May 15, 2025 • 39 mins
We're halfway through the show now and the fun continues! Gentle parenting verses permissive parenting. Randy from Big Night Live was sitting right behind Timothee Chalamet so he told us how he got those seats! Listen to Billy & Lisa weekdays from 6-10AM on Kiss 108!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hey guys, So welcome back if you're just waking up. Yes,
the Celtics came back last night. They won the game.
So now we've got a Game six tomorrow night in
New York, and then Game seven will be right here
in Boston, and the Celts will repeat and win the
World Championship, and then everybody goes home.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
Okay, and then me keep going. You know it's possible, Yeah, yeah,
the big the repeat.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
This next topic may set me crazy, okay, because Lisa
is staring at a report, a survey on what they
call gentle parenting.
Speaker 3 (00:29):
This actually is in the post, and I guess there's
a woman out there on TikTok who says that gentle
parenting excuses kids bad behavior.
Speaker 4 (00:37):
I don't care how much hate I get for this.
Speaker 5 (00:38):
We can tell if you gentle parent your kids, they scream,
they hit, they throw it. And then you're like, wow,
you're really big in your feelings right now, stage, you
know what? So was Ted Bundy. I saw a kid
throw a fork at his mom's face at a restaurant,
and she was like, we don't express for street, not.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
Frustration.
Speaker 5 (01:03):
You're raising vladv Impaler. I'm no history major, but that
dude had a lot of enemies. You don't raise accountability
by asking do you feel safe enough to not throw
the remote at Grandma? You raise it by teaching them
that throwing Grandma in is with one of these Not
teaching your kid consequences doesn't raise a free thinker. It
raises a full grown tapeworm. And when that same little
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faral adult finally gets corrected in public, they're not gonna
self reflect.
Speaker 4 (01:30):
They're gonna catch a meat rocket to the face faucet.
And I sincerely hope you're there to witness it.
Speaker 2 (01:36):
You created that. Yeah, I gotta tell you something.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
We've created a whole society of fragile people.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
I have to tell you, if I've ever heard someone
talk to a kid like that, I just I kind
of just would roll my eyes. Because there are certain
there are certain situations where you take the child out
of the situation and you go out of the restaurant, right,
You don't worry about what everyone else is thinking restaurant.
Speaker 4 (02:00):
You just pull him out.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
Yeah, if it was me, I wouldn't be able to
sit down for like a week because my dad.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
Would bring me home pants down belt. Okay, Yeah, well
you can't do that anymore.
Speaker 4 (02:11):
No, but you can't take them out of the rest.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
Away and remove them and do things like that. Yeah, yeah,
you can still do it. I mean, I think put
hands on my kid.
Speaker 6 (02:21):
Yeah, I mean, but it's definitely people still do it.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
I think it's more of just correcting the behavior, removing
whatever it is, you know, And I do that with
my children.
Speaker 4 (02:30):
Oh, we did it totally.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
Yeah, if they throw something or whatever, you just remove
that thing or them from the situation. When you're removing him,
do you have him by the neck or the shirt.
Speaker 4 (02:40):
Or what you pick him right up?
Speaker 2 (02:42):
I pick him right up.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
Okay, that's good. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, here, I'll
give you something to cry.
Speaker 3 (02:47):
Well, you don't say that, but you remove them from
the situation.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
Yeah, yeah, No, I get. I was kind of raised
that way too, you know, we all were. Yeah, that's
how we Yeah, we worried about it's different.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
Time, but we also didn't have the feelings society back then.
Speaker 7 (03:01):
You know.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
Now everything's feelings, and well, you just can't let kids
do that because they'll keep doing it and they'll they'll
get worse, and the tantrums will get worse, and they'll
think it's Okay.
Speaker 4 (03:11):
Right, just like that woman said, I totally agree with her.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
Yeah. Yeah. But then there's also permissive parenting, which is
another term which is kind of gets confused with gentle parenting,
meaning what well, permissive parenting is more like not doing
anything at all, passive. It's more passive. Gentle parenting is
kind of you know, not screaming and yell at yelling
at them, but finding a solution to what they're doing.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
I don't really well, a lot of it is like
as a parent, you're trying to redirect your kids, So
if they're having an incident in a public place, sometimes
it's going to sort of redirect their energy. They calm down,
So that's one, you know, strategy. But if someone if
some kid is throwing a fork in my face, like
that's just unacceptable.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
Behavior, impaler.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
As you're pulling the fork out of your cheek, you're saying,
we don't express our frustrating that way.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
I don't agree with that. It's my present opinion. But
let's go to Amber on line one in Marlborough. All right, Amber, go,
what do you think gentle parenting?
Speaker 8 (04:10):
Sort of gentle parent but it's not it's definitely not
letting your kid throw fork in her face. That's permissive parenting,
and a lot of people can use the two. Permissive
parenting is absolutely terrible for the children. They have no rules.
They're going to end up menaces to society. They're going
to learn the hard way later down the line. But
they don't have consequences. They run the house. I've seen
a parent let their kid lie in the middle of
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the parking lot, crouch next to them in whisper, saying honey,
we can't lie down here. No, that's not You're not
going to raise a good human that way. Gentle parenting,
you know, you sit and you talk about where the
rules are. You have boundaries, and you don't do a
lot of yelling. There's no you know, corporal punishment, but
there's consequences. You lose your privileges, you know, there's rules.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
Well, my dad was famous for saying, listen, I'll give
you something to cry about.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
You know, and that seemed to work around the house.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
Yeah, because you didn't want to see what he was
gonna do to you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (05:02):
You just listen again.
Speaker 4 (05:03):
Different times, yeah, very different times.
Speaker 6 (05:06):
But like I'm out of the I'm the only one
that's not my parent here, but I will say I've
been parented, and I feel like the way you parent
is legit. Like I think everyone I know as an
adult was parent parented, not gently like all.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
The good adults I know that are respectful, hard working.
Speaker 4 (05:21):
We were. We hit, not like I'm not saying beat.
Speaker 6 (05:25):
I was never beat, but you there was consequences.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
There was like go to your room.
Speaker 4 (05:29):
There was sit on the step until your dad gets home.
Speaker 6 (05:32):
There was a smack like there was you know what
I mean. Like I'm being honest here. I don't think
that it's not. No one's saying you beat your kids,
but like there's a way to parent in a way
that's not gentle.
Speaker 2 (05:41):
But yeah, it's just you just can't do the physical
thing anymore. I get it. I understand I grew up
that way too, But I think about it like this,
say I pulled my belt out and I hit my kid,
and he goes to school and tells his school right
at my house. I feel like there's a better way
to do it. My mother was smart.
Speaker 1 (05:58):
If we did something, should say sit there in the chair.
Now these were wooden kitchen chairs. Okay, not very comfortable.
Sit there until dad gets home.
Speaker 7 (06:08):
Right.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
The problem is Dad never came home. He was at
the box, right, he wasn't a couple of days.
Speaker 3 (06:15):
I will say one thing that kids want parents to
be parents. They want you to help them and give
them boundaries and guardrails.
Speaker 9 (06:25):
Right.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
Yeah, they want it and they need it.
Speaker 4 (06:26):
They do.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
Yeah. So at the end of the day, just be like, Lisa,
go to your room, Lisa kiss one.
Speaker 1 (06:33):
Okay, so the topic is gentle parenting permissive parenting. You
be the judge, Okay.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
Well, I just want to clear something up that we
played some audio a couple of minutes ago about gentle parenting.
That person was more describing permissive parenting. Yeah, with the
fork thrown at her face, Yeah, not doing anything. Yeah,
that's permissive, which is a little bit more controversial. Yeah,
gentle parenting is boundaries. But I think in the name,
you know, gentle, it sounds like it's more gentle, but
there is consequences in gentle at I just want to
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clear that.
Speaker 6 (07:01):
Does that mean you don't yell if you're gentle?
Speaker 2 (07:03):
I think so, yeah, you just more you give the consequences,
but more more, it's more about how you deliver them.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
You know what My best parenting moment ever, was my
oldest son, Chris, you know, had just gotten his license,
and we got him a pickup truck, really nice pickup truck.
And I forget what he did, but he did something.
I think it must have been reckless. I drove, at
least you remember this, I do. Drove him to the dealership,
pulled up and returned the truck, and I had him
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with me so he can take all of his stuff
out of the truck and put it in my car
and then give the keys to the dealer and that
was the end of the truck.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
I agree with that. You also canceled, Chris.
Speaker 4 (07:42):
Yeah, I was going to say that, but.
Speaker 1 (07:45):
To get a truck, you know, you waited your whole
life and never saw it again.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
Anyway, let's go to Patricia. Patricia, what do you think, gentle? Permissive?
What are you?
Speaker 8 (07:55):
Gentle?
Speaker 10 (07:56):
I was just gonna say what Justin said that clip
she played, is that you guys play this permissive parenting.
There's two other parts to the equation, which is you
tell the kid like, I understand you're frustrated, but we
don't you know, we don't throw forks. The second part
is I'm asking, like giving the kid an alternative like
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this is what we do when we're frustrated, and the
third part is I'm going to pick you up and
take you out of here until you calm yourself down.
Speaker 2 (08:24):
So okay, now this is interesting.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
I guess you were in my mind hypothetically your child throws
a steak knife at your face or fork in this case,
and you'll say, you know that as you pull the
knife out of your cheek, you say, you know, that's
not really how we express frustration, and then you give
them a three part solution.
Speaker 10 (08:47):
I think if you're at the point where your kid
is throwing a steak knife, you've been doing permissive parenting
their entire life, right.
Speaker 6 (08:54):
It's me gentles was sounding pretty similar.
Speaker 2 (08:58):
Permissive. There's no content quinces, okay, but gentle They are
in no concerts, No gentle there are. It's about how
it's about red It's about delivery, delivery and redirection. Can
we just pass? Is that right, Patricia?
Speaker 7 (09:10):
Yeah?
Speaker 10 (09:10):
There's these two moms. They run a company called Big
Little Feelings, and they do examples videos alog follow them
and it's all about like kids don't understand how to
express their frustration.
Speaker 2 (09:23):
It's true.
Speaker 4 (09:24):
Talk about little it's true to start.
Speaker 7 (09:25):
When they're little.
Speaker 10 (09:26):
Yeah, they don't understand how to express frustration, so they scream,
they throw, they yell. So from the time they're little,
you gotta give them an alternative.
Speaker 2 (09:36):
This was all going to lead to feelings. You know
what I learned. You know what, I just learned that
I'm a gentle parent because that that's what basically what
I do. What she just described, like, I removed from
the from the situation, but we also make it a
point to try to talk to them and be like,
you know, why are you why are you feeling like this?
Why did you just do that? Why did you throw
the toy? You know what I mean? We kind of
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talked instead of just yelling. When I was growing up,
I was yelled at, he screamed at you know what
I mean. So now I want to kind of give
my kids a little bit of a different mindset, you know,
understand why the behavior is happening, and how's that going.
