or not.
So unfortunately, you you know, our legal system is not
a oh surprise, did this behind your back? I mean

(01:51:42):
that our law doesn't work that way and never has.
So we have to give notice and let people know
what's going on. We can't do things without giving them notice.

Speaker 1 (01:51:49):
In this Obviously everybody's family dynamic or family situation is different.
But would it be would they be better served to
pursue adoption, to go through that chat all better than
just a name change?

Speaker 7 (01:52:02):
Well it well, here's the famous answer. It depends. Okay,
if you've ever watched an a legal thing, it depends.
And here's why. It depends. What do the kids want
and how old are they? And the reason I say
that is is when you've got once they hit the
age of fourteen, in an adoption scenario, they have to
sign off on the adoption. In other words, they have
to be okay with it. Well, maybe they don't want
to be adopted. Maybe they love the dad, but they

(01:52:24):
just don't want to be adopted for whatever reason, and
that's their right. Adoptions take way longer than name changes.
Maybe it's just the last name change, you know that
it bugs them at school. I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:52:37):
But a name change gets you nothing other than they're
just known by.

Speaker 7 (01:52:40):
Your name, right, that's it. It doesn't tie them into
you legally, It doesn't give them any sort of rights
when it comes to the time when you die. I mean,
there's yeah, I mean just it does that. It's exactly
what it is. Name change, that's it.

Speaker 1 (01:52:53):
Jeff Finsley from Hensley and Associates is in the studio.
If you have a question about divorce or custody or
guardianship or name change or visitation or alimony, how any
of that works. Jeff is here to answer those questions.
Nine one, eight four to six ozho kmod. You can
email show at kmode dot com or you can text.
This says, I'm the breadwinner in our house and my

(01:53:14):
husband doesn't keep a constant job. Recently found out he's cheated.
I'm meeting the marriage, but he says he's going to
take everything I got if he has no job, has
not contributed to our home. Everything is in my name,
car's house. Does he still get half of everything? Yes,

(01:53:34):
that's a painful thing to hear.

Speaker 8 (01:53:36):
It is.

Speaker 7 (01:53:36):
It is really painful for a lot of people to hear.
And remember they only get half from the date of
anything that's you've gotten marital gain, from the date of
marriage to the date of filing or separation, filing of
divorce or separation one of the two, which ever comes first.
So yeah, I mean, if you've built an entire life
and he's done nothing except sit on his butt and

(01:53:58):
you know, play video games all day and get chips
on the floor. I mean, it doesn't matter who the
breadwinner is. I mean, the idea is that even staying
at home. And I know this doesn't always happen, so
please don't crucify me when I say this, but the
idea is that it takes two. Right, there's I mean,

(01:54:19):
who is that song in the eighties?

Speaker 1 (01:54:21):
Right?

Speaker 7 (01:54:21):
It takes two?

Speaker 1 (01:54:22):
Right?

Speaker 7 (01:54:24):
It takes two. And that's how the law looks at it.
And so in Oklahoma, even if they've done zippo, even
if it's everything's in your name, it doesn't matter. They
are still entitled to half no matter what in the
state of Oklahoma. So I have this painful conversation with
people every week, and I know it sucks, but this
is pretty much true for pretty much every state in

(01:54:44):
the United States, and even summer community property states, which
means it's even worse than those states. So I'm sorry,
but that's just the law pretty.

Speaker 1 (01:54:53):
Much it Where Samantha's on the line, Samantha, what's your
question for Jeff Hensley of Hensley and Associates.

Speaker 3 (01:55:01):
So we're in the middle of a divorce. We just
got a suspension of visitation in place, We've got emotion
that's coming up. But my question is, like, my daughter
is asking me if she can get her name changed
back to my maiden name. Is that even possible or
does like he have to sign off on it then

(01:55:22):
or well.

Speaker 9 (01:55:23):
It depends how does that work?

Speaker 7 (01:55:24):
So first saw me ask how old does she the daughter?

