Hot sex, intimacy, relationships, rejection and betrayal. We all find these subjects fascinating and yet we often suffer the most in the throes of all of them. The Closeness podcast takes complex, intimate subjects and breaks them down in a way that you can immediately apply to your personal or intimate life. Every month, join Tari as he takes you on a sensual, intelligent and arousing journey through all the subjects you wish you learned about when you were younger. This podcast is a must for anyone who wants to elevate their intimate relationship with themselves and others to the next level. In person and online Closeness Coaching is available on our website www.getcloseness.com. If this podcast has inspired you, please consider subscribing or donate to our Patreon at www.patreon.com/closeness
In our first interview with a male guest, we’re pulling out all of the stops. Sebastien is an ex New York City rent boy and long term friend of mine. We’ll go in depth about his ‘job,’ the world of chemsex, his spiral into addiction and his recovery. Tune in to listen to his story now.
4:02 How we met
6:25 How did a ...
One of the most difficult things someone can hear, is that their partner needs space. Nothing is clear, the terms are undefined, and once uttered it usually ends up in disaster. Tune in now to find out what to do.
5:25 Malignant phrases
6:20 How to handle short term space
8:38 When she takes days, weeks and months of space
13:15 What you’re supposed to know when she says she needs sp...
1:45 Actions speak louder than words
5:55 What do you actually owe the other person?
8:24 Do unto others as you would have them do unto you
10:36 When we invest ourselves too much and get overextended
13:54 Self care and taking care of ourselves
20:23 When you think you don’t want anyone else but them
23:28 getting over your previous relationships
24:36 an exercise to show yourself you can get past this… u...
One of the biggest challenges of being alive today, is handling, processing, surviving and getting through a breakup. In this 90 minute episode I am going to help you get through it.
You are probably in crisis right now
7:09 We look for ways to resent our partner to get over them
8:05 Understanding the emotional scale 9:08 There must be a grieving process
10:20 The disaster of distra...
It’s one of the most detrimental behavior patterns of our generation. Here’s everything you need to know to recognize it, avoid it and if you are afflicted with this disease, how to cure it.
0:00 What is ghosting?
2:25 Why do people ghost?
6:25 When does emotional involvement begin?
10:17 Preliminaries and disclaimers
13:15 Having to make backup plans
14:41 Taking our own insecurities out on others
15:16 The most important sen...
What’s your definition of hot passionate chemistry? Do you believe that it’s just “there or it isn’t?” In this episode we will put that myth to an end.
We’ll explore over twenty concepts including:
– How to have naturally good chemistry with everyone around you
-Is chemistry for men inevitable or bound to happen regardless of what happens?
-How many ki...
If you’ve ever secretly wondered what it’s like to be involved in the sex industry, you’re in for a big treat. Heather has done it all: camming, If you’ve ever secretly wondered what it’s like to be involved in the sex industry, you’re in for a big treat. Heather has done it all: camming, modeling, dancing, “sugaring” or being a sugar baby, and more. Subscri...
In this unprecedented time of worry and concern regarding COVID-19 (or coronavirus), this is our corona-free offering to soothe you and help you relax: a sensual meditation to listen to again and again, anytime you need it. Think of it as a rampage of appreciation. We won’t reveal much, but make sure you’re in a comfortable and relaxing place before you list...
Countless Closeness episodes focus on how to pleasure a woman, but what can you do to take care of your man? Put down your magazine and let’s get deep. Sure, we can talk about how to go down and how to arch your back, but what about the stuff everyone is afraid to talk about?
Let’s get closer:
Closeness Coaching for sex, intimacy, relationships and qual...
Learning to kiss our partner in a way that really turns them on is not innate. Like most things we do for the first time, we’re sloppy and we don’t take the time to learn good technique. Yes even kissing has a technique and it isn’t taught in school or by our family, fortunately. Enter the Closeness podcast: a guide to kissing, replete with all the do’s and ...
Welcome to 2020 and welcome to Season Two of the Closeness Podcast! To start the New Year off with a bang we’re diving in with a sexually-explicit episode that covers fifteen steps to giving a woman a phenomenal experience she won’t forget. What are some of the specific things we can do to get out of our heads, out of our egos and into our partner? Do you hav...
Exposing your sexual health and history to someone new is very vulnerable. Getting tested, asking a partner about their past and sharing your feelings are difficult territories to navigate. Since most of us feel uncomfortable even thinking about it, very few of us possess the wherewithal to have a mature conversation and make the right choices. We’re put off ...
Growing up you may have heard of the sexual response cycle: excitement, plateau, orgasm and resolution. We’d like to introduce you to something a little more provocative. In this sexually explosive episode, we’ll unravel the 10 phases most women go through as they get more and more turned on, but we’ll take it further and deeper than you ever thought possibl...
How many times have you changed your mind? Perhaps you didn’t desire someone at first and you later found yourself wanting them. You said you were attracted to them, you acted like you were attracted and then suddenly something switched and you felt differently. Why is that? As a general rule, men love to please women. How then do you reject a man in a way th...
Rejection leaves most people feeling unworthy and hurt. Both men and women are generally terrible at receiving it and even worse at giving it. But rejection is a necessary step towards establishing or maintaining healthy boundaries and a healthy sex life. Why don’t we ever put ourselves in anyone else’s shoes? We hate rejection, but we never stop to imagine t...
One of the best parts of listening to Closeness is learning how to have great sex! After so much great feedback from previous sensual meditations, we’d like to offer you another. When men listen to this episode, they don’t understand it, yet, for a woman it can mean everything. Check it out for yourselves and let us know what you think. It’s short enough for ...
This much-anticipated, 90-minute conclusion to our 3 part series holds nothing back. We’ll share articles, statistics, personal references and even explore if paying for dates is a form of prostitution! We’ll discuss how people really feel when their partner fights or argues for the bill, what the expectations are when people pay, and how it works if you have...
In this three part series, we explore over 25 more points regarding who should pay, including:
– What happens when the woman makes significantly more financial resources?
– How do we know when our ego is running the show vs. our generosity?
– How to handle dating with regard to the wage gap
– Is paying for and going on dates like prostitution?
We’ll deeply explo...
In this incredible three part series, host Tari shares his thought-provoking stance on who should pay and why. He draws on countless personal experiences as well as experiences from others that have helped shape his philosophies over time. Over three and a half hours of content spread out over three episodes ensures you’ll reexamine almost everything you thou...
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