It's going pretty good, I think.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
I think as a parent, and I have two boys
who I love, and they're older now, but when they
were younger, we would try and.
Speaker 4 (10:16):
Do that all of this stuff.
Speaker 3 (10:18):
But I have to tell you as a working mom,
and there's a lot of working moms listening to us
right now.
Speaker 4 (10:22):
Sometimes you're having a bad day too.
Speaker 2 (10:24):
Yeah, it does happen, and you're going to.
Speaker 4 (10:26):
Be You're gonna yell right, and you're not going to
redirect as well as you might have redirected the day.
Speaker 2 (10:30):
Before you Right, I just said that, But now that
I think about it, Yes, I have bad days to
The goal is not to just always act, you know
what I mean.
Speaker 6 (10:43):
Become a gentle co host maybe, like, can you like
direct that energy towards co hosting's to here?
Speaker 2 (10:53):
Why don't you pay your bet? They let's start there.
Speaker 4 (10:58):
That's a good redirect.
Speaker 2 (11:02):
Ready exactly.
Speaker 4 (11:05):
They're teaching her consequences.
Speaker 2 (11:06):
Yeah, that's right.
Speaker 6 (11:07):
If I was able to be you know what, buddy,
why don't you pay it next week when you get
your allowance?
Speaker 2 (11:13):
Okay, this took a turn. I don't know what happened.
It took a turn, and it's because she still hasn't
paid the bet. I'll never see the money. And that's okay,
that's true. Yeah, welcher is the worst thing you can be. Yep,
I don't know what that is.
Speaker 1 (11:28):
Yeah, by the way, that's streaking your hair is getting bigger.
It's going right across the top of your skulls.
Speaker 2 (11:34):
Well, we just made this all about ourselves. But good job. Hey,
this is Jared Leto.
Speaker 11 (11:39):
Then you're waking up with Billy and Lisa in the
morning on Kiss Went eight.
Speaker 2 (11:43):
Lisa, how you doing now?
Speaker 4 (11:47):
The entertainment update with a Billy.
Speaker 1 (11:49):
Constat Well, if you slept late. The Celtics came up
big last night. The defense came up big. It was
a huge knight for the selves. They beat the Nicks
in Game five. Derek White a team high thirty four points.
Speaker 12 (12:02):
None of us want to go home, and so we
understand that it's only on get tougher. We haven't done
anything yet, just kinda find a way to go to
New York and win the game.
Speaker 2 (12:12):
Yeah, nobody wants to go home.
Speaker 1 (12:13):
Jaln Brown twenty six points, eight rebounds, twelve assists.
Speaker 13 (12:17):
I appreciate the fans that showed up today. You know,
it was a great atmosphere. It was loud, you know,
and I know it's easy to kind of write things off,
but we still got basketball to be played. You know,
I believe in his group, so you know, don't count
us out just yet.
Speaker 2 (12:31):
Yeah, coach Missoula, the team stepping up big time. We
did what was necessary to do what we need to
do to get back to New York. So made winning
plays on both eends of the floor.
Speaker 1 (12:41):
And I'm guessing Jason Tatum was probably watching the game
from his hospital bed. He was posting pictures yesterday from
his hospital bed. And by the way, we told you
this this morning. The surgeon who did the Achilles surgery
on Jason Tatum, doctor Martin O'Malley.
Speaker 2 (12:56):
Remember that name if you tear your achilles.
Speaker 1 (12:59):
He also did Kobe Bryant, Tiger Woods, and Kevin Durant,
And yeah, it could be a very long recovery. Well,
we know he's definitely not coming back in the playoffs,
but next season could be a question mark too. But
ESPN spoke to Tatum's dad, who apparently was coaching a
team overseas when Tatum got injured.
Speaker 14 (13:20):
Jason ended up giving him a call once he was
able to. They cried on the phone together and Jason
was asking him, why me, Dad, why me? Why does
this have to happen to me? And he said, son,
this is God's will. You're young, You're going to get
through this.
Speaker 1 (13:36):
Yeah, Game five New York tomorrow night, Monday night, Game
seven here in Boston. I trust it will be here.
Game seven Monday night in Boston. And by the way,
an article in the New York Post this morning saying
New York fans calling Boston the worst city in America,
worse people, worse culture, worst sports team, and yet we
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are the defending champions.
Speaker 2 (13:59):
I'm just.
Speaker 1 (14:01):
Celebrities in the building, not like New York. There were
a lot of them in the building in New York.
But we did have Timothy Challa May court side last night,
which means I lost another bet.
Speaker 3 (14:12):
Yes, we were happy to see him justin and I.
We took money from you and Winnie no just billing
no Billy when he was in on.
Speaker 2 (14:19):
It got to be the last bet we have to
make on this show.
Speaker 15 (14:23):
That's okay.
Speaker 6 (14:24):
I just feel like everyone got their twenty dollars and
that's all that matters where it came from.
Speaker 2 (14:27):
Does it matter the betting fun is over? Yeah, so
much for that fun. We can do a friendly bet though,
no money for different things that it was fun while
it lasted. Yeah, and you're excited the meat to eat
last night? He jumping for joy.
Speaker 16 (14:42):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (14:42):
Picture of this.
Speaker 1 (14:43):
I'm hosting an event and Justin and Lisa in the
back of the room jumping up and down.
Speaker 2 (14:47):
I'm like, what the hell's going on back there? Well,
they just realized La May was at the game.
Speaker 4 (14:52):
We were yeah, we realized we won.
Speaker 2 (14:53):
Yeah.
Speaker 17 (14:55):
Uh.
Speaker 1 (14:55):
Portnoy was court side, and there was a hypothetical pose
to him, asked what would happen if he and say,
I don't know, Taylor Swift were fighting for the same
seat at the game?
Speaker 18 (15:06):
Schedule of the series comes out, I say, hey, I
can get there for Game five. Can you reserve two
for me for Game five? Yup, Dave? Now they're all booked.
Taylor Swift calls two hours before the game. We have
no tickets. They're not moving me. They'd be like they.
Speaker 2 (15:19):
Someone else, make it move.
Speaker 18 (15:21):
But if it comes down to me and Taylor at
that spot, they're not kicking me out.
Speaker 1 (15:27):
And by the way, you know who else was courtsied
last night. Our buddy Randy Greenstein used to work on
this show and now is co owner of Big Night Entertainment.
You've been to the Grand, You've been to Scorpion Bars,
You've been to Shrine out there in Foxwoods. He owns
all that with his partners, as well as card Vault
with Tom Brady my Son's adventure. So he's gonna be
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calling in at nine to ten this morning because he
was sitting right behind Tim at the Chalamet.
Speaker 4 (15:55):
Well, he was standing with him too at one point, yes.
Speaker 2 (15:57):
So he must have talked to him. Yeah, yeah, Well
look at all the details. Can I ask you.
Speaker 1 (16:02):
About the dark sunglasses that Charlamaye was wearing. He was
inside at a basketball game, and that was an old
school Hollywood thing where they would wear sunglasses thinking they
wouldn't be noticed.
Speaker 3 (16:14):
Oh it doesn't, Jack Nick didn't Jack Nicholson always do that,
like at basketball games.
Speaker 2 (16:18):
But when you wear them, you're more noticed, even more. Well,
I think he was in enemy territory.
Speaker 4 (16:23):
Oh yeah, that could be it.
Speaker 2 (16:24):
You don't think they knew it was him. No, he
wasn't hiding. I just think he didn't want to, like,
you know, look people in the eye. The Boston fans.
Speaker 1 (16:31):
Well, you know who's gonna know, Randy. He was sitting
right behind him last night.
Speaker 2 (16:35):
I wonder if it took Randy's seat because the previous
game at the Garden, Randy was first roll court side.
Speaker 4 (16:41):
Right now, he was behind him.
Speaker 1 (16:42):
Yeah, wow, knowing Randy was probably doing some sort of
business with him. But anyway, Randy calls in at nine
ten this morning. Meantime, Rihanna has a new song coming
out tomorrow. It's their first in three years, part of
the New Spurfs movie soundtrack. It's called Friend of Mine.
Three years it's been for Rihanna, and the new album
is still in the works. I think she has a
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role of some sort in this smursed movie too. I'm
just saying. The Weekend's new movie, Hurry Up Tomorrow, comes
out tomorrow. The Weekend is in it, so is Barry
Key Oogan and Jenner Otega. And The Weekend apparently loves
Jenna Ortega.
Speaker 19 (17:19):
Jenna I've been a fan of We've had some mutual
working friends, Kevin who is a producer on X, also
producer on our film. Kevin turn who passed away very
close with us. He had showed me her work. Yeah
and X Scream everything she's done. She's always just been
more than a star, just an emotional performer that I've
always wanted to you know that I saw for Anima.
Speaker 2 (17:39):
I like Jenna Ortega all wait for the movie to
hit streaming services. I wasn't a big fan of the
idol on Max No One. I love the Weekends as
an artist, as a singer, yeah, but as an actor
not so much for me. Are you surprised that he's
gonna act? Very surprised that he got He got torn
down for that role. It was awful, been down for me.
(18:00):
Oh god, it's like Anti sen you think of it.
Speaker 1 (18:04):
That was such a weird project for him.
Speaker 2 (18:08):
Yeah, everybody was free. He makes love making music? Wow?
Speaker 1 (18:13):
Yeah, Well who knows better than you? You do it
to his music? Well, you have shared it on the
show a.
Speaker 2 (18:19):
Couple of times. Can you get him on the show?
Big saying the weekend? Okay, big fan.
Speaker 1 (18:26):
Tate McCrae's new song with Morgan Wallen comes out tomorrow
now it is new music Friday tomorrow.
Speaker 2 (18:31):
You're gonna have it justin absolutely okay.
Speaker 1 (18:33):
And how about Tate McCray in Germany this week doing
a cover of Taylor's riffs the one.
Speaker 2 (18:38):
Can any of us translate what she was saying that song?
I couldn't.
Speaker 4 (18:41):
I can never understand.
Speaker 2 (18:42):
Yeah, I guess you had to know the words to
the original word along. It was also a cell phone footage.
There you go audio.
Speaker 6 (18:51):
She's a cursive singer, though she sings in cursive sometimes yeah, yeah, but.
Speaker 2 (18:56):
I like her voice and I like her music.
Speaker 1 (18:58):
Okay, how about Netflix is bringing back Star Search, the
weekly talent show that ran from the eighties into the nineties,
in fact, launched the careers of everybody from Dave Chappelle
to Beyonce to Justin Timberlake. Given a very young Britney spears.
Speaker 8 (19:19):
She's this little girl that put out a voice of
like an eighteen year.
Speaker 1 (19:21):
Old Kay was really the original America's Got Talent. Ed McMahon,
the longtime host, preceded all the other competition shows. And
Jennifer Lopez injuring her face while working and rehearsing for
the American Music Awards, a gash on her face. They
(19:42):
say she required stitches and a bruise on her nose,
but nobody's saying what happens. She probably got hit with
some sort of.
Speaker 2 (19:50):
A Maybe she's staging or something.
