Talk About Gay Sex TAGSPODCAST

• The hosts start the office party by sharing their favorite personal moments of 2025 including some of their favorite sex moments...
• The hosts go down memory lane of the first part of 2025 sharing the top Hot Stories that made our headlines. There were many and we're reviewing some of the hottest.
• From the erasure of any mention of HIV on the White House website to the CDC erasing vital info relating to our community to A...

• The Post-Sex Reality Check - what happens? Cuddling & pillow talk?? Immediate showering??? Ghosting???? Or Avoidance of intimacy?????
• We break down the new hot show "Heated Rivalry" and how the characters reflect a lot of our community when it comes to sex and intimacy...
• Can casual sex built real intimacy??
• The hosts were talking about 2026 projections for sex and intimacy and now we're reading Todrick Hall's wish lis...

• The hosts share their Best sexual moment this year
• Did more sex = more connection or less?
• Did we have more orgasms than meaningful eye contact?
• How holiday season amplifies loneliness and horniness
• The hosts talk about tantra as a doorway to presence
• Sex projections for 2026 are made!
• Hot Topic: Breast reductions are the number 1 plastic surgery for cis gender men but is there a double standard for the Trans com...

• Post Nut Clarity: “It’s that moment right after orgasm where suddenly you’re like: ‘Why did I text him?’ ‘Why am I here?’ ‘Do I even like this person?’”
• The hosts share personal stories on when they experienced PNC...
• Some people feel zen. Others feel guilt. Others feel absolutely nothing.
• Casual hookup vs partner you’re connected to - does it make a difference with PNC?
• When there’s connection, communic...

• Why this day is still crucial (stigma + funding drops + reduced visibility
• The hosts unpack experiences growing up under the shadow of AIDS
• The hosts share the first images or warnings you heard about AIDS growing up?
• We share how it shaped our early feelings about sex, desire, or coming out
• Even when fear was everywhere — the desire never went away. The body never stopped wanting
• Friends/partners/hookups who chang...

• Today's episode is sparked by Host Steve V's new app, Connect & Confidence. Download it and get 20% Off now through Black Friday: Studio.com/stevev/connect
• In queer dating, do we overvalue chemistry and undervalue compatibility
• The hosts share what was at play when they met their partners...chemistry, compatibility or both...
• The hosts share when chemistry played the only factor and how that worked out for them
• Why q...

• The hosts share personal stories of how they showed up for past dates when they were younger and not as confident as they are now...
• Confidence isn’t about being perfect. It’s about being real, relaxed, and present
• The misconception that confidence = being bold, loud, flirty, or dominant
• Internalized fear of rejection and its impact on confidence
• How dating confidence is really about clarity, boundaries, and comfort
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• Why meaningful connection is becoming the new currency of queer dating

• How your 20s dating patterns shift by 30s, 40s, and 50s

• Releasing relationships — sexual, romantic, or social — that drain rather than nourish

• How to meet people from a place of confidence rather than survival mode

• The importance of intention in sex (energetics, emotional clarity, reciprocity)

• How Host Steve V's new app, Connect & Con...

• Where did the term slut come from and how has it been used for our gay community throughout our history? We discuss our varied history with sex, sexual freedom, HIV epidemic and how PrEP and Doxypep have changed the game on how we view sex and practice sex today.
• Reframing: the difference between validation-seeking sex and expansive, connected sex.

• Think back to a time you felt free after sex — not guilty, not anxious, ...

• Host Stevie V shares a bit from his recent wedding to Diego and the co-hosts share their insight...
• The Supreme Court denies Kim Davis's request to challenge Marriage Equality!
• A story of a recent couple that did not make it down the aisle leaving 170 guests waiting for the marriage with a pretty dismal ending...
• New study shows that marriages that end in divorce are about half for Hetersexual couples, 72% for lesbian ...

• Master Joshua talks about his upcoming retreat in Easton Mountain "Reclaiming the Divine Masculine" Nov. 13 - Nov. 16 Visit: Reclaiming the Divine Masculine
• L.A.: Body culture, shirtless hikes, influencer thirst traps, the “branding” of gay identity
• N.Y.: Edge, wit, creative energy, attitude, and fast-paced flirtation.
• Debate which city wins when it comes to chemistry versus aesthetics.
• What's a typical date look lik...

• Do you think we all have a little exhibitionist in us? We discuss
• The hosts share stories of what exhibitionism looks like to them
• The underlying psychology: validation, control, vulnerability, and arousal through attention.
• Host Stevie V shares working with both exhibitionism as a go-go dancer and assisting in Will Tantra's class at a recent VACAYA resort trip
• What is Tantra?
• Using the techniques of Tantra to expe...

• The “comedown” from sexual or emotional performance — when you’re lying next to someone after sex and the roles drop.
• What it’s like to be seen without the persona you used to seduce someone.
• The post-sex vulnerability hangover — do we crave closeness or distance?
• Why authentic intimacy can feel scarier than the sexual performance itself.
• Hot Topic: Brent Corrigan reveals the medical emergency that kept him off the i...

• Gay sexuality is often described in terms of roles — top, bottom, dom, sub, masc, femme — but what happens when those labels feel more like performances than authentic expression? In this episode, the hosts unpack how desire, attraction, and identity get tangled up with performance — from the bedroom to the bar to the apps.
• Where do our sexual performances come from?
• How much of our sexual role is natural vs. narrative?
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• Learn about Scrotex for your balls and how to actually increase size - it's possible!
• Learn the difference between a little touch up for your appearance and more dramatic procedures you can try to look your best
• Matchmaker Cheryl Maida talks about Matchmaking.com from the client perspective and how she helps men find love that lasts
• Tips on dating for gay men that work

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• “Grindr’s CEO Slams the Monetization of Love — Is Gen Z the Real Victim?”
• Gen Z is looking outside of the box to meet dates like queer meetups, billboard ads and more
• Are we monetizing love?
• Do the apps really work or do you have too many pay walls?
• Dua Lipa and many other queer stars turned up at the Abbey for the first ever National PrEP day...
• ChatGPT Erotica will be coming soon
• Advice: "I have a Dad bod and f...

• Hosts breakdown a Tik Toker that talks about the tale of two roommates and two bunk beds which prompts the hosts to tell their juicy stories of two roommates...
• Hosts breakdown another story of Catfishing and a threesome where only one shows up....
• Living situations and roommate dynamics are discussed
• Looking for red flags when hooking up...
• Ethics, consent and secrecy are discussed...
• Can you feel the RU5H??? The ...

•  The best sex or relationship stories often start outside apps—at a party, through friends, at a queer event

• Where have you met your most meaningful connections?

• Do apps isolate us, or can they still connect us to community?
• The hosts discuss some of the spaces we have met and developed our Queer peers...
• Mixing sex and friendships...can it work? We discuss...
• Hot Topic: Bad Bunny is hot and we're ...

• Last time we defined exhibitionism and voyeurism… but now, we’re spilling our own tea.
• We’ve both had moments of being the star and moments of lurking in the shadows—so let’s talk about them.
• We're sharing our stories of the first time we enjoyed being looked at...
• We're sharing stories of the first time we enjoyed watching...
• Exhibitionism in practice
• Voyeurism in practice
• Comparing the feelings we felt from bot...