Speaker 3 (01:55:27):
He's fourteen?

Speaker 7 (01:55:27):
Okay, And why is she wanting to change your name
to your maiden name.

Speaker 3 (01:55:31):
Because she wants nothing to do with her dad ever again.

Speaker 7 (01:55:34):
Okay? And are you planning to change your name to
your your maiden name once you're divorced.

Speaker 3 (01:55:40):
I'm already divorced, Like that's already finished. We're just now
in like modification because she doesn't ever want to see
him again.

Speaker 1 (01:55:47):
Okay.

Speaker 3 (01:55:47):
So I did not change my name, but I like
if if she in her point, I would do mine too.

Speaker 7 (01:55:54):
And that's fine. I just this is why I ask
these questions to get a little more detail. So you're
not in the middle of the divorce, in the middle
of a modification post divorce and what's going on back right,
So unfortunately he's gonna have to sign off on that.
I mean, if he shows up and objects to the
name change, then she's stuck. If she wants to change
it when she's eighteen, in four years, as an adult,

(01:56:15):
she can do whatever she wants and doesn't have to
give him notice and can tell him to buzz off
at that point. But at age fourteen, you still have
to give notice to the other parent. The other parent
has the right to object. Now that doesn't mean that
he will, but he has to have notice of it
and have that opportunity if he so chooses. Okay, I'm sorry,

(01:56:36):
it's okay.

Speaker 3 (01:56:37):
I was just curious. I just hadn't not a chance
to talk, you know.

Speaker 7 (01:56:39):
So I thought i'd call it her, you know, in years,
when four years, when she's ready and whatever, then call me.
I'd love to help her and stick it to him.

Speaker 3 (01:56:46):
All right, thank you, all.

Speaker 1 (01:56:48):
Right, thank you, Samantha. Jeff Finsley, I from Hensley and Associates,
is in the studio. Megan is on the line. Megan,
what's your question for Jeff Finsley.

Speaker 14 (01:56:56):
Yes, sir, I'm just trying to help my rephews to
a divorce his family.

Speaker 1 (01:57:02):
Her.

Speaker 14 (01:57:02):
I mean, I'm sorry, her family has a little bit
more money and they're quite shady. She's already grown up
divorce papers and she's trying to file for child support
even though there's been no custody, no custody established. I
was just wondering, if, if any, what kind of help

(01:57:22):
would help.

Speaker 7 (01:57:25):
So say your question one more time. I'm sorry, I'm
I'm so sorry.

Speaker 14 (01:57:30):
It's confusing.

Speaker 7 (01:57:31):
No, no, just just say it again. Just you've got
an issue. They're trying to do child support. Is that correct?

Speaker 2 (01:57:38):
Right?

Speaker 14 (01:57:38):
They sent child support papers to my nephew even though
there's no custody established, And well you're only wanting.

Speaker 7 (01:57:47):
Right, But here's the thing, so then let me stop
you there who sent paperwork dhsh with her? Okay? So
and your son is your excuse me? Your nephew is
not married to the girl, right.

Speaker 14 (01:57:59):
Well, she's all for divorce papers. This is all ongoing.

Speaker 7 (01:58:03):
So there's are where they actually married though, that's what
I need to know. Yes or no? Yes, sir, yes, sir, okay,
So she can ask for child support and get something
put in place until there's an actual order that comes
out of the district court regarding custody and visitation. The
idea being as they're separated and there has to be

(01:58:23):
some sort of support for the child, whether it be
just financial support or sooner care insurance or whatever it
may be. She has the right to do that, so
they can put something in place and have that in
place until there's a temporary order or something like that
out of the district court that gives him a certain
amount of time for visitation, at which point the child

(01:58:44):
support will need to be modified to reflect the amount
of overnights and all those kind of things. So can
it happen? Absolutely? What county is this in, by the way,
pre county? Okay, yeah, and I know the DHS attorney
over there who can help with that too, So you know,
have your nephew give me a call, be happy to
help him.