Speaker 4 (19:51):
Maybe she fell bandage her head into something.
Speaker 2 (19:56):
You have a bandage, Oh yeah, big bandage.
Speaker 1 (19:58):
American Music Awards are made twenty sixth I believe she'll
be hosting the show and performing and TMZ last night
aired a special on Justin Bieber called What Happened to
Justin Bieber and TMZ's Harvey Levin right here.
Speaker 20 (20:13):
We have talked to a lot of people in Bieber's camp,
and not just peripheral people, people who know, and we've
talked to people in Scooter Bronze camp. So you know,
it has bled over into finances, his marriage. You know,
there are all sorts of allegations about drug use. He's
had drug issues in the past, and we explore all
(20:35):
of it. But the short answer to your story is
he is struggling some.
Speaker 1 (20:40):
Well, yesterday he was posting pictures of himself with a
bong hanging around his neck.
Speaker 2 (20:45):
So is that a twenty four to seven thing? Now?
He smokes a lot of weed for sure.
Speaker 7 (20:49):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (20:49):
Yeah. And he's doing this the weird thing where he
posts videos and then deletes them, the old tweet and delete.
Speaker 7 (20:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (20:54):
He did one where he was going off like ten
minutes with a funny face filter and then he took
it down.
Speaker 4 (21:01):
Yeah, why is he doing that?
Speaker 21 (21:03):
I remember a story when Justin Bieber was really acting
out and getting into trouble and Lisa said his mother
said that we need to pray for him, and Lisa said,
if I were his mom, I would grab him by
his hair and tell him that you are coming with me.
No gentle parenting there.
Speaker 1 (21:24):
Gentle parenting was our topic earlier on this show. Apparently
Lisa not so gentle.
Speaker 4 (21:30):
Sometimes sometimes you have to redirect.
Speaker 1 (21:33):
Yeah, okay, hey, our buddy Jay Shetty in Boston tonight
at the Box Center Wang Theater.
Speaker 2 (21:38):
We had him on this show just recently, justin Oh.
Speaker 9 (21:40):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (21:40):
Remember. He talked about a lot of stuff, but the one,
the one clip that I loved was his take on
anxiety and how to deal with it.
Speaker 9 (21:46):
In times of uncertainty. We often look for certainty to
feel stable. But instead of looking for certainty, we should
look for service. Look for opportunities to help someone else,
Look for opportunities to make someone else's day. Sometimes you
relieve your anxiety quicker by trying to help someone else
than you will by trying to solve your own.
Speaker 2 (22:05):
Yeah, wouldn't hurt. It's good advice. Idiot to add to that,
try helping somebody and not telling anybody about it. Yeah, yeah,
no need to brag apart, you know, because you want
people to know.
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Speaker 15 (22:36):
I saw that last night, an article about Timothy shallow
May being there and I was like, oh, seventy last
a beat on the morning show from.
Speaker 22 (22:47):
The Planet Fitness Kiss one O eight Studios.
Speaker 5 (22:50):
We're back with Villie and Lisa in the morning on Kiss.
Speaker 2 (22:53):
Wait, hey, guys, welcome back.
Speaker 1 (22:55):
So everybody watching the Celtics game last night, it was
a big when the Celts came up big. There's still
a live now. We have a Game six in New
York tomorrow night. We have a Game seven in Boston
on Monday night. And you might remember Randy. He worked
on the show for several years, really funny guy. He
was our stunt guy and now he's a big owner
of Big Night Entertainment. And by the way, card Vault
(23:15):
by Tom Brady partnered with my son Chris and last
time I'm.
Speaker 2 (23:20):
Marching the game.
Speaker 1 (23:21):
I'm like, Hey, that's Randy sitting right behind Timothy shallow May.
Speaker 2 (23:25):
Randy you there, I am buddy, I am okay, yes, yeah.
Speaker 1 (23:32):
Okay, how do you get the seat behind Chalo May?
Speaker 7 (23:38):
We brought him Those are our seats.
Speaker 23 (23:41):
So a friend of ours, slash investor, friend of Edkines,
big financial guy in the world with the breets by
Dre deal together sure does Lebron's financial advisor and business manager.
Speaker 7 (23:57):
Just a big, big, big wealth advisor.
Speaker 23 (24:00):
He rob Timothy with him, with Ed Kine and myself
and we sat in the second row. We have two seats,
two in the first and two in the second, and
we gave up our seat to Timothy, the Knicks fan,
which was not, you know, not very copasetic in the building.
But I think it brought us good luck. I think
(24:21):
it was all part of the game plan if you
think about it.
Speaker 4 (24:23):
Yeah, I definitely brought us good luck.
Speaker 1 (24:24):
Oh yeah, now, yeah, because I lost to bet. You
know me wrong enough Randy to know I'm a mush right,
I've never wont to bet in my life. So I
lost a bet to Justin and Lisa that Chellamy wouldn't
be there last night, and he was. Let's get back
to you said earlier. They're your seats, and I'm just
questioning myself, is there a reason I've never been invited?
Like never, I've known you for like thirty years. You
(24:47):
helped me raise my children and Judy.
Speaker 7 (24:50):
You know what's funny. You know what's funny. You say
that because you caught me off guard with that question.
But I did invite you two years ago, and you
actually declined me because you you had a gig, which
anyone that knows Billy Cofton knows that he has about
six to seven gigs a day, seven days a week,
and never can go anywhere actually, and doesn't have any friends.
Speaker 2 (25:11):
So what you're saying is I'm off the list.
Speaker 7 (25:17):
I mean, you were invited once you declined. It's funny.
I have such a bad memory, but I remember this
so vividly. You you you can never go anywhere. But
that means actually, actually, let me bring up another good thing.
How many cars? How many card stores have your son in? I?
Speaker 2 (25:35):
Oh, I knew you were going to go. He's not
going to Hampton, New York East Hampton.
Speaker 7 (25:40):
Now, okay, okay, so let's go through this for a second. Okay,
we opened in Boston, the city you live in five
minutes away.
Speaker 2 (25:48):
You're not there.
Speaker 23 (25:49):
We opened an American dream mall, the most amazing mall
right outside of.
Speaker 7 (25:53):
New York City. You could take a train, you could
take a plane, you could drive a car, you could
probably walk. Tom Brady was there, Michael Ruben was there,
hundreds of the I think ten thousand people were there.
Speaker 1 (26:05):
Yes, you know you know who wasn't there, Billieve cost Yeah,
his dad, Chris Fossah.
Speaker 23 (26:14):
Yeah to now, now let's lead to this week. We
soft open today in Easthampton, New York. We grand open
with mister Brady next week mister Craft and guess who's
not going Bill Costs.
Speaker 1 (26:29):
It's Memorial Day weekend. It's a big voters weekend. We
wait all winter for a Memorial Day weekend.
Speaker 7 (26:36):
You know what's interesting about the Hamptons.
Speaker 12 (26:38):
It's on the ocean.
Speaker 1 (26:40):
We're gonna take about twenty hours, you know, to.
Speaker 23 (26:45):
Get a hard Why would you why would you take
it to Decker card Why would you take it?
Speaker 7 (26:52):
Why would you take it twenty hours to see your son? Okay,
grand opening?
Speaker 2 (26:56):
Why are you making me feel so bad as a father?
Can we get back to the Celtics game?
Speaker 23 (27:03):
Yes, it was a great game, and they won handily,
and they're gonna win Game six and they're gonna come
back in game seven and Timothy Chalomy is not invited
to Game seven.
Speaker 2 (27:13):
I'm available for Game seven. By the way, he could
have been. He could have been the key, Randy.
Speaker 7 (27:18):
Yeah, he was the key.
Speaker 12 (27:20):
It was he was the key.
Speaker 23 (27:20):
We We told him at the beginning of the game
we were gonna make him go home crying, and and
we did.
Speaker 2 (27:25):
We did.
Speaker 7 (27:26):
He went home with tears.
Speaker 2 (27:27):
So what was your conversation with Chelmy? What did you
talk about?
Speaker 7 (27:31):
Awesome dude, really truly great.
Speaker 23 (27:34):
Great young man.
Speaker 7 (27:35):
Uh, just one down to earth. Uh.
Speaker 23 (27:38):
You know, we were talking about cards obviously, since that's
the business we're in.
Speaker 7 (27:43):
And he like Yu gi oh. He has a lot
of friends that are collecting. He hasn't started yet.
Speaker 23 (27:49):
But we gave him a Tom Brady rookie last night.
Speaker 7 (27:52):
And one actually funny story. We went to the store
before you know.
Speaker 23 (27:56):
Right, located right at the guard and we have one
New York knick in our inventory.
Speaker 7 (28:00):
One literally one. So we gave him the New York
nick and gets who that New York nick was?
Speaker 2 (28:07):
Who's that christ Christ?
Speaker 11 (28:14):
Oh?
Speaker 7 (28:14):
It was a double.
Speaker 23 (28:15):
It was a double win.
Speaker 7 (28:16):
We gave him with Chris Stops, a Celtics player in
the New York Knicks uniform, and again justin that was
the key. This was all part of the plan.
Speaker 1 (28:24):
Absonged, do you do you hang out with Dave Portnoy
at all?
Speaker 2 (28:30):
Because we want to get him on the show.
Speaker 7 (28:33):
Dave was there. Dave was awesome. We talked a lot yesterday.
Speaker 23 (28:36):
We were actually all sitting in the the Templeton Club
leg before the game and Dave came in and Dave
and Timothy were talking and he's awesome. You know, Dave
does what Dave wants to do. If he wants to
come come on your show, he will. We could surely
ask him.
Speaker 16 (28:52):
He is.
Speaker 23 (28:53):
He is a funny dude though he he there is
no one in the world that does more of what
Dave wants to do.
Speaker 7 (29:01):
He just does whatever the f he wants to do.
Speaker 1 (29:03):
I don't know if you heard me earlier. I did
say I would be available for game seven.
Speaker 7 (29:09):
All right, well, you know, I'll put you on the list.
I'll put you on the list. We'll see if Spike
he wants to come, and said.
Speaker 1 (29:18):
Oh listen, I saw a weird story that the new
Pope's card is selling a lot of money.
Speaker 7 (29:24):
Yeah, I mean there is a new Pope card.
Speaker 23 (29:26):
Tops now made a card of the new Pope, and
I haven't seen how much it's going for. Your son
is actually the card expert that knows the price, the
price of every card.
Speaker 7 (29:36):
You can give him any of one million cards.
Speaker 23 (29:39):
And he'll tell you the price. But I don't know
how much the Pope's going for. I'm ninety nine percent
ashka nazi jew.
Speaker 2 (29:45):
I have no idea.
Speaker 1 (29:49):
I would ask my son, but I don't think he's
speaking to me because I'm not going to the Hampton's opening.
Speaker 2 (29:55):
He's busy.
Speaker 23 (29:55):
He's busy in the Hampton's right now, getting the store
ready for an opening in in forty minutes.
Speaker 2 (30:01):
So you know, it's amazing. He posted his schedule.
