Abundant Life // Full to Overflowing, Part 1

Let’s face it – life can be a bit dry. A bit on the parched side. Maybe we have an inkling that it shouldn’t always be like that, but somehow that can be so hard to believe.

I don't know if this has ever happened to you but sometimes we feel like we're running out of steam. You know what I mean, whatever it is we do in life, at home or at work or maybe at some community group, we give and we give and we give and little by little it saps our energy. All that giving drains us.

And even if we have a bit of a holiday to recharge the old batteries somehow emotionally, even spiritually, there's still this tiredness, an emptiness, a sense that, well I'm not sure if I have a whole bunch more to give.

You're a mum with a difficult teenager or a sick child and maybe juggling a job. Or you're a dad, the bread winner if you like and you've been grinding away at this job for what seems like an eternity and one day you wake up and the river has just run dry. There is just nothing left to give.

It doesn't have to be a full blown burn out you know, even though that happens sometimes, there are so many people out there living, let me call it a sub-optimal life. A life that is not everything it could be or should be. People who are tired and listless. People with a sense that life is drifting or just slipping by. People who are stressed and carrying around these heavy burdens worrying about this and that.

Fears a big problem you know amongst men and women and it all starts to affect your health and your sense of well being and we don't sleep well. And it seems that all we can do when we open our mouths is to whinge and complain about this or that. You'd be amazed how many people on paper have everything you could hope for. You know, a good family, a loving husband or wife, great kids, a career, a job, financial security. Yet they're living lives of stress and worry and fear.

I called it sub-optimal living or you can just call it unfulfilled or you can call it stressed and tired and irritable. Call it whatever you like but it's a life where it doesn't seem to be what it's meant to be. Now I'm not talking about the different seasons we go through in life, we all know we go through seasons, we all go through ups and downs and summers and winters and bright sunny days and cold howling brutal days.

I'm not so much talking about that up and down. I'm talking about this ongoing sub optimal inner life, whether or not the circumstances on the outside are good or lousy. I'm talking about having a life inside that's worth living.

I was challenged the other day by a good friend of mine, Max. Now let me tell you about Max. Max works with me here in the studio. He's a silent partner in all these radio programs. He produces hundreds of programs each year with me. Max would have to be one of the most preached out guys on the planet earth. I mean he's involved in other ministries, one called Ellel Ministries, a healing ministry that does great stuff.

And Max gets preached at day after day after day after day after day, bless him. Over a cup of tea and toast with honey the other day he says to me, "Berni, you know you talk as though having peace and joy in your life, 24 x 7 is a normal thing, like everybody should have that? Well ... maybe God's done some amazing things in you and fast tracked stuff so that you can be some high flying preacher but maybe it's not like that for the rest of us."

That really challenged me. It really got me thinking. Is that what I believe? You see I see myself as just an average Joe Blow who gets behind a microphone and shares Jesus with people. Am I talking about something that's realistic or is it a pipe dream? Am I talking about reality?

You see I spent the first 36 years of my life without God. At least I hadn't turned my life over to God. I did it all on my own or so I thought. I was competent, I was surgically ruthless as a businessman yet I had no