Speaker 14 (01:59:04):
Okay, thanks you also just one more quick question. Okay, awesome,
now it help. Thank you so much.

Speaker 1 (01:59:09):
You're welcome, have a great day, See you later. Listen
if you need help with a divorce or custody or
name change. Every case is a little bit different, and
just because you heard it from somebody, or they filed
paperwork first, or they have more, that doesn't really mean
that much. And that's why you need the legal advice
of Hensley and Associates to help you out three nine

(01:59:29):
eight five six nine two for Hensley Associates nine one
eight three nine eight five six nine two for Hensley Associates.
That's for any family law scenario. Now, if you find
yourself in other areas of law and need some assistance,
Jeff and the folks in Hinsley Associates can help with that.

Speaker 7 (01:59:43):
Yeah, so we're you know, throw up a hustal office
and again don't worry about the location. It's the Shoemake
Law Firm. It's a different name, but it is our firm.
We just left it when we bought it. But you know,
give Sam Allison a call up there. He's our attorney
that's helping out up there and handling those cases. If
you've got you know, a probate issue, if you've got
a willer trust that needs to be drawn up, if
you've got a uh uh, any sort of you know,

(02:00:08):
guardianship stuff, if you've got a contract issue, if you've
got a criminal issue, okay, something as menial, as menial
as a speeding ticket, all the way up to as
high as murder and everything in between. Give Sam a
call off. Derek can help you out with that. And
we'd love to help you get you taken care of.

Speaker 1 (02:00:26):
For Hensley Associates, get a free consultation if you mentioned
kmode five six for Hensley Associates. Jeff, have a great week,
can thank thank you, break We'll be back.

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It's the Big Mad Morning Show four six OD can
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want to say to eight two nine four five. I
have no idea what it is like to online date right.
It's a foreign concept to me. Same and I also
don't know what it's like to have cancer. Be around

(02:01:18):
plenty people that have cancer, but I've never gone through it,
so I don't know what that's like either. But this
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She went through treatments for months. After almost a year,

(02:01:42):
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(02:02:03):
be understanding, impatient, and maybe even want to date someone
going through chemo. So she decided to mention it in
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Speaker 9 (02:02:17):
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Speaker 1 (02:02:19):
Exactly what I thought, Yeah, prey on the moment. To
her surprise, she matched with someone who doesn't have a
name that sounds suspicious at all, Kelvin Hinchcliff Oh. Kelvin, Yeah,
his life was also affected by cancer. He lost his
mother and grandmother to cancer when he was twelve.

Speaker 8 (02:02:41):
Wow.

Speaker 1 (02:02:43):
So he saw her circumstances on the profile, and he
says he just overlooked it. I knew it wasn't going
to change who she is, and I just wanted to
get to know her. I got to be honest. So,
the people I know that went through cancer and had chemo,
it changed them. Yeah, maybe a little bit physically, but
it definitely changed them mentally, their outlook on life, their

(02:03:07):
attitude on things. So it definitely changes you. And she
was surprised on how carrying this guy was. He was
the only person I spoke to that didn't rush me
to get me or get intimidated when I would speak
about my treatment and appointments. Quote. I remember one guy

(02:03:31):
I was speaking too straight up said he could not
handle it. After a month of meeting onlineline, the two
finally met for a first date. When Kelvin and I met,
I was wearing a wig as I was bald at
the time and didn't even know and he didn't even
know it was a wig. I did tell him towards

(02:03:51):
the end of our date that it was a wig,
as I wanted to be honest then and didn't seem
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she faced another health complication as she was diagnosed with
pneumonia and spent a week in the hospital. And now

(02:04:13):
they're doing great. For the three years we've been together,
we've been through about twenty years worth of life illness,
family health issues and work troubles. Good for them, yeah,
for sure. Like she said that one guy was, at
least he was straight up forward about it. I can't

(02:04:34):
handle this right, This is not for me. So single, Lindsay,
single GIMPI single Corbin, You're on the bumble. Swiping through
profiles and it says going through cancer treatment, intense cancer treatments.