Speaker 1 (30:04):
On the Instagram yesterday and he's just all over the country.
Speaker 7 (30:09):
Yeah, it's wild. We're so. I'm actually with him. We're so.
We're going to Easthampton, then we're going to.
Speaker 23 (30:13):
He's going to la for a big Panini football thing.
I think it's football, and then Vegas.
Speaker 7 (30:20):
We have huge meetings in Vegas on Monday at the
International Conference of Shopping centers. Wow, meeting with nine.
Speaker 23 (30:27):
Different developers because you know, as he told you, our
plan is to open a hundred of these things within the.
Speaker 2 (30:33):
Next few years.
Speaker 7 (30:33):
Oh yeah, and so we need we need to find
all the landlords.
Speaker 23 (30:36):
So yeah, we're all going to Vegas and all. Speaking
of which, today is my son Brandon's.
Speaker 2 (30:41):
Birthday, hey brandan after birthday.
Speaker 23 (30:45):
Twenty three today, and he is playing in Las Vegas
at Xcess at when on Saturday night.
Speaker 2 (30:50):
Oh, the break Bomb Project.
Speaker 23 (30:53):
At at EDC on Sunday. So I'm going to Vegas
Saturday Sunday. We got the ICSC on Monday, wovel in
the world, and we come back and we open in
New York, we open in Chicago, we open in Dallas,
we go back to Las Vegas and open there.
Speaker 1 (31:07):
See, I'm gonna go to all of those. I just
missed the first couple a couple.
Speaker 2 (31:11):
Of minutes ago.
Speaker 1 (31:12):
Did you mentioned a big football festival where they're only
serving paninis?
Speaker 7 (31:17):
No, No, you're hilarious. There's there's two sets of men.
There's there's manufacturers of sports cards.
Speaker 23 (31:27):
One of them is Panini, an Italian company. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
I love a good panini too, but that is not
this kind of panini. And yes he is in LA.
Speaker 7 (31:40):
For some sort of football.
Speaker 23 (31:41):
Gathering with Paninees.
Speaker 7 (31:42):
Maybe he'll eat a panini you know.
Speaker 2 (31:45):
Is a nice signed the beach.
Speaker 23 (31:48):
I'm just oh my god, speaking of Panine's, I mean
your son's on he is you He's a mini u.
Speaker 7 (31:54):
He's on Meat Boston now every day.
Speaker 23 (31:57):
I mean he's gonna he's gonna go to like three
hundred pounds every day.
Speaker 1 (32:03):
Oh my yeah, my mother's cutlets on Hanover Street. Randy,
thanks for checking in and thanks for taking us till
last night's game.
Speaker 2 (32:10):
And again I could be available for game seven. Just
all right, all right, hey Bill, Yeah, I.
Speaker 5 (32:16):
Think it's easy being allowsy for.
Speaker 8 (32:19):
Every morning.
Speaker 1 (32:20):
Kiss went Away, all right, justin talkback leftovers, Let's go
get them.
Speaker 2 (32:23):
Yeah, this is the part of the show where we
play back some talkbacks that were left during the show
that we could not get to. They could be about anything. Remember,
you can leave it talk back at any time of
the day. You do it on the iHeartRadio app. It's
free to download. It's a cool feature. When you're listening
to Kiss one await, there's a microphone that you press
and you can record your message. I said, it's a
cool feature.
Speaker 7 (32:42):
Wow, this feature is pretty cool. I didn't know that
was a thing.
Speaker 2 (32:46):
And that's why I keep saying it. People don't know.
They tune in, they tune out. Typically, you know, on
radio station you can always call. That's always been the way,
but now you can leave it talkback through your phone
on the talkback feature. It's pretty cool. You can do
it anytime and from anywhere anywhere in the world.
Speaker 24 (33:00):
Billy, this is longtime listener and first time caller Amy
from Worcester. As you can hear the bagpipes in the background,
I'm actually calling you from Edinburgh, Scotland. I just wanted
you to know that you're here with me in Scotland.
Speaker 2 (33:18):
Oh Edinburgh, I've been there once. It is beautiful. That's
so cool. You could hear the bagpipes. Yeah, that's real. Yeah,
that's really cool. Wow.
Speaker 17 (33:27):
Good morning Holly Geology here. Last fall, you guys had
the debate whether to keep leaves on your lawn or
to rake them. So I decided to put it to
the test. Last fall, I kept a big portion of
my lawn covered in leaves. This past weekend I decided
to rake them up and see what the results would be.
I was left with a pretty big dirt patch home
to hundreds of grubs. Figured i'd update.
Speaker 4 (33:49):
You, get updates. Now, get rid of the leaves.
Speaker 2 (33:52):
Yeah, I remember that that was the new thing, to
leave the leaves, that it would help the grass. No,
not to get as not so much. It just looks
better when you get rid of them.
Speaker 4 (34:00):
It does.
Speaker 2 (34:01):
Yeah, I guess in the mulch beds, not on the
grass is okay. It's kind of compost. Yeah, sure, but
on the grass definitely is a no go.
Speaker 25 (34:08):
You know, I'd like to ask the talkbackers if I'm
a lone or not. When I'm listening to you guys
in the morning Billy and Lisa show and I'm so
into it, and then I get a call from my
boss or my kids and it completely stops the show,
Like ill, I have to decline the call.
Speaker 11 (34:29):
I get so frustrated.
Speaker 25 (34:30):
I'm like, don't you guys know that nobody's supposed to
call around that time?
Speaker 6 (34:35):
Okay, okay, put a tip, put your phone, you're not disturbed,
and then no can call through.
Speaker 2 (34:41):
There you go, There you go, yeah, there you go.
So I was driving to Billy's Meat and Eat last
night with producer Riley, and I want to put on
my maps because I didn't know there was a different
way because of traffic that I could go. Okay, So
when I put on my maps on my bluetooth, it
talks to me. You know. It's kind of annoying. So
I didn't want to put it on because it was
going to talk to me. So Producer Riley says, no,
(35:03):
just take the volume off that and I go, I know.
Then I forget. When I'm driving. Yeah, and I drive
by the exit. She goes, no, no, just do I can
turn it off for you. So I turn it off.
We drove about four exits by where we spoke late. Yeah,
I go, see, this is why I have the voice
that tells me, you know, because I wouldn't shut up
in the car. So it's a.
Speaker 4 (35:21):
Morning wrap up on Billy and Lisa in the morning.
Speaker 2 (35:24):
Well, Billy Costa had his first big event Meet to
Eat at All Maudern and Lindfield last night. It was
a great event.
Speaker 1 (35:30):
Billy, I was very happy with that. I want to
thank the people at All Modern. It's just a great,
great story. You may want to try it out at
Marcus Street and Lindfield. Thanks to Andy husband's chef, owner
of the smoke Shops Everywhere, and thanks to Mike Rocketts
saying the maud of for our hotel.
Speaker 2 (35:43):
Great time. Yeah, great food, great drinks, great people, just
a great event.
Speaker 11 (35:47):
Good morning. Just wanted to say thank you for the
awesome meet and eat event last night. Billy, Lisa, Justin Riley.
You all were so nice and it was so great
to meet you. Hope to see you guys again soon.
Speaker 6 (36:00):
Yeah, you would have liked it, Winnie, Yes, I would have.
I wish I could have blowdry I did. Oh was
that dry bar?
Speaker 17 (36:06):
Yeah?
Speaker 26 (36:06):
Hey, guys, I just wanted to say I had so
much fun last night at the event. I didn't know
what to expect, but it was awesome. It was so
much fun. Food was great. I actually met Justin for
the first time. I didn't expect to see Justin or
Lisa there, so that was pretty cool. And Justin told
(36:30):
me I need to come up with a talkback name,
so I'm thinking about that.
Speaker 2 (36:34):
So great. Thank you, Thank you very nice. Yeah, anybody
can name themselves. All of our talkbackers they named themselves,
so feel free. Give yourself a creative name and you'll
be known as.
Speaker 1 (36:44):
That and By the way, our buddy Alan Ghibley came
in last night thanks to that. And by the way,
Alan and Ghibli's are celebrating their seventy fifth anniversary to night.
Speaker 2 (36:53):
Yeah amazing. Well the best stressed men I've ever met.
Oh yeah, Alan Gibli very much sense what he does.
Speaker 9 (36:58):
Cloth.
Speaker 2 (36:59):
Also, this had Catherine Loftus on. She's our attorney expert.
She breaks down the Karen reid trous She takes your questions.
We have her for topic time and she answered one
of our questions. I think it was Billy. He's about
the sidebars in the trial. Why are there so many sidebars?
But more importantly, why the hell they take so long?
Speaker 22 (37:15):
The reason why they have to go to sidebar was
everything is Massachusetts. We don't argue the law in front
of the jury, so anytime there's an objection that needs
like a substantive argument, you have to do it at sidebar.
But the problem is everything is so contentious in this case,
so you know, there's so many times that they have
to go to cybrid. It always seems to happen that
it's before a break, before lunch, so then it just
leads into you know, you often see it maybe it's
(37:37):
ten thirty, ten forty five. You see them go to
sidebar and then they say, we're just going to take
the break now because the sidebars are so extensive.
Speaker 1 (37:45):
I'm telling you, I need a bombshell. I need an
AHA moment. Maybe Karen Reade stands up and starts screening it.
Speaker 9 (37:50):
Everybody.
Speaker 2 (37:51):
You know, something has to happen, Yeah, some kind of outburst. Yes, Well,
we'll continue the coverage on the Billy and Lisa Show. Catherine,
We'll be back next Thursday, so always listen next tomorrow
next week. Get your questions ready for Thursday mornings at
seven point fifteen. Also, we had a discussion about gentle
parenting or permissive parenting, whatever you want to call it,
from a TikTok video where a woman went off about,
(38:14):
you know, just being too easy on the kid.
Speaker 4 (38:16):
You know, I think I'm definitely that fifty to fifty parent.
Speaker 16 (38:19):
Sometimes I do gentle parent or I'm calm and I'm
just like okay, and I'm super nice about it, I guess,
and my husband will say I'm too nice. But then
there's a time that I just had enough is enough,
and I kind of snap it. I guess my head
spins around and I just throw it all at them
and they look at me like I'm crazy.
Speaker 4 (38:39):
I like that fifty to fifty parenting. I think we
get all relate.
Speaker 2 (38:41):
Oh yeah, it's not easy. There's no handbook for parents,
and there isn't Yeah and life, No, I got it, Okay.
Speaker 1 (38:49):
My head used to spin around after I got a
good backhander from across the table.
Speaker 2 (38:54):
Okay. And finally we had Randy on from Big Night Entertainment,
shallow May the Garden last night courtside, and who was
right behind him, our buddy Randy. So, Randy, what was
it like did you talk to him?
Speaker 23 (39:06):
Awesome, dude, really truly great, great young man, just fawn
down to earth.
Speaker 7 (39:13):
You know, we were talking about cards.
Speaker 2 (39:15):
Obviously obviously very good. Yeah, so that's good. He gave
up his seat, Randy court side, gave up his seat
for Timothy shallow May sat right behind him. Yeah,
Hey guys, So welcome back if you're just waking up. Yes,
the Celtics came back last night. They won the game.
So now we've got a Game six tomorrow night in
New York, and then Game seven will be right here
in Boston, and the Celts will repeat and win the
World Championship, and then everybody goes home.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
Okay, and then me keep going. You know it's possible, Yeah, yeah,
the big the repeat.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
This next topic may set me crazy, okay, because Lisa
is staring at a report, a survey on what they
call gentle parenting.
Speaker 3 (00:29):
This actually is in the post, and I guess there's
a woman out there on TikTok who says that gentle
parenting excuses kids bad behavior.
Speaker 4 (00:37):
I don't care how much hate I get for this.
Speaker 5 (00:38):
We can tell if you gentle parent your kids, they scream,
they hit, they throw it. And then you're like, wow,
you're really big in your feelings right now, stage, you
know what? So was Ted Bundy. I saw a kid
throw a fork at his mom's face at a restaurant,
and she was like, we don't express for street, not.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
Frustration.
Speaker 5 (01:03):
You're raising vladv Impaler. I'm no history major, but that
dude had a lot of enemies. You don't raise accountability
by asking do you feel safe enough to not throw
the remote at Grandma? You raise it by teaching them
that throwing Grandma in is with one of these Not
teaching your kid consequences doesn't raise a free thinker. It
raises a full grown tapeworm. And when that same little
(01:27):
faral adult finally gets corrected in public, they're not gonna
self reflect.
Speaker 4 (01:30):
They're gonna catch a meat rocket to the face faucet.
And I sincerely hope you're there to witness it.
Speaker 2 (01:36):
You created that. Yeah, I gotta tell you something.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
We've created a whole society of fragile people.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
I have to tell you, if I've ever heard someone
talk to a kid like that, I just I kind
of just would roll my eyes. Because there are certain
there are certain situations where you take the child out
of the situation and you go out of the restaurant, right,
You don't worry about what everyone else is thinking restaurant.
Speaker 4 (02:00):
You just pull him out.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
Yeah, if it was me, I wouldn't be able to
sit down for like a week because my dad.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
Would bring me home pants down belt. Okay, Yeah, well
you can't do that anymore.
Speaker 4 (02:11):
No, but you can't take them out of the rest.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
Away and remove them and do things like that. Yeah, yeah,
you can still do it. I mean, I think put
hands on my kid.
Speaker 6 (02:21):
Yeah, I mean, but it's definitely people still do it.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
I think it's more of just correcting the behavior, removing
whatever it is, you know, And I do that with
my children.
Speaker 4 (02:30):
Oh, we did it totally.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
Yeah, if they throw something or whatever, you just remove
that thing or them from the situation. When you're removing him,
do you have him by the neck or the shirt.
Speaker 4 (02:40):
Or what you pick him right up?
Speaker 2 (02:42):
I pick him right up.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
Okay, that's good. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, here, I'll
give you something to cry.
Speaker 3 (02:47):
Well, you don't say that, but you remove them from
the situation.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
Yeah, yeah, No, I get. I was kind of raised
that way too, you know, we all were. Yeah, that's
how we Yeah, we worried about it's different.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
Time, but we also didn't have the feelings society back then.
Speaker 7 (03:01):
You know.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
Now everything's feelings, and well, you just can't let kids
do that because they'll keep doing it and they'll they'll
get worse, and the tantrums will get worse, and they'll
think it's Okay.
Speaker 4 (03:11):
Right, just like that woman said, I totally agree with her.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
Yeah. Yeah. But then there's also permissive parenting, which is
another term which is kind of gets confused with gentle parenting,
meaning what well, permissive parenting is more like not doing
anything at all, passive. It's more passive. Gentle parenting is
kind of you know, not screaming and yell at yelling
at them, but finding a solution to what they're doing.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
I don't really well, a lot of it is like
as a parent, you're trying to redirect your kids, So
if they're having an incident in a public place, sometimes
it's going to sort of redirect their energy. They calm down,
So that's one, you know, strategy. But if someone if
some kid is throwing a fork in my face, like
that's just unacceptable.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
Behavior, impaler.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
As you're pulling the fork out of your cheek, you're saying,
we don't express our frustrating that way.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
I don't agree with that. It's my present opinion. But
let's go to Amber on line one in Marlborough. All right, Amber, go,
what do you think gentle parenting?
Speaker 8 (04:10):
Sort of gentle parent but it's not it's definitely not
letting your kid throw fork in her face. That's permissive parenting,
and a lot of people can use the two. Permissive
parenting is absolutely terrible for the children. They have no rules.
They're going to end up menaces to society. They're going
to learn the hard way later down the line. But
they don't have consequences. They run the house. I've seen
a parent let their kid lie in the middle of
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the parking lot, crouch next to them in whisper, saying honey,
we can't lie down here. No, that's not You're not
going to raise a good human that way. Gentle parenting,
you know, you sit and you talk about where the
rules are. You have boundaries, and you don't do a
lot of yelling. There's no you know, corporal punishment, but
there's consequences. You lose your privileges, you know, there's rules.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
Well, my dad was famous for saying, listen, I'll give
you something to cry about.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
You know, and that seemed to work around the house.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
Yeah, because you didn't want to see what he was
gonna do to you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (05:02):
You just listen again.
Speaker 4 (05:03):
Different times, yeah, very different times.
Speaker 6 (05:06):
But like I'm out of the I'm the only one
that's not my parent here, but I will say I've
been parented, and I feel like the way you parent
is legit. Like I think everyone I know as an
adult was parent parented, not gently like all.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
The good adults I know that are respectful, hard working.
Speaker 4 (05:21):
We were. We hit, not like I'm not saying beat.
Speaker 6 (05:25):
I was never beat, but you there was consequences.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
There was like go to your room.
Speaker 4 (05:29):
There was sit on the step until your dad gets home.
Speaker 6 (05:32):
There was a smack like there was you know what
I mean. Like I'm being honest here. I don't think
that it's not. No one's saying you beat your kids,
but like there's a way to parent in a way
that's not gentle.
Speaker 2 (05:41):
But yeah, it's just you just can't do the physical
thing anymore. I get it. I understand I grew up
that way too, But I think about it like this,
say I pulled my belt out and I hit my kid,
and he goes to school and tells his school right
at my house. I feel like there's a better way
to do it. My mother was smart.
Speaker 1 (05:58):
If we did something, should say sit there in the chair.
Now these were wooden kitchen chairs. Okay, not very comfortable.
Sit there until dad gets home.
Speaker 7 (06:08):
Right.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
The problem is Dad never came home. He was at
the box, right, he wasn't a couple of days.
Speaker 3 (06:15):
I will say one thing that kids want parents to
be parents. They want you to help them and give
them boundaries and guardrails.
Speaker 9 (06:25):
Right.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
Yeah, they want it and they need it.
Speaker 4 (06:26):
They do.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
Yeah. So at the end of the day, just be like, Lisa,
go to your room, Lisa kiss one.
Speaker 1 (06:33):
Okay, so the topic is gentle parenting permissive parenting. You
be the judge, Okay.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
Well, I just want to clear something up that we
played some audio a couple of minutes ago about gentle parenting.
That person was more describing permissive parenting. Yeah, with the
fork thrown at her face, Yeah, not doing anything. Yeah,
that's permissive, which is a little bit more controversial. Yeah,
gentle parenting is boundaries. But I think in the name,
you know, gentle, it sounds like it's more gentle, but
there is consequences in gentle at I just want to
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clear that.
Speaker 6 (07:01):
Does that mean you don't yell if you're gentle?
Speaker 2 (07:03):
I think so, yeah, you just more you give the consequences,
but more more, it's more about how you deliver them.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
You know what My best parenting moment ever, was my
oldest son, Chris, you know, had just gotten his license,
and we got him a pickup truck, really nice pickup truck.
And I forget what he did, but he did something.
I think it must have been reckless. I drove, at
least you remember this, I do. Drove him to the dealership,
pulled up and returned the truck, and I had him
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with me so he can take all of his stuff
out of the truck and put it in my car
and then give the keys to the dealer and that
was the end of the truck.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
I agree with that. You also canceled, Chris.
Speaker 4 (07:42):
Yeah, I was going to say that, but.
Speaker 1 (07:45):
To get a truck, you know, you waited your whole
life and never saw it again.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
Anyway, let's go to Patricia. Patricia, what do you think, gentle? Permissive?
What are you?
Speaker 8 (07:55):
Gentle?
Speaker 10 (07:56):
I was just gonna say what Justin said that clip
she played, is that you guys play this permissive parenting.
There's two other parts to the equation, which is you
tell the kid like, I understand you're frustrated, but we
don't you know, we don't throw forks. The second part
is I'm asking, like giving the kid an alternative like
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this is what we do when we're frustrated, and the
third part is I'm going to pick you up and
take you out of here until you calm yourself down.
Speaker 2 (08:24):
So okay, now this is interesting.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
I guess you were in my mind hypothetically your child throws
a steak knife at your face or fork in this case,
and you'll say, you know that as you pull the
knife out of your cheek, you say, you know, that's
not really how we express frustration, and then you give
them a three part solution.
Speaker 10 (08:47):
I think if you're at the point where your kid
is throwing a steak knife, you've been doing permissive parenting
their entire life, right.
Speaker 6 (08:54):
It's me gentles was sounding pretty similar.
Speaker 2 (08:58):
Permissive. There's no content quinces, okay, but gentle They are
in no concerts, No gentle there are. It's about how
it's about red It's about delivery, delivery and redirection. Can
we just pass? Is that right, Patricia?
Speaker 7 (09:10):
Yeah?
Speaker 10 (09:10):
There's these two moms. They run a company called Big
Little Feelings, and they do examples videos alog follow them
and it's all about like kids don't understand how to
express their frustration.
Speaker 2 (09:23):
It's true.
Speaker 4 (09:24):
Talk about little it's true to start.
Speaker 7 (09:25):
When they're little.
Speaker 10 (09:26):
Yeah, they don't understand how to express frustration, so they scream,
they throw, they yell. So from the time they're little,
you gotta give them an alternative.
Speaker 2 (09:36):
This was all going to lead to feelings. You know
what I learned. You know what, I just learned that
I'm a gentle parent because that that's what basically what
I do. What she just described, like, I removed from
the from the situation, but we also make it a
point to try to talk to them and be like,
you know, why are you why are you feeling like this?
Why did you just do that? Why did you throw
the toy? You know what I mean? We kind of
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talked instead of just yelling. When I was growing up,
I was yelled at, he screamed at you know what
I mean. So now I want to kind of give
my kids a little bit of a different mindset, you know,
understand why the behavior is happening, and how's that going.
It's going pretty good, I think.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
I think as a parent, and I have two boys
who I love, and they're older now, but when they
were younger, we would try and.
Speaker 4 (10:16):
Do that all of this stuff.