Speaker 8 (02:04:50):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (02:04:50):
I don't know what the right thing would say. But
do you engage or do you pass over it?

Speaker 10 (02:05:00):
I honestly would probably pass over it. I don't think
I would want to get into a relationship because like
the other person, it would probably be too much Like
I would be afraid to get too close and then
if they were get hurt.

Speaker 1 (02:05:17):
Yeah, you'd be afraid to get hurt.

Speaker 9 (02:05:19):
Broken hearted?

Speaker 1 (02:05:20):
Gimpih, That depends. It really depends what you look like.

Speaker 7 (02:05:27):
How hot is she?

Speaker 1 (02:05:28):
Exactly exactly is she? Is she cute? Or if it
wouldn't be a factor to you if you were attracted
to them, Uh, probably not. You know, if there's a
good physical attraction there, you know, I probably handle that.
If there's no attraction there, then I'm moving on to
the next one. So I guess ultimately in the end,
it wouldn't bother me. I mean, because the cancer isn't
the factor here, you know, it's what you look like.

(02:05:52):
I don't disagree with what you're saying, because it is
a visual. The whole point is you're seeing what people
look like. I again, I don't know anything about how
this works. But I can't imagine you read the Have
you ever find some found someone attractive if you've done this,
found someone attractive and saw their description and been like
you oh yeah, oh yeah. There's been plenty of time.
I couldn't give you a specific example right now, but

(02:06:15):
there's been times where like, oh, she cute, she cute,
and then something in there somewhere you're like, it's a turnoff.
Like what I'm just I don't know what that would
would be. Like kids you raise mull rats, I don't know, right, pagan, right, right?
I guess you know, it depends on you know, it

(02:06:36):
may maybe it would be their religious backgrounds or something
to that effect. You know, kids, kids don't really bother
me any because god damn, everybody's got kids, you know,
seem seemed like and in my age, it's unrealistic. Yeah,
if you don't have kids, it's weird, you know. Yea,
So maybe the hell that might be a turnoff. Okay,
you're you're forty four years old and you don't have

(02:06:57):
any kids at all? Whatsoever? What's wrong? And then of
course there would be more digging into it all. Well,
you know, I'm sterile. You know, whatever the case is,
you know, just can't have it. You know, that's the
reason why I never had kids or I focused on
my you know, career more so. Uh. But to be
honest with you, man, I haven't been on any kind
of online dating appen almost a year, so so, I

(02:07:20):
mean I couldn't go back, and I couldn't think of
one thing that was just like now that your description,
it ain't work cat lover. Cat lover would do it
for you. I can't be around him, man, you're allergic,
it is, right.

Speaker 9 (02:07:33):
What if it just said animal lover?

Speaker 1 (02:07:35):
Oh well, I mean in general, I'm I am buying
that either you that is, you do that to lessen
the blow of how many animals you actually a yeah,
we know if it's to GIMPI, but if he I
could see him putting animal lover, man's god damn near
a small zoo exactly right, right. I never put how
many animals I have in there my question, right, because

(02:07:57):
that probably could be a turnoff for some people, you know, dogs, ferrets,
you know, And because I do put pictures I did
past tense. Now, I did put pictures of my dogs
in They're in my weasels. And you know, because there's
some people like, oh oh, look at the cute little
ponies or whatever, you know, because it filters some people out.

(02:08:19):
Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah for sure. Now if it said
animal lover, me being an animal lover, that would not
turn me off, that would not make me go I
don't want to be with them. I would probably swipe
right on them and then be like, all right, what
kind of animals do you have? Well, I am currently
fostering fifty three cats and twenty seven dogs. I'm out, okay,

(02:08:41):
ten dogs and ten cats. Oh no, fostering. No, no, no, no,
no no no. If there's anything that I've learned from
having six ferrets, that's too many. Yeah, you have a
lot of pets. Yeah, absolutely, you know it's a lot. Yeah,
And I am at the point in my life right
now they're like, when these bitches start dying off, I'm

(02:09:02):
not replacing them. I'm not replacing I don't. I do
love him to death, but you know, there is you
You get to know your limits.