Speaker 3 (10:18):
But I have to tell you as a working mom,
and there's a lot of working moms listening to us
right now.
Speaker 4 (10:22):
Sometimes you're having a bad day too.
Speaker 2 (10:24):
Yeah, it does happen, and you're going to.
Speaker 4 (10:26):
Be You're gonna yell right, and you're not going to
redirect as well as you might have redirected the day.
Speaker 2 (10:30):
Before you Right, I just said that, But now that
I think about it, Yes, I have bad days to
The goal is not to just always act, you know
what I mean.
Speaker 6 (10:43):
Become a gentle co host maybe, like, can you like
direct that energy towards co hosting's to here?
Speaker 2 (10:53):
Why don't you pay your bet? They let's start there.
Speaker 4 (10:58):
That's a good redirect.
Speaker 2 (11:02):
Ready exactly.
Speaker 4 (11:05):
They're teaching her consequences.
Speaker 2 (11:06):
Yeah, that's right.
Speaker 6 (11:07):
If I was able to be you know what, buddy,
why don't you pay it next week when you get
your allowance?
Speaker 2 (11:13):
Okay, this took a turn. I don't know what happened.
It took a turn, and it's because she still hasn't
paid the bet. I'll never see the money. And that's okay,
that's true. Yeah, welcher is the worst thing you can be. Yep,
I don't know what that is.
Speaker 1 (11:28):
Yeah, by the way, that's streaking your hair is getting bigger.
It's going right across the top of your skulls.
Speaker 2 (11:34):
Well, we just made this all about ourselves. But good job. Hey,
this is Jared Leto.
Speaker 11 (11:39):
Then you're waking up with Billy and Lisa in the
morning on Kiss Went eight.
Speaker 2 (11:43):
Lisa, how you doing now?
Speaker 4 (11:47):
The entertainment update with a Billy.
Speaker 1 (11:49):
Constat Well, if you slept late. The Celtics came up
big last night. The defense came up big. It was
a huge knight for the selves. They beat the Nicks
in Game five. Derek White a team high thirty four points.
Speaker 12 (12:02):
None of us want to go home, and so we
understand that it's only on get tougher. We haven't done
anything yet, just kinda find a way to go to
New York and win the game.
Speaker 2 (12:12):
Yeah, nobody wants to go home.
Speaker 1 (12:13):
Jaln Brown twenty six points, eight rebounds, twelve assists.
Speaker 13 (12:17):
I appreciate the fans that showed up today. You know,
it was a great atmosphere. It was loud, you know,
and I know it's easy to kind of write things off,
but we still got basketball to be played. You know,
I believe in his group, so you know, don't count
us out just yet.
Speaker 2 (12:31):
Yeah, coach Missoula, the team stepping up big time. We
did what was necessary to do what we need to
do to get back to New York. So made winning
plays on both eends of the floor.
Speaker 1 (12:41):
And I'm guessing Jason Tatum was probably watching the game
from his hospital bed. He was posting pictures yesterday from
his hospital bed. And by the way, we told you
this this morning. The surgeon who did the Achilles surgery
on Jason Tatum, doctor Martin O'Malley.
Speaker 2 (12:56):
Remember that name if you tear your achilles.
Speaker 1 (12:59):
He also did Kobe Bryant, Tiger Woods, and Kevin Durant,
And yeah, it could be a very long recovery. Well,
we know he's definitely not coming back in the playoffs,
but next season could be a question mark too. But
ESPN spoke to Tatum's dad, who apparently was coaching a
team overseas when Tatum got injured.
Speaker 14 (13:20):
Jason ended up giving him a call once he was
able to. They cried on the phone together and Jason
was asking him, why me, Dad, why me? Why does
this have to happen to me? And he said, son,
this is God's will. You're young, You're going to get
through this.
Speaker 1 (13:36):
Yeah, Game five New York tomorrow night, Monday night, Game
seven here in Boston. I trust it will be here.
Game seven Monday night in Boston. And by the way,
an article in the New York Post this morning saying
New York fans calling Boston the worst city in America,
worse people, worse culture, worst sports team, and yet we
(13:57):
are the defending champions.
Speaker 2 (13:59):
I'm just.
Speaker 1 (14:01):
Celebrities in the building, not like New York. There were
a lot of them in the building in New York.
But we did have Timothy Challa May court side last night,
which means I lost another bet.
Speaker 3 (14:12):
Yes, we were happy to see him justin and I.
We took money from you and Winnie no just billing
no Billy when he was in on.
Speaker 2 (14:19):
It got to be the last bet we have to
make on this show.
Speaker 15 (14:23):
That's okay.
Speaker 6 (14:24):
I just feel like everyone got their twenty dollars and
that's all that matters where it came from.
Speaker 2 (14:27):
Does it matter the betting fun is over? Yeah, so
much for that fun. We can do a friendly bet though,
no money for different things that it was fun while
it lasted. Yeah, and you're excited the meat to eat
last night? He jumping for joy.
Speaker 16 (14:42):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (14:42):
Picture of this.
Speaker 1 (14:43):
I'm hosting an event and Justin and Lisa in the
back of the room jumping up and down.
Speaker 2 (14:47):
I'm like, what the hell's going on back there? Well,
they just realized La May was at the game.
Speaker 4 (14:52):
We were yeah, we realized we won.
Speaker 2 (14:53):
Yeah.
Speaker 17 (14:55):
Uh.
Speaker 1 (14:55):
Portnoy was court side, and there was a hypothetical pose
to him, asked what would happen if he and say,
I don't know, Taylor Swift were fighting for the same
seat at the game?
Speaker 18 (15:06):
Schedule of the series comes out, I say, hey, I
can get there for Game five. Can you reserve two
for me for Game five? Yup, Dave? Now they're all booked.
Taylor Swift calls two hours before the game. We have
no tickets. They're not moving me. They'd be like they.
Speaker 2 (15:19):
Someone else, make it move.
Speaker 18 (15:21):
But if it comes down to me and Taylor at
that spot, they're not kicking me out.
Speaker 1 (15:27):
And by the way, you know who else was courtsied
last night. Our buddy Randy Greenstein used to work on
this show and now is co owner of Big Night Entertainment.
You've been to the Grand, You've been to Scorpion Bars,
You've been to Shrine out there in Foxwoods. He owns
all that with his partners, as well as card Vault
with Tom Brady my Son's adventure. So he's gonna be
(15:48):
calling in at nine to ten this morning because he
was sitting right behind Tim at the Chalamet.
Speaker 4 (15:55):
Well, he was standing with him too at one point, yes.
Speaker 2 (15:57):
So he must have talked to him. Yeah, yeah, Well
look at all the details. Can I ask you.
Speaker 1 (16:02):
About the dark sunglasses that Charlamaye was wearing. He was
inside at a basketball game, and that was an old
school Hollywood thing where they would wear sunglasses thinking they
wouldn't be noticed.
Speaker 3 (16:14):
Oh it doesn't, Jack Nick didn't Jack Nicholson always do that,
like at basketball games.
Speaker 2 (16:18):
But when you wear them, you're more noticed, even more. Well,
I think he was in enemy territory.
Speaker 4 (16:23):
Oh yeah, that could be it.
Speaker 2 (16:24):
You don't think they knew it was him. No, he
wasn't hiding. I just think he didn't want to, like,
you know, look people in the eye. The Boston fans.
Speaker 1 (16:31):
Well, you know who's gonna know, Randy. He was sitting
right behind him last night.
Speaker 2 (16:35):
I wonder if it took Randy's seat because the previous
game at the Garden, Randy was first roll court side.
Speaker 4 (16:41):
Right now, he was behind him.
Speaker 1 (16:42):
Yeah, wow, knowing Randy was probably doing some sort of
business with him. But anyway, Randy calls in at nine
ten this morning. Meantime, Rihanna has a new song coming
out tomorrow. It's their first in three years, part of
the New Spurfs movie soundtrack. It's called Friend of Mine.
Three years it's been for Rihanna, and the new album
is still in the works. I think she has a
(17:03):
role of some sort in this smursed movie too. I'm
just saying. The Weekend's new movie, Hurry Up Tomorrow, comes
out tomorrow. The Weekend is in it, so is Barry
Key Oogan and Jenner Otega. And The Weekend apparently loves
Jenna Ortega.
Speaker 19 (17:19):
Jenna I've been a fan of We've had some mutual
working friends, Kevin who is a producer on X, also
producer on our film. Kevin turn who passed away very
close with us. He had showed me her work. Yeah
and X Scream everything she's done. She's always just been
more than a star, just an emotional performer that I've
always wanted to you know that I saw for Anima.
Speaker 2 (17:39):
I like Jenna Ortega all wait for the movie to
hit streaming services. I wasn't a big fan of the
idol on Max No One. I love the Weekends as
an artist, as a singer, yeah, but as an actor
not so much for me. Are you surprised that he's
gonna act? Very surprised that he got He got torn
down for that role. It was awful, been down for me.
(18:00):
Oh god, it's like Anti sen you think of it.
Speaker 1 (18:04):
That was such a weird project for him.
Speaker 2 (18:08):
Yeah, everybody was free. He makes love making music? Wow?
Speaker 1 (18:13):
Yeah, Well who knows better than you? You do it
to his music? Well, you have shared it on the
show a.
Speaker 2 (18:19):
Couple of times. Can you get him on the show?
Big saying the weekend? Okay, big fan.
Speaker 1 (18:26):
Tate McCrae's new song with Morgan Wallen comes out tomorrow
now it is new music Friday tomorrow.
Speaker 2 (18:31):
You're gonna have it justin absolutely okay.
Speaker 1 (18:33):
And how about Tate McCray in Germany this week doing
a cover of Taylor's riffs the one.
Speaker 2 (18:38):
Can any of us translate what she was saying that song?
I couldn't.
Speaker 4 (18:41):
I can never understand.
Speaker 2 (18:42):
Yeah, I guess you had to know the words to
the original word along. It was also a cell phone footage.
There you go audio.
Speaker 6 (18:51):
She's a cursive singer, though she sings in cursive sometimes yeah, yeah, but.
Speaker 2 (18:56):
I like her voice and I like her music.
Speaker 1 (18:58):
Okay, how about Netflix is bringing back Star Search, the
weekly talent show that ran from the eighties into the nineties,
in fact, launched the careers of everybody from Dave Chappelle
to Beyonce to Justin Timberlake. Given a very young Britney spears.
Speaker 8 (19:19):
She's this little girl that put out a voice of
like an eighteen year.
Speaker 1 (19:21):
Old Kay was really the original America's Got Talent. Ed McMahon,
the longtime host, preceded all the other competition shows. And
Jennifer Lopez injuring her face while working and rehearsing for
the American Music Awards, a gash on her face. They
(19:42):
say she required stitches and a bruise on her nose,
but nobody's saying what happens. She probably got hit with
some sort of.
Speaker 2 (19:50):
A Maybe she's staging or something.
Speaker 4 (19:51):
Maybe she fell bandage her head into something.
Speaker 2 (19:56):
You have a bandage, Oh yeah, big bandage.
Speaker 1 (19:58):
American Music Awards are made twenty sixth I believe she'll
be hosting the show and performing and TMZ last night
aired a special on Justin Bieber called What Happened to
Justin Bieber and TMZ's Harvey Levin right here.
Speaker 20 (20:13):
We have talked to a lot of people in Bieber's camp,
and not just peripheral people, people who know, and we've
talked to people in Scooter Bronze camp. So you know,
it has bled over into finances, his marriage. You know,
there are all sorts of allegations about drug use. He's
had drug issues in the past, and we explore all
(20:35):
of it. But the short answer to your story is
he is struggling some.
Speaker 1 (20:40):
Well, yesterday he was posting pictures of himself with a
bong hanging around his neck.
Speaker 2 (20:45):
So is that a twenty four to seven thing? Now?
He smokes a lot of weed for sure.
Speaker 7 (20:49):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (20:49):
Yeah. And he's doing this the weird thing where he
posts videos and then deletes them, the old tweet and delete.
Speaker 7 (20:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (20:54):
He did one where he was going off like ten
minutes with a funny face filter and then he took
it down.
Speaker 4 (21:01):
Yeah, why is he doing that?
Speaker 21 (21:03):
I remember a story when Justin Bieber was really acting
out and getting into trouble and Lisa said his mother
said that we need to pray for him, and Lisa said,
if I were his mom, I would grab him by
his hair and tell him that you are coming with me.
No gentle parenting there.
Speaker 1 (21:24):
Gentle parenting was our topic earlier on this show. Apparently
Lisa not so gentle.
Speaker 4 (21:30):
Sometimes sometimes you have to redirect.
Speaker 1 (21:33):
Yeah, okay, hey, our buddy Jay Shetty in Boston tonight
at the Box Center Wang Theater.
Speaker 2 (21:38):
We had him on this show just recently, justin Oh.
Speaker 9 (21:40):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (21:40):
Remember. He talked about a lot of stuff, but the one,
the one clip that I loved was his take on
anxiety and how to deal with it.
Speaker 9 (21:46):
In times of uncertainty. We often look for certainty to
feel stable. But instead of looking for certainty, we should
look for service. Look for opportunities to help someone else,
Look for opportunities to make someone else's day. Sometimes you
relieve your anxiety quicker by trying to help someone else
than you will by trying to solve your own.
Speaker 2 (22:05):
Yeah, wouldn't hurt. It's good advice. Idiot to add to that,
try helping somebody and not telling anybody about it. Yeah, yeah,
no need to brag apart, you know, because you want
people to know.
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Speaker 15 (22:36):
I saw that last night, an article about Timothy shallow
May being there and I was like, oh, seventy last
a beat on the morning show from.
Speaker 22 (22:47):
The Planet Fitness Kiss one O eight Studios.
Speaker 5 (22:50):
We're back with Villie and Lisa in the morning on Kiss.
Speaker 2 (22:53):
Wait, hey, guys, welcome back.
Speaker 1 (22:55):
So everybody watching the Celtics game last night, it was
a big when the Celts came up big. There's still
a live now. We have a Game six in New
York tomorrow night. We have a Game seven in Boston
on Monday night. And you might remember Randy. He worked
on the show for several years, really funny guy. He
was our stunt guy and now he's a big owner
of Big Night Entertainment. And by the way, card Vault
(23:15):
by Tom Brady partnered with my son Chris and last
time I'm.
Speaker 2 (23:20):
Marching the game.
Speaker 1 (23:21):
I'm like, Hey, that's Randy sitting right behind Timothy shallow May.
Speaker 2 (23:25):
Randy you there, I am buddy, I am okay, yes, yeah.
Speaker 1 (23:32):
Okay, how do you get the seat behind Chalo May?
Speaker 7 (23:38):
We brought him Those are our seats.
Speaker 23 (23:41):
So a friend of ours, slash investor, friend of Edkines,
big financial guy in the world with the breets by
Dre deal together sure does Lebron's financial advisor and business manager.
Speaker 7 (23:57):
Just a big, big, big wealth advisor.
Speaker 23 (24:00):
He rob Timothy with him, with Ed Kine and myself
and we sat in the second row. We have two seats,
two in the first and two in the second, and
we gave up our seat to Timothy, the Knicks fan,
which was not, you know, not very copasetic in the building.
But I think it brought us good luck. I think
(24:21):
it was all part of the game plan if you
think about it.
Speaker 4 (24:23):
Yeah, I definitely brought us good luck.
Speaker 1 (24:24):
Oh yeah, now, yeah, because I lost to bet. You
know me wrong enough Randy to know I'm a mush right,
I've never wont to bet in my life. So I
lost a bet to Justin and Lisa that Chellamy wouldn't
be there last night, and he was. Let's get back
to you said earlier. They're your seats, and I'm just
questioning myself, is there a reason I've never been invited?
Like never, I've known you for like thirty years. You
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helped me raise my children and Judy.
Speaker 7 (24:50):
You know what's funny. You know what's funny. You say
that because you caught me off guard with that question.
But I did invite you two years ago, and you
actually declined me because you you had a gig, which
anyone that knows Billy Cofton knows that he has about
six to seven gigs a day, seven days a week,
and never can go anywhere actually, and doesn't have any friends.
Speaker 2 (25:11):
So what you're saying is I'm off the list.
Speaker 7 (25:17):
I mean, you were invited once you declined. It's funny.
I have such a bad memory, but I remember this
so vividly. You you you can never go anywhere. But
that means actually, actually, let me bring up another good thing.
How many cars? How many card stores have your son in? I?
Speaker 2 (25:35):
Oh, I knew you were going to go. He's not
going to Hampton, New York East Hampton.
Speaker 7 (25:40):
Now, okay, okay, so let's go through this for a second. Okay,
we opened in Boston, the city you live in five
minutes away.
Speaker 2 (25:48):
You're not there.
Speaker 23 (25:49):
We opened an American dream mall, the most amazing mall
right outside of.
Speaker 7 (25:53):
New York City. You could take a train, you could
take a plane, you could drive a car, you could
probably walk. Tom Brady was there, Michael Ruben was there,
hundreds of the I think ten thousand people were there.
Speaker 1 (26:05):
Yes, you know you know who wasn't there, Billieve cost Yeah,
his dad, Chris Fossah.
Speaker 23 (26:14):
Yeah to now, now let's lead to this week. We
soft open today in Easthampton, New York. We grand open
with mister Brady next week mister Craft and guess who's
not going Bill Costs.
Speaker 1 (26:29):
It's Memorial Day weekend. It's a big voters weekend. We
wait all winter for a Memorial Day weekend.
Speaker 7 (26:36):
You know what's interesting about the Hamptons.
Speaker 12 (26:38):
It's on the ocean.
Speaker 1 (26:40):
We're gonna take about twenty hours, you know, to.
Speaker 23 (26:45):
Get a hard Why would you why would you take
it to Decker card Why would you take it?
Speaker 7 (26:52):
Why would you take it twenty hours to see your son? Okay,
grand opening?
Speaker 2 (26:56):
Why are you making me feel so bad as a father?
Can we get back to the Celtics game?
Speaker 23 (27:03):
Yes, it was a great game, and they won handily,
and they're gonna win Game six and they're gonna come
back in game seven and Timothy Chalomy is not invited
to Game seven.
Speaker 2 (27:13):
I'm available for Game seven. By the way, he could
have been. He could have been the key, Randy.
Speaker 7 (27:18):
Yeah, he was the key.
Speaker 12 (27:20):
It was he was the key.
Speaker 23 (27:20):
We We told him at the beginning of the game
we were gonna make him go home crying, and and
we did.
Speaker 2 (27:25):
We did.
Speaker 7 (27:26):
He went home with tears.
Speaker 2 (27:27):
So what was your conversation with Chelmy? What did you
talk about?
Speaker 7 (27:31):
Awesome dude, really truly great.
Speaker 23 (27:34):
Great young man.
Speaker 7 (27:35):
Uh, just one down to earth. Uh.
Speaker 23 (27:38):
You know, we were talking about cards obviously, since that's
the business we're in.
Speaker 7 (27:43):
And he like Yu gi oh. He has a lot
of friends that are collecting. He hasn't started yet.
Speaker 23 (27:49):
But we gave him a Tom Brady rookie last night.
Speaker 7 (27:52):
And one actually funny story. We went to the store
before you know.
Speaker 23 (27:56):
Right, located right at the guard and we have one
New York knick in our inventory.
Speaker 7 (28:00):
One literally one. So we gave him the New York
nick and gets who that New York nick was?
Speaker 2 (28:07):
Who's that christ Christ?
Speaker 11 (28:14):
Oh?
Speaker 7 (28:14):
It was a double.
Speaker 23 (28:15):
It was a double win.
Speaker 7 (28:16):
We gave him with Chris Stops, a Celtics player in
the New York Knicks uniform, and again justin that was
the key. This was all part of the plan.
Speaker 1 (28:24):
Absonged, do you do you hang out with Dave Portnoy
at all?
Speaker 2 (28:30):
Because we want to get him on the show.
Speaker 7 (28:33):
Dave was there. Dave was awesome. We talked a lot yesterday.
Speaker 23 (28:36):
We were actually all sitting in the the Templeton Club
leg before the game and Dave came in and Dave
and Timothy were talking and he's awesome. You know, Dave
does what Dave wants to do. If he wants to
come come on your show, he will. We could surely
ask him.
Speaker 16 (28:52):
He is.
Speaker 23 (28:53):
He is a funny dude though he he there is
no one in the world that does more of what
Dave wants to do.
Speaker 7 (29:01):
He just does whatever the f he wants to do.
Speaker 1 (29:03):
I don't know if you heard me earlier. I did
say I would be available for game seven.
Speaker 7 (29:09):
All right, well, you know, I'll put you on the list.
I'll put you on the list. We'll see if Spike
he wants to come, and said.
Speaker 1 (29:18):
Oh listen, I saw a weird story that the new
Pope's card is selling a lot of money.
Speaker 7 (29:24):
Yeah, I mean there is a new Pope card.
Speaker 23 (29:26):
Tops now made a card of the new Pope, and
I haven't seen how much it's going for. Your son
is actually the card expert that knows the price, the
price of every card.
Speaker 7 (29:36):
You can give him any of one million cards.
Speaker 23 (29:39):
And he'll tell you the price. But I don't know
how much the Pope's going for. I'm ninety nine percent
ashka nazi jew.
Speaker 2 (29:45):
I have no idea.
Speaker 1 (29:49):
I would ask my son, but I don't think he's
speaking to me because I'm not going to the Hampton's opening.
Speaker 2 (29:55):
He's busy.
Speaker 23 (29:55):
He's busy in the Hampton's right now, getting the store
ready for an opening in in forty minutes.
Speaker 2 (30:01):
So you know, it's amazing. He posted his schedule.
Speaker 1 (30:04):
On the Instagram yesterday and he's just all over the country.