Speaker 10 (02:09:12):
No, you's gonna say I've got a free such and
such available, and you're gonna see a picture of it and go, yeah,
damn it, I'll take you.

Speaker 1 (02:09:20):
You're probably right. It would depend on what it is.
Is it another gray Dane, probably not. Is it a
water dog maybe so? Maybe so you're just less smaller,
right exactly.

Speaker 10 (02:09:34):
What if the woman on there was a ten and
it says love animals but hates motorcycles.

Speaker 1 (02:09:42):
You're done, see a bitch, I don't see. I don't
need that. You need to because that is my life.
And if you can't get on board with that hitch
that is so much connected to who you are that
yeah you Yeah, that'd be like hate the Chiefs. I'd
be like, good luck, ill bye. Yeah, because I don't

(02:10:02):
I don't want to hear.

Speaker 8 (02:10:03):
I don't want to I don't want that in my life.

Speaker 1 (02:10:05):
Even if you're everything else about you is awesome, I
don't want to hear about how much you hate them, right,
because you're excited and dressing one game day and you
got to hear them scoffing through the house.

Speaker 10 (02:10:17):
What if it was love's another ten on looks loves
loves disc golf, loves motorcycles and.

Speaker 9 (02:10:26):
Bourbon and beer.

Speaker 1 (02:10:28):
Yes so far, live music. Yes, you have described the
the perfect.

Speaker 9 (02:10:32):
Angel hates animals.

Speaker 1 (02:10:34):
Oh well, then bye, because again that's a part of
you know, who I am. Right, you're gonna be in
my house probably, hm, I don't disagree. I I don't
think I would have a tough time just posting photo.
I wouldn't even know like what to post, right because
I'm not gonna post. I don't want to give away
too much, right of course, it's why you do. Maybe

(02:10:55):
you know, one of yourself so obviously they know what
you're looking like. Yeah, sure from the neck up, and
that's it because I'm a tight face, right exactly. They
see through that sort of thing. But yeah, then you do,
like you know, at least that's what I did. Anyway,
you know, a picture or two of yourself, good decent pictures,
maybe one funny, quirky one because I remember when we

(02:11:16):
did the wheel and I did the MEMI makeover or whatever.

Speaker 8 (02:11:19):
You know.

Speaker 1 (02:11:20):
I think I posted that one on there.

Speaker 5 (02:11:21):
Just so.

Speaker 1 (02:11:23):
I'm goofy. Yeah, I like to do silly stuff every now. Yeah,
that makes sense, you know, And then the rest is
just like stuff. I'm entered it, motorcycles, animals, you know,
and if you're not, if you can't get on board
with any of those, then I will say this, that's
quite the play to do a photo of yourself with
with a pet man. Oh yeah, girls love that. They do. Yeah, yeah,
they do, even if you're holding six ferrets in your

(02:11:45):
arm at one. Yeah. And the motorcycle two yeah yeah.
And and I because I don't mind a dog or cat.
I'm sorry, I don't mind a dog or maybe a ferret.

Speaker 8 (02:11:58):
Snake.

Speaker 1 (02:12:00):
Yeah, see that lizard iguana.

Speaker 8 (02:12:02):
I'm out.

Speaker 1 (02:12:03):
That intrigues me some more. I'm like, oh, you got snakes.
I think it felt like, like we said, it filters
some people out. I just I ain't into snake play.

Speaker 10 (02:12:13):
I'd say, picture yourself with a plate of tacos and
that would probably win too. Everyone loves tacos.

Speaker 1 (02:12:20):
Come home, except dragons. You're at dragons don't like tacos.
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