Speaker 7 (30:09):
Yeah, it's wild. We're so. I'm actually with him. We're so.
We're going to Easthampton, then we're going to.
Speaker 23 (30:13):
He's going to la for a big Panini football thing.
I think it's football, and then Vegas.
Speaker 7 (30:20):
We have huge meetings in Vegas on Monday at the
International Conference of Shopping centers. Wow, meeting with nine.
Speaker 23 (30:27):
Different developers because you know, as he told you, our
plan is to open a hundred of these things within the.
Speaker 2 (30:33):
Next few years.
Speaker 7 (30:33):
Oh yeah, and so we need we need to find
all the landlords.
Speaker 23 (30:36):
So yeah, we're all going to Vegas and all. Speaking
of which, today is my son Brandon's.
Speaker 2 (30:41):
Birthday, hey brandan after birthday.
Speaker 23 (30:45):
Twenty three today, and he is playing in Las Vegas
at Xcess at when on Saturday night.
Speaker 2 (30:50):
Oh, the break Bomb Project.
Speaker 23 (30:53):
At at EDC on Sunday. So I'm going to Vegas
Saturday Sunday. We got the ICSC on Monday, wovel in
the world, and we come back and we open in
New York, we open in Chicago, we open in Dallas,
we go back to Las Vegas and open there.
Speaker 1 (31:07):
See, I'm gonna go to all of those. I just
missed the first couple a couple.
Speaker 2 (31:11):
Of minutes ago.
Speaker 1 (31:12):
Did you mentioned a big football festival where they're only
serving paninis?
Speaker 7 (31:17):
No, No, you're hilarious. There's there's two sets of men.
There's there's manufacturers of sports cards.
Speaker 23 (31:27):
One of them is Panini, an Italian company. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
I love a good panini too, but that is not
this kind of panini. And yes he is in LA.
Speaker 7 (31:40):
For some sort of football.
Speaker 23 (31:41):
Gathering with Paninees.
Speaker 7 (31:42):
Maybe he'll eat a panini you know.
Speaker 2 (31:45):
Is a nice signed the beach.
Speaker 23 (31:48):
I'm just oh my god, speaking of Panine's, I mean
your son's on he is you He's a mini u.
Speaker 7 (31:54):
He's on Meat Boston now every day.
Speaker 23 (31:57):
I mean he's gonna he's gonna go to like three
hundred pounds every day.
Speaker 1 (32:03):
Oh my yeah, my mother's cutlets on Hanover Street. Randy,
thanks for checking in and thanks for taking us till
last night's game.
Speaker 2 (32:10):
And again I could be available for game seven. Just
all right, all right, hey Bill, Yeah, I.
Speaker 5 (32:16):
Think it's easy being allowsy for.
Speaker 8 (32:19):
Every morning.
Speaker 1 (32:20):
Kiss went Away, all right, justin talkback leftovers, Let's go
get them.
Speaker 2 (32:23):
Yeah, this is the part of the show where we
play back some talkbacks that were left during the show
that we could not get to. They could be about anything. Remember,
you can leave it talk back at any time of
the day. You do it on the iHeartRadio app. It's
free to download. It's a cool feature. When you're listening
to Kiss one await, there's a microphone that you press
and you can record your message. I said, it's a
cool feature.
Speaker 7 (32:42):
Wow, this feature is pretty cool. I didn't know that
was a thing.
Speaker 2 (32:46):
And that's why I keep saying it. People don't know.
They tune in, they tune out. Typically, you know, on
radio station you can always call. That's always been the way,
but now you can leave it talkback through your phone
on the talkback feature. It's pretty cool. You can do
it anytime and from anywhere anywhere in the world.
Speaker 24 (33:00):
Billy, this is longtime listener and first time caller Amy
from Worcester. As you can hear the bagpipes in the background,
I'm actually calling you from Edinburgh, Scotland. I just wanted
you to know that you're here with me in Scotland.
Speaker 2 (33:18):
Oh Edinburgh, I've been there once. It is beautiful. That's
so cool. You could hear the bagpipes. Yeah, that's real. Yeah,
that's really cool. Wow.
Speaker 17 (33:27):
Good morning Holly Geology here. Last fall, you guys had
the debate whether to keep leaves on your lawn or
to rake them. So I decided to put it to
the test. Last fall, I kept a big portion of
my lawn covered in leaves. This past weekend I decided
to rake them up and see what the results would be.
I was left with a pretty big dirt patch home
to hundreds of grubs. Figured i'd update.
Speaker 4 (33:49):
You, get updates. Now, get rid of the leaves.
Speaker 2 (33:52):
Yeah, I remember that that was the new thing, to
leave the leaves, that it would help the grass. No,
not to get as not so much. It just looks
better when you get rid of them.
Speaker 4 (34:00):
It does.
Speaker 2 (34:01):
Yeah, I guess in the mulch beds, not on the
grass is okay. It's kind of compost. Yeah, sure, but
on the grass definitely is a no go.
Speaker 25 (34:08):
You know, I'd like to ask the talkbackers if I'm
a lone or not. When I'm listening to you guys
in the morning Billy and Lisa show and I'm so
into it, and then I get a call from my
boss or my kids and it completely stops the show,
Like ill, I have to decline the call.
Speaker 11 (34:29):
I get so frustrated.
Speaker 25 (34:30):
I'm like, don't you guys know that nobody's supposed to
call around that time?
Speaker 6 (34:35):
Okay, okay, put a tip, put your phone, you're not disturbed,
and then no can call through.
Speaker 2 (34:41):
There you go, There you go, yeah, there you go.
So I was driving to Billy's Meat and Eat last
night with producer Riley, and I want to put on
my maps because I didn't know there was a different
way because of traffic that I could go. Okay, So
when I put on my maps on my bluetooth, it
talks to me. You know. It's kind of annoying. So
I didn't want to put it on because it was
going to talk to me. So Producer Riley says, no,
(35:03):
just take the volume off that and I go, I know.
Then I forget. When I'm driving. Yeah, and I drive
by the exit. She goes, no, no, just do I can
turn it off for you. So I turn it off.
We drove about four exits by where we spoke late. Yeah,
I go, see, this is why I have the voice
that tells me, you know, because I wouldn't shut up
in the car. So it's a.
Speaker 4 (35:21):
Morning wrap up on Billy and Lisa in the morning.
Speaker 2 (35:24):
Well, Billy Costa had his first big event Meet to
Eat at All Maudern and Lindfield last night. It was
a great event.
Speaker 1 (35:30):
Billy, I was very happy with that. I want to
thank the people at All Modern. It's just a great,
great story. You may want to try it out at
Marcus Street and Lindfield. Thanks to Andy husband's chef, owner
of the smoke Shops Everywhere, and thanks to Mike Rocketts
saying the maud of for our hotel.
Speaker 2 (35:43):
Great time. Yeah, great food, great drinks, great people, just
a great event.
Speaker 11 (35:47):
Good morning. Just wanted to say thank you for the
awesome meet and eat event last night. Billy, Lisa, Justin Riley.
You all were so nice and it was so great
to meet you. Hope to see you guys again soon.
Speaker 6 (36:00):
Yeah, you would have liked it, Winnie, Yes, I would have.
I wish I could have blowdry I did. Oh was
that dry bar?
Speaker 17 (36:06):
Yeah?
Speaker 26 (36:06):
Hey, guys, I just wanted to say I had so
much fun last night at the event. I didn't know
what to expect, but it was awesome. It was so
much fun. Food was great. I actually met Justin for
the first time. I didn't expect to see Justin or
Lisa there, so that was pretty cool. And Justin told
(36:30):
me I need to come up with a talkback name,
so I'm thinking about that.
Speaker 2 (36:34):
So great. Thank you, Thank you very nice. Yeah, anybody
can name themselves. All of our talkbackers they named themselves,
so feel free. Give yourself a creative name and you'll
be known as.
Speaker 1 (36:44):
That and By the way, our buddy Alan Ghibley came
in last night thanks to that. And by the way,
Alan and Ghibli's are celebrating their seventy fifth anniversary to night.
Speaker 2 (36:53):
Yeah amazing. Well the best stressed men I've ever met.
Oh yeah, Alan Gibli very much sense what he does.
Speaker 9 (36:58):
Cloth.
Speaker 2 (36:59):
Also, this had Catherine Loftus on. She's our attorney expert.
She breaks down the Karen reid trous She takes your questions.
We have her for topic time and she answered one
of our questions. I think it was Billy. He's about
the sidebars in the trial. Why are there so many sidebars?
But more importantly, why the hell they take so long?
Speaker 22 (37:15):
The reason why they have to go to sidebar was
everything is Massachusetts. We don't argue the law in front
of the jury, so anytime there's an objection that needs
like a substantive argument, you have to do it at sidebar.
But the problem is everything is so contentious in this case,
so you know, there's so many times that they have
to go to cybrid. It always seems to happen that
it's before a break, before lunch, so then it just
leads into you know, you often see it maybe it's
(37:37):
ten thirty, ten forty five. You see them go to
sidebar and then they say, we're just going to take
the break now because the sidebars are so extensive.
Speaker 1 (37:45):
I'm telling you, I need a bombshell. I need an
AHA moment. Maybe Karen Reade stands up and starts screening it.
Speaker 9 (37:50):
Everybody.
Speaker 2 (37:51):
You know, something has to happen, Yeah, some kind of outburst. Yes, Well,
we'll continue the coverage on the Billy and Lisa Show. Catherine,
We'll be back next Thursday, so always listen next tomorrow
next week. Get your questions ready for Thursday mornings at
seven point fifteen. Also, we had a discussion about gentle
parenting or permissive parenting, whatever you want to call it,
from a TikTok video where a woman went off about,
(38:14):
you know, just being too easy on the kid.
Speaker 4 (38:16):
You know, I think I'm definitely that fifty to fifty parent.
Speaker 16 (38:19):
Sometimes I do gentle parent or I'm calm and I'm
just like okay, and I'm super nice about it, I guess,
and my husband will say I'm too nice. But then
there's a time that I just had enough is enough,
and I kind of snap it. I guess my head
spins around and I just throw it all at them
and they look at me like I'm crazy.
Speaker 4 (38:39):
I like that fifty to fifty parenting. I think we
get all relate.
Speaker 2 (38:41):
Oh yeah, it's not easy. There's no handbook for parents,
and there isn't Yeah and life, No, I got it, Okay.
Speaker 1 (38:49):
My head used to spin around after I got a
good backhander from across the table.
Speaker 2 (38:54):
Okay. And finally we had Randy on from Big Night Entertainment,
shallow May the Garden last night courtside, and who was
right behind him, our buddy Randy. So, Randy, what was
it like did you talk to him?
Speaker 23 (39:06):
Awesome, dude, really truly great, great young man, just fawn
down to earth.
Speaker 7 (39:13):
You know, we were talking about cards.
Speaker 2 (39:15):
Obviously obviously very good. Yeah, so that's good. He gave
up his seat, Randy court side, gave up his seat
for Timothy shallow May sat right behind him. Yeah,
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